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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
redglasscurls:
Emaline, reading about your life is pretty much like reading the saddest/cutest book ever, always.
elizaknowswhatshesfor:
Dear Relationship Thread,
I met someone recently while out in a different city, who just blew me away, he was so sweet and funny and interesting and we have nice things in common. Nothing happened (Well, he kissed me and I said no as I am with someone who lives far away) I ended up staying at his,talking until 8am the next day. We swapped numbers and spent the next week texting each other every day, not huge amounts, but regularly. During this we made plans to do stuff togther, as friends. I came up to stay again on monday (Not with him) and he said he'd meet me off the train, which he did. He was then extremely rude and off with me, told me he was too busy to see me and just a completely different person. It was to the point where he was sat on a laptop and ignoring me, also told me to stop complementing him (He has grown a beard, I love beards.) I'm completely confused as to how someone can go from sending messages saying things like "I think I miss you, is that weird" To ignoring me all togther. I also don't get why you'd meet someone only to be rude to them?!? (Esp. as it was a 3 hour train journey bleurgh!) Is it the plutonic thing that's making him be distant and well, a bit cunty?(sorry for the language) Has he sobered up and realised I'm not awesome? (I am awesome) I'm also extremely concerned as to why I'm so fucking upset. I have a lovely boyfriend who I've been with for quite a while, I have amazing friends, why is this one person upsetting me so much? When we said goodbye on monday we had had conversations about when he was working (Coffee/bar with internets) so I could go in and keep him company/when we'd have time to watch movies together, I text him, only once mind, to say when are working etc. no reply. I'm worried as we will be going to the bar tonight and also, to make the point really clear WHY DO I CARE?!?
(Sorry that was such a ramble, if you ever heard me speak, you'd know that's how I'd sound)
benji:
--- Quote from: redglasscurls on 13 Mar 2009, 08:38 ---Emaline, reading about your life is pretty much like reading the saddest/cutest book ever, always.
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I 2nd this. You could totally write "The Life and Times of Emaline" as a Victorian style serialized novel.
Eliza, there's a lot to unpack there, and I have to go teach a class, but my first bit of random speculation: Did you just say "no," before, or did you tell him the reason why? If he didn't realize you had a boyfriend already, and then found out, that could have made him upset. It would upset me if I met someone I was compatible with, seemed to hit it off, flirted all week, and then found out they were already involved with someone else.
elizaknowswhatshesfor:
There's always a lot to unpack with me....
He tried to kiss me after we'd been talking for about an hour. So for the whole week, he has known I'm not single. Have a nice class x
0bsessions:
Eliza, your situation seems pretty clear cut. The guy is, as the kids say these days, trying to 'play' you. He wants to get in your pants and it's as simple as that. This is a whole can of worms I would advise heavily against opening. You're happy with your boyfriend and you've got plenty of friends, delete the guy's number and let it go.
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