Stop bursting into tears when customers are rude to me.
Oh man. Why are so many people dicks when it comes to retail? Unfortunately, you will get used to it. The vast majority of the jerks are people who know they're doing something wrong, it's just them being defensive. Not two weeks ago this lady with gray hair was trying to rent movies on this account for a 22 year old woman. This was not the right person so I asked to see her ID and she said the worst excuse ever "No, I have my sister's ID but not my own WHY" and she was getting increasingly rude so I was finally like "WELL YOU SEE HER MOTHER IN LAW KEEPS TRYING TO RENT ON THIS ACCOUNT." She eventually grabbed my computer -twice- to twist it toward her so I said I'm not renting to you no matter what now, so you need to leave. I wasn't going to rent to her anyway considering that I guess would be a form of identity theft to us also she had her own account where she was banned from the store for being a jerky mcasshole. I told my boss about all the "fuck you!" and "fuck this store!" and how it's "just me and that other lady [the manager is the other lady, I've been there three years] who give her fucking problems". Now I have permission to call the police if she ever steps foot into my store again! So yay!
So really that was kind of bloggy, but my point is that maybe like me you'll eventually learn to enjoy it when someone is a dickface to you, especially when it bites them in the ass. It also helps that we have a "stupid customer stories" account so we can vent.
My goal is to not get irrationally angry at the boy.
Watch as many new releases as I can so I'm not all "NURR I DUNNO" when a customer asks me about it
Cook real food sometimes
do my laundry more than once a month