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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3300 on: 11 Oct 2012, 08:29 »

Sort of, but not exactly.

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Bain & Co. is an entirely separate entity from Bain Capital. Bain Capital is a private investment firm specializing in private equity (PE), public equity, leveraged debt asset, venture capital, and absolute return investments. Bain Capital does not provide management consulting services to its clients.

Bain Capital was founded in 1984 by several former Bain & Co. partners that included Mitt Romney (later to become the 70th Governor of Massachusetts and candidate for President of the United States), T. Coleman Andrews III, and Eric Kriss. On account of these shared roots, Bain & Co. still maintains a strong institutional relationship with Bain Capital. Many current Bain Capital managing directors and professional staffers began their business careers at Bain & Co.


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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3301 on: 11 Oct 2012, 08:58 »

I had never heard of it before, and I don't really care that it's historically connected with Mitt Romney. The more I read about the company, the more I don't want to work as a management consultant though. I think I'll be a foster carer instead.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3302 on: 11 Oct 2012, 09:16 »

My father was a management consultant for many years.  As I understand it, it's a lot like the work of efficiency expert Frank Gilbreth (the father in the original "Cheaper by the Dozen") as applied to management. 

Many companies, as they grow, have legacy management behaviours that are inefficient, to put it mildly.  A managerial consultant looks at these from the outside, points out what isn't working, and finds a better, more efficient (and often money-saving) way.  They're often responsible for management restructurings at a company that results in a "leaner" team (i.e. cutting management jobs). 

One of my favorite examples of my father's was the Mississippi barge company.  They used a roster of where the tugs needed to be and when, but if anything was running late (and it usually was), tugs would sit idle for days at a time waiting for barges.  My father rode with several of them, getting a feel for the process. 

His solution?  Call ahead.  He had all the tugs fitted with special radiophones (this was the early 70's, new technology!) and a dispatch system so that if a set of barges was running behind, the waiting tug could be freed up to go back to port and take a different load, and a later tug could meet the late barges.  Downtime was cut by huge amounts, and the amount shipped went way up.  Efficiency! 

He got the idea when he was jumping off a tug at a lock to call home one evening.  It was a regular ritual, and he could only talk until the tug was getting ready to leave the lock so he could hop back on... "why the hell can't there be phones on the tugs?"

So sometimes it was actual process efficiency, but a lot of the time it was just streamlining the management process.  Some companies liked what he did so much they hired him away from the consulting company - this happened three times, and each time he turned the company around to the point where they were bought out by a competitor... and he'd be out of a job in the reorganization, and go back to consulting. 

So if you're a killer at analysing, and you like coming into a new environment and shaking things up to improve them, it can be an amazing job.  Lots of travel, too.  Dad always arranged to be home weekends, though.  Many of the consultants didn't - just lived out of a company-provided hotel room for weeks at a time, until a job was done. 

Anyway, hope that helps a little! 

Edit:  I see you've already decided...  yeah, it's not the life for everyone. 
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3303 on: 11 Oct 2012, 11:31 »

Zing, don't trouble trouble til trouble troubles you. No point trying to work out what you'd do if you failed until you know you have.

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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3304 on: 12 Oct 2012, 02:04 »

I played a show tonight. I reminded myself how much of a slut I am. I also remembered how amazing it feels to play through a nice sound system with good monitors. I then smoked weed in public.

PS FUCK YEAH GIANTS!  :-D too bad about Oakland though :\
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3305 on: 12 Oct 2012, 09:51 »

I reminded myself how much of a slut I am.


I'm dying to ask how you did that...  partly because I think you're pretty hard on yourself about it. 
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3306 on: 12 Oct 2012, 10:10 »

Good luck with that...


"Hey, that's not how my old techer did it!"   :roll:
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3307 on: 12 Oct 2012, 11:35 »

Welp, I had the phone interview. Now it's a waiting game, followed by deciding whether I actually want it if I get it.

The coworkers sounded/seemed pretty cool.

My boyfriend lives here, and he's super-cool. We're going to a Food Truck Rally tonight.

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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3308 on: 12 Oct 2012, 12:33 »

One of my closest friend's girlfriend died yesterday morning. I don't know the details but it seems very sudden. I'm completely in shock. I only met her once for a couple of minutes but she was really lovely.

