That's an awfully detailed speculation, do you already have sketches drawn up too to go along with it? Are you going to make that panel reality even if Jeph doesn't? Are you willing to go the distance?
(Okay yeah I need sleep..)
FWIW - That is what is referred to as "Head-can(n)on" in here, and I've seen more detailed
canons, and ... much "looser
cannons" than those BenRG generally puts on the upper deck. (What I
was unhappy with, I've already said, and I've also said I generally enjoy Ben firing a "broadside", so YMMV)
Personally, I've found it conducive to my mental health to try and regard the speculation in here as a form of "collective emergent performance art" ...
This IS, after all, the WCDT - usually just one step removed from alt-canon (and-, if it were not for the moderation, slash-fic) - it's tempting to groan about other people's
"mental mortar", while forgetting the
"Howitzer weighing down on your own skull" ...
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General ether:That happily cited line about "projection" that Tova has in his sig - I remember when Westrim made that comment, but not the specific topic (probably a relationship arc with Marigold - they do tend to be ... "combustible").
On the other hand - This IS THE WCDT ...
It certainly
IS good to remember the artillery everybody is wearing in here - but it's not a nifty catch-all putdown. For starters,
IDENTIFICATION with a character is
NOT psychological projection.
The first MIGHT veer into the
"generalization fallacy", the second is about psychological defence mechanism of the "You are always so rude"-type, thrown about by a very rude person - likely upon being called out.
The underlying (internal) conflict is that the "projector" is unable to acknowledge their (aggressive?) impulses, for whatever reason - maybe they were raised to not overtly aggress - and hence
subconsciously pretends them to be the impulses of the person they are attacking - they 'project' the impulse from themselves onto the other in their internal narrative.
This is by no means simple - and it is
INCREDIBLY DIFFICULT TO OBJECTIVELY PROVE to be either PRESENT, or ABSENT. Which is probably the reason why the 'projection defence' is so widespread.
This also means that 'you're projecting' is pretty much what Oddtail said it is - At the very, very best, it can be a hint to a receptive person about a malcognition. More likely, it is an excellent "You shut up now, you!" - since it is impossible to conclusively refute.
As Oddtail pointed out, the discussion most likely is over after "you're projecting" - it's a derail, an impossible-to-refute red-herring, and an ad hominem fallacy (your argument is wrong because you are somebody who is likely to
projectidentify/generalize) all rolled into one. With the option to shoot off a "Don't be so sensitive ... you're always so sensitive ..." if the victim protests.
Pretty much "Check your privilege" without the social benefits (however slim or great they might be - we have threads-worth of discussion on that one, over in Discuss)
(EDIT BELOW HERE: Spelling, clarity)
As a rational argument, it pretty much useless outside a counselling session - If one wants to refute a claim based on insufficient data, why not say "Excuse me, but this strikes me as an example of the Generalization Fallacy?" In order to discuss whether a fallacious generalization was made, there's no need to attack the other's identity, or identification - no need to even touch upon it - so why do that?
And, let's be honest here: The latter (attacking the other's identity, or identification) is at the very best, at grave risk of being an asshole move. At worst, it's an intentional asshat-move aimed at someone who has far more at stake than you do.
Not cool, IMO.
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@Tova: Thanks for your thoughtful reply -> I'll have more on that, but the (other) points you make more than deserve a response in a separate post.
@RoXtar: Thanks for the clarification!
WRT the shortening of names, one could consider me unfortunate. "Seb" is really the only way to shorten Sebastian, so I definitely don't have any options!
"Basti" is pretty common in Germany.