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Title: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 22 Jan 2013, 09:03
The old blog thread (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,24421.msg1126438.html#msg1126438) has got scarily long, and I've decided I'll be more comfortable retiring it in favour of this nice new one.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 22 Jan 2013, 09:32
It's so shiny and new!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 22 Jan 2013, 09:44
We do all like blogging!

Dear blog: today I got into work very late but my boss is being super nice about it. Also I'm dressed all pretty, with my favorite cardigan.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Jan 2013, 09:47
Dear blog thread,

I'm listening to Barbie Girl (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZyhrYis509A&feature=share&list=PLxG968y8ieDJBWA0nEyEL_h_WoSfDiDcP) for the fourth time this week.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 22 Jan 2013, 09:49
I heartily approve.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 22 Jan 2013, 09:50
Gonna copy my post from the last thread because it's essential all the QC forum world see it, obviously.  :mrgreen:

I found some of my old writings, including fanfics and they're not as terrible as I thought they were. My newer old writing had levelled up from sucking. Maybe in a few years I'll think what I'm currently writing is okay.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 22 Jan 2013, 12:58
Jace proposes petition to change original thread title to Blog Thread IV: Live Free or Blog Hard.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 22 Jan 2013, 13:18
I second that! Though I'd perhaps replace "or" with "and".
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 22 Jan 2013, 13:27
I am in a bad mood.

However as this is a blog thread, I have the following blogs:
www.geneticallymodifiedhughes.wordpress.com - I blog, infrequently, about books - Genetically Modified Hughes
www.madcap156.wordpress.com - my much more successful music blog, Do They Have To Use Drums?
www.pronomo.co.uk - Project: Northern Monkey, a Manchester based culture website which is about equally as successful

If you only read one, read Do They Have To Use Drums? - I update it most and I'm pretty good at it, sometimes.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 22 Jan 2013, 13:28
I second that! Though I'd perhaps replace "or" with "and".

How about "and/or"?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 22 Jan 2013, 13:30
The old blog thread has got scarily long, and I've decided I'll be more comfortable retiring it in favour of this nice new one.
Was 255 or 256 a barrier?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 22 Jan 2013, 14:10
No; it was an arbitrary decision based on a groundless feeling of unease and not knowing how the forum code handles very long threads.  Many forums have a fixed thread length limit which they apply (probably with no more justification) - often at less than 1/5 of the length that thread had reached.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 22 Jan 2013, 14:28
Probably a good rule just to prevent long cluttered threads and to stop people like me who compulsively (attempt at least to) read every page of a thread before participating.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Jan 2013, 15:04
Jace proposes petition to change original thread title to Blog Thread IV: Live Free or Blog Hard.

that was my idea

just so everyone knows

jace
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jimor on 22 Jan 2013, 15:20
My music TV program (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLlDTHOX69o) debuts tonight (details on how you can watch in description), and tomorrow I'm shooting/directing another music video. Life is good.  :-)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: dr. nervioso on 22 Jan 2013, 15:48
So bad news: Today was terrible, I had two quizzes. It was bloody cold outside, so much so that it felt like I was being cut up by the wind. I was expecting to see bloody cuts on my hands whenever looked down at them. Add on top of that my partner for an activity in class reminding me that it was due today and we hadn't started on it really. Luckily I pulled it off.

Good News: I have only one class tomorrow at noon. And I have very little to do tonight. I might go to zumba
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 22 Jan 2013, 15:56
Jace proposes petition to change original thread title to Blog Thread IV: Live Free or Blog Hard.

that was my idea

just so everyone knows

jace

Oh yeah I didn't note that it was your idea, but I saw that you changed it and I was like thats a good idea.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 22 Jan 2013, 16:03
I'm researching record players for a story I'm writing.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: celticgeek on 22 Jan 2013, 17:30
Probably a good rule just to prevent long cluttered threads and to stop people like me who compulsively (attempt at least to) read every page of a thread before participating.

"...Must read all posts..."
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 22 Jan 2013, 19:08
I have a crush on every girl
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: K1dmor on 22 Jan 2013, 19:16
"I know that feel bro" .
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Bluesummers on 22 Jan 2013, 20:09
I was out of breath from walking the dog today. Because it's so FUCKING COLD.

Dog doesn't give a shit. The singularity could hit, and he'd still be walking.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 22 Jan 2013, 20:12
So wait, before I try to jump into this one, how does this thread work?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 22 Jan 2013, 20:20
We talk about our lives.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Jan 2013, 20:21
you blog

you do things or you don't do things or you wish you had done things or you think about doing things or you plan on doing things and go on tumblr instead and lose all your free time and wish you'd done something else instead

and then you talk about it
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Bluesummers on 22 Jan 2013, 20:21
It's a group blog thread. You talk about things. Things that happen to you. Things that you think about. It's...I dunno, I'm winging it. Someone help me out, I'm in over my head. *puts on swimmy arm floaties*
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Jan 2013, 20:24
I think I've covered the topic of things already but thanks for the effort señor wingman
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 22 Jan 2013, 20:25
Don't we do that in most of the other threads too? :x

Here goes though!

Pretty tired. Didn't get enough sleep (because I'm stubbornly dumb sometimes), and Tuesdays are my longest days. Kept trying to nod off during Microbiology lecture. >_<

Got done writing a little ramble/rant about Tsundere character behaviors, the pitfalls thereof, and how it fits together with my understanding of D/S-style relationships. Oh, and got to do some cleaning and prepwork for theoretical Exalted RPG I'm running tomorrow night. That'll be something approximating fun I hope.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Jan 2013, 20:34
I would actually really like to read that.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Bluesummers on 22 Jan 2013, 20:40
Hah...I am now known as Señor Wingman...awesome.  ;D


In other news...I'm kicking into a binge of anime soundtracks while I drive during work. It seems to be improving my mood; instead of trying to run people off the road when they cut me off, I just wave and smile. Seriously.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 22 Jan 2013, 20:41
Well I can copy/paste pretty easily. It's nothing grand by any means, just some thoughts running around in my head tonight.





So I've started attending the Ivy Tech Anime Club, as it were. Small thing with little official support, but it fits my schedule and gives me something to be socialable about while I'm stuck at campus anyway, even if truthfully anime isn't really something I make a point of seeking out.

So today, before I nicked off to my Microbiology lecture, we watched the first two episodes of a show named Toradora. I'm not going to describe it particularly; maybe you know it, maybe you don't, either way it's on Hulu if you want to go watch it.

Anyway I made a comment to the group, when we took a moment to discuss it between episodes, that I found the female lead character, Taiga, to be...I think I put it "...kind of irritating as hell, though I get the trope; you have to have somewhere to grow from." It's a pretty common thing in anime especially, though by no means exclusively. TVTropes has a pretty good rundown on how the kind of character I identify the female lead to be, a Tsundere, works. ( http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/Tsundere… ) If you aren't already familiar with the trope, you might want to take a quick glance.

Now one major problem that I do have with one of the ways Tsundere characters often behave, and the Taiga character definitely does, is that there's a tendency to somehow make abuse of their friend/potential romantic interest 'acceptable', or at least that's the impression I get from certain stories that dip into it.

This is a little troubling to me for the same reason that some have argued that stories such as Disney's 'Beauty and the Beast' is troubling: there is a difficult and hazy line between teaching that love and kindness can uplift and heal troubled souls, and teaching that it's perfectly fine to stay in a relationship with an abusive person because underneath it all they love you. We've all seen, I think, times when people (women especially it seems to me) stick with someone because they 'know they can change him', and we've seen how often that leads to misery and even, at times, death.

One reason why I am rambling about this here on FetLife, of all places, is because I think that most of us have an interesting and compelling insight into such matters that some of our more, let us say 'vanilla' associates may not. I mean come on, a whole lot of us are into the various expressions of Dominant/Submissive relationship dynamics and interplay, including what under many circumstances would be genuine, horrific abuse. But for the majority of us there is an extremely important factor that changes the nature of the entire game from maliciously and selfishly predatory to an expression of romance, love, friendship and joy: Respect, and Permission.

That's what really irks me about subjects like this. Because at the end of the day I don't see any particular or inherent problem with a relationship that involves name-calling, roughhousing, ordering about, hitting even...as long as the parties involved are capable and caring enough to fully discuss and agree on what the rules and methods of their game are.

For full disclosure's sake, I am probably in many cases far more submissive than dominant. I like being commanded, I like serving, I like following another's lead. But there is a bit of a list of conditions that have to be met before I will seriously consider giving another person very much power over me.

But many Tsunderes, including Taiga in Toradora, do not meet those conditions. Outright permission is not asked, outright consent is not given. There is affection, there is caring, but without those first factors it is hard for me to consider that there is respect.

And while I enjoy being a Respected and Loved 'Toy', I despise the idea of being just a Toy.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 22 Jan 2013, 20:43
@Blue: Happy happy joy joy-style soundtracks? Or just 'I'm zooming down Neon-night Tokyo highway, too cool for road rage' soundtracks? :3
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Jan 2013, 20:47
Good luck getting anyone to listen on fetlife. You'll more or less get ignored while 'WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A TRUE DOMINANT' or "submission (is/is not) a gift!" takes its place on k&p.

(I kind of hate fetlife but I still use it. same thing with facebook.)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 22 Jan 2013, 20:50
Heh. I'm not too concerned; it's a good crowd I run with, for the most part (well 'run' with maybe...still a noob), and truthfully the writing was fun enough. Wasn't really saying anything with it anyway. If someone looks at it, cool, if not that's fine too.

I have certainly seen a few uh...odd things on FL sometimes though, so I can sort of get what you're saying I think. Though what do you mean by K&P?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Jan 2013, 20:51
Kinky & Popular, which I always regret checking.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 22 Jan 2013, 20:54
Oh yeah, I always forget that's there. There's some cool stuff there sometimes! Though I admit not all of it piques my interest.

But hey, it doesn't have to.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Bluesummers on 22 Jan 2013, 21:06
Good luck getting anyone to listen on fetlife. You'll more or less get ignored while 'WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A TRUE DOMINANT' or "submission (is/is not) a gift!" takes its place on k&p.

(I kind of hate fetlife but I still use it. same thing with facebook.)

Lawlz. Yeah, fetlife is NOT the place for serious discussion on any serious subject. Hah.

@Blue: Happy happy joy joy-style soundtracks? Or just 'I'm zooming down Neon-night Tokyo highway, too cool for road rage' soundtracks? :3

Mostly the latter, but sometimes the happy stuff will pop up...like "Doki Doki Love Sugar"...God I love that song. It reminds me of that time I spent hours with my friends at an out-of-state arcade trying to win enough tickets from the DDR machine to buy a toaster. Long story.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 22 Jan 2013, 21:08
It was my older daughter's 23rd birthday today.  She recently got a promotion at work, which I think I mentioned in the older blog thread. 

My younger daughter (she's 19) decorated her cake...

(https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/s480x480/27278_10200402962147304_328779232_n.jpg)

It only took a couple of hours to do. 


I hope that shows up, it's off my wife's facebook feed. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 22 Jan 2013, 21:25
Aww, I hope it was a happy birthday!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 22 Jan 2013, 22:59
So wait, before I try to jump into this one, how does this thread work?

Think of it as a shared diary, or what used to be called a commonplace book.

You could read through the previous incarnation to get a handle on it, I guess ;)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Jan 2013, 00:15
Why is that cat so angry?!

A group of my friends from chapel and I are making a cake for another chapel girl's birthday, which is the day before mine. We're making a rhinocerous cake! At least, we're going to attempt to make a rhinocerous cake.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Pilchard123 on 23 Jan 2013, 00:26
Because it is Tard, grumpiest of all cats.

http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/grumpy-cat
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 23 Jan 2013, 00:41
edit - when I posted this, I got the following error message: "Wrong value type sent to the database. Array of integers expected. (quoteids)". Anyone seen this before?

The logs show me that this is caused by an error in the Tapatalk forum plugin; I'm hoping for a fix soon.  It doesn't appear to cause anything else to go wrong.  I haven't determined what triggers it, either.

I have just updated the Tapatalk plugin; I hope this bug is fixed (the release notes don't itemise the "various bugs" fixed).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: RedWolf4 on 23 Jan 2013, 03:04
Man, that is the best cat.

Not like my last cat, purring contentedly on it's mothers grave for three days after she got run over. . . .
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 23 Jan 2013, 04:02
I cut my hair.
Was going for shorter sides and back and I sort of ended up with a popular 1930s do.

(http://dl.dropbox.com/u/63857951/2013-01-23%2005.18.27.jpg)
(http://dl.dropbox.com/u/63857951/2013-01-23%2005.18.50.jpg)

Oh well.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ackblom12 on 23 Jan 2013, 05:28
Good luck getting anyone to listen on fetlife. You'll more or less get ignored while 'WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A TRUE DOMINANT' or "submission (is/is not) a gift!" takes its place on k&p.

(I kind of hate fetlife but I still use it. same thing with facebook.)

Dear lord yes. It's a great resource, but it's filled with an awful lot of terrible. It's like Reddit in the sense that if you wade through the terrible you can find great and non-terrible stuff, but I absolutely couldn't blame you for not wanting to bother in the first place.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: lepetitfromage on 23 Jan 2013, 07:46
Hello Blog Thread!

I have done lots of Things lately.

Planned a trip to NYC with friends on Saturday. One of them had never been to the Met (!!!!). Well, said friend sprained her ankle and bowed out of the trip. The rest of us decided to take the trip anyway and it was awesome. We started off at Mason Jar for brunch because I found a cheapo restaurant.com certificate. After all was said and done, we paid $7.50 each for delicious food and unlimited mimosas and blood marys. Plus, I tried chicken and waffles for the first time and omg nom nom nom they are delicious. We decided to wander around and ended up at the High Line (http://www.thehighline.org/about/high-line-history). I lived in New York for 4 years and had never even heard of it, so I was mesmerized the whole time. Both by the fact that I had never been there and that it was awesome. (I later found out the reason I never went there while I lived in the city was because it wasn't open to the public until after I moved upstate. Pretty good reason lol). We walked the whole length, then decided to head over to the Chelsea galleries instead of the Met. I was nervous that we might not see anything good or that a lot of the galleries would be closed from Sandy aftermath but they were all in good shape again. Well, we walk into the first gallery I see and find out that it is a freaking David LaChapelle exhibit. I was absolutely blown away that it was his work. I've never made it to any of his exhibits before and one of the friends that was with me (Megan) is just as obsessed with him as I am. I'm still kind of in awe. PLUS- it was the last day it was open to the public. We went into a few other galleries after that, saw some great stuff and got really inspired....it sounds crazy but I really felt like I was high on art. The gallery visits gave me the kick in the ass that I needed to get the creative juices flowing again.

Afterward, we met up with a family friend of Megan's and his girlfriend, who were both quite awesome. Proceeded to get wonderfully intoxicated, headed back to Grand Central and chatted on the ride home. It was great to get away and I got to spend some time bonding with Megan's old college roommate- she recently moved back after living in NYC as well but we've never really spent a lot of time together and I was always afraid she didn't like me. It was great to really have a chance to talk with her and we got along really well. Wouldn't be a big deal but Megan is my best friend/maid of honor and we're basically attached at the hip.


More fun things- booked 3 life drawing classes! I'll make almost $100- woo! Also started selling some crap on eBay. I'm determined to improve my financial situation this year...I have way too much stuff and not enough money. I'm tired of just squeaking by with what I have so it's time to get rid of some baggage and make some moolah.


Wedding is 4 months from this Friday- HOLY CRAP. Have gotten a lot done though. Secured a block of rooms for our wedding guests, booked our judge, picked out favors and photobooth background & scheduled my first dress fitting. Now we just have to order our rings,book a shuttle from hotel to venue and work on the stuff that I've been looking forward to. Centerpieces, stationery, veil and accessories, bridal party gifts. We're planning a sitdown with the venue person in March to pick linens, menu and cake.

Phew. I think that's it for now.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 23 Jan 2013, 08:03
What fun! All of it!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: valley_parade on 23 Jan 2013, 08:16
I cut my hair.
Was going for shorter sides and back and I sort of ended up with a popular 1930s do.

Last I knew, Jace, that haircut was somehow making its way back to relevance. There's a hairdresser on OSG who's said he's been doing a few of them recently.

Of course, he's in California, and California is weird.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Jan 2013, 08:17
Good luck getting anyone to listen on fetlife. You'll more or less get ignored while 'WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A TRUE DOMINANT' or "submission (is/is not) a gift!" takes its place on k&p.

(I kind of hate fetlife but I still use it. same thing with facebook.)

Dear lord yes. It's a great resource, but it's filled with an awful lot of terrible. It's like Reddit in the sense that if you wade through the terrible you can find great and non-terrible stuff, but I absolutely couldn't blame you for not wanting to bother in the first place.

Usually I don't read into much beyond the AB+ Fence Sitting Neopolitan Rainbow Unicorns group.

For some reason.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Jan 2013, 08:48
The High Line is gorgeous! I loved the High Line zoo. There's a nice little Italian restaurant a few streets away from the end of it (in the ... Meatpacking district? I don't remember) with painted walls.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 23 Jan 2013, 10:04
Re: the grumpy cat.

She is not grumpy; that's just how her face is shaped.

http://vimeo.com/54953791
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Black Sword on 23 Jan 2013, 10:38
So, since I can't be arsed to meet new people, I signed up for a matchmaking service. Call it the result of years of peer pressure. Anyway, signed up, paid up, got a little phone interview thing where they asked me all sorts of questions which I answered honestly, and they set up my first blind date here in this godforsaken city New York City. Incidentally, date's tonight, and the matchmakers assure me the girl will be cute and interesting. (funny fact, they admit that most everyone asks that their date be attractive, and they do their best to accommodate).

Back on topic, I'm not looking forward to it. I only work in NYC and live in NJ. I hate the city, I don't like fancy places because they're typically overpriced garbage, and I prefer to stick close to places that allow me to make my train back home relatively painlessly. So of course the date is in the Upper West Side instead of near Penn Station and some fancy joint. All of this has me in a cranky mood, since I'd rather go home and play video games.

Oh, well. Gonna whip out the PR smile and make a good impression, at least. -_-
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 23 Jan 2013, 10:43
BSword: I hope you have fun! I find dating kind of alien sometimes (then again I find people kind of alien sometimes), but generally pleasant.

Though with this weather I can sort of feel you on just wanting to stay in instead of having to deal with miserable transportation issues. Brrr!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Jan 2013, 12:00
Who chooses the date location? If it's the website, rather than the other person, then it might well be that both of you would prefer to relocate to somewhere else!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: lepetitfromage on 23 Jan 2013, 12:01
Black Sword- you'll still be on the west side though, so travel back shouldn't be too terrible. At least you won't have to go cross town! And- if they actually paired you up based on your answers, there's a chance that you'll have good company? If not......then you should request a refund.  :-P

The High Line is gorgeous! I loved the High Line zoo. There's a nice little Italian restaurant a few streets away from the end of it (in the ... Meatpacking district? I don't remember) with painted walls.

It really is! I want to go back and see it in the summer because they open everything up and you can picnic on the grass. :-) (They had everything roped off when I was there)

Sounds like the meatpacking district to me- that's on one end of the High Line, chelsea is on the other.





Also.....I love grumpy cat.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Black Sword on 23 Jan 2013, 13:27
Yeah, but my workplace is on the East Side, so I still have an annoying journey just to get there!

Oh, well. I'll report on it when it's done. I mean, over half the reason I did it was to have interesting stories to tell.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 23 Jan 2013, 13:42
Some guy I haven't seen in 2 years decided to start being an indiscriminate asshole to a bunch of mutual friends last night via Facebook, so I got involved and told him to stop being a dick to the people who are trying to help him with his problems. He turned his assholery onto me, started talking shit about my best friend and our mutual ex (we're all still really close) and then challenged me to a fight.

You don't do that on the week where I have to give up another of my closest friends to a country on the other side of the planet.

I can't wait til he throws one at me, I'm going to knock that little prick out.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Pilchard123 on 23 Jan 2013, 14:07
I can't help but think that would be a really bad idea...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Asterus on 23 Jan 2013, 14:39
Hah...I am now known as Señor Wingman...awesome.  ;D


In other news...I'm kicking into a binge of anime soundtracks while I drive during work. It seems to be improving my mood; instead of trying to run people off the road when they cut me off, I just wave and smile. Seriously.
^ This is the reason I always have the Clannad Soundtrack on every music device I own. The BGMs are there for an entirely different reason though (For when you just want to visualize yourself punching a bear.)

One thing that I've found to be extremely annoying is the fact that I'm unorganized. And easily distracted. I spent about 20 minutes during class today just flipping through my 9 notebooks just to find the one that had the poems/song lyrics that I was sure I had written at some point. It was getting to the point where I was worried about my sanity. (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2212)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 23 Jan 2013, 15:54
I can't help but think that would be a really bad idea...

He bitched out and went back home. Right back to the gutter he belongs in. Little suburban Juggalo turd thinks he's hard because he lives in Oakland now. Well, I've got news for him. Tirana is a far sight tougher than anything he's ever seen. He's threatening to teach me a lesson if he comes back and sees me. Okay buddy, sure you are.
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Post by: Welu on 23 Jan 2013, 16:47
A while back I ID'd a girl trying to get cigarettes and she said, "Don't you fucking start with me!!" and proceeded to yell abuse for a few minutes while I just ignored her and continued serving other people. She was in tonight and I debated ID'ing her to prove a point but I have learned she actually is eighteen also I was in a good mood and didn't want to fight.
I kind of want to lose the rep for "enjoying ID'ing people" I've earned among customers and coworkers. Coworkers actually have called me over because they knew I'd ID someone when they didn't want to do it. I don't enjoy it. I get yelled at when I do it. I just know getting yelled at is better than potentially getting fired and fined thousands of pounds.

Gonna apply for a one day a week office job. So is the partner. Being hopeful for both of us.

Also I might be getting a rabbit.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 23 Jan 2013, 21:13
I just know getting yelled at is better than potentially getting fired and fined thousands of pounds.

In Connecticut, the cops send in underage kids to try and buy cigs at gas stations, just to test the people working there. My wife worked one said shift, denied the kid any cigs, and a couple weeks later the cop came in and gave her a $100 check for following the law. It was pretty cool.
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Post by: Jimor on 23 Jan 2013, 22:13
In California, they take the pressure off the clerks by making it something like "if you look under forty" as the standard for asking under law.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 23 Jan 2013, 22:39
Same here in CT, but a lot of people just don't bother. When I'm clean-shaven I have a babyface, yet I normally don't get carded at gas stations, liquor stores, etc.

In fact, the only place where you'll ALWAYS get carded in CT, no matter how old you look, is at the casinos. They don't give a shit if you're 87 years old, they card EVERYBODY.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Jan 2013, 22:59
If I'm presenting male I'm usually carded. If I'm presenting female I'm never carded. I'm not sure why.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 23 Jan 2013, 23:39
Show a little leg to the bouncer at the club they'll let you cruise right in?

Or am I stuck in 50's terminology again? :psyduck:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Jan 2013, 00:05
I always IDed anyone who looked under 35, even if I knew they were over 18 - even if they were my best friend and I had been at their 18th birthday party. If someone in the queue behind them thought they didn't look old enough and complained to trading standards I'd have been in a lot of trouble. Also my town was full of schoolkids trying to buy cheap cider. In fact one girl was discovered to be using her older sister's ID and there was a big fuss.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 24 Jan 2013, 05:41
I still get ID'd and I just turned 27, but our liquor stores are run by the county so they are clean and bright and organized but also strict about IDs, so it's fine with me.

The older brother of a guy I went to high school with got a fake ID and tried to use it at the beer store. The owner recognized him - his sons were in my class and the guy's class - so the kid freaked out and ran away, leaving the ID behind. Which had his real name and home address on it.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Welu on 24 Jan 2013, 05:46
We get the secret shoppers sent in to buy cigarettes and scratchcards as well but no reward. Just a, "Keep it up." Although they send in young looking of-age people since it would be illegal for underage ones to have those things.

If I know a person is of age I don't care if they look young. I'll sell to them. I've sold to friends the week after they turned 18 and if someone says, "They look young." I just say I know how old they are. It might come across as discriminatory but it's all legal. I don't think it would be fair to get in trouble for doing as I'm told to do.
The issue is I actually do what we're meant to do, all we're told is if we're not sure, then ask. There's no official rule like, "If they look under 25." I take a personal rule of 21 but I'm a crap judge of age so I ID comparatively a lot. Even though it's maybe once a month at most.
I hate that people get so offended, regardless of being of age or not. Just be calm and say, "I don't have ID." I will apologise, say there's nothing I can do and then either get your ID or just go away. It also really annoys me that I've actually been called over to ID someone just because the other person didn't want to deal with the backlash.

I wish we just ID'd everyone, including friends and regulars, although as a person who doesn't shit bricks when carded because I almost always have some form of ID on me and if I don't I just accept them's the rules, I guess that's easy for me to say. That said, I almost never get asked for ID because of the tits.

Another mini-angry thing: The pubs are all filled with fifteen year old girls with padded bras. Get some bouncers that don't let people in based on cupsize despite the cup-holders being tiny and baby-faced.
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Post by: VonKleist on 24 Jan 2013, 06:06
Last week a selling lady mumbled something like "We´re over 16, are we?" at me with my two cans of cheap beer. I rumbled in my most gravelly voice that I was born in the beautiful year of 1986. She didn't want to see my ID :-)

The fines on selling to minors are pretty hefty (in Germany up to 10000€, or so I hear) so people should just deal with it.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 24 Jan 2013, 06:47
I worked at a Eckerd in Brooklyn a few years back and we were told to ID absolutely everyone. You're 80 years old? ID-ed. You've come here every week for the last 6 months to buy a pack of smokes? Sorry, need to have your ID. Didn't matter at all, which was kinda nice but I did feel like a jerk for turning away someone who was obviously old enough and just left thier ID at home. On the flipside......I don't know anyone personally that goes anywhere without an ID. Yeah, it sucks to lose it, some people can't afford one, etc., etc.....but if you can afford something you need to be IDed to buy, that whole "I can't afford one" thing doesn't fly with me. (Especially considering that a pack of cigarettes is the same price as NYS Non-driver IDs).

This was also around the time they passed a law stating that everyone had to be IDed for Sudafed (thanks to the Combat Methamphetamine Epidemic Act). We actually had to keep a log book as well to make sure that people weren't buying excessive quantities. I can't tell you how many people got pissy about me writing down their name and the product they bought that contained pseudoephedrine. It really sucked, especially when the person was obviously miserable in the first place and just wanted to go home and recuperate.
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Post by: nekowafer on 24 Jan 2013, 07:15
I know that law is in place here, but I also know people that have no problems whatsoever getting medicine with dextromethorphan, which apparently really fucks you up. And I really wish stores were more strict about that.

But anyway when I worked at Wal-Mart, we had to key in the customer's ID number, I believe... I rarely got anyone too upset when I carded them. And then at Hot Topic I only had to check IDs for certain movies, and I was very strict about that.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Jan 2013, 07:36
I think I've told you guys before about having to ID someone for vanilla extract - we were both in stitches at the idea of anyone drinking enough vanilla extract to get drunk, but it is 90% proof and I guess the computer which produces the little "Check Customer ID" box doesn't know how daft an idea that is.

I also once refused to sell a computer game certificated 18 to a man who was quite clearly buying it for his primary-school aged son. The kid came up to his dad in the queue and said "I want to get this" and handed over his pocket money. I felt really uncomfortable because it felt like I was making a personal judgement on that man's parenting (and let's be honest here: I was. No seven year old should be playing Grand Theft Auto or whatever it was), but it really was just that I knew it was illegal for me to sell it in the knowledge that it was being purchased on the behalf of a minor. That's the disadvantage of being a law student, I guess.

On the subject of being a law student, I've just written and am about to read over and submit an essay essentially informing my supervisor that I think his area of study is kind of pointless. It doesn't just say that, it's 1,400 words on the moral value of the rule of law, but that is the underlying theme.

Edit: make that 1,600. Just added some (probably now over the word limit, I can never remember what it is) to make it a bit more jurisprudency. I am unlikely to get a particularly great grade in this subject because the more I study it, the more I think philosophy is stupid, but I'm really enjoying grappling with and ultimately dismissing all the ideas! Quite proud of the essay, if only as an exercise is making an argument.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 24 Jan 2013, 07:39
$8 for a non-driver ID? wow...not bad. In CT it's about $25 or so, last I remembered.

Yah, sudafed laws are a little ridiculous...especially seeing as a pharmacy employee can make off with the entire stash...or a determined meth maker with enough financial backing can just go hijack the delivery truck. Or pull an Enfield Heist. (http://www.wtnh.com/dpp/news/crime/heist-of-up-to-$75-million-in-drugs#.UQFUhSHaKH8)
...It took federal authorities over two years to find the guys who did it. (http://articles.courant.com/2012-05-03/news/hc-enfield-eli-lilly-drugs-0504-20120503_1_warehouse-pharmaceuticals-freshwater-boulevard)
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Post by: Papersatan on 24 Jan 2013, 08:11
Re: vanilla extract

I made my own once with rum and vanilla beans.  I left it on the counter and bit by bit it started to go missing.  I think the contractor working on the bathroom was an alcoholic and was drinking it.  No one did any baking but me and everyone in the house knew it was vanilla, and knew where the real booze was.  I finally drew a line on the bottle with a sharpie and it stopped disappearing. 
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Post by: Welu on 24 Jan 2013, 08:48
I also once refused to sell a computer game certificated 18 to a man who was quite clearly buying it for his primary-school aged son.

I would do the same but really, if that was strictly adhered as it should be, game sales would drop like mad.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Jan 2013, 08:59
The thing is that if you don't know that the person is buying it for a child, you aren't breaking the law (unless you should have known - that was what I was concerned about in this instance: if trading standards were in the queue, they'd have seen that it was very obvious that I should have realised it was for the kid, even if I hadn't). So if the man had been there on his own, I'd have had no idea it was for his son and sold it to him without problem. It's the same with alcohol. Parents are perfectly free to buy alcohol and give it to their children if they're over five, as long as it's in their own home. But if a child came up with a bottle of gin and said "mummy I want this" I wouldn't be allowed to sell it.

Actually written out like that, it makes no sense at all. We have weird laws.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 24 Jan 2013, 12:42
re: people stealing alcohol

I did a play where we had a bottle of cheap-o vodka on hand for spraying all the trench coats and suit jackets that couldn't be washed after every performance. It started disappearing and we eventually found out that it was the arts center's janitor.
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Post by: pwhodges on 24 Jan 2013, 12:54
Oh look, a concert (http://www.carnegiehall.org/Calendar/2013/1/21/0730/PM/Nicolas-Hodges/) today.

Oh look, a review (http://www.nytimes.com/2013/01/24/arts/music/nicolas-hodges-pianist-at-zankel-hall.html?_r=0) as well.   :-D
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Jan 2013, 13:08
That's an excellent review! When you first posted about the concert I looked at the website hoping it might be in London and entertaining unrealistic ideas about going to it (I wouldn't be able to afford it even if I had time). Does he play in the UK often?
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Post by: Redball on 24 Jan 2013, 13:44
That's a great review! And I need to hear some of that music.
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Post by: LTK on 24 Jan 2013, 13:56
Funny story about selling tobacco to minors: When I was around eight years old - I think, I can't remember my actual age - my dad would send me to the cigar store to buy him a pack of tobacco, the lazy bum, every once in a while. From the beginning, I saw the sticker on the counter that said "Whatever your excuse is, no tobacco or alcohol under 16!" The clerk gave it to me without batting an eyelash. That went on for a few years, until one day the clerk told me I was too young to buy them. I don't know if it was a different clerk, or that he suddenly decided I looked old enough to be smoking it myself, or that he experienced a sudden moral epiphany, but my dad couldn't ask me to buy tobacco again.

I still have never smoked, by the way.
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Post by: Patrick on 24 Jan 2013, 14:15
The dude who wants to get his ass beat said that instead of a fair fight, he's just going to jump me the next time he sees me.

Fucking coward is gonna get it.
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Post by: Akima on 24 Jan 2013, 15:04
I always IDed anyone who looked under 35, even if I knew they were over 18 - even if they were my best friend and I had been at their 18th birthday party.
I don't know if it is the law, or just a booze-industry standard, but bottle-shops here have signs up saying in effect "ID required if you look under 25; take it as a compliment". I'm not sure why people get bent out of shape about this. If you don't have a driver's licence, you buy a Photo Card*, and keep it in your wallet alongside the money or credit-card you use to pay for the grog.

I am usually carded if I'm casually dressed. It's no big deal.

* Issued by the driver licensing authority and essentially an "undriver's licence". Yes, it costs A$48 for five years, but if you can't afford that, maybe you should think twice before buying non-essential items like alcohol and cigarettes? The card is free if you are on unemployment, disability, aged pension etc. anyway.
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Post by: pwhodges on 24 Jan 2013, 15:27
That's an excellent review! When you first posted about the concert I looked at the website hoping it might be in London and entertaining unrealistic ideas about going to it (I wouldn't be able to afford it even if I had time). Does he play in the UK often?

He played at King's Place, London a couple of weeks ago (I went); an all-Birtwistle concert that he largely arranged, to go with the opening of an exhibition of art by Adam Birtwistle, the composer's son. [BTW, yes it is Birtwistle with no "h" in.]

He's playing in Birmingham next month, I think - (Googles) yes, here we go (http://www.bcmg.org.uk/diary.php?showid=258).  That's an interesting one; I may try to go.

He usually plays in the BBC Proms, and often at the Huddersfield Contemporary Music Festival.  I guess he gets over to the UK 6-9 times a year, and to the USA 4-6 times a year (he has an O-1B visa).  He goes to Japan most years, and was in Australia last year.  His agent once got a bit overenthusiastic, so that he had a rehearsal in Norway the same day as a concert in Spain - that involved getting a private jet...

He's allowed to reschedule his teaching in Stuttgart as much as he likes, but he is required to fit it all in somehow.
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Post by: pwhodges on 24 Jan 2013, 15:40
That's a great review! And I need to hear some of that music.

I don't have a recording of the Birtwistle yet (he's recorded all of Birtwistle (http://www.nicolashodges.com/discography/solo-discs/birtwistle-the-axe-manual--.html)'s previous piano music, though); I've got him playing some Busoni in his mid-20s, and also several recordings of the Debussy from that time; I may slip you one or two that are good enough.  There is also a recording of the concerto that Carter (http://www.amazon.co.uk/Carter-Dialogues-Boston-Concerto-Cello/dp/B000C6NO6E) wrote him five years or so ago.

Some of you may not know that I recorded and engineered his first few CDs for him - the most popular of those is probably this (http://www.amazon.com/Michael-Finnissy-Gershwin/dp/B000255LU2).
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Post by: Jace on 24 Jan 2013, 15:48
I've never had trouble with having my ID when I bought cigarettes (I don't smoke, but I've bought for friends when on the way to their house) or alcohol. I am never upset about being carded either because I know that I have to present ID to purchase it. I also keep my ID in my wallet and I couldn't fathom that people wouldn't have their ID until I remembered that a lot of people that go clubbing or out to bars don't carry a wallet, instead just having their ID and cash or cards in their pocket, and they probably leave them at home frequently.
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 24 Jan 2013, 18:26
Indiana theoretically charges about twelve dollars for a state-backed photo ID, but they have a lot of exceptions they'll make to just give you one. I think for example in preparation for last November's elections as long as you had some other pieces of paperwork in order they were handing them out to just about anyone who could prove majority residence (we've had voter ID laws for a while now).
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Post by: Bluesummers on 24 Jan 2013, 18:33
Oh look, a concert (http://www.carnegiehall.org/Calendar/2013/1/21/0730/PM/Nicolas-Hodges/) today.

Oh look, a review (http://www.nytimes.com/2013/01/24/arts/music/nicolas-hodges-pianist-at-zankel-hall.html?_r=0) as well.   ;D
Wow...impressive. You're related, I assume? :psyduck:
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Post by: pwhodges on 24 Jan 2013, 19:54
I'm his dad.
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Post by: henri bemis on 24 Jan 2013, 21:21
I don't mind when people ask for ID, even if I'm a regular and they know me, because the only time I've been hassled was from another customer who flipped the fuck out on a very nice cashier at a local liquor store because he didn't ID me - I'd just been traveling a lot, so I whipped out my license, passport, and birth certificate, and told her to go choke on an egg.  Being ID'd is hardly an inconvenience, and 10 seconds of my time is definitely not worth someone risking their job.

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I really need to clean out my closet, and I think much of it would do well at one of those thrifty shops that buy used clothing, but I'm so scared to get rid of anything.  There's a store nearby that I think would take a lot of it, especially my shoes, but part of me is still convinced I can learn to walk in heels.  The other part is saying 'Cash, you dummy!  new wardrobe!'
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Jan 2013, 00:27
Oh boo, Paul I would really like to go to that concert - I actually could afford it and get to it, but the last train back leaves at 9.10pm. Why is transport in this country so silly?!
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Post by: VonKleist on 25 Jan 2013, 02:21
Haha, I had looked him up and guessed it was your son! :mrgreen:

Maybe if he can be seen again in Cologne I´ll go and gush about how I know his dad from the internets have a listen. Been wanting to go to the Philharmonie for ages.

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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Jan 2013, 02:49
Well, as he lives in Germany he performs there quite a lot.  He played in Köln last November; his next German performance is in Munich (http://www.breitkopf.com/contemporary/show/8) on 22 Feb, also to be broadcast live on the radio station BR-Klassik.

Oh, and he's playing the same program he just did in New York in Berkeley, CA on Sunday (http://www.calperfs.berkeley.edu/performances/2012-13/recital/nicolas-hodges.php)
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Post by: VonKleist on 25 Jan 2013, 03:04
Thanks! I´ll be abled to listen to it then.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 25 Jan 2013, 07:24
Yesssss, got my first dental exam in 12 years today by one of the dental students and it wasn't terrible news! I only have one very minor surface cavity which, while getting the filling done sooner rather than later is suggested, was barely worth mentioning. Otherwise, I need a deep gum line cleaning to keep the gum erosion on my two front lower teeth in check and my teeth are in good condition otherwise considering my lack of professional dental care.
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Post by: Spriteling on 25 Jan 2013, 13:30
Yesssss, got my first dental exam in 12 years today by one of the dental students and it wasn't terrible news! I only have one very minor surface cavity which, while getting the filling done sooner rather than later is suggested, was barely worth mentioning. Otherwise, I need a deep gum line cleaning to keep the gum erosion on my two front lower teeth in check and my teeth are in good condition otherwise considering my lack of professional dental care.

Huzzah!  Dentists are rubbish, so it's good you'll be able to avoid much more of them.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 25 Jan 2013, 15:59
My teeth still hurt on and off from all the fillings, and this afternoon my husband cracked a tooth so now we need to find a dentist who takes Kaiser. Stupid teeth.
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Post by: snalin on 25 Jan 2013, 17:38
About ID's, isn't debit cards valid ID in the states? Or does everybody just have credit cards? It's never an issue here as I pay with the same visa card that I use for ID.

Also I'm just home after the first 8 out of 48 hours of participating in the GLOBAL GAME JAM (http://globalgamejam.org/)! Which means that over the weekend I'm cooperating with some friends and some new people making a game from scratch! It's super fun! And I am super tired!
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Post by: Bluesummers on 25 Jan 2013, 18:08
About ID's, isn't debit cards valid ID in the states? Or does everybody just have credit cards? It's never an issue here as I pay with the same visa card that I use for ID.

It's valid as a secondary ID for some things, like "show two forms of ID" to prove it's you. Basically they want something with the same name as what's on your photo ID. Chances are, if the photo ID is a fake, you won't have a debit card or credit card with the same name on it.

But it doesn't suffice for a primary ID mainly because it doesn't have your date of birth or address on it. Even the few debit cards with your photo on it won't really cut it; those are more to prevent identity fraud if someone steals your debit card.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 25 Jan 2013, 18:12
I think most places want to see a photo ID. Most credit cards don't have a photo.
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Post by: Papersatan on 25 Jan 2013, 18:14
You also can get one when you are under 21, and under 18 actually, so they would be no good as proof of age.
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Post by: henri bemis on 26 Jan 2013, 00:08
Yeah, and some states (or maybe it was just MA?) won't even accept out-of-state licenses for alcohol. 

I'm quickly becoming addicted to facebook scrabbleish games, but I hate people who cheat, and you can always tell.  And they do it all the fucking time.  I keep wanting to grab people by the collar and yell 'OH, THAT'S YOUR WORD?  DEFINE THAT FOR ME, MOTHERFUCKER!' 

If you have to use an app to get your words, you're not playing pseudoscabble, you're just trolling the dictionary.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Jan 2013, 01:29
Debit cards are rather different in the UK from Norwegian ones (I discovered this when Jens came to visit this time). For a start they do not have a photo of the owner on them. All mine has is my name and the card number, which I can never remember - useful as it stops me shopping online by mistake - and the chip.
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Post by: Jace on 26 Jan 2013, 05:31
Some debit cards have a photo on them, my old flatmate had one like that, but I don't know how common it is anymore. That was 4-5 years ago.
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Post by: valley_parade on 26 Jan 2013, 05:42
Yeah, and some states (or maybe it was just MA?) won't even accept out-of-state licenses for alcohol. 

They're goddamned picky down in the Boston-area. You can't even use a non-driver's license state-issued ID, you have to have a specific "Liquor ID". So annoying. The only difference is that it says "LIQUOR ID" on it.
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Post by: Redball on 26 Jan 2013, 07:49
I've been happy for several years with a MasterCard from Citi with my photo on it. My signature is also embedded on the front. The drawback is that if I intend foreign travel, I can get a card with the chip but without the photo. Don't know why Citi can't put both on the same card.
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Post by: nekowafer on 26 Jan 2013, 08:33
My debit card has an amazingly terrible picture of me on it. I got it maybe... 5 years ago? And whenever I get the renewed card, it still has a picture. But I've never been able to use that as a form of ID.
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Post by: Spriteling on 26 Jan 2013, 09:42
I had no idea debit cards were an accepted form of ID anywhere.  Learn something new every day I guess.
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Post by: Redball on 26 Jan 2013, 09:46
The picture on my credit card, plus an absent or illegible signature on the back, means I don't also get asked for a driver license.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Jan 2013, 12:34
Eek. Just sent an email to a college alumna (she's an Associate, I think, which means she's specifically interested in supporting current students - a good sign!) asking if she can help me with my dissertation. I'm hoping she might be an in for similar visits to the ones I made this summer in the US. I always hate asking strangers for favours, it was pretty nerve-wracking hitting send. But I did it! I saw a reference to someone who looked like they might be interesting and useful and I contacted them! This is quite a big deal to me.
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Post by: Papersatan on 26 Jan 2013, 12:39
I'm quickly becoming addicted to facebook scrabbleish games, but I hate people who cheat, and you can always tell.  And they do it all the fucking time.  I keep wanting to grab people by the collar and yell 'OH, THAT'S YOUR WORD?  DEFINE THAT FOR ME, MOTHERFUCKER!' 

If you have to use an app to get your words, you're not playing pseudoscabble, you're just trolling the dictionary.

While there certanialy are people using other apps to cheat, Scrabble is not a vocabulary game and many players know only that a word is legal, and not what it means.  Similarly, knowing which words are not legal, even though you think they should be ("tase" is not a legal word, even though it has been adopted (from the proper noun Taser) for some years now to be the verb for shocking someone with a stun gun.  The OED recognizes it as a word for goodness sake!!)
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Jan 2013, 12:48
I played down 'zen' on a triple word once in Scrabble; turns out it's not even in the Scrabble dictionary! I lost that game pretty harshly.
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Post by: Welu on 26 Jan 2013, 13:49
I'm quickly becoming addicted to facebook scrabbleish games, but I hate people who cheat, and you can always tell.  And they do it all the fucking time.  I keep wanting to grab people by the collar and yell 'OH, THAT'S YOUR WORD?  DEFINE THAT FOR ME, MOTHERFUCKER!' 

If you have to use an app to get your words, you're not playing pseudoscabble, you're just trolling the dictionary.

While there certanialy are people using other apps to cheat, Scrabble is not a vocabulary game and many players know only that a word is legal, and not what it means.  Similarly, knowing which words are not legal, even though you think they should be ("tase" is not a legal word, even though it has been adopted (from the proper noun Taser) for some years now to be the verb for shocking someone with a stun gun.  The OED recognizes it as a word for goodness sake!!)

From little bits I've read, in professional competitive Scrabble, it is considered bad form to ask a definition. Since everyone there has basically just learned of as many words as possible, the letters are what's important and not the meaning. Although in those situations there's a mediating verifier type person.
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Post by: Papersatan on 26 Jan 2013, 14:03
'Zen' is not a legal word because it is 'proper' like 'Finnish' or 'Christian'.
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Post by: henri bemis on 26 Jan 2013, 15:37
Oh, I know it's not a vocabulary game, I was just being hyperbole-mad at people who only ever play obscure words, who either didn't know a word existed before they plugged their letters into a generator, or are just much better than me :-P. 
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Post by: Jace on 26 Jan 2013, 19:06
Qi is a word but chi is not a word in scrabble.
I hate scrabble. If you ever want to not be friends with me ask me to play scrabble. I'll probably agree, but you better be ready for death threats.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Jan 2013, 19:07
spelled out one irate block at a time.
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Post by: Carl-E on 26 Jan 2013, 19:10
Every year at the AP Calculus grading, there's a game room, and there's always a scrabble tournament.  I remember the exclamations of joy when "Qi" was finally officially allowed as a word - hey, a use for Q that didn't need a U! 


The cribbage tournament's even more cutthroat, though...
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Jan 2013, 19:32
not just a q-without-u word, but more importantly a two-letter word with q in it

two-letters are the most important words always. I can rack up 50 points pretty easy by playing a three letter word and making three two-letter words in doing so.

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Post by: Patrick on 27 Jan 2013, 00:23
Today I jammed with my friend Erika, and we figured out a buncha songs to have both of us learn. Then I went through my handheld recorder and checked out some of my older song sketches. If my real job isn't gonna have me for a week and a half, might as well work on things I'd rather be working on.
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Post by: Akima on 27 Jan 2013, 00:58
Qi is a word but chi is not a word in scrabble.
While qi is the correct pinyin Romanisation for 气, which is not a proper noun, it is also the romanisation for 齐 as in the Qi Dynasty which is a proper noun.

Are "alpha" and "beta" valid Scrabble words? If so, why would "chi" not be (http://www.scrabblefinder.com/word/chi/)? As well as being the Wade-Giles romanisation of 气,chi is a letter in the Greek alphabet. Every mathematician, or at least every statistician, knows the chi-squared test!
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Post by: jwhouk on 27 Jan 2013, 04:24
qaid and qait have always been acceptable in Scrabble. I have the book to show it.

Best thing to do in Scrabble is to agree on a dictionary and go from there. If it's not in the dictionary, it's not allowed.
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Post by: LTK on 27 Jan 2013, 05:08
I reluctantly agreed to play a game of pub scrabble a while back with some fellow students, because I remembered that the last time I played it I was completely rubbish. But that was Dutch language scrabble, and it turns out that I totally rock at English language scrabble.

It still annoyed me that people kept using archaic words from various dictionaries, though.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Jan 2013, 08:07
Random thing to post but I just read about a guy who is suing Oxford University (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-manchester-21161891) because they wouldn't let him study for a 1-year MSc because he couldn't prove that he had £12,900 to cover his living costs.

What on EARTH do they think students spend? The average rent for a single room in Oxford is £535. Let's be generous to the university and say that accommodation will work out at about £7000 a year. Who on this earth spends £6000 a year on living costs excluding rent? I live on less than a third of that! If I were living on just my student loans, and not my earnings from various jobs, I'd be surviving on a sixth of that.

Just couldn't believe that a university which claims to be encouraging applicants from deprived backgrounds could have such an outrageously out-of-touch view of student lifestyles. That sum doesn't include tuition, by the way - he had a separate loan for that. They will not accept a masters student who cannot show that they have £13,000 in the bank at the start of the course.
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Post by: Spriteling on 27 Jan 2013, 08:37
Random thing to post but I just read about a guy who is suing Oxford University (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-manchester-21161891) because they wouldn't let him study for a 1-year MSc because he couldn't prove that he had £12,900 to cover his living costs.

What on EARTH do they think students spend? The average rent for a single room in Oxford is £535. Let's be generous to the university and say that accommodation will work out at about £7000 a year. Who on this earth spends £6000 a year on living costs excluding rent? I live on less than a third of that! If I were living on just my student loans, and not my earnings from various jobs, I'd be surviving on a sixth of that.

Just couldn't believe that a university which claims to be encouraging applicants from deprived backgrounds could have such an outrageously out-of-touch view of student lifestyles. That sum doesn't include tuition, by the way - he had a separate loan for that. They will not accept a masters student who cannot show that they have £13,000 in the bank at the start of the course.
That's pretty crazy.  Even to get a student visa to the UK, you don't have to show that much money for living expenses.  I think the first time I did it, I only had to show about £5000.  It's strange to think that a university wants you to have more money than the immigration-phobic government does.
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Post by: pwhodges on 27 Jan 2013, 12:03
Mind you, Oxford is now (this weekend's papers tell me) the most expensive place to live in the UK, edging ahead of London and Cambridge.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Jan 2013, 12:51
Even so, I don't believe it is six times more expensive than Cambridge. OK, I live very frugally, but even accounting for that - is it really three times as expensive as Cambridge?

I'm tired again. It's 9pm, and I got more than nine hours' sleep last night and every night this week. WHY AM I TIRED?
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Post by: pwhodges on 27 Jan 2013, 13:26
No, of course not - and I imagine that (as usual) there is some crucial information about the situation and the requirements that has not been reported.  In the first instance, the report veers back and forth between blaming the college and the university (which is common when reporting things in Oxford and Cambridge, of course).
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Jan 2013, 13:35
You're quite right of course, news reporting is notoriously incapable of presenting the whole story. So I have looked into it. I found this on the official website for the university:

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DOCUMENTING YOUR FUNDING ARRANGEMENTS

If you receive an offer of a place, your college will require you to complete a College Financial Guarantee form providing evidence that you have sufficient funding to cover your  fees and living expenses for the duration of your programme; for some part-time non-matriculated courses, the Department for Continuing Education may also require you to provide satisfactory evidence of funding arrangements.

No mention of any sums, but it does direct you to the Fees, Funding and Scholarships calculator for a "personalised estimate of the amount of funding you will need per year". I am not sure that my definition of personalised is the same as theirs, because no matter what information you enter, it informs you that your living costs will be £12,900. It even gives a breakdown of that figure:

Minimum spend per 12 months
Accommodation   £6,200
Utility bills    £1,050
Food £2,950
General living costs (clothes, books, socialising, etc) £2,700
TOTAL £12,900

£2,950 for food. That is £56.73 per week. That is more than my parents spend each week to feed two people, three cats and a dog.

And when I click for more information on this flabbergasting sum, it informs me:

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The cost above is based on a mixture of eating meals in college and self-catering. Meals in colleges are subsidised and can be significantly cheaper than purchasing meals outside. Self-catering can also minimise food costs.

Self-catering can also minimise food costs. Yes. Yes it can. I, for example, spend about £10 a week on food. Usually less, although I do have an initial outlay of about £40 a term to get in freezer staples.

Oxford, you are out of your mind. Off to find out whether Cambridge is similarly insane.


Edit: interestingly, the sum cited for undergraduates is £1,800 per year on food. It states that the figures only apply to undergraduates who live in college during term and go home for vacations. Assuming that the Oxford terms are the same length as Cambridge ones (three eight week terms, generally 30 weeks in residence per year) that is £60 a week. Do people seriously live like this at the age of 18?!


Additional edit: Cambridge specifies its minimum maintenance amount (as in, the amount graduate students have to show they have to live on) as £11,750. I'm genuinely staggered. Am I really in the minority? Does everyone spend this much a week on food and I just hadn't realised?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Jan 2013, 13:49
Whoa! How do people eat that much? I thought I was eating too much when I was spending fifty dollars a week!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Jan 2013, 13:52
I've thought about it, and actually you could spend that much money on food. If you went to a restaurant twice a week and ordered pizza every other day. But I simply can't believe that Oxbridge have such a low view of the intelligence and life skills of their graduate students that they feel they have to REQUIRE them to show that they can finance a lifestyle of irresponsible budgeting and profligacy.
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Post by: jwhouk on 27 Jan 2013, 14:28
You're quite right of course, news reporting is notoriously incapable of presenting the whole story. So I have looked into it. I found this on the official website for the university:

<SNIP>

Minimum spend per 12 months
Accommodation   £6,200 (US $9,796)
Utility bills    £1,050 (US $1,659)
Food £2,950 (US $4,661)
General living costs (clothes, books, socialising, etc) £2,700 (US $4,266)
TOTAL £12,900 (US $20,382)

£2,950 for food. That is £56.73 (US $89.63) per week. That is more than my parents spend each week to feed two people, three cats and a dog.

 :? How the heck do they expect a grad student to make $20k while taking classes? And $170/week for food and socializing???

Quote
Additional edit: Cambridge specifies its minimum maintenance amount (as in, the amount graduate students have to show they have to live on) as £11,750. I'm genuinely staggered. Am I really in the minority? Does everyone spend this much a week on food and I just hadn't realised?

I'm... I'm not sure.

EDIT: Okay, I looked up on MY alma mater's (https://uwwcost.uww.edu/) website about the costs to attend school. Here's what I found:
Keep in mind that these are the MAXIMUMS, and they're based upon the 2012-13 academic year. If you actually live in Wisconsin, or take a lesser housing/meal/parking program, you can whittle that cost WAY down.

Basically, assuming you're going to be doing this for the entire school year (Fall/Spring semesters), that would be $26,686 for one school year - about £16,890.

Of course, no one would actually spend that much on graduate school at Whitewater - not anyone who's normal, that is.

Maybe an Emily type. ;)
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Jan 2013, 14:39
Beer is only that expensive in a bar.  Same problem as the food in a restaurant, it's cheaper to buy it yourself and "dine in", even with friends...
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Post by: ackblom12 on 27 Jan 2013, 14:42
Nothing makes you realize how much you drink as much as paying bar prices for alcohol. $5 per shot's worth of cheap bourbon adds up damn quick.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Jan 2013, 14:53
Most bar owners hope that by the time it costs too much, you've had enough not to be able to add (or even count)  anymore...
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Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Jan 2013, 14:58
At that rate, drinking anything at all is way too damn pricey. Youch.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 27 Jan 2013, 15:02
It's why I do it incredibly rarely. Bottles of liquor are the best way to go.
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Post by: jwhouk on 27 Jan 2013, 15:02
I should point out that you can tag on extras for gas to that total, because another thing NO student at Whitewater would do is stay around on campus on the weekends. ;)
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Post by: nekowafer on 27 Jan 2013, 15:09
The boyfriend and I spend at least $150 a week on food... some of that is that he has expensive tastes (like, almost refuses to get generic brands of anything), some of it is that we are both big people and we eat a lot. I feel pretty guilty about it, to be honest. And this doesn't even factor in work lunches which are generally fast food/restaurants...
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Post by: LTK on 27 Jan 2013, 15:13
I'm not sure where I fit in. If I buy my own food every day of the week, it costs me around €24 ($32/£20), I estimate. Spending fri-sun at my parents' brings that down to €16 ($22/£13). On myself I live like Scrooge McDuck, compared to what I get to eat at my parents'. My breakfast and lunch are two slices of bread, one peanut butter, one dark chocolate sprinkles (an American friend thought eating a sandwich with just chocolate sprinkles was really weird) and I snack on apples or bananas. I make my own dinner 9 times out of 10, buy everything fresh because I don't have a freezer, and make enough for two meals so I can eat it again the next day. I drink tea or tap water, and I don't buy any other food or drinks. I might be able to knock a few euros off if I went full vegetarian, so I can kind of see how May spends so little money, but if I bought even cheaper food I'd start to worry about my health. Long-term, that is; I'm sure that I can live entirely on cheese omelettes and vitamin C pills while still functioning, but not for say, five years.

I think what we're forgetting (before 8 new replies were posted) is that the average 18-year-old probably spends as much money on booze as we do on food. Factor in two beers every night at the local pub, or a six-pack from the supermarket once in a while, and I'm sure you hit £50 in no time.

I'm still rather surprised you can live off so little, May. Can you get food especially cheap? Or does buying in bulk make that much of a difference?

What I'm also surprised by is that it appears that I'll have about €20 left after my rent is paid for this month. Usually I have to withdraw some allowance from my savings account to break even - which is accounted for by my deposit of a year's worth of external student financing. I guess having fuck all to do for an entire month really makes a difference!
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Post by: Papersatan on 27 Jan 2013, 15:18
Sometimes there is a bonus to them estimating high.  My school estimates $18,196 for Sept-April for books and supplies, room and board and 'miscellaneous'.  Because I have no income I can borrow up to that much each semester to cover my cost of living.  If I were single that would be more than I need, but I stretch it to provide for two people, and it is not quite enough. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Jan 2013, 00:18
LTK, there are probably several factors - one is definitely that buying in sort-of bulk (as in, I buy on 3 for 2 offers if it's something I'll definitely have bought anyway, because of my freezer) does cut down the price. Another is that I get my vegetables from the market which halves the price. I don't eat meat, which is expensive. And really, I don't eat very much. I realised this when I went on a calorie counting diet and actually had to increase the amount I was eating to hit their "reduced" daily goals, and had it confirmed whenever I fed the xB and when Jens came to stay - both of them ate at least four times as much as me.

Edit: wanted to restate the fact that the sums which I quoted are the amount which you have to show that you have before you're accepted onto the course. It isn't just an estimate of what you'll need (and then because you are an adult you are expected to decide whether or not you actually have it). It is a financial barrier to study.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Jan 2013, 10:33
I'm getting frustrated with food. I don't have any income and I've been stealing a ton of food whenever I go "shopping" (buy ten bucks worth, get a hundred dollars worth!) but it's honestly not enough to live on. I can't even cook because the oven's not working, and on top of that we don't have anything like bread, milk, butter...

I'm supposed to be getting ~3,000 calories per day (remember, I am a huge person - ask May!) but I'm usually barely cracking 1,000 when I bother to count.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 28 Jan 2013, 11:10
Uni, what grocery store chains are near you? I've cut back a shitload on my grocery expenses just by matching up the sales to coupons. Just as an example.....this week I'm buying $135 worth of groceries for less than $30. And I'm getting $10.25 back. I buy coupons for things I know we need in bulk on eBay and I often end up with some coupons left over. I know that without income, acquiring said coupons can be a pain in the ass but if I know what stores you can use, I can hook you up with a bunch of coupons to get free stuff. People underestimate coupons but they've helped a LOT of people keep food on their tables.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Jan 2013, 11:23
Uni, where are you living at the moment?
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Post by: Spriteling on 28 Jan 2013, 11:25
I spend about £30 a week on food, although that also includes stuff for my cat.  Sometimes I'll also by junk food for snacks, etc, on top of that, but I never top £40.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Jan 2013, 12:22
With my father.

Also, keeping under budget isn't the issue here; I have literally no income, and since my wallet has been stolen (along with...so much fucking else) I have to pay to replace everything in it. So. I pretty much get food whenever I get it, and since Walmart's the biggest place around here and they compact all their trash, there's not a lot of availability w/r/t/ dumpster diving.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 28 Jan 2013, 13:01
I gathered that much...the good thing about walmart (ack, scary phrase) is that they price match EVERYTHING. I meant that I would send you coupons for stuff you could use so that essentially, you could get a bunch of stuff for free. I use livingrichwithcoupons.com to find deals at my stores and they put up a post every week with matchups on how to shop for free (http://www.livingrichwithcoupons.com/shop-for-free-2). There have been days where I had absolutely no money to spend on groceries and still walked out of the store with $20 worth of food- legally.
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Post by: Welu on 28 Jan 2013, 15:00
I'm going to see WRASSLIN'! Live! Again! RAW and Smackdown taped shows! IN LONDON! SO. EXCITED.
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Post by: Thrillho on 28 Jan 2013, 15:13
Oh goddammit. I would love to go to one of those.
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Post by: Welu on 28 Jan 2013, 15:19
Go! It's only the crap seats left so they're cheapish. Be getting nosebleeds from being so high up.
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Post by: Thrillho on 28 Jan 2013, 15:21
Lynnie, I'm so broke that I get nosebleeds from the food I buy. Because it's so cheap. I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS
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Post by: Welu on 28 Jan 2013, 15:49
It's weird to see my real name in this forum.
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Post by: nekowafer on 28 Jan 2013, 16:17
Yeah that's my middle name (Lynne) and my family still calls me Lynnie so it's weird for me as well, for some reason.

Though seeing my name anywhere is weird since almost no one has my first name.
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Post by: Thrillho on 28 Jan 2013, 17:24
You're right about that, Steve.
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Post by: Redball on 28 Jan 2013, 18:00
Though seeing my name anywhere is weird since almost no one has my first name.
I think I've seen it on the forum.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 28 Jan 2013, 19:42
Ridiculous snow + 180-mile driving route = maximum suck.

Wheeeee*CRASH*
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Post by: K1dmor on 28 Jan 2013, 20:40
 Eating ice-cream and reading a new QC Strip. What could be better?  :-D

Eating ice-cream and reading a new QC strip while having a blowjob maybe, but you can't have everything.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 28 Jan 2013, 20:49
I had a horrible idea pop into my head...My Little Pony Glue Factory.

I googled it, and to my surprise (I really shouldn't be surprised, it is the internet after all) I found a fanfic. Pinkie pie is a sleeper agent sent to grind up all the other ponies into glue.

It is fuckin' hilarious. :mrgreen:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Jan 2013, 00:21
K1dmor, it's not something I have ever experienced but I think I'd find the one distracting from the other in your second scenario, and the other other would just make a mess. I'll leave you to figure out which is which.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 29 Jan 2013, 00:42
Also ... slow-reader or, you know, fast?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Jan 2013, 02:07
I was about to say "I don't know who the prime minister of Belgium is!" but then I realised that you are Belgian. That's... that's really quite bad.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Jan 2013, 02:14
Duh I did know that, come on brain. What I guess I really meant was "the people who were surveyed are in Belgium".

Which bit of Yorkshire? Should I already know that? Apologies if so.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Jan 2013, 02:37
Ah. I'm from Huddersfield originally, but I don't sound much like it. My Yorkshireness is discernible to the conoisseur of accents but it's been cruelly battered by my sojourns in Shropshire, Paris, Cambridge and America.
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Post by: LTK on 29 Jan 2013, 04:15
Considering Belgium (or Holland) doesn't technically border the Atlantic ocean, mixing up it and the Pacific ocean might be excused. However, if a Dutchman was unable to point out Overijssel that'd be a failure of the primary school system, since that's where they really drill geography. History is the responsibility of middle school. So, technically, the spokesman is right: the college didn't screw up the students' education (yet). But being technically right isn't an excuse for being so tactless: what they should have said "Oh jeez, that's pretty bad, we should probably do something about that, maybe take admission exams or something." Now they're just pointing fingers, like a parent blaming the brightly coloured wrappers and hyperactive commercials for the fact their child is stuffing their face with candy.

So what is the study/college in question? Just so I know not to go near it.
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Post by: jwhouk on 29 Jan 2013, 04:35
Ah. I'm from Huddersfield originally, but I don't sound much like it. My Yorkshireness is discernible to the conoisseur of accents but it's been cruelly battered by my sojourns in Shropshire, Paris, Cambridge and America.

Especially America. ;)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Jan 2013, 05:35
I have simply given up and accepted that the word "stroller" has become a permanent part of my vocabulary.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Jan 2013, 05:48
I had a horrible idea pop into my head...My Little Pony Glue Factory.

I googled it, and to my surprise (I really shouldn't be surprised, it is the internet after all) I found a fanfic. Pinkie pie is a sleeper agent sent to grind up all the other ponies into glue.

It is fuckin' hilarious. :mrgreen:

Can't be worse than Cupcakes.
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Post by: nekowafer on 29 Jan 2013, 06:31
Though seeing my name anywhere is weird since almost no one has my first name.
I think I've seen it on the forum.

Elesia. There are many other forms of it but few have mine.
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Post by: LTK on 29 Jan 2013, 06:35
I had a horrible idea pop into my head...My Little Pony Glue Factory.

I googled it, and to my surprise (I really shouldn't be surprised, it is the internet after all) I found a fanfic. Pinkie pie is a sleeper agent sent to grind up all the other ponies into glue.

It is fuckin' hilarious. :mrgreen:

Can't be worse than Cupcakes.
Won't be nearly as popular as Rainbow Factory.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Jan 2013, 08:10
GAH. Just got invited to interview at Birmingham City. Obviously that's a good thing but I haven't adjusted to the idea of maybe going to Birmingham. I only applied there on a complete whim last month. I spent so long being convinced I would be going back to Yorkshire, but the three non-Yorkshire "wild cards" which I've added one at a time are the ones that are actually interested. Gah.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 29 Jan 2013, 09:23
Howe long is the commute?
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Post by: Papersatan on 29 Jan 2013, 10:02
Today, I went to an professor's office hours, and I was not unpleased with the interaction.  Actually, I left feeling good.  That is a rare thing. I think I have mentioned on this forum before my problmems with interacting with professors.  This is, in fact, the first time I have gone to a professor's office hours since starting grad school.

I also have some idea what my mid-term career goal is, and have some ideas about finding internships for this summer.  I also found a job which I am qualified for and which is related to my mid-term career goal. 

It has been a good day, and it is only 1pm.  C'mmon day, don't fuck it up.
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Post by: jwhouk on 29 Jan 2013, 11:20
May, I won't make the negligible joke about "Why are you moving to Alabama?"
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Post by: Black Sword on 29 Jan 2013, 11:24
Oh, by the way, my date got cancelled. She got sick and asked them to reschedule for a time two weeks later. So next week. So now, three weeks in, and they still haven't set up a date.

I suspect tomorrow, I'm sending an extremely nasty note to them, as I specified last week that I expected them to contact me ASAP with a date with someone else for this week. It's fine that she got sick, I'm not upset at her or anything. I'm getting peeved with them because while I'm usually able to endure things, this is on a timer and I paid for a service I haven't received.

short version: I paid, I expect results.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Jan 2013, 11:46
Bluesummers, it's about three hours (the travel time varies depending on whether or not you have to go through London - almost invariably you do have to go through London because nearly all train services in this country are based around London - so I have to go south before I can go north).
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Post by: pwhodges on 29 Jan 2013, 12:43
There used to be a railway line between Oxford and Cambridge.  Dr Beeching closed it, and at the Cambridge end a major radio telescope got built on its track.  The Oxford end was reopened as far as Bicester about 20 years ago, and there are plans to extend that further, I believe.
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Post by: Welu on 29 Jan 2013, 13:49
I'm doing my first day of intermittent fasting but an easy version, 1000 calories when you're meant to do 600. I'm not super hungry but I am pretty hungry and nope actually I really want a sammich.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Jan 2013, 13:50
I have seen said big-ass telescope! It's quite cool. But given the choice, I would prefer a train line from Oxford to Cambridge. I'd like to visit Oxford. I do not wish to take the X5 to Oxford ever again.

Welu, what's the basis for intermittent fasting? Only eating 600 calories sounds downright dangerous to me.
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Post by: Redball on 29 Jan 2013, 14:20
and at the Cambridge end a major radio telescope got built on its track.
How careless of them.
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Post by: Welu on 29 Jan 2013, 14:26
Welu, what's the basis for intermittent fasting? Only eating 600 calories sounds downright dangerous to me.

It is basically crash dieting on alternating days. It's meant to be a way of eating, not just a temporary diet. You're taking in less in general so you're taking in less bad things, leads to weight loss, lower cholesterol, all that good stuff. I've read about people who've been doing it for at least two years.
My doctor actually recommended it to me but only doing it two days a week. I agree it sounds nuts but I'm willing to try down to 1000 because I am better at holding super strong for a day rather than a little strong every day, which is why he thinks it would suit me.
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Post by: pwhodges on 29 Jan 2013, 15:26
I have seen said big-ass telescope! It's quite cool.

When I was working for Norsk Data I visited it a couple of times to support a computer attached to it.  They used  (in a small way) some software I had written as a personal project - a compiler on the ND computer for BCPL (a language I couldn't manage to force into the pun thread...), developed from the compiler I had written for the Varian range of computers.
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Post by: jwhouk on 29 Jan 2013, 18:24
This may seem like a dumb question, but why could they not build said BART on top of the rail line?
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Jan 2013, 03:43
Are you suggesting we connect Bay Area Rapid Transit to Britain? Because DUDE FUCK YEAH PLEASE DO
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Post by: jwhouk on 30 Jan 2013, 04:48
Big Ass Radio Telescope, you San Franciscan you :P
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Post by: pwhodges on 30 Jan 2013, 05:59
Oh, and he's playing the same program he just did in New York in Berkeley, CA on Sunday (http://www.calperfs.berkeley.edu/performances/2012-13/recital/nicolas-hodges.php)

Gaining another good review (http://www.sfgate.com/music/article/Nicolas-Hodges-review-Showmanship-depth-4233471.php).
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Post by: Bluesummers on 30 Jan 2013, 06:37
I know he just played in NYC, but will he be in the NYC/Boston area again anytime soon?
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Post by: pwhodges on 30 Jan 2013, 07:19
I don't currently have his schedule beyond next month, I'm afraid; I'll try to get some updates.
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Post by: Papersatan on 30 Jan 2013, 07:42
I took the clerical and data entry tests require for the job I want and I am adequate! I need to be in the 40th percentile for the clerical skills and sore a 50 or better on the data entry.  I am in the 75th percentile and I scored a 57.  Now, I need to revise my resume and write a cover letter.  <moan and groan>  I am over qualified for this job, academically, but it aligns pretty well with my current career goals, as foot in the door thing, so I hope I can write a compelling cover letter.  It would be so nice to have some income and, if I get the job, there is a chance I could use it for internship credit too.  Birds? meet this stone.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 30 Jan 2013, 07:47
Woo, good luck Kat!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 30 Jan 2013, 08:02
Why? I think they're a good way to tailor your application to the job. No different from personal statements when applying to university.
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Post by: K1dmor on 30 Jan 2013, 08:21
 I could barely sleep last night...
 My brain was like "Hey! Wanna remember how you screw up your relationships? Well Fuck you, here we go!".
 Then i started to check again if my pillow was symmetrical with the rest of the bed... and then eyelash in the eye  :-( So after trying to get it out, i had to wake up and go to the bathroom to do so.
 And of course i had to check the symmetry of my bed when i came back....
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 30 Jan 2013, 15:14
I'm excited for friday, I'm going to an art show at a coffee shop right outside of campus and a little later, I will be going to a party for a friend.
I am really looking forward to it, since I have had the first round of tests/quizzes/assessments in my courses last week and this week.
Which wasn't really helped by my recent habit of tiredness. Which is weird, because I have actually had a decent sleep schedule. Oh well, I got some coffee today and it gave me the boost I needed not to pass out while studying
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Jan 2013, 16:37
Oh, and he's playing the same program he just did in New York in Berkeley, CA on Sunday (http://www.calperfs.berkeley.edu/performances/2012-13/recital/nicolas-hodges.php)

Gaining another good review (http://www.sfgate.com/music/article/Nicolas-Hodges-review-Showmanship-depth-4233471.php).

What the fuck how did I miss this? Aw man, now I feel like a jerk :C
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Post by: Jace on 30 Jan 2013, 20:07
Tonight was an amazing practice, we had 12 heavy armored fighters at once and I got some real good fights in. I was also cup-checked (for those not in the know, a cup-check is when the athletic cup that covers the genitals is struck) but no permanent damage. Happy that I wear a cup! I used my pourpoint (a vest that you attach the leg armor to, it distributes the weight better than attaching it to a belt) and I feel like I fought a lot better and was a lot more comfortable. I did get struck very hard on the hip, which lead to the following exchange.
Me: "Good hip!" I begin walking away
Prince Maynard (marshalling the practice rather than fighting this week): "Hip isn't a kill shot"
Me: *concerned groan* I turn back and drop to my knees to finish the bout.

My hip is presently very sore. Also the basket slid off of my sword so I'll have to fix that before next week.
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Post by: Patrick on 31 Jan 2013, 05:09
Some super drunk girl came to jam night tonight and completely rocked, amazing voice and control and musicianship. Did I mention she was hammered? Like, every time she stopped singing to drink water, she kept hitting the wrong part of her face, stumbling about, a total wreck except for when she had a guitar in hand or a mic in front of her. I have never seen anyone change from an off-balance wreck to limelight wizard like that, blew my fucking mind.

Fisrt she geetared and sang a song and my friend and I backed her on bass and drums, and it was sick. Then she had my buddy and I improvise a rhythm section groove while she freestyled words and a melody right on the spot. My rapper friend joined in to spit some verse off the top, and we probably did like half an hour of it and nobody hated us for it. End of the night came and it turned out she knew hella Beatles, and the bartender and I are Beatles fanatics. Just about everyone had left and it was her and me on mic, me on guitar, the bartender singing along behind the bar, my buddy on bass.

I certainly hope she'll be back, I have been praying to the gods for somebody to come in and ease up my life as far as singing duties are concerned. Jesus. It's not very often you find a singer like that.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 31 Jan 2013, 05:54
Wait til you find out she sounds like Macy Gray when she's sober. Better invest in some apple-tinis.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 31 Jan 2013, 11:00
That's excellent Patrick. I've run into a few people like that in my life. Sadly, a lot of girls are seemingly scared of being too serious about music, or that's my impression at least. Or maybe they just didn't like me, that's always a possibility.  :parrot:
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Post by: nekowafer on 31 Jan 2013, 13:10
I would love to get into performing music but I am the biggest wuss. I can't play any instruments at this point but I can sing.
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Post by: Redball on 31 Jan 2013, 13:56
I'd love to have the skills, either hers or those of the rest of you, to participate in that.
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Post by: Thrillho on 31 Jan 2013, 14:15
Man I wish I could freestyle rap.

Not as much as I wish I was there to jam with you.
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Post by: Jace on 31 Jan 2013, 14:35
So I had an interesting morning. My housemate woke me up asking why Finley (the dog) was outside and picked up down the street. I had no idea. My event timeline of last night goes like this:

Get home from practice at roughly 1030pm.
Find front door isn't fully closed, it happens sometimes because of the weatherproofing we did around the door.
Enter and close door.
Put my stuff down and go chat with housemate about practice, video games, etc. Dog is in his room.
Go back to my room and watch TV while eating chips and salsa.
Dog comes into my room around midnight. Pet dog until dog leaves.
Lock bedroom door so dog stops bursting in and letting the cat in.
140am someone knocks on door. Go see who it is, old white guy, decide not to open door since it is 140am and why is there an old guy knocking on the door this late.


As far as I can guess, I believe that my housemate (who owns the dog and is blaming his housemates for letting the dog out) let the dog out to go pee, and since it was raining didn't stay outside. I believe he went inside and checked on his computer, figuring that he'd wait a minute and let the dog back in. I further posit that because he was drunk or high or both, he got distracted and forgot that he let the dog out, and fell asleep. Then someone who lives upstairs saw that the side door into the house was opened, and closed it, probably while on the way to the basement.
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Post by: Akima on 31 Jan 2013, 14:37
At big family gatherings, my older relatives usually insist that I sing Teresa Teng (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bv_cEeDlop0) numbers. It is very embarrassing. Chinese New Year is coming up. Yes, I have been rehearsing...
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Post by: Redball on 31 Jan 2013, 16:01
Will you post it?
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Post by: Jace on 31 Jan 2013, 18:39
Welp, housemate has decided that he doesn't like living with our other housemate and has decided to move out. Looks like I'm going to look for a new place to live!
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Post by: Carl-E on 31 Jan 2013, 20:33
...rather than replace the one moving out? 
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Post by: Jace on 31 Jan 2013, 20:40
Heh, same comment on the other forum. There are three of us living in the house, and the one leaving is not the one who is incredibly difficult to live with. It'd be mighty hard to replace the one leaving because people won't want to live with the guy who shouts at his cat at the top of his lungs and throws shit around his room. I'm happy to find a place on my own or with Jess because its long overdue that I live on my own (I have never lived on my own but I have learned that I don't particularly like having housemates sometimes). Also I'm looking for a place that is going to see me not commuting 30 minutes to school, 30 minutes to practice and 25 minutes to Jess's house. I'll probably have a bit longer commute to work, but I'll take it for living closer to school, practice and Jess.

Also it'll be nice to not deal with 3 people using one bathroom.
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Post by: valley_parade on 31 Jan 2013, 21:35
Haven't really drank much since I started dating current girlfriend, since she does not drink, and I don't want to get drunk around her and make an ass of myself.

It was kind of nice to go out tonight, kick a little more ass at trivia than we usually do, and have more than a few beers. Been a while. Side effect: I'm drunkenly navigating punk rock label websites, almost, but not actually buying a bunch of 7"s.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 31 Jan 2013, 22:27
I'm drunkenly navigating punk rock label websites, almost, but not actually buying a bunch of 7"s.

Just as website registrations have a turing test to make sure you're not a robot, eCommerce checkout pages need to have a sobriety test to make sure you aren't drunk spending. "mrgreen:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Feb 2013, 00:05
Three people using one bathroom? I am looking forward to living somewhere where 14 people don't use one bathroom!
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Feb 2013, 01:58
The girl I've been kinda talking to for a little bit came over tonight. She and I talked a while back about my crush on her, and she told me she isn't looking to date anyone right now. Fine by me, she's awesome as fuck, I'll hang out with awesome people! Her being unbearably fucking cute (https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc6/6219_4984301130529_2116174635_n.jpg) is just a bonus.

So my room was a total pig sty, you won't get any more detail than that. It was literally a health hazard though. Awful shit. She and I cleaned it and afterward hung out listening to the music that puts us right to bed. I started nodding off, and she fucking started a tickle fight with me. Coulda shaken me awake, coulda done any number of things that wouldn't fuck with my head, but a god damn tickle fight.

Cleans my room, completely fucks up the relatively orderly arrangement in my head. Ugh.
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Post by: Papersatan on 01 Feb 2013, 05:44
I'm drunkenly navigating punk rock label websites, almost, but not actually buying a bunch of 7"s.

Just as website registrations have a turing test to make sure you're not a robot, eCommerce checkout pages need to have a sobriety test to make sure you aren't drunk spending. "mrgreen:

I actually ran across a study somewhere in my schooling that showed a spike in online shopping in the middle of the night.  I think the spike was stronger on Fridays and Saturdays.  I remember the conclusion I drew being that people are drunk shopping.
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Post by: Welu on 01 Feb 2013, 06:12
I want to draw something but my drawing skill confidence has broken.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Feb 2013, 06:32
Fix it by drawing something! Even a bad drawing is a better drawing than no drawing.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 01 Feb 2013, 06:34
I concur!

I find that the best way to draw something without being disappointed by lack of quality is by starting with no goal in mind. Just doodle and let the drawing tell you what it wants to become :-)
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 01 Feb 2013, 08:30
Three people using one bathroom? I am looking forward to living somewhere where 14 people don't use one bathroom!
How can you live like that.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Feb 2013, 08:34
I did that at the compound. The bathroom itself was a toilet and shower and maybe three square feet of floor space, and there was a separate room just outside of it with sinks and mirrors (the sinks were usually unreachable, filled as they were with clothes, makeup, and jewelry - we mostly just battled for mirror space. the dangers of a house full of hard femmes).
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Feb 2013, 09:05
BeoPuppy, I don't get a lot of choice! There are only 8 ensuite rooms in the whole college (400 people live here) and you have to move out during short vacations. I have nowhere to move out to, and the rooms are far less nice than mine anyway. It hasn't been too much of a problem to be honest; there's another toilet further down the hall and a bathroom (as in, with bath) in the opposite direction. It's rare that anyone has to wait to use the bathroom and the cleaner "cleans" it every day. Not to my idea of cleanliness, but at least things don't go mouldy.
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Post by: nekowafer on 01 Feb 2013, 09:17
We have four toilets to share between about 100 women, in my office. The guys have two or three, I'm not sure, but there's only about 10 of them.
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Post by: Redball on 01 Feb 2013, 09:31
So much for potty parity.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Feb 2013, 09:41
There are only... three? maybe four men's toilets in this building, but it is a women's college.
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Post by: Redball on 01 Feb 2013, 10:02
As I started going to theater events sometime in the 1990s, and occasionally on busy travel days at freeway service plaza, I began to notice lines at women's rest rooms. It really hit home when a major musical came to the large theater in Detroit's venerable Masonic Temple. Young women weren't waiting in line for the women's rest room, they were using the men's.
I imagine that's commonplace at older entertainment venues nowadays, and I gather other cultures are much more accustomed to it.
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Post by: valley_parade on 01 Feb 2013, 10:02
I'm drunkenly navigating punk rock label websites, almost, but not actually buying a bunch of 7"s.

Just as website registrations have a turing test to make sure you're not a robot, eCommerce checkout pages need to have a sobriety test to make sure you aren't drunk spending. "mrgreen:

I quickly realized that I had money to spend, but it was better spent today on concert tickets.
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Post by: nekowafer on 01 Feb 2013, 10:04
And the cleaning crew does a shitty job of cleaning the bathrooms.

Speaking of bathrooms, I keep seeing a lady (well, seeing her shoes) in the bathroom and she never washes her hands. Not even a rinse-off, as useless as that is. This would bother me less if she didn't smell fishy. Literally, like she has a bunch of mackerels in her pants. It makes me even more obsessive about washing my hands at work.
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Post by: Carl-E on 01 Feb 2013, 10:52
As I started going to theater events sometime in the 1990s, and occasionally on busy travel days at freeway service plaza, I began to notice lines at women's rest rooms. It really hit home when a major musical came to the large theater in Detroit's venerable Masonic Temple. Young women weren't waiting in line for the women's rest room, they were using the men's.
I imagine that's commonplace at older entertainment venues nowadays, and I gather other cultures are much more accustomed to it.

The theatre our local community theatre group usus is an old vaudeville house built in 1906.  The original restrooms were down a narrow stair below the main floor's seating and were quite spacious, but below the water table... the place stood empty for years, and they were pretty much destroyed.  They added restrooms on the main floor, and despite the ladies' being more that twice the utility of the men's (twice as many stalls in the ladies' than the men's has stalls and urinals combined), there's still always a long line at the ladies' room during intermission.  There is only occasionally a short line at the men's restroom. 



What the hell are y'all doing in there? 






Never mind.  I have daughters, I really don't need to know. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Feb 2013, 13:16
I noticed this when I was queueing for the Christmas Eve service. There was literally no queue at all in the men's (Jens and Charles confirmed this for me) and it took me fifteen minutes to reach the front of the queue for the women's. A few women did go into the men's but since it was in fairly constant use only the brave ones did.

And I can't speak for all other women, but I wear pants (the underwear kind), tights and two skirts. It takes time to rearrange everything before I'm suitable to leave the cubicle.
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Post by: Welu on 01 Feb 2013, 15:36
Got a sick prank call telling me family were in an accident. Couldn't hear it very well and hung up pretty quickly figuring it was just sick bastards but rang everyone in the Welu clan to be sure. We're all okay but gonna be on edge all night. Double checked my Facebook and my number's only visible to me so fuck knows who rang me but gonna try to not worry and get any more paranoid about it.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 01 Feb 2013, 18:43
Most likely they dialed a random number, and that number turned out to be yours. They've probably been dialing them all day.

I pranked called a guy in Italy from my high school, and when he picked up, I blurted out the only coherent Italian phrase I could think of: "Voglio tua anima!" I have no idea where I though it up.

Then again, whoever makes actual calls telling people their family's been hurt is sick indeed.
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Post by: Redball on 01 Feb 2013, 20:03
My memory is that it's a scam rather than a prank. If you bite, you learn that money is needed.
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Post by: jwhouk on 01 Feb 2013, 20:13
Given your location, Welu, I'd be surprised if that didn't happen a bit more often.

<-- Is, unfortunately, old enough to remember what U2's "New Year's Day" really meant.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 01 Feb 2013, 23:29
Finally broke down and decided to invest in a safety razor now that I'm about out of stupidly expensive razor heads. I'm even going to try and be cheaply fancy and use a cheap ass starter set for soap lather!

In the long run this should save me a shit load of money what with the blades I decided on being about $.35 apiece, but it's a bit of a painful starting investment.
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Post by: Patrick on 02 Feb 2013, 01:38
Troubador played a show out of town tonight, our first all-ages gig in a long time. It was so much fun, oh my jesus! This one band Piranha Party (please check em out, amazing shit!) played after us to close the night, and they fucking DESTROYED. It was so good! And we played an especially clean set tonight our own selves. I haven't had that much fun at a show in ages. Life rocks when you've got music. <3
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Post by: Welu on 02 Feb 2013, 11:30
My memory is that it's a scam rather than a prank. If you bite, you learn that money is needed.

You're probably right. When I thought about it after there did seem to be call centre type background noise.

In other news I might be moving back near home. My parents are up for lending me money to buy a house that's on sale and can literally be seen from their living room window. Problem is that it's just a shell and needs a lot of work but could be very worth it.


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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 02 Feb 2013, 11:35
There's been a scam going on here where the caller somehow has some background information on the person they're calling. My husband's grandparents got a call from someone claiming to be my husband, saying he was in jail or suck in Mexico or something and could they send money. The scammer knew my husband's name and his father's name, but couldn't answer where his father was born. I've also seen it as an email scam but that's obviously easier to make up since they don't have to have a phone conversation, and easier to check since if you get a suspicious email you just call the person.
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Post by: Welu on 02 Feb 2013, 11:39
That's scary. I hung up figuring it'd give me a chance to ring people and if it was serious I would get a call back.
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Post by: Redball on 02 Feb 2013, 12:15
Problem is that it's just a shell and needs a lot of work but could be very worth it.
You'll learn a lot!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 02 Feb 2013, 13:33
There's been a scam going on here where the caller somehow has some background information on the person they're calling. My husband's grandparents got a call from someone claiming to be my husband, saying he was in jail or suck in Mexico or something and could they send money. The scammer knew my husband's name and his father's name, but couldn't answer where his father was born. I've also seen it as an email scam but that's obviously easier to make up since they don't have to have a phone conversation, and easier to check since if you get a suspicious email you just call the person.

That is actually called the "grandparent scam".  I used to work in a call center which was funded by a class action law suit against Western Union and we called to educated seniors about telephone fraud.  Frequently they get the information by calling the person weeks earlier with a survey or some such and they get friendly and chatty enough to get a few details. They frequently claim a grandchild is on a field trip in Canada and has been in an accident and they can't get the surgery they need until someone wires money. 


When I was in high school, and in the period of adolescence where I pulled away from my parents and tried to find out who I was, much to their exasperation as I sighed and scoffed at all the things little kid me used to like, someone stole files from the school office which contained phone numbers.  They called my house and asked me, (to try and prank me) but I was not home.  When my mother asked if there was something they could help them with they told her it was unlikely since she had never been there for me.  I came home to a heart-broken mother concerned I did not love her. 

I have never been in a fight in my life.  If I had been able to find out who did it I would have jumped them in a parking lot without regret.  Fuck with me all you want, but do NOT fuck with my mother.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 02 Feb 2013, 15:51
Three people using one bathroom? I am looking forward to living somewhere where 14 people don't use one bathroom!

RT

Except for me it's 46 sharing two toilets and one shower.
And this is student housing ... not trench warfare or a similar uncomfortable place?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 02 Feb 2013, 15:59
Will you post it?
And embarrass myself in front of the internet as well as the family?  :lol:
Rehearsal is just an attempt to reduce the embarrassment.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 02 Feb 2013, 16:51
Naw, just your friends. It could be a challenge. We all perform.

Oh god, what have I said?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 02 Feb 2013, 23:48
Just enough to induce performance anxiety...   :angel:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 03 Feb 2013, 05:28
If the challenge is taken up, Akima included, I will sing the Fireman Song. It's very short, but not normally to be sung in the presence of firemen or their families.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Pilchard123 on 03 Feb 2013, 06:39
Is it like the Hedgehog Song?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 03 Feb 2013, 07:14
That's certainly an animal with which it is tough to interfere.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 03 Feb 2013, 15:31
Just outlined a dialogue-less film with my partner. Excited.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 03 Feb 2013, 19:37
One of the classes I am taking this semester is going to be a ton of work, and a lot of stress, but also really, really good for me.  The entire semester is a group project in which we get a real client and conduct a needs assessment and a usability test on their website.  I think more important than actually learning about Neilson's Heuristics, or methods for conducting user interviews, is the practice I am getting doing "professional things".  Last week I conducted a conference call with our client in which I learned the companies goals and needs, and managed her expectations so that our project runs smoothly.  This weekend I wrote an email to an old professor asking him for contacts, and now I am going to have to contacts the people he suggested offering his name as my credentials.  I am terrified of this, but this sort of networking is a skill I need to learn.  I also sent a long professional email to our client today.

If 2 years ago I had showed up to a meeting with a contact I had a class with and he dropped "my boss is going to call into this meeting because she is who you need to speak with, and I had to unexpectedly interview someone I had never met with other people listening, I would probably have bee shaking and nauseous.  I took it completely in stride and confidently did what I needed to.  Grad school may only be 2 years, but man have I grown.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jimor on 03 Feb 2013, 20:31
Finished a music video shoot today. Now all I have to do is shoehorn 2 1/2 hours of footage into a 3:30 song!  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 04 Feb 2013, 00:37
Kat, good job :) I'm still anxious about making phone calls - I'm better at calling people like the GP and the bank, but if I have to ask someone for a favour or in any way inconvenience them it feels terrifying. But I did send an email to someone to ask a favour and actually have had a reply saying "yes I'll chat to you about my project, how about X day?". Degrees are indeed mind-expanding.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 04 Feb 2013, 09:47
Double post tra la la.

I am organising fun things again! Ever so often I grab my diary and plan stuff. My National Trust membership just arrived (present from my brother) and I picked up a magazine of local events and discovered loads of fun free stuff to do. Sending emails to people to ask if they want to come and join me is somehow more satisfying than posting about it on facebook...

I need to strike a balance between super-busy and super-lonely.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 04 Feb 2013, 15:03
My housing/etc. grant/loan disbursement for the semester comes through this week. Finally. I work a little (for rather little), so I can certainly make the day-to-day expenses with little problem, but it's a *lot* easier to pay freakin' Bloomington rental rental rates with this. Once it comes in I can go ahead and drop the next 4-6 months rent down and use that time to figure out whether I'm going to move closer to school or not, where I'm going to work in the summer, etc.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Feb 2013, 15:51
My house phone line is faulty; callers get ringing, but phone doesn't ring here, and there's no dialling tone anyway.  I can't report the fault (by mobile or by Internet) because BT's fault testing and reporting system is down with a fault...

ADSL is fine, as you can tell!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 04 Feb 2013, 21:41
Housing situation keeps getting more complicated. I thought that my housemate was giving us some cash if we moved out sooner, but that was just a ruse. Now he is gonna just straight up kick the other dude out since he can do that via lease fuckrry. I am still going to look at a new place and hopefully be able to get in by the first of march. Hoping my tax return comes in this month as that'd be a huge boost.
Was up for 27 hours so far. Although my two buddies and I finished cleaning up and re-strapping our other friend's musculata as a surprise.

Here it is on the smallest of us:
(http://i.imgur.com/7qrJary.jpg)
For reference, a before picture (on the right):
(http://sphotos-b.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/665830_4804355708373_1317213836_o.jpg)

We replaced the 4 side straps (2 on each side), the shoulder leather that attaches the front and back, and added straps to the bottom of the shoulders rather than string. The leather is part horse butt part just general strapping leather we had in the shop that we dyed dark red/maroon We also cleaned up the dishing on the muscle part and rolled the edges on the back to make it look like the front, rather than having it duck taped, and took off the old bent up leather tassles and added new red leather tassles.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jimor on 04 Feb 2013, 22:57
I need to strike a balance between super-busy and super-lonely.
Yes. Yes you do.  :wink:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Bluesummers on 04 Feb 2013, 23:05
Jolly well romanesque, Jace. You need bullwhips, though.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 05 Feb 2013, 01:11
"Romans came across the Channel,
 All dressed up in tin and flannel."
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 05 Feb 2013, 03:57
I haven't been to work in about 3 weeks and it's really getting me down. I'm still on payroll, they just apparently don't think I oughta work for the entire month of January or even the start of February so far.

Meanwhile I'm starting to think this town's too small for me. I can't turn a corner without somebody trying to small talk me to death. Either that or they're trying to waste my time trying to plan or organize something that never pans out. I'm getting so sick of being a townie.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Feb 2013, 05:20
I have to give a seminar on my dissertation at 2pm (which is in 43 minutes) and I am more nervous about the fact that I have to go and buy some kind of mid-seminar snack (usually cake or bookies) than I am about the damn seminar. Why on earth do we have to provide cake? At least I'm still in my birthday diet-pause, which continues until the birthday cake is all eaten.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 05 Feb 2013, 05:30
Providing food does seem odd. I'd prefer buns maybe. Good luck with the seminar!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Feb 2013, 08:19
Well at least that's over. Ugh. It felt thoroughly unstructured but it was useful to me, at any rate. Now I have to write the damn dissertation.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 05 Feb 2013, 11:27
You know you should have really turned this whole paradigm upside-down in a creatively brave new way, and when it came time for snacks just told them to go fuck themselves. >_>
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 05 Feb 2013, 11:56
Ughh I just had a brain fail. We rent out the conference room to people in the building, and the company down the hall is using it today. Thursday there is a class so I need to make sure to get the keys back from them on Wednesday. So I saw the conference room locked and dark just now, and went, "hey, I need to make sure to get the keys!" so I went down and tried to get them, and the bathroom keys and the projector. And... yeah, it's still Tuesday. Their meeting is at 4pm today.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: jwhouk on 05 Feb 2013, 12:25
(Slow clap)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 05 Feb 2013, 12:51
I ended up standing in this woman's office going "oh god, it's not Wednesday yet, is it? how is it not Wednesday yet?"
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Feb 2013, 13:11
Don't worry, I woke up convinced it was Friday and almost went to the wrong lecture. It should definitely be at least Wednesday.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 05 Feb 2013, 14:15
Yesterday I woke up thinking it was Sunday and felt so smug when I thought my partner was going to work and I could stay in bed for a while. Got as far as sleepily telling him to have a good day.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 05 Feb 2013, 14:54
Today, I woke up at 9am.

For those keeping track, I start work at 8.30am.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 05 Feb 2013, 16:21
An artist friend posted a sketch on Facebook and they're usually great with everything but there's a glaring anatomy problem and it's causing me pain not pointing it out but I'd feel really rude. It might just be an elaborate doodle that'll never get farther but if they post WIPs I may have to bring it to attention.

In other sentences: My partner and I presented our film outline and got two big reactions, "ALREADY!?" (got the assignment last week) and "Why are teenagers so violent?" Wanted to point out we're not teenagers but that may have made it worse. I defended the script by telling him no violence is ever seen, it's only heavily implied.  :-D Also there's no dialogue, will use three locations max and has two actors who are already confirmed so in terms of resources it's probably the best student film ever.
Seriously though, there's less violence in it than Psycho. I just want to film something super cereal (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h05YfP_8UsU) for once.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 06 Feb 2013, 08:30
I'm so pissed at my friend.

She's offered to help me out before with money - and then when I said yes, I'd like her help, she squirmed out of it and I ended up homeless.

She's got a job, she's gone to college, she's had everything she's ever wanted handed to her - she comes from an upper-middle class family and I *know* she has the ability to help me, twenty times over what I'm asking.

She was offering to give me $250 so I could take my truck up to Vermont and visit her. Well, that was stressing me out because that wouldn't really cover the trip and trying to figure out how I'd make a trip like that was putting way too much stress on me, so I cancelled it and told her what I really needed was...y'know, $250. She said she'd get it to me.

A week later, she told me she couldn't get it to me within the next few paychecks, and is that okay? Well, no, that's *not* okay because I'm fucking desperate and broke now. I'm having to pay to replace my lost wallet and everything in it - I have to pay for the heat here, for my own food, and no, waiting a  month or two or however long it is isn't really going to help me. She said okay, she'd just take it out of savings.

Well, she came on last night (this was all a few weeks ago, mind) we talked for a bit, and then I told her that I kind of need help *now* so I can buy some heating fuel and if she was still going to help me? And she told me no, because she felt unappreciated and resentful of me.

This is the person who I pushed into standing up to her parents, that I pushed into moving out onto her own, that I pushed through transitioning, that I pushed through her name change. She's thanked me for everything I've done for her every time we talk, and told me that I've done *so* much for her and she wants to pay me back for everything, and now she fucking resents me?

I'm so fucking pissed off at her. Fuck rich kids. Every time I've needed help, it's not been the people who have money, not the kids with college education and $40/hour jobs that have helped me, but the ones who are homeless, the ones who are broke as broke can be, the ones who are squatting and dumpstering and stealing to survive.

I'm fucking tired of rich kids and their fucking selfish, privileged bullshit.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 06 Feb 2013, 11:40
On one hand, I can see where your friend might have been having money problems, or something along those lines, no matter how rich she is. On the other hand, she didn't have to offer you financial help in the first place, and she did a real shitty thing, treating you that way. I'm sorry so many people seem to treat you so badly. You deserve so much better.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 06 Feb 2013, 11:44
I've 'loaned' money to a friend (oddly enough, a pretty similar amount to $250) expecting to never get it back exactly once, when I couldn't really afford it either, and I don't regret it for a second, and what he had done for me was totally irrelevant to the decision. He was my friend, I loved him and he was in trouble, so I helped him. I didn't give a shit about feeling appreciated, I just wanted my friend to be okay. Your 'friend' is a bitch.'
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 06 Feb 2013, 13:57
On a lighter note, in 2009 when we were at uni, we were trying to find our lecturers on Facebook after a workshop about keeping your online profile clean as a whistle (I did a journalism degree). I, as a joke, added the head of the broadcast journalism route to Facebook.

She accepted my friend request today.

TODAY.

I SENT THIS REQUEST IN 2009.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 06 Feb 2013, 14:02
I'm not taking anyone's money and please don't try and ask again or try to change my mind please don't okay? thank you.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 06 Feb 2013, 14:02
Also, this happened today:
Jess and I are in bed napping and we hear "MOTHER FUCKER!" from down the hall. Jess goes to leave for class, cautiously, and gets some information. ‎"So apparently he's just stealing stuff now and I'm gonna have to punch him in the face. I hope the house burns down and he's in it and dies" -Crazy Housemate

So I text Other Housemate, saying "hey he is saying you stole his microwave and is very upset." To which the reply "I didn't know it was his, go grab it from my room, I've had so many since I moved in I just didn't know, figured he would have grabbed it with the rest of his stuff the other night" was given.

If anyone is still questioning why I'm moving out.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 06 Feb 2013, 14:16
Also he's having his cat put down since he can't take it with him to his new place and I guess if it isn't his then what is even the point of it living.
 :psyduck:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 06 Feb 2013, 15:23
blargh blagh blog. I vented on Facebook about something at work, and people asked about it so I elaborated a bit... and so my mom messages me to not bitch about work on the internet. Despite the fact that I was speaking as generally as possible and all my posts are set to friends-only and it was my DAD doing most of the commenting. Ugh. I hid it from my page now because I did get a little heated towards the end but still.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: snalin on 06 Feb 2013, 17:08
Do not friend relatives ever why would you do that it's such a bad idea!

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 06 Feb 2013, 17:12
Well on the one hand it pays to be reminded that people will judge you based on your words and deeds, Internet or not.

On the other hand there's nothing wrong with complaining in and of itself. It's an action we all need to do sometimes.

On the other hand advice navigating the sometimes difficult relationship between employee/employer is sometimes good.

On the other hand fuck a busybody, just fuck 'em.

On the other hand I came from a family where Thou Shalt Not Tell was a thing, so my opinions may be informed by my bias against that.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 06 Feb 2013, 17:40
A few years ago, my sisters and I received this email, titled "Language!":

Quote from: my mother
Girls:

Your father and I would like you to recognize that using foul language does not reflect well on you.  On Facebook you have accepted many people into your public conversation. If any of these are not people you would curse around in person, then you shouldn't do so on Facebook.

In addition, we have raised you all with excellent vocabularies. You know how to express yourselves very well. I suggest that whenever you are feeling inclined to use a foul word that you stop and think of  a word that accurately expresses what you are describing.

Mom
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 06 Feb 2013, 17:44
Not the worst advice there ever was, except that sometimes that word *is* Fuck. D;
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Post by: Akima on 06 Feb 2013, 20:03
Also he's having his cat put down since he can't take it with him to his new place
:-(  :-(  :-(  :-(  :-(  And I'm not even especially fond of cats.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Bluesummers on 07 Feb 2013, 00:12
My mind is having a pseudo-aneurism trying to process that level of callous inhumanity.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 07 Feb 2013, 00:48
A few years ago, my sisters and I received this email, titled "Language!":

Quote from: my mother
Girls:

Your father and I would like you to recognize that using foul language does not reflect well on you.  On Facebook you have accepted many people into your public conversation. If any of these are not people you would curse around in person, then you shouldn't do so on Facebook.

In addition, we have raised you all with excellent vocabularies. You know how to express yourselves very well. I suggest that whenever you are feeling inclined to use a foul word that you stop and think of  a word that accurately expresses what you are describing.

Mom
I hate notes like that. Casual lines to inform you you have diminished yourself as a person. Shit like that makes me want to hurt the sender. That's a lot harder with relatives though, than with a random fucker on the internet.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Feb 2013, 09:27
yeah, but I don't care what some random bozo on the internet thinks of me.

...though, come to think about it, I don't care much what my parents think of me either.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 07 Feb 2013, 09:45
That's the spirit! Fuck em!
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Post by: nekowafer on 07 Feb 2013, 09:48
Not literally, though.
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Post by: Thrillho on 07 Feb 2013, 09:49
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK

sigh
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Post by: Black Sword on 07 Feb 2013, 10:29
I feel incredibly impatient. It's like I feel something is going to happen but I have no idea what it is or when. I can't sit still at work.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 07 Feb 2013, 10:43
Found a place to live.
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Feb 2013, 10:46
Jace: Yay!  With the sane roommate, or Jess, or both, or on your own? 


In other news, my steady tutoring student cancelled this afternoon.  There goes that money...

In better news, I had my first shift with no supervision at the beer store yesterday.  It went well.  Now, if only it was more than once a week...



I need a night job. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Black Sword on 07 Feb 2013, 10:56
Jace: Yay!  With the sane roommate, or Jess, or both, or on your own? 


In other news, my steady tutoring student cancelled this afternoon.  There goes that money...

In better news, I had my first shift with no supervision at the beer store yesterday.  It went well.  Now, if only it was more than once a week...


I need a night job. 

Bouncer?
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 07 Feb 2013, 11:07
Or maybe gigolo?  :mrgreen:
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Post by: nekowafer on 07 Feb 2013, 11:13
Maybe see if you can find some administrative work at a hospital or something like that? They always need people to file, scan, and so on.
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Feb 2013, 12:26
Bouncer?


 :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

I'm 5'7" (1.7 m) and about 200 lbs (92 kg).  I look smaller (and weaker) than I am, and have a friendly face with a grey beard - I'd fail horribly as a bouncer. 

But the hospital's a good idea...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 07 Feb 2013, 13:32
Just me for now, but my buddy John will probably be moving in as well. I can afford the place on my own, but I'd rather have a flatmate to be able to save some money.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 07 Feb 2013, 17:57
I have a friendly face with a grey beard - I'd fail horribly as a bouncer. 

Wear black t-shirts that are a size too tight, and sunglasses. Switchblades are also a good recommendation.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 07 Feb 2013, 21:36
Got a pan for xmas from Jess's aunt and uncle. It has been roughly 5 weeks since I brought it home. It has a teflon coating and you can't use metal utensils in that, I mentioned that to both housemates. GUESS WHO'S PAN HAS SCRATCHES ALL OVER THE BOTTOM.
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 08 Feb 2013, 00:09
I'm guessing that Jace's does.
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Post by: pwhodges on 08 Feb 2013, 03:57
Tempting! (http://googlepolicyeurope.blogspot.co.uk/2012/09/for-sale-alan-turings-monopoly.html)
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Post by: Bluesummers on 08 Feb 2013, 06:06
It has a teflon coating and you can't use metal utensils in that, I mentioned that to both housemates. GUESS WHO'S PAN HAS SCRATCHES ALL OVER THE BOTTOM.

Take a machine grinder, and put scratches ALL OVER THEIR BOTTOMS.  >:D
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Black Sword on 08 Feb 2013, 06:08
Bouncer?


 :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

I'm 5'7" (1.7 m) and about 200 lbs (92 kg).  I look smaller (and weaker) than I am, and have a friendly face with a grey beard - I'd fail horribly as a bouncer. 

But the hospital's a good idea...

You'd be awesome as a bouncer! All you'd have to do is put on your best "I'm disappointed in you" look, and every hooligan will get a flashback to their poor old dad and feel awful and beg for the chance to make it up to you. No muss, no fuss, just pure, guilt-driven bouncing.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 08 Feb 2013, 07:53
That'd work on me.
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 08 Feb 2013, 10:16
Tempting! (http://googlepolicyeurope.blogspot.co.uk/2012/09/for-sale-alan-turings-monopoly.html)
Man that does look nifty on the one hand.
On the other it's hard to like the idea of purchasing yet another version of Monopoly, especially because...I don't know, how Turing was treated gets my blood boiling a little, I guess.

You know looking at that again and seeing that it's not *just* for more money for Hasbro helps with a lot of that, though.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 08 Feb 2013, 10:17
You'd be awesome as a bouncer! All you'd have to do is put on your best "I'm disappointed in you" look, and every hooligan will get a flashback to their poor old dad and feel awful and beg for the chance to make it up to you. No muss, no fuss, just pure, guilt-driven bouncing.

That's how the security guard in my building operates! She is excellent at giving people The Look when they are about to do something stupid.
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Post by: Welu on 09 Feb 2013, 17:09
Back seized this morning and I freaked out and had to get my partner to ring work for me to say I couldn't come in and I hate ringing in sick.
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Post by: Patrick on 10 Feb 2013, 03:22
Yesterday I found out I'm unofficially fired, which is a way to fuck me over on unemployment benefits, but they don't know I know, and I am tempted to sue. I have friends, see.

I have had the longest day ever, in which:
1. I woke up and went way far out of my way for somebody who flaked on me 3 times
2. Packed up all my music shit
3. Went and endured the largest display of bullshit ego and musical masturbation ever, including a boring soundcheck prefaced by some jackass band-dad who felt like telling us all his made-up facts about everything ("the term 'green room' is a metaphor, because green means 'ready'" dude shut the fuck up)
4. Participated
5. Packed up
6. Got harrassed and ejected by some dickhead cop who falsely accused us of smoking and possessing weed, but refused to search us despite all 5 of us repeatedly consenting to searches
7. Won the fucking contest mother fuckers
8. Made the cop look like a giant dickhead in front of his co-cops that he was showing off to by harassing us in the first place
9. Drank beer
10. (in progress) Passed the fuck out, 23 hours later
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Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Feb 2013, 12:23
Why is it called a green room?

I just got back from a night away and it feels like I've been gone for weeks. Getting out of town during term is very refreshing. I have spent the whole weekend eating, though. I suspect that the steady downward trend of my weight will have reversed this week.

I also am kicking myself because I didn't turn my phone on until this evening, and discovered I'd got a text this morning from a friend asking if I'd like to come round for dinner tomorrow and then babysit her son for the evening. Because the latter part is important and I hadn't replied for eight hours, she's now asked someone else. She asked me for dinner Tuesday instead, but it's Shrove Tuesday and the choir is coming over for pancakes. Grr. Why did I have my phone off?
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Post by: Papersatan on 10 Feb 2013, 13:20
Why is it called a green room?

Wikipedia says no one knows.  Though the guy's theory is not offered on their list of possible explanations.
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Post by: pwhodges on 10 Feb 2013, 15:00
Why is it called a green room?

Webster's just says that it's probably because it used to be painted green. Well, yes.  Duh.    I imagine there was a particular theatre where the room was green, and it just spread from there; but if there is no record of that, I guess we'll never know.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Feb 2013, 15:08
Maybe it's the colour the artists were when waiting?
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Post by: pwhodges on 10 Feb 2013, 15:10
...or when they came off after making a pig's ear of it.
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Post by: Patrick on 10 Feb 2013, 16:56
So since work is dicking me around as far as not scheduling me and not telling me my employment with them has been terminated, I'm trying to talk to PBK's corporate. I am sick of this shit. I'm broke as fuck and can't afford rent for my storage unit anymore, and at the moment I am only feeding myself off the money I make from running my jam night.

I know exactly how I feel about this, though. If my store manager is gonna be childish and not treat me like an adult, then I'm going to tattle on her like a child.

All I wanna know is why a single mother with her career on the line has decided to fuck me over like this when the consequences are disastrous for this kind of stuff.
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Post by: jwhouk on 10 Feb 2013, 20:32
Looking at WP, I suspect it wasn't in wide use prior to 1700, and then only in the UK.
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Post by: Papersatan on 10 Feb 2013, 22:27
Conference call to India!

Middle of the night here? check!
Very strong accent I am unfamiliar listening to? check!
Bad connection? check!

I have a feeling my notes from this interview are going to be less than the best they could have been, but that is life.  The woman conducting the interview (also from India) confessed that she had trouble understanding him.  I think our interviewee is from the Indian equivalent of Louisiana.

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Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Feb 2013, 07:30
my partner gets into Buffalo in a couple hours and oh my god oh my god oh my goodness gracious i am not prepared for this in the slightest oh god oh god oh god
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 11 Feb 2013, 09:35
You can do eet! :D Worst comes to worst, just channel your inner Ferret Pirate.
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Post by: nekowafer on 11 Feb 2013, 09:46
I can definitely imagine you just dooking at her repeatedly. And it amuses me.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Feb 2013, 10:58
Arrr ... dook?
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Post by: Lines on 11 Feb 2013, 11:55
Pat, I hope you figure out work stuff... I hate it when people pull that kind of shit on their employees. Sack up, stupid boss lady.
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Post by: Jace on 12 Feb 2013, 13:58
my partner gets into Buffalo in a couple hours and oh my god oh my god oh my goodness gracious i am not prepared for this in the slightest oh god oh god oh god

It'll be tough for them in Buffalo because the people up here don't really take too kindly to cowboys.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Feb 2013, 16:24
It was embarrassing driving her back and having her point out the confederate flags flying around here I can tell you that much

Also I may have been making dookesque noises at her for her entire time here, but I refuse to confirm such an embarrassing rumour. That...that I just started.
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Post by: nekowafer on 12 Feb 2013, 16:45
adookadookadookdookdook
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Post by: Papersatan on 12 Feb 2013, 17:21
I really wanted to go out tonight.  I tried to make it happen, but I just don't know many people around here.  I need a way to make friends, who are not lovers.  People I am casually seeing don't want to include me in their friend things, which I understand especially for people with primary relationships who are not out as open to all their friends, but it makes me feel lonely.  I want to go out with more than one person at a time.  To have a night of drinking an giggling and storytelling and ridiculous fun.  I only go out with school people where we all talk school shit, or on dates. 

I sort of want to just go to bar by myself and get trashed and try to be friendly, but I am afraid I will either feel terrible and lonely by my self, or I will make a drunk fool of myself by butting into conversations where I am not wanted. 

For now my plan is this glass of rum and the state of the union address. 
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Post by: Papersatan on 12 Feb 2013, 23:29
So, after the state of the union, I went to the bar alone.  I said fuck it, I need to have socilizing.

It was BINGO night, a free card with everything you buy.  I won BINGO and got a 20$ gift card. 

Also I met a girl I had a nice time talking with, we exchanged numbers, and it turns out we live accross the street from each other.  No lie.  I may have a drinking buddy!!!!!

BEST NIGHT.
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Post by: Carl-E on 12 Feb 2013, 23:44
Got all the morning stuff done (daughter medicated, dogs walked, coffee started for the mrs)
Went to the beer store for my shift (about 35 cases today - pretty good, better then last tuesday post-superbowl)
Got home, changed the oil in the van
Went to the pancake supper at church (Blueberry!  And sausages!)
Tutored for an hour and a half
Medicated my daughter (evenings are on a 3 hour system, because of drug interactions)
Walked the dogs again

Bedtime - gotta be up early to meet a student before class - he's been out for over a week, claims pneumonia.  Now I have to get him caught up. 



Yeah, I need a real job so I'm not so fucking busy. 
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Post by: Bluesummers on 12 Feb 2013, 23:50
Also I met a girl I had a nice time talking with, we exchanged numbers, and it turns out we live accross the street from each other.  No lie.  I may have a drinking buddy!!!!!

Yay, cheap booze connection! :parrot:

and having her point out the confederate flags flying around here

Wait what?! What state do you live in, exactly?
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Feb 2013, 00:10
New York, as I recall. 


The rural western part of the state. 


I recall seeing them displayed in the polish-american stronghold of south buffalo when I was younger, too.  More social commentary than heritage...  there was a real fear of the chorni (black/damned, it's the same word) moving in. 
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Post by: Jace on 13 Feb 2013, 00:15
I recall seeing them displayed in the polish-american stronghold of south buffalo when I was younger, too.  More social commentary than heritage...  there was a real fear of the chorni (black/damned, it's the same word) moving in.

OH YOU MUST MEAN LOVEJOY.
IT HASN'T CHANGED.

There are still racial tensions in that neighbhorhood. Throw-a-brick-through-the-window-of-the-black-folks-home racial tensions.
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Post by: Akima on 13 Feb 2013, 02:32
I recall seeing them displayed in the polish-american stronghold of south buffalo when I was younger, too.  More social commentary than heritage...  there was a real fear of the chorni (black/damned, it's the same word) moving in.
Don't the people who fly Confederate flags always say they've got nothing to do with racism?  :angel:
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Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Feb 2013, 08:30
Depends on how shameless they are about it.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 13 Feb 2013, 11:02
On my agenda for today?

Melting, melting and some more melting.....

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8099/8470712495_04a211983c.jpg)

and this is when the heat in the office is OFF.


Edited- because that's what I get for trying to take the easy way out. *grumble grumble grumble*
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Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Feb 2013, 11:02
(behind a spoiler because HELLOOO huge image that I have no clue how to resize)

nor how to post, apparently.  :wink:
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 13 Feb 2013, 11:14
gah. wtf? It shows up for me!  :-(
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 13 Feb 2013, 11:35
Huzzah drinking buddies and gift cards!
Huzzah visits with significant others!
Huzzah dooks!
Huzzah the Confe....wait...no, no, not huzzah those guys. >:(


Gotta go get ready and swing out to the Kinsey Institute. Supposed to write a paper today about some sort of stuff, might as well be this, haven't been in years.
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Post by: nekowafer on 13 Feb 2013, 11:37
Huzzah dooks!

I must agree
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Post by: Jace on 13 Feb 2013, 15:28
Woo one of the Canadians, Baron Richard, is going to be at practice tonight (in half an hour) so I am going to work with him and learn some stuff.

See, I fight in an A-frame stance, and no one in this area really does that, but the dudes in nearby Canada do fight in that stance.
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Post by: Welu on 13 Feb 2013, 15:44
Think I'll be online sporadically for the next while. All three modules going on right now are hard ones.
(click to show/hide)
Also playing video games with my spare time right now. I'm actually enjoying it a little more since it's properly stress relieving and I'm usually doing it in allocated Did Enough Work To Earn This time slots.  I'll probably lurk on Facebook and here a little if I can. I'll probably break my work stride soon enough but I'm making the intent now to work hard.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 13 Feb 2013, 16:47
SUCCESS-DESU!!!!

The corporate office has finally figured out why my calls (and thus, my pay) has been sluggish lately...the service map that indicates my territory was corrupted. So, now I have double the territory that I had...it means a lot more driving, but a lot more money. No complaints here! ;D ;D ;D :mrgreen:
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Post by: Akima on 13 Feb 2013, 17:36
See, I fight in an A-frame stance, and no one in this area really does that, but the dudes in nearby Canada do fight in that stance.
What is an "A-frame stance" in the context of swordsmanship? I googled, but only found hits for skating and pistol-shooting.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 13 Feb 2013, 21:06
I'd imagine it's the same, but with a sword in your hand.  :emotrex:
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Post by: Zingoleb on 14 Feb 2013, 01:44
I broke up with my partner. took her to the bus station, where she had a bus ticket waiting for her already.

it's 5 am. I should go to bed, I guess, but I don't want to.

happy valentines.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Feb 2013, 05:29
Got lent off to a fairly terrible start by sleeping through my lectures, achieving nothing, and then spontaneously going clubbing after the Ash Wednesday service and ending up with the girl I didn't go to dinner with coming back to my room. This afternoon I've been stood up for my regular babysitting job (they're not home and not answering their phone), so coupled with the fact that I was away this weekend and couldn't tutor, I've earned precisely £0 this week. No food shopping for me!
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Post by: Black Sword on 14 Feb 2013, 06:42
Annual review in 19 minutes. Lasts for one hour. If I come back breathing fire, please wear your asbestos undies.
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Post by: Black Sword on 14 Feb 2013, 08:09
I'm straddling the line between meeting expectations and being below expectations because....
...
...
...
...
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...I'm not friendly and outgoing enough. Not even kidding. I need to work on my sarcasm and humility. Apparently, people think that when my face adopts a quizzical expression, I'm being sarcastic, not genuinely confused. Oy vey.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Feb 2013, 08:20
What exactly was this a review of? Your existence as a human being?
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Post by: Black Sword on 14 Feb 2013, 08:54
Annual performance review at work.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Feb 2013, 09:01
Are you a children's entertainer? A circus clown? One of those people who sells things on television by pretending that whatever it is has made your life a constant round of happiness and sunshine? I just don't see why they'd review your facial expressions unless you were scowling at customers or something!

Do you need to be more sarcastic and humble, or less?
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Post by: Black Sword on 14 Feb 2013, 10:28
I do Public Relations. My persona can apparently be a little off-putting. Since it's a people business, I suppose it's valid, yet at the same time, why are they leaping to conclusions?

I'm not very humble, yet I try to contain it. Apparently, I still come off a little elitist and egotistical. Which is annoying, since I make an effort to listen to everyone and not treat everyone like idiots.

That requires tons of effort.

Still, I'll at least attempt to moderate the humility stuff. Sarcasm is a lost cause, though.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 14 Feb 2013, 14:36
Congrats. I had the same stuff happen to me when I was still gainfully employed. It's to do with the eyebrows, it seems. In my case. Apparently.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 14 Feb 2013, 15:27
If you produce results, who gives a damn what face you make at them? People need to lighten up.


Oh boy, I get to play Repo Man tomorrow...some old lady didn't pay for her TV repair, so I have to go to her house and take the power board out of her TV. If she refuses, we take her to court. What a boatload of fun this will be...
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Post by: Zingoleb on 14 Feb 2013, 16:31
Remember to hold onto your blunt companion when you go.
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Post by: Patrick on 14 Feb 2013, 16:55
What are you talking about Ed? If I need a tokin buddy I have a phone
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Post by: Bluesummers on 14 Feb 2013, 18:01
I think Unicorn means my lug wrench. Which, in real life, is never very far.  >:D
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Post by: Zingoleb on 14 Feb 2013, 18:27
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Post by: Carl-E on 14 Feb 2013, 18:32
Felt weird seeing Paul Sorvino in that. 
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Post by: Zingoleb on 14 Feb 2013, 20:00
It was weirder to see Giles. (Fun fact: I'm wearing my Buffy shirt right now.)
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Post by: Bluesummers on 14 Feb 2013, 22:57
On that note, my wife has the biggest boner for James Marsters, not even joking. x__x
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Post by: Jace on 14 Feb 2013, 23:07
See, I fight in an A-frame stance, and no one in this area really does that, but the dudes in nearby Canada do fight in that stance.
What is an "A-frame stance" in the context of swordsmanship? I googled, but only found hits for skating and pistol-shooting.
The gentleman on the left there (Duke Brannos) is in the A-frame stance. Essentially, your sword is across your face and your shield is pointed slightly out, creating an "A" shape.
(http://farm1.staticflickr.com/212/494787240_62e7873253_z.jpg)

Duke Brannos is also the person who invented the A-frame stance in the context of SCA fighting.
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Post by: Welu on 15 Feb 2013, 04:36
Every time Zydrate Anatomy comes on my mp3 player I can't help but go all:
(http://i.imgur.com/sVsjskO.gif)

My partner and I lost a £300 camera we borrowed from college on the bus last night. It must have fell out of the camera bag. Spent an hour crying. Partner got annoyed at me, or annoyed at the situation I'm not sure, for feeling so guilty because accidents happen. I explained even if it's not technically our fault it's still our responsibility. Thankfully someone handed it in this morning and got it back, even the tiny plastic connector was with it. Faith in humanity +300.
Also got £80 from the college I assume as the bursary I applied for since the letter is just an invoice with no explanation. Checked the bank and the money's in there. Good day so far.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Feb 2013, 05:44
One of my friends has several jobs and one of them is appearing in court representing the bank in home repossessions. She generally doesn't feel bad about it - often it's people's second homes or company's premises, and the system in the UK isn't as brutal as the US one, but occasionally she is aware that she's causing homelessness and she hates it.

I just had a very useful 40 minute phone call with the woman I wrote about contacting last month (and how that was a big step for me as I hate contacting strangers to ask for favours). It was very interesting, she answered lots of questions and was also forthright and to the point in the manner I've grown used to from a certain type of woman - successful, busy, highly-achieving and well-educated - in telling me that a) it would be a waste of everyone's time for me to contact prisons asking if I could visit (I thought this was probably the case but wanted to confirm) and b) I have an obligation to society to make use of the investment in my education. The undertone was "don't waste your talents on being a midwife". I see her point, as I saw the point of the other people who have said similar things, and I didn't argue, but sometimes I do get a bit frustrated that people don't recognise the value of intelligent, well-educated people being on the front line of healthcare services. It is in the day-to-day decision-making that it is most essential for people to know and understand research, policy and ethics.

Also my health wouldn't allow me to do the quantity and intensity of work she does, but there's no point going into that nest of hornets with strangers.
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Post by: pwhodges on 15 Feb 2013, 06:04
It's a sort of intellectual elitism to suggest that work that requires a certain kind of education has more value than that requiring another, such as being a midwife.  Coming from an intellectual background myself, I have seen this often, but I hope that I have always tried to ensure that I don't show it myself.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Feb 2013, 06:25
I do agree that there's a difference in the type of education necessary for being a midwife working on the wards and for being a policy researcher in the management of the NHS. What I don't agree on is that one is more valuable than the other, or that I'm wasting the investment in my education by doing the former.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 15 Feb 2013, 07:19
Having gone through 'the process' of having a kid, sort of from the side, of course, since I'm not Galen's mother, I can attest to the fact that it's insanely important to have healthcare professionals during the whole experience with whom you can talk, who will field questions intelligently and clearly and who will not beat about the bush. Judging from your online personality you'd be an asset to have at any pregnant lady's bedside. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Feb 2013, 08:14
Thank you! That is nice to hear :) I know I'd make an excellent midwife. Come to that, I'd make an excellent nanny or PA as well (two other career options I'm considering if midwifery doesn't work out). I'd make an awful lawyer and probably not a great teacher either, two things that people keep trying to push at me. Thankfully I'm stubborn   pig-headed  contrary confident enough to make my own life choices!
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Feb 2013, 08:32
Somebody told me I'd make a great lawyer and I shot them dead on the spot
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Post by: Zingoleb on 15 Feb 2013, 08:43
yes but did you represent yourself in court afterwards, that's the question
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Post by: Carl-E on 15 Feb 2013, 10:33
May, do the midwifery, but if anyone tries to sue a midwife or legally bind them in some way, please use what you have to leap to the rescue! 


Tights with underwear on the outside and a cape are optional. 
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Post by: nekowafer on 15 Feb 2013, 10:37
No way they are totally required
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Feb 2013, 10:38
People have this inaccurate belief that I have any kind of useful knowledge of the law! I've done everything I can to choose optional papers which have as little to do with statute, case law and actual legal practice as possible... I do know a bit of medical law but mostly I just do sociological and philosophical stuff!

I would love to have a cape. The closest I've got is my college gown, which is admittedly pretty cool but it is just plain black.
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Post by: nekowafer on 15 Feb 2013, 10:59
Puff paints and plastic gems would fix that problem.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Feb 2013, 11:30
It certainly would, but it would create other problems, namely that I'd have to purchase a second £40 gown to wear to thrice-weekly choir rehearsals and graduation.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 15 Feb 2013, 11:34
.....countdown to graduation?  :-P

OH! Orrrrr....you could use the fancy glow in the dark paints that don't show up in daylight and do all of your Justice Serving at night!
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Post by: nekowafer on 15 Feb 2013, 11:35
Or decorate the inside and wear it inside out for JUSTICE
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 15 Feb 2013, 11:38
Yesssss. I highly approve of that solution.






Just don't use glitter because you'll be picking it off of yourself constantly and people will figure out your alter ego pretty quickly.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 16 Feb 2013, 16:57
On that note, my wife has the biggest boner for James Marsters, not even joking. x__x

This would seem to be alarming on several levels

Gahhh. Today has not been very productive. I am a bit sick but I don't like to use that as an excuse. I am going to try to send out an email and work on some genetics homework before I go to eat in about an hour.

I'm also trying to get into the honors college next semester. So I am meeting with my advisor to see if tha's viable with the credit hours I have and the classes I have left to do.

Also, May as a superhero is the most wonderful thought ever. May, if you do become a superhero, can I be your sassy, gay American sidekick?
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Post by: Redball on 16 Feb 2013, 17:36
I haven't ruled out the possibility that May may become prime minister, although I'm quite sure she has ruled that out. I suppose she could wear a cape as PM, although I'll bet it hasn't been done for a generation or three. Didn't Winnie wear one?

My hope is smaller and more selfish: If I get to the UK, I've told her I'd like to hire her as a driver. I think she'd welcome the experience.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 17 Feb 2013, 15:22
Oh man I went shopping with my sisters this morning and found button-up shirts that actually button over my chest and fit at the waist and hip. This is so exciting you have no idea. Plus they were on clearance for $13 each so I got the two on the rack.
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Post by: Thrillho on 17 Feb 2013, 15:44
chest
rack.

 :parrot: :parrot:
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Post by: nekowafer on 17 Feb 2013, 16:48
Where did you go?

Also; boobs
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 17 Feb 2013, 17:28
 :parrot: indeed.

We were at the Sears at FSK mall in Frederick. Pretty sure it was this one (http://www.sears.com/metaphor-women-s-essential-button-down-shirt/p-007VA50482601P) - I found one in each color.
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Post by: nekowafer on 17 Feb 2013, 18:06
Poo, not in my size. But yay for boob-appropriate shirts!
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 17 Feb 2013, 19:27
we are all about the boobies lately.
also- cute shirt! :-)
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Post by: Carl-E on 17 Feb 2013, 19:32
Some of us more so than others...

 :evil:
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 17 Feb 2013, 19:36
While I can certainly notice a fair chest, I don't really feel anything for them
Like what can even be done with them?
(Please don't answer that, it was rhetorical question)

(Oh please, please don't)
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Post by: Carl-E on 17 Feb 2013, 19:40
Well, if nothing else, there's always motorboating (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Motorboating). 




..............



OK, just forget I said that.   :roll: :-D
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Post by: Papersatan on 17 Feb 2013, 20:04
What can't be done with them. 

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Post by: Carl-E on 17 Feb 2013, 20:07
If you have a pair, you can certainly get a fair bit done by way of them. 

But that's because some of us are easily (and happily) distracted...





On a completely different note, I just noticed today that my eyebrows are thinning out.  I've never heard of baldness spreading down into the face before, but they're definitely losing hair.  My wife thought they were just getting lighter (read: grey), but no, there's less hair - a lot less hair - than just a couple months ago. 

Apparently, it's a symptom of hypothyroidism, lupus, and a few other things that I have no other symptoms of.  I really shouldn't have googled it...
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Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Feb 2013, 20:52
Is it bad that my first thought with 'what can you do with them?' was piercings?
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 17 Feb 2013, 22:46
Apparently, it's a symptom of hypothyroidism, lupus, and a few other things that I have no other symptoms of.  I really shouldn't have googled it...

Don't worry. It's never Lupus.
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Post by: pwhodges on 18 Feb 2013, 00:24
Like what can even be done with them?

There's not much they prevent you doing.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 18 Feb 2013, 02:14
I honestly legitimately met someone last week for whom it actually was lupus.
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Post by: nekowafer on 18 Feb 2013, 05:12
Is it bad that my first thought with 'what can you do with them?' was piercings?

Me too :D

And I almost wish I could get things done with my boobs. Mostly they just sit there.

Anyway, blog thread, I spent my morning giving medicine to a grumpy cat. I was all dressed up for work (business casual), except for a shirt, and I had to scruff my 13 pound cat and force 4 CCs of medicine down his throat. I got covered in fur and drooled on. And I get to do that for the next two weeks!

Percy, the grumpy cat, somehow managed to lose his left fang this weekend. I can't figure out how. But now he has antibiotics and pain meds so I have a stoned cat.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 18 Feb 2013, 06:12
I honestly legitimately met someone last week for whom it actually was lupus.

My wife has lupus.  :P :emotrex:
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Post by: Welu on 18 Feb 2013, 06:44
Anyway, blog thread, I spent my morning giving medicine to a grumpy cat. I was all dressed up for work (business casual), except for a shirt, and I had to scruff my 13 pound cat and force 4 CCs of medicine down his throat. I got covered in fur and drooled on. And I get to do that for the next two weeks!

Percy, the grumpy cat, somehow managed to lose his left fang this weekend. I can't figure out how. But now he has antibiotics and pain meds so I have a stoned cat.

Reminds me of when my Mammy and I were taking shifts getting the various pills into our last dog. One morning she was really struggling and ended up ringing work to say she might be late. Ended up she got in just in time and told her supervisor the dog was being stubborn and wouldn't take her pills. Supervisor knew about my Da's heart problems and said to her, "If your husband wouldn't take his pills would stay until he took them?"
"Nope. He's big and ugly enough to know better."  :laugh:

Blog thread, I'm on here a lot for the amount of work I should be getting done.
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Post by: Carl-E on 18 Feb 2013, 08:34
I got covered in fur and drooled on. And I get to do that for the next two weeks!

Well, now you know to do it before you get dressed...
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Post by: nekowafer on 18 Feb 2013, 08:38
Yeah I had been completely dressed but decided I might want to remove my nice shirt before diving in.

And I've had to be late for giving meds to pets before, though usually it was a ferret, not a cat. My ex told me that he uses the same tricks on me as he did on the pets; get me when I'm sleepy and not fully aware so I take my medicine quickly and with less fuss. Though he was specifically talking about the heparin needles I needed in my stomach for two weeks, he apparently still did that with other medicine he had to help me with. I'm so mature.
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Post by: Carl-E on 18 Feb 2013, 08:42
My daughter's completely unconscious when I give her the morning meds. 



Thank goodness for feeding tubes (I really never expected to say that...)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 18 Feb 2013, 09:02
awwww, neko i hope your stoned kitty feels better soon!  :-(






also......motorboating is hilariously awesome.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 18 Feb 2013, 10:51
Motorboating is so unsexy and yet one of the most fun things you can do with tits.
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Post by: nekowafer on 18 Feb 2013, 12:09
hahaha my cat's dental work could cost up to $1300 I'm gonna have a panic attack now this is awesome
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Post by: Lines on 18 Feb 2013, 13:02
Saturday I had some very unpleasant stomach sickness thing* and I'm still recovering from it today. At least I can have things in my stomach now and not be nauseated by it.

*There has been a stomach flu wandering around work, but I don't think it was that because I had a stomach cramp for like 30 min and then FWOOSH my innards emptied themselves rather violently.
(click to show/hide)
What I had sounded similar to food poisoning...but I haven't the slightest clue where I would have gotten it from. Michael and I ate the same foods and he had no issues whatsoever. Regardless, it sucked, and I never want it to happen again.
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Post by: Blood-Tree on 18 Feb 2013, 13:33
Until recently, the targeted advertisement on the bottom right-hand side of the QC homepage was for new bathroom suites (which makes sense, because I have been searching for that) but lately it's changed to a picture of a slightly saucy looking woman of middle-eastern ethnicity wearing a black chador and advertising a dating site for Muslims.

Apparently the internet thinks I'm a Muslim?
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Post by: Lupercal on 18 Feb 2013, 13:42
nah it just thinks you're into that based on all that weird porn you've been watching.
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Post by: Blood-Tree on 18 Feb 2013, 13:59
Yeah I guess that explains it.

I just want to find out how it ends. Does anyone know where I can download the final episode? How many seasons are there?
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Post by: Welu on 18 Feb 2013, 15:56
I've been reading some stuff about Islam and its beliefs a friend linked me and I got a similar ad. Although it said, "The one your parents picked no good!?" which seems really, really off.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 18 Feb 2013, 16:05
I've been reading some stuff about Islam and its beliefs a friend linked me and I got a similar ad. Although it said, "The one your parents picked no good!?" which seems really, really off.

 :o

Seriously?! Wow...it's basically telling you to "stick it to the man" by turning down an arranged marriage. That's...disturbingly humorous.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Welu on 18 Feb 2013, 16:16
It came up on YouTube. If I see it again I'll printscreen it. I don't want to talk for another culture but I thought something like that could be deemed offensive.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 18 Feb 2013, 17:07
Some people I knew in high school and uni were in cultures (some from Islam, some in other cultures) that used arranged marriages as a tradition. And some of them were opposed to the idea, but not all. I guess it's all based on an individual's take on the matter.
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Post by: Thrillho on 19 Feb 2013, 10:17
Arranged marriages still happen a lot and some people are okay with it. Many are not.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 19 Feb 2013, 10:32
So I finally switched to a safety razor and soap lather for shaving a few weeks ago. I'm actually kind of annoyed that I didn't switch years ago now. It's smoother, it's less irritating, and while the initial cost is a bit pricey it's a hell of a lot cheaper than buying disposable heads.
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Post by: Carl-E on 19 Feb 2013, 11:21
I always liked doing the soap-lather, even with disposables.  I bleed less, for some reason. 

+++++++

So I took the holiday and decent weather as an opportunity to fix the loose tie rod on the van (it's part of the steering, and had been caussing a pretty noticeable shimmy on the highway).  Get underneath, and find that all the shaking had loosened the other end of the tierod as well, and one of the sway bar links (all important stuff).  So the two hour job of changing out a tie rod took about 8 hours, an extra trip to the parts store, much time lost using a tool that didn't work (special tierod wrench I rented - piece of shit) losing and finding a roll pin that never made it into its designated place, skinning three knuckles and taking a bit off my exposed scalp when a wrench slipped and my head hit the edge of the wheelwell. 

All in all, a good day.  $56 in parts, and a $60 alignment at a nearby shop afterwards.  Better then the $400+ a shop would've charged...

Still, owwies.  And I can never get my hands completely clean for several days afterwards...
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Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Feb 2013, 13:20
how do you bleed when you shave? I don't bleed even when I scrape it dry...
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Post by: Thrillho on 19 Feb 2013, 13:26
I bleed when I shave basically every time.
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Post by: nekowafer on 19 Feb 2013, 13:30
Yep so do I. Even on the least sensitive areas to shave. I don't even have particularly sensitive skin.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 19 Feb 2013, 14:47
I have only bled after shaving once, and that was when someone made me jump and smack my nose on the mirror.
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Feb 2013, 14:48
I normally draw blood when shaving with a blade, which is why I've used electric shavers pretty much since I started shaving.
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 19 Feb 2013, 14:50
Ack: What sort of upfront investment cost are we talking here, if you don't mind? Shaving is a huge part of my pre-social rituals, so am curious.
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Post by: Welu on 19 Feb 2013, 14:51
I sometimes get nicked doing my legs but I only do wet shaves on a whim quickly and inaccurately so I'm not surprised. I moisturise them after if I'm bothered to stop my legs drying out. I've got a skintag under my armpit that hurt like hell when I got it once.
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Post by: jwhouk on 19 Feb 2013, 15:03
Nicks and cuts happen because no face is perfectly symmetrical, and even the best razors are straight-edged.

I just can't get into electric razors.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 19 Feb 2013, 16:43
I haven't cut myself shaving in years.

Ack: What sort of upfront investment cost are we talking here, if you don't mind? Shaving is a huge part of my pre-social rituals, so am curious.

Not sure if you're in the US or not, but here's some links. For me it cost about $90, but that was going with some pricier blades. Even the pricier blades though are, at most, 40 cents per blade if you buy a 100 pack.

$36 Handle (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NL0T1G/ref=oh_details_o03_s00_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1): I'd heard good things about this handle and it is a comfortable fit for me. It's apparently a good one size fits all handle.

$35 Blades (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004RWTQTS/ref=oh_details_o03_s01_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1): The price seems to have gone up since I bought them, but if you shave daily, they should last you a week apiece, so it's close to 2 years worth of blades. There are also much cheaper brands which you can get, as low as $7 for a 100 pack, but with how much I'm saving in the long run, I decided to splurge on the blades.

$13 Sample Blades (http://www.amazon.com/FEATHER-Oclock-BLUEBIRD-Blade-Sampler/dp/B007OL72B8/ref=pd_sim_hpc_21): It's got one blade each of 16 different brands and it just gives you a chance to figure out which ones suit your skin and all best. Also gives you a wide price variety to check out. I just used them for one or two shaves apiece before making my choice.

$10 Starter Lather Kit (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001A3HPT0/ref=oh_details_o03_s03_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1): Alright, so brushes range anywhere from $10 to $200+ because people are insane. This set comes with a starter soap, a bowl and a boar hair brush. The boar hair is a bit stiffer than badger hair, but it's been comfortable for me. I'm thinking I might get myself a $10 badger hair brush at some point to compare, like this one (http://www.amazon.com/Escali-100-Badger-Shaving-Brush/dp/B003WR3QSG/ref=pd_sim_hpc_9). Also, I haven't checked out other soaps yet, but this one is pleasent. Fresh bars cost anywhere from $1.50 - $5 and it seems like a bar should last about a month or so. Maybe more.

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Post by: de_la_Nae on 19 Feb 2013, 18:34
Thanks. I am in the U.S. I'll keep an eye out, though since I'm (supposedly) starting some hair removal procedures soon I think I'll hold off for the minute. Appreciate having someone's first-hand input, though.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 19 Feb 2013, 19:29
What style better as far as versatility? A) the blade & handle you mentioned, or
B) something more sweeney-ish? Like so. (http://www.amazon.com/Parker-SR1-Stainless-Straight-Razor/sim/B002PQZEHQ/2)

because although I use a soap bar and boar-hair brush (that needs a replacement, all the bristles have started to fall out), I still use a gillette mach-3 razor, and I'm getting tired of it.
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Post by: Carl-E on 19 Feb 2013, 21:08
In the hands of an amateur, those can be extraordinarily hazardous.  My wife's a professional, and wields one well (mainly for necks after a haircut), but without a great deal of practice, you're asking for a lot of nicks or a poor shave, depending on the angle. 
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Post by: ackblom12 on 19 Feb 2013, 21:16
I can't really see any reason to use a straight razor unless you have a serious love of the artform of shaving, which is perfectly valid, or are a professional.
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Post by: Redball on 19 Feb 2013, 21:23
For what it's worth, I shave in the shower nowadays (but not while I'm peeing, thinking of someone's recent post) and use a Schick Quattro razor (using a 4-blade cartridge) and lotion from an aerosol can. I have a light beard; if I didn't shave for a day and was about to set out somewhere, my wife told me she couldn't tell I hadn't shaved. It's light enough that I sometimes shave without lathering if it's within a day. And I do it by braille.
If I were really concerned about water and energy conservation, especially here in Tucson, I'd shave in front of a mirror at a sink. And then I might return to an electric.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Feb 2013, 21:24
I'm trying to grow out my facial hair. It's not working very well, and you can only really see it if I darken it with mascara.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 19 Feb 2013, 22:31
It took me over a month to grow a beard...it's not really worth it unless you plan on going to Sturgess.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 19 Feb 2013, 22:36
I don't feel comfortable at all without facial hair. I was genuinely distressed the last time I shaved totally clean. That shit just ain't right for me.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Feb 2013, 23:14
it's been like...six weeks since I've shaved.
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Post by: pwhodges on 20 Feb 2013, 04:36
Slashdot is having a really pretty sensible discussion (http://tech.slashdot.org/story/13/02/19/1753215/oxford-temporarily-bloc) of an issue which has been of concern to me in the last week or two, as I run a mail server in that institution.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 20 Feb 2013, 05:20
I don't understand how a 150-minute block would affect phishing scams, while I can clearly see how it would screw up legitimate business transactions and other scrupulous activity on campus.
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Post by: Jace on 20 Feb 2013, 05:55
aww yeah fuckin up the first test of the semester in calculus. Good thing I'm tired or I would have attached an essay at the bottom about how testing isn't a legitimate way of gauging whether or not a student knows material since in the real world you can reference your notes.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Feb 2013, 06:25
Jace, I couldn't agree with you more, I sympathise :(

I took the day off from lectures (one is miles behind what we've already covered in reading, one is so far above my level of comprehension that it's just a two-hour waste of time) and am applying for summer jobs. Lots of summer jobs! I'm trying to find something that will keep me in Cambridge for a couple of months, so that if I do get onto a midwifery course I have somewhere to live until it starts, and if not then I have a bit more time to find a permanent job. The application process is kind of boring though.
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Post by: Papersatan on 20 Feb 2013, 07:38
Slashdot is having a really pretty sensible discussion (http://tech.slashdot.org/story/13/02/19/1753215/oxford-temporarily-bloc) of an issue which has been of concern to me in the last week or two, as I run a mail server in that institution.

We've has a few google docs phishing scams come around at our university and if ITS responded by blocking access to Google docs there would be hell.  The number of group projects I have that are relying on it to co-write papers an maintain our data.... If an assignment were late because people couldn't access the documents at the time they had free to work on them it would be no small deal. 

I think the broader question is interesting though, how to stop people from getting phished.  I think IT people have a tendency to just think "it is as easy as not being stupid." and that opinion is expressed at least once in that discussion. Claiming that people who fall for scams that get past their spam filters are stupid is like claiming that people who don't catch grammar mistakes their word processor doesn't catch are stupid.  It is easy to see glaring mistakes when you are and expert, but most users are not experts in this and have passed the responsibility to someone else, and that is where some of the problem lies. 

Last year one of my classes did a design jam* on this topic.  Our task was to develop a solution to people clicking on phishing scams (in particular ones which had a "this might be a scam" warning on top, which people still click on at alarming rates).  My team's (winning) solution was a university wide campaign leveraging the group identity of being a member of the university to reinforce that being careful about email messages is a shared value.  We made used of our school rivalry to rename "getting phished" to "getting Buckeyed" and developed major specific messages which would resonate with specific values held by subgroups of our population (for example the one for English majors focused on close reading and analysis).  Then had the pop-over warning use the phrase "don't get buckeyed" to force a recollection of the rest of the campaign.  The last part though, was the weakest part of our plan for two reasons.

First, since our Email is maintained by Google, I am not sure our ITS department could change the text of that message if they wanted to, and second I still feel that having warning messages on some scams makes it more likely that people will fall for scams which have not been tagged with a warning.  I think seeing a message like that reinforces that someone else is checking your messages for scams and so you don't need to be as vigilant, but it is inevitable that some scams will get through. 

Solutions which just reinforce "don't ever give out personal information based on an email" also don't work, because we frequently do have to give out personal information based on emails.  It just requires us to log into a secure and trusted site to do it, not to enter the data into an online form.  Once a year my University emails me to remind me to update my emergency contact information.  They are emailing me to ask me for personal information.  But, instead of a link to a form, I am required to go to the university website and log in. Simple rules have simple workarounds for scammers.  What is needed is a way to get users to think critically about each email.

Another solution offered on that was the "name and shame" which his/her boss is right to be against.  The number one rule pounded into my head in my Social Influence class (the one this design jam was for) was DON'T SHOW PEOPLE DOING THE BEHAVIOR YOU WANT TO DISCOURAGE. If you publish a list of people who have been scammed, or even tell people "yesterday 307 people were phished, you should be more careful!" you are reassuring them that this is normal, and it happens, and so if it happens to them they are not alone. It is miles more effective to make people feel like this is a behavior which is abnormal and which makes them different than most people.  If there is one thing people hate it is to stick out being 'worse' than their peers.

It is actually really difficult to develop a campaign which avoids showing an unwanted behavior: Smoking, Texting and driving, underage drinking....  PSAs about these almost always show someone doing the thing that is unwanted, and frequently they are the only person in the ad.

Anyways, I  have gone off on a really long rant now, and I want some lunch.

*I don't know if the phrase design jam is common outside of iSchools, or even outside of my school for that matter.  It is a casual, short brainstorming contest meant to find solutions to real world problems.  Teams of people with different expertise brainstorm, then develop a solution, get input from the larger group and then redevelop.  At the end all potential solutions are presented and voted on. 
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Post by: pwhodges on 20 Feb 2013, 07:56
*I don't know if the phrase design jam is common

I've never seen it, but understood it on the fly without having to think about it.

On the block of Google Docs, note that this (a) was only for a couple of hours, and (b) was intended to be noticed - this is explained in the blog post linked from Slashdot. 

A specific problem I had in all this was that one of my users' computers was (according to the central IT dept, who monitor the outgoing mail, and put a router block on it) infected with the trojan that this phishing trip was planting.  However, the user and I can find no trace of either the phishing email or any suspicious web site in her history - oh, and the university-licenced AV (Sophos) detected nothing, either.  I am really at a loss to see how it could have got in to this particular machine - if it really did (it's been formatted now, so I can't investigate further). 

It won't take much more for me to have to look seriously into blocking outgoing access through my firewall except to individually approved sites - but I really don't want to go there, because of the nightmare of administering such a setup.
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Post by: nekowafer on 20 Feb 2013, 08:23
I work in the billing/credentialing office of a radiology company that was recently acquired with a couple others in the area. We had the same director/VP/manager of the office, a woman, for at least 15 years. She did a great job of it, too, and everyone liked her. Once we were taken over by the bigger company, she left, and was replaced with a man. He was nice, but didn't really know what he was doing.

This company, on the whole, is probably 75% women. There are less than 10 men in this particular office. They fired the old manager of the office a couple of days ago. Today they announced the new one - a man. From this office. What I don't get is, why wouldn't they hire a woman? There were at least two in this office that could have taken that job. This guy is also from one of the other companies taken over - which just irritates me more.

I realize that I don't know any details and I'm only looking at this from the outside. But I just don't get how they managed to pick another man out of so many great women.

OH and this is the guy that seems to ignore that my department exists. We were allowed a "dress down" day after the Ravens won the Superbowl, and he just... didn't tell my manager. He told every other manager, just not her.
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Post by: Papersatan on 20 Feb 2013, 11:04
I understand it was meant to be disruptive, but I am not sure how effective would would be at making people pay attention to their mail and not submit information to google.forms, while a disruption like that could have been a major problem for a group project.  Finding time to write with two other Grad students can be nearly impossible, and for many of my assignments with short deadlines (one-three weeks from group formation to deadline) we only meet in person once, and then use Google docs.  In these assignments the final editing is usually done at a time when all parties are available to log online and edit together discussing changes with the in doc chat function.  If there had been a two hour disruption which coincided with our scheduled edit time, it would have been more than a slight inconvenience. 

I am not very familiar with the actual capabilities of the IT department wrt email management.  Would it be possible to just block access to google docs from within emails?  That is, make it so I would have to open a browser and go to a URL instead of submitting an imbedded form (someone in the thread mentioned preventing POST actions, that would be what this is, yes?) or clicking on a URL within the email.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 20 Feb 2013, 11:13
That would mean re-writing emails, which would not be allowed under other rules; quite apart from the difficulty of reliably detecting those that need it.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 20 Feb 2013, 11:23
Frankly it's hilarious to me that people are relying on the Google Docs program instead of an internal system, but I admit I'm quaint in some regards.

Though amusingly the university finally just contracted Google to handle their email service, since their internal system was shit. So uh...yeah.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 20 Feb 2013, 11:41
Frankly it's hilarious to me that people are relying on the Google Docs program instead of an internal system,

When you have groups from several universities collaborating, it can be almost hopeless to get (a) those concerned to agree which university's systems should be used and (b) that university's IT team to give appropriate access to everyone in a timely and effective manner.  Such groups quickly realise that using an existing independent and free service designed for collaboration has obvious benefits.

My users are not allowed to do this, as there's no way we would get away with putting patient information in clinical trials into a cloud server however secure it might be in practice; but many other groups are not subject to the degree of regulatory control that mine is.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 20 Feb 2013, 11:43
A point. Some of you are working on a rather larger scale than I ever do.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 20 Feb 2013, 11:49
Google docs is my university's system. 

the University of Michigan contracted their email to Google last year and with it signed up for Google Applications.  I now schedule meetings and reserve rooms using a google calender and collaborate with peers using Google docs.  Before the switch over to google I am not aware of any other content managment system that I had access to as a student.  Rooms were scheduled using a SharePoint calendar, but I did not have my own calender and I was not allowed access to the parts of SharePoint which would allow me to create and share a file library or work with someone remotely on the same document (which I am not sure is even a function within SharePoint), so we used Google docs anyways.  This way actually makes it easier to separate school files from private ones (I was constantly accepting Google doc invites with my private email instead of my university one). , and since it is synced with the university's user directory, I can search for the people I want to add without being sure of their exact email. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 20 Feb 2013, 12:18
Unrelated:

I just noticed that the job I applied for last month with the county has been re-posted.  I don't know if this is a different position with the same job title, or the same one.  I never got a call for the first job, and this makes me anxious that they didn't get any applications they thought were worth pursuing (including mine).  I thought I was well qualified....

I am going to reapply in the hopes that it is a different position and maybe I will get this one. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 20 Feb 2013, 12:35
It wasn't one where you applied with the resume with the wrong phone number, was it?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 20 Feb 2013, 12:41
lol, no.  I fixed that ages ago.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Feb 2013, 15:44
I can search for the people I want to add without being sure of their exact email.

My university has this function buried deep in its computing service website and it is an absolute gem. Since I no longer have facebook, being able to search for someone's name and find a way of emailing them is invaluable. I honestly think that without it, I'd have had to reactivate my account just to be able to contact people I don't see regularly.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Asterus on 20 Feb 2013, 17:21
What Albion did when I attended there was just tell all the students to import a spreadsheet of the entire student body into their student address book and call it a day. It was extremely easy, as long as IT didn't accidentally upload the wrong spreadsheet by mistake.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 20 Feb 2013, 17:29
My university has 43,000 students, plus staff and faculty.  Before this I think it was searching by department affiliation for grads and staff and for undergrads? s.o.l. I guess. Before websites grad students got physical mailboxes, but that is only for PhD's now.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Feb 2013, 22:20
So I did this (http://dollarstorecriminal.tumblr.com/post/43625984828/so-im-kind-of-tired-of-living-with-these#notes) on my blog. I'm not sure how I feel about asking for donations...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: idontunderstand on 21 Feb 2013, 05:09
So, interview yesterday. I want this job so bad I will get devastated if I don't get it.

It's this kind of job which sounds boring to anyone who hasn't ever wanted to be a lawyer specialized in environmental law I guess, authority/governmental type. I need a foot in the door so to speak, but it's the exact right place for me right now.

Keep your fingers crossed or do what we do, hold your thumb. Pretty please. :)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Bluesummers on 21 Feb 2013, 06:03
Rooting for you ;D
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 21 Feb 2013, 06:24
So I did this (http://dollarstorecriminal.tumblr.com/post/43625984828/so-im-kind-of-tired-of-living-with-these#notes) on my blog. I'm not sure how I feel about asking for donations...

Personally, I am glad you did it. Though I know how difficult it is to ask for such things, I am hoping it will lead to something good for you.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Feb 2013, 08:34
What happened to not taking money from people, or is just me personally you don't want to have help from?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 21 Feb 2013, 08:35
It makes me feel better about taking money from people if I'm offering them something in return.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Feb 2013, 09:26
I would have preferred to have the knowledge that we were friends than a video, but there we go. I hope everything works out.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 21 Feb 2013, 09:40
It's really difficult to take someone's money. I am sure you know this, but it gets more complicated the more you need it, and the more money you need. If you're working for that money (one way or another), you feel like you deserve it just a bit more than if you're just asking for money and responding with a thank you. If you already feel "useless" in some ways (Unicorn is not, but I fear they feel like it? I could be totally wrong here), it feels even worse to take people's money like that.

You 'sound' somewhat offended, so I just wanted to interject with my thoughts on it. I could be just talking out my ass here though so yeah
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 21 Feb 2013, 09:50
No, you've hit it pretty much on the head. Now I feel worse for having said anything.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 21 Feb 2013, 09:56
I'm sorry :(
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 21 Feb 2013, 10:03
It's not you, darling. I just...ugh, I don't like feeling like shit when I'm asking for money. I'm trying to do something so I don't feel like shit but apparently that makes people angry at me too so I don't know what to do right.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 21 Feb 2013, 10:27
I'm proud of you, Unicorn.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 21 Feb 2013, 10:33
What happened to not taking money from people,

Sometimes circumstances can overwhelm one.  It was my therapist who said that the most important steps in helping myself were first to recognise that I needed help, and then to accept help when offered.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Feb 2013, 11:44
I'm sorry, I shouldn't have said anything. I was deeply offended when you refused my offer of help last time, because you had been talking about asking others for help and I didn't see why my help was so much less acceptable. And then when you were asking again, I just felt that it was me personally you don't want to take help from. But like I said, I shouldn't have said anything because frankly me feeling a bit offended is pretty irrelevant in this situation.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 21 Feb 2013, 14:52
Heh...oh May, don't worry, it wasn't just you that Uni turned down, it's not a matter of relationship value.

When someone does a kindness or favor for me, I've gotten to the point where I can openly admit that I need to offer a return of some sort a few times (a couple dollars, a favor, whatever) before I can feel comfortable accepting that favor. Even if it's someone who's been my close friend for years. It allows me to both soothe my pride and quiet the irrational alarm bells that jangle in my head at 'being given a gift I don't deserve' (which is all of them, incidentally. Like I said, irrational).

I imagine something similar is going on here. I imagine we all have some meatspace friends and acquaintances who act like that too.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: idontunderstand on 21 Feb 2013, 23:14
Unicorn, I don't have anything to donate right now but if I get that job I probably will. Not out of pity, more as a protest against the fact that money runs the world and decides your well-being in a way I think is completely disgusting. If there's someone who needs it more than I do, well why can't they just have it? Don't consider it an act of pity.

You could consider it as a unicorn preservation fund?.........!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 23 Feb 2013, 07:01
Oh look, another of my grandchildren is pregnant (and single)...

At least this one is actually asking for advice.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: KingOfIreland on 23 Feb 2013, 07:30
All my cousins (younger than I am) have kids now and are unemployed. It's sort of shameful really.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 23 Feb 2013, 10:32
Having a million non-urgent things I have to do is kind of useful for someone with such a short attention span like me (blame the internet) because getting distracted from one task means there's an opportunity to focus on another one.

Paul, you say that as if it's a regular occurence. Is it really that bad?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 23 Feb 2013, 11:08
Second in a month.  I only have two grand-daughters of child-bearing age (unless you include the 13-year-old).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 23 Feb 2013, 11:21
Oh look, another of my grandchildren is pregnant (and single)...

At least this one is actually asking for advice.

Hodgy Beats, I never really know what to say to posts like these except that you know all our thoughts are with you, and if anyone on this forum is mature enough to deal with such a situation with class and honour, it's yourself.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Feb 2013, 11:32
How old is this one? As I have probably already said, the girl I am sort of maybe seeing has a son - she was a teenager (fifteen, I think) when he was born and is a single mother and full time student now. It can be done but it is very hard.  There are advantages to having children when you're young but I suspect they are usually outweighed by the financial and social disadvantages. I hope it works out for your grandchildren.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 23 Feb 2013, 11:42
This one's 22 and living away from home (different city); the first one is 19 and still living at home.  Both have reasonable jobs; the younger's relationship has broken up, but the older one I have no information (a man answered the phone when we called back).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 23 Feb 2013, 16:35
This sort of situation can work out great. A friend of mine had her first kid when she was sixteen and she's now living a nice life with a man (not the father of her first kid, who is a douche) and her three kids. She's going to be a teacher.

Just saying, it might seem difficult now but given enough support everything will work out. And you seem supportive, so ...

Anyway, good luck.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 25 Feb 2013, 00:45
Ups and downs;

Down - unemployment ran out last week. 

Up - the online course starts in a week. 

Down - I fell on the ice Friday. 

Up - it happened on school property, workman's comp is taking care of it. 

Down - after getting home too go to my local emergency room, I get a call from HR - I have to use the ER over near the school, 40 miles away. 

Up - it's a tiny hospital, I'm in and out in about an hour and a half. 

Down - x-rays show a possible compression fracture in the lower spine, which explains the excruciating pain whenever I bend. 

Up - on the same day I was contacted by an online educational site that's looking for a mathematician to check their content.  Contract through November for about $40,000. 

Down - OK, can't think of one for that!  Except I don't have the job yet, I still have to speak with their math director...


Up - me in a hospital gown...

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8105/8505682145_efde64f8cb_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 25 Feb 2013, 01:11
(http://thegoat.backcountry.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/rollercoaster.jpg)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 25 Feb 2013, 10:08
Carl you stallion. That an open-backed gown? Do you feel ever so slightly sexy in it?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 25 Feb 2013, 10:22
Any nurses checking out your booty?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 25 Feb 2013, 10:23
Yeah, flashing the bright blue briefs at all of 'em. 



No takers...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 25 Feb 2013, 10:37
You wrote 'bright blue briefs' but I read 'golden sparkly G-string.'
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Feb 2013, 10:55
I hope you get the job! Sounds good, and maybe the sort of thing that might lead to more of the same work?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Feb 2013, 12:30
having forgotten what this thread was about, and reading those last two replies...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 25 Feb 2013, 12:48
You wrote 'bright blue briefs' but I read 'golden sparkly G-string.'

Not a speedo but for some reason I couldn't help but think of this.
(http://i.imgur.com/5uT8TXO.jpg)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Blood-Tree on 25 Feb 2013, 13:30
Huh?

That looks a lot like my Uncle Bill.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 25 Feb 2013, 13:51
Goldust is glorious.

Look at that ball-bulge. It's ridiculous.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 25 Feb 2013, 14:29
There was a photoshopped version with an even bigger ball bulge but it was too low-res to share.  :-(

Forgot to mention it was my friend's birthday party the other night. Lots of fun. We watched Black Dynamite which is amazing. A sister of a friend crashed and was being quite down which would have been okay but it came with a side of LOOK AT ME! Overall it was still great though. I think my friends did a very good balance of Deal with uninvited person firmly but sympathetically and Have fun with invited guests. There were two other crashers but they were the brother and friend of birthday friend's new lady, also they were fun, so they were nice to meet.
Also I have pizza twice that day.

It was a good weekend!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 25 Feb 2013, 14:46
Black Dynamite, we love you.

Quiet.

You'll wake the other bitches.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ackblom12 on 25 Feb 2013, 16:20
Doughnuts don't wear alligator shoes!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 26 Feb 2013, 00:02
I am smiling.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 26 Feb 2013, 22:56
(http://dl.dropbox.com/u/63857951/2013-02-26%2023.49.38.jpg)

WELCOME TO MY NEW APARTMENT
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 27 Feb 2013, 03:35
Ughh I had a huge freakout last night because I tried so hard yesterday and I'm still like 90% sure that I'm gonna get bitched at for something today at work anyway. I want yesterday to go away.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 27 Feb 2013, 04:39
So last night was the bar night I hosted.  Turn out was not great, but that might be because of the terrible winter storm.  It is disgusting out.  Either way three people came and we had a nice time.  Everyone wants to do it again, so I will organize another for next month and hopefully the weather will be nicer. 

I drank way too much and now I can't sleep from a combination of my now sober body punishing me physically and my racing thoughts.  This happens occasionally, but it particularly terrible at the moment because I am exhausted.  I stayed up til 5 yesterday writing a paper, and then had class at 8:30, so I got 1.5 hours of sleep. I tried to take a nap before the bar night, but my body only let me sleep for 45 min.  I have some homework I need to get done asap, but I can't concentrate on it now because of lack of sleep, and I know when my body breaks I am going to sleep for 10 hours, so it is going to be way later than it should be.   

ugghh
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 27 Feb 2013, 05:30
Heh, not too bad (http://testyourvocab.com/result?user=2577350), I guess.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 27 Feb 2013, 07:09
I only got 28,700

http://testyourvocab.com/result?user=2578013
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 27 Feb 2013, 07:15
http://testyourvocab.com/result?user=2578047

FUN!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 27 Feb 2013, 07:15
Don't know if I want to take it. I vaguely recall a test from the early 1960s which said I recognized 100k-plus. Obviously a different kind of test.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Feb 2013, 16:40
Heh, not too bad (http://testyourvocab.com/result?user=2577350), I guess.

almost! (http://testyourvocab.com/result?user=2580313)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: henri bemis on 27 Feb 2013, 17:07
30,700, and I kept getting frustrated by words I know I would understand in context but couldn't think of a definition for.  Can you use it in a sentence, please?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Bluesummers on 27 Feb 2013, 19:25
Huzzah (http://testyourvocab.com/result?user=2580595)...I can't believe I got so high. Most of words sounded quite made-up.

My SAT verbal score was 660 out of 800, back in 2004.

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 28 Feb 2013, 06:06
670 for me, but that was back in 1979. And my score came out rather low-  probably because of the reading questions - I don't read much anymore. 

Except forums...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 28 Feb 2013, 09:50
Gareth sends email around people at work asking who wants to go for a drink this Saturday

Email includes the new girls from marketing

One of the new girls from marketing replies observing that she is 17 next month

Oops
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 28 Feb 2013, 09:58
Gareth sends email around people at work asking who wants to go for a drink this Saturday

Email includes the new girls from marketing

One of the new girls from marketing replies observing that she is 17 next month

Oops

Are non-alcoholic drinks an impossibility if you want to hang out with people from work?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aethien on 28 Feb 2013, 10:07
Depends on how much you like your colleagues and/or where you're going.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 28 Feb 2013, 10:33
I'm pretty sure that 24-year-old me hanging around in a bar with 16-year-old her might be a BAD IDEA
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aethien on 28 Feb 2013, 10:35
Play it slow and in a little more than a year she can be yours?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 28 Feb 2013, 10:42
Well first of all strictly speaking in England I could fuck her without any legal repercussions.

Social repercussions are another question.

Also, I didn't find her attractive before anyway, I invited her along with anyone else who I thought was in my age group - including the other new girl in her department who I actually DO want to bang.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aethien on 28 Feb 2013, 11:06
Well, carry on then.



Also, as a fellow 24 year old (well, 25 in about a week), don't you agree that even 18 year olds tend to look like kids to you now?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 28 Feb 2013, 11:33
Varies. Some of them do, some of them don't. I've got no qualms about sleeping with an 18 year old in theory. Even people the same age as me can seem so immature that I see them as kids. It's about demeanour and attitude.

And also, to be blunt, about whether I just want to fuck them or want to actually get to know them and see if there's something there.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aethien on 28 Feb 2013, 11:36
I dunno, maybe it's because my little sister turned 18 in January and I still think of her as a little kid.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 28 Feb 2013, 11:42
I'm going to resist my every single urge to make a joke there, and observe that yeah I can understand that viewpoint, but luckily as the youngest in my family I've never had that problem  :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aethien on 28 Feb 2013, 11:47
Feel free to make whatever joke you want, I'm not that easily offended. :-P
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 28 Feb 2013, 11:49
Well first of all I was wondering if your sister was hot.

Then I was wondering if you had a photo of her.

And then I wondered if your avatar already was a photo of her.

Not really a joke per se, I admit.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aethien on 28 Feb 2013, 11:51
Pretty damn hard to say about your siblings but average I guess.

Yes but not posting that, privacy 'n all that.

And no. :-P
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 28 Feb 2013, 12:15
The one on the right looks a lot like a girl I knew once.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aethien on 28 Feb 2013, 12:19
If said girl is a porn actress it might be the same person.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 28 Feb 2013, 12:25
She isn't that I am aware, but I have now found that girl on Facebook and added her hahaha.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aethien on 28 Feb 2013, 12:30
I've got a whole bunch of avatars of sexy women, I could switch them around, see if you recognize one of them? :-P
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 28 Feb 2013, 13:34
I have been against having sex with people under 20 since... well since before I was 20. Now that I'm nearing 30, there's no way I'd get near any of that. Boyfriend is 24 and still seems young to me.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Bluesummers on 28 Feb 2013, 18:35
....Cradlerobber. ;D
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Feb 2013, 19:07
Not yet...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 01 Mar 2013, 05:38
:lol:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 01 Mar 2013, 06:41
I'm 24, and I've started seeing a girl (yeah, I said it; her name's Esther) who happens to be 18. She does look pretty young to my old man eyes, but not as bad as some girls her age.

Does suck that I can't bring her out to the bar for another 3 years, but that's no big bother. I don't go out every night anyway, and now she's just keeping me from wasting my money on beers at the bar.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: idontunderstand on 01 Mar 2013, 06:48
Aren't there any places you can go together though? Does it have to be a 21+ bar?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Mar 2013, 09:27
I'm 24, and I've started seeing a girl (yeah, I said it; her name's Esther) who happens to be 18.

just in time for Purim (http://bettermyths.com/esther-must-be-really-good-at-sex/)?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Mar 2013, 12:14
My iPhone broke (wouldn't turn off - turn off sequence continued right on into a reboot); yesterday I had the opportunity to take it to an Apple store.  No appointment, but they found one for me (a cancellation I think).  Poked it a little, and then explained that the repair was to give me a new one - for free, as it was still a few weeks within warranty.

 :-D

Then, as they were finishing off, the entire store network crashed, and they had to finish up doing the paperwork on, y'know, paper...    :laugh:
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Post by: Redball on 04 Mar 2013, 12:17
Apple does that surprisingly often.
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Post by: Welu on 04 Mar 2013, 13:12
My tutor went on maternity leave a couple of weeks ago. Our sub? Her husband. So guess why our sub tutor didn't show up this morning.  :-D I'm not annoyed but it they, as in the higher-ups or whoever decided he'd be subbing, should have thought of this scenario.
My classmates and I were joking that this was probably why the sub hadn't shown up and then someone found out so that was kinda funny. Some people said couldn't they have sent an email. Maybe? We don't know whether she went into labour at midnight or twenty minutes before class. Plus they live nearly two hours away anyway, in the Republic, so it's not like they're at the town hospital. In any case I'm fairly sure the students getting the classroom unlocked was one of the last things on their mind.
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Post by: Akima on 04 Mar 2013, 13:29
Poked it a little, and then explained that the repair was to give me a new one - for free, as it was still a few weeks within warranty.
Nice one! A reflection, perhaps of the "unrepairability" of modern electronic devices? Or was it a software thing?
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Then, as they were finishing off, the entire store network crashed
They should hire you! Or maybe me, except that I don't want to live in the UK. Cold!
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Post by: pwhodges on 04 Mar 2013, 16:24
Or was it a software thing?

No, it's a known regular fault - won't stay turned off unless a charger is plugged in (and boots if it is removed); also power consumption rockets.  I asked the cause, and they said "no idea - we follow the flowchart and it says replace".

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They should hire you! Or maybe me,

I was thinking I can bring my entire network up from cold (including the Exchange Server, which is slower than a slow thing to start and stop) in less time than I stood there waiting for the forms to be filled in.

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I don't want to live in the UK. Cold!

The temperature has gone above 5 degrees for a few days now; it reached 8 here today (but still a night frost).
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 Mar 2013, 00:36
I'm in a relationship now based on intense mutual pity I think?
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Post by: Aethien on 05 Mar 2013, 02:54
I'm in a relationship now based on intense mutual pity I think?
That... doesn't sound very good?
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Post by: snalin on 05 Mar 2013, 04:36
I'm in a relationship now based on intense mutual pity I think?

(http://jsx.ms/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/itssomething.png)
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Post by: Bluesummers on 05 Mar 2013, 05:50
I'm in a relationship now based on intense mutual pity I think?

Geek out. If they stay, they're a keeper.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 Mar 2013, 08:33
Geek out? They've already said I'm their moirail (http://mspaintadventures.wikia.com/wiki/Quadrants) which is actually really sweet the more that I think about it.
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Post by: Carl-E on 06 Mar 2013, 00:57
Let my daughter use my computer for a few last night. 


She managed to get a virus past the antivirus software.  It said it killed it, but there were search redirects all the time - did a full scan, it said it found a rootkit.  Killed it. rebooted, and.... it won't.  Reboot.  Black screen with a cursor, even in safemode. 


Using my other daughter's netbook to check in on my online classes. 




Fuckfuckfuckfuckfuck.....
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Post by: Aethien on 06 Mar 2013, 01:54
Got your OS on a separate partition?
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Post by: Carl-E on 06 Mar 2013, 05:04
No.  The machine was a gift, and I'm not literate enough to fuck with setups like that. 

Off to a guru with the damn thing.  Gonna start with the guy who gave it to me, he rehabilitated it from another user - maybe he can do it again. 


I wish I knew more about computers.  Then maybe I could make a decent living...

In other news, I just replaced a tie-rod end on my car, so I don't feel completely useless.
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Post by: Aethien on 06 Mar 2013, 05:54
Reinstalling the OS is always an option, that just means all your data is gone.

It kind of depends on how much important stuff is on that HDD.
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Post by: Black Sword on 06 Mar 2013, 06:10
Welp, time to begin my first ever job search since college. Two people junior to me got promoted above me, and that's a prime sign that it's time to vamoose.
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Post by: pwhodges on 06 Mar 2013, 07:10
Reinstalling the OS is always an option, that just means all your data is gone.

Not if you don't reformat the disk.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 06 Mar 2013, 13:09
Reinstalling the OS is always an option, that just means all your data is gone.

Not if you don't reformat the disk.
Quite right...as long as you have enough free space on the disk to reinstall the O.S., you don't need to reformat.
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Post by: Welu on 07 Mar 2013, 13:46
I'm getting to film in a pub! It's the first time I'm filming in a location! I'm so excited and happy about this!
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Post by: Aethien on 07 Mar 2013, 13:58
I'd be happy too if I could tap and drink beer on the job.
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Post by: Redball on 07 Mar 2013, 14:02
Keep the cameras dry!
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Post by: Aethien on 07 Mar 2013, 14:09
Hmmmmoookay guysz...*hic!*... take shevenhunnertfohteig*hic!*eit, go!
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Post by: Loki on 07 Mar 2013, 14:23
Ordered pizza via a website which serves basically as a proxy to a lot of restaurants and pizza places in the area. Ordered a pizza from Domino's. Website said it would be up to 45 minutes.

