It has been a rather mad week! Last weekend we were at Mounted War Games, an SCA event where we got rained on very thoroughly but enjoyed the campfire on Saturday night. For me it was a milestone because Edith and I drove down on Thursday, then I drove back alone to babysit and got myself back safely on Friday evening. My first time driving at night, and on my own for any distance, and it went totally fine. Monday we had a party which Redball came to, and a bunch of other people - not the girl from the cafe who I'd invited because we've seen each other a lot (she works most days when I'm in) but I didn't expect her to come really.
Tuesday and Wednesday Redball and I drove to Wisconsin on a wild goose chase and met Jwhouk, bought cheese, got diverted about four times by road construction, stayed with some friends of Edith, and ultimately did not achieve what we were aiming for - which was a prison visit (stupid paperwork) - but had fun.
Thursday I drove myself to south Indiana to visit a prison more successfully, and I spoke to a lot of people which was very useful for my paper (I have discovered that "dissertation" is a doctoral level term in the US, which might explain the difficulties I've been having) and also very interesting. They have a dog and cat rehabilitation programme, and they had a pile of puppies and four little 6-week old kittens! Playing with them was very academically relevant, honestly...
Today I drove to meet a psychologist who told me a little about her time working in a women's prison, and also totally unexpectedly arranged for me to talk to one of her patients who was incarcerated and lost custody of her children. It was fascinating to talk to her, and sadly her story confirmed what I already knew - that being in prison breaks families apart and is particularly hard for mothers - did you know that women incarcerated for over two years automatically lose parental rights in many states, whilst men do not?
Anyway now I'm at Redball's house and we're off to a gathering later which Edith will meet me at and drive us home again, because frankly I have driven far too much this week! I was trying to work out exactly how far I've driven in the last two months - I'm thinking about a thousand miles. Until I got here, I had not driven a single mile as a licensed driver.