Fucking hell.
My extended family is hells of catholic and my craziest aunt apparently found out somehow* that I had paid for a friend's abortion a few months back since she's a struggling college student. I'm already somewhat estranged from these people to begin with, so it shouldn't bother me this much, but it still kind of does. The most irritating part is that my aunt implied that I was irresponsible and seemed to fish around for whether it was my kid etc, etc. Which, you know isn't true, but ultimately doesn't matter, I guess. First off, it's none of her damn business to begin with. And there's obviously no "winning" this because even if she believed me my family still wouldn't approve of me just saying "Alright, I'll help," and signing a check for an abortion.
*I'm guessing it was pregnant girl's best friend who let something slip, since she asked her friend for help before dialing me.