Honestly though, this is the most depressing thread on the internet.
A bunch of maladjusted forum nerds trying to figure out why they are having trouble with girls(or boys!) by complaining about their poor social skills in a setting that is only going to serve to further retard the development of those social skills. Find a person, or persons!, you like, ask them out, be a relatively normal person, get laid.
Josef, trying to like people is a terrible idea. Hang out with people, let an attraction develop, or not!, and go from there. Forcing it is like, the dumbest thing.
Don't be dumb.