Actually, i found the strangling ending to be quite fitting. Shinji would rather have the human race die out than go through all the corruption and hurt again. It seemed right for his character.
But he doesn't go through with the strangulation, giving up half-way through and allowing Asuka to get in one last dig. Which, in a way, is also right for his character. He can't even do a good job of ending the human race...
Anywho, I believe that it's generally accepted among Evangelion fans that The End of Evangelion was a bitch slap to the fan base that Hideaki felt had abandoned him by panning (and starting a huge harrassment campaign) over the supposed failure of the eps. 25 & 26. I've read that actual photographs of letters of complaint to Hideaki were included in montage sequences in the movie. Which is frickin' hilarious.
That's exactly what happened. If you listen to the commentary track on the End of Evangelion DVD, those weren't just letters of complaint. They were death threats. Later on, in that same commentary, one of the speakers comments that the End of the Evangelion movie was the anime equivalent of making a bargain with the Devil. Everyone who wanted to see this big, final battle finally got all their wishes, but they will NEVER be satisfied.
On to other topics, the guy who said anime is for kids only, and he doesn't know of any adults who watch it? Well, I'm 37 and have a real life, including a full-time job writing for a newspaper. (do a Google search for the Daily News-Record in Harrisonburg, Va. You'll find me.) And yet, I am a die-hard anime fan, and have been ever since Akira blew my mind back in 1988. I am not one of those stereotypical smelly otaku, although I have met a few such people in my life.
The difference is I watch my little cartoons, and then go on to the rest of my life. Writing for a newspaper. Writing for myself — I'm nearing the completion of my fourth novel (nothing published yet). I also design acrostic puzzles — highly complex word puzzles that would take way too long to describe. And yes, being among other human beings.
The other difference is I have a sliding scale of anime. For me, the top tier is stuff that I would not only buy on DVD, but also show to non-anime fans as an example of why I like anime, trying to demonstate that these are not just kiddie cartoons. (Prime examples:
Haibane Renmei and much of Miyazaki's work.)
Then comes the stuff that I would buy but not show to the uninitiated, such as
Neon Genesis Evangelion.
RahXephon, which used to be in the top tier, has now slid to this level.
Below that is the stuff that I would not buy, but enjoy watching. There are several other levels below that, with the absolute bottom being stuff I will actually walk out of the room if it comes on. Only two shows I've seen so far fit in that category:
Berserk and
Excel Saga.
The point of all this is that I do not blindly worship some show just because it's Japanese animation. I watch it, I watch it critically, and then I get on with my life.
Oh, and I have an Inu Yasha satchel. I wear a jacket and a tie on the job, but whenever I head out to interview someone for the paper, I carry my Inu Yasha bag with me. So what does that make me?