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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3309 on: 12 Oct 2012, 13:28 »

I reminded myself how much of a slut I am.


I'm dying to ask how you did that...  partly because I think you're pretty hard on yourself about it.

Oh, just the 'taking advantage of songs I didn't write in order to get laid or at least get attention'
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3310 on: 12 Oct 2012, 17:35 »

Exchange between me and my mom after I told her me and Michael's ideas for wedding location:

Mom - You are wearing a wedding dress.
me - Yeah, I'm wearing a wedding dress.
Mom - No, like you ARE wearing a wedding dress. A white one.
me - Well, not white, but yeah.
Mom - White, off white, whatever, but you are wearing a wedding dress.

It is important to note that because of her tone, those sounded like commands. Not questions, not statements, commands. Not that I was planning on getting married in anything other than a wedding dress, but ok. I don't think I've ever said otherwise? But regardless. Moms.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3311 on: 12 Oct 2012, 19:43 »

You should have said, "No", and when she asked what you are planning on wearing, tell her "nothing - we're having a nude wedding". 

The fits, they would be epic. 




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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3312 on: 12 Oct 2012, 19:50 »

Moms indeed. Their efforts to control have led to more than a few elopements.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3313 on: 12 Oct 2012, 20:48 »

Granted I am her only child, so I think that is part of it. But if she tries to control anything...she's probably going to get shot down if it's not something I already want.
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« Reply #3314 on: 13 Oct 2012, 01:03 »

My mother-in-law tried to insist on us having a cake for the wedding (in addition to the brownie pyramid we had planned) because I guess "it's a wedding, and people will expect cake". Fortunately, the brownies were a huge hit.

News from my own life: Almost done with this deployment, finally. I can count the weeks I have left on one hand! I can't wait to see my cat.

It's looking like I'll have to wait to get home to finish up my citizenship process though, which is mucking up re-enlisting.
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« Reply #3315 on: 13 Oct 2012, 08:19 »

Wait, re-enlistng has stronger criteria than enlisting in the first place? 

"Allright, just this once.  We'll check later.  But if we find out you're not really a citizen, we won't let you back in!"

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One of the online jobs is "paying off" - I start the three weeks of unpaid training on the 22nd.  It's part time, and when I finally teach, pay is by the student rather than per course or credit hour (which is weird).  I still need something "real" for insurance.  Or something that pays really well so I can buy insurance. 

Any of you guys familiar with American Public University?  I think they do a lot of work with the military. 
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3316 on: 13 Oct 2012, 11:33 »

Re-enlisting is actually really complicated. I'm trying to switch my occupation within the military to one that requires citizenship, mostly for security clearance. Good news, though! Immigration finally got a date for the overseas swear-in ceremony. I'll be 'Murrikan by the beginning of next month.

I've heard of APU, but haven't looked into them. I'm taking my college courses through Central Texas College.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3317 on: 13 Oct 2012, 17:07 »

Exchange between me and my mom after I told her me and Michael's ideas for wedding location:

Mom - You are wearing a wedding dress.
me - Yeah, I'm wearing a wedding dress.
Mom - No, like you ARE wearing a wedding dress. A white one.
me - Well, not white, but yeah.
Mom - White, off white, whatever, but you are wearing a wedding dress.

It is important to note that because of her tone, those sounded like commands. Not questions, not statements, commands. Not that I was planning on getting married in anything other than a wedding dress, but ok. I don't think I've ever said otherwise? But regardless. Moms.

Urgh. Sounds like my mom and the Minister thing. She even went so far once to tell me that her minister "told us that he supports gay people getting married" because she thought that would sway my decision. Y'know, because he's a minister, but he's "cool". That's lovely for him, but does not change the fact that we are NOT having a religious ceremony.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3318 on: 13 Oct 2012, 18:13 »

Yeah, she was a little surprised when I mentioned we might not get married in a church. Which is odd considering she's not religious and we aren't particularly religious. I mean, we might have a minister marry us (there's two we're friends with), but I don't think either of us want a religious ceremony. We might just get a friend ordained and do it that way, who knows!
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3319 on: 13 Oct 2012, 18:58 »

