Who invented/won what is a pretty fun game because generally Britain wins.
You didn't win the Troubles. You still have the North.
Me, I'm not proud to be Irish, any more than I'm proud to be 5'8, or to have curly hair, or fairly stumpy fingers. I'm like that all of these things are true, but I don't think that they make any difference in any real way. I'm proud of things I do, like grow my lovely beard or write a pretty damn good essay, not accidents of genetics or location or whatever.
Sure, I went through the phase of nationalist feeling at one point that I'm sure 95% of Border county kids do, although it never went as far as most folk. I've always been critical of the IRA's campaign, but not necessarily its aim - something I am now, to a certain degree. Thing is, as my political orientation shifted leftwards, the meaning of borders began to make less sense to me. Like Wolves said, what difference does the side of a border I live on mean? Sure, I'll probably have more in common with an Irish person than an English one, but this is cos we have shared cultural standpoints and experiences, not because we have the same location. Any Irish person around my age or older is going to remember the Dublin Riots, the order to dump arms, Omagh, and so on, and so we have certain connections there. Despite this, I still have more in common with most people anywhere than I do with, say, Tony O'Reilly or Denis O'Brien. I don't share anything with them just by virtue of being Irish.
I can't really think of any positive aspects to nationalism, to be entirely honest. Look at Northern Ireland, Yugoslavia, Chechnya, and fascism, to name just the four examples that come to mind quickest. I'm not saying, of course, that imperialism is better, just that defining yourself as part of a specific ethnic group that happens to maintain the accepted monopoly of force in an area has tended to lead to bad things.
As for patriotism, it's always meant "dumb blind faith in my country, right or wrong" to me. Therefore, it's even worse, I guess.
inflatable_slide, I love that you post in Corkonian. It has made my day.