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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
MrBlu:
--- Quote from: Linds on 18 Aug 2009, 19:44 ---
--- Quote from: NeverQuiteGoth on 18 Aug 2009, 18:27 ---In short, girls who don't understand this(like you, apparently) are the reason so many guys end up becoming heartless bastards. Its the only way they can survive.
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This is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. People get shot down. People move on. Sack the fuck up.
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+1
Masterbainter:
--- Quote from: Mynah on 18 Aug 2009, 13:00 ---I don't think that's obsessive, or that I'm freaking out over it or anything like that. I just don't think it's very nice to be like, "Oh hey, surprise kisses! I'm gonna go now, so it's up to you to figure out whether or not I actually like you. Bye!"
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but what do you think he thinks?
He probably just wants smoochie smoochie and no string and all that good stuff. He probably decided after the kiss he doesn't even want anything more than that. If you don't maybe pass that knowledge to him. He might be a little spooked for different reasons. Maybe your brother told him something that kind of spooked him. But really, just do what you say you are by not obsessing and play wow or whatever. He'll come around if he wants some more smoochie smoochie, however that's probably all he's looking for.
Masterbainter:
--- Quote from: Barmymoo on 18 Aug 2009, 13:03 ---I guess I'm wondering, do you think that in general people's romantic interests in one another can alter over time? Is it possible that in two, three years from now he will realise he does actually love me romantically not just as a very good friend? Or am I being overly optimistic and thereby wasting opportunities to branch out and meet new people?
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You're wasting opportunities and being overly optimistic.
--- Quote from: Barmymoo on 18 Aug 2009, 13:03 ---For the record, when we met I was seven and he was seventeen. I'm now eighteen (and obviously he's twenty-eight) so it's no longer weird.
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You definately wasting opportunities and being overly optimistic.... And yes it's still weird.
edit: sorry for the double post...also..
--- Quote from: Professor Snuggles on 18 Aug 2009, 19:03 ---Guys NGQ is the worst, aside from maybe Masterbainter.
Disregard both of them, really.
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Your mom!... but in all seriousness, I respect others opinions here, I just have a different view most the time.
Alex C:
God damn it.
So, I was catching up with Penny Arcade and found that they had some posts about self-proclaimed pickup artists and people who are active in some bullshit group that refers to themselves as the seduction community. Apparently they have some practice referred to as "negging" which is the use of borderline insulting language or backhanded compliments as a way of approaching women. To me it sounds like some kind of moronic way to show off your confidence at their expense. Well, I don't approach women this way; I approach everyone that way. It's partly due to ol' Mexican superstitions-- you don't want to call too much attention to your children or loved ones because the gaze of envious people can cause bad luck. You know, it's an evil eye thing. So, basically, my grandmother raised all of us in such a way that the back handed compliment essentially replaced terms of endearment in my family and the habit has stuck. For example, my dog Maggie answers to such loving terms as cochina, Maggot and stupid baby. My mother sometimes refers to her brother Steven as the biggest, stupidest jerk she knows (she also once cried when he moved two hours drive away because they don't see each other so much anymore, and when she first divorced he acted essentially as my surrogate father for years). But now I'm mildly horrified that my default communication style could cause me to be associated with these ass hats.
I might actually have to start being nice and honest with my emotions and shit.
Masterbainter:
being an ass has it's ups, but once you get them you have to become nicer over time...
or use the nice guy approach and become an ass over time. Either way.
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