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Weirdest Ending of A Relationship?
calenlass:
The weirdest break up I ever had was also the worst, and also the only one wherein I got dumped, as opposed to doing the dumping myself. Things were going along fine (I thought) and then suddenly I didn't hear from the guy for a couple of days and then out of the blue he called me and said, "yeah, this isn't working" and that was that. I never did get a reason for it, either.
Edit: Also I would like to argue about the word selfish and its supposed negative connotations. I am selfish. I serve myself first. If I didn't, that would be kind of silly, right? Our biological imperatives are to survive and to propagate the species, and you can't have the latter without the former, and you can't be surviving unless you give yourself the attention and resources to do so. I definitely put my needs before other people's, although I have learned to do some prioritising (like if a person I care about is bleeding out of their eyes, chances are I will be willing to take them to the hospital before going to make myself a sandwich if I am hungry). Other people are resources: the provide information, or the feed me, or they give me sex, or they make me happy.
Self-centeredness is a lot of the same thing, except it is where you think of yourself and your needs to the exclusion of all else. I think this is what people think of when they think "selfish", because they are really quite close synonyms. I would say that selfishness is not nearly as bad as self-centeredness, though, even if it is my opinion.
CarrionMan:
I tend to think that cynicism means that all actions have severely selfish ulterior motives that can or will hurt others. Or that's the case with me.
I've had friends that are girls freak out on me for no reasons, some for good reasons, some for semi-good reasons. Nothing worth noting.
fatty:
life is the longest fucking thing i ever agreed to.
And even then, it's not like I was really given a choice.
jhocking:
--- Quote from: est on 19 Nov 2008, 19:09 ---I went out with a girl in High School and didn't know what I was supposed to do with her because I was ridiculously naive about girls.
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That about sums up my early dealings with girls.
--- Quote from: Jimmy the Squid on 19 Nov 2008, 19:41 ---comic
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ah man, your little comic reminded me of a comic I drew about me being an asshole to a girl, but I can't find mine anymore.
öde:
--- Quote from: Ptommydski on 19 Nov 2008, 16:25 ---You exist for a fraction of time and you make ultimately no impact on anything.
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I don't think you believe this, given how much time you spend telling people to try and be decent to each other and such. Also, you do make a difference, and even if you didn't it still doesn't excuse acting like you don't.
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