I think it doesn't even really stem from being religious, it's probably more just a cultural thing.  A lot of people get married in Churches, so other people just assume that's the way it's done.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3320 on: 13 Oct 2012, 19:26 »

I got married in a church, just one that had been un holy-ed.  I didn't want to get married outside or under florescent lights. this chapel was part of a boarding school, and then it went under and became apartments so the lovely marble chapel was rented out for weddings.  Otherwise I maybe would have done at an art gallery or summat.

edit: also I didn't have that date tonight cause she was sick. :(  hopefully she gets well soon.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3321 on: 13 Oct 2012, 19:51 »

We did ours at a performing arts center, with the ceremony in the theater with set seating and the reception in the dance studio. We had a minister do the traditional Methodist ceremony - my husband's family's thing, not mine.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3322 on: 13 Oct 2012, 19:55 »

I would LOVE to get married at the art museum, but, uh, that's stupid expensive. We're thinking Mecklenburg Gardens (ceremony in the gardens, reception in the banquet haus), but we're not sure if it's big enough. We need to make a tenative guest list first, I think, to figure out how much space we'd need.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3323 on: 14 Oct 2012, 03:17 »

I ran into a bad memory at the bar tonight, and after butting into my conversation with a close friend, said friend and I humored her for a bit (barely; I blew off just about every question she asked me with a "whatever, why do you care about that?") and then left the table. For the next 2 hours I had to put up with her following me around the bar trying to talk to me, saying how she's moving 1000+ miles away for grad school soon (thanks for telling me that I will never run into you, actually, that's actually pretty comforting) and saying that she misses our friendship. I don't, and I told her so straight up.

You don't just treat a person like shit and abandon them during one of the roughest patches in their life, then come up and make like no apologies are necessary and try to pick up where your friendship died. It wasn't just 'left off', it is outright dead, and I explicitly do not care to see it revived. Go to school and do whatever it is that you're going to do with your life, and don't tell me about it, and I won't tell you what I'm doing with mine, and leave it at that so I don't hurt your feelings with honesty.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3324 on: 14 Oct 2012, 05:59 »

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« Reply #3325 on: 14 Oct 2012, 10:44 »

I know it doesn't really sound all that important, but I just cleared out my friends list on facebook.
There was some really old shit on there. Plus me and my life is changing too fast for me to worry about the past and the meaningless memories associated with it. I'm dumping all the junk from my past and moving on.
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« Reply #3326 on: 14 Oct 2012, 13:26 »

A girl I have never in my life spoken to and only know very slightly by sight and have not seen in five years keeps trying to add me on Facebook. I keep rejecting the request, because I only add people who I actually know and can imagine myself having even a five second conversation with if I saw them in the street. She doesn't meet that threshold. I feel like it'd be unkind to actually block her, but I am not going to add her - I'd just end up removing her again a few weeks later in a cull of people I no longer talk to.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3327 on: 15 Oct 2012, 02:12 »

Today was Troubador practice day, and we had a great session and tightened up a new song that we knew would be kick-ass once we tightened it up. Very proud of what we accomplished today and I can't wait to play the new jam at our next show.

I have nothing new to say about Bad Memory Girl except that we're not mad at each other and that I don't ever have to hear from her again. We discussed it, I laid out my point of view in a polite and articulate way, and now we've reached the conclusion that we are both just unlikely to forgive each other, and that doing so wouldn't exactly accomplish much anyway except maybe give us a point of closure made moot by her upcoming move a long ways away.

Today was awesome and now I'm probably going to fall asleep playing singleplayer Minecraft.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3328 on: 15 Oct 2012, 05:51 »

A girl I have never in my life spoken to and only know very slightly by sight and have not seen in five years keeps trying to add me on Facebook. I keep rejecting the request, because I only add people who I actually know and can imagine myself having even a five second conversation with if I saw them in the street. She doesn't meet that threshold. I feel like it'd be unkind to actually block her, but I am not going to add her - I'd just end up removing her again a few weeks later in a cull of people I no longer talk to.

Does she have a really large number of friends? I know people who add everyone who comes up into their Recommended list and I've had people I've rejected show up in that list multiple times. I would advise just ignoring rather than rejecting to leave the request in limbo so she can't send another.

