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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
MrBlu:
--- Quote from: Josefbugman on 29 Mar 2009, 14:34 ---Okay guys, first question what does "psh" mean?
Second, I am in one of my philosophical moments, so I am wondering for a moment, what do you guys actually want out of relationships? As in really want out of them? You all seem to be somewhat quirky individuals but having asked most of my real life friends they inevitably want to do the whole "get married and have kids" thingamajig, and I was just wondering what you guys thought about that.
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My friend asked me that, because I wasn't looking for sex out of a relationship, so he asked "what's the point?"
I don't remember what my response was, but I remember saying something about him being shallow, and something about the wrong reasons.
Now, thinking about it, I'm not sure. Maybe it's just so I can have someone to talk to late hours in the morning, or maybe I've gotten used to sharing affection with someone. It's a good feeling, really.
kitschykat:
I'd like to fall in love again, but special people take time to find. For now I aim to spend time with people, get to know each other, and enjoy basking in each other's humanity.
The whole happily ever after marriage and kids things at times feels too conventional, but you can take anything conventional and twist it to suit you as an individual person, as long as you know that you want it for your own reasons and not just because you are supposed to want it. I feel like I used to be more reactive and not want things just because I felt like I was supposed to, but that really isn't that much better than just going along with it. As someone who didn't get to have the classic loving family, I'm beginning to think that is something that would really give me a lot of satisfaction and happiness to finally be a part of. Like knowing that I can break the cycle.
Jace:
I'd like to fuck all the time.
snalin:
Fucking, cuddling, and someone to talk to. You know, really just talk about everything and have fun while doing it. I guess what I want the most is someone that I can be together with in every way I want. Not that I'd be clingy (I guess), but someone to do everything with, including sexing.
Barmymoo:
I realised today that a guy who I've been getting the same bus as for two years is actually kind of cute (I'd noticed this before in an abstract way), very nice and pretty interesting. I like the idea of being in a relationship with him even though I'm not attracted to him. Is this doomed to failure? I have no idea how he feels about me, I was just wondering really.
Oh and I think I kind of asked him on a date, sort of. We were talking about Duplicity which I'm going to see with some friends and I asked him if he wanted to come too. He seemed keen! I shall decide whether or not I want it to be a date and then we shall see.
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