So I keep my nails long. I love long nails.
They do not get in the way with playing with penises (and with some partners there are fun uses for long nails
), but I do keep the nails on my pointer and index finger of my right hand cut short and filed smooth because it is makes it far easier to play with vaginas and their surrounding fun bits without hurting the poor lady. And, should she want to be hurt, there is always the other hand.
People always complement me on my pretty long nails and I often wonder if they notice that the two of them are always short, and if they have figured out why.
Related, I have a partner who plays classical guitar and so the nails on one of his hands are pretty long. Fingers on that hand are not allowed to penetrate me.