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[SimpsonsParadox]

The fact that a 14 year old can be safely described as a slut either means that I have severely repressed my memories from when I was 14 year olds or else the whole world went to hell in a handbasket in around half a decade.

Also, slut is a noun (The slut walked) or an adjective (The way Sally walk makes her look like such a slut.) At least, I think?

[bbqrocks]

Did you just use the word "slut" to describe a 12 year old girl? Because I'm pretty sure there are more appropriate adjectives.

Hey, I'm sure you know a hell of a lot more about my personal situations than me. Because you were there, and I wouldn't know what words to use to describe what happened.

And wake up, this is England. Slut is more appropriate than is pleasant to imagine, in most cases.

Stop posting replies whilst I type! 18 for the long message, one when I clicked reply and one when I clicked post..And then another one whilst writing this.

edit: I'm pretty sure they played rugby.

[tania]

when i was twelve i knew other twelve year olds who could be appropriately described as slutty. i mean, it's not like some of them weren't guys.
public school is a beautiful place.

[Be My Head]

The sluts are getting younger and younger.

Ever seen the movie Little Miss Sunshine? That movie parodies well the insurgence of slutty 12 year olds. I think the OP and anyone else that age shouldn't be so hung up on getting their brains fucked out as early as possible.

Because everyone knows, if you haven't had your dick blown 9000 times before the age of 16, you just fail at life.

[bbqrocks]

Ever seen the movie Little Miss Sunshine? That movie parodies well the insurgence of slutty 12 year olds. I think the OP and anyone else that age shouldn't be so hung up on getting their brains fucked out as early as possible.

Hey, we're not..At least, the majority of people I know aren't. Sure, they talk about it all the time, but they aren't gonna do it for at least a couple more years.

[J-cob9000]

yeah, i came back just to say this.
there were fucking four pregnant girls in my fifth grade year.
which is sad.

[jhocking]

an adjective (The way Sally walk makes her look like such a slut.) At least, I think?

Nope, still a noun (the "a" gives it away.) "Slutty" is an adjective, so you could say "The way Sally walks makes her look slutty."

Although, for all I know it is used as an adjective in California. "She is so slut" totally sounds like something Californians would say.

[bbqrocks]

yeah, i came back just to say this.
there were fucking four pregnant girls in my fifth grade year.
which is sad.

But the advice from a fellow 14 year old passes straight under the radar?

Roxie- when you're 14, half the rugby players are still pussies. They don't start to get weeded out until 16 or 17 so.

[benji]

Geez, that's worse. Rugby players can be brutal as I understand-- poor, poor girl. *ouch*

All of the guys I know who play Rugby actually seem like they'd be pretty gentle under the sheets. The guys have always seemed kind of sweet. The girls who play rugby are kind of intimidating. 

[Drill King]

Most of the girls that play rugby that I know are terrifying, and I should know I played on the team for a while. I left because they were really cliquey though, I still like the game.

[SimpsonsParadox]

an adjective (The way Sally walk makes her look like such a slut.) At least, I think?

Nope, still a noun (the "a" gives it away.) "Slutty" is an adjective, so you could say "The way Sally walks makes her look slutty."

Although, for all I know it is used as an adjective in California. "She is so slut" totally sounds like something Californians would say.

Thanks! Also, I lived in California for 14 years, and I never heard 'Slut' used in that way. However, I have heard it used as a curse (Slut!), a string of curses (You Effing Slutty Slut!), and as a verb (Oh, she just sluts for a living). The word 'slut', like the profession, apparently gets around.

Also, tommydiski, I hear they have intensive study camps for that. Or is that catching the gays? I always get them mixed up.

[jhocking]

a verb (Oh, she just sluts for a living)

The use of "slut" as a verb is amazing. I'll have to remember that one.

[Cartilage Head]

Man how the fuck did I miss out on this thread. God damnit.

[Hat]

So is this thread for our own 14 year old girl troubles?

Because I might have gotten a couple pregnant and can't afford nine abortions, and none of them are old enough to have jobs.

Their dads are going to be so mads

[supersheep]

there were fucking four pregnant girls in my fifth grade year.

What the fuck? Isn't fifth grade when you're like ten or eleven? Now that's just pretty fucking ridiculous. I'm not even sure I knew exactly how sex worked at that point, let alone how to go about persuading someone to do it with me.

Also, this thread gets a funny picture out of another funny picture.

[tania]

i use slut as a verb in the context "slutting around".
it's not meant to be an insult, when i use it. sometimes i just am not sure what other word i should be using instead. it's a silly casual word. i think it is okay to be promiscuous as long as the person in question is responsible about it.

