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WCDT Strips 4331-4335 (18-22, August 2020)
Tova:
Just to provide the anecdotal counter-example, I developed romantic crushes on girls well before sex was on the radar.
It's easy to assume that males develop an interest in sex early because of the omnipresent "all guys think about is sex" narrative that conflates pursuing female attention with a sexual drive.
oddtail:
--- Quote from: Tova on 19 Aug 2020, 01:20 ---Just to provide the anecdotal counter-example, I developed romantic crushes on girls well before sex was on the radar.
It's easy to assume that males develop an interest in sex early because of the omnipresent "all guys think about is sex" narrative that conflates pursuing female attention with a sexual drive.
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Heck, the narrative is "all guys think about is sex WITH WOMEN". You'll find plenty of stories online of particularly bi, but sometimes even gay guys who say it should've been obvious in retrospect, but who had a facepalm moment about being attracted to guys followed immediately by a "oh, THAT is what it is" moment of realisation/relief. Only because the general set of expectations doesn't really put that possibility in people's mind.
Thrillho:
How many of the people who don't buy this writing of Clinton are males who are sexually active or interested in sex with men and others too?
Because it feels painfully obvious the lack of quietness in some of these posts.
My interactions with and about different genders are completely different, and the attractions are too. Or more accurately, work differently person to person but also broadly differently between genders.
snubnose:
My first crush on a girl was with five and my second was with ten, in both cases long before puberty and a sex drive, and thus I also had no sexual fantasies.
During puberty, I didnt have many sexual fantasies on ladies either, except very strong ones on the one I had a crush on.
If nobody would ever have told me that homosexuality exists, I'm pretty sure I would still have no clue it existed.
--- Quote from: Gus_Smedstad on 18 Aug 2020, 20:00 ---[...] Clinton's reactions make him out to be pretty gay. [...]
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Wait, thats supposed to be a POSITIVE reaction ???????? Woa, I totally though the opposite.
pwhodges:
--- Quote from: snubnose on 19 Aug 2020, 02:39 ---
--- Quote from: Gus_Smedstad on 18 Aug 2020, 20:00 ---[...] Clinton's reactions make him out to be pretty gay. [...]
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Wait, thats supposed to be a POSITIVE reaction ???????? Woa, I totally though the opposite.
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The positive is figuring out what your feelings are, regardless of which way they lean. The common conventional view that men generally think about sex first is, as has been said, not universal, and in any case doesn't prevent the possibility of feeling attraction to a person rather than their gender.
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