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ba ba da da i need help with my girlfriend
Dissy:
--- Quote from: Midnight Umbreon on 19 Aug 2008, 12:36 ---wow. you guys have serious niceness issues.
and yeah, i'm aware that you guys are mostly nerds who've never *had* a girlfriend. I was hoping more for a girl to answer. That way she could tell me what *she* enjoys.
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PAGING JOE HOCKING!
Honestly, trying to get advice on the internet is asking to be made fun of. Know what I can do, I can write in ITALICS or BOLDand not use the silly IM shit. Trying to insult us by calling us "nerds" is laughable. Everyone is a nerd. Haven't you seen Revenge of the Nerds? And nerds get more hells more action than non-nerds.
--- Quote ---I mean, because you know how all girls come from the same mold and they are all exactly the same and what they enjoy would *obviously* be what Nikki would enjoy.
I'm well aware of what you're supposed to do with them, I was just hoping for some advice to keep her as my girlfriend for a bit longer.
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Either you are joking here, or you are truly an idiot. Please, go mature for a few years, then come back
tania:
actually, i think dating at 14 is totally okay. even expected. it's good to have practice.
--- Quote from: Midnight Umbreon on 19 Aug 2008, 12:36 ---i'm aware that you guys are mostly nerds who've never *had* a girlfriend.
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for this particular forum... not really true at all but i can understand why you're kind of pissed so i'll let that one slide. you wanted a girl to answer and you got it.
there isn't anything you can do to "keep" her as your girlfriend. i am going to be really frank about that. either she wants to be with you or she doesn't and if you try to pressure her, you're a dick. so, here's what you can do: be nice to her. think about what she wants, not what you want. communication and honesty are absolutely crucial in relationships, especially first ones, so make sure you talk to her and make her feel okay with talking to you about whatever you want to discuss, and don't lie about anything cos that is a recipe for disaster. of course, this sounds really self-explanatory but it's a lot harder to do in person because it's scary to be honest about things. this isn't advice to keep her as your girlfriend per se, and also you're like 14 so really how serious is this going to end up being. mostly these are things that it is good to remember when it comes to being in relationships in general. the more you can skip the bullshit the better.
we do have a blog thread, so keep that in mind for future posts. also, the majority of posters on this forum are quite a bit older than 14 and may not care too much about your girl troubles so tread lightly.
J-cob9000:
--- Quote from: Be My Head on 19 Aug 2008, 12:48 ---"I mean, because you know how all girls come from the same mold and they are all exactly the same and what they enjoy would *obviously* be what Nikki would enjoy."
I'm confused....are you being serious?
So
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that was sarcasm.
and yes, sarcasm does not work on the internet, i know. but i felt as though i had to anyway.
but yeah, this might've actually worked if you guys weren't going to be complete retards about it.
You could've clicked on the thread, read it and been like, "Okay, this kid is stupid and doesn't need to be here, but since i don't know one thing about him or who he is, i will be nice. He could be a perfectly mature 14 year old." And then you would've said something like Leinad said.
See, Leinad is nice.
Follow his example and stop being bitches.
--- Quote ---also, the majority of posters on this forum are quite a bit older than 14 and may not care too much about your girl troubles so tread lightly.
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It's sad when fourteen year olds tell adults how to behave in public.
And they don't give a shit, then they don't have to post.
but yeah, you guys have rather pissed me off, so someone can close or whatever.
jhocking:
--- Quote from: Dissy on 19 Aug 2008, 13:03 ---Trying to insult us by calling us "nerds" is laughable.
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Tangent: I was ruminating just the other day on how I have a hard time remembering that to most people the word "nerd" is an insult, because to me it's kind of a badge of honor.
--- Quote from: Midnight Umbreon on 19 Aug 2008, 13:05 ---you guys have rather pissed me off, so someone can close or whatever.
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Unfortunately for you this has been a pretty good example of why it's not a good idea to start threads like this here. The lesson for you to take away is that when you post a message out in public among strangers, people tend to talk back.
Scandanavian War Machine:
i was just thinking that same thing the other day, Joe.
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