[bbqrocks]

Roxie- when you're 14, half the rugby players are still pussies. They don't start to get weeded out until 16 or 17 so.

Who says she's sleeping with rugby players her own age??

Well, uh, as you can plainly see from these posts right up here...I did. Cos, y'know, it was a part of my life.

Whilst we're on the joke of underage sex, here's a joke that disturbed the hell out of me (it was in real life).

What's better than sex with twenty nine year olds?

Twenty one nine year olds!

[jhocking]

dogg you said it wrong:

What's the best thing about sex with twenty nine year olds?

There are twenty of them!

[benji]

What the fuck? Isn't fifth grade when you're like ten or eleven? Now that's just pretty fucking ridiculous. I'm not even sure I knew exactly how sex worked at that point, let alone how to go about persuading someone to do it with me.

5th grade was the first time I had sex ed. I remember one girl fainted during the description of penile erection. Another girl really liked the word Urethra and announced that she wanted to use it as the name of her first child.

[Hat]

i use slut as a verb in the context "slutting around".
it's not meant to be an insult, when i use it. sometimes i just am not sure what other word i should be using instead. it's a silly casual word. i think it is okay to be promiscuous as long as the person in question is responsible about it.

Yeah it's hard to distinguish via the internet, but I have never really been a fan of using the term slut to be an insult. Sex is so fucking rad, how could having a lot of it be a bad thing. Also, "she is SO slut" is in my vocabulary now and there's no way I am getting rid of it.

[Liz]

Jens, this thread reinforces my belief that you are one of my favorite people of all time.

Please continue being awesome.

[bbqrocks]

dogg you said it wrong:

What's the best thing about sex with twenty nine year olds?

There are twenty of them!

Hehe. Actually, the best thing to do is to say

'hey, you like sex with twenty nine year olds?'
'well, sure...'
*picks up phone, slowly dials 999 (or 911 or whatever) whilst giving wierd looks*
'what you doing?'
'well, hell, I gotta report a paedophile...'

[benji]

Solitary confinement after you're done?

[tania]

a lot of it has to do with voice inflection and so on. i am not usually offended when friends call me a slut, and vice versa, because it is not usually said in a malicious or hurtful way - to me it's just a word that describes someone who's really promiscuous. sometimes i do things that are pretty slutty and the word makes sense. i probably wouldn't call anybody a slut whom i didn't know well enough for them to understand that i am not trying to insult them. it's just a much more casual and fun word than "promiscuous" or "sexually active" or any of that freaky clinical sounding stuff.

[Liz]

[bbqrocks]

Are we gonna stop debating the word slut and stop making me feel guilty for diverting the topic?

What is the best thing about having sex with a thirteen year old?

Being able to make a jailbait motivational picture that says 'been there, done that' underneath?

[benji]

Are we gonna stop debating the word slut and stop making me feel guilty for diverting the topic?

Probably not, though we seem to have moved on to jokes about sex with minors now.

Here's a classic someone once told me:

A man comes home to find his lover packing her bags. "What's going on?" he asks.
"I'm leaving you," she says.
"Why?" he asks.
"Because I heard a rumor that you were a pedophile," she says.
He looks at her, astounded, and says, "my, that's a really big word for an 8 year old."

[bbqrocks]

I can't decide whether you're saying mentioning my typing skills is good or bad, but I guess you're saying bad. Hell, I just wanted to brag.

Well, I'm all out of pedophile jokes (I don't have many), but you guys tell me a couple more so I can throw it into cultured conversation.

[bbqrocks]

Anyways-

If you mean the derailing, I don't much. If you mean the typing skills, thanks, I guess.

Dude, we just derailed a derailing derailed thread. Do we get some kind of medal?

Roxie_Vinyl- Some people don't actually have enough brain power to understand cause and effect.

[Cartilage Head]

As long as sluts put out, I'm down.

[benji]

Utter madness. I love it.
My opinion on the word slut- It's an insult because while sex is a great thing, sleeping with anything that breathes kills the joy and novelty of it. IMHO, it's much better to meet someone special and get to know them and have sex with them and learn together what an amazing experience it can be.
The alternative being fumbling around at the age of 12 and dealing with an STD at the age of 15.

... that is my opinion on sluttiness. Um I'm done.

I generally tend to agree with you for my personal life. I don't sleep around a lot. But I don't look down on people who do. I also think it's very possible to sleep with a lot of people in a healthy and responsible way.

[bbqrocks]

If they didn't, we'd be talking something seriously bad here man. Like the time space continuum rupturing. But worse.

Roxie- If you're surrounded by them all day every day, you figure it out.  Just 'cos I'm young don't mean I'm daft.

[Tom]

I can't believe I missed this...