1 hour later still no pizza. Called the actual Domino's Pizza. They said they had never received the order from the website. Order pizza straight from Domino's.

Contacted website support. They:

They: "Domino's failed to confirm the order in time, but now received it."
Me: "So wait, does that mean the order is booked double now?"
They: "No, it isn't! Have a nice evening!"
Me: -.-

Called Domino's again to confirm that they didn't accidentally book my order twice. They said they didn't and that they'd throw a free drink of my choice with in as an excuse for the delay, even though it wasn't their fault. Needless to say, I wasn't frugal with tipping when they arrived.

TL;DR: Got free 1l Cola. Domino's is awesome.
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Post by: Aethien on 07 Mar 2013, 14:35
Wait, Germans tip?

I mean, we kinda sorta tip here, but not much. Usually it's just rounding it up a bit.
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Post by: Loki on 07 Mar 2013, 14:46
I am actually not really sure what is appropriate when having stuff delivered, but weather was a bitch to drive through, and I was really glad to finally get my damn pizza.

Normally, when eating out, I tip 10% and round up to the next Euro (or sometimes to the next 50ct). That usually comes out as roughly 15-20% actually, now that I think about it. (6€ + 0.60€ + rounding = 7€ = 6€*1.16666...=6€+16%.)
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Post by: Aethien on 07 Mar 2013, 14:59
I usually tip a euro or two, depends on the situation.

I've tried tipping more at the Beer Temple in Amsterdam though but the barkeepers are too fast with entering the bill for my inebriated brain to deal with and I pretty much always pay with debit card.
It's hard not to drink 6 or 7 beers there and after that it tends to get a little difficult to do math.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 07 Mar 2013, 15:00
So the last two weeks have been rough. Some of my friends were in a car crash (they're all fine, but it was pretty scary, I had three tests, and right before spring break started last week, I learned that I did not get the RA position. I've been stuck at home with nothing to do but homework that I can't really do because I don't have a laptop. So I've been thinking a lot, which really isn't good based on the events going on lately. I don't want to be big and famous.  I don't care about being an overachiever anymore. I just can't do it,every time I try to get All As or anything above a 3.5 GPA, I fail. All I want is to live my life. I don't think I want to be a science major, I've lost so much of my creativity the past three years. I do t know if I want to be some socially awkward science person or an outgoing artist type.
And now I have so much homework To do, but I don't have the willpower to do it

Sorry for the rant guts, I needed to vent
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Post by: Thrillho on 07 Mar 2013, 15:03
I tip if you do an incredible job, because in this country the tipping culture is not ingrained into wage structures like it is in the US. If you are just a good waiter/tress, then I don't tip, because fuck it that's your job that you get paid to do.
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Post by: Thrillho on 07 Mar 2013, 15:03
I'm in a relationship now based on intense mutual pity I think?

(http://jsx.ms/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/itssomething.png)

Also this photo has given me endless joy
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Post by: Welu on 07 Mar 2013, 15:09
Keep the cameras dry!

We're going to be filming in a mostly disused lounge area of a larger pub so a lot of the bottle that were there were actually empty. I'm sure we'll find a way to get a little wet though.  :mrgreen:

Edit: I just realised what I wrote as soon as I posted. To clarify: We are not shooting a porno.

~ ~

Tipping: I've been taught when in a restaurant to tip at least a couple of pound for decent service. Basically, as long as the food arrives in okay time and the server doesn't call you a bollocks loud enough you can hear them. Also always try to make sure the server gets the money if possible. A lot of the money in the shared jars tends to go to management and never be seen again. My Mammy has been in the serving business since she was in her teens so she's simultaneously empathetic and really critical of service.
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Post by: Aethien on 07 Mar 2013, 15:10
There ain't nothing wrong with just wanting to lead your life and be reasonably happy. You don't have to want to become king of the world 'n all that jazz.


Actually, just striving to be happy is a far nobler goal.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 07 Mar 2013, 16:15
Christ, what a shitty day.
My stupid coworker was stupid and pissed me off. Rather than call back the engineer who talked to me to report a roof leak and asked for a call back, she called in the leak to the warranty company with zero information whilst bitching that he should give her more information, but by email not by phone, and also bitching that I should have updated the warranty info sheet, which I did, thank you very much, and if she's going to look at a printout instead of the latest info on the share drive there's not much I can do about it.
She proceeded to spend the rest of the morning yelling at her bank before leaving for a lunch appointment for 2+ hours. By the time she made it back into the office she'd discovered somebody in the garage breaking rules that we went over with them less than a month ago, and had to deal with the creepy awful guy who manages their office.
I ended up staying almost an hour late, first because I wasn't watching the clock, and then because the creepy awful guy (I got stuck in his office for like 20 minutes last Tuesday and spent like 2 hours crying uncontrollably that night and on the verge of tears most of Wednesday) came back down to the office to ask for an address and proceeded to make a weird comment/joke/??? that make both of us uncomfortable. So she decided to tell our boss, because he made a similarly weird/creepy/inappropriate comment to her last week, and got upset because our boss asked for details and she felt like he didn't believe her. (Except, because she's a fucking idiot, she kept saying "it's like questioning the rapist!")
Once I got out of there I decided I was going to be a fucking adult and go get my car's emissions testing done because it's due next Tuesday, but when I got there they were closed because it turns out they're only open until 7pm on Tuesdays and Wednesdays not Thursdays like I thought. So between everything I didn't get home until 6:30 (I'm usually home around 5pm) and I shit you not, my husband was playing computer games and when I walked in he said, "Are you going to make us dinner? I'm hungry."
And I haven't said anything because I know if I do, then (a) I'll start crying, or (b) I'll take everything out on him, or (c) probably both. So instead I'm venting here and drinking a strong (for me) rum and coke because otherwise I'm going to lose it.
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Post by: Aethien on 07 Mar 2013, 16:21
Sounds like it's time to have a conversation with your husband, partially to set up some kind of text message code for "my day is going absolutely horrible, cook me a fancy dinner" and possibly a second code for do that but wear nothing but an apron by the time I get home.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 07 Mar 2013, 16:41
We're currently on week two of actually planning a menu and shopping for it at the beginning of the week. I even bought a white board and put it up in the kitchen to write the menu on! So at least we didn't have to go through the whole "what do you want for dinner?" "I don't know, what do you want?" rigamarole. But it was just the fucking cherry on top.
Oh yeah and we got an invitation to his cousin's wedding in the mail today. It's in Florida. On the 30th.
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Post by: Aethien on 07 Mar 2013, 16:47
I still think making him prepare you a fancy meal (with fancy wine/beer of course) while wearing nothing but an apron is a good idea.
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Post by: Redball on 07 Mar 2013, 17:43
When you come up for air, I hope you talk to him about this. He needs to hear it.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 07 Mar 2013, 17:52
Sounds like it's time to have a conversation with your husband, partially to set up some kind of text message code for "my day is going absolutely horrible, cook me a fancy dinner"
An excellent idea...some way to be able to reach out to him and let him know that the day is sucking massive nuts, and that you need his support.

Oh yeah and we got an invitation to his cousin's wedding in the mail today. It's in Florida. On the 30th.

That's pretty short notice for ANYONE who has to arrange airfare. And in this economy, it take at least a couple months, even on a steady income, to save up enough for a trip. The cousin is out of their mind.

When you come up for air, I hope you talk to him about this. He needs to hear it.
Seconded. As a husband who has all too often not been there for my wife, I can tell you that if he really loves you, he needs to know that it's not your responsibility to cook dinner every freaking night, especially since you're working just as much (or more...I'm really just assuming on the job situation here) as he is. Example: I work, and my wife does not (physical disability). But we take turns cooking and taking care of other responsibilities around the house. Not just odd days/even days, but when one of us is feeling like crap, the other will pick up the slack. I'm pretty sure your day was worse than his, thus he should be wearing the apron at that point.

Plus, cooking is fun. He really has no excuse. :mrgreen:
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Post by: Patrick on 07 Mar 2013, 23:09
Aren't there any places you can go together though? Does it have to be a 21+ bar?

All bars are 21+, but there's restaurants with bars. It's really a non-issue though, we both like to spend time outside being active. She's gonna be joining the pickup baseball group that my bandmates + their SOs and I are founding members of. She's a baseball fan (yesssss) and has a pretty good throwing arm and catching eye. Haven't seen her hit before, but I've got faith, and who cares anyway, it's pickup baseball with lots of shittalking.

I know it's still WAY too early to tell, but this is already feeling like it could be a very good thing for me.

creepy awful guy

I say you oughta get a crew together and fuck this guy up, because nobody should have to put up with shit like that at work. Stupid coworkers are one thing and I don't envy you (I sympathize so god damn much), but people making you feel super uncomfortable in your workplace... they should be punched.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 08 Mar 2013, 03:43
When you come up for air, I hope you talk to him about this. He needs to hear it.
I did mention it a little later. He apologized, said he'd only gotten home about 15 minutes before me, and had been trying to ask, did I want to do dinner right now or later?, not, go make dinner.

creepy awful guy
I don't know what's going to happen with this. He doesn't work for us, he's essentially a client, but since I'm in commercial real estate that means he's got a lease with like 5 more years left, he works in the same building as us, and our office exists to assist people like him. My boss is going to call me this morning to ask about what happened yesterday and see what kind of action might be available. Apparently there's some concern about potential vindictive behavior from this guy. Ugh. How do you shut down a smarmy 50-year-old Pakistani who's constantly being either condescending, overly conciliatory, or if you know what I mean whenever he speaks? Who you can't be rude to?
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Post by: Carl-E on 08 Mar 2013, 04:54
Some cultural sensitivity training involving handcuffs, a rack and red hot pokers comes to mind. 
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Post by: Papersatan on 08 Mar 2013, 08:25
arrrgghh.  this class project is the worst. 

We have a client and we are doing  a needs assessment for their users and then a website usability test.  We need to send out a survey, but it needs to be approved by the client first, in part because they were going to email it to a list of their past users.  I emailed the client a copy of the survey to approve last Friday, she got back to me yesterday morning and wants me to also draft the email she will send.  It is spring break so I didn't see the email until today. It is Friday again, so by the time she sees and approves this it will be early next week.  The report we are to write with the data from this survey is due next Friday and we were clear in our communication that this had a looming deadline.  Also, I assumed they would write a letter introducing us.  I am having a hard time drafting this email; do I make it from the organization, from me, from my group? ARRGGHHHH I just want to party.

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Post by: Carl-E on 08 Mar 2013, 10:06
From you, as "a consulting group working for X to determine your needs in order to improve customer satisfaction" should work well.  If they think it's from the company itself, they may not be comfortable identifying problems, since they don't want to spoil a business relationship.  Make sure you say that the results will be anonymous/confidential. 
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Post by: idontunderstand on 08 Mar 2013, 12:02
Said bye to all the people at the boxing club (going to move to a new city because of the new job) yesterday. It sucked, but it was also nice. There's a special kind of respect between people you've punched in the face while they punched you in the solar plexus. That sounds really stupid but it really isn't. You have to suck it up and realize you've both agreed to getting punched by the other and that, after all the work you've done together, all the jumping ropes and doing thousands and thousands of pushups right next to each other, you're on the same team. It's probably much like being in the army, except you don't spoon each other.
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Post by: Black Sword on 08 Mar 2013, 12:13
In other news, I'm being taught about pro formas and billing. I've discovered that on one account, I do 50% of the work. This is proven by percentage of hours work, noted in the pro formas. In other words, accounting.

....this is what I suspected for years but does not make me happy.
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Post by: Akima on 08 Mar 2013, 14:08
That sounds really stupid
Not to me it doesn't. The shared discipline... Respect for the master... The number of times everyone has slapped everyone into the mat... :)
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Post by: idontunderstand on 08 Mar 2013, 14:45
Indeed. Someone else could probably say it much better than me though..
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Post by: Redball on 08 Mar 2013, 15:52
Keep the cameras dry!
We're going to be filming in a mostly disused lounge area of a larger pub so a lot of the bottle that were there were actually empty. I'm sure we'll find a way to get a little wet though.  :mrgreen:
Edit: I just realised what I wrote as soon as I posted. To clarify: We are not shooting a porno.
It honestly never occurred to me. I was just thinking of the booze.  I used to think I was funny when a date left the table for the "powder room." "Keep your powder dry." Haha.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 09 Mar 2013, 01:20
[...] That sounds really stupid but it really isn't. [...]
Nope, it doesn't.

There's a special bond between people who have hurt each other and who then take the time to think about and explain how they can hurt each other more the next time.

And you pay for the privilege.
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Post by: Welu on 10 Mar 2013, 12:56
Partner is away at a concert tonight. Instead of spending my first night alone in the house, I'm staying at my parents and getting free food and heat. Delightful.
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Post by: Jace on 10 Mar 2013, 13:26
I gotta get authorized in spear before the 30th of march and also the people that live downstairs from me have a front door that looks like this and I don't know how to feel:
(http://dl.dropbox.com/u/63857951/20130310_153756.jpg)

They also park their minivan with its Keep Christ in Christmas sticker too far out in our little lot so it is difficult to pull out past them (you pretty much have to back out of the lot)
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Post by: Aethien on 10 Mar 2013, 15:06
Play this to send a message back?

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Post by: Jimor on 10 Mar 2013, 15:57
I know there are other places to post this, but it's been such a big part of what I've been doing the past couple of months, that it's more about the feeling of accomplishment I get from this. A music video I made for some friends who collaborated on one of the best-sounding songs to come out of the local scene that we just released today. There's a lot of buzz around the song and the video already, and I think we came through with the goods in a way that's going to get a lot of attention.
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Post by: celticgeek on 10 Mar 2013, 16:05
I like it.  Looks and sounds good!
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Post by: Welu on 10 Mar 2013, 17:46
Lovely look and sound. I really like the colours and the masks.
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Post by: Carl-E on 11 Mar 2013, 00:22
What fun!  I know, it was a lot of work, but it looked like everyone was having a good time. 


I don't know why, but I especially liked the bear drummer...
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Post by: Patrick on 11 Mar 2013, 12:14
A music video I made for some friends who collaborated on one of the best-sounding songs to come out of the local scene that we just released today. There's a lot of buzz around the song and the video already, and I think we came through with the goods in a way that's going to get a lot of attention.

I've heard some of the buzz about this all the way down here in Livermore, and I'm jealous beyond words that you get to work with Autumn Sky. I see her FB posts all the time and I'm jealous of the amazing life she seems to lead, and the incredible cult following she's built for herself. Any time I meet people from Sac, I ask if they know of her, and every time, they just smile a knowing smile and say "Damn right I do" and I've made a friend. I have immense respect for (and an embarrassingly strong megacrush on) that talented and gorgeous young lady, and it would appear all of Sacramento agrees.

Great work, by the way.
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Post by: Patrick on 11 Mar 2013, 12:24
Oh yeah PS, my gal and I got super classy and had sex in a bathroom at a show some of my friends played in a rented warehouse in Oakland, and yeah, it was sexy as fuck.
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Post by: Jimor on 11 Mar 2013, 14:05
Thanks everybody! This is kind of a breakthrough event for me and my video work, so I'm really pleased by the response here and elsewhere so far.  730 views after only a day, and tons of shares as people like it enough to actually take the time to help the signal boost.  :-)

In addition to that, I'll be featured in an article about my TV show in the weekly newspaper in the next couple of weeks, and of course that's still going on both in airiing last season's episodes, and planning for season 2. So it looks like this year is going to start bringing a lot of attention to the work I've been doing, and hopefully that starts turning into ways to start making a living at this stuff!

@Patrick, Autumn's playing at Bottom of the Hill on the 19th, and I'll likely be there to film, so if you can make it, I'd be more than happy to introduce you.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Mar 2013, 15:31
Fun vid. Fun music.
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Post by: Patrick on 11 Mar 2013, 17:59
I might be coming with a friend. You know what the cover charge is?
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Post by: Jimor on 11 Mar 2013, 20:02
$10. With Mammoth Life opening, and Assateague headlining (don't know either of them).

Edit: Goddammit do I hate colds. The worst part for me is trying (and failing) to get to sleep with a cough tickling my throat.  I really need to lay in a supply of NyQuil and just zonk myself out at night.
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Post by: Asterus on 12 Mar 2013, 19:10
I have spent about 90% of my free time today working on a personal video project because I felt like it, another 5% eating and faffing about the house, maybe another 2 checking webcomics and stats on my channel and blog because I was bored, and the remainder actually doing my homework, studying for a quiz tomorrow, an exam thursday, and a lab presentation thursday. I feel so relaxed and at ease right now ^.^

Seeing as how this is a common occurrence for me, I should probably mention that I hope time travel never becomes possible in my lifetime, else a legion of tomorrow-me's will immediately appear to stab their yesterday counterparts with rusty screwdrivers for putting all the work on their shoulders.

[Added] I forgot the RT podcast got moved a day ahead, so there goes that last 3% I'm going to be on the Vitriolic open letters thread tomorrow XD
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Post by: LTK on 13 Mar 2013, 12:25
Shit. Shit, shit. The zipper on my coat is all fucked up. It was fine this morning - it had always gotten stuck a little bit 1/5th of the way up for some reason, but otherwise it worked - and now it's impossible just to get it to close. I was about to leave for gymnastics and spent 20 minutes fucking with it to get it to close, which probably fucked it up even more. I can't go out with the zipper broken, it's two degrees outside.

I was trying to decide going to a lasergaming event or my gymnastics practice earlier this week, but now I guess it's going to be neither. Really pissed off about this.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 13 Mar 2013, 12:39
Console yourself with the thought that there's a new pope, Francis 1st; a Jesuit from Argentina who is the first third-world pope, and was runner-up to Benedict last time.
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Mar 2013, 13:54
Well, that should bring the whole zipper-issue into focus...

 :?
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Post by: LTK on 13 Mar 2013, 14:16
Console yourself with the thought that there's a new pope, Francis 1st; a Jesuit from Argentina who is the first third-world pope, and was runner-up to Benedict last time.
Well, thanks. I wouldn't know what I'd do if I didn't have you to keep me informed about the issues that are closest to my heart.
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Post by: Welu on 13 Mar 2013, 15:35
I think I mentioned this or just thought about mentioning it.

Gotta make a website for college and my design is stupidly cutesy but also seems to be kind of unique? When I told the tutor he sort of stared for a second and then gave me an, "Ahh." with this a "Not bad" look. So I both really love my idea and hate it because getting the wee impressed "Ahh" has made me chuffed but it's so cutesy. I won't get into it fully but basically it involves animated bunny drawings. Actually that is pretty much the entire idea.

The point is for research I'm looking up cute photos of rabbits.
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Post by: pwhodges on 13 Mar 2013, 15:42
I have to make a web page for a committee of Senior Clinicians and Researchers called the Dragon's Den which selects which clinical trial proposals to support and fund; I'm wondering if I can find a way to get a really cheesy dragon in there somewhere...
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Post by: celticgeek on 13 Mar 2013, 15:46
Sounds like you need a .gif of a Chinese New Year's dragon. 
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Post by: pwhodges on 13 Mar 2013, 15:49
Hmm... that might suit, actually.  Thanks for the thought.
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Post by: Jimor on 13 Mar 2013, 15:53
Since the site involves funding decisions, it must be a dragon jealously guarding its treasure hoard.
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Post by: celticgeek on 13 Mar 2013, 15:56
Seconded.
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Post by: Welu on 13 Mar 2013, 16:21
Hodges, can we combine our ideas? Dragon bunnies!
(http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs19/i/2007/295/2/d/rabbit_dragon_by_remigiaidos.jpg) (http://fav.me/d14hstt)
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Mar 2013, 17:04
...guarding a hoard of carrot coins? 
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Post by: Redball on 13 Mar 2013, 18:57
I had some dried-and-fried carrot chips in the last couple of days that looked a little coiney.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 13 Mar 2013, 23:56
Probably tasted like that as well.
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Post by: Redball on 14 Mar 2013, 08:39
They're handed around at my little condo Happy Hour in the afternoon like they're some kind of special treat. I nibble on them, but they're no treat to me. At least this brand isn't. A little too sweet and aromatic.
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Post by: Welu on 19 Mar 2013, 16:49
Just found out a girl I went to school with died. She went to the doctor feeling unwell and collapsed while there from a brain haemorrhage. Family turned off her life support earlier tonight. I wasn't close with her but it's such a shock.
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Post by: Thrillho on 19 Mar 2013, 16:53
Even if it's someone you don't really know, or even someone you knew but didn't like much, hearing they're actually dead is quite a shock. How are you doing Lynnie?
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Post by: Welu on 19 Mar 2013, 16:58
I feel horrible to say it but I'm okay. Absolutely stunned but okay. I hadn't spoken to her in months, been even longer since I'd seen her in person. Feeling bad I didn't keep up communication with her.
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Post by: nekowafer on 20 Mar 2013, 05:35
Lynnie

Gah. That's my middle name/nickname for family so I was like, why is he talking to me?

Welu:
The first guy I dated (in person, not online) died in late 2009. I didn't know until 3 months later. I still feel guilty, both for not talking to him enough and not even knowing he died. It happens. That doesn't make it less awful but you're certainly not the first, or last, person to have that problem. We just can't keep up with everyone we want to.
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Post by: Loki on 20 Mar 2013, 05:46
A close friend of a close friend of my ex died last year. From cancer at the age of twenty-one, no less. I had spoken to her only a few times at parties and such. Still hurt. Maybe because I found her the most interesting and nice person in that circle of acquaintances of my ex.

Recently visited her grave again. Cannot say I found much solace in that, though. Maybe you might.
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Post by: Asterus on 20 Mar 2013, 07:33
Same thing happened with my ex and some friends I know. Worst part of it was that it was suicide and one of the possible factors was the rift that developed between my ex and the group of friends due to her breakup with her previous ex.

Apparently "H" still has the girl's senior photo that she sent out the year before in her wallet.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 20 Mar 2013, 13:34
Lynnie

Gah. That's my middle name/nickname for family so I was like, why is he talking to me?

I run into very few people who share my name, especially the way I spell it.

~ ~

Two people within ten minutes came up to me in work asking if I'd heard and was I okay and I started crying and got sent home.
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Post by: Carl-E on 20 Mar 2013, 15:01
I'm so sorry. 

~~~~~~~~~~~~~

On a different (somewhat lighter) blog note, my wife's in a show that the local theatre group's presenting for the state competition, called Elephant's Graveyard (http://www.samuelfrench.com/p/1939/elephants-graveyard-full-length-version), a small but powerful play about the true story of Mary the Elephant (http://blueridgecountry.com/articles/mary-the-elephant/), who was hanged from a railroad crane in 1916 for killing one of her keepers. 

Preview is tonight, state level competition's in Harrisburg this weekend. 

This is the first time anyone in our family's done any theatre since... hell, for nearly 10 years.  Theatre was, to a great extent, what brought my wife and I together.  It was, until a serious injury, what my wife did for a living - and she was one of the best.  Hair & makeup, costumes, props, set decoration - not to mention acting and stage management - she's won awards for all of them. 

Then she pissed someone big in the local community off, and got blacklisted from one group.  The injury got her out of the rest. 

The fact that she was welcomed back with open arms, is on stage and doing costumes and makeup for this show, and has the full support of all of us (we know nearly everyone in the cast, and all of the backstage folk), has made this one of the best experiences she's had in a long time - especially after dealing with our daughter's illnesses for the last three years. 


She needed this.  And I'm SO glad I pushed her into auditioning. 



Break a leg, love. 
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Post by: celticgeek on 20 Mar 2013, 15:20
Torrwch goes!  from a man whose daughter is into theater, in all of those phases! 
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Post by: nekowafer on 20 Mar 2013, 15:41
I run into very few people who share my name, especially the way I spell it.

~ ~

Two people within ten minutes came up to me in work asking if I'd heard and was I okay and I started crying and got sent home.

Well, my middle name is actually Lynne, but most of my family calls me Lynnie. A couple (mostly my mom and sister) call me Ellie now, and no one calls me by my actual first name ever. I don't think I've even heard my mom say it in like... wow, I dunno. Like a decade?

As for crying, that is to be expected - try to get all the crying out at home, but don't be too surprised if it hits you at work. Just see if you can take a little break and sit alone somewhere to calm down. The more you try not to cry, the harder it gets, it seems. So you may as well get it out.

Carl - that's awesome!!
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Post by: Carl-E on 21 Mar 2013, 06:17
It was awesome - there wasn't a dry eye in the house, including mine.  Even though I knew the story and half the lines from attending a few rehearsals, it was so moving. 

Found out that out of the 4 state entries this year, two move on to regional (in Rome NY in April), so there's a really good chance they'll go that far.  After regionals, it's national (Carmel, IN in... May, I think?)
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Post by: Welu on 21 Mar 2013, 13:22
That's great, Carl! :)

~ ~

Happier stuff. Finally started filming for college. I think I've whined enough about my course to justify placing this here. Spoilered to be less obtrusive, is SFW.

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Post by: Jace on 21 Mar 2013, 22:27
So I bought padded compression shorts for fighting with pads over the hips and tailbone so I'd have hip protection.
Guess who needs to make a better padded gambeson now?
Because not one, but both shoulders got hit:
(http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/601419_10151641147482317_833214999_n.jpg)
(http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/150398_10151641147662317_2073943055_n.jpg)
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Post by: nekowafer on 22 Mar 2013, 05:45
Ouch, holy crap. One of many reasons I never got into the whole fighting thing.

I dropped my kitty off at the vet this morning for surgery. Please send happy kitty thoughts!
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 22 Mar 2013, 06:27
*Sending happy kitty snugs and well wishes*


Good luck little kitty dude!
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Post by: valley_parade on 22 Mar 2013, 08:32
Jace, while you got the padded shorts, you should look into one of those padded compression shirts that American football and rugby players wear.

(http://dsp.imageg.net/graphics/product_images/pDSP1-12193989dt.jpg)

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Post by: pwhodges on 22 Mar 2013, 08:59
Finished the program (http://cassland.org/words/2013-03-23_German_Romantic.doc) for tomorrow's concert more than 24 hours in advance - it's been a while since I've managed that.  This evening will be spent printing, stapling and folding.

Tomorrow will be a busy day, as I sing in the choir, am librarian, and record the concert as well (in a venue we've not used before), while fitting in taking my wife to the railway station and walking the dogs.
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Post by: Redball on 22 Mar 2013, 09:12
Break a leg! If I were nearer, I'd offer to help. I'll do almost anything for a beer. Or a T-shirt.
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Post by: Carl-E on 22 Mar 2013, 10:30
That should be on a t-shirt. 
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Post by: Asterus on 22 Mar 2013, 13:02
So, my day got infinitely better (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ImKCt7BD4U4)
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 22 Mar 2013, 13:10
It seems my aunt is dying of cancer.

Unsure how I feel about that.
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Post by: Loki on 22 Mar 2013, 14:36
Eh. I know that problem. I cannot advise, sorry, but I am thinking of you.


Best thoughts are on the way, nekowafer.
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Post by: Redball on 22 Mar 2013, 14:57
It seems my aunt is dying of cancer.

Unsure how I feel about that.
How do you feel about your aunt, for starters? And any other deaths in your near family?
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Post by: pwhodges on 22 Mar 2013, 15:57
@BeoPuppy:  How old is your aunt, that's to say, is her getting something like cancer an unexpected change, or is it more that the way to the end is now clearer?



Not sad in the same way, but a little nostalgia inducing:  In the 1960s a large coal-fired power station was built in the countryside at Didcot, near Oxford.  I visited the second phase of this construction during building as part of my university engineering course, to learn about new-fangled things like air scrubbers to clean the exhaust.  These units can no longer meet the EU's latest environmental emission requirements, and today they were taken off the grid and shut down for the last time.  The six cooling towers will be demolished, though it may be a year or three before that happens - an attempt to get them listed (put on a list of protected buildings) has been successfully blocked by the generating company that owns the plant.  In 1968 I took a photo of them against the sunset, but time has not been kind to the cheap reversal film I used:

(http://cassland.org/images/didcot.jpg)

That photo was taken from the road between my home town of Reading and Abingdon where my fiancée lived, when I was on my way to see her one weekend.
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Post by: nekowafer on 22 Mar 2013, 16:51
Percy got through surgery okay, but needed a second repair for a monteggia fracture. Which will cost more money. But he will heal and will be all better in a couple of months.

<3
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Post by: Akima on 22 Mar 2013, 16:58
I had to look it up. I couldn't find a reference to such a fracture in a cat. Rank speciesism! Don't watch the clip if you are squeamish about broken bones going crunch:
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Mar 2013, 17:00
Fuck that looks awful
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Post by: nekowafer on 22 Mar 2013, 18:35
I can't imagine how painful it was for him. And he dealt with it for over two weeks! Ugh.

I can't watch the video but I did look it up. The vet described it to me as a fracture that happened often when infantry were fighting cavalry - the infantry would have their arms broken while they were outstretched to fight the cavalry.
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Post by: Jace on 22 Mar 2013, 22:43
Jace, while you got the padded shorts, you should look into one of those padded compression shirts that American football and rugby players wear.

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Well I actually have armor that covers my shoulders, just that the gambeson (a padded arming jacket) I wear is like 5 years old and I'm the third wearer of it, so it doesn't really have any padding left. I am currently working on sewing a new gambeson and it could be going better. From the pattern to the cutting to the sewing I have fucked up every step and I only hope that I can salvage it when I put the pieces together and have it fit.
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Post by: Jace on 23 Mar 2013, 01:03
The arm holes are a bit too small. goddammit
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 23 Mar 2013, 06:07
Thanks for the thoughts, I really appreciate it.

75. She's out of the hospital and she's moved in with one of her children to wait for the end. We're not close, but I have little in the way of family. It's just weird to think of someone, waiting. To die. How do you deal? What do you say? And naturally, my mom is upset. She's about to lose her sister.

Lots of things I cannot imagine.
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Post by: Welu on 23 Mar 2013, 06:11
I went to the funeral yesterday. Met a lot of people I hadn't seen in a long time. Easily the most attended one I've ever seen. Despite the fire-and-brimstone ceremony, it helped to get some closure.

Then went to a friend's birthday party later that day and it was really good fun. Usually I'm late because I'm coming from work or leaving early because of work the next day got to hang out with them till 3am. Also talked to a friend about body positivity stuff because we were talking about weight. I said, "Yeah, I'm overweight." and she was all, "No, you're not!" and I said back, "I'm 14 stone and 5"2. I'm fat. It's okay and I'm happy." Took a couple repeats and rephrasing but she seemed to get it. My other friends and I also discussed how power levels effect sexual conduct. Best drunk conversations I've had in ages, though I was pretty sober.

I also made Baileys ice cream at my parents house and have to go there later to get it out of their freezer. Last check it was freezing really well and tasted so yummy.
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Post by: Lines on 23 Mar 2013, 06:44
I broke down in front of my boss yesterday because one of my kids has been stressing me out so badly the past week and he did something yesterday that finally made me crack. Luckily I held it together until I was alone in a room with her instead of breaking down and crying in front of all 10 of my toddlers. Yaaaaay... But a bunch of the other teachers heard what happened and gave me a lot of support afterwards, so that was nice.
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Post by: Papersatan on 23 Mar 2013, 09:10
I have gone out with school people almost every night this week. It has been great.  Bar night, st Patrick's day, bar night, basketball game, drag show...  I am making more friends with the first years than I did with my own year.  I think that is partially Last year, because of the things with my dad, I just wasn't in the mood for friend making,and partially because of the efforts of one person to make things happen.

Also, I think my crush is into it?  I'd decided that he was not, and that was ok, but now i I feel like he was dropping obvious hints.  Or maybe not.  Ahhh the delicate dance of flirting.

Also, I have an initial phone interview on Monday for an internship that I really want. (Though it does not pay)
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Post by: Carl-E on 23 Mar 2013, 13:45
While walking the dogs, I was privileged to witness a pre-teen mating ritual;

She was nearly a head taller than he was, and ridiculously skinny.  Both probably about 10 or 11.  Holding him by the shoulder of his coat with one hand, she was mercilessly delivering punches to his upper arms and torso with the other, a few well placed kicks to the shin added to the mix. 

He was laughing the whole time amid shouts of "ow", "hey" and "cut it out!".  She was also laughing. 


As the recipient of a few such beatings in my youth, all I could do was wonder what he had said/did to earn the attention...
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Post by: Redball on 23 Mar 2013, 13:49
He adores her, so he told her she's ugly.
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Mar 2013, 14:28
That's pretty fucking adorable, I gotta say.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 24 Mar 2013, 04:36
Damn, working as a lawyer can be a lonely job and is likely really bad for my skin too. Been stuck in front of a computer screen ogling case law for most of this week. I'd hate it if I didn't actually like stuff like this.

Work mates are good, a bit tense and stressed out but very nice and mostly intelligent, decent folks. There's this one whiny office hag which I've almost decided that I hate but I think I can deal with it.

I've quit boxing... for now. I simply won't have time to keep in shape what with the new job, playing more music, and the relationship with the girlfriend to take care of. Got me a gym membership though so I have someplace to blow off steam. And a punching bag in the garage.

Hope you people are well, I really wish you weren't posting quite so damn much all the time, because I have no chance to keep up with everything anymore. :P
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Post by: Papersatan on 24 Mar 2013, 08:03
When I was 9 boy kicked me in the shin and broke my leg.  Every nurse and doctor I saw felt the need to tell me that he must like me. It was infuriating. 

I guess if I had told them he kicked me as retaliation for the gang attack my friends and I carried out against his friend who was mercilessly holding a garder snake hostage in the coat closet all day they might have seen that this was not simply school yard flirting gone too far, but I was not about to get in trouble for my attack. 

Also, is the advice that I punch my crush? Then run and see if he chases me, and pins me on the Sofa and.... Hmmm.
I think I like this plan... :)
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Post by: Carl-E on 24 Mar 2013, 11:33
I thought you were older than 12. 

~~~~~~~~~~~~

Elephant's Graveyard won second place at the state competition.  Three actors won awards as well, and it garnered best ensemble (it really is an ensemble piece) and best directing. 

So my wife's off to upstate NY next month for regionals...

Meanwhile, my younger daughter seems to be going into an exacerbation - her legs have quit working entirely, she's completely wheelchair bound.  She's also leaking a bit through the night.  I'm worried about her breathing. 

The next appointment with the neurologist is on the 26th. 

Of April. 

Gonna try and move that one up. 
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Post by: pwhodges on 24 Mar 2013, 11:36
Tomorrow will be a busy day,

See the choral music thread in BAND for the concert (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,16366.msg1140880.html#msg1140880).
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Post by: Papersatan on 24 Mar 2013, 12:02
I thought you were older than 12. 


You have obviously not been paying much attention. 


Also, congrats to your wife, and I hope things are alright with your daughter
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Post by: Welu on 24 Mar 2013, 14:07
When I was 9 boy kicked me in the shin and broke my leg.  Every nurse and doctor I saw felt the need to tell me that he must like me. It was infuriating. 

Assuming the boy was not a mini body-builder, how the hell did he kick you that hard?  :-o

I'm reminded of the time when I was around six or seven and an older boy who I think was eleven or maybe older tried to steal my bike. Well, his littler brother tried to steal my bike but I pushed him away from it and his older brother proceeded to try to beat me up because how dare I stop someone from stealing my bike. I vaguely remembering sending the older brother away bleeding.
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Post by: Papersatan on 24 Mar 2013, 22:37
Apparently if you get someone in just the right spot in the shin, it doesn't take much force.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 25 Mar 2013, 02:54
Shins are easy and painful to break. That must have been a bitch.
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Post by: Carl-E on 25 Mar 2013, 10:37
Your usual idea of a kick from the toe won't do it often, but a good stomp will, with ease...
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Post by: Papersatan on 25 Mar 2013, 10:52
He got me with his instep. like how you kick a soccer ball.  He also had a running start, like how you kick a soccer ball.  He played soccer. 
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Post by: Welu on 25 Mar 2013, 11:16
That makes sense.

Welu status: Full of chicken.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 25 Mar 2013, 18:23
I bought a Tabasco Slim-Jim for my wife, because she loves them, and I decided to get a low-sodium one for myself, since I need to watch my blood pressure. The only ones available were store brand...

It tasted like a mix between the little meatballs that come in a can of Spaghettios, and dog food. Even my father-in-law, who will eat any cooked dead animal, wouldn't take more than a bite.
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Post by: Papersatan on 25 Mar 2013, 19:34
Phone interview for the internship went well, though I was not as prepared as I wished I was because I misunderstood the nature of the interview.  I didn't think this was going to have the "tell me about your weaknesses" and "tell me about a project you are proud of" questions on it.   The man told me to expect a call in the next week to set up an in-person interview, so that is great. 

I think I am starting to feel equal to my accomplishments, or that my accomplishments are equal to my position?  I am not sure how to explain it.  But when I was listening to my answers babble out of my mouth I realized they sounded reasonably impressive.  The me from two year ago would have been intimidated by the me of today.  That is a good feeling. 

Let's hope I hold it together for the real interview too, and then graduate, and then get a job and then get a house and then get 3 baby goats and then grow old and then retire with plenty of money. 

Step one, find something to wear to this interview. 
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Post by: Bluesummers on 25 Mar 2013, 19:44
Step one, find something to wear to this interview. 
Indeed. First impressions are often made within the first 90 seconds...dress the part.

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Phone interview for the internship went well, though I was not as prepared as I wished I was because I misunderstood the nature of the interview.  I didn't think this was going to have the "tell me about your weaknesses" and "tell me about a project you are proud of" questions on it.   The man told me to expect a call in the next week to set up an in-person interview, so that is great.
Every interview I've had (and every interview I've conducted, for that matter) has had the old "weakness" and "accomplishment" questions. They're meant to test you and see if you can recognize not just that you have faults, but how you overcame them. Accomplishments can be a measure of your self-worth and your own view of your productivity in the workplace.

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The me from two year ago would have been intimidated by the me of today.  That is a good feeling. 
One of the most important things interviewers look for is confidence. We're also looking for the knowledge to perform the tasks the job requires, but someone unsure of how to do them isn't going to stand out in our eyes.
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Post by: Papersatan on 25 Mar 2013, 20:12
I was under the impression this was a discussion about what I needed from them to get credit to make sure this was a good fit (what do I need to get credit, how many hours is it consent for a background check etc) before the application was sent to the actual department for an interview.  I figured the standard questions would come at the department interview.

I think I actually interview well.  I am not an un-confident person.  I have good stong body language, I am articulate and I am well qualified for this internship.  It is how I look that hold me back generally. 

Looking the part is easier said than done, and it actually the most difficult part of this for me.  I think I have discussed elsewhere on the forum my struggles to look professional with my hair pink and my body fat.  I ordered a nice suit, but the jacket won't button without making me look like a porn star.  Actually, none of my jackets will button right now, so I am left with the question, wear an unbuttoned jacket, or forgo one all together.  If not a suit or blazer then what?   

I am going to have to go shopping and find either a new blazer or a button down shirt.  Those are both difficult to find for me, and frequently expensive.  I think if I can find a good blazer I can wear it with a dress I have and be ok. 

ARRRGGGHHH  Stop growing boobs. 
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Post by: Lines on 25 Mar 2013, 20:23
Kat, you just bought some new dresses right? Find a good cardigan (if you blazer doesn't look right with any of them) and do your hair in the side bun you posted before and I think you'll look professional.
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Post by: Papersatan on 25 Mar 2013, 20:43


ARRRGGGHHH  Stop growing boobs.

As an English major I want to call myself out a moment, and to clarify: my boobs are growing, I am not growing extra boobs.  Sometimes that comma matters.   :psyduck:

Yeah, I was going to go with one of the dresses.  I think a blazer would look better than a cardigan for an interview, but I am not sure I can find one that fits.  (My bust is up to 57 inches)  My cardigan is my fall back plan. 
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Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Mar 2013, 20:47
My boobs aren't growing yet. Five days on estrogen, why aren't they done growing yet!? Pfft.
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Post by: jwhouk on 26 Mar 2013, 15:34
The me of 20 years ago would probably be scared to death of the me of today.

Of course, the me of 20 years ago would probably ask, "How in the heck did you end up in the middle of Northern WISCONSIN?"
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Post by: pwhodges on 26 Mar 2013, 15:39
Do you have an answer...?
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Post by: jwhouk on 26 Mar 2013, 17:10
I'd say, "You really don't want to know."
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 27 Mar 2013, 06:17
Hope you people are well, I really wish you weren't posting quite so damn much all the time, because I have no chance to keep up with everything anymore. :P

I am SO glad I'm not the only one that feels this way!! I usually take the weekends off and then catch up on Mondays and this week it is just not happening that way. Of course, everything being down when I decided to check and then springing back up again while I was away doesn't help. *Shakes fist at whoever was responsible*


Kat- I think a cardigan with a dress would look lovely :-) You don't need to be suited up to look professional- personally, I prefer a nice dress to a suit anyway. Or slacks with a nice blouse and a cardigan. Blazers are over rated.



In bloggy news- I have done SO MUCH wedding stuff lately!! I suppose that is a good thing, since the clock is quickly ticking away. I ordered most of the gifts to go in my bridesmaids' baskets (waiting to receive the robes in the mail now), received everything for our invitations in the mail yesterday (they will be going out tomorrow if all goes as planned), ordered my fancy corset, ordered our favors, bought 80% of the things needed for centerpieces, planned our (free! WOOT!) engagement shoot, almost finished making our paper flowers (120 and counting), bought everything I need for my veil........and more.

Still to do: Glue big ass flower to veil clip; buy garter(s?) and attach Animal charm; set up hair appointments; decide on my shoes (http://pinterest.com/lepetitfromage/accesorizing/); buy tin pails, styrofoam balls and dum dums for centerpieces; tell Nick that I broke down and bought 6 balloons that are 3 foot in diameter because I am weak and they are fancy; book rehearsal dinner; find and buy rehearsal dinner dress; put together bridesmaids' gifts; etch steins for groomsmen; type up cutesy thing to put in favor frames telling people to go to the photobooth; finish making photobooth props; stick labels on place cards; send our DJ a list of songs; send officiant updated ceremony plan; finish vows; type up itinerary......and I'm sure I am forgetting a few things. EEK. At least I still have 8 weeks!
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Mar 2013, 12:17
So last night Esther and I had made plans to hang out, and for the 5th time this week (I couldn't help but keep count, I'm a musician), she ditched me.

All I did was tell her that it hurt my feelings that she'd make plans with me and then drop them at a moment's notice, and she immediately came back at me with claws, accusing me of being manipulative and selfish, not caring what her feelings are, shit like that.

2 hours later I get a text from her, sent to the wrong person, saying "I'm at the tower, where are you?"

The last time something like this happened, I was getting cheated on. And that being the case, I can't bring myself to quiet my subconscious. It's going to convince me, whether it's true or not, that she's cheating on me, that I can't trust her, that I will only wind up disappointed. I can't keep dating her. I'm breaking up with her the next time I see her.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Mar 2013, 13:08
Before reading the last sentence, I was thinking, "trust your subconscious". 

Glad you're going to. 

~~~~~~~~~~~~

How much more does cheating get caught nowadays thanks to misdirected texts? 
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Mar 2013, 14:15
and meanwhile I think I'm going to lose my job and man nothing is gonna fucking go right in my life ever is it, I can stay happy 95% of the time but days like today are pretty hard to deal with

thank god I have bandmates who are better than brothers, i'm gonna go hang with one now

fuck today man, just fuck today
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Post by: Lines on 27 Mar 2013, 19:58


ARRRGGGHHH  Stop growing boobs.

As an English major I want to call myself out a moment, and to clarify: my boobs are growing, I am not growing extra boobs.  Sometimes that comma matters.   :psyduck:

I can sympathize with you on boobs that won't stop growing. I've gone up 3-ish cup sizes in the past few years. I just want them to stop growing!
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Mar 2013, 20:02
Maybe you shouldn't rub them with fertilizer...

 :-D :roll:
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Post by: Black Sword on 28 Mar 2013, 07:53
I am so goddamned exhausted. I don't want to get up in the mornings to go to work, the very act of coming here fills me with anger, and just having to deal with this bullshit infuriates me more every damned day. by the time I get home, I'm so emotionally drained I don't want to finish my novel (just two bloody chapters to go, and it's been that way for a month) and I don't even have the energy to turn my resume into the self-aggrandizing bullshit US companies feed on.

It's six weeks after my review, so I had a "follow up" first thing this morning. Just the thing to set the mood! I had to self-flagellate myself and write a performance plan to show how I intended to meet the "objectives" they had set for me six weeks ago, when they dangled the promotion and raise I was due after all the hard work I've put in. Slightly out of chronological order, but on Tuesday I got sent an email criticizing my calm approach to a meeting as "disengaged and toxic," so you can imagine I was not and remain very unhappy. The performance plan was the first time I've absolutely hated something I've written. It still feels like poison seeping into my fingers, because so much of it is just distortions and me doing my best to avoid the fake enthusiasm they want me to show for every stupid idea they come up with. I cannot fake enthusiasm. Fake enthusiasm is not in my job requirements and worse, makes it harder for me to tell when I'm done with work and when I'm finally able to be myself and be at rest.

Performance plan was received well, which just made me even more cynical, but the clincher (expected for weeks) was that I did not get my due. Instead, it's something that they'll keep on considering, so I'm on probation because I'm not faking enthusiasm for what is a tedious, miserable affair. Oh, and they're going to give me even MORE work to do that's far above my pay grade and title.

I'm stuck here while one of my best friends spouts the miserable shit I have to deal with on a daily basis as things I have to do to get a new job. The words feel toxic, not because of intent, but because being able to see through all those veneers and see what the real deal is awful.
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Post by: Carl-E on 28 Mar 2013, 09:39
Finish that novel, then starrt a new one based on what you're telling us here. 


So many people will identify with it that it'll be an instant best-seller, and you can quit your job. 



Sorry, was it that obvious? 
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Post by: Asterus on 28 Mar 2013, 21:51
I spent about two hours wandering campus with 6 other people randomly writing basically "for the lulz". It was one of the most bracing things I've done in a while, and the resulting poem was one of the most natural works I've written in a long time ^.^
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Post by: Jace on 28 Mar 2013, 22:04
Something I had to ask myself today: Did I crack my hip a few weeks ago?
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Post by: Carl-E on 29 Mar 2013, 01:38
Meanwhile, my younger daughter seems to be going into an exacerbation - her legs have quit working entirely, she's completely wheelchair bound.  She's also leaking a bit through the night.  I'm worried about her breathing. 

The next appointment with the neurologist is on the 26th. 

Of April. 

Gonna try and move that one up.

So after calling every day this week, my wife finally got a call back from the neurologist.  She wants to see our daughter right away...

So we're now sitting in the Emergency room at Children's Hospital in Pittsburgh.  Again.  Because that's the quickest way in.  Just waiting for x-rays and MRI's.  Then they'll probably admit her. 

Thing is, this is all old hat now, and we're all relaxed and able to joke around with the staff.  it's like old home week. 

The couches in the waiting areas aren't any more comfortable than they used to be, though. 
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Post by: jwhouk on 29 Mar 2013, 03:14
(Shrug) Maybe Iggy will come visit you guys.
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Post by: Patrick on 29 Mar 2013, 14:27
Broke up with her. I give up. When I told my bandmates what was happening, the one said "Go with your gut, man," and the other agreed with me and said "Yeah, you should definitely break up." So I ended it.

She refused to see me or talk on the phone, so I had to do it via text. God. That feels so dirty. I never wanted that. I wanted to do it like a man, like a person of dignity, but I was left no choice. She robbed me of that and I almost feel like I'm less of a man for it. But I know I didn't have a choice and I know I did what I had to, even though it was hard.

Sad thing is, I'm already over her.
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Post by: Thrillho on 29 Mar 2013, 16:13
Well, you're either in denial or you're proving you made the right choice. Both options are good.
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Post by: Jimor on 29 Mar 2013, 17:51
Well drat, Patrick, but yeah, you deserve better, and I'm sure it will happen eventually. Also sorry you weren't able to make it to Autumn's show at Bottom of the Hill, but I understand how hard it is to get to shows without your own transport. Smallish crowd, but she really impressed the venue staff with her performance (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jED9oGrGKrA), so here's hoping she gets other City gigs soon. If you want me to spread word around here of the places you've been working with, just let me know, let's try to hook something up!

In personal news, the local weekly newspaper has an article about my TV show (http://www.newsreview.com/sacramento/not-ready-for-prime-time-players/content?oid=9422784), so word is spreading and we're getting some very nice attention as we start to gear up for shooting season 2!
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Post by: Bluesummers on 29 Mar 2013, 20:33
She refused to see me or talk on the phone, so I had to do it via text. God. That feels so dirty. I never wanted that. I wanted to do it like a man, like a person of dignity, but I was left no choice. She robbed me of that and I almost feel like I'm less of a man for it.

She forced your hand, don't beat yourself up over it.

Besides, at least you didn't pull a Phil Collins and ask for a divorce via fax. (http://www.people.com/people/archive/article/0,,20103623,00.html) :emotrex:
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 29 Mar 2013, 20:58
.....or Post-It note.


in all seriousness though, i will add that from what i've gathered from your posts, i'd say you made the right decision. it sucks that it had to end that way but i consider you the bigger person because you actually told her flat out that it wasn't working. she probably knew something along those lines but took the cowardly way out.
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Post by: Patrick on 29 Mar 2013, 21:39
Thanks. That's pretty much how I feel about it anyway, it's just not really very glorious. I don't like breakups as it is (who does) but it's not really necessary to make it harder than it has to be. Oh well. I had nothing to do today anyway.
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Post by: Thrillho on 30 Mar 2013, 05:06
.....or Post-It note.

[/Carrie Bradshaw]
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 30 Mar 2013, 09:58
yeahhhhh, i just couldn't help myself.....


That definitely has to be one of the worst ways to break up with someone. Although a scene from HIMYM comes to mind when Ted breaks up with that girl on her answering machine. While her friends are in her apartment. Waiting to throw her a surprise birthday party.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 30 Mar 2013, 16:34
My aunt died today at 17.15. Several members of my family are now at war because he said, she said shit and bull that happened 20 fucking years ago. All of that while the body wasn't even cool, yet. Which is completely messed up. Spiteful e-mails and vicious phone rants are involved. I'm going to assume that people do weird things from grief. The alternative is that my family is comprised of idiots. Not ruling that out, though.
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Post by: pwhodges on 30 Mar 2013, 16:41
Our condolences to you.  I hope that you have some happy memories, so that you can be properly sad that she's gone.

I'm going to assume that people do weird things from grief.
This is not untypical.
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The alternative is that my family is comprised of idiots.
Sadly, this is common, too.  Just don't be one yourself, and you'll get through it fine in the end.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 30 Mar 2013, 16:43
Thank you.
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Post by: Thrillho on 30 Mar 2013, 18:01
I'm going to assume that people do weird things from grief.

Yep.
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Post by: Welu on 01 Apr 2013, 15:10
A woman kissed me on the cheek in work today.
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Post by: Redball on 01 Apr 2013, 18:57
Did you deserve it?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Apr 2013, 18:59
I'm not sure if this is what you were referencing but it's what I pictured

(http://movies.radiofree.com/photos/pirates_of_the_caribbean_3_11786.jpg)
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Post by: Redball on 01 Apr 2013, 20:52
I've wondered for years what "Dook, me matey" means. The photo explains it, right?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Apr 2013, 21:08
Yes. Captain Jack Sparrow on the left there is making his famous 'dookadookadookadook' noise, which all of the ladies found irresistible.
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Post by: Carl-E on 02 Apr 2013, 01:37
So, they found the source of my daughter's headaches.  Did a spinal tap (they needed to test the spinal fluid for antibodies anyway), and found her fluid pressure's about twice normal level. 

It's called intercranial hypertension. 

She's sleeping well for the first time in several weeks. 

Now, if only they can do something about losing all control of her lower legs...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Apr 2013, 02:42
I'm glad they figured it out! Do they know what causes it?
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Post by: nekowafer on 02 Apr 2013, 05:57
Yes. Captain Jack Sparrow on the left there is making his famous 'dookadookadookadook' noise, which all of the ladies found irresistible.

I may need to name my next ferret Jack.
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Post by: Boiled Dove on 02 Apr 2013, 09:02
So, they found the source of my daughter's headaches.  Did a spinal tap (they needed to test the spinal fluid for antibodies anyway), and found her fluid pressure's about twice normal level. 

It's called intercranial hypertension. 

She's sleeping well for the first time in several weeks. 

Now, if only they can do something about losing all control of her lower legs...

Yowza, glad they figured that out but spinal taps can be scary. I had one when I was a teen with spinal meningitis. Hopefully this will lead to answers about her legs.
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Post by: Welu on 02 Apr 2013, 09:17
Hopefully something can be done, Carl.

~ ~

I think the lady was a bit boozed up and over friendly. She reached for my hand so I assumed it was a handshake, which customers have done before, but she kind of grabbed my wrist and pulled me over.
I just laughed at it but it weirded me out a bit because bleh, physical contact, bleh.
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Post by: nekowafer on 02 Apr 2013, 10:02
bleh, physical contact, bleh.

I totally agree. Ew.

And Carl, yay for a diagnosis of sorts. I hope it gets better from here on out!
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Post by: Papersatan on 02 Apr 2013, 11:06
I know that since it was a lady kissing a lady people will down play it as innocent, but grabbing someone and kissing them against their will, particularly when they are in a service role and obligated not to stand up to you, is disgusting, and is assault.  I'm sorry that it happened to you.

Unrelated, I can't find an angle to hold my head which makes my professor's face clear.   I need new glasses. 
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Post by: mtmerrick on 02 Apr 2013, 11:14
Glad to see in not the only one with terrible eyesight. :P
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Post by: Welu on 02 Apr 2013, 13:50
I know that since it was a lady kissing a lady people will down play it as innocent, but grabbing someone and kissing them against their will, particularly when they are in a service role and obligated not to stand up to you, is disgusting, and is assault.  I'm sorry that it happened to you.

Thanks for saying this. I feel this way about it as well but like you said, people play it down as innocent and I was made to feel I was being over-dramatic. All I can do is be wary if she comes into the shop again but fortunately I don't think I'll need to worry since I'd never seen them before.

Related to glasses: I'm thinking of getting a second pair and I might go for a rimless pair.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 02 Apr 2013, 14:15
If you're at all hard on your glasses (like I am) go rimless. Glasses held together by screws fall apart really easily.
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Post by: Welu on 02 Apr 2013, 14:20
I went through so many screws glasses because I could get them for free while I was in school and my eyes deteriorated really quickly. I think I had to change glasses eight times since I was eleven before my eyes settled. So yeah, it wasn't worth splashing out for a nice pair till a couple years ago. I want rimless more to wear for costuming since contacts are expensive and I don't like wearing them. They're not uncomfortable, I'm just too used to my glasses.
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Post by: Carl-E on 02 Apr 2013, 14:21
Eyesight's a common topic in here, and I think I "won" the last round... I'm only correctable to about 20/45 or so, with 12 diopter lenses (well, OK, it's only 11.75 in one eye...). 

~~~~~~~

There are lots of causes for the spinal fluid thing - it's one of those mysterious systems of the body, there's actually very little understanding of where it comes from or where it goes.  They had done an eye test on her looking for it when we first came to the hospital, it's one place that it shows externally, but it wasn't showing there.  However, she was having some blurred vision around the edges and a runny nose - apparently the excess fluid has been leaking out around her eyes and into her sinuses. 

I'm hoping it's related to the autoimmune problems she's been having.  I'm also hoping they actually can figure out some kind of treatment that won't kill her...
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Post by: Thrillho on 02 Apr 2013, 14:26
I thought that once your body made its spinal fluid it was gone forever if they took it out?
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Post by: LTK on 02 Apr 2013, 14:45
Nah. It's just water with proteins in it, probably not all that different from blood plasma. It's produced by the choroid plexus in the ventricles of the brain. The choroid plexus has a similar function for CSF as the liver has for blood: filtration, transport, etcetera.

I must admit that I learned half of this from anatomy classes and the other half from Wikipedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spinal_fluid), so it's probably not as poorly understood as you think.
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Post by: Loki on 02 Apr 2013, 14:53
Totally unrelated, but a friend of mine has had the "blurry sight" thing recently. I hope it's not from the same cause :|

All the best to you and your family.
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Post by: Carl-E on 02 Apr 2013, 17:31
Thanks, all.  But basically we're in the same shit-go-round as we were three years ago when this all started.  Only now, there's really no hope of her getting any lost nervous function back.  It's a matter of making life possible with what's left. 

She is, however, an amazing young woman, and will take whatever she has and do wonderful things with it. 


For the newer people, here's a synopsis of what's going on from an old post in another thread;

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OK, here's the synopsis;

At 16, my daughter, a pole vaulter, runner, flag twirler in the band, and all around great kid, got a painful tingling in her feet one day that worked its way up her legs over the next week.  The emergency room was baffled.  When it hit her waist, she was shipped to Children's in Pittsburgh, where they thought it might be Guillain Barre (it wasn't) or transverse myelitis (it wasn't).  It got to her diaphragm and she nearly stopped breathing.  It hit one side of her face, and she looked like a stroke victim.  The best they could do was stabilize her, and after 6 1/2 weeks, she was sent home without a diagnosis, but with lots of expensive therapy so she could learn to walk, breathe, pee (with a catheter) and eat again.  We were referred to Johns Hopkins, where they said it was all in her head.  That place still leaves a bad taste in my mouth...

A few months later she was having trouble keeping food down, so we went to the gastro, who looked at the old MRI's... and spotted a tumor on her thyroid that everyone else had missed.  The thyroid was removed with all the surrounding lymph nodes (it was metastatic), and after a lot of hemming, hawing, and long hospital stays as more of her digestive system crapped out, it was finally determined (through an international conference call of over 30 world-famous neurologists) that her immune system was trying to kill the thyroid cancer - and instead, had put her entire nervous system under attack.  She wound up with a feeding tube, a wheelchair, a visit to the Mayo clinic to confirm this disease (called paraneoplastic syndrome, only about 100 - 150 cases anually worldwide).  She will have a lifetime of huge medical expenses.

She was prepping to go to the US Naval academy.  She wanted to study Marine Biology.  She was lucky to graduate high school - she can't handle college yet, and will probably never be able to work in any way. 

She's 19 now, 20 this summer.  Though she needed the wheelchair for distance, she could still walk some - on her toes, with crutches to stabilize her. 

With the current exacerbation, she can't even do that.  She's now got a life sentence to a chair.  Hell, she has "drop-foot" now, and will need to wear special braces on both legs to keep from damaging her own feet. 

And, as of this evening's conference with the neurologists, they still know nothing.  Most of the tests will take several weeks to complete.  If the cranial pressure doesn't stabilize, they may have to put a shunt in her head. 

Yay, brain surgery.  Just what she needed. 



It ain't House. 
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Post by: nekowafer on 02 Apr 2013, 17:52
I can't even begin to imagine how awful that is, for her and your family. I offer all the digital hugs I possess (it's a lot).
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Post by: Patrick on 02 Apr 2013, 18:06
Damn. I was just about to comment on your post about the spinal tap, making some wisecrack about how much I fucking hate that movie

Damn that got heavy quick, holy shit, I am so sorry
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Post by: Carl-E on 02 Apr 2013, 18:22
I'm sorry.  I don't usually dump like that.  I was petting her kitten, who's pissed off that her mistress has been gone for almost a week (OK, she's a grown cat now, but only weighs about 4 pounds) and I just... I dunno.  Everything I do seems like trivial bullshit most days.  All my problems - my back, my knees, my frustrations with my career and work and unemployment, the fact that we're behind on the mortgage again... it all takes a back seat. 

It has to. 


My only other social life is church based, and I'm not christian.  So the wonderful people there just always sound hollow when I talk to them.  All their platitudes and comfort mean nothing, compared to the digital support I get from you guys. 

Which is really pretty fucked up, when you think about it. 
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Post by: nekowafer on 02 Apr 2013, 18:24
I'm just glad you have some meaningful support, no matter where it comes from.
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Post by: Valdís on 02 Apr 2013, 18:41
Yeah, I didn't know any of that, Carl.. Heavy..

(I should make a Blót dedicated to her well-being and fortune. Eir would have to be a grade-A bitch to overlook it. <3 )
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Post by: Bluesummers on 02 Apr 2013, 20:03
All their platitudes and comfort mean nothing, compared to the digital support I get from you guys. 

Which is really pretty fucked up, when you think about it. 

No, what's fucked up is that they can't be more down-to-earth and actually REALLY listen to you like people here do. I've been there, they're really quite useless.

Not that this quite compares, but my wife has rheumatoid arthritis...she had to drop out of college twice for medical reasons, and can't work due to limited stamina.

The point of me mentioning this is because all of her friends, from high school, college and other places, abandoned her. They wouldn't give the time or effort to understand what she's going through. She found people online in auto-immune illness forums who help her cope, give supportive tips about daily life, converse about treatment options, etc.

I know that paraneoplastic syndrome is much more rare, but it's worth a try, if your daughter can use a computer, she can get some support through friends, even without ever seeing their faces (sound familiar?). She sounds like she has the drive, the willpower, to carry on. And that's what separates those who have given up, from those who refuse to let their condition define them. It is that which is most important.
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Post by: Redball on 02 Apr 2013, 20:13
Which is really pretty fucked up, when you think about it.
We might respectfully disagree.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 02 Apr 2013, 20:19
I much prefer my online life to my IRL one.

Also it is NOT a life sentence to a chair.  Get her a ReWalk and she'll be back on her feet, once she stabilizes.
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Post by: HappyHavoc on 02 Apr 2013, 20:27
Man school is crazy but fun at the same time.
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Post by: Patrick on 02 Apr 2013, 22:54
I much prefer my online life to my IRL one.

I'll be honest, a lot of times I feel the same way, and then I remember I haven't really decided that yet. I can have both, though.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Apr 2013, 23:16
all of my lives suck to be honest

at what point do i become a rock star fucking hell
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Post by: Akima on 03 Apr 2013, 01:10
Which is really pretty fucked up, when you think about it.
I just feel inadequate that I can't really do anything to help.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 03 Apr 2013, 01:14
I hope everything works out for the best for you and your daughter. Best of luck.
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Post by: Welu on 03 Apr 2013, 05:11
Akima echoed my feelings.

It's good to have a support network of any kind.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Apr 2013, 09:45
Also I feel like an asshole 'cause I'm ignoring you Carl but I don't relaly know what to say other that I'm sorry.
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Post by: Boiled Dove on 03 Apr 2013, 10:03
Damn Carl-E. I thought I knew frustration when it took about 6 months for them to find why my 17 year old was having seizures (small brain tumor) but that is nothing compared to what you and your family have been going through.

As a fellow parent I really feel for you, I've never experienced a feeling of helplessness like I did when they were unable to figure out what was going on and I'm sure you have been through the same thing, even worse. Yep, everything else seems like petty bullshit when confronted with such a situation, it does change your entire perspective.


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Post by: lepetitfromage on 03 Apr 2013, 11:02
 :cry:

*hug*

Thinking about you and your family and hoping for the best. I don't know how much it helps, but Nick had brain surgery when he was about her age and has been living with a shunt in his head for 10+ years. I'm so grateful for that little device...it's keeping him alive. I'm sure that doesn't make the idea of brain surgery any less terrifying but I guess my point was that while a shunt is invasive, if she needs it and it helps her, it will be worth it's weight in gold.
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Post by: Carl-E on 03 Apr 2013, 11:23
We're actually pretty familiar with shunts...

Her boyfriend, who she met at Children's, was suffering from the same problem.  He's had a shunt for three years, although due to some serious incompetencey, it's needed to be redone twice.  However, he's in pretty good shape, now. 

Re: Rewalker - I no longer have insurance, and medicare won't cover that.  They don't even cover a decent power chair (I'm not talking hoverrounds, here - we test drove one that tilts and elevates, letting her transfer in and out of bed and get things from the cupboards... we're looking at some outside funding fromo OVR for that). 

We're trying to figure out what's up with the eyes.  Her pressure measures twice normal - about 39 - 40 lbs, normal's 17 - 22.  At that pressure, she should be blind from the optic nerve being crushed. 

After the opthomologist, she's coming home while we wait for the other test results and the medication to work. 


I need to clean up a bit...
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Post by: Loki on 03 Apr 2013, 14:10
I. Um. Damn man.

I wish you the best.
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Apr 2013, 16:41
at what point do i become a rock star fucking hell

My fuckin thoughts to a T, bud.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Apr 2013, 16:42
i think you're a little further along than i am, albaniaboy.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Apr 2013, 16:43
alboynia
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Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Apr 2013, 16:43
actually let's just stick with albaniaboy
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Post by: Carl-E on 04 Apr 2013, 00:08
Home.  Her eyesight's still mysteriously OK.  She tires easily.  The pressure medicine went in with the rest of the three hour course of medicine tonight. 

10 PM  - calcium, stomach pills, vicodin, birth control
12 midnight - amatryptalin, synthroid, vitamin C (all need to be away from the calcium)
1 AM - trazodone, benadryl, the new stuff (trazodone needs food, food needs kept away from synthroid), and hook up the formula pump to her feeding tube. 

That's my evening, every evening.  All the pills need ground, mixed with water into a slurry and injected into the feeding tube, she's not able to swallow most pills. 

Then I walk the dogs, and try to sleep. 

Goodnight. 
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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 00:09
 :psyduck: da hell are the birth control pills for?
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Post by: Carl-E on 04 Apr 2013, 00:26
Her thyroid was removed.  That's the master of all hormones.  The BC regulates her periods because her other hormones are so out of whack. 


Seriously, you do not want to be around a teenage girl going on the third week of her period...
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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 00:28
Jesus I feel sorry for your life man  :psyduck:
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Post by: Carl-E on 04 Apr 2013, 00:34
NO.     :x


You do not get that option. 


I am blessed in ways you'll never know.  My life is what it is; there are unfortunate aspects of it, but I'm in excellent health for a man my age, and have a loving family. 



And I sing.  And whistle.  And can still dance. 
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Post by: Papersatan on 04 Apr 2013, 00:38
And she probably doesn't want to have 3 week periods...

Seriously, I think period regulation is almost as common a use of BC as pregnancy prevention.

Also, I believe Carl said she had a boyfriend...  She may be in bad place a the moment, but given his descriptions of where she was prior to this flare up of problems, I would not assume she was not interested or capable of the things other girls her age do with their boyfriends...

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Post by: Carl-E on 04 Apr 2013, 00:41
Yeah, she's promised to make me a grampa someday. 

Of course, she also has saddle anethesia - can't feel a thing from waist to mid thigh. 


Gonna make things interesting for them...
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Post by: Loki on 04 Apr 2013, 00:50
If you are easily disturbed by suggestions from strangers on the Internet about how your daughter can have better sex, don't read the spoiler.

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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 00:51
Well in that case she has a better social life than I do.

How the fuck did that happen.  :psyduck:

I'm glad you're handling everything as well as you are though. Color me impressed.

I hope for the best for both of you, knowing full well I would break in that sort of environment . (better?)
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Post by: Carl-E on 04 Apr 2013, 01:19
You do what you have to do.  Things build up, and once in a while you look back and say, "How the fuck did I get here?", but you're already there, so... there you are. 
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Post by: Patrick on 04 Apr 2013, 04:20
i think you're a little further along than i am, albaniaboy.

I can hardly say the Albania thing's really such a part of why I play music. I choose to block the majority of the singing-on-live-television experience out of my memory as best I can. I have never felt so completely at the mercy of total strangers before or since, and I never intend to feel that way again. It's awful, completely fucking horrible, I'd sincerely rather be dead than ever feel that helpless again. I need to be in charge of my own fate, and if I'm not, I fucking melt down. I had a lot of great times but I have to make a very distinct partition for the different kinds of memories from that experience.

It'll be 4 years in July since my time on the show ended, and I still haven't decided whether or not the experience amounted to a net gain or loss. There's so many factors of both ends of the spectrum. Whatever I decide about the rest of it, I certainly learned a lot about myself.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 04 Apr 2013, 09:10
Auntie has been cremated. Done and dusted, so to speak. The usual suspects were completely shattered and broken. You know, these types of get-togethers ... never fun. Avoid, would not cremate again.

I might be irreverent but it's a long day, with loads of travelling and sadness and crying.
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Post by: Thrillho on 04 Apr 2013, 10:19
i think you're a little further along than i am, albaniaboy.

I can hardly say the Albania thing's really such a part of why I play music. I choose to block the majority of the singing-on-live-television experience out of my memory as best I can. I have never felt so completely at the mercy of total strangers before or since, and I never intend to feel that way again. It's awful, completely fucking horrible, I'd sincerely rather be dead than ever feel that helpless again. I need to be in charge of my own fate, and if I'm not, I fucking melt down. I had a lot of great times but I have to make a very distinct partition for the different kinds of memories from that experience.

It'll be 4 years in July since my time on the show ended, and I still haven't decided whether or not the experience amounted to a net gain or loss. There's so many factors of both ends of the spectrum. Whatever I decide about the rest of it, I certainly learned a lot about myself.

I either wasn't listening to you properly in '09 or I have no idea what the fuck you are talking about.
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Post by: Valdís on 04 Apr 2013, 10:28
I might be irreverent but it's a long day, with loads of travelling and sadness and crying.

Sorry to hear that, Beo.. So many hugs for this thread.

I should make a Blót dedicated to her well-being and fortune.

@Carl: Much love. Windy as all get-out though, so had no hope of keeping the candles lit for long (It also messed up the flowers). They were burning when I was speaking, at least. The bowl had a low-lying burn on top of the fish I chose for sacrifice (Marine Biology interest). Can't really see it well. Put some Dry-moss on it to help the fire stay alive.

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Feel free to take it as just another hollow platitude, but, like I said in the private message: Infinity hugs. :-)
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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 10:36
That's an excellent service, and that's coming from an atheist. I would not mind having a funeral like that at all.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 04 Apr 2013, 11:54
mtmerrick, I might have misunderstood your post, but you might have misunderstood Valdis's - I believe the photos were of the Blót (can you tell us more about that?) which was for Carl's daughter, not for Beo's aunt's funeral.
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Post by: Welu on 04 Apr 2013, 13:36
The Blót looks interesting.

~ ~

Dear Blogothread,

A person in between the level of acquaintance/friend has been messaging me and asking me to look at a dress she bought to make sure it's okay for my birthday party and saying she wants to order some stuff for it. This is because I said it might be fun to have a fancy dress/masquerade type theme under the logic most people have some formal thing in their closet they never get to wear. Although her sort of pushiness makes me want to just have a movie night. Also some of my friends don't have formal things or things that are nice but are worried aren't nice enough.
Last year I had a Batman themed costume party, even convinced people to go into town dressed up. It was great fun but it seems I set up a standard since the rest of parties for the year were dress-up or some other theme.

I just want people to dress up in pretty things and drink alcohol if they desire and have fun.  :meh:
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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 14:59
mtmerrick, I might have misunderstood your post, but you might have misunderstood Valdis's - I believe the photos were of the Blót (can you tell us more about that?) which was for Carl's daughter, not for Beo's aunt's funeral.
well I did misinterpret that pretty bad then. >_< my fail. I blame wikipedia. 

Seriously though, the blót looks awesome.
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Post by: Valdís on 04 Apr 2013, 16:21
I believe the photos were of the Blót (can you tell us more about that?) which was for Carl's daughter, not for Beo's aunt's funeral.

Yeah, it was for her. Wrote the post after getting back from it, naturally. Set things up, lit the candles and sacrifice. Said my words. After giving blood to the flame I poured out half a bottle of wheat-beer. Then I had a snack and drank the rest. :wink:

I also encountered a deer on my way there. She ran off right quick.

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Post by: Carl-E on 04 Apr 2013, 18:09
Feel free to take it as just another hollow platitude, but, like I said in the private message: Infinity hugs. :-)


Wow.  Thank you, Valdis.  That was really very moving.  I had no idea what was involved.  I'll show her. 


Oh, and I know you didn't know this, but she's wanted to be a marine biologist since she knew what the words meant...

I also encountered a deer on my way there. She ran off right quick.

Probably the smell of blood and burning fish...

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Tregul the Bandage-Kitty says hi!

Hi, Tregul! 
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Post by: Valdís on 04 Apr 2013, 18:19
Wow.  Thank you, Valdis.  That was really very moving.  I had no idea what was involved.  I'll show her.

Oh, and I know you didn't know this, but she's wanted to be a marine biologist since she knew what the words meant...

Aw, thank you too. The place with "[her]/[henne]" really said her name. <3

Hopefully she won't be mad at me for burning a fish! :lol:

Probably the smell of blood and burning fish...

Of course, staples of the Deer diet! :psyduck:
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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 18:22
ever since i learned of the Horrible Chinese River Deer i have not been able to look at any type of deer/deer-like-thing the same.
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Post by: Valdís on 04 Apr 2013, 18:34
"The water deer (Hydropotes inermis), also known as the vampire deer, is a small deer superficially more similar to a musk deer than a true deer. Despite its lack of antlers and certain other anatomical anomalies—including a pair of prominent tusks (downward-pointing canine teeth), it is classified as a cervid."

(http://www.azdrybones.com/images/Chinese-Water-DeerMale.jpg)

WHAT THE

I WAS JOKING

(They're still herbivores, though. Those are for fights, they don't grow antlers. They're still adowabul! (http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/cd/Shammy.jpg))
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Post by: jwhouk on 04 Apr 2013, 18:43
Random thought based on Deer: On the morning of the 28th, I was driving home from work via the "alternate" route - a two-lane rural highway that is essentially a country road. I reach this one point, near where you turn to go to the airport, and that's when I see them.

16 deer, all bounding out of the woods on the one side, leaping over a fence and running fast and furious for the other side - where another fence and a smaller patch of woods are.

The first group was about a dozen or so, and were over the road so fast I didn't realize I had come to a complete stop. The second group I had to wait to cross in front of me.

It was the weirdest thing I'd ever seen when it came to deer and roads.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 18:45
Will you ever look at bambi the same way now though,  Valdís?
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Post by: nekowafer on 04 Apr 2013, 19:01
Um yeah when I was practicing driving a couple of weeks ago, in a large parking lot, there were a ton of deer hanging around. Like 20. I had to stop (far too quickly, of course) and wait for them to go away before I could continue.
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Post by: Valdís on 04 Apr 2013, 19:05
Will you ever look at bambi the same way now though,  Valdís?

Of course. Didn't you see that link? Ohmigosh!
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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 19:12
(http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2009/04/01/article-1166367-04379086000005DC-172_468x350.jpg)

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The majority of the current population of Chinese water deer in Britain derives from escapees, with the remainder being descended from a number of deliberate releases. Many of these animals still reside close to Woburn Abbey.
The main area of distribution is from Woburn, east into Cambridgeshire, Norfolk, Suffolk and North Essex, and south towards Whipsnade.
There have been small colonies reported in other areas.

The British Deer Society coordinated a survey of wild deer in the United Kingdom between 2005 and 2007 and noted the Chinese water deer as "notably increasing its range" since the last census in 2000.

There are currently small, highly localized feral populations



Link for those who want to be traumatized:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1166367/Fanged-deer-savages-dogs--April-Fool-joke.html
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Post by: Valdís on 04 Apr 2013, 19:26
Them being "Feral" means they were brought over by humans, but have entered the wild. Not that they're going zombie. Look at the chaos caused by introducing commonplace species from Europe to places like Australia/NZ (and everywhere else, but it's easier to see rapid changes there).

Also it doesn't matter what they say in the headline, gonna have to need an example that's A) Not on April Fool's, and B) Not from the Daily Mail.  :roll:

Not that dogs aren't often caught up with wild animals, of course.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 19:34
They're demons i tell you! demons! xD
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Post by: Zingoleb on 04 Apr 2013, 20:21
I almost used an 'xD' emoticon the other day

i managed to stop myself right beforehand, else i might have killed myself out of shame.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 20:24
what's shameful about an xD?  :psyduck:
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Post by: Zingoleb on 04 Apr 2013, 20:41
bitter memories of the internet and my prepubescence mostly
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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 21:01
well i can understand not wanting to remember your childhoood.... >_>
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Post by: Carl-E on 04 Apr 2013, 22:06
I prefer XP, because it's both an emoticon and an operating system. 
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Post by: mtmerrick on 04 Apr 2013, 23:44
I still have to use XP at work. When you're living on 7 and Jellybean, XP sucks.
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Post by: Thrillho on 05 Apr 2013, 04:31
The place I worked at a year ago was still using Windows 2000 for fuck's sake. I couldn't believe it.
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Post by: nekowafer on 05 Apr 2013, 05:13
Uh yeah I only just recently got XP at work, having had 2000 for the longest time. I had to fight for it, too, even though my whole team had it - and I'm the best one here, with computers. It was annoying. We only just recently got Outlook/Word/Excel 2007.
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Post by: Boiled Dove on 05 Apr 2013, 06:18
I kept the people in our company on XP for a long time for two reasons. First I wanted to be able to completely skip Vista, and I was able to accomplish this. Second I was also in the middle of changing the ERP just as 7 was seeming solid enough to be an option. Once the ERP conversion was done and we were on a version that supported 7 we began to upgrade as machines needed to be replaced. We still have several XP machines around, mostly in the warehouses and back of the retail locations.

I think one of the worst things they do to kids in college is make them used to the newest technologies so that is what they think the world is. They are shocked when they get out into the business world and find they need to support legacy systems that run on older technologies. Sometimes there is just not a decent ROI to justify the pain of converting systems and re training all of your personell when what you have in place works.
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Post by: jwhouk on 05 Apr 2013, 09:50
We're still (technically) on XP. There's supposed to be a department-wide switchover to 7 in the next few months, as XP's support is going by the wayside.  However, AFAIK, there is only one computer on grounds that's available to staff that is running 7.

As a bonus, though, I do have a free* copy of Office 13 that I can order for download if I so choose because of MS's Home User Program.

(* - It's actually not entirely free, as there is a cost for handling, and if you want a physical DVD you have to pay a bit.)
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Post by: pwhodges on 05 Apr 2013, 10:03
I have now moved over half my people onto win7 x64, which even our oldest desktops handle - I just upped them from 1GB to 4GB. We've all had Office 2010 for ages, but Exchange is still 2003.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 05 Apr 2013, 10:45
We're using 7 at work but I have XP on my home computer. But....it's kind of in dire need of an upgrade anyway, so I'll probably just do that after I buy all my new shiz.
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Post by: jwhouk on 05 Apr 2013, 11:21
Pretty much what happened to me. Old GW finally started to have issues at startup, and I switched to 7.

About two weeks before MS dropped 8.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 05 Apr 2013, 11:44
I have now moved over half my people onto win7 x64, which even our oldest desktops handle - I just upped them from 1GB to 4GB. We've all had Office 2010 for ages, but Exchange is still 2003.
this is confusing. What OS were they originally running? XP? XP 64? vista? It sounds like XP or vista 32,but that wouldn't make any sense, because if you loaded W7x64 on there, that means it's a 64 bit chip, and that means you'd be able to have more ram. Very few vista 64 machines speed with 1GB of RAM, nearly all came with 2, because vista was such a ram hog.

So really the only thing that wild make sense here is for those PCs to be originally XP 64 Pro. except that was one of the rarest OSes ever  :psyduck:
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Post by: idontunderstand on 05 Apr 2013, 13:34
I hate going to parties where I don't know anybody and the people I do know seem to have forgotten I'm there at all. Bastards. They probably won't even notice I left.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 05 Apr 2013, 14:22
They probably wouldn't. So why are you still there, if you hate the situation so much?
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 05 Apr 2013, 14:38
I thought he already had.
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Post by: pwhodges on 05 Apr 2013, 14:53
So really the only thing that wild make sense here is for those PCs to be originally XP 64 Pro. except that was one of the rarest OSes ever  :psyduck:

No, they were ordinary XP (on Dell Optiplex 745 and later); chips have been 64-bit capable for much longer than people have used it.  And when I say "upgrade" I mean "format and do a new install".  I have not had Vista on a single machine, work or home.

As for XP-64, I used to run that on my home desktop and was very happy with it. I only moved to 7 x64 when I had a stupid problem with one of my main audio programs - a new update needed XP SP3 - but the equivalent in the 64-bit version was SP2, which had the same facilities, but the program rejected it for having the wrong number...
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Post by: Valdís on 05 Apr 2013, 15:27
OMG YOU GUYS TREGUL WAS VICIOUSLY SHOT DEAD BY A SHOWER

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gods' speed bygul ;_;7

(Yes, this is definitely what one should be doing the night before a national pre-University test. :angel: )
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Post by: mtmerrick on 05 Apr 2013, 15:56
Good luck with your test  :psyduck:
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Post by: Welu on 05 Apr 2013, 16:04
The old tills in work, which were changed last year, ran on Windows 95.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 05 Apr 2013, 16:19
*tries to imagine running Revit on a Windows 95 machine*

Ye gods o__O
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Post by: Akima on 05 Apr 2013, 16:25
They are shocked when they get out into the business world and find they need to support legacy systems that run on older technologies. Sometimes there is just not a decent ROI to justify the pain of converting systems and re training all of your personell when what you have in place works.
Heh... Tell me about it. I've had to support some horrible old dusty decks (http://www.catb.org/jargon/html/D/dusty-deck.html), especially in my first job after leaving uni.
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Post by: jwhouk on 05 Apr 2013, 18:35
I still miss my old Mac SE.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 06 Apr 2013, 00:03
I thought he already had.

Yup. It seems they actually didn't notice. And I didn't hate it, it was just kind of boring and I was too tired anyway so..
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Post by: Valdís on 06 Apr 2013, 01:14
Fun to start out the day triple-signing 8 documents in my old name for bureaucracy. Here for most of the day. On break atm.

Edit: ghggrhk My brain does not like having to keep up with 23 pages of math in 50 minutes.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Apr 2013, 07:21
idu, I came to the conclusion fairly recently that most parties suck, and I don't have to go to them. My life got much more pleasant at that point. The reason they didn't notice you were gone was possibly that their observational skills were drowned out by their inner monologue about how the party wasn't that great and maybe they should leave but people might notice and think badly of them so better stay and chat to this really boring drunk person some more.
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Post by: snalin on 06 Apr 2013, 07:52
Oh man, parties that's not really about anything can really suck, and I do tend to leave if nobody's talking about anything interesting. Beer and board games, on the other hand...

Bloggy thread; I just played Magic the Gathering for the first time about a week ago. Learned the rules, participated in a draft, that kind of stuff. And... It's not that great? I mean, the game is pretty good, but the endless stack of counters and effects are just complex, not terribly interesting. I'll probably do some more drafts - probably never going to play constructed seriously (you can lose against someone because they spent more money than you. I stay away from that on principle), but the drafts can be fun, and there seems to be some cool communities around the game.

I'd still prefer to just find a group to play Dominion with on a regular basis.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 06 Apr 2013, 09:41
the parties i've been to are less beer and board games and more lsd, kmfdm, and shibari.

which is actually p. weird given how many of my friends are beer snobs and play board games
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Post by: mtmerrick on 06 Apr 2013, 12:48
I've been to like, 2 real parties ever. They're not all that bad if they're people you like and you don't stay overly long.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 06 Apr 2013, 13:31
So I just wasted an hour reading the Jargon File. Again.
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Post by: Welu on 06 Apr 2013, 15:48
I thought I got semi-banned from the forums because I couldn't see any of the Other Fun Things forums but I just shrunk the menu by accident.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 07 Apr 2013, 00:18
I don't want to say it, but having a girlfriend who doesn't like parties is an excellent reason (and excuse) to leave early. I really should bring her with me more often.
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Post by: Welu on 07 Apr 2013, 04:56
Same for if the partner doesn't drink alcohol and you don't feel like drinking.
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Post by: Loki on 07 Apr 2013, 06:14
This has the drawback that your friends might see your partner as the "joykiller" whenever you bring her/him over, and your partner isn't going to like that in return.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 07 Apr 2013, 06:17
By far the best option that isn't going to unintentionally get your friend or partners labeled as a killjoy is to simply learn to say no, and learn how to leave early on your own. It really really is the absolute best thing you can do. A bit of an explanation to your close friends who are regulars at these affairs may be a good idea as well.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 07 Apr 2013, 07:29
Hey guys, I think I'll go back to posting on this forum again. Just popped in for a sec and realised how many people I know here who I don't have much contact with elsewhere, so yeah, good to be back!
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Post by: Valdís on 07 Apr 2013, 07:37
Ooh! Hejsan! Welcome back, I'm kinda new!  :-D
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Post by: celticgeek on 07 Apr 2013, 07:44
Welcome back, Metope!
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Post by: pwhodges on 07 Apr 2013, 08:25
Hi Kris - glad you remember us!
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Post by: Papersatan on 07 Apr 2013, 09:03
Hi blog thread,

Here is a list of things I did last night.

Hosted a bar night for my program in my city which 14 people came to (an AMAZING turnout).

Got very drunk.

While very drunk:
   bought a new domain name (pubestache.com is mine fuckers....)

   started a Facebook group for women in my program (which now has 85 members and a ton of "omg, this is a great idea!! posts on it)

   went off on someone about how casual comments about how you should lose weight, and how it is your own fault you are unhappy, because you let yourself gain weight are unhealthy, unproductive and offensive.  This is sure to have added to my reputation as a bitch, but I promised myself I would start pointing it out when people did it , instead of just letting everyone all the time imply that my accomplishments and joys come with an asterisk because I am fat.   


I am amazingly awake before noon, with only a little headache. 
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Post by: Loki on 07 Apr 2013, 09:18
Heads-up: one could get your personal information by reverse-checking the domain name (well, not now yet, as the registration seems to not have propagated to all lookup engines, but soon enough).

Edit: 666th post. Awwyeah.
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Post by: Metope on 07 Apr 2013, 09:42
Aww thanks all, I feel welcome already. In bloggy news, I just came back home from seeing my boyfriend in Seattle, feeling a bit melancholic since I won't get to see him for 4 months. I'm going back for almost 7 weeks in July - Sept. though, so I'm looking forward to that. Also, the jetlag has turned me into a morning person somehow. Been up at 6am every day lately, it's actually quite nice!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Apr 2013, 09:50
Welcome back Kris! How was Seattle? I'm moving there in about three weeks.
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Post by: Metope on 07 Apr 2013, 10:00
Really? So jealous! Seattle is amazing, I fell completely in love with it, especially Freemont and Ballard. If everything goes right with this boy (which it looks like it is), I might be moving there myself sometime in the future. Not anytime soon though, I still have a year left of my degree in Glasgow.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Apr 2013, 10:11
I loved it, too. I only lived there for a few months - I was actually living mostly in Olympia, which is where I'm going back to again.

Love Seattle, love it, love it. So much music and so many queers. I can't wait to go back. I hear summer's on a Tuesday this year.
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Post by: Metope on 07 Apr 2013, 10:19
Funny, I went to Olympia too! That's where my boyfriend used to live, and his parents live there. It was really nice, I can't wait to go back in summer as well when it's warmer out. Plus, Old School Pizza has the best pizza I've ever had in the states, if I lived in Olympia I'd go there all the time.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 07 Apr 2013, 10:29
Hi Metope! I don't think I knew you when you were first here, but welcome back. :)
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Apr 2013, 10:31
Old School is great! I love how '80s it is in there. They toss out all their pizza at the end of the day, and I don't know how many times I've eaten out of their dumpster. Did you see their bathroom with the floor to ceiling graffiti?
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Post by: Metope on 07 Apr 2013, 10:59
Dammit, I didn't! We just went there briefly one day when it was nice out, and then we walked around taking photos. At one point we were in a huge, empty parking lot (on foot) and a police officer came over and chased us away, saying we were trespassing on private property. In what kind of country can you not be on some random parking lot? America is weird!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Apr 2013, 11:06
You literally can't see the walls - it's just covered in shit people have painted/written, all the way up to the ceiling - which, despite being fifteen feet up, is also covered in it.

Did you by any chance get to see Burial Grounds? It's probably my favourite coffee house ever, and it's like, a block up from Old School. (Though, let's face it, in downtown Oly, everything is a block away.)
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Post by: Metope on 07 Apr 2013, 11:08
No I didn't go there. My boyfriend doesn't drink coffee, so he's more likely to know the good food places over the good coffee places, and I just went where he took me this time around. I actually didn't have coffee in Seattle even once, some people would call that blasphemy. I'll definitely check it out next time though!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Apr 2013, 11:12
Maybe we could meet up next time you're there! That would be pretty cool, I think.
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Post by: Metope on 07 Apr 2013, 11:14
Yeah, I'm all up for that! I'll be in the area in August, not sure when I'll be in Olympia specifically, but I'm sure we can work something out.
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Post by: Papersatan on 07 Apr 2013, 21:49
So when I was drunk last night I started a Facebook group for the women in my grad program, and do far is it taking off!  It has almost 200 members at this point and the feed is a pleasant combination of comedic images/meme offs, interesting links to articles related to women in our field, and important discussions about issues. 

Issue no. 1, who gets to be a member of the group, went better than I could have hoped.  I was drunk when I made the group and proud of my clever name and so the description was simple "for the ladies of...." and directions on pronouncing the group name.  Someone raised the point that they did not consider themselves to be a 'lady' and wanted to know if they were still welcome.  Maybe because the group is less than 24 hours old and I am the only admin people behaved better than they would have otherwise, but I was happy that the discussion stayed pleasant and welcoming.  (My clarification was that the group is for anyone who is not a life long beneficiary of male-privilege, so anyone who identifies as female, was formerly identified by others as a female, or simply does not identify as male is welcome. Everyone seemed to be on-board with it.)

 I am really excited that this could be a good space and that it could lead to a non-Facebook based group that can hold talks and what not on some of what I think are the important issues that my program is ignoring. 
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Apr 2013, 22:23
Yay, spring!  Crocuses on my dogwalk...

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8261/8630852154_8392a4072e_m.jpg)

And since we missed Easter at the hospital, we had easter dinner tonight - ham, asparagus and new potatoes. 


And bunny cake. 

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8384/8630851204_d68566c2a5.jpg)
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Post by: Papersatan on 07 Apr 2013, 22:27
eeeeeee bunny cake!
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Post by: mtmerrick on 07 Apr 2013, 22:29
Please tell me you ate the ears first  :psyduck:
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Post by: Loki on 07 Apr 2013, 23:19
Neato. What kind of cake is this?

And seconded@ears.
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Post by: Patrick on 08 Apr 2013, 02:20
Kris, it's a pleasure seeing you back again!

Dear blag,

The ex-lady has been pestering me for an explanation on why I broke up with her, and after plenty of putting it off, I finally relented. Given the way things have gone with it so far, I wasn't really expecting it to go over too well, and I was right. Spent all morning fighting with her, it was awful. I hate fighting so much. But it was over by early afternoon, save for one outburst from her later in the day. By that point, my day had already been made awesome again by band practice followed by dinner with Matt, his family, and some of their friends, so fuck it.

I gotta work on figuring out how to avoid such ugly breakups, though. It's something of a theme with me. I've had a few that went well, and a lot that went horribly. And I know fully well that I'm the least common denominator and that I should be paying closer attention to my part in these things. I just sincerely have no idea what I'm doing wrong.

And people wonder why I spent over 18 months out of relationships and never wanted to date again... they're hard work, and that shit just ain't something I wanna spend mental energy on.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 08 Apr 2013, 05:26
I watched a bunch of Doctor Who last night, a couple of the time-travel-heavy episodes, and when I woke up I didn't think I was real so I turned off my alarm and went back to sleep for half an hour. Then I ended up leaving the house wearing orange moccasins instead of office shoes. And then there were accidents on the highway so I got to work 40 minutes late. Here's hoping the day/week only improves...
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Post by: Carl-E on 08 Apr 2013, 08:22
Of course the ears go first! 

It's just a (vanilla) white cake, with vanilla frosting and coconut dyed and pressed onto the frosting for fur.  Jellybean eyes & nose, of course.  It's made with two rounds, when you cut the ears out of one of them, the bowtie remains.  Been making the same damn cake every easter for over 20 years...
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Post by: celticgeek on 08 Apr 2013, 08:24
That is a great bunny cake!
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Post by: pwhodges on 08 Apr 2013, 10:05
Oh, and Margaret Thatcher died.  I hated her politics, and feel that she caused lasting damage to the UK; but she had become a sad old woman in the end, so may she rest in peace.

(edit) Oops![/i] (http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2013/04/08/conservatives-outraged-over-cnn-photo-of-thatcher-with-pedophile-jimmy-savile/)
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Post by: mtmerrick on 08 Apr 2013, 14:06
xD that's priceless.

I am on the phone in a fruitless effort to try and get us a bigger recycling bin, because we always fill ours to the brim.

The worst part of being on hold is the horrible music/ads/automated messages they play.
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Post by: Akima on 08 Apr 2013, 16:30
My recycling bin is a 240 litre wheelie-bin (http://www.shreddersdirect.com.au/img/cms/Wheelie%20Bin%20Schematic.jpg). If I were homeless, I reckon I could use it as a house. It takes me weeks to fill the thing, and I tried to get the council to swap if for a smaller one, with a similar lack of success.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 08 Apr 2013, 17:02
Heh, finally got it figured out. They'll be dropping off the bigger one on Friday. 
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Post by: jwhouk on 08 Apr 2013, 17:32
My recycling bin is a 240 litre wheelie-bin (http://www.shreddersdirect.com.au/img/cms/Wheelie%20Bin%20Schematic.jpg). If I were homeless, I reckon I could use it as a house. It takes me weeks to fill the thing, and I tried to get the council to swap if for a smaller one, with a similar lack of success.

If you're thinking of that as a potential house... you've got to be smaller than my great aunt.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 08 Apr 2013, 18:30
wait a sec... *does some quick calculations*

240 liters = 63.4 Gal. we have a 64 Gal, and are trading up to a 96 Gal. You must live alone or something to make that little garbage.  :psyduck:

(http://wmnorthwest.com/images/cartbanner1020356496g.jpg)
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Post by: Zingoleb on 08 Apr 2013, 19:10
well, it was a recycling bin, not a garbage bin, for starters...
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Post by: Akima on 08 Apr 2013, 20:53
240 liters = 63.4 Gal. we have a 64 Gal, and are trading up to a 96 Gal. You must live alone or something to make that little garbage.  :psyduck:
I thought you said recycling? In our municipality each household has three bins (blocks of flats are slightly different). We have one 140 litre wheelie-bin with a red lid for garbage (material not eligible for recycling), one 240 litre with a yellow lid for recycling (glass bottles, cans, cardboard, paper, some plastic containers), and one 240 litre with a green lid for vegetable/garden waste (brought in after the state government banned backyard burning in bonfires or incinerators back in the '80s). We put the garbage bin out once a week, perhaps half-full. The recycling takes weeks to fill. The vegetation bin goes out very occasionally, because we compost. We do seem to produce less rubbish and recycling than our neighbours, but I am not sure why. I assume it is because our diet is different.

OK, so I was exaggerating a bit about living in the recycling bin :-P, but I was comparing it with the canonical homeless person's cardboard-box rather than a real house. I am 160cm tall (just under 5'3") and Evelyn is... um... more robustly build.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 08 Apr 2013, 21:21
we have the same, except our colors are brown for garbage, green for organic waste, and gray for recycling. the trash trucks come every friday at far-too-early o'clock.

we have, if i'm not mistaken, a 64 Gal green bin, a 64 Gal recycling, and a 96 Gal garbage bin. the green bin rarely gets touched, and at the end of the week the garbage bin is at about 50-70%, depends on what we did that week. but the recycling is filled up nearly every to the brim every week, so we got a bigger one.
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Post by: Jace on 08 Apr 2013, 21:53
Today (the 9th of April) is my and my lady's 3rd year of dating together. Yesterday (the 8th, but still technically today for me as its only an hour past midnight) we went out for dinner and I bought her flowers.

While at dinner my card was declined and it turns out that paypal took out an extra $345 for the rattan order I did on Friday. I'll be getting it back tomorrow probably (I called with a very wtf tone in my voice) and so it will be okay, but it was still a bit jarring to see my checking account at zero dollars when I thought it should be around $250.
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Post by: pwhodges on 08 Apr 2013, 23:27
My wife and I generate considerably more recycling than rubbish (garbage).  We compost, but use the council garden waste bin for pernicious weeds, because they compost at higher temperatures which can destroy them (branches and twigs we shred for mulch); we also have a small council bin for non-compostible food waste (non-vegetable and cooked), to reduce the attractiveness of the compost heap to rats.
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Post by: pwhodges on 08 Apr 2013, 23:33
t turns out that paypal took out an extra $345 for the rattan order I did on Friday. I'll be getting it back tomorrow probably (I called with a very wtf tone in my voice) and so it will be okay, but it was still a bit jarring to see my checking account at zero dollars when I thought it should be around $250.

I had a time when a sales website kept crashing mid-transaction - and I found that PayPal had "reserved" the amount in my account each time; it wasn't taken, but became unavailable.  I did wonder how it could have been done without, and whether full-on crashproof transaction programming is practical through a browser; at the least, the banks would have to cooperate a lot, I guess.  (It's not a field of programming I know much about.)
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Post by: mtmerrick on 09 Apr 2013, 00:20
Just had a horrible 45 minute screaming fest with my parents...

My dad's an idiot but my mom's just mental....

God I hate them. If be out of there if I didn't need them for college tuition....
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Post by: snalin on 09 Apr 2013, 02:18
One of the blackboards in the computer labs here at uni has this text on it:¨

"Adun toridas
En taro Adun
En taro Tassadar
My life for Aiur"

<3
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Post by: Metope on 09 Apr 2013, 11:54
Today we got free cake at school, tomorrow BBC will be filming in our studio. The glamorous life of art students!
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Post by: Asterus on 09 Apr 2013, 13:51
One of the blackboards in the computer labs here at uni has this text on it:¨

"Adun toridas
En taro Adun
En taro Tassadar
My life for Aiur"

<3

Keep an eye out for trouble in that lab, on the off chance it will ever be appropriate for you to then write "YOU MUST CONSTRUCT ADDITIONAL PYLONS!" next to a computer that won't start.
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Apr 2013, 15:06
In 1968, we were four; students - Michael, me, Peter and Steve (this photo has become famous because of two of the people in it):

(http://cassland.org/album/OUTRS/slides/All.jpg)

Seventeen years ago the most famous of us died (Michael Gerzon, on the left behind me), so then we were three.  Here we are in 2011 at my 65th birthday party.  Me, Steve and Peter Craven (the other famous one):

(http://cassland.org/images/OUTRS-2011.jpg)

Yesterday Steve died.  He had been suffering from cancer since 2007, and had 11 operations; but he lived with a supportive family, and spent less than two days in hospital at the end.  So now we are two.

RIP Steve Thornton.
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Post by: Valdís on 09 Apr 2013, 15:30
Yesterday Steve died.  He had been suffering from cancer since 2007, and had 11 operations; but he lived with a supportive family, and spent less than two days in hospital at the end.  So now we are two.

RIP Steve Thornton.

I'm sorry to hear that, Paul.. Condolences and hugs.
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Post by: Akima on 09 Apr 2013, 16:28
My sympathies too.

I had not heard of Michael Gerzon (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Gerzon), so I googled him. He died as a consequence of an asthma attack. It is shocking that this still happens. In 1995 Teresa Teng (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teresa_Teng) (adored by millions in the "Sinosphere", including me), died at 42 after an asthma attack. Asthma sucks. Cancer too. Support medical research!
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Post by: CardinalFang on 09 Apr 2013, 18:19
Hey guys, I think I'll go back to posting on this forum again. Just popped in for a sec and realised how many people I know here who I don't have much contact with elsewhere, so yeah, good to be back!

Great, another reason to check in here. Geez!

I kid of course.

Wait, wasn't I supposed to start posting more or something?
Hmm according to a post back in January I was.
I need to start working on that I suppose.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 09 Apr 2013, 18:53
Yeah I'm sort of back as well. It might be a while before I start really posting regularly because I don't like butting in on already established conversations but there you are.

Man I am freaking out about this stupid competition my band is in. For context, I've been the vocalist for a black metal band for the last few years and now that we have a long term lineup we’re starting to become more active. One of the things we're doing is trying to get the support slot for Cradle of Filth when they tour Australia next month. It's through facebook and based on getting people to vote for ore you. I'm getting pretty frustrated with It because we're doing really well considering we're such a small band with such a small following but I'm no sure that we're likely to win as some of the he other bands (who suck btw) just have more friends than we do. I'm also really concerned that I am annoying everyone. I've been putting this all over facebook and twitter for like two weeks and the he red another two weeks to go and man, if I'm getting the shits with posting it then I can only imagine how other people feel about having to read it. I also feel like I'm the only one doing anything with this because the other guys in the band aren't really doing anything to help promote this and I reckon we could actually win if they put more effort in.

Anyway in the name of not being manipulative, please vote for Isgahaatt under the Sydney tab. It would be pretty huge.  http://bit.ly/cradle_of_filth_voting
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Post by: TheEvilDog on 09 Apr 2013, 19:50
So this morning there was an accident that happened right outside my window, in which three cars were totalled, the cops and fire brigade were called out, sirens and everything and remained for at least an hour, resulting in the road being closed for over an hour. The three wrecked cars were taken away by a supposedly loud tow-truck.

I slept through it. All of it.

I am an incredibly heavy sleeper, though according to my father and sister, not even the dead sleep as heavily as I do...
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Post by: Zingoleb on 09 Apr 2013, 20:19
Hey guys, I think I'll go back to posting on this forum again. Just popped in for a sec and realised how many people I know here who I don't have much contact with elsewhere, so yeah, good to be back!

Great, another reason to check in here. Geez!

I kid of course.

Wait, wasn't I supposed to start posting more or something?
Hmm according to a post back in January I was.
I need to start working on that I suppose.

well, you always were a prolific poster

(eric, right?)
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Post by: Valdís on 09 Apr 2013, 21:04
Brain-dump time right before sleep!

When Gareth mentioned the city of Preston over in the Relationship thread I was reminded of a short story I was writing when I was like.. 15 or so? Coincidentally it took place in Preston.. or at least a fictional in-my-head version of it, since I hadn't the faintest idea what it was like. Picked something in northern England. Probably because I wanted to write it in English.

Essentially it focused on a girl trapped in a medical institution for all her life, with only the faintest idea of humanity. Although she manages to get away from there for a time in the end she dies without rectification and after the loss of the people taking her in. I've lost the old file I wrote it in, but I did find my old notebook. Later I made a sort-of continuation about that alternative world where it followed an amoral researcher traveling through war-torn eastern Europe (related: those post-it notes).

(Note: I don't really take regular notes. A lot of the time I draw pictures or find little sayings that'll remind me of a mood I wanted to convey.)

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Hurray for memories more to do with terrible teenage writing. Fun to still have stuff like this. :angel:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 09 Apr 2013, 22:15
t turns out that paypal took out an extra $345 for the rattan order I did on Friday. I'll be getting it back tomorrow probably (I called with a very wtf tone in my voice) and so it will be okay, but it was still a bit jarring to see my checking account at zero dollars when I thought it should be around $250.

I had a time when a sales website kept crashing mid-transaction - and I found that PayPal had "reserved" the amount in my account each time; it wasn't taken, but became unavailable.  I did wonder how it could have been done without, and whether full-on crashproof transaction programming is practical through a browser; at the least, the banks would have to cooperate a lot, I guess.  (It's not a field of programming I know much about.)

I didn't fully explain on this oops. What happened was that I sent the payment and then noticed the order was wrong almost immediately after and called the guy. He noticed too and thus refunded me the money and then recalculated and sent me a message with the proper amount. Neither of us knew that paypal sort of fronts the money to the seller then takes it from the account. So what happened was paypal sent the seller $345, then $299 on Friday. The seller sent them back $345. Then paypal apparently still needed to take out the $345 and $299 from my account and then give back the $345, which I should get back today (wednesday).
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Apr 2013, 23:39
My sympathies too.

Thanks, people.

Quote
I had not heard of Michael Gerzon (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Gerzon), so I googled him. He died as a consequence of an asthma attack. It is shocking that this still happens. In 1995 Teresa Teng (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teresa_Teng) (adored by millions in the "Sinosphere", including me), died at 42 after an asthma attack. Asthma sucks. Cancer too. Support medical research!

To be fair (I don't know how much your source said), Michael's liability to asthma was a severe and chronic condition, and not the only serious chronic condition that he suffered from even when I first met him.  Every few years he would disappear off the radar for months at a time, and then reappear just mentioning that he'd been in hospital.  I'm sure it severely limited what he might otherwise have achieved.  At the end, his last attack came while he was out; but instead of calling a taxi or an ambulance, he decided to walk the mile to hospital, on a cold night.  This over-faced his immune system, and he died from complications rather than simply the asthma.
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Post by: Metope on 10 Apr 2013, 00:14
I'm sorry, Paul. Cancer really is the worst, I'm glad he had such a good group of friends and family around him.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 10 Apr 2013, 00:40
My sympathies, Mr. Hodges.


My son's kindergarten teacher looks like Selena Gomez. Only taller and slightly older.
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Post by: CardinalFang on 10 Apr 2013, 09:16
Hey guys, I think I'll go back to posting on this forum again. Just popped in for a sec and realised how many people I know here who I don't have much contact with elsewhere, so yeah, good to be back!

Great, another reason to check in here. Geez!

I kid of course.

Wait, wasn't I supposed to start posting more or something?
Hmm according to a post back in January I was.
I need to start working on that I suppose.

well, you always were a prolific poster

(eric, right?)

Eric is right! (Which is a sentence I rarely hear.)

I do tend to lurk. Let's see
Posts: 356 (0.142 per day)
I think that qualifies as lurking.
I shall try to increase that a bit.

I'm going on an Alaskan cruise next month so I may end up posting too much about it as it gets closer.

Hi Jimmy! I voted for your band!

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 10 Apr 2013, 15:57
Our central-heating boiler has broken. :x
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Post by: Thrillho on 10 Apr 2013, 16:26
That sucks hodgy. Having worked in home emergency insurance I know how much of a ballache that can be to get sorted  :psyduck:
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Apr 2013, 22:31
No backup? 

I'm a huge fan of backup boilers.  Our house has a gas boiler (from 1965) that's tied into the original cast-iron coal boiler (from 1900).  The "new" one has an electric pump that forces the hot water into the old boiler, which uses convection to send the hot water to the radiators. 

So when the power goes out in the winter (three times in the 15 years we've lived here) and the "new" boiler doesn't work without the power, I build a fire in the old boiler.  Last time, I had the house up to a cool but liveable 60 F in less than an hour, starting from about 40 F when I woke up. 

We had a heating guy in last year to talk about a more efficiemt furnace, and he said "Well, first thing's we take out the old boiler". 

I didn't listen to a word he said after that.  I'm terrible. 
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Post by: pwhodges on 10 Apr 2013, 23:26
Backup is portable electric heaters; houses here are generally smaller than yours, but power failures in urban areas are rarer.  Actually, main backup is jumpers.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 10 Apr 2013, 23:27
Natural gas freaks me out  :psyduck: please make my stuff electricity powered like a civilized person please. 
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Apr 2013, 23:31
I like gas, especially for cooking. 


Of course, some cooking gives me gas...

 :angel:
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Post by: mtmerrick on 10 Apr 2013, 23:55
Made me think of this:

http://samandfuzzy.com/comics/00001534.gif
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Post by: Zingoleb on 10 Apr 2013, 23:59
i'm leaving in about 30 hours; packing isn't as rushed as usual (i've somehow managed to get things done ahead of time for once)

at the moment i'm going throuhg my makeup bag, though, as it's overflowing to the point that i can no longer close it. do i really need 8 sticks of mascara?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Apr 2013, 00:00
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Post by: HappyHavoc on 11 Apr 2013, 00:25
Deathmole is a great bands. I have really been liking their music.
Also can't wait for some good death metal to come back to town.
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Post by: nekowafer on 11 Apr 2013, 05:02
Are they different kinds or colors of mascara? Either way, yes.

My makeup supplies are pitifully low.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 11 Apr 2013, 06:34
I say yes, keep it all! One can never have too much mascara :-) Unless it's like, overwhelming your space. But I think you'd need at least a couple hundred of them to do that. But, I digress....safe travels! I'm glad the day has finally come, I know you've been waiting for this!


Blog thread....I am stressed out. Lots. And lots. My apartment is insane right now because
A) I decided to pull out all my warm weather clothes to find an engagement shoot outfit for this coming weekend
B) I haven't put away laundry that I washed last weekend- after not putting it away the last time I washed it either
C) My friends and family threw me a suprise bridal shower on Sunday (yay! but lots of stuff to find a home for lol)
D) I have been too overwhelmed to do any cleaning


I think the state of my apartment says a lot about my brain and what its current climate is. On the way to the gym Tuesday, Nick and I got into a fight because the guy I bought my wedding ring from gave me a certificate of authenticity instead of the appraisal that I was supposed to get. Somehow this was my fault. It turned into a big meltdown and I refused to get out of the car to work out because I was crying and couldn't stop. It wasn't even that big of an argument, I just couldn't handle anything at that point. Nick went into the gym to work out but came out 15 minutes later, drove me home and then went for a run while I slept it off. We're fine now but I think this week has just been rough in general. I'm super hormonal and ready to just kill things and then crawl under a rock and hide.

Plus, there are projects that JUST WILL NOT END. We've tried to order favors at least 4 times now. First ones were out of stock everywhere we went, second ones were magnet frames that had dysfunctional magnets, third ones were $79 and shipping was $200 (helllooooo scam), fourth ones never shipped because they didn't have enough in stock and never bothered to tell us, fifth ones couldn't be shipped anywhere other than stores in Arizona, California and Texas and sixth ones won't even be shipped to this country. And those are only the ones we "decided" on. I've probably looked at hundreds of 4x6 frames in the last 6 months. Have to put together bridesmaids' gifts too....and buy stencils to etch the groomsmens' steins. And a garter. BLurgrhh. I keep forgetting to send the deposit to the hair place too. Decided against makeup...I can do my own. Fuck spending $75 to get my makeup done professionally. Those people can kiss my ass. The paper flower project doesn't seem to be ending either....so much cutting, folding and gluing.....

The insurance bullshit I posted forever ago is STILL happening. No one from our insurance company is receiving anything we send them. I think they're just stalling because they don't want to shell out $3K. They want me to give up instead.

I haven't had time to go to the gym in almost a week. I neeeeeeeeed to get back. I've also been eating everything in sight. Perhaps that is why I'm feeling nauseous. It's my body's way of telling me to stop being so mean to it.


*sigh*

I went dress shopping last Saturday and broke down in the fitting room at JC Penney. Nothing was working at all. I couldn't find anything I wanted at all, and then when I found cute stuff in my size, none of it fit over my boobs. And the ones that did made me look and feel like I was being suffocated. I wanted to find 3 things before leaving the mall- a new purse because the strap on my current one keeps randomly flying off and making my purse fall on the ground at the most inopportune moments, a rehearsal dinner dress and a pair of shoes for the wedding. I left with a diet coke, cookies and swedish fish. Jeez, everything is about food lately. I even tried to guesstimate yesterday whether or not 55 boxes of lemon heads would fill our bathtub.  :psyduck:

I haven't been sleeping well either. Tossing and turning, feeling like my skin is crawling...not being able to fall asleep, stay asleep or feel even vaguely rested when I wake up. I'm generally pretty exhausted and can sleep for 15 hours if I don't have to be awake for anything, but I've been getting by on 7-8 hours pretty regularly. Not this week....

I just feel like a mess. Everything is a mess right now......my home, my desk at work, my coupon situation, my brain, my body....

Complain, complain, complain, wah, wah, wah.....sorry guys. My first big post in a while and it's just full of bitching and moaning.

I'm hoping to use Saturday after our engagement shoot to tie up all my loose ends. *sigh*


(edited for stupid typo)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 11 Apr 2013, 06:39
Can anyone help you clean up? It might make you feel better to have everything clean/put away. Then you can focus on more important things.

And is there anyone you can delegate some of this wedding work to?
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 11 Apr 2013, 07:30
There definitely is......in fact, Nick talked to me about asking him for help when I need it. And Megan, my MOH keeps asking for things to do. We've planned an evening of wedding stuff for Sunday, I think that'll help a lot. She's made a ton of flowers for me, so that definitely helps. I'll be giving her some paper when I see her so she can make some at her place.

I just have such a weird issue with asking people for help. I can't do it and not feel incapable. Nick and I have had this discussion so much- he's told me over and over again that he would love to help me, to let him know what he can do, that asking for help doesn't mean that I can't do it, just that it would make my life a little easier. I just can't help feeling that the reason I can't get everything done is because there is something wrong with me, not that I have seven billion things to do. He actually called me Superwoman the other day and all I could do is laugh at him because it's so hard to focus on everything that I have accomplished because there is so much left to do.

Plus, I'm so particular about how things get done that it's hard to just give someone a task and relax about it. Nick did my laundry the other day (*swoon*) but I could never ask him to put it away, he'd be insanely overwhelmed and I would be freaking out that it was all done wrong lol. He's going to help me make a trip to a consignment shop though, so that will get rid of some of the clothing insanity in the bedroom.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Apr 2013, 09:10
Our central-heating boiler has broken. :x

Well, it needed a new valve on the filling loop (trivial), and a larger expansion vessel than the one provided in the boiler (because we have so much pipework), both now done.  More to the point, however, the pump had also exploded (metaphorically - but yes, there's water coming out of it and it tripped the electricity), the replacement for which will arrive tomorrow.  So one more coldish night - but fortunately the weather is taking a somewhat mild turn, at least in comparison with the spring so far.
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Post by: LeeC on 11 Apr 2013, 09:29
Sometimes on hot days like today I like to listen to hawaiian music when I walk the streets of DC.

especially "Hawaiian rollercoaster ride" and "He mele no lilo" from the lilo and stitch soundtrack.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 11 Apr 2013, 09:31
At a workplace it's really hard for me to find a balance between being myself, as in standing up for who I am and what I believe in, and being a functional part of the group. It might be expected of me to be a silent hard worker, probably on a subconscious level, but that role is kind of a skin that's too tight for me. I don't like playing a part, even if it benefits the group. If this had been a group of people outside work the choice would have been easy for me; I'd switch group. But here, with this job I really want and need and almost desperately want to keep, it's hard to find a balance. I kind of want to yell at people "I'M NOT WHAT YOU THINK, I LIKE DANCING AND KARAOKE AND BRUCE LEE MOVIES". I think the reason I fell into this role from the start is that it kind of just works in most situations at work to be sort of quiet and shy, even though that's not what I feel like at all.

Ugh. This isn't very coherent, is it. I'll need to think about it I guess. If I ever have time to stop and do that.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 11 Apr 2013, 09:48
Sometimes on hot days like today I like to listen to hawaiian music when I walk the streets of DC.

especially "Hawaiian rollercoaster ride" and "He mele no lilo" from the lilo and stitch soundtrack.

<3 Lilo and Stitch is by far my favorite movie of all time.


IDU- How long have you been at your job? Are your coworkers people that you think you could get along with on a different level? It took me a LONG time to be comfortable enough around coworkers to show some personality but most of them are decent enough people that I can joke around about work stuff, slowly mention life outside of work...and now, I have coworkers that I'm fairly close with- some that I've even invited to my wedding. We don't regularly hang out outside of work, but we can easily have conversations about important outside-of-work stuff, we can have fun together and make the best of what we've got. After all, I see them more than I see some of my friends! And they know me- they know who I am and how I operate and I'm appreciated for what I do around the office, but for who I am as a person. (by some of them....upper management can be a bit of a struggle)

It's a delicate balance between professionalism and individuality and some workplaces tend to forget that there are real people underneath all the paperwork, but it is possible to be yourself to a degree and have others acknowledge and respect that. I'm sure you're not the only person at your job that enjoys dancing, karaoke and Bruce Lee- those things are generally pretty great.  :-)
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Post by: Jimor on 11 Apr 2013, 10:04
Ugh. One of the creepy guys in the local music scene just weaseled his way into being drummer for a singer I know. He's already been emotionally abusive to one singer friend of mine when they were in a relationship, and when he joined the band of another singer friend, he showed up to gigs and practices drunk, and created all kinds of passive-aggressive drama when called on his bullshit before finally getting kicked out (yet he was still manipulative enough where it took the 3rd try before it stuck). Knowing the history of the first relationship, I had wanted to warn the 2nd friend, but since it was a professional relationship, I held my peace, and have regretted it since.

The other issue is that this time the singer is 17, and while she has a girlfriend at the moment, the way he's now targeted 3 of the very top female musicians in the city in succession really creeps me out. Fortunately, she's a smart kid, so I think she can handle his near-certain transformation from smooth talker to pain in the ass, but this time I'm not willing to keep silent.

So now I have to figure out how to approach her about this, as well as let the people around her know to keep a VERY close eye on things if he stays in the band. In the end, whether he gets this chance to redeem himself from past behaviors isn't my call, but I'm going to be damn sure he plays it straight and professional if he sticks around.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 11 Apr 2013, 10:39
little cheese: Yeah. Yeah, you understand me. Thanks.  :-)
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Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Apr 2013, 10:52
Are they different kinds or colors of mascara? Either way, yes.

My makeup supplies are pitifully low.

CAN I DO YOUR MAKEUP????????
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Apr 2013, 11:12
Hi blog thread,

Here is a list of things I did last night.

Hosted a bar night for my program in my city which 14 people came to (an AMAZING turnout).

Got very drunk.

While very drunk:
  sent May the most adorable email she has ever received

Fixed that for you, Kat.


I have applied for a flat! And pending sudden disasters I think I have been accepted! I officially have a home of my own from June 7th! It is the world's tiniest flat EVER, it is basically the size of a double bed and then just enough space to walk around the bed, but there's a mini kitchenette and a tiny bathroom and it is MINE ALL MINE ALL MINE. I am very excited about this.

I've also been invited to a job interview for a summer job - which would mean not living in the tiny flat for a month, but the job pays twice as much as I'd be paying in rent and provides accommodation and food, so it'd be daft not to at least try to get the job. Exciting times.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 11 Apr 2013, 11:19
Yay!!! I'm excited for you :-) I remember you being stressed about this. My goodness, all the forumites are moving to a bazillion different places. Exciting changes are everywhere.

Good luck on the interview!


IDU- Glad to help!! :-D
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Post by: nekowafer on 11 Apr 2013, 11:37
CAN I DO YOUR MAKEUP????????

You can try. I always look ridiculous in more than like, eyeliner and mascara.
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Post by: Carl-E on 12 Apr 2013, 11:16
So the concert chorale spring concert's tonight.  I need to be on stage in my tux by 6:30. 

We're doing Faure's requiem with a small (but mighty!) orchestra for the second half.  The first half is a really... diverse arrray of choral pieces.  From Gershwin (Someone to Watch Over Me in a really cool arrangement) to negro spirituals (Ain't-a That Good News, the first spiritual I ever sang 30 years ago, in a Tuskeegee Choir arrangement) to religious pieces (including a hebrew prayer piece, Shehechiyanu, and one called The Last Words of David) all the way to... hell, I don't even know how to classify some of them. 

Basically, since it's our current director's last concert, it's everything he ever wanted to do with us but never got a chance to in the last 10 years. 

The man is a powerhouse of vocal music.  Before I joined, a friend in the chorale had said that every rehearsal was like a master's class - and they were right, it's amazing to work with him, even though I was only able to for one year.  I'll miss him... but we've already auditioned a new director, and though he seems quite different, he also seems every bit as good! 


But no one in my family's able to come... my wife has a performance of her play tonight (Elephant's Graveyard), my older daughter couldn't get off work, and my younger daughter might be able to come if she can cope with the headaches.  Which means probably not, and I don't want to strand her out there while I'm on stage if she suddenly goes south. 

Well, we'll see what happens.  I'm stoked! 
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Post by: Redball on 12 Apr 2013, 11:19
Quadraphonic recording or it didn't happen! And a picture or two.
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Post by: Metope on 12 Apr 2013, 13:25
Not really sure which thread to put this in, but I guess this is as good a place as any. On my way to class today I saw the most disgusting and disturbing thing I've come across in a while, a dead seagull, which its head removed and what looked like grass stuffed into the neck cavity. There were feathers everywhere around it, so it looked like there had probably been a struggle. I know animal cruelty happens of course, but seeing it for myself really upset me, what kind of sick, twisted person can do something like that?
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Post by: Patrick on 13 Apr 2013, 00:14
hey I just met you
and this is crazy
but I'm on bath salts
and yr face looks this seagull's tasty
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 13 Apr 2013, 05:53
So I have two assignments running at the same time, due in next month. This wouldn't be a problem normally, I've done it before, but these two are due on the same day and are both the final assignment for their respective modules. It is not possible to get an extension for the final assignment on an Open University module unless you are at least dead. Why does nobody look at these things before dates are set? Y'know, so people that are doing two modules at once (not an inconsiderable number) don't get stuff like this?
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Post by: idontunderstand on 13 Apr 2013, 05:55
Do the first one first, then the other?
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Apr 2013, 07:03
That's the point, there's no first one - they're due at the same time. 

Which was your point, I know.  It's early.  Here. 
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 13 Apr 2013, 07:09
It appears that I went into whiny schoolchild mode too early. I've started work on one of them and have got a fair way through it already. SQL queries with simple inner joins (Oh, no! ::)) are pie - though I'm not looking forward to the 80-mark question question later on.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 13 Apr 2013, 08:17
Aw yiss blogthread.

I'm moving house! Admittedly I'm just moving across the courtyard and up one level so this isn't going to be a massive change, but still. Moving! It's been pretty stressful so far but that's because my real estate agent has a fucking amphetamine problem (more on that later).

My housemate and I went to two inspections, both being held by our current property manager, both in the same building. The building is obviously owned by one person/company and is just managed by that one office. Anyway, we look at the first flat which is pretty nice, smaller than our current one overall but with bigger bedrooms and a good balconey. Anyway we ask our Real Estate Agent if we need to fill out an application form and he just tells us to let him know which flat we like and he'll take care of the paperwork as he already has all our details. We then go to look at the second apartment. Just before we enter, the Real Estate agent takes us aside and in a just-between-us-blokes tone of voice says "Boys, just let me know which one you want and it's yours, OK?" which is a pretty cool deal and I guess also means he doesn't have to do a lot of work because he doesn't need to check our references or do a credit check or anything.

We end up letting him know we liked the first one and again confirm that he doesn't need us to send in an application form. He says he'll call us on Monday and sort it out. Unsurprisingly he doesn't call us (he never does) and when we call him he says he's not in the office and that he'll call us on Tuesday instead. He doesn't call us then either but we call him because we don't expect much from him. He's still not in the office (is he ever?) but tells us to call another woman in the office and she'll sort it out. We call her, explain the situation and her exact words were "Oh. Yeah [he's] a little bit special." She then tells us that we totally need to fill out an application but that we're still guaranteed the flat as long as she sends us the form and we get it to her in good time. She doesn't send it to us. We call and are told by the receptionist that she's gone home for the day and that we'll have to call back tomorrow. I explain the situation and ask if the receptionist is able to send us the forms and get treated to the most passive-aggressive lecture on how we can't apply for the unit if we weren't at the inspection on the weekend and that "that's not how it works, you know". I, I think very politely, explain that we were at the inspection but that the property manager specifically told us that we did not need to fill out an application. After arguing with this woman for about 5 minutes she agrees to ask the other two agents to contact us.

After a lot of to-ing and fro-ing we get the forms the next day and sort them out. We also are informed that they'd like to show our flat on Saturday (which is way sooner than they legally can ask us) which we agree to because the place isn't that messy anyway so cleaning up was pretty easy. Apparently the Real Estate Agent will also bring the lease for us to sign for the new place.

Anyway he didn't bring the lease. We're not even surprised at this point but he says we can sign it when we pick the keys up from the office on Tuesday. While we're waiting for the inspection to finish housemate and I chat to the agent about our plans for the rest of the day. I mention I might go to the gym and the agent starts telling me about this awesome supplement he takes called Jack3D (which when I type it out looks like it might be pronounced "jacked"). He says it's like drinking 12 redbulls at once and that it's been banned and apparently it killed some people. He also says he bought 9 massive tubs of the stuff and he uses it regularly. After he leaves housemate does some cursory research and confirms that yes, it is basically amphetamine and is fatal when mixed with caffeine and alcohol. So now we know why our Property Manager is completely incompetent and it's because he has a serious substance abuse problem.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 13 Apr 2013, 10:34
Hmm. Jack3d. I know I've seen that one around.. now I know to stay away from it.

From their webpage I read that it contains a substance which is "banned during competition, but not during training". Ho-hum.  :x
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Post by: mtmerrick on 13 Apr 2013, 15:01
Wow. Just wow. Well best of luck with your new place.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Apr 2013, 06:43
Wow, I thought my letting agent was a bit useless but that is really quite something. I hope you get the flat sorted, and I hope that your next flat is not with those people!

All has gone quiet on the renting-a-flat front, which I'm hoping is a good sign. All the application forms have been filled in, I just need to know whether or not I have to send proof of ability to pay and then sign some stuff. Oh and it'd be helpful to know whether I have a job in July, whether I have a university place in September, whether I have exams on the day I was hoping to move... details, details.
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Post by: Redball on 14 Apr 2013, 07:32
For those of us with short memories, where is all this taking place?
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Post by: Papersatan on 14 Apr 2013, 08:32
Australia
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 15 Apr 2013, 05:09
OK. I don't know how much it's going to help but this is the last time I'm going to post about this. The competition ends this coming Sunday and we're down about 20 votes. I think we'd need 20 to 30 to actually make it through to the final round.

If there's anyone who would like to help me out with this then just click here (http://bit.ly/cradle_of_filth_voting) and vote for Isgahaatt under the Sydney tab. You can unlike the page and delete the app and your vote will still count. I'd take it as a massive personal favour to anyone who does but obviously you don't have to do anything.

I'm cross posting this to the thread I made in BAND but otherwise I'm going to shut up about this now. Thanks to everyone who voted. It was extremely appreciated.
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Apr 2013, 14:23
You know, I wonder when humanity is going to grow out of the notion that blowing people up is somehow an acceptable way of getting what you want. Everything in the news for the last fucking month has been about Korea, nukes, missiles, or what have you. Now they're blowing up a sporting event in Boston, with Sandy Hook families in attendance. What the fuck, humanity?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 15 Apr 2013, 14:25
dat post

dat av

dat irony
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Post by: Akima on 15 Apr 2013, 16:57
You know, I wonder when humanity is going to grow out of the notion that blowing people up is somehow an acceptable way of getting what you want.
Not any time soon, I regret to say. When the supposed pillars of our so-called "rules-based international order" feel free to invade and thoroughly trash other people's countries when it suits them, at the price of thousands of lives, why should the uglier and less stable regimes, groups and even individuals value human life any higher?
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Post by: Jace on 15 Apr 2013, 21:25
I saw Andrew WK live tonight everything is great.
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Post by: Welu on 16 Apr 2013, 08:00
Need advice. I guess I'm gonna put this here. Person has been messaging me loads about things and I think I'm just being petty but FUCK. I am pissed off. Same person has sent me multiple messages asking the same questions over and over for a week now. I've answered them I think fairly well but still, under the spoiler is the conversation from the 8th April.

(click to show/hide)

If someone reads that can you confirm I'm not nuts and she did ask the same question multiple times? I refuse to accept short term memory when there's a backlog of messages. Also conversation change in the middle about my classmate, I don't think I've ever mentioned anyone in my class by name to her.
I like this person but I'm getting really frustrated. I guess she's just more chatty than I am? Or she's anxious about going to my birthday? I do appreciate she asked before inviting someone though but each time I see there's a message from her I make the same AAAH noise. Bear in mind there was conversation before this and she's spoke to me in person asking about this stuff as well.

Edit: The more I think about this and read my messages I feel a little like I'm going, "How DARE they message me with polite inquiries!" I can't get the hang of this being annoyed stuff unless it's at myself.
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Post by: Carl-E on 16 Apr 2013, 09:13
Is her name Ditzy?   :roll:

Some people really just can't hold more than one thought at a time.  My guess is she keeps getting distracted by shiny things and squirrels. 

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

OK, my life for the last few days;

1) Concert.  A rousing success! 

2) Taxes.  Did you know that, when you're a contractor, nothing gets withheld?  And that my wife's social security disability income is taxable, but there's no withholding there, either?  Oh, and the withholding I did have was inaccurate, because I lost a dependent (my oldest daughter now works full time).  $1900 to the IRS.  Gonna have to pay it on an installment plan...

3) Work. I've started writing for the online math testing and training people!  Well, there's a contract, and I have my first assignment, so I won't be here much.  $250 a lesson, and at least one lesson a week through the end of summer.  That makes 4 jobs, but the teaching ends in May. 

4) Cars.  So the van started shifting a little hard, which it's done before when it was not running well.  Then it started shuddering at a stop on Thursday, which made me think it had a vacuum leak.  Couldn't find one.  Driving around Friday, it suddenly didn't take off from a stop until I revved it, then it shuddered into gear.  Yup, transmission.  No, I'd never changed the fluid in... the 7 years that we've had it?  So I did, all day Sunday, and it's smoother, but still had slipping issues. 

So I had to tell you guys about this... I went to NAPA (the car parts place), and asked what they'd recommend.  They said the no-slip stuff out on the shelves was crap, and to try the "red hot dog".  It's called (I kid you not) "Dr. Tranny's Instant Shudder Fixx"

(http://images.oreillyauto.com/parts/img/large/lbg/19610.jpg)

And, in case you can't see him in the logo on the package, this is Dr. Tranny; 

(http://www.transmissionparts.com/lubgard/drtranny.gif)


I'm really not sure which is more disturbing - the name, or the "package". 


Neither of which I'd have even given a second thought to a year ago. 




The funny part?  The damn stuff worked.  The van's driving like it never had a problem.  Now we get to try and figure out how to afford a new used car before the transmission gives out completely...


Anyway, I'll be thinking of you guys a lot, even though I won't be here much. 
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Post by: Welu on 16 Apr 2013, 09:46
I'm the kind of person who can't hold thoughts or instantly forgets things. That's why I hoard messages and texts to check repeatedly. Having a date book helps me so much.

~ ~

That package and name is... Yeah.
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Post by: Redball on 16 Apr 2013, 09:55
Carl, I'll look forward to the occasional posts, hoping some of them are updates, and keep you and your family in my thoughts.  I hope we're so addictive that you won't pull back as much as you expect.

And Welu, maybe you should see this friend as somewhat more than ditzy. I don't think of a label for her, but others may.
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Post by: Patrick on 17 Apr 2013, 02:36
With motorheads, you can go ahead and assume that if they're talking about a "tranny," they're almost certainly not using it as the pejorative noun for a trans person. When was the last time you heard a mechanic say "Man my faggot is giving me troubles, I need to swap it out for a new one"?

Dear blag,

I have fantastic news! I just found out that there is a very distinct possibility that Troubador is going to play a set in support of Vampire Weekend's new album! A representative for XL Recordings (look em up on the Wikipedias) happened into the coffee shop where Matt works and where I do my open mic, and she came specifically to drop off contact info for us. We were playing chess just one table away from her and she didn't know what we looked like, she just knew one of the employees there was a member of the band.

Anyway, tl;dr, we might (MIGHT) be opening for Vampire Weekend. :3

SO FUCKING GOD DAMN STOKED HOLY SHIT
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Post by: mtmerrick on 17 Apr 2013, 03:06
Wow,  that's AWESOME. Best of luck. :)
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Post by: Thrillho on 17 Apr 2013, 11:04
Oh my God Pat.

Please remember me on the way to the top.

Please remember that I put your album on my 2012 list.

Please remember that I BELIEVED IN GODDAMN TROUBADOR FROM DAY ONE!
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Post by: Bluesummers on 17 Apr 2013, 18:47
FAKKIN SWEEET.

I listen to Troubador on the road. It pleases me.
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Post by: Valdís on 17 Apr 2013, 19:02
Neither of which I'd have even given a second thought to a year ago.

:)

Anyway, I'll be thinking of you guys a lot, even though I won't be here much. 

Best wishes, Carl. See you around! <3

"Man my faggot is giving me troubles, I need to swap it out for a new one"?

Well, if they were saying that I'd presume they were going through a breakup. A weird breakup.

Anyway, tl;dr, we might (MIGHT) be opening for Vampire Weekend. :3

SO FUCKING GOD DAMN STOKED HOLY SHIT

Congrats, Patrick! Just listened to your site. Boy, it sure sounds professional musiciany. I like it. <3

Edit: At the moment especially 'Cities Made Of Gold', 'Brainwash: Phase One' and 'Another Country'.
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Post by: pwhodges on 18 Apr 2013, 09:05
Ah, the trivia of life! My domestic cleaner is back from a month's holiday, and the house has a freshness about it that we can never manage on our own....
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Post by: Welu on 18 Apr 2013, 10:46
SO FUCKING GOD DAMN STOKED HOLY SHIT

Brilliant news! Whoo!
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Apr 2013, 15:47
Thanks for all the support, guys! Gaz, as far as 'remembering people on the way to the top' or whatever, I'm already a giant douche, what's there to ruin? :)
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Post by: Thrillho on 18 Apr 2013, 16:07
LET ME SELL YOU BLOW

BOTH KINDS
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Post by: Papersatan on 20 Apr 2013, 12:42
Interview yesterday.  Not feeling great about it.  I didn't make any major blunders, but I think I failed to impress.  There were some opportunites I missed to talk about my interests as related to the position. 

I guess it depends how poorly everyone else interviewed.

He said they plan on submitting their decision to HR early next week, so I should know by the end of the week if I got it or not. 
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Post by: Welu on 20 Apr 2013, 13:10
WRASSLIN' ON MONDAY.

First though, flying. I don't like flying. Also don't like trains. Why am I going to London? :psyduck: Oh yeah, WRASSLIN'.
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Post by: Papersatan on 20 Apr 2013, 13:40
<3 flying. 

I mean, the security and hassle that surround it, no, but the flying!

I still fight for a window seat, and stare out at the runway as we lift off with a giddy smile on my face as the ground shrinks away.  That moment when the wheels leave the ground and we are supported by our understanding of physics and our engineering skill.  I think that flight is such an amazing accomplishment! I am sure my crazy love of humanity is evident from other posts by now and I could ramble on forever, but flight... FLIGHT!  It gives me such joy even though I have done it so many times.  The fact that it is so routine to so much of our population is just... a testament to how awesome humans really are. 

I took flying lessons for a year when I was young, and I loved every moment.  There is nothing like pulling back on the controls and leaving the ground.  My biggest problem was staying focused on the task of flying the plane when there was so much to see out side the windows. 
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Post by: Welu on 20 Apr 2013, 14:22
The idea of flying a plane myself sounds awesome. The only bit I don't really like is taking off, also I get a bit travel sick if I let myself. I'm also paranoid the weather will screw us over for delays but hopefully we'll be okay.

Last time I flew was at night. It was so pretty.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 20 Apr 2013, 14:25
My mother makes the most disgusting noises on a plane or other vehicle where she can't see out the front. Nothing more than that comes of it, but it still makes me nervous to sit next to her.

Boats, on the other hand...
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Post by: pwhodges on 20 Apr 2013, 14:26
Heh!  I just got banned for a week on another forum...
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 20 Apr 2013, 14:30
Awesome! May we know what heinous crime you perpetrated?
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Post by: pwhodges on 20 Apr 2013, 14:44
I made a comment about a film that is not yet released on DVD until next Wednesday (and so some readers have no knowledge of) which was deemed a spoiler, and which I had not tagged as such.  Of course, now I don't have the opportunity to argue that it was not a significant spoiler, at least no more than the comment in the post before that I was responding to - which post was made by a mod.  I mentioned no plot or characterisation matters, but merely said (http://forum.evageeks.org/post/618941/RoE-in-the-UK-Questions/#618941): "I would argue that it contained some elements of <another film>".  Banning on the forum concerned is instant without any other communication.  To be fair, it was my second such offence (both purely accidental) in only five months...
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Post by: Redball on 20 Apr 2013, 16:03
Well, as unintended violations go, it could be worse. For me, worse would be two traffic tickets.
It does illustrate that there are different ways to run a tight ship. I prefer yours.
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Post by: Redball on 20 Apr 2013, 16:11
<3 flying. 

I mean, the security and hassle that surround it, no, but the flying!

I still fight for a window seat, and stare out at the runway as we lift off with a giddy smile on my face as the ground shrinks away.  That moment when the wheels leave the ground and we are supported by our understanding of physics and our engineering skill.  I think that flight is such an amazing accomplishment! I am sure my crazy love of humanity is evident from other posts by now and I could ramble on forever, but flight... FLIGHT!  It gives me such joy even though I have done it so many times.  The fact that it is so routine to so much of our population is just... a testament to how awesome humans really are. 

I took flying lessons for a year when I was young, and I loved every moment.  There is nothing like pulling back on the controls and leaving the ground.  My biggest problem was staying focused on the task of flying the plane when there was so much to see out side the windows.
I took flying lessons while I was stationed on a couple of Air Force bases, first at a Strategic Air Command base, using an flying club grass runway off to the side. I'd been susceptible to motion sickness, but the flying lessons eliminated it in all modes of transportation, boats included, for a couple of years. A couple of favorite memories: My little Cessna 150 climbing as hard as it could from takeoff, and looking down and to my right, seeing a B-52 leaving the ground at a much slower rate, sort of sliding out from under me. And in the same part of South Dakota, seeing a couple of small clouds ahead, aiming at them and flying through them. My stepfather was an aviation writer who used to ferry Piper Cubs from Lock Haven PA to buyers for the fun of it. Later, he used to look at the airliner he was about to board, shake his head and say, "It'll never fly." He was as amazed as you that it did, that they all did.
In Tucson, my daily happy hour includes a retired AF colonel, a former U-2 pilot who keeps a small plane out there. He took me up a couple of years ago. He did a loop. He did a barrel roll. He asked me if I wanted him to repeat them. I didn't. Being in a small plane was no longer very pleasant.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 21 Apr 2013, 02:36
I made a comment about a film that is not yet released on DVD until next Wednesday (and so some readers have no knowledge of) which was deemed a spoiler, and which I had not tagged as such.  Of course, now I don't have the opportunity to argue that it was not a significant spoiler, at least no more than the comment in the post before that I was responding to - which post was made by a mod.  I mentioned no plot or characterisation matters, but merely said (http://forum.evageeks.org/post/618941/RoE-in-the-UK-Questions/#618941): "I would argue that it contained some elements of <another film>".  Banning on the forum concerned is instant without any other communication.  To be fair, it was my second such offence (both purely accidental) in only five months...

You said that film X was a bit like film Y? Well, I'd expect no better from a charlatan such as yourself :roll:
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Post by: Papersatan on 21 Apr 2013, 06:15
Went to a BBQ yesterday. I had plans to stay for a few hours and then go to school and get some studying done.  But I had a drink, and then another and then didn't want to leave because this amaaaazing girl.... was hitting on me?

This girl was in a class with me last year, and I thought she was super cool and super hot, but didn't get the vibe that she was 1. into ladies 2. into me. 

Last night was the first time I have seen her drunk though (we actually didn't see each other outside of class much at all), and I am positive she was putting it out there that she does like ladies, and me specifically. She kept telling me not to leave, and who am I to disobey. :D  I don't know if she would act on her feelings sober for a number of reasons, but at least I know there is a possibility now!  She is going to cook me dinner this week, and is going to come out to a bar night I am hosting next week. 

She will be in Michigan for at least another year, and OMG you guys. 

OMG


Now I need to go and get this homework done that I ignored to follow her from the BBQ to a bar to another bar.

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Post by: Thrillho on 21 Apr 2013, 12:57
I made a comment about a film that is not yet released on DVD until next Wednesday (and so some readers have no knowledge of) which was deemed a spoiler, and which I had not tagged as such.  Of course, now I don't have the opportunity to argue that it was not a significant spoiler, at least no more than the comment in the post before that I was responding to - which post was made by a mod.  I mentioned no plot or characterisation matters, but merely said (http://forum.evageeks.org/post/618941/RoE-in-the-UK-Questions/#618941): "I would argue that it contained some elements of <another film>".  Banning on the forum concerned is instant without any other communication.  To be fair, it was my second such offence (both purely accidental) in only five months...

You're a dangerous renegade and you should be locked up.
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Post by: pwhodges on 21 Apr 2013, 13:20
Indeed.

 :-P
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Post by: Welu on 21 Apr 2013, 14:15
So glad I can get on the forum on my phone. Helped kill a lot of time today.
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Post by: Valdís on 21 Apr 2013, 14:26
@Welu: I know, right? For some reason when I post on my mobile it doesn't give me that icon you get, though.
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Post by: Welu on 21 Apr 2013, 14:27
Might be because I mainly use the mobile version.
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Post by: Welu on 21 Apr 2013, 14:29
This post is being sent on the full site.

Edit (mobile): Yep. Only the different icon on the mobile site.
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Post by: pwhodges on 21 Apr 2013, 15:07
When you each say "on my mobile", do you mean using a mobile browser, or using Tapatalk (or, heaven forbid, the WAP2 version of the forum)?  That could account for the difference.



In other news, the YouTube BBCode now plays nice with smileys.
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Post by: Valdís on 21 Apr 2013, 15:12
@Paul: Ah, that could be it. I've just been using my mobile's regular browser. Not that it matters, I just happened to notice the icon today.

And indeed it does. Good job. :)
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Post by: nekowafer on 21 Apr 2013, 15:50
I use Tapatalk (not using it at the moment) and I haven't seen that icon on any of my posts.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 21 Apr 2013, 16:15
I've been using the mobile browser a lot as well and have yet to notice the phone... but then I don't think the code checks if the Internet Explorer that the request is coming from is a mobile one, I guess it will just say "oh IE, compatibility problems ftw!"
And I also wish there was a Tapatalk app for Windows Phone.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 21 Apr 2013, 20:15
I have never felt the need for a tapatalk app. Chrome for Android, displaying the desktop version of the site, works beautifully.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 21 Apr 2013, 20:23
Tapatalk has completely overtaken forums for me. It actually annoys me to navigate them in browser.
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Post by: jwhouk on 21 Apr 2013, 20:34
I don't like the lack of voting, though. And I don't wanna upgrade to TT2 or shell out more in-app just to get that ability.
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Post by: Welu on 22 Apr 2013, 02:14
I get redirected to WAP2. I think it's grand for quick browsing and posting. My phone runs on Bada which seems to non-existant outside my phone model.

The main annoying thing is I can't quote people.
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Post by: pwhodges on 22 Apr 2013, 02:22
Ooh!  I didn't know anyone used WAP2.  It was just there when I upgraded the forum, and I left it in place and ignored it.  I'm glad it works OK.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 22 Apr 2013, 02:24
I thought I would shut up about it but I guess I'm a liar. There's less than 5 hours to go in this competition, if you haven't voted and youdlike to help out, please do so. Vote for Isgahaatt in Sydney and I'll love you forever (but not physically).

http://bit.ly/cradle_of_filth_voting (http://bit.ly/cradle_of_filth_voting)
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Post by: Carl-E on 22 Apr 2013, 04:53
Just dropping in with a few little updates...

My wife's play came in 2nd in regionals - the winner, which went on to nationals, was some bizarre abstract Czech play.  Her play won "audience favorite", which says something about having theater professors as judges...  she personally won the award for achievement in costuming, too, and there were three best acting awards in her cast. 

Dr. Tranny's patient passed away yesterday morning - something snapped in the van (a 2000 Windstar) on the way back from Wal-Mart, and it won't move.  It runs, just no connection in the transmission anymore.  So we're down to one small car and the kindness of friends until we can find a replacement vehicle that we can't afford anyway... towed it back to the house (a friend with a pickup and a tow rope, thank goodness), where it awaits unloading. 

Kinda sad, it was my first real guinea pig.  I did more on this van than any other car I've owned for a long time - first time I changed struts, ball joints, a fuel pump, more electrical work than I can remember... come to think of it, it never was a very good car... OK, not sad anymore. 

And I submitted my first set of lesson outlines for the online math company.  With all the van crap I had to pull an all-nighter to finish it - I'm gettin' too old for this...

Here's hoping it's both coherent, and what they were looking for...
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Post by: Loki on 22 Apr 2013, 08:06
When you each say "on my mobile", do you mean using a mobile browser, or using Tapatalk (or, heaven forbid, the WAP2 version of the forum)?  That could account for the difference.

I sometimes post from my Android phone (which identifies its useragent as below), and never had that icon, I think.

 Mozilla/5.0 (Linux; U; Android 2.3.5; de-de; GT-S5570 Build/GINGERBREAD) AppleWebKit/533.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0 Mobile Safari/533.1
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Post by: pwhodges on 22 Apr 2013, 08:16
It looks like it's the forum identifying access using the WAP2 interface.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 Apr 2013, 09:17
So, apparently I am in Mexican television.

This is a screencap I did of a video:

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/792243_10151395349525376_958510315_o.jpg)

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Post by: Papersatan on 22 Apr 2013, 09:27
I really hope the girl I was blabbing about the other day who was friendly at that BBQ is still keen when she is sober.  Both nights since then she has been in my dreams.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 Apr 2013, 18:45
I've been using the mobile browser a lot as well and have yet to notice the phone... but then I don't think the code checks if the Internet Explorer that the request is coming from is a mobile one, I guess it will just say "oh IE, compatibility problems ftw!"
And I also wish there was a Tapatalk app for Windows Phone.
(click to show/hide)

It's like they're listening
edit: I hope the image works now
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Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Apr 2013, 19:15
did you like, hotlink that straight from your email?
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Post by: mtmerrick on 22 Apr 2013, 19:15
that spoiler'd image wasn't displaying, so i tried to open image in new tab and its trying to get me to log into my windows account.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Jace on 22 Apr 2013, 21:10
Bought a baselard on Friday, arrived today. This was made for stabbin:
(https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/921263_10151697071847317_126802194_o.jpg)
Overall length just shy of 16", blade length 11".
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Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Apr 2013, 23:37
Arthur sent me a message trying to get me to go back and live with him so he could get rent from DSS.

I finally snapped and sent him this message:

(click to show/hide)

I am so pissed off at that man. I want to just beat him until he's begging me for mercy, until he's sobbing out every fucking apology he's never made. And after that, I'd love to fucking kill him.

I fucking hate him.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Apr 2013, 00:11
did you like, hotlink that straight from your email?
oh that's weird.
that spoiler'd image wasn't displaying, so i tried to open image in new tab and its trying to get me to log into my windows account.  :psyduck:
now that's really really weird. I'll go fix it once, you know, I am out of bed.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: mtmerrick on 23 Apr 2013, 01:35
uni.

i feel like breaking someone's face right now.

let me help.

please.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Apr 2013, 03:04
oi oi Primo.
What's up?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: mtmerrick on 23 Apr 2013, 03:36
if you guys hear about a violent murder in the temecula valley, that'd me me. physically ripping my mother, the stupidest person on the planet, to shreds.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Apr 2013, 03:46
Yeah mate, but I can't really help you unless you tell me why.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: mtmerrick on 23 Apr 2013, 04:11
nothing much TO help with.... she's a bitch and an idiot. i'm handling her as best i can.

side effect is, i'm feeling quite angry/violent.... *opens Halo* hopefully this'll help....
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Apr 2013, 04:29
Hmmm. Nothing I can really do there then.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Apr 2013, 04:30
Anyway I'm going to work now, are you gonna be okay?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: mtmerrick on 23 Apr 2013, 05:01
Yeah, I'm actually ok. halo then homestuck has a habit of taking your mind off stuff.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Valdís on 23 Apr 2013, 05:14
@Unicorn: Oh wow, sorry to hear.. What the hell kind of request is that, especially since he treats you like that.. :-(
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 23 Apr 2013, 05:29
Arthur is too stupid for his own good. I'm glad you're out of there and not going back.
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Apr 2013, 10:29
Wow you guys are having a rough time. I just got back from having the best weekend ever at Coachella.

I got to see Alt J, Band of Horses, Dinosaur Jr., Dropkick Murphys, Father John Misty, Franz Ferdinand, Jake Bugg (who'da thought that twangy fucker woulda been a Brit? Not me, but he was amazing), Kurt Vile, Little Green Cars (best of show for small-time acts), Metric, Modest Mouse, Purity Ring (meh), Red Hot Chili Peppers (ultra-meh), Sigur Ros, Smith Westerns (worst of show, definitely), Stars, Tame Impala, local heroes Thee Oh Sees, The Wombats, Vampire Weekend (hahaha right?), Violent Femmes, Yeah Yeah Yeahs and Youth Lagoon.

Personal highlights include getting completely trashed before Dropkick, my first mosh pit at Dropkick, my first crowdsurf at Dropkick, my first time being 86ed from a show at Dropkick, my face still hurting today from seeing Dropkick, making friends with sweaty fat dudes because of my Red Sox hat at Dropkick, Jonsi Birgisson of Sigur Ros holding a high falsetto note for over a minute without a single crack or falter, Father John Misty being the coolest fucking person alive, and the girl in my group holding my hand for a short little bit (same one I mentioned having a thing for in the relationship thread) in order to keep from being separated by heavy crowds.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Apr 2013, 10:54
I'm actually having a great time, I just wanted to vent about that stupid motherfucker.

That sounds like an awesome time! I'm happy for you, dude.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 23 Apr 2013, 14:14
Not only is Jake Bugg a Brit, he's from my goddamn hometown and he keeps making music videos in places I recognise.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Bluesummers on 23 Apr 2013, 21:01
Not only is Jake Bugg a Brit, he's from my goddamn hometown and he keeps making music videos in places I recognise.

"Oh my god, he's making a music video on that street corner? I took a dump there, I'm famous by association!" :mrgreen:

I kid, I kid. I think Weird Al filmed parts of a music video in my hometown...which is...weird. :psyduck:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 24 Apr 2013, 05:24
I assume plenty of artists have filmed stuff in Baltimore. There's also The Wire, of course.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 24 Apr 2013, 06:08
... and NFL films presents: road to the Superbowl.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Apr 2013, 06:42
I assume plenty of artists have gotten stuff in Baltimore.

how i initially read that.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 24 Apr 2013, 06:43
Well. That too.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Apr 2013, 06:50
I assume plenty of artists have gotten stuffed in Baltimore.

how i initially read that.

how i meant i initially read that, which is still probably applicable
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 24 Apr 2013, 06:54
Yep.

ETA: There's a huge art school nearby so... absolutely yep.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: blanktom on 24 Apr 2013, 15:14
Dear blog thread,
 I am about to go to the midnight screening of Iron Man 3. I am excite.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 25 Apr 2013, 05:53
Oh man so, I've recently started putting up my old stuff on eBay, and people are actually buying it! One of the pairs of shoes I'm selling are currently going for 40 quid, and there's still three more days to go of the auction. Why didn't I think of this before, it's been cluttering my closet for ages. The money is going straight into my saving account though, because I'm trying to be a Responsible Adult.

My only problem is that I put all the stuff up at once, so the auctions will close at the same day, meaning I'll have to mail an entire Ikea bag full of parcels at the same time. Apologies to everyone behind me in the post office queue in advance.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 25 Apr 2013, 06:03
If you can weigh the parcels accurately enough, you can buy the postage on-line and print it on labels - then you can just take the bag and hand the parcels over (has to be before the end of the next day) without any hassle.  The Royal Mail website's a tad unfriendly, but it gets the job done.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 25 Apr 2013, 06:04
Oh that is a great idea, I didn't even know that service existed. Thanks!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 25 Apr 2013, 06:22
You need a supply of labels in hand, of course (four to a sheet is best if not all the parcels are large and flat, but the website also handles two to a sheet); you can feed the sheet several times, removing each label as it's printed of course, and tell the site which label to use each time.  Actually, I have sometimes used plain paper and stuck it down round all the edges, but labels really are preferable.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Apr 2013, 06:27
You need a supply of lesbians in hand, of course.

how i misread that.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 25 Apr 2013, 06:29
Yeah I'd have to just use plain paper, since I don't have my own printer and the uni/library printers can only be used with paper provided by them. Oh well, I'll see what I can do, worst comes to worst I'll just go back to my original plan.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 25 Apr 2013, 06:47
You need a supply of lesbians in hand, of course.

how i misread that.
Your version is better.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Apr 2013, 07:19
you know what they say, a hand in the bush is worth...two birds.
















































 :psyduck:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 25 Apr 2013, 10:21
So, there have been two rabbits in front of my window for the last two hours or so (at least that's when I noticed them.) One of them seems to be something like a Big Lop (http://www.deutschewidder.de/images/deutscher-widder-anton-1.jpg) and the other has your typical upright rabbit ears, but is plain black. Is likely a plain, or possibly melanistic, European rabbit (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/European_Rabbit). They look pretty domesticated, so I assume their former owner just left them there (or they escaped through a hole in a fence or something). They were grazing and hiding in the big hedge from time to time.

Was on the phone with girlfriend, when I noticed; she is a former veterinarian nurse (or something close to that). She told me to call the local Animal Welfare Society, who in turn told me to call the firefighters (apparently, the fire brigade is in charge of catching run-away animals as well, which I didn't know.) and be insistent about it, because they don't like sending people out for that, despite it being their duty.. Fire brigade told me "well, if you happen to catch them, we can pick them up, but we are not in charge of catching them ourselves".

I called Animal Welfare again. She told me "Damn well they are, I will call them myself" and called back a few minutes later saying they would be coming soon and to wait in front of the house. So I waited; after roughly fifteen minutes, a car of theirs pulled in with two guys; the older of the guys told me that they wouldn't go to great lengths to catch them; we walked to the hedge to check on the rabbits, who had hidden there. The guys were discussing about how they couldn't possibly get through the hedge and would probably only distress every other animal in the bushes while attempting to catch the rabbits. Also told me that I just haven't seen the rabbits until now because they are nocturnal (which is apparently bullshit) and that they would feel well enough here, with the bushes to hide (arguably true) and plenty of grass to graze on.

Called girlfriend to report; called Animal Welfare woman to report. She was furious and started ranting about how house rabbits are not used to finding their own food, would inevitably fall prey to birds of prey (as far as I know, there aren't any big birds of prey here, unless you count crows, of which we have plenty) and would probably get run over by traffic (the hedge is bordering a street, which is, however, not heavily used, and there is still the boardwalk part). I said I was not willing to pursue this further with the fire brigade. She told be that she would speak with a colleague of hers who knew more about rabbits and then decide how to proceed. So at this point I think this is the end of the story for me, except that I will probably keep seeing the rabbits in front of my window.

I think the Animal Welfare woman may have overreacted a bit, but the fire department probably under-reacted.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Apr 2013, 13:34
i miss when the chatter description was "all of these people have had sex with each other"
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: jwhouk on 25 Apr 2013, 14:12
Unicorn, kiddo: go take a cold shower.

;)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 25 Apr 2013, 14:52
The people that description mainly referred to are now in another forum, which at present is calmer than this one.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 25 Apr 2013, 15:02
That can't possibly be true.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Apr 2013, 15:04
Another forum?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 25 Apr 2013, 15:08
That can't possibly be true.

They're growing up too.  And that forum is not gaining new members like this one is.

Another forum?

Several years ago this forum was home to a group of people who came to use it as their private Internet area, causing friction with those who came for the comic; they now have their own forum (http://forums.pocketjury.net/), which is hardly growing because it has no real links to the outside world.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Apr 2013, 15:18
mmm. Sounds like a delicate situation. How do you control a forum to stay on the point in a thread that literally asks its users to talk about something else?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 25 Apr 2013, 15:32
You know about herding cats?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: jwhouk on 25 Apr 2013, 15:49
It's my job description.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 25 Apr 2013, 16:05
Yeah I'd have to just use plain paper, since I don't have my own printer and the uni/library printers can only be used with paper provided by them. Oh well, I'll see what I can do, worst comes to worst I'll just go back to my original plan.

Whenever I need to print labels I use regular paper and just use packing tape to tape over the edges and usually then the whole thing to protect from rain.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 25 Apr 2013, 16:10
Oh also yesterday at practice I ended up getting punched in the shin with the edge of a shield. It was a fluke, I was stepping backwards away on a 45 degree angle and throwing a low shot and my opponent blocked low but my other leg ended up right in the path of the shield . gave me a good bump and cut the skin a bit, ended my fighting for the night and I'm suffering today at work. Walking hurts just a little if I've been sitting for too long. Now the next project on the block is to make greaves after we finish my helmet up.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: mtmerrick on 25 Apr 2013, 16:28
I'm at disneyland  :-D
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 26 Apr 2013, 04:55
My new flatmate is SO WASTEFUL, I don't know how it's possible to go through two toilet rolls a day, keep the lighting on in every room all the time and forget to turn the heating off + window open when you leave every day. Plus one day she just decided to put all the recycling in the regular waste bin just because she didn't know where the recycling went, what the hell! How hard is it to just leave it to the people who know, or just, I dunno, ask them? It would have required less effort than throwing it all together. She's definitely paying the bulk of the bills next time they come around, this is nuts.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 26 Apr 2013, 05:06
Yeah, same here. I only share the kitchen in my apartment, but when there's a bottle of dishwashing liquid on the sink, we have maybe three people using it on a regular basis, and it empties around twelve times faster than the dishwashing liquid I keep in my own cabinet. I've since stopped buying it for general use.

There's also a bin full of plastic shopping bags - not the flimsy white ones, the ones with logos that you actually have to pay for - that one of my flatmates just keeps buying over and over again when he buys groceries. I don't really mind, because he doesn't use them for anything else and I can use them to put my garbage in, but you'd think he might wise up and keep one in his pocket eventually.

On the plus side, I've managed to get everyone to stop throwing their wine bottles and glass jars into the bin and put them in a plastic bag next to it so I can bring them to the glass container.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 26 Apr 2013, 09:26
I don't know how it's possible to go through two toilet rolls a day

You must be joking, there probably ain't enough curry in all of India to give me Delhi Belly enough for two fucking rolls in a single day
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 26 Apr 2013, 10:20
I think she just stacks them in her room or something. The day she moved in they just started vanishing, iunno. It's weird.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: snalin on 26 Apr 2013, 11:15
Some kind of cleanness OCD with regards to wiping? I've known people that goes through almost a roll for every single shit, because it apparently never feels clean.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 26 Apr 2013, 11:17
That's what showers are for.


Does she use them to blow her nose?   I use toilet paper to blow my nose, so I take rolls from the bathroom in to bedroom and what not.  Also if I have a cold I can go through a roll a day.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 26 Apr 2013, 11:18
She literally removes a roll from the bathroom every day, there's no sign of it being half used or even of the cardboard thingy in the middle. Why can't she just buy her own package and keep in her room if she needs it for whatever? She better buy the next package at least, I bought a massive 24 roll package last time so it would last for a long time.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: K1dmor on 26 Apr 2013, 11:47
That's what Bidets are for.

 FTFY.

Except in cases "I feel dirty" in general, in which case take a shower of course.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 26 Apr 2013, 12:04
I was keep a roll in my bedroom by the computer desk.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 26 Apr 2013, 12:46
Back in the 80s, TP kept disappearing from the women's john at my office at a rapid rate. There was a suspect, but I don't recall that she was confronted. It was solved, IIRC, by switching to one of the larger commercial size rolls. She was simply stealing, we figured, and couldn't help herself. I'd guess that's what's happening here. In my pre-Metamucil days, I'd go through TP pretty quickly. And my butt was really sore as a result.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 26 Apr 2013, 13:39
Bob! When did you become a moderator?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 26 Apr 2013, 14:46
It sort of snuck up on me. And there was no press release.

Well, that wasn't very informative. Tuesday.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 26 Apr 2013, 15:31
I wondered when someone would notice! 

I've been feeling for a while that although we were getting along fine with three of us (not counting the people who are still mods but no longer visit the forum at all), it gave little leeway for going away, being busy, or indeed just not feeling like it for a day!  Bob has the accumulated wisdom of age, and is well liked and respected, and we were pleased that he decided to join us when we asked.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: celticgeek on 26 Apr 2013, 15:48
I actually noticed, and congratulated him by PM. 
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Post by: Welu on 26 Apr 2013, 16:37
I claim I've been offline for a few days. (Mobile forum browsing doesn't show images)

Congrats, Bob!

~ ~

Hey guys, I'm a dumb person who has already bought more WRASSLIN' tickets for the November shows. More expensive ones at that (WHOO! Slightly closer! Possibly close enough to have a visible sign!) but damn my partner and I are poor and have no self-control. Seriously though I'm still so chuffed from the shows and it makes me a happy Welu so it's worth it I claim. I dunno.

Also I thought I was way behind work wise because of missing two days but it turns out:
~ Two weeks longer on one assignment than I thought
~ One tutor has a, "Ehh, as long as it's in before the external examiners come." attitude.
~ Final tutor has been off for about three weeks, which doesn't mean we have more time but have a reasonable basis for saying, "There was no one to TEACH US." since our covers didn't teach the subject.

Also, also I'm celebrating my birthday tomorrow! My actual birthday is on the 30th.

Also, also, also I have my practical driving test on May 15th. I think there's an 85% chance I pass depending on nerves and what maneuver I get asked to do. Only one I'm not sure about is the parallel park because I've only done it twice, although I've done it mostly grand both times.

My computer doesn't think "maneuver" is a word.

I didn't mean for this to get so babbly.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 26 Apr 2013, 23:08
Went to Friday Night Magic. Traded snapcasters and some other rares I wasn't using for 4 R/G shocklands. Also learned to play Kaijudo. My buddy who works for Dave and Adams (where FNM is hosted) gave me booster packs and starter decks to get started playing. Like I needed another goddamn collectible hobby.

The first one is always free
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 26 Apr 2013, 23:28
Well, I'm pretty sure the Vampire Weekend thing was just somebody dicking us around. Chick and I have been emailing back and forth since the last time I spoke of this, and the only show she's gotten us is some tiny coffee shop in Stockton. There's no way we can play someplace as small as that, we'll break every window and piece of glassware in the house.

On top of that, I don't think Vampire Weekend, who I just saw on the main stage at Coachella, are gonna play some dinky fucking cafe in the middle of a shithole town in the middle of bumfuck. Because that is what Stockton is. Pavement getting famous from there is a fluke and I will never understand it.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 26 Apr 2013, 23:32
wait so Bob's a moderator and I'm "nearly grown up" now? hahahahahaha who the fuck says I'm nearly grown up, not me for sure
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 27 Apr 2013, 02:59
That change was because the previous Mayan calendar one has passed its sell-by date - and I'm not feeling grown up right now...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jimor on 27 Apr 2013, 05:27
Man, that sucks about the whole Vampire Weekend BS, Patrick, but I'm sure you guys will start getting some cool gigs soon anyway.

Gonna start with the bad so I can end on the good. Found out yesterday that my mother's 3 brothers have been conspiring to sell the family home (their parents / my grandparents, who are now deceased). The house was put into a trust among them before my grandparents passed, and any decision about it is supposed to be unanimous, but they think they can just void the trust and sell it and cash out. 2 big problems with that. First, is that the market, particularly in that area of town, is still depressed, with one house down the street unable to sell for $70k, when at the peak of the boom, houses on the block were going for nearly $400k. 2nd, without the shield of the trust in place, the debt collectors who want to recover the nearly $200,000 in credit card debt my one uncle ran up falling for Nigerian scams, could lay claim to the house since at least part of it would then be directly in his name.

Not to mention that this uncle and another uncle have consistently been assholes to my mother and grandparents for years. Uncle #3 suddenly taking their side is pretty much the last straw for both of us as far as they're concerned. Uncle #1 has already sent at least $3000 since the beginning of the year to the scammers, and at last check he was talking with no less than a dozen separate scammers, so we already know what he plans on doing with any money. Fortunately, it's looking like they're just simply wrong about their ability to void the trust, and my mother is going to consult with an attorney about it, but still.

On to the good. I've been giving a LOT of thought in the past few weeks on what I really want to do with the video skills I've developed in the past 4 year, and how that interfaces with the music scene. I have my TV show, and local live clips, and they're both something that's getting more attention lately, and has helped the acts with some promotional material, but it's still not quite enough. Also, I'd like to find a way to make it something I can live off of, and as many of you know, local musicians are not known for swimming in money. I've been looking very closely at the general business model of webcomics and music blogs, and I think I have a viable plan to grow something that's good for me and for the musicians I enjoy.

In short, I want to build a national platform to promote local musicians. I think there's room for a niche just below what the typical established music blogs cover. I think I have some ideas on how to systematically drill down below the layer of nationally recognized acts into local scenes all over, and discover a lot of acts who could be the next breakouts, but just haven't gotten the exposure to make it there yet. To do that, I need to come up with a compelling format to get the information I find out there, and I need to do it consistently over a long enough period of time to build enough critical mass for it to start to make a difference.

I'll possibly start a thread in the music section soon if anybody wants to hear me ramble about it more, but I'm pretty excited about the potential I think it has.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 27 Apr 2013, 08:09
Rant ahead!

My stupid ex borrowed my suitcase about two years ago, and since I've not needed it I've not asked for it back, but now I kind of do since I want to bring a bunch of stuff home to Norway when I go home in late May. So, he was coming to Glasgow for my exhibition opening this week, I asked him to bring the suitcase and he said 'Sure'. He shows up, no suitcase, and the second he sees me he goes 'Oh shit! I left the suitcase on the train!'. How is it possible to lose a massive suitcase?! He called lost property and asked if they had it, which they didn't yet since it was just a few minutes earlier, but they said they'd call him if it showed up.

This was Tuesday, and no word from him until I asked him myself if they called, he said they'd called him on Wednesday, but he missed it. He didn't bother calling them back, didn't tell me that they'd called before I asked, and all of the sudden it's up to me to fix everything and get it back, which I did today. I just can't believe how incredibly irresponsible, selfish and little willing to help it's possible to be, shit like this is why we're not together anymore. He loses stuff all the time, and yeah it's lame to treat your own stuff like it's crap, but at least take good care of other people's things. If I'd lost something that belonged to someone else I'd go out of my way to get it back or replace it.

Anyway, at least I have it now. I also went to the shop and bought a bottle of red wine and some dark chocolate, and I just noticed there's a documentary on Turner on the iPlayer. Looks like I've got a good Saturday evening ahead of me.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 27 Apr 2013, 23:25
So this is the end fo my 4th semester of grad school (I have one more to go) and I finally got a social life.  I had some family drama my first year which made going to classes and sobbing in bed all I could handle, but thoese hard times are behind us and things are looking great.  I have a whole big group for school friends ( a first for me!) that I go out with regularly and have a good time.   

Problem:

I am poor as shit.  Like out of money how do I pay my rent poor.  (before this forum's wonderful people offer, we have found a way to pay the rent)  but I don't have money to be going out drinking like I am.   I go out like 4 nights a week now!  Even if I don't get drunk in a night out that is still 10- 15 on a drink and some food, and if I do drink it could be 30 or 40 a night.   My school friends have this expectation now that I am just down for fun, which I am, totally I am, but I don't know how to pay for it.  A few of the regular events I am a host for (like tonight's bar night which ha a record 33 people show up!!!!!!!!)  and so I feel weird not showing up.  One of the problems in m program was getting people to engage and make friends outside of their specialization and I feel like these events are helping in a major way, and I am super excited about that. 

I want to go out, not just for the immediate satisfaction of having fun, but also for the networking and the sense of community these events build, but I just don't think I can afford to much longer. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Apr 2013, 05:28
There are ways of enjoying yourself as a group that don't necessarily involve alcohol. Try going to a park and have a nice picnic. If that sounds too vanilla, just turn it into a bbq, just something where it's not expected to be drinking. That way everybody still gets to take everything they want in a bbq without the question of price coming up (as in: you don't have to buy things you don't want / can't afford) but you'll all still spend some time together.
i don't know if this made any sense.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 28 Apr 2013, 08:11
You can still go out and not drink, as well. Hang out, get a soda or something, maybe one drink if you can, but mostly just be there to hang out and chat. You will probably need to come up with something to stop people asking about it. But if you continue to be your usual fun self, you can avoid a lot of that expense and still go out.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 28 Apr 2013, 09:11
Even non-alcoholic drinks are expensive in pubs though.

You could do what I did for my birthday last night, drinking in someone's house. Host sorts out some nibbles, we had like wedges, chicken legs, cocktail sausages and I made ice cream and cheesecake. Guests brought booze. Half the time the hosts end up getting some left over booze which can be kept for next time.
Either general hanging out or watching a film is a good night. Tip: If your mates are like mine, pick a film people have seen before and/or you don't care too much if they talk over.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 29 Apr 2013, 11:22
The issue is that this is not a small group of close friends I am looking for ways to hang out with but several large overlapping groups of people from school who I am social with. Some of them I guess I am friends with, but most are just acquaintances. 

Right now a group will all go out to a karaoke night, or out dancing, or the like several nights a week, and I have become a standard member of these groups.  On Tuesdays we play BINGO at a bar, and I am the contact for that event and people really like it and are exited to keep doing it over summer, but to get a card you need to make a purchase and at this point even 1 purchase out is more than I ought to be making.  I also organize another bar night every two weeks, which had over 30 people in attendance this week (a record!) but which people also want to continue this summer.  This and the other places there is no obligation to buy anything, but it is hard to spend 8 hours dancing and not get a drink.  At some of the places beer is actually cheaper than soda or even water (the karaoke bar has 75 cent PBRs but charges $1.00 for water!). 

It is just a bloo bloo thing for me, since I am getting a lot out of socializing, but now that I got myself over my fear of interacting and have become,  'social leader' is too strong a term, but one of the go to people who organizes events and encourages people to go out and extols the benefits of group nights out, I feel like I am going to have to suddenly disapear from these events.  Either way, I will figure it out.  I have some things to sell, some old things, some sewing projects, my plasma, and I will taper how much I drink and perhaps how many I agree to go to. 


Unrelated, a few of you may rememember a while back I broke my sewing machine when I was sewing drunk.  I just opened it up and I can't figure out what is wrong with it.  :/  I hate, hate, hate, to do this, but I think I might buy a new one.  This was a $100 machine and it is 6 or so years old.  I am sure it can be fixed, but it could end up being half the cost of a new one.  Also I would have to find cash for the repair, but I have enough amazon credit after selling my textbooks back to just buy a new $100 machine.  It makes me feel guilty and aware of the problems with the disposable nature of our current economy.    I might see if a repair shop will just take it as a donation for parts or so they can refurb it and resell it, so at least is does not end up in the trash for what is likely one broken gear. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 29 Apr 2013, 15:14
Today was a very stressful day. We (the people in my school who graduate from Gymnasium in the same year) organised a farewell show, and I was taking care of lighting and sound. I do this regularly for school theatre plays, so nothing too new for me. But usually I have the opportunity of learning the piece, so I know what to do now. Well, the only practicing session for this show did take place, well, two hours before the show started… That was really stressful on it's own, but I also had two acts to do. One was playing a guitar piece. I chose "Julia Florida" by "Agustin Barrios Mangoré, which I usually can play rather decently, but as I was sitting there infront of the audience my social anxiety kicked in. I played through it with some rather big mistakes, which I tried to cover up a bit. Everybody I talked to afterwards told me that they didn't notice them, except one. I seriously doubt that, but whatever. When I went back to my place at the mixer console and the DMX controller my hands were shaking really badly. I could barely do anything for three minutes, not only because my hands were jumping up and down by about an inch. My throat felt extremely sore afterwards for a while. Damn, that wasn't a great experience, but at least it's finally over.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jimor on 29 Apr 2013, 16:25
It will get easier with experience. One thing to keep in mind with ANY live event is that people make mistakes all the time, and still everything happens, and people either don't notice (honestly), or they may notice, but forget about it amongst all the other cool things that are happening.