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« Reply #3329 on: 15 Oct 2012, 05:58 »

It's the middle of October...
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« Reply #3330 on: 15 Oct 2012, 06:30 »

Welu, I hate unresolved friend requests!  :roll: I know that's silly. If she tries again I'll just actually block her from requesting - if you say you don't know them outside facebook then they can't request again and it looks like it's just pending.

I have successfully organised a weekend at my mum's next month! We have the day off from choir, and I managed to plan a journey which gave me a reasonable amount of time there but didn't cost a fortune. It involves missing two lectures on Monday, but I can just get the handouts and work through them on the train. It'll be nice to have time to get away (it's during the week everyone says is the worst during the term, week five of eight) and I haven't seen much of my mum this year. I'm glad it's sorted.

My Saturdays are almost all planned to have something interesting in them every week until Christmas. Yay for weekends! I don't really have time to take the weekend off from studying, but I'm doing it anyway.
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3331 on: 15 Oct 2012, 10:07 »

I would LOVE to get married at the art museum, but, uh, that's stupid expensive. We're thinking Mecklenburg Gardens (ceremony in the gardens, reception in the banquet haus), but we're not sure if it's big enough. We need to make a tenative guest list first, I think, to figure out how much space we'd need.

What? You aren't getting married at GenCon?  :psyduck:
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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3332 on: 15 Oct 2012, 15:09 »

My old tutor got married at a music festival. Her friends told her she had to wear a white dress. At a very wet and cold outdoor festival.

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Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
« Reply #3333 on: 15 Oct 2012, 18:20 »

What? You aren't getting married at GenCon?  :psyduck:

....Can you do that?
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« Reply #3334 on: 15 Oct 2012, 19:21 »

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« Reply #3335 on: 16 Oct 2012, 05:30 »

What? You aren't getting married at GenCon?  :psyduck:

....Can you do that?
Don't see why you wouldn't be able to.
A quick google search turned up this from some people who got married there.
http://www.myth-weavers.com/showthread.php?t=40274
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« Reply #3336 on: 16 Oct 2012, 13:33 »

That Mecklenburg Gardens place looks awesome. Is there an outdoors auxiliary option if the banquet haus is too small? GenCon won't be too small, but it might be nightmarish to try to get hotel rooms. You'd have to require your guests to get badges in January in order to reserve rooms... Maybe you should HONEYMOON at GenCon. :D
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« Reply #3337 on: 16 Oct 2012, 14:25 »

We're probably going to GenCon anyways! But I don't want to make people go to Indy on one of the most crowded weekends ever, especially since all of Michael's family will be coming from out of town and all of my family is in Cincy.

Mecklenburg's is just a special place for us... We're just not sure how large or small of a wedding we want yet. I think we're going to be making a guest list before we decide anything, but even if we can't have the wedding there, we might have them cater. We'll see!
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« Reply #3338 on: 16 Oct 2012, 20:44 »

I do jewelry and beading, especially with sterling silver, freshwater pearls, and Swarovski crystal. I actually did the jewelry for most of my friend's bridal party, including the bride and her mother. Some examples, though the photos kinda suck:







The orange pearls in the last one were actually more of a pink, but the camera did funny things to it. That last one, in another variation, was done entirely in silver and Swarovski crystals for the bride, and was absolutely gorgeous! It was also one that my friend found online that I wads able to imitate and customize to her liking. As long as it doesn't require seed beads, or doesn't have casted settings, I can usually do it, and I even do chainmail as well. It's also often much cheaper than finding it pre-assembled, and with the benefit of having pretty much full control over materials and colors! If you want, I'm up for doing some for you. I pretty much charge the material costs, plus a bit of labor on top  :-)
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« Reply #3339 on: 16 Oct 2012, 20:50 »

Oh wow, thank you! I will definitely keep you in mind when I start thinking about jewelry/bridal party gifts. :-) I really like the last one, btw, I'm a sucker for pearls.
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« Reply #3340 on: 16 Oct 2012, 20:56 »

Stephen and I just sat down like mature adults and created a monthly budget for ourselves.  We used mint.com.  This is the first time in our 7+ years of sharing income that we have ever done this in a real detailed way.  Previous budgets were bills only and derailed when we were spending too much money shopping.  This is bills plus clothing, entertainment and discretionary spending for each of us... everything we could think of that we spend money on.  We will need a few months to make sure our estimate are accurate but I think this will help us live on our sporadic income better and also prepare us to make a realistic budget when I (hopefully) find a job next summer and start paying off loans.  I am hoping this will help us not ramp up our spending to match our new income as frequently happens, but instead pay off the loans quicker.

