Yeah, but my point is, HE didn't realize that Graham was dicking around. I've been talking to the guy, trying to help him. Yeah, I love Anna to pieces too! She's awesome, she's a great contributor to the forums and everybody already knows why everybody loves her. But I've been in the guy's situation before. And I can tell you, in case you've been there but forgotten what it's like. When you think you've lost somebody you deeply care about, and when that person seems to be leaving you out of the loop, it drives you crazy. I know I'm not the only person here who has been in this situation before. I am certain Anna's not off being sketchy, but the "no news" situation is the same for him now as it was for me.
And I would like everybody who was actually involved in today's shitstorm to know that there's better ways of letting somebody know they've made a mistake. Guy doesn't want to come back because some of you guys decided to go too far, when the poor crazy-driven bastard is already in distress. "You're a fucking baby" and "You're just a little bitch" are incredibly destructive methods of conveying disapproval, but they're apparently perfectly acceptible when it's not somebody who's one of the Cool Kids.