For example, I just got back from a live remote TV shoot where the cable access channel I work for covered a local arts fundraising event. In our production truck and around the site, things were chaotic as hell, with us hooking up the final couple of wires just seconds before we went live, and even then we were still late getting on air by about 2 minutes. Then just about every one of our carefully laid plans for how the production would go blew up in the first 15 minutes.

But we adapted, and found a couple of procedures that DID work, and stuck with them for the rest of the 2-hour broadcast. And you know what? The footage that hit the airwaves was pretty darned good, even though if you had been sitting in our truck listening to us yelling out problems and solutions, and figuring out what pieces of equipment were working correctly, and which we had to abandon, you'd think the world was ending.

The secret was that we were all experienced enough, and had all of us MADE mistakes on the air then realize that all we can do at that point is learn from them. So we didn't panic, we each did the job the best we could under the circumstances, then when it was over, we all took a deep breath, and let it go.

I think one thing a lot of people don't appreciate is that often, mistakes define the experience. A wedding where nothing goes wrong is boring. A performance where everything goes perfectly is probably one where the artist isn't challenging themselves enough. I've been in TV long enough where I can see a LOT of mistakes that happen on nationally televised events now, but what I also see is that they are so professional at just moving on and not calling out attention to those mistakes, that people really do not notice them.

That's a skill that you learn just as any other. A missed chord played with conviction will sound like you meant it all along.  :wink:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 29 Apr 2013, 16:49
Ankhtahr, have you finished a performance, solo or ensemble, with the feeling that you did well, that you reached your audience? If you have, I hope you've found the incentive to continue to perform in the certainty that you'll make fewer mistakes in the future and enjoy performing and the applause.
If you haven't had that experience but you enjoy the practice, you'll still get where you want to be.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: lepetitfromage on 30 Apr 2013, 06:58
Blurrgh, has it really been 2 weeks since I've posted?


Things are......things. I guess. Some good, some bad, some just "meh". I am super excited to be married soon but the remaining pile o' shiz I have to do is looming over me like a giant grizzly bear.

My bachelorette party was this past weekend and it was definitely fun times. Not what I anticipated and my preconceived ideas about it almost ruined it for me but when I finally shut my brain up, it was fun. We went to the Storm King Art Center and it was an absolutely gorgeous day to be there. Saw a bunch of wonderful stuff- Goldsworthy's Wall, a few Calder pieces, a Louise Nevelson work, a piece by Henry Moore, Maya Linn's Wavefield and a Lichtenstein. There was a bunch more that I'd love to see that we didn't get to but the place was HUGE, so we're definitely taking another trip back. I didn't get to see the Noguchi they have or a few other Calder pieces. Then we went to dinner at a great Thai place in Beacon, then out to the Newburgh waterfront. Nick was given a blowup doll (we named her Ivana) at one of his 2 bachelor parties and we decided to bring her out to the bars. Ivana was a huge hit! I ended the evening happily drunk but then puked my face off halfway through the ride home the next day.  :-\ Slept all day Sunday and then took yesterday off to recover some more lol. There are some photos floating around FB, I'll try and post some soon.

Work is meh. Still. I've applied to 5 more teaching positions and haven't gotten so much as a nibble back. I'm in the process of filling out the NYC Dept. of Ed. application but the thing is freaking enormous and I have to scan a few documents in for it. Just haven't had the time. Our QA Analyst told me that she wants to do a mock OMIG audit sometime soon and I have SO MUCH freaking filing to do it's not even funny. Doesn't help that I've had to leave early for my life drawing classes every Tuesday and Thursday for the last 2 months. That's ending this week though. Happy and "eh" about it at the same time. Will miss the extra moolah but will definitely be thankful for the extra time.

My apartment is a catastrophe.....ughhhhhh.....I haven't had time or space to pull out my spring/summer clothes so my clothing options are pretty limited at the moment. Has put a bit of a damper on my mood. Not to mention that I've gained back 10 of the 20 pounds I lost. Booo. I'm going for my second dress fitting tonight and I'm REALLY hoping that I don't need any more alterations. Of course, I still don't have the shoes I want to wear so I don't know if the length will be ok, but I can deal with my dress being a tad short. Better that than long, right?

More fun crap:

~Currently dealing with the jackass that sold me my wedding band and refuses to give me the appraisal I was promised. Opened a Paypal dispute. This ordeal is making me hate my ring and I'm seriously considering just selling the fucking thing on eBay and buying a new one. I can't help but feel like I'm being scammed and this guy is adamant that he doesn't have to prove that what he gave me is real simply because he says it is and that should be good enough.  :x

~Have an insane amount of work to do for the wedding right now. Not much that I can hand off either, since it's mostly DIY stuff and Nick isn't exactly comfortable with doing that sort of thing and I'm also a control freak (especially when it comes to hands-on stuff).

~Still dealing with the TMJ stuff. Gotta work on filing an appeal to the insurance company in between the wedding madness.

~I started a fundraiser to send toys and art supplies to the Boston Children's Hospital. I emailed everyone I knew, including 100 coworkers and 387 FB friends. So far, 2 people have donated in 10 days. I'm trying not to get depressed about this. I even started a GoFundMe page and have yet to receive even 10 cents. *sigh*

~The nausea is back. Wooo. Really starting to think it might be related to stress.

~On a more positive note, we just got an update about our photobooth print layout 5 minutes ago- 2 different options to choose from and and they're both ridiculously cute!



(Also- congrats, Bob!!! Yay for becoming a mod- I think you're a great fit for the position :-))
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 30 Apr 2013, 12:34
Ankhtahr, I've been performing in front of people for years. Over a decade, in fact. Just last year, my band played at 924 Gilman, and a friend of ours recorded the set for us. After we were finished, I swore up and down to the guy who recorded it that it was the worst set we'd ever played, to go ahead and do whatever he wanted with the recordings but that we probably wouldn't use them. Turned out we played almost completely flawlessly, and every mistake I heard didn't even exist. I was making them all up in my head, and I bet you were too.

I met Bo Diddley once upon a time, and he told me that it's always the modest ones who wind up being the best pickers. Don't let your modesty get the best of you and make you not want to play out anymore.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 30 Apr 2013, 12:58
Nope, these were real great mistakes. Probably the worst was when I totally forgot where I was, and didn't know how to continue, so I just played the next three melody tones from my mind to cover that up, and then was able to continue. Probably forgot about 8 tones at that point…

Here's how it was supposed to sound like:

The first hard part is at 0:39, where I placed the Barre badly, so only two tones could be heard. At 0:56 where you play the melody with hammer-on and pull-off I missed the string for some of the hammer-ons. The part between 1:26 and 1:31, which is probably the most difficult part of this piece was the only part I really played well  :psyduck:. Around 1:50 is the part I made the big mistake I mentioned above. Well. But apparently even one of the art teachers praised me. She mentioned to a friend of mine (I don't know her personally) that I played not perfect, but still well, and she was impressed by the choice of playing this piece.

But it was definitely a bad experience to me. I'm more happy with sitting in my room, practising great pieces of music, being astonished by what I can achieve by practising regularly. Asturias (http://youtu.be/Nx7vOb7GNBg) (she plays this too fast imho, it sounds nearly rushed, sadly I can't find my favourite interpretation on youtube) is one of the other pieces I can play, and currently I'm working on Enrique Granados' "Danza Española No.5" (http://youtu.be/tPmPr30_lzo).
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Post by: Loki on 30 Apr 2013, 13:27
Ankh, is it any consolation if, say, someone older than you, but still roughly in you age group tells you to be proud of having the ability and shut up?  :-D

To chime in on the "mistakes that others don't see" part: Our school had a play based on a movie. We rehearsed over and over to eventually have two performances, with different main casts, but same supporting characters. Both were captured on DVD, which means I got to both be part of it and watch it.

The first performance was awesome.

The second? Not so much. Well, to start with, some of the girls, presumably hyped up and trying to live up to the standards of the first performance, got pretty drunk (not smashed, but one could notice.)

This is presumably while one of them ended up hyperventilating behind the stage, while being dressed in a tight corset, which caused a big stir unbeknown to the spectators. Ambulance had to be called, while some of the other girls escorted that one girl out.

This lead to some awkward pauses when people forgot parts of their text, the stagehands missed their cues etc. (I think the text part can be chalked up to the secondary cast not rehearsing properly, on account of being secondary.) The one girl that was supposed to sing stopped dead-short in the middle of her song; thankfully, people started applauding to encourage her, and she finished flawlessly.

To make it short, I felt like everything that could go wrong went wrong. Since I had seen the scenes rehearsed a dozen times up to the point where I could do almost all of the speech parts, I could see all the little mistakes.

I later watched the DVD with my girlfriend. While she agreed that the second performance was not as good as the first, she noticed only the really big fuckups (like the girl that stopped singing), and completely missed the parts where people left text out, missed their cues etc; she had seen the movie from which we shamelessly copied borrowed 90% of the dialogue, and still couldn't make out the small errors.

This really brought home how the saying "90% of the audience won't notice 90% of the mistakes" holds true. You know how it is supposed to go; the audience doesn't. All they hear is a guitar play.

Yes, there will be times when you really fuck up so much that they notice, but most of the time, you won't.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 30 Apr 2013, 13:56
I've had shows (nearly) like this as well, but only as technician, sitting on a platform at the other and of the room, so I know the difference between what the actors notice, and what the audience notices, but that doesn't compare to actually being on the stage.

In the end it probably was better than I thought, but I still wouldn't call it a nice experience. But seriously, that doesn't really matter anyway, as I never intended to play on stages. I have fun playing at home, that's what counts to me.

Still, thanks for the kind words!
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Post by: Redball on 30 Apr 2013, 15:01
I can recall three train wrecks in performance. One was mine alone.
In college, I played the role of a 62-year-old guy, Uncle Willie, in The Philadelphia Story. I did OK in the performance at the college, but when we took the play to another college, I forgot my lines, stood there a few seconds, and resumed having skipped half a page of dialog. I don't know if anyone noticed the absence of dialog, but the pause couldn't have been missed. It was the second play I'd performed, and I have little doubt that had I continued acting, I'd have started to enjoy it. I also believe the audience generally enjoyed the performance.
I sang with a choir that had started out singing with the Detroit Symphony Orchestra in the 1950s. Years later, we did the Messiah with a pickup orchestra, and I think in one chorus we were so bad our director stopped us. We started over. That may have tipped off those who knew the work and our abilities that we had some problems, but in general, we knew the work so well that I'm sure we otherwise provided a thrilling performance.
In that same choir, in a cabaret performance at one of the Ford estates in Detroit, a soloist doing the Soliloquy from Carousel totally forgot her words, and never did recover.
But train wrecks stand out mostly for the performers. The audience is being treated to live music or live drama, and that overcomes a lot of mistakes.
If you're good when you perform for yourself, if you can foresee the thrills from performing for others and entertaining them, keep at it. Don't keep your talent to yourself. Many of the people I sing with now are also actors. For them, it's a drug, an adrenaline rush. I envy that. The small choral group performing I do with them provides some of that.
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Post by: Thrillho on 30 Apr 2013, 15:29
Any time I thought I sucked, only other musicians have noticed, and frequently even they haven't.

Audiences are generally pretty dumb, and your fuckups are usually nowhere near as big as you think they are.

And even if you did fuck up, perfectionism is an endless pursuit and it'll stop you from getting sloppy and make you rehearse harder and keep getting better.
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Post by: Redball on 30 Apr 2013, 17:20
Having listened to the work, I think if you were confident enough to attempt it, you're proficient enough to learn to perform it to your satisfaction and to go on from there.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 30 Apr 2013, 17:49
Upon do my round 2000-2100 I happen upon girl sitting atop short pillar things on fif floor. Head in hands sobbing. Did what any guard would do: call police she is trespass. ask her "ya okay?"

She is okay. Her car is broken and her roommate has friends over. She thanks me for asking. I tell her have fun. Looks like she has some food to eat. Will check on her next round.
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Post by: Jace on 30 Apr 2013, 18:39
She wasn't there when went round 2100-2200
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Apr 2013, 19:00
Any time I thought I sucked, only other musicians have noticed, and frequently even they haven't.

Audiences are generally pretty dumb, and your fuckups are usually nowhere near as big as you think they are.

And even if you did fuck up, perfectionism is an endless pursuit and it'll stop you from getting sloppy and make you rehearse harder and keep getting better.

I will say that I did enjoy noticing people fuck up a couple times at Coachella. Isaac Brock (of Modest Mouse) mucked up the words more than a few times during their set, and I swear I was one of the only people to notice.
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Post by: jwhouk on 01 May 2013, 06:12
Happy May Day, everyone!
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Post by: pwhodges on 01 May 2013, 06:45
May Day in Oxford (http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2013/05/01/may-day-oxford-university_n_3191011.html?utm_hp_ref=uk)

Or more straight-laced (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/May_Morning)
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Post by: Blue Kitty on 01 May 2013, 06:54
(http://24.media.tumblr.com/64696c225289c0524595e4d58c794fcf/tumblr_mluc8qzJfv1r18uvso2_250.gif)
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 01 May 2013, 11:42
Five day weekend!
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Post by: Welu on 01 May 2013, 14:41
I got Sims3. Bye forever.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 02 May 2013, 00:00
not homeless; great house; great pot; i leave people speechless with my music

and two people cried
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Post by: Masterpiece on 02 May 2013, 00:05
I got Sims3. Bye forever.
We need to stop supporting crappy publishers by buying their games.
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Post by: nekowafer on 02 May 2013, 05:14
not homeless; great house; great pot; i leave people speechless with my music

and two people cried

<3 <3 <3

I'm so glad things have been looking up for you. And by the way I loved being serenaded <3
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Post by: Welu on 02 May 2013, 07:50
Hooray for Unicorn!

I got Sims3. Bye forever.
We need to stop supporting crappy publishers by buying their games.

Didn't buy it.  :angel:
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Post by: Masterpiece on 02 May 2013, 13:00
good job Welu. Bleed'em dry!
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Post by: LTK on 02 May 2013, 13:50
What do you mean, good job? Spend your time on something worth paying for, at least!
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Post by: Patrick on 02 May 2013, 15:05
not homeless; great house; great pot; i leave people speechless with my music

and two people cried

intimate performances like that are the best. I am a huge proponent of small-scale acoustic shows. See also: Dave Bazan
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Post by: Jace on 02 May 2013, 19:18
So I'm pretty afraid of spiders. The parking ramp has quite a few webs floating about during the day, but they're unoccupied. Well night finally fell for sure and they came out in force in the doorways. Just going in and out of the stairwells was giving me anxiety so I'm skipping my next (which is the last for the shift) round. I will ask on Saturday if they can have a maintenance guy spray some insecticide about the doors.

Also I know spiders eat other insects and shit, but I don't really want these things hanging around all the door frames that I (and other people) have to go through multiple times a day. Based on last summer they'll need to do something because they were everywhere last summer but I avoided all the stairways as I didn't have to go in them previously
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 03 May 2013, 06:29
Yeah, that whole "Look at me hanging in mid air" thing is pretty fucking terrifying. I can deal with them on surfaces below me but even thinking about the whole idea of In Air and then On My Head is enough to make me spasm.


Eeeuuugh.
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Post by: Metope on 03 May 2013, 10:55
I got Sims3. Bye forever.

I had Sims 3 on my old laptop ages ago, but it only really worked when the laptop was new and fresh, so I've not been able to play it for a couple years. I just realised that hey! I have a brand new, shiny computer now and I can install it again! Went on the EA website, downloaded Origin (yes, I purchased it from EA, please don't judge me. I was young and naive, okay?), clicked 'Download' on the game... and now it says it'll be done in 275 days, 38 minutes and 54 seconds. Great.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 03 May 2013, 14:12
i have a date with a guy tomorrow who

i'm not really into

if anything his clinginess is kind of pitiable

but he's going to get me high and give me some professional massages so i'm just going to lead him on for a bit and then gently break his heart i guess

(also shouldn't the blog thread be in relate?)
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Post by: Welu on 03 May 2013, 15:33
My partner was laid off because of stupid fucking reasons.
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Post by: Jace on 04 May 2013, 00:01
Yeah, that whole "Look at me hanging in mid air" thing is pretty fucking terrifying. I can deal with them on surfaces below me but even thinking about the whole idea of In Air and then On My Head is enough to make me spasm.


Eeeuuugh.

Yeah last summer I went through one of the doors to go down the stairs from the 5th (of 5) floor of the parking ramp and I felt something on my head, so I brushed it off thinking it was just a web. GUESS WHAT WAS ATTACHED AND LANDED ON MY CHEST. I promptly flipped the fuck out and knocked it off my chest but still. Fuck that. These aren't small ones either, their bodies are about the size of a nickel.
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Post by: Jace on 04 May 2013, 00:16
Okay I forgot to mention but every Friday night the people who live next door just hang out in the alleyway between the houses talking. Its nice enough out that I have my window open but seriously fuck you for hanging outside right underneath someone's window talking between 2 and 430am some of us have to sleep so we can go to work in the morning.
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Post by: Patrick on 04 May 2013, 02:20
Record them during a very private conversation if at all possible, capturing as much incriminating detail as possible. Then, blackmail them!

I am going to be so disappointed when the Stanley Cup playoffs end because that means no more Hockey Night with Matt 'til the '13-'14 season starts up. At least baseball will be heating up by then. PS SUCK IT CANUCKS
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 04 May 2013, 02:35
My partner was laid off because of stupid fucking reasons.
Welcome to the unemployed life. We'd have T-shirts but we can't afford them.

Seriously, that sucks. Commiserations.
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Post by: Jace on 04 May 2013, 04:25
Record them during a very private conversation if at all possible, capturing as much incriminating detail as possible. Then, blackmail them!

Its just inane bullshit. There's not a lot of substance to their conversation. They just talk.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 04 May 2013, 07:02
Gaaaaaah I hate the backassward way I have to do this assignment! Let me do what I want to the database rather than faffing around with your adapters! I could have finished this weeks ago! It would also be nice if there was more than a paragraph in the WHOLE 9-month course about how to do what this question asks! I use too many exclamation marks [urinating dog][urinating dog][urinating dog][urinating dog] I really should get offline and do some work!
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Post by: Papersatan on 04 May 2013, 14:39
I started reading 'Lean In' today.  It is the book by the COO of Facebook about the problems women face that prevent us from holding an equal number of high-power positions.  It focuses mostly on the internal/inter-personal problems caused by social and institutional inequality that lead women to not seek, or not achieve powerful positions, and how the lack of female leaders perpetuate's a lack of female leaders.  So far it is really good. It's not telling me anything I didn't know already, but it is laying it all out in one place, and really framing it as a call to arms.  It is an interesting time for me to read this, as I struggle to figure out what I want to do with my life. 

On the one hand I want to chase big things, take risks and work with brilliant people on exciting projects, on the other I have a massive amount of debt and if I go corporate and fail it will bury me, where as if I go government, even if I never get to a position of power (read: high pay) I will have my loans forgiven in 10 years, allowing me to do things like buy a home, or retire.  Reading 'Lean In' is forcing me to admit that part of why I am not following opportunities (there have been several job postings I thought were exciting and I might be qualified for that I did not apply to) is not because I am committed to working in the public sector, but because I am afraid of applying to the jobs I want.  I am undermining myself, because I am not convinced I am good enough for these jobs and I am using my debt as an excuse. It is not an entirely invalid excuse, when I graduate I will have nearly 200,000 in loans, but I am realizing I need to sit down again and reexamine my options for paying it back, and decide what I really want from a career. 
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 04 May 2013, 15:25
One assignment down, one to go! Now to see if I can get this done in two days rather than the month it took for the last one...  :-\
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 11:55
i went outside, found a little gnatling spider crawling on me - maybe about 2mm long. i put it down in the grass, but it was very insistent that it wanted to crawl on me - so i wandered around the yard and let it get up to my shoulders, whereupon i would pick it up and it would crawl up my other arm.

i watched it - it would reach out with its thread-thin legs and grab onto the hair on my arm, pulling it down and crawling over it, sometimes getting caught on a particularly long one.

i thanked it for its time and put it in a bush.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 05 May 2013, 13:02
*shudder* I'm ok with spiders but they always bite me when they touch me,  so I've developed quite an adversion to coming in contact with them.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:03
spider8ites are warning signs. he didn't bite me, so i'm p. sure i'm doing the right thing.
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Post by: Jace on 05 May 2013, 13:04
How do you know the spider was a he?
Check your fucking privilege.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:05
i'm p. sure spiders don't have a concept of gender, but i could be wrong.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 05 May 2013, 13:10
They do. I had a bit of a bug fascination as a kid, so I know. :P Male and female spiders typically have some pretty significant physical differences,  even amongst the same species. Males are usually physically smaller than females. They typically avoid each other except to mate. Many species' females kill and eat their mates after mating.

 :mrgreen:
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:10
gender ≠ sex
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:11
i'm pretty sure i've made that exact same post to you before
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:11
basically what i'm asking for is for an ULTRA-gendered world, obviously

Sexnaniganans?

sex ≠ gender

OKAY SO PRETTY CLOSE
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Post by: Valdís on 05 May 2013, 13:13
Pretty close? Those statements are logically identical, since they contain nothing further. :-)
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Post by: Papersatan on 05 May 2013, 13:14
(gender ≠ sex) = (sex ≠ gender)
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Post by: mtmerrick on 05 May 2013, 13:17
I still don't get what I said wrong.  :psyduck: I (purposefully) avoided using that word...
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Post by: LTK on 05 May 2013, 13:19
I think that any animal species with sexual dimorphism has to have a concept of gender, however primitive it may be. Hermaphroditic animals probably don't. It's certainly an interesting question.

I still don't get what I said wrong.  :psyduck: I (purposefully) avoided using that word...
You didn't say anything wrong, you just understood it wrong. :P
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Post by: Valdís on 05 May 2013, 13:20
I still don't get what I said wrong.  :psyduck: I (purposefully) avoided using that word...

No you didn't?

i'm p. sure spiders don't have a concept of gender, but i could be wrong.
They do.

And then you described their sexes.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:21
goddammit google, i'm trying to find out if animals have gender

quit giving me your shit about gay penguins

and your 'homosexuality in animals myth' conservapedia result
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:21
actually no thank you for that one, i fucking love conservapedia
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Post by: Valdís on 05 May 2013, 13:25
Fact: They do. Humans are animals. I don't see any reason why other ones with sufficient brain-function wouldn't?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:29
would you putting spiders in with that group? 'cause i'm going to go ahead and put my money on 'spiders very likely do not understand the concept of gender'
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Post by: Patrick on 05 May 2013, 13:30
Sharks vs Canucks game 3 tonight, plus new Game Of Thrones.

I tried to go swimming at a friend's house yesterday but then remembered that I am shit-terrified of water. Showering is hard enough. Dihydrogen monoxide can kill you in a number of ways, and fuck that shit.

Also who honestly gives a fuck what spiders think
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:30



<--
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:32
(she's a sp8der (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=roz072kSsPg))
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Post by: Patrick on 05 May 2013, 13:36
how's that for a blatant ripoff of the score from Pirates of the Caribbean
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:36
she's also a pirate
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Post by: LTK on 05 May 2013, 13:38
would you putting spiders in with that group? 'cause i'm going to go ahead and put my money on 'spiders very likely do not understand the concept of gender'
No doubt, considering humans have a hard time understanding the concept of gender as well. (I'm probably one of them.) But I think if you poked around a spider brain you'd probably find at least one neuronal network that's responsible for making boy spiders act like boy spiders and not girl spiders.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 May 2013, 13:41
but does that fall into the realm of defining gender or defining sex?
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 05 May 2013, 13:42
how's that for a blatant ripoff of the score from Pirates of the Caribbean

It seems nearly all pirate-related music is a blatant ripoff of the score from Pirates of the Caribbean. I was playing a flash game the other day in which literally every piece had its corresponding piece from PotC. I could hum along to it even though I'd never heard any of them before.
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Post by: LTK on 05 May 2013, 13:49
but does that fall into the realm of defining gender or defining sex?
Gender, I guess? Or are you treating mind and brain as separate here?
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Post by: Valdís on 05 May 2013, 13:50
would you putting spiders in with that group? 'cause i'm going to go ahead and put my money on 'spiders very likely do not understand the concept of gender'

As would I. Well, they certainly don't "understand" or care about whatever they do have, at least. Unless there is a distinct aspect of their limited functionality that could wire them differently as far as gender-identity is concerned, which would be interesting knowledge for sure. It's not like Gender is divorced from biology. I largely consider my transgender status an intersex condition of the brain, so, well, no reason their biology couldn't get wonky too if they have parts like that.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 05 May 2013, 13:53
I like the new avatar, vriska.  :P

Also we know at least some spiders are self-aware  (http://www.engadget.com/2012/12/19/possible-new-spider-species-shows-3d-printers-whats-what/)
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Post by: LTK on 05 May 2013, 13:57
Also we know at least some spiders are self-aware  (http://www.engadget.com/2012/12/19/possible-new-spider-species-shows-3d-printers-whats-what/)
Nope. Nuh-uh. Not even close. What that spider can do is very impressive - almost as much as spinning an intricate web - but that is absolutely no indication of self-awareness.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 05 May 2013, 14:00
It's a spider that knows what a spider is, and that it itself is in fact a spider. I consider that at least slightly self aware.
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Post by: LTK on 05 May 2013, 14:02
There is no evidence for that spider knowing either of those things. It is only a spider that knows how to make something that looks like a spider.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 05 May 2013, 14:08
Was an edit, now in a new post:


Found the composer's site.
http://dominikhauser.com/listen.php

Look in the 'Pirates' section.
Attack of the Sea Monster - The Kraken (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzzGWfPI2YU)
Pirates on the Ocean - Barbossa is Hungry (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fi6tvcDInVY)
Off to Sea - Fog Bound (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=meb_4cEriyw)
A Pirate's Jig (YMMV)/Drinking at the Tavern - Two Hornpies (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DhEnM2kA5zA)
Pirates to the Gallows - Hoist the Colours (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F5J9ATDOqJM), though YMMV
Life as a Pirate - Yo Ho (A pirate's life for me) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3A19q7rysLs)

Of course, this could all be fine, but some of it's very similar.
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Post by: Papersatan on 06 May 2013, 08:07
(https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-FL5BuG4UgHA/UYfGtCa9YVI/AAAAAAAAEKo/UIEZV5AJAfU/w850-h631/lollipop2.JPG)
"We resemble but are legally distinct from..."
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Post by: Welu on 06 May 2013, 11:12
Kat, I think I've just fallen in love with you.    :lol:
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Post by: Redball on 06 May 2013, 11:25
Kat, I think I've just fallen in love with you.    :lol:
*It was the B-24 that was the Liberator, incidentally. Do these people know no history?
...will you marry me?

♥Now is the month of maying....♥
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Post by: pwhodges on 07 May 2013, 12:25
I'm looking up holiday flights.  On the RyanAir site I found this gem in the "hints on saving additional optional fees":

Quote from: RyanAir
Checked Baggage Fee -  is avoidable by simply travelling with no checked baggage.

Clever, eh?  Would never have thought of that.  The fee is £25 per 15kg bag per flight.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 May 2013, 12:28
on greyhound buses you're only allowed one checked bag, and they charge some $20 per extra bag

so at each stop i just check a new bag in and say it's my only bag

and they tag it

and the people outside don't know or care if i've paid or not, so i just get a bunch of free luggage storage that way. (usually my duffel, guitar, and bass go underneath, and my violin, laptop, and messenger bag go on-board with me)
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Post by: mtmerrick on 07 May 2013, 19:03
You travel with a lot of instruments.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 May 2013, 19:47
and this is after I've sold off a violin, a dulcimer, a keyboard, several guitars (electric and acoustic) and a mandolin.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 07 May 2013, 20:32
That's one nice thing about my flight next week, international flight, so no checked baggage fee for me! It's on the house. XD
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Post by: Jace on 07 May 2013, 21:35
My leg has been swollen and hurting for a solid 2 weeks now. This is some bullshit injury and it is definitely gonna make fighting tomorrow tough.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 May 2013, 22:58
I've lived in Washington for a week now and I'm already a pot dealer.
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Post by: Metope on 09 May 2013, 03:41
But, isn't that legal there now?

In bloggy news, I just wrapped up my third year in art school. Technically I have my degree now, but I still have a year left (honours year). Feeling relieved and exhausted, plus very, very sore. I had to carry all of my stuff home and wow, how do I end up with so many things? My room is chaotic and I need to find a way to store everything in one cupboard for the summer since I'm subletting, seems like an impossible task at the moment. I need to work on my Tetris/stacking skills.
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Post by: Carl-E on 09 May 2013, 08:21
...or get a bigger cupboard. 
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Post by: Metope on 09 May 2013, 10:45
I'm afraid the cupboard-size is fixed, since it's built into the room. it goes all the way up to the ceiling, which is quite high, so I think there's enough space. I did manage to squeeze most of my art supplies into a fairly large suitcase, it is so heavy I can barely lift it.

Edit: Here's my studio space at the moment, way tidier than usual:

(click to show/hide)
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Post by: Patrick on 09 May 2013, 12:06
I really love it when random hot birthday girls show up to my jam night. Got her number. Probably gonna be too scared to talk to her. Yaaaay
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Post by: Zingoleb on 09 May 2013, 14:44
But, isn't that legal there now?

...ish.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 09 May 2013, 14:48
Selling it is illegal, I thought?
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Post by: snalin on 09 May 2013, 16:05
Is it legal anywhere in the US to be a dealer without some kind of licence?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 09 May 2013, 19:17
no

and it's actually not legal on a federal level whether you have a license or not so you can still get busted by the feds
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Post by: Lines on 09 May 2013, 20:03
From my understanding, you can legally buy marijuana from someone licensed to sell it because the state can collect tax on it. So buying it in a shop is legal, but buying it from a dealer (who will not be doing anything tax related) is not legal. Possession is legal (I guess?) but possession with intent to sell is not.

Granted, I don't live in a state where it's legal, so I am pulling this out of my ass and might possibly be completely wrong.
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Post by: Patrick on 10 May 2013, 00:43
"Possession with intent to sell" is such a bullshit charge. You could be carrying a tensack (a very small amount, even here in California) and they could nail you for it because it's a small enough amount to be considered distribution-ready. Basically it's just a backdoor into getting you a higher sentence no matter how much you may be carrying.
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Post by: Papersatan on 10 May 2013, 00:48
Kris. I have previously said as much, but again I say, I love your arts.

If something will nto fit, ship it to Michigan maybe?  There are still cookies in it for you.

<3
Drunk Kat.


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Post by: Patrick on 10 May 2013, 03:44
Here's an actual blog post instead of me bitching about weed laws.

It just occurred to me within the hour that the one public place in town that meets the most prerequisites for "Troubador and friends throwing a massive all-ages show at home" also happens to employ 3 of my good friends. It's the Round Table Pizza on my end of town. Huge place, easily over 1000sq.ft of floor space for customers alone, plus a nook in the back that is perfectly sized for up to a 5-piece. Having finally put 2 and 2 together, I texted the one with the most seniority and asked him. I hope to hear back soon!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 10 May 2013, 07:56
http://thespecialistsltd.com

I want to work for these people. So much.
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Post by: Loki on 10 May 2013, 09:01
Specialists Ltd.? Are they, by chance, a contractor of the Department Of Kicking Your Ass?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 10 May 2013, 09:10
No, they're armorers and weapons rental guys for movies.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 10 May 2013, 09:57
yeah but they can't prove intent to sell unless you have something like a scale or baggies on you

and you can carry up to an ounce

so i feel pretty safe.

in blog news, a friend of mine died and i'm kinda bummed.
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Post by: Patrick on 10 May 2013, 14:23
oh no, I'm sorry to hear that! :( *hugs*

in slightly happier news, some random girl in Iran who added me on Facebook said I look kinda like Neil Patrick Harris, I'm about to have the best day ever
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Post by: Zingoleb on 10 May 2013, 14:39
i mean like, whatever, we all saw it coming and i'm not upset

just kinda bummed that a dude i knew is dead and i'm never gonna see him again

Oh Well
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Post by: mtmerrick on 11 May 2013, 02:18
DAMMIT.

i FINALLY go to try to do something productive - in this case research college admissions - and THEY SHUT DOWN THAT PART OF THE WEBSITE AT NIGHT.

yeah, you heard that right.

Quote
The Online Registration portion of this site is unavailable at this time.

This page re-opens daily at 8:00 AM.

Thank you for your interest in the San Diego Community Colleges

what.

the.

fuck.
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Post by: Loki on 11 May 2013, 02:23
Dude. Are the applications processed manually during office hours or what? And they don't even specify time zone?

Put an alarm on so that you will know when to retry.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 11 May 2013, 03:17
well i assume its local time. but yeah, pretty ridiculous.
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Post by: Welu on 11 May 2013, 06:18
I got my partner Marvel/Ironman pyjamas for his birthday and paid him back a load of the money I owed him.
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Post by: Patrick on 11 May 2013, 09:51
last night I met an old friend at the bar, because she and her boyfriend are visiting from where they now live in Oregon. I don't see those two enough. I love them so very much and it breaks my heart a little how I almost never see them anymore.

I also ran into a girl who Matt asked out once. She said yes, and he was really excited because he'd come to like her over the course of running into her and talking to her every so often. They went out, and she dropped the bomb on him that she had a boyfriend, and that she only went out with him because she was mad at said boyfriend. Anyway, so I had forgotten why I recognized her, so I asked her name, and as soon as she said it (it's a pretty distinctive name) I remembered everything and immediately regretted talking to her. What kind of person does that to another?
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Post by: snalin on 11 May 2013, 18:33
The Online Registration portion of this site is unavailable at this time.

This page re-opens daily at 8:00 AM.

Thank you for your interest in the San Diego Community Colleges

"Hello, we do not understand the internet"

Like, that is a damn feature. They have had someone do extra work to ensure that the page is not available at night. What. The. Fuck?

If you are trying to apply for anything technology related at that college... you should probably rethink that.
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Post by: nekowafer on 13 May 2013, 08:33
I'm all moved in to my new room, except a car load of clothing and shoes and random shit. I actually have more storage space in a 10' by 14' room (with closets) than in the one bedroom apartment I shared with boyfriend.

It's been rough sleeping alone again, but I'll be okay. Eventually.
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 May 2013, 08:36
It's oddly liberating...


But then again, my wife snores. 
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Post by: nekowafer on 13 May 2013, 08:50
Boyfriend no longer snores, thankfully, but he has to be ALL OVER ME at night. Like he scoots closer when I pull away a little, and then I pull away more, and he ends up taking up 2/3rds of the bed. Now I have a whole bed to myself! Aside from a body pillow and a ton of plushies.
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Post by: Redball on 13 May 2013, 09:09
A hazard to sleeping alone is that the other side of the bed becomes just another horizontal thing-collector. I fantasize that I'll keep the entire surface clear, put my pillow in the middle and sleep there. So far, a fantasy. Another reason for a partner, albeit the least of them.
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Post by: nekowafer on 13 May 2013, 09:16
Mine will mostly just have pillows, plushies, and cats. Occasionally my laptop and maybe clean clothing that I haven't gotten around to putting away. I don't like sleeping next to a ton of stuff.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 13 May 2013, 10:54
A hazard to sleeping alone is that the other side of the bed becomes just another horizontal thing-collector.

Who says you need a double bed for that?
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Post by: Redball on 13 May 2013, 11:06
I never thought about it. In fact it's queen size. I can't see accumulating stuff beside me on a twin. It'd fall off. OTOH I'm not that good lately about picking up stuff that falls on floors.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 13 May 2013, 11:14
So hey guys
Long time no see
I'm in Colorado for the summer
I got decent grades (As and Bs except for one C)
I want this summer to go by fast so I can go back to Indiana
And I'm pretty horny

Yeah I think that's everything
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Post by: nekowafer on 13 May 2013, 11:38
Hiiiiiii!

Yay! Mostly?
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 13 May 2013, 12:42
I never thought about it. In fact it's queen size. I can't see accumulating stuff beside me on a twin. It'd fall off. OTOH I'm not that good lately about picking up stuff that falls on floors.

Nor am I. It's unoriginal, but the word 'floordrobe' comes to mind.
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Post by: Redball on 13 May 2013, 13:19
I wish my wife were around to hear that word. It sounds like her life before she met me, peeling off her clothes as she came home to her apartment after a night out, picking them up and putting some of them on the next morning before she went to work. I don't think we ever got around to discussing what clothes she discarded.
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Post by: Welu on 13 May 2013, 13:44
Today hasn't gone right. Woke up very sore and stiff for no reason, at least nothing I did yesterday explains it. So missed class when I'm already tight on deadlines. Got a few final touches done on the film at least. Then got a call at 4pm from work being all, "You're down 4 to 11." and I'm all, "Wut." Then had to say I couldn't go in because of reasons for missing class. I said I looked at the rota Friday night and was told one rota went up but the new one should have been up by Friday. Actually I looked at it last night too and didn't notice I was on for Monday but I was looking at Wednesday. Also was getting guilted because I've been asking for more hours, except now that I think about it I did ask for more hours once summer starts so I'll point that out. Plus if I went to class I'd have been there up to 5pm, which my manager should know.

The more I think about it, the less I think this is my fuck up.
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Post by: Loki on 13 May 2013, 15:02
What does "you are down 4 to 11" mean?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 13 May 2013, 15:08
she's scheduled (written down) as having a shift from 4 to 11
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Post by: Welu on 13 May 2013, 15:16
Unicorn has it right.
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Post by: mtmerrick on 13 May 2013, 20:05
Goddamm jesus fucking PAIN.

I Feel like someone took a sledgehammer to my achellies. And I'm a mile away from home because the dog had to be walked and I was feeling fairly ok then. But I'm feeling really bad right now and fuck why does pain HURT so much?

EDIT: and now the mosquitoes are swarming me. Fuck everything.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 14 May 2013, 06:52
So hey guys
Long time no see
I'm in Colorado for the summer
I got decent grades (As and Bs except for one C)
I want this summer to go by fast so I can go back to Indiana
And I'm pretty horny

Yeah I think that's everything

Welcome back!! :-)

Welu- that is most definitely not your fault. Why on Earth would they think you would come to work an hour before your class is even over?

Primo- Nick has achilles tendonitis and it SUCKS. Try to remember to stretch before any physical activity- no matter how small. Check out your shoes too- worn out shoes or ones not meant for walking long distances will only put more stress on it. Nick bought a new pair of sneakers and his pain went away almost instantly.


So guys, I'm getting married in 11 freaking days. Whaaaaaaaaaat. Everyone keeps asking if I'm nervous and I'm really not....I'm starting to feel like I should be nervous! I'm not worried at all about getting/being married, mainly about getting everything done in the next 11 days (and hey- after that, maybe I'll post about something other than gettin' hitched!). I've done some more fun projects that I'll (hopefully) be posting (eventually). And I finally completed the two tasks that were stressing me out the most! I finally decided on a pair of shoes (let's just hope they are actually at the store when I go to pick them up tonight!) and my dad and I picked out a song. :-) It took forever to figure something out and after a while I started to get frustrated. I made him a CD for Christmas last year and asked him to pick something out for us to dance to. Well....after asking him every month if he listened to his CD, I'd always get the same answer- nope. There was always an excuse "I don't have speakers on my computer", "the speakers on the other computer suck", no time, don't feel like it, etc, etc. I started to get discouraged and think that he didn't really care what we danced to. Finally, I went to my parents' house on Sunday for Mothers' Day and I found out that yes, my dad didn't listen to the CD I made him- he looked up some of the songs and listened to them online. And on top of that, he has been scouring the net for other songs. He downloaded at least 20 different songs, went through like, 6 different lists of father/daughter tunes....I seriously almost cried. He spent just as much time trying to find a song- if not more- than I did! Throughout this process, I've also confirmed where I get my obsessive behaviors from.... :-P We came up with a backup song (Unforgettable) but it just wasn't doing it for us, so we spent all last night on the phone going over more songs that I found yesterday and we finally decided on Midnight Lullaby by Tom Waits (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DzhHrVmTWDw).


I have easily spent 40+ hours trying to find a pair of shoes for the wedding and I am fully aware of how insane that makes me sound. I wanted shoes with all of the wedding colors in them, studded shoes, a pair from Iron Fist (*drooooool*), navy slingbacks, white cage/gladiators....then I just gave up and said "anything white and funky" and then I found these (http://www.dsw.com/shoe/caparros+luxe+platform+sandal?prodId=250668). The only issue that I had with them was that my mom is wearing silver shoes for the wedding and I wanted to wear something that no one else would be wearing. And then I realized that those were amazing and comfortable and kick-ass and it's actually kind of cute that my mom and I will be wearing the same color shoe. Plus, I'll be removing the ribbon that they come with and replacing it with a satin navy ribbon for my "something blue".

The only big things left are the centerpieces, corsages/bouts, choosing the cake, sending an email with hairstyles to my hair lady, the itinerary/program and packaging up the gifts for my bridesmaids. Weeeeeeeeee.
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Post by: jwhouk on 14 May 2013, 07:02
The last week is ALWAYS the hardest. Trust me.
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Post by: Jimor on 14 May 2013, 10:39
Oooh, this should be fun. I recently filmed a band of friends at a big event in town, and the promoter also had a full multicamera film crew also record the event. Because I don't have much editing to do, I was able to post a couple of songs a couple days afterwards, which was almost 2 weeks ago now. Today, the first clip from this crew came out, which happened to not only be one of the same songs I posted, but had the exact same audio.

Now, we're both filming the same event, but I have a particular way of processing my live audio that's fairly distinctive (and has garnered a lot of praise for being some of the best live music audio people have heard). The big telltale, however, is the very specific cheers of individual people heard at the end of the song that could *only* have come from a microphone at the exact same location I was standing.

Before I make a public stink, I'm putting out queries to get to the bottom of it all and see if the record can be set straight. Typically, I am very willing to share what I take, particularly with the bands to use how they want, or even some other videographers have asked for footage from my angle, or even the audio files, knowing I do a good job with it, and I'm happy to help. But not asking is not cool.  :police:

EDIT: Issue resolved. Talked with the videographer, and it seems more general cluelessness rather than malice. He gave me prominent credit for the audio, and we'll discuss any future sharing of resources in advance. Now to see if there's a diplomatic way of telling him you can't just stretch 4x3 footage into a 16x9 frame (in other words, my position as the best live music videographer in town is NOT at risk).  :roll: 
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Post by: Loki on 14 May 2013, 13:44
Now to see if there's a diplomatic way of telling him you can't just stretch 4x3 footage into a 16x9 frame (in other words, my position as the best live music videographer in town is NOT at risk).  :roll: 

 :facepalm:

Glad to hear you got it resolved!
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Post by: mtmerrick on 14 May 2013, 14:44
Now to see if there's a diplomatic way of telling him you can't just stretch 4x3 footage into a 16x9 frame (in other words, my position as the best live music videographer in town is NOT at risk).  :roll: 

 How the hell can this man work with video for a living and POSSIBLY think that's acceptable? >_<
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Post by: Carl-E on 14 May 2013, 23:27
I could see it - what he'd gotten on audio was shit, and he lifted yours just to see if it would work - then never got around to asking.  An easy oversight, but unforgivable to publish it leaving it that way.  I think the fact that he was willing to resolve it with no fuss shows that it was more unintentional oversight than intentional theft. 

And am I thinking right that the stretch from 4 x 3 to 16 x 9 gives a 4/3 distortion?  Talk about the camera putting on pounds... everyone's 33% wider! 




Or is it 25% shorter?   :psyduck:
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Post by: pwhodges on 14 May 2013, 23:43
I have friends who have their TV set up to do that; I offered to put it right, but they prefer to have the whole screen used, and really (it seems) don't notice the distortion.

It seems weird to me that they can be like that...
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Post by: Carl-E on 14 May 2013, 23:48
Chalk it up to human adaptivity - we seem to be able to get used to anything. 



This is not always a good thing...
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Post by: Jimor on 15 May 2013, 00:53
Yeah, Carl, I think you're right. He uploaded, and showed it to the band, probably to see what they thought, and since it was "public" on his channel, they went ahead and started spreading it around before he was ready. This is why when I have a clip I need to check things with the band first, I upload it as "unlisted" AND tell the band what that means so they don't repost until I get an answer to my query (or if they're fine with it as is, they can still post links that will work for their fans, and I can change it to Public later when I get a chance).

And from what he's said and I've found out, he's not really a pro, but I guess trying to break into the field, so offered his services for the event as personal promo. And on the face of it, he's bringing 4 cameras and operators, got press passes to have a couple be on stage, so it all appears more "legit" in a lot of peoples' eyes, but the truth is that it's hard to shoot and edit together uncoordinated footage into something that feels natural to viewers. I'm sure it would take even me a while to really understand the flow and to train the other camera operators on what their assignments need to be to provide editable footage.

(Warning: ego unleashed) So I'm happy with my single camera guerrilla style because despite the limitations, I've developed it enough where it sets the standard for what live music video can look and sound like. Just having multiple cameras doesn't mean you'll get professional quality video unless you really truly understand what it takes to put the whole package together. When I do go multi-camera (and I do have plans), I want to jump right to the kind of broadcast quality stuff you'd see in a lot of the pro live streams you see around these days.
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Post by: Welu on 15 May 2013, 08:19
Was very sick yesterday. Feel a lot better now but still not feeling hungry and am very sore and and achey. Typical I get sick so close to deadlines and my driving test.
My driving instructor is trying to get me a free retest since I could get a doctor's note saying I was unfit to drive. So whoo! May not have near £50 down the hole!
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Post by: Redball on 15 May 2013, 08:53
I have friends who have their TV set up to do that; I offered to put it right, but they prefer to have the whole screen used, and really (it seems) don't notice the distortion.

It seems weird to me that they can be like that...
I wrote a tongue-in-cheek edit for my newspaper a few years back claiming that our ability to tolerate the distortion was behind the obesity crisis as we tried to live up to the images on the screen.
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Post by: Welu on 16 May 2013, 15:41
Partner caught my sick. We're slowly getting not as sick. Driving instructor made it so I don't have to pay for another driving lesson. (Assuming I pass this one.) College work has gone no bad don't talk about it.
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Post by: jwhouk on 16 May 2013, 16:42
Just as long as you remember not to drive on the right side of the road, you'll be fine!
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Post by: Patrick on 17 May 2013, 00:18
Yes. You must always drive on the wrong side of the road.
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Post by: Loki on 17 May 2013, 00:21
But then the wrong side would be the right side? So they'd have to switch to the right side, but then they're driving on the right side, which is wrong, because they are supposed to drive on the wrong side, not the right side. Got it?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 May 2013, 00:52
Okay bitches, I'm out for two weeks to go invade a foreign country, defile their culture, and pillage their cities (especially their incredible variety of kit kat bars) don't burn the forums down while I'm gone.

Fromage congrats on the pending nuptials!
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Post by: mtmerrick on 17 May 2013, 01:09
*grabs gas can and flamethrower*

have fun!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 May 2013, 02:31
Motherfuck. Here I am trying to get a nap in before leaving the country, and tonight of all nights, some stupid fuckhead decides coming over the fence is a good idea. Right into the rocky side yard. By my room. The room of a highly paranoid jarhead with mild anger management issues and a twitchy dislike of people sneaking up on his position in the dark. Long story short, grabbed my boots, 1911, and head lamp, went outside, called out as I went condition one before rounding the corner of the side yard, fuck stick hops the fence and makes like he learned how to fly. Fucker. At least my old man is handling the police report so I don't have delay leaving.
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Post by: Loki on 17 May 2013, 03:05
Where you goin'?
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Post by: jwhouk on 17 May 2013, 03:23
He's going Japanese.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 May 2013, 03:30
Yes I leave you all for the land of the rising sun, I'm too adrenaline buzzed to sleep, and it's wake up time about now to get ready to leave for the airport. I'll probably be back for a little bit waiting for my next plane in LAX.
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Post by: Loki on 17 May 2013, 03:30
Have fun and get wasted on sake!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 May 2013, 03:37
Sake it to me baby!

Fun fact: Saying "sake" in Japanese is the equivalent of saying "alcohol" in English. While everyone knows what you mean, the precise term for Japanese rice wine is "nihonshu"
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 17 May 2013, 06:19
That is a fun fact- I enjoy saying that word. Nihonshu! Om nom nom.

Also, have fun, take lots of photos and thanks!  :-D
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Post by: Loki on 17 May 2013, 14:02
Writing on my assignment. Roughly half an hour left, one subsection to go (must be turned in by midnight). I feel half-asleep and half-hyped beyond recognition. It will be too short, I know it, but I don't know what to write :|
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Post by: K1dmor on 17 May 2013, 14:15
 You should write "Screw Flanders" several times to make it longer.
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Post by: Loki on 17 May 2013, 15:05
Somehow I doubt I could have made it relevant to CS.

...maybe I should have written a for-loop as an example and be like "okay, the output of this method will be:"

Quote
Screw Flanders! Screw Flanders! Screw Flanders! Screw Flanders! Screw Flanders! Screw Flanders! Screw Flanders! Screw Flanders! Screw Flanders! Screw Flanders! Screw Flanders! Screw Flanders!
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Post by: snalin on 17 May 2013, 16:41
While(Flanders)
    screw(Flanders);
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Post by: Patrick on 18 May 2013, 18:17
The AMGEN Tour of California came through my town (Livermore) today! And then there was a bomb threat 100 feet from where I was eating lunch.
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Post by: Welu on 19 May 2013, 13:51
I want to make a terrible dance remix/mash-up of something for my media course because due to my being sick last week and the deadlines being this week, I've reach No More Fucks To Give stage. Any suggestions for what annoying thing I can mix to make even more terrible? I'm thinking something mixed with Space Jam because that's a thing.

Keep in mind I've already made an elevator version of Portal's Still Alive. I also did a looping version of Fandango's theme, also elevator'd. That's my Giving A Fuck standard.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 19 May 2013, 13:54
Keep in mind I've already made an elevator version of Portal's Still Alive.

Was it a tri-*gunshot*
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Post by: Zingoleb on 19 May 2013, 15:32
space jam + http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UFmdSLs1EUw
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Post by: Welu on 19 May 2013, 15:56
I love that idea, Unicorn.
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Post by: Radical AC on 19 May 2013, 20:01
I had sake in Japan once.  It was one of the worst drinks I have ever had.  I also had the best mixed drink I ever had at a Shakeys Pizza in Harujuku.

I am moving to Tempe, Arizona in the Phoenix metro area in the next 15 days and still have to find an apartment.  This background check company screwed around with me so much it ate my time to get ready.  It is my first post graduation real person job and I am leaving all my family and friends to go there.  I have never even been to Arizona before.  I am pretty nervous and stressed, but also super excited.

Anyone been to or live in the Phoenix area? Any local tips or things I should check out?
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Post by: celticgeek on 19 May 2013, 20:04
I live in the Phoenix area, Chandler, to be exact.  This is a pretty fun place to live.  And you're arriving for the special Summer Edition - temperatures above 100o F every day. 
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Post by: jwhouk on 19 May 2013, 20:17
You just never go outside until the sun goes down. Friend of mine who lives over in Gilbert told me about that.
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Post by: Radical AC on 19 May 2013, 20:24
I live in the Phoenix area, Chandler, to be exact.  This is a pretty fun place to live.  And you're arriving for the special Summer Edition - temperatures above 100o F every day.

Yeah, I am bracing for that.  It gets over 100 in Boise during the summer, but nothing ever getting close to 120.  How is the public transportation?  I want to try taking the light rail if it works out.  I have a car, but I do not want to deal with parking, gas, traffic, and all that.
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Post by: celticgeek on 19 May 2013, 20:32
Public transportation is not all that bad, but it can take some time to get places.  The light rail is nice.  It runs from Mesa into downtown Phoenix, and out into the northern part of town.  We have ridden it to various places, and it is nice. 

Rush hour is bad, but not as bad as some large areas.  I typically worked places where I was going the opposite direction from the main rush hour traffic, so I am less familiar with how bad it can get. 

Depending on where you will be working, parking isn't too bad.  If you will be working in "downtown" Tempe, there is plenty of public parking, and the prices aren't too bad. 

Also in Tempe, there are a ton bunch of good places to eat, including Mexican, Italian, Japanese, Thai, and Irish. 
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Post by: jwhouk on 19 May 2013, 21:23
And all of them right on the edge of the ASU campus.  :-X

Traffic in PHX can be horrible. Sometimes you feel like you're in a NASCAR simulator.
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Post by: Jace on 20 May 2013, 00:01
Hey Jace you didn't post all weekend what is up with that?
Oh let me show you:

(click to show/hide)

Finally, we took a picture of the Auxiliary Legion that fought at War Practice:
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/943465_10200614759405013_1078813627_n.jpg)
Left to right. Back Row: Enzo, Tomas, Horatius, Theowynn in front of Horatius, Alistair, Tobias, Arthul, Gero (Formerly Gerodis), Ursus. Front Row: Johannes (me), Bulvi.
Alistair, Tobias, Arthul, and Ursus are Romans but not part of the Auxiliary Legion.

This picture was slightly early while we were all about to shout AVE ROME
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Post by: Akima on 20 May 2013, 06:31
And you made the steel parts of your armour yourself, Jace? I am very impressed; you look fierce.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 20 May 2013, 11:10
So today I went to one of the only two cinemas that show movies in their original sound and not dubbed, just to find that every seat had been taken. I'm now in front of a cinema to watch it with German dubs, but I'm kinda disappointed :(
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Post by: Jace on 20 May 2013, 11:45
And you made the steel parts of your armour yourself, Jace? I am very impressed; you look fierce.

Actually, other than a shirt that you can't see (the first layer), the shoes, the knees, elbows, and helmet, I made everything that I am wearing (I did have help from my armor-making friend, but the majority of cutting and hammering was done by me). The little bends in the middle of the knee and elbow fans were added by me (again with some help), and the torse (the black and green looped fabric) was made by me. I made 2 of them, one for me and one for my armor-making buddy so that we could represent our barony (as such they are in the colors of our barony, black and green).

Except for the leg armor, everything is metal based. The chest armor is aircraft aluminum covered in velvet. The legs are kydex (a type of extremely tough plastic) splints covered in velvet.
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Post by: Loki on 20 May 2013, 11:53
So today I went to one of the only two cinemas that show movies in their original sound and not dubbed, just to find that every seat had been taken. I'm now in front of a cinema to watch it with German dubs, but I'm kinda disappointed :(

Soooo... was it Star Trek Into Darkness, or The Great Gatsby?
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Post by: Patrick on 20 May 2013, 13:05
The AMGEN Tour of California came through my town (Livermore) today! And then there was a bomb threat 100 feet from where I was eating lunch.
Turns out it was just a taped-shut discarded box of postcards. The fuck? Clever enough, at least.

Let's see. After the bike race, watched the Sharks game with the band. It was glorious. Then we saw Star Trek. It was awesome. Then we went out drinking. I got fucked up, Matt got fucked up, Paul doesn't drink at all so he did not get fucked up. So on the way home in Paul's shiny new Mini Cooper, we went to an empty industrial complex and completely SMASHED in it. Fun stuff when you take the traction control off and put her into sport mode. Spent the next day at band practice and basically just being 3 goofy idiot brothers. Fuckin love those guys.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 20 May 2013, 14:13
So today I went to one of the only two cinemas that show movies in their original sound and not dubbed, just to find that every seat had been taken. I'm now in front of a cinema to watch it with German dubs, but I'm kinda disappointed :(

Soooo... was it Star Trek Into Darkness, or The Great Gatsby?
Why those two?
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Post by: Loki on 20 May 2013, 14:25
Uhm.... because Google has this nice feature where you can look up movie schedules for the day in a town, I know what town you live in, and those two were approximately fitting the time slot you were describing?


If you want me to stop stalking you, just ask. I mean it.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 20 May 2013, 14:26
Technology is MAGIC!
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Post by: Patrick on 20 May 2013, 14:30
also, assuming you were trying to watch an English-language film without dubbing, those are the only two out right now that are worth seeing.
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Post by: Loki on 20 May 2013, 14:35
I don't really stalk Masterpiece per se, it's just that I spontaneously decided to try show off my google-fu.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 20 May 2013, 14:48
I, on general, only watch movies in their original language.
Also, Loki, you scare me.
But yes, I watched Star Trek: Into Darkness.
Although I might have been watching the premiere of Fast & Furious? Because that was airing at the same time.
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Post by: Patrick on 20 May 2013, 14:55
F&F6 actually looks pretty fucking sick, I wanna see it. But I also wanna see World War Z. Oh, choices...
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Post by: Masterpiece on 20 May 2013, 14:57
go to both?
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Post by: Loki on 20 May 2013, 14:58
Also, Loki, you scare me.

Noted. Sorry.


Wait what premiere? I thought movies only come out on Thursdays? At least they did as long as I can remember.  I haven't been to the cinema in a while.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 20 May 2013, 14:58
Well it was a pre-premiere screening. I went to Skyfall before any of my friends could.
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Post by: jwhouk on 20 May 2013, 17:17
The problem with TGG and ST:ID is that they're both remakes.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 21 May 2013, 02:38
i've finally asked someone for help.

long-term help.

with money.

it grates at my pride and wracks me with a terrible guilt at taking from someone

and it numbs me with a terrible fear of resentment

but i asked them as a fellow unicorn and as a fellow slytherin

and as pompous and outrageous as that sounds, i honestly feel they will understand all the ways i burn.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 21 May 2013, 11:45
Quote
Hm, so I get to patron my very own bard. That's something worth note. Not even the Prince of Satyrs has a proper bard, he has to make do with a Court Poet, which is not nearly as reputable.
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Post by: Jace on 21 May 2013, 13:11
What the fuck is your life dogg
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Post by: Jace on 21 May 2013, 13:13
That's not meant to be insulting its just I imagine the above quote coming from someone wearing a tophat and cape with a tshirt and cargo shorts
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Post by: Zingoleb on 21 May 2013, 13:14
actually this is him:

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-f-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/521510_251175028324940_998483175_n.jpg)
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Post by: Masterpiece on 21 May 2013, 13:25
those shoes ruin it all
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Post by: Loki on 21 May 2013, 13:37
Quote
Hm, so I get to patron my very own bard. That's something worth note. Not even the Prince of Satyrs has a proper bard, he has to make do with a Court Poet, which is not nearly as reputable.

I am playing a bard in henri's DnD campaign.
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Post by: nekowafer on 21 May 2013, 13:46
actually this is him:

Yummy.
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Post by: Papersatan on 21 May 2013, 13:51
The (mostly) true story about how I started to play D&D.

Stephen had just joined a game and was creating his character, but was unsure which class to be. 

"Hey, Kat." says he "Help me choose my character.  Should I be a Bard, a Thief or a Wizard?"
"I wouldn't even begin to know how to help you choose.  I don't know what the differences are."
"Well, thieves Blah Blah Blah, COOL STUFF ABOUT BARDS, wizards Blah, Blah."
"oooOOOoo  Bard sounds cool, be that.  What sort of spells could he get at the start?"

He shows me the spells and I help him pick out all the neat things.

Next day:
"I decided to be a wizard."
"WHAT? no!  The wizard was stupid, the bard, be the bard."
"I don't want to."
"But... But... Prestidigitation... SIIIINNGGGING!!!!!"
"Nope. I think the wizard's blah blah nerd nerd blah blah"
"Can I play?  I want to be the bard."

I am still not sure if it was all a trick to get me interested or not, but I was OFFENDED that he wouldn't play the bard I helped him make, and so I insisted on playing it.  I always play something bard-like from a short race. 
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Post by: Loki on 21 May 2013, 14:03
Haha, that's awesome.

Prestidigitation

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Post by: Pilchard123 on 21 May 2013, 14:04
Did you prestige into Dashing Swordsman? :-D
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Post by: Loki on 21 May 2013, 14:38
Hah. No. I am not even sure how multiclassing works, since levelling up not in the public SRD and I am too lazy to acquire the materials by other means.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 21 May 2013, 16:00
the word prestidigitation always reminds me of dope hat
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Post by: nekowafer on 21 May 2013, 16:53
Oh my god me too. I hear that line every time I read that word.
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Post by: Patrick on 22 May 2013, 00:02
So I quit my bullshit-ass job at PBK today, and very soon, I will be working at Round Table Pizza with three good buddies of mine. I won't have to worry about not being able to get time off to play shows, because my buddies all know that my music is my #1 priority and they support me completely. And I'll be saving up for a small (<400cc) motorcycle to use as my daily driver to and from work.

Things are looking up finally, and I won't have to cancel my big show on Friday.
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Post by: Loki on 22 May 2013, 00:54
Yay!
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Post by: Lines on 22 May 2013, 05:38
I am still not sure if it was all a trick to get me interested or not, but I was OFFENDED that he wouldn't play the bard I helped him make, and so I insisted on playing it.  I always play something bard-like from a short race.

One of my friend's favorite characters is a bard - a heavy metal tiefling bard. It is by far my favorite character of his and I love that our current campaign allowed him to bring the bard back. (I'm playing one of my favorite characters - badasshalf-orc fighter of badassness. She has a mohawk, skull tattoos, and all of her piercings are made from bones of those she has killed.  :evil: )
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Post by: snalin on 22 May 2013, 06:12
Hah. No. I am not even sure how multiclassing works, since levelling up not in the public SRD and I am too lazy to acquire the materials by other means.

Dashing Swordsman is an Order of the Stick reference. You really should read Order of the Stick. Start here (http://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots0001.html).
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Post by: Loki on 22 May 2013, 07:17
I don't read A Softer World, and I probably shouldn't.

The only comics I read are, very roughly in order of frequency:

  • QC
  • xkcd
  • Scenes from a Multiverse
  • Order of the Stick
  • Goblins (http://www.goblinscomic.com/)
  • Another Gaming Comic (http://agc.deskslave.org/comic_viewer.html?goNumber=999999)
  • Oglaf (occassionally. NSFW)
  • Erfworld
  • Times like this
  • SMBC but usually only if I am drunk
  • Dilbert (sometimes)
  • Ménage à 3 (NSFW)
  • Penny Arcade

Yes, those comics are the only ones I read.

:P
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Post by: Loki on 22 May 2013, 13:05
I went grocery shopping for the first time in days. I couldn't get my ass up until today.

Bought ALL THE THINGS. I think.

Ferrero has a new product, gotta try it.
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Post by: Jace on 23 May 2013, 19:14
It's days like thia I wonder how I survived this long. Got in armor and fought 3 times in a row without incident. Be going up the stairs at work. Fall and hit elbow on hand rail. Still hurts 30 mins later.

In other news, my shin that got hit like a month ago now has just a bruise and a big ol lump on the bone that is hard. Bodies, How do they even work?. Because honestly I don't know to an almost comical extent.
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Post by: Papersatan on 23 May 2013, 20:41
I just applied to an internship that I really want.  I think my resume and cover letter for it are good.  I am feeling like I put my best self forward, so here is hoping I at least get an interview. It is for a position that is a little outside my specialization, but which I am qualified for.  I would not have applied to it a month ago, but I am high on "Lean In" advice and so I went for it. 

If I get it somehow I will be in California for 3 months starting in less than 3 weeks!

I am so scared about that, but so glad I am putting myself in the running for it. 
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 23 May 2013, 23:06
[...]bruise[...]
Don't you sword wielders have a convenient number of ice packs lying about? Would help with swelling and pain ...
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Post by: Jace on 24 May 2013, 00:58
Actually we don't because injuries have to be reported so any time you use a first aid kit we have to make a report of it. Also it is bruised but it doesn't hurt anymore, its just sort of there and hurts if I press on it.

Funnily enough what made it stop hurting was warmth, because I broke some veins with the injury so it would swell up a lot when I'd go from sitting to standing and the warmth would help open up the broken veins and let the blood flow better.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 24 May 2013, 01:04
Report? How does this system work? If I get a knock in my classes I deal with it as best I can. There's no reporting done? What makes you so special, is basically what I am saying.
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Post by: Jace on 24 May 2013, 01:35
A membership of about 30000 people with maybe 10-15k fighters in the organization that has been around for about 50 years and understands that if someone gets injured (and makes note that they got injured at the time) on private property you need to record that information just in case they decide to file a lawsuit later on. Its pretty much covering all asses involved is all.
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Post by: Loki on 24 May 2013, 01:38
Also I imagine the first-aid kits need to be filled up periodically with such a big amount of users.
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Post by: Jace on 24 May 2013, 02:03
Well our regional practice only gets about 10-15 heavy fighters max each week, and we don't technically keep a first aid kit on site (there's one at the site, but not provided by us), a couple of us just have them in our cars.
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Post by: Jace on 24 May 2013, 03:28
Got called a racist by a guy with a "White Pride World Wide" tattoo on his chest.

His explanation:
Quote
Well, you see…. You called me a racist for being prideful of being white, I’m calling you a racist for having pride in yourself. You see, if pride is racist it’s racist in general. There’s no klan man on my chest, there’s no hate speech, nor is there anything racist about the tattoo. So, you being a prejudice Fuck like me, you’re classified as a racist… It works in a 360 “mate”.

I think he also thinks I'm Australian.
 :psyduck:
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Post by: Loki on 24 May 2013, 03:36
I, uh. I am. What?  :psyduck:
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Post by: Patrick on 24 May 2013, 08:42
It's okay, wait til he finds out he's an incest baby.
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Post by: Carl-E on 24 May 2013, 08:44
Got called a racist by a guy with a "White Pride World Wide" tattoo on his chest.

His explanation:
Quote
...there’s no hate speech, nor is there anything racist about the tattoo...

completely missed the boat right there, didn't he? 
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 24 May 2013, 08:45
Quote
It works in a 360 “mate”.

So he's a racist twice over?
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Post by: Akima on 24 May 2013, 16:15
I was reading Jace's posting about the man with the racist tattoo (so much less cool than The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo) and it kicked off a process that left me confused.

Why would anyone say "You called me a racist for being prideful of being white"? I thought the adjectival form of the noun "pride" was "proud", not "prideful", but I assumed that racist-tattoo-guy was just ill-educated. Until I looked it up, and sure enough, both my American English and British English dictionaries give "prideful" as the adjective derived from "pride", and "proudness" as the noun derived from "proud". Really? I'm supposed to write "He was prideful of his skill", or "She took proudness in her daughter's performance"? I would say "He was proud" and "She took pride" in those sentences. Have I been doing it wrong?
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Post by: pwhodges on 24 May 2013, 16:58
The Shorter Oxford tells me that pride comes from an older word that was also the source of proud. It also uses proud in the examples of the meanings of pride. It says that prideful is chiefly North American.

I would normally use proud and pride as you do. I might use prideful to indicate excessive or unjustified proudness. Proudness I would not use (except it seems I just did without thinking).
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 24 May 2013, 17:06
I agree with your usage. I feel like "prideful" has a disapproving religious aspect to it - it's a sin to be overly prideful, etc.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 27 May 2013, 00:03
I won this on facebook = Miles Davis Quintet - Live In Europe 1969 the bootleg series vol. 2.

My surprise was this: people actually win stuff on facebook? It's basically one big advertisement with likes and shares ... but people actually win??
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Post by: snalin on 27 May 2013, 05:31
blahrg;

I should have been reading for my exam this weekend, but I played Might and Magic 7 and Blood Bowl instead. It's over a week left, and it's multiple choice so it's probably super easy, but I need to read this book. But it's on internet protocols, and that's super boring! Like, hey, it's neat that TCP works that way, and I guess I need to know that, but... Boring.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 27 May 2013, 06:16
I won this on facebook = Miles Davis Quintet - Live In Europe 1969 the bootleg series vol. 2.

My surprise was this: people actually win stuff on facebook? It's basically one big advertisement with likes and shares ... but people actually win??
I was cast for an advertisement through Facebook.
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Post by: Loki on 27 May 2013, 07:28
The Lumia one?
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 27 May 2013, 16:38
Welp, I've finished the last assignment for a module that looked really interesting when it started but then got buried under Real Life. It would be a better feeling if I hadn't given up my entire bank-holiday weekend to do it and also had to lose the previous one to do the previous assignment. I also don't think I did as well on this one as all the others, and since it's worth 50% of the whole mark...

On the bright side, while I must pass this one to pass the whole course, I have done well enough in the other assignments to be able to resubmit it if this last one goes down the pan. Because it's only a first-year module I only need 40% to pass and the actual mark doesn't count toward the grade of degree I get. Sleep time.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 27 May 2013, 16:48
The Lumia one?
yeah (https://www.facebook.com/nokiadeutschland/posts/464855306880084). That was some experience :)
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Post by: Patrick on 28 May 2013, 01:56
I like how I basically spend 100% of my free time hanging out with my bandmates or 3 other people.
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Post by: Patrick on 28 May 2013, 02:20
oh fuck I like how I literally just wrote my first song in over a year about 5 minutes ago holy fuck
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Post by: nekowafer on 28 May 2013, 04:46
My coworker is in her cube (diagonal from mine, our cubes are in a + formation) just talking at me and I am grunting at appropriate moments and not listening to a single word she says.

This is my morning.
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Post by: Loki on 28 May 2013, 05:27
Is that the coworker you had complained about?
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Post by: nekowafer on 28 May 2013, 05:32
Yes. Many, many, many times. Dear lord is that woman annoying.

Which is why I no longer put much effort into listening to her. If it's work related, I will try harder, but if it's personal, I just grunt and see how long it takes her to realize that I'm not paying any attention. It usually takes a while.
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Post by: Welu on 28 May 2013, 08:21
Would she stop sooner if you don't grunt? Or maybe do what I've done (intentionally and accidentally) which is laugh or smile at something that was not to be laughed or smiled at, because I didn't hear what they said and just guessed a reaction.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 28 May 2013, 08:43
I have a coworker like that. I can't even tell you how many times she started yammering on and I held up my side of the conversation just alternating between "Oh?", "Uh huh", "Wow" and "Really?". While simultaneously trying to back away.
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Post by: nekowafer on 28 May 2013, 08:57
If I ignore her, she just keeps talking and asking if I heard her and what do I think and blah blah blah. I've also tried being nice and telling her I'm busy. The way I do it seems to be the easiest so far. But seriously, can I just punch people? I would think that I wouldn't get in trouble if any law enforcement people just spoke to her for like 10 minutes. They'd understand.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 28 May 2013, 09:41
Mine is so self involved that other people's opinions and reactions don't really register with her. She just likes to talk -at- people. Blessing and a curse I suppose.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 28 May 2013, 11:40
my grandmother is like that. it's kind of a trap, and i'll wait until someone else comes into the room and then slip out and she'll just keep talking at them, not even noticing that it's a different person.
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Post by: Patrick on 28 May 2013, 14:40
So my friend Erika is basically my kid sister. She started showing up at the open mic I host at the coffee shop where my bandmate Matt works, and he and I both saw her and said "Kid, you're like a little songbird!" and she's been showing up almost every week since. Anyway, a couple weeks ago another participant brought a mixer and some cameras and out came this video. This is one of Erika's originals and it's probably my favorite of them all.

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Post by: Loki on 29 May 2013, 10:06
I was at my psychologist appointment and she ended up giving me addresses of places in this city where I might possibly find a pen&paper RPG group. :parrot:
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Post by: snalin on 29 May 2013, 11:00
You apparently have the best psychologist.
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Post by: Loki on 29 May 2013, 11:29
See, that's what I think as well. :laugh:

To put it into more context, we were discussing hobbies I could take up to make more social contacts; she asked me what I liked to do and I was like "well, reading fantasy books, I guess." "Is there anything you could do related to this?". I fumbled around a bit and said "well, maybe... does the term pen & paper RPG mean anything to you?" ":) Indeed it does."

We discussed how I could possibly join a group. Turns out she has some player friends and could tell me the name and address of a gaming shop I didn't know yet, where I might be allowed to put up an advert, which I might or might not do.
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Post by: Carl-E on 29 May 2013, 20:18
This is one of Erika's originals and it's probably my favorite of them all.

[awesome youtube clip]

Good lord, she's fantastic.  You are a lucky man, to have a protege like that. 


But then, talent attracts more talent...
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Post by: ackblom12 on 29 May 2013, 23:17
So I'm watching Pitch Black for the first time tonight, the ship has just crashed and suddenly there's a bat flying around the living room in a very confused manner. I got some oven gloves, picked it up after it got wore out a bit and took it outside to let it go. It flew off fine, though probably scared shitless and very confused.

I have no idea how it got in here though.
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Post by: Radical AC on 29 May 2013, 23:41
So my friend Erika is basically my kid sister. She started showing up at the open mic I host at the coffee shop where my bandmate Matt works, and he and I both saw her and said "Kid, you're like a little songbird!" and she's been showing up almost every week since. Anyway, a couple weeks ago another participant brought a mixer and some cameras and out came this video. This is one of Erika's originals and it's probably my favorite of them all.

I love that open mic stuff, but never got to playing the acoustic guitar as well as my other instruments.  I am going to try and get to the bay area for my best friends band in the late summer.  They are trying to organize a tour and are playing with some 20 Sided Records bands in the area.  I am moving to Arizona on Monday !!! so after a 15 hour drive I will be all alone with no friends.  I look forward to seeing them then.
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Post by: Patrick on 30 May 2013, 03:42
oh my shit, who is it? I've met a bunch of bands associated with 20 Sided, they work with a lot of talented artists. The two from Livermore that used to be most involved with them are outta commission (they shared a lead guitarist and he wound up with medical stuff preventing him from playing basically ever again, which is a god damn shame) but we play with Rubedo whenever they're around. I think we played with the Suggies, and I saw Ugly Winner one time during a QC meetup and wound up getting a 7" split they did with Slow Trucks.

man, I'm glad y'all like Erika's stuff. I was able to catch a bit of the set she played at a restaurant tonight, and she completely killed it. and then she asked me to play a couple songs with her. we did "Rhiannon" by Fleetwood Mac and "Silver Lining" by Rilo Kiley and she killed it on those too. my singing sounded shot to all hell (drank too much with some friends last night and was sick in the morning, neither's really great for yr voice) but who needs backup vocals anyway?
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Post by: Radical AC on 30 May 2013, 04:08
I want to say they are playing with Couches (Slow Trucks other band).  They just played a show together here in Boise last weekend.  During Treefort Music Fest a local bar hosted a 20 Sided Records showcase and I saw Ugly Winner.  They were my favorite band of the entire festival.  They didn't have any merch at the time when I tried to buy some, but I found a 12" of Inside Your Wave at my local record store a week later.  I need to see that band again.  My friends have also played a lot with Tartufi so they might do a show together.  They are still setting it up but plan to stay and play shows for most of a week.
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Post by: Carl-E on 30 May 2013, 05:20
I know, I said I wouldn't be in here much. 

I failed. 

Good news; an old HS friend of my wife's has an older ('97) Dodge Caravan that he's willing to give us for the cost of getting it retitled and registered here. 

Bad news: he lives in Hampton VA (I'm in central PA), and my car won't do the highway until I fix the noisy bearing.  Which I can't do until we get another car... so, greyhound it is! 

Good news: The junkyard'll give $350 for the old van as is!  Just need to empty it now....

Bad news: Someone's been scamming in the name of my daughter's charity, collecting donations from local businesses.  Our contact person found this out while collecting donations for the bike run we're holding this weekend, and getting a lot of "didn't you guys already come here?"  responses.  Some tall, big guy with a large moustache.  Now we get to make police reports...

Good news.  Good news.... fuck, fresh out. 
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Post by: Gemmwah on 30 May 2013, 11:56
who are all of you people
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Post by: ackblom12 on 30 May 2013, 11:57
Gemm!

I caught a bat in my apartment. It was adorable and probably scared shitless.
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Post by: celticgeek on 30 May 2013, 12:02
By the goddess, Gemmwah, where have you been?
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Post by: Patrick on 30 May 2013, 12:21
I want to say they are playing with Couches (Slow Trucks other band).  They just played a show together here in Boise last weekend.  During Treefort Music Fest a local bar hosted a 20 Sided Records showcase and I saw Ugly Winner.  They were my favorite band of the entire festival.  They didn't have any merch at the time when I tried to buy some, but I found a 12" of Inside Your Wave at my local record store a week later.  I need to see that band again.  My friends have also played a lot with Tartufi so they might do a show together.  They are still setting it up but plan to stay and play shows for most of a week.

oh fuck I totally was supposed to find Couches a show here in Livermore earlier this month but every venue was either too small to be pleasant or too stick-up-assy about things to say yes.
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Post by: pwhodges on 30 May 2013, 15:00
who are all of you people

We are the ones who never went away ;)
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Post by: Ozymandias on 30 May 2013, 18:53
Goddammit who changed these walls, why is the reply button there, why didn't anyone feed my fish, you jerks have a lot of explaining to do.
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Post by: celticgeek on 30 May 2013, 19:26
Apparently it is homecoming week.

Croeso yn ôl i'r holl gyn-fyfyrwyr! 

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Post by: Zingoleb on 30 May 2013, 21:27
Zingoleb

nng
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 30 May 2013, 23:34
[...]
Croeso yn ôl i'r holl gyn-fyfyrwyr!
Now you're just making the language up as you go along. That can't possibly mean anything.
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Post by: Loki on 30 May 2013, 23:35
Goddammit who changed these walls, why is the reply button there, why didn't anyone feed my fish, you jerks have a lot of explaining to do.

I assume you want to use the old theme (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php?action=profile;area=theme).
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Post by: GarandMarine on 31 May 2013, 04:50
Blog thread, prepare thyself, my travelogue is coming and it will be GLORIOUS.
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Post by: Patrick on 31 May 2013, 12:23
When I was in Alaska, I was basically adopted by the family of 2 of my coworkers. One was the mom, who I of course wound up calling Mom a lot. The other was the eldest son, Davida. The youngest daughter, who was maybe a year old when I met her, is now 6. Cutest little thing ever, it was always so much fun playing with her and her brothers.

Well, turns out, Baby Girl's got a pair of tumors at the base of her skull. Been there with her since birth. They're being biopsied at a children's hospital in Seattle, but we're all scared pretty stiff. Fuck me, man, what a couple days it's been. News doesn't filter so fast from Alaska so it's been stressful.
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Post by: Loki on 31 May 2013, 13:35
Good wishes to the child.

So a guy I know just texted me. Apparently there is an RPG convention in Cologne tomorrow and he was looking for someone to tag along.

Looks like I am going to Cologne  :mrgreen:
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Post by: Loki on 01 Jun 2013, 12:13
So I am back from Cologne and I bought a lot of geeky stuff!


I also got to play Mafia (was killed off on second night; still had fun because of the wacky people :-D)
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 01 Jun 2013, 12:49
... now I want to go to Koln ...
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Jun 2013, 20:28
You wake up in Tokyo, nine hours gone, it is what was previously tomorrow, you have briefly traveled around half a day into the future. You wake up in LAX, another nine hours gone, it is the same day you left, in fact it's before your flight even takes off, time travel again, this time briefly into the past, and in the course of two regular flights that thousands of human beings make every single day you have covered what just a few centuries ago would have been years worth of travel. What any rational human being of the day would call a complete impossibility. You have also completely screwed your cosmic ledger sheet for time remaining on your life, is it total time? Or is it by calendar days? How do you factor in time gained or lost via time travel? Whether there is a god or not, one fact remains, we are all on the clock, right now. There is no stopping it, no time outs, no breaks, and when your clock stops... it's just stopped. From this perspective any way. What did you do today to make your remaining time worth living no matter if that's minutes or years? Did you love? Did you dare? Are you doing something you truly love and are passionate about? Or did you shrink from risk, thought of yourself when you could have loved with the kind of passion that poets are inspired by, are you enslaved to work you hate surrounded by people you despise? Or are you dedicating the brief time you have to giving everything to your passion? You wake up in LAX.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 01 Jun 2013, 21:50
Hmmm.... the boy can write....


A little arranging, and that's a damn fine poem. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Lines on 01 Jun 2013, 22:07
who are all of you people

Your post and av go perfectly together. Also, hi!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 02 Jun 2013, 00:01
are you enslaved to work you hate surrounded by people you despise? Or are you dedicating the brief time you have to giving everything to your passion?

You know, it's funny, I don't think I could work at a job I didn't like for very long. I worked at Pottery Barn Kids 9 months and I still don't know how I lasted.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 02 Jun 2013, 04:59
So I'm driving home yesterday night. Rain comin down. Some piece of shit decides he needs to exit on the left and must move from the right to get there. Not usually a big deal but he had to so it at 20mph when the speed limit coming off that section of road is 55mph. So I see this happening and the car in front of me is slowing down so I ease onto the brakes, there's definitely enough room that I can drop my speed some and they'll be moving again by the time I close the gap. Well I realized Mr piece of shit decided that going above 20mph was not going to happen and had to brake hard to not smash the guy between us. I am talking to jess on the phone (speakerphone) and as I brake I go "woahhhhh guy what--" and the braking causes the phone to slide onto the ground as my box of paint also slid off the passenger seat, causing some crash sounds. Then came trying to explain that no I didn't crash I am just glad I got new brakes a couple weeks ago. Then mr piece of shit stopped on the on ramp to the highway instead of merging properly.

And this morning a deer was 2 lanes onto the highway as I was switching from one highway to another so I slowed down as to not hit it. It stopped, turned around to hop back over the fence, but before it did, it called me the n-word. Deer be fucked up.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 02 Jun 2013, 06:59
I spent a good few hours browsing Wondermark because there was a conversation I had with my sister which reminded me of a relevant Wondermark comic, but I couldn't remember the topic afterwards. So I just clicked the Random button over and over again in the hope I would eventually stumble on it.

And I did! Rejoice.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: CardinalFang on 02 Jun 2013, 07:19
who are all of you people

Hi Gemm!

I just got back from a 7 day Alaskan cruise. We had a wonderful time. I took 1,350 pictures and 24 videos. I brought to extra sets of batteries for my camera and still ended up having to buy two more. That's what happens when you take a guy who hasn't really traveled and lives in an area that's really flat and then send him to a place full of snow capped mountains.
I wasn't sure how I would do on a ship and the answer is "Just Fine". The only time I felt a little off was in the casino and moving to a window solved that quickly. I don't think I gained much if any weight. Yes, there was lots of food available and I did eat a little more than I would at home but we also did a lot of walking. I think it all worked out. I was sad to leave and even sadder to go back to work. There was enough happening on the ship and between talking to my gf, the scenery,  my Kindle, and my Nexus 7 I was never bored. The food was good to excellent. I enjoyed the service in the dining room but apparently I am not cut out to sit down for 2 hours or so for dinner.
It seemed odd to me that with about 1,900 passengers we kept running into the same few. We also spent a lot of time in the Crow's Nest looking at the view and listening to Matt the Solo Guitarist (that's how he was listed). He was pretty good especially at bantering with the customers. I now cannot get Sweet Caroline out of my head though. Both he and Ben the piano bar guy use iPads for song lists. We happened to be sitting at dinner with Ben and he said that without the iPad he knew maybe a couple of dozen songs but with it he could play hundreds. The wonders of modern technology!
I would definitely do another Alaskan cruise and fortunately so would my gf. :) It's going to be awhile though since we need to rebuild our funds.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 02 Jun 2013, 09:00
So apparently my travelogue too goddamn big for this forum to handle.  :psyduck:

Here's the actual post on my mostly defunct blog:
http://northstarguide.wordpress.com/2013/06/02/eric-attacks-tokyo/

There's a mirror here
http://www.dakkadakka.com/dakkaforum/posts/list/530844.page#5688676
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 02 Jun 2013, 12:09
I would definitely do another Alaskan cruise and fortunately so would my gf. :) It's going to be awhile though since we need to rebuild our funds.

if you do, go to Sitka. and then BURN IT THE FUCK DOWN
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 02 Jun 2013, 12:33
Hey, hey, hey ... you are talking about that place from 'the Proposal'. And nobody fucks with the place from 'the Proposal'!!!

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: CardinalFang on 02 Jun 2013, 13:47
I would definitely do another Alaskan cruise and fortunately so would my gf. :) It's going to be awhile though since we need to rebuild our funds.

if you do, go to Sitka. and then BURN IT THE FUCK DOWN

We did go to Sitka and did a shore excursion there. We went on something called a wildlife quest with Allen Marine Tours and saw bunches of sea otters, bald eagles, and a humpback whale. After that we were taken to Fortress of the Bear and saw some bears which isn't too surprising given the name. We thoroughly enjoyed both. We didn't enjoy the ride in the tender back to the ship. Fun Fact: those orange lifeboats you see on the side of cruise ships? They hold 120 people when used as a tender. It's a tad cramped.
We didn't get a chance to go into Sitka and do anything else like shop or set fires. The next cruise we're looking at doesn't include Sitka as a port so I don't think we'll be able to help you. Could you remind me of why you want Sitka destroyed or should I search the forum?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 02 Jun 2013, 14:27
I lived there.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: CardinalFang on 02 Jun 2013, 14:31
I lived there.
Fair enough.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 02 Jun 2013, 14:44
I will hand it to you, the place is absolutely picturesque. Fortress of the Bear is a cool place, I guess it used to be a Navy armory and now they do rehabilitation for injured wild bears, orphaned cubs, etc. There's plenty of cool shit to do there as a tourist. You see the Russian Orthodox cathedral?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 02 Jun 2013, 15:26
I've spent the past four days looking at an ever gloomier news feed on facebook that is detailing the atrocities happening in Turkey at the moment. I've been trying to reach all of my friends and family that I know to be living in Turkey right now to know how they are doing. My family says they are fine. Of the friends I've been able to reach, I've asked to update me if they were planning to take part in the protests. Of the two who did, only one wrote back that she is safe. I've been unable to reach the other.

My friends are berating me for keeping quiet about the protests and to raise awareness through channels like Twitter and Facebook. While initially actively reposting relevant and graphic posts that I could find, I have since deleted those posts, because my mother is afraid that I might get prosecuted (which has happened in Turkish history not forty years ago, with people tortured and murdered because they were opposing the military junta at the time). So I'm being forced into doing nothing by my mother, and being berated by my friends for doing nothing.

On top of that, my forehead decided that now is the best time to flare up my chronic sinusitis, which makes my head feel like a melon about to burst. I've been trying to be distracted by going out with friends and going to the cinema. Tonight, I have run out of painkillers. My eyes feel like they might pop out of their sockets any minute.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 02 Jun 2013, 16:00
*tilts head* How can they persecute you while you are here?

I mean, I get that they could persecute your family, so yeah, maybe you shouldn't do that.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 02 Jun 2013, 16:08
they can persecute me as soon as I go back, and since it is my home I do want to visit Turkey every once in a while.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 02 Jun 2013, 16:31
damn dude. looks like you're caught between a rock and a hard place. it looks to me like the overwhelming majority of people within and without Turkey are siding with the protesters though, so at least that's on your side.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: CardinalFang on 02 Jun 2013, 16:37
I will hand it to you, the place is absolutely picturesque. Fortress of the Bear is a cool place, I guess it used to be a Navy armory and now they do rehabilitation for injured wild bears, orphaned cubs, etc. There's plenty of cool shit to do there as a tourist. You see the Russian Orthodox cathedral?

We did not visit the Russian Orthodox cathedral. By the time we got back from the Fortress of the Bear it was getting close to All Aboard* so we just did some shopping and headed back.

Damn, Masterpiece that is tough. I'm not sure what I'd do in your shoes. Okay, I'm pretty certain I'd listen to my mother.


*Close in this case meant a couple of hours. I am a tad anxious about being late under normal conditions, the idea of actually missing the ship kinda magnified that. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 02 Jun 2013, 19:26
I agree, in some ways.  If I were you, and in country, I'm sure I'd want to join in protesting (whether I would actually do so is another matter).  Being out of the country, though, the best thing you can do is raise awareness and support your friends.  But if raising awareness publicly will get you into trouble (even with family), it's not worth it - do it privately, as you are with us. 

And can you make contact with any family members of your absent friend?  With luck, they're safe and just unable to communicate for some reason. 


Good luck, stay strong, and for god's sake, get some antibiotics for the sinuses.  Pain emphasizes panic and depression, and that's the last thing you need right now. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 02 Jun 2013, 19:31
This is the first time I'm seriously considering going to the doctors for sinusitis, and I never go to the doctors, ever.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 02 Jun 2013, 19:35
...and I never go to the doctors, ever.

There are times when that's the wrong decision.  Remember, those sinuses are right next to your brain, and a rampant infection can eat through bone. 


Be a shame to lose you out of sheer stubbornness! 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 03 Jun 2013, 05:45
Be a shame to lose you out of sheer stubbornness!

+1

I have always had a fear of medical professionals, but I have had to get over it due to many hospital visits. And I am so glad I got used to them. Now to just go see a doc about the weird sounds my knees make...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 03 Jun 2013, 05:51
I made a film. (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-eWg_4YwXI)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 03 Jun 2013, 12:22
So I went to the doctors and she gave me a painkiller, and at first I didn't think it was working

but oh my that thing is WORKING all right!! My head is clearer than it had been on Friday. I still feel the pressure on my temples, but the pain is gone! Yay!

(on a completely unrelated note, does anybody have experience with Metamizol-Sodium? I'm a hypochondriac and I don't want to google it)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 03 Jun 2013, 16:17
You could read the instructions that came with the medication, you know  :roll:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 03 Jun 2013, 16:21
"Caution: may cause death."


That was on one of my daughter's medications when she first fell ill.  I swear, they'll try anything once...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 03 Jun 2013, 16:23
What'd'cha do in such a case?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 03 Jun 2013, 16:28
The anti-vomitting pills I took when I got a virus a couple weeks ago had the common side effect of nausea, which it gave me almost every time I took it. I constantly felt like I was about to retch but couldn't, which made me want to retch more.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 03 Jun 2013, 16:30
"Caution: may cause death."

That was on one of my daughter's medications when she first fell ill.  I swear, they'll try anything once...
What'd'cha do in such a case?

You mean, if she dies? 

She didn't... and it didn't help, so we took her off it. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 03 Jun 2013, 16:32
You mean, if she dies? 

I actually meant "when your daughter is prescribed a drug which might kill her". I may be slightly drunk, but I am not that insensitive. Insensible? Ya know what I mean.

I'd imagine it to be quite a tough decision.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 03 Jun 2013, 16:34
I got a new job! I'm gonna be a sign shaker for the pizza place that 3 of my good buddies also work at. I'm so fucking stoked, I get to see them at work now. It's only 2 hours a day, but it's 5 days a week and I get free food and a paycheck. Plus, I get to listen to whatever I want.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 03 Jun 2013, 16:36
You mean, if she dies? 

I actually meant "when your daughter is prescribed a drug which might kill her". I may be slightly drunk, but I am not that insensitive. Insensible? Ya know what I mean.

I'd imagine it to be quite a tough decision.

You watch the dosage very, very carefully. 


And ask if there are alternatives. 




Then get second opinions. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 03 Jun 2013, 16:39
Patrick, congrats!
Carl: that makes sense.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 03 Jun 2013, 18:28
The anti-vomitting pills I took when I got a virus a couple weeks ago had the common side effect of nausea, which it gave me almost every time I took it. I constantly felt like I was about to retch but couldn't, which made me want to retch more.

I had this same issue. So awful. Taking them with food was supposed to help, but when I really needed these, I was completely unable to eat. So.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 03 Jun 2013, 21:54
Well shit. I am kinda stressing out a little bit. While I was in Japan I got a call back from a company who I really want to work for. Well I called them back a few times a day and couldn't get ahold of them, I left a message, and now I'm just kinda nervous and worrying about how often I can try to get in touch with them without making an ass out of myself
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: lepetitfromage on 04 Jun 2013, 06:28
I usually try to abide by the once a day thing. Any less and I feel like I'm not trying hard enough but any more and I start to feel like they can see how nuts I am.  :-P
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: snalin on 04 Jun 2013, 06:31
Exam tomorrow! When that's done, I've got my BA. Woo?

Thing is, I've never been less prepared for an exam. Motivation is close to zero. Like the rabbit that stops to sleep just before the finish line or something. The inner workings of the internet is so boring.

Guess I'll get back too trying to care enough to mac addresses and ARP queries and DHCP blæhrg.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 04 Jun 2013, 06:47
So the professor I am filming for work just went "what the fuck?". Thanks, now I have to bleep that part out.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 04 Jun 2013, 07:24
Exam tomorrow! When that's done, I've got my BA. Woo?

[...]
Guess I'll get back too trying to care enough to mac addresses and ARP queries and DHCP blæhrg.

How is that a Bachelor of Arts?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Jun 2013, 08:28
The inner workings of the internet is so boring.

(Paul looks at his three volumes of TCP/IP Illustrated by W Richard Stevens on the shelf next to his desk; wonders a bit; goes and reads an RFC or two to cheer himself up.)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 04 Jun 2013, 11:48
Paul, I have just the thing for you:

https://github.com/joho/7XX-rfc

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 04 Jun 2013, 11:57
So the professor I am filming for work just went "what the fuck?". Thanks, now I have to bleep that part out.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: snalin on 04 Jun 2013, 13:51
Exam tomorrow! When that's done, I've got my BA. Woo?

[...]
Guess I'll get back too trying to care enough to mac addresses and ARP queries and DHCP blæhrg.

How is that a Bachelor of Arts?

Somehow I got it into my head that BA was used as a shorthand for "bachelor". Oh well.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 04 Jun 2013, 14:11
Exciting things! Cannot explain yet for reasons! Super happy!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 04 Jun 2013, 14:27

So the professor I am filming for work just went "what the fuck?". Thanks, now I have to bleep that part out.
...so you decided to show it to the Internet :D What is the lecture about? Something about bitcodes, I gather?

Somehow I got it into my head that BA was used as a shorthand for "bachelor". Oh well.

Hey, maybe, I don't know. Maybe your country does use it like this.

Exciting things! Cannot explain yet for reasons! Super happy!
Yay!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 04 Jun 2013, 14:29
It was about Turing Machines. And I'm just showing it to you, it's a hidden link.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Jun 2013, 16:21
How is that a Bachelor of Arts?

Some unis do that, or did.  My degree is a BA in Engineering Science (Oxon); but the same department's first degree is now (forty years on) called MEng, and includes a whole year's project which I didn't have.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 04 Jun 2013, 16:25
Paul looks at his three volumes of TCP/IP Illustrated by W Richard Stevens on the shelf next to his desk
I have those on my shelves too! And now I must do some actual work, maintaining all that boring plumbing.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 04 Jun 2013, 16:31
Exam tomorrow! When that's done, I've got my BA. Woo?

[...]
Guess I'll get back too trying to care enough to mac addresses and ARP queries and DHCP blæhrg.

How is that a Bachelor of Arts?

Somehow I got it into my head that BA was used as a shorthand for "bachelor". Oh well.

What you'll be getting is BS
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 04 Jun 2013, 16:54
My three are

B.S.
M.S.
Ph.D.

-------------------

Bull Shit,
More Shit,
Piled high and Deep. 


 :roll:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 04 Jun 2013, 18:05
Isn't there more to that verse?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 05 Jun 2013, 00:57
I think it's part of the cheer that goes to the "tune" of "give 'em the axe";

e to the x, dy, dx,
e to the x, dx.
Cosine, secant, tangent, sine,
3.14159,

then there's a line (or two?) I forget, then you get the B.S., M.S., Ph. D. part. 


My mind, it's not what it was.  And yet, I just tutored a kid in the differential equation technique of variation of parameters without having seen it in over 15 years... some things stick better than others. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 05 Jun 2013, 01:19
Jace: nah. Where I am, it gets shortened to B.Sc. :p
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: snalin on 05 Jun 2013, 02:06
And I passed that exam like a boss.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jimor on 05 Jun 2013, 09:11
Woot, congrats!

And I seem to remember that there were both  a B.A. and B.S. option for Physics at the university I went to, with a difference of just a couple classes and maybe a few overall units as well. But considering I only made it 2/3 of the way through, the point was moot for me.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: lepetitfromage on 05 Jun 2013, 09:34
Hello Blog Thread!

Lots of fun, random things happening lately. And some not so fun.

Not fun:
Got my credit card info stolen by some douche on the Wal-Mart website. Bought almost $300 in stuff, overdrew my account, pulled from saving/overdraft protection and got me $20 in fees. Good news is that it's almost resolved. Filed a dispute, got my money back, gotta fill out a crapload of paperwork and switch over all my cards but then it's behind me.

Fun:
Booked honeymoon for a REALLY awesome price- around $1,800 for 6 nights in Jamaica at a resort that has seriously kick-ass reviews (including round trip airfare). All-inclusive except excursions. Leaving in 2 weeks. Woooot!

Challenging but Fun:
I've never been outside the states and I'm completely clueless about international travel. TIME TO LEARN STUFF.

More Fun:
Found out that there is an opening for a full time art teacher at the high school I student taught at!!! I did my internship there and the cooperating teacher requested me back for student teaching placement.  MORE WOOT.

Not Fun:
I am a flake and lost the letter of recommendation that she wrote me. She emailed it and my old college switched servers and purged the old one so everything is gone :-(

Fun:
I spoke to her and she said she will look for it and also put a good word in for me with the principal. And I'm name dropping in my cover letter and using her as a reference. So, all hope is not lost.

Also Fun:
At the wedding, everyone told me over and over again that I should start my own business selling my creations. Now that the wedding is over, I've realized that I have no excuse for not making art. I always said I didn't have enough time to do it but if I had time to pull everything together for the wedding, why not now? I've decided to open an Etsy shop with my best friend (who helped me make all my flowers). I am PUMPED for this. Doing fun things and making money at the same time? Hell yes.

Even More Fun:
It is now the beginning of yard sale season here in the beautiful Hudson Valley. Since I have plans to open up a shop, this means I can actually enjoy yard sale-ing and searching for fun treasures to paint/etch/decoupage/deconstruct/reconstruct/etc. Hellooooooo summer of creativity :-)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Alex C on 06 Jun 2013, 22:33
I gotta say, nothing really says creepy sex furnace quite like a sticky about toning down the flirting.

Well, I mean other than when this sub-board was named sex furnace.  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 06 Jun 2013, 23:55
That was a response to a very localised outburst, and was entirely effective.  It may end up in the rules area, though.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 07 Jun 2013, 00:14
a very localised outburst,

I've had those before...   :-D
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 07 Jun 2013, 08:42
I might have found a new place to live, so I won't be homeless when the dorm kicks me out! Yay!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 07 Jun 2013, 09:52
Yay!

Be sure to sign the contract before celebrating, though.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 07 Jun 2013, 09:55
The emphasis is on the word 'might'. I haven't seen the room yet, but my potential roomie is already convinced that I'd make a good roommate. I met him yesterday, and apparently drunk Noyan made a good impression.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 07 Jun 2013, 10:07
Tipsy Noyan is a fun guy to chat with. I'd assume that Drunk Noyan would be about the same.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 07 Jun 2013, 10:08
I've GOTTA meet Drunk Noyan.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 07 Jun 2013, 10:16
Hangover Noyan is the worst, but he's also the most horny.

edit: the but should have been an and.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Alex C on 07 Jun 2013, 10:49
That was a response to a very localised outburst, and was entirely effective.  It may end up in the rules area, though.

I don't mean to judge or anything, although I guess it comes across that way in retrospect. I just hardly even lurk here anymore, so I was free to imagine the scenario as being way ridiculous. It legitimately made me laugh is all and not much does that. Stay classy, internet.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 07 Jun 2013, 11:16
Its like, maybe 5-7 people that do it and they toned it down but I mostly ignore the string of posts that they'll do. It kind of gives a bit of insight into how it must feel to read PJ without knowing everyone.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 07 Jun 2013, 11:20
I'm sorry for being a big flirt &gt;.&lt; I have tried to tone it down, but sometimes it's relevant to the discussion!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 07 Jun 2013, 11:21
Occasionally.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 07 Jun 2013, 11:21
Okay, rarely.

Shut up.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 07 Jun 2013, 12:37
Yes m'm.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Jun 2013, 12:53
i endeavor to do today what i did yesterday: to lay around the porch dressed in only a flowy skirt and several scarves drinking jasmine tea and reading Order of the Phoenix again
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 07 Jun 2013, 12:53
Order of the Phoenix is the only Harry Potter book that I've been able to read in one day.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 07 Jun 2013, 12:59
I think I needed two, but to be fair, I got it on release day at midnight, came home, read it for a few hours till morning, then fell asleep.

Unicorn: what's a flowy skirt? Also, there is no mention of a top anywhere...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Jun 2013, 13:03
oh i am also smoking out f a bubbler and i also have a bubble jar so sometimes i blow bubbles after i smoke and male a bunch of bubbles filled with smoke that pop in a little puff  of smoke and it's the most magical goddamn bullshit in the entire damn world

also i read deathly gallows in just under twelve hours when i got it.

new reply! a flowy skirt is a skirt that is long and flows and is excellent for walking down stairs and standing in winds.

also no top. a skirt, a shawl, and a scarf.

you're not a lion, i am not a witch, and this is not a wardrobe.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 07 Jun 2013, 13:14
How I imagine Unicorn right now:

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Alex C on 07 Jun 2013, 13:37
Its like, maybe 5-7 people that do it and they toned it down but I mostly ignore the string of posts that they'll do. It kind of gives a bit of insight into how it must feel to read PJ without knowing everyone.

That's why it felt necessary to give a shout out to the ol' self-aware makeout zone. This is very much an "Ambassador, our people tell the same story" moment for me.

Although, actually, i'm pretty sure the only thing I've ever hit on here or on PJ was an empanada. I didn't really start posting until all the goofiness had already started to become a running joke.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 07 Jun 2013, 14:57
Alex, Rai and Jiri at Lungha. Rai of Lowani. Lowani under two moons. Jiri of Ubaya. Ubaya of crossroads, at Lungha. Lungha, her sky gray.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 07 Jun 2013, 15:07
Yeah if you wanna say it the long way around
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 07 Jun 2013, 15:07
That's why it felt necessary to give a shout out to the ol' self-aware makeout zone.

As you can see, general chatter has now (just recently) been divided up so that there is a separate forum for threads about relationships, lifestyle and problems - that forum still has "awkward self-aware talky zone" in its description as a nod to the past.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Jun 2013, 15:35
or i can get thrown out and told that it's a learning experience instead that works too
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 07 Jun 2013, 15:45
I think right now you need hugs more than advice - will you accept a (notional) hug?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Jun 2013, 15:51
no.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Jun 2013, 15:54
i just feel blindsided and angry and hurt because i've never had a nice place to live before and now i won't. i am being told that in <30 days i am going to be homeless unless i do something, but i don't know what to do.


and i am angry that literally the only stable living situation i have ever had is being taken away from me and my focus instead ofnpersonal growth and connecting with myself so as to connect with others now has to take a backseat to mere/sheer goddamn fucking SURVIVAL.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 07 Jun 2013, 16:15
Oh fuck! What happened?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Jun 2013, 16:32
my roommate has been acting really unstable towered me and blowin up on me over stupid things (i.e. i don't trust men makes me sexist) and she's been talking to the landlord and she gave me vague bullshit like she did before but apparently my friend agrees but is torn up about throwing me out.

i feel okay, just numb and sad but if i think about the details i get angry over all the bullshit.

i want to stay here, but i don't know if it'll happen now. likely not.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 07 Jun 2013, 21:01
Can't you just... not interact with each other on that level? Like live together and all that but no discussions on topics they're going to be stupid about.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 08 Jun 2013, 00:37
Power went out about 90 minutes before my shift so I show up at 3am to a completely dark parking ramp. Both the other guard (a 120ish lb young woman) and I decided the best course of action was to nope the fuck right out down the block and hang out in car until the sun came up. Well, she went home, but she had previously noped the fuck right out of a dark office
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 08 Jun 2013, 08:01
to nope the fuck right out

I must find opportunities to integrate this phrase into my everyday vocabulary.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 08 Jun 2013, 13:18
we played a house show last night. we were surprised how many people even showed, but I guess the hosts are no strangers to throwing 'em. it was a shitload of fun, we played our most energetic and our tightest set yet. it was hotter than everloving fuck in that backyard barn (no AC, and it hit the 90s [fahrenheit] yesterday) so by the end of it I was completely soaked through. haven't been in pants that wet since the last time I went swimming in my clothes.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 08 Jun 2013, 13:19
also, because I love you guys, here's something that will fix any bad day you ever have. wait for the ending.

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Radical AC on 08 Jun 2013, 16:38
I got to Arizona 3 days ago.  My initial impression is that Tempe is kind of a dump even though everything (except gas) costs more.  I looked into public transportation and unless I enroll as a student somewhere it is more expensive than gassing and maintaining my SUV.  I am used to Boise transport being bad, but nearly free.  My apartment isn't bad.  It is old and kind of nickel and dimes you for services, but it is still pretty cheap and close to work.  I won't have real internet until the 17th, and have been going to the apartment offices or across the street to McDonalds for wifi.  It is a pretty big change and I had a minor panic attack when I got here, not knowing the area, being low on cash and gas, and having absolutely no support system.  I really should have figured out a way to move with my girlfriend because doing everything by yourself a thousand miles away from anything or anyone familiar is damn hard.  I am going to spend all my extra time studying for grad school and maybe find some places to volunteer.  I need to get a lot of stuff.  I have been sleeping on the floor the whole time.  The 112 degree weather probably bothers me the least out of all the changes.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: celticgeek on 08 Jun 2013, 16:43
Welcome to Arizona! 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Radical AC on 10 Jun 2013, 17:53
Thanks!  I feel a little better about the area being here for a few days.  Still need to get a bed, but I have just about everything else.  Just got done with my first day of work and I like the people and the environment.  It isn't my dream job or location, but I have time to work on that.  For now I am going to make the best go of it I can, and save as much money as I can.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 11 Jun 2013, 10:48
I was out with my buds last night and Matt's lady and I were giving each other a hard time about something, and our buddy Daniel pipes up and goes "And this is why you're single, Pat" and Matt's like "Nah, it ain't that, it's 'cause Pat has hella issues"

I know he was kidding and I laughed it off but after thinking on it for a bit, it's fairly true. maybe I oughta see a therapist.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 11 Jun 2013, 22:06
I need an internship by Friday to get summer credit, and I don't have one still.  I can do one in the fall, I have room in my schedual, but it is depressing me that I couldn't find one for summer, and a looming anvil of self doubt and hatered when all my peers have great internships and I am at home playign tetris.  ARRRGGGHHHHHH   I still have a few applications out, but I am nto feeling great, we will see.

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Jun 2013, 13:32
i've decided to forget about housing from now on and focus on a vehicle instead

i get trapped in houses and never get anything done; i'm tired of housemate drama, i'm tired of getting trapped, i'm tired of worrying about rent, i'm tired of worrying about my home

if i'm homeless for a couple months, w/e, i can handle it - save up and get a station wagon (cars are too small to sleep comfortably in; a van would be ideal, but far too expensive and conspicuous for what i need right now). work on seeing shows and connecting w/other musicians, network, like. play more shows, get recordings.

summer plans.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 12 Jun 2013, 13:37
Got a call about an internship!!!  Missed the call though so I will call back tomorrow morning.  I know the company culture at this place is 'hip', so I think my hair should be ok.  I also know a guy currently interning there.  Even if I can't get academic credit (which I will bitch about if it is the case) this would be such good experience for me for what I want to do. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Pilchard123 on 12 Jun 2013, 14:01
Yay! What is it that you want to do?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 12 Jun 2013, 17:13
Go go go hip internship!!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 12 Jun 2013, 19:03
i've decided to forget about housing from now on and focus on a vehicle instead

i get trapped in houses and never get anything done; i'm tired of housemate drama, i'm tired of getting trapped, i'm tired of worrying about rent, i'm tired of worrying about my home

if i'm homeless for a couple months, w/e, i can handle it - save up and get a station wagon (cars are too small to sleep comfortably in; a van would be ideal, but far too expensive and conspicuous for what i need right now). work on seeing shows and connecting w/other musicians, network, like. play more shows, get recordings.

summer plans.

Not commenting on the actual plan, since I don't know a lot about America in this regard. Just saying you remind me of someone whose life got a great turn for the better as the result of them getting a car. That's all :)

As always, good luck for everyone who need it. Which is probably everybody. So good luck everybody :)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jace on 12 Jun 2013, 23:07
Yo so I got cup checked today straight on, sword coming in perfectly parallel to my junk. Game over. No points. Glad I was wearing a cup though. Also these:
shoulder:
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-b-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/994798_10151785552152317_91444405_n.jpg)
hand:
(https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/1016070_10151785552042317_721941255_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 13 Jun 2013, 06:33
Yay! What is it that you want to do?

It changes, but in general I want to work with the people who use technology.   

Right now I want to do this by working for companies that produce enterprise management software on development and testing.  So software for content management, records management, customer relationship management, basically any software which a company will force its employees to use, I want to work on the initial research into what users need (as opposed to the companies's management) and then the testing of the software to make sure it works well and makes people's lives easier, or at the very least, not harder. 

This internship would likely be doing usability testing for software. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 13 Jun 2013, 06:48
That sounds awesome, have fun!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 13 Jun 2013, 17:17
15,700 acres consumed, 360 homes destroyed, two people dead. 5% containment. Day three of the most destructive wild fire in state history. I was getting really upset when I was going out to help on one of the ranches to assist with rescued horses and I spent a good part of my day tossing hay bales around and sneezing. I found my hope there. From the minute I got there till well after I left people were coming by with coffee, donations of hay, and other horse/live stock materials (to the tune of four or five tons over the last two days since the fire started) and this is happening all over the city. I've been a lot of places for disasters but no city pulls together like Colorado Springs. The only places that really do it like we do are small towns. It's a refreshing attitude.

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-h-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/1013702_474824845918908_2114607218_n.jpg)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 13 Jun 2013, 23:58
(click to show/hide)

So I'm going to update myself with a much longer blog type post.



As some of you might know the state of Colorado is currently suffering from two major wild fires. The Black Forest fire has burned 15,700 acres, destroyed over three hundred homes and killed two people making it the most destructive wild fire in Colorado's history and the second major wild fire inflicted on my home town of Colorado Springs in two years. Thousands have been displaced, and more heart breaking, the Black Forest area is horse country, hundreds of horses and other livestock have been rounded up along with more common family pets like dogs and cats. I almost bought a horse last year from a ranch out in Elbert country, a little mustang mare named Buttercup, I decided I couldn't give her the attention she deserved, and didn't have the financial ability to take on the burden of a pet with minimum $6000/yr in expenses... but the boarding ranch I'd selected was right in the heart of the mandatory evacuation zone. The thought is like icy claws around your heart... I've always had a close relationship with animals, particularly horses and dogs and picking out a boarding house for what was to potentially by my horse made it easy to emphasize with the people around me who's animals were missing. Helping spread lost horse and pet notices didn't help either. It's hard to communicate emotion and tone through text, but some of these notices, begging for help to find a treasured companion... you could hear the tears.

So I decided to something with what I had and went and worked for a few hours on one of the ranches that were taking in refugee horses... while I was there, from the moment I showed up to the moment I left donations never stopped, from small things like coffee and doughnuts for the volunteers and staff, to hay and feed for the animals. It was the last that was most common, from an entire semi trailer load, to a hundred bales here and there, to a little boy who came with three twenty pound bales in the back of his dad's truck. His father said the donation was the boy's, as were the bales, he'd purchased them with money he'd made from a lemonade stand. Through it all it was a city coming together in the face of disaster again. A city of 500,000 people that still acts like a small town, one of the best parts about living in Colorado Springs. All across the county people are working and coordinating together to ensure all are fed and sheltered, that no lost animal goes unfound or uncared for... a far more cynical me once spat on the idea of miracles, I can tell you now with a few more years on me that I am wrong. Miracles happen. Not from the will of the Divine, or fate or fortune. We are the miracle, a miracle waiting to happen for ourselves or for someone else every single day. The choice is yours to make. The magic in this world is contained in every single human heart in we do so little as love and do what little we can for others. Alone against all the darkness in the world a single light can do nothing, but together, hundreds of thousands of millions, of billions of lights... the light of a species coming together can illuminate the darkness in such a way as to outshine the sun. Together there is nothing we cannot do. No matter how small the kindness... an encouraging word, a helping hand, can change the world for another person. If that's not the magic of friendship and love at work in the world, I don't know what is.

It's all down to you though. A question you have to ask yourself. How can you make the world just a little bit better today?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 14 Jun 2013, 14:58
Well, you made mine better today.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 14 Jun 2013, 18:11
Today I had a short phone interview for the internship, which I think went well.  I will hear back by Tuesday.   I also had a meeting with career services at my university which I left feeling great.

First, she told me that the deadline for the internship is flexible, so I have some time to get one still. This is great because the original deadline is tomorrow.  She also went over my resume and gave me a lot of great advice for tailoring it for the types of positions I want now.  Additionally, she gave me some good ideas for networking which sound reasonable for me.  Also, and this is the best news that just made me want to dance, she told me that my hair should not be a problem for me.  It has been an issue on my mind for some time now because I really don't want to change it.  She said that several people have been hired from the program with non-traditional hair colors, and that using the color on my resume and cards was a good idea to build a 'personal brand'.  This has been my plan all along, but I never got any advice that it was a good plan other than from people who were apt to lie to me to make me feel better. 

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: jwhouk on 14 Jun 2013, 18:26
I did my part yesterday.

And today. (I have the blood on my shirt to prove it.)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 15 Jun 2013, 00:57
[internship stuff]
Yay!

Also, pretty hair color.

I did my part yesterday.

And today. (I have the blood on my shirt to prove it.)
?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: jwhouk on 15 Jun 2013, 02:33
Well, Thursday I got adopted by a cat. :)

And Friday afternoon I took said cat into her new vet because she had apparently made one of her sutures start bleeding.

On a side note: anyone know how to get kitty blood out of carpeting?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 15 Jun 2013, 03:18
A substance called "Nature's Miracle" will get just about ANYTHING out of carpeting.
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Post by: Radical AC on 15 Jun 2013, 13:11
The Colorado fires are crazy.  There was a fire near Boise last year that filled the entire valley with smoke for most of the summer.  I woke up every day with a headache.  It was started by a firefighter of all people, who wanted to get attention from his dad.  Now, getting started working in insurance I pay attention to this sort of thing a little more closely.  I work in auto claims, but want to get into catastrophic field work soon (of course cars burn too, but people tend to take those).  A whole lot of my friends worked fire lines in the forests in Idaho and Oregon during college.  One became a smoke jumper for a while, it is the only natural disaster you really need to worry about in the west, unless there is a freak hail storm or you live on a flood plain.

I am not too sure how to go about making new friends here.  All the people I work with seem to have kids, or nothing else in common with me.  I know I am not the only 26 year old to be in a mosh pit last week (saw The Thermals for the third time this summer), but I get alien looks from coworkers when I bring it up.  I have discovered that "adults" really do talk about the weather a lot.  I have been asked how I am liking the heat here in Phoenix probably 50 times (I do not have strong feelings about it one way or the other) and zero questions of substance.  People marvel when I tell them I walk to work since I live a mile away (I am broke guys, moving is expensive and it takes just as long to drive).  Maybe it will be easier when I start saving up some money and can hang out downtown?  I always used to joke about the stereotypical pac northwest hipster, but they don't have them here and it turns out they were all my friends.

Hopefully I get my own internet on Monday.  I have a dumb phone and a six year old laptop that needs to be plugged in wherever I go, so now I am in my apartment office.  It has given me time to read and study for law/grad school, though.  Kind of nice.  I always thought life would be easier if I got a degree and a job, maybe it used to be, but I am struggling with the realization I may have been happier with a crappy minimum wage job living a carefree lifestyle with my friends.  The job itself is cool, though!  People find the most creative ways to bust their cars.  ADVICE: Avoid wal-mart parking lots.  Grocery stores don't tend to be too bad, but wally world is the place you will get your vehicle ruined.  If I get industry certifications the company pays for it and gives me a bonus when I complete it.  If I get this CPCU designation (it is like a CPA for insurance people apparently) I get a $400 bonus, and around the time I complete it I get a trip to Hawaii for me and another person for the industry conference.  Also, on my third day here I got a $2000 pay increase!

tl;dr: fire bad, moving hard, job good.
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Post by: cesium133 on 15 Jun 2013, 13:15
  ADVICE: Avoid wal-mart parking lots.  Grocery stores don't tend to be too bad, but wally world is the place you will get your vehicle ruined.
Oh God Yes. This is part of why I never go to Walmart anymore. I once got my taillight crushed when I made the mistake of going to Walmart in the month of December.

The other part of why I never go to Walmart is a different story entirely.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Welu on 15 Jun 2013, 15:31
I went to the city last night to hang out with my brothers and saw a screening of The Room. There were games where you chanted any time the Golden Gate Bridge was on screen and threw spoons at certain scenes. So much fun!
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Jun 2013, 23:28
A Girl I Really Like returned from a trip to her old town on Wednesday, and she and I spent the rest of the day hanging out. I won't bore anyone with details about how our friendship has progressed to this, but it's a really awesome feeling when you and a close friend seem to be falling for each other. We're on a good wavelength, it seems, and our moods balance each other out.

I've managed to talk her into watching Firefly with me, and yes, I do plan on actually watching.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 16 Jun 2013, 00:15
a friend of mine just randomly loaned me $1,000 so i can buy a van to live in.

wow.
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Post by: Loki on 16 Jun 2013, 01:09
Wow indeed.

I won't bore anyone with details about how our friendship has progressed to this

Oh come on  :x
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Post by: nekowafer on 16 Jun 2013, 08:06
Unicorn, that's awesome!

And Patrick, I am in a similar situation. I met the guy I like in high school, over 10 years ago. We are just now getting close, very close. And it's awesome, because I already know him. Instead of a new guy that I have to figure out.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 16 Jun 2013, 08:13
a friend of mine just randomly loaned me $1,000 so i can buy a van to live in.

wow.

That's a lot of money. Wow.
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Post by: Lines on 17 Jun 2013, 06:10
I am loving San Diego, especially Coronado, which is where we're staying. (More on that later.) What I am not loving is the jet lag and waking up before the sun, haha.

Especially when I'm getting work emails about things no one bothered to talk to me about before I left. Not checking those emails anymore! (They go to my phone, I am not actively seeking them out.)
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Post by: Patrick on 17 Jun 2013, 08:10
I won't bore anyone with details about how our friendship has progressed to this

Oh come on  :x

Don't gimme that face, the story ain't that great anyway. This is pretty much all of it. I met her through a mutual friend of ours, and she annoyed me at first, and then I warmed to her a little bit, and now I've warmed to her a lot. She was really in-your-face friendly right from the start, which kinda bugged me because I am kinda like a cat. Let me come to you and sniff you out a bit and don't pet me til I say so, you know? She won me over anyway.
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Post by: nekowafer on 17 Jun 2013, 08:37
I am kinda like a cat. Let me come to you and sniff you out a bit and don't pet me til I say so, you know?

I have a wonderfully adorable mental image of you skulking around like a shy cat and then sniffing her hand and rubbing your face on her
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Jun 2013, 14:58
eeeee my new Pmags got here today! Muwahahaha high quality 30 round goodness! Eat THAT Governor/Democrat controlled state senate! I have beaten your embargo on fun by a whole two weeks! Your pathetic ban is nothing!
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 17 Jun 2013, 14:58
Thunderstorm here. Flash!



BOOOOooooooooommmmrmmrmrmrmrmrmrmrmrmrmmm.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 17 Jun 2013, 15:23
I am kinda like a cat. Let me come to you and sniff you out a bit and don't pet me til I say so, you know?

I have a wonderfully adorable mental image of you skulking around like a shy cat and then sniffing her hand and rubbing your face on her

Aside from the sniffing this is actually not far from the truth
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Post by: nekowafer on 18 Jun 2013, 07:20
I imagine that you make derpy faces like my cats do when they're investigating someone as well. And it makes me want to hold you like a baby and rub your tummy.

Me, creepy? Nah.
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Post by: LTK on 18 Jun 2013, 08:32
Apparently, someone can just randomly lose their hearing for seemingly no reason, from one hour into the next, with no guarantee that it'll ever return.

That someone turns out to be me. I've become almost completely deaf in my right ear. Doctor says there's nothing they can do because it's in my inner ear, prescribes me some corticosteroids and says that maybe they will help.

Damn it.
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Post by: Loki on 18 Jun 2013, 10:32
Whattheouchfuck
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Post by: GarandMarine on 18 Jun 2013, 13:17
Shit that's not good at all! He had NO explanation at all as to what could have caused the hearing loss? What the mothering fuck?
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Post by: pwhodges on 18 Jun 2013, 14:29
That is so scary!  I cross my fingers for you that it is one of those weird things that just happens out of nowhere and then after a while goes away again; I'm afraid I can think of nothing else to do.

I don't know what tests your doctor has done; but this is a case where I'd expect to be looking into scans that can image localised brain activity, to see whether there is something going on in there, like a localised haemorrhage or thombosis, for instance (sorry if that's an even more scary idea).
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Post by: Welu on 18 Jun 2013, 14:39
Another repeat of AH so scary. I really hope things get fixed quickly for you.
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Jun 2013, 14:56
I don't know what tests your doctor has done; but this is a case where I'd expect to be looking into scans that can image localised brain activity, to see whether there is something going on in there, like a localised haemorrhage or thombosis, for instance (sorry if that's an even more scary idea).

This! Sudden changes in sensory capability are definitely something worth checking out to the fullest.
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Post by: LTK on 18 Jun 2013, 14:57
It's definitely an inner-ear problem because my vestibular system is also shot to hell. I'm constantly dizzy and every head movement feels amplified. Common causes seem to be bacterial and viral infections, but aside from a nose cold a couple of weeks ago I haven't had anything of the sort. The cold had symptoms unlike those I usually have, but otherwise it was unremarkable. Another possibility is a blocked blood vessel in the inner ear, which fits with the gradual hearing loss - I was still able to hear high-pitched sounds (swallows) about an hour after onset, but that quickly disappeared as well.

Some internet sources point out that clinical trials indicate the efficacy of corticosteroid therapy in these unexplained cases, and that if it ever gets better, it's in the first few weeks. After that, there are no documented recoveries. So I hope I'm one of the former cases.
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Post by: pwhodges on 18 Jun 2013, 15:42
I'm constantly dizzy and every head movement feels amplified.

My wife gets that when she has labyrinthitis (which has happened twice) - but that doesn't produce a hearing loss for her (more than usual - she's over 50% deaf anyway)

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Another possibility is a blocked blood vessel in the inner ear,

Have you been given anything to treat that possibility (aspirin and clopidogrel comes to mind)?

But in general it sounds as if your doctor is on the ball, at least.  Good luck!
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Post by: nekowafer on 18 Jun 2013, 18:32
Can you get a second opinion? I think this requires more than just "eh no clue, take some medicine"!
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Post by: LTK on 18 Jun 2013, 23:19
My wife gets that when she has labyrinthitis (which has happened twice) - but that doesn't produce a hearing loss for her (more than usual - she's over 50% deaf anyway)
It must be a case of: same symptoms, different cause.

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Have you been given anything to treat that possibility (aspirin and clopidogrel comes to mind)?
No, because that's just something I read on the internet (http://www.hearinglossweb.com/Medical/Causes/sens_neur/sud/swc.htm) and I haven't asked the doctor if that's actually the case.

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But in general it sounds as if your doctor is on the ball, at least.  Good luck!
Thanks.

Can you get a second opinion? I think this requires more than just "eh no clue, take some medicine"!
The GP, the ear doctor and the abovementioned internet doctor recommend taking corticosteroids, because that's the only thing that's been proven to work at all, apparently. I don't think there's any more to know.
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Post by: Loki on 20 Jun 2013, 07:37
Good news: My doorbell finally got fixed. This is VERY convenient, because I live in a dorm, the house door opens only from the inside or with a key, and I wasn't able to order pizza until now without worrying whether the pizza guy could get into the house and up to my room.

Good news: a technical magicamajig I had ordered arrived today.

Bad news: it doesn't work. I don't know whether I missed some steps setting it up or if it was broken from the get-go.

Good news: My best friend has the same thing, so I am gonna call him later today and ask if he can help.

Good news: the sweets my mother sent to me are awesome.

Bad news: I miss having sex.

Bad old news: I still have to tidy up my room.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 20 Jun 2013, 08:47
You know, most pizza delivery people have a cell phone. If you write "please call upon arrival" on your order it works. We did that whenever we ordered pizza to the school…

What is a "technical magicamajig"? Even google doesn't find anything.

Bad news: I miss having sex.
Good news: I don't.
Bad news: That's because you have to have had something to miss it.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 20 Jun 2013, 09:06
It'll happen, don't worry.
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Post by: nekowafer on 20 Jun 2013, 09:07
I hear that hands are an okay substitute for such things.
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Post by: Patrick on 20 Jun 2013, 10:44
Hell, if I were a chick I'd do ya.

Got into a huge argument with a friend over him fuckin' up hella bad and letting a buncha underage drinkers hang out at the bar without telling me or any of the bar staff that there were underage folks with fake IDs. I only found out literally the very second they all got into the taxi to go home. Upon informing him that it's not kosher to do that, first the dude mocked me, then proceeded to make up his own version of how it works when a bar gets caught with underage drinkers here in California. That's two things I can't abide, is blatant dickholery and ignorance, so I set that shit straight.

Well, dude wasn't happy with that so now we ain't friends because he can't handle being told he fucked up. Fuck that fuckin fuck, he's an annoying ass anyway.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 20 Jun 2013, 12:54
On a happier note: I finally got myself some decent speakers. Bought them used from a member of a different forum. 100€ including shipping from Italy. Took only two days to arrive here. A pair of ESI uniK 04 active monitoring speakers. Mixed reviews, and I can understand them, as they are not absolutely linear, so for monitoring purposes they probably aren't the best choice, but they totally kick ass for ordinary listening to music. Been testing them for several hours now, FLAC, some of the music being in 24bit/96kHz, Asus Xonar DX and the speakers are fucking awesome. And really small for that sound. Finally no need to wear frickin headphones when I want good sound quality anymore.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 20 Jun 2013, 13:06
On my first birthday in Munich my friends asked me what present I wanted. I didn't know, so I joked that I wanted loudspeakers.

they went and bought me Bose loudspeakers, which are awesome.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 20 Jun 2013, 13:09
The problem with Bose is that you pay quite a lot, only for the name. Sure, they sound fine, but you can get better for the price. If I had enough money to spend I would buy myself ELAC speakers. I visited their factory once. Most of the stuff is handmade, and the sound is phenomenal. Especially their JET tweeters are amazing. We were allowed to watch the production of those. The membrane is completely handfolded and sounds much better than most other tweeters which are produced in the same way. We weren't allowed to take photos or videos, as this is still one of their biggest advantages.
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Post by: Asterus on 21 Jun 2013, 08:00
So I had run into a little problem with my usual writing, so I tried something different. I started writing things down as they occurred to me, without any edits (Basically, I started transcribing trains of thought and some of the conversations I simulate when I'm bored) just to see what would come out. After about 5 pages of solid writing, I decided that was enough for half an hour's work. From this, I have learned that I can actually focus on something longer than 10 minutes, I am alarmingly good at projecting a second persona to converse with (Read: Talking to myself), and my stream of consciousness doesn't actually need too much editing in its raw form.

And that my thoughts are apparently a short-term diary -_-

It did magically smash my writer's block into rubble though, so that's a plus.
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Post by: Patrick on 21 Jun 2013, 10:57
[soundcloud]https://soundcloud.com/kimjongsick/helplessly-hoping[/soundcloud]

So I recorded a cover. It isn't my own music, so I didn't post to the "own music" thread. Hope y'all enjoy.
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Post by: celticgeek on 21 Jun 2013, 13:16
I enjoyed it. 
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Post by: Loki on 21 Jun 2013, 13:36
The GF of the guy I was hanging out with at the graduation party is adorable and they make such a cute couple together *jealous*
Today was a good day. I danced for the first time in ages again. Didnt realize how much I missed it. Free booze = awesomeliciousness.
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Post by: nekowafer on 22 Jun 2013, 08:41
I have to work today. Usually I have weekends off so this kinda sucks. I am also of the sit-at-my-desk variety, and today I'm doing manual labor. Whine.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 Jun 2013, 09:28
I've been writing a Minimax Algorithm and I'm failing at making it stop going deeper (inb4 Inception Joke). It's at depth 4094 and causing a stack overflow, which is frustrating considering it's supposed to be an algorithm calculating a Tic Tac Toe game.
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Post by: Loki on 22 Jun 2013, 09:35
I have only a faint idea what you are doing. Why would you need such a high recursion(?) depth for Tic Tac Toe?
Also I assume you are aware of the Tic Tac Toe solution chart at xkcd?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 Jun 2013, 10:01
I have only a faint idea what you are doing. Why would you need such a high recursion(?) depth for Tic Tac Toe?
I don't. I'm trying to figure out why my code is going that deep.

At least Reversi works:

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Post by: Carl-E on 22 Jun 2013, 21:34
So I recorded a cover. It isn't my own music, so I didn't post to the "own music" thread. Hope y'all enjoy.

I did!  Took me back to a time when my turntable was working... 

Were the vocals all you, or with bandmates? 
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Jun 2013, 01:09
Thanks! I would really like to find me some CSN on vinyl soon. New job is already making that look a whole lot easier, just got my first paycheck on Friday so hell yeah. Vocals are indeed all me, my hausmate is letting me borrow his 16-track recorder/controller/interface gadget again so I'm trying to get some practice in so I'm fresh for when Troubador records again (hint: perhaps soon!). Glad you and celticgeek dig :D
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Post by: Lines on 23 Jun 2013, 07:56
Going home today. I don't want to leave! San Diego has been such a good time. I really only miss my house, cats, and people, so I'm really tempted to pick them up and plop them down here in San Diego. Or just take the perpetual good weather and good food/drinks home.
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Post by: Akima on 23 Jun 2013, 15:22
At least Reversi works:
Pfft! If you want a real challenge (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Computer_Go)...
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Jun 2013, 17:07
At least Reversi works:
Pfft! If you want a real challenge (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Computer_Go)...
I have to admit that I wasn't that interested in writing the AI in the Reversi game. I worked more on the UI backend (We had multiple team members), creating a completely variable skinnable GUI for the game. In the finished code, the GUI knows how to draw itse lf, but has no idea what to draw and where to draw it. These values are read from configuration files in runtime, allowing multiple themes and hot-swapping. When we were graded, my teachers didn't understand the systems I wrote. I felt good about myself.
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Post by: snalin on 24 Jun 2013, 01:09
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Do you actually serialize, or is the serialVersionUID just there to make Eclipse stop complaining? Anyways, if it's "normal" Tic Tac Toe, with a 3x3 board, there should only be 9! ~ 362.000 possible games, which is definitely not overflow-worthy. Or is it a larger board?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 24 Jun 2013, 02:34
I've not serialized yet. I can see where it might make sense, because GUIs do change a lot, but I haven't done it so far.

And it's a standard 3x3 board, and I'm getting frustrated with the stack overflows. They're not supposed to happen.
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Post by: Patrick on 24 Jun 2013, 04:09
Yesterday and tonight I did some work on a cover of "I Didn't Understand" by Elliott Smith. it is nowhere near done, and I am very tempted to scrap the whole damn thing and start fresh because the noise from the onboard metronome leaked out from my headphones while I was tracking and ruined the purity of my take. This has been the single most frustrating thing I've ever done in my entire life. I just retired the recorder/controller/interface for the night and will begin again sometime tomorrow, probably completely from scratch.

So a few of you may know of my bandmate Matt. Well, his girlfriend Adara is from Vancouver, and when she first came here and met Matt, she was here visiting her sister in prison, eventually met Matt, and the rest is history. Well, her parents and her nephew (the imprisoned sister's son) came down to visit, and they were at Matt's house after band practice today. I got to meet them, and almost immediately they had me doing shots with them and Matt's parents.

The party wound down and so I treated Matt and Paul to a movie. We arrived intending to see World War Z, but it was sold out, so instead we saw This Is The End. It was... ehh. There were about 3 parts that I thought were hilarious and they were all in the first 20 minutes of the movie. 2 of them involved Michael Cera. I think the funniest part of the moviegoing experience was in fact during the previews where an advert involving Taylor Swift came on, and Paul quipped, "I cannot stand Taylor Swift but I would hate-fuck the shit out of her in a heartbeat" and a young couple nearby laughed and approached him for a high-five.
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Post by: snalin on 24 Jun 2013, 05:09
World War Z seems to be a prime example on everything that is wrong with how incredibly afraid Hollywood is of fresh IPs;
"We want to make a movie about zombies, we have all these original ideas!"
"Well, we don't think it will sell unless we give it the same title as a semi-known book"
"Does the movie script need to have anything to do with the book at all?"
"Nope!"
"Won't that maybe piss off the fans of the book?"
"I cannot hear you over the sound of not caring. Excuse me while I go sniff cocaine off of some hookers' asses"


Masterpiece; if you want some help, I can look at your code.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 24 Jun 2013, 06:25

And it's up and away in the morning!
For the tears that our mothers have cried!
But the sea she had called me,
and you may call me balmy,
but I went to her just like a bride!
And it's up and away in the morning!

So my little brother just sent me this song, which is more or less saying that his ship the George Washington will be leaving port within a day or so for his first time at sea. While I'm a Marine as opposed to a sailor, we're all part of the naval service, and I have to admit... where I'm sitting now to where he is now at the start of a grand adventure and a career he's already wrapped up in happily... I'm... jealous. The Marines was pretty much my life, it was really all I wanted to do, as I know I've mentioned else where, but two severe injuries one of mind, another of body, left me broken and.... hating. I'm not hating any more, which is refreshing. Hate can only really take you so far in the long or short term, but it stops you going cold at least. I'm still dealing with the fact that I am alive, I'm still broken beyond repair to the condition where I can do what I should be doing... but I'm on another path that will at least give me away to stay involved. While I envy my brother's path, I don't begrudge him this, and I'm proud of the man he's become from a goofy art school drop out. (He's still goofy, I don't think Marine Corps Drill Instructors could kick that out of him) and I'm interested to see how this turn at sail will change him, if he'll come back a sailor or a whelp ready to kiss the dirt out of relief. The sea was never my mistress, the clear skies are mine, but it's a similar relationship with a force of nature that'll kill you at random with not a second's warning. I'm permanently separated from my lover with my wings pulled like they'd been ripped physically off my body, but she never broke me, and I'll be cursed to long for that till death's kiss claims me.

Blegh this got weird and rambling.

Fair winds and following seas mate.

S/F
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Post by: Masterpiece on 24 Jun 2013, 07:17
Masterpiece; if you want some help, I can look at your code.

Thanks. How am I supposed to send you the code?
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Post by: LeeC on 24 Jun 2013, 10:02
I hear red pandas make awesome pets...

(http://s3-ec.buzzfed.com/static/enhanced/webdr05/2013/6/24/12/enhanced-buzz-1151-1372090060-10.jpg)

"The Smithsonian National Zoo in Washington, D.C. is looking for an 11-month-old red panda who vanished overnight. The red panda, named Rusty, arrived at the zoo last month from Lincoln, Neb., and made his D.C. debut in the Smithsonian’s Asia Trail habitat two weeks ago on June 10. "
source (http://www.buzzfeed.com/ellievhall/red-panda-missing-from-the-national-zoo)

wondering if the little guy escaped or someone got a new "kitty"
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Post by: Carl-E on 24 Jun 2013, 14:36
Sheriff's deputies showed up at the door this morning to serve us foreclosure papers.  The bank disconnected me when I tried calling.  We have 20 days to address the "issue". 

Thing is, I sent in a mortgage adjustment application a month ago, and was talking with someone at the bank about the details.  I've left her a voicemail.  It was supposed to put the foreclosure on hold. 

In the papers was a letter from the bank that we never received dated May 17, saying we had until June 19 to resolve the issue. 


Fuckers.  It's gonna be over 10 grand before it's all over with. 


Or we'll be out on the street with my daughter's medical equipment and hospital bed. 
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Post by: pwhodges on 24 Jun 2013, 14:45
I'm so sorry to hear that...  I can't think of anything to say except that I'm thinking of you.

But I do know something of how you must be feeling - it reminds me of the time (nearly 30 years ago) that the bank told me on the last working day before Christmas that no, I couldn't have any money to buy food for the children over the holiday.
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Post by: Akima on 24 Jun 2013, 15:45
I'm so sorry to hear that...  I can't think of anything to say except that I'm thinking of you.
Likewise... :(
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Post by: Patrick on 24 Jun 2013, 19:32
ITT I abuse the soundcloud embed button and spam you with sad songs

[soundcloud]https://soundcloud.com/kimjongsick/i-didnt-understand[/soundcloud]
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Jun 2013, 04:05
I met some guy at the bar tonight in the middle of him telling my buddy he was listening to Nick Drake and Elliott Smith on his headphones, and I tried to approach him about it because I love them both, and that dude was literally the single most awkward person I've ever met.

I feel so much better about my own social skills.
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Post by: Welu on 26 Jun 2013, 04:08
Failed my driving test. Booking the next one next week.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 26 Jun 2013, 11:15
Fingers crossed for you Welu, I was stressing out about a mandatory retest I had to take a month and a half ago so I know the stress. T_T
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Post by: Asterus on 27 Jun 2013, 12:14
I'm so glad I barely passed the first time. I still can't parallel park, and have depth perception issues, but I drive defensively enough that it was enough to pass.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Jun 2013, 12:22
You don't have to parallel park for the driving test here any more. I can't do it because you don't have to in the West.
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Post by: nekowafer on 27 Jun 2013, 12:26
Yeah I'm not looking forward to learning to parallel park. But it's something I definitely need to know, as I'd be parking that way in front of the place where I'm currently living.
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Post by: Papersatan on 27 Jun 2013, 13:24
Nothing more irritating than suburbanites in suvs who block traffic for 10 min while they try to get the good spot in front of the trendy bistro downtown because they don't want to walk 2 blocks from a garage. 

If you have committed to not learning to parallel park, than you have given up your right to ever try in a place with traffic.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 27 Jun 2013, 13:33
Parallel parking is a necessity in German drivers education. Is also one of the things you probably have to do during the 45 minutes practical driving test.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Jun 2013, 13:42
It really isn't nearly as hard as everyone makes out.  It takes a little practice, and is different depending on the wheelbase and length of your car, but with a few practice runs you can get it right every time. 

Just be sure to practice in he car you'll take the test with.  You can't learn the car's dimensions during the test! 
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Jun 2013, 14:28
Parallel parking is a necessity in German drivers education. Is also one of the things you probably have to do during the 45 minutes practical driving test.

Name me one thing that isn't.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 27 Jun 2013, 14:30
Well isn't that Rule 34 bait.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 27 Jun 2013, 14:33
Oh god…
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 27 Jun 2013, 14:41
See also Pat's sig.
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Post by: Welu on 27 Jun 2013, 14:47
Parallel parking is something you learn here but you only have to do two of four manoeuvres you learn on the test. One will always be the emergency stop and you'll likely get reversing around a corner or turning in the road (three point turn). There's also bay parking but that doesn't seem to come up. Since it's a pain in the arse to find cars to do the parking behind, my instructor says it almost never happens. It's also something I'd need to know how to do to park outside my house, if I ever get a car before I move.

I got a major fault, which is an instant fail, in the first five minutes of the test. :psyduck: Was gutted because I knew right then I'd failed but decided to finish it any way. Then because I was flustered, did two more major faults in the next minute. All mistakes I never do because nerves got to me.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 27 Jun 2013, 14:53
Parallel parking is something you learn here but you only have to do two of four manoeuvres you learn on the test. One will always be the emergency stop and you'll likely get reversing around a corner or turning in the road (three point turn). There's also bay parking but that doesn't seem to come up. Since it's a pain in the arse to find cars to do the parking behind, my instructor says it almost never happens. It's also something I'd need to know how to do to park outside my house, if I ever get a car before I move.

That is strikingly similar to Germany actually. According to my driving school the four basic maneuvers are reversing around a corner, turning, parallel parking and emergency stop. Of these four three will be asked. In most cases reversing around a corner is left out, so the other three are most likely. Also an emergency stop is necessary.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 27 Jun 2013, 15:19
Parallel parking is a necessity in German drivers education. Is also one of the things you probably have to do during the 45 minutes practical driving test.
Parallel parking is something my driving instructor taught very well. I actually managed to do it pretty well in the exam (German instructors give you five maneuvers, I managed to do it in three).
A year after I had my exam (I didn't drive after that), I tried parallel parking with my dad's huge 98 model Mercedes Benz. That thing is basically a tank and incredibly difficult to park in a narrow street such as the ones at the Turkish Mediterranean coast. I parked (in three maneuvers again) and went out to check how I did, I was perfectly in line with the other vehicles in the road and perfectly parallel.

I felt so proud of myself.
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Post by: Welu on 27 Jun 2013, 15:35
I believe ny Da is planning on making me into his driver once I past my test. He taxis to Belfast and Dublin airports a lot for work and wants me to do it to save cash, even though I fully intend on charging £10 an hour.  :-D That'll still be a lot cheaper than his taxi runs though, even considering I won't be allowed to do more than 45mph for the first year after passing.
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Post by: Radical AC on 27 Jun 2013, 23:53
That feeling when your relationship of three years ends because time, distance, and apparently wanting different things out of life kills it.

Then not having anyone to talk to about it because you moved 900 miles from anyone you can spill your guts to over a beer to improve your life.

At least tomorrow is 120 degrees or some shit, cause Arizona rules.
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Post by: Thrillho on 27 Jun 2013, 23:59
That feeling when your relationship of three years ends because time, distance, and apparently wanting different things out of life kills it.

Then not having anyone to talk to about it because you moved 900 miles from anyone you can spill your guts to over a beer to improve your life.

Add one year to the tally and I know almost exactly how you feel, and it uh... it sucks a bag of dicks. Hope you're okay.
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Post by: Radical AC on 28 Jun 2013, 00:02
I am really sad and numb, but I am not thinking crazy person thoughts.

It gets better, right?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 28 Jun 2013, 00:15
With time, just gotta tough it out for the first little bit.
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Post by: Carl-E on 28 Jun 2013, 00:40
Finding someone to have a beer with helps, too. 
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Jun 2013, 03:04
I know that feel all too well, man, and I offer my sympathies and my ear. I've made that move a number of times and it had a similar effect on a number of relationships, romantic or otherwise. You already know you're gonna be okay, obviously, and that's a good start. And I won't lie and say it feels that way immediately. But it will, I promise you that. If it helps, think of it as room to grow.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 28 Jun 2013, 03:28
I never get why people don't like parallel parking. Either I've been taught well or I've been screwing it up loads, but I never have a problem with it.

/me has never taken a driving test

EDIT: So. EVE. I buy a nice shiny new ship, fit it out for exploration, go find some high-value loot. Then I realise after I get warp-scrambled, locked and popped that I forgot the warp-core stabilisers.

On a related note, this was my first run-in with a PvP multiboxer.
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Post by: Thrillho on 28 Jun 2013, 09:01
I am really sad and numb, but I am not thinking crazy person thoughts.

It gets better, right?

Mine happened nine months ago and if you compare my general state of mind and tone on here, and on Facebook, I'd like to think that the folks on here, particularly Unicorn, Neko and Pat can testify that it gets better.
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Jun 2013, 10:41
I never get why people don't like parallel parking. Either I've been taught well or I've been screwing it up loads, but I never have a problem with it.

Dude, last night after the show I pulled the car up to the front of the bar from where I'd parked it a block away, and I parallel parked that bitch so fucking good that even people in SF were impressed. Did it in one fell swoop, it took about 5 seconds after pulling alongside the car I was parking behind. Perfect placement.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 28 Jun 2013, 11:06
Aw, no, I missed a new page.

Sorry, Radical, I didn't mean to ignore you like that. I can't offer advice, only my hopes that the situation gets better one way or another.
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Post by: Loki on 28 Jun 2013, 14:29
As a twice de-relationshipped person, yes, it gets better.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Jun 2013, 15:06
I appear to code the best in hang-over mode. I wrote a program that will structure your files into a yyyy/mm/dd folder structure for a friend of mine, learning the new I/O APIs in Java and finally understanding the SwingWorker in the process.

I love the Java Tutorials website. It's super easy to learn with that.
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Post by: celticgeek on 28 Jun 2013, 15:39
I did something like that, restructured files from:

DeptA
   Jan
   Feb
   ...
DeptB
   Jan
   Feb
   ...
...

to:

Jan
   DeptA
   DeptB
   ...
Feb
   DeptA
   DeptB
   ...
...

I did it in perl.  It was a lot of fun.

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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Jun 2013, 16:00
Well I suppose there's a lot more simpler ways to do something like that then Java. But Java is currently the only thing I know, so I did it in Java.

But I'm teaching myself XAML/C#
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Post by: celticgeek on 28 Jun 2013, 16:01
I don't know that it was simpler, I was practicing my perl at the time. 
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Post by: ankhtahr on 28 Jun 2013, 21:26
Received my newest keyboard today. Also played video games with a friend I've known from elementary school. Today was a good day.

Nearly missed the delivery guy, but was able to catch him just in time. This keyboard is so absolutely awesome, it's unbelievable. I don't want to stop typing. Also the sound is great. Doesn't beat a Model M in both categories (sound and feel), but as it's a compact keyboard for carrying around with my notebook it's fantastic. You can't really carry a Model M around. I mean, yes, you can, but it would become uncomfortable after a short while. Also people try to lynch you for the sound.

And I'm so happy about gog.com. They made it possible that I spent twelve hours playing a fantastic old game in LAN. It was a bit of a hassle to get it running (as I insisted on using the original German language files I still had off the original disk instead of the English only gog.com version) but then we played for at least 10 hours straight. And it was awesome. The Guild Gold Edition/Europa 1400. It may be buggy, and multiplayer might be absolutely unstable, but if it runs, it's one of the greatest games ever imho.

I have to admit that the main reason for writing all this was that I wanted something to write on my new keyboard…  :roll:

Also I'm tired and my thinking is gradually becoming incoherent, so I have no idea if what I just wrote makes any sense.
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Post by: Radical AC on 28 Jun 2013, 21:39
Thank for the reassurance.  At this point just being told that life goes on and so will I feels good.  I don't mean to get all relationship bloggy, but like, you move to a new place and there is all this overwhelming change then BAM something like this just piles on.  I still don't have any furniture, or even a bed.  I got paid today so I think I will shop for one tomorrow!

I can parallel park my old explorer pretty well, but if I get a new vehicle I want something way smaller.
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Jun 2013, 21:53
I was driving Matt's '94 Cherokee Sport 2-door last night when I did my epic parking job, and I want something that size or smaller. I'm gonna save up for an early 2000s VW Golf TDI, it's small and quick and economical and has lots of room to put shit.
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Post by: Radical AC on 28 Jun 2013, 22:03
Careful with those early 2000's VWs.  My mother has a 2002 Passat W8 and that thing has had so many electrical problems and other expensive stuff go wrong with it.  The mechanic we would take it to said early 2000's VWs have a bunch of problems like that, and it is where a majority of his business comes from.
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Post by: jwhouk on 29 Jun 2013, 02:35
That probably explains why I see so many 2nd-gen Beetles on the used car lots up here.
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Post by: Jace on 29 Jun 2013, 05:21
 pat just stay away from dragons with the vw golf
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Post by: Patrick on 29 Jun 2013, 07:24
2nd gen Beetles are stupid looking anyway.

Well, shit, that kinda dashes my hopes a bit. Any recommendations for a car of similar size that roughly matches the same description and isn't a turd?
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Post by: Jace on 29 Jun 2013, 08:02
Oh also most mechanics hate vw stuff because nothing is easy to work on in the engines, from what I've heard and experienced via the vw bug I owned for a bit.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 29 Jun 2013, 11:44
Aw man, I'm about to buy a 2004 Passat from my step-sister-in-law. It just passed MD inspection with no problems though (it was well taken care of and hasn't been driven much for the last couple years) so I'm gonna be optimistic.
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Post by: Patrick on 29 Jun 2013, 12:44
I get the feeling that one of my friends has been ignoring me and it really kinda hurts my feelings because this is the one I have a crush on and we had plans to hang out at SF Pride this weekend. Couldn't get hold of her today, so I missed out on going.

If you're gonna bail on plans, you could at least tell me.
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Post by: Loki on 29 Jun 2013, 17:21
guys! guys! listen!

the sky. its full of stars. (yes, i am an urban child). just stared at them for a few minutes.

dont really know why looking at them makes people feel insignificant. when i consider the fact that in the universe we know, me plus "some" other people are the only beings who can appreciate their beauty (and humanity is so small on the scale of the universe it may as well have a cardinality of zero), i feel VERY special.
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Post by: Loki on 29 Jun 2013, 17:36
in other news, benefits of being single and living alone include

the ability to leave an event whenever you want
the ability to take a longer route to get somewhere if you so please
the ability to leave an event when you want
not having to worry about how she gets along with people only you knoww


something else i forgot. tired.
admittedly, most of it were problems i created myself in my brain which werent really problems.
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Post by: Patrick on 29 Jun 2013, 18:04
being able to walk around the house naked and totally in DGAF mode is always nice too
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Post by: cesium133 on 29 Jun 2013, 18:06
My roommate does that and he doesn't live alone.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Asterus on 29 Jun 2013, 18:59
I am really sad and numb, but I am not thinking crazy person thoughts.

It gets better, right?
I think I went through a period of thinking "Ok, so now what do I do with all of this free time." Then I started writing again. It took up into Hyperbole and a Half's last comic before her haitus for it to sink in that I can be spontaneous as hell for fun though. Now most of my free time is centered around writing, video making, and pranking coworkers, so its been hilarious for me ^.^

... err, also we didn't cover emergency stops on my test. Or my class. Courtesy really does suck. I had to look up what you were talking about, and realized it was my "Oh shit, some idiot's just decided to take a left turn from the rightmost lane" maneuver.
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Jun 2013, 04:03
I'm going to the SF Pride Parade tomorrow. I can't wait. I even have my outfit picked out and everything.
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Post by: Akima on 30 Jun 2013, 06:09
The mechanic we would take it to said early 2000's VWs have a bunch of problems like that, and it is where a majority of his business comes from.
Mechanics say things like that when they don't know how to fix the problem, but don't want to come off as incompetent. "Oh, they all do that!"
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Post by: LeeC on 30 Jun 2013, 08:42
was up from 2:30am yesterday to 2:30 am today finishing packing, moving to my new locations, unpacking, and getting to know my new roommate.  So far I am likeing Dunn Loring VA.
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Post by: Jace on 30 Jun 2013, 11:32
Tourists are amazing. There are a couple cones blocking off an entrance because the gate ran out of tickets. Like 4 cars pull in and go around the cones to try and get in.
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Post by: Radical AC on 30 Jun 2013, 12:24
The mechanic we would take it to said early 2000's VWs have a bunch of problems like that, and it is where a majority of his business comes from.
Mechanics say things like that when they don't know how to fix the problem, but don't want to come off as incompetent. "Oh, they all do that!"

I don't doubt it, but this guy always knew how to fix it even when the dealer didn't.  Early 2000s VW electrical systems are a mess and have all kinds of problems.  A quick google search led me to some car forums where they discuss it a little better.  I want to say late 2000s VWs are fine, but I don't have any fist hand experience with them.  I might get a new car soon, but I think I want to move to a better apartment first.  The Hyundai Veloster looks pretty cool.
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Post by: Welu on 30 Jun 2013, 14:02
Tomorrow I'm going to Belfast to meet up with a mate I haven't seen since 2011. Also I may or may not book tattoo getting depending on money coming in on Tuesday and if I have the confidence to navigate the city alone.
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Post by: Thrillho on 30 Jun 2013, 15:34
in other news, benefits of being single and living alone include

the ability to leave an event whenever you want
the ability to take a longer route to get somewhere if you so please
the ability to leave an event when you want
not having to worry about how she gets along with people only you knoww


something else i forgot. tired.
admittedly, most of it were problems i created myself in my brain which werent really problems.

- Not having to sugarcoat what you say to your friends in case you let slip something you aren't allowed to
- Being able to make plans without having to consult with HQ
- Being able to join in a conversation about the shapely lady that is onscreen without worrying about whether they look too much or too little like current partner
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Post by: pwhodges on 30 Jun 2013, 15:43
Flump!

I have just finished unloading my gear following the last concert of the season.  The last four weeks have been for me the most intensively strenuous both at work and at home that I have had for a long time, and tonight that has come to an end.  Suddenly everything can go flop, and I can sleep normally, I hope.

Work pressure won't really go away, of course, and I've still got things to do at home, like getting all the library music scores back, and preparing CDs of the recordings I've made - but the absolute time pressure has vanished, so I can just get on and do things as they come.

And I just won a replacement for one of my blown up audio interfaces on Ebay, and found a repairer for the other (yes, I've had two audio interfaces fail in a week, one of them twice...)

Oh, and the concert went well, so the agony getting ready for it was not wasted.
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Post by: pwhodges on 30 Jun 2013, 15:46
guys! guys! listen!

the sky. its full of stars. (yes, i am an urban child). just stared at them for a few minutes.

I had that realisation when I was young (10? or so, I guess), and my father got me up in the middle of the night to go and view a really spectacular meteor shower (the sort where you hear them).
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Post by: Papersatan on 30 Jun 2013, 16:34
guys! guys! listen!

the sky. its full of stars. (yes, i am an urban child). just stared at them for a few minutes.

dont really know why looking at them makes people feel insignificant. when i consider the fact that in the universe we know, me plus "some" other people are the only beings who can appreciate their beauty (and humanity is so small on the scale of the universe it may as well have a cardinality of zero), i feel VERY special.

I also grew up in a city, and am amazed by the night sky whenever I see it.   When we visit Stephen's parent's farm in Oklahoma, I will sit out, even in the winter, and stare at the sky for an hour each night.  If I have been drinking, the night sky is likely to bring me to tears.  It makes me think about how vast and amazing the universe is, and how special we are as a species, and how small and helpless I am.  Then I think about how this feeling has crafted civilizations, as people created stories to feel safer in light of that small helpless feeling, or to explain how it is that all those starts got up there, and we got down here... and how these stories grew and shaped world events and personal lives.  How adherence to these stories, and the safety they provide has caused countless new sources of terror.  How cruel we are to each other, and how easy it is to be blinded by our stories, but how, in the end, in the scope of all this vastness of space and time, those terrible things are so small.  And so small compared to the fact that we can look upon the stars, and make the stories to begin with. 
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Post by: LeeC on 30 Jun 2013, 20:16
I've only been here a day and I love this place. hot/cute single women everywhere, cool roommate, friends coming over to hang out and drink.  I can pretty much go anywhere and do anything.  This just feels great!

I also feel more motivated to get back into shape.  Its like I moved onto the sunny side of the Potomac.  Recanting my Maryland stories to the VA friends and roommate, I made the right choice.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 30 Jun 2013, 23:08
Glad your move is working out for you Lee!

I grew up in a mix of the suburbs and the hinterlands and I don't think there's been a day where I haven't loved the stars. Wherever I get to see them from. That's the nice thing about this city. It's not too big, and the mountains are close, it's easy to escape and see the stars even better... to find little places to camp over night, where you can see the sun rise over virgin forest, for me the stars were a source of hope, companionship, and a way to find your path home. I've looked at the stars all over the place now, from the oceanside, and the heart of the ocean herself, Alaska's darkest interior (beautiful if you ever get the chance) to 30,000 ft on a late night flight carrying a courier home.... they never stop, constant companions to travelers, sailors and aviators alike, I'm proud to call myself all three, and to have the stars to guide me, if not home, then to the next place I'll rest my head. One day, humanity will go to those stars, we've already made the first baby steps in their direction. I hope I get to see some of that in my life. The next great age of human exploration. May stardust light our way, and whether those winds be solar or that of our home planet, and the depths of our home oceans or the endless ocean of stars, may those brave souls encounter fair winds, and following seas.

(http://i.imgur.com/cXF40.png)
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Post by: Akima on 01 Jul 2013, 00:42
I remember being amazed that we could see the stars so clearly even from our own backyard when we moved to Sydney, but if you camp out in the bush, far from any street-lighting, and let your eyes adjust to the darkness, the Milky Way seems so clear and close you almost feel you could plunge your hands into it. It is easy to see why my ancestors named it 天河 (Tiānhé) or "Heavenly River".
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Jul 2013, 02:17
SF Pride 2013 Recap, or: "The Day I Spent 14 Hours Completely Hammered"

woke up at 8 to my friend Lisa calling me to wake me up at the same time as her so that we could go to Pride together. Got ready real quick, went to the grocery store, got provisions (most notably, beer, water, a 5th of peach vodka and some AriZona Arnold Palmers), met with our crew to discuss our plans and transfer the vodka into a plastic water bottle, and then drove to Dublin to get on BART and go to the City. The line for BART tickets was 20 minutes long, it was nuts. I haven't seen it that busy there since the Giants won the 2010 World Series (when we won again in 2012 my friends and I drove).

Once on BART (10am), Lisa and I smelled the whisky and Coke that the people behind us were drinking, so we decided, "Fuck it, let's get started." Yep, 10am. By the time we had reached San Leandro, the train was completely jam-packed with no further room for passengers, so everyone from San Leandro to Civic Center had to wait for the next train. It was incredibly hot and humid onboard (broken AC), and I remarked to Lisa that it felt like Georgia summers. Didn't help that by the time we hit Fruitvale Station, we were already drunk.

We arrived at the station at 16th and Mission around 11, after having split about 1/4 of the 5th of vodka, and proceeded to check out the parade for a little bit. Having quickly grown tired of the novelty of seeing wieners everywhere, we ventured toward the park where Deltron 3030 was playing their show, pouring more and more vodka into the AriZona we had designated as the mixer can as we went along.

Eventually, we were around 18th and (something vaguely Italian sounding) and we hailed a cab at a stoplight. Upon entry, we realized there was no meter running, the guy didn't have any registration showing, and the guy seemed hella sketchy. We approached a gas station, whereupon he told us that he was going to use the restroom, and also "Go pay his water bill." Assuming he was either going to harvest our organs or charge us out the ass for time spent idling, we bailed. Super unprofessional of him to be running errands on our dime and time, so fuck him.

At some point on the journey, we killed the rest of the vodka, and at about 1:30pm we found a legitimate taxi and headed toward the Del show to meet our friends. We met up, continued drinking by starting on a couple beers, and I promptly slept through most of it. When I did wake up, it was to drunkenly stumble to a tree I thought was secluded enough to urinate behind. To my surprise, during one of my trips, a trio of 3 very cute girls walked up the hill on a path about 50 feet immediately in front of me. And they got an eyeful. Gave me an angry earful, too, to which I replied, "If this is the last dick you see all day I'll be shocked. Least I shaved a few days ago. Happy Pride, ladies!" After that I went back to my friends, sat down, put my head in my lap, and passed out until the encore, which was "Clint Eastwood" by the Gorillaz.

After the show, we went and got food, then took Muni to BART and BART to home. On the Muni ride, I began abusing my intimate familiarity with Albanian-accented broken English and started being a drunken Borat. Lisa kept laughing at the silly shit I would come up with and the people's varying reactions, so I kept doing it. At some point, we reached Civic Center BART and I approached a nice-looking couple with some questions about what Pride is all about. Then the train came and we all boarded, and Lisa and I wound up in a different car from them.

About 5 minutes after boarding the train, the duo caught up with us and immediately told me to give them my wallet right in front of an entire train car, and while wisely choosing to stay in character, I less-than-wisely told them "Fuck no." Not smart, but if it had come to blows, I would have FUCKED THEM UP. Dude told me to open my backpack and show him what I had, and I showed him that it was nothing but some beers and a water bottle. And then, still in character, I pointed out a passenger filming the entire ordeal, and I told the guy that unless he wanted a video of him "being opened" circulating around on Liveleak after his impending death, he better back the fuck off and get his bitch of a girlfriend to step the fuck away from Lisa. Dude was twice my size, but I had the very important tactical advantage of having my back to a wall, a backpack full of beer cans in my hand, my knee right under his balls, and his girlfriend's tits within elbowing range in case she went after Lisa. Plus my pocket screwdriver in my front pocket, with no bit attached (they all store inside it). Won't even break skin without the bit, but it'll hurt like a bitch and get you to cease and desist.

After he and his hyphy bitch left, some very adorable queerfolk came up and said they'd have had our backs if anything had happened. I broke character and told them straight up that we were just trying to have one last spot of silly drunken fun before he came up and tried to intimidate us, and we wound up having a great time talking to them and being silly and jovial once again. I still kept my head on a swivel in case our would-be assailants decided to have another word, but they never showed.

Eventually got home, whereupon I immediately went to bed and passed the fuck out. Woke up about midnight (2 hours ago) still drunk. I'm just starting to finally feel a little more normal right now. What a fuckin crazy day.
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Post by: Redball on 01 Jul 2013, 07:32
Flump!

Good word, good work, and enjoy the downtime. Will you be putting the concert on line?
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Post by: Carl-E on 01 Jul 2013, 07:43
SF Pride 2013 Recap, or: "The Day I Spent 14 Hours Completely Hammered"


a) glad you made it out alive, and

2. more evidence that Pride is slowly turning into St. Patty's day. 
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Post by: mtmerrick on 01 Jul 2013, 09:07
Well, after catching up on all you people's funtimes, I'm gonna be heading off to the dentist because I cracked a tooth in half doing nothing the other day. >_> I am not looking forward to this AT ALL (I do not have good dental hygiene, and, as I've mentioned before, am not good with pain.)
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Post by: Carl-E on 01 Jul 2013, 14:31
Fortunately, there's only one cure for a tooth that's actually broken in half. 



I expect pics of the gap. 
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Post by: mtmerrick on 01 Jul 2013, 16:52
Molar yanked out. Face regaining feeling. I'll take a picture in a little while.
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Post by: Carl-E on 02 Jul 2013, 06:50
Oh, just a molar? 

I was really hoping for soomething that showed when you smiled...   :-D
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Post by: mtmerrick on 02 Jul 2013, 11:59
It's really hard to take a picture of...

And yeah, my bottom right jaw, last molar before the wisdom teeth.

God my jaw is sore.
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Post by: Patrick on 02 Jul 2013, 13:31
This is a little GIF heavy, so be warned. But this is basically all of my feels ever, in one convenient page (http://www.buzzfeed.com/regajha/31-signs-youre-a-third-culture-kid).
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Post by: Akima on 02 Jul 2013, 15:42
This is a little GIF heavy, so be warned. But this is basically all of my feels ever, in one convenient page (http://www.buzzfeed.com/regajha/31-signs-youre-a-third-culture-kid).
I'm more of a FOB than a TCK, but I relate...
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Post by: LTK on 02 Jul 2013, 15:49
Hearing loss update: Had an MRI scan done. "Now I am full of gadolinium." Getting the results next week, but they're not expecting to find anything.

The prednisone didn't help, and since it's been two weeks since the hearing loss onset, there's little to no chance of it getting any better now. Which sucks. Surprisingly, my other ear picks up on the echoes from my right side well enough, so I'm not severely handicapped. The only time problems arise is when I hear a sound that I can't see (no audiolocation) or when someone's talking to me to my right in a noisy environment.

Also, since today I'm hearing an occasional clicking sound in my deaf ear. That's different from the usual tinnitus.

I hear there's an Australian company that makes good cochlear implants...
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Post by: pwhodges on 02 Jul 2013, 16:10
Will you be putting the concert on line?

See the Choral Music thread in Band.
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Post by: Carl-E on 02 Jul 2013, 17:34
Also, since today I'm hearing an occasional clicking sound in my deaf ear. That's different from the usual tinnitus.

That is unusual.  Could be signals leaking through a damaged nerve, or it could just be your brain adjusting to not receiving anything through that path any more.  You may want to follow up on that sooner rather than later. 

By the way, have you ever suffered from TMJ issues?  You can have a problem with it that doesn't seem all that severe, but if the joint slips far enough, the mandible can impinge and damage the inner ear and otic nerve.  Although that would probably show up on the MRI...
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Post by: Jace on 02 Jul 2013, 18:23
So either someone nabbed the package that was delivered today by fedex or they left it at a different door, I missed it, or my neighbors grabbed it. Hoping for any of those instead of it being stolen.
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Post by: LTK on 03 Jul 2013, 02:31
By the way, have you ever suffered from TMJ issues?  You can have a problem with it that doesn't seem all that severe, but if the joint slips far enough, the mandible can impinge and damage the inner ear and otic nerve.  Although that would probably show up on the MRI...
I don't have what Wikipedia describes as temporomandibular joint dysfunction - I've never had any pain - but my jaw does click on the right side, which the internet tells me is related:

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Most likely, your jaw clicks when you open and close because the mandibular condyle (the top of your jaw bone near your skull) is sliding off and on the temporomandibular disc (a little piece of cartilage that cushions your jawbone against your skull). This makes a clicking sound. This clicking is seen in a large percentage of patients that have no pathology and require no treatment.

It's been doing that for the last five years at least, but I'll notify the GP anyway.

Also, yesterday my mother told me that her father used to have Menière's disease, which is also a disease of the inner ear. The symptoms don't fit mine, but still, that would have been nice to know earlier...
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Post by: pwhodges on 03 Jul 2013, 03:35
I don't have what Wikipedia describes as temporomandibular joint dysfunction - I've never had any pain - but my jaw does click on the right side,

I have a jaw that clicks on one side.  At one time it also had a tendency to get out of alignment and jam, which could be painful if it caught before I straightened it out.  A dental hospital gave me exercises which improved the muscles controlling the jaw position, and it's been no real trouble since (I do the exercises occasionally to this day).
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 03 Jul 2013, 06:22
It's really amazing how much your jaw and ear are related. When I was first being diagnosed with TMJ, my dentist put his fingers in my ears and told me to bite down. My jaw crunched his fingertips.

I've been fitted for a repositioning splint and have been wearing it for about 8 months now. It's amazing how much of a difference it makes. Your issue may or may not be related to TMJ, but clicking is usually one of the first signs and if it IS related, it can't hurt to see a specialist.

Best of luck with everything, LTK.
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Post by: pwhodges on 03 Jul 2013, 07:38
I rearranged my office at the weekend; basically I exchanged my organ console and my desk (where the computer is).  This has led to my desk being optimally placed within the square of speakers, so that the front ones are now actually in front of me and so sound decent for stereo mixing, and my chair is pretty much at the centre of the square for optimal surround listening (I do most of my recording in surround).  It's also reduced the amount of storage I can fit in (two room corners are now dead), but made what does fit more easily accessible - so that'll be a nett improvement when I've removed enough stuff to somewhere else to make it work.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 03 Jul 2013, 09:31
Been trying to reach the comic & forums for the entire day, only started working just now. Which is super mean because I had intermittent access to forums and read something about ClairexMarten and got excited.

In other news, I am kinda busy packing up. I'm moving into a new place this weekend and I'm super stressed with all the necessary work I have now. It doesn't help that I have exams in a week. It's still exciting though. I got to paint a room for the first time in my life!

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Post by: pwhodges on 03 Jul 2013, 10:42
Been trying to reach the comic & forums for the entire day, only started working just now.

See here (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,29082.msg1169484.html#msg1169484)
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 05 Jul 2013, 11:50
Holy fucking shit, I passed all my exams!
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Post by: pwhodges on 05 Jul 2013, 13:19
Well done!  But that is what you were aiming to do, yes?

So what do you get to choose to do now?
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 05 Jul 2013, 14:06
Basically, I can finally sign up for the rest of my subjects and finish my bachelor's in a year and a half to two depending on whether I feel like working hard all summer too!  Screw teacher training, back to academics!
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Jul 2013, 16:17
Another one saved! 

I'm always torn when an intelligent person gives up teaching.  We need more of them, but you could certainly do better...
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Post by: Radical AC on 05 Jul 2013, 18:08
I have a friend from high school and uni that moved to Minnesota to teach.  She spent probably $10,000 getting licensed and competitive.  Today she told me she realized she doesn't want to teach anymore.  A bit better situation than getting a BA with a bunch of loans and having no idea what to do next, but it kind of sucks.

So, in insurance there are claims processors and reps.  Either position has the same requirements to get hired.  I am a processor and make $8000 a year less than the reps.  I took the rep examination today and passed on my first try with a 91%.  The only rep that passed it on his first time got an 81%.  The other two took 3 and 4 attempts at the test to get the 70% required to pass.  Reps deal with liability and have a bit more authority in the workplace.  I wouldn't mind if it wasn't so apparent that I am overqualified for my position and making way less money than I should.  My downfall was not knowing anyone in the company or having family here when I was applying.  I can't complain too much since it is a decent job, doesn't pay bad, and gives me all the insurance I need to manage my type 1 diabetes (not having a job with insurance is a health hazard when you have a chronic illness like mine).  I just hope I get promoted fast, I even scored higher than one of my trainers that took it.  I really want to get into corporate lobbying if I stay with the company for a few years.  They make mad bank, my degree is pretty much perfectly suited for it (Poly Sci with an emphasis on US Law and political philosophy), and I am really interested in it.  Plus, it is an insurance company so I wouldn't have to try and pass bad bills that hurt people or the environment.  But, that is neither here nor there.  Just mildly bitter I have to defer to people who are worse than me at their job (Welcome to corporate America?).
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 05 Jul 2013, 18:34
So this is what I did on the Fourth of July...
Professional show in Suffolk, Virginia with 2.5" shells and cakes (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cake_%28firework%29).
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Post by: Akima on 05 Jul 2013, 19:18
Just mildly bitter I have to defer to people who are worse than me at their job (Welcome to corporate America?).
Welcome to the world. Especially if you are female, but I think it is a universal condition. I remind myself that it is all billable hours...
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Post by: Emoroffle on 05 Jul 2013, 20:30
Dear blog: I have developed an intense craving for Chinese and all the Chinese food places in the city have closed by this hour. I suppose I'll hit up the Mexican place nearby instead. Yes, I could cook something instead. Yes I know it's healthier. Stop giving me that disappointed look...
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Post by: mtmerrick on 05 Jul 2013, 20:44
I could never condemn you for that. Chinese food is one of the good things in life, in fact, now that my mouth is feeling good enough to eat now, I actually saw a Chinese restaurant and had to order an eggroll. Just one. Just because.
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Post by: cesium133 on 05 Jul 2013, 20:51
I haven't had good Chinese food in a long time. There are only a couple Chinese restaurants near here, and they suck.
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 05 Jul 2013, 23:31
Another one saved! 

I'm always torn when an intelligent person gives up teaching.  We need more of them, but you could certainly do better...

