Obviously you are not grasping what I am saying.
The word "technically" was used, I don't want to say sarcastically, but basically to poke fun at everyone saying that are "technically" dating smeone.
I wasn't not in a typical boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with that guy. I was not dating him. We did not go out on dates, and he was never my boyfriend. He was my friend that I screwed around with. This is not a typical boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. It was a friends with benefits relationship.
Typically, when someone says "relationship," they mean a boyfriend/girlfriend type thing. The same goes for dating. Dating does however often mean going out on dates with people. People as in the pluralised version of the word person.
Often, when people say one word in a sentence, the other words surrounding it, what the person is saying, how they are saying it, and how the word is beng used, will help you understand the meaning of the word. This is called comprehension.
I was saying that you cannot meet someone, fuck around with them, and then assume that you guys are a couple(boyfriend/girlfriend). You cannot assume some guy that you have sex with regularly, who has made it clear that his emotions are not involved is your boyfriend.
Casual sex does not equal boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, and rarely equals dating.
I was telling you all this so you would learn and not get your hopes up about the people you are having sex with, but obviously that is not going to happen since you all don't seem to be able to grasp basic reading skills. So, Girl With The Emotionally Unavailable Guy, you better not move on to that nice dude who you are interested in since you are obviously still that emotionally challenged dude's girlfriend, even though he probably doesn't know it! Pants, well, honetly man, I don't know what you are seeking advice for. It seems like things are alright for you.