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calenlass:

--- Quote from: Johnny C on 02 Jan 2011, 02:41 ---
--- Quote from: johnny5 on 02 Jan 2011, 01:41 ---5) no soda except when paired with alcohol? (maybe?)

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get more mileage out of this by only mixing using diet & "zero" stuff

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eeeewwww

Nodaisho:

--- Quote from: johnny5 on 02 Jan 2011, 01:41 ---5) no soda except when paired with alcohol? (maybe?)

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That shot of alcohol has about as many calories as a can of coke.

edit: or more. Depends on the alcohol. US "servings" of alcohol go off of the amount of ethanol, an amount which is over 100 calories. If you pour yourself a shot of something strong enough that it is more than one serving, that's going to be more calories. Get something with sugar as well as ethanol? Even more.

jhocking:

--- Quote from: johnny5 on 02 Jan 2011, 01:41 ---lofty almost seemingly unobtainable goal for 2011:
1)buy a condo/house/living space of my own. i got a good steady job, about a year away from finishing my graduate studies, i just need to save. which for me is always hard. now's the time to buy i keep hearing.

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I don't know your situation but I would probably put off thinking about buying a house until well after grad school, at least a couple years. Too much flux right now, to say nothing of how all your money is going to tuition right now.


--- Quote from: johnny5 on 02 Jan 2011, 01:41 ---4) finish paying off my car

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So wait, you're planning to pay for grad school and a car and a mortgage all at the same time? Seriously, wait for at least one of the first two to be taken care of before thinking about the third.

johnny5:

--- Quote from: Nodaisho on 02 Jan 2011, 05:33 ---That shot of alcohol has about as many calories as a can of coke.

edit: or more. Depends on the alcohol. US "servings" of alcohol go off of the amount of ethanol, an amount which is over 100 calories. If you pour yourself a shot of something strong enough that it is more than one serving, that's going to be more calories. Get something with sugar as well as ethanol? Even more.

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true, but my line of thinking is that i don't drink as much as i would drink soda in everyday situations. i could try the diet i suppose


--- Quote from: jhocking on 02 Jan 2011, 05:54 ---
--- Quote from: johnny5 on 02 Jan 2011, 01:41 ---lofty almost seemingly unobtainable goal for 2011:
1)buy a condo/house/living space of my own. i got a good steady job, about a year away from finishing my graduate studies, i just need to save. which for me is always hard. now's the time to buy i keep hearing.

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I don't know your situation but I would probably put off thinking about buying a house until well after grad school, at least a couple years. Too much flux right now, to say nothing of how all your money is going to tuition right now.


--- Quote from: johnny5 on 02 Jan 2011, 01:41 ---4) finish paying off my car

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So wait, you're planning to pay for grad school and a car and a mortgage all at the same time? Seriously, wait for at least one of the first two to be taken care of before thinking about the third.

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well, i owe only a little more than 3000 on the car. but you're right in some respects, i haven't even thought about how much i would have to start paying back per month for my student loans if i decide i'm finished. the upside is that i have a job in the field i'm studying in already, and i've been there a year and all signs point to it being steady for a while.

Drill King:
I don't like rape jokes.


So I've been thinking about this a lot more in my post-drunkfuckedupohmygodIloveyouguys state yesterday. And I actually want to make a more serious list.

- Work on mental health issues. I have a lot of things in my past that I haven't dealt with very well, and I'm going to try and tackle them now that I have a good support system of friends to help.

- Become even more active with student/queer/anarcho/etc activism. My city has a lot of organized and personal activism stuff going on. I've gotten a lot more involved this year but I'd like to become even more active.

- GET WORK ON REAL MAN CALENDAR. This year I was involved in organizing and getting a grant for a 12 page full colour calendar focusing on the various forms of queer masculinities, ranging from cis-gendered straight men, to transmen, to genderqueer folks, etc. I was really excited about this but between scheduling and the fact we only got confirmation a month before the new year we had no time. But I want to get this out for next year as a fundraiser for TRANSaction.

- Make zines. Namely start more work on enthusiastic consent and gender zines. Start zine on my experience with an ED. Release last years unfinished things. Seriously this one.

- Sleep with less dinks. I need sex. Like, absolutely. I have probably slept with an odd 20ish people this year. To a point where when I go too long I make bad decisions on who to sleep with. This year I want to only sleep with people who a: deserve it b: will make me feel good c: don't make me feel panicked and disoriented.

- Have orgasms. This might seem trite and usual for folks but in relation to mental health issues this is a thing I am learning to do.

- find partner to practice this with. I really need a supportive sexual partner to try to get through some things so. Also would probably solve problem of sleeping with people I don't know 100%

-lose weight in a healthy way. Don't give in to old habits. Eat healthier.

- be a good student. Don't flunk out. Work hard. Become better. Make art.

- Be a better daughter and sister. On top of my step dad's cancer my mom is going through tests for a condition she has had her whole life that could be quite serious now. With my sister on the west coast, I really want to make sure my family stays close because I love them and need to stop being a selfish jerk.

I feel really good about this year, like, really really good. I have always had tragic and/or terrible new years eves and I had a wonderful one this year because I feel like more and more I am finding a place in the world and figuring out who I am, so I feel like I can really change some major bad habits. Awful New Years Evee Curse: Broken. Now just gotta get the rest of 'em.

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