Yeah, teachers are definitely in short supply, but the teacher training in this country is essentially worthless. If I want to teach, I can always take a year or two off and teach English in India or somewhere in South America (A dream of mine).
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Post by: mtmerrick on 06 Jul 2013, 00:06
One of my uncles is in the process of dumping mechanical engineering for teaching, because it pays more, has fewer hours, and more benefits.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jul 2013, 01:16
I have a disgusting cold. Tomorrow 18 people arrive and I have to be cheery and sociable and switched-on and informative and keen, from 10am til 11.30pm, and then I get to do it again every day until August. The latter would be much more bearable but for the former.
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Post by: Redball on 06 Jul 2013, 06:40
Once you switch on, you'll be fine.
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Post by: CardinalFang on 06 Jul 2013, 08:22
So this is what I did on the Fourth of July...
Professional show in Suffolk, Virginia with 2.5" shells and cakes (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cake_%28firework%29).

Wait, you were right nearby? Dammit!

Sent from my Nexus 7 using Tapatalk HD
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 06 Jul 2013, 09:32
Was I? I didn't know you were down in that area! The show was at Ebenezer Church in... Crittenden, I guess? Right by the Nansemond River.
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Post by: CardinalFang on 06 Jul 2013, 09:46
Was I? I didn't know you were down in that area! The show was at Ebenezer Church in... Crittenden, I guess? Right by the Nansemond River.

I live in Norfolk. In any event I spent the fourth at my cousin's in Williamsburg so I wouldn't have been able to go to Suffolk anyway. Still good to know for next time.

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Post by: Lines on 06 Jul 2013, 09:46
Yeah, teachers are definitely in short supply, but the teacher training in this country is essentially worthless.

As someone with the training, no, the training is not worthless. I had a very valuable experience in school. Just because the system is fucked up doesn't mean training is worthless. Also, if you want to go teach English in a foreign country, do it! I have a friend who has spent the last several years in Japan doing just that and she loves it. Another couple I know just moved to Malaysia to do the same thing. I've never heard of these experiences being bad ones.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jul 2013, 10:46
Ugh. I felt too full of cold to go running this morning. I'm feeling better now - but it's nearly 30 degrees (80F for you furriners). That is far too hot for me to go running, especially since I don't have any suitable running t shirts. It's not going to drop below 20 until midnight. I think my best option is to go really early tomorrow before breakfast, when it'll be more like 17 degrees and bearable. I dissolve in heat, it's horrific, and I don't have a large enough water bottle to carry what I'd lose in sweat running now.

Yuck. Everything seems to be conspiring against me at the moment. Unless... I wonder if my old college would let me use the gym? I might ring them and ask.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 06 Jul 2013, 12:37
Yeah, teachers are definitely in short supply, but the teacher training in this country is essentially worthless.

As someone with the training, no, the training is not worthless. I had a very valuable experience in school. Just because the system is fucked up doesn't mean training is worthless. Also, if you want to go teach English in a foreign country, do it! I have a friend who has spent the last several years in Japan doing just that and she loves it. Another couple I know just moved to Malaysia to do the same thing. I've never heard of these experiences being bad ones.


Ditto. You get out what you put in. I learned SO much about education because I did my research, signed up for a good program and studied my ass off. If someone wants to be a schmuck and coast through just because they think teaching is easier than anything else....well...that's why teachers get a bad rap. It's only easy if you're not doing it right.

 I also have a friend who teaches across the world (literally.....Japan, France, Australia are the ones that come to mind immediately but there are more). We all miss him terribly but he absolutely adores it.
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Post by: Patrick on 06 Jul 2013, 13:03
RX Bandits show last night was insane! My friend Jesse and I had arrived at the venue 2hrs early just so we could hang around in SF and enjoy the city a bit. We wanted to find a nice little chill spot to be hoodrats and drink the beers we'd brought with us, and right next to the venue (Regency Ballroom) there was a narrow one-way street. We went there and noticed a very large bus and a door that led backstage. Door was open, so we posted up nearby and listened to RXB's soundcheck. The security guard came up to talk to us and make sure we weren't gonna be weird to the band members, we wound up chatting with him for over an hour.

At some point about 30 minutes before the show started, the band all left their bus to get inside, and Jesse and I managed to get a quick chat with Steven Choi and Matt Embree of RX Bandits. It'd be sick as fuck to meet them again someday.
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Post by: pwhodges on 06 Jul 2013, 15:31
I wonder if my old college would let me use the gym? I might ring them and ask.

I wanted to practice the organ for my father-in-law's funeral eight years ago (before I built my own), and as it was handy from work I asked my college of nearly 40 years earlier if I could use the chapel organ, and they were perfectly happy (though they did verify who I was).
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Post by: Carl-E on 06 Jul 2013, 22:03
One of my uncles is in the process of dumping mechanical engineering for teaching, because it pays more, has fewer hours, and more benefits.  :psyduck:

Must be an insanely strong teacher's union if the pay and benefits are better than ME.  As for fewer hours, that's a myth - you only have 6 or seven in school, but you have 4 - 6 more at home dealing with prep and grading.  Unless you're lazy about it, in which case you won't be there long. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Asterus on 07 Jul 2013, 04:35
So this is what I did on the Fourth of July...
Professional show in Suffolk, Virginia with 2.5" shells and cakes (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cake_%28firework%29).

Actually, our city generally has a fireworks (http://hypocriticalparadox.blogspot.com/2013/06/blog-post.html) even the week before, just because. I suppose it allows people from out of town to drop by without missing their own local event, or so the mayor claimed.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 07 Jul 2013, 08:53
A lot of places do that, I think. We were in Jefferson County, WV on June 30th and are in Fulton, MD on the 13th. We were not doing the city show - like I said, our client was a church. They put on a parade and festival for the community during the day, and then had the fireworks once it got dark.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 07 Jul 2013, 12:52
Moved out the last few bits of my old apartment out. Tedious work. For some reason I kept finding condoms everywhere, at places where they shouldn't have been. Also found a huge wad of cash that I must have stashed away some time. Was pretty happy about that.

Tomorrow my furniture arrives and Ill have officially moved in. Exhausted.
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Jul 2013, 13:42
Finally set a date to pick up the van. 


Cleaning out the old one to sell to the scrapyard.  Soooo much crap, and I found a stash of CD's in a hidden spot that no one's seen in years. 

As for cash, I found enough change under the driver's seat to get a liter of 50/50 (half iced tea, half lemonade) because it's fucking hot
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Post by: mtmerrick on 07 Jul 2013, 13:46
One of my uncles is in the process of dumping mechanical engineering for teaching, because it pays more, has fewer hours, and more benefits.  :psyduck:

Must be an insanely strong teacher's union if the pay and benefits are better than ME.  As for fewer hours, that's a myth - you only have 6 or seven in school, but you have 4 - 6 more at home dealing with prep and grading.  Unless you're lazy about it, in which case you won't be there long.
Well he currently works 16-18 hour days, plus is often asked to come in on weekends for no additional pay (on salary). He has the lowest paycheck in the office,  barely enough to pay bills,  and zero benefits. He's getting the proper certification to be able to work in California or Nevada (what he considers to be his second home) and has already determined he'll be paid significantly more for teaching (he wants to teach high school math,  actually) then he currently is. Same paycheck in CA or Nevada, but the price of living is lower in Nevada.
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Post by: Patrick on 07 Jul 2013, 22:43
Let's see. 4th of July had a water balloon fight, 6th of July I went to RX Bandits, last night I did DMT with a friend of mine and we tripped super fuckin hard and he came out to me as trans, and today, with zero sleep (DMT keeps you the fuck awake for 12 hours, I learned) I went to band practice and we had the tightest, best, most productive practice in a long time.

R&R is for pussies
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 09 Jul 2013, 06:09
Naumburg (Hessen) is a hole in the ground.

Nice pool, though.
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Post by: Thrillho on 09 Jul 2013, 15:25
The awkward moment when you find your sister is against gay marriage and might actually be acting against it.

Fucking hell. Add another one to the list of things that I'll just not talk to my family about.
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Post by: Patrick on 10 Jul 2013, 17:20
Looks like Troubador's gonna be special guests to an SF-based radio show next month! Real radio, not just internet radio. Granted, it's unlicensed pirate radio and their broadcast frequency is in the range usually reserved for contemporary Christian music, NPR, sports talk radio, and the kind of jazz that really sucks, but IT'S REAL AIRWAVES HOLY FUCK.

Plus, since it's pirate radio, we get to say whatever we want, discuss whatever we want, and the show involves a bit of drinkin' and smokin' weed (fuck yeah, California) so it'll be a nice, relaxed atmosphere.

I am super excited about this, because it represents a good first step in getting our music exposed to the SF market. We've been trying to break into that shit since the first time we played in the city, and now it looks like we might well have a half decent shoe-in.
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Post by: Papersatan on 11 Jul 2013, 15:25
So I've confirmed that "cash for gold!" schemes are really only worth it if you're addicted to drugs. 

Today I offered:
one 14K gold chain
one 14K gold natural ruby pendant
one 14 K gold wedding band with inset diamonds
one 14k gold engagement ring with a .46 carat near colorless, vvs center diamond

I was offered less than $250.

errrmm nevermind. 


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Post by: Carl-E on 11 Jul 2013, 16:33
:lol:  sounds about right...

I'm riding Greyhound to VA to get that van from my wife's friend.  people can be good.  He's giving it to us gratis.  "Paying it forward".
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Post by: Lines on 11 Jul 2013, 19:32
Carl, that's awesome. There should be more people like that.
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Post by: Carl-E on 11 Jul 2013, 21:18
I think there are more than most people realize.  I've met several in the last few years. 
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Post by: Patrick on 12 Jul 2013, 14:24
sounds like COMMUNISM

so the band that was supposed to open our show last night decided to let their drummer drive, and he has no license. they got pulled over by Oakland PD after having crossed the Bay Bridge from SF, and drummerboy got arrested and they almost got their van impounded. We were depending on them to bring the bass amp and the PA. They are extremely lucky that we were playing in our hometown because if we hadn't been, we would have had to cancel the show because we didn't have any fucking gear. Fortunately, our friends came to the rescue.

and today I am a grumpy old man and fuck you
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Post by: Papersatan on 12 Jul 2013, 21:25
I just got my first anon message on Tumblr, I feel like I've crossed into a full fledged user.  (It was even nice!)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 12 Jul 2013, 21:45
Tumblr seems to send me a lot of questions about my secks life. They also seem to be curious about whether I have a "love" for horses that is illegal in most states. I have no idea what's up with that.
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Post by: nekowafer on 12 Jul 2013, 22:09
I have received one tumblr message and that was Masterpiece being derpy.
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Post by: Papersatan on 12 Jul 2013, 22:21
based on information in the message, I don't know who it is. I am don't think it is someone that follows me, it is at leas not one of my followers I know beyond tumblr. 
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Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Jul 2013, 11:26
Tumblr seems to send me a lot of questions about my secks life. They also seem to be curious about whether I have a "love" for horses that is illegal in most states. I have no idea what's up with that.

(http://media.tumblr.com/479aec2f035b6eae39a1e38daebb529f/tumblr_inline_mmm4b8VMgD1qm1vgn.gif)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 13 Jul 2013, 11:43
Sure trolls are always a possibility but some of these asks are rather creepily passionate... about the horses in particular.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Jul 2013, 12:32
something tells me you don't know much about equius zahhak here
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Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Jul 2013, 12:33
for one thing, his name is equius
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Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Jul 2013, 12:34
(pesterchum handle: centaurstesticle)
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Post by: ankhtahr on 13 Jul 2013, 12:42
I'll never understand Homestuck.

I've started a few times, but got bored as soon as the first few chatlogs came up.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Jul 2013, 12:56
first act is slow as fvck, it doesn't start getting r. interesting until the trolls come in and when you explore the land of wind and shade in my opinion
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Post by: GarandMarine on 13 Jul 2013, 14:05
....k
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Post by: Patrick on 13 Jul 2013, 14:16
I have decided to start working out using my own body weight and isometrics. I've gained about 10lbs since I started working at the pizza place (free food, yeee) and I figured that if I'm gonna put on weight despite my intense daily cardio, it should probably be healthy weight. So far I can do sets of 30 regular pushups, 10 diamond pushups, 20 wide-stance pushups, 30 tricep dips, and I haven't found out how many pullups because it's harder to get to a pullup bar (none of the doorways in my house feel trustworthy enough to support my weight). This combined with my daily 5.5 miles of bicycle cardio should be a nice comprehensive routine to get me looking like a person, and not a stick figure.

yo Uni I'm not sure how to break it to you but I'm never gonna get involved with Homestuck ever just because you've already burnt me out on it. ruv rooooo
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Post by: GarandMarine on 13 Jul 2013, 14:27
Add crunches, burpies and steam engines!
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Post by: jwhouk on 13 Jul 2013, 14:50
I'll never understand Homestuck.
^^^^
This.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Jul 2013, 22:44
yo Uni I'm not sure how to break it to you but I'm never gonna get involved with Homestuck ever just because you've already burnt me out on it. ruv rooooo

it's okay, you are not someone i would ever expect to get into it anyway

i also kind of hate myself for it but i've never been obsessive over any kind of media to this extent so it's kind of fun (but also terribly embarrassing at times because it's probably pathetic)

Oh Well.
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Post by: Radical AC on 14 Jul 2013, 01:14
I have decided to start working out using my own body weight and isometrics. I've gained about 10lbs since I started working at the pizza place (free food, yeee) and I figured that if I'm gonna put on weight despite my intense daily cardio, it should probably be healthy weight. So far I can do sets of 30 regular pushups, 10 diamond pushups, 20 wide-stance pushups, 30 tricep dips, and I haven't found out how many pullups because it's harder to get to a pullup bar (none of the doorways in my house feel trustworthy enough to support my weight). This combined with my daily 5.5 miles of bicycle cardio should be a nice comprehensive routine to get me looking like a person, and not a stick figure.

I have been doing a few hundred situps and about a hundred pushups a day since I got to Arizona last month.  I am probably in some of the best shape of my life.  I walk a mile to and from work every day which is a bit less than I would walk going to University, but I am getting a fancy new roadbike this week to take me around the city.  My bloodsugars have been great (hello type 1 diabetes) and I feel great.  I have always been too skinny, and I don't have a scale now but I am sure with the definition I am getting is coming weight.

I saw Pacific Rim today with a girl I met on OKC.  This is the second time we met up and are just friends, but it is nice to go out and do something with other people.  The film was entertaining, but we tore it to shreds in terms of plot holes after we got out.  Good times.
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Post by: Loki on 14 Jul 2013, 01:16
Quote
i also kind of hate myself for it but i've never been obsessive over any kind of media to this extent so it's kind of fun (but also terribly embarrassing at times because it's probably pathetic)

There is nothing wrong about being a passionate fan o.O

Unless this is being a fan of putting dissected frogs down people's shirts or something.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 14 Jul 2013, 10:56
probably not. i like to keep my universes intact.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 14 Jul 2013, 14:39
I finally got around to filming my new room (https://vine.co/v/hZDwmjxtPMP)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Jul 2013, 14:53
Dear Penthouse Forums, I never thought that this would happen to me but... I was in the middle of the usually Chicago O'Hare clusterfuck, our flight had left out late, then gotten delayed further still and I was going to most likely miss my connection flight home. I muttered about it under my breath turns out the woman sitting in front of me over heard me (a slender brunette with striking eyes) and was going to the same place I was, we started talking while waiting for the plane to finish taxing and hit it off immediately. While we missed our connection and were stuck sleeping in the airport till morning curling up and making out like teenagers till we passed out certainly made this particular delayed flight one hell of a memory.
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Post by: Loki on 14 Jul 2013, 14:58
I finally got around to filming my new room (https://vine.co/v/hZDwmjxtPMP)

Oh my god your face  :lol:
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Post by: Patrick on 14 Jul 2013, 15:38
So after arriving back in town from the RX Bandits show I saw a while back, I met this absolutely gorgeous girl. Turned out to be a real peach, just about as sweet as can be. So we've been talking a little bit. She lives in Washington, which is kinda a drag; I don't meet cute girls and hit it off on a personal level like that very often, if ever. But I convinced her to come to SF tomorrow to see my band play. We're gonna give her a ride there and back, and I have Matt to wingman for me. If I can't have her, at least I'm gonna make an impression.

God I'm a fucking sucker.
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Post by: Loki on 14 Jul 2013, 15:42
why is everyone meeting girls all of a sudden and I am not.

oh, right. because I spent the day at home doing fucking nothing
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Post by: ankhtahr on 14 Jul 2013, 16:28
why is everyone meeting girls all of a sudden and I am not.

oh, right. because I spent the day at home doing fucking nothing

this. both.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 14 Jul 2013, 16:38
I blocked Homestuck on Tumblr Savior and it's been a great decision. I tried but didn't get into reading it, but I still spent way too long studying the posts about it and trying to understand what's going on but I don't.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 14 Jul 2013, 16:50
Can you tell how excited I am to finally have Vine on my phone  (https://vine.co/v/hZIWphgpnDq)
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Post by: ankhtahr on 14 Jul 2013, 17:11
I never understood the appeal of Vine.

The appeal of Ahoj Brause though… But why dissolve it? Just pour it on your tongue! (Also: out of orange flavour, so you took pink? Green is the one and only!)

Just don't try to snort it. We did this in elementary school. Not pleasant.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 14 Jul 2013, 17:15
Well green and yellow were out too.

It's fun to be silly, and the 6 second limit is a fun thing to fight against. Three packs of Ahoj Brause were killed because I didn't get enough time. And I'm a social web whore, I share too much anyway.
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Post by: Welu on 14 Jul 2013, 19:58
Stayed up to watch a WRASSLIN' pay-per-view because it was free. Great fun. Bet imaginary money with partner over wins. Good thing it wasn't real money.
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Post by: valley_parade on 15 Jul 2013, 10:34
I am moving to Syracuse in the fall with my girlfriend. I am slightly freaking out, I guess because I've lived in this small town for 25 years and all of my friends and most of my family are here, whereas a big chunk of her family lives out there.

On the plus side, I get to make up for the lack of friends out there by getting free hockey tickets from her cousin that works for the AHL team. So there's that to occupy about half the year. And I would assume Syracuse's punk scene is a bajillion times more rad than the one here.

I figured that if I'm gonna put on weight despite my intense daily cardio, it should probably be healthy weight.

BITCH DO WHAT WE'VE BEEN TELLING YOU TO DO ON HERE FOR SIX YEARS AND EAT MORE SAMMICHES.
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Post by: Jace on 15 Jul 2013, 10:43
And you'll only be a 3 hour drive from hanging out with me! We should save up some cash money and get tickets to a Sabres/Bruins game
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Post by: valley_parade on 15 Jul 2013, 10:51
Sabres/Bruins, Sabres/Pens, Sabres/Oilers, or Sabres/Blues, sounds good either way, brah.
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Post by: LeeC on 15 Jul 2013, 12:24
I was one of the few people to get a raise. an extra $800/year.
(http://www.overloadit.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/its-something.jpg)
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Post by: Papersatan on 15 Jul 2013, 12:39
Oh man, weird times ahead.

So one of the professional organizations I 'belong' to offers various research papers and case studies for free download (without a paid membership) on the condition that you allow them to forward your information to various sponsors. I downloaded a bunch of papers last month, and today I got a phone call and an email from a company looking to sell me their enterprise content management software.  I mean, I don't know what type of info they get besides my email and number, but I clearly list that I am a student...

On the other hand.  Totally going to use this as a way to make contact with potential employers... I don't actually want to work as a records manager, I want to work for companies who make records management software.
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Post by: LTK on 15 Jul 2013, 13:08
It seems that I'm regaining some of my hearing, but it's nowhere near enough to be of any use. My frequency range is between 30 and 350 Hz now, with a strange, isolated peak at about 850 Hz, but aside from that, nothing. For comparison, my good ear can still hear up to 16000 Hz. Another hearing test is scheduled in September.

On the plus side, the vertigo is almost entirely gone. But that could also mean that the physiological conditions in my inner ear have gone back to normal and that this is as good as my hearing's gonna get. Hopefully I'm wrong, but I don't think so.
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Post by: pwhodges on 15 Jul 2013, 14:09
I would suggest as much patience as you can muster rather than jumping to conclusions. 
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Post by: LTK on 16 Jul 2013, 03:38
Patience is pretty much standard operating procedure when it comes to this type of hearing loss. Anyway, I doubt me jumping to conclusions makes much of a difference, given that I wasn't expecting any of my hearing to come back anyway.

Oh, and the vertigo's back since this morning. Must have jinxed it, damn it.
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Post by: LeeC on 16 Jul 2013, 09:16
wow I am feeling great.  I have pretty much gone through an attitude readjustment this past weekend and I feel awesome. Its starting to show too. like other people are feeling this energy (even strangers! had this one woman talk my ear off and I had to shut her down 'cause I had to go).  I feel like me again, only better.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 16 Jul 2013, 09:28
Can I have some of what you've been taking
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Post by: LeeC on 16 Jul 2013, 09:46
yes, re-frame yourself.  :-D done

if you're serious send me a PM lol.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 16 Jul 2013, 12:09
Fuuuuuuck.

So I got the apartment, I am waiting for a call from the power company to finish out my account, the movers are coming on Friday to get the bulk of my stuff... pretty much everything is packed and ready to go.

Oh god can I stop panicking now? SHIT! Need to order mattress and other goods X.X
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Post by: Redball on 16 Jul 2013, 12:39
Stop panicking and sleep on the floor, Marine!

Unless you've got a lady friend coming over.

Then it's time to panic.
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Post by: LeeC on 16 Jul 2013, 12:42
Unless you've got a lady friend coming over.

Then it's time to panic.
nah, girls like it when you're spontaneous.  I always make the bed off limits anyways.  the real trick GM, go to the bar and end up at someone else's place. :3
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Post by: LeeC on 16 Jul 2013, 16:27
red head from the class I taught approached me in the metro and we chatted for 40 minutes.  Teased her a bunch.  Got her number.  Have a feeling she's in her 30s.   O0
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 16 Jul 2013, 16:34
Girlfriend's brother's girlfriend (sorry) was in a car accident. Nearly managed to kill herself and their two year old.

Yay, for expensive car seats.

(Kid has a broken clavicle and some bruises. Fine, further.)
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Post by: Patrick on 17 Jul 2013, 00:38
Jesus. My buddy and his wife and 2 young kids (one's 3 and the other was born in October) were in a pretty gnarly accident a while back. That shit is terrifying, I am glad they're okay, all considered.

This summer cold I've managed to contract is seriously kicking my ass. I hate it. I seriously JUST started that fucking workout routine and now it's getting hard to even get out of bed, let alone do my bike commute. I'm tempted to call off tomorrow just because I know I've got to go work my job at the bar tomorrow night, and that takes up a lot of energy (lots of lifting, plus playing a basically 8.5 hour show) and pays me a large lump sum immediately (plus the fact that they owe me for last week). And if I don't have energy to put in, I'm not gonna get good energy out of the other participants, and that's just gonna hurt the bar's atmosphere and therefore hurt the sales.

I am probably gonna call in sick.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Jul 2013, 01:40
Okay. So I think I'm almost done. I need another roll of packing tape, to look up gun laws regarding intrastate transport for all the states between here and Delaware. (I think I'm gonna have to route around Illinois), to pick up the Japanese style room screen my buddy is giving me, then move it and everything else upstairs for the movers on Friday. I have ordered my shikibuton (so excited~ it's queen size and lovely! It might confuse lady friends if I bring them over but such is life.), my new super high power work lamp (for painting and stuff), my new wifi/router combo (eat it Comcast!) the floor lamp for the "bedroom part" of the bedroom (I'm using aforementioned room screen to partition off my bedroom so there's a distinct "bedroom" and then a small office area.) and my friend Deb just surprised me with an electric tea kettle.

Oh! and I need to get a couple boxes to cover up my gun locker. The moving company charges extra for moving safes, but my locker is light enough that they'll give me the "it's a big box" wink nudge, if I cover it in cardboard. I also need to pick out about two week's worth of clothes and pack the rest.

I also need to call back the electrical company and finish that off, then set up my account with comcast.

Feth. I think this is actually happening!

In other news Pacific Rim was fucking awesome. Go see it. Now.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 17 Jul 2013, 02:30
Alright. I just had my first (double) driving lesson. Damn, all that stuff is complicated. I had enough trouble keeping the distances to the right and to the left, but then all this starting and stopping with stick shift…

Well, I'll probably get used to that.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 17 Jul 2013, 03:10
You'll do fine. The first lesson is always the most frustrating one, and you'll soon notice that you're rapidly improving and getting a hang of it. After that it gets really fun to drive a car.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 17 Jul 2013, 03:15
It wasn't really frustrating, just complicated.

Driving that car (it's an Audi A4) felt like navigating a battleship. You have to turn the wheel so much, but the pedals are so incredibly sensitive. Keeping 30 km/h and keeping the distance was demanding. You don't want to damage the wheels by touching the sidewalk, and you don't want to drive into oncoming traffic. Also everybody is driving too fast.
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Post by: Akima on 17 Jul 2013, 03:53
I have ordered my shikibuton (so excited~ it's queen size and lovely!
Pleasant dreams! If it is traditional cotton, just remember to look after it properly, and it will look after you. I'm sure the vendor will provide you with instructions, but:

Keep air circulating around it as much as possible. This is key. It is important to keep a shikibuton dry.
Air it regularly, ideally daily, by storing it away from the bed surface. A slatted bed-base can help here if you're not going to do the traditional thing and fold it.
Rotate and flip it weekly to change the sleeping spot and prevent compression of the cotton filling. This is easily done when you change your bed-linen.
Air it out of doors in the sun if you can. Apartment living can make this difficult, I know.
Beat the mattress from time to time to break up any clumps that have formed.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 17 Jul 2013, 06:09
Alright, that is scary… I just now realise how exhausted I am from driving for 90 minutes. I must've been flooded with adrenaline.
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Post by: nekowafer on 17 Jul 2013, 07:48
I'm getting my second official driving lesson tonight. I don't have to deal with a stick shift, but I understand what you mean for sure. Getting practice time in makes a huge difference. There are still a lot of things I can't do. But basic driving - from my house to the store, or my dad's, and so on, is easy now. Hopefully today I will be taught how to parallel park and back up.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Jul 2013, 08:00
I have ordered my shikibuton (so excited~ it's queen size and lovely!
Pleasant dreams! If it is traditional cotton, just remember to look after it properly, and it will look after you. I'm sure the vendor will provide you with instructions, but:

Keep air circulating around it as much as possible. This is key. It is important to keep a shikibuton dry.
Air it regularly, ideally daily, by storing it away from the bed surface. A slatted bed-base can help here if you're not going to do the traditional thing and fold it.
Rotate and flip it weekly to change the sleeping spot and prevent compression of the cotton filling. This is easily done when you change your bed-linen.
Air it out of doors in the sun if you can. Apartment living can make this difficult, I know.
Beat the mattress from time to time to break up any clumps that have formed.

It isn't traditional full cotton, it's actually an American production: https://www.tuftandneedle.com/shikibed
but all of the above most likely still applies. Keeping the fold up will help, and I thankfully have a balcony for beatings and sunning.

I really can't wait to make the switch, I promise I'm not trying to be a massive weeaboo here, but I absolutely fell in love with shikibuton while in Japan. Ye gods and little fishes there was actual support for my BACK! I got some of the best sleep I've ever had not counting being physically exhausted to the point of complete mental and physical shut down sleep.

Eventually I want to get some tatami floor mats for under the bed, but those are maddeningly expensive...

In other news I have, for the first time, come to covet art...

http://www.amazon.com/Cherry-Blossom-Original-Abstract-Painting/dp/B001SXGVEW/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_nC?ie=UTF8&colid=2DOT425KTAFSY&coliid=ICPPSU2W9V8OV

I gave the company name an odd look, but I love the painting and want it on a wall in my bedroom...

On a side note, hey look! It's my floor plan! With hastily drawn squares to represent furniture!

(https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/946933_10151804697230815_2065939767_n.jpg)
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Post by: Welu on 17 Jul 2013, 23:53
Speaking of driving, having my second test in a couple hours. Having a lesson first. Went to bed early, after getting up early yesterday morning so I could sleep. Body just refused to turn off before midnight and spent the first half of sleeping in and out of sleep paralysis.


Driving that car (it's an Audi A4) felt like navigating a battleship. [...] Also everybody is driving too fast.

That's a big car to be learning in though. My Da has an Audi A6 and it's awkward for an experienced driver just because of the size, it's also got a weird automatic handbrake. I don't know if the A4 has it but here you can't do your test with that kind of handbrake.
Also after a few lessons 30km will seem like crawling. People will still be driving too fast though.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 18 Jul 2013, 01:08
Yeah, second lesson in less than two hours.

Let's see how I manage the manual transmission this time.


But it's great that the Audi has a Start-Stop-System. If you manage to stop the motor (which happened twice yesterday,  because my teacher explained the usage of the clutch wrong) you just press the clutch pedal and the motor is running again.

It took me a few tries to get the car rolling without jumping forward a few meters. He told me to find the spot where the clutch starts applying friction, but failed to mention that i need to hold the pedal in that position for a moment. He just told me to slowly let go of the pedal.
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Post by: pwhodges on 18 Jul 2013, 01:41
Practice is the thing, though.  The more practice you can arrange with family or friends (subject to your local laws on age and experience of the supervising driver, of course, and suitable insurance) the better; otherwise you're paying an instructor to sit next to you while you practice!

I was lucky; I learnt clutch control in a field with a slope, letting the car inch forward and roll backward just by varying my pressure on the clutch pedal (and keeping the engine from stalling).  Sometimes an awareness of what's going on inside can help, as it did when I had a clutch cable break on a journey - I was able to continue for about 25 miles, ending up parking the car in a railway station car park, without using the clutch and, more to the point, without breaking the gearbox.  Almost as hard was when the throttle pedal broke; I attached a dog lead to the cable and drove home (50 miles) with manual throttle control.  Actually, I lie - that was harder than the clutchless journey.
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Post by: Akima on 18 Jul 2013, 03:11
I gave the company name an odd look, but I love the painting and want it on a wall in my bedroom...
Feng shui (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feng_shui) (pronounced fung-shway (http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/9/95/Zh-feng1shui3.ogg) BTW) you mean? I am not sure how far geomancy applies to that painting, but maybe the painter is a practitioner. Or maybe it is just marketing chi-chi.

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Post by: ankhtahr on 18 Jul 2013, 04:40
pwhodges, in Germany driving on public roads without a certified driving teacher in a certified driving teaching car is illegal. There are so called "Verkehrsübungsplätze", which are private property on which you can train driving. I intend to visit one of these with my grandfather somewhere in the next week.

And driving without clutch? So you had to synchronise the speed of the new gear and the speed of the motor? Whew. (I know a bit about the function of Clutch, Motor and Transmission myself, just don't know how to operate them properly (yet))

Yeah. Second driving lesson finished.

High speeds are scary.

When it's the second time sitting behind the steering wheel, then driving with 100km/h (about 62 mph) makes you kinda nervous. At least I got better with changing gears. Starting is something I need to train more though. (Luckily the teaching cars are Diesel, so as soon as you lift your foot from the clutch the car starts going forward. No need to press the throttle pedal as well.)

Also I'm a bit afraid of tomorrow, as we're going to practise reversing and hill starting.

I had to do a hill start today already, but that was not on purpose by the teacher. A train crossed, so we had to stop, and then start at a slight hill. I stalled the car twice. Not great.

And Welu: Yes, these A4 have an automatic handbrake as well. We're not allowed to use them for hill starting, so that doesn't really matter. (It'd be too easy otherwise)
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Post by: pwhodges on 18 Jul 2013, 05:23
You'll get the clutch after a while - the whole process of learning to drive is building a new set of reflexes, really, and once you have them, they stay.

As for speed, when you are thinking in terms of dragging the car along the road (figuratively), yes it feels like hard work.  But after a while, you realise it's actually a projectile that you set into controlled motion and aim carefully - at least, that's how it feels to me when I drive.  Lastly, it's not bad to be a bit scared; if you're not scared, you're complacent, and that becomes a real danger.  I take care to remember even now how dangerous driving is!

Same on a bike; once you accept that the process of cycling is above all a matter of staying alive by actively avoiding situations that could kill you, it actually becomes easier I think.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Jul 2013, 05:26
I just discovered the best thing ever (https://vine.co/v/hmvgbjMwwV6)
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Post by: ankhtahr on 18 Jul 2013, 06:14
Bah, Razer Black Widow Ultimate I assume?

Had some build quality issues afaik. Overpriced, because Razer. I can't watch the video right now, but Cherry MX Blue? Clicky?

Ducky Shine would be one of the alternatives if backlighting is necessary. Definitely try a Model M one day. Maybe Topre, but they're expensive. Post your experiences in the mechanical keyboards thread!
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Post by: Papersatan on 18 Jul 2013, 07:14
My father taught be to drive in a mini-van in winter on occupied streets.   he let me drive in a parking lot for 10 min to get used to the controls, but it was a strip mall parking lot on a Sat afternoon, so the driving was slow, but busy. 

Our first lesson:" You are a bout to operate a 5,000 pound piece of machinery, and if you make a mistake you could kill someone.  Ok, put your foot on the break and start the car."

I wanted to pee myself, but I think being aware of that made me be a better driver.  I know that learning in winter was a good idea.  Where I come from gets a ton of snow, and I know people who took their first lesson in spring and were licensed by fall and driving on their own the first time the roads were bad and didn't know how to handle it, where as I learned in winter and took my test in winter, and when I was driving on my own in spring everything seemed easy, and when next winter came I was a confident solo driver, and ready for the snow.  I know in other countries lessons are strictly regulated so its hard to get a lesson in without planning, but my serious advice is practice driving in shitty weather as much as you can.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 18 Jul 2013, 07:20
I gave the company name an odd look, but I love the painting and want it on a wall in my bedroom...
Feng shui (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feng_shui) (pronounced fung-shway (http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/9/95/Zh-feng1shui3.ogg) BTW) you mean? I am not sure how far geomancy applies to that painting, but maybe the painter is a practitioner. Or maybe it is just marketing chi-chi.

Yeah I was thinking it's a marketing thing, which is why I gave it an odd look as I couldn't see the relation the company had to the practice.

I can't imagine learning how to drive as an adult. I mean I dunno I've been driving for close to a decade now, it's just something I do.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 18 Jul 2013, 07:47
Driving this big car always feels strange to me, but at that moment, driving at 100km/h on a street which is only wide enough for the car, it was a scary thought that if I just turned the wheel a little bit to the right, we'd crash into this big tree and probably die.

That makes being a passenger with my father a bit more difficult. He's doing a lot of driving on the Autobahn, so it's not uncommon for him to drive at 220km/h.

I'm a bit afraid of the first lesson on the Autobahn. But that'll take a lot of time till then. Also the suggested speed (Richtgeschwindigkeit) on the Autobahn (on non speed limited parts) is 130km/h, so not much higher than what I experienced today. But me not driving that fast doesn't mean that others won't drive that fast.

I can't help but see this when driving this car: xkcd (http://xkcd.com/1075/)
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Post by: nekowafer on 18 Jul 2013, 07:53
My driving lesson went really well. We went through the city, but I knew the area and had no problems. The instructor says I need to stop sooner and slower, but otherwise I'm great. Still no clue how to parallel park.
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Jul 2013, 14:48
I got an offer from a restaurant to have my band play a 3 hour set for $300. When I suggested it to Matt, he instantly got bitter and pissy and said he'd never play for a bunch of yuppies who "just don't get it." Dude needs to get the fuck over his own ego and shitty attitude and help finance the tour or the new album. Don't be a pretentious little hipster cunt and discriminate against people for looking or acting different. We don't need any more of that bullshit in this fucking world, and I don't need the miserable, insufferable attitude.
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Post by: Welu on 18 Jul 2013, 16:04
Didn't pass. Did a silly major fault that if I didn't do I would have passed. I would have passed with the maximum number of faults allowed but that's still a pass. Already booked in again. Gutted.
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Post by: Lines on 18 Jul 2013, 16:19
Pat - Eating is more important than being pretentious. Slap some sense into him.
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Post by: Papersatan on 18 Jul 2013, 18:25
Just had a job interview.  I think it went well, and I think I would both love the position and be able to make a real difference for them.  It sounds like they want the position to continue through fall, which is even better... like amazingly better. 

Fingers crossed.  I hear back in a week. 

Off to write some thank you cards.
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Post by: Jace on 18 Jul 2013, 19:50
I did a thing (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,29129.msg1172455.html#msg1172455)
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Jul 2013, 04:17
Pat - Eating is more important than being pretentious. Slap some sense into him.

yeah, here's hoping I can sweettalk it into him instead, and I'm pretty confident I can. shit though. the ones you hold most dear are the ones who can get under your skin the most. I've cooled off considerably since I posted that and I didn't get into a pissing match in the process, so I'll count this one a success.
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Post by: Carl-E on 19 Jul 2013, 08:05
Oooh!  Driving stories! 

My first time was when I was 11, on a friend's dairy farm, in an old jeep with no roof or doors that they used to go check on the herd.  I was big for 11, so the pedals weren't a problem.  Off road means you don't need to worry about things like traffic, curbs, signs... anything other than big rocks and trees.  Oh, and cows. 

When I turned 16, my father started teaching me how to use a clutch and drive his '68 bug, which I was to take my test in. 

(http://1-photos4.zibe.com/used-1968-volkswagen-bug-awesomecoupe-145-4010107-1-400.jpg)

At the same time, I was taking driver's ed at the school in a '78 Ford Granada. 

(http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/0a/Ford_Granada_%28North-America%29.jpg/280px-Ford_Granada_%28North-America%29.jpg)

Basically, a land-locked cruise ship.  The Granada had an extra brake pedal on the passenger side for the instructor, one Mr. Kurasciewicz, or "Krazy K".  The course ran through the winter in Buffalo, and there was an intersection near the school that always iced up.  He'd slam on the brakes in the middle of the intersection, and after you spun about a bit, say "OK, now get us out of here."  Great training, really. 

My father had raced cars (that's how he and my mother met, she did too).  He taught me how to speed shift once I got the hang of the clutch.  Best advice was "nurse it".  You need to use both feet, accelerate gently as the clutch grips. 

More stories another time... gotta go and do an oil change! 
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Post by: nekowafer on 19 Jul 2013, 08:33
This is what I've been driving for the most part and I really like it.

(http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/67/2007-Honda-Fit-Sport.jpg)

I've also driven the ex's car, which I hate:

(http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/0b/1996-98_Pontiac_Grand_Am.jpg)

The driving school has basic little sedans that I won't get to drive much. I think I really want one of these, when I finally get my own...

(http://www.topgear.com/uk/assets/cms/7a880ba5-8a6d-4956-9679-0bead75a910a/Large%20Image.jpg?p=120704_05:22)
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 19 Jul 2013, 08:37
A post. I'll let other people decide which part I mean.

Context is everything.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 19 Jul 2013, 09:33
Neko, is that a Fit? I love those!


First thing I ever drove was one of these honkin' things-

(http://www.unitedautomotiveservice.com/cms-assets/images/355927.2005-ford-f150-4.jpg)

Not easy, but definitely fun to drive!

I did most of my learning (and took my driver's test) in Nick's old Saturn. Nice and small, great for parallel parking.
(http://cdn.getauto.com/photos/5/15/2c/1G8ZH5498MZ144042-2c.jpg)

Now, if and when I drive, I drive his new(ish) car-
(http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/6d/Toyota_Corolla_LE_--_12-26-2009.jpg)

But....I'm a sucker for silly little hatchbacks. I would drive a Fit in a heartbeat but I reaaaaaaaaaally want a Yaris or an Accent. (Fun fact- my dream car as a teenager was a silver bug.)


Gah. Look at how freakin' cute!
(http://images.dealerrevs.com/gallery/photo.php?id=46387245)
It would be like driving around in a little pea.
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Post by: nekowafer on 19 Jul 2013, 09:43
Yup, it's a Fit. I love little hatchbacks too!! But I want a 4 door. Part of why I like the Fiat 500 L. And I call all little cars like that beans. Beany cars.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 19 Jul 2013, 09:51
Teehee, I love that. I want a bean! If I got a 4 door bean, I think it'd be the Yaris. For whatever reason, the more "bubbly" the bean, the happier it makes me.


That is possibly the most bizarre sentence I have ever typed.
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Jul 2013, 10:39
I want the shit out of that little 4 door Fiat.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 19 Jul 2013, 11:54
...I just want a small toyota pick up truck >.>;
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Post by: nekowafer on 19 Jul 2013, 11:57
Get a TOYBOATA!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 19 Jul 2013, 12:57
A what now?
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Post by: celticgeek on 19 Jul 2013, 13:13
This is what I drive:  (http://www.celticgeek.com/images/0_TheLinuxGeek)
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Post by: Masterpiece on 19 Jul 2013, 13:15
The way you used the tag would have worked on URLs but not with the img tag.
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Post by: celticgeek on 19 Jul 2013, 13:17
Fixed.

I should have added this. (http://www.celticgeek.com/lnxgeek.html)
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Post by: nekowafer on 19 Jul 2013, 13:24
Fancy, CG! GM, check out the British Top Gear episodes about turning cars into boats. Jeremy Clarkson makes a Toyboata both times, I believe.
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Post by: jwhouk on 19 Jul 2013, 14:35
My first car:
(http://www.automobile-catalog.com/img/picto25/amc/1971-amc-hornet-sportabout.jpg)

Got into an accident with it four months later; right front wheel fell off as they were pulling it off the curb.
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 19 Jul 2013, 14:39
Driving this big car always feels strange to me, but at that moment, driving at 100km/h on a street which is only wide enough for the car, it was a scary thought that if I just turned the wheel a little bit to the right, we'd crash into this big tree and probably die.

That makes being a passenger with my father a bit more difficult. He's doing a lot of driving on the Autobahn, so it's not uncommon for him to drive at 220km/h.

I'm a bit afraid of the first lesson on the Autobahn. But that'll take a lot of time till then. Also the suggested speed (Richtgeschwindigkeit) on the Autobahn (on non speed limited parts) is 130km/h, so not much higher than what I experienced today. But me not driving that fast doesn't mean that others won't drive that fast.
It'd get from 0-60 in about ten seconds though, so that made up for it.

I can't help but see this when driving this car: xkcd (http://xkcd.com/1075/)

JESUS CHRIST. My first car, a peugeot 205 which was pretty nippy in its own way only got to about 140 without blowing up.
The car I drive most now, my dad's dacia logan, I once hit 160 in going downhill.

I cannot imagine doing 220km/h, even in the slightest.

First car pic: (http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8179/7973180042_d463ac0267_z.jpg)

Mine had red accents, but that's the way I maintained it; Muddy from my wannabe rallying jaunts.
Thing had 84hp or something like that and weighed 650Kg, so approximately 1300lbs. Went like stink, loved corners. I'll miss you old pug.

Oh yeah and it went through petrol like a rabid woodpecker goes through trees.
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Jul 2013, 15:01
Fancy, CG! GM, check out the British Top Gear episodes about turning cars into boats. Jeremy Clarkson makes a Toyboata both times, I believe.

In fact, he uses the same exact Toyota Hilux for both episodes.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 19 Jul 2013, 15:03
Yeah, my father has a BMW 5 series as company car, and he's allowed to use it for private purposes. It's kinda scary how not scary it is going 220 in that thing.
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Jul 2013, 15:05
For the record, Ankh is talking in kilometers. There ain't a BMW made that goes 220mph.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 19 Jul 2013, 15:18
By the way, if anyone is interested in it here's a documentation about the Autobahn. Just skip the part about the Nazis, because half of that is wrong. At one point they explain that the Autobahn used to be officially called "Straßen Adolf Hitlers" (Adolph Hitler's streets), and to make their point they show something which has it written on it. What they apparently didn't realise is that "Straßen Adolf Hitlers" is just the title of the book, and the official name was "Reichsautobahn". Just skip from 12:40 to 25:17 and it's fine.

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Post by: Masterpiece on 19 Jul 2013, 16:11
Huh.

I never realized how weird the Autobahn must be for foreigners.
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Post by: Lines on 19 Jul 2013, 16:22
Speaking of cars, I'm gonna start car shopping this weekend. All of the ones I'm looking at will be hatchbacks. Because egg cars (eggs, beans, same thing) are the bestest. There are a few that are less cars and more crossovers/small suvs/whatever the fuck they are, but I don't want anything too big and I don't want a regular compact anymore.

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Post by: nekowafer on 19 Jul 2013, 16:29
Uh yeah the fastest I've ever driven is 80 mph, about 128 kph. And that was rather scary.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 19 Jul 2013, 16:33
If by weird you mean fucking awesome. I've pushed 120mph+ in a small car and would love to go faster. I have gone faster then that, but aircraft don't count.

In other news my idiot moving company fucked up their dispatch, apparently the truck in this area got filled up already today. So I have to wait till tomorrow. The crew will allegedly be here at 0800, but I'll believe that when I see it.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 19 Jul 2013, 18:28
I learned to drive in a Ford Taurus station wagon like so (dat ass).
(http://static.howstuffworks.com/gif/vehicle-pictures/1995/ford/taurus/90113331990811-480.jpg)
Currently I have a Honda Accord, affectionately know as The Busted-Ass Honda.
(http://media.ed.edmunds-media.com/honda/accord/1996/oem/1996_honda_accord_sedan_25th-anniversary_fq_oem_1_500.jpg)
But now I'm in the process of buying my husband's stepsister's Volkswagen Passat and I'm very excited, because its ass is significantly less busted.
(http://images.autobytel.com/carPics/TestDrv/Lyons/PassatTDI/400/Passat_TDI_front2_lo.jpg)

In other news my idiot moving company fucked up their dispatch, apparently the truck in this area got filled up already today. So I have to wait till tomorrow. The crew will allegedly be here at 0800, but I'll believe that when I see it.
That right there is some fucking bullshit, sir.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 19 Jul 2013, 18:30
Yes. Yes it fucking is.
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Jul 2013, 18:41
Fastest I've ever been on the freeway was 110mph en route to Coachella. We left my town of Livermore (near Oakland) at 22:00 and arrived in Indio at about 04:30. This happened with a single stop for fuel and a bathroom break once we hit Los Angeles.

Fastest I ever went on a surface street was the first time I ever drove a manual transmission. '88 BMW M5, and I went from 0 to 95pmh in under 7 seconds. Stopped from 95 a lot quicker than that.
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Post by: Lines on 19 Jul 2013, 20:29
I think the fastest I've ever gone is 80-85mph because my poor little 2002 Corolla can't really handle much faster. It just doesn't have the juice and also I really do not like going that fast anyways.
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Post by: Radical AC on 20 Jul 2013, 02:07
Going 95 in my '93 Explorer damn near shakes the thing apart.

I saw that band Couches from San Fran again tonight.  Those guys are totally cool to hang out with.  They are coming back in October and  wont miss it.  I guess my new favorite band on their label Ugly Winner broke up. I am hella bummed out.  I am still trying to meet friends in the Phoenix area and it is really damn hard.  I am trying the internet, but I still don't even really know where to start.  I work most of the time now, and am pretty fucking lonely the rest of the time.  I kind of just want to get a minimum job back where all my friends are, but I don't want to give up.
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Post by: Patrick on 20 Jul 2013, 02:52
Oh man. Things didn't work out so hot with us and Couches when I personally booked a show for them at their request. spoiler goes to me being a giant whiny loser, but I was stressed out because it was my pet project and it went badly so sue me I'm gonna cry about it
(click to show/hide)
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Post by: jwhouk on 20 Jul 2013, 06:02
I have hit 110 on a few back roads here in Wisconsin, but slowed it down shortly afterwards because the tires couldn't handle it.
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Post by: Radical AC on 20 Jul 2013, 14:41
No way, that was the band that got stopped in Oakland?  Haha, small world.
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Post by: Patrick on 20 Jul 2013, 19:55
yeah, unfortunately so. were they any good? I wouldn't know haha :3
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Post by: Lines on 21 Jul 2013, 06:23
I found a car (http://www.busamsubaru.com/new/Subaru/2013-Subaru-Impreza-cincinnati-629564660a0a000201001b775ca6d50a.htm) I want to buy! I test drove this one and I liked it quite a lot. Also they were offering a crazy ass deal (and will continue to do so until the end of the month), so hopefully this one will be around for a little while longer.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Jul 2013, 10:07
The fastest I've ever driven is 70mph, maybe 75 if I was overtaking something. I don't really like driving fast.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 21 Jul 2013, 12:00
Sometimes I feel like I'm a bit too spontaneously with some of my decisions.

I just bought a HiFi turntable from ebay.

Helped my grandfather repair his today, and remembered the recurring thought of mine that it would be nice to own a turntable.

Googled a bit, looked at turntables on ebay, won a used Dual 505-4.

Now I need a suitable phono preamp.
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Post by: Akima on 21 Jul 2013, 15:50
Ankhtahr's 220kph is double the freeway speed-limit in NSW, and good girls don't speed...  :angel:
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Post by: GarandMarine on 21 Jul 2013, 17:24
Ankhtahr's 220kph is double the freeway speed-limit in NSW, and good girls don't speed...  :angel:

So you're challenging the land speed record regularly then? ;)
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Post by: Loki on 21 Jul 2013, 17:38
Is this a "good girls finish last" thing?


You know you've staid up way too long when it's half 3 AM and Jeph starts drawing the comic.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 21 Jul 2013, 17:42
He started already? Damn, that means I'll either be up far too late, or get to read the comic late. Tough decision.
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Post by: jwhouk on 21 Jul 2013, 17:53
Ankhtahr's 220kph is double the freeway speed-limit in NSW, and good girls don't speed...  :angel:

I've played Geoguessr enough to know that 220kph is necessary on some of those roads to keep you from going INSANE.
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Post by: Carl-E on 21 Jul 2013, 23:02
Fastest I ever went was in the first car I owned, which had been my grampa's 74 Ford Maverick. 

(http://www.loughmillermotors.com/74maverick0.jpg)

Damn, that's the exact color and trim package, too, down to the vinyl roof and rubrail... probably has the woodgrained plastic dash and vinyl bucket seats, too.  All that luxury... anyway, gramps drove caddys all his life, this was his last car, but he didn't believe in less than a V-8, so he ordered it with the 302 CI V-8 instead of the 200 CI standard straight 6.  Mind you, this was in a 1700 lb car...

So anyway, I'm going back to my first year of college after spring break, and I'm on the Ohio turnpike.  A corvette stingray passes me.  I returned the favor.  We go back and forth a few times, and I'm up over 100 mph.  Then it got serious. 

The speedometer only went to 120 mph.  I pegged it, and broke the damn thing that day.  Blew the doors off the corvette one last time, and then spotted my exit.  And, as I slowed and exited. the corvette blasted past. 


Followed by two Ohio State Troopers. 



It was a good day.  The Maverick forever had 64,000 miles on it and I had to guesstimate speeds after that, but it never let me down for another two years.  After which I got my first VW bus, and never hit that kind of speed again. 
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Post by: snalin on 22 Jul 2013, 00:32
Is this a "good girls finish last" thing?

I've always heard it as "nice guys finish last". Which I totally thought was about sex the first time I heard it (as in... you finish last), and as dumbfounded about why people were so negative towards the idea.
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Post by: Loki on 22 Jul 2013, 01:00
Yes. I found it humorous to reverse the gender roles (sexus roles?) for that one.
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Jul 2013, 04:06
Tonight I went out to meet some friends at the bar, and left after a few games of pool. I was playing really well, then mid-game my last game I had a sudden turning of moods for no apparent reason. Lost that game (I ran it for the previous 6 against some of my favorite opponents, whatever) and went outside to the back patio to finish my beer and say goodnight to some homies.

Got on my bike, booked it home, and almost immediately my sour mood got worse. As in "oh hey what's up, BPD, almost forgot I knew you... so when do you go back where you came from?" So I got on Facebook to see who was online, maybe find somebody I know I can trust to confide in. Found my friend Erika on there. Made plans to bike downtown and have her meet me there on her longboard (neither of us have a car), but then decided I'd rather go to bed.

Right as I said that, I got a text from Matt saying that he'd gotten too drunk to drive home and that he was gonna wait in the car til he sobered up. I told him "Naw fuck that I'll be right there, see ya in 20" and hopped on the bike. In return for driving him home he let me borrow the car to go hang out with Erika, so long as I brought it back home safe.

Just got back home from hanging out with Erika, and I feel loads better. And I helped out my bro and got exercise! The night went way better than expected.
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Post by: Welu on 22 Jul 2013, 05:50
Laptop has suddenly given up. It still loads with some encouragement but don't want to push it. Got everything backed up. Might have money next month to get a new computer.

Can get online on phone but just warning incase I suddenly go missing for a while.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 22 Jul 2013, 05:57
heeeelp…

somebody keep me from buying all the vinyls…

My record player hasn't even been sent yet, but I already bought 4 vinyls…
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 Jul 2013, 06:07
Also, you are now satan.
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Post by: Loki on 22 Jul 2013, 06:33
I for one welcome our evil vinyl overlord.
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Jul 2013, 10:53
why would you be upset about owning vinyl, records are TITS
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Jul 2013, 10:53
also I am perhaps feeling some regret in not realizing how bad I'm gonna miss a good friend of mine who is moving
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 22 Jul 2013, 14:44
If by weird you mean fucking awesome. I've pushed 120mph+ in a small car and would love to go faster. I have gone faster then that, but aircraft don't count.

Speed is relative to mode of transport though. I've been in a car going just over 120mph and it was exciting but nowhere near as thrilling as breaking 50mph on a bike. Thor Hushovd has hit 78 on a descent in the TdF. I'd love to be able to equal that. Need a better bike.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Jul 2013, 15:52
IT IS FINISHED! I have done literally everything that I can do till I start driving friday. Two week turn around? HAH! I laugh in the face of madness! Everything is in place. Stuff's on the truck going East, supplementary stuff is in various packages heading East, Apartment's confirmed, power is set up, Internet is arraigned. Now I just need to get there so I can handle the DMV. I also need to acquire a large postal money order (to finish paying the movers on the other end) and to pay off my apartment complex so I can move in.
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Post by: Radical AC on 22 Jul 2013, 21:01
My lame ass expensive Alienware decided to shit the bed - $350 and a half weeks salary later I am back online with a low end Lenovo.  Just wonderful.
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Post by: Radical AC on 22 Jul 2013, 21:14
Oh and Couches is pretty fun live.  Catchy and shit.  They seemed like cool dudes. 

Also, today I realized that Stand There Until You're Sober has gone from a song about good times with your buds, youth, and not growing up to being line for line about how I unforgivably betrayed my best friend.  And it feels really shitty.
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 23 Jul 2013, 02:29
Hi!

I have been awake for the last five or so hours because I ended up down a digital rabbithole of video signaling, conversion measures, defunct tech companies, court cases, and hazy corporate entanglements.

*twitch*

I am going to apply frying pan to head so that I may sleep a bit before work.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Jul 2013, 12:11
Today I've been revising my ass off because of an exam I have tomorrow. Then I checked the courses' official website... just to notice that the exam is not tomorrow but on Friday.

WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!

Also, I might have just told you guys all this because I wanted to use my keyboard some more :)
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Jul 2013, 10:17
dear blog thread,

(http://24.media.tumblr.com/05b4725af4669bbb4195928cfa42ea37/tumblr_mq63dadKBE1qekqxro1_500.gif)
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Post by: ankhtahr on 26 Jul 2013, 10:48
Also, I might have just told you guys all this because I wanted to use my keyboard some more :)

As a mechanical keyboard fan I can totally relate.

Anyway, I've received another two albums on vinyl today. Also received my headphone amplifier. My turntable amplifier I received already, so I look forward to receiving my turntable. The more I look up about it, the happier I am that I chose that one. 80€ shipped for a great subchassis player, which has been in production for a long time, in the higher quality, older version, which comes with a better cartridge. Also had the belt replaced not too long ago, so that won't be a problem either.
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Post by: Carl-E on 26 Jul 2013, 17:11
Belt drive?  For 80 euros? 

Crap, what's a direct drive cost nowadays? 
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Jul 2013, 18:41
I posted this in the 'own music' thread but nobody ever reads that. So here you go. Basically, I have realized that I've repressed some feelings that I have for one of my best friends, and since she's moving to another state late next month, I decided I'd write a song and tell her.

[soundcloud]https://soundcloud.com/kimjongsick/someday-wav[/soundcloud]

She loved it, and I hope you do too.
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Post by: Thrillho on 27 Jul 2013, 02:22
That's cheating Pat.
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Jul 2013, 03:06
I'm a rebel, I do what I want
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Jul 2013, 02:02
So I guess my granddaddy is in hospice care now. I know he's lived a long and full life, fighting off the Germans in the Battle of the Bulge in '44 and driving a truck for the rest of his life and never complaining about anything and sometimes saying shit that just boggled the mind ("If it wasn't for places like this, there wouldn't be any more places like this"). And if he's right about God and heaven being real, well, I hope he is for his sake. He's earned it more than most people I know, and I'm not just saying it because he's blood.

I am just a sad guy right now 'cause sad shit is just saddening up my sads
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Jul 2013, 03:36
Mad hugs bro.
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Post by: Carl-E on 28 Jul 2013, 11:06
Hospice care is a good thing, though. 

Will you be able to go and say goodbye? 
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Jul 2013, 11:11
Dude's up somewhere near Seattle under the care of my selfish and batty aunt who doesn't think it's important we know how to get in touch with him.

what the fuck is up with Seattle and making my life miserable lately, I've only ever even been like 3 times
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Post by: Loki on 28 Jul 2013, 11:29
Hugs.
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Post by: Akima on 28 Jul 2013, 18:40
So I guess my granddaddy is in hospice care now.
Filial concern is commendable. You are good people, Patrick. Of course there are sads, but: "I will not say, do not weep, for not all tears are an evil."
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Jul 2013, 19:19
yeah. mostly I'm just angry that Circumstances dictated that he be in Aunt Linda's care, because she is a degenerate sack of shit whose miserable, lacking personality thrives on making evil power plays like this that serve no purpose except to keep apart people who love and miss each other. she tried this shit when Grandma Judy died a few years back, too. there may be 2 deaths in the family if she doesn't keep her goddamn filthy manipulative mouth shut at the funeral about how much suffering she went through over this

anyway, you guys are amazing, and despite this, I've had a pretty good day today. I went on a hike with some folks I don't know well, and they turned out to not only be rad people, but determined hikers. we set ourselves a goal, bitched a little bit on the way up, and made it all the way to the top of Brushy Peak (a local trail) and back without incident. then we went to 7/11 and got slurpees. mine is Mountain Dew flavored. delicious.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 29 Jul 2013, 08:37
Holy goddamn, this driving school thing is now becoming incredibly stressful. Not because of the driving, but because of the time that's necessary for it.

They can only do the practical exam after the theoretical exam. I now got an appointment for the theoretical exam on August 12th. I've got an appointment for the last driving lesson on September 9th. Then I could start the driving lessons and the practical exam for the trailer license. Problem with this: University begins at the beginning of October, so I wanted to move to the new town (wherever that might be) in September.

Fuck.

Shit was expensive enough to begin with, so I can't really cancel the trailer license.
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Post by: Carl-E on 30 Jul 2013, 00:18
There's still plenty of moving time in September after the 9th. 


Of course, you could always drive back for those last few lessons....  :psyduck: :-D :angel:
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Post by: ankhtahr on 30 Jul 2013, 02:36
Well...

After September 9th I'll need to take the practical exam. And theoretically I'd need another four driving lessons and another exam for the trailer license. That takes some time, as the exams are centrally organised and you never know when you get an appointment for it.

And going back to this place would take about 8 hours by train and would cost me at least 160€ only for the journey.
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Post by: Welu on 30 Jul 2013, 03:13
 Can you do the test where you're moving to? Or would you have to restart the process at a new school?

Also not to be insensitive but I just passed my driving test! Got only three minor faults. So chuffed!
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Post by: Akima on 30 Jul 2013, 03:15
Then I could start the driving lessons and the practical exam for the trailer license.
Do you need a special licence to tow a trailer in Germany?
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Post by: ankhtahr on 30 Jul 2013, 03:50
It's a complicated system. We have different classes of licenses here. To drive a car (read motor powered vehicle with more than one wheel per axle with a gross vehicle weight of under 3.5 tonnes) you need class B. Class B also allows you to tow trailers when they either have a gross vehicle weight under 750kg or when the sum of the GVW of the car and trailer is under 3.5 tonnes. So if you have a trailer which weighs 751kg you're only allowed to pull it if your car weighs less than 2.749 tonnes. If your trailer has a GVW of 749kg, then you're allowed to pull it with every car you're allowed to drive with B.

The license I was wanting to do was B and BE. BE is the trailer addition. It allows you to pull any trailer with a GVW under 3.5 tonnes with any car I'm allowed to drive with B. You need additional driving lessons and a separate exam for that
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Post by: Redball on 30 Jul 2013, 05:12
I wonder if parallel parking with trailer is on the driving test.
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Post by: Akima on 30 Jul 2013, 06:34
Thanks Ankhtar. In Australia, once you have a full Class C license (car, truck or bus up to 4.5 tonnes GVM*, with passenger capacity not exceeding 12 people including the driver), you can tow a trailer without any further training or licence endorsement. Having seen some people get in a terrible mess with their trailers, caravans etc., I think your system might be better.

*We call it mass rather than weight.
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Post by: Redball on 30 Jul 2013, 06:47
*We call it mass rather than weight.

My first thought is, "How scientific of you!"
My second is that referring more correctly to mass rather than weight is a reminder that momentum of a moving vehicle is considerable. What's the state of science education in Australia?
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Post by: ankhtahr on 30 Jul 2013, 08:33
I wonder if parallel parking with trailer is on the driving test.

No it isn't. The only special exercise I need to perform for the driving test is reversing around a corner to the left. It includes stopping, getting out of the vehicle to lock the overrun brake and asking the driving instructor to get out of the vehicle and warn you of other vehicles. He is not allowed to signal if you're turning wrong, only to warn you if a vehicle turns up.

As for the mass/weight discussion, well weight was the first word that came to my mind, and GVW is what I found in a dictionary. The German term for that is "zulässige Gesamtmasse" -> "zGM".

By the way, Welu: Congratulations!

The problem is that I had to register at the local "DMV" equivalent. If I'd move I'm not sure if I could still do it with them. If I'd need to register again than I'd have to pay the fee again as well, which was somewhere over 100€. Also I'd definitely need to pay the registration fee for the new driving school which is in the same ballpark cost-wise.

Bit more detail about the German/European system (afaik it has been standardised in the whole EU now):
We have many more classes of licenses. Class B is the most common.

Class A in general is for Motorcycles. There are the classes AM for Mopeds (Two-wheel vehicles or three-wheel vehicles with a maximum design speed of not more than 45 km/h and with a cylinder capacity not exceeding 50 cubic centimetres.), A1, A2 and A for motorcycles (with different restrictions of power and driver's age). Then we have Class B, with the trailer extensions BE and B96, where B96 is somewhere in the middle of B and BE (max 4.25t GVM). Then there is Class C, which is for trucks. Class C1 is for small trucks with a GVM of up to 7.5t. Class C1E is for pulling trailers with C1 vehicles. Class C is for large trucks with a GVM of over 3.5t. No restriction on the GVM, as long as the vehicle doesn't have more than 8 seats plus driver. CE is for trailers again. Class D1 are buses with up to 16+1 seats, Class D is unlimited. D1E and DE are once again the trailer extensions.

Class B (the ordinary car license) contains the Moped license, Class AM.
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Post by: Redball on 30 Jul 2013, 11:04
I wonder if parallel parking with trailer is on the driving test.
No it isn't. The only special exercise I need to perform for the driving test is reversing around a corner to the left. It includes stopping, getting out of the vehicle to lock the overrun brake and asking the driving instructor to get out of the vehicle and warn you of other vehicles. He is not allowed to signal if you're turning wrong, only to warn you if a vehicle turns up.

I was trying to make a funny. On the other hand, I wonder if anyone has succeeded in parallel parking an auto with trailer in, say, two parking spaces.
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Post by: cesium133 on 30 Jul 2013, 11:11
When I went fishing with my dad, you had to do that at one of the boat launches that we used because there wasn't much space for parking. It was a pain to do, especially since at the time I was just learning to drive. Oh, and I was driving a manual transmission. On a steep hill.
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 30 Jul 2013, 11:33
Thanks Ankhtar. In Australia, once you have a full Class C license (car, truck or bus up to 4.5 tonnes GVM*, with passenger capacity not exceeding 12 people including the driver), you can tow a trailer without any further training or licence endorsement. Having seen some people get in a terrible mess with their trailers, caravans etc., I think your system might be better.

*We call it mass rather than weight.
Yeah, same here in Belgium. Last year I towed almost a ton with my standard license, the first time I ever towed a trailer too. Somewhat scary when I was going over a viaduct and the whole back end of the car seemed to be buffeting like mad.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 30 Jul 2013, 13:08
I think you need a license for towing in the UK as well - there was certainly talk of it a while back. If you had a full licence before the change happened (if indeed it even did), you wouldn't have had to get a towing license.

What I don't get, though, is why you can drive on the motorway without an extra license when you're not allowed on it at all with a provisional license. As I understand it, you can pass your test and then straight afterwards drive around on your own on a road type that you've never been on before.
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Post by: Zebediah on 30 Jul 2013, 13:29
The world is full of strange rules like that. Example: When I was 16, the law in North Carolina was that I was covered by my parents' auto insurance while I had my learner's permit - but when I got my full license, I had to have insurance in my own name in order to be allowed to drive. Which I couldn't afford (being 16) and which my dad wouldn't pay for (because he's a cheap bastard.) The result being that I was legally allowed to drive the car to my road test, but not to drive it home after I passed.  :roll:

The law has changed since then - now you need to have insurance in your own name before they'll even issue you the license. So a couple of my nieces and nephews kept their learner's permits until they were 18.
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Jul 2013, 14:06
Last year I towed almost a ton with my standard license, the first time I ever towed a trailer too. Somewhat scary when I was going over a viaduct and the whole back end of the car seemed to be buffeting like mad.

was the load's center of gravity centered over the trailer's? it's very important to do that so you don't get that buffeting. that can damage your trailer hitch and put unnecessary wear on yr tires.
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Post by: Carl-E on 30 Jul 2013, 21:12
I wonder if parallel parking with trailer is on the driving test.
No it isn't. The only special exercise I need to perform for the driving test is reversing around a corner to the left. It includes stopping, getting out of the vehicle to lock the overrun brake and asking the driving instructor to get out of the vehicle and warn you of other vehicles. He is not allowed to signal if you're turning wrong, only to warn you if a vehicle turns up.

I was trying to make a funny. On the other hand, I wonder if anyone has succeeded in parallel parking an auto with trailer in, say, two parking spaces.

All the time.  We have a 16' sailboat with a 22' mast laid across the top of it, so it's a bit longer overall than the van.  The process is interesting - but getting a trailer to go the way you want it to when backing up is exactly the same as steering a sailboat with a rudder/tiller. 

So, a doubly applicable skill! 
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Post by: Akima on 31 Jul 2013, 02:16
What's the state of science education in Australia?
ZoeB might be better positioned to answer that, especially beyond undergraduate level, but I don't think science education is adequate. Education is  controlled by the states in Australia BTW, so my comments beyond this point are based on NSW, the state where I received my education. I am going to refer to "units" below. All you need to know is that high-school students in NSW need to complete twenty-two Board-Of-Studies-approved course "units" to obtain the Higher School Certificate (HSC), their score in which is used to calculate their Australian Tertiary Admission Rank (ATAR), the gateway to university etc.

The only compulsory subject in NSW high-schools is two-unit English, which is a pretty basic minimum, so you don't have to study science or mathematics at all.

Chemistry, Physics, Biology, and Senior Science (general science) are only available as two-unit subjects. Under the rules of the HSC, no more than six units of science may be studied in total. By contrast, "arts subjects" like English, History, Music, Modern Languages, and even Religious Studies can be taken at four or five unit level each. Essentially, the HSC discriminates against the study of science in a manner that shows that the pernicious Two Cultures (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Two_Cultures) prejudice is still alive and well in Australia. Mathematics does not count as a science in this context incidentally; you can do four-unit maths and six units of science.
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Post by: ev4n on 31 Jul 2013, 04:46
heeeelp…

somebody keep me from buying all the vinyls…

My record player hasn't even been sent yet, but I already bought 4 vinyls…

Man, there's a vinyl I really really want.  Shipping is 35 euros....  :(
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Post by: Patrick on 31 Jul 2013, 10:36
my back hurts for no good reason and my friend punched me in the knee last night and it still hurts this morning whenever I move it. fuuuck.

least I got to spend the whole night at the bar talking to a really pretty girl. that is always nice, even though she distracted me and I got my ass handed to me playing 8 ball.
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Post by: Carl-E on 01 Aug 2013, 09:26
heeeelp…

somebody keep me from buying all the vinyls…

My record player hasn't even been sent yet, but I already bought 4 vinyls…

Man, there's a vinyl I really really want.  Shipping is 35 euros....  :(

DAYUM.  Do people like you buy old vinyl? 

Maybe it's time to dust off the collection and fire up e-bay... old Jethro Tull might be worth something... my copy of "Stand Up" still does. 
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 Aug 2013, 09:58
Quite a sheltered viewpoint there, man. Vinyl's been huge for a few years now, old and new.
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Post by: ev4n on 01 Aug 2013, 10:19
Heh, I would buy used, but in this case it was new and shipping from Europe.  Not worth it, alas.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 01 Aug 2013, 10:35
heh, and I have a few vinyls I'd like from the US which I can't afford due to shipping.

And speaking of vinyl: my turntable finally arrived. It's frickin awesome!

First thing I did was listen through all the records I own. Which is a number which grew to 4 Albums (Mogwai: Mr Beast, Mogwai: Hardcore Will Never Die But You Will, Do Make Say Think: Other Truths and Wardruna: Yggdrasil) and 2 Drum'n'Bass records (Netsky: Memory Lane/Camo&Krooked: Turn Up The Music and Eric Prydz: Niton Drum'n'Bass remixes) as of today.

I also looked through some of the old records from my mother. She's ashamed of parts of the selection herself, but there are some nice things in between. I now have an interpretion of Part 1 of "Das wohltemparierte Klavier" by Johann Sebastian Bach. Among the better records are also two Uriah Heep albums, Deep Purple's "Made in Japan", and two Status Quo albums. Then there are many Beatles and many Prince albums, and lots of other stuff.
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 01 Aug 2013, 10:55
Last year I towed almost a ton with my standard license, the first time I ever towed a trailer too. Somewhat scary when I was going over a viaduct and the whole back end of the car seemed to be buffeting like mad.

was the load's center of gravity centered over the trailer's? it's very important to do that so you don't get that buffeting. that can damage your trailer hitch and put unnecessary wear on yr tires.

Oh it was balance well enough, just high sidewinds hitting a tall car and trailer will kind of put a stress on the back end of your car when you're towing half the vehicle's weight
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Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Aug 2013, 12:40
my moirail just asked me to get ordained so i can marry her and her fiancé and i said yes
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Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Aug 2013, 13:23
i'm ordained now! this is not how i was expecting today to go at all when i woke up.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 01 Aug 2013, 13:54
heeeelp…

somebody keep me from buying all the vinyls…

My record player hasn't even been sent yet, but I already bought 4 vinyls…

Man, there's a vinyl I really really want.  Shipping is 35 euros....  :(

DAYUM.  Do people like you buy old vinyl? 

Maybe it's time to dust off the collection and fire up e-bay... old Jethro Tull might be worth something... my copy of "Stand Up" still does.

Over 9000 points for mentioning Jethro Tull. Have you seen them live?
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Post by: Carl-E on 01 Aug 2013, 20:20
'fraid not.  Only concert I've been to live (other than folk or classical) is the Dead.  Back in college, many years before Jerry died. 



Too many drugs.   :cry:
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Post by: Welu on 02 Aug 2013, 03:42
i'm ordained now! this is not how i was expecting today to go at all when i woke up.

That's fast!

~~

Had an anxiety attack in work. One of the worst I've had in a while and it came from nowhere. I managed to calm down after forty minutes and actually stayed and finished my shift. So that sucked but I'm proud I stayed when I was offered multiple times to go home. Thankfully workmates are very nice and understanding.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 02 Aug 2013, 03:45
Welcome to the ranks of the ordained! Stiff collars are on the left in the club house and your new sense of Moral Superiority and Righteous Indignation (tm) will be in the mail shortly after being tailored to your particular faith or lack there of.
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Post by: Loki on 02 Aug 2013, 08:57
Where are the sex scandals?
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 02 Aug 2013, 09:39
'fraid not.  Only concert I've been to live (other than folk or classical) is the Dead.  Back in college, many years before Jerry died. 



Too many drugs.   :cry:

:-( My dad always talks about how awesome they were live. He wanted to take me to a show so bad but Jerry passed before I was old enough to go.

Semi-related- happy belated birthday, Jerry. He would have turned 71 yesterday.
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Post by: Patrick on 02 Aug 2013, 10:34
Hello.
I actually do blog ..sorta.
I've got it buried in a fan site for my favorite hobby.
I've had it up and running for 2 years and 250 posts.
Hope you like:  http://www.battletechuniverse.org/hpguplink/viewtopic.php?p=168755#p168755

if nobody else is gonna touch this, I'm gonna. this is not what the blog thread is for. I suggest participating in the "MAKE" subforum.
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Post by: Carl-E on 02 Aug 2013, 16:44
I thought we were all just politely ignoring it. 
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Aug 2013, 10:49
I'm definitely not polite.

So I have a pen pal now. It's the girl I met when my buddy and I arrived back in town after seeing the RX Bandits. She had asked me for a CD when she came to see my band play, but we both forgot about it. We were drunkenly texting each other last night and she reminded me (as well as both of us admitting we've got crushes on each other), so I asked her for her address. We're still talking right now, and I told her I was going to write a smarmy letter to send with the CD. She said she'd write back. Oh god this is too damn cute.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Aug 2013, 12:46
i'm dating a super cutie and i'm going on a date with another super cutie my life is filled with hella babes i don't know how to handle it
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Aug 2013, 13:03
Uni, I think it's time you and I admitted we're sluts
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Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Aug 2013, 14:04
hell yeah i'm a slut but i'm a hella selective slut and i turn down 99% of offers that come my way
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Post by: Jace on 03 Aug 2013, 14:12
I was gone for a week, did you miss me? probably not. Here is one of the highlights of my week, this was on sunday and was the Combat of the Thirty. Approximately 30 fighters on two sides, French and English, and they go out and beat the fuck out of each other with polearms.

My buddy Enzo was participating and I was his man of largesse. That is the guy who takes care of his ransom and watches his captives.

Here is me grabbing Enzo's ransom, which we gave to the man he captured because it was the first time for both fighters in the Thirty and we are cool dudes. The guy he captured was an actual Englishman.
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-f-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/579593_10201651661074905_348884070_n.jpg)
He is opening the ransom, which was 20 English Grotes (reproductions)
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-c-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/935857_10201651661154907_1305267452_n.jpg)
Here is the scroll (a writ of release) and pin that was given to Enzo by his captive. Enzo then gave me the pin as a thank you for being his man of largesse.
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-a-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn2/1146229_10201651661954927_926246399_o.jpg)

There's more pictures from the week and I'll make a superpost with some of the best in a couple days in the photo thread.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 03 Aug 2013, 18:43
My roommates have introduced me to an awesome German band called Kraftwerk, and I haven't been able to stop listening since. They make pretty awesome catchy tunes and are considered pioneers in the electronic music genre (and are said to have inspired both Hip Hop and Techno).

Anyway, I keep listening to "Computerworld" and for some reason keep picturing Loki as the singer. It must be because the singer of the band comes from Dortmund and I picture Loki coming from Dortmund.
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 03 Aug 2013, 18:45
Fun fun fun on the Autobahhhhhn...
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Post by: Masterpiece on 03 Aug 2013, 18:50
Eins, zwei, drei, vier, fünf, sechs, sieben, acht!
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Post by: jwhouk on 03 Aug 2013, 19:14
Kraftwerk - didn't they inflict "Zombie Nation" upon us all here in the US? Or was that Kernkraft?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 04 Aug 2013, 02:03
I don't remember a song called Zombie Nation.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 04 Aug 2013, 03:00
Sie ist ein Model und sie sieht gut aus…

And it's "Wir fahr'n, fahr'n, fahr'n auf der Autobahn" by the way. (fahren means drive)

I don't really like Kraftwerk, but there are some songs I just can't get out of my mind.

But if I think about the Autobahn, another song comes to my mind as well. "Autobahn" by the "Ohrbooten": "Das Leben ist wie eine große Autobahn, drum lass uns nicht lange überlegen, sondern losfahrn, wohin ist egal, und wo lang wer'n wir sehn, es wird immer weitergehn."


(translation for the non-Germans: Life is like a big Autobahn, so let's not think about it for long but start driving. Where to doesn't matter, and where along we'll see, but it will always go on)
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Post by: Welu on 04 Aug 2013, 03:10
Fun fun fun on the Autobahhhhhn...

I studied Kraftwerk for my course, as well as the whole electronica movement but the tutor played this regularly during the module and now it cause minor brain explosions.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 04 Aug 2013, 03:19
But, but it's wrong…
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Post by: Masterpiece on 04 Aug 2013, 06:53
Ankh, there's an English version and a German one.
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Post by: snalin on 04 Aug 2013, 07:07
Sie ist ein Model und sie sieht gut aus…
The Rammstein version is better anyways.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 04 Aug 2013, 09:51
Ankh, there's an English version and a German one.

"Unlike many of the band's most popular songs, the band has never released the song in any other language."  :roll:
"The lyrics of the song are in German, the main refrain being "Wir fahren fahren fahren auf der Autobahn" (English: "We drive drive drive on the Autobahn"). The chorus was often mistaken for the English phrase "Fun fun fun on the Autobahn.""
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Post by: Masterpiece on 04 Aug 2013, 11:02
Oopsies.
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Post by: jwhouk on 04 Aug 2013, 12:13
Wasn't until after I posted that I realized that Zombie Nation was the name of the band - and their most notable song is "Kernkraft 400".
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Post by: Patrick on 04 Aug 2013, 13:17
Just gonna put it out there that I DON'T GIVE A SHITTING GOD DAMN ABOUT THE NEW DOCTOR, AND MY ENTIRE FACEBOOK FEED NEEDS TO COLLECTIVELY KILL THEMSELVES
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Post by: Masterpiece on 04 Aug 2013, 13:25
Tardis more like TURDis amirite
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Post by: Thrillho on 04 Aug 2013, 17:05
Just gonna put it out there that I DON'T GIVE A SHITTING GOD DAMN ABOUT THE NEW DOCTOR, AND MY ENTIRE FACEBOOK FEED NEEDS TO COLLECTIVELY KILL THEMSELVES

My suggested list would've been really funny if you'd heard of more of them bro
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 04 Aug 2013, 23:23
...so how about the new Doctor?
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Post by: Carl-E on 04 Aug 2013, 23:35
I lost track around 5. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Aug 2013, 03:27
C'mon now, we had to put up with YEARS of the same thing when you guys were picking your president!
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Post by: Redball on 05 Aug 2013, 05:49
I keep hearing about this, but I'm so far from TV I have no idea what it's about. Nude octer? Nude actor? WTF?
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Aug 2013, 08:11
Who? 





(Exactly.)











Third base! 
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Post by: celticgeek on 05 Aug 2013, 08:13
No, Who's on first.
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Aug 2013, 08:22
I dunno...


But he used to be on right after the news on the CBC. 
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Post by: Patrick on 05 Aug 2013, 12:46
some guy basically called me a supporter of racism and bigotry and blah blah because I posted a status about not giving a shit about Dr Who, and how I much prefer Top Gear. dude went on to try to guilt trip the fuck out of me and try to force me into converting.

bonus points: he's a way old-school QC forumite, and that self-righteous reaction is typical of the old forums, and about 90% of why I'm glad those days are over.
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Post by: Grognard on 05 Aug 2013, 13:26
Hello.
I actually do blog ..sorta.
I've got it buried in a fan site for my favorite hobby.
I've had it up and running for 2 years and 250 posts.
Hope you like:  http://www.battletechuniverse.org/hpguplink/viewtopic.php?p=168755#p168755

if nobody else is gonna touch this, I'm gonna. this is not what the blog thread is for. I suggest participating in the "MAKE" subforum.

I apologize for prematurely posting a note about my Blog in the "Blog Thread 4" ...  :-P I did put it in the 'Make' forums
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 05 Aug 2013, 15:56
The Blog Thread is for bloggy posts, not "here's my blog" posts. You're likely to find some people who like the stuff you like over in Make. So, what's up?

Today my bank called and said, "Oh hey we put the wrong interest rate on your loan documents, so will you please sign this paper that will let us charge you more?" I'm considering exactly how politic I need to be when telling them to fuck off to avoid them trying to repo the car that I just got registered on Friday.
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Post by: Akima on 05 Aug 2013, 16:07
I don't care about Dr. Who, but Jeremy Clarkson is a worthless lout, at least in his public persona, so I don't care about Top Gear either.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 05 Aug 2013, 17:37
CNC PCB milling machines are great…

if they work.

At our local hackerspace we have one. Today was the first time we tried milling a double sided PCB with it.

It was disastrous.

After having to create a new workflow from scratch because the guy who gave us the machine fiddled around with the CAM job which converts the data from the layout program to a interchangeable format, so we had to use multiple CAM jobs and pick all the resulting files which were usable.

Which weren't so usable after all. Apart from having a disparity between top and bottom layer of about 1mm we later found out that the PCB layout which we got after the necessary three conversions was complete garbage. We only found out about this after fiddling around with the files for 4 hours and then milling for 40 minutes.

It doesn't help that the computer we connect to the milling machine has to have a RS-232 port, so it's some really old laptop (it still has a 3.5" floppy drive) running XP. The XP is running really slow, which doesn't make working on it any more fun than it would be anyways. It also doesn't help that the software which was given to us for the milling machine was developed for frickin Win 3.1.  This is one of the most annoying workflows I've ever encountered.

We've now had so much trouble with this machine that some of us are thinking about going back to etching the PCBs with acid again.
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Post by: nekowafer on 05 Aug 2013, 17:42
I'm not too into Dr. Who, and I love Top Gear. And I saw that thread, Pat. That was just... dumb. Someone looking to start a fight over nothing.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 06 Aug 2013, 07:39
I'm not into Dr. Who, but it intrigues me. I'd like to give it a go, just never seem to make the time for it. *shrug*
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Post by: Thrillho on 06 Aug 2013, 13:17
some guy basically called me a supporter of racism and bigotry and blah blah because I posted a status about not giving a shit about Dr Who, and how I much prefer Top Gear. dude went on to try to guilt trip the fuck out of me and try to force me into converting.

bonus points: he's a way old-school QC forumite, and that self-righteous reaction is typical of the old forums, and about 90% of why I'm glad those days are over.

...Khar?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Aug 2013, 15:15
I was thinking Tommy or Darrly, but Khar would make sense too.
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Post by: Thrillho on 06 Aug 2013, 15:40
I think Tommy made me angrier than anyone else because he seemed like a cool guy beneath a six foot thick layer of douchebag.
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Post by: Lines on 06 Aug 2013, 17:09
I wrote out a reply, but it sounds so mom-like, I deleted it.
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Post by: Akima on 07 Aug 2013, 04:12
I was thinking Tommy or Darrly, but Khar would make sense too.
I remember them...
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Post by: pwhodges on 07 Aug 2013, 07:25
Hmm; all three of them UK residents as I recall.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 07 Aug 2013, 08:04
I never quite liked Dr. Who. Though I do like Torchwood (If only for the dreamy Jack Harkness). I liked the first two seasons of Skins, but I couldn't really get into it after that.

My friend showed me an episode of Top Gear once, I have absolutely no interest in cars whatsoever, but they were talking about James Bond's car, so I somewhat intrigued.
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Post by: ev4n on 07 Aug 2013, 08:11
Top Gear is awesome if sometimes cringeworthy, and you don't need to care about cars at all.  I think they've jumped the shard, though, as the egos have all gotten big.

Doctor Who is excellent, and by excellent, I mean sometimes brilliant, sometimes utter camp.  Still the best thing on TV, probably.
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Post by: Welu on 07 Aug 2013, 09:11
Too many people tried to force me to watch Doctor Who. Totally put off it now. Same with a lot of other shows. Top Gear used to be amusing but I could only watch it if my brothers were also watching and making jokes.

I watch no current TV shows, with any real commitment, that I can think of off the top of my head. The only show I'm watching with any regularity is Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares, going through the old seasons. Qi and You've Been Framed are my go-to background noise shows.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 07 Aug 2013, 09:38
I watch RuPaul's Drag Race, I girl 5 gays, and Once upon A time regularly when their on. i watch other shows too, but I am really too busy to keep up with them.
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Post by: LTK on 07 Aug 2013, 10:04
One must wonder how exactly one would go about girling one gay, much less five of them. :mrgreen:
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 07 Aug 2013, 10:42
It's pretty easy. It can depend on the type, but we often girl ourselves. (But if used that in that context, the show would be a lot similar to RuPaul's Drag Race)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 07 Aug 2013, 11:03
Eeeeeee, I love Drag Race. <3


I am a TV junkie.....it helps to quiet my brain, so it's therapeutic. Plus, there are tvs in front of the cardio machines at the gym, so it helps to pass the time. At any given time, I have 5 things programmed on the DVR (depending on season, of course). Currently, it's been Storage Wars & So You Think You Can Dance. Face Off is starting next week though, yippee!

Among the other "regulars" are SVU, NCIS, New Girl, Mythbusters, How I Met Your Mother and Big Bang (yeah, yeah...i know). Jeopardy is a regular too. I DVR it and keep score.... :-P

Just started watching some stuff on HGTV- Property Virgins, Love It or List It, etc- since we're currently house hunting and it inspires me.
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Post by: Valdís on 07 Aug 2013, 11:18
RuPaul

Ugh..
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 07 Aug 2013, 12:48
I don't care about Dr. Who, but Jeremy Clarkson is a worthless lout, at least in his public persona, so I don't care about Top Gear either.

Kind of missing the whole point I think.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 07 Aug 2013, 14:31
I pretty much adore Doctor Who right now, having finally finished watching the whole thing. Torchwood gave me nightmares so I stopped.

When we were house hunting, HGTV mad me so angry. "Oh darling, which of these adorable but unique under-budget homes in our favorite neighborhood shall we choose?" "I don't know, dear, but that second one had some blue paint in the living room, and you know how I feel about blue." "Oh but I do! We can't possibly buy that one."
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Post by: Loki on 07 Aug 2013, 15:15
Anyway, I keep listening to "Computerworld" and for some reason keep picturing Loki as the singer. It must be because the singer of the band comes from Dortmund and I picture Loki coming from Dortmund.

wtf dude I am from Düsseldorf
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Post by: Lines on 07 Aug 2013, 16:16
I don't care about Dr. Who, but Jeremy Clarkson is a worthless lout, at least in his public persona, so I don't care about Top Gear either.

Kind of missing the whole point I think.

Not really. After reading the status and comments in question, the point mostly being made by the dude that was arguing with Pat was basically the same point that Akima made. (Except other dude was a Dr. Who fan.) Some people cannot get over the personal lives of actors (or any famous people, really), which I find reasonable.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 07 Aug 2013, 17:31
I pretty much adore Doctor Who right now, having finally finished watching the whole thing. Torchwood gave me nightmares so I stopped.

When we were house hunting, HGTV mad me so angry. "Oh darling, which of these adorable but unique under-budget homes in our favorite neighborhood shall we choose?" "I don't know, dear, but that second one had some blue paint in the living room, and you know how I feel about blue." "Oh but I do! We can't possibly buy that one."

Ha! Yeah.....sometimes I just want to reach through the tv and slap someone, but I haven't seen anything that bad yet. However....I've only caught a few shows :-P I like watching people tear shit down more than running around with hundreds of thousands of dollars and throwing it at something that is "move-in ready". That whole phrase irritates me. I want to move into MY house, not someone else's.
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Post by: nekowafer on 07 Aug 2013, 17:37
When we were house hunting, HGTV mad me so angry. "Oh darling, which of these adorable but unique under-budget homes in our favorite neighborhood shall we choose?" "I don't know, dear, but that second one had some blue paint in the living room, and you know how I feel about blue." "Oh but I do! We can't possibly buy that one."

I saw an episode where a couple were buying a house, and one option was a split level. She said she liked the house, but wouldn't get it because she didn't like having to make a decision to either go upstairs or down right when she got in the house. She didn't want to have to make a decision the moment she got home.

I am not making this shit up. It was so stupid.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 07 Aug 2013, 18:21
That is just something else.

I think I reached that point after looking at our 40th essentially identical townhouse, still searching for something that wasn't out of our price range, in desperate need of new carpet and paint throughout, missing all its appliances, missing a kitchen or bathroom, divided into extra bedrooms in the basement, being used by squatters, being used as a drug drop house, in a truly terrible neighborhood, and/or under contract before we even got there.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 07 Aug 2013, 20:08
..............Whut.  :psyduck:


I'd like to think that what we want is not should not be hard to find. Something with a monthly payment of around (or less than) $1k, that has 3 or more bedrooms and a dining room* (or EIK) and is in a neighborhood that doesn't make me cringe. We're even up for some handy work! In fact, we want it- as long as we can actually live there while we work. Shitty tiling job in the bathroom? Gimme! Horrendous paint colors throughout? Yessssss. Roof collapsing? Nooooooooooothankyou.




*Had anyone told me that finding a dining room was a difficult task, I never would have believed them but holy hell is it hard to find!!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 07 Aug 2013, 22:49
I don't have a dining room in my apartment. I theoretically have space for one, but fuck me running it must be set up for a table for little people in the "test" of it if they're gonna mix the dining room and entry way like that...
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Aug 2013, 23:17
I'm sitting in our dining room now, comfortably filled with my grandparent's dining room furniture - mock tudor from the 1920's, large table, 5 big chairs, two sideboards, and a breakfront ("hutch"). 

The got it at a discount because one of the chairs was missing...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Aug 2013, 04:02
My dining room is precisely the size of my folding leaf table with one leaf folded up. When I fold it down, that section becomes the hallway between the kitchen and the bathroom.

I measured the walls the other day. My flat is 170 square feet, inclusive of bathroom.
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Post by: Welu on 08 Aug 2013, 04:09
We have a dining area in the kitchen that I would love to put up a wall to separate and knock the other wall to make a decent living room. Although since that's the bottom floor's main wall it may knock the house down. That might annoy the terraced neighbours.
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Post by: LTK on 08 Aug 2013, 12:25
It was really sunny today and I went biking with my parents and my sister around the Gooi en Vechtstreek. We covered a circular route of 55 km with a really nice variety of Dutch towns and nature reserves.

I also got a little bit sunburnt. I love how my skin starts to smell when I've been in the sun for a while, is that just me? I wonder if that's the result of a metabolic response to the sunlight or if it's simply the radiation causing the breakdown of skin cells that causes the smell.
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Post by: Welu on 08 Aug 2013, 13:30
Today while I was walking in town, passed a family, a Mum, Granny, Grandpa and a maybe two year old in a buggy. The two year old was crying but in a whingy/sobby way, not an Anything Is Actually Wrong way. The Mum's hands were full of bags and she was trying to put them down so she could comfort the child. Then just as I pass them the Granny says, directly to the child, "Ach, fuck up, will ya!?"

Classic Norn' Eire parenting there.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 09 Aug 2013, 09:42
......oy.


And LTK- I do too!! I have no clue what causes it but I just love it so much. Even if I don't get any color at all, just that freshly "sunned" smell is delicious.



Carl- your dining room sounds lovely!


We found a house that we really like but we're afraid to take the plunge. It's really cute but we're hesitant because... well....we're good at finding things wrong and worry that a two bedroom won't work for us- especially when the bedrooms are small.

1,600 sq ft (our current place is about 650)
built in 1956
2 living rooms (1 that is HUGE and has a fireplace)
a yard that is big enough (but not too big)
a cute little front patio
3 (!) storage sheds in the back yard- we'd probably keep 2- 1 for wood, 1 for other "shed stuff"
a finished garage
a crawlspace attic
a laundry room
a "3rd bedroom" that is really just a wide hallway with a closet in it.


It's also slightly out of our budget but our realtor said that we can and should offer lower because we'll need to put some work into it. It's listed at $145,000 but he said we should offer $110K. He said we could reasonably get it for $118-$120K. It likely needs about $20K worth of work- most of it in the kitchen. We'd need to re-do the ceiling, take down the tiles on the walls, possibly re-do the floors (linoleum, we'd probably do bamboo or Pergo). Possibly re-do cabinets, probably add some more. Also would need to replace the front bay window. The nice thing is that our monthly payments would be really affordable, so we could tack a few extra K onto our mortgage to help us pay for some of the repairs/upgrades and still afford a little bit out of pocket if we needed to. Plus, unlike all of the other places in our range, this is NOT a short sale, so we could move in by the time our lease is up in October. We'd obviously need to do work, but it's definitely livable- it's incredibly well maintained and you can tell that they have such pride of ownership.

One of my requirements for our house is a dining room. No dining room here. We could take the wide hallway section and just make that a dining room, but we're torn between doing that or taking out the wall between that and the first bedroom, to make the bedroom bigger. Other option is to put up a wall halfway through the second living room and make half of that room a dining room. I think the biggest issue we have is that we don't want to jump into this too quickly just because it's the nicest thing we've seen so far- which isn't really saying a lot- we've looked at less than 10 homes and some of them were terrible.

We don't want to keep looking and then realize that this is the one, only to have it snatched up by someone else. But we also don't want to jump into it and bite off more than we can chew.
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Post by: Redball on 09 Aug 2013, 10:06
How's the neighborhood? Schools? Consider knocking on doors of would-be next-door neighbors to ask about that. You'll have it inspected? If you feel your compromising with your original goals, it doesn't have to be your rest-of-your-life home.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 09 Aug 2013, 10:17
The neighborhood and school districts are great :-) Just around the corner from one of the community colleges. Close enough to things that it's easy to get what you need when you need it but not so close that it's obnoxious. My best friend's father does home inspections for a living and once he heard we were looking, he offered us a great deal on a full inspection- $350 as opposed to his regular $800.


We keep trying to remember that we don't have to live there forever, but we want it to bring us more joy than stress, y'know?
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Post by: Grognard on 09 Aug 2013, 10:28
a 1956 fixer'upper?

;|

that is a massive gamble.
PRO: better construction than anything built since 1980.  The house has completed its settling days.
CON: that's old, and nowhere near code.  You may actually find CLOTH-coverd wiring during reno.

IMHO: I'd suggest looking for something cheaper and newer.  Renovations are a PITA.
But I wish you the best of luck.  :thumbsup:
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Post by: Papersatan on 09 Aug 2013, 11:08
I don't think I've never lived in a home that didn't have cloth covered wiring in it, or wood lath and plaster walls for that matter.  My parent's home and this apartment are even piped for gas lights.  I admit, my opinions are shaped by growing up in an old home, but I hate most new construction.  Old homes can be more work, but in exchange they have character.  I mean when a plaster wall is damaged and you have to replace it, or you try and replace a light fixture only to find the wiring makes no sense, it's a pain, but I like the feeling of a home with history. The house I grew up in, or the homes I played in as a child had coal rooms, and milk doors, and dumbwaiters, established plantings (wisteria/roses etc), razors in the bathroom walls, and growth charts in closets.  Also, I find things like the interior woodwork and doors tend to be nicer, both in quality of materials and workmanship.  I hate ugly baseboards.  When we chose this apartment, a big selling point for me was the solid wood interior doors with brass doorknobs, I don't care that in exchange I can't hang art in the hall because the plaster can't handle it.  The rooms feel like a home to me.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 09 Aug 2013, 12:56
I trust our home inspector though, and I know he won't steer us wrong. Both my dad and Nick's dad are also "handy", so I was thinking about asking them both to accompany us to look at it once more. I know literally NOTHING about home ownership other than the fact that it is a lot of work, so I think having them to help us out would definitely take a lot of the guesswork out of it.

Kat, I'm with you on that to a certain point- I don't mind if a home is old or new, but I want something with character! I love interiors with interesting little nooks, big, funky beams.....I saw a gorgeous house in our price range with a spiral staircase!!! *sigh* Too bad the taxes were $11,000!  :-o

I am a little worried about structural defects when it comes to older homes, but as far as stuff like wiring and whatnot- we know people who would be more than willing to help us out with interior stuff, electrical, plumbing, etc. Nick helped his dad reno his childhood home from top to bottom over the last few years, his dad is an electricial and my dad essentially rebuilt our home twice (out of necessity. fucking floods.).
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Post by: Jace on 09 Aug 2013, 13:27
There's a couple weeks toward the middle of the month that I get really paranoid about forgetting to pay a bill because I get paid and I don't have a lot of bills that need to come out but then I'm sitting there like "well I've got to be forgetting something there's no way I can have payed my credit card, transferred money to my savings and still have $250 left in my account."
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Post by: Carl-E on 09 Aug 2013, 17:32
The good news is you can sit on it for a week or so until that feeling passes...

Little cheese, I know it's "the best so far", and a lease running out in October is a tight timeframe, but look at a few more if you get the chance.  And get the inspection done on this one just in case - a cracked foundation or rotting sills are definite walkaways, that's too much even for a high end DIYer. 

I like the idea of turning the second LR into a DR - I wonder if it was that way originally, '59 is early enough that dining rooms were still a standard part of any layout. 


Good luck! 
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Post by: Jace on 10 Aug 2013, 01:10
I really like having a flatmate because it means that I only have to pay half as much rent and utilities, but it sucks because I can't seem to find flatmates who will clean the kitchen. I really can't wait for Jess to finish school so that she and I can get a place together (or she can move into my place because I love my flat and don't want to move again). Then again, her mom might push for her to stay at home even after she is out of school.

Her mom jokingly said the other day that they haven't seen me around very much and if it was because I didn't like them and I was super close to being like "yeah actually, that is why I don't come over" but I didn't want to cause the unnecessary strife just yet.
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Aug 2013, 05:14
Yeah, just gotta wait for the right moment to drop that one...

:roll:
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Post by: Welu on 10 Aug 2013, 06:17
One time at band camp when my aunt was visiting and my brother used to be more of a prick, she commented on how he never seemed to be around when she visited and he straight said, "That's because I don't like you." Fortunately she thought he was joking.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Aug 2013, 10:39
Wow, I have never lived in a house that was built more recently than 1856. I would never call a 1956 house old!

I have found a baby pigeon. It's currently hiding behind my bin with a dish of water and another of peas. I hope it survives the night :( I also hope that the local wildlife centre calls me back and is prepared to come fetch it because I can't get there and also I'm scared of hurting it/scared of it hurting me.
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Post by: Carl-E on 11 Aug 2013, 14:42
Train it to carry messages. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Aug 2013, 16:38
The pigeon has gone! I think it has flown off, rather than been eaten by any cats or foxes (there were no feathers or blood marks anywhere). I couldn't tell if it had drunk any of the water or eaten any of the peas I left out for it, but I'm glad it has moved. I was really worried about it - in fact I rang a wildlife centre and left an answerphone message so I will probably get a call from them. I'll ask them what I should do in future if it happens again, but it seems that it's not an issue with this pigeon any more.
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Post by: Carl-E on 12 Aug 2013, 01:30
It might come back. 


Depends on how it feels about peas, I suppose. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Aug 2013, 03:37
I don't want it to come back! I want it to go and do pigeon things, elsewhere.
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Post by: Carl-E on 12 Aug 2013, 08:05
OK, bloggy stuff - this started as a spoiler in the tattoo thread, because it was about antibiotics, but I'm going to post it here; 

[Another bitch about the medical community and antibiotics]

So I'm sitting in the hospital with my daughter.  Since she caths to pee, she's susceptible to UTI's, and last week noticed she had one (no feeling in the shorts region means it gets pretty bad before she notices).  Did the urinalysis and this infections only susceptible to a couple of things - nitrofurantoin (which we tried first but it made her so nauseous that she couldn't keep it down) and vancomycin, which has to be done through an IV, and in her case, through a picc line*. 

So Monday we were in an office getting ready to get a picc line put in so the vanc could be done at home without an extensive hospital stay.  She's on the table, when our doctor calls and cancels the procedure.  The infection might be showing some susceptibility to plain old amoxycillin, and wouldn't we want to avoid using the nasty antibiotic and invasive procedure? 

Well, no, not if it doesn't fucking work.  The stuff wouldn't kill off the bacteria fast enough, and her back started hurting, which means the infection started getting up into her kidneys - dangerous territory.  Not to mention the usual amoxycillin diarrhea. 

So here we are, wasted time, wasted money, when we could've avoided both because my doctor's over reactionary about the overuse of antibiotics. 

 :-P

Sometimes you need the big hammer. 


* picc line - peripherally inserted central catheter.  Here's a picc pic;

(http://www.macmillan.org.uk/Images/Cancerinfo/Longdescriptions/Cancertreatment/PiccFront_2011_large.jpg)


Got a call from the doc today.  Her  last urinalysis came through, it's not the bug they thought it was.  Just plain E Coli, like usual.  Which Vancomycin doesn't touch. 

So the picc line's going to be pulled out, and we're back to square one with a different antibiotic...


Who do I make an appointment with for a strangulation? 
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Post by: Grognard on 12 Aug 2013, 08:53
my cats brought me a full grown squirrel as proof of their devotion.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 12 Aug 2013, 09:06
Carl, thank you so much for the input. We don't have to move in October, if just kind of "fit". We're open to keep looking and to short sales as well (or should I say, long sales?), since our leasing agent at the apartment is willing to do a 6 month with us, even though they typically only do yearly leases.

Also....I just need to share how much I enjoyed that pigeon conversation.  :-P I lol'ed at this:

Depends on how it feels about peas, I suppose. 





To the med stuff, all I can say is WTF.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Aug 2013, 09:54
Glad I'm entertaining  :psyduck:
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 12 Aug 2013, 10:56
Wow, I have never lived in a house that was built more recently than 1856. I would never call a 1956 house old!

"The British think 100 miles is a long way; Americans think 100 years is old."
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Aug 2013, 11:24
I was meant to be going on a canal boat for a couple of days this week, but circumstances have conspired against that working out. Instead I have a new plan: PETTING ZOO. PETTING ZOO. PETTING ZOO. PET ALL THE THINGS.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 12 Aug 2013, 11:50
New Plan > Old Plan.


*jealous*
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 12 Aug 2013, 12:23
'things'?
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 12 Aug 2013, 12:25
You know, the donkeys and the sheep and the ferrets and the handlers and the fences and the buildings and the grass. ALL THE THINGS!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 12 Aug 2013, 12:27
I admit to having a passing vision of BarmyMoo petting fences and pasying no attention to the animals.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Aug 2013, 13:14
Pet all the FUZZY ANIMULS
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Post by: Carl-E on 12 Aug 2013, 17:14
And the little piggies.  They're not fuzzy, but they're still cute enough to pet. 
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Post by: GarandMarine on 12 Aug 2013, 19:32
Piglets are actually fairly fuzzy in my experience.

Ferrets like tummy rubs.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Aug 2013, 22:53
unicorns love tummy rubs, as well. also back rubs. and neck rubs. and foot rubs. fuck it, pamper me.

on that note,

i've been dating my close friend/roommate/now partner for a few weeks now and things feel v. natural - not even butterflies of infatuation, but just a lovely feeling of rightness when i'm near them and i'm strongly considering collaring them. maybe after we move out. whoof.

also, i went on a d8 last nigh with a super gorgeous kitten whom i have fallen in utter adoration with. i would like to collar her, too. sigh. sigh sigh sigh. so many 8a8es in my life. it ended today and then i went and played a game in the mall with a bunch of new friends and my moirail and their fiance (whom i am to be maid of honour as well as officiant to) and then had some thai iced tea and discovered devotchka. tomorrow, i start recording my ep, and this weekend is hempfest with my partner and date number three with the aforementioned kitten.

life is awesome*.

::::3




*except for money issues, which are eternal. damn the electric fence! damn the electric fence! capitalism!
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 12 Aug 2013, 23:09
my cats brought me a full grown squirrel as proof of their devotion.

Did you rename them all "Momo"?
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Aug 2013, 00:45
That's the collective's name. 
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 13 Aug 2013, 07:05
Uni, that is wonderful! It is nice to see you happy :-)






Thai iced tea......mmmmmmmm.......
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Aug 2013, 15:23
Seconded.  Good to hear you've landed somewhere relatively stable. 

And seconding the Thai iced tea, too...
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Post by: Welu on 13 Aug 2013, 16:04
My fiance convinced me to buy tickets to Wrestlemania that's what I'm telling myself to rationalise buying them. Shit. I'm excited but terrified because it will be so expensive and I've never been on a plane for more than a couple hours.

I actually have a bunch of money that was gifted to me that's meant for Fun Money to blow and not feel guilty so I can afford it but damn. I've just been like  :psyduck: since yesterday.
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Post by: Akima on 14 Aug 2013, 02:23
life is awesome*.
Yay!
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Post by: Loki on 14 Aug 2013, 02:27
and discovered devotchka.
As I don't assume you discovered girls for the first time: what is this a name of?
Quote
life is awesome*.

::::3

Yay!
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Post by: ankhtahr on 14 Aug 2013, 02:30
I've spent the whole yesterday on the road. German public transport sucks.

We got onto our bus at 05:30 am. We didn't sleep before, but instead tried to sleep on the bus. Difficult, but I managed a few hours (even with the bus stopping regularly, and shifting gears very abruptly). After a while I didn't feel like trying to sleep anymore, so I watched some older episodes of Doctor Who. We were meant to arrive in Hamburg at 14:37. But the German far-right party decided to do a public speech in front of the main station, which led to a big demonstration of people who are opposed to them. Which lead to the police blocking the roads to the station. Which lead to us driving around in Hamburg for an hour. When we finally arrived we quickly boarded the next train to Kiel. When the train left Hamburg the train driver announced that because of a suicide on the tracks the train would stop in Elmshorn. From there on they were trying to organise buses for the blocked part. Anybody who has experienced the "Schienenersatzverkehr" of the Deutsche Bahn already will know that that isn't good. When we arrived in Elmshorn the Bahn announced that the buses would need at least 1.5 hours to arrive. And, knowing the procedure, I remembered that they usually send like 3 buses to replace the whole train. Because of that we got on a train to Husum and from there a train to Kiel. We arrived there at 20:02.
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Post by: Loki on 14 Aug 2013, 02:33
Ouch. Hugs, bro.

Consider taking an ICE next time, maybe.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 14 Aug 2013, 02:40
heh, well, there's a small difference between paying 107€ for the ICE (per route, so 214€ for both ways) and 25€ for the bus ticket (+15€ for the ticket to Hamburg)(also per route).
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Post by: Masterpiece on 14 Aug 2013, 10:03
German public transport sucks.
No ot doesn't. You Germans just enjoy complaining about it way too much.
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 14 Aug 2013, 10:28
I went to poland by train and the only delay I had was in Cologne!  :psyduck:
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Post by: Grognard on 14 Aug 2013, 10:52
AMTRAK sucks.  Y'all have no idea how bad a transport system can be.
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Post by: Thomas Edison on 14 Aug 2013, 11:05
Just transferred 5 hours of raw footage that a production company wants cut down into a 15 minute "behind the scenes" featurette.

This is the first time I've worked with footage I wasn't on set capturing, and my brain is beginning to bleed profusely.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Aug 2013, 14:13
It's not exactly fair to compare the public transport systems of Germany and the USA. We're talking a completely different scale here! There are parts of Europe where public transport is a cart being pulled by a donkey down a dirt track*. There are places in the USA where the transport is pretty good - I caught an efficient train between somewhere random in Indiana and Chicago, for instance.



*I am totally making this up but I'm fairly certain it's true.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 14 Aug 2013, 14:55
The oiblic transport system in Germany is one of the most thorough ones in the world.
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 14 Aug 2013, 15:37
The Dutch trains are actually the most efficient in Europe.
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Post by: Akima on 14 Aug 2013, 16:32
AMTRAK sucks.  Y'all have no idea how bad a transport system can be.
I have never travelled by AMTRAK, but I'd be horrified if it were worse than Countrylink, our "inter-city" rail system. Australia's rail network is all about transporting coal, iron ore etc. in gigantic quantities at low speed*, and everything else has to fit round it. Brisbane to Sydney often takes seventeen hours by rail, when you can drive it in under twelve. Sydney to Melbourne takes about twelve hours by train, when it is around nine hours by car. It is expensive too; a rail ticket is similar in price to an air ticket (about $200 return), and if you are flexible on flying times it is usually cheaper to fly. By contrast, the 1300km trip from Shanghai to Beijing by high-speed train (roughly 50% further than Sydney-Melbourne) takes less than six hours and costs under $100. I love Australia, but sometimes its unwillingness to invest in basic infrastructure drives me up the wall.

*For freight rail nerds:
This is how we feed the gaping maw of China's steel industry. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jP4-iFIafUo) This was shot in the Hunter Valley, just to the north of Sydney. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QCVmj5N3UIs)
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Post by: pwhodges on 14 Aug 2013, 16:44
*For freight rail nerds:
This is how we feed the gaping maw of China's steel industry. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jP4-iFIafUo) This was shot in the Hunter Valley, just to the north of Sydney. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QCVmj5N3UIs)

Amazing!  I'm surprised three locos were enough for that - and I shudder to think of the forces on the couplings at the front of the train.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Aug 2013, 18:17
Akima, the infrastructure is there it's just not focused on people :P honestly I doubt the money's there, or the benefit for that matter, to invest in high speed rail systems to cross most of Australia.

That said. If I miss anything about Japan besides it's vending machines, women, open container laws and food, it's their extremely efficient, effective and all around wonderful public transportation system. It's also easy to navigate, even for a dumb gaijin who doesn't read hirigana or kanji at all. (I found it easier to navigate Tokyo's public transit lines then several systems in the United States and the latter allegedly prints all their information and signage in the language I read and speak. :P )
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Post by: jwhouk on 14 Aug 2013, 18:32
AMTRAK sucks.  Y'all have no idea how bad a transport system can be.
I have never travelled by AMTRAK, but I'd be horrified if it were worse than Countrylink, our "inter-city" rail system. Australia's rail network is all about transporting coal, iron ore etc. in gigantic quantities at low speed*, and everything else has to fit round it. Brisbane to Sydney often takes seventeen hours by rail, when you can drive it in under twelve. Sydney to Melbourne takes about twelve hours by train, when it is around nine hours by car. It is expensive too; a rail ticket is similar in price to an air ticket (about $200 return), and if you are flexible on flying times it is usually cheaper to fly. By contrast, the 1300km trip from Shanghai to Beijing by high-speed train (roughly 50% further than Sydney-Melbourne) takes less than six hours and costs under $100. I love Australia, but sometimes its unwillingness to invest in basic infrastructure drives me up the wall.

Bad news, Akima... it IS worse.

Proof: May, when she came to visit the US, asked if there was a train from Indianapolis to my part of Wisconsin. I openly laughed at her. There hasn't been passenger rail service in north central Wisconsin since Eisenhower was president.
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Post by: Redball on 14 Aug 2013, 19:00
... to my benefit. I had a two-day trip from Indiana to Wisconsin and back with a delightful new friend, and we met jwhouk on the first day out.
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Post by: Papersatan on 14 Aug 2013, 21:16
I just looked up Chicago to NYC, two large vibrant cities a 12 hour drive apart...  Amtrak tells me the shortest trip will be 20 hours, and will cost me $127.  This is why Americans drive. It is cheaper and faster, especially if more than one person is going (at 30 miles to the gallon, $4.00 a gallon, it's only $105 to drive).

Edit: I mis-read your numbers, so here is another:  Detroit is a 9 hour drive from NYC, via Amtrak it is only $111, but will take 21 hours, and involves a bus for part of the journey.

The only places trains are faster is going up and down the east coast, because traffic makes the trains a little faster, and the ridership makes there be some investment.  Boston to DC is a 7 hour drive and a 6.5 hour train ride (but will wet you back $171 v. a plane which is $112, and only takes 1.5 hours. 

Trains are only worth it here if you don't have a photo ID, are scared to fly, or care about the environment.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Aug 2013, 21:28
A Warrior Lesson from Mass Effect 3:

Warning: The following contains spoilers for the Mass Effect franchise. Particularly Mass Effect 3. If you've been under a rock for the last few years and haven't played it. You've been warned.

Mass Effect 3 invoked many emotional responses in it's myriad players. Indeed the massive "Retake" movement in response to what was seen as a weak/anemic ending that didn't do the franchise justice wouldn't have gained the massive following and momentum it had without the powerful emotional moments binding us to various characters throughout the franchise. Of the relationships we cultivated, many of them had powerful conclusions in ME3 as the universe fell apart in strife around Commander Sherpard and his/her crew.

One of the more powerful single moments from ME3 is the death of the Drell assassin Thane Krios. A popular character with fans, this contemplative, spiritual, professional assassin made quite an impact and his death was a very well written and emotional moment for all. As life begins to fade from his body Thane's last words are the following:

“Kalahira, mistress of inscrutable depths, I ask forgiveness.
Kalahira, whose waves wear down stone and sand--
Kalahira, wash the sins from this one,
and set him on the distant shore of the infinite spirit.”

Thane is wracked by pain, prompting Kolyat to continue the next two lines of the prayer. Thane remarks that Kolyat speaks as the priests do. Kolyat explains that he brought a prayer book, and asks the Commander to join him:

“Kalahira, this one's heart is pure,
but beset by wickedness and contention.
Guide this one to where the traveler never tires,
the lover never leaves, the hungry never starve.
Guide this one, Kalahira,
and s/he will be a companion to you as s/he was to me.”

By the end of this prayer, Thane is gone. Shephard asks why Thane would choose to ask for forgiveness in his last moments when his last deeds were that of a hero's, and Kolyat informs the Commander that Thane had made his peace, the prayer was for Shepard.

Again as I said it a powerful scene with a strong emotional impact.

As warriors we can learn many lessons from these few moments at the end of Thane Krios's life. One, he was at peace. While the concept of finding one's peace with their life and deeds is a massive concept that religions and philosophers have struggled with for centuries and that most individuals will struggle with all of their lives. I encourage you all to seek this peace in your every day life. Meditate, write poetry, take the time for a cup of tea in a quiet room, and balance yourself every day.

However the quest for inner peace is well known, and I find the second lesson that Thane has to teach us is the more pertinent of the two. Thane died thinking of forgiveness and peace, not for himself but for another. As warriors we must remember that we are out our very hearts, servants. Indeed the Japanese word "Samurai" comes from the word Saburai, from the Chinese word "Saburau". Both these words mean "servant". We serve many masters in a democratic society and a volunteer military. Our families, communities, chains of command, the government and of course our nation as a whole, we also serve our personal honor.

To live with honor, and in service is not a simple calling, and a warrior is known and respected by this will to live well as well as being willing to die for others. To act with forthright virtue in all things, to live peacefully and act with kindness in your heart when not engaged in conflict alone is a great challenge to face in life, many people warrior or not struggle with this path all of their lives, and it is a vital part of seeking out inner peace.

To this life long battle with our human failings, warriors add the challenges of taking up sword, or in modern times rifle and pledging themselves to do battle in the name of others. Battle presents it's own life long challenges, as does training and mentally preparing for such, A warrior should seek to comport themselves well in battle, to fight calmly instead of with rage, with a cool intellect leading a courageous heart instead of the heart ruling the mind. Ask yourself in mediation and self contemplation, at your heart of hearts, do you have the conviction and selfless courage required to die with only concern for others on your lips?

This is one of many truths at the heart of a warrior's calling.

Please don't reprint this one without crediting it back to my DA if you want to guys. Link is here: http://kalashnikovmarine.deviantart.com/art/Warrior-Philosophy-and-Mass-Effect-3-393353691

And this is a separate bit I wrote in response to someone who noted that despite being a soldier (he's foreign so I refrained from taking insult at the slight) I'm a fairly benign individual.

A warrior who does not maintain a calm and balanced center is no warrior at all. The man who chooses to take up sword or rifle in defense of himself and others is merely a servant to a nation, to a people and to his own personal honor. One doesn't carry himself honorably if he allows his inner peace to be affected, or if he cannot be kind and gentle when he is not actively fighting. A man who is always angry all the time is a sloppy fighter, and more of a brute or thug then a professional soldier. I've always admired the ideal of the samurai in this regard. One is to be courteous, fair and just, while the art of the sword is of course vital, along with other martial arts such as horsemanship and archery, so too was more traditional artistry, from tea ceremony to poetry valued and vital to a samurai's education and upbringing. Sadly, few cultures have done similarly. Warriors of what is now called the Middle East during the early 1000s had some similarities, with art forms such as the copying of holy texts and administering one's holdings well seen just as vital to one's well being and duty to one's lord as pure martial skill.
 
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Post by: Papersatan on 14 Aug 2013, 22:15
So, a few days ago there was a stabbing on my block.  My friend was in town and she is a siren chaser, so I walked to see what had happened with her, not a thing I usually do.  The victim was laying face down in the middle of the street being patched up by them EMTs and we were close enough to hear his cries, and see him vomit when they flipped him onto the back board.  At the side of the street there was a man, arms covered in blood shaking and crying.  I guess he was a by stander that was helping the man after the attacker left.  It was honestly upsetting, days later I am still picturing it. 

Today I found out a woman has reported a stranger-on-the-street rape at the same intersection two weeks ago.  She says a man asked to borrow her cell phone, and then took her between two houses and raped her.  This intersection is 3 houses from me.  I walk through it when I catch a bus home from class at 10 pm.  I walk through it when I walk home drunk from the bar, I walk through it when go to the corner store at midnight.  This is not just my neighborhood, this is my block. 

I don't feel unsafe really, I think my risk of a stranger rape is low; I suppose most women do, but I don't think I 'interview' well.  I am approached by men I don't know when I am out alone at night all the time in this neighborhood, and I, I don't want to say I am comfortable with it, but I am comfortable handling it.  I don't fear them, or think I am about to be raped, but, I do know how to confidently tell them to fuck off, and keep them at a distance, and escalate my outrage when they ignore me. Shutting people down who are trying to get up near me to talk with me is a regular thing, but most of them are just oblivious to how their approach is threatening.  I have had men here walk with me to my house, try to get in the way of my car door so I could not shut it, stand between me and my front door... and that's just the ones who got near me.  The rest I manage to shut down from a distance. (the best one was a man briskly walking towards me as I entered my car Him: "Hey beautiful, I don't want to be disrespectful, bu" Me: "Then don't." get in car and drive away.)

I am upset right now.  Not because I feel like my risk just went up, it didn't but because I shouldn't have to deal with this shit.  No one should.  I love this neighborhood, and I frequently try to tell people how great it is, and why they should live here, but today, thinking about it, how can I really recommend it to other women? Is it weird to be disappointed in a neighborhood not living up to its potential? Because I think that's half of my anger right now.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 15 Aug 2013, 01:54
and discovered devotchka.
As I don't assume you discovered girls for the first time: what is this a name of?

(http://i.snag.gy/peQO1.jpg)

(devotchka is a band that was playing in my favourite coffee shop; the next person to come up was ibrahim ferrer.)
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Post by: Akima on 15 Aug 2013, 05:58
As warriors we must remember that we are out our very hearts, servants. Indeed the Japanese word "Samurai" comes from the word Saburai, from the Chinese word "Saburau". Both these words mean "servant".
In most European languages with which I am somewhat familiar (admittedly not many), the word for the classic feudal mounted soldier essentially means "horseman": chevalier, cavallo, caballero, ritter. I have always thought it interesting that the English word "knight" derives from the Old English "cniht" which meant "servant". Saburau was not a Chinese word; it's simply an earlier version of the Japanese. However the character which, in Japanese kanji means "samurai", in Chinese is indeed a verb which does mean to serve or attend upon (a high-ranking person). I don't know enough Japanese language or history to know how a multi-syllable Japanese word came to be written as a single character. The Japanese bushi, also applied to samurai and the root of bushido, is written 武士, which is wushi in Chinese. The first character means "martial", (you'll find it in words like wuxia, wushu, wulin etc. which will be familiar to any fan of Chinese cinema), and the second something like "specialist" (or in the past "scholar"), so the word is usually translated as "warrior", an essentially functional description. A brave, chivalrous hero would go beyond the wushi to become a 武侠 or wuxia. I suppose that would roughly be the distinction between a man-at-arms and a knight errant, in English terms.

Societies have wrestled for centuries with the same problems of containing and controlling violence within, and resisting violence from without. Various "warrior codes" have existed from ancient times to the present day. Many have embraced the idea of the warrior as a servant of something greater than himself. Loyalty to the king/emperor/nation, courage in battle, compassion to the defeated, protection of the weak, avoidance of harm to non-combatants; these are some of the ideals often aspired to, if not always achieved, especially in eras of industrial mass-slaughter like the 20th century. Artistic elements were often included, based on the idea that warrior should not just be a killing brute. Spiritual elements too, partly no doubt simply as a tool to reinforce loyalty and good behaviour, but, like the artistic elements, probably also partly to help the warrior deal with the stress of battle and its aftermath. Shell-shock and PTSD are modern terms, but one should not assume that combat was less terrifying when halberd met pike, and I'm sure the conditions existed long before they were given names.

So much for the ideal; the reality is more complex. Those samurai "servants" came to dominate Japanese society for centuries, effectively supplanting the emperor they were supposed to serve. Successful generals usurped power in Japan, Rome, China, and continue to do so in many places today. Warriors may become servants to terrible causes if their loyalty binds them to unethical rulers, and warrior codes have been perverted to such ends again and again, as bushido certainly was, at terrible cost to my homeland.

The way of the warrior is not mine, but the ideal of the ethical warrior is worthy of respect, I think. If violence must come, it beats the alternative, though in practice things tend to get messy. I certainly endorse GM's comments about developing and maintaining a calm and balanced centre. It is not only on the battlefield that this is of value.  :-)
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Post by: ev4n on 15 Aug 2013, 10:05
Trains are as awful in Canada as they are in Aus/USA, even in the Windsor/Quebec corridor, where like half the country lives.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 15 Aug 2013, 12:43
I have to admit, I actually like the public transport here. Everybody is bashing it, and I was a bit annoyed that evening, so I just chimed in on it.

Going somewhere by train is much more comfortable than going by bus or car. If it hadn't been for the 4 hours of train instead of 1 I would have annoyed the friend I was travelling with by telling him that it is so much better than the bus. (going by bus was his idea, and the first bus was 1.5 hours late. Also the busses are not too comfortable)

If it wouldn't have costed as much I would definitely have chosen the train. Actually it wouldn't have costed as much if I were a student already. You can get a card which grants you 50% off from every train ride for 50% off when you're a student (school or university). Problem was: I am not a pupil anymore, and not yet a university student, so I would have had to pay 250€ for that card instead of 125€.

With that card the night train costs about as much as the bus ride.

As I intend to go home on some special occasions I'll definitely get myself one of these cards as soon as I am a student.
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Aug 2013, 13:26
Hello! I have been absent for the better part of 2 weeks. I was dogsitting for Matt and his family, who left for a wedding in Utah + Matt's dad's birthday palooza.

Over this time period, I have accomplished the following:
- bonded a little bit and gained a mutual respect for/from Matt's younger brother
- bonded a lot with the family dogs, to the point where they've been super bummed out without me around
- reminded myself that yes, I am not only capable of cooking for myself, but I'm actually pretty damn good at it too
- wrote some neat guitar parts to work into a song
- found myself in a long-distance relationship with a girl I met last month who I'd had no intent of pursuing since I already knew she lived far away
- found myself not minding the distance and appreciating the fact that I can get to know her mind without having to deal with physical temptation

It's been a good week.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 15 Aug 2013, 18:15
Thank you for the correction on the Chinese, I'll pass that on to my source, he'll be quite embarrassed I'm sure. ;)

but yes, the ideal of any warrior code has been perverted and used against itself whether in the face of bad or weak individuals, (see the officer in charge of the My Lai massacre, Captain Medina, who escaped prosecution only by politics) or at the behest of foul commanders twisting an entire nation (see what happened to bushido in WW2 as Akima noted) though even in dark times a true warrior's spirit can and does shine through. In the first example WO1 Thompson of the 161st Aviation Company lead his flight of OH-23 Raven helicopters and later coerced aid from UH-1 Huey gunship crews nearby and put himself at great risk saving civilians from the My Lai massacre. On his return to base Thompson raised a hell of a racket till he got listened to, only to receive a Distinguished Flying Cross (a very highly esteemed medal) as a bribe to shut his trap. Thompson threw the medal, and the citation away and refused to acknowledge them. After My Lai became public Thompson was at the wrong end up a closed congressional hearing with the Chairman of the House Armed Services Committee even attempting to have Thompson court martialed for his actions at My Lai. (Thomspon turned his weapons on American troops during some of his attempts to rescue civilians, Thompson and his crew did not inflict any casualties) After public word of Thompson's actions broke he began receiving hate mail and death threats. Thompson retired from the army in 1983 as a Major. Thirty years after the massacre Thompson, and the other pilots and crews involved in the rescue at My Lai would have their "bribes" rescinded and were awarded the Soldier's Medal, the highest medal the U.S. Army can award for non-combat actions, again, Thompson would not accept the medal unless it was announced and awarded in a public manner and that his crew be awarded similarly. That's a real warrior standing firm in the face of the lowest form of thugs and brutes.

Freaking motivates me. That's what warriors like the Major do. Makes me want to go to the range, train even harder.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 16 Aug 2013, 06:46
So, last night I prevented what could have been a VERY big problem and I'm really proud of myself. I keep flip flopping between "It's not a big deal" and "It IS a big deal", but either way, I'm proud and glad that I did what I did.

I started going to a new consignment shop recently, since I got tired of making the trek to my old one. This place is just a few blocks away from my apartment and right on the border of the City of Poughkeepsie (can be scary) and Town of Poughkeepsie (not so scary). (And yes, they are actually two different places lol).

Anyway, I have been going through all of the clothes that don't fit me anymore and I had 2 big bags to drop off. It was about 4:45 and the shop doesn't close until 6. Nick drives me over, we get there and open the door. It's dark. All the lights are out and no one is there. But the "Open" sign on the door is there, as is another lit up "Open" sign. They are moving in the next few weeks to a new shop just a few doors down, so I think "Ah, the lady must have just run over there to move some merch". I walk over and she's not there. I walk back to the main shop, thinking that maybe she was in the bathroom. Not the case. So, I called the phone number of the store. No answer. BUT- there is an "emergency" number so I called that. Apparently, the shop owner is on vacation and the girl who was working yesterday went home sick. Without flipping the sign to Closed and without locking the door. In a neighborhood that is not known for being safe. Naturally, the shop owner was shocked but greatly thankful and asked me to stay there until she could get someone over there to lock up. Thankfully, she gave a copy of the key to the guy who owns the business next door. So, he came over and locked up and we headed home.

I like to think anyone else would do the same in that situation, but I'm not naive enough to believe it.
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Post by: Jace on 16 Aug 2013, 19:08
Made a pell. Had to leave one leg off so I can get it out the door, finished it after dark so I have to wait until tomorrow to finish it.
(https://sphotos-a-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc3/995979_10151922596492317_1168204324_n.jpg)
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Post by: jwhouk on 16 Aug 2013, 20:30
My cat would probably have that destroyed by morning.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 16 Aug 2013, 20:49
So I finally moved in today and I am so excited! This looks to be a good year.

Tomorrow's going to be busy as I have to be at two booths at the activity fair and my roommate will be moving in. (I desparately need to shave!)

But for tonight, I  watched a movie with friends and now I'm off to get a hotdog.

I'll post some pictures and maybe a video of my room in the next few days because I'm really excited for it
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Post by: Akima on 16 Aug 2013, 23:21
Made a pell.
I had to google that. So it is training target for mediaeval swordsmanship, the equivalent of a "wooden man post"?
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Post by: Jace on 17 Aug 2013, 01:34
Kind of. It's as much a target as anything else, just that you don't wanna beat the hell out of the front porch or a tree or telephone pole or something. I used rope (mostly to preserve the wasters; sticks that you use instead of your fighting sword) but when it starts to wear out I'll probably just nail some old carpet to it, its just that I didn't have any to scavenge when I chose to make it.

Some people make more advanced ones with arms that are more like a wooden man. The only thing I did was not put any rope at the point where the knee would be so that I know if I hit low or not.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Aug 2013, 04:48
I wish I had the space for something like that. I want to practice with tatami at some point.
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Post by: Welu on 17 Aug 2013, 10:39
Drove alone for the first time today. Wasn't as scary as I expected but still a little scary.

There's a bunch of children, between four and ten maybe, that play in my street. They've taken to leaving their bikes and toys outside the separated garages. They don't live in our street so it's not like they can keep an eye on them from a window, but even if they did, it's stupid of them to be leaving them out. I'm tempted to hide the bikes behind the garages in the bushes just out of petty annoyance and That'll Show 'Em-ness.
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Post by: Carl-E on 17 Aug 2013, 15:39
Take all the bikes and string 'em together with a length of chain and lock the mess to a lamppost. 



Object lessons are the best...
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Post by: Papersatan on 17 Aug 2013, 15:42
One time, my friend and I rode our bikes to the corner store when we were like, 12, and we locked them together around a sign post with a single cable lock.  When we got out of the store we couldn't get the lock to open.  We had forgotten the combination I guess, but it turns out we had not actually wrapped the lock around the post, so we just walked our bikes home chained together. 

That story has no relevant moral, I was just reminded of it.
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Post by: Grognard on 17 Aug 2013, 20:44
der spousal unit bought a used van on Friday.
I took it back to the dealership today because "there's a weird sound, and I'm embarrassed to take it back"
>note: eyerolling leads to lumps<
So I took it back.  the mechanic on duty could hear the noise, but not diagnosis it.
so she gets to take it  back Monday.





*I'm still not allowed to say: I Told You So. Yet.*
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Post by: ankhtahr on 18 Aug 2013, 12:16
Alright. Tomorrow I'll have my theoretical exam for the driver's license (at 9 in the morning).

Yesterday I wasn't really confident. Now I am. Spent half of yesterday and today with the online training system. It told me yesterday that I would be ready for the exam, from that point on I've finished every training exam without mistakes.

I don't remember when I was that confident before an exam the last time. Definitely not during my Abitur…
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Post by: Loki on 18 Aug 2013, 12:51
Thumbs pressed!

(And everyone is fucking nervous during their Abitur.)
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Post by: Jace on 18 Aug 2013, 13:34
Brought the pell out and put it in the backyard. Has a good amount of movement, will rock back and forth when hit but won't move out of place. Gotta watch the wrap shots or I'll hit myself in the face. It echoes a bit so I guess my neighbors get to deal with that.
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Aug 2013, 12:41
My pizza job has been fucking me off on hours for weeks, giving me 4 hours each week. Literally no better than Pottery Barn Kids when you account for the fact that I get paid about $1.50 less here. Meanwhile, the boss lady told me they were cutting hours because they "didn't have the resources to pay for them," and then I go to work on Friday and we've got this new girl working there who is even stupider than the previous Stupidest Person I've Ever Met, who I also work with.

Fuck this shit, I'm finding a new job.
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 19 Aug 2013, 14:08
Jesus Pat, you ain't stupid, hope you get a better job and yr band success.
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Post by: Grognard on 19 Aug 2013, 14:10
saw a job listing: National Gallery of Art, Wash.DC.
Security Guard, unarmed.



GS-5 @ $44k a year!
Fuck.  I carried and made half of that in 1998.
and if you've been to DC, you know the quality of people that will end up with that freebie.

:(
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Post by: LeeC on 22 Aug 2013, 16:24
get home, turn the key and walk in and there's a woman putting groceries in my fridge.. "Did I walk in the right apartment?"-Me
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Aug 2013, 04:04
This sounds like a cheesy start to a run of the mill porno movie.
I'll be disappointed if it didn't end that way.

And lets get the obligatory "she came in through the bathroom window" comments out of the way...
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Aug 2013, 06:26
^ I fucking love the Beatles more than a normal human being ought to love the Beatles.

I haven't slept all night.
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Post by: jwhouk on 23 Aug 2013, 07:36
But, didn't anybody tell her?

Didn't anybody see?
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Aug 2013, 10:48
GOOOOOOOOOLDEN SHOOOOOOWERS FIIIILL YOUR EYESSS
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Aug 2013, 10:51
Hate to break it to you, but that's Golden Slumbers.
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Aug 2013, 10:53
that one went right over yr head dinnit?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Aug 2013, 10:54
Apparently. Did I miss something?
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Aug 2013, 10:55
google "golden shower" and turn safe search off
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Post by: LeeC on 23 Aug 2013, 11:29
Turns out my roomate's sister came by while he was at work to take care of the kids (his kids are visiting for the week from wisconsin, and they arnt really his biological kids but the girl he dated for 6 years had kids from a different relationship and these kids feel that my roomate is their father, even after they broke up.) So that's who the mysterious lady was.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 23 Aug 2013, 15:52
GOOOOOOOOOLDEN SHOOOOOOWERS FIIIILL YOUR EYESSS

This is wrong on so many levels… No wait, why would it be if it's consensual. But still a bit wrong. I think closing the eyes is a good idea in this context…

And I'm kinda ashamed of not having had to google this term.
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Aug 2013, 16:36
imagine how I feel, I'm the filthy animal who made the joke :D

so last night Camille and I talked a whole bunch over the phone and she dropped the L bomb on me. I said it back and meant it. she also said that she doesn't have a date solidified yet, but when she comes back here next, it's gonna be for good. she's actually moving back here for me. I am so terrified that I won't be able to measure up, that I'll be disappointing somehow, but I know that it's just my insecurities nagging at me. we both have histories that have taught us to never take our sweethearts for granted. idk, I'm optimistic. wish us luck, guys.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 23 Aug 2013, 16:40
You'll do fine. But remember, If you're into that, you should tell her in the shower. (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1695)
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Post by: Loki on 24 Aug 2013, 00:49
Good luck, Patrick.

I am somewhat proud (?) to say that I didn't have to google it OR click Ankh's link.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 24 Aug 2013, 04:47
I think I know what you're talking about. Which is why I don't want to Google it.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 24 Aug 2013, 05:26
Well, the QC strip I've linked pretty much explains it…
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Post by: Masterpiece on 24 Aug 2013, 05:28
It's scary, because I was just at that place during my tri-annual archive crawl.
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Post by: Welu on 24 Aug 2013, 12:47
I'm very tired. Was in city last night. Even though I slept okay in the hotel I've been struggling to keep me eyes open.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Aug 2013, 08:14
Got back from my ten days camping at the Whitby Folk Week yesterday. Highlights* include waking at 1am the first night with vomiting and diarrohea, hanging out in a hotel bar with Sisters Unlimited, who are my musical and feminist heroes, the disco ceilidh, one of our stewarding team winning the Harry Potter theme costume competition with his terrifying Aragog costume, managing to eat entirely vegan the whole time (except for when I bought a Burger King veggie burger and, after checking three different times that the burger was indeed vegan, the staff managed to put cheese on it...) and finally learning an entire clog dance at a respectable speed.

Last night I met up with some midwifery internet friends at the train station - they were on their way home from a weekend meet which I missed due to the festival - and one of them came back to stay in my flat. We went in hunt of breakfast this morning, and after a false start at the fancy organic deli-cafe which is closed for the Bank Holiday we found a slightly greasy-spoon place that does veganisable veggie breakfasts extremely cheaply. Nom nom nom! This week's project is to finish making my flat habitable because I start uni three weeks on Monday good grief how has that happened so fast.



*YMMV on definition of "high"
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Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Aug 2013, 14:09
i've decided to go to college in winter, i've filled out my fafsa - even calling arthur to get his tax information - and oh, my first single is coming out in a week, yeah. yeah.
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Post by: Loki on 25 Aug 2013, 14:22
That sounds good! Good luck!
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Post by: cesium133 on 25 Aug 2013, 14:23
You'll do fine. But remember, If you're into that, you should tell her in the shower. (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1695)
Or when she administers The Test. (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=603)
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Post by: ankhtahr on 25 Aug 2013, 14:27
Hmm. She seemed much more open to it in the newer comic…
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 25 Aug 2013, 15:53
Woooooot, that is awesome, Uni!!


Heh. Uni at uni.  :-P

Do you know what your major is going to be?
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Post by: LTK on 25 Aug 2013, 18:02
Holiday report blog time!

I went on a trip to Copenhagen this week with my sister. Two hours by train, and then a one-hour flight. That was my first time flying, actually, and it's pretty amazing. I'm surprised how easy you forget that you're in a chair that's ten fucking kilometers above the ground and also traveling one thousand kilometers per hour when the space you're in looks and sounds (and smells, if you're unlucky) just like any other mode of medium-scale people transportation.

In Copenhagen we went to the zoo, visited some music bars, went to the big amusement park that's smack in the middle of the city, did a canal tour, and saw the viking exhibition in the national museum. The amusement park is crazy: it has all the rides you would expect from the average amusement park, as well as a lot of carnival features, but also a few theaters, a cornucopia of gift shops, and so many places to get food that you would have to eat every meal there every day for three weeks before you'd have tried them all. They range from hoity-toity design restaurants to fast food joints, even including beer breweries and tea houses, plus a restaurant on a pirate ship. (I mean, holy shit, just look at this. (http://www.tivoli.dk/en/mad/)) And if you wanted to go to a specific one for dinner, you'd have to pay the park admission fee to even get in, so I have no idea how they attract enough customers. Danes must have money coming out of their ears.

And then right as I came back, I was invited to a barbecue at the new residence of a friend who's in my Master's. They made vegan cookies with a lot of weed in them, and I figured I'd try half of one since I don't smoke. Summary of the experience: Fascinating. Edifying. Never again.

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When I (and my hosts) got up in the afternoon we made a nice, big, vegan breakfast that included a big bag of french fries from the snackbar and homemade bread. It was so big, in fact, that after I went home I didn't eat for 24 hours. I figure that's also an after-effect of the weed, but I'm not sure how that works.

Anyway, based on this I think I learned a lot just from being very aware of the state my brain is in, but it could also be that my hallucinations are extremely persuasive instead of informative, so I don't know. Not doing that again, though.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 25 Aug 2013, 19:05
It's like a bunch of restaurants named by Ikea...
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Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Aug 2013, 23:35
Woooooot, that is awesome, Uni!!


Heh. Uni at uni.  :-P

Do you know what your major is going to be?

minor fall/major lift

prolly focus on art/language/recording classes. this is honestly a way to have money because a job isn't likely in my future so until such time that my music is widely distributed enough to support me, i'm going to just go to college and live off loans. two years at community college, and then go to evergreen once i'm able to, probably.

i don't r. have concrete plans. i'm going to see how well this single works out and try to make a bigger push in my music regardless of how well received it is. i'm crzy fkn excited for it, though, i sang some of the best stuff i've ever sang on these recordings.

in seven days exactly we'll move from the eighth month into the ninth.

in three months exactly, this body will be twenty-three years old.

time is weird, life is weird, and i feel far too old to be this young.
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 25 Aug 2013, 23:58
...put himself at great risk saving civilians from the My Lai massacre.

I had been utterly unaware of that. Wow.
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Aug 2013, 00:18
Woooooot, that is awesome, Uni!!


Heh. Uni at uni.  :-P

Do you know what your major is going to be?

minor fall/major lift

prolly focus on art/language/recording classes. this is honestly a way to have money because a job isn't likely in my future so until such time that my music is widely distributed enough to support me, i'm going to just go to college and live off loans. two years at community college, and then go to evergreen once i'm able to, probably.

i don't r. have concrete plans. i'm going to see how well this single works out and try to make a bigger push in my music regardless of how well received it is. i'm crzy fkn excited for it, though, i sang some of the best stuff i've ever sang on these recordings.

what I wanna know is WHERE ARE THESE DAMN THINGS. you teased me with some yeeeeears ago and they were insanely good, so what gives?
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 26 Aug 2013, 00:28
Unicorn:

CONGRATULATIONS!!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Aug 2013, 00:46
Woooooot, that is awesome, Uni!!


Heh. Uni at uni.  :-P

Do you know what your major is going to be?

minor fall/major lift

prolly focus on art/language/recording classes. this is honestly a way to have money because a job isn't likely in my future so until such time that my music is widely distributed enough to support me, i'm going to just go to college and live off loans. two years at community college, and then go to evergreen once i'm able to, probably.

i don't r. have concrete plans. i'm going to see how well this single works out and try to make a bigger push in my music regardless of how well received it is. i'm crzy fkn excited for it, though, i sang some of the best stuff i've ever sang on these recordings.

what I wanna know is WHERE ARE THESE DAMN THINGS. you teased me with some yeeeeears ago and they were insanely good, so what gives?

man one of these songs is one you gave me hella encouragement on years ago. it was shit, though, and i rewrote it recently:

i never pushed you away
you were running from me
i helped you stand from the start

but you still come to me
when you stumble
and when you fall and scrape your heart

what more can i do?
what else could i do?
i could run away
or i can stay
break my heart on you

i can see the murmur of your lips
dark rhythms in your soul, your core
i can see the sadness in your eyes
don't let the night hurt you anymore
don't let the night hurt you anymore
don't let the night hurt you anymore

i did what i could for you
held you when you cried
i've felt the way you ache, so hollow inside...

but you still pull from me
time after time
but then, i know how it feels to have to hide

but you're gone now
far away now
i couldn't make you stay
i'm not okay
but what else could i do?

i can see the murmur of your lips
dark rhythms in your soul, your core
i can see the sadness in your eyes
don't let the night hurt you anymore
don't let the night hurt you anymore
don't let the night hurt you anymore



i'm so excited to release this, too. not because i think i'll make money (i won't, prolly), but just for a chance to show people my work and be able to say: this is it. i created this. this is what i am capable of, and i am capable of so much more.

also, both of the songs on this single end in a key change in a way that perfectly begins the other song. it was driving me fucking insane trying to figure out which order they were supposed to go in on an album until i realised just the two of them back to back is the perfect solution. (they'll still be on my first album, though.)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 26 Aug 2013, 06:34
That sounds like a good plan. :-)

As much as I hate my student loans now, having them at the time was SUCH a relief. And tbh, if I could have done anything differently in terms of college, I would have started out at community and then transferred. Instead, I got to take 7 years to get a bachelor's degree!  :roll:
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 26 Aug 2013, 06:41
Woooooot, that is awesome, Uni!!


Heh. Uni at uni.  :-P

Do you know what your major is going to be?

minor fall/major lift
[...]
Halleluja to you too and good luck.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 26 Aug 2013, 07:15
minor fall/major lift
The baffled King composing Hallelujah

Thanks for the ear worm Uni
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Aug 2013, 12:40
I'm so lucky I already have something stuck in my head, otherwise I'd be mad at you for getting that one in.
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Post by: Akima on 26 Aug 2013, 15:27
except for when I bought a Burger King veggie burger and, after checking three different times that the burger was indeed vegan, the staff managed to put cheese on it...
You wouldn't think it would be so difficult to understand, would you? There was a place that poured meat-juice gravy over my veggies. :?

i've decided to go to college in winter, i've filled out my fafsa - even calling arthur to get his tax information - and oh, my first single is coming out in a week, yeah. yeah.
Congratulations! I googled fafsa; it sounds like a Lebanese pastry.
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Post by: LTK on 26 Aug 2013, 16:16
in three months exactly, this body will be twenty-three years old.

time is weird, life is weird, and i feel far too old to be this young.
No kidding, I'm apparently one day younger than you and am seemingly living on a different timescale, just by having a life that's not weird at all. I wish you good luck at university, and may it treat you as well as it has treated me.
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Aug 2013, 01:03
Hey guys, so yesterday evening my bandmates Matt and Paul and I went to San Francisco to participate in Radio Valencia's drunken shenanigans show entitled Cheap Hooch! We were supposed to be there for the whole 2 hours, but traffic was a lot worse than we ever anticipated, so we only showed up about an hour after they'd already started broadcasting. For that, we're very sorry. We make our introduction about 53 minutes into the show.

Without further ado, here's the permalink to the podcast (http://radiovalencia.fm/podcasts/index.php?episode=11560), and I hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed being on the show. :3
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Aug 2013, 05:32
except for when I bought a Burger King veggie burger and, after checking three different times that the burger was indeed vegan, the staff managed to put cheese on it...
You wouldn't think it would be so difficult to understand, would you? There was a place that poured meat-juice gravy over my veggies. :?

It was a lesson to me as well; it was the first time I'd attempted to veganise something, and I should have been clearer. It's a real shame because I love cheese on my burgers, but never mind.

Add: I just googled and apparently BK Bean Burgers not only contain egg but also milk. What the hell, BK employee? You were looking at the ingredients list! I saw you! You checked with two colleagues! Are you all totally stupid?

Ah well. I guess it was too much to hope for that I'd find a ubiquitous fast food place that I could order from.


Added again: Hmm. Now I'm finding places which say that it is vegan, and others saying that it isn't. Argh. I wish BK would just list the ingredients properly instead of in a stupid y/n infographic which doesn't make it clear whether it's talking about the added stuff or the actual burger.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Aug 2013, 05:41
I just googled and apparently BK Bean Burgers not only contain egg but also milk. What the hell, BK employee? You were looking at the ingredients list! I saw you! You checked with two colleagues! Are you all totally stupid?

Well, if it's not meat, it must be veg.   :roll: :laugh: :-P
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 27 Aug 2013, 06:06
The Morningstar Farms Veggie Patty used in the BK Veggie in the US is definitely not vegan, it has egg whites and calcium caseinate which is a milk product. A 2006 post with a no-longer-working link to an ingredient list says that the Bean Burger used in the UK is vegan, but there is much discussion about the fact that the bean burgers were cooked with the fish and chicken, which no longer appears to be the case according to that mostly useless nutrition chart.

Quote from: 2006 bean burger ingredients
Cooked Red Kidney Beans (31%), Breadcrumbs (14%), (Containing Wheatflour, Raising Agents (E450/Diphosphates, E500/Sodium Bicarbonate), Yeast, Flour Improvers (E300/Ascorbic Acid, E920/L-Cysteine), Carrot (10%), Onion (9%), Potato Flake (Containing Emulsifier (E471/mono-and Di-Glycerides Of Fatty Acids) and Preservative (E223/Sodium Metabisulphite), Rapeseed Oil, Batter (Contains Stabiliser E412/Guar Gum), Green Peppers (7%), Water, Green Chillies, Salt, Chilli Powder, Garlic Puree, White Pepper.
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Post by: Akima on 27 Aug 2013, 07:31
This .pdf file (http://www.burgerking.co.uk/files/documents/Nutritionals_June_2013.pdf) says the Burger King Bean Burger does contain egg and milk in what BK calls "traces", along with plenty of fat and sugar too...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Aug 2013, 07:54
I think they have to put the traces thing unless the factory is totally allergen-free, so I don't bother about that. I'll just assume it's vegan without the mayo and cheese, since I really don't eat there more than twice a year if that.
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Aug 2013, 15:39
so one of the neat things Camille and I are doing in order to make this long-distance relationship not feel so distant is send each other care packages with love letters and cutesy shit inside. I sent one to her first, and she sent me one back. I got it yesterday. it's so goddamn cute that I had to mop my heart up off the kitchen floor.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Aug 2013, 16:02
That is adorable, and I'm envious! (Although not of the mopping, I don't have a mop. Or indeed a vacuum cleaner.)
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Post by: Jace on 27 Aug 2013, 22:22
I'm going to be a little bit upset if my vervelles don't show up in the mail tomorrow, I ordered them four days ago so I figured they would have arrived by now. We are working on finishing my bascinet tomorrow and I'd love to be able to put in the vervelles.

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Post by: BeoPuppy on 28 Aug 2013, 04:51
QC = QI.
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Post by: Lupercal on 28 Aug 2013, 13:02
So my girlfriend and I are planning to go to New Zealand for A While and drive around the country working on farms and doing LOTR shit I guess.

Looks like the first car I'll ever actually own will be a New Zealand station wagon, probably a Honda. We may sleep in it a bit. It will be fun.
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Post by: Grognard on 28 Aug 2013, 20:23
My first car was a Mercury Tracer s/w.
otherwise known as a Mazda 323 or early 90s Ford Escort.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 28 Aug 2013, 20:38
Seems as if I may have underestimated how much of a problem Vitiglio may cause me with an outdoor job. Despite regular applications of sunscreen, I've gotten some pretty intense burning as well as worse burning and blistering on the areas with no melanin. Going to be taking some extra precautions, but as long as I can make it till the temperatures start dropping, I should be fine. At that point I can much more easily and comfortably cover up.
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Post by: Jace on 29 Aug 2013, 00:35
I'm going to be a little bit upset if my vervelles don't show up in the mail tomorrow, I ordered them four days ago so I figured they would have arrived by now. We are working on finishing my bascinet tomorrow and I'd love to be able to put in the vervelles.

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They did not arrive but it was okay because we still have a little bit of stuff to do on the helmet before we can put them in. Also two of the drill bits broke while drilling the holes for the vervelles.
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Post by: jwhouk on 29 Aug 2013, 07:03
My first car was a Mercury Tracer s/w.
otherwise known as a Mazda 323 or early 90s Ford Escort.

I actually owned two Escorts. A '90 and a '93. Fun little cars, but the '93 made me swear off manual trannys forever. That was the one that some idiot spraypainted over a bumper sticker on the back of my car.
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Post by: cesium133 on 29 Aug 2013, 07:06
Heh... when I got my current car, it had an "Ehrlich for Governor" bumper sticker. I didn't really care about it and was just going to leave it, but my dad decided to spray paint over it...
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Post by: Skaltura on 29 Aug 2013, 07:41
First time posting in this thread.

Losing my old job effective October, new better paying job starting in January. Even got a job to bridge the gap without a lot of effort (pay is meh, but much better than being unemployed). Things are going too well, still patiently awaiting the apocalypse.
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Post by: Grognard on 29 Aug 2013, 08:38
if you had the '90 Escort, then you drove what I drove. 1987-1992 Mazda/Mercury/Ford were all the same except for MINOR trim differences.  When I traded in my Merc Tracer, it had a Mazda water pump and Ford brake calipers.
Even as a s/w, I loved that car and its performance capabilities.
plus it got 35 MPG+
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: nekowafer on 29 Aug 2013, 11:38
I am looking at buying a Fiat 500 L as my first car. Initially I was looking at getting a used car, but if I have the money...
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Post by: ackblom12 on 29 Aug 2013, 12:17
I am looking at buying a Fiat 500 L as my first car. Initially I was looking at getting a used car, but if I have the money...

I am really glad you're getting this money and are going to be able to get out of the money issues you're facing, but as fellow poor folk, please be careful do not go overboard with your initial spending with your eventual finances (whatever they may be).

Just because I think it's useful for those who aren't poor, and I think most of us who have been poor for extended periods of time have a hard time recognizing and dealing with these issues, this is one of Cracked's much better and accurate articles.

The 5 Stupidest Habits you Develop Growing Up Poor (http://www.cracked.com/blog/the-5-stupidest-habits-you-develop-growing-up-poor/)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Aug 2013, 12:20
I receive Mary Hunt's Everyday Cheapskate newsletter. A while back she wrote about exactly this: the fact that if you can find a used car that meets your needs but you choose to spend up to or above your spending limit on a new car or a fancier car, you have thrown away the price difference between the used car and the newer/fancier car, and that is an irresponsible decision. We all make irresponsible financial decisions sometimes, but you should be aware that you are doing so if you do.
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Post by: nekowafer on 29 Aug 2013, 12:40
Numbers 3 and 4 in that article will be a huge problem for me, and I'm really trying to plan things out so I can minimize the damage I'll do. It's why paying off bills will be the first order of business; then I will buy the things I need (home and car, details on that in a moment); then I will talk to the bank about investing and saving and making at least half of what's left untouchable for a couple years. I know that I can get used to not being poor, but I need to give myself time. I have gotten more used to buying food/toiletries/etc. for a lower unit price, as opposed to total price, so that's a step in the right direction.

On the car front. Basically, I'm going to be getting about 5 or 6 times more money than I'd need to buy the new car that I currently want, which makes me more comfortable with the idea of spending that kind of money. Also, I intend to get the warranty/service package thingymajig and all of that stuff that you can't get with a used car. But it does still bother me a great deal that my car will lose a ton of the value the moment I drive it off the lot. So it's a decision I haven't truly made, yet. I won't have the money for another couple of months, so I have time to figure it out.

Unfortunately I don't know anyone that's bought a brand new car outright, as I intend to. I don't know who to ask about this stuff and I don't know what to research. I also kind of just want something that's MINE and FANCY and MINE. This will be the first time I've ever owned anything so big and expensive and useful and all mine. It's weird just thinking about it.

As for a home, I've been convinced that buying a house will be a good investment. So I will probably end up renting a place for the next year or more, but really looking into buying something, with a large downpayment so it will be all mine sooner.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Aug 2013, 12:45
Buying a house is absolutely a good move, financially. Yes, houses sometimes lose value as the market fluctuates. But unless they fall down in a freak storm, they retain their value as your home without requiring constant financial payouts like renting does.

Buying a new car instead of a used one - I can see why you want to buy something fancy that's yours. But cars lose value immediately, as you said, and they go wrong and new ones often cost more to fix than old ones (although having a warranty is useful). If you buy a used car, you can put the difference towards the house and get that sooner. Then you can furnish it with fancy things that are yours!
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Post by: Jace on 29 Aug 2013, 14:55
Buying a new car, if you intend to keep it for a while (like 5+ years) is a great plan as opposed to used. The difference can be only about $6000, my car was used, it's been pretty good, but I wouldn't have minded being able to purchase a new car. There's a lot less that could go wrong with a new car as opposed to a used. Also you can get the warranties for a new car so that is even better.

Anecdotal evidence: jess has had a used car for about 4.5 years. Since I have been with her (3.5ish years) her car has been nothing but trouble, her family has probably put three or four thousand dollars into repairs. They only paid like five thousand for it. Right now her car has broken down again, battery and possible engine troubles.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 29 Aug 2013, 15:07
Well, cars are a thing that should never be thought of as a wise investment anyways. They lose a huge chunk of their value the moment they leave the lot and unless you end up with a car that there were only a couple hundred made and keep it in fantastic condition, then you'll never accrue any kind of investment interest. It is, essentially, the greatest example of a catch 22 in the economic weirdness of the US. They are necessary, but they also cost you a ridiculous amount of money to maintain if you aren't careful. But I do have to absolutely agree that a new car is by far the wisest choice in comparison to anything used. You just simply will never know the entire history of the car's problems and quirks. While you still have to be careful about the build quality of new cars, the warranty and having all new parts is a huge jump up in every way possible.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 29 Aug 2013, 15:14
Neko, a certified used with only a couple thousand miles on it might now be a bad idea. Nick bought a 2010 Toyota in 2011- I think it had less than 5,000 miles on it. Got a warranty as well. Never caused him any problems and buying it used saved him a few thousand dollars.
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Post by: Lines on 29 Aug 2013, 15:17
The 5 Stupidest Habits you Develop Growing Up Poor (http://www.cracked.com/blog/the-5-stupidest-habits-you-develop-growing-up-poor/)

This article is spot on. I'm still dealing with this crap and I don't think it's ever going to go away. Luckily Michael was not poor growing up, so he doesn't have this mentality, and is able to keep me in check and helps me budget. And I'm going to need it a lot once my car payments start. (I've also got loans I'm paying and I'm the one who buys groceries, so my paycheck does tend to run out very fast when I don't budget properly.)
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Post by: Redball on 29 Aug 2013, 15:29
Neko, I recommend a subscription to Consumer Reports, perhaps an on-line one if not both print and on-line. Besides new-car reports, it annually reports on good, medium and bad used cars, and it reports every model year of every model. Also, if you decide on a newish used car, use Carfax to find out where it's been, if it was involved in a crash or a flood. I've bought extended warranties for the last few cars. Consumer Reports doesn't recommend that, but I was willing to pay for some piece of mind. I'm driving a 2010 Chrysler minivan, bought used in Oct. 2010 with 27k miles for $20k. It's held up OK except for a transmission replacement under extended warranty. It's driven about 20k miles a year. Carfax told me it had been a rental.
In your previous life, I'd buy you the subscription.
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Post by: Papersatan on 29 Aug 2013, 15:46
Professionally obligated to mention that your local library probably has a subscription to Consumer Reports so you can read the print version at least, for free. 
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Post by: Redball on 29 Aug 2013, 18:26
I should have thought of that. I subscribe, but now I wonder if my little library gets it.
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Post by: jwhouk on 29 Aug 2013, 18:40
I wouldn't buy a used Dodge/Chrysler mini-van for one particular reason: I have seen what abuse and high mileage does to them personally. Since the turn of the century, the state of Wisconsin has used pretty much all Chrysler products for its fleet vehicles, and the things that go wrong with Caravans/Voyagers is remarkable.
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Post by: Redball on 29 Aug 2013, 18:53
I buy them partly out of brand loyalty, partly out of loyalty to a close friend who was a Detroit-area dealer. The only other serious problem I had with one was a 1990 minivan's transmission. That was a particularly bad year.
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Post by: nekowafer on 29 Aug 2013, 19:11
I know that the Top Gear guys (UK version) gave the car I want a 7 out of 10. They're more concerned with going fast and that's not a concern for me, so I think that's a pretty good rating. The version I want is only $22,000 or so, plus if I'm paying it all upfront, I might be able to get a good deal. I still need to do more research, though.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 30 Aug 2013, 02:49
Fiat might be expensive in the long term, because there not considered to be very reliable. Germans call FIAT Fehler in allen Teilen, which roughly translates into Mistakes in Every Parts. If your car fails regularly, it might add up to a huge amount of cash you'd have to pay.
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Post by: LTK on 30 Aug 2013, 03:29
Does anyone know what type of small insect feeds on butter? Cause I just went to make a sandwich and found them in my cupboard. Everywhere in my cupboard. The majority seem to be eating trails through my butter.

They must be lice, fleas or mites, I don't know what else they can be. I've heard of mites living in cheese, is that right?
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Post by: pwhodges on 30 Aug 2013, 03:48
Silverfish (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Silverfish)?  Though they prefer carbohydrates to fats, so perhaps not.
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Post by: LTK on 30 Aug 2013, 04:05
No, definitely not silverfish, I've seen those before. These things are as small as plant lice. I wouldn't have noticed them at all if there weren't so many of them. They've been spreading but I'm pretty sure the butter was the source of them. They weren't in the honey or in the peanut butter, but I've quarantined those just in case.
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Post by: pwhodges on 30 Aug 2013, 04:16
Googling insects and butter got me this, which is no help at all!

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Post by: Jace on 30 Aug 2013, 05:20
Yeah fuck Fiat (Fix It Again Tony). I loved Saturns but of course they went belly up, I've been driving a Chevy for about a year and a half and it is pretty boss. Easy maintenance, good mpg, and it can fit a 9 foot spear plus the armor for two fighters.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 30 Aug 2013, 05:38
When I lived with Edith last summer we were fighting the tail end of a battle with moths (she had fumigated the entire kitchen just before I got there but they were still around) but they mostly were in the pasta and rice. Never heard of anything in butter!
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Post by: LTK on 30 Aug 2013, 07:03
Oh jesus fuck, they're on every shelf from top to bottom. I'm going to have to clear the entire cupboard out and vacuum them off every single thing that I have in there.

I'm glad the supermarket manager didn't make a fuss about giving me a new pack of butter, even though I didn't have a receipt. At least I can make my sandwich now.

Oh wait, I found the source. They came out of the tortillas. Unbelievable, they reduced the entire stack to dust. Guess they finally ran out of nutrition and went looking elsewhere.
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Post by: Redball on 30 Aug 2013, 08:08
Look up "flour weevil" and see if the photos fit. They appear to be black, but perhaps it's the larvae that are more beige. Maybe it could be worse, like all over your kitchen. This may be the lesser of two weevils.
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Post by: pwhodges on 30 Aug 2013, 08:12
I was about to buy an unusual disk (Toshiba MK2431GAH to replace a crashed one) off eBay for $155 plus $55 shipping from the US, delivery in 3-4 weeks; then I had another google around over lunch, and found the same disk from the unlikely-sounding "Power Tool Batteries" for £55 plus £3.50 shipping from Hong Kong, delivery 4-5 days.

Which do you think I'm getting?
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Post by: LTK on 30 Aug 2013, 08:30
Look up "flour weevil" and see if the photos fit. They appear to be black, but perhaps it's the larvae that are more beige. Maybe it could be worse, like all over your kitchen. This may be the lesser of two weevils.
Dohohoho - no, beetles aren't this small, not even their larvae.

According to some sources, flour mites will eat most dry foods. The fact that they went straight for the butter, and left the chocolate sprinkles alone, baffles me. Maybe it's because I keep the butter in a dish with a non-sealable plastic cover. The boxes of sprinkles may have been less accessible. I guess I better put those in the freezes. I wonder if my peanut butter is safe.

Anyway, the cupboard is in my own room, not in the kitchen; I share that with five others. The kitchen is already a breeding ground for all sorts of insects, if I found the mites there I wouldn't care as much.  :lol:
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 30 Aug 2013, 08:32
Is determining what they are important in your quest to eradicate them all from your environment?
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Post by: LTK on 30 Aug 2013, 08:34
Of course. If I'm to eradicate them, I need to figure out what they eat, and take it away so they starve to death. Maybe they even eat cardboard! That would be bad...
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Post by: Lines on 30 Aug 2013, 16:08
I would take the approach of throwing out all the food and spraying the cabinet whilst saying, "Die motherfuckers die."

Infestations make me super twitchy, I hope you can get rid of them. Also, at least they aren't ants. We had an ant problem in the kitchen of the house I lived in when I was in high school and they would not die. We had an exterminator come out twice and ad he was baffled. I can't remember how we got rid of them, but I'm pretty sure that's one of the reasons my mom and I moved...
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Post by: Akima on 30 Aug 2013, 16:23
Insects eat all sorts of improbable things. If you store old books in cardboard boxes, at least in Australia, you have carefully to seal them with tape, or you'll risk them becoming condos for cockroaches. They eat the glue in the book-bindings. I discovered this the hard way. And yes, ants will find anything, and get in anywhere, if food is available. Generally, you either have to keep stuff in the fridge, or in well-sealed containers, or you will attract lots of little friends with too many legs. Once you have sealed away all the foodstuffs, the little friends will move on. Eventually. Note: Jam-jars may be sealed, but any sticky residue on the outside will attract ants. Keep them in the fridge.

In other news, winter must be over. I saw the first Water Dragon (http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-r9cf4P6l3nY/TcQMRu77M7I/AAAAAAAAAHA/9CJsnYGlwoA/s320/51151231-water-dragon.jpg) of the spring in my yard this morning. I always like to see them return from hibernation.

Which do you think I'm getting?
Is there a prize if we guess rightly?  :-D
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Post by: jwhouk on 30 Aug 2013, 18:53
Had that happen to us a long while back (the little flour bugs). Suggestion: after you fumigate EVERYTHING, make sure you SEAL your food in air-tight containers.
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Post by: snalin on 31 Aug 2013, 01:07
One of the big advantages of living in a coldish country - no bug infestations! Still shitty weather always, but I'm inside most of the time, so I think it's a fair trade off.

On a related note, I'm suddenly going to a concert. Somebody couldn't go, so there were a ticket left over, and I figured "why not?". Well it's outside and it's raining a bunch. Yay!
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Post by: Lupercal on 31 Aug 2013, 06:25
Fiat might be expensive in the long term, because there not considered to be very reliable. Germans call FIAT Fehler in allen Teilen, which roughly translates into Mistakes in Every Parts. If your car fails regularly, it might add up to a huge amount of cash you'd have to pay.

Ha. A few decades ago us Brits would call Fords "Fix Or Repair Daily" - that was back when Mini's and Austens were reigning supreme. Before the hot hatch...before the VW Golf.

Cars, well I'd say get a fairly new-used car. My dad got a good deal on a Ford and it did something like 200k miles before it needed welding and didn't cost him a lot in maintenance and repairs. The newer Ford we got as a replacement already had over 100k miles on it and has needed a LOT of repairs on it, most notably a head gasket replacement and now appears to be leaking brake fluid into the floor.

Fiat 500s are very, very popular here in the UK, probably due to their size. I lump them in with KAs, though - women's cars with 4 seats that I can never really drive. If you're looking at a 500 L, have you considered a Punto instead?
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Post by: Lines on 31 Aug 2013, 10:22
A lot of car manufacturers nowadays offer smaller hatchbacks for a lot less, so why the Fiat? I mean, I'm driving a Hyundai Elantra GT and while it's not tiny, it's still considered a compact. (The older Corolla I was driving was a compact and they're not much different in length or width externally, even though the inside of my car is MUCH more spacious.) And the Hyundai Accent 5-door is even smaller. I mean, I don't want to toot Hyundai's horn or anything, but I rarely hear anything bad about their engineering. Same with Toyota, Subaru, Honda, and VW.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 31 Aug 2013, 11:46
There was that whole recall shebang with Toyota though...
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Post by: Patrick on 31 Aug 2013, 13:43
I'm still pissed that whole thing didn't take out my stepmom, her Corolla is a 2010 and she's a raging bitch with no soul.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 31 Aug 2013, 14:44
slightly scratch her corolla
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Post by: Zingoleb on 31 Aug 2013, 14:45
okay i smashed her corolla
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Post by: Zingoleb on 31 Aug 2013, 14:47
ONE MORE FUCK AND I CAN OWN YA, ONE COLD NIGHT IN OCTO8ER

I mean,  I mean,

also i'm glad to see i'm not the only one who does this
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Post by: Patrick on 31 Aug 2013, 18:02
okay I do have an earnest Things I Have Been Doing post

so about a year back, a band called the Palisades from Bellingham, WA came to Livermore, we played a show with them at my bar that my friend Chris had thrown for my band, Palisades, his band Loudtalkers, and one other. and it was fun and merry and exciting, and weed was smoked and friends made.

fast forward to about a month ago when they hit me up on facedick and said "Hey dude, you happen to have any shows we can hop in on to fill some dates for our tour?" we happened to have one last night that had been in the works for months, which happened to be at a huge backyard party my friend put on at his family's house. they had already asked us to play, and I called in the favor, and they were kind enough to permit it. the result ended up being that Palisades wound up making more merch sales, giving out more stickers, and having more fun than at any other point on their nationwide tour over this whole summer. they were really kind and thankful, and have offered us incredible assistance with every scene they know of in Washington. and we're already thinking seriously about doing a tour up there next spring or summer.

all in all, my friday night fucking ruled yesterday. and I even was able to host the guys on my living room floor (they had sleeping bags and mattress pads, fortunately, I'd have felt bad otherwise) and helped them find a laundromat and an auto shop to maintain their van. they were so incredibly thankful, and gave me a t-shirt. wearing it now. :D

this is why I fucking love being in a band.
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Post by: Grognard on 31 Aug 2013, 19:59
my orange tabby is shedding like crazy, and his favorite spot to sleep is on the navy blue couch.

how can anything lose so much hair and not go bald????????
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Post by: Carl-E on 31 Aug 2013, 23:42
Jace, $4k in repairs + $5k original cost is still about half what you'd pay for a cheap new car.  Of course, a lemon is a lemon! 

Old cars are a mixed bag, though.  Some are great, some are trash, depending on who drove it last.  Your best bets are the more recent ones from the dealer, and they usually come with warranties. 

Also, I'd be leery of a car model that's only a year or two old - bad designs need to be worked out.  My friend's '11 Juke that she finally took in for the ticking noise (and it was still under warranty, thank god - the timing chain had slipped) had five different recalls that needed taken care of. 
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 01 Sep 2013, 05:02
September the first, my kid is 3 years old today.
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Post by: LTK on 01 Sep 2013, 07:16
I am looking at buying a Fiat 500 L as my first car. Initially I was looking at getting a used car, but if I have the money...

I am really glad you're getting this money and are going to be able to get out of the money issues you're facing, but as fellow poor folk, please be careful do not go overboard with your initial spending with your eventual finances (whatever they may be).

Just because I think it's useful for those who aren't poor, and I think most of us who have been poor for extended periods of time have a hard time recognizing and dealing with these issues, this is one of Cracked's much better and accurate articles.

The 5 Stupidest Habits you Develop Growing Up Poor (http://www.cracked.com/blog/the-5-stupidest-habits-you-develop-growing-up-poor/)
On that subject, here's another interesting article:

Poverty can sap people's ability to think clearly. (http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn24128-poverty-can-sap-peoples-ability-to-think-clearly.html)

So it's true. Poor people are dumber than rich people. But poverty is the cause, not the effect: the poor are worrying themselves dumb. The mental resources required to keep yourself and your family alive and healthy on the poverty line are so high that all other tasks are suffering from it. Considering how working memory is highly correlated with intelligence, I'm not surprised this is the case.
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Post by: Carl-E on 01 Sep 2013, 07:41
Not dumb - distracted.  When your worries and problems fill your every waking - and many dreaming - thoughts, there's little room for anything else. 
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Post by: Lines on 01 Sep 2013, 07:44
I mean,  I mean,

also i'm glad to see i'm not the only one who does this

I mostly type how I talk, which means I don't proofread most of the time!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Sep 2013, 07:48
Unfortunately, the way that standardised testing works means that there's very little difference, on paper, between dumb and distracted.

I wonder if this is something that can also be intergenerational? I'm intrigued by, although almost entirely uneducated about, epigenetics and if I have understood the gist correctly, consistent sleep deprivation, stress and worry could affect DNA in some complicated biology kind of way, which could be passed on to offspring, meaning that they're predisposed towards the mental conditions of stress, worry and distraction which in turn contribute to less societal success.
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Post by: Lines on 01 Sep 2013, 07:51
There was that whole recall shebang with Toyota though...

Wasn't that only one year, though? I don't really remember it, but I thought it was fine now. I dunno, the Corolla I drove is 13 years old, never had a problem with it, the car my mom had before that was a Toyota and she had that for about 10-12 years as well before the engine starting having issues (it was a Tercell, they don't make those anymore). *shrug*

Also, you're talking to someone who knows very little about cars. My advice is all anecdotal - those car manufacturers are ones that my family and friends have had the best luck with.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 01 Sep 2013, 08:04
All I know is that Fiat is not a brand one associates with reliability.
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Post by: LTK on 01 Sep 2013, 08:22
Unfortunately, the way that standardised testing works means that there's very little difference, on paper, between dumb and distracted.

I wonder if this is something that can also be intergenerational? I'm intrigued by, although almost entirely uneducated about, epigenetics and if I have understood the gist correctly, consistent sleep deprivation, stress and worry could affect DNA in some complicated biology kind of way, which could be passed on to offspring, meaning that they're predisposed towards the mental conditions of stress, worry and distraction which in turn contribute to less societal success.
The fact that you know what epigenetics is already implies a substantial level of education. Whether it has a negative effect is up for debate, though. I was taught that the reason epigenetic inheritance exists is to let the child better deal with the life circumstances of the parent. Prolonged stress has a negative effect on the body and the mind, but stress has a useful function: it signals that your life is out of balance in some way - too much of one thing, too little of another - and motivates you to make a change. The simplest example is a cockroach: they prefer humidity, and if it is dry, the cockroach is under stress, and this directly causes it to start walking until it reaches someplace more humid.

