Eliza, this dude sounds like an ass no matter what. Why keep him around at all? It does sound like he is just trying to get laid, and you know what he is going to do once he gets what he wants from you? He is going to start completely ignoring you. And that'd be the nicest thing he'll do. Seriously, just delete him out of your phone and your life.
(And jesus! You have a boyfriend! What the hell are you doing worrying about this guy?? Even if you were single, my advice to you would be the same. But jesus, do yourself and your boyfriend a favor, fucking forget about this guy.)
I'm sorry my life is so depressing, guys. But I mean, its not terrible! I still love my Davis(my best friend). He is still the most awesomest dude/person ever in the whole entire world ever. And it's awesome to have people like that in your life.
and now I have two "relationship advice thread" questions.
1. Is there a nice way to turn someone down and still be friends with them? I have a friend who I am not nearly as close to as I am my Davis, and if I just turned him down, I'm pretty sure it'd completely sour our friendship. But he constantly hits on me! And its so creepy! It makes me really completely uncomfortable. I don't know what to do.
2. How would you feel if your current boyfriend hung out with a girl that he used to fool around with, alone? One of my very good friend and I used to sort of be a thing. We used to fool around a lot. I've only spent one naked night at his house. The same time we were fooling around, he was fooling around with another girl. Which was fine and dandy, because we were just friends who liked to play with each others bits. At some point, he and I sort of lost touch, and he and this girl got closer, and started dating. We started talking again right at the beginning of their official relationship. He is one of my really good friends, and the whole time I've known him he has been a bit mopey, but after they became a thing, he got incredibly happy, and this makes me incredibly happy. I love talking to him now because he is always in such a fanstastic mood, and it makes me very happy to know he is happy. Anyway, he and I haven't hung out in awhile, and I've been dying to hang out again. His current lady is 32. I am 20. And he is 26. Overall, I've got no beef with hanging out with the both of them, but I just don't know. I don't think I'd have much in common with a 32 year old. I mean, "hey! Your boyfriend's dick has been in my mouth, too!" and "you're ten years younger than my mom!" don't seem like great conversations. So, basically, I kinda want to hang out with him alone, like we used to, minus the swapping of spit, and bodily fluids. I have no intentions of doing anything more than hanging out with him. He says she'd never have a problem with us, but I don't know. I don't want to screw things up for him. I really like that he is happy. Would it be strange for us to hang out alone?