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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
Eris:
Can we please not bring up the 'nice guy' thing again, because I swear I will smack some bitches if we get some "bloo bloo bloo nice guys finish last; the only people who get the girls are arseholes" shit in here.
JD:
I can't wait for NQG to respond.
Masterbainter:
isn't his problem not having the gal to go out or something?
Aimless:
I'm not sure if I remember correctly, but I think one way this negging business was described in The Game was as an aspect of a general approach to women (or perhaps to everyone) that might strengthen one's own confidence: treat them kinda like you'd treat your sister, or your mate from grade-school who just happens to be a lady. Oh, and feel free to have a healthy disregard for various unwritten social rules.
You don't have to be an asshole and deliberately prey on the insecurities of insecure women with major issues, but different strokes I guess...
I don't think there's much reason to worry about being suspected of being an asshole though. That risk has always existed, since long before the "seduction community" arose, and it's there even in a meeting with someone who's never even heard of those people. The best you can do is to not [deliberately] be an asshole, and trust that that will be enough to uphold your good image.
LeeC:
--- Quote from: Masterbainter on 18 Aug 2009, 22:28 ---
--- Quote from: Barmymoo on 18 Aug 2009, 13:03 ---I guess I'm wondering, do you think that in general people's romantic interests in one another can alter over time? Is it possible that in two, three years from now he will realise he does actually love me romantically not just as a very good friend? Or am I being overly optimistic and thereby wasting opportunities to branch out and meet new people?
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You're wasting opportunities and being overly optimistic.
--- Quote from: Barmymoo on 18 Aug 2009, 13:03 ---For the record, when we met I was seven and he was seventeen. I'm now eighteen (and obviously he's twenty-eight) so it's no longer weird.
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You definately wasting opportunities and being overly optimistic.... And yes it's still weird.
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I agree with you 100%!
you see this?
this is a ducky. Do not be a ducky. A ducky is a person that is best friends with the one they like and want to be with, but despite how nice they are or how compatible they seem to be, ducky is so dillusioned with the fact that ducky only wants, or only can be with their friend that ducky will no longer persue other oppertunities. Now despite all this longing, yearning, or whatever, the person ducky wants to be with, does not have the same feeling towards ducky. From expierence in high school as being a ducky, I say move on, if something happens later down the line sure, but do not count on it. Move on. Good luck and have fun.
And thanks all. I guess I am at a wait and see but I just like to be sure of stuff and I am not with this situation. Looks like I dont have a choice but to wait and see. Thanks again! :mrgreen:
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