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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
Alex C:
I couldn't possibly care any less about what kind of art a potential partner likes. The idea of selecting based on the idea hits me as unfathomably silly. But to each their own, I guess.
Spluff:
Liking the same music is a plus, but it's by no means necessary. I have friends and internets who like the same music as me - I don't need a girl to as well. Friends and girlfriends take on entirely different roles for me - qualities I look for in a friend are not necessarily qualities I look for in a girl.
nobo:
I have to disagree. the qualities i look for in a girl are the same that i look for from my closest friends.
tania:
to be fair, almost everyone i have met who has really clicked with me cos they are funny and cool and smart and whatever has not only been into music but also been into maybe at least 75% of the same music that i am into, so (for me anyway) in most cases personality type and interests seem to just kind of go hand in hand and i'm not really as superficial and judgmental as i might seem to be.
and yeah, i look for the same qualities in partners as i do in friends too. partners got to be friends first imo.
Spluff:
--- Quote from: nobo on 13 Mar 2009, 22:50 ---I have to disagree. the qualities i look for in a girl are the same that i look for from my closest friends.
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I feel the term 'girlfriend' is a misnomer. A girlfriend is more than just a friend who is a girl, and should be treated that way. Just treating her like a close friend is a waste; you've already got some of those - but, unless you are a polygamist, you've only got one girlfriend. The possibilities for great things to do with your significant other that you can't do with your friends are countless - why sit around and play games, or discuss sports, when there are so many more exciting options?
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