OK, small precaution here:
Zombiedude, I'm sure what Near Lurker just posted was about Katy Perry, and
not about your mom.
I'm not certain this is really useful, but you never know, misunderstandings can start pretty fast.
(Should I just start putting disclaimers on any posts I make where I'm not being entirely serious (i.e. pretty much all my posts) ?)
Not meaning to sound abrasive, but that particular attempt at joking was a bit... flawed. This kind of joke can be too easily related to a category of discriminatory clichés that are better left to history. Yes, I know you didn't mean it that way, but you should try a less tired form of jokes. And I'm pretty sure ackronnick's answer was just a "take things at face value" kind of sarcasm, most likely meant to convey something along the line of what I just said.