Dear Blog thread,
I have decided that I would very much like to go to college, however there is a slight problem. Please don't tell me I am stupid for this, but basically, I don't want to leave my boyfriend behind, and because of that I don't know what to do.
I know it sounds silly, but hear me out. I love this dude. I actually am pretty madly in love sing about it in the streets tell strangers shout it from the rooftops in love. And he feels the same. We've been living together for the last six months. I'm on his inssurance. We buy groceries together, we cook together, we do chores together. We are like an old settled in married couple already. His family loves me, and I love his family. I'm spending this Christmas with them. He is the one who has been encouraging me to go to college. Basically, what I'm getting at is I actually 100% love this guy, and want to spend the rest of my life with him.
There aren't any schools around here that I am interested in at all. And he has a good job(a really good job. As in, he highly enjoys it, his coworkers love him, his boss loves him, his boss regularly asks his opinion on work related leadership-y type stuff, he makes good money, he is working to cure cancer), and his family is around here, and we have this apartment, and cats and a dog, and so much here, that basically, I'd feel bad if he left it all behind to go to wherever with me. I don't want to leave him, and he doesn't want to leave me.
Is it completely unreasonable for him to come with me? Is there any chance of things not going horribly arwy if I move away for four years? What should we do?