I'm not entirely sure if this also applies to humans, but the idea is: if the parent lives in a bad environment, the child inherits a higher sensitivity to stress, so that it is better equipped to deal with adversity. In theory, epigenetic inheritance may make the difference between barely scraping by, or having a mental breakdown on account of not being able to.
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Post by: Loki on 01 Sep 2013, 09:28
Not dumb - distracted.  When your worries and problems fill your every waking - and many dreaming - thoughts, there's little room for anything else.

I remember a study saying that poor people enjoyed sex less than financially stable ones. The newspaper citing it was "no shit Sherlock, of course worrying about how you can pay the bills impacts your ability to relax".
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Sep 2013, 10:36
For the record I had a 2.6 GPA in high school and was considered kinda slow especially after the standardized testing results came back. I sent some of the teachers I didn't get along with my college transcripts. They can CHOKE on that 3.7 GPA.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Sep 2013, 11:23
I was told by my high school maths teacher to stop considering doing a maths degree (I wanted to teach maths when I was 15) because I wouldn't even pass my GCSEs. I got an A. I resisted the temptation to go and brandish the certificate at him - he wasn't worth the effort. But I was pretty pleased, especially considering the fact that I'd point-blanked refused to take his "extended study" course in second year, which basically meant that I sat and taught myself the GCSE syllabus while he "taught" everyone else advanced maths. They all, without exception, failed the advanced test.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 01 Sep 2013, 14:25
Bluhhhhh...back from holiday. Work tomorrow.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 01 Sep 2013, 15:50
A guest arrived today at our Summerhouse. She's an old friend from school and we've all been super happy and nothing has changed. She's also brought her boyfriend with her and he seems like a very chill guy.

They just went to bed and I'm sitting in the main room. I can hear their bed squeaking like hell. Goddamn young'uns...
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Post by: Akima on 01 Sep 2013, 16:49
Unfortunately, the way that standardised testing works means that there's very little difference, on paper, between dumb and distracted.
I was told by my high school maths teacher to stop considering doing a maths degree (I wanted to teach maths when I was 15) because I wouldn't even pass my GCSEs. I got an A.

I have very mixed feelings about "standardised testing" and "high stakes tests", and Barmymoo's two remarks sum up the reasons. When I was at junior school, most of the teachers pretty much assumed I was stupid because I had poor English when I arrived, and an accent you could cut with a chainsaw. I got better, but I have observed that teachers rarely change their initial assessments of pupils, and often seem almost to resent it when you perform better than they expect. Then I scored in the top ten-percent in the State Selective Schools Test, and won entry to an academically prestigious girl's high-school. There the teachers were "pre-conditioned" by my exam results to accept that I was not stupid, and I never looked back. I don't like to think what would have happened if I had had to rely on "internal assessment" by my junior-school teachers.

On the other hand, the fact that standardised testing and external examinations happened to suit me, does not mean they are ideal for everyone, and certainly they should not be the beginning and end of education. For students from low-income homes, standardised testing is a two-edged sword, I think. Poverty might impair their performance, but on the other hand standardised external testing enables them to prove that they are not stupid, despite their teachers' snobbery, racism etc.
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Post by: nekowafer on 01 Sep 2013, 17:17
All I know is that Fiat is not a brand one associates with reliability.

This is mostly connected to the older Fiats, and not the modern ones, I would like to point out.
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Post by: nekowafer on 01 Sep 2013, 17:21
A lot of car manufacturers nowadays offer smaller hatchbacks for a lot less, so why the Fiat? I mean, I'm driving a Hyundai Elantra GT and while it's not tiny, it's still considered a compact. (The older Corolla I was driving was a compact and they're not much different in length or width externally, even though the inside of my car is MUCH more spacious.) And the Hyundai Accent 5-door is even smaller. I mean, I don't want to toot Hyundai's horn or anything, but I rarely hear anything bad about their engineering. Same with Toyota, Subaru, Honda, and VW.

I've been looking at other 4 door hatchbacks and I just don't like them as much, honestly. I am still looking and shopping around so this may change.
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Post by: Redball on 01 Sep 2013, 18:40
I don't like to think what would have happened if I had had to rely on "internal assessment" by my junior-school teachers.
A 1950s study  (http://www.sociologyinfocus.com/2012/09/24/self-fulfilling-prophecies-in-education/) predicts you wouldn't have fared very well. My wife succeeded despite predictions from a couple of teachers.
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Post by: Papersatan on 01 Sep 2013, 22:10
So, as I mentioned in the drunk thread, last night when I was out drinking, I bought tickets to a comedy show today. 

It was at a big outdoor venue with Flight of the Concords and Dave fucking Chappelle headlining.  It's one of the best drunk decisions I have ever made, and drunk me makes a lot of good choices.  It was great time, the opening acts were great, and Dave had a good attitude about his recent bad gig, though it was obvious everyone was a little nervous all day that he wouldn't actually perform. 
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Post by: Patrick on 02 Sep 2013, 05:08
Also, I'd be leery of a car model that's only a year or two old - bad designs need to be worked out.

Worth noting that the Fiat 500 is only new to the American market, they've been making the things for the better part of a decade. Fiat are also shareholders in Ferrari, and are the owners of Lancia, Alfa Romeo, and Maserati, as well as most of Chrysler.

All I know is that Fiat is not a brand one associates with reliability.

This is mostly connected to the older Fiats, and not the modern ones, I would like to point out.

There's a reason for that, but it has nothing to do with design. Import autos require more costly maintenance because the parts have to be shipped. Fiats and any other European brand also have to deal with constant shit-smearing by American brands, because if there's one thing America knows how to do, shit talking is it. We're extremely good at it. It's also true that in the '60s, people abused the shit out of their hot-hatch Fiats because they were supposed to be hot hatches, and what do you do with a hot hatch? Abuse it. Drive anything hard enough for long enough, it'll fall apart on you.

There is actually a '61 Fiat 600 that has lived here in Livermore since she was first made and shipped over, and she's been maintained perfectly. Runs perfectly fine, I see it around town frequently.
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Post by: Carl-E on 02 Sep 2013, 07:44
The shipping of parts isn't as big a deal as it used to be, either, and several GM dealers (GM has a partial stake in Fiat international) are geared up for servicing the new ones.  I for one am glad to see them back after their more-than-a-decade absence from the US market. 

Barmy:  I was told by my high school geometry teacher that I probably shouldn't go on in math either. 

I contacted him after I got my Ph. D.  He was very nice and congratulated me - then went on to explain that he had learned an awful lot from me and my classmates (turns out he was student teaching for his ed degree). 

In fact, he learned enough to make it the focus of his research, and became a distinguished professor of math education.  One of my former colleagues was a Ph.D. student of his. 

It's funny how a stray comment like that can either a) completely discourage someone, or b) push them in an "I'll show you!" way. 

People are weird, and unpredictable at best. 
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Post by: cesium133 on 02 Sep 2013, 07:56
I'm not sure if it really counts, but my seventh grade biology teacher told my mom at a parent conference day that I had no chance of getting anywhere in science. Considering I'm currently working toward a Ph.D. in physics, he might be a bit wrong.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 02 Sep 2013, 09:04
I think I went on about the German educational system, didn't I? With it's three types of school after elementary?

Reminder: there is Hauptschule, Realschule and Gymnasium. Hauptschule goes up to grade 9 or 10. Most people which went to Hauptschule will not go further than being skilled workers. People who went to Realschule will often become white collar workers. And when you went to a Gymnasium, you'll most likely go to a University and study.

Now as one might see, it's a very important decision to which school you'll go. The Elementary school will give the parents/pupil a recommendation to which school to go to, but depending on which state (Bundesland) you're from, this "recommendation" is binding. Luckily I'm from Schleswig-Holstein, and here the parents are free to send the child to a different school than was recommended (but not to Gymnasium when Hauptschule was recommended). My elementary teacher didn't think I'd be able to get through Gymnasium. He literally told my mother that I'd probably drop to Realschule during the first two years. I went to Gymnasium, and got through without having to repeat or anything. My final grade might not be extremely good, but it's slightly over average for my state. (I am still tempted to mail him a copy of my Abitur…)

Now imagine if I would have lived in a state where the "recommendation" is binding, e.g. Bavaria. I'd have gone to Realschule, and my problems (which were officially diagnosed during elementary school as "mental underload") would probably have taken care of me not being able to step up to Gymnasium. Maybe they'd even have kept me from getting my Abitur after finishing Realschule. I wouldn't be able to study computer science. I wouldn't be able to go to university at all. I probably would have gone and became a "Fachinformatiker", and ended up as sysadmin or code monkey. Now, actually I might still end up as one of that, but with a university degree I'd earn more than without.

I guess my position about making such important decisions at such an early stage of ones life is pretty clear after this. I don't think the teachers are able to really judge in every case, whether a child of 9 will be able to get a PhD or work as a carpenter.

And in driving news: I'll have my second to last driving lesson before my practical exam this evening. I have to do a mandatory driving lesson when it's dark, or at least when it's starting to get dark, before I can do the exam, and the exam is on Wednesday. At 8am. Ugh. But I'm rather confident. Not as confident as I was before my theoretical exam, but still better than a week ago. I had another driving lesson earlier today, and my driving teacher didn't have anything negative to say about it. One time he was about to say something about a car which he thought I had not seen, but I was already stopping because of it. On Friday I almost had a crash, but it wasn't my fault. A truck switched into traffic from the acceleration lane at about 45km/h, while I was driving with 95km/h. One car went as well, and if the car behind that had switched lanes as well it would have crashed into my side. I stayed relatively calm, braked a lot, and everything was fine. My teacher even commended me for not trying to avoid a crash and swerve to the left. I had done that before, (a few weeks ago) and, well, my teacher was understandably not amused. I was lucky that nobody was trying to overtake me at that time. (Though I don't think it would have happened if my driving teacher hadn't said anything. I was slowing down for a car to switch lanes, but my teacher told me to drive ahead. But the other driver had noticed me slowing down and started switching lanes, which made me very, very nervous. On the other hand, my driving teacher was right of course, and if a car would have been tailgating me it would have crashed into me for slowing down so suddenly.)

It's going to be interesting to drive when it's a bit darker.
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Post by: Grognard on 02 Sep 2013, 20:44
my Driver's Education In-Car instructor was a retired, but licensed, NASCAR driver.
I know he passed in the late '90s-early -00s, but for the Life of Me, I can't recall his name.

I recall he told me I stank at cornering curves, but that he'd fix me.  He did.
Now days, I really enjoy driving a twisting, winding road with the right type of car.
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Post by: pwhodges on 04 Sep 2013, 02:23
Yesterday I spent a whole hour editing a web page and using [] brackets instead of <>.  Clearly I spend too much time on forums these days!
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Post by: KingOfIreland on 04 Sep 2013, 02:28
Also, I'd be leery of a car model that's only a year or two old - bad designs need to be worked out.

Worth noting that the Fiat 500 is only new to the American market, they've been making the things for the better part of a decade. Fiat are also shareholders in Ferrari, and are the owners of Lancia, Alfa Romeo, and Maserati, as well as most of Chrysler.


Well, I know the 500 has a different engine to that of the european counterpart, but apart from that it's unchanged. You see millions upon millions of them around here and I've never heard a horror story relating to them.

As for the second part: Ferrari, Lancia, Alfa and Maseratis aren't exactly known for reliability ;)

A lot has changed for fiat over the last twenty years though, so the 500 is well worth a look.
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Post by: nekowafer on 04 Sep 2013, 07:10
This is the 4 door version of the 500, but it is still built on the same technology, as far as I know.
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Post by: Patrick on 04 Sep 2013, 10:47
Also, I'd be leery of a car model that's only a year or two old - bad designs need to be worked out.

Worth noting that the Fiat 500 is only new to the American market, they've been making the things for the better part of a decade. Fiat are also shareholders in Ferrari, and are the owners of Lancia, Alfa Romeo, and Maserati, as well as most of Chrysler.


As for the second part: Ferrari, Lancia, Alfa and Maseratis aren't exactly known for reliability ;)

again, I think that's simply because they're meant for smashin down the track in, not for daily drivers.
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Post by: Loki on 05 Sep 2013, 00:21
Blog: medicinal latex gloves have better uses than cleaning the kitchen with them. As I did yesterday.
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Post by: Akima on 05 Sep 2013, 02:11
The blue nitrile gloves are better for cleaning, being stronger and more resistant to solvents.
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Post by: pwhodges on 05 Sep 2013, 02:22
And many places no longer use latex gloves because of allergy issues.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 05 Sep 2013, 03:30
I started hating Latex gloves during my brief chemistry studies
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Post by: Jace on 05 Sep 2013, 05:09
Well, things just got interesting. Looks like there are reports of a possum wandering the ramp.
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Post by: jwhouk on 05 Sep 2013, 05:52
...How is this news?
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Post by: Akima on 05 Sep 2013, 06:00
I seem to have tipped over the two-posts-a-day average on this forum. I'm not sure if that is a good or bad thing.
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Post by: Jace on 05 Sep 2013, 06:15
...How is this news?

Because I'm in western ny in a parking ramp, a place where possums are not common.
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Post by: cesium133 on 05 Sep 2013, 07:00
The blue nitrile gloves are better for cleaning, being stronger and more resistant to solvents.
Maybe I should talk my boss into getting some of those. Every time I have to mix laser dye, the stuff seeps through the latex gloves I wear.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 Sep 2013, 10:57
nitrile gloves are gr8, though i prefer purple.

they reminds me of lesbian porn.
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Post by: Patrick on 05 Sep 2013, 11:35
The blue nitrile gloves are better for cleaning, being stronger and more resistant to solvents.

Firefly fan here. I don't care what they're better for, I don't wanna go anywhere near em if they're blue.
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Post by: nekowafer on 05 Sep 2013, 11:42
I like when they're black. Seems naughtier that way.
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Post by: Loki on 05 Sep 2013, 12:04
Black prolly costs extra, no?
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 05 Sep 2013, 12:17
I like the black ones too- mainly because they remind me of my tattoo artist  :-D
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Post by: Patrick on 05 Sep 2013, 13:26
so Camille's mom lost her job yesterday, which is going to make it that much more difficult for Camille to move down here. we're going to work something out, I just don't know what yet. I'm sorely tempted to quit all my unpaid extracurricular activities aside from the band so I can actually get a proper job, a car, a place of my own, etc. and figure out how to finance moving her back here. we're hellbent on being together and where there's a will, there's a way.
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Post by: Grognard on 05 Sep 2013, 13:27
work done.
I go home now.
here, Bikey, bikey.

wheeeeeeeee!
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Post by: Thrillho on 05 Sep 2013, 13:29
so Camille's mom lost her job yesterday, which is going to make it that much more difficult for Camille to move down here. we're going to work something out, I just don't know what yet. I'm sorely tempted to quit all my unpaid extracurricular activities aside from the band so I can actually get a proper job, a car, a place of my own, etc. and figure out how to finance moving her back here. we're hellbent on being together and where there's a will, there's a way.

Patrick, I love you and you know I do.

But be careful.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 05 Sep 2013, 13:32
No; where there's a will, there are relatives.
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Sep 2013, 15:27
so Camille's mom lost her job yesterday, which is going to make it that much more difficult for Camille to move down here. we're going to work something out, I just don't know what yet. I'm sorely tempted to quit all my unpaid extracurricular activities aside from the band so I can actually get a proper job, a car, a place of my own, etc. and figure out how to finance moving her back here. we're hellbent on being together and where there's a will, there's a way.

Patrick, I love you and you know I do.

But be careful.

Seconded - this sounds sudden, at best. 
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Post by: Patrick on 05 Sep 2013, 16:14
Patrick, I love you and you know I do.

But be careful.

well, I've been thinking of quitting my unpaid non-band stuff for a while, just because it isn't as fulfilling as it once was. and I need to get serious about improving my life anyway. having a goal to spur me into action isn't a bad thing, although I totally understand where you're coming from on this. our relationship got serious relatively quickly, and I don't have the best track record as far as romance is concerned. for once though, I think I'm actually doing it right, with the right person.

whatever the case, this is several months down the line. that gives plenty of room for thinking it over.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 05 Sep 2013, 18:41
I use exam gloves for painting.
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Post by: Grognard on 05 Sep 2013, 19:10
 bikey Wheeeee....

*snap*
crash.
OW.

broke the pedal off the damn shaft? gotta luv this fukkin Chinese 'steel'.

Time for a trip to Wallyworld....
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 05 Sep 2013, 19:54
Superstitious mind says, I sewed up a hole in Robert's pocket, therefore I have solved all our money problems. We'll see. (Found someone to buy my old car!)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 06 Sep 2013, 08:10
Hey, whatever works! The mental part is half the battle. And I really enjoy those little coincidences. :-)
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Post by: Akima on 06 Sep 2013, 16:13
I'm off to vote in our Federal General Election. I feel even less enthusiastic about the choice than last time, and the polls suggest that "the other mob" will win. It's been a shitty campaign, and today it reaches its climax. An air-quality health-alert was issued this morning for Sydney; this may not be a coincidence.
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Post by: Grognard on 06 Sep 2013, 19:13
went to a High School football game with the family.
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Post by: Carl-E on 06 Sep 2013, 19:57
Went to the community theatre meeting with my wife and a friend - they had a local video company there auditioning for talent for commercials, training films and what have you.  It was fun, and the guy asked if I'd been doing professional work before. 


[ego stroked]
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Sep 2013, 04:36
I intended to be in the city by 11 for the kickoff of some cultural festival shenanigans, but once again I was up too late. My sleep schedule is a MESS and it has to turn around because tomorrow I need to be up at 7am :/ Anyway, just going to eat some breakfast/lunch/fruit and then head off to watch drama and dance and acrobatics :)
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Post by: jwhouk on 07 Sep 2013, 05:28
(looks at time of post)
(does the necessary calculations)
(grimaces a bit)

Glad you said "breakfast/lunch" there. You need to get off the USA time clock, May.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Sep 2013, 06:05
Actually that's an excellent point, that's precisely the issue! I go to bed at 3am, I wake up at 12pm. If I were in a country five hours behind, I'd be on the ideal sleep schedule. Hmm.
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Sep 2013, 06:12
We'll hold a place for you. 
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Post by: Redball on 07 Sep 2013, 06:20
Got home from Happy Hour, saw you were still posting, but by the time I got on Skype to give you a stern grandfatherly you-have-to-be-up-in-28-hours warning, you were gone.
Geez Louise, get your schedule together!
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Sep 2013, 06:27
I thought her name was May? 
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Post by: GarandMarine on 07 Sep 2013, 07:34
So last week's meal du jour was beef ribs!

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-e-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/1274309_10151901114015815_2113361182_o.jpg)

While they were merely oven baked as opposed to proper grilling or better yet, smoking, they were still very tasty!

Now. BEHOLD! This week's challenge!

(http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_UIXOn06Pz70/R-A_Cl7fDsI/AAAAAAAACQ8/ptKQvKBO4Oo/s800/Katsu+Kare+(Japanese+Pork+Cutlet+with+Curry+Sauce).jpg)

Tonkatsu Curry! Since I'm going to have out everything I need to make tonkatsu I'm also going to be deep frying some big tasty tiger shrimp! My curry itself will be featuring tasty potatoes, carrots, thin cut beef and MORE shrimp.

En cuisine!
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Sep 2013, 07:44
Cooking thread's thataway, kimosabe. 


Boy, those ribs look good...
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Post by: snalin on 07 Sep 2013, 08:33
Urrrr got a coooold.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 07 Sep 2013, 08:42
Heh to right on both counts Carl. The ribs were super Yummy!
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Post by: Redball on 07 Sep 2013, 09:28
I thought her name was May?
Just [a] sayin'.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Sep 2013, 10:24
Funnily enough Louise is my other name!

I'm kicking myself because I missed the ballet performance - I thought it was repeated at 3 but it was only at 1. And the lindy hop class I wanted to go to was cancelled, but I could have gone to the earlier one if I'd realised it was on. But I did hear some opera, watch a pop-up drama performance and several bands, catch the end of a jive class, chat to some people from the writing group and in two hours I'm going back for an acrobatic drama performance suspended against a 12 foot screen. This city is ridiculous, and wonderful.
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Post by: snalin on 07 Sep 2013, 15:31
There's a bunch of people outside in the street, singing Yellow Submarine as loud as they can. Only the lyrics are something else. And it's matching really poorly with the bass from the clubs nearby.

Saturday night!
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Post by: snalin on 07 Sep 2013, 15:33
"I LIKE TO MOVE IT MOVE IT"

I want to be drunk too, but that doesn't go well with fevres.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 07 Sep 2013, 15:38
(https://sphotos-b-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc1/1239798_10151915866590815_1344741874_n.jpg)

Follow up to my last post in here. Go to the cooking thread for details.
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Sep 2013, 17:18
You tempt me twice, you evil man! 

Tomorrow morning I get to take my daughter to a youth meet for the Episcopal church that will include the current presiding bishop for the US, Katherine Jefferts-Schori. 

She's stoked, which is a good thing.  For a kid who's not really able to do anything, she really loves life. 
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Post by: snalin on 09 Sep 2013, 03:44
Voting during lunch hours might've been the best idea I've had in a long time. No queue, just walk in, put a piece of paper in a box, walk out.

Not that it's going to matter as the shitty people are winning, but democrazy, right?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Sep 2013, 04:56
Wait hang on Carl, I just realised what you said. The Episcopal bishop for the US is a woman? How come you guys get to have female bishops and we don't?
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Post by: Akima on 09 Sep 2013, 06:39
Voting during lunch hours might've been the best idea I've had in a long time. No queue, just walk in, put a piece of paper in a box, walk out.
I'm still amazed that countries hold their elections on weekdays. In Australia, they are always held on a Saturday.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Sep 2013, 07:14
Elections are always on a Thursday here. It makes sense - people are much less likely to want to give up their time off to vote than to pop in during the workday. Also they run from 7(?)am to 10pm so plenty of time to go before or after work.
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Post by: jwhouk on 09 Sep 2013, 07:37
Wait hang on Carl, I just realised what you said. The Episcopal bishop for the US is a woman? How come you guys get to have female bishops and we don't?

...Because the Episcopalian Church of America is not beholden to the Church of England?

(I think there was this disagreement we had about 200-225 years ago...)
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Post by: snalin on 09 Sep 2013, 08:39
Voting during lunch hours might've been the best idea I've had in a long time. No queue, just walk in, put a piece of paper in a box, walk out.
I'm still amazed that countries hold their elections on weekdays. In Australia, they are always held on a Saturday.

You can always pre-vote, if you don't have time for it on the actual day. It's not really any more hassle than going to the office.

Other fun fact: it's illegal to sell alcohol during Norwegian election days.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Sep 2013, 08:58
I realise the Episcopal church isn't beholden. I just don't get how in the USA, where things like abortion and gay marriage and women holding high office are such political hot potatoes, a woman can be a bishop when we're pissing around failing to get it sorted in our ostensibly liberal and equal country!

Grr. Perhaps this should be in the rant thread. Last year's vote made me incredibly angry.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 09 Sep 2013, 09:00
US elections are on Tuesdays and I believe the polls usually close around 7 or 8pm. I read somewhere that it's a holdover from being primarily agricultural - so the farmers can go to church on Sunday, travel Monday, vote Tuesday, travel Wednesday, and be back for the market day or something on Thursday.

Since this is obviously how we all still live, there is no need for early voting and no one should complain when their state tries to get rid of it. (I had to vote early last year because I was taking a class on Tuesdays and wouldn't have been home in time.)
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Post by: Patrick on 09 Sep 2013, 11:01
Not that it's going to matter as the shitty people are winning, but democrazy, right?

I used to identify as a Democrat where one of my good buds up in AK was Republican. He used to call me "democrazy" all the time.

I've started putting "American communist" on my ballots now because FUCK IT
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Post by: Loki on 09 Sep 2013, 12:19
Voting during lunch hours might've been the best idea I've had in a long time. No queue, just walk in, put a piece of paper in a box, walk out.
I'm still amazed that countries hold their elections on weekdays. In Australia, they are always held on a Saturday.

Sunday in Germany. (That's when almost nobody works).
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Post by: Lupercal on 09 Sep 2013, 13:19
Elections are always on a Thursday here. It makes sense - people are much less likely to want to give up their time off to vote than to pop in during the workday. Also they run from 7(?)am to 10pm so plenty of time to go before or after work.

Plenty of time, except for 2010, which had an unprecedented 65% turnout. TENS of people were queuing up at a time to get their votes cast late at night. Suddenly voting was important to more people than before, and our community centers and village halls couldn't accommodate the sheer volume of people.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Sep 2013, 13:27
Good point. Although I don't believe that everyone who wasn't able to vote had sprinted there the first moment they could - a lesson in not leaving important things to the last minute (but I believe that anyone who was there before 10pm should have been allowed to vote, it was a farce).
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Post by: Lupercal on 09 Sep 2013, 14:34
Yeah, it was just ridiculous that 65% of the voting population of the UK turned out and we struggled with that. Makes you weep a little for democracy, but reminds you how important voting really is. Not that it got us anywhere, but still.

"You want to vote? Well it's 10pm, the news is on now, I need to close up, go home and find out who won the election!"
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Post by: Patrick on 09 Sep 2013, 14:48
there's a giant-ass fire on Mt. Diablo, just north of my town, and it's threatening massive property damage up in that area. not only is that just generally bad, but it also threatens the property that Camille's parents are planning on buying up there, and where she plans to move in once she's back in California.

fucking christ, man, we just can't catch a break.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Sep 2013, 15:18
I read that as giant ass-fire.
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Post by: Carl-E on 09 Sep 2013, 15:59
I realise the Episcopal church isn't beholden. I just don't get how in the USA, where things like abortion and gay marriage and women holding high office are such political hot potatoes, a woman can be a bishop when we're pissing around failing to get it sorted in our ostensibly liberal and equal country!

Grr. Perhaps this should be in the rant thread. Last year's vote made me incredibly angry.

Those topics certainly are hot potatoes here, and religiously so.  But the Episcopal church, though very traditional in liturgy (high mass is a treat, incense, bells, the whole nine yards) is very liberal in it's practices.  We've had women priests since the early 70's, so naturally some have made it to Bishops - this is the first female presiding bishop, though.  We've had an openly gay bishop (Gene Robinson of New Hampshire), and now have a ceremony for same-sex blessings (not officially a marriage yet, we're working on that). 

Not that there wasn't a bit of a fracas about that one - the bishop of the diocese of Pittsburgh wound up joining the episcopate of Nigeria.  Then was replaced, after the church determined that all properties were the church's, he couldn't take the buildings and people with him. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Sep 2013, 16:12
I suppose we were about 20 years behind on having female priests, so perhaps in 20 years we'll have female bishops (if we do not, I might have left the church by that point).
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Post by: snalin on 10 Sep 2013, 00:47
Aaaaand it's the lowest turnout since 1927*.

Aaaaand it turned out somebody fucked up their maths and the turnout was slightly better than last year. Faith in humanity partially restor... who am I kidding, of course I don't have faith on those fuckers.
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Post by: Akima on 10 Sep 2013, 02:32
there's a giant-ass fire on Mt. Diablo, just north of my town
Here too. The fire season is starting early. (https://www.google.com.au/#q=bushfires&tbm=nws) As I said in the Haiku thread:

Hot winds from the North,
After a long winter drought.
Red sky in the West.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 10 Sep 2013, 04:10
Our last federal election had a voter participation of only 70.9%. This year it might be even lower. I already asked for a mail ballot. (Here it's possible to vote by (snail) mail. If you ask for it, you'll receive a ballot which you can then put in an envelope and send it away. As I don't know exactly where I'll be on the day of the election I asked for one of those)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 10 Sep 2013, 04:21
I'm hoping my home town is done for this fire season, and next year as well. With close to a thousand homes burned over the last two years, two people dead and a massive acreage destroyed we could use a break.
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Sep 2013, 06:45
OK, you guys from other lands do realize that your voter turnout figures are more than twice what the US gets in a good year, right?  We average around 30%. 
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Post by: ev4n on 10 Sep 2013, 07:40
Canada's been around 60% of late.
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Post by: Patrick on 10 Sep 2013, 10:57
OK, you guys from other lands do realize that your voter turnout figures are more than twice what the US gets in a good year, right?  We average around 30%.

this is damn depressing and one of the reasons I want to leave this awful country.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 10 Sep 2013, 12:43
Forum Peoples, I'm having a REALLY hard time with house hunting. Even the cheapest homes that we're finding are out of our range once you factor taxes in and were getting hit with all sorts of surprises when our realtor(s) take us to look at them. This is resulting in us seeing a lot of homes that we fall in love with and then realize that we can't afford. It's getting so frustrating that we're ready to give up. We've been looking for almost 3 months now and our realtor is now on vacation and handed us off to someone else. Neither of them are sending us many listings to look at and it's rare that we actually get an answer to a question we have about a home until they take us to look at it in person- and then the answer is often a dealbreaker. We also aren't told until we press them about why we can't see certain homes.

Everyone I've spoken to has asked me why our realtors aren't finding the houses for us- they are just taking us to ones that we find on our own. ut how do you tell someone that you don't think they are doing their job??


Since we've started looking, we've probably sent them close to 100 homes. They have sent us 8. 4 of those were out of budget.


Are we just getting dicked around because we have a low budget? Because we're first time home buyers? Because we don't have a contract? They know we're serious about buying- our lease ends soon, we have a decent chunk of change for a down payment/closing costs/whathaveyou and we've been pre-approved for a mortgage.

Help? I'm at my wits end and at this point, I'm considering that living life underneath a rock would be better than what we're currently dealing with.
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Post by: Grognard on 10 Sep 2013, 13:00
;(  sounds like you might want to do more Realtor-hunting before you do any more house hunting.

As a buyer's agent, it's an easy way to make $$ without a ton of work.  I've had to deal with the jerks too.

Just don't know why the GOOD realtors don't seem interested in being a buyer's agent.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Sep 2013, 13:38
Do you need a realtor? I'm not entirely clear what that is - the way I found my flat to rent, and the way I anticipate finding a house to buy, is by looking at what's available and then contacting the agent selling it to arrange a viewing. Sounds like all your realtor is doing is accompanying you on the viewing, which doesn't seem enormously necessary.
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Sep 2013, 13:54
The realtor that makes money off a sale is the seller's realtor, the buyer's rep makes a pittance. 

The more the house costs, though, the more hey make  - it's a tiny percentage, but a percentage nonetheless.  You're just not worth their time unless you buy big, and even then...

So really, it's the low budget thing.  But May's right, you don't need a realtor to go look at listings.  Contact the selling realtors directly and arrange for viewings.  Then, when you find a place you want to make an offer on, try to get a real estate lawyer, not a realtor.  They're better with the contracts, and if you can find one that will work for a fee, not a percentage, they won't screw you for a buck or two. 

Please note; I bought my house at an auction.  Whole different ball o' wax. 
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 10 Sep 2013, 14:00
I just worry that since we've never done this before, we're going to get screwed over by settling on something that is an even bigger pain in the ass than we're ready for. I thought realtors helped you avoid that?

Finding a place to rent was SO much easier.... :-\

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Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Sep 2013, 14:05
Do you have any knowledgable friends/relatives who could come and take a look at the house once you've decided you think it's a good one? Sounds like all this particular realtor is doing is wasting your time and ignoring your instructions and stressing you out!
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Post by: Akima on 10 Sep 2013, 15:13
Do you need a realtor?
In the UK, I think you call them "estate agents". In Aus they are "real-estate agents", and typically only people in the high-end, especially buyers from out-of-state or overseas, employ a "buyer's agent". You usually have to get in touch with all the agents in your area yourself, watch their ads, visit their websites etc. It sounds to me as if lepetitfromage's agent is a waste of space.

We get voter turnouts of about 95% in Australia, because enrolling and voting are compulsory here, and you get fined if you don't do either.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Sep 2013, 15:20
We have estate agents here but I don't know of anyone who actually uses them. In fact I've never seen anyone inside those buildings. They're just like large display cases for the photos of the houses.
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Post by: Redball on 10 Sep 2013, 15:31
I think Carl's got the right idea, including using an attorney to look at the contract. And if you find a place you like, I hope you'll have a licensed inspector check it out after you submit an offer, with completion of the sale contingent on a good report. I don't know much about using a buyer's agent, but it sounds like a good idea here.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 10 Sep 2013, 17:24
If you haven't specifically, I would ask the new agent(s) for an MLS listing of everything within a hard price range, generous location radius, and minimal restrictions (at least 2 bed/1.5 bath or whatever). When we were searching we gave our agent that and she sent us a new list every week of the latest listings that met our criteria. She would also throw in things slightly outside of them that she thought we might be interested in. Then you can pick through it and choose which ones you want to see, and still get the benefit of the agent's direct access to listings.

Have you already signed a thing (not exactly a contract, but not sure what to call it) saying you'll use this agent to negotiate your offers/contract?
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Post by: jwhouk on 10 Sep 2013, 18:10
I found our old condo completely by accident, driving by it one day.

Doing a lot of research online helps, but the eyeball test is the best way to go about finding a place.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Sep 2013, 01:22
We have estate agents here but I don't know of anyone who actually uses them.

But perhaps you've not been much involved in buying or selling houses?  You can do it without, but it's hard work, and not many people try - same (but more so) with solicitors for the conveyancing.
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Post by: Welu on 11 Sep 2013, 04:27
We have estate agents here but I don't know of anyone who actually uses them. In fact I've never seen anyone inside those buildings. They're just like large display cases for the photos of the houses.

I'm in the process if buying a house with my parents' help. We looked through listings over a couple months, on PropertyPal mainly. If we found something we would contact the estate agents and arrange a viewing.
We're in the process of buying now, but it was preceded by a lot of slow back and forth bidding. Eventually our offer was accepted when my Da managed to contact the owner directly and "made a deal" in Da's words. Our offer was accepted at the end of July, I think, and now it's the solicitors and agents taking their time. It seems we're actually buying from the bank, who are probably trying to get us to go away, since we paid under the asking price and they want to squeeze someone else for more.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 11 Sep 2013, 06:07
Bain, we have mentioned to them our "wish list"- a long time ago. Not really much in return. And we haven't signed anything...



Another fun problem? The original dude was recommended to us by one of Nick's good friends- who is friends with him. She said he was absolutely amazing and helped her boyfriend get a great deal on an awesome house. And yet he's really not doing a hell of a lot for us.

We are supposed to see some houses tonight, I think I'm going to try to talk to the woman heading out with us to see if she can shed any light on how we can make this process work better for all of us.

And jwhouk- you know it's bad when most things fail the eyeball test.  :-( Or.....they pass it, you email yourself the address to look up when you get home and then you find that every single house that passes is at least $50K out of budget.


Urrrgghhhhh
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Post by: Grognard on 11 Sep 2013, 07:34
post up the ZIP code for the area you'd like and what your wish list is...
I can browse MLS from here.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 11 Sep 2013, 12:07
I appreciate the offer but finding them isn't the problem- I currently have a huge list of places we have to go see. The problem is that I'm paying a realtor to do it and they're not. :-\


Well, that and seller's agents like to lie in listings. Bastards!
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Post by: Grognard on 11 Sep 2013, 12:39
YOU shouldn't be paying a Realtor shit.
They're supposed to get their money as a percentage from the final sale.
where the flim-flam are you, that they can screw people like that?
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 11 Sep 2013, 12:58
Well, yeah, that's what I meant. D'oh. Should have specified- they're not that bad. We haven't paid them anything yet, but they are clocking time towards a nice chunk of change. I figure, even if they do the amount of work we expect from them, it'll probably work out to roughly $100/hour. I just want to feel like they have actually worked for their commission, not just unlocked a bunch of doors for us.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Sep 2013, 15:46
We have estate agents here but I don't know of anyone who actually uses them.

But perhaps you've not been much involved in buying or selling houses?  You can do it without, but it's hard work, and not many people try - same (but more so) with solicitors for the conveyancing.

I realised after I'd posted that I wasn't clear - I meant I don't know anyone who uses them at the search stage. I don't know anyone who doesn't use them at the purchasing stage!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Sep 2013, 15:47
Fire them.
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Post by: Loki on 11 Sep 2013, 16:08
Dear diary,
today everything went better than expected.

In other news, found out something interesting today.

And I just realized while lying awake that if I am trying to comprehend all the relationships between the people of my social circle, my brain is starting to melt, because the problem can be approximated as a complete graph. As I calculated today in the shower, such a graph has sigma i=1 to (n-1) i edges. My n is something close to 15.
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Post by: LTK on 11 Sep 2013, 16:38
Now you understand why we need such big brains.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 12 Sep 2013, 07:10
So.....the house we saw last night was so amazing that we kind of got really excited and put The Realtor Talk off for another day. She did, however, help us with the paperwork involved in putting in an offer.


Please cross your fingers/say prayers/send positive thoughts our way. This place is unreal. Built in '99, 2700 sq ft, 4 bed, 2 bath, finished basement(!), city water/sewer, low-ish taxes, only $125K. It's in an artsy/cute/touristy neighborhood, but far enough away from the main strip to be peaceful. Last time it sold was for almost twice as much. Only downsides: needs new tile in the second bath, the yard is small and ugly, carpets have to be replaced and it needs some interior cosmetic work.



But.....it's a short sale, so who knows how long it'll take for the bank to get back to us.
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Post by: LTK on 12 Sep 2013, 11:05
I got up nice and early today so I could work on my report (8:30, yes, as a matter of fact I do consider that early) and I fired off three consecutive e-mails to my supervisor, so I feel very productive. Then I negated those extra waking hours I got from getting up early by taking a nap mid-afternoon, but whatever. I think I'm making good progress, I should have this finished by Monday.
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Post by: Grognard on 12 Sep 2013, 11:22
So.....the house we saw last night was so amazing that we kind of got really excited and put The Realtor Talk off for another day. She did, however, help us with the paperwork involved in putting in an offer.

Please cross your fingers/say prayers/send positive thoughts our way. This place is unreal. Built in '99, 2700 sq ft, 4 bed, 2 bath, finished basement(!), city water/sewer, low-ish taxes, only $125K. It's in an artsy/cute/touristy neighborhood, but far enough away from the main strip to be peaceful. Last time it sold was for almost twice as much. Only downsides: needs new tile in the second bath, the yard is small and ugly, carpets have to be replaced and it needs some interior cosmetic work.

But.....it's a short sale, so who knows how long it'll take for the bank to get back to us.

W :-oW
In my neck of the woods, you're looking at $225k, minimum.  Even with fix'n up, that seems to be a good deal.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 12 Sep 2013, 11:27
The last time it sold (in 2007), it was bought for $293K!! We're guessing that they thought they could afford it and then were quickly proven wrong. The process will probably be a big ol' headache, but the joys of a short sale is that sometimes you can snag a kick ass deal!


*fingers crossed so hard that it hurts*
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Post by: Grognard on 12 Sep 2013, 11:50
sounds about right for 2007.
*knocks on wood*
I hope you get it.  YOu'd have alot of equilty right off.
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Post by: Redball on 12 Sep 2013, 14:10

Please cross your fingers/say prayers/send positive thoughts our way. This place is unreal. Built in '99, 2700 sq ft, 4 bed, 2 bath, finished basement(!), city water/sewer, low-ish taxes, only $125K. It's in an artsy/cute/touristy neighborhood, but far enough away from the main strip to be peaceful. Last time it sold was for almost twice as much. Only downsides: needs new tile in the second bath, the yard is small and ugly, carpets have to be replaced and it needs some interior cosmetic work.


You might see that you can do the bathroom tile yourselves. I did quite a bit when we moved into this house, including the bath. And intelligent landscaping can do a lot for a small, ugly yard. You might think of it as somewhere between an art project, an accessorizing project and interior decorating plus sky.
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Post by: Akima on 12 Sep 2013, 15:12
Best of luck with the house LPF! On houses with small ugly yards; I found John Brookes' books The Small Garden, and The New Small Garden Book very helpful.
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Post by: Loki on 12 Sep 2013, 16:58
Thumbs pressed! (German equivalent for fingers crossed)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 12 Sep 2013, 20:43
Thumbs pressed...I like that!

Thanks everyone :-) I'm really hoping that all the good wishes we get add up and tip the scale in our favor. Just gotta hope that the bank accepts before someone else puts an offer in. We knew when we were starting this process that we were going to get our hands dirty- in our budget, it's a given. But we really don't mind and actually kind of look forward to it! He's handy and enjoys home repair stuff and I'm creative, kind of handy and willing to learn the rest! (I learned a few things after helping my parents rebuild after the 2 stupid floods.)

Assuming it's only the tile that needs to be replaced and not everything underneath it as well, we could probably just fix it by adding a decorative tile around the outside edges- it's near the bottom where the tile meets the tub. It would be cheaper since we wouldn't replace all the tile and it would add a little funk to the boring beige.


Another wonderful thing? There are two trees in the backyard that are the perfect distance apart to hang a hammock. :-D
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 13 Sep 2013, 21:16
Joy and sadness. Robert's cousin-on-his-mom's-side had her baby yesterday (but named him Logan ugh). Robert's cousin-on-his-dad's-side and his girlfriend just had a baby and he died at six weeks old (apparently something his aunt also went through many times).

I almost got creamed yesterday while turning left at a stoplight that was out following a crazy thunderstorm.


Good luck LPF!!
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Post by: Jace on 13 Sep 2013, 23:20
I don't really know where to put this but today I learned that my girlfriend's younger sister's friend gave her ex a handy (possibly, could have just been playing with it, details are inconclusive to whether or not he finished) and then he "did stuff to her too" which I think we both know what happened.

Highlights: watching a 14 year old girl turn bright red when my girlfriend asked "did she put his pee pee in her mouth" and then "well what do you want me to say 'did she suck his cock'." because we are adults and know how to mess with a 14 year old.
Further highlights: me then later making the joke "You said all your friends suck, but I mean earlier you told us explicitly that one did not. I'm getting some conflicting information about this"

Further Further highlights: In a discussion about how this girl sneaking out to see boys in the middle of the night is bad and could possibly be considered negligent behavior on the part of the dad (whom she is living with presently and he is suing the mother for child support even though he gets social security and doesn't need the child support), jess's mother says that one of the omg terrible things that could happen is that she loses her virginity. To which I got to have the best reaction in the world and just look up from my soup and go "it's not that bad." Then later telling jess's sister that it really ain't that big a deal to lose your virginity as long as you aren't pressured into it.

Top of the world highlight for today: walking by the justin beiber cardboard cutout that had been repaired (the cardboard was starting to weaken at the fold marks and thus it was falling over) that belongs to the 14 year old (I think she got it a year or more ago?) and having the light from outside catch it in such a manner as to be able to see the smeared marks over the lips of what appeared to be lip gloss/chapstick/lipstick poorly wiped off. Invisible from dead on, but at an angle it was clear as day. Pointed that shit out to Jess and then pointed it out to her sister with the comment of "might wanna use windex next time." Hearty chuckles were had. To clarify this: I caught that this girl and her friends had been mackin on this cardboard cutout of teen heart-throb justin beiber.
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Sep 2013, 23:24
Ahh, the wonder years. 
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Post by: Jimor on 14 Sep 2013, 09:20
Later today I'll be attending part of a local film festival (http://sacfilm.com/) that shows about 20 locally made music videos, including one I directed (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CxmBi8r_N7s).  :-D The organizers also made a sample video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7jwYT0Lu-5o) for the screening that used mine as the backbone (and they did a really great job of editing all the other clips into it!).

It's going to be super cool to see it on a BIG screen in a great old art-deco movie house that's been around for decades, and has been beautifully refurbished as the city's premiere art theater. Of course, in my mind, all the flaws that only I can see are now going to be 20 feet tall.  :psyduck:

Edit: forgot to mention one additional point of ego-boo: I hadn't even entered my music video for the festival, instead the organizer contacted me to ask to show it!
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 14 Sep 2013, 15:20
Jimor, that is awesome! Congrats!

And, take comfort in the fact that no one else will know that the "flaws" are flaws and some might even enjoy them the best! That has happened WAY too many times to me re: creative ventures.






In other news, I have no news. I have been a big ol' unproductive shlub all day and have taken not 1, but 2 naps. One of which I just woke up from. Time to clean the toilet so I can say I did something today  :-P



Edited to add- seems that cleaning the toilet was not enough productivity today. I just got done cleaning up a huge mess after dropping a 3/4 full jar of salsa out of the fridge. Now the floor is mopped, the floor mat under the sink vacuumed, the cat's dish and water bowl emptied, scrubbed and replaced. And I'm STILL getting fragments of glass stuck to my feet. *headdesk*
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Post by: Carl-E on 14 Sep 2013, 16:54
The third dog we were caring for (we have two, this one belonged to a friend who lost half her foot to diabetes) finally left on Sept. 2nd.  It was a small dog, but a big PITA, especially walking all three at a time.  Not to mention the social issues, which after two months were never ironed out, just left to simmer on the back burner.  The occasional growl-snap would crop up. 

Things were back to normal, peaceful, walks were easy again. 


Today, my wife found a little dog on the highway, half starved, flea infested and reeking to high heaven.  It's been washed and collared and is making itself at home in the kitchen. 



And it seems she's already given it a name. 



FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCKfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckFUUUUUUUUUUUUUckfuckfuck. 
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Post by: Papersatan on 14 Sep 2013, 22:04
Today I went to my first college football game.  GO BLUE!

Pro tip: wear sunscreen if you go to a football game, particularly on a day with no clouds... I have the worst burn I have gotten in years :(

Otherwise today was amazing.  I pregamed, the game was to be a cupcake match, but it ended up really close, so it was tense which made for a fun time full of drama.  I learned all the cheers and shit, then I partied until midnight.  It was a great time over all, so hurray. 
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Post by: GarandMarine on 15 Sep 2013, 05:50
Blue? Not the Blue Hens Papersatan? Cause if it's the UD Blue Hens you're in my local!
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Post by: Redball on 15 Sep 2013, 06:00
And in a stadium seating 100k-plus, an amazing spectacle, as I recall.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 15 Sep 2013, 06:19
Damn, I wish I could go to a football game in the US. I've been a fan of our local football team (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kiel_Baltic_Hurricanes) for my whole life now, and I've seen them go from the top, down, almost to the bottom, and back up to the top.

American football is very uncommon here. I don't think most people know the rules. Everybody here watches soccer/football, but I think it's extremely boring, watching 20 people chase a ball for 90 minutes. American Football is much more complex, a lot more dynamic and more exciting in my opinion. But keep in mind that our German Football League is playing on a level which is comparable to your college football. To be honest I even prefer watching college football over the NFL, but now that ESPN America isn't being aired here in Germany anymore, and our cable provider doesn't offer the replacement channel, no football for us currently.
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Post by: Papersatan on 15 Sep 2013, 09:15
Nope, not the blue hens, University of Michigan. 

The crowd was 107,000 people, which is probably the most people I have been at the same place doing the same thing with.  The game came down to the last 5 seconds.  The other team was 4th and 3 to the endzone, and a touchdown would have put them ahead (for non football understanders, the other team had one try to get the ball 3 yards in order to win).  When we tackled the quarterback and it was clear his pass wasn't going to make it,  the entire crowd erupted, and it gave me chills. 

Oh, yeah, and there was a sky writer!:

(http://31.media.tumblr.com/6533876dc5950751bf2b5e22fad9688d/tumblr_mt3s7jT9un1qck2a9o1_500.jpg)

(Michigan does not fuck about on football day)
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Post by: LTK on 15 Sep 2013, 09:42
When we tackled the quarterback and it was clear his pass wasn't going to make it,  the entire crowd erupted, and it gave me chills. 
Makes it sound like you went down there with the rest of the crowd and tackled him yourself! Ah, sports fan grammar.
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Post by: cesium133 on 15 Sep 2013, 09:57
One of these days before I get my Ph.D. I might go to a football game here. I probably won't, though...
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Post by: Papersatan on 15 Sep 2013, 10:24
I'm actually not a huge sports fan.  But the point of the experience for me, and of having "team spirit" in general is a willing membership in a social group and a collective experience.  Allowing yourself to become a part of the group is, for me anyway, where the fun is.  To not think about how stupid this:

really is, but to just do it, because you are in a space where you know the consequences of giving in to the collective are... silly hand gestures. 

Also, here's my photo of the game:
(https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-Nt1BW-mnifc/UjU14D22q1I/AAAAAAAAFEQ/xOpFYtGB7eA/w821-h463-no/IMAG0084.jpg)
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Sep 2013, 10:53
Yesterday I bid my mama farewell on her way to her new assignment in Australia as the U.S. Ambassador's secretary. That evening, I bid some dear friends (who I think of as siblings) farewell as they move on to bigger and better things.

Last night, as unhealthy as I know it is, I got shit-hammered.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Sep 2013, 13:13
I spent today volunteering at a literary festival hosted by the writing group I just joined! It was hard work but great fun - I spent the entire day meeting people (authors, agents, publishers, sponsors and general public members), liasing with the admin team, the venue staff and the caterers, spotting and solving problems before they properly arose, keeping everyone fed and watered and making a record of what we were spending on hospitality. I am really good at this stuff, you guys. Good enough that I almost considered the possibility that I'm going into the wrong field - but I think the same set of skills is going to make me a good midwife too. And I can do events management on the side, volunteering at things like this. I was really pleased because everyone said I was doing a fantastic job, which without wanting to boast I think was true - but a lot of that was due to the fact that everyone I was working with was friendly and keen for the event to succeed. Just a lot of good will and happiness!
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Post by: Grognard on 15 Sep 2013, 14:06
I've been lazy today.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 15 Sep 2013, 14:12
I am painting ALL THE TANKS!

Glory to Soviet Motherland!

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Post by: Grognard on 15 Sep 2013, 14:14
I've got two BattleTech THUNDERBOLTs that need a final clearcoat.
time to go shake some cans, since GM shamed me into it.  ;)
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Post by: Masterpiece on 15 Sep 2013, 15:06
I just spent my last day of vacation back home in my summer house in Turkey. I'm sorta drunk.

I really don't want to go.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 15 Sep 2013, 15:12
Did you seriously have to make me remember this scene? Did you really have to remind me of the regeneration of my favourite Doctor?


(I'm not actually mad :-D)
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Post by: Masterpiece on 15 Sep 2013, 15:14
lol wasn't even trying  8-)
What iduguphergrave said
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Post by: jwhouk on 15 Sep 2013, 17:28
Muck Fichigan. ;)

Meanwhile - it appears we found out what the officiating crew from last year's Seahawks-Packers debacle are now doing. They were apparently the officiating crew at the ASU-Badgers game last night.
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Post by: Papersatan on 15 Sep 2013, 19:43
Here's the sunburn:

(https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-1bCr2Es3R_U/UjZsylbCSII/AAAAAAAAFGY/RsGqXOn11ZY/w855-h482-no/IMAG0088.jpg)

:(
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Post by: jwhouk on 15 Sep 2013, 21:31
What a bright shade of crimson. Almost Badger Red. ;)
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Post by: Radical AC on 16 Sep 2013, 02:27
Saw a dumb film We are the Millers today with the one friend I made here.  It was a lot of fun.  Went to a nice Japanese restaurant after and then took him to his first show Bleeding Rainbow.  Going to Tucson tomorrow to see Godspeed You! and then next week my lady friend is flying out for four days from Boise to see if we can patch things up and have a lot of fun. Either she moves down here or we are done for now(mega post about it in depression thread).  I love her more than anything so wish me any kind of luck you can  :laugh: Great weekend so far.
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Post by: LTK on 16 Sep 2013, 12:53
Reading about memory function as part of the course I'm following on conscious and unconscious processes. In the first lecture, our professor showed an example of how psychotherapists, thinking they are treating 'repressed memories' on patients who are 'in denial', are outright fabricating memories in their patients through the power of suggestion, memories that often involve childhood abuse. Sometimes it's enough for someone to become completely alienated from their family as a result of these false memories from psychotherapy.

And even without creepy suggestive influences, our memory is still extremely fallible and people have no trouble filling in the blanks of their personal history with events that they assumed or imagined happening, that happened to someone else, that happened in fiction or that never happened at all. People who are writing autobiographies or memoirs are especially prone to this. Makes me want to keep a diary just so that I have a way of verifying my own life events once I become old enough that I start forgetting about them, because I'm pretty sure I've forgotten a fair few already.

Do any of you keep a diary, or have you done that in the past? I suppose if you posted in blog threads with high regularity, that would count as well. Actually, now that I think about it, if we're ever seeing the memoirs of people who lived in the age of social networking, it would probably be pretty easy to verify their information solely because everyone posts their life on the internet nowadays. That makes my idea of writing a diary seem rather anachronistic.

Oh yes, part of the reading material I was assigned is here (http://socrates.berkeley.edu/~kihlstrm/rmpa00.htm) and you can access it for free. Highly recommended.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 16 Sep 2013, 13:10
If I remember right, the estimation is that 25% of the average person's memories are entirely fictional.
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Post by: pwhodges on 16 Sep 2013, 13:28
For years (decades, even) I had a clear memory of seeing my mother in an aeroplane seat holding a baby (my sister); I even thought of it as my first definite memory.  When I eventually mentioned it to her, she told me that the plane trip concerned (the only one I went on in my childhood) was part of a holiday to help her recover from the death of my first sister (from SIDS), well before my second sister was born, so the memory was impossible.
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Post by: LTK on 16 Sep 2013, 13:34
If I remember right, the estimation is that 25% of the average person's memories are entirely fictional.
If indeed 80% of all statistics are completely made up, there's only a 5% chance that what you're saying is true!
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Post by: ackblom12 on 16 Sep 2013, 13:36
MATHS!
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Post by: ev4n on 16 Sep 2013, 13:51
...and he is suing the mother for child support even though he gets social security and doesn't need the child support)

Not to derail, but that seems like a non-sequitur...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Sep 2013, 14:34
I find it interesting how our memories are coloured by subsequent experience. For instance, when you find out that someone has been lying to you, all the good memories you have of them are clouded, even though they were genuine at the time.
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Post by: pwhodges on 16 Sep 2013, 14:42
This can explain how relationships can fall apart so dramatically, leading to divorce, for instance.
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Post by: Jace on 16 Sep 2013, 14:58
...and he is suing the mother for child support even though he gets social security and doesn't need the child support)

Not to derail, but that seems like a non-sequitur...

Well it ties in with the father not needing the money to support the child so it'd effectively just be extra income for him. Of course I'm getting secondhand information but what I've heard is that he isn't spending the social security money he gets for her on her needs already,  so adding more isn't likely to cause an increase in spending on her needs. He isn't entirely negligent, but is making mistakes is what I've gathered.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Sep 2013, 05:01
So I've decided to not eat anything for the last 24 hours and it's surprisingly easy.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 18 Sep 2013, 05:18
Why have you decided that?
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Post by: Valdís on 18 Sep 2013, 05:21
So I've decided to not eat anything for the last 24 hours and it's surprisingly easy.

I'll say. I forget to all the time, no decision involved.

Is yours part of that intermittent-fasting health-thing? Where some days in the week you don't eat?

My older brother's doing that, though I don't put much stock in it personally. :-P
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Post by: Barmymoo on 18 Sep 2013, 05:33
I'm very dubious about intermittent fasting. My understanding of the way the metabolism functions leads me to believe that it just causes the body to start breaking down muscles and storing extra fat. I've lost more than a stone in 18 months by running twice a week and becoming vegan. I can see myself living this lifestyle for years to come, whereas I could never keep up calorie counting more than a few weeks.
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Post by: snalin on 18 Sep 2013, 05:38
I become very, very angry very quickly if I'm hungry. At tiny little, insignificant things. If I tried fasting, I'd probably end up in jail within a short time. I need food regularly to not go absolutely crazy.

I never get angry otherwise, so I can pretty much fix any emotional instability with a bowl of cereal. Which is nice, I guess.
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Post by: Welu on 18 Sep 2013, 05:44
I tried to do intermittent fasting for a couple weeks but with an erratic work rota, it was hard to get used to it. As you can guess, I felt very tired on the fasting days and couldn't do a job where I had to be on my feet for hours with it. Although it has taught me to plan my daily meals better.
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Post by: LTK on 18 Sep 2013, 05:53
I can't figure out why I woke up at 8 this morning with my stomach rumbling, when I got up at 12 yesterday and only thought "maybe I should eat something" an hour later.

I found that if I have a really big meal beforehand and avoid physical activity for the rest of the day, I can easily make it 24 hours, but it's not something I plan to make a habit out of.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Sep 2013, 06:07
It just happened. I returned from my holiday in Turkey and couldn't get myself to start cooking on my own again. I just watched Youtube LetsPlays all day and as it happens, the feeling of hunger stopped pretty soon. I know it's super unhealthy though, but I can't get myself to cook.

I'm also super light-headed right now and I think it's because of the same thing.

But I've already decided to make myself a vegetable-chicken stew with noodles. It's fucking cold here in Munich and I need something to warm me up and to provide substance for the bar crawl I have planned this evening.
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Post by: nekowafer on 18 Sep 2013, 06:23
Yeah you definitely can't go out drinking on an empty stomach. Recipe for disaster and puking.

I can't go more than 3 or 4 hours without eating, or I get weak, shaky, and unable to focus. I'm made fun of for eating so often, but I have to. I tried adjusting my diet so I only ate every 4 hours, with no snacks in between, and I almost passed out at work.
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Post by: Loki on 18 Sep 2013, 06:35
Masterpiece, you do know that food just slows down the absorption of alcohol into your blood, right? Also, eat.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Sep 2013, 06:41
Loki: Yeah I know that. It's still easier to go out drinking with something in your stomach.

Update on the light-headedness: I just listened (and danced to) the Portal 2 Soundtrack, and the light-headedness is gone. I drank some water and got rid of the resulting head-ache.

But now I'm hungry again.

I promise I will eat later, but for now I'm still wondering as to how this will end.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 18 Sep 2013, 06:48
That's how the metabolism works. When food doesn't seem to be regularly forthcoming, the metabolism slows down and hunger pangs are compressed after a while, because there's no point distracting the body from looking for food by weakning it with stabs of hunger. If I don't get up and do anything, I can do without eating until about 3pm, but then I haven't got any energy to do anything all day. Eating regular meals is the best way to lose weight as well - people think that skipping meals will help but it actually makes it worse.
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Post by: Welu on 18 Sep 2013, 13:20
I almost never eat breakfast. That's partially due to sleeping late and getting up late. If I wake up after 11am I don't see a point in eating because then I always have lunch at 1ish. Although if I wake up earlier and skip breakfast, I don't feel satisfied for the rest of the day, regardless of how much I eat. Plus I usually only get up early because I have something to do, so I eat so I won't feel tired and weak during whatever I'm doing.
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Post by: Jace on 19 Sep 2013, 13:07
Yesterday we had four people at practice. Horatius, thomas, Enzo, and myself. We paired off three times to fight, I had a not terrible record against Horatius and Thomas, but the most fun was against Enzo. He and I are similar body types but completely different fighting styles. A couple great shots I got on him was a fake stab to fake headshot to leg. I noticed when I went for the stab to headshot combo he put his shield up, so when I tried it again, instead of throwing the headshot I redirected it down into his thigh. Also when he throws shots he would pump up with his sword arm so I tabled my shield under his sword and forearm, stepped to the inside and blasted his bicep. I also was doing really good at pushing in fast and throwing shots then disengaging, essentially keeping the fighting on my terms as much as possible.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 20 Sep 2013, 06:10
Bluhhh.....I am sick. It is my first day back to work since Tuesday and only because I have no more sick time left. And my birthday is tomorrow. And I have a packed weekend and a packed week next week, so the last 2 days spent on my couch hacking my lungs up are going to be the only rest I have for a while.



Oooof.
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Post by: Grognard on 20 Sep 2013, 07:11
Jace,
I never knew you did SCA.  that's really cool.
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Post by: Jace on 20 Sep 2013, 07:49
Been at it for about 1.5 years. I was kind of concerned that I was falling behind with my fighting skill but this last practice let me know that those concerns were completely unfounded and I think I finally have hit my groove of how I like to fight. Now I just need to find one of the knights in our area that fights like that and ask him to teach me.
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Post by: Grognard on 20 Sep 2013, 08:14
I had a roommate in college who did kendo. 
I tried, but ended up being the semi-mobile, non-proficient whacking dummy.
Helped a neighbor in MI with his SCA unit.
I spent a weekend pummeling random people.
t'was a great deal of fun.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Sep 2013, 08:18
Exciting day visiting the hospital I'll be doing my training at - I've got my ID! Very cool. But I just had to RSVP no to a close friend's wedding :( She's getting married in Texas on January 2nd, and I'm in Norway then and have an exam on January 7th so I just can't manage it. I wish people weren't so far away. They're having a UK reception next year though, so I'll go to that hopefully.
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Post by: Papersatan on 20 Sep 2013, 08:18
I know a guy who is pretty ok at Kendo.

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Post by: nekowafer on 20 Sep 2013, 09:55
Ex boyfriend is very into kendo and the SCA and Darkon and all that nonsense.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Sep 2013, 10:11
I have covered else where my distaste for Kendo and many forms of martial art that pretend to be a martial art while actually being a sport. I like SCA in that regard, it doesn't pretend to be ARMA, and it doesn't take itself very seriously either for the most part.

Sigh... I wish I could find a kenjutsu or iaido school out here.
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Post by: Grognard on 20 Sep 2013, 10:15
I still have nightmares about all the bruises that got laid on me.

-ow-
     *ow*
           +ow+
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Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Sep 2013, 10:34
What's the distinction between a martial art and a sport? Is it the historical connection with a military form?
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Post by: snalin on 20 Sep 2013, 11:10
You can actually use a martial art in a "real" fight. In a fighting sport, you know that your opponent follows the same (arbitrary) rules as you do, so the fight is formed around them instead of, well, fighting.

Boxing's a good example - while they throw real punches, they also go in close and almost hug to catch a break - they are too close for the opponent to throw proper punches. That's not a skill that can be transferred to a fistfight - you'd just get kneed in your nethers.
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Post by: ev4n on 20 Sep 2013, 11:31
What's the distinction between a martial art and a sport? Is it the historical connection with a military form?

Bias and elitism.

I guess chopping walnuts is a martial art, because it develops skills I can use to defend myself.  (I'm joking.)
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Post by: Lines on 20 Sep 2013, 15:12
Today was my co-teacher's last day. She'd been offered another job* and because of stupid politics in upper management of the community center, instead of taking her two weeks, they are forcing her to leave now. She was heartbroken, I'm simultaneously sad and angry, and the kids are not going to know what happened because half of them were out yesterday and today because of the holiday (Sukkot - it's a Jewish community center/school). She was also instructed not to tell parents why she's leaving, which is bullshit. I'd just gotten into a place where I decided I really loved my job and this was a slap to the face. She was such a great girl and teacher and was so helpful when I first started. Also the kids ADORE her. Next week is going to suck.

Also my favorite student will be leaving by the end of the month. T-T


*Nannying for the family whose daughter is leaving our class - they've decided to pull her and her baby sister out of the school because of the place dicking them around financially. They were supposed to be getting a discount since they brought in their second child, but they never got it and it pissed them off. The one in my class is the sweetest girl and both her and her mini me sister are freaking adorable. The parents are really nice, so it's really sad to see them all go.
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Post by: pwhodges on 20 Sep 2013, 15:59
I've updated my iPhone 4S to iOS 7, and the idling battery life has dropped from about 24 hours to about 6 hours.

 :x :x :x
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Post by: Carl-E on 20 Sep 2013, 16:10
Must not really be idling, then. 


I wonder what it's doing when you're not looking...
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Post by: Redball on 20 Sep 2013, 17:13
Try turning off background app refresh. Folks posting on Macintouch said that helped. A number of battery-draining processes are on by default.
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Post by: Akima on 20 Sep 2013, 18:07
You can actually use a martial art in a "real" fight. In a fighting sport, you know that your opponent follows the same (arbitrary) rules as you do, so the fight is formed around them instead of, well, fighting.
I don't think there is a meaningful distinction. All forms of training and competition* in hand-to-hand combat involve "arbitrary rules", because it is a bad idea to kill or maim your opponent. When I practice the taiji form "White Snake Turns And Spits Venom", for example, it is obviously unacceptable to crush my training partner's larynx with a blade-hand strike, so I "pull" the blow. We are not competing for points or coloured belts, but our shifu will praise us be grudgingly less critical if we perform well in front of him, which is not so different. In modern wushu competition, taiji is judged purely on form for points (often to music), rather like gymnastics or figure-skating, something that many traditional shifu regard rather negatively. Many practitioners of taiji only ever perform the slow solo forms for health benefits, and as a spiritual and physical discipline. So, is taiji a martial-art, or a sport, or something else entirely? I would say that it is all of the above.

*Obviously a serious fight to the death or disablement of one or more of the participants is a form of competition, but that is not normally what we are talking about, and I have absolutely no desire to inflict injury on anyone. There is perhaps a matter of intent here. If a person trains in taiji, or krav-maga or boxing or whatever with the intent to win points and prizes in competition, then regardless of the fighting-style chosen, the sporting aspect is obviously paramount. Any contest that takes place in front of an audience nowadays is mainly sporting, and even the more hairy-chested styles like muay-thai or MMA have "arbitrary rules" about how the combatants are allowed to fight because having fighters killed in the ring is normally not intended or regarded as desirable. There is no doubt that this affects the judgement of which styles of fighting are more effective. The widespread perception nowadays that grappling is more effective than striking has much to do with the fact that many of the most effective strikes are banned and/or made impossible by protective equipment in competition, and grappling is safer in training. Suffice it to say that if I ever had to defend myself against an assailant trained in boxing, I would not underestimate my opponent because boxing was a "sport".
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Post by: Radical AC on 20 Sep 2013, 20:17
I got an "On the Spot Award for Remarkable Customer Service" at work the other day for tracking down this lady's lost car in Colorado from all the flooding (I work in claims adjusting).  She called in right after I helped her to speak with a manager about it. I got a certificate, a thank you note from our department head, and $25 deposited directly to my bank account. There are 16 claim rep positions that just opened and with that and my college degree I will probably get one. More responsibility and it pays $7000 more a year. Good news on the career front!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 21 Sep 2013, 06:22
All I know is I trained aikido and juijitsu today and I ended up nearly throwing up from tiredness. The whole discussion about sport or art is meaningless. Just have fun.
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Post by: Redball on 21 Sep 2013, 06:25
I got an "On the Spot Award for Remarkable Customer Service" at work the other day for tracking down this lady's lost car in Colorado from all the flooding (I work in claims adjusting).  She called in right after I helped her to speak with a manager about it. I got a certificate, a thank you note from our department head, and $25 deposited directly to my bank account. There are 16 claim rep positions that just opened and with that and my college degree I will probably get one. More responsibility and it pays $7000 more a year. Good news on the career front!
Don't you love it when doing well gets rewarded? It's so much better than the opposite.
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Post by: Akima on 21 Sep 2013, 13:49
All I know is I trained aikido and juijitsu today and I ended up nearly throwing up from tiredness. The whole discussion about sport or art is meaningless. Just have fun.
You put that so much better than I did.
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Post by: pwhodges on 21 Sep 2013, 14:39
So, I turned off all the new things in iOS7 - moving backgrounds, background updates, some other things I've forgotten already.  I then changed my mail from push to fetch every hour.  And now I've gone a day and still have 78% battery.  Looks like the choice is to use the goodies and have no useful battery life, or turn them off as the useless fripperies they are, and restore the functionality of the previous system.

I love software development!  (Remember, it's been much of my life's work...)  But I used to think it was actually of some real use.

Of course, this doesn't improve the places where they have removed or destroyed the previous functionality.  I used to have a list of films in the video app; now what I have to select films from is this:

(http://cassland.org/images/PJ/iOS7.jpg)

No, there is not an alternative with the names in text.  And the status bar at the top of the screen is now just icons over the background image; so the only way to make it legible again is to change or remove my chosen background (a picture of my last dog, as it happens).  And the number of places that text is now displayed in pale gray on off-white - even the accessibility settings don't help much (and I don't use them in any other systems - those which haven't had inaccessibility built in to them as this has).
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Post by: Masterpiece on 21 Sep 2013, 14:50
...Paul I don't understand what I'm seeing here... but I think I'm going to get really sad once you explain it to me.
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Post by: pwhodges on 21 Sep 2013, 14:59
I hate iOS7, is the executive summary - at least at present.  Real-world functionality usability for me, at least, has been markedly reduced.

If you're meaning the image in particular, that is what I now get as the list of films in the video app - previously it was a list of film titles, in text, with the images next to them.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 21 Sep 2013, 19:03
You can actually use a martial art in a "real" fight. In a fighting sport, you know that your opponent follows the same (arbitrary) rules as you do, so the fight is formed around them instead of, well, fighting.
I don't think there is a meaningful distinction. All forms of training and competition* in hand-to-hand combat involve "arbitrary rules", because it is a bad idea to kill or maim your opponent. When I practice the taiji form "White Snake Turns And Spits Venom", for example, it is obviously unacceptable to crush my training partner's larynx with a blade-hand strike, so I "pull" the blow. We are not competing for points or coloured belts, but our shifu will praise us be grudgingly less critical if we perform well in front of him, which is not so different. In modern wushu competition, taiji is judged purely on form for points (often to music), rather like gymnastics or figure-skating, something that many traditional shifu regard rather negatively. Many practitioners of taiji only ever perform the slow solo forms for health benefits, and as a spiritual and physical discipline. So, is taiji a martial-art, or a sport, or something else entirely? I would say that it is all of the above.

*Obviously a serious fight to the death or disablement of one or more of the participants is a form of competition, but that is not normally what we are talking about, and I have absolutely no desire to inflict injury on anyone. There is perhaps a matter of intent here. If a person trains in taiji, or krav-maga or boxing or whatever with the intent to win points and prizes in competition, then regardless of the fighting-style chosen, the sporting aspect is obviously paramount. Any contest that takes place in front of an audience nowadays is mainly sporting, and even the more hairy-chested styles like muay-thai or MMA have "arbitrary rules" about how the combatants are allowed to fight because having fighters killed in the ring is normally not intended or regarded as desirable. There is no doubt that this affects the judgement of which styles of fighting are more effective. The widespread perception nowadays that grappling is more effective than striking has much to do with the fact that many of the most effective strikes are banned and/or made impossible by protective equipment in competition, and grappling is safer in training. Suffice it to say that if I ever had to defend myself against an assailant trained in boxing, I would not underestimate my opponent because boxing was a "sport".

While you make excellent points I will continue to disagree, I know we have discussed this extensively before, but it is all intent, approach and mind set. Though some forms of "fighting sport" would not translate in the least to the real arts they mimic. I am lead to understand that a kendo practitioner would have an extremely difficult time with Iaido or Kenjutsu (and an Iaido pracitioner would have issues with Kenjutsu, though not as much as the Kendoka) as kendo has drifted so much in technique and practice from the actual martial techniques of the Japanese sword as to barely be connected. Similarly Olympic Fencing has about as little relationship with proper training with the rapier, small sword, saber, or any other European blade as to have almost no appreciable connection beyond a historical one.

You're right rules in point sparring/competition do have their place. We don't want to kill each other or severely wound each other but the attitude that point sparring competition is a focus of martial skill as opposed to an amusing diversion to promote camaraderie and test skill amongst fellow students and against other schools is unhealthy in my opinion. Many schools and systems train and focus FOR their sparring competitions directly. A martial discipline for combat or defensive use should teach and maintain that mind set most of all. For combat the mental development of the student is key, The Marine Corps Martial Arts Program (MCMAP) uses the slogan "One Mind, Any Weapon" as it's motto and one of it's fundamental tenants. From the ground up it is designed to make the human body a weapon, like all martial arts that proceeded it, and then ensure that the Marine or Corpsman can fight effectively with any weapon at hand or in their possession. Warriors have been trained this way for thousands of years and it is no less useful now.

For the civilian martial artist, a serious mind set and strong mental focus are important if you truly intend to rely for your life in your training. If your training is just a form of exercise to you, the question of art or sport has already been answered from the very beginning.


"Since karate is a martial art, you must practice with the utmost seriousness from the very beginning."
                                                                                                                  -Funakoshi Gichin Sensei


"The heart of our karate is real fighting. There can be no proof without real fighting. Without proof there is no trust. Without trust there is no respect. This is a definition in the world of Martial Arts."
                                                                      - Masutatsu Oyama Sensei (commonly known as Mas Oyama)

"Although it is important to study and train for skill in techniques, for the man who wishes to truly accomplish the way of budo, it is important to make his whole life in training and therefore not aiming for skill and strength alone, but also for spiritual attainment."
                                                                      - Masutatsu Oyama Sensei

For the record, while I have a very deep respect for Oyama Sensei, his accomplishments and his work, it should be noted that he regularly fought bulls with his bare hands. I'm a proponent of serious study of the martial arts, but Oyama Sensei is a bit extreme even for me.

On a slightly related note, last time I got x-rays done my radiologist noted that aside from the three fractures, the bones in and around my striking surfaces and their supports are quite dense compared to a normal human being. Not near what a truly long term master (or student for that matter) would show, but I found that extremely gratifying.

For those interested in the science behind the human body and martial arts, I recommend the show Fight Science.


I will leave with some unrelated words from the Shodai Soke of Goju-Ryu karate, Miyagi Chojun Sensei.

(https://scontent-a-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn2/1234122_703780406303250_1842978005_n.jpg)

Oh, and Akima if you ever spar a boxer, either get inside his range and use knees/take downs/ and other close strikes or take the long range route with kicks to the lower body. A boxer's powerful punches are his strength but also his limitation, he will not be used to fighting with or defending his legs. Boxers also fight in spurts, this can be used to your advantage if you can weather the storm of his initial assault.
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Sep 2013, 00:16
Paul, on that screenshot of the video app, are those stills taken from some point in each of the movies, and they've got no title whatsoever? because that's what it looks like to me, and if that's the case, that's a bunch of bullshit. if they're going to use stills from the film, they need to be labeled with the title so you have ANY CLUE AT ALL what movie you're poking with your finger.
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Post by: pwhodges on 22 Sep 2013, 01:32
They have been recoded from the DVDs (mostly) for the iPhone using Handbrake, and that's what iTunes picks out; like our YouTube links here, the image is taken from a little way in - but iTunes doesn't recognise some of them correctly and just makes a blurry mess (the actual video is fine, though).  I don't care that the images are poor; I do care that there is now no text list available when previously there was.  Any videos bought from the Apple store or downloaded from official sources and not recoded to save space have the cover page that is adequate (Scott Pilgrim, in that example) - so Apple will doubtless say I have no reason to complain, even though my videos are also taken from purchased DVDs (of course, that doesn't resolve the issue for videos I shot myself). 

I haven't tried it yet, but there's a possibility (if I've read the description right) that if I classify the films as music videos they will then get text titles.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Sep 2013, 02:50
You mean you bought content from a supplier other than Apple?  :-o Well that's where you're going wrong then! You don't expect them to make software which is functional for anything other than their products, do you? :laugh:
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Sep 2013, 04:46
you'd think that user satisfaction would be important to a heavyweight company like Apple but of course their marketing is just way too fucking good to allow that, so they can dick us around however they please. reason number a million I hate society and megacorps
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Post by: snalin on 22 Sep 2013, 05:01
I still don't get why somebody would buy an iPhone.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 22 Sep 2013, 06:13
Because they want a pet iPad.


Is it me or does any martial arts discussion quickly dissolve into a 'Batman can beat up Superman anytime, nja nja nja-nja nja' conversation. It feels ... kinda pointless.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Sep 2013, 06:20
Not particularly, I don't think any of us has advocated a particular style over another, which is really the only way to get that Batman vs. Superman conversation.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 Sep 2013, 15:59
Just watched the Pianist after two years of not watching it.

(click to show/hide)
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Sep 2013, 00:18
oh my god dude, I cried so many fucking times during that movie. holy shit.

speaking of holy shit, I won't spoil anything for anyone, spoiler tag or no, but HOLY FUCKING SHIT, BREAKING BAD. IT ISN'T EVEN OVER.
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Post by: Metope on 23 Sep 2013, 00:58
I haven't watched any of the newest season and then I went on tumblr and accidentally read a MAJOR SPOILER, I am pissed off.
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Post by: Grognard on 23 Sep 2013, 07:28
Today:
I work the office alone.
fucks given: 0
shits given: 0
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Post by: Jace on 23 Sep 2013, 13:16
Shits taken: ?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 23 Sep 2013, 17:02
New mission in life: Next time I have to fill out a form that has information the form issue already has, I am going to fill it out as if I am Usagi from Sailor Moon.

Occupation: Fighting evil by moonlight
Aliases: Sailor Moon
Etc

Just to see if any one actually reads the damn things.
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Post by: nekowafer on 23 Sep 2013, 20:01
I would probably murder any doctor that did that to me. For reference, I work on applications for doctors all damn day and they are always reiterations of the same shit but we still have to fill it out.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 23 Sep 2013, 20:04
Sure but that stuff's vaguely important. I'm talking about "Mr. GM we need the following data" "I filled that form out. Like 10 times already, I have personally looked at my employee folder, you have ALL of this information. I mean come on, it's my address. You mail me my paystubs. Wtf?"
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 24 Sep 2013, 13:25
Forum Peoples, this week is going to be a ridiculously busy one in the Land of the Small Cheese.

Working 8:30-4:30 every day (as usual) and on top of that- tonight I'm modeling for a drawing class from 6-9:30, tomorrow I'm grocery shopping which takes a freakin' eternity, Thursday we're going out with our realtor to look at more houses (the amazing one was snatched up for $40K more than asking price. we said ohwellfuckthat), Friday I'm going to Atlantic City for a friend's 30th birthday celebration, then Saturday morning we're driving home and then I'm running off to an interview for an instructor's position at a painting studio!!! (YAY! I sent my resume and portfolio around 9:30 last night and got a call at 11 this morning to schedule an interview!



I just got over being sick and I'm still not quite up to par, but I'm hoping I can muster up the energy I need to get through this week without collapsing!

I still need to create and send out our wedding thank you cards, do my laundry and clean my desk too. Oy. Mayyyybe next week.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 25 Sep 2013, 11:15
So I bit the bullet and bought myself the tablet I've already wanted in the first edition and even more in the second edition. I got myself a Nexus 7, and I absolutely love it. I still have to wait for the Cyanogenmod release for this edition, but I'm already enjoying it. The screen resolution is insanely awesome. I'm afraid I'll have to buy myself a micro SDHC card reader for movies, because watching movies in HD is fantastic on this one.


And I've got to buy myself a USB OTG cable to connect a keyboard with this. Typing is possible, but not much better than on a phone screen.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Sep 2013, 13:07
Oh I'm a bit envious - I was going to get a Nexus 7 but I can't really justify the price until I know I actually need it, and it sort of seems like I don't, since uni has lots of computers and all my work is online.
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Post by: Loki on 25 Sep 2013, 14:10
I'm afraid I'll have to buy myself a micro SDHC card reader for movies, because watching movies in HD is fantastic on this one.

*dumps 3742387542387€ on tablet like a boss*
*oh no, I have to buy a card reader for ten bucks*

Just pokin' fun at ya :-D
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Post by: ankhtahr on 25 Sep 2013, 14:19
The point is that I originally thought that 32GB would be more than sufficient. But the screen is so great for watching movies and shows that I definitely want a way to have them with me. And a Nexus 7 doesn't have a card reader.

Apart from that this device is incredible in every aspect. I'm having a Nexus S as phone, and having 3 more processor cores with a frequency which is by .5GHz higher, and 4 times as much RAM, is making for a big difference. I've never seen something so smooth and fast. The screen is beautiful, and I'd take it over any iPad Retina display. 1920x1200 on 7", which results in a pixel density of 323dpi.
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Post by: Patrick on 25 Sep 2013, 14:47
so I already told y'all that Camille and I have been mailing each other care packages with letters and such so as to have something special with our long-distance romance. this time, she's requested I record and burn her a CD of myself singing to her. I am having trouble picking which songs to do. so far I've got "Pink Moon" by Nick Drake and "From The Hips" by Cursive (see the 'own music' thread in BAND to hear the latter). I've got a couple others I've recorded in the past, but I'd rather do new ones so as to personalize the whole thing just for her.

fuck
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Post by: Metope on 25 Sep 2013, 14:51
Do "Africa" by Toto as the last song.
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Post by: Patrick on 25 Sep 2013, 14:55
what?! that's heresy, that song must remain pure, evil blasphemer!
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Post by: Metope on 25 Sep 2013, 14:57
I'm just saying. If she laughs, she's a keeper. If she cries, she's also a keeper.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 Sep 2013, 17:04
Yep. Africa. Make it happen.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 25 Sep 2013, 17:20
Just hope she doesn't reply "Man, fuck Toto. Toto SUCKS" (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1739)

(inb4 somebody quoting Pintsize from the comic two before the one I linked)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 Sep 2013, 17:42
If she does then you know that it'd have never worked out. Because you'd basically be dating Hitler.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 26 Sep 2013, 04:36
By the way you guys

(http://i.imgur.com/ySJozpE.jpg)

It's Oktoberfest.
Wish me luck.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 26 Sep 2013, 05:16
odd cod piece.
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Post by: pwhodges on 26 Sep 2013, 05:23
Lederhosen (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lederhosen).
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 26 Sep 2013, 05:49
Ok......that might just be my favorite picture of you, ever. Yay Oktoberfest! Yay lederhosen!
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Post by: nekowafer on 26 Sep 2013, 06:55
What little cheese said. Too cute!
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Post by: Lupercal on 26 Sep 2013, 13:28
All I know is I trained aikido and juijitsu today and I ended up nearly throwing up from tiredness. The whole discussion about sport or art is meaningless. Just have fun.

I am having so much fun with Aikido, more fun than I think I've ever had in a martial art before. This is only my second...but still. Taekwondo for 4 years seems almost like an after school club compared to what I've been doing the last 6 weeks, and I'm only a white belt.
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Sep 2013, 14:36
I'm just saying. If she laughs, she's a keeper. If she cries, she's also a keeper.

Dude, she cries at anything and everything that makes her happy. She cried when she opened my last care package. She's gonna cry at every single song on the CD, guaranteed.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 26 Sep 2013, 14:37
I swear, for the first year I had no idea of what I was doing aikido-wise. Still baffled at regular intervals, actually.
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Post by: Loki on 26 Sep 2013, 14:44
By the way you guys

http://i.imgur.com/ySJozpE.jpg

It's Oktoberfest.
Wish me luck.

Sind doch Spießer.

(click to show/hide)
But seriously, good luck!
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Sep 2013, 00:23
I walk my dogs twice a day, once in the afternoon, and again in the wee hours of the morning.  I go through our neighborhood in the afternoon, but at night I go out to the edge of town by the railroad tracks as the freight trains run through the night.  The old Thomas the Tank Engine stories about the complaining freight cars are true - some of them scream when they have to move.  It's weird to hear. 

Three nights ago, when the moon was at a perfect half, and the night was so clear that the moonshadows were sharp enough to make me look, I saw Orion's arms outstretched, about to catch the moon.  That's always the way I see Orion, the bright upper stars as outstretched hands, not as his shoulders.  A simple jumping jack of glee.  I think I transfer my own glee at seeing him, as he's the only constellation I know at a glance. 

Tonight it was clear again, and the moon, nibbled a little past half, was sailing past his reach.  There he was, the eternal left fielder, jumping for the home run he had no chance of ever catching.  And yet, in that moment at the pinnacle of his leap, as the ball sails a few measly feet above his glove, we all rise from our seats for a moment and gasp at the possibility that none of us would believe could happen. 

And I realised that's how I felt the other night, but couldn't know it until tonight as the ball sailed past, the way we all knew it would, to be caught by some starry-eyed kid in the bleachers.  You can't appreciate the potential of the moment in the moment - when it passes, then you know what might have been but never could. 

I feel oddly comforted, but restless at the same time. 


I guess it's autumn again. 
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Post by: Masterpiece on 27 Sep 2013, 03:37
Oh my god I totally overdid it again.

5 Liters. One of them in one big gulp.

My head, it's fucking cloudy.
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Post by: Lines on 27 Sep 2013, 04:52
But that's what Oktoberfest is for! Or so I've gathered from people who like drinking beer. (They've had both Woodchuck and Angry Orchard at ours the past two years, but I usually drive, so only one big cider for me...)

Also that is the best picture of you ever, the lederhosen are awesome!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Sep 2013, 04:56
I miss my Lederhosen, they made my legs look almost as good as my kilt.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Sep 2013, 08:41
I haven't had lederhosen since I was four. 
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Post by: Loki on 27 Sep 2013, 08:51
But that's what Oktoberfest is for! Or so I've gathered from people who like drinking beer. (They've had both Woodchuck and Angry Orchard at ours the past two years, but I usually drive, so only one big cider for me...)

Also that is the best picture of you ever, the lederhosen are awesome!

I cannot find how much Woodchuck has, but do remember that German beer usually has at least 4.8%, which is more than in the US, or so I am told.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 27 Sep 2013, 09:07
But do bear in mind that Octoberfestbeer has 6%.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Sep 2013, 09:16
German beer usually has at least 4.8%, which is more than in the US, or so I am told.

BS.  American beers are 4 - 6%.  Bud is 5%, Bud Light is 4.2%.  Light beers tend to have less.  Busch is 4.6, Coors is 5, as are Michelob and Pabst.  Miller High Life is 5.5.  Most things with "Ice" in the title are 5.7 - 5.9%.   And Woodchuck's only 5%, although before it went national it was 12%. 

German beer just tastes better, that's all.   :roll:
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Sep 2013, 11:58
The Ale House, which is a restaurant in my town with a shitload of beers on tap, had Pyramid's new Oktoberfest ale. It was alright I guess, the flavor was good but like a lot of Pyramid beers it wasn't very bold. Last week when they had Big Sky's IPA it was a lot better. I had 3 of those. Last night I only had one, and then I decided to go to my usual bar and snag a Sierra Nevada Torpedo because double IPAs rule.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Sep 2013, 12:50
My beers are at 8% on average, bu I like Belgian tripels and other beers that attempt to actively resist as you drink them.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Sep 2013, 13:13
Wiped-out exhausted this evening. I'm still adjusting to the new schedule, I'm hoping I'll get less tired. I've just provisionally accepted a regular babysitting job - 7 hours a week (basically all day Saturday) which would pay well but would mean I'd not have Saturdays to do fun things. On the other hand, without the job I couldn't afford to do fun things ever. I've told them the difficulty that my degree causes to regular commitments (might have to do shifts on a Friday night or Saturday at two weeks' notice, but only perhaps four times in a year) and how much I charge, and we'll see what they say.
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Sep 2013, 21:01
So I mentioned before that I'm doing a CD of covers for Camille's next care package. Y'all already heard my cover of Cursive, so here's some Elliott Smith.
https://app.box.com/s/47yq6raiewyof0v7uofo
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Post by: GarandMarine on 28 Sep 2013, 06:18
Some motivation for your Saturday!

After invading Greece and forcing the submission of many city states, Philip II, King of Macedon sent a message to the Spartans. "You are advised to submit without further delay, for if I bring my army into your land, I will destroy your farms, slay your people and raze your city." The Spartan rulers replied with only one word. "If". Philip of Macedon and his son Alexander the Mildly Incompetent both avoided Sparta completely.


When asked by a woman from Attica:
'Why are you Spartan women the only ones who can rule men?',
she said:'Because we are also the only ones who give birth to men.'
- Queen Gorgo (daughter of Kleomenes I, born ~506. Married Leonidas I)

When the Persians sent envoys to the Spartans demanding the traditional symbol of surrender, an offering of soil and water, the Spartans threw them into a deep well, suggesting that upon their arrival at the bottom, they could "Dig it out for yourselves."

When Leonidas was asked why he had come to fight such a huge host with so few men, Leonidas answered, "If numbers are what matters, all Greece cannot match a small part of that army; but if courage is what counts, this number is sufficient." On being again asked a similar question, he replied, "I have plenty, since they are all to be slain."

Another classic line from the movie with historical fact behind it. the Spartan Dienekes was told that the Persian archers were so numerous that when they fired their volleys, their arrows would blot out the sun. He responded with “So much the better, we'll fight in the shade” this response is now the motto of the Hellenic Army's 20th armored division.


Before the battle of Termoplylae Xerxes sent an offer to King Leonidas that he would spare his men if they gave up their arms. Leonidas replied "Molon labe" (Greek: Μολών λαβέ), which translates to "Come and take them".


The Etipath of the 300


    Ὦ ξεῖν', ἀγγέλλειν Λακεδαιμονίοις ὅτι τῇδε
    κείμεθα, τοῖς κείνων ῥήμασι πειθόμενοι.

    Ō ksein', angellein Lakedaimoniois hoti tēide
    keimetha, tois keinōn rhēmasi peithomenoi.

    "Go and tell the Spartans, stranger passing by,
    That here, obedient to their laws, we lie."

Trigger warning: Music video features gorey cartoons and lots of awesome.

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Post by: BeoPuppy on 28 Sep 2013, 09:14
... So, anyWAY ...

Aikido lesson one-on-one with my teach. Life's goooood.
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Post by: Lines on 28 Sep 2013, 10:17
I cannot find how much Woodchuck has, but do remember that German beer usually has at least 4.8%, which is more than in the US, or so I am told.

Woodchuck is about 5% as is Angry Orchard. (But my favorite Angry Orchard, Iceman, is 10%.) Some American beers that Michael (husband) has had at beer festivals have been as high as 8%. This is not typical, mind you, but I have not seen many beers or ciders in my area that are below 4%. HOWEVER it depends on the state, because once Michael's parents moved out to Utah, we found out that beer on tap out there can't be above 3.8%. Bottles yes, tap no. Poor poor Utah...
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Post by: cesium133 on 28 Sep 2013, 10:35
HOWEVER it depends on the state, because once Michael's parents moved out to Utah, we found out that beer on tap out there can't be above 3.8%. Bottles yes, tap no. Poor poor Utah...
In Oklahoma, if you're buying Bud/Coors/whatever (basically any beer you'd find at a 7-11), it's 3.2%... The brands of beer that are only sold at liquor stores are usually higher, though.
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Post by: Lines on 28 Sep 2013, 10:38
That's how it is with liquor in Ohio. You can get it at a grocery store, but it's never above 40 proof. If you want the strong stuff, you have to go elsewhere. It's different for beer, I think, because I've seen higher % craft beers at the grocery.
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Post by: Metope on 28 Sep 2013, 10:50
So it turns out my idiot temporary flatmates have heated the shit out of the flat over summer while I and the regular people who live here were away. The bill came today and it's three times what it usually is in winter, and they lived here during summer! The terrible thing is that the bill only comes every 3 months, and every month up until then you pay an average estimate over the past year, and then when the actual bill comes you either pay more money if you've spent more than the estimate, or they give you money back if you've spent less. So for the next three months I will have to pay a crazy amount of bills because these dickheads decided they wanted to live inside an oven, and even though I'll get the money back I really can't afford this right now, I need to spend a lot of money on art materials for my final year in uni.

Like, two of them moved out and kept the heaters on full blast even after they moved, the woman who had my room moved out six days before I got here, so my room was a sauna for six days with no one even being in it.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Sep 2013, 14:00
But do bear in mind that Octoberfestbeer has 6%.
Need to correct this. Octoberfest beer has 12%.
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Post by: jwhouk on 28 Sep 2013, 14:33
Usually my electric bills go up in the summer, but that's because I'm running the A/C, not the heater...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Sep 2013, 14:39
Kris lives in Glasgow - I doubt AC even exists, but it almost certainly won't be necessary for more than about 2 days a year.
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Post by: Metope on 28 Sep 2013, 14:41
AC does definitely not exist here, there's no need for it. Heating on the other hand is really important, but not in summer. I keep my room to about 20 C all year round, but the other rooms and the kitchen were between 25-30 C.
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Sep 2013, 14:55
But do bear in mind that Octoberfestbeer has 6%.
Need to correct this. Octoberfest beer has 12%.

Point of interest: the word "Oktoberfest" is borrowed from German, so when it's used in English, you don't have to turn the K into a C.
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Post by: Metope on 28 Sep 2013, 14:56
One thing I've wondered, which is probably a really stupid and ignorant question: why is Oktoberfest always in September?
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Sep 2013, 15:03
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oktoberfest

It's the days leading up to October!
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Post by: Metope on 28 Sep 2013, 15:05
But what's so special about October? Why are the days leading up to that particular month so special? Kind of just sounds like a thinly veiled reason to drink a lot of quality beer. Silly Germans, you know you don't need a reason for that.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Sep 2013, 15:09
In Cambridge there is a week called May Week. It's in June. No matter what I like to think, it doesn't exist to celebrate me.
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Post by: jwhouk on 28 Sep 2013, 15:29
Anniversary of a German prince and princess being married (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oktoberfest#History); it's probably also tied to harvest festivals around the time of the fall equinox.

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Post by: Jace on 28 Sep 2013, 19:35
high utility bills

Somehow starting at the beginning of August my electricity usage has more than tripled. I have no idea what has caused this since I'm actually running my A/C less than from May-July and I can't think of anything else that has changed in the apartment that would warrant such a drastic increase in electricity consumption. Going to have to talk to my flatmate when he gets home from an event.

Also gonna have some serious fucking words with him about cleaning because I found a few moldy french fries in the living room just sitting on the floor. Like, these have progressed beyond just sitting out for a couple days they've been there a while and what the fuck. How can you live mere feet away from rotting fucking food and not notice it.
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Post by: Welu on 29 Sep 2013, 03:01
In Cambridge there is a week called May Week. It's in June. No matter what I like to think, it doesn't exist to celebrate me.

I propose during that week we celebrate you in the forum.

~~

Had a very nice meal with family yesterday. I even drove some of the family to the restaurant and was told I'm way too grown up.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 29 Sep 2013, 03:39
But what's so special about October? Why are the days leading up to that particular month so special? Kind of just sounds like a thinly veiled reason to drink a lot of quality beer. Silly Germans, you know you don't need a reason for that.
It also used to be in October, but has been moved forward because a funfair in winter weather (which sometimes happens in October) is not very enjoyable.
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Post by: Jace on 29 Sep 2013, 20:44
Hey here's a post about armor and an event (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,29129.msg1189765.html#msg1189765).

Further on the event:
I had 7 fights in the bear pit tournament.
Duke Sir Maynard. The most recent king who stepped down. He also practices with us out here in Buffalo. I lost
The guy in that picture, don't remember his name, something with a V or a B. I should have won, but lost.
Sir Otto of Westphalia. Another guy who practices with us in Buffalo. I lost.
Duke Sir Matthew. He easily trounced me.
Duke Sir Maynard, a second time. I lost yet again. He moves swiftly like the wind.
Some Samurai jackoff. He was legged when I went in (you kept previous wounds), didn't take his obvious shots, faked him out, made him miss then planted my shield on his weapon so he couldn't pull it back and stepped in and delivered some hatred. I won.
Sir Stephan. Might be a Duke also, I dunno. First he got my sword arm, then gave me honor in allowing me to take the blow to my shield arm and continue fighting. He was most honorable in also taking his shield arm for the remainder of our bout (as in, he would not retain that were he to win) and then he won.

As soon as our fight finished, my pourpoint (a vest for holding up leg armor) decided to tear on the right side so I had to go fix that by putting on a belt to hold up my leg armor. Shortly after returning Maynard won the bear pit by being the first to get 50 wins. Then we split up into pretty much Woodland Watch and Buffalo guys vs everyone else and did a woods battle. I had a guy dead to rights after he crashed through the line and fell but he decided to be a dick and not take my moderate shot of "I've got you clearly defenseless as you're standing up." Our team won anyways so it didn't matter.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 29 Sep 2013, 21:12
Thought for the night, does any one else have what I call a "Culture Hang up"? It's a random point of another culture that you're just stuck on for no explainable reason. It can be a really small detail, something people within the culture and out don't pay much thought but you find it fascinating.
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Post by: Papersatan on 30 Sep 2013, 04:26
About to leave for my first day of this internship.

Kind of want to vomit from nervous. This is the part where my impostor syndrome rears it's head and I am not sure how I fooled them into thinking I was qualified for such an awesome position.

This is really made worse because I don't really know what I am going to be doing. Hopefully something I know how to do!

I know I should be fine. I have learned so much in the past 2 years, and when I am objective with myself, I am well qualified for a ton of work.  I didn't lie on my resume or in my interview, so there is no reason to expect that I will be given tasks beyond my abilities.  But still.

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Post by: snalin on 30 Sep 2013, 05:03
Good luck!

I worked as an intern this entire summer, and it turned out that what they wanted me to do, I knew very little about (writing in programming languages I didn't know, doing stuff I hadn't done before). It worked out fine!

Remember, no matter what job you get, you'll probably not know the vast majority of the things you need to do that job well before you get there. Nobody expects you to be an expert on day one! You'll do fine!
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Post by: Allie_Allie on 30 Sep 2013, 05:26
What I found works for me is acting until I believe I am perfectly qualified, even when I'm totally not. It usually works well for me. Where are you doing your internship at, Papersatan?
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Post by: Loki on 30 Sep 2013, 06:24
Good luck!

I worked as an intern this entire summer, and it turned out that what they wanted me to do, I knew very little about (writing in programming languages I didn't know, doing stuff I hadn't done before). It worked out fine!

Remember, no matter what job you get, you'll probably not know the vast majority of the things you need to do that job well before you get there. Nobody expects you to be an expert on day one! You'll do fine!

Absolutely this. I had not even HEARD of R or awk before I started my internship. They loved me.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 30 Sep 2013, 08:07
Does it help to consider the fact that the people who hired you are experienced at selecting applicants, and that it's kind of an insult to their ability to do their job to assume that they made a mistake?
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Post by: nekowafer on 30 Sep 2013, 08:22
How can you live mere feet away from rotting fucking food and not notice it.

My roommates have 4 dogs, in total. Only one wanders the upstairs - living room, dining room, kitchen, etc. She is not let out often enough and occasionally poops on the floor. There were two tiny turds on the floor next to the doorway into the kitchen that stayed there, and I'm not exaggerating here, for at least 4 months. I refused to get myself involved with their dog's poop, and I was curious how long it would take them to see it. Every single person in that house goes into that kitchen at least twice a day, and it took 4 months to notice the poop.
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 30 Sep 2013, 09:15
A neighbor was able to spot the location of the yellow jacket nest, so the exterminator will be able to make the area safe.

Much as I resent the week of pain from being attacked, it was one of the best possible outcomes that the victim was an adult with resources and not one of the dogs or babies that use the sidewalk they live next to.

There was also an opportunity for spiritual growth in overcoming my glee at the prospect of flooding their home with nerve gas.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 30 Sep 2013, 09:58
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 30 Sep 2013, 13:34
Thousands of my enemies are now dying in convulsions.
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Post by: Papersatan on 30 Sep 2013, 16:18
I am working for GE.  Day one was great. If not a bit like being thrown into the deep end while learning to swim.

I am going to be doing some project management and then some Business Analysis/User experience things. 
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Post by: Welu on 30 Sep 2013, 17:27
Yay for Kat!

I am covered in mysterious bruises and I usually never bruise. Most of the areas with bruises were sore last week but stopped being sore in the last couple days and the bruises mostly came up today. It was like my body was saving them up.
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Post by: Metope on 01 Oct 2013, 03:00
My regular flatmates have moved back in, and I'm so happy. One of them made lamb and chickpea curry last night and it was the best thing ever, everything is back to normal. Oh and we're all in ou final year in various courses at uni, so we can stress and vent together! It's perfect.
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Post by: Loki on 01 Oct 2013, 03:59
That moment when you are just in time to peefectly miss the office hours of your mun(i?)cipality.
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Post by: Carl-E on 01 Oct 2013, 19:44
Go, Kat, go! 

Re: bruising.  Deep tissue bruising that happens further below the surface usually doesn't show up until the blood pooled in the muscles finally starts to be reabsorbed and the byproducts work their way out of the muscle and make their way into the fat layers below the surface of the skin.  I pulled a calf muscle a few years back, and it was nearly a month before the bruising showed, and it drifted down my leg to the ankle - it was pretty weird. 
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Post by: Welu on 02 Oct 2013, 11:56
Thanks, Carl. That explains a lot of my bruises over the years. I don't bruise easily it seems, so when I do, it's usually from a big whack or strain.
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Post by: Metope on 02 Oct 2013, 12:44
Yesterday when I was in the shower, the water suddenly turned ice cold which means someone is using the sink in the kitchen at the same time. It happens sometimes, you don't realise someone is showering and go do the dishes or something, so I just yelled loudly to make my flatmate know I was there. Usually that'll make them stop, but the cold water just continued and I realised maybe the kitchen door was closed so she couldn't hear, and then I remembered the massive pile of dishes from our impromptu dinner party the night before, so I wrapped a towel around myself and went into the kitchen to find my flatmate doing the dishes, and yes, the door had been closed so she couldn't hear me. She apologised, I finished my shower and didn't really think anything of it, until I came home today and found this sitting on my shelf:

(http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3740/10058301664_5d948c96b6_z.jpg)

I love my flatmates.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 02 Oct 2013, 13:36
So I just watched Gravity.

OH!

MY!

FUCKING!

god!!!!

To make myself clear... (https://vine.co/v/hgvmMuKA759)
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Post by: Lines on 02 Oct 2013, 14:35
Kris, the second part of that note made me laugh. Hooray for good roommates!
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Post by: Allie_Allie on 02 Oct 2013, 15:31
I think this is the place to post about this, so I will.

I woke up feeling groggy and with a horrible headache today, perhaps related to all the wine I had last night but I'm gonna blame it on sleeping late and not having enough Chai tea for this morning. One of the first things I did was call up my friend who I was supposed to practice for roller derby with and tell her I couldn't make it because I felt like shit. Fast forward to annoying small talk, stupid giggles over something boring and then I ended up surfing Facebook. Before I move on, let me share something with you: For the past month, I've been having dreams of my ex. An ex I haven't had ANY communication with in a little over two years. It has annoyed the shit out of me as he's someone I really don't care for thinking about. First love, first major heartbreak, the usual.

Anyways, today for some random reason, I decided to check my "other" folder in FB, and what was there? I message from my ex, the same ex I've been having dreams about. He sent that a month ago and I *just* saw it. Now my day is even more crappy as I'm debating whether replying or not. All he said was, "I'm glad you're in love. :) Be happy". I didn't even know he was stalking my page, I don't have him as a friend on any social media and we ended things pretty messy. Part of me wants to reply and just be civil, and another part wants to just ignore it and pretend I didn't even see it. Ugh.
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Post by: Redball on 02 Oct 2013, 15:37
Welu, if the bruises are truly mysterious, perhaps you should have a blood test.
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Post by: Welu on 02 Oct 2013, 15:52
Might be something to keep in mind but the ones that prompted posting, I'm mostly sure they came from the car door. It's one medium one at about two inches and a couple smaller ones on my calf. I probably whacked my leg getting in or out.
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Post by: Redball on 02 Oct 2013, 15:55
Ah, OK. I bruise a little more easily in my 70s than I did before. I don't usually remember where they came from, and I do have a clotting thing that seems to have an effect.
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Post by: Loki on 03 Oct 2013, 04:24
I have been noticing more ladybugs. Right now, there are at least four or five directly outside my window. There usually aren't that many.

I remember when my first girlfriend and I were on vacation in Poland, there were so many a rather large stick on the beach was crowded with them.

Read some news from back then. Appears they might be Asian Ladybugs (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harmonia_axyridis), which are bigger and more predatory than their European cousins.
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Post by: jwhouk on 03 Oct 2013, 07:51
We've had a minor attack of those up here at my workplace. Annoying little beasties.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 03 Oct 2013, 11:07
Aww, I love those little beasties.

And I just learned that they are the official New York state bug!
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Post by: Welu on 03 Oct 2013, 15:53
Yesterday my class was told, "You're all gonna filming a thing for outside people." I was terrified the whole time, you should see the handheld footage, I'm shaking so hard. Thankfully there was a second camera on a tripod. We barely got through it and the footage came out quite bad on some bits and that's just the ones I worked on. I haven't seen the other stuff but one of the other groups didn't know how the microphones worked.
They're in year two a university level media production course.

I admittedly hadn't been near the JVC cameras in about a year (I did almost all my practical work on my personal Canon 550d last year) but I knew the basics enough to get them working. The shoddiness of the day was mainly everything being done last minute with inexperienced students who were intentionally thrown in the deep end. I'm not looking forward to tomorrow because I'm really worried we're all going to get, rightfully, told off. I think I acted professionally, despite being late for the first bit and apologising a lot. I think they saw how freaked out I was and felt a bit sorry for me. At least I can say I think I tried really hard?
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Post by: Jace on 03 Oct 2013, 16:24
Are you afraid of the outdoors? I feel like I missed something integral to the story
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Post by: Carl-E on 03 Oct 2013, 19:32
People from outside the university. 

In other words, real clients.  Nothing quite so horrifying to a student as having to have professional level work while you're still learning your shit. 
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Post by: Jace on 03 Oct 2013, 19:35
I guess that makes sense. I can't even talk to people most of the time anymore. I just mumble a bunch and then try to leave.
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Post by: Jace on 03 Oct 2013, 19:38
That's not really a joke either, I went into a doctor's office to see if they were accepting new patients and at the window just sort of mumbled out "you accept new patients" but she didn't hear me so I said it a little louder and she said no which was the biggest relief because there were other people in the room and it meant I got to leave that place quicker.

ITT I can't get healthcare because I'm too afraid to ask people questions.
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Post by: Welu on 04 Oct 2013, 00:30
Carl got it. I wrote my post right before bed and I was exhausted so it came out as a big ramble. Yeah, I hate meeting new people and that combined with being out of my media comfort zone made for a very bad day.

Just woke up and my arms are in bits from carrying the camera and tripod around town.
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Post by: Akima on 04 Oct 2013, 04:24
(http://www.abc.net.au/news/image/4999004-3x2-700x467.jpg)
Sydney Harbour (http://www.navy.gov.au/ifr/events/maps/fleet-entry) is full of grey metal ships (http://www.navy.gov.au/ifr/participants/warships).
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Post by: pwhodges on 04 Oct 2013, 04:45
I just found a configuration error in my VPN server at work that's been there for five years.  Fortuitously, there is a reason that most of the time it had no effect (though it explains some strange behaviours that I saw occasionally), but a change in the working practices of a couple of members of staff has forced me to find and correct it.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 04 Oct 2013, 05:38

Sydney Harbour (http://www.navy.gov.au/ifr/events/maps/fleet-entry) is full of grey metal ships (http://www.navy.gov.au/ifr/participants/warships).

So much for "stopping the boats" right?
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Post by: Jace on 04 Oct 2013, 06:21
Did I mention I'm in a bowling league? Our team name is "Thanks Obama" because whatever place we get it'll be Thanks Obama. This week the team we played was named "Off Constantly" so the screen said "Off Constantly | Thanks Obama" which was apt given the whole govt thing.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 04 Oct 2013, 10:00
I'd say you'd have to thank Mitt Romney for that
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Post by: Patrick on 04 Oct 2013, 11:43
I am going to Berkeley for the weekend, and I am going to have a great time visiting my old bandmate and busking downtown to make money so I can visit Camille up in WA. I just gotta get off my ass and go.
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Post by: Akima on 04 Oct 2013, 15:17
So much for "stopping the boats" right?
:lol: :lol: :lol: :cry:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 04 Oct 2013, 16:59
I'd say you'd have to thank Mitt Romney for that

I think you mean John Boehner? 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 04 Oct 2013, 23:59
Sometimes my roommates need strict instructions.

(http://i.imgur.com/cxmuyFh.jpg)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 05 Oct 2013, 00:58
Something about waking you / not waking you, I gather? 
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 05 Oct 2013, 01:48
Currently enjoying a mild concussion and a hole in my eye.
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Oct 2013, 07:31
What / who hit you? 
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 05 Oct 2013, 07:46
Sports. I got thrown and a fraction of second someone else got thrown. And his heel hit me squarely in the left eye.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Lines on 05 Oct 2013, 11:10
I think this is the place to post about this, so I will. ... Part of me wants to reply and just be civil, and another part wants to just ignore it and pretend I didn't even see it. Ugh.

Nobody replied, so I'm gonna! Stuff like this can go either here or in the Relationship Thread in Relate, post wherever you want. :) Buuuut to reply to your conundrum...I had something similar in the past happen with the guy* I kind of dated before my husband, but if you feel like you need closure, just write a short reply. And if you don't want to send it, delete it.

*Guy sent me a text about a year after I stopped talking to him basically saying he was sad things ended the way they did and I just curtly replied that I had moved on and he needed to as well. (He got married and had a baby within this year.) I basically politely told him to leave me alone because that's what I wanted him to do. However, I replied to this the same day I got it, so given that it's been some time, your guy might have already gotten the impression that you didn't want to reply...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Lines on 05 Oct 2013, 11:16
So my sister-in-law, who recently joined the National Guard, had a training accident. She fell about 30ft onto an air cushion that was only meant to handle a 5ft fall, landed on her back, and long story short, she had to have a few of her vertebrae fused together. This happened Wednesday and LUCKILY yesterday she was able to stand and today she took a few steps with a walker. I hope she continues making progress and am seriously glad she didn't get a worse injury.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 05 Oct 2013, 11:26
SHIT I hope she gets better soon. Talk about lucky
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 05 Oct 2013, 14:12
... Fused ... Together?

What does that mean long-term?

Good luck.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 05 Oct 2013, 14:18
Ouch, best wishes to my tovarich and your cousin Linds.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 05 Oct 2013, 15:30
At first: best wishes to your cousin, Linds.

Now: a blog post of my own.

I finished my move to Karlsruhe today. Forgot a bunch of stuff, luckily nothing extremely important. Most important things I forgot are all my vinyl records and my ebook reader. My to-be flatmate moves in tomorrow afternoon. I wonder how we'll get along. I never had a flatmate before. He's studying electronics, so I doubt it'll be too bad.

I don't really have internet or a phone here yet though. My landlord wants me to get an internet access of my own to be safe of legal problems. Currently I'm using my mobile phone, but that's not really good, with me basically living in basement and such.

And fuck I'm tired. I had three hours of sleep to yesterday, and had to sleep at the couch at my father's place yesterday. And I spent almost three days with packing stuff into boxes, packing boxes into a car, sitting on the passenger seat while my father's driving at 220 km/h, packing boxes out of a car and packing stuff out of boxes. Now I'll sleep.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Lines on 05 Oct 2013, 17:39
... Fused ... Together?

What does that mean long-term?

I...don't know. I know she wants to continue in the National Guard if she's physically able (I think somebody mentioned she'll find out in a year, but I'm not sure. I've met people with two vertebrae fused before who have had problems because of it, but I'm pretty sure she had to have 5 fused together (iirc it's the lower three thoracic and upper two lumbar, so right at the curve of her back) and I can see lots of issues because of this. But her spinal cord wasn't damaged at all and other than being loopy because of drugs, she seems to be doing fine. But because she's in North Carolina with her and my husband's father, we're here in Ohio, and the rest of their family is in Utah, I'm only getting limited information via phone conversations Michael is having with his dad and sister (when she's lucid). I don't think we'll know long term issues until later on.  :-\
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Post by: Akima on 05 Oct 2013, 19:52
Sports. I got thrown and a fraction of second someone else got thrown. And his heel hit me squarely in the left eye.
Ouch! I hope the eye-damage is not serious.

So my sister-in-law, who recently joined the National Guard, had a training accident.
Even more ouch! Best wishes for her recovery.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 06 Oct 2013, 02:55
Thanks for the nice wishes.

As luck would have it, it's the eye that has had similar damage twice in the past. Probably heal without lasting damage but you never know. The bitchy thing is that it is something to watch out for. And as I get older I seem to collect tiny issues one should watch out for. Is that what happens with age for everyone?

Best wishes to your sister-in-law. I hope the effects are minimal.
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Post by: pwhodges on 06 Oct 2013, 03:59
And as I get older I seem to collect tiny issues one should watch out for. Is that what happens with age for everyone?

Don't remind me...  I try consciously to modify my habits as necessary to counter or avoid the increased risk of whatever I've just frightened myself with.  Even simple things like getting up slowly from a crouching position, so that I don't faint (risk caused by standard post-heart-attack medication); before I had that down, I fainted in a shop against a metal display stand with corners that then cut me (they weren't a risk in "normal" use - it wasn't particularly bad design or anything).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 06 Oct 2013, 06:32
Well ... Fuck.
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Post by: pwhodges on 06 Oct 2013, 11:56
Yeah; but it's best to accept and adapt, so that you can get on with life without really thinking about it (once your habits have changed!).  But remember that I'm a lot older than you, and have had that heart attack...

Oh, and don't think I'm disabling myself in any way.  I take the dogs for 2-hour vigorous walks; cycle to and from work, and in and out of town (hilly) when needed; heave heavy stuff around at work and for concerts; run up and down stairs; climb ladders.  A few simple precautions are really no big deal.
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Post by: Loki on 06 Oct 2013, 14:52
Forgot to mention: I had my first Shadowrun session yesterday.

It would have been great, had a little girl not died from my actions. On the other hand, it appears I now have a nemesis (the NPC that killed her). Yay, character development!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 06 Oct 2013, 14:55
Just remember chummer, watch your back, shoot straight, conserve ammo, and never, ever, cut a deal with a dragon.

Trust me on that last one. You don't get a second shot to learn that lesson unless you are very very lucky.
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Post by: pwhodges on 06 Oct 2013, 16:06
Last night I went to the Queen Elizabeth Hall for a concert.

First up - Stockhausen's Gesang der Jünglinge.  This was one of the first records I had, in 1962 or so (a present from my older brother); last night was the first time I've heard it in the intended surround form in a hall, and it was, as expected, a revelation.  (Well, not quite the intended form, as the original tapes were lost, so it can only be played in a reconstituted four-track form, without the original overhead track.)

Then - Stockhausen's Kontakte, in the version with piano and percussion.  My son Nic played the piano (and some of the percussion), as he did when I heard it a few years ago in the Albert Hall at a Prom.  It's a much longer piece, and I don't think it wears its length very well; I prefer Gesang.

Then we had dinner with my son (we skipped Boulez's Le marteau sans maître - naughty; but there you go).

Anecdote:  Before Stockenhausen died, the BBC organised a festival of concerts of his music, and booked my son to play some of the piano pieces.  Stockhausen demanded that his wife play them instead - but the BBC stood their ground and said they had a contract with Nic, and so would use him.  In the end, they split the pieces between the pianists (and Nic got the more prominent billing - and his full agreed fee), and Stockhausen was actually somewhat complimentary about his performances.  Nic's played some of the pieces elsewhere, and I have my own recording of a couple he did at one Cheltenham Festival.

Further anecdote:  In 1969 I was working at the BBC, and was operating the tape machines for the rehearsals and performance  of Treffpunkt from Stockhausen's Aus den sieben Tagen.  Parts of the BBC SO were placed around the BBC's Maida Vale studio, and asked to improvise to the guidance of a text that Stockhausen read to them first.  Each group had some microphones, and in between the groups were speakers.  Stockhausen sat in the middle with a mixer desk which enabled him to take the miked sound from each part of the orchestra and direct it to any of the speakers, or any combination, to guide or disrupt other groups of performers.  Each part of the orchestra had another mixer desk at which an acolyte determined the combination of the microphones that was sent to Stockhausen's mixer.  The live broadcast performance took place in darkness, and lasted about 20 minutes (in final rehearsal, it had been 30 minutes, and with more form).  I met Stockhausen during these events.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 06 Oct 2013, 21:48
*rubs eyes* 's way too early to be early.
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Post by: ev4n on 07 Oct 2013, 06:42
Last Tuesday morning, in the pool, I was all oh dang, my chlorine-induced asthma is back.  :( :(
Last Wednesday, I was thinking oh man, this is the worst allergy day of the year (which is odd, considering how late in the season it is)
Last Thursday morning, I rethought everything, for the worse.  I spent Thursday and Friday either asleep or watching Big Bang Theory while lying on the couch.

...

I'm still coughing, but I'm almost myself again.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 07 Oct 2013, 08:00
Damn, now that I'm slowly getting used to living here, my perfectionism sets in. I realised how bad my workspace is organised now. The desk is far too low for the monitors and the speakers on it. All this could be solved if I got something like this (http://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/00173944/) in the right size. It would need to be 140 cm wide, with a height and depth of about 25 cm. I just can't seem to find something like it. Damn. Probably need to build it myself.

I just noticed that Ikea is selling these (http://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/50251029/). Looks like I just need a suitable piece of wood. That should be manageable. Yay! It might just take some time.

Oh, and my flatmate hasn't arrived yet as well.
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Post by: Metope on 07 Oct 2013, 15:19
Apparently the people on my course who are responsible for our degree show catalogue are trying to get Tilda Swinton to write a thing in it, exciting! I wonder if they manage to actually pull that off.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 07 Oct 2013, 15:20
I finished my move to Karlsruhe today.

Oh hey, I visited there when I lived in Luxembourg! It's a really really nice place. I hope you enjoy living there as much as I enjoyed my very brief visit.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 07 Oct 2013, 15:28
Foot is borked. Any time I put a little bit of weight on my heel, it feels like I'm standing on a nerve. Think sciatica is solidly going down both legs now.
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Post by: Jace on 07 Oct 2013, 16:39
My buddy who I make armor with asked me what I wanted for my birthday. I know its a pretty little thing but it made me feel really good and like we are really good friends.

I asked for a sheet of stainless steel.
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Post by: Eris on 07 Oct 2013, 18:14
... Fused ... Together?

What does that mean long-term?

I...don't know. I know she wants to continue in the National Guard if she's physically able (I think somebody mentioned she'll find out in a year, but I'm not sure. I've met people with two vertebrae fused before who have had problems because of it, but I'm pretty sure she had to have 5 fused together (iirc it's the lower three thoracic and upper two lumbar, so right at the curve of her back) and I can see lots of issues because of this. But her spinal cord wasn't damaged at all and other than being loopy because of drugs, she seems to be doing fine. But because she's in North Carolina with her and my husband's father, we're here in Ohio, and the rest of their family is in Utah, I'm only getting limited information via phone conversations Michael is having with his dad and sister (when she's lucid). I don't think we'll know long term issues until later on.  :-\

As someone with the majority of my spine fused, it was actually surprising how basically not being able to bend my back didn't really affect how I do things. She'll probably have to bend from her hips more than her back, which could cause issues there, but if she's careful and doesn't try and lift more than she's capable of she should be ok! Plus being in the National Guard and all probably means she is in better physical condition than I will ever be, and having strong core muscles so help with any potential back strain. Bodies are amazing things!

Honestly my biggest problem I have with my back is that I constantly hit my head on chairs when I am in the movies or on public transport and I reach down for my bag at my feet. You would think after all these years I would be used to it, but I still bump my head every time.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 07 Oct 2013, 20:01
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-g-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/1275077_10151984392205815_1640968132_o.jpg)

3rd Shock Army. Whew. That took awhile.
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Post by: Carl-E on 08 Oct 2013, 21:41
Foot is borked. Any time I put a little bit of weight on my heel, it feels like I'm standing on a nerve. Think sciatica is solidly going down both legs now.

Could just be a heel spur.  The pain is exquisite, and easy to confuse with nerve pain.  If caught early enough, some stretching and exercise can make it go away. 
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Post by: Welu on 09 Oct 2013, 04:24
Carl, you're going to become my go to for free medical advice. :lol: My heel is still hurting if I put weight on it so I've been limping since Saturday, which is probably causing its own issue since I'm doing it partially out of fear reflex before feeling any pain. Going to the doctor tomorrow.
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Post by: Akima on 10 Oct 2013, 02:04
The temperature hit 37.3C (99F) in Sydney today. Riding home after work was... hot.
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Post by: pwhodges on 10 Oct 2013, 02:29
Heh!  Here the temperature has plummeted - 10 degrees C this morning, when it's held up around 18 C until now.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 10 Oct 2013, 03:19
I lost my voice while asleep today. There's probably a totally normal reason for that (I have been dick all week ) but the idiot in my head imagines myself singing in my sleep (which has happened before ).

I'm also kind of pissed at my touch keyboard. It's supposed to learn my writing style, but still suggested to complete the sentence "I lost my" with "virginity".
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Post by: Welu on 10 Oct 2013, 13:04
Could just be a heel spur.  The pain is exquisite, and easy to confuse with nerve pain.  If caught early enough, some stretching and exercise can make it go away. 

It seems to be similar this. Doctor gave me anti-inflammatories and recommended rest. My Achilles tendon is irritated as well, especially since he grabbed it as hard as it seemed he could. Fuckin' ow.
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Post by: Lines on 10 Oct 2013, 14:39
As someone with the majority of my spine fused, it was actually surprising how basically not being able to bend my back didn't really affect how I do things.

This was really reassuring, thanks!
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Post by: ankhtahr on 11 Oct 2013, 11:14
I just bought a printer. They didn't include the cable, and I left all my USB A-B cables at home. The fuck, Samsung?

I mean, it's been a while since I last bought a printer, but they all included more cables than anyone could ever need.

So I got to go and buy a cable tomorrow. Damn. Store bought cables are usually expensive.

Oh, and my flatmate moved in today. I didn't really talk to him yet, he was doing stuff with his parents all the time. He seems nice, but maybe a little bit spoiled. What surprised me is that he seems a lot younger than me, though he ought to be at least three years older.
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Post by: LTK on 11 Oct 2013, 11:20
If printers always include so many cables, you should be able to pick one up second-hand. Germany has ebay-like sites, right? Hell, maybe the university's IT department will let you have one.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 11 Oct 2013, 11:36
well, if I ordered a cable, I'd need to pay shipping and end up at pretty much the same price. I'm just a bit annoyed that I have to go to the computer store again. And that I have a box with about 6 of these cables at home, which I've bought for 0.95€ each, and probably have to pay 7€ for exactly the same tomorrow.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Oct 2013, 13:01
I just bought a printer. They didn't include the cable, and I left all my USB A-B cables at home. The fuck, Samsung?

It's not just Samsung. I bought a printer from HP and that one didn't have any connection cables either.
It helps to check the box contents. Just a tip for the next time.
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Post by: LTK on 11 Oct 2013, 15:18
well, if I ordered a cable, I'd need to pay shipping and end up at pretty much the same price. I'm just a bit annoyed that I have to go to the computer store again. And that I have a box with about 6 of these cables at home, which I've bought for 0.95€ each, and probably have to pay 7€ for exactly the same tomorrow.
You can't find a seller in the neighbourhood and pick it up in person?
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Post by: Thrillho on 11 Oct 2013, 15:42
My sister just described mothers who get pregnant by mistake and give birth and give up the baby as 'brave.'

It might be a reasonable sentiment were I not very aware that she is pro-life, the implication here being that it isn't incredible brave to get an abortion. Less so over here than in the US, but they are still INCREDIBLY taboo and the thought that it is somehow the easy way out is sickening.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Oct 2013, 16:10
I just walked into the bath to find out that my roommate used my razor and didn't clean up the sink afterward. I'm pissed at him using my razor without permission.

Then I see the toilet and find out that he didn't clean it up afterwards either and that he used my razor to shave his balls.

I'm at a loss of words.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 11 Oct 2013, 17:06
Probably get a new razor.


And a new roommate.
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Post by: Patrick on 11 Oct 2013, 17:30
I'd probably just kick him in the groin.
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Post by: nekowafer on 11 Oct 2013, 17:34
"I HOPE THAT FEELS GOOD ON YOUR FRESHLY SHAVED NUTS"
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Post by: Masterpiece on 12 Oct 2013, 02:44
Ok, my roommate got surprised that I was angry at him.
 :psyduck:
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Post by: Metope on 12 Oct 2013, 04:11
Spoiler because of TMI:
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Post by: Masterpiece on 12 Oct 2013, 04:19
Metope, I'm fairly sure every boy my age knows that already.
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Post by: Metope on 12 Oct 2013, 04:37
But why do they keep doing it then. Whyyyy
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Post by: Masterpiece on 12 Oct 2013, 04:38
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Post by: Metope on 12 Oct 2013, 04:40
That is silly. Just trim it a little then.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 12 Oct 2013, 04:42
I do that. Not everybody has a trimmer.
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Post by: Welu on 12 Oct 2013, 12:44
You can shave/trim/cut some pubic hair with scissors and NOT shave your balls.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 12 Oct 2013, 12:47
Shaving your balls is something that requires an awful lot of dedication to regularly repeating if you don't want it to be incredibly uncomfortable. Trimming is the proper lazy person's option.
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Post by: Thrillho on 12 Oct 2013, 12:51
I've always wondered about that Veet hair removal cream down there. Works on women's legs, clearly, but I never hear about it being used in the engine room. I'm guessing it's a terrible idea in some way.
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Post by: Welu on 12 Oct 2013, 12:56
If you were going to try Veet, I'd go for the sensitive skin one. It can be pretty harsh on your skin, plus since it doesn't take from the root, the area doesn't stay smooth for more than a day.

In non-balls related news, I went to see Ed Byrne doing a show last night and I talked to him during the show! He asked if anybody ever had a hernia and I was the only person who "WAHEY"'d. It was exciting and fun and I got to meet him after the show and got a photo and autograph. He complimented my hoodie and temporarily nicked my hat.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 12 Oct 2013, 13:13
I manscape regularly, it doesn't take that much dedication...

also this video's relevant:

The flamingo ALWAYS goes on the left.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 12 Oct 2013, 13:46
Aah, another 5SF connoisseur.

(http://i.imgur.com/NPy3YB4l.jpg)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 12 Oct 2013, 14:00
I was going to post this in the minis thread, but I know a fair amount of you are Firefly fans, so I figured I'd put it somewhere more public.

My painted game pieces for the Firefly Board Game.
(https://scontent-a-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc3/1238338_10151993627975815_845587769_n.jpg)

The complete collection. Including the MTG magazine promo "The Artful Dodger". All the Firefly class ships paint jobs were based on their art on the game cards. The Alliance Cruiser was based on the show's cruisers, and the Reaver ship's paint job was just me getting creative.


(https://scontent-b-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc3/1379992_10151993628165815_1230844266_n.jpg)

The Serenity herself, she's much plainer in the show and on her card then any of the other ships, and she got a brown wash as opposed to the black wash of the other ships to show the more run down condition everyone's favorite firefly class ship is in.

(https://scontent-b-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/1391492_10151993627965815_1526632067_n.jpg)

The Yun Qi

(https://scontent-a-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc3/1390476_10151993628290815_1178513647_n.jpg)

The Bonanza

(https://scontent-b-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc3/1394141_10151993628130815_1625908686_n.jpg)

The Bonnie May

(https://scontent-a-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn2/1392018_10151993627970815_1731799063_n.jpg)

The Artful Dodger, the MTG promo ship.

(https://scontent-b-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/1378830_10151993628160815_532742927_n.jpg)

Alliance Cruiser

(https://scontent-b-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn2/1395132_10151993628215815_1736487867_n.jpg)

Reaver Cruiser

(https://scontent-a-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/1392443_10151993628340815_614668304_n.jpg)

Engine detail

(https://scontent-a-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc3/1378215_10151993628350815_569672870_n.jpg)

The Game

(https://scontent-a-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn2/1379223_10151993628365815_1310214711_n.jpg)

An example of an unpainted piece
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Post by: Grognard on 12 Oct 2013, 18:37
I'm enjoying watching the NASCAR race in Charlotte.
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Post by: Papersatan on 12 Oct 2013, 20:41
So it has been a crazy 2 weeks, mostly good crazy, but some very sad.

As I mentioned I started my internship 2 weeks ago (thanks for the good wishes guys) and so far it has been great.  I am working 32 hours a week, and have finally shifted from the "I'm new and have nothing to do" phase to the "omg, so much to do how can I get it all done" phase.  But I work best under that sort of chaos.  I am trying hard not to drink the corporate kool-aid, because I didn't picture myself working for a large corporation, but they are making the kool-aid so damn tasty.  Not just because they pay well, but I actually like the work I am doing, and the company culture, and I think there are a lot of projects in the future that I would be good at, and, on paper at least, their criteria for evaluations seem like ones I will perform well at.  There is a very real possibility of this turning into a full-time job at the end of the internship, and that would be amazing. (my boss's boss asked what I was doing after Dec, and when I said graduating he said, oh, good so you'd be available full time then?) It's been crazy working this much and still taking two classes, and participating in all my social activities, but I am managing alright, just with little extra time for relaxing or being online. It's going to make just a full-time job seem like a break. :)

Now for the sad news.  Our cat has been acting weird for several months, and, with my new income, we could finally afford to take him to have a sedated exam to see what might be wrong.  We suspected an infected tooth, but it turns out it is an aggressive malignant tumor on his jaw.  The vet says he probably only has a few months.  On the one hand it is good to know, and sort of prepare for it, but it is also weird to know that he dosen't have much time.  We have decided to spoil him rotten for the time he has left.  He isn't eating well because the tumor is in his mouth, so to encourage him we are feeding him all the people food he wants when we eat.  We figure that any long-term health risks of too much people food are meaningless now, it's better to keep him fed and happy. 
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Post by: jwhouk on 12 Oct 2013, 21:25
Sadly, I had to do that with my other cat the two days prior to us putting her down. :(

In other news: I still love my new kitty. Even if my leg looks like I shower in razor blades.
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Post by: Jace on 12 Oct 2013, 22:41
I'm gonna try to buy a house.
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Post by: Thrillho on 13 Oct 2013, 03:42
Can those photos please  be put in a spoiler so I don't have to scroll for  a year and a half?
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Post by: Patrick on 13 Oct 2013, 12:57
yeah I'm gonna second that request simply because I already have enough tugging on my heartstrings to rewatch that series. I've been waiting to rewatch the film until Camille and I can watch it together when I visit her in a couple weeks.
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Post by: Lines on 13 Oct 2013, 18:40
Kat, super happy about your job and very sorry about your cat. But at least you know and can make him comfortable, because even though it sucks to know you have a time limit, it does kind of make you feel happier because you know they're happier and feeling super loved.



In other news, I spent my weekend in a small town watching two of my best friends get married and it was amazing. They had a short but fun ceremony (like mine and was also outdoors!) followed by a super fun reception with a fantastic 80s cover band and it was by far the best wedding I've ever been to. I actually thought it was better than mine. (We had a shitty sound system and therefore minimal dancing, which I do regret.) They were so happy and it made me happy seeing them having such a fun time. Also it's definitely an interesting experience going to a wedding that I went to with a date! (Excluding mine.) I forced Michael to "dance" with me and it was glorious.
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Post by: Grognard on 14 Oct 2013, 05:08
Federal holiday today.
this means I don't/can't go to work.
-meh-

so now what do I do? 
I really don't want to spend my day doing house chores.
I was hoping for some early AM nookie, but that didnt happen.
Maybe I should go see a movie?

we shall see.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 14 Oct 2013, 05:30
Go watch Gravity.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Oct 2013, 06:49
I might go see Gravity... but movie tickets are insane cost wise right now >.>;
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Post by: Grognard on 14 Oct 2013, 06:58
$14 for 90min movie?  ugh.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 14 Oct 2013, 13:44
I've always wondered about that Veet hair removal cream down there. Works on women's legs, clearly, but I never hear about it being used in the engine room. I'm guessing it's a terrible idea in some way.

DON'T DO IT I ACCIDENTALLY NAIRED MY BALLS ONCE AND IT WAS JUST THREE DAYS OF TWIN PEPTO-BISMOL PINK NUCLEAR ORBS OF PAIN THAT SCREAMED IN FURY AT THE LIGHTEST TOUCH

BUT DAMN WERE THEY SMOOTH
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Post by: Metope on 14 Oct 2013, 14:01
I would not even dare using that stuff on my legs, sounds scary enough as it is. I mean, a cream that makes hair fall off...?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 14 Oct 2013, 14:26
Unicorn, I almost pissed my pants at your last sentence
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Post by: Patrick on 14 Oct 2013, 21:26
so life has been turning itself all kinds of great directions!

1. my friends know I'm trying to go up to WA to visit Camille for Halloween, so they've been especially helpful in keeping eyes peeled for opportunities to play gigs at their work, for friends' parties, city events, etc. so I can earn more money on the side. for that, I'm incredibly grateful, as it's helped me raise over $70 toward the cause. Fuck yes.

2. I've been getting way more hours at work because my boss has been realizing that her choice of person to promote for supervisor (not me) was a huge mistake, because I am way more willing to come in and work extra hours, I'm better with customers, and I'm way more attentive to detail. and the new supervisor has been getting fewer hours because she's lazy, incompetent, and stupid. love it.

3. I'm going to be test-starting a new job on Friday, and I wasn't even actively looking for one. it'll be a $2/hour pay increase, a two or threefold increase in hours, and I'll be working in an auto body repair shop. this could open up into an apprenticeship in auto repair, which is something I have been looking into for a good while now. and since it's auto body, and not mechanical, it's more likely to maintain job stability even once fossil fuels are all good and exhausted.

4. the Boston Bruins are going to be playing an away game at the San Jose Sharks' ice on January 11, 2014, and I am going to be in attendance with Camille, my neighbor Tatiana, and a Person #4 of Tati's choice. Fuck yeah, my two favorite teams at my home ice!

5. Camille just told her friend/old boss (who was promoted to district manager) that she's going to be moving down here after the holidays, and this was a huge step in emotionally preparing for said move. I do feel guilty still over her giving up the life she's spent 2 years making up there, but she made a choice and is sticking with it, and we both just want to be together so badly that neither of us particularly mind going out of our way for each other. I'm grateful, to say the least.

I'm very optimistic and excited for all this stuff to happen. it just needs to hurry up and happen. :3
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Post by: Masterpiece on 14 Oct 2013, 21:44
Thumbs up!


edit: why does this always happen on pagebreaks -__-"
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Post by: Patrick on 14 Oct 2013, 23:29
thanks! and as for visiting Camille, I've just come up with the idea of using a Glasgow accent for as long as possible before her friends figure out we're putting them on. ohhhh man this is gonna be fun as fuck
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Post by: Metope on 15 Oct 2013, 02:05
My boyfriend wanted to introduce me to his friends and pretend I didn't know a word of English and that I was 17. I wish I had the guts.

Don't forget to call everyone 'pal' and 'hen', Patrick.
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Post by: Valdís on 15 Oct 2013, 04:18
Don't forget to call everyone /../ 'hen', Patrick.

Wow. Gender-neutral language is big there, eh? How nice and progressive!

:angel:
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Post by: Metope on 15 Oct 2013, 04:29
Haha, I didn't even think about that! from now on I'll just assume everyone in Scotland who calls me 'hen' is very aware. It's pretty funny in the context of 'ye'd like salt'n vingar on yer chips like, hen?' :p
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Post by: Welu on 15 Oct 2013, 08:17
I had just opened my presentation for tomorrow and then my music program began acting dumb so I had the perfect excuse to procrastinate while fixing it but it's an hour later and now I'm just grumpy.
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Post by: Jace on 15 Oct 2013, 08:56
I prefer the gender neutral 'dogg' and 'doggbro'

Yes. Doggbro is gender neutral.
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Post by: cesium133 on 15 Oct 2013, 11:09
My experiment seems to be finally working and producing data, so yay... Only a week wasted fighting with the laser...
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Post by: jwhouk on 15 Oct 2013, 14:39
Those Ancestry.com commercials which tell you about "all I did was put in my grandma's name, and then POOF! I found 100 different other relatives!" are more than true - they can be downright annoying.

Example: doing some research about my paternal grandma's family, I found information about his wife's mom which almost exploded into half the population of Kiel, Wisconsin.

Okay, okay, I kid - but when you add someone who is only tangentially related to you, and just add parents to be complete - BOOM, you suddenly have a whole bunch of hints that start to make your eyes cross.

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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 15 Oct 2013, 17:04
I just found out that somebody on Facebook has lifted all the blog posts and photos from a girl I went to high school with, and is presenting Holly's triplet pregnancy as her own. She has a blog too, with the posts lifted word-for-word, the only thing changed is the first names. The family is aware and asking people to report the page, but she seems to have lots of supporters who believe it's real. (if you want to report it too, the page is here (https://www.facebook.com/pages/Team-Gaydos-Girls/554321024633969); the real family's blog is here (http://thegaydosgang.blogspot.com/)) It's kinda freaking me out that someone would do that.
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Oct 2013, 17:32
My boyfriend wanted to introduce me to his friends and pretend I didn't know a word of English and that I was 17. I wish I had the guts.

Don't forget to call everyone 'pal' and 'hen', Patrick.

Hahaha, my mama's best friend's a Glaswegian lady, I've known her since I was 9 and I've been listening to the Corries and Runrig for about as long. I totally got this :D
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 15 Oct 2013, 18:30
Bain, either this is way more common than we realize or there is some weird parallel universe shiz going on with you and I right now. A girl I went to high school with has had her instagram photos snatched up and posted on a fake FB page too. :psyduck:

She's an awesome Disney Cosplayer.
 (https://www.facebook.com/michelle.a.moreno?fref=ts)Here's the imposter (https://www.facebook.com/aliceblbonnet?fref=ts).

The really effed up thing is that a large number of people reported her page and FB won't take it down. Seriously....what is the deal with people??
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 15 Oct 2013, 20:41
Welp I'm feeling a little bit crazy now because the FB page and the post that referred me to it are GONE. Hopefully that means they got it taken down... I just cannot fathom why a person would go to such trouble?
Your friend's cosplay photos are awesome, I'm sorry she's having to deal with that.
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Post by: CardinalFang on 16 Oct 2013, 10:27
JEN IS A FAKE?!*

Sorry but it's been years since I got to use that.











*this refers to something that happened years ago in the forum and irc that involved a guy pretending to be a woman named Jen and had used pictures of the real Jen as part of the ruse. IIRC he wasn't being malicious but was just seeking attention. Those old timers who remember will probably correct what I've misremembered.

Sent from my Nexus 7 using Tapatalk 4
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Post by: ev4n on 16 Oct 2013, 11:07
Those Ancestry.com commercials which tell you about "all I did was put in my grandma's name, and then POOF! I found 100 different other relatives!" are more than true - they can be downright annoying.

Considering out family history (home children), I'd be super tempted to try this sometime, see if they know about the connections we only recently found.
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Post by: Carl-E on 16 Oct 2013, 21:59
So my older daughter's driving my '01 Saturn home from work last night, and hears a horrible noise.  The car coasts to a stop, engine dies, middle of a 4 lane road, and there's a trail and growing pool of some kinda fluid under the car. 

I get there just after the police, who are keeping the rare passerby from hitting her (it's very well lit).  They call a tow for me - $100 for a mile and a half to my home  :x - and while we're waiting for the tow truck I walked back along the trail and literally pieced together what happened. 

Ever heard of a differential?  Not the one from calculus... it's the last stage after the transmission and allows the drive wheels to turn at different speeds when going around a curve. 

(http://genesisforums.org/attachments/classifieds/669d1239886483-wtb-rear-differential-open-carrier-open-carrier-example-picture.jpg)

I found the two small gears and about half of the spindle that held them in place.  Along with shards of the transmission case that they blew through in order to escape.  She was going about the speed limit (40 mph ~ 70 kph).  So they were spinning at a pretty good rate when they just ... let go. 

It's been driving fine since I got it, over four years (when I hit the bear, for you old-timers).  No noises, shuddering, slipping, nothing.  Just sudden catastrophic failure. 

I've been working on cars for over 40 years, since I was 10, and have never seen anything like this.  Now we're down a car.  And I need to see if I can find a transmission at the U-pull-it yard. 

Oh, and when my daughter picked me up from the beer store today in the van?  It overheated.  The radiator fan isn't kicking on.  Fortunately, once we got it moving down the road it cooled right back down. 



Ain't nobody got no time for that!
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Post by: jwhouk on 16 Oct 2013, 22:12
Dude. Get a Kickstarter together so you can BUY A BRAND NEW CAR.

Not a "used" car. NEW. Brand Freakin' New.


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Post by: Carl-E on 16 Oct 2013, 22:51
 :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:  No. 

Better things to spend that kind of money on. 

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Post by: Jace on 17 Oct 2013, 00:33
Trying to buy a house is hard. There's one across the street from me for sale for 40k, which would be very reasonable and within my budget, but there's also a 3-unit home a bit down the way in the "better" part of the neighborhood1 for 75k, that's a lot more than the other, but I could very easily rent two of the units to friends (my current flatmate already said he'd be willing to move into one) for an incredibly reasonable price that'd take care of the mortgage+some (but is still probably less than or equal to what they pay now), the only problem would be getting the mortgage in the first place. There's also another place in a wonderful location (a bit further from my current neighborhood but still close enough to not matter much, IMO) that is 70-75k.

Part of me really wants the 3-unit one so I can finally live alone, but not have to worry about paying a ~$600 mortgage payment on my own. If I have to I'll have housemates, but I'd really prefer not to have to deal with sharing space with someone else.


1: I'm getting really tired of people telling me I live in shitty neighborhoods. Seriously really tired, I understand that when I lived in South Buffalo I lived in a kind of sketchy neighborhood. When I moved to a place that people call University Heights, about a 5 minute walk to a university campus I was not in a shitty neighborhood any more. Sure I still lived in Buffalo by the borders, but I was closer to the suburbs than the city. Now I live firmly in the suburbs and people still tell me that I live in a shitty neighborhood. The worst of it comes from my girlfriend, who, while normally nice about things, is crazy dismissive of the fact that I can't afford to live in a place like she does (the upper middle class neighborhood).


Also, Jess started looking for houses that I could buy, I sent her a few in the 40-50k range and she starts looking around on the same site I'm using, she sends back some that cost "a little bit more" and those ones all cost 100k or more! She didn't understand why I was incredulous at the fact that to her, 50-75k was just "a little bit more".
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Post by: ackblom12 on 17 Oct 2013, 00:47
Rochester, New York has that 'shitty neighborhood' reputation with anyone not in the city as well. If you told them you lived in the city they'd get a look on their face like they were considering whether or not you were about to mug them. God forbid you ever invite them to go anywhere in the city.

Fucking suburbanites.
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Post by: Grognard on 17 Oct 2013, 06:35
Dude. Get a Kickstarter together so you can BUY A BRAND NEW CAR.

Not a "used" car. NEW. Brand Freakin' New.

wasted money.  buy the newest  USED car you can afford.
I just bought the wife a 'used' 2013 Grand Caravan.
only 350 miles on it.
difference in price?
37% less than MSRP/original sales price.
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Post by: jwhouk on 17 Oct 2013, 07:37
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:  No. 

Better things to spend that kind of money on.

Like constant repairs on old cars that break down at just the wrong moment?
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 17 Oct 2013, 07:39
... food, rent, maybe ...
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Oct 2013, 07:48
I purchased an older, used car and the repairs are hardly constant.
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Post by: pwhodges on 17 Oct 2013, 08:12
Not all old cars are unreliable (hard to itemise an example of that, I guess); not all new cars are reliable (I've had the engine fall off its mountings at less than six months); not all repairs are good (I've had a sudden catastrophic brake failure, in traffic while driving home from having the brakes fixed).
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Post by: nekowafer on 17 Oct 2013, 12:22
Rochester, New York has that 'shitty neighborhood' reputation with anyone not in the city as well. If you told them you lived in the city they'd get a look on their face like they were considering whether or not you were about to mug them. God forbid you ever invite them to go anywhere in the city.

Fucking suburbanites.

I get similar responses when I tell people I live in Baltimore. Even if I say I'm in the county - north of Baltimore City - they all say that Baltimore is a horrible place blah blah. It's been said on this forum, even. I'm in a rather affluent neighborhood right now and it's still looked down upon.
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Post by: Patrick on 17 Oct 2013, 14:49
you ever have one of those days where the first hour is great and then the rest just goes COMPLETELY TO SHIT? well that's been my day today.

woke up an hour earlier than my alarm, got ready hella lazily, made it to work right on time. clock in, grab my iPod and my sign, go outside and start waving it around. five fucking minutes later a woman's crossing the street with her dog and some shitfuck moron of a driver whooshes by, clips her dog right in the fucking dome (luckily missing owner lady) and speeds off without a fucking care in the world. lady starts freaking out and a sanitation worker nearby walks over and asks how he can help, and I'm just too stunned to fucking think right, so I go inside and clean something, idfk what I even cleaned

so I go inside and talk to my supervisor, who has a history of being a piece of shit, and I tell her what happened and then asked if I can take 5 and have a cigarette. she gets SUPER attitudinal with me and is like "NO you're only working 2 hours and that doesn't entitle you to a smoke break! I NEED YOU OUT ON THE CORNER WHAT ARE YOU THINKING" and I'm like "Oh really? You wanna talk to me that way? Alright well I'm telling the store manager about your SHIT POOR attitude and how you treat your employees" and go back outside to call the store manager.

I call the store manager, tell her what happened, and instead of being at all sympathetic, she just says "Well a mature employee would have talked to her about it and tried to solve the problem" and I replied by informing her that in past disagreements, I've tried that, and was greeted with either no reply or a grumpy muttering of something in Spanish. I also informed her that this has been a last resort, because I hate going over people's heads to solve problems unless I absolutely have to.

whatever, I called the auto body shop and they're gonna have me come in tomorrow for an interview. fuck that fucking shit, I'm over it. peace the fuck out, Round Table, y'all are gonna close down in a year, I'm calling it right now.
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Post by: Jimor on 18 Oct 2013, 06:27
Holy fucking shit! We just had the 2nd shoot for season 2 of my live music TV show, and the result was WAY beyond my expectations. We changed venues from the first season, getting into on of the top clubs in the city with great sound and lighting, then my crew just absolutely rocked with their execution of the camera work and director's call. I ran the TV side audio, which meant I just had to keep an eye on the levels coming from the house's audio feed plus a supplementary room mic we added for ambiance, so I was fairly free during the shoot to watch what was happening on the video monitors, and WOW. Because video is worth a million words, here's a sample I quickly put online to show off.  :-D
I think we not only established the standard to hit in town here, but I'd happily put this up against any live music shoot I've seen anywhere. The only negative is that because we're using the local access station's equipment, it's in standard definition, but other than that... Head in the clouds here, guys!
 :-D  :-D  :-D
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Post by: pwhodges on 18 Oct 2013, 09:02
I bought a CD on Amazon.  To save money, instead of buying the expensive out-of-print Philips pressing, I bought a cheap Russian copy.  It arrived today from Helsinki in Finland; and I am now the proud owner of two (identical) complimentary copies of a newspaper in Finnish about Vienan Karjala...
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Post by: Akima on 18 Oct 2013, 14:16
Is it bad that I would probably not know anything about Vienan Karjala, or indeed Karjala generally or the Kalevala if I had not come to love the music of Sibelius in High School?
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Oct 2013, 23:27
my new job is awesome, I bust my ass and keep busy without even having to think about it, and I almost never talk to people. and the people at work I eventually do come in contact with are definitely my kind of folks. no bullshit, just get it done right the first time and enjoy your weekend. plus, I've got a lot of hours coming my way now. I'm just kinda annoyed this didn't happen sooner.

also, it turns out that the bike ride back to downtown Livermore from work is a fairly straight shot of 5.4 miles, which is close to the total distance I rode from my house to Round Table and back each day. if I were to go straight home from work now, it'd be 8 miles even. I'm going to challenge myself to do this at the end of every shift (except for my Wednesdays, where I'll have to go straight to the bar to work job #2). Google Maps seems to think it'll take me 45 minutes to go straight home from work, but I beat their time by 1/4 (21 minutes as opposed to 28) on the ride I did today. My goal: 33 from work to home. CHALLENGE ACCEPTED.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Oct 2013, 03:35
Glad your new job has worked out, Patrick. I think sometimes you have to do the shitty jobs to really appreciate the good ones!
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Post by: tragic_pizza on 19 Oct 2013, 12:12
I lost my job on Tuesday.

Honestly, it was a matter of time. The owner is incompetent (honestly, not just a dick, but woefully out of his depth); I have been looking for another job for a good month before this happened.

So I am freaking out a little. Seems that I apply for jobs and I am ether shockingly overqualified, embarrassingly under-qualified, or so damn old they won't consider me.

On the plus side, I reinstalled Windows 7, which not only wiped all traces of the former job from the hard drive, it fixed some ongoing issues I had been having. Also, I am writing a book.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 Oct 2013, 15:23
I'm exposing paintings to the public. It's fun and exciting!
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Post by: Welu on 19 Oct 2013, 15:29
I've sort of fallen into making a documentary about a band or possibly just one of the members and may have to drive over 200 miles/320km to film them playing a gig. I've set up mics for bands before, twice, nearly two years ago, in a studio setting not a live setting. This documentary is probably going to be boring too because my tutor is encouraging us to cause find some drama and I don't want to because that's really dickish.
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Post by: Thrillho on 19 Oct 2013, 15:40
You not got a way to to record straight off the desk at the same time?
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Post by: Welu on 19 Oct 2013, 15:44
Maybe? I have no idea about gigs, I rarely go to them, never mind help with the production.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Thrillho on 19 Oct 2013, 15:51
It slightly relies on having a nice soundman (HA! Like those exist these days) but there will be an output on the desk that will let you just record everything going into it. You'd still want your mics for the ambient room noise as well.
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Post by: Welu on 19 Oct 2013, 16:03
Thanks for the advice. I'll know more this week and have a couple people with experience to ask questions to, plus I'm working with another person, so I don't think it'll be too bad. I went from wanting to do a documentary about cute pets and to something I have no clue about so it's jarring.
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Post by: Jimor on 19 Oct 2013, 20:49
Welu, I can definitely give advice on shooting live music! A lot of it depends on what equipment you have available of course, and also some details about the venue. Best option as mentioned is a feed from the sound board plus an ambient room mic. If I only had one to choose from (and this is my usual situation), I'd go with ambient over board, because then you're hearing what the audience is hearing.

Board only, particularly in small venues, has the drawback that the mix is tailored to simply add what's needed over the load on-stage audio. So drums and amps only get a small boost, while vocals and acoustic guitars are cranked to max. Here's a really good example of that (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkEMuigZBKw) from a professional production crew that should have known better. The electric guitar is barely noticeable, and the drums don't seem to get into the mix until almost the middle of the song.

My clip above is an example of both, plus the sound engineer giving us a separate mix to avoid the above problem, so the best overall situation, but even with an unbalanced board mix, the room mic will bring enough of the other stuff into it where it feels more natural.

However, most of the time, I'm just shooting a gig with my camcorder with a directional mic mounted to the top that's pointed at the stage/PA from about a third or halfway back in the room. Onboard camera mics are nearly useless because they're typically omnidirectional so get far too much ambient noise like talking or bar clatter, and massive amounts of room reverb that makes everything muddy.

To me, the raw sound from my own setup is still inadequate, but I do a couple of things in post processing that helps. First, I add a bit of compression to the audio, currently a 2.5:1 ratio just to "tighten up" the overall sound. Then I add 2 parametric EQ notches. The first at around 300 Hz and -4dB to lessen the impact of room resonance, and then a second at around 3000 Hz and +3dB that enhances the vocal range and gives a little shine and punch to things like acoustic guitars and cymbals. Here's an example from the same club (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RIYFyQO3wFw) using those techniques.

If you want to go into all of this in more detail, feel free to PM me, or we can make a thread in MAKE or MUSIC so that other people can add their ideas and we'll have a nice guide for anybody else interested in shooting live music.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Oct 2013, 00:40
Iiiiiiiiiiiiit's half marathon day! My road is eerily empty but I'm a bit concerned by the fact that the first runners set off in just over an hour (the elite wheelchairs followed by the elite men and women, I'm in the slow group leaving more than an hour after that) and there aren't any barriers or marshals or basically anything. And this road is part of the route! It's about mile 6 though, or maybe 7, so perhaps they're not here yet?
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Post by: pwhodges on 20 Oct 2013, 02:06
I now have a second great-grandson - Reuben.
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Post by: Metope on 20 Oct 2013, 04:00
Aww, congrats! That's great! And good luck May!
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Post by: Aimless on 20 Oct 2013, 04:53
When I was a little boy, I really wanted to be a pilot. As dreams go, it wasn't a lasting or particularly important one, but, every once in a while, it comes back to haunt me and I think, "Man it'd be nice to be able to fly." I'm near-sighted, have astigmatism, am afraid of heights and of going too fast, and I have recently become reacquainted with the motion-sickness that used to plague me as a child.

Yesterday a colleague and his gf took me and the missus up in a tiny plane for a short flight over the coastline and it was SO NICE. You could really feel everything, really feel like you were high up in the sky surrounded by nothing but a great deal of space, feel the effect of the wind etc. We stayed somewhere around 2000ft, and maybe around 115mph on average. I got a little woozy towards the end but other than that it was very lovely :) there wasn't too much turbulence, and what little there was was manageable. No advanced maneuvers thankfully :o We got to help get the plane in order and then put it away, learned a few very basic things about taking off and landing and aircraft maintenance, and the missus got to steer the plane for a little while.

I feel like we don't try out new things nearly as often as we'd really like. Think it might be time to go through the many vouchers we've gotten over the past year for various fun "experiences"
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Oct 2013, 09:12
Look into taking flight lessons Aimless. Seriously. As an airman I'd be happy to welcome you to the club.

(http://www.medalsofamerica.com/ItemImages/Large/b256_hdr.jpg)

Word of warning though, once you get your wings, there's no going back!
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Post by: Metope on 20 Oct 2013, 10:07
Speaking of planes, the airline I usually fly between Norway and Scotland are having a 'super sale', so I was kicking myself for getting tickets for January already, but then I went and looked and apparently the 'super sale' tickets are more expensive than the ones I got. Yeaahhh saving money!
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Post by: Thrillho on 20 Oct 2013, 10:19
nsigbsaoigbsaiogbsaiogbsiabg

Arranged weeks ago to go to a gig with (long distance) girlfriend on the 15th of next month. Today is her birthday and her family surprises her with the fact that they're now going on holiday that weekend.

This is EXACTLY FUCKING WHY she doesn't like surprises. You'd think her family would know that by now. FUCK
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Post by: Jace on 20 Oct 2013, 12:54
Surprises are great when you're a kid but infinitely shitty once you have responsibilities and plan ahead for shit
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Post by: Thrillho on 20 Oct 2013, 12:59
Exactly.

While I'm ranting about planning and responsibilities, my brother-in-law refuses to plan for Christmas until it is already December. For someone like me who needs to arrange shit like time off work in advance, this is incessantly fucking annoying. I got places to be and things to do.
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Post by: cesium133 on 20 Oct 2013, 13:02
I couldn't imagine waiting until December to start planning... I fly home for Christmas, and plane tickets get more expensive when you get that close to Christmas.
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Post by: Welu on 20 Oct 2013, 13:53
Welu, I can definitely give advice on shooting live music!

Thanks a lot for the help! Fortunately I've got access to quite a bit of equipment that I can rent from the college. A thread would be good because until I find out more I won't know what to ask in a PM and I feel that would be frustrating to answer.

~~

My Mammy was telling me my great aunt almost got burgled. She lives in a bungalow in a very isolated area, her next neighbour is like five miles away and it's a ten minute drive to the nearest town.
She had just left her bedroom and a man broke her bedroom window. She went back in to see and he was on the outside the window and grabbed her by the neck. She poked him in the eyes and hit the panic button in her room. Police took twenty-five minutes to get there and the guy was long gone by then. Scary as hell but well done to great aunt for having the presence of mind to get herself free.
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Post by: Thrillho on 20 Oct 2013, 14:13
I've been thinking of getting a tattoo for ages. I think I wanna get one. So fuck it, I'm gonna go for it.
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Post by: Metope on 20 Oct 2013, 16:25
So my flatmate is throwing a Russian themed party tomorrow and wants everyone to dress up as something Russian. In the thread on fb everyone are discussing what to wear and it seems people are thinking of sort of standard Russian culture, so my other flatmate and I have decided to not tell anyone what we're doing and then turn up as Pussy Riot. I have tons of bright clothes so it's not like I even need make an effort, should be pretty fun.
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Post by: LTK on 20 Oct 2013, 17:50
(http://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/barney-yes.gif)
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Post by: Carl-E on 20 Oct 2013, 20:27
My first thought was to dress as a balalaika. 

 :? :roll: :laugh: :psyduck:
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Post by: jwhouk on 20 Oct 2013, 21:41
Carl, I think you and I are the only ones who would then start singing, "Come on keep your comrade warm..."
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Post by: Akima on 21 Oct 2013, 02:15
This morning in Sydney, the city air was thick with smoke from the bushfires burning out West (http://www.smh.com.au/environment/weather/nsw-bushfires-pollution-levels-soar-50fold-20131021-2vvyw.html).  :-(
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Post by: GarandMarine on 21 Oct 2013, 04:32
My first thought was to dress as a balalaika. 

 :? :roll: :laugh: :psyduck:

Ms. Balalaika of Hotel Moscow:
(http://cassland.org/images/QC/2007-09-26-72874.jpeg)

I dunno Carl, I bet you could rock the heels and skirt with some practice.


Sorry to hear about the fires Akima... I know first hand that's never fun.

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Edit: Let's try this one!

Still won't hotlink; but I've rehosted it for you
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Post by: Carl-E on 21 Oct 2013, 07:38
My first thought was to dress as a balalaika. 

 :? :roll: :laugh: :psyduck:

Ms. Balalaika of Hotel Moscow:
(http://cassland.org/images/QC/2007-09-26-72874.jpeg)

I dunno Carl, I bet you could rock the heels and skirt with some practice.

I was thinking more of one of these;

(http://www.get-tuned.com/images/balalaika.jpg)

If you're skinny enough and can get a really wide flaring skirt, it could work...   :laugh: :laugh: :angel:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Oct 2013, 08:25
I runned and I runned and I runned and I stopped running after 2 hours and 35 minutes and 32 seconds and now my legs hurt.
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Post by: Carl-E on 21 Oct 2013, 08:27
I stopped running after 2 hours and 35 minutes and 32 seconds and now my legs hurt.

I'm assuming that's a finish, not just a stopped running time. 

So YAY MAY!!

The legs wiill recover.  Until the next time you do something to them. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Oct 2013, 08:28
Yes, that was my finish time :) I ran every step, and I beat my (what I thought was overly optimistic) goal time by 10 minutes! I was really pleased.

Unfortunately I really enjoyed it, so my legs might have to do the whole thing again in a few months.
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Post by: LTK on 21 Oct 2013, 08:37
I runned and I runned and I runned and I stopped running after 2 hours and 35 minutes and 32 seconds and now my legs hurt.
I think all the running may have deprived your brain of oxygen to the point that it can't do grammar any more.  :lol:
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Post by: Metope on 21 Oct 2013, 09:17
so my other flatmate and I have decided to not tell anyone what we're doing and then turn up as Pussy Riot

PARTY TIME

(http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5545/10405827953_39692527b0.jpg)
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Post by: pwhodges on 21 Oct 2013, 09:31
Is it weird that I can still recognise you in that?
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Post by: Metope on 21 Oct 2013, 09:35
Oh no, my cover is blown!
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Post by: Thrillho on 21 Oct 2013, 09:35
so my other flatmate and I have decided to not tell anyone what we're doing and then turn up as Pussy Riot

PARTY TIME

(http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5545/10405827953_39692527b0.jpg)

...I love this so hard
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Post by: Metope on 21 Oct 2013, 09:53
Haha thanks! I'll wear it with a yellow top under a red dress and purple tights, my flatmate has a pink hat, green dress and blue tights. I think we've covered most of the bright colours.
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Post by: Grognard on 21 Oct 2013, 10:11
so my other flatmate and I have decided to not tell anyone what we're doing and then turn up as Pussy Riot

PARTY TIME

(http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5545/10405827953_39692527b0.jpg)

FUUCK!
dont DO that!
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Post by: LTK on 21 Oct 2013, 14:04
Haha thanks! I'll wear it with a yellow top under a red dress and purple tights, my flatmate has a pink hat, green dress and blue tights. I think we've covered most of the bright colours.
Suddenly I'm reminded of the movie Spring Breakers.
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Post by: Thrillho on 21 Oct 2013, 14:19
I would rather not be reminded of Harmony Korine at all.
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Post by: Jace on 21 Oct 2013, 14:30
so my other flatmate and I have decided to not tell anyone what we're doing and then turn up as Pussy Riot

PARTY TIME

(http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5545/10405827953_39692527b0.jpg)

FUUCK!
dont DO that!

Do that more.
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Post by: Akima on 21 Oct 2013, 14:32
I runned and I runned and I runned and I stopped running after 2 hours and 35 minutes and 32 seconds and now my legs hurt.
Yay! Go Team Legs!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Oct 2013, 23:34
I actually went for another run last night. Only about a 20 minute one though.
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Post by: Patrick on 21 Oct 2013, 23:45
I lost my job on Tuesday.

On the plus side... I am writing a book.

I am sorry for one of these things, and pleased to hear of the other. When do I get to find out more?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 Oct 2013, 05:27
The department at University where I work is being evaluated by an external firm, and I have to present my workplace to said evaluators.

I am scared as hell. Depending on my performance, my departments budget might be adjusted.

PANICKING
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Post by: LeeC on 22 Oct 2013, 06:02
Saw coheed and cambria last night and got a 2 hour nap before having to come in for a 10 hour shift. My throat hurts, and for a job that requires me to talk a lot that aint good.
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Post by: tragic_pizza on 22 Oct 2013, 21:55
I am sorry for one of these things, and pleased to hear of the other. When do I get to find out more?
Well,  about a third to a half done with the first draft... it is probably gonna be crap, but I am soldiering through.

Also, I seem to have a part-time job lined up in a local grocery store's deli department.

Because food.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Oct 2013, 02:00
We're having a guest lecture in the lesson that I have to film, and apparently my professor finds it so boring that he's fighting sleep. I can totally emphasize. I do that fight with my eyelids on a regular basis. I'm a bit sorry for the lecturer, he must feel a bit stupid seeing the Prof in front of him fight to keep his eyes open.

and I'm trying so hard not to laugh out loud right now.
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Post by: pwhodges on 23 Oct 2013, 03:41
Saw Hamlet last night :)

Rory Kinnear (http://ntlive.nationaltheatre.org.uk/productions/15342-hamlet) was amazing, as was the production as a whole.  Taking a cue from the consideration that Elizabethan society was essentially a police state, the setting was generically East European in style, with informers slinking around, electronic bugs and headphones, and King Claudius clearly modelled after (and looking much like) Putin.  On top of this, the production, and Kinnear's performance in particular, brought out humour that you would never have thought was there.
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Post by: nekowafer on 23 Oct 2013, 05:38
I can totally emphasize.

Empathize.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Oct 2013, 06:05
Empathize
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Post by: GarandMarine on 23 Oct 2013, 06:24
On this day, 23 October, 1983, 25 years ago on a cold morning in a land far from home, 220 Marines of 1st Battalion, 8th Marines (1/8) and 18 attached sailors, and 3 soldiers, and 58 Paratroopers of the French 1st Paratrooper Chasseur Regiment were killed in twin suicide bombings in Beiruit, Lebanon, firing the opening shots of the long war on terrorism.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Oct 2013, 06:28
(Empathise :-P)
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Post by: nekowafer on 23 Oct 2013, 06:43
Crazy British people!
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Post by: cesium133 on 23 Oct 2013, 06:45
Every time I see 'meter' spelled as 'metre', I mentally pronounce it 'metruh.'  :roll:
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Post by: nekowafer on 23 Oct 2013, 07:04
Yeah I do that with anything that ends in "re". But I pronounce a lot of things strangely in my head.
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Post by: pwhodges on 23 Oct 2013, 08:04
Not all "-re" endings go to "-er" in America; consider "filthy lucre" (because the "-c-" would become soft).
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Post by: Grognard on 23 Oct 2013, 11:03
On this day, 23 October, 1983, 25 years ago on a cold morning in a land far from home, 220 Marines of 1st Battalion, 8th Marines (1/8) and 18 attached sailors, and 3 soldiers, and 58 Paratroopers of the French 1st Paratrooper Chasseur Regiment were killed in twin suicide bombings in Beiruit, Lebanon, firing the opening shots of the long war on terrorism.

excuse me sir.
It was 30 years ago.
my brother was there and survived.
his best friend did not.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 23 Oct 2013, 12:21
You're absolutely correct. How the hell did I do that?

I am also ashamed to admit I forgot the names of the two Marines guarding the gate that morning. They're taught as examples of courage in boot because in the face of certain death, with the ability to retreat and run, they stood their ground, engaged the enemy, and died, face forward, weapons firing, boots on and on the bounce. A Marine can't ask for much more then that in life.
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Post by: Metope on 23 Oct 2013, 15:35
My phone shows me a random selection of upcoming birthdays that it picks from Facebook, and right now it's showing the birthday of someone I deleted both on Facebook and from my contacts about two years ago. What on earth?
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 23 Oct 2013, 15:50
So I find myself yet again in the strange position of writing a letter to my BDSM/kink community leaders, who have invited my input on a case of misconduct and abuse, the second such we have dealt with this year and the second time I have been consulted for such in this sphere.

As an aside, I still find it strange, the amount of consultation, arbitrage, counseling, and other pastoral work I've been called on or asked to do. It is a small amount, make no mistake, but every time a part of me is going "Uh...I spent much of yesterday sitting around in my underwear playing games and reading, you *surely* want someone more responsible for this." I suppose it gets less odd with time.

Anyway...while I won't go into the particulars here, I do also find myself in a rather strange position of asking not for mercy, but for cruelty: a more stringent punishment for the perpetrator than what I seem to perceive people asking for. Maybe I'm just being contrary; the last case I asked the judges for mercy, partially since it seemed so many people were picking up torches and pitchforks. Now that there is a call to be gentle, I ask for temporary banishment; then again, the man on charges this time is an event leader, and I am fairly certain (as per World Domination/God-Empress conversations) that responsibility and privilege tends to harden my heart.

At any rate, whatever we do so far what *has* been done has been much better handled than I feared it would be, and the victims' needs are more important than any opinion I'm going to have. I will argue that the (figurative) State has a vested interest, though.

The department at University where I work is being evaluated by an external firm, and I have to present my workplace to said evaluators.

I am scared as hell. Depending on my performance, my departments budget might be adjusted.

PANICKING

You will do well. You will be fine. Even if they do decide on an adjustment, you will be okay.
 This does not ride on your shoulders alone. You will give it an honest effort, and that is much of what anyone could possibly ask of you.I know that those are just words on a screen, from a person that is far away, but I hope that you may find some use for them in calming the Panic.
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 23 Oct 2013, 19:53
Opinion stated. There is some pushback, but it is smart that my voice is not the only one, that it is not accepted without question or objection.

I think they're mistaken, but then again I suspect they think I am. Still, I am assured that the survivors (it has been pointed out to me that that is probably a better word than victim) are indeed having the most direct say. Good.
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Post by: Lines on 23 Oct 2013, 20:16
Two of my best friends are moving to North Carolina in a couple of weeks. I am super sad. Didn't feel this way when my bestie moved to Illinois, but I knew that she would eventually come back. I don't think I'll ever live in the same state as these two ever again. T-T

Being an adult and relocating for jobs sucks.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Oct 2013, 23:26
i've moved into town proper, living in a trailer w/my slave and their girlfriend. uh, accidentally became a pagan, also exorcised a ghost from my room.

life's been weird.
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 24 Oct 2013, 01:35
I would offer you both one electronic hug, redeemable at just about any time Naes are available.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 24 Oct 2013, 02:24
How does one accidentally become a pagan?
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Post by: snalin on 24 Oct 2013, 04:27
You get high and fuck someone, and realise afterwards that the drugs and sex was both a part of an initiation ritual. Happens all the time.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 24 Oct 2013, 04:49
Happens all the time really, it's how I briefly became Wiccan. That coven or whatever was... odd, to say the least.
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 24 Oct 2013, 06:56
Also you can't forget the shenanigans that tend to crop up when you remember that there's always a chance the god/spirit/whatever you're interacting with/for is just Loki in disguise.  :evil:
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Post by: ankhtahr on 24 Oct 2013, 07:08
As someone who at least feels drawn to a neopaganistic religion (namely Ásatrú/Forn Siðr), I don't know how to accidentaly become pagan.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 24 Oct 2013, 07:24
In all reality as someone who became Odinist without any form of outside help or influence... I dunno if it's really possible to join a religion or faith "accidentally". Faith is a concious choice. I doubt Unicorn was being serious though.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Oct 2013, 13:06
I don't know, I was fairly resistant to the idea of becoming religious. Kind of like I was rather resistant to starting running. It just didn't turn out to be an option.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Oct 2013, 13:34
In all reality as someone who became Odinist without any form of outside help or influence... I dunno if it's really possible to join a religion or faith "accidentally". Faith is a concious choice. I doubt Unicorn was being serious though.

mind your assvmptions. ignorance doesn't become anyone, mvch less you.

How does one accidentally become a pagan?

tvrns out a lot of the spiritual soul-searching i've been doing/the ideas i've come to believe are trve/the path i am on/have been on match fairly closely to what i've been reading about paganism, particvlarly among Hecate worshipers. i ended vp reading a lot about her and feeling a lot resonance - a lot of "oh, this feels right" - and did an invocation to Her a few nights ago. it was incredibly draining and i ended vp passing out on the floor right where i was immediately afterwards.

the next day i found a dead squirrel that had jvst died outside. perfectly composed, still warm.

it's now in my freezer, awaiting the division of its fur from its skin and its bones from its flesh. it's going to be one of the first things to go on the altar i've not yet set up (my room is still being cre8ed - whoever did it pvt vp drywall, screwed in half of it, dvct-taped it together, and then painted over it. this will not do).

Also you can't forget the shenanigans that tend to crop up when you remember that there's always a chance the god/spirit/whatever you're interacting with/for is just Loki in disguise.  :evil:

i think more likely than not it's often a spirit masquerading as loki. at least, that's what i've come to vnderstand from what i've read on discernment from a lokean elder.
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Post by: Grognard on 24 Oct 2013, 13:41
your'e not even going to eat the squirrel?

I'll have you know I made a 2000 mile shot in the dead of night with a hungarian NVG mounted on a .37 caliber Turkish cane gun firing hypersonic sabot discarding .005 flechette ammunitions; just to provide you with some sustenance.  My claim can be verified by the iLluminati and was umpired by the local Jusuit committee.


;)  somebody help me catch my marbles... theyve gotten away again.  :D
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Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Oct 2013, 14:23
i haven't decided what to do with the meat yet, to be honest. i don't want to throw it out - waste not, want not - but i'm vnsvre what to do with it as of yet. no matter, this is a project for after i'm finished renov8ing my room.

i'd like to eat it bvt i'm an awfvl cook and i'm p. svre my roomm8 would object to eating roadkill.
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Post by: Metope on 24 Oct 2013, 14:45
I don't know, I was fairly resistant to the idea of becoming religious. Kind of like I was rather resistant to starting running. It just didn't turn out to be an option.

