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Commitment
Tom:
I'm afraid of it
Boro_Bandito:
Think about it, it works for Gene Simmons and his girlfriend, and their kids don't seem to be screwed up too badly.
WriterofAllWrongs:
My take on commitment is thusly: If you like a person enough, why not? I mean, people tend to get upset when they're not the ONLY one having sex with you. Some form of a biological defense or junk. So, if you like them and want to date them, and you know they wouldn't like you dating or having sex with other people, why would you want to do that to them? Commitment seems to be like a combination of discipline and respect concerning your loved one, and just kind of a pact saying "You're so awesome, I wouldn't sex any other person."
However, on the flipside, cheating is less of a big deal to me. Easily forgivable. Trust is important, but I understand that people slip up. I mean circumstances definitely make or break it for me, but generally I'm comfortable with forgiving it just so long as they don't do it again. It's not that hard. Just don't do it. That said, if you did cheat on some person, that's fine. You fucked up. Everyone fucks up. What isn't cool is coming on some internet forum and making some spiel about commitment. Get a blog, dude.
Cartilage Head:
Just get a fucking blog. Christ.
jhocking:
--- Quote from: pi on 26 May 2008, 17:46 ---how can you ever possibly know that you are with the best possible person for you?
--- End quote ---
You can't. Nobody gets to be god, with total universal knowledge, but at some point you just have to make a fucking decision. Welcome to life.
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