I actually had decided against bringing up a point-by-point post before, but I want to be clear here.
1) Yes, Dora had bad relationships in the past. Who hasn't? As for Sven, they appear to be getting along much better as Sven has begun to change his ways. Without therapy, mind you.
Dora's relationships aren't the total sum of why those of us agree that she could use therapy (and I say "agree" because she has stated intentions of dealing with her issues), so continuing to go at the relationship level is rather moot at this point.
2) I ignore Dora's problems with Marten because I thought the relationship was doomed from the start, for reasons I've posted many times. If you don't agree with them, then ok.
My apologies if I'm misunderstanding, but what I gathered from your original post and many that followed is that you were actually pretty focused on Dora's problems with Marten, for which you supplied reasons that could not be fully substantiated in the comics (and some that were conjecture and supposition). I have no opinion as to whether or not Dora and Marten were doomed or not, as relationships (particularly fictitious ones) tend to be rather fluid and biased to the direction the author intends. What I read from your posts was quite the opposite of you ignoring her problems with Marten. Please correct me if I am wrong on this matter.
So we'll just see how she does with Jim. If she flips out for no reason, then I'd be more inclined to shift the other way. So far though, Marten and some off-screen relationships aren't enough evidence for me to say she can't go on without therapy. I would say I've done a better job of expressing my thoughts as opinions then some of the return opinions I've gotten.
I'm afraid I must disagree here, as once again I'll state that Dora's requirement(?) for therapy does not hinge on just this one aspect of her. I will also (respectfully) disagree with your assessment of the presentations of your side of the argument on the basis of a lack of supporting links or direct quotes. Others have supplied such for their arguments.
A topic is "opinionated" when it involves something personal such as therapy. There may be a better way to lean on the issue, but there is no correct answer.
While both the methods and the outcomes of therapy may be personalized and differ from person to person, as a legitimate medical practice it does have some difinitve right and wrong aspects. As someone who has had therapy for a good portion of his early 20's, I can easily tell you that there are distinct benefits, even for the small things in life, that such treatment can grant. They are quantifiable and visible. This is not an opinion; it is documented, which is why we have professions such as Psychologists, Psychiatrists, and Counsellors.
I just don't agree with them regarding her needing therapy. Most of her issues are justified, and the others don't add up enough to warrant her being pushed into therapy. Sorry, that's how I feel.
Judging a person by your standards as to whether or not that person needs or doesn't need to go could just as easily be applied to Faye as it could to you; I agree, she needs to make her own decision. In therapy, the only way a person can get better is if they want to get better.
Such as what she says here.
http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1357Along with the desire to get better, exemplified here.
http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1467So while Dora may be pushed by Faye from time to time, it's what Faye does and they have been getting along that way since the beginning of the comic, presumably even before that. Faye DOES have experience with it, and Dora has indeed expressed the desire to go and fix her issues. If she has a relationship, with ANYONE, and she brings in baggage from her past that she, in all honesty, doesn't want to bring but can't find a way to
not bring it in, she should by all means consider therapy. Faye knows this, has spoken to her about this, and is actually being a good friend in pushing her. Besides that, strip 1946 hardly has Faye "pushing" her, and even if someone would take it that way Dora handled it well - just like she has most every suggestion Faye has made.