Man, Alex, I know how you feel.
For some inexplicable reason, I'm outdpsing pretty much every other mage I have partied with lately. We had one in the guild who was in full t9 gear, and I was just wearing my conquest badge stuff. I kept equal or was over his dps EVERY FIGHT. We rolled the same spec and rotation so I have no idea what he was doing. Granted, I push my rotation way way way more than I should, but still. I pull a considerable amount of threat and I have the same problem with warriors, if I am with a warrior tank, I wait until we've cleared some trash and if I am high on threat I ask for vig. A lot of them don't put it anywhere near me at all but my threat is absolutely through the roof, even though I've spec'd into the threat reducing talents. Paladin tanks I have absolutely no problem threat wise with, bear tanks, it depends.
In other news, to keep you updated with guild drama:
- Member1 was being rude in guild chat on a daily basis to everyone, including guild officers. His wife/gf was also being rude to everyone (she's a druid healer and she was stacking int? Apparently that's not the best option? I'm not quite sure here, but she had her spec/stacking wrong and my friend was trying to help her)
- Officer1 comes to me and tells me about Member1, I give him permission to gkick him because his behaviour has been absolutely appalling.
- Officer2/RaidLeader comes online and has a whinge and asks why Member1 was kicked. We tell him. He gets the shits because he wasn't told about it.
- Argument between me, Officer1, Officer2 and ExGuildLeader ensues.
(at this point I am assuming they are all on vent, or at least Officer2 and ExGuildLeader are, and I am not)
- I crack the shits and tell them that "I am sick of people leaving the guild and coming back and leaving the guild and he's been kicked, deal with it, move on, my decision, I'm Guild Leader."
- ExGuildLeader then starts booting everyone's alts out of the guild and I am all ".... WHAT?!" in Ochat. In Gchat she is all "IF YOU HAVE ISSUES WITH OTHER MEMBERS PUT THEM ON IGNORE AND TALK TO ME. I AM SORTING OUT GUILD DRAMA RIGHT HERE AND NOW." At this point she continues booting everyone's alts out of the guild and then says "WE ARE A MAINS GUILD ONLY NOW. IF YOU DON'T LOG IN WITHIN 10DAYS WITHOUT AN EXPLAINATION, YOU WILL BE GKICKED."
- My response to this in OChat was "... are you serious?!" to which in Gchat she says "IF YOU HAVE ISSUES PAYING YOUR ACCOUNT OR ARE GOING ON HOLIDAYS LET ME KNOW AND I CAN PUT IN AN OFFICER NOTE."
- My response to this in Ochat was "well, good to see I was included in this grand plan of yours", Officer2 was all "It was talked about", "well, good to see your guild leader was included in this conversation, wooooooo".
- I tell the ExGuildLeader that she can have GLeader back and she ignores me, I tell her she "practically still runs this place anyway, just take it back" and her response is that she is just sorting out the guild drama because she wants the guild to be happy and raiding "like we were before".
After that I cracked the shits and logged off. I was so close to just giving her back GLeader and leaving then and there, but thought I would calm down and do it later.
Member1 and his GF have been invited back into the guild.
Officer2 took a raid group into ICC10 last night, including me. We cleared the trash, wiped on the first boss a bunch of times until he finally said "Maybe we're just not geared for this...". It took all I had to not say "Really?! Are you fucking sure?! Cause WE'VE NOT EVEN COMPLETED ULDUAR YOU IDIOT" ARGH.
Anyway, I've started a new guild on my alt, I've talked to my friends in guild and when we are all online and the ExGuildLeader is online we are going to do a mass walkout.
Definitely time to abandon ship.