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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
Lunchbox:
Yeeeah. It's still not fair though. :'(
Cartilage Head:
It really just depends on how you feel. If you really like him and what to stay with him, you take and break and see if you feel like resuming when he gets back. Just saying there are alternatives if you are looking for them.
tania:
yeah, long distance relationships are stupid hard but they aren't inherently doomed for failure. they often can and do work out but it's really just a matter of what you both want. you're not clingy if you wait for him and you're not a bad person if you don't, just do what you think is right for you and the situation.
MrBlu:
And webcams.
ViolentDove:
--- Quote from: Lunchbox on 09 Mar 2009, 20:57 ---Hey Relationship thread, Maybe you will have better advice than my sex-crazed boss!
I have been been seeing a guy for a couple of months and I really really like him but in a month he will be leaving for overseas and not returning for about 15 months. What should I do?
I am pretty bummed out but I know that this is a really awesome thing for him so I think I should just enjoy the last couple of weeks I have with him and leave it at that. This is healthier than clining to him and wheezing "I'LL WAAAIT FOR YOOOUU," right?
--- End quote ---
I have been in this situation, so I guess I'll relate what happened to me and then pretend that everyone else is the same and stuff, yeah?
Basically we tried to stay together even though she was on the other side of the world, then she met someone in Glasgow and then it was all over and we both found other people. But then she came back and was all "I still kind of like you" but we didn't end up together again for various reasons. I think it was probably worse trying to stay together over the long distance when stuff started falling apart, so I think it's best to part ways with the acknowledgement that if you're both single when you're in the same country again, maybe you'll revisit the relationship.
Also, don't let him go to Glasgow.
(P.S. Hey thread I scored a hole-in-one the other night, if you catch my drift.)
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