Fun Stuff > CHATTER

Weirdest Ending of A Relationship?

<< < (75/101) > >>

Josefbugman:
I have had one relationship, and loved one person, both different people and I am 19. I am really really slow at all this "relationship" thing.

But then again, most people I know from my home town (its more an enlarged village than anything else) have only had one relationship tops so I suppose its not too weird.

mishy:
after 9 pages i am beginning to think i'm too old to post on this thread, but fuckit.

a) re: 20-something guys dating high school girls: when i was 17 and some dude was 27 i almost ended up in a fuct up situation like the one previously mentioned. i was *so* naive and sheltered that i got weirded out the first time i hung out at his place and he and his buddy tried to get me to drink alcohol, which i'd never done and had no interest in at the time... i stopped talking to him. i think i avoided a bad call. i'll bet he thought the booze would actually win me over.

b) re: weirdest breakup: we were roommates, renting rooms in a house. he was a geek, i was a geek, us dating was expected by our roommates. he was an asshole and insulted everything i did and thought he was the best at everything he did. he came from some extremist religious family, but he ended up aetheist. still, he was a bit sheltered even at 22 and had hung on needlessly to some religion-based values (his opinion!) like no sex before marriage... which by the time i met him was just "no sex unless you intend to marry her." well, he emotionally abused me by telling me all the things wrong with everything i did so eventually i dumped him. but we were still roommates. and he was still horny and i still wanted attention so i fuct him. and i knew by doing so i would help him overcome that value instilled by his parents... i know it was manipulative, but i felt like i was doing it for his own good.
(i've come a long way since then.)

c) re: the age thing: has always been interesting to me. i dated a guy 9 years older, and stayed friends with him after, and he always asked me for life advice. there was a time when i was trying so hard, and so frustrated by the lack of mature guys that i, too, changed my preferred age range on lavalife to something above my own. but *now* i am dating a guy 7 years younger (had to be convinced before i would even give him a chance, that's how much the age thing mattered to me) and it's been my longest and most successful and happy relationship, and i realize that he's mature for his age, and i'm more like immature... maybe even for *his* age... which is why i'm posting on here anyway...
certainly age is important when one of you is in high school and the other not, or when the gap is many "grades" within school... now i'm dealing with the flip side. young guys generally don't want to think about marriage or kids (young but still older than 9, that is. that was such a cute story, btw.) so here i am, thinking about getting my shit together in the last few years at which bearing children is not yet a health risk, and worrying about how much time i have left, and guys don't have that problem, guys can make babies into their 80s or later, thanks to various drugs advertised in my spam folder. PLUS he's 7 years younger, he's ages away from wanting to think about that next step in life... and i feel like i'm running out of time. well, anyway, i still have *some* time left, i'm not too worried about it today, but there are times.

so ya.. just wanted to throw my 2 cents in there. watch me kill this thread, too, somehow...

Alex C:
Actually, they've been finding that birth defects are more prevalent with sperm from older guys. Like it or not, we break down as we age. That's life.

SirJuggles:
Uh, to clarify I believe it's the guy who is instigating the breakup.  I know from experience that the particular female in question can be a bit... clingy. Which is largely the reason I avoid talking to her nowadays. But for the sake of a possibly insane story I'll try to find more details.

Barmymoo:
I have always wanted an extremely large truck. Perhaps I am dating the wrong guys. (I am dating no guys at all.)

Anyway. I don't know anyone my age who has dated 10 people. I haven't kissed ten people, and obviously as the shameless hussy that I am I have a potential make-out pool that is twice as large as the average person's. Perhaps where you live there is not much else to do?

Navigation

[0] Message Index

[#] Next page

[*] Previous page