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MrBlu:

--- Quote from: tania on 13 Mar 2009, 22:52 ---to be fair, almost everyone i have met who has really clicked with me cos they are funny and cool and smart and whatever has not only been into music but also been into maybe at least 75% of the same music that i am into, so (for me anyway) in most cases personality type and interests seem to just kind of go hand in hand and i'm not really as superficial and judgmental as i might seem to be.

and yeah, i look for the same qualities in partners as i do in friends too. partners got to be friends first imo.

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So, basically, you do your dating on Last.FM?

Oh, man, that was wrong, I'm sorry.

tania:

--- Quote from: MrBlu on 13 Mar 2009, 22:57 ---Oh, man, that was wrong, I'm sorry.
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no offense taken, it's cool.

basically it is not really all that unusual for me to, after meeting someone who i really like and is very similar to me, end up asking them about music and subsequently find out that, hey, what do you know, they're really into music and they seem to like most if not all the same stuff i do. for me it seems to just be part of a bigger type of personality in general. subsequently, people who like music radically different to what i like or don't give a shit about music at all usually end up being totally different from me in about a thousand other ways too. when it comes to dating, i do tend to see similar interests as an absolute given and probably wouldn't ever consider dating anyone who didn't share them, but i don't think it is shallow cos i see it as just having similar personality types and in the end we do usually end up being more compatible as friends or partners anyway. i feel like this question gets asked a lot cos of the hypothetical "well, what if you met someone who was totally perfect but didn't like sonic youth" scenario, but honestly, that is a silly question because it doesn't ever really actually happen! everyone i have met who i have really liked or expressed any interest in has liked sonic youth cos the type of people who are like me and who i would like also like sonic youth. that is just how it goes.

Slick:
Dear Relationship Thread,
How can I go about rediscovering the sensation of affection?

Cordially,
James

Slick:
I like how that's what you thought I when I used the word affection.

Gilead:
If a girl likes nickelback I won't even look at her.

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