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RedLion:
Hrrm, hum.
These sorts of things never usually bother me, but the last 2 pages of this thread have made me queasy/nauseous.

Fenriswolf:
Then something has been achieved here!  :lol:

Jace:
I think its much more a psychological thing when it comes to the birthgasms. Moms recall tales of how painful childbirth is (and seriously, it sounds painful when told) to their children, so the children of course have that in the back of their minds when they are older and having children. They are thinking "oh my god this is going to hurt so bad" and so they feel the pain.

The last girlfriend I had was stuck thinking that she didn't enjoy sex, so she never did. She enjoyed other stuff down there, but not actual sex, because, and this is what she told me: "my first time didn't feel good so it's never felt good." If you believe something won't feel good for a long time, clearly when it happens you'll feel pain. But if you don't know... it might feel good.

Ladybug:
Uhm, I'm pretty sure squeezing a baby through ones vagina is going to hurt whether or not one goes into the whole thing thinking "This is going to hurt so bad". Sure, the state of mind might influence the overall experience and how one handles the pain, but still. Pain. Lots of it.

(Well, I know of people who have had super fast 2nd or 3rd births that they say didn't hurt so badly, but I'm thinking this might be compared to the previous ones.)

Jace:
Well, yeah, clearly it will hurt, but I think going into it thinking that its going to hurt a lot more makes it hurt more. If you think that you always throw up when you fly in a plane, you will then throw up when you fly in a plane. That's how your mind works. You can condition it to think a certain way.

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