Yeah I don't really believe faith is a choice. I believe you get influenced by things around you, even if you don't necessarily believe in the same thing as the people around you. Most of my family is Christian, but I'm not, and I don't think I chose not to believe. Growing up Christian, atheism was more of a realisation than a proactive choice, I didn't really want to be an atheist until I found myself being one. You believe in what makes sense to you.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Oct 2013, 14:52
You believe in what makes sense to you.

this, exactly. i find a lot in this that makes sense to me on a v. visceral level.
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Post by: Loki on 25 Oct 2013, 01:20
So my flatmate is throwing a Russian themed party tomorrow and wants everyone to dress up as something Russian. In the thread on fb everyone are discussing what to wear and it seems people are thinking of sort of standard Russian culture, so my other flatmate and I have decided to not tell anyone what we're doing and then turn up as Pussy Riot. I have tons of bright clothes so it's not like I even need make an effort, should be pretty fun.

Confession: Because of that topic I just spent two minutes or so practicing my Russian accent aloud.

Thankfully the laundromat is otherwise empty :-D

 
Also you can't forget the shenanigans that tend to crop up when you remember that there's always a chance the god/spirit/whatever you're interacting with/for is just Loki in disguise.  :evil:
Hey now. I think I'd remember that.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 Oct 2013, 04:50
It was possibly one of the more hilarious parts of my brief time in college that I convinced a few of my classmates I was a Russian exchange student from Valdivostock. (Step one, get shorts, and a t-shirt, step two, wait for it to be stupid cold out, step three, Sean Connery grade Russian accent, step four, let them come to you)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 25 Oct 2013, 05:55
I don't know, I was fairly resistant to the idea of becoming religious. Kind of like I was rather resistant to starting running. It just didn't turn out to be an option.

Yeah I don't really believe faith is a choice. I believe you get influenced by things around you, even if you don't necessarily believe in the same thing as the people around you. Most of my family is Christian, but I'm not, and I don't think I chose not to believe. Growing up Christian, atheism was more of a realisation than a proactive choice, I didn't really want to be an atheist until I found myself being one. You believe in what makes sense to you.

I feel this way too. I grew up doing all of the religious Christian things- church every Sunday, helping out with the after-church luncheons, being part of youth group and choir- even going on a few trips with the church (to Tennessee of all places!). I was really into it. Then I just kind of....fell out of it. A few things happened that I'm sure didn't help the situation. Two of my grandparents died within 2 months of each other. I was also 13 and just starting to get angry with the world. I felt like I had been lied to about how prayer helps people....or like I was being punished. Then, the ministers I loved left our church to go to one in a wealthier area. I had just about enough and gave up.

Now....I still don't feel the pull to the church that I did when I was younger. If anything, I gravitate more towards Buddhist concepts and ideals. Not to mention that I feel more alive and more spiritually connected to the world after a session of yoga. It's not something that takes precedence in my life right now, but if I were to travel a spiritual path as an adult, it would probably lead me there.
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Post by: Thrillho on 25 Oct 2013, 06:37
We can't choose what we believe any more than we can choose our sexualities.

Shit, I wish I could choose what I did and didn't believe. Would make some things a lot easier.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 Oct 2013, 07:21
I can't agree with that concept at all, but this is not the place to have this debate.
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Post by: Metope on 25 Oct 2013, 07:23
You could start a thread in Discuss where you explain what your thoughts are if you want, I'd be interested in hearing a different view at least.
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Post by: jwhouk on 25 Oct 2013, 07:50
Sounds more like a nature/nurture debate.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Oct 2013, 07:53
Not really - I was raised staunchly atheist.
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Post by: Metope on 25 Oct 2013, 07:56
Okay I made a thread about it in Discuss, if anyone's interested.
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Post by: Grognard on 25 Oct 2013, 08:19
I updated my faux-blog yesterday & got a weird email about it today.

a complaint that I don't update enough or on schedule.

? really ?
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 25 Oct 2013, 09:31
I have been travelling now for a little under 40 hours. That's from when I left my flat in Sydney and finally got to the hotel in Vienna about an hour ago.

The flights were OK. I fly well but it was three flights, nine hours, twelve hours and two hours with a total of 10 hours waiting in airports. When I got in to Vienna I caught a train into the city from the airport and just kind of wandered around for a bit. I feel slightly stupid though because I barely speak any German so I'm not sure how I'm going to manage to exist here for two weeks. I got myself a prepaid sim card for my phone so I can use data and stuff while I'm here. Mainly so I can jump on twitter and send photos to my housemate on snapchat. For some reason though the mobile data doesn't seem to be working at all which is sort of annoying since that was literally the only thing I got it for.

When I got to the hotel it turned out my booking had been cancelled because of a problem with my credit card. Apparently it had been cancelled the day the booking was made and yet I was never notified of this. I was really, really lucky that I was still able to get a room for the time I'll be here (two weeks, the hotel...desk....lady said they never get bookings for more than a few days) but it ended up costing me an extra 50 euros. Sigh. Expedia will be getting a pretty stern email from me once I feel up to actually writing it. I am sort of regretting coming here by myself. I mean, I am kind of glad to have some space for myself for a while but I don't have anyone to talk to, really. It's not even been one day though.

Holidays!
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Post by: Metope on 25 Oct 2013, 09:34
Exciting! And I thought my trips to Seattle were long, they're mere 12 hours, although once last time it was 20... Still nothing compared to 40 though, that's just nuts. Anyway, don't worry about language problems, most people in major European cities speak fluent English, especially in the west of Europe.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Oct 2013, 10:13
i think it's a little redvctionist to say faith isn't a choice - it is, to an extent, what you were raised to believe, what you do believe, what you want to believe, what you're expected to believe, etc., etc. all having their own inflvences. i was an atheist for a long time, and i didn't believe in magic, bvt that changed once i started down that path. i've had enough proof for me to say 'okay, this is real.'

i'm getting svper tired of cleaning vp my room. whoever did i pvt vp the drywall, screwed in half of it, dvct taped the walls and ceilings together (instead of filling in the cracks w/drywall mvd), and painted over it.

so i'm the one fixing it. vghhhhhhhh. i still don't have a bed, which was kind of the one big thing i was hoping to get once i stopped being, y'know, homeless. instead i'm fixing vp YET ANOTHER room. move 48, starting out jvst like all the others.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 25 Oct 2013, 11:14
Does your faith have anything to do with you refusing to use your "u" key?

Also, yeah I know it's silly but I think because I come from such a massively racist country, I feel extremely embarrassed to not be able to speak some German. On the other hand I just walked to a restaurant and on the way someone stopped me and asked for directions and all I could do was blink stupidly at them and in a small voice say "I have no idea what you just said." Then they asked me again in English! And I was able to help!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 Oct 2013, 11:16
I find in forgein nations if you speak enough of the local lingo to apologize for not really speaking the language they usually give you a pass.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 25 Oct 2013, 11:20
Yeah, Guangzhou airport was significantly less intimidating because I can excuse myself for being shit at Mandarin and ask people to speak slowly pretty well. At least with German I can kind of sort of figure things out based on context and it being very similar to english in a lot of places.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Oct 2013, 11:45
Does your faith have anything to do with you refusing to use your "u" key?

nah, that's jvst being bored/easily entertained
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Post by: cesium133 on 25 Oct 2013, 12:06
I find in forgein nations if you speak enough of the local lingo to apologize for not really speaking the language they usually give you a pass.
Desculpe, eu so falo um pouco de português.
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Post by: Welu on 25 Oct 2013, 13:40
So I've come to the realisation that I am non-binary, possibly genderfluid? Labels are hard.  :psyduck: I've been thinking and feeling things about my gender for several months now but the lightbulb has only recently blipped for me. The only thing I can really say for sure-ish is that I'd appreciate "they/their/them" pronouns.

I've told my partner and so far everything has been cool. They've just been kinda, "I find this confusing but I'll do everything I can to make you comfortable and happy and I still love you." So, so far so good.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 25 Oct 2013, 13:43
Now the accidental bit makes sense, thanks for explaining. Enjoy your religion.

That souns weird ... Still, enjoy.
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Post by: Metope on 25 Oct 2013, 18:09
About foreign languages, in western Europe it's totally okay to not speak the native language. I worked at a cafe in Norway, and I'd rather have someone just speak to me in English, which we both understand, than them trying to explain something in broken Norwegian that neither of us understands. Everyone who is a native English speaker feels bad about not knowing the native language for some reason, but there is nothing wrong about not knowing it. How on earth are you going to know the languages of every country you visit?

I find this is a bigger issue with Northern Americans and Australians because most people speak English natively where they're from, but in Europe it would just be terribly inefficient if we were all going to be 'polite' and know each others languages, there are just to many. Rule of thumb: if you're visiting a country, don't bother learning the language, but if you're moving there you should make an effort. So yeah, as a guest: please speak English, it's better for everyone :)
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Post by: Metope on 25 Oct 2013, 18:21
In other news: One of my favourite musicians in the world for like 7 years just sent me a link to his band's new music video that isn't released yet because he wants my opinion of it, how did it come to this and why does he care what I think and how does he even know who I am :psyduck:

(It's Shearwater, and their cover of a Xiu Xiu song, they're making an album with cover songs of bands they're toured with and aaahhhhh)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 Oct 2013, 18:41
About foreign languages, in western Europe it's totally okay to not speak the native language. I worked at a cafe in Norway, and I'd rather have someone just speak to me in English, which we both understand, than them trying to explain something in broken Norwegian that neither of us understands. Everyone who is a native English speaker feels bad about not knowing the native language for some reason, but there is nothing wrong about not knowing it. How on earth are you going to know the languages of every country you visit?

I find this is a bigger issue with Northern Americans and Australians because most people speak English natively where they're from, but in Europe it would just be terribly inefficient if we were all going to be 'polite' and know each others languages, there are just to many. Rule of thumb: if you're visiting a country, don't bother learning the language, but if you're moving there you should make an effort. So yeah, as a guest: please speak English, it's better for everyone :)

Most of my travel has been to Non-European countries and I find this /really/ doesn't work there. English is a common enough trade language and almost mandatory second language in Europe that you have a good chance that whoever you're talking to at least has a smattering of it and you can make yourself understood. Outside of that... say Japan, if you aren't going on a guided tour, you need to get basic survival grade Japanese down before your trip.

Survival Grade Linguistics: Enough of any given language to communicate that you understand and speak a little of the local language, ask for directions*, apologize, order a meal (and understand what it is you're getting, you only need to be brought a goat's eyeball for desert once to learn what that is in Arabic) request emergency help whether police or EMS and the ever important finding the head, and maybe some basic conversation.... fluidly. Preferably from memory.

A great example of a "survival grade" phrase book is this one http://www.amazon.com/Survival-Japanese-Communicate-Without-Instantly/dp/0804833680 which really saved my ass preparing for Tokyo, and several of my former colleagues swear by.

*Specifically what you're trying to find. For example "Eki wa doko desu ka?" (Where's the train station?) is a good question, but doesn't help when there can be three two or three metro subway lines nearby as well as the Japan Rail station you're ACTUALLY looking for. So more accurately and more politely "Soumimasen, JR eki wa doko desu ka?" "(Excuse me, where's the JR rail station?"). The real trouble can be understanding directions, but there's lots of signage in most of metropolitan Japan, so usually if you are lost, literally just getting pointed in the right direction will get you back on track in short order.
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Post by: Metope on 25 Oct 2013, 18:48
That makes sense, not everywhere in the world is like this of course. But since Jimmy is in Vienna and I specifically said western Europe, that's totally how it works there. Basically I was just telling Jimmy, or anyone visiting western Europe, to not feel bad.

Also when I was in Italy, the funniest thing we witnessed was an American man trying to impress his girlfriend by loudly proclaiming "GRACIAS" when he got his beer in the most American accent I've ever heard. First: "Gracias" is Spanish, not Italian, and second: If you're gonna try, try harder.
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Post by: Loki on 25 Oct 2013, 18:52
Labels are hard.  :psyduck:

That's why I prefer to screw around without them.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 Oct 2013, 18:58
That makes sense, not everywhere in the world is like this of course. But since Jimmy is in Vienna and I specifically said western Europe, that's totally how it works there. Basically I was just telling Jimmy, or anyone visiting western Europe, to not feel bad.

Also when I was in Italy, the funniest thing we witnessed was an American man trying to impress his girlfriend by loudly proclaiming "GRACIAS" when he got his beer in the most American accent I've ever heard. First: "Gracias" is Spanish, not Italian, and second: If you're gonna try, try harder.

That's fair, I took it as general travel advice  :psyduck:

Also your poor American tourist's Italian can't be that bad. Or at least it can ALWAYS be worse:
 
Even I know it's "Grazie" (GRAHT-see+eh) jeez I dunno if that guy was American, most Americans have AT LEAST been to an Olive Garden.  :psyduck:

Then again... I found a Japanese restaurant menu in the United States that was teaching "Moshi Moshi" as "Hello" so who knows where that dude's picking stuff up.

I will now share with you all the five most important words you can learn in any language. They must follow each other in use (per that language's sentence structure). (Note these words are dangerous in some nations)

Two beers please... thank you
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Post by: Metope on 25 Oct 2013, 19:20
He was definitely American, my friends and I heard him speak and there's no mistaking American accents in Europe. It's weird how much they stick out, but then again I did bump into an English friend of mine while in Seattle, and his London accent really stuck out there as well. I guess that's just what happens when you're a bit different.

And don't get me started on Olive Garden, my boyfriend took me on a 'fancy' date there as a joke (seriously, he was cackling to himself for the entire drive there), and wow. I got everything from too much cheese, over-friendly waitress, AND the dude at the table next to us was showing a majestic, hairy ass-crack.  :-P
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 Oct 2013, 19:24
Ahhhh yes. Olive Garden, patron home of fine "Italian-ish" dining.

That said their unlimited salad and bread sticks kicks ASS! Even if it makes me want to die afterwards from all the carbohydrates.
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Post by: Metope on 25 Oct 2013, 19:26
I think I stole like six bread sticks from that place...
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Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Oct 2013, 19:45
Labels are hard.  :psyduck:

That's why I prefer to screw around without them.

must be nice to be able to do that
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 25 Oct 2013, 21:29
Even managing "please" and "thank you" in the local language is a token of respect.

One waiter in Iceland, when I said "that was good" in Icelandic, beamed as if I had just handed him his firstborn baby.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 26 Oct 2013, 05:02
Learning local linguistics also really opens you up to new places to go, I for example when I go any where try to find back alley restaurants and holes in the wall that locals mostly go to, as that is where the best food is (normally). Sometimes places like that don't have English speakers.... in the United States (thinking of one little Vietnamese restaurant in particular there)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Oct 2013, 08:52
My experience, which is limited to western Europe and France and Germany in particular, is that people appreciate any attempt to speak the language they speak, but also are quite happy to speak english as long as you're not being all "fuck you guys I'm not even going to try". If you go in with an arrogant "everyone will speak english" attitude then they'll pretend not to.
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Post by: Lines on 26 Oct 2013, 09:24
Even a few phrases like "Do you speak English?", hello, and please/thank you, like it's been mentioned, are useful and polite.
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Post by: Metope on 26 Oct 2013, 09:43
That's so weird, I really don't care if anyone bother to try learning Norwegian or not. Why would they? It doesn't matter if you know how to say 'thank you' in Norwegian when I understand 'thank you' in English, often it's hard to understand the thick accents of people who have spent 10 minutes with a Lonely Planet guide anyway. It's unnecessary and inefficient when everyone speaks English, people who have that 'in this country, you speak our language'-attitude are really rude and shouldn't be allowed to travel unless they know the language of the country they're going to, see how well they like it :p
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Oct 2013, 09:46
I suppose the thing is that in Norway, everyone really does speak english and it's not a huge country. It may also be relevant that you can get to France by train from the UK, so France probably gets more tourists who turn up without any language skills and just shout.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 26 Oct 2013, 09:56
I've taught myself to say "I'm sorry, my German is terrible. Do you speak English?" and I can already deal with pleasantries. However there are other factors making this difficult for me. Consider that I didn't eat lunch today because I didn't want to have to go to a place and talk to people and embarrass myself and annoy them (even though I know on an intellectual level that literally every person I've encountered in Austria speaks English and hasn't been a dick about it). I should go have dinner but I'm procrastinating as much as possible, even though I'm probably going to go to the same place I went last night where they definitely speak fluent English. I'd probably be dealing better with this if I had someone I knew with me.

I'm actually regretting making this trip so long. I knew I was only going to be booking in three days with my tattooist so I really should have just come for a week but instead I'm here for two weeks and really, I have too many problems to be OK by myself for that long. Not that I need to be monitored but it's been a day and I'm lonely and bored and I know that I'm not going to do anything or see anything or even go anywhere while I'm here because I just...can't. And it's shit because I'm going to have to go home and tell everyone how great it was and how interesting everything was and how much fun I had when in reality Vienna is just another grey place where I spend every day hoping I get hit by a car or that someone stabs me. I'd say I want to go home but I'm unhappy there as well.

It doesn't matter.
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Post by: Metope on 26 Oct 2013, 09:56
I suppose the thing is that in Norway, everyone really does speak english and it's not a huge country. It may also be relevant that you can get to France by train from the UK, so France probably gets more tourists who turn up without any language skills and just shout.

Oh yeah, annoying tourists are pretty crappy, but they're crappy regardless of which language they shout in. I guess it's easier to talk about how terrible they are behind their backs in a language they don't understand, I've definitely done that... Not everyone in Norway speaks English funny enough, in the cities it's fine, but I remember when Jens and I worked at the bakery/cafe in our home town and this English customer was so relieved whenever we were working, because he just couldn't communicate what he wanted with the other employees. One time my boss and I saw him coming, and my boss quickly ran to the back room to avoid talking to him, pretty funny. Learning a bit of the local language is probably handy in those cases, but for most people it takes a long time before the language skill is actually useful beyond ordering a coffee.
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Post by: pwhodges on 26 Oct 2013, 10:17
When I was going to Norway on business in the 1980s, it was said that a higher proportion of Norwegians spoke English than natives of any other non-English-speaking country.  I presume the proportion is even higher now, with the Internet, 'n all.

But when I heard Maria Ewing sing Carmen in the opera in Oslo, I found to my surprise that I could understand the Norwegian surtitles better than the sung French!
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Post by: Metope on 26 Oct 2013, 10:26
I think Norway, Sweden and Holland are the three top countries when it comes to English as a second language. I actually had a conversation with a Scot yesterday about how similar Norwegian is to English, and even more similar to Scottish accents which I think is really interesting. A couple examples: the English word 'town' comes from the Norwegian word 'tun', which means the place on a farm between all the buildings, usually a very social place. In Scotland you have 'toun' which is even more similar than 'town'. There's also the Norwegian word 'flytting' which means moving houses, in Scotland that's a well known spoken word (I've never come across it written down), but outside of Scotland it doesn't exist.
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Post by: Metope on 26 Oct 2013, 10:35
I also find it really funny how if I meet someone from the UK who doesn't know I'm Norwegian, they think I'm American based on my accent. If I meet someone from the states, they think I'm British. I don't think I sound like either!  :-P
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Post by: pwhodges on 26 Oct 2013, 10:43
Flit is a perfectly common word for moving around lightly or quickly.  Birds flit (or flitter) around, for instance.  "Doing a flit" might be running away to escape e.g. creditors.  Leaving a party in a hurry I might say: "I have to flit now".  My Chambers dictionary (which specifically included Scottish words and usages) also lists moving house as an informal usage of the same word, especially in Scotland.
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Post by: nekowafer on 26 Oct 2013, 10:44
Jimmy, I really wish I could say something that would help. I have only a small inkling of how shitty that must be and I'm sorry you're in that situation.
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Post by: Metope on 26 Oct 2013, 10:54
That's funny Paul, I didn't know that! Maybe it's because I was looking for the Norwegian spelling.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 26 Oct 2013, 11:03
I was confused because I associate that word or term in a English speaking context with the movement of birds, and in a more Scandinavian context with flyting, which as opposed to a form of movement is a ritual exchange of insults.
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Post by: pwhodges on 26 Oct 2013, 11:07
I didn't say that the English dictionary confirms that the origin of the word is from Old Norse.
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Post by: Lines on 26 Oct 2013, 11:54
Aww, Jimmy, I'm sorry you're not having a good time.  :-( When do you see your tattoo artist? Maybe they can suggest something for you to do or even take you somewhere? I don't know how friendly you are with your artist, but maybe they can help make your trip more bearable?
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Post by: ankhtahr on 26 Oct 2013, 12:31
Just had my first real encounter with tram rails on the way to the store. Now I know how big the angle has to be when crossing them on a bicycle. My palms hurt.
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Post by: Akima on 27 Oct 2013, 03:43
Aww, Jimmy, I'm sorry you're not having a good time.  :-( When do you see your tattoo artist? Maybe they can suggest something for you to do or even take you somewhere? I don't know how friendly you are with your artist, but maybe they can help make your trip more bearable?
I'm sorry too. :(  I can't think of anything to say that doesn't sound like a fortune-cookie, but Linds' advice sounds good to me.

Just had my first real encounter with tram rails on the way to the store. Now I know how big the angle has to be when crossing them on a bicycle. My palms hurt.
As close to 90 degrees as you can is good. Tram-tracks suck. So do level-crossings. Oh, and they are very slippery when wet too.
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Post by: Aimless on 27 Oct 2013, 06:56
Hmmm you could perhaps stock up on mozartkugeln and use them to distract curious friends and acquaintances upon your return :( or, er, eat them all yourself
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 27 Oct 2013, 10:38
My relationship with my artist is just professional, really so I doubt that we'll be hanging out outside of my sessions. I went walking around Vienna today (why does the whole city shut down over the weekend? Nothing was open, not even supermarkets!) and I finally got the data connection on my Austrian sim card to work so I can pull up maps and not get lost. I wandered around for about 2 or 3 hours and god I just don't care about anything in this city. It's all war museums and historical buildings and old architecture and oh my god I don't care about any of it. I know a whole bunch of people who would love it here but why couldn't she have moved to Boston or New York or London? Give me steel and glass and smoke.
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Post by: Loki on 27 Oct 2013, 13:28
Without knowing anything about Vienna: that's prolly because you are hanging out in the Old City.

You could try hanging out on campus, or maybe in one of the surrounding cities. (Although I can hardly imagine Vienna not having a skyline or somesuch). Ask the tourist information for pointers?
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Post by: jwhouk on 28 Oct 2013, 06:20
Thomas Wolfe was right. "You can't go home again."
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Post by: ev4n on 28 Oct 2013, 08:23
He was definitely American, my friends and I heard him speak and there's no mistaking American accents in Europe.

As a Canadian, I'm curious how you can tell us apart.  (To be fair, some American accents are decidedly not Canadian.  And vice versa.)
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Post by: Metope on 28 Oct 2013, 08:31
If I remember correctly in this case, he had a midwest US accent, so it was pretty easy. I can't always hear the difference between northern US accents and Canadian accents though, but some regional US accents are very distinctive.
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Post by: Welu on 28 Oct 2013, 08:58
Despite being born to Irish parents and living in the same Norn' Irish town my whole life, most people assume I'm American because of my accent. I don't know how I ended up with it.

I spent two days on a real film shoot. It was fun and stressful and exciting and exhausting.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 28 Oct 2013, 09:34
Would a fake film shoot be the film shoot of a film shoot? Meta.
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Post by: Welu on 28 Oct 2013, 09:37
"Proper" may have been a better word. There were about thirty people so small but it had a budget supplied by a film company and experienced crew and it was really great.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 28 Oct 2013, 09:38
I know! I was just goofing around ^_^
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Post by: Welu on 28 Oct 2013, 09:49
I know but I'm still all giddy about working on it so let me brag that I'm getting a real film credit. :mrgreen:
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Post by: GarandMarine on 28 Oct 2013, 09:51
Omg~

There is a sub shop here that serves a sammich with turkey, stuffing and cranberry sauce. Holy fuck.

My mouth orgasmed. It's the only way to describe it. This is fucking brilliant. It just needs gravy.

(http://i.imgur.com/tXjgL.gif)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Oct 2013, 11:06
I just discovered a vegan cafe near my supermarket and a vegan restaurant in the city which just opened. Excellent! I have filed them away for future reference. Nom nom nom.

Also I attempted to make curry and it was a disaster because my parents have a stupid Stanley (it's like an Aga) and it was far too hot and everything burnt immediately. But I couldn't possibly use the stove because the Stanley was on! It would be a waste of power!
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Post by: Lines on 28 Oct 2013, 17:44
Garand, I'd had one of those before at a deli and it was fantastic. Then I started making my Thanksgiving leftovers in that manner and it has been glorious.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 28 Oct 2013, 18:14
Linds, I would totally do that this year, but... uh well I won't be having thanksgiving dinner beyond a pizza and sadness >.>; so that means no leftovers unless my coworkers decide to take pity on the single guy.

In other news.


Without caffeine, there is no life. It is by will alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the juice of the coffee bean that thoughts acquire speed, the lips acquire stains. The stains become a warning. It is by will alone I set my mind in motion.
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Post by: LTK on 29 Oct 2013, 04:59
Yesterday two trees, both as high as my 15-storey apartment building, were blown down in a storm. Luckily, they both fell away from the building. Now I have an amazing view.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Nov 2013, 20:17
As we approach 10 November, I tend to become melancholy in many respects and take time to reflect on my service, my Corps, and comrades present... and those who have passed on. This month is a hard one for me over all, with Veteran's Day not far removed from the celebration of the birth of my Corps in 1775, at a little bar in Pennsylvania. Where, per the order of the American Congress, Captain Samuel Nichols began to recruit for two battalions of Marines to join the rebellion against England. Since that day many years passed our Corps has come to celebrate our birthday and around that time Headquarters Marine Corps, Quantico Virginia, publishes the annual Commandant's birthday message. This tradition began with General John A. Lejeune, 13th Commandant of the Corps.  General Lejeune's original birthday letter was ordered published, and is still published annually, along with the serving Commandant's own message. That message now commonly takes form of a video.

This year's video, as ordered published by Commandant General James Amos, is about 15 minutes long. It contains many interviews, and pieces of our common culture and history as Marines. This year marks the 70th Anniversary of Battle of Tarawa, the 45th of the Battle of Huế City, and the 10th anniversary of the drive to Baghdad. I had a grandfather we believe to have been at Tarawa and Saipan. I had uncles and family friends in the jungles and cities of Vietnam, some of my closest friends walked the road to Baghdad in 2003. But even if I hadn't had a single blood relative in those places at that time, my brothers and sisters were at all those battles, and a thousand more besides. This is my family history, blood of my blood and kin of my kin. This is not American culture. This is Marine Corps culture, and as people who's company I enjoy.... I want to share that culture, that sense of family, of kinship, with you, that you might understand me and my family just a little bit more.

 "The Marines fought almost solely on esprit de corps, I was certain. It was inconceivable to most Marines that they should let another Marine down, or that they could be responsible for dimming the bright reputation of their Corps. The Marines simply assumed that they were the world's best fighting men."
- Robert Sherrod, 1943, regarding the battle at Tarawa


The original message can be found here
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Nov 2013, 22:17
Would a fake film shoot be the film shoot of a film shoot? Meta.

Go deeper: ever see Argo?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 02 Nov 2013, 05:27
....oooh good point.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Nov 2013, 13:20
Aww. I'm babysitting for two little boys from my church, who were in bed before I arrived although we've met before. I just heard the patter of small feet running across the upstairs, so I went up to see what was wrong and the smaller boy (who I think is 4) was sitting on his parents' bed saying "mummy?". I said hello and asked if he remembered me, which he did. We chatted for a few moments about where his parents were - visiting friends - which friends - a woman from church - whether he'd met her before - yes, he had. Then I asked if he needed anything, he shook his head and said "I'm going to go back to bed" and did precisely that. No tears, no upset that I wasn't mummy, just a cute sleepy child. And now back to my NaNoWriMo novel which is miles behind where it should be. I don't even want to think about how many thousands of words I need to write...
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Post by: Welu on 09 Nov 2013, 14:28
I'm so behind on NaNoWriMo too. :psyduck:

Won't be posting much this week. Gonna be in Manchester for the next couple days then catching up on college stuff over the weekend.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Nov 2013, 16:07
I made it up to 10,033 words plus maybe 500 more written out long-hand after my laptop battery died. Fortunately it didn't lose anything so I'll just type up tomorrow and keep ploughing on. I'm back to enjoying this story, I had a blip during some dull dialogue and got distracted by my own life but I think I can see this one through.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 10 Nov 2013, 05:54

On this day, 10 November, 1775 It has been resolved in the second Continental congress, That two Battalions of marines be raised... that they be enlisted and commissioned to serve for and during the present war between Great Britain and the colonies, unless dismissed by order of Congress: that they be distinguished by the names of the first and second battalions of American Marines....


Funny, I don't feel a day over 210
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 10 Nov 2013, 15:10
I was all worried about my NaNoWriMo yesterday but then I ended up doing 3,255 words and getting caught up! Today I am slacking again so I need to do some timed writing - I don't necessarily write faster but I feel bad about getting distracted when the timer is running.
May, I just added you as a buddy but I couldn't find Welu. I'm bainidhe there if you want to look me up.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 10 Nov 2013, 16:36

The Last Toast of the Doolittle Raiders

http://www.stripes.com/news/us/final-toast-to-world-war-ii-doolittle-raiders-peace-1.252072

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DAYTON, Ohio  -- Known as the Doolittle Raiders, the 80 men who risked their lives on a World War II bombing mission on Japan after the attack on Pearl Harbor were toasted one last time by their surviving comrades and honored with a Veterans Day weekend of fanfare shared by thousands.

Three of the four surviving Raiders attended the toast Saturday at the National Museum of the U.S. Air Force. Their late commander, Lt. Gen. James "Jimmy" Doolittle, started the tradition but they decided this autumn's ceremony would be their last.

"May they rest in peace," Lt. Col. Richard Cole, 98, said before he and fellow Raiders - Lt. Col. Edward Saylor, 93, and Staff Sgt. David Thatcher, 92 - sipped cognac from specially engraved silver goblets. The 1896 cognac was saved for the occasion after being passed down from Doolittle.

Hundreds invited to the ceremony, including family members of deceased Raiders, watched as the three each called out "here" as a historian read the names of all 80 of the original airmen.

The fourth surviving Raider, Lt. Col. Robert Hite, 93, couldn't travel to Ohio because of health problems.

But son Wallace Hite said his father, wearing a Raiders blazer and other traditional garb for their reunions, made his own salute to the fallen with a silver goblet of wine at home in Nashville, Tenn., earlier in the week.

Hite is the last survivor of eight Raiders who were captured by Japanese soldiers. Three were executed; another died in captivity.

....



The 80 silver goblets in the ceremony were presented to the Raiders in 1959 by the city of Tucson, Ariz. The Raiders' names are engraved twice, the second upside-down. During the ceremony, white-gloved cadets presented each of the three with their personal goblets and their longtime manager poured the cognac. The deceased's glasses are turned upside-down.
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Post by: pwhodges on 10 Nov 2013, 17:19
I've just been for dinner at la Manoire (http://www.manoir.com/web/olem/le_manoir.jsp), one of the top 10 restaurants in Europe (it happens to be only a few miles away from where I live) - courtesy of a £1200 voucher which a grateful client gave my son after a job he did for them, which just covered dinner for four (a nine-course tasting menu, with six wines to match, ending at midnight).  We took it as celebrating his birthday a couple of days ago (and mine around the time he got the voucher).

It was, of course, possibly the finest meal I've ever had; and specifically, everything was novel and interesting.

Last time I went there (17 years ago, for my 50th birthday) I got food poisoning!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 10 Nov 2013, 17:30
I have had some damn fine tuck the world over, but I simply cannot imagine a £1200 meal.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 10 Nov 2013, 20:01
Wow! Glad you enjoyed it sans food poisoning this time, Paul!

The most expensive meal I've ever had was at Butter in NYC because boyfriend at the time was the head chef's personal trainer. They threw in like, 3 or 4 extra courses on the house and it STILL came out to over $100.



....and I thought that was pricey. :-P
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Post by: Welu on 11 Nov 2013, 03:31
May, I just added you as a buddy but I couldn't find Welu. I'm bainidhe there if you want to look me up.

I haven't signed up to the site because I'm that low in confidence. I know it's self-prophesying but between college and this trip I've only managed 2000 words so far. I'll push myself on to the 50,000 even if I don't make it to the deadline.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Nov 2013, 10:00
Let's be fair now, it's just a £300 meal each :roll:

I have often wondered where the threshold is between "overpriced" and "actually worth the money". I went out for dinner a few times with a guy I was seeing and we usually spent about £60-70 between the two of us, and I could not taste any discernible difference in quality from the £12 meals I'd normally have in restaurants, and only a slight improvement on my home cooking.
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Post by: Aimless on 11 Nov 2013, 10:07
Let's be fair now, it's just a £300 meal each :roll:

I have often wondered where the threshold is between "overpriced" and "actually worth the money". I went out for dinner a few times with a guy I was seeing and we usually spent about £60-70 between the two of us, and I could not taste any discernible difference in quality from the £12 meals I'd normally have in restaurants, and only a slight improvement on my home cooking.

Holy crap is that without wine etc? :o
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Post by: ev4n on 11 Nov 2013, 10:11
I've definitely gone over $100 per person without alcohol.  And yes, tasting menu dinners are pretty amazing.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Nov 2013, 10:12
My £60-70 meals (for two) were with wine, although not a huge amount. The £300 meal was Paul's and he says it includes six different wines.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Nov 2013, 10:25
Holy crap is that without wine etc? :o

Oh no.  Meal (nine courses) £155 a head; matching wines (six) £119 a head (that was the cheap option - the expensive one was £300 a head).  With extras (champagne on arrival, coffee after) the £1200 voucher was pretty much accounted for.

Nine courses sounds a lot, but they were appropriately modest in size so that we were not over-stuffed at the end; but a glass of each wine was rather more alcohol than is generally prudent (I didn't force myself to finish them all).  The presentation of the small food dishes was exquisitely detailed, with an almost jewel-like appearance in some cases.
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Post by: Aimless on 11 Nov 2013, 10:28
My £60-70 meals (for two) were with wine, although not a huge amount. The £300 meal was Paul's and he says it includes six different wines.

Yeah I was wondering about yours... restaurant price inflation eg. in the UK, paris etc. has been ridiculous over the past few years, and it doesn't take much in terms of food quality to get up to eg £30/p. Half of it seems to be location, hype and mediocre booze :o

I used to be very skeptical of many pricey restaurants and still am. I think my test of whether or not a meal is overpriced entails deciding whether or not I'd pay for that meal at that place at any price over other available options. I land on the side of "yes" mostly when it's a special occasion, a lovely place, a menu full of delicious and/or unusual ingredients and dishes cooked to perfection, served with really nice wine. If I could buy more fancy ingredients and cook them properly I think I'd find most of those places overpriced too :o unfortunately I live in a small town with a limited and usually kinda overpriced supply of fanciness apart from that which one can shoot/pick/grow oneself.
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Post by: Aimless on 11 Nov 2013, 10:30
Oh no.  Meal (nine courses) £155 a head; matching wines (six) £119 a head (that was the cheap option - the expensive one was £300 a head).  With extras (champagne on arrival, coffee after) the £1200 voucher was pretty much accounted for.

Nine courses sounds a lot, but they were appropriately modest in size so that we were not over-stuffed at the end; but a glass of each wine was rather more alcohol than is generally prudent (I didn't force myself to finish them all).  The presentation of the small food dishes was exquisitely detailed, with an almost jewel-like appearance in some cases.

Drool :'(
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Post by: LTK on 11 Nov 2013, 11:34
I went to Antwerp with all my friends. Short summary: I went to a museum, an art gallery, a chocolate factory and a bird market, ate at an organic bakery, an Italian restaurant and a fries bar (the fries were terrible), got bubble tea, ate a waffle, and drank beer. That was fun! We stayed in the cheapest hostel in the whole city, which I was less pleased about, especially since I had a really nice hotel room smack-dab in the city center last time. But at least I wasn't sleeping in a room with strangers. Also, only having one functioning ear makes it so much easier to sleep.

I brought back a bag of assorted chocolate bars and a €1 comic book I picked up at the market. Apparently it used to belong to a girl named Vanessa, who wrote her name on the cover. It's a sci-fi story from 1976 about aliens, robots and a tidally-locked planet, starring a woman called Yoko Tsuno. Maybe Belgian comics aren't that much of a boys' club after all? It's actually pretty good, even though it retreads a fair number of sci-fi concepts that have become too familiar 27 years later.

Now I've received three or four additional housing offers in Lund, Sweden in response to my ad. This is actually much more stressful than responding to 'housing available' adverts, now I gotta answer all of these people. I was expecting to have to take the first thing that came my way, since I have none of the institutional benefits for students, either national or international, but apparently there are plenty of people willing to offer me their place. Now I'm spoilt for choice so much that I don't know what I want!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 11 Nov 2013, 11:44
My most expensive meal was a little place in Atlanta called Ray's In the City. The ex and I got sticker shock when we sat down, but DAMN it was good. I was really embaressed that I lost my bearing a bit looking at the menu price though. I felt like a terrible tight wad/cheap skate. Not my fault I wasn't used to seeing $50 a plate meals on the cheap menu.
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Post by: ev4n on 11 Nov 2013, 12:26
9 seems a touch small for a tasting menu, in my experience.  ymmv, obviously.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Nov 2013, 12:44
It wasn't actually advertised as a tasting menu - that's what we called it.

(http://cassland.org/images/Manoir.jpg)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Nov 2013, 12:51
What on earth is a frozen autumn still life? It's even worse in French! The pear Almondine sounds amazing.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Nov 2013, 13:03
Small pieces of several fruits cut in different ways, and glazed, with a little sauce and a wafer with a hint of coffee flavour.  It was chilled rather than actually frozen.  It was perhaps the least exciting dish.  The Pear Almondine and the Brill (which I had without oyster as I'm probably allergic) were the very best.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Nov 2013, 13:08
Looks like I could only have had the third and seventh courses, but frankly I'm amazed it's that many! I'd love to do a tasting menu at a really good vegan restaurant but I'm not sure such a thing even exists on this continent at least (maybe in Portland?).
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Post by: ev4n on 11 Nov 2013, 13:42
What on earth is a frozen autumn still life? It's even worse in French! The pear Almondine sounds amazing.

yes, it make me chuckle.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Nov 2013, 13:56
Looks like I could only have had the third and seventh courses, but frankly I'm amazed it's that many!

They offered a vegetarian version (mentioned but not listed in the big menu we chose from); I guess that might have increased your options a bit (you can download it from their website).  They were very accommodating about making adjustments to remove individual items because of allergies, so that might have helped you too.  I'd guess that (with notice, perhaps) they might be prepared to knock up a fully vegan menu - at least for the six-course option (which I haven't mentioned).
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Post by: GarandMarine on 12 Nov 2013, 04:35
I just found out Niten Ichi-ryū is still an active school. I am now considering moving to Japan next year and asking the master to take me on as a student. I'd study Niten Ichi-ryū full time and work my ass off at odd jobs or whatever to keep myself fed and basically clothed outside the dojo. If you're not familiar, Niten Ichi-ryū in English, the "Two Heavens As One" or "Two Swords As One" school of Japanese swordsmanship is the school of Miyamoto Musashi, one of the greatest swordsmen to ever live and basically my idol.

Which tells you something about me considering I first read The Book of Five Rings at an age when Harry Potter was a big freaking deal and immediately considered a 17th century samurai my biggest hero and inspiration growing up. (Right up there with Chesty Puller, John Basilone and Carlos Hathcock)

So despite all that I still had no idea that Niten Ichi-ryū was still in active practice (12 generations of unbroken succession as of the current soke)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Nov 2013, 11:30
If anyone ever gives me £300 which I am required to spend on a meal, I shall go there and see!

In mildly related news, my friends have decided that we are going to go to Frankie and Benny's for our "end of term" meal (I put it in quotations because we can't go on the last day of term because one girl is going on holiday, we can't go the day before because we're not all in the same town that day, we can't go the day before that because I have a cookery class... so we're going on the Monday of the last week :roll:). Anyway. I just went to check on the website whether I can eat anything that they sell, and had to SIGN A DISCLAIMER before they would show me the allergy advice.

And the answer is, I can eat the breadsticks, the chips, the vegetable sides and the sorbet.

So, um, sorry friends. This isn't going to work for me.
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Post by: Lupercal on 12 Nov 2013, 14:57
Why on earth would you want to go to Frankie and Benny's? Sounds like you've dodged a bullet!

Although I'm becoming considered a 'food snob' among my friends because I'm starting to tire of chain restaurants like Nandos. ITS JUST CHICKEN!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Nov 2013, 15:26
I have no idea, I didn't know what Frankie and Benny's was until I looked at their menu. I thought it was an Italian place.
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Post by: Welu on 12 Nov 2013, 16:27
I ate there yesterday and am going to eat there tomorrow.  :parrot:
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Post by: Lupercal on 12 Nov 2013, 23:30
*sigh* maybe next time I want to eat out I can just chow down on my foot, as it'll probably already be in my mouth.

(Seriously working on this 'not trying to be a food snob' thing)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 13 Nov 2013, 06:25
Has anyone else ever had a problem SO ridiculous that you've actually laughed at it?



I'm trying to log into my insurance's website. User ID, password, blah blah blah.
"There was no active user record found with the member id you entered."


Ok....let's see if I've got it wrong!



Go through process to recover user ID. Can not recover, must create a new one.
Create a new one. Log in with new one. 
"There was no active user record found with the member id you entered."


Hmmmm....



Call customer service.
They reset password on account. Enter new user ID and new password.
"There was no active user record found with the member id you entered."

 :psyduck:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Nov 2013, 06:43
Yup, I spent all of last week in that state - I had five punctures in four days. By Thursday I was contemplating simply moving into Halfords permanently.
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Post by: Thrillho on 13 Nov 2013, 12:32
I cancelled my direct debit for XBox Live Gold because I was too lazy to actually ring the cunts up to cancel it. They sent me repeated emails demanding I log in and rectify it. I went to log in to 'rectify' it (find a way to cancel it without ringing them) and when I successfully logged in, they said they wanted to make sure I was me(???) and had sent an email to me that I had to click a link in to confirm I was me. Just from logging in  :psyduck:

So yeah I left that for about six months and they've finally given up trying to stop taking the payment and cancelled my Live Gold :-D

THE SYSTEM WORKS
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Post by: Welu on 14 Nov 2013, 14:38
Home. So tired. Think I'm sick. Completely behind on college work. Totally worth it.
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Post by: Carl-E on 14 Nov 2013, 15:04
So.  We had our first snow (I know, this isn't the weather thread) on Tuesday. 

And the electric company cut us off.  My wife had neglected to tell me we were that far behind...  (she does the bills)

Two days of freezing weather with no power.  Now, in the past, I was able to fire up the old coal boiler that was left hooked into the system when they added the gas boiler (which needs power to run).  We'd at least have heat.  I went to the basement with a lantern, cleared the packing boxes away from the boiler, gathered the kindling...

And found that it had sprung a leak on the inside.  A little chunk of cast iron had popped out, and there's no way to repair it.  A slow drip, and I could have built a fire under it, but I had a feeling that doing so would only make it worse. 

The house got down to the low 50's the first night, and the mid 40's last night.  Power went back on today (handicapped exemption, needed a doctor's note, gives us 30 days to settle the bill). 

Aaaand... yeah, the leak got worse with heat and pressure.  I put the bucket with the hose attached off of the dehumidifier under it and ran the hose into the nearby sewer cleanout so the basement won't flood from the fairly constant stream.  Then went to see if it can be fixed (it's a 114 year old cast iron boiler,  :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: said the plumbing supply guys), and if they have 3" fittings so I can disconnect it and bypass it (yes, they can be ordered, and they'll only cost an arm and half a leg). 

But we have heat, and the food in the fridge didn't spoil.  Except the ice cream, that didn't survive. 



Did I mention I have a bad head cold?  And that I'm selling the old ford Escort (1987, the only car I ever bought new) so I have garage space to fix the transmission in the Saturn?  What I get for junk value will cover the cost of a junker's transmission...

Did I mention I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS!!!

 :-P
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Post by: Patrick on 17 Nov 2013, 03:05
My singer Matt's grandma died on Sunday. He, my drummer Paul and I were taking a break from band practice to eat dinner with his family when the phone rang. Matt's mom answered (it was her mom) and we all knew by the way she said "Hello... What?!" that it was sad news. We obviously adjourned practice early, and Paul and I briefly deliberated with each other one-on-one as to whether or not we should leave to let the family spend time together to grieve privately, or stay and let our presence and our love be of comfort to them. We chose the latter, which proved to be the right decision.

Matt's family left the next morning at 5am to go to Utah for her service and asked me to housesit. Today, after they returned, Matt and his dad apologized for "not having actually asked, but instead told" me to housesit, which I don't remember happening, but it was kind of them to offer an apology even if it was totally unnecessary. It's the least I owe them, especially in a time like that. Anyway, I spent the week making sure the dogs and his brother's cat didn't all destroy the house or each other (and, of course, I also finished GTA:5). They were all darlings, but the dogs haven't yet learned that Miss Kitty is going to fuck them up if they're always up in her grill every time she walks into a room. They've all got scratches on their noses (this is how we learn!) and the cat's completely fine.

For Grandma June: I hardly knew you, but from our few meetings and from the family of yours who are very dear to me, you were a lovely, wonderful person. I'm going to miss your wit and smartassery when I hang out with the Gragg clan on the week of Thanksgiving when you would've been here to visit. <3

As for me, I'm fine. I just got hired at Bevmo after maaaaaaaaybe 10 minutes' worth of interviewing. I don't really have much else to report, aside from the usual "I miss Camille" and "I am really just kinda hangin in there and surviving" stuff.
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Nov 2013, 16:03
OH HEY SPEAKING OF CAMILLE GUESS WHO SHOWED UP IN TOWN TO SURPRISE ME

HOLYFUCKINSHIT I'LL SEE Y'ALL FUCKERS LATER
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Post by: GarandMarine on 19 Nov 2013, 06:22

Go West young man, haven't you been told, California Colorado's full of whiskey, women and gold...

So it's official. I confirmed I'll be classing up with my trade school next fall. I'mma going home! Even better news I talked to the gal I was likely going to be rooming with had I gone to school this fall and she despises her current roommate, and would be happy to replace current roommate with yours truly. Amusingly I thought I'd have to bribe her, instead she tried to bribe me "There's a ton of cute girls in my Pharamacology classes, I'll introduce you! I can bake!" meanwhile I'm like "I'll clean everything to white glove field day grade, I can cook!"
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Post by: Grognard on 19 Nov 2013, 06:56
If you go west, can I take the miniatures job?
you're making Buck$, right?

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Post by: GarandMarine on 19 Nov 2013, 07:07
Hah. bucks(cents symbol)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Nov 2013, 12:42
Good GRIEF it is cold. I mean, it's not Norway-cold. But it's thank-goodness-I'm-home cold. Also it's really, really dark on the towpath even with a full moon and clear skies. When the moon wanes and the weather is cold enough for ice, I'm going to have to find a new route home.

In other related news I was at uni for over 11 hours today.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 19 Nov 2013, 12:50
I just came home from 10 hours at University. Yesterday I stayed for 19.

I wonder when I'll start to find time to sleep again.
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Post by: Thrillho on 19 Nov 2013, 12:55
Ah, yes, I remember the days of double-digits on campus. I miss those days actually. Third year was an amazing time in my life.
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Post by: Patrick on 20 Nov 2013, 11:04
Go West young man, haven't you been told, California Colorado's full of whiskey, women and gold...

I'm so glad I'm not the only one who recognizes that Toby Keith actually used to be good once. Also fuck the uploader for ruining it by adding the 'thank you' at the end, I thought it was through and then SUDDENLY, PENNYWHISTLES EVERYWHERE. hahaha.

Guys I can't begin to tell you how awesome it is to get to spend time with Camille after so many nights of phone calls whining at each other to "just come here already." I tried and failed and got really down on myself about it, and then she surprises me like this... you know those cliched images of a long-separated couple reunited at last, with the slo-mo running with the long embrace followed by a kiss? yeah that shit totally happened.

Thursday is going to suck ass, because that is when she leaves to go back to Tacoma. but we're lucky to have this visit, and she'll be back hopefully by New Year's. my birthday. happy birthday to me!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Nov 2013, 13:02
I got to see Toby Keith and Trace Adkins live while they were still awesome. It was tits. Lots of cute ASU co-eds walking around. I got my ass grabbed a few times. *thumbs up*
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Nov 2013, 10:20
Argh I came home later than I'd planned because I was talking to someone, and then I started cooking a "quick" pasta sauce and stupidly poured in half a tin of water, and now the sauce is still really liquidy and I have to leave in ten minutes and it's not even cooked argh. If it somehow magically thickens up in the next five minutes I'll take dinner in my Thermos flask but otherwise... um... not sure.

Plus I have to pack for this weekend and prepare for tomorrow and I am tired and I really hope that I do finish babysitting at 9.45 like they said. The other family I sit for are usually at least an hour late home.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 21 Nov 2013, 10:31
If it's a tomato sauce then get some puree in there and reduce it until you really have to leave. If it's a cream sauce then mix some cornflour with some milk and slowly blend it in. Final option is to cook some pasta in the sauce to absorb some of the excess.
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Post by: Patrick on 21 Nov 2013, 12:44
I am very grateful for the fact that I've been able to spend time with Camille for the last few days, but it hurts knowing she's leaving again today. The good news is that it's only gonna be about 5 weeks til she's here and we don't have to say goodbye anymore.

I'm gonna cry so fucking hard when she has to go, though.
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Post by: Thrillho on 21 Nov 2013, 14:13
Pat, I know you know I mean this when I say it.

I know how you feel, and it's a punch in the nuts. I love you dude, and I feel your pain.
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Post by: calenlass on 21 Nov 2013, 14:20
LDRs suck, Patrick. I am sorry. :(



So I have been having problems with my hair. Not actual serious "it's falling out" kind of problems, but with the fact that my hair is pretty damn curly and seems to have been unhappy for months now. Trying to figure out what it needs is kind of a shot in the dark, especially when trying to take porousness, dryness, dew points, and product ingredients into account.

I've been making my own surfactant-free shampoo for more than a year now (a little baking soda, honey, and mostly of water), and it's been working relatively well. Bonus: I am broke and mostly jobless, and it is super cheap. But then I read a thing (http://livecurlylivefree.com/curl%20care.htm) about how to actually clean your hair.

Most of it I had read before, because there are lots of articles and blog posts and forum threads about how commercial shampoos strip your hair (and paired commercial conditioners just coat the strands with silicones, which won't come off again without sulfate surfactants, so it's a great vicious cycle), and about how sudsing into a fantastic lather like in ads doesn't actually indicate cleaning power, and about how commercial shampoos don't actually do much cleaning on their own anyway because it's your scrubbing and massaging that does most of the work. But I guess no one actually ever specified an actual method for the scrubbing? Or I missed it. Anyway, scrubbing and massaging in little circles with the pads of your fingers for 2 or 3 minutes is more than I have ever done (and apparently more than most people do).

Anyway, I tried it this way, and suddenly everything that was wrong with my hair became magically clear! That is the good news. The bad news is that I guess the amount of baking soda I have been using is Way Too Fucking High, especially without a vinegar rinse to reset the pH every time, and my hair felt so stripped and squeaky that it was sticky. I felt so dumb for not figuring it out earlier, because I spent so much time trying to decide whether to go humectants or emollients and what new conditioners to try, when all I really needed was stuff I already have in storage. The good news is holy crap my hair is so much better today than it has been in so long, hooray!

Moral: Hair is acidic. Curly hair will never not need gobs of goopy moisturizing conditioner. The End

TLDR: Squeaky clean is not actually clean unless you are a floor or a kitchen sink. "Squeaky clean" skin will produce MORE oil and probably make your acne worse. "Squeaky clean" hair is actually damaged hair stripped of its natural protective oils and moisture. Don't do it!
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Post by: Thrillho on 21 Nov 2013, 14:22
I'm sorry to derail here but your avatar has a huge erect dick. I mean I thought I was the only one who posted on here with an erect dick?
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Post by: calenlass on 21 Nov 2013, 14:23
there was a juggalo version once, too, but photobucket decided that one violated their terms of use
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Post by: jwhouk on 21 Nov 2013, 18:33
I am very grateful for the fact that I've been able to spend time with Camille for the last few days, but it hurts knowing she's leaving again today. The good news is that it's only gonna be about 5 weeks til she's here and we don't have to say goodbye anymore.

I'm gonna cry so fucking hard when she has to go, though.

To paraphrase a song mentioned in-comic: "If you like it, put a ring on it." ;)
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Post by: calenlass on 21 Nov 2013, 18:52
See, I only really know the refrain of that song (and "uh-uh-oh, uh-uh-oh"), but given that it's repeated so much, it just makes me think that "it" is either my hand, in which case that is a little creepy that you like my hand so much that you want to marry it, or it's me as an object that you want to put a ring on because you want to own it, like putting an xbox on layaway at Target.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 21 Nov 2013, 23:30
Oooh, you could totally have layaway ceremonies where the guy and the woman go to a chapel, the woman sits on a shelf while the guy hands the chaplain a wad of grubby fivers and promises he's so going to own her in a month or so.
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Nov 2013, 00:04
whiny sappy shit

To paraphrase a song mentioned in-comic: "If you like it, put a ring on it." ;)

Worry not, I'm not gonna jump the gun on anything but I'm planning on being with her for a very, very long time.

Saying goodbye to Camille was just as hard as I anticipated and more, but she added a level of sweetness to it that softened the blow. Plus, we spent the afternoon in Berkeley with her brother and her roomie, and we went to a thrift store where she got a sweet corduroy blazer and I bought a kilt!

I think for me the best part of saying goodbye was when she came to visit me at the open mic I run at the coffee shop, and I'd talked all the participants into letting me interrupt their set whenever she showed up so I could sing to her. These two teenage girls (who were really fuckin talented, yesss) were the ones who I wound up interrupting, and they were hella sold on the idea already. Once I played my song ("Do You Want To Know A Secret?" by the Beatles), the whole back corner of the store was in tears, and the two girls told us, "We fucking love you two, thanks for letting us witness that." Poor Camille couldn't keep from crying and my heart melted straight to the floor. I'm sure the baristas enjoyed mopping that up later.

I can't wait til January.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Nov 2013, 03:34
See, I only really know the refrain of that song (and "uh-uh-oh, uh-uh-oh"), but given that it's repeated so much, it just makes me think that "it" is either my hand, in which case that is a little creepy that you like my hand so much that you want to marry it, or it's me as an object that you want to put a ring on because you want to own it, like putting an xbox on layaway at Target.
Oooh, you could totally have layaway ceremonies where the guy and the woman go to a chapel, the woman sits on a shelf while the guy hands the chaplain a wad of grubby fivers and promises he's so going to own her in a month or so.

...funnily enough that is basically what an engagement ring is. It's a down payment... in a sense, more a value hedge against a woman's chastity.

Having proposed twice now, frankly the next time, (if there is one) I ain't getting hitched if she doesn't propose to me. :P
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Nov 2013, 05:24
I don't really get the concept of proposals, in the traditional "surprise! Here's a ring and a super-important question!" sense. It seems like the sort of thing that you should really discuss several times and agree mutually, not just one person going "oh hey, let's see if (s)he is in the mood to make a spontaneous and life-changing decision right this moment". I guess you could have the discussion, agree in theory and then have a proposal moment to tell your friends about but that seems kind of weird to me.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 22 Nov 2013, 05:52
That's kind of what we did....we talked every once in a while about where we saw our relationship going and both knew that we were in it for the long haul. He said he was still worried I'd say no but my actual response was "of course!". :-P


Re: "Single Ladies"......I fucking hate that song. Doesn't help that I find Beyonce to be one of the most irritating people on the planet. Everything after Destiny's Child just made me cringe.



And Patrick- that is SO awesome. Sounds like it was ripped right from the movies <3
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Post by: calenlass on 22 Nov 2013, 06:05
Yes.


...funnily enough that is basically what an engagement ring is. It's a down payment... in a sense, more a value hedge against a woman's chastity.

Yeah, I kind of prefer BDSM collaring ceremonies, because at least they're being honest about their objectification. I don't like engagement rings.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 22 Nov 2013, 06:06
There are two kinds of proposals that get made. The first is the one where a couple (or more for that matter) get to the point where a formalised partnership is the next logical step. It doesn't actually require any discussion. The question itself may come as a surprise, after all big, or sometimes small, romantic gestures tend to be better if the other party doesn't know they are coming. However, the end result shouldn't really be.
The second is the one where one party in the group feels that the relationship isn't sustaining or sufficient and needs an additional tangible element of commitment to improve itself. Sadly the latter, whilst perhaps often a more earnest and personally defining act, tends to hold a lower long-term success rate.

I like proposals. I like an exclusive romantic gesture that is personal and not linked to other arbitrary dates such as birthdays or christmas or anniversaries. I often see people say that their partner would love something and then, in the same sentence shelve it to be brought/organised for a birthday/christmas/anniversary. Why wait, they'll love it now and you'll love giving it to them. Love and romance are some of the few things where instant gratification isn't a bad thing.
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Post by: calenlass on 22 Nov 2013, 06:12
Sure, proposals are great. "Spend the rest of your life with me, baby" is sweet! I am not going to rain on anyone's romantic parade, because I like romance too. I just have strong feelings about wearing what used to be a representation of the dowry that was going to be used to pay it off, because I am worth more than 6 cattle and some dirt and trees. I also dislike that whole part of "traditional" weddings where someone gives the bride away, for the same reasons. No one will ever say that at my hypothetical wedding.

I suppose you can look at rings in a different way, too, and argue that they are round and unbroken to symbolize eternity and love and blah blah blah, and wearing one voluntarily as a sign that you lurve somebody that much, why not, but it still comes across more as "somebody called dibs on you like they might bagsie an ice cream cone so that no one else will take it".
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Nov 2013, 06:34
That's why my various ex-fiancees and I exchanged engagement rings instead of me just lobbing her a gem stone. As a symbol of our bond. Or at least mutual down payment :P
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Nov 2013, 06:36
Yes.


...funnily enough that is basically what an engagement ring is. It's a down payment... in a sense, more a value hedge against a woman's chastity.

Yeah, I kind of prefer BDSM collaring ceremonies, because at least they're being honest about their objectification. I don't like engagement rings.

I tend to do both. You don't get a collar from me unless I think you're worth a wedding band at some point.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 22 Nov 2013, 06:39
I am worth more than 6 cattle and some dirt and trees.

My wife's engagement ring cost £25.
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Post by: calenlass on 22 Nov 2013, 06:44
Yes, but that's ok because you exchanged rings, right? It's supposed to mean something different for you, so spending 3 months' salary or whatever it's supposed to be isn't a requirement
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Post by: pwhodges on 22 Nov 2013, 06:44
I don't really get the concept of proposals,

It's a formal expression of something that is probably already agreed, or at least needs to be before acceptance (a proposal is just that, of course); people like tradition. 

Another aspect of tradition which I went along with the first time round was asking her father for his daughter's hand; it sounds (and is) awfully sexist - but seen as a way to formalise an agreement between families (it's best if they cooperate, right?), and to avoid antagonising new-found close relatives, it doesn't need to be hypocritical.  However, if I'd asked my second father-in-law for his daughter's hand he would have replied "don't you want the rest of her then?", and she would have killed me.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 22 Nov 2013, 06:58
Yes, but that's ok because you exchanged rings, right?

No, I've never liked  jewellery, or indeed any other adornment like watches, bracelets, bands etc. and whatever so I didn't get any engagement things for me. However, it was what she wanted so we went and picked it out together. Alas it was a Blue John ring, a stone that is notably fragile and didn't even last a year and has since broken. We'll replace it at some point though.

I did relent and agree to a wedding ring and to this day is the only adornment I've worn for more than a couple of days. Actually the only other adornment like thing that I've worn for more than a day was the timing chip that I used for Paris-Brest-Paris in 2011. They have them made specifically with a logo on it and let you keep it as a souvenir at the end. I gave mine to my wife because she supported me all the way round and she now wears it like a piece of jewellery, especially on sporting events. That may be the favourite thing that I ever gave her as it was something that I could only earn, not buy.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Nov 2013, 07:13
One thing I will take a stand against is diamonds. That tradition is stupid and completely fabricated by the De Beers group. Never mind the fact that the price of diamonds is wildly artifically inflated. Diamonds are common, why would you give a singular, extraordinary individual in your life something common? Wouldn't a gift that fits that individual be more appropriate? Or something that marks your relationship? For example my ex and I exchanged claddagh. We picked each other's out, hers was wavy and feminine (she was a weird combo of nature girl and girly girl) but solid enough to handle some work, where mine was a claddagh pattern carved into a solid titanium band. I work with my hands a lot.

Such things should have meaning I think. As should a proposal, the singular romantic moment is, or should be, the start of a conversation in my mind. If she says yes (or he, again it's my goal in life to find the kind of shield maiden who'll propose to me ;) ) then that's gravy, but the conversations about how and what and why still need to happen. However as a singular expression of love, a declaration to want to remain with that one person till one remains in this place no more... I think that's okay.

Tis just me though.
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Post by: Thrillho on 22 Nov 2013, 07:30
Some days I still miss my wedding ring.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Nov 2013, 07:48
On a related side note:

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Post by: jwhouk on 22 Nov 2013, 07:52
Given that I've lost one of the diamond "chips" in my wedding ring, I agree whole-heartedly about t the diamond thing.
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Post by: Grognard on 22 Nov 2013, 08:04
Call me a sucker if you must, but I like the traditional Victorian ways of asking the Parent's permission (even if it is only a formality) and 'taking an arrow to the knee' of  a proposal.  Any young man who comes for my daughter better have his shit IN LINE.

But anyway: I paid in blood (literally) for my wife's engagement ring. 21 trips to sell blood plasma @ $20 a shot.
I was a poor college student and had to walk each round trip of about 5 miles.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 22 Nov 2013, 08:38
I like the concept of the wedding ring more than the engagement ring purely because both parties wear them. But- there is a tiny part of me that loves the tradition of the engagement- asking the parents, picking out and giving the ring, etc.

I liked to think that engagement rings are a symbol of commitment on both parts though- my commitment to wear it as a promise of marriage and his commitment of saving up enough money and picking out something that he knew I would want to wear every day. He put SO much effort into picking a good one for me.


My grandmother offered us the diamond from her engagement ring to my grandfather, so that was incredibly special to me. The actual ring itself would never have fit me because my grandma has always had teensy hands and I have BIG hands for a lady (all the better for artmaking hahaha). Also- Nick took into consideration a lot of important things when getting the setting/band for the ring too- it was classic but funky at the same time and he had them use a material that would stand up to wear and tear since I use my hands a lot. He actually couldn't find anything that was "me" enough, so he had something custom designed.


(also.....he asked my dad's permission. I've always been a daddy's girl so I was thrilled to hear that. The next time we were at my parents' house, my dad joked that his response was "Are you sure??")
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Nov 2013, 09:34
I'm pretty sure that if someone asked my dad's permission to marry me, my dad would say "why are you asking ME?".

It's not universal that both parties wear wedding rings. In fact I think that's a fairly recent development, but I could be wrong. Plenty of men still don't.
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Post by: Loki on 22 Nov 2013, 09:37
A necessary condition for asking the parents is that the future bride is on good terms with them.
I'd in fact prefer to not ask them (for why would I do that?) but would relent if my subject of desire so desired.

On wedding rings/collars: I'd probably wear them as a reminder of the person's feelings towards me.

On diamonds: Don't like them visually. I think they are too... cold to the eye.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Nov 2013, 09:39
Thinking about it a little more, I wouldn't object as strongly if the situation were more that my partner sat down with one or other or all four (probably separately...) of my parents and asked them if they thought it would be a good idea for the two of us to get married. Since I intend to do precisely that myself if marriage appears on the horizon at any point, I wouldn't find it archaic. Of course the parental units wouldn't have the final say, but I'd be guided by their views as they know me very well and between them have quite a range of different priorities, ideas and values.
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Post by: Carl-E on 22 Nov 2013, 09:42
I asked.  It was a silly question, though - I'd been living with her for two years already, and was a part of the family by that time.  My father in law, head of the English department at my school at the time, appreciated the formality, though. 

My wife's diamond was her gram's, too. 

My wedding ring went on about 40 lbs ago.  It isn't coming off without a saw... even though there have been times I wish I could get it off. 


And Barmy, I imagine that would work well, especially if one or more of them expressed a warning... :D
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Nov 2013, 09:49
The reason I'm adamant about the decision-by-council-majority idea is that my mum's parents strongly advised her against marrying my dad and her mum actually thought she should marry the man who is now my stepdad, and my dad's parents never even met my mum til after the wedding. And look how well that turned out...
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Nov 2013, 10:29
Yeah. I'll pass on my parents making my decisions for me. My life is not subject to majority vote. Even if it's the wrong decision it's my decision to make.
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Nov 2013, 12:10
I also dislike that whole part of "traditional" weddings where someone gives the bride away, for the same reasons.

The only reason I might ask for my bride to be given away is because whoever is giving her away is speaking for her family at that moment, and I just want to know her family approves of me.
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Post by: pwhodges on 22 Nov 2013, 14:45
It's not universal that both parties wear wedding rings. In fact I think that's a fairly recent development, but I could be wrong. Plenty of men still don't.

When I married in 1969 it was possibly a minority choice to have two rings, but it was not considered outlandish or even unusual as I recall.
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Post by: Loki on 22 Nov 2013, 15:26
I just want to know her family approves of me.
Why?

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Was at a party tonight. It was about equal parts good and... let's say... overwhelming, but mostly just interesting. I kinda feel bad about leaving early.
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Post by: Akima on 22 Nov 2013, 16:32
It's a down payment... in a sense, more a value hedge against a woman's chastity.
Only the woman's?

I just want to know her family approves of me.
As you should! My ancestors are nodding vigorously in approval. :-)  More seriously, marriage inescapably involves two families, and it is very desirable for there to be approval on both sides.

I prefer rubies. Red is the colour of Chinese marriage.

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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 22 Nov 2013, 17:07
My wife won't have mined diamonds but is OK with diamonds created by humans with all our skill and knowledge. I proposed to her at the restaurant which is the local traditional place for engagements.
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Post by: calenlass on 22 Nov 2013, 17:22
It's a down payment... in a sense, more a value hedge against a woman's chastity.
Only the woman's?

Yes. Rings as a wedding tradition date back to Roman times, when it was placed on the woman's forefinger and the whole ceremony was a representation of the transfer of goods: bride-price to the father, daughter and dowry to the husband. Women were expected to be completely chaste and were put to death if found otherwise, which is one of the reasons they were married off so young, while men could shag the slaves or the hookers whenever they wanted. This tradition carried on quite strongly for centuries, including but not limited to: italian medieval culture, when young ladies were never unchaperoned and prostitutes were sanctioned as sort of the "ballast" of sinfulness in a catholic society. Also see: every king of France and England from basically ever who had a handful of mistresses who lived with them and then their wives were expected to a) put up with the women and b) not take lovers of their own because they'd be executed for treason. Also remember how queens weren't actually supposed to do anything political, just wear pretty dresses and raise kids? Catherine de Medici and Catherine Parr were both very unusual for being capable regents.

I would say that the tradition of rings as we know it now is a very European one, so yeah, it has its basis in all of that.



I just want to know her family approves of me.

Wouldn't you hopefully know that beforehand?



Call me a sucker if you must, but I like the traditional Victorian ways of asking the Parent's permission (even if it is only a formality) and 'taking an arrow to the knee' of  a proposal.  Any young man who comes for my daughter better have his shit IN LINE.

But your daughter is a person with free will, able to make her own decisions and who (hopefully, depending on how you raised her) is capable and smart and can be trusted to make a choice that she believes to be in her best interest, surely. She's not a possession, right?
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Nov 2013, 19:07
I just want to know her family approves of me.

Why?

why wouldn't I want their approval? my girlfriend's very close to her family. the girls I've dated who I liked the most have always been close with their families. absolutely I want us to like each other!

Wouldn't you hopefully know that beforehand?

my mom has lied about liking a few girls I've dated just because she didn't want to upset me.
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Post by: calenlass on 22 Nov 2013, 19:55
That is kind of shitty. However, I think it would be reasonable to assume that she would carry on that facade through your wedding, for the exact same reasons.

My mom doesn't disapprove of my boyfrang, but she isn't exactly happy with the fact that he doesn't want to do any family things with me. I have tried explaining the "broken home" thing, but apparently empathizing with someone's unaddressed psychological issues is less important than feeling slighted because you invited them for dinner and they weren't interested. She has told me several times that perhaps I should think really hard about what I want out of life and to really look at whether this relationship will get me there, or if we will just end up fighting and unhappy. (Apparently, she has foreseen it, I guess.)

Enh, self-righteousness. What can you do.
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Nov 2013, 21:59
Oh god. I am so glad you mentioned the poor family life factor. My own family isn't the tightest-knit. I don't actually know what being a good father means just because I don't really have one. And my mom lives too far away for any kind of meaningful communication, and she's seen my struggles with depression at their lowest point, and because of how I reacted to her reaching out to me, I don't let her get too close for fear I'll hurt her heart again.

I'm not close to my family, and so I don't care what they think of Camille or the fact that we're dating. But Camille's family is important to her. I have no idea what that means, but I know that their approval means they're not an obstacle in the way of us staying close. I just hate that I don't know what it means because it's something I can't fully understand about how she grew up.

I don't know what I'm really trying to say here, I should probably just calm down.
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Post by: calenlass on 22 Nov 2013, 22:41
Speaking from her side of the equation, because my family is important to me, basically what is means is this:

Family is the group of people who will love you no matter how many times you disagree or fight, whether they approve of your decisions or not, and who always want the best for you even if it's not what they'd want for themselves. Family is always happy you stopped by, even if they can't admit it because they're still mad at you. Some people are lucky enough that they are born into a group of people like that; others are born into a group of people who simply share genetic traits. You can't do much about your relatives, because on that score you didn't get much of a choice in the first place, but everyone builds their own family. Yours may consist more of your friends, bandmates, roommates, or old coworkers, but sometimes you luck out because they were already your sibling or your cousin or your granddad and you didn't have to look as hard for them. Age doesn't matter for family, and neither does sex.

Your family is like the highest tier of your monkey sphere, the group of people you prioritize the highest. For my boyfriend, that means giving his half-brother his paycheck when the latter lost his job, even though we are almost as broke and didn't have any money at all for the rest of that month and had to borrow from our parents just to eat. For me, it means going to like 5 holiday get-togethers a year where my cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents and I eat a shitload of homemade food made from old recipes, tag-team handing out 5,000 pieces of halloween candy, exchange gag gifts, drink a lot of beer, and play charades and Blokus and stuff.

It also means doing stupid shit like going to your best friend's son's first birthday party, because you know the kid isn't going to remember anything and it's just going to be cake frosting everywhere after a minute, but they want you to be there, and so you go. It means learning to smile and grit your teeth while your significant other rambles on and on and on literally for hours about shit you care absolutely nothing about, because it's important to them and you just want them to be happy because they enjoy that thing. They are the people you worry about letting down (I mean for real, not the stupid shit you worry about with anxiety problems), and the people you want to keep happy, and the people you grieve with when they are sad.

You also already knew what it means. Most people do, they just haven't heard it phrased in the right words. "Family" might have come to have a very twisted meaning in your mind because of what life has thrown at you, and that's ok, as long as the underlying concept is still there. That thing about keeping your mom at arm's length? It may not be the healthiest way to go about caring about her feelings, but you do care. If she wasn't part of your family, you wouldn't make such an effort.

Camille is part of your family, too, and because this is important to her, you cared enough to ask, so keep that in mind. You're not at such a loss as you think.
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Post by: calenlass on 22 Nov 2013, 22:45
Also, here is how to be a good dad:

1. Never forget that everything you do will impact your kid(s), even things that should be just between you and your spouse.
2. ? ? ?
3. ? ? ? ?
4. ? ? ? ? ?
5. Ice Cream
6. Success!
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Post by: snalin on 23 Nov 2013, 11:11
A good dad is one that allows his kid to sit on his lap while playing Diablo 2, and click the potion buttons.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 23 Nov 2013, 11:23
Like this Snalin? :P

(http://captionsearch.com/pix/f0rbbyky3.jpg)
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Post by: snalin on 23 Nov 2013, 11:33
Pretty much. Diablo 2 is a much better game, otherwise the same.
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Nov 2013, 13:43
Katie I honestly have no idea how I survived without you around here for so long. Thanks.
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Post by: Loki on 23 Nov 2013, 13:49
Katie = calenlass?
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Nov 2013, 13:50
oh woops, I know in the reintroduction thread she didn't give a name but I forgot. sorry I outed you without permission. old habits die hard.
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Post by: calenlass on 23 Nov 2013, 14:56
oh god, people know, shit shit shit

(http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HHPZ_09YS0o/UCx0-UVNFmI/AAAAAAAAHgs/-Ep46ty4OAA/s1600/mr-bill.jpg)
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Nov 2013, 15:29
why are there white stains on Mr. Bill's shirt.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 23 Nov 2013, 16:40
I think that's the best definition I've seen of "Family". Thanks for posting that :-)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Nov 2013, 12:19
Yeah. I'll pass on my parents making my decisions for me. My life is not subject to majority vote. Even if it's the wrong decision it's my decision to make.

I knew after I'd posted that I'd phrased it badly - less majority vote and more respected input. But if I think their advice is based on incomplete or inaccurate evidence, or just on holding different values to me (for instance I'm 99% certain that I'd get a lot of advice against a relationship with any woman regardless of her character) then I'd disregard it.
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Post by: Thrillho on 24 Nov 2013, 14:47
New housemate has weed. Never leaving.
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Post by: Welu on 24 Nov 2013, 14:56
College is kicking my ass right now and I'm going back to work this week. Oh yeah, I've been off work since I posted about hurting my heel bone weeks ago because I couldn't stand for more than ten minutes at a time for a while. I was able to be on my feet for about twelve hours yesterday in these awesome new shoes and my weak ankle, which is the same foot that was injured, is feeling achey today. I think once I do a shift at work I'll be grand, just have a big mental block to get over about it.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 24 Nov 2013, 21:01
Earlier this year I applied for a number of universities for Master of Clinical Psychology programs. I actually applied for 14 universities along the eastern side of the country (fuck off I am not going to Western Australia). So far I've had 6 rejection letters which wasn't unexpected but is still obviously very disheartening.

This morning I got an email from Central Queensland University. I have been offered an interview (to take place next week via skype) for a place in the program. I am tentatively excited and I interview well so I reckon I have a really good chance of getting in. The downside is that Central Queensland University is in Rockhampton, QLD which is of course in the middle of fucking nowhere. But I'm prepared for that or I wouldn't have applied. I hope that (if I get in) I can get a job teaching first year psych classes because the pay for that gig is insane (around $75 an hour) so I'd be able to cover my rent and living expenses with like, 5 to 10 hours a week. I'm still hoping I get an interview for something in Sydney but I'll take what I can get. Even if it means I have to live in the arse end of nowhere surrounded by racists and dickheads for two years (Queensland is known for its racists and dickheads).
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Nov 2013, 00:05
Good luck! I'm glad that the interview letters have started to arrive. Hopefully this one will just be the warm-up practice run for all the other interviews that you get later.
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Post by: ev4n on 25 Nov 2013, 04:51
Fwiw, 18 years into marriage, aside from parents and sibs I'm much closer to my wife's extended family than my own.  Some of that is based on not being close to my extended family growing up, but some of that is down to how welcoming and awesome my inlaws are.  I definitely consider them family now.

Hopefullyl, this factoid provides a bit of encouragment to Patrick, and possibly others!
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Post by: Aimless on 25 Nov 2013, 14:19
In a weird way, coming back to the stroke ward always feels like coming home. The last month has been very rewarding but also very trying and things just feel easier with stroke, easier and more positive, well-structured, with a lot of teamwork and a really nice rehab-oriented approach. I like it all, and tbh I'm already missing the mysteries of general neurology and obnoxiously butting my head into puzzling cases elsewhere, but it's nice to be able to relax with things that are straightforward enough to leave time for getting to know your patients even though it means spending less time with the rest of the clinic because we're a Ward Apart.

I've been reminded of how important it is to put work life on Idle and have a fun busy weekend with the missus. This weekend we celebrated my wife's sister-in-law's 30th birthday, saw a fun spex (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spex_%28theatre%29) and then just stuffed myself with OBSCENE amounts of Bosnian food (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burek#Bosnian_burek) and good wine in the company of old friends and new acquaintances. It was fun as hell and it's incredible how much longer and more enjoyable a short weekend feels when you put it to better use than you do by sitting on your ass at home :o I like meeting and getting to know new nice people, something that's become a little harder to do now that we're no longer students, and this weekend's had a lot to offer in that respect :) I was like <3 <3 <3



This ring business was a little tricky to sort out, for us. We both had identical engagement rings with different engravings, but only my wife has a second, a wedding ring with diamonds. I only ever get to wear my engagement ring on a chain around my neck which it shares with a buncha little mementoes so I was relieved to learn that Swedish tradition still allows for the man to only have one ring. Whew.
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Nov 2013, 03:49
Fwiw, 18 years into marriage, aside from parents and sibs I'm much closer to my wife's extended family than my own.  Some of that is based on not being close to my extended family growing up, but some of that is down to how welcoming and awesome my inlaws are.  I definitely consider them family now.

Hopefullyl, this factoid provides a bit of encouragment to Patrick, and possibly others!

Well, after having met 2 generations' worth of Camille's bloodline, I am significantly less worried about whether or not they like me! Her parents invited me back for Christmas despite the fact that she won't be home yet by then. Unfortunately I've got my own plans, but the invitation speaks volumes. I've asked for her parents' address so I can at least send them a thank you note for our early Thanksgiving, and probably a Christmas greeting card when the time comes. I like them, and they like me, and I'm as pleased as a pig in shit! I look forward to the future.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 26 Nov 2013, 04:42
I hate my partners family. They're a bunch of racist, homophobic, right wing idiots. Their dogs are nice though.
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Post by: Welu on 26 Nov 2013, 04:54
My partner's immediate family are very friendly and he gets along well with my family. We have all got together a couple times and all get along really well, his family had Boxing Day dinner with us last year.
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Post by: calenlass on 26 Nov 2013, 08:36

Her parents invited me back for Christmas despite the fact that she won't be home yet by then. Unfortunately I've got my own plans, but the invitation speaks volumes.

Mine doesn't like it when my family invites him to stuff (they have invited him to T-day, Christmas, and 2 or 3 other things during the year now 2 years in a row) because he feels guilty and then gets all angrily obstinate about his conviction that families suck. It's a work in progress.
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Nov 2013, 13:06
I hate my partners family. They're a bunch of racist, homophobic, right wing idiots. Their dogs are nice though.

There's only one dog in the picture in Camel's family, and he's an old black labrador named Cosmo and he is super sweet. He decided he liked me so much that after about an hour of hanging out, as soon as I sat on the couch with Camille, he curled up on top of my feet and kept me warm. I love that dog.
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Post by: Carl-E on 26 Nov 2013, 20:23
I heard a good definition of family the other day on, of all things, a radio cooking show. 

"There are places in the world where you define family by the people you eat with, and blood relation has nothing to do with it."


My house is one such place.  If you're eating at my table, you're part of my family. 
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 26 Nov 2013, 23:35
I will often use the word family to refer to my relatives but when I think of family I think of my friends. I honestly don't see why I should feel any allegiance to people whom I happen to share some genetic material with over people who actively want me in their lives and whom I want in mine.

The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.
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Post by: Loki on 27 Nov 2013, 15:10
So I downloaded Tapatalk and am still getting used to it.

Also I forgot my phone charger in the office so now I have my laptop running, plugged in an USB extension cable and the USB charger. And I am lying in bed. I want to try sleeping. Wonder if that will work with laptop on.
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Nov 2013, 15:29
My house is one such place.  If you're eating at my table, you're part of my family. 

oh man. I can't tell you how many times my singer's parents have fed me. I guess they like me a lot.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Nov 2013, 17:13
And now, your weekend safety brief.

Bring it in. Take a knee. Meach, the Side-Straddle Hop – go. We are right now staring down the barrel of a four-day weekend. Most of you are going to who the hell cares where, to spend the holiday with people who don't hate you. While you are gone, surrounded by soft, squishy civilians who wouldn't know a bayonet from a baby seal, you may be tempted to soften a little, to entertain the idea that your opinions have value, that you can cram all the pie in creation down your face hole. Go ahead. Join your squishy friends and family in being useless boils on the backside of this great nation. Bring your wobbly, fat ass and opinions right back here for some quality time. I will run you 'til you've puked up every last deviled egg and marshmallow, 'til your every breath takes life and death focus, leaving your new-found opinions a hazy memory of some other existence. Meach, I can see you, Shitknuckle. Don't cheat your body. Go, enjoy your Thanksgiving. Those of you who failed to submit a pass request form will be staying within growling distance of Yours Truly. I intend to spend this holiday locating good places to dig deep holes in the back forty. I suspect I'll be able to accommodate at least five sorry pieces of shit out there. Make sure you aren't one of them. If I have to pick you up from the local lockup, I'll give you a tour of the new holes-to-be on the way back. I'll even show you my favorite shovel. Also, it's getting cold, and the roads are getting icy. Plan accordingly. If you die of hypothermia this weekend, I'll make sure your hometown newspaper hears that you died of auto-erotic asphyxiation while jerking off to The View. While you are out not getting arrested, not building bonfires on the parade field, and not getting married, I want you to remember the Four Ds: 1. Don't do dudes' wives. 2. Don't do drugs. 3. Don't drink and drive. 4. Don't beat your wife. Meach, recover. Drink water. Now, get the hell out of my AO!
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Post by: Welu on 27 Nov 2013, 17:34
I really want to learn an instrument or how to sing after spending a weekend with musicians.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Nov 2013, 17:45
I wish I could... do either of those really. I have the musical ability of... nothing. Literally every other thing in existence is better at music then I am.
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Post by: Thrillho on 27 Nov 2013, 22:53
I really want to learn an instrument or how to sing after spending a weekend with musicians.

It is a damn near universal icebreaker.
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Nov 2013, 04:03
GM, if you ever make it to the general vicinity of San Francisco, I got you on some guitar basics. It is so much easier than it sounds, and literally the hardest part about it is learning how stumming complex rhythms works.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 28 Nov 2013, 04:47
So I'm becoming more resigned to the possibility of living in a small mountain town in the middle of no where. I figure I'll just treat it like being in prison. Do my work, spend all my free time at the gym, kill someone on my first day so everyone knows not to fuck with me. It'll be fine.
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Post by: jwhouk on 28 Nov 2013, 06:16
That last part isn't a suggested item to do. At least, not from our orientation manual.  :police:
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Post by: GarandMarine on 28 Nov 2013, 06:26
GM, if you ever make it to the general vicinity of San Francisco, I got you on some guitar basics. It is so much easier than it sounds, and literally the hardest part about it is learning how stumming complex rhythms works.

I used to play guitar (poorly) actually, got my hand smashed and never got around to learning how to play goofy.
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Post by: ev4n on 28 Nov 2013, 11:27
Had an optomostrist appointment this morning.  Got the drops where they dilate your pupils.

Showed up to work with sunglasses on, and have been complaining about bright lights all day.....
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Post by: jwhouk on 28 Nov 2013, 12:27
Methinks we need  a "whine" thread for stuff like that. ;)
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Nov 2013, 14:29
GM, if you ever make it to the general vicinity of San Francisco, I got you on some guitar basics. It is so much easier than it sounds, and literally the hardest part about it is learning how stumming complex rhythms works.

I used to play guitar (poorly) actually, got my hand smashed and never got around to learning how to play goofy.

The offer absolutely still stands. The best thing about teaching lefties is that all they have to do is perfectly mirror what my hand is doing, instead of having to flip it around in their minds.
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Post by: jwhouk on 28 Nov 2013, 14:38
Of course, if you have issues with one hand, it might be difficult to learn to play guitar, period.

I've often wondered if I'd be better off playing left handed, because of the dexterity needed to play chords.
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Post by: Welu on 28 Nov 2013, 14:51
When my brother attempted to teach me bass, my instinct was to hold it left-handed.

I've tried on and off over the years to teach myself piano with little luck. I blame it on never getting the hang of reading sheet music but I think it is just lack of commitment.

Edit: Discovered some news earlier about a certain person I used to know and it fills me with Schadenfreude.
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Post by: jwhouk on 28 Nov 2013, 14:59
I was doing fine until some schmuck stole my guitar from our storage area at our first apartment in Waukesha.

Granted, it was a crappy old Harmony electric six-string, and the neck was slightly warped, which meant constant tuning, but I had every intention of trying to keep up on learning to play.
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Post by: Aimless on 28 Nov 2013, 15:16
Of course, if you have issues with one hand, it might be difficult to learn to play guitar, period.

I've often wondered if I'd be better off playing left handed, because of the dexterity needed to play chords.

I dunno, I'm very right-handed, at least as much as most other people anyway, but found that it's not that difficult to develop dexterity and strength in my left hand well enough to work on a fretboard. I found it extremely difficult to pluck with my left hand right from the start and above all I couldn't get the strumming to work well.

GM, Welu, maybe you can give this guy some competition :o


Otherwise pick up a small crappy ukulele and go nuts :) there's a lot of instructional material out there, it's fairly easy to get to a point where you can plonk out something that sounds nice and feels fun to play, and you can start making music almost anywhere.
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Nov 2013, 22:03
I was doing fine until some schmuck stole my guitar from our storage area at our first apartment in Waukesha.

Granted, it was a crappy old Harmony electric six-string, and the neck was slightly warped, which meant constant tuning, but I had every intention of trying to keep up on learning to play.

You bite your filthy tongue. Harmony guitars are not crappy unless they've been neglected, abused, or poorly maintained.
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Post by: Asterus on 28 Nov 2013, 22:38
Ohgod, why did I decide to do NaNoWriMo, why am I so far behind, and why do I keep going? I'm only 10kout 2 days from the end, at the expense of most of my hobbies and free time for this month! XD
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Nov 2013, 00:31
Because now you have the start of a novel which you can carry on writing at a more sensible pace!

Last night I attended the AGM for the community cooperative shop where I volunteer and somehow got myself elected vice chair and treasurer. Oops.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 29 Nov 2013, 00:33
I need to get back around to writing my Lovecraftian horror novel.
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Post by: Thrillho on 29 Nov 2013, 00:52
What is NaNoWriMo??
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Post by: Akima on 29 Nov 2013, 02:05
IGTFY (http://igtfy.com/?q=NaNoWriMo).  :-D
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Post by: jwhouk on 29 Nov 2013, 02:22
You bite your filthy tongue. Harmony guitars are not crappy unless they've been neglected, abused, or poorly maintained.

...That was kinda the reason why it was crappy. When I purchased it second-hand (about 20-23 years ago), it hadn't been well maintained.

It was during my first set of lessons with a buddy who taught guitar that we discovered the issue with the neck.
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Post by: Thrillho on 29 Nov 2013, 02:53
IGTFY (http://igtfy.com/?q=NaNoWriMo).  :-D

I know that Google is an available virtually limitless resource, but I'm also interested in people's explanations of things. Sometimes I much prefer asking the question to just Googling what it is.
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Post by: Welu on 29 Nov 2013, 02:56
Gareth, you explained something I've been trying to put into words for ages. I could only get as far as, "LMGTFY makes me feel like a stupid twat for asking a question."
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Post by: Thrillho on 29 Nov 2013, 03:20
I'd much rather hear a person explain what something is and what it means to them than look up a dictionary definition, and if my curiosity is piqued I look up the background facts too.
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Post by: ev4n on 29 Nov 2013, 05:47
As someone who has had to answer hundreds of "what's that?" style questions to precocious 5 year olds in my time, I think I'm ok with using lmgtfy in simple cases like that.  Now, if you want to know MORE about NaNoWriMo, that seems fair game to ask.
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Post by: Asterus on 29 Nov 2013, 05:59
My explanation: It's the result of writers all across the nation getting bored and decided to make and participate in a challenge to write a 50,000 word novel over the month of November. Unfortunately, when my creative writing club decided to to encourage participation, I didn't take into account the fact that November is about time for the second round of exams for college courses. And I'm too stubborn and apparenlty a masochist to actually give up. Somehow, I'm now at 42,000 words with 2 days to do XD (I was at 29,000 when I woke up yesterday.)
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Post by: Thrillho on 29 Nov 2013, 06:07
As someone who has had to answer hundreds of "what's that?" style questions to precocious 5 year olds in my time, I think I'm ok with using lmgtfy in simple cases like that.

I'm pretty sure I can provide better conversation than the majority of precocious 5 year olds. I just happen to prefer actual human interaction, even via the medium of the internet, to Googling encyclopedia entries like I spent the majority of my immensely fucking depressing teens doing.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 29 Nov 2013, 07:07
NaNoWriMo is a fantastic idea... at the worst possible time of the year for ANY ONE.
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Nov 2013, 23:44
my incredibly promiscuous friend has decided to get a vasectomy about 6 months after his illegitimate son was born.

yep, sounds about right.
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Post by: Aimless on 30 Nov 2013, 23:57
First advent came with lots of fluffy snow while I was on call :) an unusually understaffed ER and the rest of the hospital was almost brought to its knees by a wobbly obnoxious loud stampede of extraordinarily drunk young men and women in various stages of distress ranging from worried to almost-dead. Saturday night right after payday, who'da thunk it. But I had just the right amount of work, there were mountains of delicious fika everywhere, I got to see a patient with a likely very weird diagnosis and was called to the stroke ward by nice people for emergency hanging-out-eating-yums. It's not often I like being on call saturday night but this was a good one.

my incredibly promiscuous friend has decided to get a vasectomy about 6 months after his illegitimate son was born.

yep, sounds about right.

If only he could get the vasectomy and then go back in time and kill his unvasectomised self before disaster strikes, or would that create a paradox?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Dec 2013, 01:07
Patrick, this isn't directed at you but sparked by your statement. I really don't like the word "illegitimate". Why do parents have to be married for a baby to be "legitimate"? Stupid hang-over from a former age.
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Post by: Welu on 01 Dec 2013, 04:43
My brain jumped to, "Does he really refuse to wear a condom that much?"

Also agreed, May.
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Dec 2013, 13:52
Patrick, this isn't directed at you but sparked by your statement. I really don't like the word "illegitimate". Why do parents have to be married for a baby to be "legitimate"? Stupid hang-over from a former age.

I agree, but their unmarried conception isn't what makes the phrase relevant. They were going through a breakup after being together over 2 years, and she stopped taking her BC without telling him anything about it, and they had plenty of makeup sex after their fights. When he refused to continue the relationship but made it clear he wanted to be in his child's life both emotionally and financially, she shut him out completely and sued for sole custody. Then she went around the whole town telling everyone what a terrible person he was, played up her own image with the "I'm a hardworking single mother" card, continues to forbid any kind of visitation, all kinds of petty bullshit. Like the kid's a trophy or something. If that ain't illegitimate, I don't know what is.

My brain jumped to, "Does he really refuse to wear a condom that much?"

When he's just playing the hookup game, he's very mindful of safe sex. Me calling him promiscuous was unfair in this situation, but I thought it was funny. I'm not a nice person :3
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Dec 2013, 13:57
That's why I said it wasn't directed at you! I was just following a chain of thought. And honestly, the fact that a child is being used as a pawn in their parents' arguments doesn't mean they're any less of a legitimate human being. Perhaps the mother isn't as legitimately a good parent - but the child isn't "not authorized by the law; not in accordance with accepted standards or rules".
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Post by: pwhodges on 01 Dec 2013, 14:34
As it happened, by coincidence today a visitor (my wife's PhD supervisor, on holiday from NZ) who is staying with us remarked in an appropriate context that calling a child legitimate or illegitimate is completely unacceptable these days.  So there might not be so much of a fight to have over it, May.
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Dec 2013, 19:07
That's why I said it wasn't directed at you! I was just following a chain of thought. And honestly, the fact that a child is being used as a pawn in their parents' arguments doesn't mean they're any less of a legitimate human being.

From the mother's perspective, I am genuinely curious as to whether or not she thinks of the child as a human being yet. I agree that the semantics make no sense in the original context, but unfortunately I think to her, the kid really is just a thing that she can use to hurt someone who she felt hurt by.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 02 Dec 2013, 03:41
I celebrated my birthday in a five star hotel in Amsterdam. It was awesome. And I think that I'm now addicted to the five star treatment ...

I mean, they had Caol Ila 1999 signatory reserve on the drinks menu. We got a tour of the 15th century chapel and all other highlights of the hotel at 10 in the evening from the foods & beverages manager. They made a note so that my girlfriend got the tea she drank after her dinner with her breakfast. Her dinner was two desserts, server didn't bat an eye. Everything is: 'we'll take care of that' and 'yes, of course!'.

Amazing.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Dec 2013, 11:58
Sounds nice! I'd like to have a meal like that just once.

I just permanently deleted my Facebook account after 11 months of it being deactivated. First, though, I downloaded all the photos I was tagged in, all my contacts' email addresses and all their birthdays. Hurrah!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 03 Dec 2013, 04:20
Seems ... drastic?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Dec 2013, 04:40
Well I haven't been using Facebook since January and I don't think I'll ever want to again, but it bothered me that all my data was still there to be sold. When someone told me that it was possible to delete it fully, I decided to do it - but I wanted to get all the info I might need in the future off it first. I'd been thinking "if I really need to contact someone I can just reactivate Facebook some day" so I'd never bothered getting email addresses, which is silly really.

My doorbell has rung twice in the last hour. On the basis that it won't be for me, and that I'm not actually meant to be here at this time on a Tuesday, and also that I'm in my pyjamas, I am not answering it.
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Post by: Loki on 03 Dec 2013, 06:20
It's a Facebook representative trying to convince you to go back.
Don't open.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Dec 2013, 04:47
(I just put a concert of Mozart here (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,16366.msg1206969.html#msg1206969).)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 04 Dec 2013, 07:38
Part of a speech from Lt. Gen John Kelly, USMC relating an incident in Ramadi.

Quote
Two years ago when I was the Commander of all U.S. and Iraqi forces, in fact, the 22nd of April 2008, two Marine infantry battalions, 1/9 “The Walking Dead,” and 2/8 were switching out in Ramadi. One battalion in the closing days of their deployment going home very soon, the other just starting its seven-month combat tour.
 
Two Marines, Corporal Jonathan Yale and Lance Corporal Jordan Haerter, 22 and 20 years old respectively, one from each battalion, were assuming the watch together at the entrance gate of an outpost that contained a makeshift barracks housing 50 Marines.
 
The same broken down ramshackle building was also home to 100 Iraqi police, also my men and our allies in the fight against the terrorists in Ramadi, a city until recently the most dangerous city on earth and owned by Al Qaeda. Yale was a dirt poor mixed-race kid from Virginia with a wife and daughter, and a mother and sister who lived with him and he supported as well. He did this on a yearly salary of less than $23,000. Haerter, on the other hand, was a middle class white kid from Long Island.
 
They were from two completely different worlds. Had they not joined the Marines they would never have met each other, or understood that multiple America’s exist simultaneously depending on one’s race, education level, economic status, and where you might have been born. But they were Marines, combat Marines, forged in the same crucible of Marine training, and because of this bond they were brothers as close, or closer, than if they were born of the same woman.
 
The mission orders they received from the sergeant squad leader I am sure went something like: “Okay you two clowns, stand this post and let no unauthorized personnel or vehicles pass.” “You clear?” I am also sure Yale and Haerter then rolled their eyes and said in unison something like: “Yes Sergeant,” with just enough attitude that made the point without saying the words, “No kidding sweetheart, we know what we’re doing.” They then relieved two other Marines on watch and took up their post at the entry control point of Joint Security Station Nasser, in the Sophia section of Ramadi, al Anbar, Iraq.
 
A few minutes later a large blue truck turned down the alley way—perhaps 60-70 yards in length—and sped its way through the serpentine of concrete jersey walls. The truck stopped just short of where the two were posted and detonated, killing them both catastrophically. Twenty-four brick masonry houses were damaged or destroyed. A mosque 100 yards away collapsed. The truck’s engine came to rest two hundred yards away knocking most of a house down before it stopped.
 
Our explosive experts reckoned the blast was made of 2,000 pounds of explosives. Two died, and because these two young infantrymen didn’t have it in their DNA to run from danger, they saved 150 of their Iraqi and American brothers-in-arms.
 
When I read the situation report about the incident a few hours after it happened I called the regimental commander for details as something about this struck me as different. Marines dying or being seriously wounded is commonplace in combat. We expect Marines regardless of rank or MOS to stand their ground and do their duty, and even die in the process, if that is what the mission takes. But this just seemed different.
 
The regimental commander had just returned from the site and he agreed, but reported that there were no American witnesses to the event—just Iraqi police. I figured if there was any chance of finding out what actually happened and then to decorate the two Marines to acknowledge their bravery, I’d have to do it as a combat award that requires two eye-witnesses and we figured the bureaucrats back in Washington would never buy Iraqi statements. If it had any chance at all, it had to come under the signature of a general officer.
 
I traveled to Ramadi the next day and spoke individually to a half-dozen Iraqi police all of whom told the same story. The blue truck turned down into the alley and immediately sped up as it made its way through the serpentine. They all said, “We knew immediately what was going on as soon as the two Marines began firing.” The Iraqi police then related that some of them also fired, and then to a man, ran for safety just prior to the explosion.
 
All survived. Many were injured … some seriously. One of the Iraqis elaborated and with tears welling up said, “They’d run like any normal man would to save his life.”
 
What he didn’t know until then, he said, and what he learned that very instant, was that Marines are not normal. Choking past the emotion he said, “Sir, in the name of God no sane man would have stood there and done what they did.”
 
“No sane man.”
 
“They saved us all.”
 
What we didn’t know at the time, and only learned a couple of days later after I wrote a summary and submitted both Yale and Haerter for posthumous Navy Crosses, was that one of our security cameras, damaged initially in the blast, recorded some of the suicide attack. It happened exactly as the Iraqis had described it. It took exactly six seconds from when the truck entered the alley until it detonated.
 
You can watch the last six seconds of their young lives. Putting myself in their heads I supposed it took about a second for the two Marines to separately come to the same conclusion about what was going on once the truck came into their view at the far end of the alley. Exactly no time to talk it over, or call the sergeant to ask what they should do. Only enough time to take half an instant and think about what the sergeant told them to do only a few minutes before: “… let no unauthorized personnel or vehicles pass.”
 
The two Marines had about five seconds left to live. It took maybe another two seconds for them to present their weapons, take aim, and open up. By this time the truck was half-way through the barriers and gaining speed the whole time. Here, the recording shows a number of Iraqi police, some of whom had fired their AKs, now scattering like the normal and rational men they were—some running right past the Marines. They had three seconds left to live.
 
For about two seconds more, the recording shows the Marines’ weapons firing non-stop…the truck’s windshield exploding into shards of glass as their rounds take it apart and tore in to the body of the son-of-a-bitch who is trying to get past them to kill their brothers—American and Iraqi—bedded down in the barracks totally unaware of the fact that their lives at that moment depended entirely on two Marines standing their ground. If they had been aware, they would have know they were safe…because two Marines stood between them and a crazed suicide bomber.
 
The recording shows the truck careening to a stop immediately in front of the two Marines. In all of the instantaneous violence Yale and Haerter never hesitated. By all reports and by the recording, they never stepped back. They never even started to step aside. They never even shifted their weight. With their feet spread should width apart, they leaned into the danger, firing as fast as they could work their weapons. They had only one second left to live.
 
The truck explodes. The camera goes blank. Two young men go to their God.
Six seconds. Not enough time to think about their families, their country, their flag, or about their lives or their deaths, but more than enough time for two very brave young men to do their duty…into eternity. That is the kind of people who are on watch all over the world tonight—for you.


Read more: http://www.businessinsider.com/john-kellys-speech-about-marines-in-ramadi-2013-6#ixzz2mWIjf4hc   


With this particular shred of hell bearing down on them, they stood their ground. Heck, they even leaned in.

That's what my family is to me.

(http://static2.businessinsider.com/image/51acb003eab8eabf28000024-400-/marines-ramadi-truck.jpg)


S/F

Your local jarhead


Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 05 Dec 2013, 16:42
Moderator Comment The response to this has been split off and sent to Discuss!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 05 Dec 2013, 16:49
Might as well move the original post there too Hodges.
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Post by: Welu on 05 Dec 2013, 16:52
While I was in work someone pushed in the wing mirrors and pulled out the wipers of my car. Just pulled them forward, not off. I'm positive I know which little shits did it, because they were outside the shop and I know they don't like me, and while the act itself was not major, it worries me to think they thought it was okay to do that and the paranoid part of me worries they might do something else more malicious.

I'm guessing they chanced it because I couldn't park in the actual carpark of the shop but they might not know the CCTV doesn't reach where I was parked.
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Post by: Grognard on 05 Dec 2013, 21:04
*Betcha none of y'all have done THIS*
Thanks to my work, I've had the opportunity to sift/shovel/vac about 14# of black volcanic sand recently.
so what?
the point of origin.













the beaches of Iwo Jima.
Even found half a dozen pieces of shrapnel and part of a spent bullet.
I've never seen Marines get so suddenly Reverent.
I know WHY....
but really: DAMN.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 05 Dec 2013, 21:49
Damn. Don't suppose you can send me some, I already have a jar at the center of my alter but can always use more.
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Post by: jwhouk on 05 Dec 2013, 22:55
For those of you keeping score at  home:

Deer of Central Wisconsin - 1
JWH's Buick - 0

####ing thing ran in front of my car while I was driving to work. Swerved to avoid him, still nailed him with my side view mirror. Car caught the edge of the road, hit solid ice and started sliding a good 100 meters or so through the ditch. I thought I'd be able to recover, but I got too far down in the ditch, and the snow was too thick (and frozen).

A visit to the repair shop is coming tomorrow. :(
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Post by: pwhodges on 06 Dec 2013, 01:36
Might as well move the original post there too Hodges.

I did it that way because I felt this was still a valid blog:

That's what my family is to me.
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Post by: Akima on 06 Dec 2013, 02:03
For what it is worth, I agree, and I think you handled it perfectly.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Dec 2013, 03:04
I just booked two tickets to a concert I don't know I'll be able to go to and don't have anyone to go with me.

I sure hope that those two difficulties sort themselves out in the next two months.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 06 Dec 2013, 03:52
For those of you keeping score at  home:

Deer of Central Wisconsin - 1
JWH's Buick - 0

####ing thing ran in front of my car while I was driving to work. Swerved to avoid him, still nailed him with my side view mirror. Car caught the edge of the road, hit solid ice and started sliding a good 100 meters or so through the ditch. I thought I'd be able to recover, but I got too far down in the ditch, and the snow was too thick (and frozen).

A visit to the repair shop is coming tomorrow. :(

Yikes! Glad you're okay!


Now a brief blog:

Ladies. and gentlemen who do this. I know kinda understand one fact of life common to many of you that is alien to me. Shaving one's legs is a fucking bear. Unfortunately for me I resemble a bear fuzz wise so shaving my left leg from the knee down is a lot of work (also apparently shaving made me whiter some how?) but yeah total props that's not fun to do at all.
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Post by: Loki on 06 Dec 2013, 05:32
Why only the left one?
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Post by: Lines on 06 Dec 2013, 05:36
Are you shaving for a tattoo?

Also, it will always be harder to shave established hair than stubble. Especially if it's thicker and has never been shaved.

___

I love how basically every school in the city is closed today, including several of the universities, but not the one I work at. (Got ice overnight and more in the way, hooray...) So I called off because fuck them that's why. Also I don't want to drive up and down steep fucking hills to go to work and then come home in freaking ice storms. (Cincinnati has 7 major hills, I live on top of one and work near another. It's not a fun drive in inclement weather and my commute is 30 min in normal weather/traffic.)

Also I hate my job (not the kids, but definitely my new co-teacher and the administration) and I plan on using the day to update my resume and start looking for other jobs. Yay!
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 06 Dec 2013, 05:40
Also the colour of dark hair is reflected onto the surrounding skin and other hairs, making your skin appear darker. Hair also lessens the effect of UV rays so you're likely to be paler than you think you are.


Blog:

I had my masters interview on Tuesday. It did not go well. Guess I'm going to start saving money and getting in shape for my next tattoo. Not looking forward to shaving my thighs, pubes, stomach and chest but there you are.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 06 Dec 2013, 06:07
Yes new Ink for GM! I shaved with an electric razor this morning, and I'll be shaving with my actual razor tonight

Didn't just just get that job Linds? Or am I thinking of someone else?
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Post by: pwhodges on 06 Dec 2013, 06:30
I had my masters interview on Tuesday. It did not go well.

Sorry to hear that.  Do you have any remaining applications still in hand?
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Post by: nekowafer on 06 Dec 2013, 07:09
GM: exfoliate before you shave! It will make your skin SO much happier.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 06 Dec 2013, 07:23
Do what now?
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Post by: pwhodges on 06 Dec 2013, 08:22
Last Friday, my users' computers didn't get DHCP.  I couldn't find a reason (though I fiddled with IPv6 and rebooted a few things), but it came back mid-morning.

Last Monday, after installing a new printer, my print server stopped communicating with any printer.  Again, I fiddled with IPv6 and rebooted a few things, and a bit after midnight (yes, I'm that dedicated), it started working again.

This morning, no DHCP - but only after some people had already connected.  Also no connection from the print server.  Didn't resolve on its own, even with - you guessed it...



Turned out to be a faulty 10Gbps fibre module in the connection from the core switch stack in the server room to the switch stack in the hub room that serves my users (and pretty much no one else).  Fell back to the spare 1Gbps link, and everything sprang back to life.  It seems that this is another item to add to the £10k-worth of hardware damaged by the routine testing of a UPS a couple of weeks ago.  The hardware concerned is run by a service department for the building, and is not mine.

The symptoms were very strange, like some machines being able to ping each other in one direction but not the other, and DHCP failing but everything else working.  And intermittent, of course.

But I feel well justified as it turns out that none of my equipment or its management was at fault.
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Post by: Lines on 06 Dec 2013, 08:58
Didn't just just get that job Linds? Or am I thinking of someone else?

I started this job back at the end of January, beginning of February. I loved it until my previous co-teacher was fired for BS reasons, then I was ok to apathetic about it until the beginning of November, and then it started to make me completely miserable. A couple of my coworkers feel the same way and people who are good teachers keep getting dicked over and/or fired for no reason while shitty teachers are being kept around. I've given up. What's really getting to me is that I love all of the children and their parents and I'll be heartbroken to leave them, but I just can't take it anymore. But I can't afford to leave, because of loan repayments, so I'm stuck until I find a new job.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Dec 2013, 12:52
:( I'm sorry Linds, that sucks. I really hope you can find something awesome quickly!
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 06 Dec 2013, 17:10
I had my masters interview on Tuesday. It did not go well.

Sorry to hear that.  Do you have any remaining applications still in hand?

I have about six universities that haven't replied to me yet. I'm trying to stay positive but I'm reasonably sure they've all finished their interviews already. On the other hand, I also thought that when I got the interview I had last week so I could still get something.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 07 Dec 2013, 01:22
I've just been offered a job that I went for with the Council.

About 6 weeks ago I left a nice stable job because the commute was too long and eating into my non-work life. I had lined up a new job to go into straight away, albeit through an agency and it looked pretty good. However, after a week I got a call on Sunday evening asking me not to go in on Monday. It's pretty rare that an agency will do that and no reason was offered to them or me as to why the position was ended so swiftly.

After three days I managed to get another job through another agency but that lasted two weeks and ended abruptly as they had hired an apprentice to replace me. That was a queue for a very miserable week of job hunting until the agency called me back and said that they really wanted me to return. Whilst I was very tempted to tell them to jog on for dicking me about, Christmas is coming and I need their money before I need my dignity.

It's a shitty job doing data checking. I'd offer all of my information analysis, process improvement, quality management and other skills but it would be worthless. The tech that they're using in this place is ancient and barely able to cope with what they are doing. The staff have very poor IT literacy skills and they management seem to persist in keeping things just out of going under. For a company with a massive turnover and decent profit margin, it seems mind-boggling that they would allow the backbone of the company to be so weak.

I'll be glad to get the hell out of there. However, over the past six weeks I've been able to think about what I really want to do and working in an office ad infinitum is not it. So while I'm really happy to be taking this Council job, it's not going to be a long term strategy. I'm going to be spending some time in engineering to doing something more rewarding and productive, hopefully involving food.
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Post by: Patrick on 07 Dec 2013, 02:37
Camille's been super distant for over a week and it's been worrying me. I've found a number of possible solutions to the whole situation that let us both continue pursuing the dreams that make us who we are, and I've relayed them to her, and she still just doesn't want to talk about anything. Anything. It worries me when a woman doesn't want to talk (science says they're the more prolific talkers!) and especially when it's the girl who's won my heart.

I should probably save this for the relationship thread or the drunk thread, but at this point it feels like she's given up on us. Given up on me, too. And if that's what turns out to be the case, I can't go on like this. It makes me heartsick just thinking about it. But I can't take much more of this silent treatment.
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Post by: Thrillho on 07 Dec 2013, 03:05
After a certain point, Pat, you shouldn't have to put up with the silent treatment. It's unfair for her to just leave you hanging.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Dec 2013, 03:19
Is it possible that she's feeling overwhelmed with the pressure of having to make decisions about her future, and because she's struggling to cope with that, she is (probably unconsciously) sabotaging the relationship in order to have one thing fewer to try and juggle?

That sort of situation is very hard, but I think all that you can do is resolve to continue to be there, to try and remember that it's almost certainly not about you but about general stress. It's very difficult to not react to the unfairness of being made the brunt of problems which you didn't cause, but I think it is possible to be the girder which stops the relationship buckling under the strain of the other problems.

She knows that you want to be with her, she knows you would like to talk about things, and she has heard your suggestions. Now, all you can do is leave the ball in her court and try to act as if everything is fine and she's just busy.

All this advice is based on the assumption that you want to preserve the relationship; of course it wouldn't be wrong of you to decide that it isn't worth the effort, but I don't get the impression that you do feel that way at the moment.
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Post by: Loki on 07 Dec 2013, 03:37
So, uh, there is a ladybug in my room, which likely got in here during autumn (I'd told about it here). I suppose since I started heating, it decided it's spring.

What do I do with it? Pretty sure it'd die outside at 5° C / 40 F.
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Post by: snalin on 07 Dec 2013, 05:05
Make a little nest for it!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 07 Dec 2013, 06:25
Get a mason jar, some mesh, some twigs and veggies and give it a little place to live till summer?

On another note history time!


Yesterday, Dec. 7, 1941 - a date which will live in infamy - the United States of America was suddenly and deliberately attacked by naval and air forces of the Empire of Japan.

The United States was at peace with that nation and, at the solicitation of Japan, was still in conversation with the government and its emperor looking toward the maintenance of peace in the Pacific.

Indeed, one hour after Japanese air squadrons had commenced bombing in Oahu, the Japanese ambassador to the United States and his colleagues delivered to the Secretary of State a formal reply to a recent American message. While this reply stated that it seemed useless to continue the existing diplomatic negotiations, it contained no threat or hint of war or armed attack.

It will be recorded that the distance of Hawaii from Japan makes it obvious that the attack was deliberately planned many days or even weeks ago. During the intervening time, the Japanese government has deliberately sought to deceive the United States by false statements and expressions of hope for continued peace.

Full Documentary on the strike at Pearl Harbor:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Dec 2013, 09:40
Today I spent the morning getting covered in flour, lunchtime getting covered in glitter, and the afternoon getting covered in bike oil. I am now about to go out to spend the evening with an attractive woman! Hmm. Perhaps I should have considered this sequence of events a little better.

However, it has been a productive day thus far: I did the weekly accounts and other than the inevitable £10-20 discrepancy which arises every week in a shop staffed by 24 different people throughout the week, they all squared off neatly and made sense. Then I made a Christmas wreath which I think I'll give to my friend, since she has a more suitable front door to hang it on. I had a very intensive and useful bike maintenance class, and now I know how to make my bike less miserable. Basically I have been Learning Things. Off to the kitchen to try out a new recipe! (The kitchen is about six paces away from "the office" which is also the dining room and is three paces from the bedroom which is also the living room).
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Post by: Patrick on 07 Dec 2013, 15:15
May, between your advice and Gaz's, I'm going to give it about a week to two weeks from today. If she won't see fit to restart a dialogue by then, I'm going to call her and break up with her. A relationship with no meaningful communication isn't a relationship at all.
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Post by: Thrillho on 07 Dec 2013, 15:47
Precisely.

It can be tough, but sometimes you have to retreat so you don't get hurt any more.
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Post by: jwhouk on 08 Dec 2013, 12:17
An update - and the reason why I didn't post much yesterday:

After some discussions with my people from State Farm, it did not appear that my car's damage would be all that bad. Maybe some bump-outs of dents in the fender; a new bumper cover because of a crack that had developed in the old one; replace the side-view mirror; some painting and such to get everything to look good.

So I'm thinking, "Gotta run wife to an appointment, then get some gas while I'm out." Simple, right?

Nope.

I'm driving west on Main Street - our busiest highway - on the east side of town, close to the freeway. I'm toodling along, heading through this busy intersection. This intersection is busy because it has traffic lights, turn lanes, and leads to the city's only McDonalds and a shopping center with a Wal-Mart.

A 19-year-old kid in a Saturn sedan speeds through the intersection, making a left turn to the north on this busy route. (For those of you in RHD countries like the UK, left turns cross traffic.) He apparently didn't see me, because he drove right through and nailed me right in the left front corner of my car.
Add to all this that it was sub-zero weather - which isn't common for us here in early December (it's more for January-February), and I'm already shaken and frustrated because of the deer's damage. There was still a piece of the air scoop, under the bumper, that diverts air into the engine compartment; I had to use an old cargo net from the back to tie it to the mounting for the bumper, to keep it from scraping the road as I drove. The police officer found my license plate back at the intersection - and cited the kid for Failure to Yield.

I'm scared that the car might be totaled, since it has 91k miles and is 10 years old. It is a Buick, though, and it's not difficult to find spare parts for those, especially around here.

EDIT: Didn't complete my thought:
I'm almost afraid of driving it over to the body shop, because I figure I'm gonna get hit again.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 08 Dec 2013, 22:59
Failure to Yield?

This is something that really gets me about driving. In just about any other breach of the law there seems to be a push for the more severe classification to apply. Break the law in a car and some kind of inverse rule apply where the person should only suffer the least possible consequences.

A couple of weeks ago I witness a woman getting knocked off her bike. Fortunately it was just bumps and scrapes although because there was a head impact I called up an ambulance. I got a call on Thursday from the police asking for a brief statement as they were dealing with the driver. I was genuinely shocked, usually any accident were a cyclist or a pedestrian gets to walk away without injuries requiring hospital treatment are referred to as an "insurance matter".

I find it really hard to understand why people moving a 1/2 ton+ around aren't held a bit more accountable for their actions.  Although reported road deaths are at their lowest since records began, this almost entirely down to the development of safety features in cars and better road design and very little to do with driver behaviour since drink driving became socially taboo.
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Post by: Patrick on 08 Dec 2013, 23:57
I decided to update my situation with Camel in the correct thread, sorry for the hijack. I would also like to let you all know that I think you're all incredible. And, related: Tonight feels like one of those nights where I should take inventory of all the great people and things in my life, and you all qualify. I seriously don't know what I'd do without this community.

On a less melodramatic note, last night my bandmate Matt invited me to his house so we could drink beers with a mutual friend and hockey fan and figure out how to work his new copy of NHL '14. Seriously, never had a better "fuck everything" night, ever. Crashed there, and all day today involved playing more video game hockey and a very brief band practice that led to the whole band just kickin it and being super lazy and not giving a fuck.

All things considered, I've had a fantastic weekend.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 09 Dec 2013, 02:48
Just had to take my cat Lenny to be put to sleep. He'd been unwell for a couple of weeks and surgery to remove a suspected lymphoma hadn't improved matters any.

The world is a bit shittier today.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 09 Dec 2013, 03:08
Sorry for your loss. Feel better soon.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 09 Dec 2013, 03:55
Didn't get in to university.
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Dec 2013, 04:04
Bad luck!  What do you plan to do now?  Or is it just carry on as things are (for now)?
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Post by: Akima on 09 Dec 2013, 04:38
I'm sorry to hear that, Jimmy. But, on the bright side, at least you won't have to move to Queensland.
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Post by: jwhouk on 09 Dec 2013, 05:54
Car in shop. Hopefully Flo and her Progressive friends will pay for full repairs (except for the mirror, which will now be pretty much out of my own pocket due to the deductible).
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Post by: Welu on 09 Dec 2013, 07:37
Man, we're all having a big downer in the last while of this thread. Hugs for everybody!

Related: I went into work to ask for a an undefined amount of time off. Deep into a burn out with everything right now and the only thing I could put down for a while was work. Fortunately my boss made it really easy and just told me I'd be treated like anyone other worker in university (which really should have been happening already) so my job is thankfully waiting for me and to come back when I'm ready.
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Post by: Grognard on 09 Dec 2013, 08:44
I spent Saturday driving JROTC cadets to/from Norfolk, VA for a funeral/memorial service.
One of their instructors died of cancer.  Man had serious cojones.  Fought it and stayed active with his friends and family until a week before his death. 
I think his cadets did him proud: with only a single days' notice, managed to get 20+ to the memorial, in uniform, so they could present honors.
All of them at attention, rendreing salutes, during the rifle salute and Taps and presentation of his flag to the widow.

Not a dry eye was found.

I couldn't help all of them, but I took my van load to Virginia Beach (5 miles away) to see the Christmas lights, walk the beach and have some hot chocolate.  Doing what I could to boost their morale.

Sad for all, but I'm so damn proud of these kids.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 10 Dec 2013, 07:29
So, aside from the fact that I haven't posted in almost 2 weeks, I'm still here!! It's just been one crazy thing after another. And I'm also incredibly overwhelmed with my "unread replies". There are like, 20 topics to catch up on!  :psyduck:

I certainly hope that there are some happier things floating around in those other threads. *Hugs* to all that need them....Jeez, I've missed you all a lot.



Anyway, long story short:

Still no news about the house. Fingers still crossed.

Was swamped at work for the days coming up to Thanksgiving- we donate baskets of food to families in need around the community and the point person for that was out sick most of the week prior, so another coworker and I took it over. It was wonderful to see how grateful everyone was and it felt great to be so involved but MAN was it a lot of work!

Day of Thanksgiving was nice- went out to lunch with Nick's family and then did dinner with mine. A little more traveling than we're used to, but it was so worth it. Minimal stress, quality time and amazing food.

Day after was not so great. We found out that one of Nick's cousins passed away. 29 years old, had a 4 year old daughter. I'd only met him once (a few months ago, at a funeral of all things). From what we know, it was drug related. Unsure of whether it was accidental or on purpose. Either way.....incredibly sad. The funeral home was jam packed and it was really heartbreaking. Reminded me a lot of my friend Katie....also WAY too young. :-\ Makes you wonder if things would have turn out differently if people knew how many lives they had impacted in their short time with others.

*sigh*

Anyway..

Aside from all that I've been chugging along, started another job (at a painting party studio!!! YAY) and have been wrapping up my second (third?) job at the local community college. Today will be my last day there for the semester. It's been fun but I'm ready for it to be over. You can only sit still in the same pose for so long. On the other hand, it's been amazing seeing the students paintings come to life. Their work is beautiful. The additional good news about that being over is that I will have a few extra hours a week to eradicate the giant mess in my apartment that comes from being spread too thin. Now...if only I could find my freaking planner. I think it may have been eaten by a pile of laundry. :-o

Christmas is taking over my life now.....lots of grand plans. About 90-95% done with my shopping. Just have to buy for the people whose gifts get shipped, so I can wait until my next paycheck because those generally get sent after the actual holiday. Thank goodness, because my bank account is suffering. Now, I get to wrap like a madwoman and then start the homemade stuff. Only doing a few ornaments this year because I still haven't fully recovered from The Great 8-Month Craft Bender of 2012/2013. However, I will be tackling the kitchen with full force. This year, I'll be taking on chocolate covered pretzels, gummy candy, fudge, mints, beeswax lip balm and by request, more of what my friends lovingly referred to last year as Christmas Crack (http://www.bettycrocker.com/recipes/gluten-free-reindeer-feed/453bbf43-dafd-41c3-adff-d93e8d4194ad). And of course, a few batches of cookies.

Until then, I'll be busting my butt to get our "Angel Tree" at work situated. We do it every year and this year we're pretty overwhelmed with requests. We've got about 80 kids to buy for this year and in general, we only get enough from our donations to cover about 30 of them. (PS......if anyone is feeling the holiday spirit and wants to help out, we'll gladly accept toy/hat/scarf/whatever-you're-willing-to-give donations!! PM me for my office address!)


I think that's about it. Maybe? :-P
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Post by: Grognard on 10 Dec 2013, 13:21
JUST found out that the wife bought $800+ of Christmas on Paypal. :-o
... she didn't warn me about...
Add that to the standard bills applied to my checkbook... :cry:

FCUK. I'm in the Negative Red until payday.  :(    :x

yah.
probably gonna argue tonite.
!!!!! fcuk !!!!!!
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Post by: Loki on 11 Dec 2013, 04:13
I stayed at home today because I need some time off to think about stuff(tm).

I am missing a lecture right now, but I can easily compensate that by reading material.
What is more important that I have a meeting of a university council (with like, prorectors and important people(tm)) in an hour and am not sure I want to go.
We students have two chairs in the meeting, and we have up to six people appointed to take them. I know two of us cannot come. That means it's up to the other four of us two make sure there are two people sitting there representing students of the whole university. It will be about a topic I know next to nothing about and don't have time to educate myself until then.
I guess I will just take a shower now and then decide.
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Post by: Patrick on 11 Dec 2013, 09:42
apparently using the doge meme in a comment thread on Troubador's Facefuck page is such a grave sin that Matt's kicking me out of the band over it. way to kick a guy who's already down over losing his girlfriend, and doing it for a FUCKING BULLSHIT REASON. the guy said he's embarrassed of me every single time he sees something I say, and I told him that's not a real nice thing to say about a friend, and that if that's how he fucking feels about it, he should find somebody who's cool enough to be in a band with him.
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Post by: Welu on 11 Dec 2013, 09:58
Wow, that sucks hard. Seems like such an overreaction that I wonder if he's pissed at something and taking it out on you. Even if that is the case, that's really shitty.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 11 Dec 2013, 10:50
That's fucking hardcore bullshit Pat. Especially because the doge meme is awesome.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 11 Dec 2013, 11:08
I'd say your response should be something like

WOW
                 SUCH PETTY
     SO BAWW

...but that would probably make him more angry.


That aside, I hope things get better soon.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 11 Dec 2013, 11:11
I second Pilchard's suggestion.
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Post by: Loki on 11 Dec 2013, 16:05
Sucks Pat :(
So I went to the council meeting. It was quite interesting and thankfully there were two other student representatives there.

Then I hung out with friends and had a very nice evening :)
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Post by: ankhtahr on 11 Dec 2013, 21:55
Then I hung out with friends and had a very nice evening :)

Hang ... out... Hmm. rings a bell somewhere. I can't quite put my finger on it though. But I definitely heard of such a thing somewhere in the past.

I just returned from university. It's 06:52 am. Yay.

I don't even have any demands in the area of spare time. Sleep time would be enough to make me happier. But yeah, hanging out with friends has become absolutely impossible to me since beginning with university. Damn, I'm looking forward to christmas. I'll go home to Kiel on the 23rd. And on the 26th I'll go to Hamburg for the Congress, I'm so excited for it!
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Post by: Akima on 12 Dec 2013, 03:05
apparently using the doge meme in a comment thread on Troubador's Facefuck page is such a grave sin that Matt's kicking me out of the band over it.
I didn't even know what the doge meme was until I googled it (it turned out to have nothing to do with Venice), so I think that may take the prize for the pissiest reason to get pissy I've heard of. Hope you find a better slot soon, Patrick.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 12 Dec 2013, 08:58
Just had my first real encounter with tram rails on the way to the store. Now I know how big the angle has to be when crossing them on a bicycle. My palms hurt.
I almost crashed into a Mercedes because of that. I'm only here cause I'm lucky.
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Post by: Patrick on 12 Dec 2013, 13:50
Thanks for the support you guys. Sorry my band turned out to be such a letdown, I really wish y'all could've heard the new songs with me on them. They won't be the same without me (just kinda an unavoidable truth) so I don't know how good it'll be after they replace me. And that's gonna be an interesting thing, since 2 bands in town are going to be looking for bassists. Here goes nothin.
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Post by: Thrillho on 12 Dec 2013, 13:56
Fuck Troubador without you. Far as I'm concerned they've made one record and broken up.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 12 Dec 2013, 14:05
Just had my first real encounter with tram rails on the way to the store. Now I know how big the angle has to be when crossing them on a bicycle. My palms hurt.
I almost crashed into a Mercedes because of that. I'm only here cause I'm lucky.

Tram tracks are a bit of an art on a bicycle, especially if you run skinny road slicks. It's not so much getting an angle as shimmying your way across them, particularly if you're travelling parallel to them at speed. A little flick of the front wheel as you scoosh it over the first track and fishtail the rear, repeat on the second and roll away like a boss.

Warning: do not try this in really slick conditions or if you aren't convinced you can make it.

I'm mostly grateful I no longer live in Toronto where the tram tracks are really rough and there's lots of junctions.
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Post by: ev4n on 13 Dec 2013, 06:25
I'm grateful I don't live in Toronto any more for about 10000000 reasons.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 13 Dec 2013, 07:33
Oh, hello impromptu, hour-long, mandatory training! Glad you've stopped by! Not like any of us had anything to do today.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Dec 2013, 03:51
Yargh, spontaneous invitation to the city's lesbian bar by two girls I met a couple of weeks ago. I have no clothes which seem suitable for going to a bar. I made a joke of it but I genuinely don't know what one wears to a bar when one does not own any jeans (my friend's suggestion) and only has one dress which might be suitable, but is in the laundry basket.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 14 Dec 2013, 04:19
... you don't own jeans? How did that happen?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Dec 2013, 04:24
I don't wear trousers, except as part of my uniform for placements.
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Post by: Loki on 14 Dec 2013, 04:39
Emotional rollercoaster tomorning. Now mighty fine.
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Post by: Aimless on 14 Dec 2013, 06:24
Yargh, spontaneous invitation to the city's lesbian bar by two girls I met a couple of weeks ago. I have no clothes which seem suitable for going to a bar. I made a joke of it but I genuinely don't know what one wears to a bar when one does not own any jeans (my friend's suggestion) and only has one dress which might be suitable, but is in the laundry basket.

Quick! You must find five products for your head-neck-face region and a feminine top!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Dec 2013, 06:37
I suspect that perhaps the magazine advice to lesbians might be a bit different. My friend and I were joking about dungarees and flannel shirts (neither of which I have either!).
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Post by: Lines on 14 Dec 2013, 07:37
In my experience, it really doesn't matter what you wear if you're going to just have fun. Just wear one of your favorite outfits, because then you feel good and it'll show.

Although iI wish you did have pants because it would be fun to see what butch May looks like. ;)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Dec 2013, 07:55
Hahaha I don't think butch May exists! I also don't really have favourite outfits, I just have clothes that I don't hate quite as much as other clothes. I've decided on a dress though, I'd forgotten I had it.
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Post by: Aimless on 14 Dec 2013, 08:23
I suspect that perhaps the magazine advice to lesbians might be a bit different. My friend and I were joking about dungarees and flannel shirts (neither of which I have either!).

Oh I dunno, I guess it depends on what you want to signal but the preferences of the few lesbian women I've known have, to the best of my knowledge, been fairly evenly distributed along the butch-feminine scale :o I guess in the end as long as you look and feel kinda relaxed and happy you're fine (not to mention relaxed and happy).
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 14 Dec 2013, 09:49
All lesbian woman I have evr met had a preferance for flannel and short, bleached-blonde hair. To the point that I was wondering whether you get handed a uniform or something.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Dec 2013, 09:56
Maybe you just haven't realised that the non-flannel short-hair lesbians were lesbians?
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 14 Dec 2013, 11:05
I think if I had to come up with an "All of the lesbians I know wear "X"", I wouldn't be able to come up with anything for "X" that wasn't incredibly general.

Like shoes. Yeah. They all wear shoes.  :-P
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 14 Dec 2013, 11:22
Maybe you just haven't realised that the non-flannel short-hair lesbians were lesbians?
Must be something like this. But it just strikes me as odd that every one of them that did declare themselves lesbians all basically wore the same. It just leaves you wondering why that is.
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Post by: Loki on 14 Dec 2013, 11:49
I think if I had to come up with an "All of the lesbians I know wear "X"", I wouldn't be able to come up with anything for "X" that wasn't incredibly general.

Like shoes. Yeah. They all wear shoes.  :-P

I know a bi girl who sometimes doesn't wear shoes in the summer.
(That's like, a double lesbian, right?)
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Post by: Thrillho on 14 Dec 2013, 13:53
Man, I think I'm going to start ignoring the comic section of the forum again.
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Post by: snalin on 14 Dec 2013, 14:19
3235 posts, still not a single one in the comics forum! Not quite sure why.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Dec 2013, 15:12
You're an elitist? :P
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Post by: snalin on 14 Dec 2013, 15:34
Damn right I am!

But I think the extreme toxicity the lower forums had towards the upper forums when I joined kind of seeped in. Also all other forums I've been in has had more enjoyable off-topic sections than on-topic ones.
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Post by: pwhodges on 14 Dec 2013, 15:45
But if you had nothing to say about the comic, the question does arise of why you came to join this forum in the first place.  Subsequently finding a greater interest in the wealth of stuff that happens in the rest of the forum is completely understandable, of course.
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Post by: snalin on 14 Dec 2013, 16:19
Well, I love the comic, and I figured that people who liked it liked cool stuff and might be interesting to talk with.

Like, I often get really well along with other radical (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Far-left_politics) people, but I generally don't talk politics with them. If that makes sense.
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Post by: pwhodges on 14 Dec 2013, 16:35
OK, I'll buy that.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 14 Dec 2013, 16:36
Emotional rollercoaster tomorning. Now mighty fine.

uh oh?
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Post by: Patrick on 14 Dec 2013, 20:09
Fuck Troubador without you. Far as I'm concerned they've made one record and broken up.

I am going to record the second album with them and then call it quits. I've grown weary of working so hard doing literally all the promotional work, the booking, the PR, and having nothing to show for it aside from two bandmates who don't care whether it gets us anywhere or not and a few shiny new wounds to my ego over this bullshit fight. I can't just sit here and want to make a career of this while they don't have any motivation to meet me halfway. We should ALL be going out of our way to make a success of this if we all want it like we say we do, not just push it on the one guy who wants it most.
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Post by: Jimor on 14 Dec 2013, 23:38
But if you had nothing to say about the comic, the question does arise of why you came to join this forum in the first place.  Subsequently finding a greater interest in the wealth of stuff that happens in the rest of the forum is completely understandable, of course.

I've posted a few times in the comic section, but otherwise generally don't drop in very much even though I read it and the forums pretty much every day. For the most part, I find that I'm much more likely to participate in discussions about a comic on another comic's forum, just because they're generally more casual about it.

I am going to record the second album with them and then call it quits. I've grown weary of working so hard doing literally all the promotional work, the booking, the PR, and having nothing to show for it aside from two bandmates who don't care whether it gets us anywhere or not and a few shiny new wounds to my ego over this bullshit fight. I can't just sit here and want to make a career of this while they don't have any motivation to meet me halfway. We should ALL be going out of our way to make a success of this if we all want it like we say we do, not just push it on the one guy who wants it most.

I agree you need to find others who are as dedicated as you are. I'm so surrounded by people who are pushing hard to make music their life that I almost forget that for most, having it just being a hobby, albeit one they care deeply about, is fine for most people. I really hope you can find some musicians who are on that same wavelength for you. I'm tempted to say move here, but I don't know if it's really any better here or not.

On my own endeavors, a music video I shot/directed/edited for a local artist is going to be dropped/featured on The Big Takeover (http://www.bigtakeover.com) music site on Monday! Direct link when that happens.  :-D

I've also taken some preliminary steps towards launching my own music site/blog by getting the domain name I wanted: MachineBomb.com. The site will be dedicated to seeking out and indexing local independent acts from an many different cities as possible. The idea is to make it really easy to browse who's playing in any local scene to see what may be good enough to warrant attention. It's going to take a few weeks to figure out how to actually run the site in a way that's manageable and useful, but I think the idea behind it all has enough merit to maybe go somewhere eventually.
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Post by: Lines on 15 Dec 2013, 06:50
Well, I love the comic, and I figured that people who liked it liked cool stuff and might be interesting to talk with.

That's why I joined. In all my time here, I have posted up there maybe a handful of times. I read the comic everyday, but I don't feel the need to discuss it here. Like you, I just thought the community seemed interesting. And hey, I've made real friends here, so I feel no loss about not participating in all parts of the forum.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 15 Dec 2013, 10:14
I think I posted this elsewhere, but I joined because of the whole Claire thing, so I went South to discuss pretty much directly after PMing Zoe a few times and pestering her with a ton of questions.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 15 Dec 2013, 10:16
Funnily enough I don't recall posting in the comic section at all. But then we are talking about going on nine years ago.

But those who frequent the comic forum... they uh... take this thing pretty seriously to a sometimes alarming degree.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 15 Dec 2013, 10:29
You get a certain amount of that in the fandom for anything; and the discussion of the comic here is mere frippery compared with one forum I visit which is still discussing an anime series from 1995 in as heavy a way as you can imagine.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 15 Dec 2013, 10:35
I'm sure that's true, but I am a tad unsettled by how personally offended some of the folks in there seem to be by Marigold this week.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Dec 2013, 11:54
I sometimes find it odd that people can dislike a cartoon character, but since I don't find it odd that people can like a cartoon character that's perhaps illogical.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 15 Dec 2013, 14:32
overwhelming stuff. gotta let myself fall. be offline. relax. sleep. goodnight.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 15 Dec 2013, 14:41
I sometimes find it odd that people can dislike a cartoon character, but since I don't find it odd that people can like a cartoon character that's perhaps illogical.

Depends how you define logic. Logic in terms of simple facts and cold calculation? Probably illogical. Logic in terms of the myriad complexities of humans and their nature? Very logical. Something in the area of anthropomorphisation and projection.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 15 Dec 2013, 16:12
overwhelming stuff. gotta let myself fall. be offline. relax. sleep. goodnight.

If you need to talk to somebody, you can always send me a PM.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 15 Dec 2013, 16:51
I'll extend the same offer, Loki, to you or anyone here. We've all had our trying times. Trip as much as you gotta, we got you.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 16 Dec 2013, 02:21
Thanks guys. I return the offer.

The day was not bad, it was just mentally (and also physically) challenging and I didn't realize until it was over.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 16 Dec 2013, 05:30
I just realized there's a school opposite of the building I'm living in. Today I heard someone do that "hot dayuhm" whistle outside, so I checked and saw a whole class of teenagers look towards my window. I wasn't wearing anything.

I have no regrets
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 16 Dec 2013, 05:44
I just realized there's a school opposite of the building I'm living in. Today I heard someone do that "hot dayuhm" whistle outside, so I checked and saw a whole class of teenagers look towards my window. I wasn't wearing anything.

I have no regrets

Nice. Just don't rub it against the window next time.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 16 Dec 2013, 05:52
... how long have you lived there?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 16 Dec 2013, 06:18
it's my fifth month?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 16 Dec 2013, 07:22
And you never noticed a school?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 16 Dec 2013, 09:31
Yeah... scale of 1 to 10 with 10 being the Death Star, a school ranks in at a solid 8, large and noisy, hard to miss.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Dec 2013, 09:34
Be wary, in some places I'm pretty sure you could get arrested for indecent exposure in those circumstances (I don't think you should be able to, but that doesn't mean that you won't).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jimor on 16 Dec 2013, 10:00
The music video I directed and talked about upstream is now top story on The Big Takeover (http://www.bigtakeover.com/) music site!  :-D Free download of the song as well from Sherman Baker (http://www.shermanbakermusic.com/). A fun and simple shoot that takes the bedroom music video to a slightly more sophisticated level via editing.

I need to do more of these. It's one of those things that even when I'm learning new ways of doing things, I feel really confident that I'm going to get a good result because I've developed an innate feel for what a music video should look like, so I seem to be able to get great results despite practically zero budget (on this one, the artist rented the costumes and paid me a fee, but other than that, it was just us).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 16 Dec 2013, 10:31
3 AM, I wake up to a searing pain in my eye. Turns out that the wounds I have had on my eye never fully heal, really, and on occassion the 'scab' for lack of a better term, might move a bit on top of the eye. This can cause discomfort. Who knew? Also: there's nothing to be done about that.

Fine now. Of course.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ev4n on 16 Dec 2013, 11:36
Maybe you just haven't realised that the non-flannel short-hair lesbians were lesbians?
Must be something like this. But it just strikes me as odd that every one of them that did declare themselves lesbians all basically wore the same. It just leaves you wondering why that is.

Idly, I wonder "declared to whom?"
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 16 Dec 2013, 11:38
It's on the other side of a main road and it honestly looked like an office building, tall, no school yards...

Then again, judging by popular culture, schools look different in the states.

I'd hardly call it indecent exposure, I'm on the top floor behind a window you'd have to peek into and it's not like I was on the balcony swinging my schwing schwong towards their general direction.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Dec 2013, 11:42
Hmm in that case, perhaps THEY will be arrested for snooping! ;)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 16 Dec 2013, 15:17
I started my new job at BevMo! yesterday and it's fantastic. I am already making friends with all the staff, and the customers generally seem to like me. Plus, a significant portion of the latter are attractive women. And the best part is, I card everyone who looks young, and there's cougary ladies who absolutely love it. They think I'm flirting when really I'm just trying to keep my job. Some of em flirt back! It's pretty great.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 16 Dec 2013, 18:11
Dude just tell the cougars you're a troubled young musician, you'll have a sugar momma in no time.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 16 Dec 2013, 22:56
Fuck sleep schedules!

I'm sitting at university. I'm finished with the exercise sheet which is due today. I also received solutions for the exercise sheet due on Thursday and the exercise sheet due on Friday. It's 07:52, and I'm going to go to the Fachschaft for breakfast and for my session later. I intend to go to bed at around 13:00. This pushes my sleep schedule even further, as I got up at 17:00 yesterday. Yep. My sleep schedule is as fucked as it can be.

Anyway. I'm not completely tired yet, so sitting in the Fachschaft for a few more hours shouldn't be a problem. And: I won't have much trouble with exercise sheets this week! Woo! (I don't intend to copy the solutions I was given, but the solutions for the whole exercise sheet fit on a single page, and the guys here figured it out in under thirty minutes. I doubt that this one will give me much trouble. The sheet for Friday shouldn't be problematic either, as they needed only an hour to get to a solution, and it's the course where I'm having relatively little trouble with following.

I don't have to get to University this evening. How cool is that!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 16 Dec 2013, 23:35
And you are on Christmas vacation next week!

(I think. You are, right?)

I know I am.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 16 Dec 2013, 23:44
I'll go home (as in where I grew up) on Monday. I just don't know, whether we'll have another linear algebra sheet due until Monday. I hope not.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 17 Dec 2013, 00:48
Ok so remember when I said this?

Didn't get in to university.

Well what I didn't mention was that I was put on a waiting list, meaning if someone was offered a place and rejected it then I might be offered their place instead, depending on where I was on the waitlist.

I got an email today saying that I've been accepted into the Master of Clinical Psychology at CQ University. I'm moving to the middle of nowhere. I'm going to get to do with my life what I want to do.

Also today I presented the data of the program I've been running this year to the head Social Worker at the NSW Department of Health. He asked me to write, publish and present a paper on it.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Dec 2013, 00:55
Woo Jimmy that's awesome! OK, the middle of nowhere bit maybe isn't quite so awesome but the doing what you want to do is really awesome. And that's how I got into university too - I was on a waiting list, someone dropped out, and I was at the head of the list. Waiting list vocations high five! o/
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 17 Dec 2013, 00:57
\o
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 17 Dec 2013, 01:12
Ok so remember when I said this?

Didn't get in to university.

Well what I didn't mention was that I was put on a waiting list, meaning if someone was offered a place and rejected it then I might be offered their place instead, depending on where I was on the waitlist.

I got an email today saying that I've been accepted into the Master of Clinical Psychology at CQ University. I'm moving to the middle of nowhere. I'm going to get to do with my life what I want to do.

Also today I presented the data of the program I've been running this year to the head Social Worker at the NSW Department of Health. He asked me to write, publish and present a paper on it.

That's awesome Jimmy! All my love goes out to you.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 17 Dec 2013, 01:45
Congrats!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 17 Dec 2013, 01:49
Jimmy, that's great news! I'm stoked things are working out for you man.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 17 Dec 2013, 01:50
\o/

Congrats Jimmy!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 17 Dec 2013, 02:01
My work just sent me an email saying that I don't have to work tomorrow. This entire week went by without working and I'll get paid for it still. And I'm getting two weeks of paid vacation.
I love my job.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 17 Dec 2013, 02:15
I got an email today saying that I've been accepted into the Master of Clinical Psychology at CQ University.

Hooray!

Quote
I'm moving to the middle of nowhere.

Well, maybe your presence will make it that little bit more of a somewhere. :-D
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 17 Dec 2013, 02:17
My work just sent me an email saying that I don't have to work tomorrow. This entire week went by without working and I'll get paid for it still. And I'm getting two weeks of paid vacation.
I love my job.

I get the Christmas fortnight off with pay. Finish on Friday, back on the 6th. Being a civil servant often rocks.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 17 Dec 2013, 02:20
I get the Christmas fortnight off with no pay and no prospects. Being a temp bites. Genuinely wish I was back in the civil service.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 17 Dec 2013, 02:37
I'm working on Christmas Day this year. It's gonna be cool. I'm going to go have a cheeseburger with one lady for Christmas Lunch and then I'm going to give one of my clients his christmas present (Arkham Asylum!) and watch a few episodes of the original Transformers cartoon. Probably some other stuff too.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 17 Dec 2013, 02:59
I got an email today saying that I've been accepted into the Master of Clinical Psychology at CQ University. I'm moving to the middle of nowhere. I'm going to get to do with my life what I want to do.
Yay! Congratulations! I'm happy for you; Queensland won't know what hit it!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Dec 2013, 03:02
This is apparently the only Christmas I'm likely to have off for the next five years or so - second and third year student midwives have placement over Christmas, and newly-qualified midwives always get the worst shifts. To be honest I think it might be quite fun to spend Christmas catching babies! Since I always have several Christmases with my family at random times in December and January, it won't matter so much - the only thing I'd miss out on is church services, but I'm missing those this year anyway (except presumably the service on Christmas Eve but that'll be in Norwegian and I speak only two words of Norwegian, neither of which commonly appear in the liturgy).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 17 Dec 2013, 03:41
I'll go home (as in where I grew up) on Monday. I just don't know, whether we'll have another linear algebra sheet due until Monday. I hope not.

*sigh*

We have a linear algebra sheet due Monday. FFFUUUU!

I already have the programming exercise sheet due on Monday, and I need to get ready to travel home. It's a 7 hour journey after all. So I basically need to be finished with the exercise sheet on Friday. So I'll need to do it on Thursday evening. Damn.

I mean, it's a shortened exercise sheet and stuff, but still. Why? We'll get exercise sheets to do over the holidays, and normally the exercise sheet would be due the first day of the holidays. So why do they give us less time than normal for this sheet…

I'm annoyed.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 17 Dec 2013, 05:45
You get worksheets over holidays? This sucks :/

Here the two weeks are basically exempt from the normal timeflow.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 17 Dec 2013, 05:51
Job got cancelled yesterday so unemployed for Christmas which is nice and cheery.

Still in a small bit of good news, it meant that I was home to receive the delivery of a book that I ordered for my wife's birthday, which is today.

Never Wipe Your Ass With a Squirrel, she's going to love it.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 17 Dec 2013, 05:52
Seems good advice, in general.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Dec 2013, 05:59
I can't say I agree with it myself. Squirrels are nature's 2ply
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 17 Dec 2013, 06:02
If 2ply had teeth.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 17 Dec 2013, 07:00
We get exercise sheets over the holidays. And we get an additional exercise sheet before the holidays.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Lines on 17 Dec 2013, 11:01
Ok so remember when I said this?

Didn't get in to university.

Well what I didn't mention was that I was put on a waiting list, meaning if someone was offered a place and rejected it then I might be offered their place instead, depending on where I was on the waitlist.

I got an email today saying that I've been accepted into the Master of Clinical Psychology at CQ University. I'm moving to the middle of nowhere. I'm going to get to do with my life what I want to do.

Also today I presented the data of the program I've been running this year to the head Social Worker at the NSW Department of Health. He asked me to write, publish and present a paper on it.

WOOOOOOOOOO!!!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Dec 2013, 17:29
Good for you Jimmy!

Today was a bit of a roller coaster ride.

Shit work was shit. Mailed my last Christmas present off. Got the long over due check for moving from my work... but I can't cash it till Thursday, got out of work 30 minutes late, then was even later getting home because I saved a stranded motorist by changing her tire for her and finally I had a traffic ticket waiting for me in my mail box when I got home.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 18 Dec 2013, 15:20
Hmm, realised as I travelled home today from visiting my mum and stepdad (ugh the train from the city to my village was so delayed, it was an hour and twenty minutes late leaving although thankfully I arrived 45 minutes into that wait, and it changed platform three times) that I have no Norwegian money so I'll have to go and get some tomorrow. Norwegian types, will 500 krone be sufficient for two weeks, bearing in mind that I am staying with Jens and Kris's family (so not paying for hotels or restaurant food, but making a contribution towards regular food costs - including presumably more expensive vegan versions of basics like milk and butter) and don't intend to go clubbing, shopping or travelling? I have no idea how much a kron...e(?) is worth in real terms, but in British pounds that's really as much as I can afford comfortably.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 18 Dec 2013, 15:46
It's 10 krone (NOK) to the pound (GBP), give or take; don't forget to allow for fees, so 500 NOK will cost you a bit over 50 GBP.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 18 Dec 2013, 16:51
Jeez, you pay up to 50 POUNDS just to change your currency?

Bloody Freyja's spear point I thought our banks were a bunch of heartless pirates. I exchanged out yen for free in most cases. (Albeit I had connections) or for no more then $5-10 USD
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 18 Dec 2013, 17:14
Paul is saying that the total amount you'd be out of pocket when getting 500 NOK is a bit more than 50 GBP, rather than exchanging it 1:10.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 18 Dec 2013, 18:00
Oh. Whew. Much more reasonable.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 19 Dec 2013, 00:16
I don't know why I thought it'd be a good idea to go drinking the night before your flight home.

Being hung over on an airport is no fun.

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Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 19 Dec 2013, 00:23
Dude, you look pretty good for being hungover.
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Post by: Metope on 19 Dec 2013, 00:44
May, I think 500 will be just fine, unless you plan on going shopping, which I doubt you will. You can also pay with Visa and Mastercard everywhere, I don't think they charge you for transactions in stores, at least they never do with me when I'm abroad.

Safe travels! I only arrived yesterday and I'm pretty jet lagged still (I came from Washington again, I don't really get jet lagged from traveling from Scotland). See you tomorrow!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Dec 2013, 04:01
Excellent, thanks Kris! I shall check whether I'll be charged if I use my card but I think the answer is yes, my bank recently changed its rules and charge for a lot of things. See you tomorrow, yay!

Added: I wrote a list of things I had to do today last night, carefully ordered for maximum efficiency. The first one was "laundry". Woke up this morning and discovered I'm out of laundry detergent. Great... THE LIST IS RUINED.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Dec 2013, 01:58
Off to see the wizard some Norway, back next year! Have a great Christmas everyone.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 20 Dec 2013, 05:57
You too, May! Safe travels and Merry Christmas!
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Post by: Valdís on 20 Dec 2013, 06:38
Yay, Norway! Good yule!
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Post by: jwhouk on 20 Dec 2013, 09:22
I think it's actually "God Jul!"
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Post by: Valdís on 20 Dec 2013, 09:55
Not in English it ain't!

ᚴᚢᛏ ᛅᚢᛚ!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: jwhouk on 20 Dec 2013, 14:09
Trying to type while your cat is on the desk in front of you is very, very tricky...
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Post by: Loki on 20 Dec 2013, 14:17
Moderator Comment The discussion of coffee has been merged into the coffee thread (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,28178.0.html). Cheers :wink:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 21 Dec 2013, 16:21
So my sleep schedule is all kinds of fucked up by university right now. I stayed up untill 07:00 from friday, went to bed, and now woke up at 01:00 on Sunday. I slept for 18 hours. And now I have only 22 hours left for a Programming exercise sheet, tidying up my room and packing, before I have to go to sleep again, so I get up early enough to catch my train back home.

Damn.

Edit: Oh, and I didn't buy any food for today, and as it's Sunday now all stores are closed.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 21 Dec 2013, 17:00
Right. Uh, been a few minutes, let me think.

So I guess the biggest thing is that I started a new job end of November. Fell kind of ass-backwards into it too. Went back to an old employment agency and their local client company that I used to work for. Decent place, regular full-time first shift hours, etc. Lotta problems, mind, but different problems than the restaurant, mostly.

Oh but yeah, I'd put in notice at the restaurant, went in for orientation at the warehouse thinking I'd get a decent little 9/hour placement working on/with cell phones, and instead I get a "hey we've got a job pays 12/hr but you've gotta start tomorrow". Worked out a quick phone call with my McBoss and here we are. (incidentally I still work at the restaurant every little bit, few times a month).

So I and a handful of other people are the main monkeys in an eBay consignment shop. Spent the last month learning the process, training, and helping troubleshoot and work out the various bugs and procedural flaws and the like with the workline, the shipping, the inventory management and tracking program, etc. It's kind of fun sometimes, and it's the best money I've ever made.

Also we're totally fucked eight ways from Sunday and it's pretty funny. Management software (the part that actually directly interacts with eBay's stuff) went haywire Wednesday and stopped pushing any of our completed merchandise to the site, among various other problems we've discovered the more we dig through the mess.

On Tuesday we and eBay started sending out large amounts of information across the nation for people to use our service. As of Friday we'd sent out about...I think 600 or so boxes to be delivered to people and businesses that had responded and wanted to hire us.

As of Friday we also have no way of putting most of whatever they send us this upcoming weeks.

So yeah, fucked! :D

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Dec 2013, 07:49
Sounds like things are going well for you though Nae! I'm glad to hear it!

I love All these high quality Sci-Fi shorts you can dig up out there. Stumbling on them is like finding treasure.


This is truly the wealth that technology, particularly cheap and wasy CGI. The ability for the dedicated and passionate to tell their stories without interferance from Hollywood, without a multimillion dollar contract, and without approval of the same.


Much like the explosion of all forms of writing and authorship after the Industrial Revolution and in the late 18th Century as the ability to write became a common standard in much of the Western World, so too exploded with it every form of books, including the nascent Science Fiction genre.


We are at our heart, a species of storytellers. It is how transmit information, communicate culture and entertain each other. Storytelling as a concept's evolution is film making, is video games, is every possible medium we have yet to discover by which we can communicate to each other.

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: lepetitfromage on 22 Dec 2013, 09:07
Yay, Nae! New/better paying job is awesome! As is being able to keep old job for secondary income. :-) I'm glad that good things are happening for you :-)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 22 Dec 2013, 10:11
Thanks. Needed some good news after the beating the last half-year has mostly felt like.

We'll work through the problems, it's just...funny. Poor bastards maybe should have just cribbed off our 'older sister' consignment store's inventory program instead of hiring these other guys to adapt their small-time 'power seller' level program to our magnitude and needs. Oh well, with a little work and luck it'll be smooth sailing in a month or three.  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 23 Dec 2013, 03:20
So I'm sitting in the train back home now. I'll be there in four and a half hours.

It's going to be interesting seeing friends and family again.

And after that: Congress! Excited!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aimless on 23 Dec 2013, 17:20
Sucky: I skipped to work this morning, overjoyed by the return of snow to this meteorologically fickle town. But it turned out to be the work of Shai'tan: loose, thin layer of snow covering vast, smooth, black, rock-hard, unsanded expanses of ice. Slipped and fell twice, very hard, and hit my head both times. Light concussion and just a little too much skeletal pain for my own comfort. I have never ever been much of a hypochondriac, but, having seen some really creepy examples of insidious post-concussion syndromes arising from even light skull trauma, I'm actually kinda nervous :/ most of the fog has cleared however and it's already given me some ideas for good future studies.

Please be okay brain :(

Sweet: I'm on call 8-6 tomorrow but then I get to go have delicious Christmas dinner, and then I work night on Christmas Day, and then I have a couple of shifts AND THEN I AM FREE!! For a week at least :o I haven't booked the trip down to sthlm yet but it's gonna be awesome. Also sweet: I got a rose and a little piece of paper saying nice things from the class that's been doing their neurology rotations with us this semester. It's something every class gives to one person each semester, and I'm kinda chuffed because it's a very good class and I've put a lot of time and energy into the teaching and also because I got a flower :o

ALSO: I've been ninjagobbling freshly made almond tuiles. I think she knows, but I think I might be able to get away with it
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: de_la_Nae on 25 Dec 2013, 23:12
So I like to think I don't get up here too often on my awkward soap box and do this sort of thing too much, but I'm gonna talk a moment about a subject I talk a lot about (my religion) but in a way I don't very much.

I'm not going to tell you what to do with this; that's your business. In a lot of ways I don't know what's best for you and your existence here in this madhouse. Your soul, spirit, essence, or lack thereof is your thing.

But...I want you to never EVER let a Christian (or anyone really) tell you that you're worthless, that you're lesser, that you are nothing. You are a fellow sacred soul, a creature with a spark of the divine, a beloved child of the all-being, a Creator who loves you so much it remade itself as one of us so that we and it could know, love, and understand one another better.

That love and the promise of love, friendship and brotherhood and compassion and rumors and emulations thereof....that's the core of the ideal of what we Christians call Christmas.

We're...we're not always good at living up to that, to put it mildly. But in this small little way, I want you to know: I love you. I love you. I love you. Stay warm, and enjoy the rest of the season. :)
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Post by: Grognard on 26 Dec 2013, 04:54
^^ YAY!  Well Spoken!!  ^^

as an old professor of mine once remarked:
You are not your body.  You are your soul, which happens to inhabit this body.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 29 Dec 2013, 20:27
This Yule is a very important one for me. The culmination of three years of introspection, self discovery and survival. It was three years ago at my darkest hour, when I had lain down with death and merely had to kiss eternity good night, embracing the dark abyss. At that hour She first came to me and called me away from that final bride death. She gave no name, no mark to know her by, simply a graceful touch and an unspoken challenge to rise and live on, that I might know more. I rose. A self evident fact as I survive to write this... but notable if only to me for the force of will required to reach this point. In that span of time in the depths of my ordeal I came to know Freyja, and my matron's plan for this warrior who was not granted the embrace of death in battle. So I came to the old faith, the gods of my ancestors, and the path Freyja has challenged me to walk. I am honored to stand amongst you all this yuletide, and wish you glory and blessings in the new year.

Honored Freyja, Lady of the hall of many seats, ruler of the Folkvangr, goddess of war and love, keep our hearts pure and burning with passion that we might charge forward against any foe or challenge with courage in our chests and a battle cry on our lips. Ti Sesruminir!

Post I made for the Yule season on a Heathen forum, figured you guys might find it interesting at least.

On another heathen note Valdis and I were having a fairly involved theological discussion today (about whether or not Ragnarok has happened already) and as it drew to a close I kinda blew off my own participation with a line along the lines of "Eh I think I'll just leave such details to the Gothi (god speakers, a priest) and remain a simple soldier". Which reminded Valdis of a similar line spoken by Julius Caesar in response to someone's complex theology. So I suppose what I'm saying here is if I turn up stabbed to death in March, one of you point Interpol towards Sweden :P
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Post by: Aimless on 30 Dec 2013, 07:43
Don't worry, all messages out of Sweden are already being monitored
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Post by: snalin on 30 Dec 2013, 16:25
Don't worry, all messages out of Sweden everywhere are already being monitored

FYP
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Post by: ev4n on 31 Dec 2013, 12:27
Am back.  Cuba felt like summer.  The cold now hurts me in a teary sad way.
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Post by: Thrillho on 31 Dec 2013, 23:21
Christ, I made out with at least two people last night. Never met either one before. One of them just happened to be at the bar at midnight and neither of us had anyone to kiss and uh... Whoops.

Jeez. I am terrible.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 01 Jan 2014, 03:29
It's an interesting counterpoint to your signature. Other than that ... It's great to be you?
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 Jan 2014, 04:16
More is coming back. One of them was 51 and I seriously considered sleeping with her. One of them has my phone number. Apparently when I left the bar I said 'I have to go home, I'm pulling too many women.'
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Post by: Masterpiece on 01 Jan 2014, 06:12
Ouch.
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 Jan 2014, 07:27
Oh Christ and the two women MET EACH OTHER that's why I escaped the bar  :psyduck:

I am fucking terrible, no wonder the one with my number hasn't texted me...
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 01 Jan 2014, 09:16
At least you're never boring, mate.
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 Jan 2014, 11:28
That is almost a compliment... But no I'm not boring hahaha.
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Jan 2014, 15:40
Holy fuck the holidays are finally over. Finally.

Today, I turned 25. I'm glad I survived this long, all the shit I've been through/put myself through.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Jan 2014, 15:40
Happy birthday bud!
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Post by: Loki on 01 Jan 2014, 15:59
Happy birthday, Patrick!
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Post by: ankhtahr on 01 Jan 2014, 16:04
Yep, Happy Birthday to you!
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Post by: Masterpiece on 01 Jan 2014, 16:52
Ta Ta, happy birthday Patrilicious (I don't know why I wrote this)
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Post by: jwhouk on 01 Jan 2014, 17:25
Happy birthday Patrick!
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Post by: Akima on 02 Jan 2014, 01:46
Happy Birthday, Patrick! Many happy returns.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 02 Jan 2014, 07:33
Happy birthday!!! :-D
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Post by: Metope on 03 Jan 2014, 04:24
Happy birthday, Pat!

In blog news, Facebook seems to think I got engaged on NYE, I'm suddenly getting tons of "getting married soon?", "recently got engaged?" ads. I have no idea why, I am definitely not engaged. I think I'd remember being proposed to.
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Post by: pwhodges on 03 Jan 2014, 04:40
Every time I look at Facebook, I am presented with an additional reason to hate it.
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Jan 2014, 10:40
thanks for the birthday wishes you guys! I generally hate birthdays (being a New Year's baby can be annoying, everybody remembers your birthday whether or not you know them) but this year was great. one of the best on record. I managed to get out of town and into San Francisco, where my friend played a house show. between me, the friend playing, and 2 others, we pickled ourselves in half a handle of Bulleit bourbon and acted a fool and had a fantastic time. and then my friend Coco (his name's Cody but fuck that) spent 2 hours throwing up and my buddy and I handled him like pros. that's love, folks.
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Post by: Akima on 03 Jan 2014, 16:58
Every time I look at Facebook, I am presented with an additional reason to hate it.
I so agree.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 03 Jan 2014, 19:00
I've been Facebook-clean for 5 months!
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Post by: nekowafer on 03 Jan 2014, 19:02
And we miss you!
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Post by: Masterpiece on 04 Jan 2014, 07:26
Played some Catan today and kicked ass. Gonna kick some more now.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 04 Jan 2014, 07:37
(posted this in the random thoughts thread, but it's more of a blog post so I removed it and pasted it here)

sitting in the train back to Karlsruhe. Should arrive in about 40 minutes.

It's the first time I got a working internet connection on this trip. These trains are officially supposed to have WiFi. But the uplink didn't seem to work for most of the time.

I am fucking tired. I didn't sleep last night, because I had to pack all my stuff. Let's hope I didn't forget anything terribly important. I slept in the train, probably even for about 4 hours, but that isn't a good replacement for sleeping in a bed. But it's enough to keep me up and running until I went to the shop and arrived back home. Tomorrow is sunday and the day after is a public holiday in this state (something I really need to get used to. The state of Baden-Württemberg has so many more holidays than Schleswig-Holstein. Probably because there the catholic holidays are public ones too. So yeah, I need to go buy some food so I can survive the next two days. And then I can sleep.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Pilchard123 on 04 Jan 2014, 08:01
I do believe that having slow, unreliable Internet access is worse than having none at all. For the past fortnight, we've had no phone or Internet at home, because a component  in the BT-owned part of the network had degraded. After someone came to fix that it, they also moved the master socket to a more convenient location (I have no idea what that does to the demarcation point, since we bought and installed the extra line ourselves a year or so back) and also changed the socket for one with an ADSL filter built in. Now we have Internet access again, but with frequent connection loss and only at 280 kbps. Whee!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 04 Jan 2014, 13:00
Yeah, the only internet connection I have at home here is currently throttled to 64kbit/s. That sucks
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 04 Jan 2014, 15:45
So, sort of been working on a couple of those resolutions I listed in that thread.

Not exactly according to goals or plan, but been in a fairly pleasant place since the 1st. Even without genital orgasms or kissing, I had (what amounts to me) months of pleasurable physical contact in a couple hours, and BOY HOWDY that helps half-placate my high libido and general malaise for a while.

Actually we're only a few days in, but 2014 is shaping up well. A long overdue private rant of emotions to myself and God, some long overdue physical playtime, dinner yesterday with the girlfriend I've been missing for months, the confirmation that Amber isn't dead, increased awareness of and opposition to Indiana HJR-6, continued recognition of my worth at the new job... hell, I've almost been feeling like things are going well.

I know that feeling can't last... at the end of the day I'm still me, and people and the world still are what they are. I've been depressed for much of the last third of the year, it's not really unusual for me to swing back upwards for a while anyway, and it's hard to tell causes and effects from inside a busted head sometimes. But still, it's really, really nice for now, right? And maybe I can chip away at the cycle a bit more this go-around, make it that much easier to survive and thrive in on the next downturn.
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Post by: Lupercal on 05 Jan 2014, 04:18
So this was possibly the best New Years Eve on record, mainly for the fact my girlfriend and I bought our plane tickets to New Zealand - we're off in October. Feels like forever to wait but due to EVERYBODY IN THE FAMILY getting married this year (thankfully, not to each other), we've had to postpone the trip a bit. Gives us longer to save up too. Going to fuckin' surf, swim with Dolphins, and probably move in to Hobbiton and never, ever leave.

It's nice to be back on the forums, I haven't been here in a while.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 05 Jan 2014, 09:56
My new years eve was objectively better than the last one, as it didn't end with me sobbing uncontrollably.
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Post by: Valdís on 05 Jan 2014, 10:00
My new years eve was objectively better than the last one, as it didn't end with me sobbing uncontrollably.

+1

Lobster at dad's place beats suicidal. :-P
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Post by: Loki on 05 Jan 2014, 11:08
So guess it's my birthday today.

In other news, I have the following things to do:

* clean up my room
* take out the trash
* make a list of who I want to attend my birthday party
** actually figure out what I want to do for my birthday party - never organized one before
** figure out how to coordinate the different people I want to be there because some of them are basically mutually exclusive *sigh*
* do math homework for tomorrow
* read up on the homework me and my partner were supposed to do together and that he did alone - I need to be able to explain what he did by tomorrow
* write up my TA report for three weeks ago - until Tuesday
* write up my TA report for tomorrow - until Tuesday
* write up what has been happening in the last few weeks for my therapist, because there is no way in hell I won't forget something unless I have notes - until Friday
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Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Jan 2014, 13:02
Happy birthday, Pat!

In blog news, Facebook seems to think I got engaged on NYE, I'm suddenly getting tons of "getting married soon?", "recently got engaged?" ads. I have no idea why, I am definitely not engaged. I think I'd remember being proposed to.

I was there and you weren't proposed to. I think it was two days later that I raised the possibility me of marrying one of your younger siblings though.

Loki, happy birthday!

You guys you guys you guys last night my friend told me to save a date and then said "actually save the night before and the day after too" and then she TOTALLY ASKED ME TO BE HER BRIDESMAID AT HER WOODLAND TEA PARTY WEDDING I am so excited about this.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 05 Jan 2014, 15:06
Useless without pics etc

#jealousmuch
#awesome
#luckyyou
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Post by: Masterpiece on 05 Jan 2014, 15:52
Loki
Happy birthday man.

I was gonna write some more stuff but it all sounded too cheesy.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Jan 2014, 16:24
TSK, was that in response to me? The wedding isn't until June, there are not yet any photos! I am currently on a wedding cake quest - vegan and gluten free, due to an awkard mix of guests (the vegan part isn't just my fault, someone is lactose intolerant).
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Post by: jwhouk on 05 Jan 2014, 16:35
Happy birthday Loki!
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Post by: nekowafer on 05 Jan 2014, 17:54
Happy birthday, Pat and Loki! Sorry I'm late.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 05 Jan 2014, 18:47
Damn, why didn't you say something earlier! I was kinda distracted this evening...

Happy belated birthday Loki!

And seriously, that sounds like a shitty way to spend your birthday. It also reminds me of the way I spent my 18th (for the Americans: 18 is the age of maturity here, so your 18th birthday is kinda a big deal)
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Post by: Lupercal on 05 Jan 2014, 23:43
My new years eve was objectively better than the last one, as it didn't end with me sobbing vomiting uncontrollably.

FTFY (or really, for me)

Happy Birthday Loki & Pat, congratulations May! 2014 is truly the year of weddings.
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Post by: ev4n on 06 Jan 2014, 06:38
Let's see...

Had 20 days off work.
Spent 7 in Cuba.
Possibly had more alcohol in Cuba than in my entire life put together.  Including at one point 2 drinks in one day.
Exercised less than I had hoped to, but still did some exercise, so am happy.
Read some excellent books.
Did not book therapist appointment (bad!)
Got Carcassonne for my birthday
Successfully destressed.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 06 Jan 2014, 21:20
(http://pbfcomics.com/archive_b/PBF032-Todays_My_Birthday.gif)
And it's fucking 7 goddamn degrees out.
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Post by: Loki on 07 Jan 2014, 00:21
Quote
[birthday wishes]
Thanks everybody :)
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Post by: Patrick on 07 Jan 2014, 03:07
happy belated birthday Loki!

today I went to SF with my buddy Lukas, who is on leave from the Air Force, and my Marine recruit buddy's girlfriend Megan. said recruit buddy, named Jesse, shipped off to boot yesterday, and she wanted to get out of the house and kick it. we all had a great time, and it felt nice giving her a chance to hang out with some folks who can sympathize quite well with what she's dealing with.

work's been great. they've cut hours but I'm the only seasonal hire they seem intent on keeping. I'm more clearly interested in product knowledge than the other seasonals, and I carved a social niche for myself super quickly. pretty sure I'll be sticking around a good while.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 07 Jan 2014, 07:06
Wow! Happy birthday (belated or not) to Loki, ev4n, and bain!!

January is like, Official Forumite Birthday Month.


Patrick- will keep fingers crossed that they keep you. You deserve a good place to work after all the BS you put up with from the last ones!
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Post by: Masterpiece on 07 Jan 2014, 16:29
January is like, Official Forumite Birthday Month.
Cool! My birthday is also in January!
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Post by: nekowafer on 07 Jan 2014, 16:41
WHEN IS YOUR BIRTHDAY?!
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Post by: Masterpiece on 07 Jan 2014, 16:52
The 29th.
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Post by: Schmee on 07 Jan 2014, 18:46
I'll jump onto the bandwagon and say that mine was yesterday, too.
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Post by: Patrick on 07 Jan 2014, 18:58
TIL a lot of forumites' parents fucked in March/April. Happy birthday y'all <3
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Post by: cesium133 on 07 Jan 2014, 20:19
January is like, Official Forumite Birthday Month.
Mine's in December, so I guess I'm not a Forumite.  :-P
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Post by: Loki on 07 Jan 2014, 23:14
Belated happy Birthday, Cesium!

...we need a birthday thread already, don't we?
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Post by: pwhodges on 08 Jan 2014, 00:27
My birthday was determined by how long it took my mother to get pregnant after the end of the war.  My brother was born at the start of the war, and they decided to delay having another child until after the cessation of hostilities.  This places me in the vanguard of "the bulge".
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Post by: Masterpiece on 08 Jan 2014, 02:25
Finally got my smartphone back.

FINALLY
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Post by: ev4n on 08 Jan 2014, 04:44
Wow! Happy birthday (belated or not) to Loki, ev4n, and bain!!

January is like, Official Forumite Birthday Month.

Thanks!  Yeah, I've always known a lot of people with early January birthdays.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 08 Jan 2014, 05:06
Many happy felicitations on all of your births.

New definition of tense: having to train with a 5th dan but not just any old 5th dan ... no ... this was the 5th dan that oversaw my 1st dan exam. I've got muscle aches from just the tension of that situation all over.
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Post by: nekowafer on 08 Jan 2014, 05:06
Finally got my smartphone back.

FINALLY

Yesssssssssss
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Post by: Loki on 08 Jan 2014, 07:13
What was up with that smartphone, Master Princess?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 08 Jan 2014, 07:22
The wireless charging wasn't working and I wanted to use the extended warranty while I still could.

Of course the place I went to first decided to fix it on their own, making me wait for delivery of some obscure part, and after they got it, they fixed it just to find that the wireless charging was still not working. That's when they decided to send it to Nokia. I waited one and a half months. Idiots.

In other news, I just got a mail saying that I can start on a second job in my university tutoring the "Medientechnik" module, which was the best module in my classes so far.
MORE MONEYS!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Jan 2014, 11:18
Wireless... charging? How does the electrickery get in?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 08 Jan 2014, 11:38
It works the same way an electric toothbrush does.
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Post by: snalin on 08 Jan 2014, 12:06
Wireless power (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wireless_power) on wikipedia. It's a thing!

I think I've heard that a wireless power network would lose a lot less energy than a wired one. It's pretty effective!

Edit: remember that electricity is just the movement of electrons. It's also generated by moving magnetic fields, which require no physical medium.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Jan 2014, 12:20
Oh I see, the wire is just not attached to the phone, there is still a wire somewhere.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Jan 2014, 14:42
Oh boo, I have my first early shift on Friday. I knew it had to be coming, I've only done lates so far. I'll have to be on a train at 6.30am (I feel very lucky to only live 10 minutes away from the hospital, some of my friends have a two-hour drive). Tomorrow night I've been invited to a pub quiz, so I think I'll have a post-university afternoon nap, go to the quiz, and leave early to try and get at least some sleep. Lately I've not been falling asleep til after 1am no matter how early I try.
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Post by: Akima on 09 Jan 2014, 01:21
Oh I see, the wire is just not attached to the phone, there is still a wire somewhere.
Yes. "Wireless" is arguably a misnomer. "Contactless" would be better.
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Post by: jwhouk on 09 Jan 2014, 01:48
I believe the term is more like "conductive" or "inductive" - not quite sure which would fit.

