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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
onewheelwizzard:
Get a hobby, preferably a physically active one (unicycling was mine). First off, it'll take your mind off things and get you in a mode to pursue achievements, removing a lot of self-judgments about being useless/unskilled etc. Secondly, you'll have something new to know what you're talking about with, which can help remove self-judgment about being socially inept (I basically perfected a 10-15 minute spiel about unicycling that could legitimately make just about anyone interested in what I was saying. You would be amazed how many friends it helped me make.) Third, you'll eventually meet a girl who's into the same thing (the first two girls I slept with in my life were both unicyclists and very intelligent and physically attractive ones at that). Fourth, it'll actually improve your body because it'll be exercise that is also fun.
Having a hobby that gets you outdoors and moving around and that you really enjoy will help a lot, I think. It'll give you new skills, exercise, new conversation starters, a new channel to maybe meet someone cool, and eventually a fair amount of confidence.
michaelicious:
Just start a band, Jens.
Hairy Joe Bob:
I am in a serious long term relationship & I have advice:
Stop asking people on the internet for advice and go out and do. Really the best course of action here is just go out and try. And hey iof it doesn't work perfect the first time then try again. Trial and error dudes. You can get all the best advice in the world but it don't mean shit really when it comes down to it, you've got to just go for it.
20 jazz funk greats:
jens whatever you do, please please please do not buy any books claiming they will teach you what women really want or how to get any lady you want and thus improve your confidence vastly. they offer horrible advice, and i am convinced that every guy who actually takes them seriously ends up turning into a huge dick.
honestly you'd be better off asking us internet people because some of us actually know what we're talking about. hobbies are good. having them implies you are interesting and independent and that's an attractive quality.
Scandanavian War Machine:
i highly recommend axe throwing
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