People with stretched ear lobes! I need your help!
So, I've been stretch for awhile now. I'm up to a 0. Originally, this was the size I had planned one going to, but it just seems so small now. The only problem with me going up bigger sizes is I live in a tiny ass town, and all my piercer sells is smaller gauged spirals and claws and whatnot, and then large gauge plugs, and he wants me to stretch using weights. However, I'm not really 100% comfortable with weights. I mean, from what I understand, they tend to put pressure on the tissue they are pulling on, and thinning it out. That has me all worried.
So my questions are:
1. Are weights safe? What did you use? What was your expierence?
2. Are there any good places to buy tapers, and things for stretching ear lobes online? I can't seem to find any.