I'm not a big fan of them, though. I had rechargeable batteries for my Wii controllers that I would only need to lay on a charging pad to get to full power - but after time the pad and the batteries degraded noticeably.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Jan 2014, 04:32
I hit the button on my alarm clock four times today... it's gonna be one of those "You people are lucky I bothered to get dressed" kinda days it seems.
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Post by: Metope on 09 Jan 2014, 04:58
I hit it for three hours and then I put coffee ground in the drip cone before realising I'd forgotten to put in a filter. I'm not even going outside.
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Post by: nekowafer on 09 Jan 2014, 07:04
Yeah I called out. I don't wanna do anything.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Jan 2014, 09:00
I was superorganised last night and got everything ready - washed the blender, washed the Thermos, packed my bag. However, I did not check my alarm was set. So I woke up half an hour late, felt pleased that my organisation meant I still had time to make my breakfast smoothie and heat up my soup to put in the Thermos, did both of those things, and then left the Thermos on the counter.

Sigh.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Jan 2014, 09:25
I thought about callling out. I don't want to be that asshole though. Nor do I want to burn a sick day. Besides, it's almost Friday, and I have work to do and... shit I do this exact same shit when I'm actually sick.

Which is rare, so when I'm sick... I am Sick. Like "Holy fuck it's a zombie!" Sick, and I still don't call out. Cause I'm dumb.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Jan 2014, 09:26
I'm intrigued - is the phrase "calling out" common in the USA? Here we say "calling in" sick.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Jan 2014, 09:45
Well you're not going in to work are you? So you'll be out for the day. I've always called out or called off. "Calling in" might be used if someone asks you what you're doing up when you should be in the rack. "I'm just calling in to the office, I need to call off for my shift this afternoon"
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Jan 2014, 09:53
That makes perfect sense, I had just never heard it before.
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Post by: Lupercal on 09 Jan 2014, 13:28
I know a few people that make a big deal out of 'Americanisms' but...some of them really make a hell of a load more sense than the English variation.
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Post by: jwhouk on 09 Jan 2014, 13:32
It took me a moment, because I use "call in sick" as the term.

Must be an East Coast or regional thing.
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Jan 2014, 14:18
I know a few people that make a big deal out of 'Americanisms' but...some of them really make a hell of a load more sense than the English variation.

Generally the same amount - they're just a different viewpoint.  As in this case - I call in to the office to tell them I'm sick, rather than calling the office to tell them I'll be out sick ("call in ... sick", vs "call ... out sick").
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Post by: Lines on 09 Jan 2014, 18:44
Never heard the phrase calling out. It's always either calling off or called in sick.

It's sad that I've been sick so often lately (I still have bronchitis, woop) and I hate my job so much sometimes that I wake up hoping that I feel like shit or that the roads are utter crap so I can call off. Yay mostly apathetic work ethic!
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Post by: Akima on 10 Jan 2014, 00:24
In Australia you call in sick in order to be off sick, but it is also common to refer to a "sickie", as in: "I was feeling rough, so I took a sickie". or "I wasn't in the office that day because I was taking a sickie."

However, a "sickie" also has connotations that the time off was taken on possibly dubious grounds, especially if you only take off the amount of time your employer will normally allow without it being validated by a doctor's certificate, and particularly if you are "sick" on a Friday or Monday. Technically, any sick days are supposed to be backed up by a certificate, but most employers don't bother with it if you're only off for a single day.
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Post by: Metope on 10 Jan 2014, 04:35
Some dickwad used my card details to book plane tickets for $1500/£900 and I'm absolutely furious. They tried buying other stuff too for even more money, which got declined thank god. I've now cancelled my card, but the plane ticket purchase is registered in my online bank statement as "reserved", and the woman I talked to at the bank says that means it can still not go through and the money will go back in my account, or it might go through and possibly be lost forever. If it does go through, I'll have to report it to the bank and they'll deal with it. I want to be optimistic since the bank has a lot of details about the purchase, it's with Lufthansa, from somewhere in the states to Cairo, hopefully they can find out which exact flight it is and contact Lufthansa about it. I dunno though, this is just incredibly frustrating and nerve wrecking, I can't afford to lose all that money. Fuck!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 10 Jan 2014, 04:47
Oh no! That's terrible! Do you have any idea how your card got compromised?
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Post by: Metope on 10 Jan 2014, 04:55
No idea. I've done some online shopping, but only in legit, respectable stores, that's the only thing I can think of. Maybe somewhere got hacked? I can't see why a store wouldn't notify their customers about being hacked though. Also I haven't bought anything online in weeks, and it would be really strange for someone to steal my details and wait for so long with using them. Usually people who steal card details use them straight away since that's when their success rate is highest. All the attempts of using my card, including the plane ticket purchase which may or may not have worked, were in the timespan of an hour yesterday. It's really scary, but thank god I managed to cancel my card. I also transferred the rest of my money in that account to my savings account.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 10 Jan 2014, 04:59
Surely your bank will cover any losses if you notified them as soon as you noticed it? Mine does.
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Post by: Metope on 10 Jan 2014, 05:05
I'm not sure. The woman I talked to told me to report it if I lose it, but I think they will do anything they can do get it back. The reason I noticed was because they emailed me about unusual activity, and I think they declined everything after the Lufthansa purchase because of that. Also probably because there wasn't enough money in my account for the other purchases to begin with. In any case, I hope they'll contact Lufthansa as well and stop this asshole from flying on stolen money.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 10 Jan 2014, 06:21
They should be able to. I had something similar but smaller happen to me ($300 worth of stuff from Walmart). I had no idea where they got my info from and caught it pretty quickly so my bank told me to wait until it stopped "processing" and cleared. Then, they were able to reverse the charge. They put the money back into my account but said I'd have to fill out some paperwork to verify what happened. As long as I returned the paperwork in time, proving what happened, the funds stayed in my account.

It was scary at first and then annoying, but it was resolved a lot easier than I had anticipated. I hope it goes the same way for you. *fingers crossed*
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Post by: ev4n on 10 Jan 2014, 06:44
If it's a credit card, everything I've heard and experienced in North America says that getting the charge reversed was pretty easy.
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Post by: jwhouk on 10 Jan 2014, 07:20
...Have you shopped at a Target or Dayton-Hudson affiliated store lately?

(I don't know what stores they might have on your side of the pond.)
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Post by: Metope on 10 Jan 2014, 08:17
I did shop at Target when I was in the states last month, but with my credit card, and it's my debit card that the info was stolen from. I'm pretty sure it was one of the shops I went to in the states though, since the person using my card is in the states. But yeah, it's my debit card, not credit.
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Post by: LTK on 10 Jan 2014, 08:36
Maybe your card got skimmed at a compromised ATM. That's the only way that someone could make transactions with your debit card without stealing the physical card - to my knowledge. Can you use your card for online purchases?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 10 Jan 2014, 09:05
My friend just spent the last hour singing Munford and Sons songs to me. I plan on retaliating by reciting Jethro Tulls Thick as a Brick epic.
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Post by: Lines on 10 Jan 2014, 11:45
LTK some debit cards can be used like credit cards. Mine can. So it's still possible for that information to be stolen online.
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Post by: Metope on 10 Jan 2014, 14:54
I don't think it was an ATM anyway, the only ATM I've used in a few months was the one at Edinburgh Airport before customs and right next to the money exchange counter, which seems unlikely. Anyway, since nothing has changed in my account as of now and the transaction is still pending, I'll just have to wait until next week. It sucks.
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Post by: Loki on 10 Jan 2014, 15:34
Is there any way to read out info from it from a distance, via NFC or somesuch?
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Post by: Metope on 10 Jan 2014, 15:39
Not sure what that is. I'm kind of hoping that if it goes through, my bank will deal with it and contact Lufthansa or something. Hopefully it'll all work out.
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Post by: Lines on 10 Jan 2014, 16:36
I'm surprised that they aren't making you fill out theft paperwork now. My bank made my do that when my wallet was stolen and two kids cleared out my bank account. I had to sign something that made notice of the last transaction I made and which ones were made after the theft. (I withdrew from an ATM days before this happened and for whatever stupid reason it posted at the same time as the shopping spree. And banks are really effing particular about how/when things post, not when they were made.) I was refunded everything, it'd be downright shitty of them to not refund your money.
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Post by: jwhouk on 10 Jan 2014, 16:39
I did shop at Target when I was in the states last month, but with my credit card, and it's my debit card that the info was stolen from. I'm pretty sure it was one of the shops I went to in the states though, since the person using my card is in the states. But yeah, it's my debit card, not credit.

Oops.

Target Data Breach (http://www.chicagotribune.com/business/breaking/chi-target-data-breach-affected-70-million-customers-20140110,0,621285.story)
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Post by: Lines on 10 Jan 2014, 16:44
Yeah, but she said that it was a different card that was used at Target...
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Post by: jwhouk on 10 Jan 2014, 16:52
It's possible that they just got lucky. I had that happen with my Discover card at one point.
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Post by: Metope on 10 Jan 2014, 16:55
How could they get lucky? It's a different card with a different pin code, I don't think that's possible.

Also they might make me fill out stuff, but I don't think they will until it's sure the money is gone. The woman I talked to told me the transaction could go either way and it was too early to say. If it does go through, I'm sure I'll have to do something but as of now, technically no money has been stolen from me. There's also the added layer of difficulty from my bank being in Norway while I'm in the UK.
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Post by: Lines on 10 Jan 2014, 17:04
Eeek. Hopefully it goes the not being withdrawn way. It'd certainly be faster and less of a pain in the ass.
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Post by: Metope on 10 Jan 2014, 17:10
Yeah, I'll have to wait till next week before I know anything since there's no bank activity over the weekend. Sigh! Apparently one of three things can happen: 1. The transaction is cancelled and I get my money back, 2. It goes through and I've lost it (although I might get it back when I report it), or 3. There is no change in the bank status for a while, which means the transfer hasn't gone through and I'll probably have to bug someone to get the money back, but at least it will be in the hands of the bank and not the thief.

One thing though, I have another pending transaction from the same card, which was groceries bought at Lidl. Since the card is cancelled, if the Lufthansa fraud purchase gets cancelled, will the Lidl purchase get cancelled too? Does this mean I got free veggies, cheese and pasta?
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Post by: jwhouk on 10 Jan 2014, 17:40
I mean, whoever did the theft may have just gotten lucky with your CCN and PIN.
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Post by: Jimor on 11 Jan 2014, 10:29
There's something I don't get about credit card thieves buying plane tickets (and it's ALWAYS plane tickets). It's nearly impossible to get a refund from an airline without jumping through a million hoops, at least one of which would be verifying your identity, and if somebody did show up to use a ticket bought with a stolen card, you'd think security would jump them so hard they'd be lucky to ever see the light of day again.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Jan 2014, 10:36
Perhaps they buy them for drug mules...



My age has got me onto various mailing lists: at the age of 50 I was sent details of the local council's "home visiting service for the elderly", and I also started getting Saga catalogues (Saga is a UK company that does tours and insurance services for the over-50s, generally not particularly good value as far as I can see). 

However, today's post brought me a new low in the life I'm being expected to lead; a catalogue of, for example: mobility scooters, incontinence underwear, devices for putting on socks, machines for popping pills out of their holders, waterproof ponchos for wearing in a wheelchair, commodes, and "adult clothing protectors" (bibs to you and me). 

What kind of life do they think I'll have when I actually stop working and retire, I wonder?  Bah!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Jan 2014, 10:40
Surely it would be advantageous if your drug mule actually manages to get onto the flight?

When I got Facebook-engaged to Emilio (to anyone who hasn't been around here since the dawn of time, Emilio is a former forumite and the engagement was an in joke), I got all kinds of adverts for pedicures, hair cuts, makeup, dresses, flowers, shoes etc. When I removed the engagement, I got adverts for dating websites. Not quite as bad as incontinence underwear, but still an assumption that a life will take a particular course at a particular stage.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Jan 2014, 10:47
My dear old father is so ill of health that he needs many if not all of these items ... it's a sad affair ...
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Jan 2014, 10:54
It's good that these things are available for those who sadly need them; I'm just a bit miffed that they are sending out the catalogue as essentially a junk mailing - spam mail I guess we could call it!  But I accept that there is a possibility that one day I'll also need their services (I hope your father has an acceptably improved standard of life as a result of them).
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Jan 2014, 11:00
I get heaps of adverts for pizza delivery. It's like they're taunting me.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Jan 2014, 11:06
We get some, too; but more for Indian Restaurants.

I just noticed a tag line on the front of this catalogue: "Promoting Incontinence".  Seriously, promoting it??
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Jan 2014, 11:21
It's good that these things are available for those who sadly need them; I'm just a bit miffed that they are sending out the catalogue as essentially a junk mailing - spam mail I guess we could call it!  But I accept that there is a possibility that one day I'll also need their services (I hope your father has an acceptably improved standard of life as a result of them).
Thank you.

Unfortunately, my old man is being propped up by modern medicine. Because, let's face it, if your heart, lungs and kidneys are giving you trouble and you're overweight and you have diabetes ...
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Post by: GarandMarine on 11 Jan 2014, 11:36
We get some, too; but more for Indian Restaurants.

I just noticed a tag line on the front of this catalogue: "Promoting Incontinence".  Seriously, promoting it??

The incontinent life style is... how do you say... a very free flow one yes?
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Post by: Loki on 11 Jan 2014, 13:08
...I can feel the niveau of the next few posts going down the drain.
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Post by: Akima on 11 Jan 2014, 13:32
I get heaps of adverts for pizza delivery. It's like they're taunting me.
Yeah... I could roof my house with the pizza-joint (mostly Domino's) discount coupons I get stuffed in my letter-box. And, of course, the places that do offer good no-meat, no-cheese toppings never discount and don't spam me with flyers anyway. I think there is correlation; the more frenetic the marketing, the worse the food.

I'm just a bit miffed
Beware the Englishman who is "a bit miffed".
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Jan 2014, 13:44
There is a pizza place here that sells vegan pizza WITH vegan cheese (rare - most places that can do vegan pizza just leave off the cheese from an egg-free base) but it is not really accessible by public transport and I can't figure out whether they deliver and if so, how far. Some day when someone comes to visit with a car and an inclination to eat pizza I will get them to drive me there! For now, I have got a recipe for vegan cheese which is quite nice - we made it in Norway this Christmas actually - but it's not the same as being able to buy one sometimes, as a treat.
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Post by: jwhouk on 11 Jan 2014, 14:30
I'm just a bit miffed
Beware the Englishman who is "a bit miffed".
The last time that happened, the Falkland Island War resulted.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Jan 2014, 14:54
Hey, that wasn't me!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Jan 2014, 16:23
Well, you seem to have done everything else in your life so it wasn't a completely unfair conclusion to jump to.
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Post by: jwhouk on 11 Jan 2014, 16:28
...Where's the "LOVE IT" button? ;)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 11 Jan 2014, 18:15
I'm just a bit miffed
Beware the Englishman who is "a bit miffed".
The last time that happened, the Falkland Island War resulted.

Prime Minister Thatcher was, I believe, reported to be "a bit peeved" when the Argentinian Navy realized they were in a bit over their heads. Literally and figuratively.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 11 Jan 2014, 19:04
I sometimes wonder if some of you misunderstand me, when I talk about who and what I am, what I mean when I talk about living your life as a warrior, about killing, and the act therein. The concept of honor... dying for something. What do all this things really mean? What's it all for? What's it amount to?

I've been called many things, through out humanity's history, warrior soldier, spartan, legionnaire, Marine, ranger, commando... and a thousand other names, murderer, monster, baby killer and many others amongst them. I've been called those last three to my face more then a few times. In the end I am, we are, all of these things and none of them. To be a pretentious git and quote one of Shakespeare's lesser known tragedies "Make you a sword of me!" (Gaius Marcus Coriolanus, watch the recent movie with Ralph Fiennes and Gerard Butler at the very least it's phenomenal). That is in fact what we the willing say when we sign up as free volunteers though the words are different. The meaning is quite similar. (Even if the usage in the play is VERY different from the way I use it here). It's been said a solider should be prepared to die for his country, I disagree. Dying for your country isn't good at all, nor should it be the goal of a military operation, as George S. Patton said, the goal is making the other poor son of a bitch die for his country. This can go poorly for us, and result in horrors and misuse the world over. A sword is no better then the hand that wields it after all, thankfully the United States any many nations are making far more intelligent soldiers these days, and slightly more enlightened, or at least more cowardly leaders, so many once great horrors have vanished from our kind, to be replaced with smaller terrors and demons all the same... but, I like to think we have made some small progress.

What then did I enlist for? Why did I say I would go? It's a question I get asked a lot, and it's a complex answer. More complex then I think I can ever explain in words, it can simply be understood by those with a similar mindset. In short though, beyond all other meaning and reasons, I could, I was willing... and if I went, someone else wouldn't have to.

Then the question comes, from those too dumb to know better, or those bold enough to demand such answers... what would you kill for? Or die for? When it came down to it... when it was just me and my soul, checking my gear before I was told my orders had been changed, and I would not be sent overseas (I believe this was the third or fourth time I attempted to volunteer to deploy) I faced myself and thought, not of country and colors, cause or creed, simply the men and women by my side, my brothers and sisters, family of mine by choice, and by oath, for them... if it meant saving just one life of those I called mine, and called me theirs in return, for the chance to survive... and for the chance to ensure the safety of those I care about, there and here... living and dying for what, in the end can only be called love... some honor that perhaps.

Not for the love of death, and the act of killing. To survive, and give my life so that others may live.

"You're not a soldier! I'm a soldier, with the career goal of all soldiers - staying alive in situations where it ain't all that easy to do! You're a death-lover. Some sorry son of a bitch has got you convinced that dying for a cause is oh, so romantic. Well, that's the worst kind of all the kinds of bullshit there is!"
                                    - COl Kerby, Taps
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Post by: Grognard on 12 Jan 2014, 06:02
TAPS
beloved and hated movie.
extremely good story.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 12 Jan 2014, 06:30
I hate the movie except for that single quote.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 16 Jan 2014, 08:11
Might have not paid enough attention to detail.
Might have inadvertently got myself and the wife summons'd to court for non-payment of council tax.
Have definitely sorted that out before the wife gets home tonight.
Have found out that the council now probably owe us some money.

I may be a useless, unemployable lump of a husband but I'm damn well not going to be a useless, unemployable lump that earns his wife a CCJ. Still going to get it in the neck tonight but at least there's a better chance my head will still be attached in the morning.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Jan 2014, 08:31
Oops! Hope it all gets sorted to your and your wife's satisfaction...

I just had to report the fact that for some reason our bin wasn't emptied today. Everyone else's was, the bin bags which were next to the road were taken too, but our bin remains in full view of the street, filled with rubbish. Since there are three households using a standard-size bin, it fills very fast, and is already overflowing. We can't wait another two weeks for it to be emptied!
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Post by: Patrick on 16 Jan 2014, 09:55
I wrote and recorded a new song, probably my best instrumental work yet. And since nobody ever goes in the "own music" thread, here it is.

[soundcloud]https://soundcloud.com/kimjongsick/one-person-heard-it[/soundcloud]

Obviously, I am having trouble getting over my breakup from about 2 months ago, but finally finishing this song is helpful. And hopefully it doesn't sound too whiny. My favorite part is the solo at the ending.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 16 Jan 2014, 10:30
[...] and is already overflowing. [...]

That's possibly why. Around here, if the bin lid does not shut or there are more than a certain number (four, I think) of bags, the bin will not be emptied. I'm not entirely sure how that is supposed to help, because now you have two loads of rubbish to dispose of next time. However, my family is allowed a larger bin and rubbish amount for some reason. You might also be if you tell your local council.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Jan 2014, 10:47
They know we're a multiple-occupancy house, and I think they do do larger bins for those, so I'll chase it up. They've always emptied it before though.
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Post by: pwhodges on 16 Jan 2014, 11:35
My dustmen will leave a bin who's lid isn't fully closed - it won't go through the mechanism that tips them in the lorry properly.  Here, bigger bins are available, but are charged for.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Jan 2014, 12:59
That doesn't make a lot of sense to me. They'll happily take bags which are lying loose in the road, but will leave an entire bin because one bag is slightly holding the lid open - could they not remove that one, throw it in by hand and then take the bin? We're not talking huge sacks here, I use the smallest size of binbag (about the same size as a carrier bag) because my flat is too small for a proper bin!
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 16 Jan 2014, 13:11
It comes down to economics and patterns of behaviour. If they do it for you they have to do it for everyone. If everyone does it then the amount of time spent emptying bins is higher, the amount of rubbish to be transported is higher and the cost is higher. With landfill rapidly vanishing in Britain, prices are already escalating and it's encumbent on councils to deal a bit of a heavy hand on reducing the amount of waste we produce. Providing less space for it is supposed to help with that.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Jan 2014, 13:26
I am hoping to reduce the amount we put in the general waste bin, by locating the recycling boxes which are currently somewhere in the back hallway behind two bikes, a spare door, five chairs and a broken cupboard, and putting them in the main upstairs hallway where everyone will see and hopefully use them. I will, of course, be the one who has to remember which week to put them out, so if I'm not home on a Wednesday night they'll sit for a month, but I felt guilty chucking out recyclables, and now I'm sick of tripping over the bag I've been collecting them in ever since.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 16 Jan 2014, 13:53
If you have any amount of garden then composting helps too, more so if people in your house do any proper cooking. Don't really even have to use it.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 16 Jan 2014, 23:24
My room-mates were up till 5, talking and watching funny internet videos. What that means is that they kept me up or kept waking me up (worse in my opinion), even though I mentioned having to wake up early. The one who is always waking me up by watching Django or similar Shit at 7 in the morning always acts really surprised when I tell him to stop waking me up in the morning, saying: "none of the tenants before you had any problem with that. Are you a light sleeper?"

I think it's very unfair of him. Even if I were a light sleeper, it should have been motivating him to be more careful about waking me. It doesn't help that he has the loudest laugh known to man, so even if his TV isn't waking me, it's his laugh.

Anyway, it's 8:20 now and I'm dancing to music naked in order to wake up. And I've forgotten about the school on the other side of the road again -_-
At least the music is good:

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Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Jan 2014, 08:31
If you have any amount of garden then composting helps too, more so if people in your house do any proper cooking. Don't really even have to use it.

Sadly there is not even a sliver of garden. I would love to grow my own herbs but I can't even do that on the windowledge because the kitchen cabinets are higher than the bottom of the window and the blind would knock the pots over. This is not exactly a well-designed house, it's more of a "we have spare rooms in this commercial building, how can we make more money out of them?" situation.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Jan 2014, 09:30
Have you looked at an egg crate herb garden?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Jan 2014, 10:09
It sounds intriguing, but there are two issues with me growing plants. One is that I seem to kill plants by being near them - I didn't even manage to grow cress on a tissue and my potted rose died within days. I even killed a cactus. Another is that my flat is absolutely miniscule and I honestly don't have a single flat surface where I could put even an eggbox full of plant. I suppose I could maybe put one on the bookshelf - but it wouldn't get any light.

So my laptop power cable stopped working. I touched it; it made a crackling sound, felt very hot and I'm pretty sure I saw sparks. I've ordered a new one but it won't arrive until Tuesday. I now have three hours of battery life left until then, and must spend an hour of it on tutoing on Sunday. Won't be around much this weekend!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Jan 2014, 11:04
I... you... how the heck do you kill a cactus?


May has the death touch! Cool super power? Yes!
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Post by: Metope on 17 Jan 2014, 12:56
I've killed a cactus before! I watered it too much.
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Post by: celticgeek on 17 Jan 2014, 12:57
Drowned the poor thing, did you?
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Post by: Metope on 17 Jan 2014, 12:59
Yep. It's easier to keep other plants for me because I'm good at watering frequently and regularly. Turns out a cactus isn't really into that...
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Post by: Lines on 17 Jan 2014, 14:37
Well, you wouldn't be either if you came from the desert.
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Post by: celticgeek on 17 Jan 2014, 15:26
Someone was talking about how often to water a cactus, and she said that when she heard that it had rained in her home town (in Arizona), THEN she watered the cactus.
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Post by: pwhodges on 18 Jan 2014, 14:48
There's a nice article based on interviews with my son in the weekend edition of the Financial Times.  He talks in particular about his artistic relationships with the British composer Harrison Birtwistle and the American composer Elliott Carter.
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Post by: Case on 20 Jan 2014, 16:28
Just saw a Bernard Allison live - brilliant 4-piece band, amazingly forcefull Bluesrock with a sprinkling of Funk thrown on top for good measure.

It's been such a long time since I last let a really good band blast the cobwebs and the constant leaden worries out of my head and came home with a silly smile glued to my face and aching calves & feet (The fact that it takes a lot less these days than it used to in order to accomplish the latter two can't currently bring me down).

Gods, I guess I really missed that!

(Also, I think that maybe now I'm finally over divorcing my beloved five-string & can just enjoy listening to music again the way I used to. About time ...)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 22 Jan 2014, 06:52
I... you... how the heck do you kill a cactus?


I.....might have killed 3 of them. And a spider plant.


I want to try again once the weather gets nicer. Maybe.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Jan 2014, 06:59
...I'll be straight with you lil'cheese, I ain't never heard of a black thumb before.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 22 Jan 2014, 07:24
(http://static.someecards.com/someecards/usercards/231a830089c5d2331a8b90c86b2cfd38.png)


 :-P
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Post by: cesium133 on 22 Jan 2014, 10:35
A truck engine backfired on campus. Quick, call the SWAT team!  :psyduck:
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Jan 2014, 12:41
I went in to SF last night to see Autumn Sky, who our very own Jimor has worked with. She's not only an incredible musician (despite the venue's sound person SUCKING FUCKING MISERABLY OH MY GOD GET A DIFFERENT JOB BECAUSE YOU ARE AWFUL AT THIS ONE) but a genuinely wonderful person. And her band are all wonderful people too. I bought an EP and she autographed it. And when she's famous it'll be worth thousands and I'll guard it so jealously that I might as well quote Modest Mouse and say "PLEEEEATHE BURRRRY ME WWWITH IT"
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Post by: jwhouk on 22 Jan 2014, 17:30
The boss has re-released Permanence. I have not as of yet had a chance to listen.
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Post by: celticgeek on 22 Jan 2014, 17:55
I started a new thread on this: 

Kickstarter Recording (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,29661.0.html)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 22 Jan 2014, 19:16
"PLEEEEATHE BURRRRY ME WWWITH IT"

I LOLed. You captured that perfectly.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Jan 2014, 04:02
I have two tickets to a Heather Peace gig which is in three weeks. I bought them as a sort of birthday present to myself; the rest of the tour had sold out in minutes and I didn't want to miss out on going - it was an additional date added later than the other venues - so I got them and figured I'd find someone who wanted to come with me.

It's in three weeks and I have not found anyone who wants to come with me. I've asked two friends; one isn't keen on Heather Peace but is thinking about it, and one says she can't afford it. I haven't yet asked the person I'd really like to ask, because it'd be too much like asking her on a date and that didn't work well last time. I am reluctant to ask any of my straight friends because Heather Peace gigs are really pretty gay. I don't want to go on my own, not least because it'd be pretty expensive. I don't think I can return the tickets. And I won't know until next week at the earliest whether I can even go anyway, because I don't have my shifts yet.
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Post by: Jimor on 23 Jan 2014, 05:24
I went in to SF last night to see Autumn Sky, who our very own Jimor has worked with. She's not only an incredible musician (despite the venue's sound person SUCKING FUCKING MISERABLY OH MY GOD GET A DIFFERENT JOB BECAUSE YOU ARE AWFUL AT THIS ONE) but a genuinely wonderful person. And her band are all wonderful people too. I bought an EP and she autographed it. And when she's famous it'll be worth thousands and I'll guard it so jealously that I might as well quote Modest Mouse and say "PLEEEEATHE BURRRRY ME WWWITH IT"

Awesome! Glad you got a chance to see her and talk with her. Pretty much everything I'm doing now is her fault. (After the first time I saw her play, the totally out-of-the-blue idea popped into my head to help her get her music on TV, which started the long process of learning how to video from scratch, which led to my current job, and also to meeting just about everybody in the local music scene, which led to other projects like directing music videos...)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 23 Jan 2014, 08:33
Blehhhh. I have some kind-of-almost-good news and some moments of Past Me stupidity that are currently hindering possible-almost-good-news.


Found out yesterday that my local ShopRite is hiring- like, doing a LOT of hiring. There are over 15 positions open. I want the Shop From Home clerk position- getting paid to shop for other people's groceries? YES PLEASE. I know this store like the back of my hand, have a decent amount of retail-ish experience and really need a stable second job (a stable first job would be nice too....). I've also heard that they pay really well for a grocery store and there is always room to move up the ladder. They had me come in as part of a customer focus group in October to discuss ways to improve the store too, so I think that might give me a little boost. There were only about 10 of us there and the store manager spoke to each of us and said if we needed anything, we could contact him directly. Do you guys think this counts as "needing something"? Lol

The problem? I can't remember the dates of my most recent related experience and I never updated any of my (multiple) resumes. I've put so much time and effort into my admin and teaching resumes and have completely ignored my retail one. The best I've gotten is finding out that based on my tax returns and the approximate pay per hour, I worked at one place starting in 2007 for roughly 20-30 weeks. I moved here in July, so it had to be after that. I know I started the second place shortly after that, but don't remember if I was still working at the first place at the beginning of the year and can't find my 2008 taxes on my computer. Either way, my taxes obviously don't help me narrow down the months. Or remember exactly what my pay rate was.

I might have to start digging around in my old livejournal. I've got to have something in there about getting/switching/quitting jobs......right? :?
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Post by: Loki on 23 Jan 2014, 09:01
Don't forget this very forum.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 23 Jan 2014, 09:12
Strangely enough, it was before I started posting. I've only been here for 3 years!


Update: I think I figured it out!!! Yay for livejournaling! I even posted my salary at DSW lol
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Post by: Welu on 23 Jan 2014, 14:26
Hey all. Not been here for a while and might not post here for a while after this.

Won't get into the nitty-gritty but a small update status update:
- Moved into a new house just after New Years. Still a bit of a tip but getting by.
- Just managed to get my assignments in a couple weeks ago, then because we've no exams I'm off college till the 27th.
- Haven't returned to work yet but I've said I'll do covers if they're desperate and I'm available.
- Starting a college course related work placement in the next couple weeks.
- I've started taking antidepressants. On a waiting list for counselling which'll probably take months.

I'm still on Facebook and Tumblr for those who have me there. Just tired right now. Hope you're all well.
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Post by: Loki on 23 Jan 2014, 14:51
Hope you are well too! Good luck with the waitinglist.
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Jan 2014, 17:08
I went in to SF last night to see Autumn Sky, who our very own Jimor has worked with. (clipping this for organization's sake)

Awesome! Glad you got a chance to see her and talk with her. Pretty much everything I'm doing now is her fault. (After the first time I saw her play, the totally out-of-the-blue idea popped into my head to help her get her music on TV, which started the long process of learning how to video from scratch, which led to my current job, and also to meeting just about everybody in the local music scene, which led to other projects like directing music videos...)

yeah man, she really is awe-inspiring. gives great hugs too, hah. by the way, my buddy Cole and I are throwing Cole-chella during one of the Coachella weekends, it's probably gonna be here in Livermore, and I've just talked Autumn into playing. you should come down if you can! and that goes for anyone.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 26 Jan 2014, 16:50

Saturday night I had some people over for a Martial Arts movie marathon to celebrate Invasion Day.

We ate a bunch of food ($200 of Thai food!) and watched a bunch of awesome movies where terrible things keep happening to people.

The films for the evening were Police Story, Hero, The Transporter, Ong-Bak, The Raid: Redemption, and Ip Man. We were supposed to watch Le Pacte des Loups and Once Upon A Time in China but after the first six films it was already 6:30am so we decided to go to sleeeeeeeeep.

Yesterday I woke up at about 12. My partner and housemates and some other people decided to go to the pub for Invasion Day beers. I stayed at home and slept some more. Then my friend Courtney came over and we watched some more films and cuddled on the couch. I've had a good weekend.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 26 Jan 2014, 18:23
Invasion Day?

Also Ip Man was a freaking EPIC movie. Also an epic human being.
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Post by: Grognard on 26 Jan 2014, 21:37
Falkland Islands? Maybe?
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 27 Jan 2014, 01:16
Centenary of the landing of the First Fleet by the British. I suppose it might be akin to either Independence Day or Thanksgiving? It's actual name is Australia Day and it's usually a day for jingoistic displays of nationalism and racism. People walking around with the Australian flag draped around their shoulders and getting extremely drunk.

A lot of Indigenous Australians refer to it as Invasion Day as it also marks the anniversary of nearly 150 years of oppression, displacement and attempted genocide.
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Jan 2014, 01:57
Oh man. So years ago, I briefly met this cute girl at a party, made her acquaintance, and we became FB friends and never saw each other again. Today, she walked into my work and had me recommend her a beer. She took my recommendation (Lagunitas Hairy Eyeball, it's delicious) and we caught up a little bit after ringing her up. And of course as she walked out the door, she caught me checking her out a little bit, and gave me a smile that turned my face a nice shade of crimson.

When I got home I sent her a message saying I hoped she liked the beer, and that if I'm working the next time she stops by, she should say hi again. She said she loved the beer and that she'd be back soon. I am pretty tickled. Suffice to say that old crush is still going strong.

Centenary of the landing of the First Fleet by the British. I suppose it might be akin to either Independence Day or Thanksgiving? It's actual name is Australia Day and it's usually a day for jingoistic displays of nationalism and racism. People walking around with the Australian flag draped around their shoulders and getting extremely drunk.

A lot of Indigenous Australians refer to it as Invasion Day as it also marks the anniversary of nearly 150 years of oppression, displacement and attempted genocide.

I refuse to celebrate Columbus Day (I feel like this is a somewhat more accurate analogue) because I feel like it's tasteless to glorify a racist serial rapist/murderer.
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Post by: Akima on 27 Jan 2014, 02:11
Australia Day is our "national day", and we treat it roughly like 4th July in the USA, but its more like celebrating the arrival of the Pilgrims at Plymouth Colony really, since the First Fleet arrived in 1788, but Australia didn't become an independent nation, as opposed to a geographic region containing a collection of British colonies, until Federation in 1901. Oddly, we don't really celebrate that at all. Racism was a major driving force behind Federation, particularly a desire to block Chinese immigration, as this cartoon from 1886 makes clear:
(http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/f/f6/1886_Anti-Chinese_Cartoon_from_Australia.jpg)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Jan 2014, 03:59
On an unrelated note. I present Miyamoto Musashi's "Dokkōdō"  (Trans: "The Way to Go Forth Alone", sometimes "Going My Way")

Accept everything just the way it is.
Do not seek pleasure for its own sake.
Do not, under any circumstances, depend on a partial feeling.
Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world.
Be detached from desire your whole life.
Do not regret what you have done.
Never be jealous.
Never let yourself be saddened by a separation.
Resentment and complaint are appropriate neither for oneself nor others.
Do not let yourself be guided by the feeling of lust or love.
In all things, have no preferences.
Be indifferent to where you live.
Do not pursue the taste of good food.
Do not hold on to possessions you no longer need.
Do not act following customary beliefs.
Do not collect weapons or practice with weapons beyond what is useful.
Do not fear death.
Do not seek to possess either goods or fiefs for your old age.
Respect Buddha and the gods without counting on their help.
You may abandon your own body but you must preserve your honor.
Never stray from the way.

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Post by: lepetitfromage on 27 Jan 2014, 07:17
I refuse to celebrate Columbus Day (I feel like this is a somewhat more accurate analogue) because I feel like it's tasteless to glorify a racist serial rapist/murderer.

I don't "celebrate" it, per se....but you can bet I'm going to do a little happy dance for that paid day off of work.
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Post by: Loki on 27 Jan 2014, 09:56
GM: I disagree with like, half of that.
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Post by: Thrillho on 27 Jan 2014, 11:22
Me also.
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Post by: Metope on 27 Jan 2014, 11:24
I disagree with most of it. :P
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Post by: Lines on 27 Jan 2014, 11:38
That's because it's essentially a list of things on how to become a Vulcan.
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Post by: Aimless on 27 Jan 2014, 15:19
Indeed, a lesser known title of the poem is "Spockkōdō"
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Jan 2014, 15:31
I don't know a whole bunch about Buddhism but it kind of sounds like a version of that, to me.
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Post by: Aimless on 27 Jan 2014, 15:35
It is a Buddhist approach to life clarified or made concrete through precepts
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Jan 2014, 16:54
More specifically it is a dedicated Zen Buddhist's personal approach to life and the warrior's path of which he was a master. Miyamoto Musashi was a skilled architect, painter, poet and the greatest Japanese swordsman to ever live, by definition his philosophy towards life will not be for everyone. Me included.
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Post by: Akima on 28 Jan 2014, 00:52
The "Dokkōdō" is a famous personal statement, very heavily influenced by Zen Buddhism. As a Chán Buddhist myself, I have little problem with it, perhaps because I read it with "Buddhist eyes".
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Post by: GarandMarine on 28 Jan 2014, 04:01
I find it quite appealing as an ideal to live towards. Even if you want to avoid being a true ascetic as Musashi did you can always look at your life and strip out excess clutter from your personal belongings and the rest of your life. Approaching things stoically and calmly is also an attitude worth aspiring towards.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Jan 2014, 05:27
I just rubbed my finger in my eye after handling VERY HOT CHILLIES and now I fear I'm going blind.
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Post by: Grognard on 28 Jan 2014, 09:46
having been sprayed repeatedly with OC spray, part of me wants to laugh uproariously...
and the other half feels your pain.

rinse with LOTS of water. then a little bit of milk. then more water.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Jan 2014, 17:07
UPDATE forumites
SET age = age + 1
WHERE nickname = 'Masterpiece'
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Post by: cesium133 on 28 Jan 2014, 17:09
OPEN (UNIT=22) "this_post.txt"
WRITE (22,*) "Happy birthday!"
CLOSE(22)
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Post by: jwhouk on 28 Jan 2014, 19:08
You need to make some more posts so your post total equals your birth year!

Happy birthday by the way!
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Post by: ankhtahr on 29 Jan 2014, 04:50
Happy Spawndate, Masterpiece!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 29 Jan 2014, 09:55
Always interesting to get a forgein perspective: http://www.reddit.com/r/Military/comments/1wbyiq/american_troops_as_seen_by_a_french_soldier_a/
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Post by: Grognard on 29 Jan 2014, 10:39
(http://www3.pcmag.com/media/images/282394-the-it-guy.jpg)

... half the job is knowing where to find the right research...
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Post by: Lupercal on 29 Jan 2014, 14:22
Y'know, it's amazing that my colleague and I who run our department are seen as some kind of tech wizards, just because I Google my tech problems rather than going to co-workers with them (we have no IT department). I also Google their tech problems that they ask me about.

And when I asked my boss for some specific literature on the Adobe Suite to make my day-to-day stuff a bit easier, he said "Google is my friend". Should've seen that one coming.
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Post by: nekowafer on 29 Jan 2014, 14:50
That's why I'm treated like the computing genius in the office.
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Post by: Lupercal on 29 Jan 2014, 14:54
As such, I think we're both due pay rises!
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Post by: nekowafer on 29 Jan 2014, 14:57
Absotively.
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Post by: Thrillho on 29 Jan 2014, 15:01
I know SFA about Excel, but today someone had to get me to help them to filter a column.  :psyduck:
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Post by: pwhodges on 29 Jan 2014, 15:22
That's why I'm treated like the computing genius in the office.

I am the computing genius in my office ('cos that's my job).  Certainly I rely on Google a great deal - but then, I'm also a whiz at Googling (some people just can't find things, it seems to me).  My searches find things that other searches don't reach, one might say.
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Post by: nekowafer on 29 Jan 2014, 15:24
Yeah a lot of my coworkers don't seem to understand how to do a basic search.
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Post by: Patrick on 29 Jan 2014, 15:33
I work retail, so none of us have to give a shit.
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Post by: Carl-E on 29 Jan 2014, 21:47
Automotive blog;

It's been a while since I posted anything, I think I mentioned when the differential literally fell out of my Saturn.  It's still sitting at the curb, I decided not to try to put in a new transmission (it's just shy of 200K miles, and there are other problems). 

The van we were given suddenly had its radiator blow up (literally - three large pieces) right before christmas.  I replaced the radiator, flushed the ridiculous amounts of stopleak from the system, and it was fine... for about three weeks.  Suddenly started overheating again, checked the thermostat, changed it anyway, flushed the system - and the amount of crud was impressive, because most of it was rusted bits of water pump.  Which failed, spectacularly. 

Now, some of you may know a bit about engines.  Most water pumps are on the big belt, you just take off the belt, unbolt it, put on a new one, fill up the coolant, put the belt back on - voila!  Easy, no? 

No.  This is one of those engines where the water pump is run off the timing belt.  You need to support the engine, remove two motor mounts, remove all the accessories, and disassemble the engine to the point where you could change the head gaskets if you wanted to. 

So it's at the garage now.  One of the few that I trust implicitly.  The one-man shop nearby (who loans me tools when I need them) wouldn't take it - couldn't afford to tie up his entire operation for that long.  It's that kind of job...

But I've got enough money for them to do it, and I'm hoping nothing else got damaged in the overheating.  I should have it back by Friday.  Then we can actually go places without getting rides from friends...
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Post by: Masterpiece on 30 Jan 2014, 04:21
I had the best birthday party EVER
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 30 Jan 2014, 18:49
Woohoo! We got the house! :-) :-) :-)
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Post by: Loki on 31 Jan 2014, 00:25
Woohoo!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 31 Jan 2014, 02:52
House house house house house!
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Post by: ev4n on 31 Jan 2014, 05:56
/like
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 31 Jan 2014, 06:17
(http://www.geekstyleguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/house-md-1024x768.jpg)
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Post by: Patrick on 31 Jan 2014, 16:26
this cute girl who completely terrifies me decided last night that we should make out. I'm still not totally sold on the idea, because as mentioned, she fucking terrifies me. but whatever. the thing that really got me trippin balls was that she kept talking like we were gonna start dating or some shit and I was like "whoa hang on a dang minute those are different things" and yeahhhh it was weird. whatever though.
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Post by: Lines on 31 Jan 2014, 20:14
Terrifies you because ... she might be a stalker?

Woohoo! We got the house! :-) :-) :-)

Yaaaaay! Congratulations!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Feb 2014, 06:37
Today's Agenda: Sit down and do my taxes. Or more accurately, pay someone to do my taxes for me.
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Post by: jwhouk on 01 Feb 2014, 07:18
Wuss. Get yourself a copy of H&R Block's Tax software like I have for the last dozen years or so.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Feb 2014, 07:23
I would, but I have to file in three separate states and I'm itemizing.
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Post by: Grognard on 01 Feb 2014, 08:38
smart/good idea, esp. with a complicated return.
if GM screws up his taxes... he's screwed.
if HRB screws up the taxes, they will make up for it.
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Post by: Grognard on 01 Feb 2014, 08:43
Good story about good people.
http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2014/01/29/chick-fil-gives-free-food-to-motorists-stranded-in-southern-snowstorm/?intcmp=latestnews
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 Feb 2014, 08:48
Writing this from my new Kobo Arc. It has Netflix and YouTube and Facebook and Chrome. I need nothing else!
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Post by: Carl-E on 01 Feb 2014, 18:07
So, end of december the online school I adjunct for advertised a full time position.  I actually had a heads up about it when the guy who designed the course I've been teaching up and left - I asked the department head if he was going to be replaced, and was told to watch for the internal ad. 

I applied, and the internal ad was withdrawn without posting an external ad.  That was three weeks ago, and while no news is good news in an academic job search (you haven't been eliminated yet), I was getting antsy. 

Yesterday, I got two emails, one asking for more info, the other for an interview. 

 :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D  (http://www.sherv.net/cm/emo/dancing/smiley.gif)


On the other hand, the van's still running like shit, but it has heat and it isn't overheating anymore.  I think they fucked up the timing belt, though.  Probably just put it back together the way it was rather than checking it.  I have to check - time to dig out the compression tester and timing light! 
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Post by: Redball on 01 Feb 2014, 18:23
Ohmigod, Carl, for this I'll offer an unaccustomed prayer!
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 01 Feb 2014, 18:33
Thanks everyone :-) It feels awesome!


Carl- WOOOOOOOOOOO! Best of luck!


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Post by: Patrick on 01 Feb 2014, 20:29
Terrifies you because ... she might be a stalker?

yeah pretty much. but there again, she was noticeably drunk. gotta hang with her sober to find out for sure.

guys I gotta be honest, I think the single best part of my life right now is work. I don't really care about much else aside from music, and even that's slipping a little bit. and I really enjoy my job. and this is giving me a bit of an identity crisis that I'm not sure how to handle.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Feb 2014, 05:10
Woo Carl, sounds like they know who they want to hire and it is you!

Patrick, I'm sorry your music seems to be slipping a bit :( But don't see it as a change in your identity - everyone needs a bit of time off even from things they love, and I'm certain you'll come back to it when you're ready. It's great that you enjoy your job!
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Post by: Metope on 03 Feb 2014, 05:05
Yeah Pat, I didn't even as much as doodle in a notebook for the duration of my previous degree (3 years), before that I'd enjoyed drawing and making art since I was old enough to hold a pencil. Now I'm in art school, and I actually think the hiatus was good for me. Maybe questioning what you're doing is a good thing once in a while? You'll either find out that it's not for you, in which case you'll be better off than if you keep doing it just because you think you're supposed to and discover too late that you're not. Or you'll end up rediscovering it, and then it's even better for you because it'll be like falling in love all over again, only this time you'll be able to appreciate it more since you know what it's like to be without and it's more of a conscious choice this time around.

In other news, I got back from Norway yesterday and I've slept for 15 of the past 24 hours. I feel woozy.
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Post by: Akima on 03 Feb 2014, 05:14
Yesterday, I got two emails, one asking for more info, the other for an interview.
All my best wishes, Carl!
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Post by: ev4n on 03 Feb 2014, 06:00
Def wishing carl good luck.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 03 Feb 2014, 06:52
Yeah Pat, I didn't even as much as doodle in a notebook for the duration of my previous degree (3 years), before that I'd enjoyed drawing and making art since I was old enough to hold a pencil. Now I'm in art school, and I actually think the hiatus was good for me. Maybe questioning what you're doing is a good thing once in a while? You'll either find out that it's not for you, in which case you'll be better off than if you keep doing it just because you think you're supposed to and discover too late that you're not. Or you'll end up rediscovering it, and then it's even better for you because it'll be like falling in love all over again, only this time you'll be able to appreciate it more since you know what it's like to be without and it's more of a conscious choice this time around.

This is all SO TRUE. While a hiatus and/or decrease in applied creativity is never pleasant, it sometime does us more good than harm. Every once in a while I'll slip into a funk. They suck SO MUCH. But it makes coming back that much more amazing. Sure, there is the fear of "getting rusty" but it's like riding a bike- maybe even harder to forget, because while riding a bike is purely skill, creating is a skill that is part of who you are. Getting back into it is like coming home.
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Feb 2014, 20:12
it's not like I'm gonna be far removed from any musical endeavors. I still run 2 open mics a week and have band practice every other Sunday (yesterday included). so I'm not afraid of getting rusty, because that simply won't happen. I just don't feel the same sense of overwhelming joy I used to. I think what I need is an actual hiatus, except considering a significant portion of my income comes from one of my open mics, I literally cannot afford to.

it's a very strange sort of situation and I'm really not sure what to do about it.
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Feb 2014, 22:14
also, I just realized that in my haste to be a negative nancy, I totally failed to thank you guys for your encouraging words. my apologies. thank you.
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Post by: Loki on 03 Feb 2014, 23:43
Joining the ranks of goodwishers for Carl and Patrick.
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Post by: Carl-E on 04 Feb 2014, 00:28
Thanks, guys!  Further information has been submitted, along with the internal supervisor's recommendation form... 

The further info included, of course, my recent employment history.  I stuck to the teaching positions.  Considering that the last two were part time only, I'm hoping I'm not torpedoed before setting sail...


I remember being on a hiring committee several years ago, and looking at a patchy vita, thinking "Do we really want to hire someone who can't seem to keep a job?"  (http://i141.photobucket.com/albums/r44/SouthernCoastie/smileys/Smiley-Facepalm.gif)
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Post by: Patrick on 04 Feb 2014, 02:51
an experienced perspective can only help the way you handle this. we all believe in you, all you gotta do is kill it <3
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Post by: Barmymoo on 04 Feb 2014, 07:17
So I am maybe going to move out of my tiny tiny flat which I love merely for the fact that it is mine and not really for anything else, except maybe its location which is pretty nice, and become the lodger of a friendly and pleasant woman who has a cat and a garden. I am freaking out over making the decision, it's basically been all I've thought about for the last three days.
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Post by: Patrick on 04 Feb 2014, 13:45
kittyyyyyyyyy
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Post by: Barmymoo on 04 Feb 2014, 13:52
I rang her and said I would like the room. She said that the friend from work who had originally been going to move in was still not sure (I didn't realise she was still in the frame, I thought she was sure she couldn't) and she'll let me know on Thursday. If on Thursday she's still not sure, I'll say "sod it" and stay here.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 04 Feb 2014, 18:11




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Post by: Patrick on 04 Feb 2014, 19:07
GM, re: those first two videos, I can't remember who said it first, but since hearing it I've always loved to think that "We are the universe experiencing itself."

Makes me happy to think of it like that. Makes me less saddened by when people I love die. There's more to life than just chemical reactions, it takes energy. That sentience, the ability to recognize the sentience of others, and the desire to improve things for oneself and for the species... it's the love that tears us apart (ex. arms races leading to wars, etc.), but it's also the love that creates so many incredible things (more, better humans). And I don't think that dies when you die. I don't believe in an afterlife, but... energy and matter are never created or destroyed. They simply change.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 05 Feb 2014, 08:29
Okay, so, it seems even now, people are still freaking out about Fukushima polluting our shores, much less the world, with radiation leaking out into the ocean. Make no mistake, it's anything but good. But it's not nearly as bad as people think. A little bit of research would dispel a lot of the panic. But given the general populace's track record with researching anything, here's some things to consider:

A commonly used unit to measure radioactivity is the Becquerel (Bq for short), which represents an amount of radioactive material where one atom decays per second. When we talk about the radioactivity measured in seawater, the measurements are reported per litre of seawater (Bq/L). Almost all the radioactivity in seawater is the result of naturally occurring radionuclides that have been transported or deposited in the oceans by natural processes. For example, over time radioactive elements in rocks and minerals are delivered to the ocean through the erosion of the continental crust.
 
The average radioactivity of seawater is about 14 Bq/L, of which nine-10ths comes from the naturally occurring elements potassium and rubidium. The remainder is fallout from atmospheric nuclear-weapons testing in the 20th century. So the natural level of radioactivity on average in the oceans is about 13 Bq/L, against which radioactivity resulting from human activities and disasters should always be discussed.
 
The radioactive element Cesium 137 (Cs-137) was released in large quantities from Fukushima into the Pacific. Pre-Fukushima levels of Cs-137 in the North Pacific, present from Cold War-era nuclear testing, represented 0.007 per cent of the natural radioactivity in a liter of seawater.
 
Measurements of Cs-137 were made by an international team of researchers immediately after the disaster in 2011. Forty kilometers from the reactor site, Cs-137 was elevated up to 25 per cent of the total naturally occurring background, but fell to two per cent of the background 600 kilometers offshore. Scientists did not have to take any precautions while handling seawater, sediment and biological samples collected during the study because the radioactivity was so low.
 
Talk of plumes of radioactivity being broadcast across the Pacific must take into account that the background radioactivity of seawater is about 14 Bq/L. It is important that although one can detect isotopes from the reactor in the environment, the absolute levels are very low and will be lower as the ocean mixes with distance from Japan and as the isotope decays.

You have to also take into consideration the 187 quintillion gallons of water that make up the Pacific Ocean, spanning at least 5,355 miles from Japan to the west coast. That's a shit ton of water, and a long way for it to travel.
It's not good that the radiation is even getting into the ocean, but it's not the end of the Pacific like sensationalist media outlets would have you believe.
 
And for the curious, the above information was taken from an article written by Jay T. Cullen, an associate professor and a marine chemist at the University of Victoria’s school of earth and ocean sciences.
 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 07 Feb 2014, 10:30
I bought so much food and then I had to go back to Norway last week, so while my food hasn't gone bad yet, I can't eat it all before it does. So I did this:

(http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5499/12368187843_f378cd8c4f_z.jpg)

Not all post-its in this flat are passive aggressive.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 07 Feb 2014, 11:49
ahaha I love their faces!
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Post by: Masterpiece on 07 Feb 2014, 12:31
I would finish those oranges so bad
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Post by: Akima on 07 Feb 2014, 13:28
Oranges and tangerines are regarded as auspicious by Chinese people, especially at New Year. This is because in some dialects the word for "orange" is a homophone for the word for "good luck", and that for "tangerine" sounds like "gold". So Metope wished her housemates good luck and prosperity, and at the right time of year, which is awesome! Perhaps she was Chinese in a previous existence...
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Post by: Masterpiece on 08 Feb 2014, 07:50
My roommates woke me up at six in the morning because they were out partying and had just returned.
And made a mess in the kitchen, waking me up.


I know they are still sleeping now. So I'm gonna return their favor by playing this at max volume:



I love this song so much.
Almost as long as I love my sleep. Assholes.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 08 Feb 2014, 07:53
In other news, I finally got my phone back, and the conductive charging works again, but the vibrating alarm stopped working.

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Feb 2014, 04:08
Live plot of water level at Folly Bridge, the bridge over the Isis (Thames) in central Oxford:

(http://www.atm.ox.ac.uk/rowing/recent.gif)

Oh, the irony:
Quote
Oxfordshire - Dry Lane in Crawley closed between the B4047 Burford Road junction and the Leafield Road junction, because of flooding.
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Feb 2014, 15:46
Incidentally, although the Somerset Levels have been in the news in the past few days, with visits from members of the government, there are currently only two "severe" (="risk to life") flood warnings from the Environment Agency still in place there; by contrast, there are now fourteen along the length of the River Thames, including some around Oxford (two people died in flood-waters in Oxford last month).
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Post by: cesium133 on 09 Feb 2014, 15:49
Meanwhile the western U.S., particularly California (http://droughtmonitor.unl.edu/Home/StateDroughtMonitor.aspx?CA), is suffering from a severe drought.
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Post by: Patrick on 09 Feb 2014, 15:59
We sure are. I'm actually seriously concerned for all of America since our agriculture makes up a significant portion of what the country eats as a whole.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 13 Feb 2014, 06:53
I've just been informed that I'm the nicest father of the whooooooooooole world.
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Post by: Lines on 13 Feb 2014, 19:57
That's freaking adorable.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Feb 2014, 05:41
I've been planning for weeks to go to the vegan cafe today - the first totally free day I've had in ages - and I just looked on Twitter to check its opening times and it's temporarily closed down :( I am really disappointed, I was so looking forward to actually having choice and being able to buy a coffee and a cake in a real cafe!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 14 Feb 2014, 10:56
That's freaking adorable.
It abso-freaking-lutely was. hug was included.
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Post by: Grognard on 14 Feb 2014, 15:19
I was informed I'm abusive.

I made the Son&Heir who is as big as me, shovel snow.

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Post by: Lines on 14 Feb 2014, 16:23
My favorite valentine today was from one of the boys in my class (he's just under two). He did the stickers himself and we're both each other's bffs in class, so it made feel all warm and squishy. It's even better than the chocolate my husband brought me, when though that's a close second. :-)
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 14 Feb 2014, 16:59
Awwwww ...
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Post by: Patrick on 14 Feb 2014, 19:08
Bought a bottle of muscato for the chick who I'm not even really all that into. Had sex with a different girl last night.

I'm a real son of a bitch but fuck it I don't care about either of them and neither of them care about me (otherwise we'd hang out instead of just make out) so it's all gravy over here

"gravy"

"man gravy"

"semen"
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 15 Feb 2014, 05:08
Hello blog thread!

I am now officially living in Rockhampton, Queensland. Rockhampton is really humid and really hot and reminds me in almost all ways of Orlando. In fact it's basically Orlando. I live in Orlando. But without Disney World or Harry Potter World. I live in shitty Orlando.

So far people seem nice enough. It's only been a day so maybe they're actually all complete fuckwits, it could be too early to tell.

Anyway it's hot and I'm a bit homesick. Oh well.
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Post by: Thrillho on 15 Feb 2014, 05:48
Best Valentine's Day I've ever had.
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Post by: Loki on 15 Feb 2014, 14:45
I take it you either mixed up the dates, or you are only telling us now because it was a looooong Valentine's Day :D
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Feb 2014, 15:22
I had sex the night before V day.

It was alright I guess. It just annoys me that my body prefers sex to masturbation, since I really don't like playing the hookup game, and I don't want to date anyone. Fuck. I wish I could be a less social animal and still be part of a musical species.
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Post by: pwhodges on 15 Feb 2014, 15:34
eBay failed to deliver an unusual hard disk I had bought from the US (the supplier sent it to eBay Global Services for international shipping).  It was probably misdelivered by a tin-pot local courier.  As the address is a commercial building with logged goods and mail inward, I can prove it never arrived.  So I opened a case with eBay for non-delivery.

(http://q.ebaystatic.com/aw/pics/uk/buy/trust/imgeBPCaseDetails.png)

First they said it was delivered, because their tracking information said so.  Then they failed to provide any information such as reception signatures or courier logs which might have enabled me to trace where it had actually gone (I did check adjacent buildings).  Then they said they wouldn't compensate me, because they found that the seller had sent the item as required, and closed the case.

I appealed, pointing out that the seller had delivered the item to eBay Global Services for shipping (they documented this), so my complaint was with eBay, not the seller.  Then they said they needed extra time to investigate this.  Then they said the case was suspended while they waited for information.  Then they said the case would be closed unless I provided them with the case ID of a complaint that I had lodged about my loss with the cybercrime unit of the Internet Crime Complaint Center run by the FBI.

So I have now reported eBay to the FBI (at their own request), and provided eBay with the complaint ID.  I await their next move with interest and ever-increasing amazement.
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Post by: pwhodges on 15 Feb 2014, 15:54
UPDATE:  less than ten minutes after I sent eBay the complaint ID, a full refund of the item and shipping costs popped into my PayPal account.  WIN!  But they really made me work for it!  Clearly they are trying to get people to give up before getting to the (undocumented) end of the process.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 15 Feb 2014, 16:22
That is an excellent example for bogus customer support. The only worse case I can think of is EA.
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Post by: Patrick on 16 Feb 2014, 14:25
my mom once spent an entire week on hold with Dell customer service. seriously used her cellphone to order delivery dinners for us since she couldn't make dinner.
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Post by: pwhodges on 16 Feb 2014, 14:55
I suppose it probably doesn't help to say that their commercial business support is superb...
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Post by: GarandMarine on 16 Feb 2014, 15:26
Dude. Don't get a Dell.


Ever.


For anything.
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Post by: pwhodges on 16 Feb 2014, 15:32
I am not aware of any manufacturer whose home machines are anything like as good as their commercial ones.  That's why I build my own.
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Post by: Loki on 16 Feb 2014, 16:47
Dentist appointment tomorrow.
Don't wanna.
Need to.
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Post by: Patrick on 17 Feb 2014, 12:43
Today marks the 6th anniversary of Kosova's declaration of independence from Serbia. I lived in neighboring Albania at the time, which shares a language and a culture with the young nation. Considering the mutual genocide that happened only 9 years prior, I was sincerely worried, and at the U.S. Embassy in Tirana (the capital of Albania, and the embassy where my mom worked at the time) even issued an order for everyone to pack a bug-out bag in case shit got real.

I remember the smiles of faces in passing cars, the honking of horns that didn't stop for a solid week, the Albanian and Kosovar flags waving side by side all over Tirana... the free drinks bought for me without my consent simply because I, an American, must have been directly responsible for the NATO bombing campaign that brought an end to the hostilities between Serbia and the other former Yugoslav states (yeah, people actually told me that)... it was surreal, to say the very least.

I can't believe it was 6 years ago.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 18 Feb 2014, 10:01
Don't Lose Your Way.

It's up to you to determine your course and path in this life, it's easy to drift along the paths provided. College, cubical, steady job, easy life. No risk, no daring, no courage needed... it'll just work out sooner or later. After all, why should you do anything else? Dreams and visions are elusive, just the process of your mind giving way to something solid from the ethereal can be a painful birthing, the process of finding something you can truly be passionate about a mine field of the mind in a world where creativity is stifled and the values of finance and utility are pressed. Do not ignore such things, food and other basic things are an unfortunate nessecity of living, and when managed properly can enrich your life on the whole, but it is easy to be enslaved by these simple comforts, staples of the easy life that can prevent you from finding the road before you even leave your door. Complacency kills you long before you die.

Suffering: It's easy to be overwhelmed by the small things that come up in life. We are dragged down by these things and overwhelmed by them, like a large insect falling under a tide of biting ants, strong are the prison bars we create for ourselves. We must fight the ants, suffering is all a temporary problem. Money, pain, loss, gain, sorrow, joy. Waiver not in these things, or let them sway you towards the promise of easier paths. EVerything can be overcome with will to some extent and at the very least you can avoid being forced to your knees, and continue to slowly shuffle forward. 

Seducution: Seduction is almost as, if not more dangerous then the internal world of suffering. The external pleasures that pull and ply at us are more wild and varied then the simple facts of suffering. They vary for each person, and come in many guises, they can be releases from suffering or responsability, ignorance, or the simple illusions of safety the unadventerous shield themselves from when one avoids the demons within and without, these are lethal in and of themselves, but when mixed with or in place of baser pleasures which can distract and enthrall us, seduction quickly gives way to destruction of the mind and self. Seduction can come in the form of people too counseling an easier path because they care or are worried, even if their real motive is jealous from not having the courage to do what you might be striving to do for yourself.Discard these people from your life, if they truly cared about you they would support you on the path.


The Path: We all have a road to walk, it has a beginning and an end. It must end, will end, at a time yet to be made known to you, and it began with your birth. These are the only sureities in life. That you have been born, and that you shall die. Everything else is up to random chance and you. Cock the dice in your favor and get running. Carve your own road, no one's going to do it for you.


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Post by: Thrillho on 18 Feb 2014, 12:42
Oh my god Garand that post adds up to 33!!!!!
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 18 Feb 2014, 12:50
What?
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Post by: Thrillho on 18 Feb 2014, 12:54
He'll get it.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 19 Feb 2014, 03:11
Look what arrived earlier today!

(click to show/hide)

Yussssssssssss

My PS3 is arriving later today, so I'm gonna play some GTA V tonight!


(I added a :mrgreen: for loki)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 19 Feb 2014, 06:50
On this day, 19 February 1945, American Marines, sailors and soldiers landed on the small island in the Pacific named Iwo Jima, burning a lasting legend into American history and to the lore of the United States Marine Corps as they began the invasion of the Japnese home islands.

"By their victory, the 3rd, 4th and 5th Marine Divisions and other units of the Fifth Amphibious Corps have made an accounting to their country which only history will be able to value fully. Among the Americans serving on Iwo island, uncommon valor was a common virtue."

                                                                                                                                                - Admiral Chester Nimitz

(http://www.glynn.k12.ga.us/BHS/academics/junior/gunning/bobbye9648/images/flag.jpg)

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Post by: Loki on 19 Feb 2014, 17:10
(I added a :mrgreen: for loki)

I appreciate the sentiment, but: huh? I don't have a particular fondness of dinosaurs that I can think of.
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Post by: Metope on 20 Feb 2014, 09:24
Robbie Coltrane was at my school today and he was just randomly hanging out with some people on my course. I was stuck in a crit so I didn't get to meet him.

Apparently he told my friend Matthew he was a wizard.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Feb 2014, 09:54
Who?
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Post by: Metope on 20 Feb 2014, 10:00
Guy who plays Hagrid in Harry Potter. He also played in a James Bond movie, not sure which one (they're all the same to me).
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Feb 2014, 10:06
(https://scontent-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/t1/1897887_756051867740217_1379502294_n.jpg)


Your daily reminder not to trust cops
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Post by: pwhodges on 20 Feb 2014, 11:44
And your daily reminder that paranoia can lead to a life of misery.  It might just be worth also remembering the millions and millions of people who have opened the door to a cop and not been shot.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Feb 2014, 11:52
Cops commit murder every single day. Whether by mistake or by ill intent it happens. Besides not trusting any one and paranoia are very different things. I'm just suggesting people be prepared to take care of themselves.
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Post by: Metope on 20 Feb 2014, 12:03
A cop saved me from a very possible sexual assault/robbery/whatever that scary guy following me wanted to do with me once. Most of the time they're actually just doing their job, but you won't hear about that since it goes mostly unnoticed.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Feb 2014, 13:18
I'm glad you've had a good encounter with LEOs. I'm not saying all LEOs are bad, even most LEOs for that matter. I am just saying the same organization has the potential to kick down your down, shoot your dog and hold you at gun point because they got the wrong address. The same people who will absolutely lie, trick, intimidate and lead you into tickets, searches or possible detention.

Again I've noticed a very different attitude in Europe vs. The United States towards their police, maybe Europe as a whole just has a better relationship with law enforcement. In the U.S. however, the cop down the street might be a good guy, but he's not your friend.

(http://www.theblaze.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/know-your-rights.png)
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Post by: Metope on 20 Feb 2014, 13:30
Yeah this was Norwegian police, which is a lot different from US police. Norwegian police have to go through a 3 year degree that includes psychology and ethics on top all the other stuff police do, and they don't carry guns.

I have a telling anecdite about police in different places actually. I live in Glasgow, and I was dating an American who also lived here at the time. Once night we were walking home, and these three women completely off their faces were being loud, obnoxious and so drunk they could barely stand, let alone walk. Two police officers walked by them and did nothing, and bot my boyfriend and I were puzzled by it. Turns out he was puzzled because they didn't even reprimand them, he'd almost expected them to be arrested, while I was puzzled because the police didn't offer to drive them home.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 20 Feb 2014, 13:35
We (a group of more than five girls and me) were being stalked by two guys while we were at a bar, they kept trying to grind the girls, I kept intervening. At one point they tried to threaten me, and one of them said "how many friends do you have?", threatening me to get away lest they call their friends, I responded "enough", looking at him with disgust.

We left, and the guy followed us for five blocks. At some point we called the police and they talked with him. He disappeared, and we were super thankful for the police guys.

Never before that moment did I have balls like the ones I had when I said "enough". They were both double my size and I didn't flinch, and felt awesome. What an adrenaline rush that was.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 20 Feb 2014, 13:45
Never before that moment did I have balls like [that]. They were both double my size and I didn't flinch, and felt awesome.

What, your balls?
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Post by: Loki on 20 Feb 2014, 14:29
Goddammit guys how is this a blog topic.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 20 Feb 2014, 14:35
Coppers with guns or gargantuan testicles?

There once was a man from Devizes...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Feb 2014, 02:49
I have two days off :) Today I will tutor, shop and then cook. Tomorrow I will sleep in, do the shop accounts, go to an opera rehearsal and then chill out for the evening. Somewhere in there I will also have to wash up and tidy the flat since it's vanishing under a heap of mess. These shifts really aren't conducive to living normally!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Feb 2014, 03:02
Double posting tralala I just bought a t shirt with a rainbow heart on the front to wear on the day the first gay marriages happen (Bob, it's the day we're going touristing round York).
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Feb 2014, 04:51
I get to see the Pixies tonight, suckaaaaz
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Post by: Metope on 22 Feb 2014, 04:53
I bought tickets to see The Notwist when my boyfriend is here next month! I am really excited about seeing a great band with my favourite man, it'll be an actual date instead of this LDR crap. Yay!
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Post by: Redball on 22 Feb 2014, 09:11
Double posting tralala I just bought a t shirt with a rainbow heart on the front to wear on the day the first gay marriages happen (Bob, it's the day we're going touristing round York).
You're assuming it'll be warm enough for a T? I should find something in support. A pin, maybe. I don't think this  (http://www.homage.com/store/styles/t-shirts/pop-culture/think)would do.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Feb 2014, 10:02
Last day of March, should be warm enough for a t shirt and cardigan (although I will, of course, be carrying a coat - you only leave your coat at home in July).
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Post by: Metope on 22 Feb 2014, 10:03
I never leave my jacket at home, no matter how hot it is out. I guess that's how you spot the Northerners. :p
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Feb 2014, 10:05
It was consistently 30 degrees between 7am and 8pm pretty much every day last July, surely even a hard-core snow dweller would concede that's not coat weather!
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Post by: Metope on 22 Feb 2014, 10:06
Well no, but from experience I know that no matter how hot the day is, as soon as the sun goes down it'll get really cold. And if it's a weekday and I'm getting up early to go somewhere, it'll always be cold in the morning too.
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Post by: Lines on 22 Feb 2014, 11:59
Even in summer I carry a long sleeved something because it's going to be cold whenever I go inside somewhere.
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Post by: Thrillho on 22 Feb 2014, 12:31
I get to see the Pixies tonight, suckaaaaz

Oh fuck you.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Feb 2014, 12:32
That's something I hadn't known to expect about the USA actually - we don't have anything like as much air conditioning here (I think it's something like 1% of homes, at the most) and shops aren't chilled, they're just cooled slightly. I certainly appreciated not having to lie on the floor and pant like a dog, but it was a weird adjustment having to put on a layer to go inside.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Feb 2014, 14:49
Yes, but you're from Europe. We actually experience significant heat here :P
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Post by: cesium133 on 22 Feb 2014, 15:03
I was sent this article (http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/02/20/viking-apocalypse-end-of-the-world-saturday/5643717/) this morning. If they want, I could delay the apocalypse by sending them some of the 115 F (45 C) weather we've had here over the past couple summers.
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Post by: jwhouk on 22 Feb 2014, 15:52
It was consistently 30 degrees between 7am and 8pm pretty much every day last July, surely even a hard-core snow dweller would concede that's not coat weather!

30 degrees... Hon, it gets up to 35+ in July and August in some places over here. You'd melt if you were in Phoenix in August.
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Post by: celticgeek on 22 Feb 2014, 15:57
The highest temperature in Phoenix since I have lived here is 50o C (122o F).
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Post by: Metope on 22 Feb 2014, 16:00
She didn't say it was too hot, only too hot to wear a coat. 35+ sounds lovely, I love hot weather, as long as it's not humid. Air-con is okay if it's not freezing inside, and a lot of places in the states keeps the temperatures needlessly low inside. Such a waste of energy, and it just makes it even more of a shock when you go outside in the heat again! There's air-con in Europe too, lots of places in Europe get the same kind of temperatures as the states... They're just usually better at keeping it temperate inside.

Warning - while you were typing a new reply has been posted. You may wish to review your post.

...okay 50c is way too hot.
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Post by: Thrillho on 22 Feb 2014, 16:21
Fuck anything over 20. I like warmth while also being able to sleep at night and move without sweating to death.
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Post by: jwhouk on 22 Feb 2014, 19:41
Then you'd melt in my apartment. It's set to 72°F (22°C).
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Feb 2014, 19:48
She didn't say it was too hot, only too hot to wear a coat. 35+ sounds lovely, I love hot weather, as long as it's not humid. Air-con is okay if it's not freezing inside, and a lot of places in the states keeps the temperatures needlessly low inside. Such a waste of energy, and it just makes it even more of a shock when you go outside in the heat again! There's air-con in Europe too, lots of places in Europe get the same kind of temperatures as the states... They're just usually better at keeping it temperate inside.

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...okay 50c is way too hot.

Considering how far North the bulk if Europe is compared to the U.S. I doubt you have any where in Europe that hits much of the South and South West's average temps in the summer. Maybe down on the Medd....

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Post by: ankhtahr on 22 Feb 2014, 19:59
Yeah, I once experienced 46°C temperatures in Croatia. I'm a bit worried about what will happen in summer now, as the city I'm living in is on average the warmest one of Germany. I grew up close to the baltic sea, so I'm used to temperatures around 27°C. But my room typically had 37°C, as I was living under the roof and there was no wind at all.

I totally agree with you Gareth, fuck anything over 20. Damn, what I would have given for a good strong winter. But I'm living in the wrong place for that. I didn't even see snow. Damn, I want dry -20°C and a clear sky and not these wishy washy 11°C and rain.
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Post by: Redball on 22 Feb 2014, 20:24
No opportunity to put a fan in a window, either to blow outside air in or to exhaust inside air but draw fresh air in from another open window?
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Post by: Metope on 23 Feb 2014, 02:00
Yeah, how far north most of Europe is is irrelevant, that's not how temperatures work. You have to consider lots of things, like how the stream from the Mexico Gulf heats up most of Northern Europe for example. The Mediterranean, Southern Europe and lots of mainland Europe have 40+ C regularly in summer.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Feb 2014, 02:05
I'd like the weather to make up its freaking mind. Either give us proper sunny weather or give us cloudy, not sunny in the morning and cloudy when I get up.
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Post by: ev4n on 24 Feb 2014, 05:26
Yeah, how far north most of Europe is is irrelevant, that's not how temperatures work.

Very true.

I lived for a couple of years in a lumber mill town in Northern Ontario.  There were essentially no paved roads or railways in a line due north from the end of my street to the north pole.  The ground was fertile, but the growing season was too short, and the climate too harsh to be considered feasible for farming.  We were 3 hours drive from the nearest city of 50,000, and 6 hours drive from the nearest city of over 150,000.  Beyond the lumber industry, the main reasons people went there were the military (cold war installation with north looking radar that has since closed down), cold weather testing for major north american car companies, and truckers taking the more remote but faster branch of the trans Canada highway.

We were pretty much the same latitutde as Nuremburg.
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Post by: Metope on 24 Feb 2014, 05:34
Ha yeah. Oslo can easily get 30 C in summer, although usually it's around 20 C, which is a pleasant temperature. Oslo is also at the same latitude as southern Greenland, where the snow never melts.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Feb 2014, 13:28
People do buy plug-in fans here, but I've never seen a window air con unit like I saw in the USA.

I turned on the radio to drown out upstairs neighbours' sex noises, and the radio is playing an opera that sounds like sex noises.  :psyduck:

Also, I basically delivered a baby today. My mentor was also hands-on and directing me, but I did a fair amount of it. :D
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Post by: Redball on 24 Feb 2014, 13:38
Congratulations! And did the mentor congratulate you as well?
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Post by: Patrick on 24 Feb 2014, 18:48
I get to see the Pixies tonight, suckaaaaz

Oh fuck you.

I'd rather fuck their new bassist, sorry pal. Paz Lenchantin is goddamn precious, and she was completely killing it on bass and on Kim's vocal parts. She had this foot-pedal keyboard that she'd play some synth basslines with, and she'd be standing on one foot and lifting her leg a little higher than really necessary to move her foot to the next pedal, and she'd stomp on the next key and oh my god it was the cutest fucking thing I've ever seen and it made brilliant music happen and holy shit, mind = blown

also Black Francis had a sick SG Jr. and Joey Santiago had his hardtail Les Paul literally in his pocket at one point and I have never heard an instrument scream in agony like that before
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Post by: Thrillho on 25 Feb 2014, 01:38
I get to see the Pixies tonight, suckaaaaz

Oh fuck you.

I'd rather fuck their new bassist, sorry pal. Paz Lenchantin is goddamn precious, and she was completely killing it on bass and on Kim's vocal parts. She had this foot-pedal keyboard that she'd play some synth basslines with, and she'd be standing on one foot and lifting her leg a little higher than really necessary to move her foot to the next pedal, and she'd stomp on the next key and oh my god it was the cutest fucking thing I've ever seen and it made brilliant music happen and holy shit, mind = blown

also Black Francis had a sick SG Jr. and Joey Santiago had his hardtail Les Paul literally in his pocket at one point and I have never heard an instrument scream in agony like that before

FUCK. YOU.
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Post by: ev4n on 25 Feb 2014, 08:11
I know I've mentioned it before, and I'm working on making it better, but I still sometimes confuse Gareth and Patricks, so this Pixies dialogue is kind of delicious.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Feb 2014, 09:34
...because they're both white as fuck, right?
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Feb 2014, 11:54
The motherboard on my wife's computer gave up the ghost, so I moved her disk into another machines, where it's working fine.  I decided to get a new motherboard and processor to use the old case for a new server (I need to replace my Hyper-V server, because of a Microsoft stupidity*).  I bought a new mobo from a local backstreet shop, and a processor from Amazon.  Didn't fit.  Turned out that the mobo box had a different motherboard in which has a different socket, so I'll have to go back tomorrow and get it swapped out.

* I use Hyper-V core (which has no GUI), because it's free; but MS have made it that a Windows 7 machine can administer a Hyper-V 2008 server, but not a Hyper-V 2012 server, whereas Windows 8 can administer the Hyper-V 2012 server, but not the older 2008 version.  So when I upgraded my desktop from Windows 7 to Windows 8 I discovered that I had no longer any way to administer my server host!  I've put Windows 7 on an old laptop for now, but will replace the server with a 2012 version in the next few days.  This requires new hardware (because it's about time, and) so that I can do a new installation and have it ready to transfer the virtual machines - because although the two servers are versions of the same SKU, there is no upgrade path between them either!
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Post by: ev4n on 25 Feb 2014, 12:08
...because they're both white as fuck, right?

Because they're both english musicians who live in California?  I dunno....   :? :? :?
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Feb 2014, 12:29
Gareth lives just a few miles from me in central England; and Patrick was born in California (he's mentioned his birthplace a couple of times recently).
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 25 Feb 2014, 12:31
How can you confuse them? Gareth is made of sads and Patrick is doing anything but touching his balls. Easy.
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Post by: Thrillho on 25 Feb 2014, 12:39
...because they're both white as fuck, right?

Our first forum dialogue comes screaming back to me...
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Feb 2014, 15:29
Of course, Gareth gets my reference.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Feb 2014, 15:36
How can you confuse them? Gareth is made of sads and Patrick is doing anything but touching his balls. Easy.

I was going to say "NO YOU GOT IT ALL WRONG." until I realized you were joking.

I can tell apart Gareth and Patrick apart no problem. But they're both such nice and also incredibly sexy people, so I understand your problem.
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Post by: Thrillho on 25 Feb 2014, 15:40
He said, fully erect.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Feb 2014, 15:43
Hur hur hur :D
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Post by: nekowafer on 25 Feb 2014, 15:52
You guys need to stop playing into my fantasies. I'm looking at you, Gaz and Masterpiece and occasionally Pat.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Feb 2014, 16:06
...she said, raising her whip above her head. Masterpiece bowed lower, humbly replying, "yes, mistress" as she tightened the shackles even further.
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Post by: Patrick on 25 Feb 2014, 16:55
ev4n I'm kinda curious where you got the idea I was English? I'm ultra NorCal, I just lived abroad a while. And not even in England :3

You guys need to stop playing into my fantasies. I'm looking at you, Gaz and Masterpiece and occasionally Pat.

the hell did I do?  :?
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Post by: nekowafer on 25 Feb 2014, 16:57
Nothing actually wrong, don't worry &lt;3
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Feb 2014, 17:24
I think that was all me love.
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Post by: Thrillho on 25 Feb 2014, 23:30
ev4n I'm kinda curious where you got the idea I was English? I'm ultra NorCal, I just lived abroad a while. And not even in England :3

You guys need to stop playing into my fantasies. I'm looking at you, Gaz and Masterpiece and occasionally Pat.

the hell did I do?  :?

I remember you joking about your dick being so large that you accidentally fucked the past itself.
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Post by: Loki on 25 Feb 2014, 23:53
gave up the ghost
That expression is a thing in English? o.o
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 26 Feb 2014, 04:15
In dutch too.
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Post by: pwhodges on 26 Feb 2014, 04:45
gave up the ghost
That expression is a thing in English? o.o

To give up the ghost is a completely commonplace idiom in English; "gave up the ghost" is the exact phrase used at the moment of Jesus's death in the King James Bible in the Gospel according to Matthew; and in the online dictionary I checked the example usage is for a computer, as I used it.  "Ghost" in this phrase means "spirit", of course (just as the phrases "Holy Spirit" and "Holy Ghost" are equivalent).
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Post by: ev4n on 26 Feb 2014, 08:08
I have no idea where my confusion comes from.  It's illogical and embarrassing.
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Post by: Loki on 26 Feb 2014, 08:48
Huh. I thought that expression existed only in German.
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Feb 2014, 14:52
You guys need to stop playing into my fantasies. I'm looking at you, Gaz and Masterpiece and occasionally Pat.

the hell did I do?  :?

I remember you joking about your dick being so large that you accidentally fucked the past itself.
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well, how else would you explain every awful thing that happened back then?
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Post by: Thrillho on 26 Feb 2014, 15:16
How? I'll tell you how! ...With some difficulty, that's how!
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Post by: Lupercal on 27 Feb 2014, 12:57
I mean, what do you think they based the Large Hadron Collider on? Blueprints?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Feb 2014, 16:16
I had something kinda exciting happen tonight, I often stop and help stranded motorists, cause I'm a fucking boy scout apparently. Also the motorists out here are very unlikely to be cartel members trying to lure you in so they can rob you and steal your car like AZ. Long story short, dude ran out of gas so I took him to go get gas and gave him a lift back to his car. He thanked me, said "Let me pay you for the gas" handed me $40, wouldn't let me say no, just shook my hand and sent me on my way.
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Post by: Thrillho on 28 Feb 2014, 00:47
I had something kinda exciting happen tonight, I often stop and help stranded motorists, cause I'm a fucking boy scout apparently. Also the motorists out here are very unlikely to be cartel members trying to lure you in so they can rob you and steal your car like AZ. Long story short, dude ran out of gas so I took him to go get gas and gave him a lift back to his car. He thanked me, said "Let me pay you for the gas" handed me $40, wouldn't let me say no, just shook my hand and sent me on my way.

You're a good man, Eric.
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Feb 2014, 13:08
he's also trained and probably well-armed, so he can afford to be. ;)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 28 Feb 2014, 17:28
I can't legally carry in DE so I'm relatively unarmed.

I did just get a sexy birthday present though!


(http://imgur.com/zTGc4vW)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Mar 2014, 06:21
Posted it elsewhere for people who are "in" the hobby, but check the spoiler for what I've been up to.

(click to show/hide)
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Post by: Aimless on 01 Mar 2014, 09:12
Dear blog thread,

I am now officially free from work-work for about 10 days. This past week was pretty intense. We saved some people, lost some people. I poured myself into my work alongside the incredible people I have the pleasure and privilege of working with and it felt amazing. But coming home from work was even nicer. The missus and I have lived in a little bubble of domestic bliss, hanging out, playing Guild Wars 2, planning our kitchen and sleeping lots. We've laid out a kind of wooden flooring on the balcony and it's really pretty and comfortable to walk on! Also a brilliant invention. We've bought all the cabinets etc for the kitchen and have managed to suppress the terror that constantly threatens to overcome us and turn us into sobbing gibbering wrecks :o My mum's here with a couple of her friends, a surprise visit, and it's been really lovely because we were really beginning to miss her. We went out for Bengal food last night and had a loud Bengal night and my quiet introverted ginger had a blast... tonight mum's treating us to the best thing in the world, namely mama-food :)

We had an impromptu after-work-goodbye-please-come-back-beer hangout in the middle of the week. The adorable nurse who's charmed both of us old perverts is leaving for a few months, which is sad, but we had a great time together and it feels like it's never really too late to make new good friends!

That night ended with one of the most sublime experiences I have ever had. I kid you not--even with all the amazing things that have happened in the past year alone, it was one of the best moments I've ever had. It was the feeling of freshly fried warm crunchy chicken nuggets magically appearing inside my mouth through the providence of my beloved elementalist/warrior/chef/artificer as I lay in bed happily drunk wrapped in a warm coccoon of pure bliss spouting all sorts of incoherent nonsense about how wonderful the world was mixed with (I think?) ramblings about the pharmacotherapy of parkinsons disease.

Based on the above as well as on my many work-themed posts of the past few months I don't think anyone will disagree that this little "vacation" has arrived not a day too soon. I spent the day after my last night on call just puttering around, putting away some paperwork that has been hanging over my head like the sword of frickin' Damocles for way too long. My two awards for being good to our students were announced that morning and I was congratulated. I reckon that saved my ass from the chewing out I'da gotten for the late paperwork. It turns out that the evaluation of last semester's course was among the best they've ever gotten, and it was also one of the few times when our boring old wards have gotten so much appreciation, scoring top marks for that semester and (informally) even when compared to other courses. It was the culmination of a whole semester of high-points and it really boosted everyone's spirits. It's incredible just how much energy that sorta thing can give to a group! And it's really nice to leave on a high-note :) that's it for now, most patient and indulgent blog-thread, now I return to the never-ending task of emptying the kitchen
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Post by: Lines on 01 Mar 2014, 12:33
I am sick. AGAIN. I am not pleased. This is the first time I've had strep throat since I was in...second?...grade.

I had plans to see Miyazaki's last movie tonight. God damn you immune system!
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Mar 2014, 19:16
Went out last night to be with friends. I was super drunk and stoned, and a girl I've run into around town for a few weeks (and then one night she drunkenly shoved her tongue down my throat, followed by constant nothing) showed up and I didn't notice, so I didn't greet her. She saw me hanging out with my friend Lisa (obviously enough, a girl) and took massive offense to me hanging out with her and then not saying hello when I 'obviously saw her'.

So she gets super pissed off at me and decides to leave in a giant huff, followed by her texting me all angrily and accusatory-like. And so I asked her where all this was coming from, and she called me super rude and all this bullshit. And I'm like "Alright dude Idk where this tantrum shit is coming from but I'm not going to have any more of it. We're not dating, we never have been, and even if we were, you don't get the right to pick and choose who I get to hang out with because you're jealous of them."

She's all apologetic today and I'm not fucking having it, I've ignored half the shit she's sent me and I'm seriously not about to fucking take this shit from anyone. Least of all somebody who has zero time for me.
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Post by: jwhouk on 02 Mar 2014, 05:49
So you're saying someone pulled the drama tag in your life, hm?
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Mar 2014, 11:39
So. 

Three weeks after applying ("We'll contact you within a week") I got a phone interview for the online teaching position.  It was ... weird.  It was a group interview, all three of the candidates at once, answering different questions to the committee.  It went really well, but it was stiff competition, too.  We all did well...

"Any question you have?" they ask.  I asked what the timeline was like - what we could expect. 

"We'll contact all of you with our decision before the end of the week". 

So here it is, nearly three and a half weeks later, and I finally get an email. 

Quote
Dear Carl -------,

Thank you for taking the time to discuss the Online Full-Time Faculty - Mathematics - Associate Professor (1131-175) position. Our staff found it a pleasure speaking with you and learning about your qualifications. We appreciate your patience throughout our search process.

It is our top priority to select a candidate who best matches the skills and experience required to excel in this position. While we were impressed with your qualifications, after careful consideration we have decided to move forward with another candidate.

We greatly appreciate your dedication and contributions to American Public University System.

Regards,

blah, blah, blah. 


I've gained 5 lbs in stress eating.  Now for another 5 with the depression.  Except we're out of money again, so... I need work if I want to keep eating at all.  Or let the rest of my family eat, for that matter.  Had to take out another loan against my retirement account to make ends meet for the next few months.  Including the payments on the old loans...

I can't make the writing for hire thing work, it's ... awful in many ways.  I checked my community college email yesterday for the first time in over a week, and found I missed the Monday deadline for requesting courses in the fall.  And that the dean-in-charge-of-adjuncts' grandmother died. 

So I sent a combined condolence / beg for a course email. 

I'd sell my body at this point, but I doubt there'd be any takers. 

And just while I was writing this, a guy came into the beer store and asked if we were hiring.  He worked at one of our distributors for the last 42 years (he's 59, started in the warehouse at 17) and just got let go.  No warning, no nothing. 

No, seeing someone worse off didn't make me feel any better.  But at least I could commiserate. 

I know I haven't been around much, and I don't think I will be in the near future, either - just thought I'd drop in and report, since the last you heard I had high hopes. 

Going to sing at the the ash Wednesday service tonight.  I'll be chanting the Great Litany for the first Sunday of lent, too.  I wish I had something to believe in (for those who don't know, I'm not even christian.  I just go to the church because it's my wife's and I like to sing). 
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 05 Mar 2014, 11:54
:-(

I know there is little I can do to help matters*, but I just want you to know that I'm sending positive thoughts your way. *hug*




*It doesn't sound like much, but if you'd like I can literally help you feed yourself and your family. If you let me know what grocery stores are around you, I might be able to help you get some free/cheap food (if you're comfortable sending me your mailing address via PM, I could even order some coupons for you online and have them sent to you). Let me know? I know it sounds like a pain in the ass, but it really helps. Plus- you've already got half the coupon battle mastered- you'd be surprised how many folks run away because of the math.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 05 Mar 2014, 12:08
Paypal?
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Mar 2014, 12:25
I.. I'm sorry.  I was being a little hyperbolic about feeding the family.  We've madde a lot of cuts, and can do some more.  I'm just ... upset.  Depressed, a little, too I think. 

A lot frustrated. 


Thanks, though. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Mar 2014, 12:30
It is upsetting and depressing. It does not, however, reflect on you as a person - simply on the economy at the moment which is frankly a disaster.
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Post by: Loki on 05 Mar 2014, 13:15
*hugs*
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 05 Mar 2014, 13:16
I figured as much, but the offer for help still stands. It's insane what happens to our wallets at the grocery store and it's one place where you can cut back on spending and not see a big difference on what you're bringing into the house. You may not have to make any more cuts. Plus, it's the one area that I actually feel I can help in. I'd love to just help everyone out by handing over a wad of cash, but I can't do that. I can, however, help them keep some more of their own money in their pockets.


Not to mention, when things get really tight for us, I sell some of the stuff I get for free on eBay.


I know I blabber on about coupons all the time but they really do help me get by. Without coupons, Nick and I would probably be eating ramen every day. With them, we can eat pretty damn well. I actually have money for beef, chicken and produce because I either don't pay for shelf stable items, get paid to buy them or pay pennies.


Either way- we're definitely all hoping for good things to happen to you.
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Post by: jwhouk on 05 Mar 2014, 16:59
It probably doesn't help that gas prices are going north toward $4 again.
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Post by: Akima on 05 Mar 2014, 19:45
I'm just ... upset.  Depressed, a little, too I think.
And no wonder... If I could beam some good vibrations your way, I would.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 05 Mar 2014, 23:41
Paypal offer stands. If only because I believe that teachers are a criminally mistreated class of citizen in more than a few countries.
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Post by: Aimless on 06 Mar 2014, 06:52
Carl, if you do find yourself in a financial emergency or if there is any loan you may be able to pay off in full with some help, holla. Like, whenever.

Good luck man, i've got my fingers crossed for you. Also, don't stop singing or doing any of the things you like that you can still do. Exercise, read, cuddle your wife and kids, etc. It's easy to forget these things or feel like you don't have the energy or good cheer, but maintaining them gives you more energy in the long term and keeps the darkest of the darkness at bay during times like these. peace
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Post by: GarandMarine on 06 Mar 2014, 08:48
Same here buddy. Ask and I'll send what I can.
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Post by: Patrick on 06 Mar 2014, 14:25
So you're saying someone pulled the drama tag in your life, hm?

Yes. Then 2 days ago, same stupid girl started a huge argument with these two girls who had never so much as spoken to her. Walked up to one of them and said, "Oh, I love your sweater, I have the same one. Looks better on me though. I'm not as fat as you." Understandably, the girl it was directed toward wasn't too pleased with being called names/told she's not as good-looking. Drama Chick tried to play the martyr, and nobody bought it. The two girls, both regulars, decided to leave the bar.

After this incident and the shit she pulled on me, I told her that I'd be speaking to the owners about both incidents and that they're not gonna be blind to somebody causing problems in their bar. She got super pissed off and I was like "Look kiddo, I work at this bar one day a week. I know you love this bar because you love to start shit, because it gets your rocks off or something, and you'd be devastated to get 86ed. But I WORK here. It's in my interests to keep this place drama free. You are the biggest fucking drama queen on the planet. I hope you'll stay the fuck away from here, but if that won't work, at least keep your shitty stupid opinions to yourself next time."

A little interesting coincidence: the two girls she started a fight with? one of them is the last girl I slept with. it was recent. neither of them had any idea I even knew the other, and yet there was still a fight that started over jealousy. I love people, they're so delightfully shitty.
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Post by: Aimless on 06 Mar 2014, 14:32
So, all in all, it was a pretty good thing she didn't have any time for you
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Post by: Patrick on 07 Mar 2014, 03:11
Basically. And in hindsight I should work on not letting my temper allow me to say the shit I did. I just cannot abide people being awful to people who didn't deserve it, so I like to think I at least had my heart in the right place. Am I fuckin up?
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Post by: Thrillho on 07 Mar 2014, 03:16
Sounds like she deserved the hellfire and brimstone to me!
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 07 Mar 2014, 05:48
No, you are doing your job. It's her fault that she needs to be beaten over the head with the rules. SHE is fucking up. There is no justification to be that cruel to someone you don't even know. Anyone, really! Unless like, the girl she bitched at had peed in her purse or something. (Hey, it's a bar- you never know)


As my favorite saying goes- if you don't have anything nice to say, keep your fucking mouth shut.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 07 Mar 2014, 11:32
So...she works there so she gets to be an ass? Last I heard, being an ass was a good way to not work someplace any more.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Mar 2014, 11:35
No, Patrick works there, and that means it is his job to kick her out for being an ass.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 07 Mar 2014, 12:18
So he does. I did wonder what was up, but I'd read that post two or three time and still didn't twig.
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Post by: Patrick on 08 Mar 2014, 07:25
it's not even my job to kick her out, my job is simply to host the music night every week. and since things didn't become physical, the official policy is to leave it alone and let the children sort themselves out. but since this girl has a history of starting shit with people, which occasionally turns into shoving matches, I wasn't going to let it slide. especially when she caused two regular customers to want to bail on the bar they consider their home base for their nights out.
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Post by: Aimless on 09 Mar 2014, 14:41
Alea iacta est :o

(http://fbcdn-sphotos-b-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/t1/1186672_10152667244433916_967852630_n.jpg)

I have been very nervous but things are progressing nicely and now there's a really nice large pass-through in the wall :) and the tiny door into my closet thingy has been widened to the point where it's comfortable to use!

It's been a pretty cool weekend. I can understand why people get addicted to this sort of thing. It's been really cool to see how it's all done, to help, to learn. I've spoken more with my wife's dad in the past couple of days than I have in the past few years I think :o I have probably also inhaled more radon-tainted concrete dust over the past couple of days than I have in my entire life up to now. Most of the drilling, sawing, hammering, wrecking etc is done. This week we paint, set up the cabinet doors, plan some more, sell off a couple of shelves, learn about ventilation... and I will be back at work which is a little :'( but it's mostly outpatient work and good hours which is :)
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Post by: doombilly on 11 Mar 2014, 17:28
ha ha HATS
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Post by: GarandMarine on 12 Mar 2014, 04:33
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/83934150/

Trigger warning: Helmet cam, POV footage of a Marine triggering an IED and surviving.
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Post by: Akima on 12 Mar 2014, 06:09
Trigger warning: Helmet cam, POV footage of a Marine triggering an IED and surviving.
The only think I'm glad about is that the man survived. I hope recovery from his injuries goes well.
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Post by: Welu on 18 Mar 2014, 12:53
Hey peoples, I think I'm ready to start lurking and maybe post here again. What have I missed?
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Post by: celticgeek on 18 Mar 2014, 12:58
Weclome back, Welu.  You have only missed a few fuzzy dogs.
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Post by: Thrillho on 18 Mar 2014, 13:01
Hey peoples, I think I'm ready to start lurking and maybe post here again. What have I missed?

Not much, but you'll never guess what we've missed.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 20 Mar 2014, 08:21
Yay, Welu's back!


I think it's time for an update. Things have been hectic. I don't remember what my last house update was but there have been lots of fun speed bumps along the way. At first, the process kind of went *whooosh! House time!* and then everything got delayed, then sped up, then delayed, then sped up again.

We've finally gotten the approval from the second bank. No changes need to be made to our contract. Woo! Now for the bad news: the bank withdrew their original promise of a 3% seller's concession, so ALL of our closing costs are out of pocket. This is NOT good news. We're waiting on the final amount now. Additionally, we found out yesterday that they want us to close on the 31st of this month. Which means we have a month's overlap at the apartment. Which is good (no rushing, ability to paint prior to move-in, etc.) but also bad (paying for two places to live at once=expensive). Aaaaaand, we also found out yesterday that we have to pay for a land survey. Yay! Our lawyer's office recommended one that was $850. After some Googling, Nick found one that has been in the business for over 25 years and charged $550 to have everything done by the beginning of next week, so we said noooooo fucking way to the one our lawyer's office recommended.


Phew!

Other than house stuff, I have been working my ass off. I have like, 3 new tasks at my full time job because I've been assigned to a new committee for a new family care model we're rolling out this year (although- they're fun. Mostly design and marketing stuff). Aaand Shoprite has been giving me around 16-18 hours a week. So, I'm close to 60 hours of work every week, packing the apartment and I think I'm fighting off a cold as well. I've been having a hard time falling asleep because I'm so wound up from working late that I neeeeed down time before I actually go to bed. Plus, I've been waking up sinus-y for the last few days. But....things aren't bad, they're just....insane.


The funny part? I'm essentially running on auto-pilot and I'm so exhausted by the end of the day that the two REALLY simple things I REALLY wanted to do in the last week or two, I haven't had a chance to: call my mom and cut coupons. I think tonight is the night.

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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 20 Mar 2014, 08:38
Hooray for house progress! It might be a little different since you're closing at the end of the month, but I don't think we had to make a payment until the second full calendar month when we bought. The first month's payment + a prorated amount for mid-month closing was all built into the closing costs. Hopefully that's how it works out for you and you don't have to pay a rent and mortgage at the same time.
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Post by: Papersatan on 24 Mar 2014, 21:31
It's been a while.  Things have been exciting for me.

Back in December I got a thing

(https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-FGGZ1-tyS68/Ut73hJZ-dsI/AAAAAAAAF2k/AKqYgf0tAU4/w422-h562-no/IMG_20140121_174048.jpg)

I also figured out what I want to be when I grow up.

I also have a good chance of finding a job being that thing.

Also, we had to have our cat Sam put down because of a tumor on his jaw :(

(https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-clYYovMK6fE/UoWNv7sZKCI/AAAAAAAAFZw/-ck34Qdtm0Q/w749-h562-no/IMG_20131113_142251.jpg)

But we got two new cats recently, and they are wonderful.   

(https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-gUtr4KbxX_k/UyXKYjl7i1I/AAAAAAAAGrI/afvANbB2yY0/w749-h562-no/1394985456467.jpg)
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Post by: celticgeek on 24 Mar 2014, 21:33
Congratulations!

And it is always good to figure out what you want to be when you grow up.
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Post by: jwhouk on 24 Mar 2014, 21:42
Great! Too bad it's the U of M. ;)

(Teasing. Congrats, PS!)
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 24 Mar 2014, 22:43
Congratulations on your current and upcoming success!

I am sorry about your cat. I wish they lasted longer.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 25 Mar 2014, 01:24
Grow up? But that's boring...

Congrats on the certificate, though. What does the smaller text say?
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Post by: Akima on 25 Mar 2014, 02:14
It's been a while.  Things have been exciting for me.
Yay! Missed you so much! Congratulations!
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Post by: Papersatan on 25 Mar 2014, 05:02

Thanks guys.


Congrats on the certificate, though. What does the smaller text say?

It's my Master's degree
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Post by: Loki on 25 Mar 2014, 05:27
Congratulations and welcome back!
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Post by: jwhouk on 25 Mar 2014, 05:58
It's my Master's degree

So you're Papersatan, MS? :)
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Post by: Welu on 25 Mar 2014, 06:47
Yay for happy Kat happenings! Hugs for not so happy happenings.
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Post by: Papersatan on 25 Mar 2014, 11:16
It's my Master's degree

So you're Papersatan, MS? :)

MSI, technically.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 25 Mar 2014, 12:42
Even more congrats, then!
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Post by: Welu on 26 Mar 2014, 16:12
My mood seems to have stabilised a bit in the last couple days. Still tired and drowsy but have a bit more motivation to at least trying doing things, even if it's not what I should be doing.

I'll probably be offline from March 30th to April 11th, unless I'll have wifi at the hotel. Will post to Facebook and Twitter a little if I do. Still can't believe I'm making the trip to New Orleans this weekend. It doesn't feel real at all. It felt like it would never come and now it's here and I'm totally unprepared and terrified and excited.
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Post by: jwhouk on 26 Mar 2014, 18:36
Well, yeah, I'd be terrified of going to New Orleans, too.

EDIT: forgot the ;)

Have fun down at the other end of US 51.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 26 Mar 2014, 19:14
You should have Wifi at the hotel, even run down hell holes have wifi in the states these days.
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Post by: Welu on 27 Mar 2014, 04:15
I'd expect enough for emails and such but I know lots of other people going to the same event will be staying at the same place. More will it be stable enough to use is the concern.

Well, yeah, I'd be terrified of going to New Orleans, too.

EDIT: forgot the ;)

Have fun down at the other end of US 51.

Thanks! :-D
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Mar 2014, 04:20
I got decent service at all the conventions I've been too, and I usually stay at cheap hotels because I'm an absolute miser.
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Post by: pwhodges on 27 Mar 2014, 04:27
You should have Wifi at the hotel, even run down hell holes have wifi in the states these days.

Even so, I had more days without functional wi-fi on my tour of the US Southwest 18 months ago than I did touring Sri Lanka and Nepal the  previous years.
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Post by: jwhouk on 27 Mar 2014, 07:08
Yeah, but that was the Southwestern US. If you weren't in the Phoenix/Tuscon/Albuquerque area, or somewhere there was a relatively large amount of persons, Wi-Fi might be spotty.

If it was Vegas, I'd just have to assume that the casinos had it blocked.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 27 Mar 2014, 10:44
Woohoo! Congrats on your fancy paper :-) I'm sorry you had to put your kitty down.  :-( Your new kitties look like adorable little mushes, though.  :-)
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Post by: Lines on 27 Mar 2014, 16:23
I'm a bit late to the party, but hooray for you, Kat! Sorry about your furry loss, but it seems you've gotten two new friends to make things a little easier. :)
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Post by: Loki on 29 Mar 2014, 17:05
Dear diary,

today I visited a good friend of mine, F, for the first time in months. We met with a friend of hers, C, to drive over to the Netherlands for playing lasertag with a few other friends of theirs. We were, however, delayed by the untimely visit of a foreign diplomat causing blocking of a lot of streets.

When we finally could start, it turned out the car we would be getting from F's dad was... rather desolate. We were told it would sometimes not start properly. Also only the doorlock on the right side of the car would open. We could finally go on our trip, though.

It turned out we somehow missed three exits on the Autobahn, which led us to arriving half an hour late.
Turned out it was a large arcade hall with a huge lasertag complex. Two of the three game rounds we booked were wasted. The price had already been paid by a friend of theirs. We were, however, partially reimbursed with tokens for the arcade games (nowhere enough though.)

We had our lasertag round and I had a blast, because it was larger and different than I had expected. The complex basically had three areas, which were also on different levels, allowing shooting up or down on your enemies. It was awesome.

The rest was not so much.  We tried some of the arcade games, but were quickly bored with them. Considering I needed to catch my train, we decided to leave, rather disappointed with the experience.

This was hindered by, you guessed it, the car not starting for a few minutes. Eventually a guy who was also in the parking area came around and offered help. I suppose it helped two of us were girls. We were already thinkg about what we should do if the car wouldn't start.
After much tinkering with the motor, it was running again. C offered him money, but he wouldn't have it.

We finally drove back, vowing to not turn the motor off, no matter what. Had a few interesting conversations on the way (I now know quite a lot about their sex lives) and got lost once in the process.

We agreed our adventures on the road were the most interesting part of the evening.

Luckily, I caught the second-to-last train home, which is where I am writing this entry from.

I hope it finds you well.

Sincerely,
Loki
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 29 Mar 2014, 18:22
That sounds like a fun day! Just FTR though, I don't think desolate is the word you're looking for. Wide open deserts and abandoned, windswept towns are desolate. Busted ass-cars are... decrepit, maybe?
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Post by: Loki on 29 Mar 2014, 18:26
Hm. Cannot I say "that old house is in a desolate condition", though? Why would a car be different?

Anyway, thanks for the heads-up!

Post editing out spelling mistakes: wow, I should really go to sleep.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 30 Mar 2014, 01:07
Decrepit would be a better word to use in either situation although I like the use of the word desolate.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 30 Mar 2014, 01:40
Derelict?
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 30 Mar 2014, 01:55
Lindsay Lohan -like.
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Post by: Lines on 30 Mar 2014, 07:02
Lindsay Lohan -like.

Full of STDs? :mrgreen:
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Post by: GarandMarine on 30 Mar 2014, 07:24
Now a brief beverage lesson:

If you mix peach schnapps, Jagermeister and cranberry juice you'll make the wonderful beverage known as a Redheaded Slut.

Mix this same beverage with coke and you've made a Lindsay Lohan.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 30 Mar 2014, 07:25
Drink it and you die.
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Mar 2014, 16:05
Ever heard of a Sandy?

It's a watered down Long Island
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Post by: GarandMarine on 30 Mar 2014, 16:19
So I'm going for the Son of the Year Award, I found a good quality original pressing of Queen's News of the World. Case isn't perfect but disk is gleaming like it's new. My dad is a huge Queen fan, so his birthday present this year is made of win already.
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Post by: Thrillho on 31 Mar 2014, 01:14
One of their better albums... and Queen don't have many good albums. Shitloads of good songs, mind. 'My Melancholy Blues' is absolute perfection. Shame that it opens with two of my least favourite songs of theirs.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 31 Mar 2014, 04:23
Yeah, I was originally going to do one of their live albums but when I inspected the disk it had a MASSIVE crack!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 31 Mar 2014, 07:20
I really don't like Queen. Any soong of them. Not even Bohemian rap. And people make me feel like I am some sort of pariah for that.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 31 Mar 2014, 07:46
I don't massively dislike Queen but despite enjoying the fact that almost everyone seems to know the words to Bohemian Rhapsody I haven't ever been that fussed by them. But that is an awesome present for someone who does like Queen!
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Post by: Thrillho on 31 Mar 2014, 08:12
Queen fall into that same Nirvana territory where they are somehow underrated and overrated at the same time - underrated by those who only really know the popular stuff and don't understand the insane complexity and uniqueness of the music, but overrated by those who clearly don't listen to any of Queen's albums all the way through.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 31 Mar 2014, 08:31
I understand that it is insanely complex music, certainly for its time. I just cannot find any worthwhile message in there.

Is Nirvana the same? Sounds less complex to me ...
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Post by: Thrillho on 31 Mar 2014, 08:37
What I meant was Nirvana are in the same overrated/underrated category.

They aren't complex, but they do deserve more credit than they get. Cobain had a very unique way with melodicism. A song like 'About A Girl' has some very bizarre chord changes. (verse is just Em and G, then the chorus is C#, F#, E, A, C put simply - it's weirder than it looks). It just shouldn't hang together, but it somehow does. Something being easy to play doesn't mean it's easy to write, either - I've tried to write songs with just three chords, deliberately, and it's fucking difficult to make something that isn't absolute ass.

As for a message behind Queen songs? No you pretty much have a point there, but - and this is a genuine question - do you look for a worthwhile message in ALL the music you listen to?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 31 Mar 2014, 09:49
I think there's a fair amount of message in Queen's music, but their really, really popular stuff is just the usual Arena Rock, which they mastered as an art form.

Interestingly while I love Queen I really can't stand Nirvana.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 31 Mar 2014, 09:52
I do like to feel some connection to the lyrics of a band. If it doesn't mean anything to me or is very clunckily written it will annoy me and I won't buy the music. I appeciate writers who are basically poets who happen to make music. It's a bit more difficult in metal, since that includes a boatload of stuff I simply don't understand. I do worry about that. I hope I haven't picked up something incredibly third reich by accident. I can't not listen to lyrics and I'll judge bands on what they write and people if they don't listen to or are unaware of the lyrics of songs.

Nirvana is so much better than Queen, to me. Not to be rude to GM, but to indicate that lyrics are more important than musical prowess.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 31 Mar 2014, 10:00
Ahem. Music section?

I'm back home from Redball's and my intrepid trek around the country, and happy to arrive home to discover an email telling me that tonight's opera rehearsal is for men only, so I'm having an evening in catching up with my online course on Islam. So nice not to feel that I should be doing uni work - real, proper holiday!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Apr 2014, 04:58
 I didn't know lawyers or couriers got up this early. I just got served papers walking out to my car regarding a child support claim out of SoCal, I don't recognize the name on the documents of the person who's suing me... any one know a good lawyer? Cause I might be screwed.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Apr 2014, 05:00
Is it definitely genuine? It is, after all, April Fool's!

I'm meant to be tutoring right now - my student came online on Skype about 20 minutes ago, but has now vanished. Hmm.
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Apr 2014, 05:09
I'm pretty sure my work didn't schedule me for today just because I already troll them enough the rest of the year.
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Post by: Aimless on 01 Apr 2014, 08:28
I didn't know lawyers or couriers got up this early. I just got served papers walking out to my car regarding a child support claim out of SoCal, I don't recognize the name on the documents of the person who's suing me... any one know a good lawyer? Cause I might be screwed.

I hope for your sake it was an April Fool's thing :/
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Apr 2014, 09:16
It was my April Fools thing as it happens.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Apr 2014, 10:23
Hah! Well I guess you got us, at least partly!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Apr 2014, 10:55
Yeah, there we more suckers on FB. My mother and a few of my Marine buddies actually called me.
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 Apr 2014, 23:52
I read it, shat myself, then realised what day it was and chose to wait until today  :mrgreen:
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Post by: Patrick on 02 Apr 2014, 14:46
One of my closest friends just told me, "I can never tell when you're drunk. You have the same shit-eating grin sober or drunk." I've never heard a better thing said about me.
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Post by: Loki on 06 Apr 2014, 23:05
First day of semester and first day working my job! &lt;3
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Post by: snalin on 07 Apr 2014, 05:04
Now, I know that you shouldn't put aluminium foil* (tin foil?) in a microwave oven. Everybody knows that. For some reason I didn't think far enough to realize that an aluminium lid would be a bad idea.

So I kinda put our microwave oven on fire. As in the lid caught fire, the roof of the oven melted, and the kitchen stinks. I was fast enough to prevent the fire alarm from going off, so that's a plus, but I think this is the dumbest thing I've done in my life.


It was a kinda weird experience to walk over when the microwave oven made the "I am done"-beep, and see a burning lid inside it. Took me a second to register what was going on.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Apr 2014, 05:36
I did something similar once except the other way round - I put a plastic lid in the oven. After the hour and a half that the casserole needed I took the dish out and thought "I don't remember putting mozzarella on top of this". And then I realised I had shrink-wrapped my dinner.
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Post by: ev4n on 07 Apr 2014, 05:48
When my wife and I moved in together, her habit of putting wet dishes in the oven to try and my habit of pre-heating the oven resulted in a Dali-esque plastic bowl.
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Post by: Loki on 07 Apr 2014, 13:17
I once set toast on fire because it got crumpled up inside the toaster and didn't jump out of it when it was done. So the toaster continued heating.

Luckily, the toaster was on a fire-proof surface and there was nothing close above it.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Apr 2014, 01:47
Rarrrrrrrrrrrrrgh why can't I get through to the community team I'm working with next week? I've rung at lunchtime, when they're usually back at base, and I've rung at 9.30 when they're usually all there (mostly they don't leave til about 10). Tomorrow I'll ring on the dot of 9am. I need to know my shifts!
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Post by: pwhodges on 08 Apr 2014, 12:56
This evening marks the first time in my adult life that I have been physically assaulted ('s OK, I'm not hurt).

I was walking the dogs in the twilight, and they were wandering ahead of me, off the leads, when we came on a man with an old dog on its lead (I have met this man before; the previous occasion was just over two years ago).  As she passed them, my older dog, Polly, turned to the other dog and barked in it's face several times, she then wandered off, having more interesting things to do - so I kept my attention on her, while intending to apologise to the guy for his dog being startled.  But as he came alongside me, he swung his arm, open-handed I guess, at my face and knocked me down (part-way, as I ended up against a fence), shouting "What a fucking bastard you are!".  By the time I had recovered my composure, he was well away, and I didn't feel like going after him to extend the experience; I also had to find my glasses in the dark, which I wouldn't have fancied having to pay for the replacement of.  The glasses are fortunately undamaged, as is my face, though it's still stinging slightly.

Last time I was in a physical fight was at boarding school at the age of eleven, but that was at least two-way (I lost physically, but won morally, as he was a well-known bully and I'd had a go).
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Post by: Thrillho on 08 Apr 2014, 13:20
I don't know what I'm angrier about, that this happened at all, that it happened for absolutely no fucking reason, or knowing that I am technically within physical proximity of the bastard that did this to you. Hope you're okay, Paul.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 08 Apr 2014, 14:05
Sounds like a real nice guy...
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Post by: pwhodges on 08 Apr 2014, 14:44
Thanks, guys.  I am just reporting the incident to the police, so that there is at least a record to refer to if it happens again.
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Post by: Akima on 08 Apr 2014, 15:22
Sorry to hear about it :(, and glad you escaped any serious injury. :)
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Post by: Loki on 08 Apr 2014, 15:48
Glad you are okay, Paul!
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Post by: Lines on 08 Apr 2014, 19:00
What a dick. I'm glad you're ok, Paul!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Apr 2014, 02:26
How thoroughly bizarre. His insult seems almost Shakespearean as well. "Avast, ye cad!" and so forth.
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Apr 2014, 02:35
Well, I agree that my dog barking at his close up could be annoying; and the other dog, though as large as mine, is nervous and got frightened.  Also, the same thing happened (the barking bit, that is) in February 2012, so obviously my dog is completely out of control and this is intolerable! (On that occasion, my dog kept barking for longer - this time she wandered off after a few seconds.)

Yes, what he shouted was strangely worded, which is why I remembered it so exactly.

My baseless guess is that the owner is having a sad and lonely retirement (I think he's about the same age as me), and his ageing dog is his only remaining companion, so he perceives the barking at his dog as an attack on him and his dog's fright is a reflection of his own insecurity.  Or something - I'm no psychologist.
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Post by: Thrillho on 09 Apr 2014, 03:20
I too have a theory of my own.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Apr 2014, 04:51
I'm a specialist in the field, and I concur with Gareth.
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Post by: Grognard on 09 Apr 2014, 06:32
WTF is a 'tosser' ?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Apr 2014, 06:36
Tosser (Noun, Adj) 

Literally, one who masturbates. Common usage typically refers to anyone of whom you have a low opinion.

while the word wanker is a more general and term for expressing disdain for somebody, the word tosser describes a person with a tendency to show off or brag in an excessive and embarrassing way.
 
Or someone whose explanation of a word consists solely of another synonym.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 09 Apr 2014, 06:40
I feel like 'Tosser' has fallen out of usage lately and doesn't really offend anyone - I mean, who out there doesn't masturbate, and of those people, who would be offended at being called a masturbator as an insult? - unlike the majority of insults which have some root in sexism or other prejudice.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Apr 2014, 06:42
I always took tosser or wanker as implying you're so wrapped up in your own greatness you're constantly self gratifying yourself... over yourself.
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Post by: Thrillho on 09 Apr 2014, 06:58
That certainly makes it much more insulting.
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Apr 2014, 07:04
I have a former friend who is now referred to by everyone who knew him in the circles I move in as "that tosser".  He fits GM's description to a T.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Apr 2014, 07:08
That's how it was originally described to me by an Aussie friend any way...
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 09 Apr 2014, 07:42
Ugh. I'm sorry you had to deal with that but very glad you're ok. I'll never understand people lashing out like that at complete strangers. Dogs bark. It's not something we have much control over.  :roll:


As a side note, I thoroughly enjoy that definition.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 09 Apr 2014, 10:59
I stayed awake until something like 2 am yesterday and had to get up at 7 today. Then I spent the day listening to boring lectures with barely any break inbetween. I am now trying to sleep. People in the kitchen opposite me are playing 99 red balloons, and while I appreciate the anti war message, cannot they stop it. (Technically, they are within their rights, it's only 8pm.)
Now they are playing "walking on sunshine".
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Post by: Aimless on 09 Apr 2014, 13:37
That's not a tosser, that's a man who has or should have a diagnosis beyond R46.2 (http://www.icd10data.com/ICD10CM/Codes/R00-R99/R40-R46/R46-/R46.2). But I'm glad you're okay Paul and I hope you aren't too shook up by the whole thing :( it was good that you reported him, hopefully he won't hurt anyone else or get hurt.

Aso, dear blog thread, the renovation etc is coming along very nicely :) the apartment feels larger yet cosier and it's becoming easier to see just how gorgeous it's going to become. I think we'll be postponing our moving plans for at least another year, or at least until kids start to loom, so that we can enjoy this place for as long as possible. The property bubble may have burst by that time, who knows, but we'll also have more $$$ so it should be all right.

Also, kids, whoa. We gotta get our asses into gear and start planning some of the travelling etc. we'd like to get out of the way before any of our dorky spawn arrive.

I just have a couple of days left of my brief neuro-rehab interlude. I was loaned out on short notice to help out and also mentor a new doctor, and wasn't sure how to feel about it, but now I think it's been pretty fun. New colleagues, a new way to work, new insights into some areas of medicine that had previously been very murky despite their proximity to my current field, and a rare opportunity to follow up on the rehabilitation of some of my memorable patients. In many ways this clinic has not felt like the well-oiled highly cohesive machines I've grown used to being a part of, but it's really cool in other ways. The workload has been pretty light, so I've been able to spend my time and energy on 1. learning, and 2. Catching up on other work. Want more interludes like this one
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 09 Apr 2014, 13:52
It seems really weird to me when I see codes outside of C or D. (I do beep boop, don't ask me about that sore you have. It's gross.)
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 11 Apr 2014, 12:30
I can't believe we're actually doing this, but we are. At work, somebody keeps clogging the toilets on the 12th floor and it makes the 11th floor overflow. So every time the 11th floor has a problem, we have started looking at the access cards used on the 12th floor bathroom to figure out who's doing it. And I think we have - three times in a row there is only one name in common.

Also I have sympathy for people dealing with depression but my coworker is such an idiot to begin with that it's getting hard not to snap at her. Like, yesterday we were discussing the stigma on mental vs physical illness, and today she's going on about how I probably think she's "lazy" for having to go to so many doctor appointments. Because yes, all of my sitting in her car listening to her cry was actually a clever and subtly crafted joke.
God I hate her sometimes. :psyduck:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Apr 2014, 12:33
Sounds like she's really afraid of you thinking that, and needs constant reassurance that you don't - it's really annoying, I know (I annoy myself when I'm in an anxiety loop) but it's a symptom of the illness.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 11 Apr 2014, 12:35
I know, but she also needs constant reassurance about many things that people with half an ounce of common sense/reading & listening comprehension/etc do not need. It's not so much what the illness is doing to her, it's where she started from and the sheer idiocy that is the cumulative effect.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Apr 2014, 12:45
It's true that suffering from illnesses doesn't make you a better person - I have a bunch of hangups and I can also be a snarky bitch and the latter will remain when the former is fixed (unless I also fix that!).
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Post by: jwhouk on 11 Apr 2014, 18:08
Wait. You? A grumpy bitch? I'm sorry, I don't see it. ;)
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Post by: K1dmor on 11 Apr 2014, 18:24
I can also be a snarky bitch

 (http://i.imgur.com/5UEHDix.gif)
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Post by: pwhodges on 12 Apr 2014, 01:41
Wait. You? A grumpy bitch? I'm sorry, I don't see it. ;)

It's right there under her forum name  :wink:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Apr 2014, 01:55
I don't really grump at you guys because there's enough steps between feeling grumpy and posting it that I think better of it (most of the time). My family bear the brunt of that.
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Post by: Thrillho on 12 Apr 2014, 03:26
When I was in sixth form a student came back after a long layoff having dealt with cancer, and everyone was force to deal with the fact that cancer or not, he'd always been an asshole, and that when he came back, a stronger, slightly more admirable person for having beaten cancer... he was still an asshole nobody liked.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Apr 2014, 12:19
Hoofff, I'm tired. I woke up at 7 to check my email and make sure someone was covering the first shift in the community shop - we have to have two people there for every shift and no one had signed up when I went to bed. If it wasn't covered then David, our only paid employee, would have gone in and worked it and he is really not well enough to be working. Fortunately someone had been found so I went back to bed. Then got up again at 9, had a seven and a half hour opera rehearsal with a mad dash to the supermarket in the middle of it, and now I'm babysitting for a couple of hours while a family from church go to the elder boy's concert. Tomorrow will be no less busy. Roll on Monday, my only day off for at least the next two weeks. I will be very glad when this opera is over - but I am finally enjoying it after hating it for months.
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Post by: Jimor on 12 Apr 2014, 21:55
Oy, a day for dealing with the blacksheep of the family. First, my uncle who has lived the last few years of his life tied to Nigerian e-mail scams. He was good for a while after my mom kicked him out after learning about it all. He was living in a senior apartment complex downtown, keeping clean, then ran into an old high school friend and ended up moving in with her. Well, it didn't last long as he fell into the scams again, not only sending most of his Social Security check each month to them (he was living rent-free, so had very minimal expenses), but then started asking his girlfriend, and her family and friends for money, too. On top of it all, she developed cancer, and he could never be bothered to even help her around the house, and demanded she drive him down to Western Union even when she was feeling like shit. So she finally kicked him out, and he moved back to Portland (on her dime no less). But he still had about a dozen boxes of his stuff in her garage, and STILL kept e-mailing her asking for money so "he could help her" with the money he'd get from some rich African prince. So my mom and I went to her place and hauled away his shit so she could make a clean break and get back to taking care of herself instead of him. Apologizing for the way he treated her never felt so inadequate.

Which brings me to part 2, my sister. The only available storage was my grandparents' old house, which was put into trust between my mother and her 4 brothers (one of whom has since died), and since the housing market in the area is still shit and nobody gets along, my sister lives there as a caretaker of sorts, using her disability payments to keep up on utilities and taxes. She also a drug addict/alcoholic, and is right out of those pictures that went around a bit ago about tracking the life of an addict through their mug shots. She's 44, and looks older than my mother, who's 70. So we get there, and while she's shown the tendencies before, this time going into parts of the house and the yard was like stepping into an episode of Hoarders. So much USELESS shit all over the place. She had about 14-15 large plastic storage containers stacked in the laundry room with clothes, a solid block 5x6 feet, and stacked nearly 4 feet high. In the backyard shed where we took my uncle's boxes, there were 4 inoperable weed-whackers, 7 or 8 bikes, and just broken power tools and... I dunno, strewn everywhere. We grew up with our grandparents in that house, and they always took such pride in how it looked, inside and out. It's heartbreaking to see how bad it all is now, and to feel... nothing... when I visit or look at it. It's not the home they made for us and themselves anymore. It's just lumber and drywall and plaster with a (leaky) roof over it.
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Apr 2014, 23:15
(https://scontent-b-sjc.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/v/t34.0-12/10253234_10202345851381326_404015377_n.jpg?oh=d9d5788861e8422019d6a0b19312c568&oe=534FCD3B)

So this actually happened in December, but I got it today. It was chillin on the desk in the manager booth. Now I have a shiny engraved nametag with a brushed-metal veneer and a magnetic attachment thing instead of the shitty handwritten-on-plastic bullshit I started with. Awesome.
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Post by: Welu on 15 Apr 2014, 23:19
I should probably post about my trip. Nawlens was amazing. I have a stupid amount of photos to sort through. I'm tired.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 16 Apr 2014, 00:38
Signed by Mike Allen and Mr. Squiggle.
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Apr 2014, 13:37
Mr. Squiggle is also named Mike. Mike Squiggle. Also, I just realized this was a district-wide award, not just a store-wide thing. I didn't just kill it my first month, I FUCKING DISEMBOWELED IT AND FEASTED ON ITS ORGANS NOM NOM NOM
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Post by: Loki on 20 Apr 2014, 07:43
So, who else is spending his Sunday trying to get rid of a tit?

There is a tit (the bird, you pervert) in a university building. No idea how it got in. I am trying to coax it towards the only exit, but instead it keeps fluttering against the large windows.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Apr 2014, 08:10
Poor little guy...
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Post by: Aimless on 20 Apr 2014, 08:29
Use food
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Post by: Loki on 20 Apr 2014, 08:50
D came to help and between the two of us (well, 90% her) we managed to get the guy out :D pics coming soon.
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Post by: Loki on 20 Apr 2014, 13:29
Followup: Pics are now here (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php?topic=27421.msg1237017#msg1237017).
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Post by: Akima on 20 Apr 2014, 15:40
Working at a large company's data-centre, I once found a small bird trapped in a maze of corridors outside the underground machine-room. I managed to guide it to a loading-dock that was open to the outside world, by turning off all the lights except those in the direction I wanted it to fly. Yes, I was unreasonably pleased when it worked.
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Post by: cesium133 on 20 Apr 2014, 15:45
There's a couple of birds (I'm not sure what species they are) that for the past couple of years have made a nest on the sprinkler head right outside my apartment door. They panic every time I leave my apartment. They just returned for the spring last week, and have started building a new nest.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Apr 2014, 17:53
Working at a large company's data-centre, I once found a small bird trapped in a maze of corridors outside the underground machine-room. I managed to guide it to a loading-dock that was open to the outside world, by turning off all the lights except those in the direction I wanted it to fly. Yes, I was unreasonably pleased when it worked.

That's an excellent idea in such a circumstance Akima
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 21 Apr 2014, 05:33
So I'm at an awkward point where only one pair of work pants fits me right now, but I couldn't find them this morning, and I don't have any maternity office pants yet (well I got a pair but then I realized that I can't sit down in them and I need a size up so back to the mall I go), and it was too fucking cold this morning for a skirt without stockings, but all of my stockings cut me in half, so as a result I am wearing maternity stretch skinny jeans that don't really want to stay up and definitely don't meet the dress code.
And if anybody calls me on it, I am going to go Regina George on them.
(https://soleforthesoul.files.wordpress.com/2013/10/sweatpants.gif)
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Post by: Welu on 21 Apr 2014, 06:14
I opened the blog thread and Writing club thread at the same time and Bain, your post was confusing me a lot. I thought it was a fiction blurb.  :psyduck:

Is "Bain" an okay shortening of your name?
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 21 Apr 2014, 06:31
totally!
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Post by: Lupercal on 24 Apr 2014, 14:50
If it wasn't, you'd totally have a broken back now.

Oh wait...that's Bane...carry on.
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Apr 2014, 06:03
Apparently I am having a migraine right now.  It is painless, but makes it hard for me to read the screen.  I only discovered a couple of years ago that this effect (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scintillating_scotoma)  actually is a migraine (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acephalgic_migraine), though it's not surprising given that my father and both my siblings all suffer(ed) from "real" migraines with headache - which I never have.
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Apr 2014, 09:00
And now I am listening to the first stereo recording ever made of a complete major work:  Walter Gieseking playing Beethoven's Emperor Concerto in 1944 in Berlin (anti-aircraft guns in the background).

http://www.pristineclassical.com/pasc390.html (http://www.pristineclassical.com/pasc390.html)
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Post by: Aimless on 26 Apr 2014, 14:57
Dear blog thread,

holy crap, you can change the forum theme and the other themes feel really weird  :psyduck:

But somehow energizing
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Post by: Welu on 26 Apr 2014, 15:02
Held a surprise party for my fiancé. Went really well. He thought it was just us two going for a meal for my birthday, which is this week, but had ten of his/our friends waiting at the restaurant. I thought he'd sussed me out for having something planned but turned out he hadn't and definitely not three weeks before his actual birthday. :lol:
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Post by: Aimless on 26 Apr 2014, 15:24
Woohoo!!

Also that is genius, I can't believe I've never thought of the idea before but I'm def. pirating it :)
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Post by: Loki on 26 Apr 2014, 15:31
I know if I was looking forward to a romantic diner or the like with my (hypothetical) fiancee and a bunch of other people showed up, I'd be miffed.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 26 Apr 2014, 15:53
Sure, but Welu gives the impression it was just dinner together. I know with both my wife and my fiancee (other then my ex-wife before she was my wife) we went out to dinner just to eat and enjoy each other's company all the time, independent of going on dates.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 26 Apr 2014, 16:04
That's what always confused me about American culture I guess. What's a date and what's not? Wouldn't hanging out be considered a date? Is a date hanging out with higher stakes or some sort of level of seriousness to it?
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Post by: Welu on 26 Apr 2014, 16:15
It wasn't presented as a romantic night, just as me saying, "I want to go to this place to eat a few days before my birthday." but I understand some people don't like surprises of that nature. I'd done some fishing from him a while ago to see if he liked the idea of surprise parties in general. For me I might be initially annoyed at the being tricked part but once I think about it, I'd appreciate the effort they went to for doing a nice thing and that my friends all gathered to celebrate with me.

My partner and I do date nights semi-regularly and they're more about getting a nice feed than spending time being lovey.  :-P Although I'm not sure if that's a reflection of Norn Eire culture or not.
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Post by: Thrillho on 26 Apr 2014, 16:41
So I just (deliberately) wrote the worst song I've ever done.

Also I am having MAJOR nicotine withdrawal hunger pains.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Lines on 26 Apr 2014, 16:47
That's what always confused me about American culture I guess. What's a date and what's not? Wouldn't hanging out be considered a date? Is a date hanging out with higher stakes or some sort of level of seriousness to it?

A date implies romantic intentions and/or having fun, I guess? Sometimes eating dinner out together is simply eating out. Possibly due to laziness or just wanting the food. Basically a date is not just an ordinary day, it's intentionally focused on bonding, not just doing something together because you just happen to be together. What Welu is describing doesn't sound like an intentional date.

Then again, I didn't date much, even with my husband before we were married.
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Post by: Metope on 26 Apr 2014, 17:02
Right, that makes sense. I don't think I really go on dates then. I mean, I have in the past since I did online dating a couple times, but with people I've met other ways there weren't really dates. I don't like setting up a specific time for bonding, it seems a bit artificial and staged.

In blog news, May stayed with me last night! We didn't have much time to do stuff since she was only here for a conference yesterday and today, but we ate a lot of delicious vegan food and slept a lot. She also had two really productive and information-packed days, while I was just lazy. Need to get back to work tomorrow for sure.
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Post by: Lines on 26 Apr 2014, 17:22
Sometimes I feel like I need it. Michael and I live together, but when we go out, it's mostly to hang out with friends. Which is awesome, don't get me wrong, but sometimes I want it to just be us and I'll put in the effort of dressing up and I'll make him put his phone away and we can just have a nice evening together. I know a lot of married couples with kids who do this, too. Dates can be important and sometimes you have to schedule it or you won't make the time to do it otherwise.

Also hooray for hanging out with May!
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Post by: Metope on 26 Apr 2014, 17:44
I think I don't need it for the opposite reason, I feel like we bond and enjoy each other all the time we're together, so we don't need to set off a special occasion for it. Instead we set off special occasions for hanging out with friends and being social, since most of the time is just the two of us anyway. I can see how that's different for busy and more social people though.
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Post by: Redball on 26 Apr 2014, 17:56
Held a surprise party for my fiancé. Went really well. He thought it was just us two going for a meal for my birthday, which is this week, but had ten of his/our friends waiting at the restaurant. I thought he'd sussed me out for having something planned but turned out he hadn't and definitely not three weeks before his actual birthday. :lol:
I may have told some of this in the forum before:

I was on the receiving end of a surprise birthday observance from my first wife: We went to a movie, then a nice Detroit restaurant for a drink, where one of our favorite couples just happened to be. Went on to another place; another couple. A third place, one more couple. I'm not sure where I twigged it.

And a few years later, I was hanging out with Clara, a few months before our wedding, and a close friend. It was a 3 or 4 weeks before her 30th.  I invited the friend to a surprise party on the birthday, Saturday, Jan. 30. He was puzzled. I suppose Clara was puzzled too. I insisted. Ted said he could come.

I invited a few other friends in Clara's presence, and eventually asked her who else I should invited to her surprise party. On the date, we straightened the house, then went out to the mall. We came back to find two couples: "Surprise!" Bummer! We went to the corner pizza place, where the other two dozen were waiting. Clara was so pissed she couldn't talk for 20 minutes.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 26 Apr 2014, 18:30
A date for me and the various lasses usually signifies doing something specific to be romantic. Being together is just being together. If we're going on a "date" it's either scheduled because the universe sucks dick so we're setting time aside to be together, whether that means getting together on skype or going out to dinner, or a "Date" which usually implies me putting a suit on and going out for some fine dining. Outside of an established relationship a date is a specifically scheduled meeting with a potential romantic partner, usually alone sometimes with a friend and their S/O. (Double dating), etc.

With folks in the right age to have kids especially date night is an established "no kids" zone and a time for mom and dad to go be a couple as opposed to being parents. That terminology was really common with my parent's generation so that might be part of where it comes from for my generation.
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Post by: Lines on 26 Apr 2014, 20:32
I think I don't need it for the opposite reason, I feel like we bond and enjoy each other all the time we're together, so we don't need to set off a special occasion for it.

Well, I think the biggest difference between the two of us is I live with my s.o. and you two live in different countries. Not that I don't enjoy Michael when we're together, but we're together pretty much all the time we're not at work. And by together sometimes it just means we're in the same room doing completely different things, so being "together" doesn't always mean it's special.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 26 Apr 2014, 21:25
Now that's an excellent point too. Gareth and I were just talking about a similar concept. I won't go into it cause it's his business, but he mentioned the, to me, alien concept of spending too much time together. I normally end up in LDRs so every second I can possibly spend with my partner is as precious to me as fresh air in my lungs.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 27 Apr 2014, 00:49
I thought of that, but I lived with my ex for a year and we went out for romantic reasons... once on valentines? I dunno, I think the concept of setting off time for a romantic date night out is pretty American. Doesn't seem to be anything wrong with it, I just don't understand it. Now, the American concept of Mythbusters and Ben & Jerrys in bed I can understand the hell out of.

I don't think any of my fellow European real life friends go on dates either, and certainly not any parents I know of. My parents had plenty of time to be a couple after our bedtime, and they were always very affectionate with each other when we were around too. I think the closest thing people here do is go for weekend or week long trips somewhere once in a while?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Apr 2014, 01:02
I dunno, I know we've gone through this before and I feel now as then we (or at least I) am explaining it poorly. It's definitely an American thing though...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Metope on 27 Apr 2014, 01:13
It's probably one of those things that are pretty much impossible to explain to someone who didn't grow up learning it to be the 'normal'. I'm sure there are plenty of Norwegian things we do that other people would find really odd, but which would be impossible for me to explain because I'm just so used to it being the norm. The American stuff just stands out a lot more because America is such a big, famous and influential place.
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Post by: Aimless on 27 Apr 2014, 03:52
My wife and I live in a one-room apartment and we spend the majority of our time outside work sitting in opposite corners talking, watching shows, mucking about in the kitchen or in the form of a squishy two-headed chimera. A Date for us is about changing things up, taking a small break from our routine.

But before that, Dating was about other things, like signalling that we like each other in That Way, that we might want to jump each other's bones, that we wanted to do things together that were just about Us, etc. Like with giving presents, it's the thought that counts :o and sometimes people think differently so you end up with the whole, "Omg, you thought this was a DATE-date?!" situation.

Then there are the less sexy dates where two people meet up to do something like drinking coffee or jogging or whatever. That doesn't really count as Dating from what I've gathered, even though it can be a part of a courtship. That's just about committing to meeting at specific place at a specific time (as opposed to saying something like, "Yeah, that sounds like fun, I might join you if I can get away.")

Weird thing.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: idontunderstand on 27 Apr 2014, 08:42
Me and and a couple of others organized a pub evening for our work colleagues the other day and I got through a couple of Beatles tunes without killing my vocal chords, which was a success in so many ways.

I've got a steady gig at my job now, will probably be here for the next few years if nothing unexpected happens (probably will…). This of course brings me endless anxiety and restlessness since I still want to be a musician more than a lawyer. Probably why I decided to check in on the old qc forum!

Will probably ponder this further in some other thread...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Apr 2014, 09:09
Be a musical lawyer? Object while shredding on a classic Les Paul.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Lines on 27 Apr 2014, 09:10
I would hire that lawyer.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aimless on 27 Apr 2014, 10:44
The Funk, the Whole Funk and Nothing but the Funk
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 27 Apr 2014, 10:58
I am here to lay down the law! and some fat beats!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 27 Apr 2014, 11:08
The family in Alaska who opened their hearts and doors and cupboards for me while I worked there with them just lost their youngest daughter. I've been crying all day and I'm losing my mind because I know I can't go visit them for the funeral service, it's just prohibitively expensive. God I feel sick
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 27 Apr 2014, 13:01
That's fucking harsh. Condolances.
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Apr 2014, 14:34
thanks man. it's so unfair, she was only 7, and the sweetest little girl you could imagine. I guess she was just too perfect for this life.
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Post by: Metope on 27 Apr 2014, 16:19
I'm so sorry, Patrick, that's really terrible. Hugs :(
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Post by: idontunderstand on 28 Apr 2014, 08:38
Be a musical lawyer? Object while shredding on a classic Les Paul.

I almost have to learn how to shred just to do this. "Your honor, this next song is called… 'Hearsay'..."
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 28 Apr 2014, 08:48
In my head the song from this video:


Turns morphs into the music from this video:


I'm kinda done with that.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 28 Apr 2014, 08:49
Be a musical lawyer? Object while shredding on a classic Les Paul.

I almost have to learn how to shred just to do this. "Your honor, this next song is called… 'Hearsay'..."

Meanwhile in criminal court:
The Defense: "Our next song will be SOGDI!"
Judge: "Do you guys know any other songs?"
The Defense: "Ah... not really"
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ev4n on 28 Apr 2014, 09:18
I thought of that, but I lived with my ex for a year and we went out for romantic reasons... once on valentines? I dunno, I think the concept of setting off time for a romantic date night out is pretty American. Doesn't seem to be anything wrong with it, I just don't understand it. Now, the American concept of Mythbusters and Ben & Jerrys in bed I can understand the hell out of.

I don't think any of my fellow European real life friends go on dates either, and certainly not any parents I know of. My parents had plenty of time to be a couple after our bedtime, and they were always very affectionate with each other when we were around too. I think the closest thing people here do is go for weekend or week long trips somewhere once in a while?

I've found as parents the idea of a set-aside date night is much more important than it was when we were 20-somethings living together.    Having a teenager that stays up later than we do might contribute, I guess.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Pilchard123 on 28 Apr 2014, 10:08
Be a musical lawyer? Object while shredding on a classic Les Paul.

I almost have to learn how to shred just to do this. "Your honor, this next song is called… 'Hearsay'..."

That's dangerous. It might be misheard as "by Hear'Say", and that'll lose you the case right off the bat.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 28 Apr 2014, 11:27
Potty training is messy. Thank the lord for wooden floors.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 28 Apr 2014, 11:36
Be a musical lawyer? Object while shredding on a classic Les Paul.

I almost have to learn how to shred just to do this. "Your honor, this next song is called… 'Hearsay'..."

That's dangerous. It might be misheard as "by Hear'Say", and that'll lose you the case right off the bat.

'I didn't stalk her, your honour, I just told her that wherever she goes, I'm gonna be there, whatever she does, I'm gonna be there. Pure and simple.'
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 28 Apr 2014, 12:46
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 28 Apr 2014, 13:23
Be a musical lawyer? Object while shredding on a classic Les Paul.

I almost have to learn how to shred just to do this. "Your honor, this next song is called… 'Hearsay'..."

That's dangerous. It might be misheard as "by Hear'Say", and that'll lose you the case right off the bat.

'I didn't stalk her, your honour, I just told her that wherever she goes, I'm gonna be there, whatever she does, I'm gonna be there. Pure and simple.'

M'lud, it is preposterous to suggest that my client intended to expose his child to dark and inhumane rituals oft viewed as satanic in nature. He was merely expressing an intent to educate his daughter in the post-farming elements of the meat-processing industry and thereafter leave her to draw her own moral conclusions. It is well within the defendants rights of free speech that he chose to do so through the medium of heavy metal.
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Post by: pwhodges on 28 Apr 2014, 13:29
<proud father>
http://cassland.org/words/International_Piano_-_Hodges_feature_-_280414.pdf (http://cassland.org/words/International_Piano_-_Hodges_feature_-_280414.pdf)
</proud father>
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Post by: pwhodges on 28 Apr 2014, 16:29
I am in the office at half past midnight, because when I was running updates on my clustered Hyper-V host servers (out-of-hours, remotely, from home), the cluster service on one of them crashed and rendered both machines insensible.  I had to come in to the office and turn them off forcibly, and now I'm waiting for them to be ready to restart all the virtual machines so that I can check them out.

Ugh!
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Post by: idontunderstand on 29 Apr 2014, 11:31
Be a musical lawyer? Object while shredding on a classic Les Paul.

I almost have to learn how to shred just to do this. "Your honor, this next song is called… 'Hearsay'..."

That's dangerous. It might be misheard as "by Hear'Say", and that'll lose you the case right off the bat.

'I didn't stalk her, your honour, I just told her that wherever she goes, I'm gonna be there, whatever she does, I'm gonna be there. Pure and simple.'

Would be pretty damn funny if I hadn't actually seen this happen. In court.  :meh:
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Post by: Welu on 30 Apr 2014, 02:13
It's my birthday! Whoop!
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Post by: Thrillho on 30 Apr 2014, 02:20
Then you can cry if you want to.

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Post by: Patrick on 30 Apr 2014, 02:29
on this day, we celebrate the fact that your parents (probably) had sex.
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Post by: Metope on 30 Apr 2014, 04:07
I might become a step-aunt today! Dad's wife's son's girlfriend was due a couple weeks ago, so they will induce her today or tomorrow. Woo birthdays!
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Post by: Aimless on 30 Apr 2014, 04:34
Woohoo!!!



Also, April Fools' dear blog-threaders...

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It's walpurgisnacht in Sweden, a magical night on which my wife and I celebrate our anniversary :) this one's our fourth and damn me if my love for my crazy adorable sex-hamster doesn't burn hotter and brighter than any bonfire that may be lit tonight yes yes you may puke and gack if you like but that's just how it is.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 30 Apr 2014, 04:49
I am stealing "sex hamster" as a pet name. That's fucking hilarious.

It's my birthday! Whoop!

Happy birthday Welu :D
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Post by: jwhouk on 30 Apr 2014, 07:13
Happy birthday Welu!
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Post by: Thrillho on 30 Apr 2014, 07:40
Happy birthday Julian!  :mrgreen:
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Post by: Welu on 30 Apr 2014, 07:45
In jokes, yay!

Thanks everyone. I'm glad to know you all as I start my next journey around the sun!
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Apr 2014, 10:14
yes yes you may puke and gack if you like but that's just how it is.

You don't want me to gack. You can't handle my gack.  :mrgreen:
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Post by: Thrillho on 30 Apr 2014, 10:20
I think i've had enough gak for a lifetime. Maybe?
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Post by: ev4n on 01 May 2014, 05:42
It's walpurgisnacht in Sweden

Of course it is.  Somewhere, someone is trying to kill Merlin of Amber

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Post by: Metope on 01 May 2014, 07:14
Supposedly Jon Snow is at my school right now, people have seen him campaigning for a student union president candidate? He's supporting the wrong candidate of course, I've heard he knows nothing.
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Post by: Patrick on 01 May 2014, 07:22
Well, there is that thing he does with his tongue.
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 May 2014, 08:00
The other Jon Snow was at my university at one point.

He knows quite a lot. Tongue skills as yet unconfirmed.
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Post by: Metope on 01 May 2014, 08:28
Oh it turns out it was the other Jon Snow, I didn't now there were two!
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Post by: ev4n on 01 May 2014, 08:34
http://awoiaf.westeros.org/index.php/Jon_Snow
?
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 May 2014, 08:35
The other Jon Snow knows his way around a tie.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 May 2014, 10:14
I am so lost right now >.>;
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Post by: idontunderstand on 01 May 2014, 10:16
DON'T POAST SPOILERS
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 May 2014, 10:47
Okay.
(http://static.bips.channel4.com/bse/orig/jon-snows-tsunami-diary/b7b5a0bb-42b4-46fa-86de-e24731567c19_625x352.jpg)
This is Jon Snow. Ned Stark's bastard. Generally not respected for his knowledge.
Incredibly vague show spoiler:
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(http://img3.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20130325182728/gameofthrones/images/8/8b/Jon-Snow-S3.jpg)
This is Jon Snow, respected British broadcast journalist, one of the few actually respected journalists we have over here. Asks difficult question no one else asks. Quantity of northern ginger girls bedded: largely unknown. Has a wide array of amazing ties.

Hope that clears up the confusion ;)
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Post by: Metope on 01 May 2014, 11:48
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Ah right. I took a photo of him, turns out it's the guy from Game of Thrones after all then!
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Post by: snalin on 01 May 2014, 11:58
Incredibly vague show spoiler:
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Incredibly vague book spoiler:
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Question: Will Baste ever shut up about the errors in the GoT show? Probably not. Probably not.
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 May 2014, 15:56
Incredibly vague show spoiler:
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Incredibly vague book spoiler:
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Question: Will Baste ever shut up about the errors in the GoT show? Probably not. Probably not.

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Post by: snalin on 01 May 2014, 17:55
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Post by: Aimless on 03 May 2014, 00:02
Dear blog thread,

this has been a Good Week. Though I'm in one of those phases where I hate being on call, and though I haven't been getting enough sleep and though my wards have been packed ie. with no real room for new admissions, it's been Fun! Interesting and challenging diagnoses, my favourite attendings, fun colleagues and everyone in a good mood... and I've been able to rely both on my intuition and my knowledge/experience to do the Right Things. It's one of those "I'm a Good Doctor" weeks.

But more importantly, it's been a week full of love and friendship! And a great deal of luxury. For our anniversary I had the day off, we checked into a nice hotel (http://www.storahotelletumea.se/en) and had an amazing dinner (at a restaurant I had decided to hate but couldn't 'cause it was just so delicious) and just a really nice time to ourselves. The next morning I had one of the best hotel-breakfasts ever. It was a bit of a staycation I guess :) yesterday, I spent the whole day resting and reading nice things and then shopping for running stuff (including a pair of those Vibram Five-Finger "barefoot" shoes that I've been wanting to try out and that really feel pretty damn' good!) and various little things we need to fix up the apartment a little. This was followed by a stroll around town with my missus and finally a delicious dinner of various little mouthgasm-inducing munchies and cocktails at another nice newly-opened restaurant. Got home early and just collapsed and bam suddenly it was early morning and I was well-rested for once. God, SLEEP. It's the best and most important thing in life next to love.

Today we're having guests over for the first time in like a million years. The kitchen is still not fully functional, esp. the stove, but i think we can manage some elk taco kinda thing. I have the whole weekend off to recuperate, enjoy good company and get things done. And it's spring. Really really cold and windy spring but whatever, the sun comes up at like 4 and my head no longer feels heavy :)
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Post by: Patrick on 03 May 2014, 02:34
I am drunk and saw an airliner flying miles overhead toward places unknown, and it made me think of my dad and the myriad ways he and I could connect with each other but can't, for whatever reason. And then I wrote a song out of nowhere, and I think it's one of the better ones. It doesn't waste time getting to the heart of the matter, and it puts into words exactly how I feel without sugarcoating anything. I think it might be my best effort yet.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 03 May 2014, 05:16
I'm moving! Assuming my references and credit checks go ok, and I can't see why they wouldn't. I handed in the application form today and will get a definite yes or no from the landlord either in the next two hours or on Tuesday, and then it'll all be finalised within a week after that. The slight concern is that I have to give written notice to my current landlord on Tuesday, so there's a tiny chance that I'll give notice that I'm leaving, and then fail the credit checks and not be able to move. But there's really no reason why that would happen, and if it did my current landlord would probably take me back anyway as that's easier than getting someone new.

The new flat is bigger (yay!) with windows which face east, west, and north in the bathroom so there'll be plenty of light. It comes with a table and chairs in the kitchen area and there's space for a desk (maybe even a big corner desk!) which will be awesome. And there's a built-in wardrobe and space for a chest of drawers and basically it's much nicer than this flat, for not much more money. There's no washing machine in the flat itself but there's one in the building and a tumble dryer too. The convenience of the dryer (which I don't have now) will offset the inconvenience of having to go down two flights of stairs to do laundry.

I'm also getting a new laptop next week; my current one has died completely and at the moment I'm using one I've borrowed from the university library. I have to return it and get a different one every week, and it doesn't have all the software I need, so it's not a long-term solution but I'm very glad of it because I have two essays due and an exam to revise for. My dad's bought me a "new" second-hand one which I'll go pick up next weekend :)
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Post by: Loki on 03 May 2014, 14:46
Congrats!

So turns out having fun is easier when you are not gloomy.


Who knew, right?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 03 May 2014, 19:30
My crush of two years is making out with a random guy right now, not five metres away from where I'm standing currently. I want to say it feels like high school again, but back then, crushes at least had the decency to only last a few weeks.
Yeah this probably belongs in the relationship or depression thread, but next to stillbirths and blood enemies, my issues don't compare.
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Post by: Aimless on 04 May 2014, 06:27
Yesterday we had a sortakinda reunion with some of my friends from my old student corridor, people whom I just love the hell out of even though we don't meet very often :) Got to hear lots of cool stories and I think the food was good (a mashup of Norrland and Mexico, with deer- and elk-meat, wild mushrooms, awesome cheese and some of the trappings of a taco dinner). It was the first real dinner in the new kitchen! Very exciting for little me. I checked in and everything but didn't leave a review because it woulda been biased. Played through my favourite mashups and people didn't even wince
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Post by: Welu on 04 May 2014, 08:19
Came out to two of my closest friends about being genderqueer. I guess it went fine even though one of them said something inconsiderate. Will deal with if/when it comes up again.
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Post by: Redball on 04 May 2014, 09:09
The new flat is bigger (yay!) with windows which face east, west, and north in the bathroom so there'll be plenty of light. It comes with a table and chairs in the kitchen area and there's space for a desk (maybe even a big corner desk!) which will be awesome. And there's a built-in wardrobe and space for a chest of drawers and basically it's much nicer than this flat, for not much more money. There's no washing machine in the flat itself but there's one in the building and a tumble dryer too. The convenience of the dryer (which I don't have now) will offset the inconvenience of having to go down two flights of stairs to do laundry.
)
I think I should come over to inspect the new place. When's a good time? :psyduck:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 04 May 2014, 09:18
Ha! How about 2016? Party at mine!
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 05 May 2014, 07:38
So...I'm still alive! It's been ages- almost a freakin' month! I haven't had internet (or cable) at home and work has been insanity, but life has been pretty good this last month.

We moved out of the apartment officially on the 18th. And by "officially" I mean we rented a truck to bring our furniture and large boxes to the house and had help from Nick's brother and mom as well as my brother's best friend (Side note: my brother couldn't help us because he was WORKING because he finally got a JOB! WOO. He has been looking for almost 2 years now, with no bites. He is now a paid mechanic's apprentice at the local STS. Yay Brother!).

Moving day was insane because although the apartment was filled with boxes, it was also filled with a lot of stuff that was not inhabiting boxes because we got so caught up in fixing up the new place, we forgot about packing up the old place. We got as much done as we could but eventually ran out of boxes. However, we purposely gave ourselves an extra 12 days to work on the apartment after we were out, so we managed to move everything that was left and clean everything up before our lease was up. We also got complimented by our leasing agent with regard to how great we left the apartment. She told us that no one could ever guess that we've lived there for 3 years and that she was very impressed with how nice it looked. We're getting back our full security deposit!!!

This is wonderful news because we discovered that we needed a new stove and dishwasher. While technically the contract stated that all appliances came with the house, the stove was disgusting and the dishwasher was not functioning and the contract also stated that they were "as is". We lived for about 2 weeks with no stove. That sucked! We ate more microwaveable food in those 2 weeks than we usually do in 2 months. I cooked my first meal on our new stove this past Saturday and it was so good to taste real food. 

We're currently renovating the kitchen and coexisting with a crapton of boxes. We have to play the "who can find it first" game whenever we need something we haven't seen in a while but we're managing and not killing each other. If anything, this has reaffirmed just how great of a team we make. :-) Sometimes our "off" days coincide but generally when one of us is unmotivated/grumpy/overwhelmed, the other is there as a cheerleader. So far, we've cleaned up the fridge, closets and counters; primed the walls and ceiling in the kitchen; took apart, cleaned and sanded the cabinets and now we're stating to contact paper the shelves and paint the built-ins. It's easier now to work on the house because we're out of the apartment. No need to go there after work, clean up there, come home, clean up/renovate at the house, then pass out at 1am. It's still tough because we haven't really taken much time off and between both of us working full time and then some, we can't contribute as much time as we'd like. But on the flip side, we're bringing in extra money which we will absolutely put to use. Between my part time gig at ShopRite and Nick's freelance computer work, we're easily bringing in an extra $700 a month. It's definitely coming in handy because on top of the stove and dishwasher, we also have to buy all the supplies for painting, screens and blinds for the windows, 2 new shower/tub combos, replacement carpet for the stairs and all the other random $20 purchases at Home Depot that will slowly but surely add up. Plus, I need a new computer. YAY LOTS OF EXPENSES!

More miscellaneous good news:

-2 close friends have had babies in the last month! One more friend is due to have her baby by the end of the summer. Yay babies!
-2 other friends are getting married this month. (Which also happens to be right near our 1 year anniversary. Can't believe we've been married a year! Holy crap.)
-The union has negotiated 4 (yes, FOUR!) increases for all eligible SR employees. One retroactive to November 2013, one in effect in July, another in September and yet another before the end of the year. If this is what they meant by the "regular" increases that they mentioned when they hired me and this happens every year, in less than 2 years I will be making the same amount at ShopRite as I do at my full time job. This is awesome news because my full time job may not be arund for very much longer. While I intend to stay as long as they will/can keep me, most of us know that this is a sinking ship and it is only a matter of time before it bites the dust.
-My amazing, lovely, wonderful best friend has found a gentleman friend who is wonderful to her and I could not be happier. She hasn't had much luck finding someone for a number of reasons and hasn't had a boyfriend in well over 5 years. It's delightful to hear about her new relationship and all of the great things that happen when you truly connect with someone. It's reminding me of how it felt when Nick and I started dating and I really hope that it continues on as successfully as it seems to be going now. They've been seeing each other for about 3 months, but were "officially" a couple as of about 2 weeks ago. We're all going out to wing night tonight and I'll be meeting him for the first time! So excited. :-)



Phew. I think that's it!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 05 May 2014, 08:09
Sounds exciting! Have fun fixing up the new place, it must be nice to be settled in there. I am not looking forward to packing or moving but I am looking forward to being in my new flat!

So today we had six women to visit and at the first visit the baby projectile vomited all over me. Trousers totally soaked, tunic spattered, sofa smeared, big sister spalshed. My mentor had to drive me home so that I could change into my last clean tunic but I had no clean trousers so had to improvise with a navy blue skirt that thankfully I remembered I had in a drawer! The washing machine is currently trundling through its third load of the day...
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 05 May 2014, 10:06
... fun!

I am so glad my baby didn't vomit all that much. Except that one time somoeone fed him TARDIS cake and he decided to implement a flue. Three times. TARDIS blue. In bed.

You have my sympathies and admiration for seeking out an environment in which projectile vomit is a distinct possibility.

My kid is switching to toilet use instead of diaper use with elan and flair. If this is at all possible. We are happy.

Of course this lead to a complete rearrangement of the house. Including new furniture. Yes, it was a weird connection.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 05 May 2014, 10:26
The second baby did a massive poo as I was weighing her and the third one weed all over the place, but fortunately both of them were lying on blankets and not my lap at the time! I took blood from a baby as well, so basically today was bodily fluid central.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 05 May 2014, 10:46
They really don't pay you enough.
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Post by: Welu on 05 May 2014, 11:05
May, I had to make a comic because describing the scenario in my head wasn't enough. I used WonderWoman to represent you.

(click to show/hide)

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Post by: Barmymoo on 05 May 2014, 11:10
Haha that's awesome! It was quite funny because the midwife I was working with (not my usual mentor) said that she normally weighs babies in a clean nappy and then subtracts the weight of the baby from the weight of the nappy. I wasn't too sure about doing that, so I stripped the baby right down... and pooooooop.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 05 May 2014, 11:25
One of my cats has this habit of rubbing herself against my big toe, even when I'm walking around. Sometimes I stop suddenly and she misses the toe altogether and flips over instead. It's so awesome. I love her.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 05 May 2014, 11:39
The second baby did a massive poo as I was weighing her and the third one weed all over the place, but fortunately both of them were lying on blankets and not my lap at the time! I took blood from a baby as well, so basically today was bodily fluid central.
I have had all of that happen to me too. It's a very special feeling. Of warmth, mainly. Slightly moist, as well.
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Post by: Thrillho on 05 May 2014, 12:13
This was just the absolute worst post string to read when I'm hung over
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Post by: Redball on 05 May 2014, 12:52
You shoulda stuck to the drunk thread.
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Post by: Thrillho on 05 May 2014, 13:22
You shoulda drunk to the stuck thread  :mrgreen:
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Post by: Lines on 05 May 2014, 15:54
This sounds really weird, but I am glad that someone else on this forum has had to deal with all of the bodily fluids in one day.

Also, guys, it's really not that big of a deal. I would rather them come from babies and children than adults. Tiny bodies can hold less mess. Usually...
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Post by: Metope on 05 May 2014, 16:15
I remember when my little brother was a baby and dad changes his diaper. He peed right in his face while gurgling happily, hilarious.
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Post by: de_la_Nae on 05 May 2014, 16:16
@Linds : We could test that. FOR SCIENCE!
(let's not test that)

Internet's down, NOOOOOooooooo....

And the company didn't call me back the later time they said they would, aaaargggghhh....


and now I'm typing out WOOOOOOooooorrrdsss...
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 06 May 2014, 01:16
Quote from: Linds
[...]
Also, guys, it's really not that big of a deal. I would rather them come from babies and children than adults. Tiny bodies can hold less mess. Usually...
Yeah ... No.

Also, Gareth, you disappoint me. I thought your stomach was made of sturdier stuff.
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Post by: Thrillho on 06 May 2014, 01:47
Bro, no pukin' ensued :mrgreen:
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 06 May 2014, 01:57
If you tell more tales it just might.
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Post by: Thrillho on 06 May 2014, 02:00
Que?  :psyduck:
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 06 May 2014, 02:00
Your TMI tales.
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Post by: Thrillho on 06 May 2014, 02:07
Ah, I see.

Maaaan anyone who goes in that thread has to know what they're in for  :mrgreen:
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 06 May 2014, 22:38
Well, wow.

I've made ten thousand posts here. That's mind-boggling.

It's a good time to stop and think about why I enjoy this place, and thank the people who make it enjoyable.

There's more to it than just the good humor and the chance to talk about a favorite web comic. I've met some remarkable people here who've impressed me deeply, with user names everywhere in the alphabet from A to Z (and you know who the A and the Z are, don't you?).

The diversity here has stretched my mind permanently. Special thanks to minority group members who've volunteered their time to explain things. Extra special thanks to people who have disagreed with me and been right.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 07 May 2014, 00:42
Butts.
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Post by: pwhodges on 07 May 2014, 03:40


I should like to take this opportunity to thank IICIH in turn for his contribution to this forum; not only for what is visible to all, but for that behind the scenes as well.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 May 2014, 13:44
On Monday morning I put three of my four pairs of placement uniform trousers in the washing machine and went off to placement.
Two hours later I was back in my flat, stripping off my baby-vomit-covered uniform and panicking because all my clean trousers were in the washing machine, dripping wet. I found a skirt, changed into my last clean tunic, put the rest of the tunics into the machine, hung up the trousers and went back to placement

On Tuesday I washed the vomity trousers, the skirt and a few other similarly-coloured things.

On Wednesday evening I put three tunics into the wash and went out for dinner.
Two hours later I was back in my flat to discover that I had managed to leave my fountain pen in the pocket of one of the tunics.

The washing machine is now on again, washing said tunic for the fourth time this week.
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Post by: Redball on 07 May 2014, 14:44
Isn't there a saying about ink-stained and wretched?
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Post by: jwhouk on 07 May 2014, 17:10
The wife might be re-joining the baby puke club in a few weeks. She's moving back up to the baby room at her workplace.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 07 May 2014, 18:57
I get to join the baby puke club in about 20 weeks! I made the baby Facebook-official after my appointment today and woah. 150+ likes and 50+ comments is way more than I anticipated.
We found out they're pretty certain it's a boy, mainly because 'he' kept waving his junk at the sonographer. Couldn't get a clear view of the face though...

Sent from my BNTV400 using Tapatalk

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Post by: BeoPuppy on 07 May 2014, 22:37
If he was waving his junk about there was probably an evil grin on his face.
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Post by: Patrick on 08 May 2014, 03:20
That is so. fucking. metal. \m/
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 May 2014, 09:11
I just started taking pregnancy vitamins.

I'm not pregnant. I'm just really tired and the vitamins were free so I figured why not see if they help.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 08 May 2014, 09:36
But if they do work does that mean you're automatically pregnant?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 May 2014, 09:44
Man, I hope so. That would be awesome.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 08 May 2014, 09:51
If the movie "Juno" is to be believed, you get amazing hair & nails from pregnancy vitamins.
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Post by: nekowafer on 08 May 2014, 09:54
I have some pregnancy vitamins that I need to start taking. I'm just terrible at taking any of my meds, even those I have to take.
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Post by: Thrillho on 08 May 2014, 09:58
Man, I hope so. That would be awesome.

Doesn't that cut out the most fun part of getting pregnant?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 May 2014, 10:14
I dunno, I think given the choice between never having sex again and never having children, I'd definitely choose not to have sex.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 08 May 2014, 12:06
If the movie "Juno" is to be believed, you get amazing hair & nails from pregnancy vitamins.
Not a myth. I can hardly keep up with my nails right now. Judging by the edge of my polish, they've grown almost 1/16" since Saturday.
(http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/05/09/yna2utyr.jpg)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 May 2014, 12:24
It makes sense - during pregnancy, the body is flooded with hormones which promote growth.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 May 2014, 12:35
In totally other news, Patrick - I have a question (floor's open to anyone else who wants to answer too but Patrick seemed a logical person to ask). I met a couple today who are Albanian refugees. I didn't ask them about it, because it's irrelevant to their maternity care, but I was wondering what they might be refugees from. I know almost nothing about Albania and my understanding is that it's a lot less turbulent now than it was twenty years ago.
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Post by: Thrillho on 08 May 2014, 13:31
I dunno, I think given the choice between never having sex again and never having children, I'd definitely choose not to have sex.

I definitely would not choose this. Assuming I could adopt, anyway. Also, no one asked you to make this choice and now I am having waking nightmares at it.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 May 2014, 13:48
At me never having sex? I didn't know you cared so much ;)

My point was that for me, the most fun part of getting pregnant is the being pregnant bit (I still find it awesome, in both senses of the word, when I put my hand on a pregnant abdomen and feel the baby move under my fingers). I'm not mad about sex. I like it, but there are a lot of things I prefer.
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Post by: Thrillho on 08 May 2014, 13:52
Each to their own, I'm basically a walking broomstick anyway so my opinion's not hugely valid on this particular topic.
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Post by: Welu on 08 May 2014, 14:05
I know someone who became unexpectedly pregnant. I was chatting to another friend and the father and the discussion turned to what we'd do if we found out you or your partner was pregnant. I factually said I'd have an abortion, because I don't ever plan on being a parent and that is the plan my partner and I agreed upon when we started having sex, and I'm pretty sure my friends hate me a little now.
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Post by: Welu on 08 May 2014, 15:01
In other news I forgot to post earlier and it's very unrelated to my last post so I don't want to edit this into it.

Met with neuro-person to do another autism spectrum assessment thing. Went fine, I guess? I talked to them about my gender a bit because I thought it might be relevant to showing how my brain works or something, plus they're currently the closest thing to a mental health professional I have access to right now. They were really sensitive and gave me some resources which is really neat. It was really affirming to talk to someone where I didn't have to explain the concept of being non-binary to them first.
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Post by: Patrick on 08 May 2014, 15:17
In totally other news, Patrick - I have a question (floor's open to anyone else who wants to answer too but Patrick seemed a logical person to ask). I met a couple today who are Albanian refugees. I didn't ask them about it, because it's irrelevant to their maternity care, but I was wondering what they might be refugees from. I know almost nothing about Albania and my understanding is that it's a lot less turbulent now than it was twenty years ago.

An important distinction to make: "Albanian," just like many Balkan eponyms, isn't a term limited to nationality; typical use is to denote ethnicity. And I gotta be honest, they might be getting the word wrong for "immigrant". This is a throwback to the time of Enver Hoxha's dictatorship. Knowing more than your teachers or other authority figures could get you killed, and so asking questions or pointing out mistakes was a definite no-no. If they're from Albania proper, it wouldn't shock me if they were just using the wrong word.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 08 May 2014, 16:01
(https://scontent-b-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/t31.0-8/10272603_10152471875630815_6426915788955315313_o.jpg)

How this morning started. This is how a major board game release kicks off. A couple 40' shipping containers and a lot of dudes moving boxes.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 May 2014, 00:12
They didn't identify themselves as refugees to me, it was on their paperwork. Of course that could have been a miscommunication somewhere  but I doubt it - we need to know whether people have leave to remain etc. for billing purposes.
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Post by: Patrick on 09 May 2014, 00:46
Interesting. Is there a city of origin listed in their paperwork?
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Post by: Grognard on 09 May 2014, 05:46
(https://scontent-b-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/t31.0-8/10272603_10152471875630815_6426915788955315313_o.jpg)

How this morning started. This is how a major board game release kicks off. A couple 40' shipping containers and a lot of dudes moving boxes.

What board game?

Please tell me it is Robotech Tactics!!!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 09 May 2014, 05:56
Ray Lewis fan in tha house!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 May 2014, 06:00
No it's the new Firefly expansion Groggy.
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Post by: Grognard on 09 May 2014, 06:04
?  I didn't even know there was a board game for Firefly ?

Have you played it?  Is it any good? 
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 May 2014, 06:15
I have played it regularly. Just got done playtesting the next expansion pack for work. It's excellent, the fact that we haven't been able to keep a single copy on our shelves over 24 hours is proof of that.

http://www.fireflythegame.com/

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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 May 2014, 09:00
Interesting. Is there a city of origin listed in their paperwork?

No, that's not a detail we'd ask for - and I'm unlikely to see them again so it will remain a mystery!

I finished placement today. Passed, thank goodness, with a better grade than last time (not a good grade, but I was fairly happy with it). Now I'm off to my dad's for the weekend, and having my bridesmaid's dress fitted tomorrow. Hopefully I'll catch up on some sleep!
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Post by: Patrick on 10 May 2014, 15:42
The reason I ask is because the northeastern part of the country is extremely rough. It's well known for being completely controlled by the mafia, and drug and human trafficking are extremely common. Ever see the movie Taken? The Albanian mafia folks are from there. And the continuity-control folks who worked on that movie did a damn good job pinpointing the dialect and accents, by the way.

Fun fact: Former Prime Minister Sali Berisha, due to his spearheading the pyramid scheme of the early '90s that completely collapsed the Albanian economy, could never travel to his hometown of Tropoja (located in the northeast) because the mafia hated him so much for the fact that the economic collapse forced them into taking such desperate measures as drug and human trafficking. The mafia's numbers and equipment vastly outclass the Albanian military in that region, hence Berisha himself having no control over his own fate there.
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Post by: pwhodges on 12 May 2014, 08:13
Currently in Cambodia (Phnom Penh right now).  Internet is too slow to say more.
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Post by: pwhodges on 13 May 2014, 07:26
The Genocide Museum in Phnom Penh is the saddest place on Earth.
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Post by: Patrick on 13 May 2014, 12:24
I'm shocked. Shocked!
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 14 May 2014, 12:21
So I decided to actually stand up for myself a smidge during the staff meeting today, but I think it's probably going to backfire tomorrow. Dumb Coworker decided to go on an initially-related-but-then-less-so tangent/rant while I was in the middle of speaking with a status update on something I have been handling alone, during which I mostly shut down like a fucking robot just waiting for her to finish. When she finally shut up for a second, I said "ANYWAY" and started to give the second part of the update, which she interrupted to get offended that I was ignoring everything she'd just said (I'm forgetting the exact word she used, but it was probably the wrong one anyway). I told her, "I'm going to finish my sentence now, ok?" and started again, and she turned to the boss and was like, "She didn't let me finish mine." Which I did not even acknowledge and started my sentence again so she left the room in a huff because she's an adult like that. And when I finished I said, "aaaand if she comes back then the rest of my afternoon is going to suck." Both the boss and the assistant boss agreed, and apologized because they were going to be leaving me alone in the office with her. Fortunately she had to leave for an inspection at another site so I'm alone for today. But we'll see how tomorrow goes.

In other Dumb Coworker news, apparently some of the tenants think she's an alcoholic. JFC I wish she would just quit and be done with it.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 15 May 2014, 06:49
Update: She cried a little and seems completely oblivious to the fact that she interrupted me to begin with. Also is offended that we didn't all sit around and listen raptly while she "defended" me on a completely unrelated topic, and instead all told her was completely unrelated and to please stop talking about it.
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Post by: Welu on 15 May 2014, 07:13
Whoo for standing up for yourself and not having it go bad (yet but hopefully it won't now it's been brought up again)!
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 15 May 2014, 09:49
Oh and that inspection she left early for? Total fabrication. The engineer asked the people in the office she was supposedly visiting how it went, and they had no idea what he was talking about. Again.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 May 2014, 05:07
That is surely grounds for firing.

I had a lovely cycle into uni today along a sunny canal towpath and I saw lots of ducklings and goslings, and a dog with a very fluffy tail. I was only in to have some blood taken to see if my hep B vaccines have worked, so I cycled back again and just spent twenty minutes or so taking screen shots of my bank statements for the last three months and carefully blurring out all the transactions except my incoming bursary and student loans, because frankly my letting agents don't have any right to know what I spend my money on (train tickets, food and charity donations, mostly, but it's the principle of the thing). Now I am going to forage for some food and maybe do some work. Today doesn't feel like a real day.
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Post by: Patrick on 17 May 2014, 02:02
One of my coworkers is a giant drama queen. After I'd already had a super long day of riding my bike in roughly 100F weather to run errands, I get to work 5 minutes early, and as soon as I walk in the door, she's already bitching at me to hurry up, she's got somewhere she's gotta be. I'm like "Working on it as fast as I can, promise." She's like "I HAVE TO HELP MY MOM GET MY DAD TO THE HOSPITAL" and I'm like "Dude, if it's that much of an emergency, call a fucking ambulance." I didn't even care that there were customers around. She pulls this shit at least once a week and has never once produced a doctor's note saying that her dad's health issues were legit, any of that. And if you're in the doctor's office it takes all of 5 seconds to ask, and maybe 30 seconds for the doctor to produce said note. Needless to say, she left in a huff, and I commiserated with the store manager. He was like "Yeahhhh she was saying how she was going to leave at 4:30 whether you were here or not and I told her 'Like hell!'"

