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Weirdest Ending of A Relationship?
RedLion:
Sorry, but...yeah. Accusing a guy of molesting/raping/taking advantage of you when he hasn't is pretty high up there on the list of "worst thing a woman can do to a man." A teenager, even a drunk teenager, is certainly old enough to realize this.
basically i'm saying it's not something that you can excuse by just saying "I was stupid."
tania:
i'm sure she did realize it, but you're also discounting the fact that people tend not to exercise rational thought when they're angry. instead, they're trying to hurt the other person as much as possible because they're being crazy and angry.
i'm not trying to justify her behavior in any way, as i agree this is a nightmare scenario for any guy, but at the same time keep in mind that she was much younger, very drunk, and already admitted it was a terrible thing to do. i doubt there is anyone here who hasn't done or said at least one stupid selfish thing while they were emotional.
Dazed:
*Group Hug*
Oh, also, on topic: I flew from Boston to New Orleans to see a girl I had a long-distance thing with. I was planning to stay for 4-5 days. In the middle of the 2nd day, she dumped me, and said she'd made the decision 2-3 weeks earlier, but hadn't wanted to say anything. That was a blast.
P.S. Let's drop the whole molestation-accusation thing, I think the point has been made.
Josefbugman:
Ouch, this is why I am never going to try a long distance relationship. Then again chance would be a fine thing. :lol:
The only other relationship (well proto-relationship) I had, I asked the girl out while drunk for the first time... Yeah that was a good idea.
calenlass:
--- Quote from: tania on 01 Jan 2009, 13:22 ---people tend not to exercise rational thought when they're angry. instead, they're trying to hurt the other person as much as possible because they're being crazy and angry
--- End quote ---
This is one of the great Mysteries of Life, I think, at least in my version of reality. That and how my cat absolutely refuses to eat anything, including human food like turkey and tuna, except dry crunchies, and yet is somehow starting to get fat. Like, pushing 30 pounds fat.
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