maybe some women do like this, i don't know, but it still proves a valuable point - that in many cases a woman saying "no" really doesn't have a significant impact anymore.
I'm pretty sure some do, but S&M is all about rules, when you do it properly (that's part of the whole appeal anyway). Of course, all the begging and peril and whatnot is a pretty big part of it, so you have agreed upon 'safe words', bizarre or esoteric words or phrases that you would never normally utter during any sort of sexual encounter. So the person who's tied up can beg and plead and moan and whatnot all they want, but if they say 'coagulate' or 'pomegranate juice' or something, everything stops. This is kind of important because S&M can get very, very dangerous, especially for people who are into suffocation.
oh, and factor in the amount of women who are raped on an annual basis and the enormous stigma placed on birth control and abortion in certain states. food for thought.
Also reflect on the significant crossover between people who complain about contraception and abortion, and rabid misogynists. Hmnn!
The thing I always worry about with sex and gender and whatever is that a lot of people over-simplify it. Sex is complex stuff, and often fucked up! Some men rape women and some men rape men and some women rape women and some women rape men and some people do both. Some people fantasize about being raped. Some people fantasize about being raped and murdered. People are strange.
I view rape much in the same way I view other crimes, as the result of misdirected energy. Our sexual culture is bizarre, dumb and sexist. It screws up people of both genders and twists their attitudes to relationships and such. I think a lot of the full-on rape as well probably comes from men who have been downtrodden by society and have projected their hatred, for whatever reason, on to women, and decided to 'take revenge' as they see it. Its more about power than sex in some cases (I remember reading that this is particularly the case in the rape of minors).
*or a gent!