Mint will pull info from your accounts to check balances and notify you of upcoming payments and you can look at everything on one screen.  It also gives you your "net worth".  That is truly depressing for us.  Because of my student loans, we are worth $-111,000.  uggh.  It is going to be good to be able to see that number change as we pay it off though. 
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« Reply #3341 on: 16 Oct 2012, 21:00 »

Take a look at eebacanhelp.com if you have smartphones, too. It really helped me stick to my budget, which I had trouble doing with mint, mainly because my bank didn't want to party with mint...Stupid my bank!
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« Reply #3342 on: 16 Oct 2012, 21:04 »

Oh wow, thank you! I will definitely keep you in mind when I start thinking about jewelry/bridal party gifts. :-) I really like the last one, btw, I'm a sucker for pearls.

Haha, me too, though admittedly not until I actually started working with them. I have quite a few stocked up, too, so I might not even need to purchase additional. Keep an eye out for styles of necklaces you like, and send me links to them - I can tell you whether it's something I can do or not  :-)
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« Reply #3343 on: 16 Oct 2012, 21:08 »

Take a look at eebacanhelp.com if you have smartphones, too. It really helped me stick to my budget, which I had trouble doing with mint, mainly because my bank didn't want to party with mint...Stupid my bank!

We'll check it out.  our current bank is Mint compatable as are our credit cards and my student loans. Also mint has an app for Android and Ios now.
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« Reply #3344 on: 16 Oct 2012, 21:15 »

Michael uses mint and seems to like it. I think his only complaint was it didn't link up with his stocks, but that doesn't seem to be much of a problem for him anyways.
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« Reply #3345 on: 17 Oct 2012, 00:37 »

...I don't want to make people go to Indy on one of the most crowded weekends ever...

Saturday, May 24th, 1986; Laura and I got married in West Lafayette, IN, roughly an hour north of Indy. 

It wasn't until we tried getting hotel rooms for her family from St. Louis and my family from Buffalo that we realized Sunday, May 25th was the Indy 500.  Every room within a hundred miles of Indianapolis was booked for that weekend roughly a year ahead of time...

We found a place, but it was close! 
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« Reply #3346 on: 17 Oct 2012, 05:05 »


Oh my gosh I love this one.

Also is that just someone's knee covered with blue micro suede?
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« Reply #3347 on: 17 Oct 2012, 06:23 »

That Mecklenburg Gardens place looks awesome. Is there an outdoors auxiliary option if the banquet haus is too small? GenCon won't be too small, but it might be nightmarish to try to get hotel rooms. You'd have to require your guests to get badges in January in order to reserve rooms... Maybe you should HONEYMOON at GenCon. :D

This is a much better idea. I was just trying to make it so that I could be reasonably sure I would be at the wedding.  :-D
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« Reply #3348 on: 17 Oct 2012, 11:14 »


Oh my gosh I love this one.

Also is that just someone's knee covered with blue micro suede?

Yes, actually! It would be my own knee, since I didn't have a decent area to take pictures at  :psyduck:
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« Reply #3349 on: 18 Oct 2012, 07:36 »

Ha! OE, that is brilliant. Beautiful work, by the way!


Stephen and I just sat down like mature adults and created a monthly budget for ourselves.  We used mint.com.

Good for you!! I used mint for a while when I was trying to get my out-of-control spending under control. It really helped me see where I was wasting money without even realizing it. It was kind of horrifying to see months where I'd spend upwards of $100 just on going out to lunch while I was at work. I've brought lunch almost every day since then- maybe going out once or twice a month. I know it can be stressful to see the net worth thing, mine is still wayyyyyy in the negative too. I don't use it as much nowadays but that's mainly because it was so helpful to see back then what was happening and I eventually opened my eyes to the big money wasters. I especially liked the goal setting option- it helped me pay off 3 credit cards. Another nice financial/grownuppy site that I love? Creditkarma.com. My credit score was in the toilet from those stupid cards and it's gone up over 100 points since I started monitoring it!
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