[0bsessions]

Sluts are not so bad, guys. Tommydski used to be a slut and we all like him, don't we?

[tania]

i first had sex at a pretty young age. of the 20-30 people i've slept with i was only in a committed relationship with two of them. to each their own, i guess? everyone's always told me that sex has to be this beautiful exclusive thing but frankly i just like having sex. everyone is different and every experience is different. i've never regretted having it so young and i've always been responsible with it. i've found that both sleeping with someone you really care about and sleeping with someone because it's just fun are pretty wonderful experiences for their own reasons.

mostly i just get annoyed when people assume that being promiscuous or having sex at an early age automatically leads to stds and unwanted pregancies. as long as i've been having sex i've also known how to put on a condom. i'm not a complete idiot.

[bbqrocks]

Hopefully not as young as those jokes in here.

But, of course, it's none of our business. I can feel this kinda trailing off, so is someone gonna lock it? Or do we just carry on until it's flogging a dead horse?

[Cartilage Head]

 FIE, POX-RIDDEN STRUMPET!

[tania]

no jens you contribute lots and it is awesome. keep doing your thing.

[Liz]

Sluts are not so bad, guys. Tommydski used to be a slut and we all like him, don't we?

Tommy is still a slut. And I think we like him most of the time.

[tania]

hence, only most of the time.

[Scandanavian War Machine]

this thread is moving too fast for me to keep up so i'll just say this:

fun fact: the youngest recorded person to give birth was FIVE YEARS OLD at the time. her son was raised most of his life believing his mom was his sister. nobody knows how she got pregnant and she never told.

[bbqrocks]

I am sure it is possible for a baby to be born pregnant, but normally that pregnancy (the babies, and possibly the mothers) fails.

[tania]

biologically speaking, girls can have children as soon as they get their first period but we look down on that because it's from a social standpoint that it isn't seen as acceptable. she probably just menstruated at a really early age.
i was actually reading about lina medina just a couple of days ago for some reason. there are photos of her pregnant and it is the fucking freakiest thing ever.

[bbqrocks]

Being born: Free.

Twenty bucks: Twenty bucks.

Being born with pockets: Priceless.

[KvP]

Man, being born ain't free. You pay back millions of dollars worth of shame and guilt to your mother.

I'm assuming we're all catholic and / or George Castanza.

[Eris]

I am sure it is possible for a baby to be born pregnant, but normally that pregnancy (the babies, and possibly the mothers) fails.

What? no. The reason the 5 year old got pregnant was because she went through puberty at a really really young age. Babies aren't fully developed yet, there is no way they could go through puberty and get some sperm in the placenta and have it impregnate them.


Seriously, what?

[pwhodges]

Breaking my usual rule and not reading the whole thread first, 'cos WTF!

i'm 14.
yeah, i know young.

I've never had a girlfriend until now.

You're doing fine - don't worry about trying to conform to norms which are probably meaningless.  I didn't get my first girlfriend until I was 21 (and that was because I was set up - but I won't go into that now).  Didn't stop me having a great life, children, grandchildren, interests, conversation...  

what do you do with a girlfriend in 9th grade?

How about: talk to her (for real), and that way you'll find out; if not, then maybe she's not a girlfriend after all.

Paul


PS - and BTW, saying you know about writing properly and just aren't bothering is kind-of insulting to your readers, don't you see?

[Scandanavian War Machine]

biologically speaking, girls can have children as soon as they get their first period but we look down on that because it's from a social standpoint that it isn't seen as acceptable.

history is built on having sex with underage girls.

the whole age of consent thing has always bothered me. not because i wanna bang little girls, mind you, but because it's just an arbitrary number and that's dumb.

[jhocking]

Are we gonna stop debating the word slut and stop making me feel guilty for diverting the topic?

Do not feel guilty for diverting this topic. Diverting the topic is what made this thread what it is today.

Besides, this was a very fruitful diversion. Now several of us have new vocabulary!

Seriously I just realized how insanely fast I have shot up here compared to the rest of you. I have caught up with most of the regulars in less than two years. Should I slow down? I think I am getting obnoxiously busy on these boards.

Pretty much I'm the litmus test I think. Is your posts per day higher than me? No? Then don't worry about it.

[tania]

i don't really agree with the age of consent either, but it isn't an arbitrary number; it kind of makes sense in north america and some european countries because these societies are constructed so that you can't really be an adult and make mature decisions until you're about 16-18 anyway. up until that point you're pretty much forced into being dependent on your parents because there are a whole slew of laws stopping you from doing things like owning property or driving a car or voting or holding a job or dropping out of school and so on and so forth. this makes you more immature mentally, as well, than someone in another environment who's basically been treated as an adult and had the same rights from a much younger age.