She smiled. Are you happy now???
I think people were over analyzing the not smiling thing.
But a smiling Claire does make me happy.
Me too. On both counts.
I think what the nay-sayers underestimate about this relationship is how comfortable these two are with each other. Anxiety about stuff can be a problem, but what really kills it is bottling it up, or talking about it only with someone other than the person it's related to. As much as Claire is over worrying, she's basically just laid out her issue to the person in question. "I'll do something stupid" implies, "And then you'll reject me."
"Don't invoke Hitler, or attack my gonads and we'll be okay" is a humorous way of saying, "I'm not going to bail because you fail to be perfect."
Someone pointed out, during
Claire X Marten: The Squeeeining--just after Second Pancakes, that these two are pretty hardcore about consent. I don't think that's a conscious on their part. They are hardcore about communication. I'm not sure that's conscious either but, as long as it lasts, they are going to get along fine.