I've seen a couple of tracks off of Ur played live and it will be fucking good, I think, though you must remember I was so drunk I couldn't feel pain.
Based off your current listening, you should probably be listening to:
Agalloch, Wyrd, Nortt, Waylander, Ephel Duath, Borknagar, ...And Oceans, Lykathea Aflame, Candlemass, Ancient Rites, Isengard, Cynic, Darkthrone, Carnival in Coal, Aborym, Carpathian Forest, Vintersorg, Abyssic Hate, Demilich, old Ulver, Acid Bath, Cathedral, Crotchduster, Yrkoon, Decapitated, Electric Wizard, Judas Iscariot, old Anathema, Woods of Ypres, Vlad Tepes, Orange Goblin, in about that order.
On general principles you should also be listening to:
Judas Priest, Iron Maiden, Motorhead, Skyclad, Mercyful Fate, Cryptic Wintermoon, old Entombed, The Count Nosferatu Kommando, Running Wild, Grave, Immortal, Sabbat and a ton of other amazing shit I don't have time to think of right now.
Also, if you're going to listen to My Dying Bride, I reccomend you get your hands on a little old album called Turn Loose the Swans. It makes everything else they did look like piss, and a lot of their other stuff is very good.
EDIT: even as I pressed save and left the house to obtain the quantities of beer, chinese food and rolling tobacco that shall be sustaining me this evening, I realised that there were things I'd left off. The first list should definitely mention Sigh, Voivod and Amorphis up to the album 'Elegy'. The second, Edge of Sanity.