I've never felt comfortable talking to therapists. I got no problem telling them all about things that have happened in my past and how I feel about it, but I don't like to tell them about current stuff and how I feel now. Besides, they're all nuts, that's why most of them became therapists. The last one I had was bat-shit crazy. I think I knew more about her issues than she did about mine before she pronounced me cured.
Ahh, the joy of finding a decent therapist. For the first point, half the idea behind a therapist is to be able to share with someone who's not directly involved in current events. I feel your pain though because while years of therapy as a child taught me to say "I feel this way because of this blah blah blah" to anyone who asks sharing things that actually
make me feel something is an entirely different proposition and very difficult if I don't feel close to the person which funnily enough isn't going to go so well if they won't/can't share about themselves.
As for the second, while most people develop an interest in psychology from their own trauma it's not to say they're all shite (counsellors, psychologists, whatever). It just means you have to find someone actually competent
and who suits your personality through hit-and-miss and when you're really battling with depression and anxiety this is no small ask.
Speaking of nutters in mental health, my mother's studying counselling right now and I'm shit scared she'll actually want to practice. This woman has fought tooth and nail for the stability she has in her life now and I still don't trust her not to use anything I share against me, she's always convinced she's right, she fails at consistency with her kids (8 & 10yo, not me) and dog and is downright abusive with her partner. She even text me freaking out because once in a while she'll realise this, but I feel obligated to be supportive... I just don't want her counselling anyone!
Uh, re: comic, Faye was slightly annoying in that she seemed to be reacting to the psychologist's statements without actually examining them which seems like a bit of a waste of money, but whatever. And I also hate the outright "how do you feel?" It just seems lazy and you're probably going to get at least a raised eyebrow from me! Otherwise I couldn't help but think "it hardly matters" about Dora's comment about seeing the same psychologist (man they must be rich to afford this!) but it was nice to see witty banter again, I don't like the conflict and bitchiness.
And now, you are all enlightened! Anyone else feel like a smeghead pronouncing their opinions on the comic like this?