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Weirdest Ending of A Relationship?
tania:
i know everyone says they mature faster than other people, but i feel like i really did on account i grew up with sisters who were much older than me (13 and 14 years), and since they wouldn't (and still don't) dumb themselves down to my level, i've constantly had to figure out how to get to their level instead. i mean, that sounds bad but it's something i do appreciate a lot. they always call me on my stupid melodramatic bullshit and tell me when i need to grow up and stop being stupid and i feel like maybe i ended up a pretty smart, sensible person because of it. the downside is that for the longest time i really couldn't stand anyone my age, and so all throughout high school and uni i mainly hung out with and dated people way older than me. i still sort of do but it's started to level out a bit as i come closer to graduating. i guess it's similar to that thing jill mentioned again about how when you get older the age gaps matter less and less. once you're an adult you're just kind of an adult from then on.
Alex C:
I don't say that. My social/emotional intellgence is pretty much nil aisde from the fact that I'm aware that your first impulse isn't always a good idea.
Jace:
I gotta say, age/2+7. This is the age range when dating someone younger for it to not be creepy. To reinforce my point, there is a girl who is absolutely enamored with me who is 16. Now this isn't too bad because when we met I was 18. This means that she is still in the OK age range if I were to pursue that.
(It would mostly end with a post in this thread, I imagine, she is very religious and has morals and stuff, I like to vandalize shit and add fuck to regular words)
Dazed:
In terms of age, it's really going to be relative and case by case. There's no cut and dry standard for min/max number of years between people; I mean, a 27 year old dating a 22 year old is far, far less creepy than a 21 year old dating a 16 year old. The gap becomes much more flexible the older one gets.
Josefbugman:
wow, I have only ever gone after or felt anything for people who are my age or 1 year below, anything lower and its heading into "weird" territory.
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