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Weirdest Ending of A Relationship?
Inlander:
Good thing she didn't catch you at the end of the night's drinking.
Masterbainter:
--- Quote from: Mr. Skawronska on 11 Jan 2009, 12:46 ---
--- Quote ---EDIT: My definition of serious relationship - someone that I can see a future with and am hoping is a person that I can come to love and fall in love with that shares the same sort of feelings back(or at least shows or tells the same thing back to me)... I dunno what's yours?
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So, by your definition, some guy a girl banged in a drunken one-night stand, got pregnant with, and now is raising his kid alone might not have "counted" as a relationship?
And yet.
Hmmm...I'm starting to see how this works.
It brings a lot of things in life into focus, actually.
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I guess reading helps.. I said
--- Quote --- My definition of SERIOUS relationship
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... I wasn't even stating that everyone does or even should have the same definition as myself. I was stating my opinion on it and asking what others opinion of a serious relationship as I've only had two in my 24 years of life.
Does this make sense?
Edit: had to add... No I wouldn't count that as a relationship, if she met a guy banged him while drunk and got knocked up and has to raise a kid by herself.. how would that count as a relationship with that guy? did she have relations with him? Yes. Was there anymore of relationship other than drunk stumbling kissing because the logical part of her mind was shut down by alcohol? No.
Thanks for playing
That is all.
mbb:
Yeah...having a kid from a drunken one night stand does not magically make it a relationship...unless you count having a kid from a sperm donor as a relationship.
Masterbainter:
--- Quote from: mbb on 15 Jan 2009, 00:04 ---Yeah...having a kid from a drunken one night stand does not magically make it a relationship...unless you count having a kid from a sperm donor as a relationship.
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exactly!
TheDozarian:
I was dating a German girl out of high school... She had been an exchange student at a nearby school here in the states... We started out dating and eventually got engaged before I left for the service and she for Germany. We visited several times while I was enlisted; her here and me there. However, I had some issues eventually and I made the mistake of messin' around with another girl down at Ft. Campbell...
I didn't tell her why, but I broke up with her over the phone... It was horrible. She cried and begged... She was going to come over on the next flight and all that... I was so embarrassed about what I had done, that I told her no... She continued and I told her that if she showed up at the base, I'd have her arrested... Not my crowning moment, to be sure.
But I was really ashamed of it all... I've since grown up a lot. I was 19 when that happened. My mom and dad have always kept in touch with her and she has married and has a child. But I've not spoken to her since then. Nothing ever came of the other girl. We had a brief thing, but it was nothing. I realized a few years later what I'd done and it had a significant impact on me at that point. I made an effort to apologize to her and she accepted it. But that was the last I heard from her and the last I tried to contact her. That was by letter rather than phone.
SO... Moral of the story is if you love them, keep that shit in your pants. If your not sure, keep it in there until you are sure... you may not realize what you're losing until it's way to late...
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