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Weirdest Ending of A Relationship?
Masterbainter:
--- Quote from: Ballard on 15 Jan 2009, 21:23 ---Why do people feel like passive aggressive posting is the best way to win an argument?
"Stop judging me you don't know me" isn't exactly a convincing point.
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did I say that? No.
I felt as though as anything I've typed according to onewheelwizzard's post was me coming off as someone who's only experience bad.
Like I stated above. I have been in some terrible relationships and I have been in some great ones. I base my opinions off experience, when it come to relationships.
No I don't think everyone is evil, nor do I think all females are evil. In fact, I don't think many are, but there are (both sexes) people that think relationships are games.
I just call them like "I" see them.
Masterbainter:
one last thing.
I'm definately not trying to start an argument on this. I was defending my posts that is all.
Ballard:
Hey broseph here's an idea. Make less use of your Return key and more use of your Edit button.
--- Quote from: Masterbainter on 15 Jan 2009, 22:13 ---I'm definately not trying to start an argument on this. I was defending my posts that is all.
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lol
Masterbainter:
usually do. My bad.
onewheelwizzard:
--- Quote from: Masterbainter on 15 Jan 2009, 22:13 ---I felt as though as anything I've typed according to onewheelwizzard's post was me coming off as someone who's only experience bad.
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This was what I was looking for! Thank you very much (no, seriously, I really, really appreciate it, I was scrolling down through your posts and saw this one and grinned a lot).
I'm sorry that I made you feel as if that was what I thought about you! I'm glad I showed you what you were sounding like, and also glad that I now understand that you're not one-dimensional in that way.
I think a few pages back you said something like "people remember the bad stuff in relationships, I mean that's how you learn, right?" and this was really what I was trying to get at. Remembering the bad stuff is NOT a good way to learn because the stuff you remember IS what you learn, and that's the kind of stuff you DON'T want to learn. If it sounds like I'm saying "forget about the bad things that happen because they don't matter," or "if you forget about bad stuff it won't happen again," that's not what I mean at all ... what I'm trying to say is that if you EXPECT bad things because they've happened in the past, they're more likely to happen in the future, since your expectations guide your actions and therefore end up manifesting themselves.
I'm also sorry that you felt like you needed to defend yourself against me in some way. I was only trying to learn more about what you meant. I'm sorry that I took a confrontational tone at first, I didn't mean it to sound that way when I wrote it but looking back I can see why you interpreted it the way you did.
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