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Weirdest Ending of A Relationship?
est:
If it makes him feel any better I am judging him.
tania:
--- Quote from: Masterbainter on 15 Jan 2009, 20:47 ---most females think it's okay to hit a guy because we are "stronger" then them
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--- Quote from: Masterbainter on 15 Jan 2009, 21:17 ---girls will and can play
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can we try to refrain from gender stereotypes please? people have different personalities. some people are just meaner than others. your bad experiences aren't the result of the fact that they were women and women are some kind of bizarre predatory species totally different from men.
i'm sorry if i'm coming off as excessively picky but i believe pretty strongly that harboring these sorts of beliefs has the potential to lead to increasingly worse prejudice and that it's better to recognize and refrain from that kind of thinking sooner than later.
Masterbainter:
--- Quote from: onewheelwizzard on 15 Jan 2009, 20:55 ---Yeah, I guess I am reading between the lines a bit. It's just that every single post you've made so far on this thread has basically relied on expecting people to act as abusive or unpleasant as they could. It doesn't sound like you expect much compassion, forgiveness, or altruism from people you enter relationships with. I'm not saying you're being unfair, if it's what you've experienced that sucks and I'm sorry to hear it, but I'm personally convinced (based on my own experience) that if you make your decisions based on a trust that your partners really do have your best interests in mind, it often turns out to be true in the end.
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this.
Masterbainter:
--- Quote from: tania on 15 Jan 2009, 22:06 ---
--- Quote from: Masterbainter on 15 Jan 2009, 20:47 ---most females think it's okay to hit a guy because we are "stronger" then them
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--- Quote from: Masterbainter on 15 Jan 2009, 21:17 ---girls will and can play
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can we try to refrain from gender stereotypes please? people have different personalities. some people are just meaner than others. your bad experiences aren't the result of the fact that they were women and women are some kind of bizarre predatory species totally different from men.
i'm sorry if i'm coming off as excessively picky but i believe pretty strongly that harboring these sorts of beliefs has the potential to lead to increasingly worse prejudice and that it's better to recognize and refrain from that kind of thinking sooner than later.
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I was stating that girls are not excempt from playing the game. Not saying that only girls will play. I wish people learned proper reading.
Masterbainter:
--- Quote from: est on 15 Jan 2009, 21:25 ---If it makes him feel any better I am judging him.
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yes it does.
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