BassNectar's music does not require whiteboy dreadlocks, trust funds, reckless pill and alcohol abuse, feigned understanding of Marcuse, an anal fetish, or even a lot of pot smoke to be enjoyed (although that last bit can often help). All it really takes is enthusiasm for bass and breakbeats, and the motivation to move your body accordingly. If you've got that, you'll probably get into BassNectar.
The best place to start would probably be Mesmerizing the Ultra or Underground Communication, although Cozza Frenzy is absolutely your best bet if your tastes tend towards the heavier and slower side of dance music. It's not exactly "dubstep" but the comparison could be made because it's just so big.
Anyone who shits on BassNectar just proves themselves unable to have honest fun. It's one thing to listen to it and be like "meh, this is too (heavy/indulgent/politically explicit/whatever) for me, I'll stick with my (guitar-based/singer-songwriter/shitty trance/whatever) music," but if you try to state that BassNectar's music is somehow objectively lower quality than really just about anything (or that you can only enjoy it if you exhibit some sort of objectionable quality), all you're really saying is "I desperately need to feel as if I'm cooler than everyone else in order to enjoy myself when I go out" and there's nothing attractive about that at all. If, on the other hand, you think of a party as a place where the main objective is to throw down and dance, this music is your shit.
Thanks for the Handsomeboy Technique, Wolfgang Gartner, and Beyond the Wizard's Sleeve! I'm looking forward to checking them all out.