Have you considered knitting blogs? They are technically DIY fashion, but all of your blogs are about sewing. (Some are really cool, btw, and I bookmarked a few.) I don't know if you think that's "too crafty", but I don't see why they would be if their focus is clothing. Sadly I don't have many bookmarks since I switched laptops, but check out sites like
Knitty and
Ravelry and browse the patterns and links to find bloggers. (You need an invite for ravelry, so I'll send you one if you're interested, just PM me.) I can dig up more if you'd like. The only actual blog I have bookmarked is
Brooklyn Tweed.
And as far as I know, most of the blogs I remember were written by women, but I know there are men on Knitty and Ravelry, you just have to find them.