Man, if I saw a guy with a shirt like that, I'd write the number down and call him just on the off chance he's a homophobe and would get really freaked out.
I don't think that would weird him out at all. We have an ongoing contest who can weird out the other person more - originally he just weirded me out a lot and I tried to weird him out in return - , and while me tolerance for all things strange has gotten a lot higher, he still manages to weird me out way more often than the other way around. However, if I ever need somebody to give Tommy (not this forum's tommy) a weird, unexpected international phone call, I'll ask you for your help!
I also think he is just going through a difficult phase, and I have to be there for him.
Also, I found the font I had in mind all along! It's from the "Jme" catalogue that came with the first issue of Jamie Oliver's cooking magazine or whatever it was called. It makes me think of the circus. Does anyone know where to find a font like that? I couldn't find it online, and I didn't find it in my design books. Anyone who can supply me with that font or one that is similar will get a free stencil according to his / her request!