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The Great Porn Debate
jimbunny:
To Tommy: Though, along those lines, people may harbor the thought that during a potential sexual assault, they might begin to enjoy it. Perhaps this thought arises from a past experience of rape in which they did become aroused (applying the important distinction between physical arousal and emotional enjoyment, raised earlier). Thus, they might in hindsight confuse their arousal with enjoyment, causing an identity crisis. To reclaim the identity which became aroused, they might imaginatively recreate the scenario, in which they, this time, while in control of their identity, become aroused (to what extent they could possibly enjoy such a fantasy is supremely questionable). So as to try and reconcile the event in their mind.
I'm just trying to offer up an explanation that makes sense to me. Whether or not it's true, and certainly whether or not the fantasy proposed here is a healthy coping mechanism can't be answered by me. Hiiiiiighly speculative.
morca007:
I swear this is the only serious post I will make in this thread:
Anyone who makes any sort of "x makes you do/think x" claim and can't back it up with reliable peer reviewed research is talking out of their ass.
muteKi:
20 J.F.G.:
Of course, the point is that in actual rape this really isn't possible, so while in the situation you described most would agree that acting in such a way isn't wrong, communication and rules in rape pretty much by definition are nonexistent.
If all one had to go with is that "Oh, he probably has a cuckold fetish and thus secretly DOES want me to go out and have sex with other men," then it I think most would agree that doing so IS wrong.
KharBevNor:
I know people who have sexual fantasies about being murdered or executed, why is the idea of people who fantasise about being raped so hard to swallow?
20 jazz funk greats:
--- Quote from: muteKi on 24 Apr 2008, 13:16 ---20 J.F.G.:
Of course, the point is that in actual rape this really isn't possible, so while in the situation you described most would agree that acting in such a way isn't wrong, communication and rules in rape pretty much by definition are nonexistent.
If all one had to go with is that "Oh, he probably has a cuckold fetish and thus secretly DOES want me to go out and have sex with other men," then it I think most would agree that doing so IS wrong.
--- End quote ---
i kind of went on an unrelated tangent about cuckolding in that last post.
but.... people who HAVE rape fantasies usually want to act on them in a very specific way (ie, tommy's example about his ex girlfriend)
thus it becomes role-playing of rape, instead of actual rape.
and that follows certain rules.
now do i need to explain role playing?
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