And today I realized how much I love all but 2 of my coworkers, and how lucky I am to get paid to be around them all the time.
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Post by: Welu on 17 May 2014, 09:20
I finally found an engagement ring to get my fiance in time for the anniversary of us getting engaged and it doesn't come in his size. :oops: I guess I could it get slightly large and resized but that'll add to the time and that's frustrating.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 17 May 2014, 11:21
That is surely grounds for firing.

One of these days eventually, I'm sure. The boss and assistant boss, and basically everyone who comes into direct contact with her, know what's going on. Unfortunately our company is the kind that doesn't like firing people, and as far as I'm aware she hasn't gotten any formal write-ups (and I'm sure I would have heard). Plus she's been on FMLA for anxiety/depression so they would probably have to tread carefully so she couldn't make a case that she was fired over something that should have been protected.
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Post by: Aimless on 17 May 2014, 14:56
Dear blog thread,

Tonight I was sentenced to a night on-call--but my prison has a pretty view:

(http://fbcdn-photos-h-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn2/t1.0-0/10390212_10152836560313916_3428424683444317078_n.jpg)

My favourite colleagues, a little bit of sleep, only a little bit of annoyance and interesting patients. Got lots of paperwork done :) and now the sun is shining and I am freeeeeeee!!!
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Post by: Patrick on 18 May 2014, 01:17
So those of you who've been in the relationship thread, here's a blog post to update you.

Today, my shithead coworker (referred to as Shithead from now on), who decided to get drunk and cause problems at my other job, decided he would call in sick today. This happened less than one hour before he was supposed to arrive. Not only was the store manager the one to answer the phone, but he had to ask me to stay an hour late. This is another recent strike on Shithead's record, and the billionth attendance-related one he's had. Technically he should have been fired ages ago, but Bossman's super understanding and lenient on top of it.

In related news, not 5 minutes after the phone call came in, I was looking up an item in our inventory system, and there was a page up on the computer that showed a person's qualifications and resume. Bossman came into the office booth for something, and I alt-tabbed back out from the inventory search page into the potential hire's qualifications page and just grinned at him. He didn't get it at first, but about 5 steps out of the booth, I heard him start laughing.

I fucking love my work.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 18 May 2014, 01:19
So my dad just drunk texted me from the hockey tourney he's playing in this weekend. He met a dude I went to HS and played football with. The dude remembered me as not being popular but being a good guy, apparently I stepped in when he was getting some crap from the other players, which I vaguely remember. Pops wanted to tell me he was proud of me, and the affect I've had on the people I've met so far in my life.

That was kinda cool.

It's also the most emotional I've ever seen my father be really... outside of maybe dropping me off at the recruiters when I left for boot camp.

In other news I miss the Marine Corps still. I wonder if that particular ache will ever go away.
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Post by: Grognard on 18 May 2014, 19:44
I know a WHOLE LOT of Marine Recruiters....

just let me know when.  :D
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Post by: Patrick on 18 May 2014, 23:32
GM has already served as an active-duty Marine and can no longer do so for health reasons. He probably knows more Marine recruiters than you :P
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Post by: Papersatan on 18 May 2014, 23:40
In other news I miss the Marine Corps still. I wonder if that particular ache will ever go away.

Probably not unless you actively work to undo it.

Military training is designed to create a strong ingroup identity. To my knowledge, the exit process does not contain a comparable process of undoing this.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 May 2014, 00:26
You favour deprogramming of military personel?
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Post by: jwhouk on 19 May 2014, 00:59
In the case of Marines, I'd say it'd be hopeless.
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Post by: Patrick on 19 May 2014, 01:06
There are studies out there that state that 'recovery' time, which I believe was unspecified, is unmeasurable. In the other armed services, I believe it was one year of recovery time for each year of service. I am far too lazy to look them up right now, though.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 19 May 2014, 01:18
I have the study in one of my files somewhere. Average reintegration times are as follows:

Airforce members are reintegrated on average within 6 months of leaving the service regardless of career length (corporation)
Army/Navy - One year of reintegration time for every one year of service (military branch)
Marine Corps - Never. (Cult)

and ask any Marine, even if you could press a button to reintegrate us, none of us would want to. Who'd want to be a civvie any way? Especially when you can be a gods damned United States Marine instead.

Now Papersatan is both right and wrong, the group identity of belonging is an important part of military training, you need to get along and share some form of common experience with your "team". It lacks depth however and cannot explain the Marine Corp's culture, and it's long term impact on all who join her ranks. You will, in your day to day lives, meet soldiers, sailors and airmen who if they feel like it or you buy them a beer, they will tell you about when they were in the service. A Marine in a similar position will tell you "I am a Marine". It doesn't go away when we take the uniform off, and even for our sister services no amount of "deprogramming" (which isn't a term I'm comfortable with at all) can take it all away for the fact of one simple fact.

Our first duty is too each other, and until I can find a group of civilians made up of individuals who'd take a grenade for me without a second thought I see no value in compromising my values, changing sides or switching teams, to be some unprintable civvie again.

(https://scontent-b-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc3/t1.0-9/10339954_299874696837293_4182536729484231205_n.jpg)
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Post by: Grognard on 19 May 2014, 07:49
GM has already served as an active-duty Marine and can no longer do so for health reasons. He probably knows more Marine recruiters than you :P

considering I'm posting FROM Quantico, and am 2 buildings down from Recruitment Command....
it would be a very close call.  :-D
and yes, I'm familiar with his service.
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Post by: Lines on 19 May 2014, 19:01
So I sent a kid home Friday afternoon with a fever and today I sent another home with a fever. I sat with both of them for at least 30 min until their parents picked them up.

I'm doomed.

If I get sick, though, it had better be before next weekend because gods be damned if I'm going to be sick while out of state. And it had better not postpone itself for a month for when I'm on vacation. There will be consequences.
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Post by: jwhouk on 20 May 2014, 05:36
Start taking echinacea.
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Post by: ev4n on 20 May 2014, 06:09
I've always been a bit uncomfortable with the level of elitism instilled in the armed forces, especially the officer corps.  Note that I'm speaking primarily of the Canadian corps (which I have the most experience with), especially RMC grads.  It's still there at least a bit in the US, but I can't speak authoritatively on it.

The camraderie/initiation stuff I totally get.  And maybe there are military advantages to telling the corps that they're elite, or better in some way.  The human/social impact is something that doesn't quite sit well with me, though I'll concede the problem may lie on my side.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 May 2014, 06:55
I'm just better'n you. It's okay man.

Depends on what you mean by Elitism. Members of elite forces, the Marines, Army Rangers, Canadian S/F, etc and so forth have an absolute right to be proud of their accomplishments. They've accomplished something few human beings have the mental and physical capacity to accomplish and are rightfully proud of that fact.

Now there IS a sub culture in most military services, particularly amongst Academy educated officers and Naval officers that instills the concept of not just being senior in rank and a leader to the enlisted men and women under your command but their superior, Naval officers for example get treated very differently compared to a blue jacket sailor, better dining facilities and food, that sort of thing, it actually makes Marine officers rather uncomfortable in most cases, even though our dining halls are segregated on some level, there's an officer, NCO and enlisted section, we're all eating the same slop off the same tray, and I got "invited" to lunch with the CO once or twice. (Albeit I was in a special position there because I worked directly for the Operations Chief and OpsO and directly reported to the CO regularly. Didn't hurt that I flew with Colonel Ford regularly in my "real" job.). That type of elitism is caustic and damaging and needs to be stamped out hard.
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Post by: ev4n on 20 May 2014, 08:38
How did you know I was thinking of a naval officer?  :)
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Post by: Grognard on 20 May 2014, 08:41
I see plenty of the "WPPA" and "Canoe U" ring knockers around here.
they can be rather fratboy-like when they want to, but they do cover each others' six very much.

Some are AOK people, others are 'my shit don't stink' snobs.
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Post by: Patrick on 20 May 2014, 16:32
so my hometown has a commercial now, they're gonna start airing it on NBC during SF Giants games


I WANT TO FUCKING SHOOT MYSELF IN THE HEAD FOR BEING FROM HERE
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Post by: cesium133 on 20 May 2014, 16:42
Sure that isn't a parody of the "Cleveland Tourism Ad" videos?  :psyduck:

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Post by: Papersatan on 20 May 2014, 16:50
Here's Ann Arbor's tourism ad.
There's a curious lack of students.
(the population of Ann Arbor is 113,000.  42,000 of those people are students)
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Post by: cesium133 on 20 May 2014, 17:19
Okay, I got curious about Norman's video, and looked it up.


I hope y'all are sufficiently traumatized.

(Why'd they put a "Historic U.S. Route 66" image in it? Route 66 never went through Norman.)
edit -- it appears about 2/3 of the images in that video are of Oklahoma City, not Norman. :psyduck:

edit 2 -- Looked to see if there was a promotional video for the town where I grew up. There isn't. It's just as well; these days it's the sort of town that makes Cleveland look good.

edit 3 -- Oh God, the top results on Youtube for a search of that town include a KKK rally and a timelapse video someone made of driving down the highway that leaves town.
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Post by: Welu on 20 May 2014, 17:23
Surprisingly enough, my town actually has a promotional video and I nearly pissed myself at the first line just because of the lad's accent.
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Post by: Patrick on 20 May 2014, 17:41
Okay, I got curious about Norman's video, and looked it up.

I like how the first word that pops up in the video is "convenient." No it fucking isn't, I live in California, I'd have to go way the fuck out of my way to get to Norman, Oklahoma.
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Post by: cesium133 on 20 May 2014, 17:43
Heh. I hadn't noticed that. It makes me wonder who they think they're advertizing to.
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Post by: Lines on 20 May 2014, 19:54
Start taking echinacea.

I take a multivitamin. Mostly I was being silly, but when I do actually get sick, I get sick at the worst possible time. Like...I got full swing bronchitis ON Christmas while celebrating with family. Or on a plane to/from a vacation (it's happened twice). I mean, I work with little kids, it doesn't matter what I take or how often I wash my hands, I am not in a hazmat suit therefore I will get sick sometimes. Other than being prone to sinus/respiratory illnesses due to allergies and whatnot, I actually have a pretty good immune system.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 21 May 2014, 12:27
Here's Ann Arbor's tourism ad.

So it isn't "Hey guys, there's a cancer staging method named after here."? Aww...
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Post by: Patrick on 21 May 2014, 15:50
so this was my morning:

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/t1.0-9/10329245_10202572308922623_3430938380398201484_n.jpg)

helped a girl load all this shit into a van while her 2 coworkers watched. I'd be mad but they gave me $15 for my trouble. can't even trip over that shit.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 21 May 2014, 15:55
Pilsner Urquell? Wut?

Also I read the one pack as "Trümmer Pils" / "wreckage/debris Pils"…

Do you have Flensburger Pilsener anywhere?
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Post by: Patrick on 21 May 2014, 16:31
Urquell's a worldwide-distributed Pilsener, I used to drink it in both Luxembourg and Albania too! Don't be so surprised. :) Trumer is an old Austrian brand that was bought out by a company in Berkeley, and they still brew in both the original brewery and the 2nd one that they built in Berkeley. We don't carry Flensburger at my store, I'm afraid, I've never heard of it.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 21 May 2014, 16:58
Too bad, Flens (especially in the Dunkel variant) is my favourite beer. But it tastes pretty bitter, so some people might not like it. I visited the brewery once, as my Grandparents live in Flensburg.
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Post by: Papersatan on 21 May 2014, 18:53
I found this book in the library last week, and it is blowing my mind.

One of my favorite things about libraries is that, since the books are organized by topic, if you find one book through a catalog search, there are often interesting books near it on the shelf.  I think some of the best things I read were things I found accidentally in the stacks. So last week I was looking for a book about the creation of self-identity for a paper I want to write and near it on the shelf I find this 6 volume work on "Language and Power"  If you know shit about me and my interests, that is a title written for me. 

So this book is like, a numbered treatise outlining the relationship between language and everything (namely reality, truth and power) from a fabulously post-modern perspective.  It's no secret that I am a post-modernist, though my formal education on the subject has been limited. Post-modernism *feels* true (ha!) to me; every encounter with a one of the concepts in a class is usually framed as something difficult, and every time it just clicked like, "oh, yeah, of course there is no Truth." but i've never been able to adequately explain how I see the concepts working, and most texts on the subject are dense to say the least.

This work is dense, for sure,  but the numbered topic style has been easy to follow. I'm on number 35 of 202 in the first book, and it has been a good mix of things which I feel like I have been trying to explain for years and things that I have to re-read 12 times to make sure I understand his argument.

Like, when I read this:
(https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BniRMpCCYAAuokk.jpg)
I was like yes! I have tried to explain this so many times, and I can't articulate what I mean, and I never feel like I connect with anyone about it. 

And there is a part which describes the way that "Shared meanings are always... only part of what could be said, of what is sayable, of what is said. The ones one shares with others are taken as true; the others are not" and I know I tried to explain this idea here once through many thousands of words and convinced no one.

Anyways, I don't expect anyone to care much because I've never really found anyone who gets as excited about the meaning/reality building powers of language, even in my academic circles, but I'm loving this book and I wanted to share.
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Post by: Patrick on 22 May 2014, 03:40
Too bad, Flens (especially in the Dunkel variant) is my favourite beer. But it tastes pretty bitter, so some people might not like it. I visited the brewery once, as my Grandparents live in Flensburg.

dogg, I regularly drink Simtra by Knee Deep Brewing. shit's a heavyweight in every sense of the word. 131 IBUs and 11.25% alcohol by volume. bitter? come at me bro :D
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Post by: Thrillho on 22 May 2014, 07:11
I had to shout at some students today. It was unpleasant but I got a weird adrenaline buzz out of it.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 May 2014, 08:48
My professor pronounced "height" correctly today! He used to pronounce it like one would pronounce it  "weight".


I am happy for this.
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Post by: LTK on 22 May 2014, 10:41
Was that annoying enough to make you height him?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 May 2014, 10:52
I bet you couldn't weight to make that joke.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 May 2014, 10:56
Yes
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Post by: LTK on 22 May 2014, 11:54
I bet you couldn't weight to make that joke.
I figured if I didn't say it, someone else meight.
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Post by: Thrillho on 22 May 2014, 12:20
Maybe this should go in the relationship thread but I feel like this is an easier way of telling everyone, but my girlfriend just dumped me, it was my fault and yes I'm fucking distraught and don't want to talk about it. But I plan on getting blackout drunk this weekend. A lot.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 May 2014, 12:27
:( Huge hugs, I'm really sorry. Be kind to yourself and let us know if you need anything, like photos of rabbits eating watermelon or something to punch.
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Post by: Thrillho on 22 May 2014, 12:42
If I'm punching anything it'll be a wall or myself.

Photos of anything hilarious would be good though. Not sure if a rabbit eating watermelon would fit that criteria.

Thankyou, May.
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Post by: Loki on 22 May 2014, 12:52
:( Sorry to hear that, Gaz.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 May 2014, 12:54
Not a valid youtube URL
OK so it's not a bunny but it's both adorable and kind of ridiculous.
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Post by: Thrillho on 22 May 2014, 13:43
Oh my fucking god it was a false alarm... I was convinced she was done with me, and knowing her I didn't think she would change her mind, but she has. I'm just going to have to earn her trust back (because her reasoning for ending it was sound).

Thankyou so much guys, you are like a second family to me, I'm sorry if this seems melodramatic. I hope it doesn't because I've been in will she/won't she dump me relationships before and this is not one of those. We've never had a crisis like this, so I am sorry for worrying anyone.

You are all great.

Including you, May. That video was both of those adjectives.
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Post by: Loki on 22 May 2014, 13:59
YAY!
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Post by: ankhtahr on 22 May 2014, 14:01
Oh my god, wow, that's great news!

And don't think you have bothered us with this. We're here for you.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 May 2014, 14:54
The fact that she calmed down and decided to try again is a good sign, and the fact that you've recognised a problem and want to work on it is another good sign. It means you're cutting each other some slack, and also prepared to work at a relationship. I'm really glad for you :)
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Post by: Patrick on 22 May 2014, 16:24
unavoidable comment regarding makeup sex goes here
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 May 2014, 16:28
Jeez. I know I'm not the best listener, but if you want to talk, I'm on WhatsApp, Gareth.
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Post by: Metope on 23 May 2014, 05:56
Everything is ruined. We were 4 and a half hours away from hand-in, everyone's work was in the building and then the building caught fire. I have no idea what to do now. There are flames out the windows and black smoke everywhere. Fuck fuck fuck fuck!

The good thing is no one is hurt. But wow, all of everyone's work must be, if not from the flames themselves, from the smoke or the sprinklers.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 May 2014, 06:01
Fuck, are you serious? I'm so sorry, that is completely shit. How much information do you have yet? Is the building still burning?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 23 May 2014, 06:04
Holy crap. I don't even know how to respond to that. Both Metope's art being burned, smoked or soaked or May actually swearing.
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Post by: Papersatan on 23 May 2014, 06:05
!!!!!!!!
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Post by: Metope on 23 May 2014, 06:07
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-27541883 (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-27541883)

Pretty sure everything is gone. Even the beautiful building, these pictures are horrendous.

We probably won't get any info for a while, we were just told to go home. But the windows are blown out, and everything inside is wooden (and soaked in turpentine from 100+ years of being an art school), so...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 May 2014, 06:14
Kris, I am so sorry. It must be so devastating, the timing couldn't possibly be worse.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 May 2014, 06:17
oh no...

Can't find words, this must have been devastating, hope you're okay Kris.
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Post by: ev4n on 23 May 2014, 06:28
I think this is the most awful think I've heard all year.  I am so sorry metope.

If there's anything the internet can do to help, or just to make you smile, we have cat pictures.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 23 May 2014, 06:45
Oh my god Kris, I am so, so sorry. I lost a lot of my art when my parent's house flooded and knowing that something is gone that you've put your heart and soul into is just gut wrenching. I definitely feel for you right now. *hug*

If there is anything we can do to lessen the blow, please don't hesitate to ask.
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Post by: jwhouk on 23 May 2014, 07:14
Oh, wow.

I am so sorry to hear this Metope. Gah.

I can only imagine the pain from this. I've only known one thing like this in my life - and it was when I was too young to know anything about it.

Hugs to you - it is going to be all right.
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Post by: Welu on 23 May 2014, 08:01
I'm so sorry, Meotope. *hugs*
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Post by: ankhtahr on 23 May 2014, 08:42
I sincerely don't know what to say. This is horrible. The loss of your work, the damage to the building. I'm terribly sorry.
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Post by: Metope on 23 May 2014, 09:40
Thanks guys, it means a lot to have people care! I'm with everyone else affected at the pub, we're all getting drunk. At least one side of the building is completely ruined, last time I stepped outside the smoke seemed to have calmed down, so we'll see what happens with the rest. The side that is ruined contains the heritage Mackintosh library with countless irreplaceable books and original Mackintosh furniture, and as far as I can tell that whole room in in ruins. The windows are blasted and there is water running out of them. I'm more sad about the building than my work really, this whole thing is just surreal.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 May 2014, 09:45
It's appalling, I'm finding it hard to believe.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 23 May 2014, 11:21
I can't really say much more than that you may consider my hugs added to the pile.

EDIT @ 20:00 UK: You may have just been on the Classic FM news.
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Post by: Metope on 23 May 2014, 13:10
Thanks guys. To top it all off, my bag was stolen at the pub. Passport, wallet, laptop.... All gone. This is literally the worst day of my life.
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Post by: Loki on 23 May 2014, 13:21
Ouch. I'm sorry to hear all of that :(
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Post by: GarandMarine on 23 May 2014, 13:23
Holy fuck...
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 May 2014, 13:28
Wow.
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Post by: Metope on 23 May 2014, 13:50
Yeah, we all gathered at the local pub and we all put our stuff down in a pile, there were a couple people there not from the art school, but we didn't think any of it. The huge pile of bags was big and I was standing right next to it most of the time. And then I bent down to get something out of it and it was just gone. I filed a report and all the stuff you have to do, but I'm counting on everything to be lost forever. I can't believe this day, I just want to go home.
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Post by: Loki on 23 May 2014, 13:52
Maybe you should :( If you can, consider having someone you trust walk you home for emotional support.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 23 May 2014, 14:14
I don't seem able to do helpful-type words without a terrible feeling that they'll come off as insincere, but were I able to, I'd be writing some. I hope things get better.
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Post by: Metope on 23 May 2014, 14:45
Oh I am in my flat, I meant home to Norway. But my passport was in my bag...
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Post by: pwhodges on 23 May 2014, 15:04
The latest BBC News report says:

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The fire service said more than 90% of the structure was viable and they had protected up to 70% of the contents.

Crossed fingers!  As for your bag - that just takes the cake...  but there are assholes everywhere, it seems.
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Post by: Thrillho on 23 May 2014, 16:17
I can't add anything that isn't just a platitude. As a songwriter I can reproduce my material whenever I wish. I can't imagine what it would be like if something I loved and worked on suddenly just didn't exist any more, never mind the rest of the shit sandwich that your day became.
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Post by: Metope on 23 May 2014, 17:10
Thanks guys. It's weird being in a situation where there's nothing you can do but wait, and not know anything about what's happening. I've done everything I could regarding my bag, cancelled my cards and filed a police report and given the pub manager my details. As for the school, I don't even want to think about it. My work isn't even that important compared to the building itself. I can always make new stuff. I talked to my tutor and he said his office is full of rare Japanese prints, old books and a painting by a friend who has since passed away. All of my stuff is replaceable really, even if I make new stuff or buy new stuff. My dad has already told me he'll give me the money to replace everything I lost of value, so that's a huge comfort. But yeah, it's so weird to not know anything or be able to do anything.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 23 May 2014, 18:01
That thief has got to be literally the shittiest human being on earth though.

I kinda understand where Gareth's coming from on the thought of stuff being gone, when my building was on fire last month, the first thing I did besides grab my hard drives was to grab some favorite miniatures I painted. They really aren't that valuable in the grand scheme of things, and I can always paint them again, my total collection is easily worth several thousand US... but the stuff I really put my heart and soul into? I can't reproduce that... I can make new stuff though... the loss of such a grand structure and the library, all those poor books! Not to mention rare pieces of art, truly irreplaceable items... the value in your tutor's office alone personal and cultural...

It's the type of thing that makes you take a good hard sit because there really is no way to fully process it all
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 24 May 2014, 07:10
Sorry to hear about your loss and the cultural loss, as well. I hope somehow that it doesn't turn out as bad as it seems right now.
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Post by: Aimless on 24 May 2014, 09:06
Really just so sorry to hear this :( We read about the fire and I was wondering if you were in there, so I'm glad to know you were physically unharmed at least
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Post by: Patrick on 24 May 2014, 09:50
Wow, that's some real-ass shit. I'm sorry Kris. On the upside, misery is notorious for breeding great art. You'll be able to bounce back from losing your work. As for your bag, well, aren't the contents of that replaceable? Stay positive :)
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Post by: Metope on 24 May 2014, 13:16
Great news! All of my work is completely intact! I've seen pictures of my room and it's all fine. One half of the building is not affected at all, and some of the rooms on the other side are fine too. Some students lost everything, some don't know yet, but the overall damage is a lot less extensive than we thought. The library is completely gone, which is the worst part, but the irreplaceable archives of everything important are intact as well. So some bad news, but a lot less bad news than expected, and we'll be fine.
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Post by: Thrillho on 24 May 2014, 13:21
That's great. I know that you losing your other stuff in that theft was fucking awful, but all I could think of was that stuff is at least replaceable one way or another while your art isn't.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 24 May 2014, 14:28
I'm glad to hear that Metope, any word on your tutor's office?
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Post by: Metope on 24 May 2014, 15:22
All of the tutors lost everything, if you've seen the pictures from the worst time of the fire, the top floor is ablaze and that's where most of the the staff offices were located. I talked to the head of the fine art department today and he was devastated, he's lost several years of work stored in his office. He's worked there for 20 years. Lots of sad stories around  :-(
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Post by: Akima on 24 May 2014, 15:29
 :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( I'm so sorry to hear about this, Metope.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 24 May 2014, 17:38
Those rare Japanese prints! Agh! Not to mention your tutor's painting from his passed friend...
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 25 May 2014, 01:39
That's fantastic!

Your work, not the other losses, but still...
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 May 2014, 03:26
To all my fellow Europeans, PLEASE VOTE TODAY.
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Post by: snalin on 25 May 2014, 03:45
Some of us are not in your stupid Union! :D
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 May 2014, 05:11
Some of us already voted on Thursday!
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Post by: ankhtahr on 25 May 2014, 05:18
Seriously, I'm too scared of the AfD (very young, covert nationalist party, pretending to just be a conservative, anti EU party) getting many votes to not go to the election.

Oh, and also we have our city council election today as well.
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Post by: Akima on 25 May 2014, 05:31
Some of us are not in your stupid Union! :D
Some of use are not on your stupid continent!

Speaking of stupid continents, we have compulsory voting, with turnouts routinely in the 90+%, but we still managed to saddle ourselves with Tony Abbott. So much for the wisdom of the crowds.
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Post by: Thrillho on 25 May 2014, 05:50
Is it not possible that compulsory turnout is part of the reason why you have Tony Abbott? I've always felt that compulsory turnout is the best way to get people voting for shit out of spite or without thinking.
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Post by: snalin on 25 May 2014, 06:18
Some of us are not in your stupid Union! :D
Some of use are not on your stupid continent!

It was a comment on "to all of our fellow Europeans". The Union is probably the worst thing that's happened to Europe since WW2, and I don't like having my continent conflated with the destruction of democracy that is the Technocratic bullshit the EU represents. There's at least four countries in Europe that's realized how shit of an idea being ruled from Berlin is, and I'm sad that there's not more of them.

Like, by all means vote to keep fascists out of the European central government, but that you actually have to vote to make that happen - and that there's probably going to be fascists in there - is kind of a huge problem in the first place.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 25 May 2014, 06:43
I voted! Yay!

The city council elections here are complicated… In Kiel you just check, which party you want to vote in your district. Here you have a list of all candidates of all parties, and then you can assign 0 - 3 votes for each, with a limit of 48 votes in total.

snalin: the AfD (Alternative für Deutschland) is the only anti-EU party around. The reason they get relatively many votes (for being such a young party) is that they are against spending money for other EU countries. I still say, if we had allowed Greece to cut their debts instead of pumping billions there, somehow trying to stop the collapse from happening, it'd have ended better. Just look at Iceland. They're relatively well again, and their troubles started around the same time as Greece's. Now it might sound like the AfD would be the right choice for me. But that's the problem with them. They're like a canvas on which everybody projects their own wishes and ideas. What many people don't realise apparently is that in the background they're openly racist and xenophobic. Here're some quotes from leading officials of the AfD:

"Other parties just want immigration, so the Germans merge in a European pulp"
"The problem are rather marginalised groups like Sinte and Romani people, which come in great numbers and are unable to integrate"
And one about denying Turkey to become part of the EU, which is so bad I don't dare to quote it
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Post by: snalin on 25 May 2014, 06:51
Well, they're denying Turkey from being able to make a horrible decision which will decimate their hopes of becoming a proper democracy, so that's not so bad, is it? I'm kidding, though, it's a genuine problem that the only people you can vote for that's against giving more power to the EU is also kinda racist.

The EU's treatment of Greece - using economic pressure to set aside their democratically elected government and setting in their own technocrats to ruin their economy and destroy their public institutions - is precisely the fate that any other EU country can expect if their economy goes down the drain. Your population wanted something to the left of Laissez-faire? Well, tough luck, shitbags, here's a dude from the IMF that will run your economy now!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 May 2014, 08:01
Hey look! Snalin and I agree on something again!
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Post by: Aimless on 25 May 2014, 08:16
Just voted. It took all of ten minutes including the walk there and back :o decided to change my vote about a week ago, to my own surprise. This is the first time I've voted for the "Feminist Initiative"! I won't be voting for them in the national election however.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 25 May 2014, 09:48
I voted for the uh.. environmental party, like I do most of the time. It's basically the only issue I find relevant nowadays. So I guess I'm either bitter or naive, or both.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 May 2014, 15:15
Well I voted for the Green party -the proto environmentalist party - because to me they seem to be the only party which has a somewhat decent vision for Europe, is openly anti xenophobic and isn't full of liars paid off by the arms companies.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 25 May 2014, 15:25
I voted three ways (I had to vote in the election for the European parliament, for the city council and the district council). For the European parliament I voted for the pirate party. They might have had some fuck ups, but I still think they could manage some good things in the EU. For the district council I voted for the green party (as there were few other choices), and for the city council I voted for the PARTEI. The PARTEI (literally "the party", short for "Partei für Arbeit, Rechtsstaat, Tierschutz, Elitenförderung und basisdemokratische Initiative") is strongly linked with the satirical magazine "Titanic", and not too serious. I consider voting for the PARTEI to be a good way to show that you're unhappy with every other choice, without giving your vote to the extremists who manage to make all their peers vote. Also I feel like they could do some good things if they actually managed to get a seat.

I was strongly considering to vote for the Left party, but they had no candidates for the district council (so I couldn't vote for them), and I wasn't sure about them in the European parliament.
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Post by: Welu on 25 May 2014, 18:40
Not even officially done with our course and my partner and I have started roughing out the story for a feature film. I feel productive and terrified.
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Post by: cesium133 on 25 May 2014, 20:43
Okay, so I read this thing (http://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-27051071) describing how the EU elections work, and, well, I don't think Europeans should be allowed to complain about how confusing the U.S.'s electoral college system is anymore.  :psyduck:
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 May 2014, 23:52
When you get back home, tell them for us and say, "For your tomorrow, we gave our today"


Now some poetry, because I'm too worn down to really write something for Memorial day this year.

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Oorah to Ashes

Stuck out all alone
trapped inside his head
young vet losing his cool
may as well be dead

Oorah to ashes
he still has his pride
but his hands keeps twitching
with no rifle at his side
keeps seeing the faces
of the brothers he lost
can't comprehend the cost

Oorah to ashes
A broken man's mourning cry
in his fitful sleep he sighs
tears pouring down from his eyes
as a gun salute takes to the skies
for yet another vet who died
in his cold, lonely, grave he lies

Oorah to ashes
The nightmares come again
against the horrors he fends
all of his dreams it rend
with his past battles to face
He feels like he lives in disgrace
Stuck alone in a hopeless place

Oorah to ashes
Leave no man behind
This lost brother we have to find
His clock is running out of time
the flow of pain, we have to stymie
Patch up the wounds
Get a Casevac, nine lines to shine.

Stuck out all alone
trapped inside his head
young vet losing his cool
may as well be dead

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The Non-Combat Veteran's Lament

another set of rifle shots
echo in my heart
a salute comes up
as the casket lowers down

another folded flag
in to a grieving widow's arms
the sound of taps echoes
as the bugler begins to mourn

another brother fallen
in the thick of the fight
blood on the sands
in the dark of the night

men torn and mangled
by the bloody course of war
families destroyed and shredded
devastated ever more

I sometimes turn on myself
in the darkness of my mind
why was I so lucky?
simply to have survived?

my brothers lost and scattered
but my ticket never came
my rotation never happened
so now I sit in shame

I feel my honor is diminished
for not taking the same risks as they
a coward not a warrior
for not having the chance to stand

I accept the cast of fate
no matter what the cost
and in my survival know I must
forever remember the lost

over three thousand of my brothers
sent to their eternal sleep
I ask a god I don't believe in
for their souls to keep

I'll remember if no one else
the sacrifices made
which is why I stand here
at this unmourned grave

this is the task I set myself
to be a survivor with out shame
to tell the stories of the fallen
and share their immortal fame
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Post by: pwhodges on 26 May 2014, 00:17
Okay, so I read this thing (http://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-27051071) describing how the EU elections work, and, well, I don't think Europeans should be allowed to complain about how confusing the U.S.'s electoral college system is anymore.  :psyduck:

Oh, it's not so bad, really; we don't have the second-level disconnect that the use of an electoral college creates.  It amuses me that the UK uses two different types of PR within the one "country".

Major depression time, though, when UKIP gets the largest party representation from the UK and the NF gets the largest vote in France.  This is seriously bad, especially for the effect on British politics, with a general election coming up in just a year.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 May 2014, 02:33
I voted Green for the EU too - but as Paul says, the racists have done pretty well out of this election :(
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Post by: Valdís on 26 May 2014, 11:44
Just voted. It took all of ten minutes including the walk there and back :o decided to change my vote about a week ago, to my own surprise. This is the first time I've voted for the "Feminist Initiative"!

Fuck yeah! 5.3% and off Soraya Post goes! ^_^

I'm medlemsansvarig in Kalmar Län n' stuff. Was at our valvaka yesterday and the celebration in the city today (Fi balloons, party brochures, icecream). I'll throw up some pictures in the Photo-thread when I get a neat one Oskar took today!

I won't be voting for them in the national election however.

Here's hoping you surprise yourself for a second time by then! <3

I voted for the uh.. environmental party, like I do most of the time. It's basically the only issue I find relevant nowadays. So I guess I'm either bitter or naive, or both.

Congratulations on your party's success! Here's to a Red-Green-Pink coalition this autumn! :-D
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 May 2014, 12:03
Despite the depressing headline news of UKIP's blaze of glory, I'm encouraged by the fact that the Labour party weren't far behind and the Greens gained a seat. Since UKIP doesn't have a hope in the general election (I really, really need this to be true anyway), it bodes a little better for the future of our public services than I thought.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 26 May 2014, 12:43
Is the pirate party still a thing?
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Post by: cesium133 on 26 May 2014, 12:45
Sort of. (http://www.theregister.co.uk/2014/05/26/european_voters_make_pirate_party_walk_the_plank/)
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Post by: Skewbrow on 26 May 2014, 13:51
I often vote for Greens in EU elections and (what passes for) Conservatives (in these parts) in local/national elections. It makes sense to me somehow. This time my candidate had no chance. I picked her partly because she's local, but mostly because she singled me out from the crowd walking by the booths the various parties had set up downtown (basically to hand out leaflets to passers by). May be I looked in their general direction for too long? We had an ok discussion about environmental politics for may be ten minutes. Since the person I voted in the previous election was going to be a shoe-in, I decided to give this candidate my support.

Usually my missus is less likely to vote for a conservative candidate, but this time we swapped roles. Her candidate was elected, too.
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Post by: Akima on 27 May 2014, 02:52
I voted Green for the EU too - but as Paul says, the racists have done pretty well out of this election :(
In Australia, you don't have to vote for a fringe party to express your racism; we have a racist as our Prime Minister. And if you're sexist and/or homophobic, Tony's got that covered too; he's the complete package.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 27 May 2014, 03:08
What a wonderfully efficient system.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 27 May 2014, 03:14
Beo, your signature makes this post…
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 May 2014, 03:39
I'd vote for Akima for any number of geo-political leadership positions.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 May 2014, 06:54
http://www.duffelblog.com/2014/05/memorial-day-sale/#!Q2jf7

This basically sums up how we (veterans) feel about the commercialization of Memorial Day.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 27 May 2014, 13:25
Some good non-mainstream analysis of the European and Local elections in this blog here: http://anotherangryvoice.blogspot.co.uk/ (http://anotherangryvoice.blogspot.co.uk/)

Not unbiased but pretty decent collection of facts and conclusions.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 27 May 2014, 13:30
Could we migrate all these to the Euro voting thread?
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Post by: pwhodges on 28 May 2014, 07:24
Fun for all the family!

It has just come to light that while I was away, the person tasked with the slightly technical job of updating file permissions on the file server that holds all the individual, personnel, and trial files for the Medical Oncology clinical trials group made a little slip - she set all the files on the server to universal read/write, and also removed all trace of the previous settings.  Now I have to recreate from scratch the entire security structure of the whole file server - in a highly sensitive environment.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 May 2014, 07:34
Wow. I'd be somewhat pissed if someone did that to me.
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Post by: pwhodges on 28 May 2014, 07:47
This is my pissed face, as represented by my current avatar on another forum:

(http://cassland.org/images/EG/Avis/ShinjiPotter.jpg)

(It's Shinji, crossed-over with Harry Potter, making a face like Kyon when he's annoyed.)
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Post by: Loki on 28 May 2014, 12:23
I am at the conference and I think I can see Ankh :3
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Post by: ev4n on 28 May 2014, 12:29
Morpork too?
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Post by: Loki on 28 May 2014, 12:47
...
No.
I talked to Ankh a bit, and it was nice :3
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Post by: ev4n on 28 May 2014, 12:54
Wait, are we cutting peoples names in half now, Lo?

(I am no longer confused!)
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Post by: Loki on 28 May 2014, 16:10
I have been referring to ankhtahr as Ankh forever.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 28 May 2014, 16:14
Having performed a systematic analysis of all Loki's posts in 2014 I can confirm that this is indeed the truth.
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Post by: Aimless on 28 May 2014, 16:22
It has just come to light that while I was away, the person tasked with the slightly technical job of updating file permissions on the file server that holds all the individual, personnel, and trial files for the Medical Oncology clinical trials group made a little slip - she set all the files on the server to universal read/write, and also removed all trace of the previous settings.  Now I have to recreate from scratch the entire security structure of the whole file server - in a highly sensitive environment.

First, change HER permissions :o
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 May 2014, 17:22
Ankh has been Ankh for ages.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 May 2014, 17:23
Hope you two have fun. Take pictures, if you're so inclined.
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Post by: jwhouk on 28 May 2014, 18:45
So, in cleaning out my garage this afternoon, I discovered a copy of "Introducing Windows 95" (intended to be used with a new PC). Alongside was my copy of the Mac OS X.4 Tiger installation guide, a football program from 1990, another from my high school - the year after I graduated, in 1986 - and a Group Ticket Sales brochure for the Toronto Blue Jays - from 1982!
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Post by: Akima on 28 May 2014, 19:04
It has just come to light that while I was away, the person tasked with the slightly technical job of updating file permissions on the file server that holds all the individual, personnel, and trial files for the Medical Oncology clinical trials group made a little slip - she set all the files on the server to universal read/write, and also removed all trace of the previous settings.
Ow! That would have put me into what co-workers have occasionally described as a "Miss Mao" mood. Rebuilding that sort of thing is a pain, because permissions structures tend to evolve over time, and are often poorly documented. My sympathies.
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Post by: Grognard on 28 May 2014, 20:48
It has just come to light that while I was away, the person tasked with the slightly technical job of updating file permissions on the file server that holds all the individual, personnel, and trial files for the Medical Oncology clinical trials group made a little slip - she set all the files on the server to universal read/write, and also removed all trace of the previous settings.
Ow! That would have put me into what co-workers have occasionally described as a "Miss Mao" mood. Rebuilding that sort of thing is a pain, because permissions structures tend to evolve over time, and are often poorly documented. My sympathies.

Ditto on the Sympathies.
But I'd also have somebody on the phone, looking that fool's head on a platter.
what you're describing isn't a "minor" spill.  That is a major PII incident. 
The type that has fools looking for new jobs and careers shortly thereafter.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 28 May 2014, 22:07
Not much sleep. About 3 hours. No real moment to relax, people everywhere. This is stressful. But I met Loki! :laugh:
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Post by: Metope on 29 May 2014, 04:33
So I got my bag back from the police station yesterday! All the electronic stuff was gone, my computer, iPod and even my crappy little memory stick, which wasn't a surprise. But, I'd pretty much written everything off as lost forever, so getting anything back at all was a great surprise! My passport was still in there too, but I had gone to the consulate to cancel it the day before, so I don't know if it still works. I called them as soon as I found out, and the woman I talked to said that the Embassy might not have actually done it yet, so she'd call them and see if she could cancel the cancellation. Still haven't heard from her, so fingers crossed!

Even though nothing in the bag was of much valuable independently, all together it would have been pretty expensive to replace, so im considering that money saved. The bag was fairly new and I love it, and all of my quite pricey makeup was in there too. And my leather sketchbook cover, student card that would be 20 quid to replace... Even my loyalty coffee card with a free coffee on it, and my subway card with like 10 quid left. Not to mention all the little things that aren't worth anything in money but mean a lot to me sentimentally. So happy!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 May 2014, 04:39
I'm so glad you've got some of it back, especially the passport! Even if it has been cancelled already, at least you know there isn't a criminal gang using your identity. And there's still a chance your electronics might turn up, which would be a bonus.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 29 May 2014, 04:45
Hopefully most of your data is in a backup or the cloud somewhere!
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Post by: Metope on 29 May 2014, 04:46
Yeah, they took my credit and debit card too which both have my photo on it, but I cancelled them both immediately after finding out my bag was gone so I'm not worried about those. I doubt my electronics will show up though. I know someone tried to use my laptop since I used my iPad to lock it remotely if it got online, and it did go online and locked itself the day after it was stolen. So I guess no one can get access to my stuff, the only person who can unlock it now is me, which is a comfort. I'm sure they'll find a way to wipe it and use it as new, but at least it means they can't get access to my personal things on there.

My iPod is actually the saddest part, I was really fond of it and I'd had it for 8 years. All my music was on there, everything I've listen to since I was 18. I loved that thing. I had a tiny hope they wouldn't have taken it since it's really old and grubby and not worth much at all in money anymore, but nope. I'm gonna go around to pawn shops and markets though just in case.

And yes, I have all my photos and documents backed up in the cloud, not my music though. As soon as I get my new cards in the mail I'm going to get an external hard drive and go to the library and put everything on it. So really the only stuff I've lost is physical things that can be replaced, and I might be eligible for this bursary my school has created for all the students who lost things in the fire. Not sure though since I lost everything by theft afterwards, but it would never have happened if there hadn't been a fire, so we'll see.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 May 2014, 05:10
Do you have any kind of personal insurance? If so, you should get a crime number from the police and claim. Stupidly I do not, which meant that when I got mugged I didn't have any way to claim compensation (fortunately, and incredibly generously, a group of students at my church at that time donated the value of the bag's contents to me from their "emergency charity fund").
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Post by: Metope on 29 May 2014, 05:42
My insurance expired in January, and since it was a specific studying abroad insurance that you can only renew for a year, nothing less and nothing more, I decided to gamble on not having insurance until I was back in Norway. Pretty stupid of me, but lesson learned, I'll never be without insurance again.
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Post by: ev4n on 29 May 2014, 06:43
Today is International Day of the UN Peacekeepers, so I think I'll take a moment to reflect on my family members who have served as peacekeepers.

I'll also spare a moment to think about Buffalo 461, which my father was very nearly on.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 May 2014, 06:50
Without wishing to belittle the actual day, I definitely read that as "International Day of the Buffalo" which bemused me somewhat.
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Post by: ev4n on 29 May 2014, 08:38
I've been to Buffalo.  Nothing to celebrate there.

(Apologies to anyone from Buffalo.)
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Post by: pwhodges on 29 May 2014, 09:05
I just found how to get Windows XP updates until 2019!
Disclaimer:  don't blame me if it doesn't work for you...

http://www.sebijk.com/community/board15-other/board73-tutorials/2985-getting-xp-updates/ (http://www.sebijk.com/community/board15-other/board73-tutorials/2985-getting-xp-updates/)
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 30 May 2014, 09:54
Guess who just quit her job. (Hint: it wasn't me.)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 30 May 2014, 10:12
That one wench you've spoken angrily about to us before?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 30 May 2014, 11:17
If it's her, then HIGH FIVE!
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 30 May 2014, 11:54
Yes indeeeeeeeeed. It's so quiet now. Only one tearful phone call in the 3 hours since she left.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 30 May 2014, 12:01
Wooooohoooo! That's awesome! :-D
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Post by: Loki on 30 May 2014, 15:58
There are exciting things happening. Cannot talk about it until Monday, though :3
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 31 May 2014, 01:00
Slowly crawling back from being completely useless. Having one's eyes lasered is an interesting experience. Also: a painful one.

And, my god, that copper bastard in the sky is bright.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 31 May 2014, 08:12
So I'm privabky going to pride in 2 weeks, I could not be more excited

Sent from my SM-T110 using Tapatalk

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Post by: snalin on 31 May 2014, 10:03
I'm suspecting that your SM-T100 isn't very good friends with your Taptalk, there.
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Post by: Patrick on 31 May 2014, 11:03
So the girl I went on a date with on Thursday was supposed to come to my show last night, but couldn't make it. So that was a bummer. But she wants to make it up to me sometime this week, so that'll be nice. I really enjoy her company. Her snuggles ain't bad either. :3

As for the show itself, well, it was fucking insane. One of the best ones we've played in a while. I don't think we did a very good job of picking our set though. My fault, since I'm the one who suggested most of the songs. Oh well, we thrashed about for an hour and I got my fix for a while.
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Post by: pwhodges on 31 May 2014, 14:34
I've been quite unwell since returning from holiday, and expecting it to pass.  It hasn't, and today it was diagnosed as Giardiasis.  I've started a course of Metronidazole which should clear it in short order, but means no alcohol for the duration.
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Post by: Loki on 01 Jun 2014, 07:04
There are exciting things happening. Cannot talk about it until Monday, though :3

Okay, it is official now.
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of physics students in one year.
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of IT students in one year.
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of math students in one year.

Each of them has their own culture and procedures and what they are used to having at their respective conference.
They pack a size of 200/200/100 people respectively. It is public opinion organizing *one* of them is hard. We have three.
People on every side have told us we are insane.

We need to organize accommodation, space for them to work, and most importantly, money for food. I won't say how much in case anyone from there ever finds this post, but suffice to say we are talking five-figures.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Jun 2014, 07:30
Are they all at the same time?! If not, are they timed in such a way that setting one up will also help prepare the next one? Sounds really complex! Do people pay to attend or does your university have to fund them?
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Post by: Loki on 01 Jun 2014, 07:37
They are at the same time.
There are attendance fees, but they are traditionally too low for us to pay for everything that is expected. We cannot afford raising them too much - after a certain point, people would understandably not attend in the first place.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 01 Jun 2014, 08:44
There are exciting things happening. Cannot talk about it until Monday, though :3

Okay, it is official now.
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of physics students in one year.
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of IT students in one year.
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of math students in one year.

Each of them has their own culture and procedures and what they are used to having at their respective conference.
They pack a size of 200/200/100 people respectively. It is public opinion organizing *one* of them is hard. We have three.
People on every side have told us we are insane.

We need to organize accommodation, space for them to work, and most importantly, money for food. I won't say how much in case anyone from there ever finds this post, but suffice to say we are talking five-figures.
Did you have a nice journey home? (I'm assuming you wrote this from home)

I just arrived home from the KIF (the aforementioned conference of computer science Fachschaften). It was nice, but stressful. I'll probably write a bit more about it in the respective threads during the next few days.  I'm a little bit tired right now, I didn't sleep a lot during the conference, and while I slept around 7 hours today, I also drove us home, so about 350km (217 miles), the longest way I've driven so far. The Autobahn is great, and 140km/h (87mph) is a great cruising speed on it. You can still speed up if you need to overtake somebody, but it's fast enough to not have to switch lanes all the times because trucks are limited to 80km/h (50mph). I think the fastest I've went today was 185km/h (115mph), but that was a bit too fast for me to feel like I still have the car under my control. It was really great to have the opportunity to drive a long journey for the first time.

Yeah, and we are the ones who will organise the next KIF. We don't envy Loki's Fachschaft for organising the other two conferences as well.

Do people pay to attend or does your university have to fund them?
Usually the attendee's students' union pays the fee and travel expenses for a few or all of their attendees.
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Jun 2014, 09:55
I've been quite unwell since returning from holiday, and expecting it to pass.  It hasn't, and today it was diagnosed as Giardiasis.  I've started a course of Metronidazole which should clear it in short order, but means no alcohol for the duration.

Ooh man, been there and done that. get well, amigo.
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 Jun 2014, 15:40
but means no alcohol for the duration.

FUCK

Seriously though get well soon Hodgy.
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Post by: Lines on 01 Jun 2014, 17:12
I've been quite unwell since returning from holiday...

Ick, Paul, I hope you feel better soon.
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Post by: Akima on 02 Jun 2014, 03:24
I've been quite unwell since returning from holiday, and expecting it to pass.  It hasn't, and today it was diagnosed as Giardiasis.  I've started a course of Metronidazole which should clear it in short order, but means no alcohol for the duration.
My sympathies. That is probably down to not-so-clean water, alas.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 02 Jun 2014, 06:43
Oh no :-( Feel better soon!
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Post by: Loki on 02 Jun 2014, 07:18
Get well soon, Paul!
Ankh, my journey home was soso. As you may remember, I left the CompSci conference to attend the physics conference (which was meant to be a two hour journey to Düsseldorf). This included getting up at 6 am, but I was up at 5 already.
The journey to Düsseldorf then was rather uneventful, but once there, it turned out the trams I meant to take had been dropped from schedule, so I walked an hour with full baggage through the sun.

Once there, the (visibly sleepdeprived) organization team allowed me to crash on a couch in their HQ for an hour or so, and also to partake in the breakfast, even though I technically wasn't a registered attendant of the conference. That was very nice of them :3
The closing event of the physics conference was really interesting to watch from an outsider perspective.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 02 Jun 2014, 07:41
The eye doplets I have to use are called FML.

Make of that what you will.
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Post by: Patrick on 02 Jun 2014, 10:18
Some old-ish guy came into my work yesterday, said "Everything is so damn awesome these days, it's getting boring," let me high five him, and left. I hope I see him again, he was the shit.
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Post by: Papersatan on 02 Jun 2014, 11:56
Today I jedistered with the job center so that I could claim unemployment,  Then I got home and had a phone interview for a job which left me feeling all mixed up for a bunch of reasons.

1. noone schedualed it with me.  I had a phone interview with the recruiter last week and he said someone would contact me to set up an interview with the hiring manager.  Well the hiring manager just called, so thank goodness I was home and heard the phone.  10 min earlier and I would have been driving an ignored it. 

2. It requires a lot of knowledge I don't have. They are using Linux and Java, neither of which I know.  They said for the right person they are willing to help them learn, but that's a lot of upfront pressure to predict one's ability to learn a new skill.

3. I am not sure I want the job.  It would be a great position, which would give me a lot of room to grow and learn and move up in the future, but those upward movements are not really in the area I want to be working. I am unemployed, so any job should be great.  I just got a rejection from the only other job I've interviewed for. I should be nothing but excited about this opportunity, but I don't want to waste my time and their time and their money (because this would involve a relocation) if I'm not going to be good at the job or I am going to bounce at the first opportunity.  And, as a vain, entitled shit, I want the kind of job that I want, not just one that wants me.

4. AAARRGGHHH. Maybe they won't even ask me for an inperson so I won't have to worry about it.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 02 Jun 2014, 12:21
I don't think that not wanting that job makes you a vain, entitled shit. It makes you confident in your abilities, knowledgeable about your needs and driven to succeed in a field you enjoy. I had a phone interview with a company looking for admin+sales....I am strictly admin. I've never done sales work in my life (unless you count retail, which I don't- people come looking for things to buy and then buy them. There is no salesmanship involved in that). They told me that they would train me but I was just flat out not interested. Knowing what you don't want is just as important as knowing what you do want.


However- it might pose a problem with unemployment if they decide that they want to hire you. I don't know how it works in your state but from what I understand, here in NY you have to report to the unemployment office and let them know that you are actively looking, applying, going on interviews, etc. You also HAVE to take a job offer that is within x% of what you made in your last position or you risk losing your unemployment.
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Post by: Papersatan on 02 Jun 2014, 13:23
It's the same here,  but it is self reported, so I don't need to tell them I got an offer..  Also, I can tell the company that I'm not interested before they make an offer.
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Post by: snalin on 02 Jun 2014, 14:29
2. It requires a lot of knowledge I don't have. They are using Linux and Java, neither of which I know.  They said for the right person they are willing to help them learn, but that's a lot of upfront pressure to predict one's ability to learn a new skill.

For those things, you have all the resources in the world on this very forum. Also it's not particularly difficult. You'll be fine.
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Post by: Aimless on 02 Jun 2014, 14:58
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of physics students in one year.
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of IT students in one year.
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of math students in one year.

Each of them has their own culture and procedures and what they are used to having at their respective conference.
They pack a size of 200/200/100 people respectively. It is public opinion organizing *one* of them is hard. We have three.
People on every side have told us we are insane.

We need to organize accommodation, space for them to work, and most importantly, money for food. I won't say how much in case anyone from there ever finds this post, but suffice to say we are talking five-figures.

Prepare 100 meals and let each group of students randomly select two representatives from their midst to fight in a battle royale for the right to eat. Everyone sleeps in one of three giant tents.
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Post by: Papersatan on 02 Jun 2014, 15:07
I don't need to worry about it any more.

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He was impressed with your desire to get more technical and your answers to some of his QA questions.  But he feels he needs someone with more tech experience from Day One.  The learning curve is just too great.  Sorry this won’t work out.  Thanks very much for your time and interest.

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Post by: GarandMarine on 02 Jun 2014, 18:39
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of physics students in one year.
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of IT students in one year.
Our student council is organizing the Germanwide conference of math students in one year.

Each of them has their own culture and procedures and what they are used to having at their respective conference.
They pack a size of 200/200/100 people respectively. It is public opinion organizing *one* of them is hard. We have three.
People on every side have told us we are insane.

We need to organize accommodation, space for them to work, and most importantly, money for food. I won't say how much in case anyone from there ever finds this post, but suffice to say we are talking five-figures.

Prepare 100 meals and let each group of students randomly select two representatives from their midst to fight in a battle royale for the right to eat. Everyone sleeps in one of three giant tents.

No no no this won't do at all. That's just fucking wrong on so many levels.

It should be fifty meals. You can't spoil them you know.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 02 Jun 2014, 23:47
Actually you traditionally prepare one meal for everyone on one day, all the other days there is only the so called "eternal breakfast". Bread, butter and things to put on the bread.
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Post by: Loki on 03 Jun 2014, 01:51
Except the physicists expect snacks to be served during their final assembly and don't do any breaks during it, while the IT students and the mathematicians expect breaks to grab something from the eternal breakfast.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Jun 2014, 03:43
Just tell them that things are different this year.
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Post by: LTK on 05 Jun 2014, 10:08
I've lived here in Lund for six months now and have passed the secluded vegetarian restaurant more than a hundred times, but I've never gone there until yesterday. I'm eating what was left over from yesterday (which is like sixty percent of the whole meal) and my god, it's amazing. Tastes like having Mother Nature in your mouth, I've never had anything like it. And for getting two meals out of it, it's not expensive either. I have got to go there more often, but they're only open in the middle of the day, which is incredibly inconvenient.

Maybe I'll just start having my dinner at lunchtime from now on.
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Post by: Aimless on 06 Jun 2014, 02:06
Are you talking about Govindas??
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Post by: LTK on 06 Jun 2014, 02:20
That's the one, yeah!
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Post by: Aimless on 06 Jun 2014, 03:27
They have great food yeah :) vegetarian restaurants with an Indian twist are pretty much the only really good ones I've come across here in Sweden when it comes to both yums as well as $$$. Buy several portions when you can and keep it in the fridge :o
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Post by: Aimless on 06 Jun 2014, 03:28
Or recruit a personal lunch shopper!
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Post by: Papersatan on 07 Jun 2014, 11:49
This is long and bloggy. But that's what the thread is for, no?

So I think I've got things sorted with unemployment and  should get enough money from them to pay rent before rent is due again.  Also, we are getting a roommate for a little while, which will help.  A friend I went to school with, who has also not found a job, has a lease that ends early next month, so she is going to take our second bedroom until she finds a job.  I did the math last night and with the unemployment and her rent, we will only need to charge a few hundred a month to pay our bills and eat and what's it. 
Also, I may have found Steve a job through a friend.  It's only one day a week, but that is a start. It's income in and recent, local experience and references.  I should know tonight if that is for sure. 

In job news, my brother contacted me yesterday about a technical writer position at his work, so I've applied and he also gave my resume to his director.  It seems like it would be a nice gig, the pay is pretty good, I could move back to Rochester and it's doing work that I think would be interesting and be relevant enough to help get me where I want to be in 10 years.  It would be writing the internal and external documentation and training materials and running some live training sessions, for the company's adoption of IPv6.  I only understand the basics of IPv6, but I am confident I am able to learn it, and understanding, distilling, and communicating meaning, particularly of complex concepts, is one of the few talents I am confident I have.  (Confirmed by outside sources like my academic crush professor.)

Though, my faith in my abilities is undercut somewhat by this cover letter I am failing to write for another job posting.  I am applying to run the social media for two of the schools at my university (including the one I just graduated from) and I can't seem to find the words I want.  I hate writing cover letters generally, but this one is proving much more difficult than usual.  I am having trouble molding what I want to say into content appropriate for a cover letter, instead of a rambling tresies on the creation of identity in a post-modern world.  Which is sadly ironic, since one of the things I am trying to say is that I understand the way meaning is built across contexts, and how the medium of transmission is inseparable from the content, and that I have the skill to use the context of a particular medium to enhance the overall identity each school is attempting to communicate.

I am regularly frustrated as I apply to jobs because I feel an immense pressure to have my self-marketing materials be perfect, because that is the skill I am selling.  Like, you don't hire an electrician by going into his house and checking all his lights, or even an archivist by digging through their physical and digital files and tsk tsking at their system, but I keep applying to jobs where I am pitching my ability to organize and communicate information and ideas effectively and in a way that makes an argument beyond the 'facts.' That's exactly what a cover letter, resume, portfolio site, linkedin profile, twitter account etc are meant to do.  If I can't do it well with them, it seems self evident that I am ill suited for the jobs to which I am applying.  I know some of my peers feel the same way about their portfolio websites, since they are doing UX stuff and then feel pressure to have their website be responsive and usable across platforms and to meet all common heuristics for usability and so on, but I feel that *and* the need to have the copy be perfect and eloquent, on the website and the resume and the god damn cover letter.  It always comes down to the damn cover letter.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 07 Jun 2014, 13:10
I had a lecture about IPv6 this Friday! It's pretty nice (I like Anycasts)
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Post by: ankhtahr on 07 Jun 2014, 13:22
While there's still a lot I need to learn about IPv6, but I fucking love link local addresses.
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Post by: pwhodges on 07 Jun 2014, 14:52
Neither work (Oxford University) nor my home ISP (Zen Internet) has rolled out IPv6 yet, so even though I first learnt about it over ten years ago, I still don't have any chance to set it up usefully.
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Post by: Papersatan on 07 Jun 2014, 15:03
This is going here because I don't know where else to put it.  Stephen is a restless sleeper, he talks and he twitches and he has, in the past, actually interacted with me with his eyes opened while still asleep.  Anyhow last week we were asleep and I was being the big spoon and I woke up to him twitching and pulling on my arm so badly that it hurt.  I was able to extract myself, but this is the lingering bruise that my elbow left on his upper arm. :s

(https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-awMnVGkm8_k/U5OK4hWLMPI/AAAAAAAAHwQ/-l7ePlyE7cU/w422-h562-no/IMG_20140607_175748.jpg)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Jun 2014, 12:35
So, uh, I just bought a chair. It's in Nottingham. I'm not in Nottingham. Are you allowed to take furniture on the train?

Edit to add: Apparently it's too heavy for one person to move alone. Does anyone live near Nottingham and would be prepared to babysit the chair until I can come collect it in my friend's car? It's a very nice chair, very well behaved and house trained.
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Post by: Aimless on 11 Jun 2014, 15:08
Does it understand commands like "sit", "stay", "roll over"? :o
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Post by: Thrillho on 11 Jun 2014, 16:04
So, uh, I just bought a chair. It's in Nottingham. I'm not in Nottingham. Are you allowed to take furniture on the train?

Edit to add: Apparently it's too heavy for one person to move alone. Does anyone live near Nottingham and would be prepared to babysit the chair until I can come collect it in my friend's car? It's a very nice chair, very well behaved and house trained.

Ask me eight years ago? :psyduck: how soon does this need to be?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Jun 2014, 23:33
I don't know exactly - if you were selling a chair on eBay, how soon after the sale would you want it out of your house? I have no urgent need for a chair, but I think the seller would like it not to be there for too long.
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Post by: LTK on 12 Jun 2014, 02:18
If it's already paid for? I wouldn't care if the buyer didn't pick it up for a month, unless I really need the space and have nowhere to store it. Ask them.
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Post by: Thrillho on 12 Jun 2014, 02:28
My parents might be able to babysit the chair if you made it worth their while but it's by no means a guarantee as it'd be honestly a bit of a weird favour to ask. If I still lived there myself I'd obviously happily do it.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Jun 2014, 08:11
I'll see what my options are - I surely must know someone who lives in Nottingham.
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Post by: Thrillho on 12 Jun 2014, 08:40
Sorry May. Wish I could be more helpful.
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Post by: pwhodges on 13 Jun 2014, 14:24
It seems that Harrison Ford was injured (http://www.oxfordmail.co.uk/news/11275354.Star_Wars_actor_Harrison_Ford_reportedly_taken_to_John_Radcliffe_hospital_after_injury_while_filming_new_movie/?ref=var_0) during filming today, and is currently in the hospital at the end of my garden.  My wife watched the helicopter that brought him in (though she didn't know at the time, of course).
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Post by: Thrillho on 13 Jun 2014, 15:42
Hodgy - you, me, some ninja gear, a digital camera with a night vision setting, and a £5000 cheque from OK! Magazine. LET'S DO THIS.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 13 Jun 2014, 16:27
Only 5000? It's Harrisson Fucking Ford.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 13 Jun 2014, 17:06
I wasn't aware his second name was fucking.
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Post by: pwhodges on 13 Jun 2014, 17:12
Only 5000? It's Harrisson Fucking Ford.

Each, for starters.
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Post by: cesium133 on 13 Jun 2014, 17:31
Only 5000? It's Harrisson Fucking Ford.
Yeah, if you can get a picture of Ford Prefect in that situation, you should be able to get way more than 5000 out of him.
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Post by: Thrillho on 13 Jun 2014, 18:25
Only 5000? It's Harrisson Fucking Ford.

And it's OK! Magazine. If he's not losing weight, gaining weight, having an affair or addicted to drugs they don't care.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Jun 2014, 01:24
So sell it to People or The Sun instead
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Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Jun 2014, 02:29
- Change WhatsApp profile picture
- In the next 10 minutes have 3 girls compliment me on it

feelsgoodman
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Post by: Thrillho on 18 Jun 2014, 02:56
So sell it to People or The Sun instead

I actually have an 'in' at the Sun, in the showbiz pages, so I could do that. I'm not joking.
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Post by: ev4n on 18 Jun 2014, 06:07
I have enough of a Liverpool connection that I think I'm obliged to hate the sun for all eternity.
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Post by: Thrillho on 18 Jun 2014, 08:02
Oh I hate it too.

But I'm a journo grad who occasionally stumbles across a story. And they have deep pockets.
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Post by: Loki on 18 Jun 2014, 08:35
I have enough of a Liverpool connection that I think I'm obliged to hate the sun for all eternity.
Just cause you Brits never see the sun don't mean you gotta hate on it :parrot:
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Post by: Thrillho on 18 Jun 2014, 08:57
I have enough of a Liverpool connection that I think I'm obliged to hate the sun for all eternity.
Just cause you Brits never see the sun don't mean you gotta hate on it :parrot:

I'm not sure that joke's going to go down well, although I suspect you'll get the benefit of the doubt.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 18 Jun 2014, 09:36
Glad I wasn't the only one thinking it Loki

Sent from my XT1080 using Tapatalk

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Post by: ev4n on 18 Jun 2014, 10:46
I have enough of a Liverpool connection that I think I'm obliged to hate the sun for all eternity.
Just cause you Brits never see the sun don't mean you gotta hate on it :parrot:

Happily enjoying the long canadian summer nights at the moment, thankyouverymuch.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 18 Jun 2014, 10:58
Well you're Canadian ain'tcha? That's about as British as being from Wyoming.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Jun 2014, 12:56
I'm at a student organized festival sitting next to my quasi platonic crush and drinking delicious Bavarian Weissbier.

I suppose life is good.
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Post by: pwhodges on 18 Jun 2014, 15:01
My wife has an interview for a job in South Africa at the University of Cape Town.  That's to say, the interview is in South Africa, as she's already had a first round by Skype.  If this goes forward, life could get very ... interesting in a hurry.
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Post by: Redball on 18 Jun 2014, 15:12
It certainly would. Have either of you ever contemplated such a move?
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Post by: pwhodges on 18 Jun 2014, 15:32
Not since we were married.  My wife had an interview for a post-doc position in Chicago before we met, and might well have gone if invited (she liked Chicago a lot).  The reason this present opportunity arose was not that she looked, but that she was approached by a head-hunter.
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Post by: Welu on 18 Jun 2014, 16:08
Had my first shift in six months at the shop. First half hour was tough, very shaky and felt in the edge of an anxiety attack but pushed through it. Ended on a high with a fun bit of banter.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 18 Jun 2014, 23:14
My wife has an interview for a job in South Africa at the University of Cape Town.  That's to say, the interview is in South Africa, as she's already had a first round by Skype.  If this goes forward, life could get very ... interesting in a hurry.
So ... she's got to pop over for an interview for a bit? That really is a whole new level of interview anxiety if it involves plane schedules and clothing choices based on stylishness and climate.
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Jun 2014, 00:05
They're organising the travel, and suggest she flies at the weekend for seminar and interview on Tues/Weds, returning on Friday.  That way she can get to see the place as well, which helps with her side of any decisions.  But yes, a week out at just a month's notice, for an interview!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 Jun 2014, 00:24
It sounds ... well, nuts, really.
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Post by: Thrillho on 19 Jun 2014, 01:03
Sounds like an amazing experience regardless of what the interview ends up resulting in.
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Jun 2014, 01:17
She didn't actively initiate this - she was head-hunted, and is rolling with it since she is interested in the possibility of a change.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 19 Jun 2014, 04:02
I was flown 2000 miles on a week's notice for the interview for my current position. If you're a good candidate they (employers) of a certain caliber WILL move mountains for you.
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Post by: LTK on 19 Jun 2014, 04:16
But evidently, it's easier just to move you to the mountains.
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Post by: jwhouk on 19 Jun 2014, 05:32
If it's a free trip to the (other) USA, hey, great. Do keep in mind that there is generally a reason why places hire head-hunters: they can't convince people to take the position.
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Jun 2014, 05:34
At a certain level of post it becomes more common, though, because the pool of possible candidates is much smaller.
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Post by: LTK on 19 Jun 2014, 07:56
I went to collect a package that my mom sent me from home, but when I got to the post office they wouldn't give it to me because my ID was expired. So now I'm screwed. I'm trying to reach the postal service to arrange a new delivery and this is what I get.

"If you want us to call you back, enter your phone number." *enters phone number* "The number you have entered was *string of numbers that does not even have a single matching digit to my actual phone number or bear the slightest resemblance to an existing Swedish phone number*. Is this correct?"

Fuck it, you try to call that number, I'm done here.
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Jun 2014, 08:51
my ID was expired.

Does your ID revert to describing someone else when it expires?  Or is it you that expired and no longer match your ID?
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Post by: Jimor on 19 Jun 2014, 09:21
That always puzzled me as well, particularly if the card has all of the recent security doodads that shows it's not a fake (and if you're going to fake an ID card, wouldn't you create one that isn't expired?)

In personal bloggy news, the cable access station I work for is going to name my local music TV show (which I produce as a member at large rather than as staff) as member-produced show of the year. It's a nice honor for the work me and my crew have done in trying to create a quality program with good production values. And yes, the bar is admittedly a low one for the most part, but my own personal standard has always been to create a show that doesn't look like a cable access show, and I think we mostly succeed at that. The interesting thing is that the award is going to be presented on a live broadcast this evening, which will be only the 2nd time I've been in front of the camera other than in background shots as crew doing crew stuff, and the first time was as an extra in a sitcom with no lines.
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Post by: LTK on 19 Jun 2014, 09:30
my ID was expired.

Does your ID revert to describing someone else when it expires?  Or is it you that expired and no longer match your ID?
The answer is bureaucracy. Anyway, even if I get it delivered they still want to see a valid ID so that package is going back to the Netherlands.

That always puzzled me as well, particularly if the card has all of the recent security doodads that shows it's not a fake (and if you're going to fake an ID card, wouldn't you create one that isn't expired?)
The extent of security doodads on my current ID card only goes as far as a micro-perforated imprint of my photo - that's quite cool, actually. But I don't think it even has a chip.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Jun 2014, 11:08
My broadband is sorted! I set up the router on my own (admittedly I followed the instructions, but I did not ask my dad for help - that didn't stop him offering it, he is currently lecturing me about using an ethernet cable to assess the initial speeds so that he can reassess them in a week, and I am refusing because I don't want to and it's my router) and it works and it's mine and now I can watch catchup TV without it freezing because I'm borrowing internet from a neighbour!
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Jun 2014, 12:25
he is currently lecturing me about using an ethernet cable to assess the initial speeds so that he can reassess them in a week, and I am refusing because I don't want to and it's my router

1. you should listen to your pops
2. that is literally the worst reason ever to not listen to your pops
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Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Jun 2014, 12:39
I'm just a bit sick of him taking over stuff like this. I want to be able to deal with my own computer issues, and setting up a router isn't exactly tricky. I have no need to know the internet's speeds with various different configurations of wires and no wires, I just want to know how it works the way I'll be using it, which is wirelessly.
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Jun 2014, 12:52
true or false: during troubleshooting, it's important to have concrete data on what's normal
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Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Jun 2014, 12:54
Patrick, the basic issue here is that I dislike being patronised about my ability to deal with my own computer stuff, and also dislike being lectured at. Maybe I am being petty, but that's my right. I'm paying the bills, I bought the router, I'll have to deal with the fallout if anything goes wrong. My dad just likes to be in control of everything.
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Jun 2014, 13:01
This conversation is a carbon copy of one I had with my bandmate regarding leaving his guitar out in the rain, exactly one month before the warping finally caused the neck to delaminate from the neck joint in the guitar's body.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Jun 2014, 13:08
But leaving your guitar out in the rain is certain to damage the guitar. Choosing not to plug in an ethernet cable at the same time every day for a week in order to run speed tests so that your father can judge the quality of the ISP you've signed a year's contract with already isn't going to damage the internet.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 Jun 2014, 13:59
This conversation is a carbon copy of one I had with my bandmate regarding leaving his guitar out in the rain, exactly one month before the warping finally caused the neck to delaminate from the neck joint in the guitar's body.
Initial reaction: ... he's a cunt.

Fair reaction?
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Jun 2014, 14:09
I love him with every fiber of my being anyway, but yes, very much so.
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Jun 2014, 14:22
May is right; there is no need for her dad to interfere.  If he's interested, he can offer advice - but these days it's no more necessary for May to measure the speed of her interface than for her to defrag her disk weekly, or even at all.  If she has a problem in the future, that will be because it is affecting her use of the connection - and her supplier's support team can measure the speed more easily than she can (and will have records of past performance too).
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 19 Jun 2014, 14:58
About eight months ago, I quite my then-current job (front- and back-end web development, a small amount of DBA work). There was probably the equivalent of 2.5 developers doing work that kept six of us busy when I started there (everyone left). I was paid £4.98/hour.

A couple of days ago, I was sent this link (https://apprenticeshipvacancymatchingservice.lsc.gov.uk/Navms/Forms/Vacancy/VacancyDetails.aspx?Query=Zt%2bnb5UF27tkxadlyzqYKdMONE1OdFWX8H2iVqqCTnSNmoApUlMi0UkMlpm49MgoD6l7R93exmcxoeZSEc2zd5XU4QONF84LXD2zJewaMMM2Gp%2bLyAsK1E0axSdcs%2bK0lbyKCxhnLfWzZnj7cBYCUicXppul28eqgQdmMuw6ha6W9etTHr7SYhNkTEOS4Xbqam6iCZeCmdrkzXE8xH8v5i%2fl90XRE3fbvtoxskEONtSqGu2dnWCBIu20IxmWRC7nc2w17ko0WERY5qglK8uKtSEG%2bth1j6A8wpgDv%2ffxXFg%3d).
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Post by: Lines on 19 Jun 2014, 15:27
If it works, who cares. It's May's internet in her flat, not her dad's, and it won't damage anything. It's like how my mom reacted to me telling her I had ordered a drink last night and it was bigger than I expected - she started offering me advice on how not to get too drunk or get a hangover. I did not need that advice. (I don't get hangovers from alcohol.) We didn't need advice over something that was not broken and would not be broken, unlike your friend's guitar.
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Post by: jwhouk on 19 Jun 2014, 18:00
You can also be 46 years of age and have problems setting up a router.

Especially if it's a wireless one.
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Post by: ev4n on 20 Jun 2014, 03:56
May is right; there is no need for her dad to interfere.  If he's interested, he can offer advice

This
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Post by: ev4n on 20 Jun 2014, 06:10
Found the immigration records for my grandfather and great uncle this week.  Emailed them to my dad, and then we found my grandmothers.  Somehow, I'd missed that she was a home child as well.  (EDIT to clarify - all 3 were home children.)

I'm curious but sad about their stories.  I pinged my dad with what I'd found, but it wouldn't surprise me if he didn't really want to talk about it.  He's told me a bit of what he knows about my grandfather's and great uncles experiences, and it's pretty sad/awful.

I'm going to read a book or two on home children, I think to try to get a better understanding, but I won't push my family at this point.  The pinciples are all dead, and I don't want to upset anyone.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Jun 2014, 06:12
Home children?
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Post by: ev4n on 20 Jun 2014, 06:16
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Home_children

Quote
Home Children is a common term used to refer to the child migration scheme founded by Annie MacPherson in 1869, under which more than 100,000 children were sent to Australia, Canada, New Zealand, and South Africa from the United Kingdom.

Australia has apologised for its involvement in the scheme, while in February 2010 UK Prime Minister Gordon Brown made a formal apology to the families of children who suffered. On 16 November 2009, Canadian Immigration Minister Jason Kenney issued a statement that Canada will not apologise to child migrants.

Ostensibly, it was a charity drive to get poor kids off the street and into places where they could be productive and loved.  Practically, it was a child labour and indentured servitude scheme that took kids from their families.
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Post by: Thrillho on 20 Jun 2014, 06:38
I don't understand why you would apologise for something in 2010 that was done in 1869 and was nothing to do with you.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 20 Jun 2014, 08:32
The same could be said for so many things, but sadly, countries will always be held accountable for the actions of their forefathers.
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Post by: ev4n on 20 Jun 2014, 10:06
I guess my sister talked to my dad, and he dug up a bunch more stuff.

He sent me handwritten notes of when he talked to my great uncle around 30 years ago.  I started scanning them, and on the top of page 2 was "beatings were vicious"

I think I'll read them when I'm not at work.
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Post by: Patrick on 20 Jun 2014, 10:57
The same could be said for so many things, but sadly, countries will always be held accountable for the actions of their forefathers.

The human race has a very short attention span, except for when we've been wronged. Then we hate the wrongdoers forever, and their kids.
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Post by: jwhouk on 20 Jun 2014, 15:09
And their great-great-great-great-great grandchildren's great-great-great-great-great grandchildren.
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Post by: Aimless on 20 Jun 2014, 15:12
so it's midsummer and I have a whole four days off! Wednesday was my last night on call (for a while) and on Thursday I went shopping for a new suit and a nice shirt for the wedding we're going to next week. it sucked a little because I only have to buy a new suit because I've put on weight in undesirable places (impractical places too) and because I hate spending money on that kinda stuff... and also because my favorite kind (with three buttons) was impossible to find (so last year) but still pretty sweet because I found a nice grey one with a single button and comfortable pants, both of which fit almost perfectly. ditto for the nice and extremely comfortable albeit expensive dress shirt! tried it out when we out that night to have dinner and hang out with friends (one of whom is moving and turning my world into a slightly less bright one :() and it felt good.

it was a good night! we went exploring and discovered an arboretum, a secret meditation cave (http://instagram.com/p/pdsKCWHHLp/#), a  helpful sign (http://instagram.com/p/pceJM-nHCV/#), a  dramatic scene (http://instagram.com/p/pds-xCnHMR/#) and then we drove ourselves crazy solving a diabolical 3D-puzzle.

today we're at our in-laws' cabin where we're just relaxing, eating good food and entertaining ourselves by throwing socks at babies' faces (http://instagram.com/p/peukl5nHFP/#). I'm using this post to try out a possible solution to my android bbcode woes but it doesn't seem to be fulfilling its promise.
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Post by: Patrick on 20 Jun 2014, 23:56
I have a new friend! He's a regular customer at my work. We hung out for the first time the other day. Seriously one of the coolest folks I know.

I am still sore and exhausted from Wednesday, when I woke up at 5:30am, helped my friend move until 12:30p, got home by 1 to get ready for work at 2, then worked til 7pm at BevMo!, then went to the bar and worked/performed there until 3:30am, followed by waiting on Scotty (owner/bartender) to finish counting his tips. Got home at 4:30am Thursday morning. Fuuuuuuuuuuq.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 21 Jun 2014, 01:02
I don't understand why you would apologise for something in 2010 that was done in 1869 and was nothing to do with you.
On the surface it seems pointless, but if those affected get some sort of solace out of it then I'm all in favour of it.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 21 Jun 2014, 01:24
I don't understand why you would apologise for something in 2010 that was done in 1869 and was nothing to do with you.

It's not really about the Minister apologising for anything they have been responsible for. However, as a minister, they are also one of the mouthpieces of the government and the country that it serves and administers. While people themselves should never be expected to pay for the actions of their ancestors it isn't really the same for countries. Despite changes in administration, governance and leading political parties, the country persists. It isn't a new or different country from the that which it was previously. So if we, as a country, believe that actions taken in the past were wrong or unacceptable, I think it's right that there should be a public acknowledgement of that and an apology. So, as a Canadian, I do think that although the actions took place over a century ago, Canada had something to do with it and Canada should apologise.
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Post by: jwhouk on 21 Jun 2014, 05:30
I don't understand why you would apologise for something in 2010 that was done in 1869 and was nothing to do with you.

You could also ask the people of Mississippi (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/18/mississippi-13th-amendment_n_2712289.html).
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Post by: ev4n on 21 Jun 2014, 05:59
The effects of what happened to my family 2 generations ago still reverberate today.  That said, I disagree with the idea of financial reparations.

Apologies?  I don't see a problem, but as I said above, everyone is dead.  Yes, the crap they went through made bad things trickle down to us, but it's not going to change any of that if they apologize.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 21 Jun 2014, 13:18
So many things happening, most of them good, but not enough time to talk about them. Expect a larger number of posts after this weekend.
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Post by: Loki on 21 Jun 2014, 13:31
We shall! Sending congratulations on the good things and power to see through the not so good ones!
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Post by: ankhtahr on 21 Jun 2014, 14:03
Short info about my current situation: I'm sitting at the GPN (Gulaschprogrammiernacht, a small hacker convention organised by our local hackerspace), listening to electronic music I don't know, but is good, looking at a giant LED cube. Lots of nice people here. Some people I'd rather avoid, but this is luckily a large enough event for that.
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Post by: Loki on 21 Jun 2014, 15:22
a small hacker convention organised by our local hackerspace

Small? &gt;.&gt; I am told it has 300 people or somesuch.

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Post by: jwhouk on 21 Jun 2014, 16:23
One of the things that anyone who is seeking to do Genealogical research should be prepared for is that sometimes you may not like what you find. There are some things that may not seem to make any sense, but will result in you discovering a previously unknown event or action that resulted in a close-knit family unraveling very quickly - and, by looking back from a distance of several hundred years, unexplainable.

A second one is that genealogy research is generally done at a glacial pace. Information becomes available at a very slow and ingratiating pace, especially the further back you are from the event.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 21 Jun 2014, 18:37
Small? &gt;.&gt; I am told it has 300 people or somesuch.

Keep in mind that I'm used to the Chaos Communication Congress, which had over 9000 visitors last year. (no over 9000 jokes please)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 21 Jun 2014, 19:03
Pomegranate hookah and lamb kabobs while people watching on main street for dinner. Not a bad Saturday night. Also got to hang out with my friends Wes and Marissa which is always cool.

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-b-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xpf1/v/t1.0-9/10421981_10152577243060815_5908239250405002750_n.jpg?oh=480b3d81669e517dc9d1462066b2113f&oe=542D6384&__gda__=1410295803_ffc75d66c003ecf978285aabe2c4e7c7)

(https://scontent-a-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xfp1/t1.0-9/10464012_10152577243205815_5408719227302176904_n.jpg)
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Post by: Masterpiece on 21 Jun 2014, 19:55
Hookah, shisha, nargile, I'm guessing it's all the same thing?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 21 Jun 2014, 21:28
Yeppers.
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Post by: Akima on 22 Jun 2014, 03:18
I don't understand why you would apologise for something in 2010 that was done in 1869 and was nothing to do with you.
At the very least it is a way of openly and explicitly saying that what was done was seriously not OK, rather than essentially pretending that it never happened. I mean, would it be better to say, for example, that sure the Massacre of Wounded Knee happened, but you don't care because you personally were not there?
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Post by: Aimless on 22 Jun 2014, 04:32
One of the things that anyone who is seeking to do Genealogical research should be prepared for is that sometimes you may not like what you find. There are some things that may not seem to make any sense, but will result in you discovering a previously unknown event or action that resulted in a close-knit family unraveling very quickly - and, by looking back from a distance of several hundred years, unexplainable.

The seed is strong.  :psyduck:

Are you currently researching your family's history??
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Post by: jwhouk on 22 Jun 2014, 05:24
Currently for like the last ten years.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Jun 2014, 06:50
I don't understand why you would apologise for something in 2010 that was done in 1869 and was nothing to do with you.
At the very least it is a way of openly and explicitly saying that what was done was seriously not OK, rather than essentially pretending that it never happened. I mean, would it be better to say, for example, that sure the Massacre of Wounded Knee happened, but you don't care because you personally were not there?

The apology for that latter event would be far more sincere if there weren't still Medals of Honor on the books for it.
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Post by: Metope on 22 Jun 2014, 13:30
Moving is always a pain in the ass, but moving countries after having made art for four years (and also shopped a lot) is another level of difficulty. I've had family members who visited me bring empty suitcases for me to fill, and I've filled 6 of them with 20 kilos of stuff each. I still have two suitcases I will bring myself plus a 10 kg carry-on case, and wow. That's 170 kg of things! Only one of those is clothes, the rest are mostly books, sketchbooks, folders, paintings and prints. I also have to ship a box with the larger paintings I want to take home, since they don't fit in a suitcase, and I'll put my massive duvet in that box too. I'm leaving 8 large paintings in a friend's garage here since we'll have an exhibition next year, and I've also thrown away a looot of stuff. Plus trying to sell some things of value (like my printer) and giving away things I don't need that are too nice to throw away but too meh to sell. This is nuts, how do I own so many things!
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 Jun 2014, 15:36
You haven't thrown away art, have you?!
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Post by: Metope on 22 Jun 2014, 15:44
I've thrown away a few really bad studies from last year, but other than that I've kept everything, which is why those suitcases were so heavy. No idea where I'll be able to store it all once I get home though...

Oh and I'll have to abandon this one painting, it's a 120x120cm mdf board. Any other paintings that size are on canvas so I can just roll them up, but this one is just too big and heavy to move overseas.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Jun 2014, 16:25
I know the feeling Metope and I don't even have multiple years of art >.>;

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Post by: Akima on 22 Jun 2014, 22:59
The apology for that latter event would be far more sincere if there weren't still Medals of Honor on the books for it.
Very true, of course. It is a very obvious example of the problems involved in apologising for bad actions performed in the past, while people continue to enjoy the fruits of those actions today. Like museum curators crying crocodile tears over imperialist looting while continuing to fill their displays with its proceeds. Or those of us who live in homes standing on land that, although the titles may have passed through many twists and turns of subdivision and change of ownership, was originally seized without a qualm from native peoples left marginalised, displaced and largely excluded from our society. Generally, we cannot undo the crimes of the past, so we have no alternative but to beg forgiveness and move on, but our words are hollow if we do not work to address today the legacy of injustice that we all inherit.

"Therefore, send not to know
For whom the bell tolls,
It tolls for thee."
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Post by: ankhtahr on 23 Jun 2014, 00:00
Okay, as I don't know where to fit this, a blog post about shaving. And I mean in my face. Mainly under my chin, because I want to keep my beard.

Anyway. I've always had enormous troubles with ingrown hairs after shaving. First I was using an electric razor. After a while I switched over to a Wilkinson Quattro which I used until about 5 days ago. I had used up my blades again, and those things are mightily expensive. There was this one thang that had always fascinated me though. My father prefers using solid shaving soap instead of shaving foam from a can. And a friend of mine switched to shaving soap and classic safety razors (the really simple ones, with a single exchangable double edged blade) about half a year ago and was very convinced of it. Curiosity got the better of me and I bought a safety razor. A Timor Butterfly (TTO) safety razor. I also bought shaving soap, a shaving brush and a after shave splash. Actually I bought two shaving soaps and I already had an after shave balm before. I've tested the two soaps, found the one which I prefer by a lot, and shaved with a safety razor for the first time. It was a bit rough, not having to adjust the blade angle yourself takes a tiny bit of getting used to, but was okay. At least not worse than with my Quattro. During the following days I got used to handling the safety razor, and making my own foam from the soap. I'm not going to go back to the Quattro.

This single blade irritates my skin far less then the four blades on my Quattro, with similarly smooth results. It takes a few minutes more in the morning, but to me that is absolutely worth it. And the blades are fucking cheap. I've also started to love the care products of the company "Speick" (pronounced 'shpike'). Their shaving soap and after shave is incredibly good. And I really like the smell, even though it's sometimes being described as being a typical old people smell. I don't really consider it that, the smell isn't "heavy" enough. Not enough herbs. At least my grandparents don't smell that way.

Anyway. Can foam and cartridge razors bad, shaving soap and safety razors good.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Jun 2014, 01:29
What are safety razors?!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 23 Jun 2014, 01:36
A contradiction.
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Post by: pwhodges on 23 Jun 2014, 03:22
Razors that are not cut-throat razors; i.e., the blade is shrouded.
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Post by: jwhouk on 23 Jun 2014, 07:14
Usually in a plastic head, unless you're like Paul or myself and remember them coming with metal handles where you dropped the razor blade in from the top.

Never had one of those, though.
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Post by: Grognard on 23 Jun 2014, 08:35
I've got one of those... somewhere around here.

and 'Whatshisface' from the Pawn Stars show is doing an infomercial for those type of razors too.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 23 Jun 2014, 08:36
Pawn Stars. Fuck I hate those guys.
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Post by: Grognard on 23 Jun 2014, 08:37
call them up and ask for 'BattleToads'.
4chan has the phone #.

:D LoL :D
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Post by: Loki on 23 Jun 2014, 09:41


Usually in a plastic head, unless you're like Paul or myself and remember them coming with metal handles where you dropped the razor blade in from the top.

Yay for Russia being so backwards that I remember my father using those :D
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Post by: ankhtahr on 23 Jun 2014, 10:33
The one I'm using is one of these:
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It's basically a copy of a really old mechanism from Gilette, on which the patents expired. You twist the bottom part of the handle and the top of the head opens, so you can drop in a razor blade. That's why it's called Butterfly, or TTO (twist to open). With most other safety razors you screw the top of the head off by turning the bottom of the handle.
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Post by: Papersatan on 23 Jun 2014, 10:57
Generally "Safty Razor" is used to refer to the type Ankhtahr has in contrast to disposable razors, or the in between kind with disposable heads.  They are "safe" in comparison to a straight razor which is what they replaced. They were originally advertised with image like this:

(http://theskunkpot.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/kids-advertise8.jpg)

Stephen uses one and loves it.  They blades are cheaper for one thing, so you can replace them more frequently. 

I grew up in a home old enough that there were razor blades in the walls; when safety razors were the norm, bathrooms were built with slots in the medicine cabinet into which you slid your usec blades for "safe" disposal.  I guess noone thought forward to the people renovating 100 years later who had to deal with a pile of rusty razor blades.
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Post by: Akima on 23 Jun 2014, 20:41
That style of razor is still extremely common in China. My father still uses one of the old-school ones that unscrews into three separate parts. He's had it as long as I can remember.
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Post by: Papersatan on 23 Jun 2014, 21:07
22 days until I interview for my dream job. Still unsure what the job even is, or when it starts, or if this interview is just a formality, or if it is an informal interview and there are other candidates.  So many nerves.
In the mean time I had a phone interview for a different job today which I think went well.  I'll in out at the end of the week if I am moving to the next round.  I think I am well qualified, and as a bonus have experience with the software they are using (which was not listed as a requirement).  My only concern is that if they make an offer they will want an answer before I know what is up with the dream job.  Trying no to deal with that crisis before it happens, because it might not even happen.

I'm so stressed about this and dealing with so many conflicting feelings.  I'm happy and excited, but trying not to get my hopes up.  I am also having major impostor syndrome panic about what if this interview is just a formality and it's an offer, what is the job, can I even do it? omg omg  22 days is foreeeever. 
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Post by: tragic_pizza on 24 Jun 2014, 00:13
My wife almost died in January. Accidental overdose, long story.

We were nearly 2 weeks in the ICU, then psych. The bill was almost $250,000. Insurance paid nothing. But the hospital adjusted the bill to less than $10,000, because that particular hospital is the shit.

I *think* that the last time I was on, I was unemployed. I got 2 jobs, working 13 hours a day for just over minimum, and now I work nights for a decent hourly wage. Not making bank, but paying bills.

Also, this past Saturday I officiated a wedding. That is the coolest thing ever. Or will be until I can perform same-sex marriages.
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Post by: ev4n on 24 Jun 2014, 03:57
Also, this past Saturday I officiated a wedding. That is the coolest thing ever. Or will be until I can perform same-sex marriages.

Most of that sounded bad, but this part sounds awesome.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Jun 2014, 09:55
I'm glad you've found work - you're only working the nights, right, not the two jobs AND the nights?

Sorry about your wife, that must have been pretty rough for you both.
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Post by: Patrick on 24 Jun 2014, 11:38
Usually in a plastic head, unless you're like Paul or myself and remember them coming with metal handles where you dropped the razor blade in from the top.

Yay for Russia being so backwards that I remember my father using those :D

When I do decide to shave again, my safety razor is waiting for me. And it's a damn fine razor. It's made by Merkur, another German company, and I use Merkur's platinum coated stainless steel blades. My shaving soap is Proraso (from Italy), it's a menthol-eucalyptus scent and it smells amazing. I don't use aftershave or any of that, because I never felt the need. My soap is plenty moisturizing.
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Post by: jwhouk on 24 Jun 2014, 16:28
I'm a member of the Dollar Shave Club. I get a fresh set of blades sent to me monthly for $3. First set came with a handle.

The $3 is only for the "Humble Twin" - since I have discovered that if I shave with anything that has more blades, I have five o'clock shadow by noon.

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Post by: tragic_pizza on 24 Jun 2014, 20:34
Also, this past Saturday I officiated a wedding. That is the coolest thing ever. Or will be until I can perform same-sex marriages.

Most of that sounded bad, but this part sounds awesome.

It was AMAZING. I have a couple of pictures on my FaceBook.

I'm glad you've found work - you're only working the nights, right, not the two jobs AND the nights?

Sorry about your wife, that must have been pretty rough for you both.

Yes, just nights & the church gig, so I am sleeping again!

And thanks.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 25 Jun 2014, 02:28
Church is a gig, as in, it pays?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Jun 2014, 02:32
Priests need to live same as anyone else!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 25 Jun 2014, 02:50
That's a matter of opinion.

Or, more seriously: is there a difference in pay for bigger congregations? Does it pay to be make a career in a church?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Jun 2014, 02:59
I don't know about other countries or indeed other churches, but in the Church of England priests usually work full time and earn a sufficient salary to support themselves and their families. I don't know whether the pay is based on the congregation size; I do know it's funded by donations from the congregation, which go into the amount paid by each parish to the main church (the amount is determined by the size and wealth of the parish, not necessarily of the congregation, so in places which are wealthy but few people attend the church, money gets very tight) and then is redistributed back to the churches.
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Jun 2014, 03:37
In the C-of-E the amount paid by the parish to the central church (called the "quota") is determined from above.  Often it is more than the collections and donations provide, and extra events such as fêtes are required simply in order to make up the quota, as I know well from my time as a church treasurer.  The parish then has to make its own payments for things like books, repairs, insurance perhaps (often they decide to have no insurance on the church fabric - is it even meaningful to insure a thirteenth-century church against destruction?).  Some parishes have significant investments based on former property - but dipping into that without good cause, or for running expenses rather than capital projects, is bad husbandry.  However, when in the 1970s I did some financial programming for the C-of-E's Central Board of Finance, I discovered (because it triggered a bug - in the system software, I hasten to add, not mine) that there was a parish whose total invested wealth was £0/0s/6d (2.5p in modern terms, maybe 50p when inflation is considered).

The priest is not paid by the parish, but centrally.  They are generally provided with housing as part of that.
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Post by: Loki on 25 Jun 2014, 05:04
I am curious, what'd the bug do? Division by zero?
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Jun 2014, 05:27
The machine (a late-model GE-115 (http://alegion63.tripod.com/bob/id5.html)) was a "decimal" machine.  The error noted happened within a library routine. 

The result of an interest calculation had been put into a field that was one character too large for the result.  We then had to round this to the nearest penny (there was some weird rounding logic, because we were working in the period just before the change from a pound containing 240 old pence to 100 new pence, and so had to handle both possibilities - we were working in units of 1/5 old penny aka 1/12 new penny, the highest common factor).  The library that had written the value into the field had filled the unused top digit of the result field with a copy of the bottom digit instead of a zero (the behaviour specified in the documentation). 

So, we then rounded a very large number instead of the correct number.  The extra high-end digit got masked off at the next stage, when the figure was put back into a field of the correct size, and because of the non-standard rounding algorithms, we had failed to notice the error in the rounding that had resulted (OK, that was our fault). 

In our system test low-end value (using £0/0s/6d) the low digit had been a zero, as it happened (because the interest was zero); but in the live parallel run test the slightly larger £0/1s/6d account put a 1 in that digit because the interest was non-zero.  And then, in the case of this very small figure, the rounding caused a switch from 10000000001 to 09999999996 (as I recall), so the subsequent masking left a huge number, and the £0.75 account was credited with £83,333,333.33 interest for the quarter.

The bug was sidestepped by supplying the correct length field to the first routine for the result.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 Jun 2014, 07:04
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The USS George Washington (CVN 73) under way in the South China Sea, which means my little brother will be getting me another box of weird stuff from Hong Kong.

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An F/A-18F Super Hornet from of Strike Fighter Squadron (VFA) 102 (the "Diamondbacks") makes an arrested landing on the flight deck of the U.S. Navy's forward-deployed aircraft carrier USS George Washington (CVN 73). This particular aircraft is called a "tail bird" or "color bird" because it's the fighter chosen to be marked up with the squadron's livery and "carry the colors" into the fight.

The USS George Washington is forward deployed in Japan, along with VFA-102, with the latter basing out of NAF Atsugi and the former making United States Fleet Activities Yokosuka (aka the Yokosuka Naval Base) her home port. The American base at Yokosuka is collocated with the Yokosuka Naval District, home of the JMSDF.
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Post by: Loki on 25 Jun 2014, 12:59
Dude, Paul. I am flabberghasted you remember all those little details.

Thanks for satisfying my curiosity!
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Jun 2014, 14:11
Although I hadn't written the routines concerned (I was working on some utilities for pretty-printing the content of the database), I got involved in the debugging.  It was perhaps the first time I experienced debugging a lower level than the program I was actually writing, and so might be seen as a pivotal incident that got me hooked and thus helped direct my career into system and OS programming.  1971 - a pivotal year.

Anyway, if you look carefully, I only had to remember the effect of the extra high digit on the rounding, and everything else can be deduced (and memory triggered) from that.  And of course, as you will discover in due course, every interesting solution that you find goes into your toolbox of experience that is carried around in your head for the rest of your career - from time to time, you may even get a match, though not as often as you would like!
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Jun 2014, 15:59
It's funny, on paper I study a field that is connected to "computer sciences", but I have literally no idea about system and OS programming.

One of our tasks in Uni is to write "Flappy Bird" on our own, using our own assets, etc. I did a test render in After Effects to see if I managed to do parallax correctly and I think it looks OK!

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Post by: tragic_pizza on 25 Jun 2014, 21:25
That's a matter of opinion.

Or, more seriously: is there a difference in pay for bigger congregations? Does it pay to be make a career in a church?
The church pays me very little, but yes, the church gig pays.

I am basically a lay pastor, which means I serve very small churches in my denomination who cannot afford a full time, full-fledged ordained minister.

Simply put, I write a sermon every week and preach.
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Post by: Loki on 25 Jun 2014, 23:21
very small churches

Do they float in water? (http://youtu.be/zrzMhU_4m-g)
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Post by: tragic_pizza on 25 Jun 2014, 23:47
very small churches

Do they float in water? (http://youtu.be/zrzMhU_4m-g)
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Post by: ankhtahr on 29 Jun 2014, 08:19
Today was a very interesting day. A friend of mine is volunteer in the volunteer fire department of a village around here. They were organising a practice for their youth group, and I volunteered as casualty. So I took part in two practices, in rooms full of fog (from a fog machine), with make up to make me look like I had severe burns on my arms/hands, pretending to be in pain and shock. I'm not that good at faking pain, but I was apparently very good at faking the shock. The paramedics (in training) really focused their attention on me, as soon as the "wounds" of the others were taken care of.

Note: I seriously hope the active volunteer firefighters are better than these youths. I would have died in the first (which took place in a school building), and maybe died in the second scenario (taking place in the depot of a logistics company). The paramedics were good though.
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Post by: Loki on 29 Jun 2014, 08:39
Hah. I would have loved to see that :D
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Post by: ankhtahr on 29 Jun 2014, 08:58
Seriously the youngest of them were just plain adorable. Having a ten year old take you at the arm and lead you outside is funny, and made it difficult to pretend you're in pain. But I don't exactly know why, or how, but I actually managed to look into me and see what I'd feel in this situation, which made the shock very easy to fake. I know how I feel after accidents. It was actually difficult to drop this facade when they were finished, that's how much I got into the scenario.

And let me tell you, being in a room, where you can't see a window, until your face is 30 cm from it, is scary as hell.
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Post by: Papersatan on 29 Jun 2014, 13:58
did my nails up for Pride.  (wasn't there a nails and makeup thread? did it die? )

(https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-cfxO_PG05Zo/U7B395mIoXI/AAAAAAAAH60/GujITK-yCNA/w400-h533-no/1404073971535.jpg)

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Post by: pwhodges on 29 Jun 2014, 14:22
(wasn't there a nails and makeup thread? did it die? )

The Makeup thread (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php?topic=28661.0)
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Post by: Welu on 29 Jun 2014, 14:39
Your nails look great, Kat. Nicely cleaned up from the Snapchat.

I'm terrified about the next two weeks. Gonna be training for my second job ever but since it's in a partner place it'll be a person I know teaching me. I remember them being nice but I'm so scared I'm gonna fuck up.
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Post by: Patrick on 29 Jun 2014, 15:42
I don't understand how I can have so many long weeks and not go completely insane.
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Post by: Aimless on 29 Jun 2014, 16:36
Back from Hungary! It was a short but thoroughly enjoyable trip. Weather was amazing, and, though things were (as usual) not as clean or as modern as they are in Sweden, the cities were absolutely BEAUTIFUL.

We spoiled ourselves silly on this short trip, treating ourselves to a little luxury and a lot of relaxation. This was really nice, and i liked the price-tag that evoked memories of the Bratislava-phase of Eurotrip, but there were many jarring and discomfiting reminders of the real cost of the good life and the advantages we tourists avail ourselves to when on holiday.

It wasn't just the elderly homeless people. There was an over-abundance of massage-parlors and freelance masseuses that offered all sorts of exotic therapies to "discerning gentlemen" as well as to adventurous couples. I got the distinct impression this sort of thing was viewed as icky even there, but the ads still popped up in the most unexpectedly "clean" settings so I dunno.

There was a touch of the absurd overlying the ick, in that a parlor would describe in lurid detail the erotic features of some treatments and then state that they absolutely did not offer any kind of "sexual favors". I can only assume they meant that the blowjob was not a FAVOR.

Exciting though the idea of tantric couples massage may be, we stuck to the straight and narrow path. I had my first professional massage (never been comfortable with it before) and now understand why the missus loves it so much. We learned a few useful tricks that we'd never thought of before.

On our second day, we went to Szechenyi, one of Budapest's thermal baths. It was a little confusing but REALLY relaxing. Sweden doesn't have thermal baths (that i know of) so my envy and regret was great that day. It would be fun to learn a little more about the history and cultural influence of these baths :)

I'd neglected to notify the concierge team in advance about the restaurants we'd hoped to check out, so we couldn't get any tables at our top picks. Instead we found some excellent but less busy restaurants that featured Hungarian cuisine. The dishes were elegant and perfectly executed interpretations of essentially "simple" traditional dishes. The local wines were delicious and didn't break the bank :o The service was impeccable and the staff very friendly. I have to admit I enjoyed the restaurants far more here than I did in Paris (or, for that matter, in Sweden). The flavors of Hungarian cuisine worked for both me and the ginger.

On our third day, we went to the university town of Szeged to attend a  wedding. We traveled the by train, which was a simple, cheap, relaxing and fairly painless experience with the occasional flash of confused terror. We were fined on a tram due to a misunderstanding (I'd intended to take a cab but was persuaded, despite my misgivings, to take the tram by someone who unfortunately didn't remember Hungary very well).

Guys, the wedding was so beautiful :') the hotel was nowhere near as polished as our previous, but it was SPECTACULAR. One of very many remnants of a wealthy past l suppose? Anyway, it was gorgeous and fun and though we were tired and had to get up at six the next day we made sure to let loose just a little :) We were swept up in the best conga-line ever and resolved to learn how to dance "properly".

We came back to sthlm today and the trip back put me in a bit of a foul mood. Everything was fine and we were exceptionally early to the airport, had checked in online and had our digital boarding passes ready but the lady at the security checkpoint said we couldn't use those and had to queue to get a printed boarding pass. Unlike pretty much every other airport in the world, the Norwegian Airlines check-in station featured four desks each with its own queue. We picked the wrong one, with the slowest guy ever. When we finally got back to the security checkpoint they brusquely said we had to go to another terminal because this one was "full". Wth? I dunno, but I wasn't impressed.

On our way back we overheard a conversation between two teenaged guys that was simultaneously hilarious and terrifying and then w got home, ate mum's delicious food and collapsed :) leaving for Umeå again tomorrow and we'll see if we can visit dad before then. So that was our trip, and here are some pics for your viewing pleasure!

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Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 30 Jun 2014, 00:56
I went to see Marina Abramovic's 512 Hours. It was remarkable, a profoundly emotional experience. Three hours passed and I didn't even realise because there were no clocks in there. Nothing outside of some of the most incredible albums ever made has ever made me experience that much emotion in so short a space of time.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 30 Jun 2014, 07:20
I'm so very, very fucking ill. It's beyond fucking funny.
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Post by: Welu on 30 Jun 2014, 11:13
First day of training went well. It was actually someone I knew teaching me so that helped a lot. The workload is a little intimidating but more because it's a big responsibility than I think I'll struggle to do it. So much counting.

My body clock is already so thrown off by working this morning, which I haven't done in months, and doing another shift tonight.
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Post by: LTK on 30 Jun 2014, 12:15
The cat just bolted into the house, immediately followed by a small yappy dog. Fortunately they didn't start fighting, the cat froze at the end of the hall and I was able to pick him up and put him on the counter, and then I pushed the dog out the door. That was weird. I haven't seen the cat since, he's probably pretty shaken up. Oh wait, there he is now, glad he didn't run away!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Jul 2014, 01:39
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Post by: pwhodges on 01 Jul 2014, 05:42
My new ambisonic microphone is shipping from India today.

(http://cassland.org/images/BrahmaPacking.jpg)

(http://cassland.org/images/BrahmaPacked.jpg)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Jul 2014, 06:18
I almost started a fight with a squad of paratroopers in the airport this morning. I decided to let them off easy.

Hodges what is an ambiosonic microphone? Looks both delicate and expensive
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Post by: pwhodges on 01 Jul 2014, 06:49
Hodges what is an ambiosonic microphone? Looks both delicate and expensive

The delicate bit is the frame for the wind shield.

My present microphone is this (http://ambisonic.info/tetramic.html) (cost $999 plus about $400 extras).  The new one is this (https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1569945514/brahma-affordable-ambisonics-microphone) (cost $649, all in).

An Ambisonic microphone records sound pressure and direction at a point, and can be used to make fully three-dimensional sound recordings to be reproduced in an enveloping sphere.  I was involved with the inventors, and some of my recordings using the technique have been used in demonstrations around the world.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Jul 2014, 06:50
....what do you do again?
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Post by: jwhouk on 01 Jul 2014, 07:25
Something above your pay range, Marine.

(and mine, very likely.)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Jul 2014, 07:39
....I can repair firearms that cost more then a sports car and until recently was responsible for multimillion dollar aircraft and all lives aboard, you speak for your own pay grade there J :p
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Post by: pwhodges on 01 Jul 2014, 08:03
....what do you do again?

I run a block of servers and computers, covering both technical and end-user support, and look after the security of data for clinical trials of drugs and procedures for cancer treatment; I do these things for three related but separate groups within the University of Oxford.  I am well-paid for what I do, but that's also a benefit of seniority and extensive and wide-ranging experience.  Also, I no longer pay rent or a mortgage.

I am also, ex officio but being also a graduate of the university, a member of Congregation (http://www.ox.ac.uk/new_to_the_university/university_structure.html), the large body that is the ultimate governing body of the University.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 01 Jul 2014, 08:06
No no, not that, I know you're a grandmaster IT wizard. What do you do with the top line audio equipment? :p
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Post by: pwhodges on 01 Jul 2014, 08:27
Record things.  Mainly just as a hobby.  Looong ago I was a recording engineer at the BBC (in radio's music division).  Even before that I was at uni with the inventors of ambisonics and the "soundfield" microphone (one of whom was best man at my first wedding).

In the 1980s, I recorded my wife, who was a professional singer, but very insecure - so needed constant reassurance which recordings could give her.  In the 1990s I recorded a lot of my son's concerts as he was establishing himself, and needed samplers as calling cards.  Then I recorded and engineered several CDs for him before he was invited to be recorded by the companies themselves:  Finnissy (http://www.amazon.co.uk/Finnissy-Snowdrift-Setting-Etched-Sunlight/dp/B002COKIE0/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1404227920&sr=8-2&keywords="nicolas+hodges"); Hopkins (http://www.amazon.co.uk/Complete-Piano-Music-Nicolas-Hodges/dp/B00004TC4S/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1404227920&sr=8-3&keywords="nicolas+hodges"); Gershwin (http://www.amazon.co.uk/Finnissy-Gershwin-Arrangements-George/dp/B0002ADXUW/ref=sr_1_15?ie=UTF8&qid=1404227920&sr=8-15&keywords="nicolas+hodges"); Connolly (http://www.amazon.co.uk/Night-Thoughts-Connolly/dp/B0000649OB/ref=sr_1_fkmr1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1358120390&sr=8-1-fkmr1) - each of those was the product of three days in the well-known studio at St George's, Bristol, and a load of editing time using CoolEdit 2000.  There are also individual tracks I've recorded on several other CDs, including the last time Earle Brown (http://www.matchlessrecordings.com/earl-brown-chamber-music) conducted in Europe before his death.

My ambisonic recordings are largely of the choir I sing in, but there are also some of my son, and of other friends and acquaintances, and a small number done as a commercial freelance.  Some of my recordings have been used in demonstrations of the technique in talks at places like AES conferences in the US (AES = Audio Engineering Society) and at IRCAM in Paris.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: lepetitfromage on 01 Jul 2014, 08:43
Paul, you continuously prove to be one of the most interesting people I know. I always look forward to your posts.
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Post by: Thrillho on 01 Jul 2014, 13:01
You should try sharing a mildly tipsy conversation with him on the streets of Oxford  :psyduck:
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Post by: Akima on 01 Jul 2014, 17:28
I always look forward to your posts.
Me too, even when he's telling me to pull my head in. :-)  Educational too, I had never heard of ambisonics until PWH posted about it.
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Post by: pwhodges on 02 Jul 2014, 02:58
It occurs to me to remark that although ambisonics is not likely ever to have any end-user visibility (it had a chance in about 1980, which was comprehensively blown** mainly by the UK government body that was supposedly providing support and marketing), it does have a significant presence behind the scenes.  A number of audio processing plugins (http://www.waves.com)* use it internally, usually when rotation of a soundfield is required; and for this reason it is used in the innards of some gaming audio engines (http://www.blueripplesound.com).

* The chief inventor of ambisonics, Michael Gerzon, also did crucial work in the design of dither and of some aspects of audio filtering, which he contributed to the linked company as a consultant.

**
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Post by: Akima on 02 Jul 2014, 05:01
Hodges what is an ambiosonic microphone? Looks both delicate and expensive.
I think: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1569945514/brahma-affordable-ambisonics-microphone

Also: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ambisonics
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 02 Jul 2014, 05:59
Thanks to Paul's previous discussion and downloading some of his sound files, I've experimented a little with surround sound. This discussion sent me back to look for Ambisonic playback techniques using the tools at hand: A Mac laptop and an LG 5.1 home theater setup. Slow going, but VLC seems to be a starting point.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 02 Jul 2014, 07:10
Paul, you continuously prove to be one of the most interesting people I know. I always look forward to your posts.

I don't have anything to add to this. Not only are your experiences great from my standpoint as computer science student who's also interested in sound engineering, but they're also great from a personal perspective. You're one of the most inspirational people I know.
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Post by: pwhodges on 02 Jul 2014, 08:00
Yesterday, FaceBook suggested a possible friend to me whose name I recognised as a Norwegian composer one of whose works I recorded at a concert in Oslo in 1986 while I was visiting Norsk Data.

I sent him a message, and today got a chatty reply and a request for the recording, as that was the only performance that the work has ever received!  It was a setting of passages from the Song of Songs, in Norwegian, for contralto accompanied by string quartet, vibraphone and bongos.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 02 Jul 2014, 09:06
Oooh. I would quite like to hear that.
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Post by: ev4n on 02 Jul 2014, 09:25
while I was visiting Norsk Data.

They have their own android, too?

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/0/09/DataTNG.jpg
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Post by: ankhtahr on 02 Jul 2014, 11:45
That reminds me of probably the most interesting concert I've been to. Sønderjyllands Symfonieorkester under Dutch conductor David Porcelijn in the Marienkirche in Flensburg (it's a Danish orchestra, but they often perform in Flensburg for the Danish minority). After a few, sometimes lesser known works (Beethoven's Rondino in E♭ major (WoO 25), Strauss's Serenade in E♭ major for 13 Wind Instruments (Op.7), and Stravinsky's "Symphonies of Wind Instruments") they performed a Violin Concerto which was written for this concert by American composer Jeff (sic) Hamburg, who worked together with violinist Tobias Durholm, who performed it. To my knowledge this Violin Concerto ("The Dream of Existence") has been performed only three times to date. I was there for the first performance. It was great, and I still would love to have a recording of this Concerto, but I doubt I'll ever be able to get one.
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Post by: Lines on 02 Jul 2014, 16:00
It was a setting of passages from the Song of Songs, in Norwegian, for contralto accompanied by string quartet, vibraphone and bongos.

That sounds like an odd, but very intriguing mixture. If you can post it online, I'd love to hear it!
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Post by: Loki on 02 Jul 2014, 16:28


[ambisonics account]

This was a really interesting account, which is more fascinating because I am usually not that interested in sound mechanics (unlike, say, Ankh). Thank you!

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Post by: ankhtahr on 02 Jul 2014, 18:32
Speaking of which, I really need more money / better control over it. That might seem like a non sequitur, but the reason for it is that I really, really want to buy a Røde M3, and a Zoom H1, the latter being of a lesser priority. But I don't have 200€ to spare. In fact, I have about -200€ to spare. Which kinda is a problem.  :-\
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Post by: Redball on 02 Jul 2014, 19:30
Speaking of which, after reading Paul's ambisonics website, I looked at the Zoom H2N and lusted a little for it. Which is quite irrational; I have no plans to record anyone. I do have a Tascam stereo mic attachment for the iPhone and I have used that a little. That's enough.
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Post by: tragic_pizza on 02 Jul 2014, 23:43
((Amazing things))

It's official: Pat is the only thing awesomer than this:
(http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y288/superrad076/awesome.jpg)
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Post by: Masterpiece on 03 Jul 2014, 16:43
A little self plug, but meh:

I finished my university assignment today! It was to write the game Flappy Bird, complete with your own sounds, art, assets, etc. Since I can't draw for shit, I just picked up pen and paper and sketched away.

The final result looks better than I expected:

(http://i.imgur.com/2O9qGjT.png)
(http://i.imgur.com/QDc9PLj.png)
(http://i.imgur.com/2rjGnFn.png)
(http://i.imgur.com/9a5tMpw.png)

edit: with video too!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 04 Jul 2014, 02:47
My friend from church, who is around 40 I think and whose sons I babysit for, came over for tea this morning. I'd mentioned I was seeing someone when I last spoke to her, and she asked me about it today. I hedged round the issue for a bit and then just told her straight out "it's a woman". I've spent the last year not coming out to her, because I wasn't sure how she'd take it, and her response was "well, I've known for ages". Right. OK. Seems I'm the only person in the world without operational gaydar.
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Post by: Metope on 04 Jul 2014, 03:00
My gaydar is pretty weak too. But hey! Someone from church knows and they don't seem to mind! That's great news :)
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Post by: tragic_pizza on 04 Jul 2014, 03:10
Well, I have a huge problem with church people who DO have a problem with other people's sexual orientation or gender identity.
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Post by: Thrillho on 04 Jul 2014, 04:02
Most of my homosexual experiences have been with ostensibly straight guys, so fuck knows.
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Post by: Loki on 04 Jul 2014, 05:01
I find it interesting that people always mention a "gaydar", but never a "bidar".

I have a very weak gaydar, so I have gone straight to assuming everyone is bi unless stated otherwise - safes a bit of time *only half joking*

Also, I find the concept of a gaydar slightly problematic,  since to me it seems to imply that there are specific brhaviors which allow you to reliably "spot" gay people, a notion which I find slightly irksome.
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Post by: ev4n on 04 Jul 2014, 06:06
My friend from church, who is around 40 I think and whose sons I babysit for, came over for tea this morning. I'd mentioned I was seeing someone when I last spoke to her, and she asked me about it today. I hedged round the issue for a bit and then just told her straight out "it's a woman". I've spent the last year not coming out to her, because I wasn't sure how she'd take it, and her response was "well, I've known for ages". Right. OK. Seems I'm the only person in the world without operational gaydar.

To be fair, my hindsight gaydar is 20/20 too!
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Post by: GarandMarine on 04 Jul 2014, 07:29
This is two mornings in a row I've basically woken up with a hangover... But I haven't been drinking
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Post by: Lines on 04 Jul 2014, 07:35
I've had that feeling when the quality of sleep I'd gotten was really shitty. Maybe take some melatonin or something?

Well, I have a huge problem with church people who DO have a problem with other people's sexual orientation or gender identity.

Big serious high five for you. o/
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 04 Jul 2014, 09:16
Also, I find the concept of a gaydar slightly problematic,  since to me it seems to imply that there are specific brhaviors which allow you to reliably "spot" gay people, a notion which I find slightly irksome.

I always thought that is implied that there weren't specific behaviours and you just picked up on their "gayness" regardless of external traits. Mind you, that sits well with me because I've good intuition for sexual identity and it doesn't really relate to behaviours.
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Post by: pwhodges on 04 Jul 2014, 11:53
Amazon Logistics (in the UK, at least) is at the lowest level of incompetent.  Today they tried to deliver my package to an obviously business address at 7pm, when the building is closed.  They are going to try again tomorrow, at the weekend, when the building will be closed.  Maybe they'll do better on Monday - but in the past they have on occasion failed to find the address at all*, even though it has its own postcode so that any GPS will guide them to the front door.  I think they use out-of-work pizza-delivery drones.  When I remember, I select any method of delivery that avoids using Amazon Logistics, but I forgot this time...

* There was an amazing time they looked for an Oxford address in Edinburgh, and then sent the goods back to the warehouse and cancelled my order.
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Post by: pwhodges on 04 Jul 2014, 16:04
My new microphones arrived from India in a little under three days!

This is what I got:
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I'm now just waiting for an email with the calibration files and software to be able to use it properly.
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Post by: Redball on 04 Jul 2014, 18:56
Also from your ambisonics page, I had glanced at the Brahma site. Enjoy!
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Post by: tragic_pizza on 04 Jul 2014, 21:11
Big serious high five for you. o/
\o
Thanks!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Jul 2014, 13:33
All my other church friends knew - my closest friend is one of the priests and she's known pretty much since we met. It was just because I was babysitting their kids that I didn't tell this friend sooner; I knew it wasn't in the slightest bit relevant to my ability to take care of their children but I always worry that my sexuality might affect people's view of me professionally.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 05 Jul 2014, 14:09
Has it in the past?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Jul 2014, 14:33
Nope. It's mainly irrational, but the fact is that for many people homophobia is a very real and painful experience. I guess I'm just waiting for the other shoe to drop.
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Post by: LTK on 06 Jul 2014, 07:21
Got breathing troubles on Thursday. Went to the ER, they made an x-ray, saw that my right lung had detached from the chest cavity. So they stuck a suction tube into my chest for 32 hours, did another x-ray, and sent me home on Saturday, all patched up.

The best thing is, I'm not even a citizen in this country. They only needed my health insurance card and that was it. So allow me to say: Fuck yeah, European healthcare!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jul 2014, 07:24
I, uh, I didn't know that lungs could do that. I am very glad they've fixed it!
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Post by: Aimless on 06 Jul 2014, 07:25
Dude, that sounds like a helluva weekend :o hope you're feeling well now and congratulations on surviving Skåne University Hospital :P
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Post by: LTK on 06 Jul 2014, 09:36
Thanks... is that surprising? I think they did a good job. Fortunately it was not very stressful as I knew exactly what the condition was about and how it's treated. It's happened before, just not so bad that it required treatment. I was surprised I walked out of that hospital feeling 99% okay, my lung was already back to normal the day before and it was really the chest tube that caused the most discomfort. Turns out, there are not many muscles that don't exert force on your ribs when you're trying to move. I could hardly lift my arm or sit upright without it hurting like hell. But once that was out I was totally fine. Back to work tomorrow!
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Post by: Patrick on 06 Jul 2014, 16:25
((Amazing things))

It's official: Pat is the only thing awesomer than this:
(http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y288/superrad076/awesome.jpg)

wait, what have I ever done? hodgy is Paul :P
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Post by: Lines on 06 Jul 2014, 19:19
Hey you were on that Baltic Idol show thing once. That was really interesting to read about. That was a thing you did.
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Post by: Akima on 06 Jul 2014, 19:29
Would it be excessively grouchy to point out what is missing from that Star Wars picture?
(click to show/hide)

Edit: I just noticed this was my four thousandth posting on the forum.
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Post by: jwhouk on 06 Jul 2014, 19:35
I think it's because the original picture (http://www.telkoth.net/wh33/Star%20Wars%20Rock%20Band.jpg) was cut off in the one posted.

That picture, by the way, is probably older than some posters on here.
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Post by: tragic_pizza on 06 Jul 2014, 21:00
Nope. It's mainly irrational, but the fact is that for many people homophobia is a very real and painful experience. I guess I'm just waiting for the other shoe to drop.
There is nothing irrational about protecting yourself.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 07 Jul 2014, 00:07
I think it's because the original picture (http://www.telkoth.net/wh33/Star%20Wars%20Rock%20Band.jpg) was cut off in the one posted.

Yea, but you could still have fit Leia on it quite easily.
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Post by: ev4n on 07 Jul 2014, 06:45
After triathlon, then getting sick, then going straight back to working until midnight again, this past weekend was exactly what I needed.  Some down time playing Crusader Kings 2, an 8km hike on Saturday, a nap on Sunday afternoon, then curling up with a murder mystery in front of the window and watching the neighbourhood fade to electric lighting while the mystery unfolded, with music playing in the background.

Just.  Just exactly what I needed I think.  sigh.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 08 Jul 2014, 13:59
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Post by: Patrick on 08 Jul 2014, 16:10
^ I AM SO FUCKING HARD RIGHT NOW
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Jul 2014, 04:58
Amazon Logistics (in the UK, at least) is at the lowest level of incompetent.  Today they tried to deliver my package to an obviously business address at 7pm, when the building is closed.

That package was delivered yesterday; today they have just emailed to say that this morning when the building was open they failed to deliver another package.  They truly are unbelievably incompetent!

I just checked their tracking; this time they attempted to deliver before 8am, which is when the office opens.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Jul 2014, 05:28
Most shipping companies in the U.S. don't deliver to RESIDENCES outside of normal business hours, nevermind to actual businesses.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 09 Jul 2014, 05:57
The German postal services is belligerently incompetent. They refuse to deliver packages to our flat and then forget to give us the failed delivery slip. When calling their hotline, it takes hours to connect with someone.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 09 Jul 2014, 06:20
The German postal services is belligerently incompetent. They refuse to deliver packages to our flat and then forget to give us the failed delivery slip. When calling their hotline, it takes hours to connect with someone.

I use their service where they'll deliver a package into something like a big shared post box, which you can then unlock using a card and a mobile PIN. I love it when they just redirect my packages into  a different post box than I specified. Once it was just great. I had two shipments arrive on the same day. The first one, the small one, was delivered to the post office instead, which has really bad business hours, and the second one was delivered to a different shared post box in the other end of the city. And I really mean the other end. That was an hour by train away. Thank you, DHL. You're doing a terrific job.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 09 Jul 2014, 07:04
See! That's what I mean!
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Post by: Loki on 09 Jul 2014, 07:38
A fried of mine always has trouble with the post.
He once had a package delivered to such a shared box. Upon arriving there, he realized it was literally fenced in because of some building project. So he couldn't pick it up.
Then, of course, they started sending him messages along the lines of "Hey, you still haven't picked up your package! Make sure you do, otherwise it will go back to the sender!"...
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Post by: ankhtahr on 09 Jul 2014, 09:13
yeah, the people who fill these boxes don't give any fucks. None at all. I remember somebody who had a package redirected to a new box. And I mean really new. As in, the concrete in front of it hadn't dried yet, and there were fucking footprints of the guy who filled the box in it.  :psyduck:

But I still use this service, as I'm never at home, and neither are my landlords, so I always have to pick up the packages at the post office. And when you have a day/night schedule like I have, 9 am to 12:30 pm and 2 pm to 6 pm aren't really great times to go to the post office, as it's 20 minutes by bike away from the university. When I'm cycling fast.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Jul 2014, 11:17
I applied for a job as a student ambassador at my university and the closing date was July 8th. I am now antsy to hear back from them - I can't see any reason why I wouldn't be called for interview, because I am perfect for this job (I have lots of relevant experience, I am already taking an active part in collaborating with academic staff to improve the student experience, and I write a damn good application form) but the one thing I'm worried about is that there's this weird process where you have to fill out a ridiculously lengthy spreadsheet to "register" with the Uni Jobs website, which I only found out about after I had sent off my "expression of interest". According to the website, you need to register before you can apply, but the email inviting applications said nothing about registration and although I've started, I'm maybe about half way through the spreadsheet and it's already taken me several hours. I have to grade myself on various skills and then provide evidence of them, and there are hundreds of the damn things. I'm running out of unique examples of my teamwork skills, ability to respond to changing situations, creative problem-solving, critical thinking skills, etc.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 10 Jul 2014, 13:05
Once I had a problem with my bike in Amsterdam that was occasionally noticable but never bothersome, until one day it just got too bad and broke down. So I took it to the repair shop and they made a simple fix, and I was on my way again. But very soon afterwards the same problem started occurring again, but since I just got from the repair shop I really didn't want to go back there, as even more repairs would be lengthy and expensive so I just took the inconvenience of using a slightly broken bike over the inconvenience of fixing it.

Now I'm basically facing the same question again, only instead of my bike it's my body that's gone back to being defective just after being discharged from the hospital. So I can wait and see if it heals by itself or go back to the hospital for further treatment. I really hope it can be the former, this sucks.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 10 Jul 2014, 13:09
LTK, your body is arguably worth more than a bike, and iirc you are in a country where you have insurance, right?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Jul 2014, 13:11
If the hospital discharged you it's because they thought the issue was resolved. If it's not resolved, go back until they tell you that they can't resolve it ever.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 10 Jul 2014, 14:10
LTK, your body is arguably worth more than a bike, and iirc you are in a country where you have insurance, right?
I am well aware. I mentioned insurance, yes, so money isn't an issue, but the inconvenience of prolonged medical treatment is like a hundred times that of having my bike fixed. So it's still kind of the same!

The doctor did mention a way to fix it permanently, if it happened again in two weeks or a month. I didn't expect it to be necessary three days later.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Jul 2014, 02:41
I'm being greeted by random people at university who I've never met before.

Why
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Detachable Felix on 11 Jul 2014, 03:50
I'll paraphrase Gareth and suggest it's because you're dreamy  :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aimless on 11 Jul 2014, 04:22
Now I'm basically facing the same question again, only instead of my bike it's my body that's gone back to being defective just after being discharged from the hospital. So I can wait and see if it heals by itself or go back to the hospital for further treatment. I really hope it can be the former, this sucks.

If what happened to you was a second episode of a primary spontaneous pneumothorax then you should probably get some sort of pleurodesis anyway when it's feasible to prevent another episode.

If you're experiencing the same (or similar) symptoms now as you did when you had to get a chest-tube then it doesn't actually hurt to just call and ask whether or not they'd like you to come in, how long you should give it, what you should be on the lookout for and maybe if they can't just plan to give you whatever treatment it was they'd been considering. It's not unusual to feel discomfort after a pneumothorax and getting a chest-tube, but there's a fair chance of it happening again (provided I'm thinking of the correct diagnosis, and, if I'm not, call anyway).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 11 Jul 2014, 04:49
Yeah I sent them an e-mail and a doctor replied saying I should come back for an x-ray if it hasn't gone away after the weekend. It's not as bad as it was before, so I'm fine with waiting.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Jul 2014, 05:08
It's so amazing to have a resident doctor on the forum.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Jul 2014, 08:16
I was confused because I thought that was a response to the random-greetings thing.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 11 Jul 2014, 08:39
I must admit that until now, the fact that Aimless is a doctor totally escaped my notice.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aimless on 11 Jul 2014, 09:08
Stop smoking and eat an apple or I'm coming for you :x :)

I work in the shadows (http://31.media.tumblr.com/71512ec0839e4ca708c900ca76ecd6ac/tumblr_myrmp7gf2T1rjk51yo1_400.gif) and am usually careful to avoid doctoring online for various reasons, not least of which is wanting to keep my professional and online lives separate, but I've had so few patients this week that I've been looking around for things to meddle in. For the most part you may pretend that I am not a doctor because my response will almost always be, "Have you seen your GP about this?" which is the medical equivalent of, "Have you tried turning it off and on again?"

I was confused because I thought that was a response to the random-greetings thing.

I must confess, to my shame, that I was going to reply to his post with, "Have you seen your GP about this?" :( But perhaps it's because you're looking especially happy and friendly and welcoming and fresh today MP :)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 11 Jul 2014, 09:24
Do I have to eat an apple too? I'm fructose intolerant  :cry:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Jul 2014, 09:45
When people used to ask me for legal advice, I would say "in my opinion as someone with a law degree, you should... go ask a real lawyer". Now if people ask me for pregnancy advice, assuming they are just my friends and not my mentor's caseload women, I say "ask your midwife". It's like taxis. If you don't prebook, you're not insured.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Jul 2014, 10:00
See, when you study computer sciences, saying that is considered an insult!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Jul 2014, 10:03
I really have no idea what you are talking about.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: cesium133 on 11 Jul 2014, 10:04
If you're considered by family or friends to be a "computer expert" they'll ask you for help with their computers, and some people will get angry if you say no. At least that's what I think he was saying.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Jul 2014, 10:06
what cesium said.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 11 Jul 2014, 11:32
But it all evens out, see, because someone who's an expert at fixing computers will likely be equally clueless as to what's wrong (http://stilldrinking.org/programming-sucks) with your friend's/mom's/dog's computer as the guy they know who studies computer science.

Though it's just as unadvisable to have someone who thinks they know what they're doing muck around with your computer as with your body or legal matters. I was in a study group once with a girl whose laptop couldn't get wireless internet because at one time her 'friend who knows about computers' uninstalled a bunch of stuff, including the driver for the wireless modem.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Pilchard123 on 11 Jul 2014, 11:38
So a doctor rings a plumber in the middle of the night. "You've got to come over here right now! The toilet is overflowing and flooding my house!", he says.

The plumber is not pleased to be woken. "No", he says. "You woke me up. Your toilet would have been broken all day, they don't just spontaneously burst. I'm not coming."

"Please!" says the doctor. "What would you expect me to do if you'd rung me with an emergency?"

The plumber thinks for a few seconds, then replies "Okay, put two aspirin down it and call me in the morning."
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 11 Jul 2014, 12:46
But it all evens out, see, because someone who's an expert at fixing computers will likely be equally clueless as to what's wrong (http://stilldrinking.org/programming-sucks) with your friend's/mom's/dog's computer as the guy they know who studies computer science.

As a theory-focused CS student, I resent the implication I know how to deal with whatever piece of silicium and plastic is chosen to implement a Turing machine :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 11 Jul 2014, 12:50
It's like taxis. If you don't prebook, you're not insured.

Meanwhile, I have no idea what this is supposed to mean.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aimless on 11 Jul 2014, 13:39
I don't mind offering some advice when necessary and appropriate to family, friends, colleagues and sometimes even random people who happen to be nearby (if they ask) but the internet is different! It's basically my little hidey-hole and also I can't use my eyes, ears and hands, nor can I conduct a proper medical interview, so it's just worse all 'round.

Being family tech-support is a great and heavy responsibility :( sometimes I frickin' hate computers
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 11 Jul 2014, 15:09
There was a public sector strike in the UK yesterday so, as a non union member and relatively new employee I was having a quiet day in the office. That was until I got a call on my phone around 16.30.

"I'm in A&E"

It was my wife. My heart sank. In a fraction of a second, all manner of horrors flashed before me. As cyclists, it's always that worry that pervades. Calls during rush hour, the commute taking longer than usual, the run of sirens in the distance. A&E means a Rider Down situation and that's never good.

As my wife tells me that she's been there all day I remember that she was driving today. She went to the GP this morning to see about The Pill which needed changing and to talk about some worrying symptoms which she thought was indicative of a blood clot. Since about 9am they've been slowly working their way through tests and while they think she might be right, they haven't been able to find anything.

I call out of work early and rush on over. After the horrors of navigating my way round of all of Sheffield's Northern General Hospital I manage to track her down to the CDU, Clinical Decisions Unit. I find her tucked into the corner of a waiting area looking tired and pale. She hasn't had to do a lot but lots of waiting around not knowing what's going on over medical matters is a pretty draining affair. We talk a bit about what's happening to her and I'm issued to the vending machine for more eats (once I've determined they aren't planning anything requiring nil by mouth) as she hasn't had anything in a while.

Due to the absence of bike racks I've locked to the underside of a handy fire escape. Not in the way but undesirable enough to warrant  going back out to find something better. When I return my wife has been taken somewhere else so I'm left to sit nervously in the waiting area for something to happen. 20 horrible minutes later I'm summoned into a treatment bay.

The diagnosis is in, it's blood clots. On the lungs. She's been given a jab of Warfarin in the stomach and told she needs to be kept in overnight. We sit there and she's scared so I don't get to be. That's the kind of relationship we have, if one of us is loosing it, it's down to the other one to hold it together and keep the show running. As the compartmentaliser, that's mostly my job. As it sinks in, we work out that I need to go home and pick up the essential overnight stuff. Clothes, laptop, phones, knitting, entertainment. I'll need to take the car as well.

It's my wife's company car. I'm not insured to drive it*. I can't have an accident in it, even one that isn't my fault. Adding another level of stress that I could happily do without. About the time I'm pulling away it begins to properly hit me. Blood clots, bad enough on the lungs but if one of them starts to move and it could be a stroke, a heart attack, something fatal. But I can't react now because I've got things to do and I need to do it very carefully. I do that switching off thing, shut out all the reasons, rationalise everything to the nth degree and just focus on the simple mechanical things you're doing.

Back at the hospital and it's outside of visiting hours. Fortunately the ward staff have seen enough partners and family of patients. Give them some latitude and patient is easier to treat as well. We talk, my wife is feeling well enough, pleased to have her own things and some non-hospital food. She missed dinner while being treated and has only managed to get some toast out of the hospital staff. I suspect individual kindness over a special from the kitchen. I get some looks from the staff and it's clear it's time to go. Time to leave my wife in unfamiliar surroundings with a potentially lifethreatening condition.

Back in the car and I can feel myself wavering. Switch off again, you've got to get home. Close to home I realise I'm hungry. I haven't eaten since lunchtime and I'm in no mood to cook now. I pull up outside the local Chinese takeaway. I can't get out of the car. I know that if I walk into the takeaway I won't be able to decide what to order and I'm pretty sure that means I'm going to cry. I carry on home and cry over cooking beans on toast instead. I've never felt more pathetic and useless in my life. I tried to write last night but couldn't. If I run through that panic, switch off cycle a couple of time then I have to pay for it. A mental collapse of sorts with next to no sleep. Made worse because the one person I really need is not too far away but completely unreachable.

This morning bought better news, no issues overnight, free to go home. Moved onto an oral Warfarin subsitute and instructed to do nothing strenuous for the next three weeks. Apparently even walking into town is off the list. Tough medicine for a very active person but doable.

*Yes, I know, it wasn't legal. I didn't do it lightly, this met my criteria for exceptional circumstances.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 11 Jul 2014, 16:05
Shit, that's a terrible thing to happen to you both. Way too many hospital-related events in this thread. You seem to have handled it pretty well though. Glad to see that your wife is going to be okay.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aimless on 11 Jul 2014, 16:13
:(

I hope you two're doing all right under the circumstances... :(

For what it's worth, clots that go to the lungs tend to go no further than the lungs, because the lungs act as a net that's basically impenetrable to clots. In a few very rare occasions, with some people who have a small hole between two parts of their heart (from birth), clots can skip the lungs and go to the brain, but that's basically an episode of House MD.

Some people have a higher risk of getting blood clots because of an underlying difference in how their blood works. Sometimes you can get clues about such underlying factors from previous diseases, family history of clots, previous miscarriages and sometimes you can find clues in specific lab-tests. Have you heard from your doctors about what they suspect caused the clot, putting aside the issue of the pill?



My thoughts are with you two. My mum was diagnosed with a pulmonary embolism early this year, way way late because they misjudged her symptoms and I couldn't force her doctors to do perform the right investigations. It came from a DVT, a clot in a deep vein in one of her legs, and it'd caused her to become very easily winded and feel very poorly. In her case they decided to go with a six month course of Warfarin rather than the more modern alternatives, but it went all right in the end. Recovering from something like this takes a while and it may be especially frustrating to an active person who'll hate feeling the effect clots can have on their lungs. But it gets better with treatment, time and training. Best of luck to you both.

And, even if you have to keep it together at home... you don't have to here.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 11 Jul 2014, 16:22
Sending good thoughts to you and yours... When I get back to my alter I'll definitely offer sacrifice and prayer
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Jul 2014, 00:34
TSK, I'm so glad that the hospital disagnosed the problem and set about treating it quickly. Sounds like your wife has a great supportive partner to help her through this - I'll pray for both of you, and for what it's worth I'd have absolutely driven the car illegally in that situation too. And I reckon most police officers would have let you off if they'd pulled you over too. But I'm glad you didn't have to test the theory.


It's like taxis. If you don't prebook, you're not insured.

Meanwhile, I have no idea what this is supposed to mean.

In the UK, there are taxis that pull up on the street and you can hail them like people do in films. There are also taxis that you have to phone up for and book - with those ones, their insurance only covers pre-booked rides so if you get one to stop and pick you up then it's a) illegal and b) stupid because of the lack of insurance.

The analogy was that if you're not on my caseload (we're pretending I'm actually a qualified midwife here) then I'm not insured in respect of the advice I give to you, so if something goes wrong then you'll be shit out of luck for getting any compensation and I'll be fired.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 12 Jul 2014, 02:29
This morning bought better news, no issues overnight, free to go home. Moved onto an oral Warfarin subsitute and instructed to do nothing strenuous for the next three weeks. Apparently even walking into town is off the list. Tough medicine for a very active person but doable.
My sympathies and thoughts are with you and your wife, and I'm glad she's getting treatment and can come home.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 12 Jul 2014, 13:19
Hugs, TSK.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 12 Jul 2014, 15:46
TSK, amigo, I'm really sorry to hear you guys are going through such stressful, scary shit. I don't envy you your situation. I'll be thinking of y'all.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 13 Jul 2014, 12:00
Thanks to all for the kind words.

We're beyond the immediate panic stage and into the cautious monitoring and managing the treatment stage. Far less stressful and a couple of days ago. Still discussing what constitutes taking it easy.

Have you heard from your doctors about what they suspect caused the clot, putting aside the issue of the pill?

They're not really looking at it. There's no medical history that would suggest anything more likely than the pill. There's a few previous injuries and a long standing risk of asbestosis but nothing that significant. In terms of age she's at a transitional point where the previous contraceptive drugs need to be exchanged for Oestrogen only due to a shift in the balance of risks.

There's been a decline in performance recently which is symptomatic of the development of clots. Interestingly though, until the diagnosis, Andy never stopped pushing against this. However, now there's a reason for it and any strenuous activity being proscribed, all the weakness has come to the fore. Obviously taking blood thinning drugs is going to have an effect but it follows the old cycling adage, it's not the riding that kills you, it's the stopping.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 13 Jul 2014, 12:24
Uh, so I kinda ODed on caffeine a little. I often mix a bit of kola nut and guaraná powder into my cocoa, and I took a little bit more today. I had the glorious idea to calculate the amount of caffeine after drinking it. Turns out that I took two teaspoons each, with 5 grams of powder on each teaspoon. So 10 grams of kola nut and 10 grams of guaraná. My calculator tells me that that should be around 900mg of caffeine, depending on the strength of the powders.

I'm just glad that the caffeine is buffered in these powders, so it's not all active at once. I feel fine actually.

I definitely need to be more careful with these powders.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: jwhouk on 13 Jul 2014, 12:40
So... About 10 grande lattes, or about three-fourths of a case of Mountain Dew (sans HFCS).

Yeah, I'd say you're wired.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: celticgeek on 13 Jul 2014, 12:44
If you are interested in strong coffee, check here. (http://deathwishcoffee.com/)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aimless on 13 Jul 2014, 12:46
I definitely need to be more careful with these powders.

If you want to have even the slightest hope of getting a normal sleep-cycle that isn't wholly dependent on pharmaceutical assistance, yes, yes I think you do need to cut own on those things  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Jul 2014, 12:54
You're bordering on toxic levels of caffeine there. Caffeine overdose can also produce symptoms similar to depression and anxiety and causes panic attacks. The maximum level considered safe is about 500mg.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 13 Jul 2014, 13:26
Yeah, I definitely know this. I expected to feel a lot worse right now. Doesn't mean I'm going to do this mistake again of course. I'll admit, I never really calculated the amount of caffeine in these powders, and as I didn't notice anything with them before I put a bit more into my cocoa. That's the big advantage and the big problem with those natural caffeine sources. As the caffeine is buffered in them you don't notice the caffeine so strongly and are inclined to take more. On the other hand that is what saves me from completely freaking out right now. The full 900mg are not all active at the same time.

My sleep schedule has become a lot better over the last week though.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Jul 2014, 13:31
How does it save you from freaking out? I'm intrigued because caffeine seriously messes me up, it causes me to feel anxious, panicky and stressed and just one cup of coffee can ruin an entire day for me.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 13 Jul 2014, 13:41
In coffee and in caffeine pills the caffeine is pure, and not bound to anything, so it goes into the bloodstream immediately. In kola nut and in guaraná (like in Tea) the caffeine is bound by tannins (I hope this is the right word, it's more specific than the German term which is used to describe these) so the caffeine has to be freed before it can go into the blood stream, which results in a much softer and longer effect of the caffeine.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Jul 2014, 13:48
But how does it stop you freaking out?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 13 Jul 2014, 13:49
Ah, I think you misunderstood what I meant up there. I meant that I would freak out from this amount of caffeine, if it wasn't for this buffered effect.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Jul 2014, 14:13
Oh right that makes sense. I had misunderstood.

You said that this was "a bit more" than you'd usually have. How much more? If you're regularly consuming more than 500mg of caffeine a day you're really putting your health at risk.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 13 Jul 2014, 14:17
Oh right that makes sense. I had misunderstood.

You said that this was "a bit more" than you'd usually have. How much more? If you're regularly consuming more than 500mg of caffeine a day you're really putting your health at risk.
Well, it was two teaspoons more than usual, and it was two teaspoons of the powder with more caffeine than the other. So the amount of caffeine I usually put into my cocoa (and not every day) is about 350mg.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Jul 2014, 14:24
Out of interest, why do you add caffeine?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 13 Jul 2014, 14:29
Because I tend to have big difficulties getting out of bed and out of the house. There are many, many days where I lie in bed for several hours before being able to get up, get ready and go to university, so this cocoa with caffeine gives me the sugar and thus energy to get me up and running. I don't need it, and it's not caused by being addicted to caffeine, I've only done this a few times so far. I should better see how far I can reduce the dosage and still have enough energy to get up, before I really need this jumpstart due to caffeinism.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Jul 2014, 14:33
I'm just concerned that what you're using as a short-term solution will turn out to be a long-term cause of the problem you're trying to fix. As Aimless says, it is probably really messing with your sleep patterns and if part of the issue is mental-health related then it won't be helping there either.

I don't want to sound nagging or critical but I am concerned about you. Caffeine is a drug and you're essentially self-medicating in a potentially dangerous way. Do you envisage a point at which your life circumstances will have changed such that you don't need to use caffeine in this way? If not, is there anything you can do to try and engineer that change? Even things that you really don't want to have to do, or aren't sure you'd be able to do.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Pilchard123 on 13 Jul 2014, 14:35
You can stop at any time, hm? :P
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Post by: Masterpiece on 13 Jul 2014, 15:04
The only addiction I have is probably to alcohol. I've never allowed myself to get addicted to coffee (and while I have a soda stream machine at home, I don't have a coffee maker). I could see myself being a weed smoker, but then I've never for the life of it figured out how to buy drugs, so I never had the opportunity. I do partake in it sometimes with friends, but that doesn't happen often enough to warrant an addiction label. I don't enjoy the taste of cigarettes and get a nicotine flash too quickly, but then I do smoke every once in a while out of stupidity.

But alcohol is a problem, since it also is arguably the most dangerous drug and I've been known to become an idiot after drinking. I've made a lot of horrible decisions while drunk and have started or exacerbated many an argument while under the influence. In fact, all the fights I've had with people from Munich started when I was drunk. I don't drink on my own and since I don't get out very often I get drunk because of lowered tolerance. Over the years I've come to accept that I'm no longer sixteen year old Masterpiece who could drink a bottle of tequila and live to two the tale, but I still manage to shoot overboard most of the time I'm out drinking (which almost always happens when I'm out with friends).

I lose my inhibitions quickly and get very amused at things. I also lose a lot of self-control, and that will mean that, either the dam breaks and I get very very sad very quickly, or I will become a sensitive pissy idiot, ready to start a fight. In bad situations I get so angry that I turn literally deaf from rage, an in good moments, I have left venues so I can regain control over myself. Other times I haven't been that lucky.

Now that summer is here, my annual summer vacation at our summer house in Turkey is imminent. It means I'll get to be the driver of the family again and gives me a reason to practice abstinence. I always welcome this time. It's like I find an excuse not to drink that I don't have otherwise. And not drinking is absolutely no problem at all. What I find annoying are the friends and acquaintances that will always try to persuade you to drink otherwise. A common thing I hear in such instances is "oh one drink is okay". It really isn't in my opinion. Why do people actively want to make me risk my life so I can indulge in my only vice?


/rant. Sorry.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 13 Jul 2014, 15:10
Ditch all bitches who try to pressure you into something. For whom are you drinking then, other than for someone else who is not going to have to live with any of the consequences.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Pilchard123 on 13 Jul 2014, 15:10
Have you told them what you just told us?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 13 Jul 2014, 15:23
When I get drunk, I find myself incredibly funny and it numbs whatever sadness troubles me at the moment. Like I am watching a show with only a passing interest in the troubled protagonist on screen, while goofing off with my friends. So generally speaking, I am not particularly unpleasant to be around while drunk (I hope).

I also usually get drunk really fast, although I recently discovered I can hold a lot more alcohol than I thought.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 13 Jul 2014, 15:36
Today at my new job I managed to finish an hour earlier than the previous two days and without any big panic moments. I'm actually not sure what time I'm expected to stay to so I tidied the office for fifteen minutes and intended to do some paperwork but I couldn't find what I needed in the filing cabinet. Anything else I know how to do requires logins which I don't have yet and the only thing that doesn't require a login, there was a note specifically telling me not to do it.

Also been doing double shifts this weekend but my manager forgot to put me on this week's rota. Usually I'd be more pissed but I can't wait to have a couple days off.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 13 Jul 2014, 15:43
Ditch all bitches who try to pressure you into something.
This, basically. I am not much of a drinker, and I have sometimes had similar problems with people urging alcohol on me.

Have you told them what you just told us?
Should he have to? Why isn't a simple "No, thank you" enough? Isn't it a bit of a dick move to demand justifications? Technically I should abstain (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Five_Precepts) from all "intoxicants", but should I have to discuss that, or the fact that I'm not completely rigid about it, with random acquaintances in a bar?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 13 Jul 2014, 16:03
May, I definitely appreciate your worries. I won't need this for quite a while after next week, because the lectures will end then. I can't guarantee for the time after that, but I'll definitely try my best without caffeine.

In other news: I just got told that I have the voice of a audiobook narrator. Don't know about this, and the person who told me that is austrian, so it might just be that she's not used to german without an austrian accent, but I like to hear that. Some people here heard me on mumble (and one even in person). What would you say about my voice? I was already considering starting a podcast one day, so it'd be nice to have some feedback.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 13 Jul 2014, 16:11
Huh. Am I really the only one who met you in person?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 13 Jul 2014, 16:14
Yes, yes you are. You should feel honored!  :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 13 Jul 2014, 16:14
I'm in Germany. There was noise outside.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 13 Jul 2014, 16:21
fucking people sounding their fucking horns at fucking 1 am. stupid fucking world championship. Masterpiece put it well:

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Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 13 Jul 2014, 16:53
Have you told them what you just told us?
You know what, I did. They still do it though.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 13 Jul 2014, 17:57
Maybe just come up with a one- or two-line answer - "I'm not drinking right now. I don't like what it does to my mood." - and stick with it whenever anyone tries to push you. You don't owe anyone an explanation, but people should be able to remember when they get the same response every time.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: tragic_pizza on 13 Jul 2014, 21:37
When people used to ask me for legal advice, I would say "in my opinion as someone with a law degree, you should... go ask a real lawyer". Now if people ask me for pregnancy advice, assuming they are just my friends and not my mentor's caseload women, I say "ask your midwife". It's like taxis. If you don't prebook, you're not insured.
One of the things about being a part-time preacher is, no one ever asks me for free theological advice.

GIVING me free theological advice, on the other hand...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 13 Jul 2014, 22:05
Good day.


Have you accepted Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 13 Jul 2014, 23:27
Yes, yes you are. You should feel honored!  :mrgreen:
Now that I think about it, so should you - you are, after all, also the first forumite I met in real life.

As for your voice, I honestly have no idea :/ Sorry.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 14 Jul 2014, 00:13
Good day.


Have you accepted Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior?
You never get asked this when wearing a certain CoF shirt. Thank the lord.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 14 Jul 2014, 00:56
Should he have to? Why isn't a simple "No, thank you" enough? Isn't it a bit of a dick move to demand justifications? Technically I should abstain (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Five_Precepts) from all "intoxicants", but should I have to discuss that, or the fact that I'm not completely rigid about it, with random acquaintances in a bar?

This is why I was teetotal for years. I got drunk off my ass as a teenager once and decided I didn't like it and spent the next few years being constantly pressurised by people who demanded that I drink.

I started drinking again when I was at university and someone actually bothered to politely ask me 'would you like a drink?' instead of trying to bully me into it and say that I had to drink because it was a party. Being finally given the choice was enough to get me to try it again.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: tragic_pizza on 14 Jul 2014, 01:00
Good day.


Have you accepted Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior?
More like, "If you don't agree with me on Issue X, you aren't a True Christiantm!"
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: idontunderstand on 14 Jul 2014, 01:14
"I don't drink. Boxers don't drink." Always worked fine for me (even when it wasn't true).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Lupercal on 14 Jul 2014, 03:09
May, I definitely appreciate your worries. I won't need this for quite a while after next week, because the lectures will end then. I can't guarantee for the time after that, but I'll definitely try my best without caffeine.

In other news: I just got told that I have the voice of a audiobook narrator. Don't know about this, and the person who told me that is austrian, so it might just be that she's not used to german without an austrian accent, but I like to hear that. Some people here heard me on mumble (and one even in person). What would you say about my voice? I was already considering starting a podcast one day, so it'd be nice to have some feedback.

If you want to try narration, try https://librivox.org/ - you can volunteer to narrate an audiobook.

And in a very selfish way I think I have similar feelings towards drinking that a lot of people here do. My greed has gotten in the way of me having a pleasant time before - ie, drinking too much and then constantly being reminded later on of the shit I got up to and having to laugh it off every time like it was a fun time. It wasn't fun. I'm painfully embarrassed about it. Everybody makes mistakes I suppose, but I feel like at 23 I'm 'done' with going 'on the lash'. Weirdly once I got a full time job after university the number of times I went drinking dramatically decreased, and I chose the people I went to a bar with wisely. Also, when you're going out with work colleagues...you don't want to get shitfaced. I guess only now do I realise that drinking can actually be quite dangerous for me. I'd rather just have a good time.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Jul 2014, 06:52
Good day.


Have you accepted Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior?

No. But do you have a second to hear the good news about C'Thulu, the sleeper who shall awaken?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: cesium133 on 14 Jul 2014, 07:12
Good day.


Have you accepted Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior?
No, but I have accepted him as my gardener.  :roll:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ev4n on 14 Jul 2014, 07:39
As someone who has never had more than 2 drinks in one day, and not more than 1 until I was in my 40s, I'm a bit surprised at all these people being submitted to pressure to drink.  I never really felt that, or if I did, I probably dropped those people so fast I've forgotten, since I have a few too many alcoholics in my family to stand for peer pressure of that sort.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 14 Jul 2014, 07:44
I just won a tiny amount of money in the office World Cup prediction pool, because I am a badass motherfucker and absolute jammy sod.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Jul 2014, 08:49
I've already accepted Jesus Christ as my lord and saviour, and those people make me want to convert back. Street evangelism is just about the most pointless thing - I don't believe anyone has ever had a spontaneous spiritual epiphany due to being accosted by a stranger while doing the weekly shop.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ev4n on 14 Jul 2014, 08:57
I just won a tiny amount of money in the office World Cup prediction pool, because I am a badass motherfucker and absolute jammy sod.

Yup won a gift card at work as well.  /hifive
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: jwhouk on 14 Jul 2014, 13:24
Good day.
Have you accepted Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior?
No, but I have accepted him as my gardener.  :roll:

Actually, he got out of the gardening business after that one really bad night he had with olive trees.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Pilchard123 on 14 Jul 2014, 14:10
Nexus 7 for half price. Not bad.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: tragic_pizza on 16 Jul 2014, 01:56
I've already accepted Jesus Christ as my lord and saviour, and those people make me want to convert back. Street evangelism is just about the most pointless thing - I don't believe anyone has ever had a spontaneous spiritual epiphany due to being accosted by a stranger while doing the weekly shop.
This is especially true of the kind of "street evangelism" I see at colleges and universities, where some moron with a sign listing "Abominations" yammers for hours about who is going to Hell.

I qualify for a window seat on the bus to Perdition on several levels.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 16 Jul 2014, 05:50
Good day. Have you accepted Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior?
I confess that I have occasionally pretended that I don't speak English to avoid such people.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 16 Jul 2014, 05:58
I always say, "sorry my hands are full" and ostentatiously put my hands in my pockets when someone attempts to give me fliers.

I've had a time where Mormons were in my siren kitchen, but that story is too long to tell while mobile.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Redball on 16 Jul 2014, 06:08
You prepare breakfast for your Sirens? Do they sing for their supper?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: cesium133 on 16 Jul 2014, 06:12
I've already accepted Jesus Christ as my lord and saviour, and those people make me want to convert back. Street evangelism is just about the most pointless thing - I don't believe anyone has ever had a spontaneous spiritual epiphany due to being accosted by a stranger while doing the weekly shop.
This is especially true of the kind of "street evangelism" I see at colleges and universities, where some moron with a sign listing "Abominations" yammers for hours about who is going to Hell.

I qualify for a window seat on the bus to Perdition on several levels.
Here we're not very far from the home base of the Westboro Baptist kooks, so they show up at the university every once in a while. Over time I've gradually learned to avoid the South Oval.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 18 Jul 2014, 20:11
I'm in transit back to free skies as of Tuesday! As they used to say, go west young man!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aimless on 19 Jul 2014, 02:56
I always say, "sorry my hands are full" and ostentatiously put my hands in my pockets when someone attempts to give me fliers.

I can usually escape with a friendly but firm, "NO thank you," but when it's Medecins Sans Frontieres I cover my face and run :o

However, on occasion I have let various evangelically inclined people speak with me. My favourite was a gigantic man, who must have been in 40s but with the energy of a 20-y-o, who chatted with me about faith in general for a few minutes while we waited for the train. It was pleasant! We concluded that he consciously placed his faith in God and the Bible while I saw little reason to do so, choosing instead to invest my faith in principles and in people. Neither of our lives were particularly devoid of that sense of awe and wonder and peace and love on which the human heart thrives :o

Because I tend to have big difficulties getting out of bed and out of the house. There are many, many days where I lie in bed for several hours before being able to get up, get ready and go to university

That sort of thing is certainly multifactorial, but, believe it or not, it's also a common sign of inappropriate caffeine-use and associated sleep-ruining behaviors. After a few weeks of regular caffeine-consumption, the real benefits become less noticeable, while the impact on sleep-quality (along with all the other charming effects such as reflux, stomach discomfort, palpitations, etc) becomes more pronounced for many/most people. Beyond that point, the perceived benefits amount to little more than the caffeine compensating--to a small extent--for the negative effects it has caused in the first place. It's like an inadequate apology after the damage has already been done :x

I love coffee :( but I have to periodically stop drinking it completely in order to recover from its effects on my sleep. I then go through a period of great well-being upon which I foolishly resume drinking coffee--just one cup, okay just two cups but only before lunch, okay one more after lunch but only for social reasons--and back I go again to square one. Devil-drug
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 19 Jul 2014, 19:36
Wrote a thank you email to that prof for the interview and included a link to a book I mentioned I was reading.

He replied:  "Also: you're now on the hook to guest teach this two volume Language and Power book in SI658 someday when I teach it again."

As with most of his communications I am not sure how serious he is, but I guess that means I need to finish the book.  :s  It's interesting, but dense, so I've been putting it off.  I think this will give me the sense of panic I need to hop to it. Because what I know of him, and what he knows of my interests and thinks of my skills, he could very well be serious.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 19 Jul 2014, 20:55
I've been cleaning so much the last couple days that wild animals came to help and performed an improvised musical routine... and I don't know how this annoying guy got my number but he won't stop texting! I think his name's Prince something or another... weird name right? Then Disney's lawyers showed up with a C&D. They took all my video footage, but I get to keep the tiara one of the deer gave me!

So basically what I'm saying is it's been a day.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 20 Jul 2014, 12:39
Pedalcar racing today and because it was so brutally hot I spent all of my racing stints with my jersey undone. Just went to get showered after getting home and discovered I have a big V shaped sunburn on my chest.

Classy.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Jul 2014, 13:25
Your love of cleavage baring tops has been your undoing TSK!
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Post by: Patrick on 21 Jul 2014, 19:59
On Thursday night, my good friend Brandon broke his ankle (simply by stepping backwards the wrong way, scary!) and now he can't get up the stairs to his 2nd floor apartment. So now I'm housesitting and taking care of his cat and parakeet! The cat's name is Kitcheri, the parakeet's name is The Admiral. Kitcheri is adorable and sweet, The Admiral is kinda a dick and he doesn't like me trying to feed him (or rather, he probably thinks I'm trying to steal his scraps and doesn't realize I'm replenishing his food and water, the stupid little shit).
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Post by: GarandMarine on 21 Jul 2014, 20:10
The Admiral sounds like a real Admiral I know...
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Jul 2014, 01:07
LIGHTS! LIGHTS! LIGHTS! TIME ON DECK IS 0404! GET ON MY RED LINE! THREE TWO ONE YOU ARE.....

I'm up, eating and getting through my basics. Across from me is a 10 hour drive to Indiana. I am prepared. Let us begin. I follow an American call from long before me and mine came to this country "Go west young man".

Ittekimasu!

Bad ass as that sounds, it's more like this:

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Jul 2014, 12:26
 Woo made it to Indy and cut 90 minutes off my estimated time despite fuck loads of construction
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 22 Jul 2014, 13:37
Wooo!me and GM are in the same state(for now)
But yeah, the construction around I65 can be awful. It seems like something in central Indiana needs a massive construction project.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Jul 2014, 14:06
I took 70 in and it was god awful. Hopefully it's not quite as shitty from here to the Illinois border tomorrow.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: cesium133 on 22 Jul 2014, 14:29
I think I-70 through Illinois is the most flat, boring, and depressing highway I've ever been on.

Granted, I've never driven through Kansas. I've heard terrible things about driving through Kansas.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Jul 2014, 14:41
Having done both, Kansas is the worse drive from just road conditions. It's so boring and samey that it actually induces hallucinations and can lull you to sleep. I would however rather drive Kansas then Illinois. If for some reason I get pulled over by a state trooper in Kansas, and he searches my vehicle, I'm not potentially up for 20 years in prison in Kansas. Despite Federal law I could be in Illinois. (In short, Illinois has very strict gun laws, Federal law protects travelers who are just passing through a state, but Illinois has pulled shady shit before)
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Post by: cesium133 on 22 Jul 2014, 14:57
Ah, heh, I've probably told the story about my uncle freaking out when he found out my dad brought a gun into New Jersey. (New Jersey has a similar law, and enforces it strictly despite any Federal laws contradicting it).
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Jul 2014, 15:06
NJ's fucking terrible about that. MD's pretty awful too, so I try to avoid all three when traveling with weapons, but I did MD this morning and I have no other options really (that wouldn't cost a fortune in time and gas) besides a quick burn across Illinois.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Jul 2014, 15:10
Would it be completely ridiculous to suggest not having the guns in the vehicle? I have no idea whether you're allowed to ship weapons so this might be a stupid thing to ask.
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Post by: Redball on 22 Jul 2014, 15:11
NJ's fucking terrible about that. MD's pretty awful too, so I try to avoid all three when traveling with weapons, but I did MD this morning and I have no other options really (that wouldn't cost a fortune in time and gas) besides a quick burn across Illinois.
Illinois is a short one. A couple of hours on 70 from Terre Haute to St. Louis comes to mind. I drive that twice annually between MI and AZ.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Jul 2014, 15:24
Would it be completely ridiculous to suggest not having the guns in the vehicle? I have no idea whether you're allowed to ship weapons so this might be a stupid thing to ask.

It would for a wide variety of reasons. Cost effectiveness for one. Maintaining positive control of your personal arms for two.

The cost is the worst part. It's extremely expensive to ship firearms via a freight shipper. For one they have to go from FFL (Federal Firearms License, commonly used to indicate an individual who has such a license) to FFL. So I can't ship them myself, I have to turn them over to a third party, who ships them to a fourth party. I then have to go to the fourth party and PAY for my property again. Because I have to do another background check and do another form 4473 (firearms transfer, in this case of my property from the FFL to me), and I'm pretty sure you need to do a form 4473 for each firearm. Now some FFLs will be cool about that, and only charge you one background check fee and one transfer fee, but there's plenty that will charge you an individual transfer fee for each weapon. At $25-50 a weapon that adds up very quickly. $200-400 for the transfer fees + Background Check Fee ($25-$35) and shipping costs $40-50 per rifle and you're very, very quickly in the thousands of dollars. Would you be willing to do that for some of your personal property? Things you've already paid for?

The ridiculous part is that it shouldn't matter if I have the guns in the car or not. As long as they're stowed properly (and mine always are) which is to say in a locked case, separate from ammunition, as long as my weapons are legal in my point of origin, and legal in my destination then Federal law protects, or should protect, me and my property because I'm in transit using the Federal highway system. Certain states like New York, Illinois and New Jersey are however determined to fleece more money off of people, and like most cops, steal their property as well, so you get the usual corruption run around.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Lines on 22 Jul 2014, 15:50
I-70 through Ohio has been under construction for over a year now. I'm pretty damn tired of it.

Actually all of Ohio's highways seem to be under construction.  :x
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 22 Jul 2014, 16:14
It's so boring and samey that it actually induces hallucinations and can lull you to sleep.
This is quite dangerous especially with a solo driver. The Newell Highway in NSW has long, absolutely dead straight sections that are marked in red as a danger zone in my road atlas of Australia because so many people have run off the road, crossed the median line into a truck coming the other way etc. The Newell is single-carriageway for most of its length, and our state government, in its infinite wisdom, now permits B-triples like this on the road:
(http://www.primemovermag.com.au/uploads/trailer/articles/130731pm-news-btriplesm.jpg)
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Post by: jwhouk on 22 Jul 2014, 16:59
Wooo!me and GM are in the same state(for now)
But yeah, the construction around I65 can be awful. It seems like something in central Indiana needs a massive construction project.

When I used to drive down I-65 to get to Nashville, I swore that there must be an Indiana state law that some part of I-65 within the state lines must be under construction at all times.
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Post by: Detachable Felix on 23 Jul 2014, 00:52
[Newell Hwy scariness]
The danger is more so the B-Triples going into your lane - we once had to swerve completely off the road because the truck driver wasn't paying attention and was half on our side of the road. Seriously scary shit
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Post by: GarandMarine on 23 Jul 2014, 09:30
Speaking of dangers on the rode I just got pulled over by the Illinois State Police for my GPS being in the wrong position quote unquote,
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Post by: Redball on 23 Jul 2014, 11:14
A cautionary post.... where was it?
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Post by: Akima on 24 Jul 2014, 02:21
The rozzers mistook it for a radar-detector? Or are they legal in the USA/Illinois?
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 24 Jul 2014, 03:27
Varies state-to-state, but looks like they are legal in Illinois.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 24 Jul 2014, 05:54
I will post a pic when I get to my computer, but it was the position of my GPS. It took two senior ISP detectives to tell me that. 30 miles from the border.

GPS are legal in every state, but in some cases apparently if you place it on part of the wind screen it's considered a hazard because it obstructs your view. This is very stupid. Especially in my case. The only view my GPS was obstructing was of my dash. Cop just about shit a brick when he asked if I had guns and I said yes. I think they were looking for drug traffickers. My plates are from far away, my car is packed... Shocked they didn't ruin my week and get the dog and stuff but I'm not complaining
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Post by: GarandMarine on 24 Jul 2014, 18:54
Made it.
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Post by: Detachable Felix on 25 Jul 2014, 02:58
So I've been applying for an ABN and doing various other things to make my Piano Dude stuff more official/professional, and all I can think of the whole time is this:
(http://i.imgur.com/DNFRd.jpg)
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Post by: Thrillho on 25 Jul 2014, 03:09
Okay that is nearly making me crack up like a loon in the office.
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Post by: nekowafer on 25 Jul 2014, 07:37
I am having the same problem.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 25 Jul 2014, 11:58
Aaaaahahahaha I love that. It is my life lately.




YAY FOR SOMEONE WITH NO HR EXPERIENCE INHERITING ALL THE HR THINGS.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Jul 2014, 15:57
At about 7pm today I emptied my fridge and freezer compartment because the freezer badly needed defrosting.

I just finished getting the ice out, with my hands and a knitting needle as well as a bowl and a casserole dish full of hot water. My fingers are cut all over from the sharp edges of the icebergs - I didn't notice that happening, I guess they were numb with cold - and I am soaked to the skin. I must have got at least a kilogram of ice out of that thing. It wasn't that the inside of the freezer compartment was iced up, although it was - almost half of the space was taken up with an enormous chunk of ice. It was the ice round the outside of the freezer box that was the hardest to deal with. I have never seen so much ice. None of the previous tenants of this flat can ever have defrosted the fridge before, it can't have got that bad in less than two years.
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Post by: Redball on 25 Jul 2014, 16:05
If I have time and there's a place for the ice to drip, I just let it defrost on its own. But usually I use a hair dryer and mop up the drip to speed things up.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Jul 2014, 16:24
If I had left the ice to defrost on its own, the flat would have been flooded. We are talking litres of water frozen into icebergs here.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 Jul 2014, 17:06
You could have your girlfriend over and do a dramatic reenactment of the last scene in "Titanic"
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Post by: Loki on 26 Jul 2014, 00:09
The defrosting was accompanied by a string quartet.
This is my headcanon and you cannot prove me otherwise!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Jul 2014, 02:39
I'm becoming increasingly certain that I don't have a girlfriend any more. She appears to have graduated from the year five school of relationships and is breaking up with me by simply ignoring me forever.

Anyway, I came here to say something but can't remember what it was now.

Oh yeah, I remember. It was to announce that despite getting rid of the rotting cauliflower, cleaning out the fridge, taking the bin out, cleaning the bathroom and purging the drains, there is still a weird smell in my flat. WHERE IS IT COMING FROM?
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 26 Jul 2014, 02:57
That would be shit.

Maybe applicable to both items in your post, upon reflection.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 26 Jul 2014, 02:57
I returned from my hometown yesterday. I somehow had more to do there than I had hoped, so I wasn't able to learn for the exam I'm supposed to write on monday. Learning all that in only two days seems absolutely impossible to me, so I think I'll cancel the exam (which is no problem at all). It's kinda bad, as I then need to do that exam in one of the next semesters, but it doesn't give me any actual problems, it's just a bit annoying.

The weather is worse here than in my hometown, which is surprising. My hometown is known for its bad weather, and this town is known for very good one. But I don't mind, I like colder weather anyway, so while it's still warm, at least the sun isn't burning.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 26 Jul 2014, 05:39
I'm becoming increasingly certain that I don't have a girlfriend any more. She appears to have graduated from the year five school of relationships and is breaking up with me by simply ignoring me forever.

Anyway, I came here to say something but can't remember what it was now.

Oh yeah, I remember. It was to announce that despite getting rid of the rotting cauliflower, cleaning out the fridge, taking the bin out, cleaning the bathroom and purging the drains, there is still a weird smell in my flat. WHERE IS IT COMING FROM?

Is there maybe a rotting fish hidden under the floorboards?
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Post by: Aimless on 26 Jul 2014, 05:51
Mold?

Your nose? :(
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Post by: ankhtahr on 26 Jul 2014, 06:17
Second blogpost of today:

I got a new inktape for my typewriter at the local office supplies shop. This makes me happy. I'll go pick the typewriter up at the post office on monday (they're closed already today), so I can finally use it again. I had left it in my hometown, and now shipped it here when I was visiting.

I also ordered a post box. My landlord hasn't given me a letterbox, so all my letters go through his hands. I don't like that. I looked into the price of post boxes and found out that they only cost 15€. Once. No monthly fees. And they redirect all post into it. Yay, nobody looking through my letters again! (Don't misunderstand this, he never opened my letters, but I still don't want him to see all the letters I receive)
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 26 Jul 2014, 07:41
I'm becoming increasingly certain that I don't have a girlfriend any more. She appears to have graduated from the year five school of relationships and is breaking up with me by simply ignoring me forever.

Anyway, I came here to say something but can't remember what it was now.

Oh yeah, I remember. It was to announce that despite getting rid of the rotting cauliflower, cleaning out the fridge, taking the bin out, cleaning the bathroom and purging the drains, there is still a weird smell in my flat. WHERE IS IT COMING FROM?

Maybe something fell down next to/under the fridge or stove? I don't know how likely that is without a pet though... Or something missed the bin? We keep ours in a cabinet under the sink so things can hang out in the dark and get gross if we don't realize.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Jul 2014, 10:30
I moved the fridge out to open the door wide enough to get the shelves out when I defrosted it, so I know the smell isn't coming from there, and I don't actually have a bin, I just have a carrier bag hanging on a chair that I take out pretty regularly. The smell is over in my study nook (where I'm sitting now) which has a desk (nothing under or behind it, I checked), a bookcase (likewise - I had to move it when I got internet and there's no way anything can have got behind it since then), an armchair (nothing under it and recently washed) and my handbags, none of which have anything in them that can smell. But it is definitely over here, and only faint. I have looked everywhere! I only moved in a couple of months ago, and I clean daily, so I can't see how anything has escaped my notice...
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 26 Jul 2014, 11:20
Do you have cauliflower up your nose?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Jul 2014, 11:32
Haha no, checked that too ;) I wonder whether it's a smell coming in from outside actually. My study nook is near the skylight which is open constantly at this time of year.
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Post by: Lines on 26 Jul 2014, 14:22
Maybe there's a dead something on the roof?
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Post by: jwhouk on 26 Jul 2014, 15:02
Or, perhaps, if the skylight is near one of your neighbors, it's something from your neighbor's place?

My next guess might be that it might be a connecting wall or something that may have dry rot or something in between the studs or cross-members. (I suspect you UK'ians call it something else - it's basically the wood frame that the interior dry wall boards are attached to.) Things can sometimes get caught behind there - mice, bugs, termites, other vermin or just mold or fungus - and cause a huge stench.
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Post by: Grognard on 26 Jul 2014, 16:26
dead mouse in the air vents?

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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Jul 2014, 03:48
I don't have air vents, and I've no idea how to check if there's something in the walls. I think it's a bin smell coming in from outside to be honest, it's hot at the moment and they only empty the bins once a week so the likelihood of bin smells is pretty high.
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Post by: hedgie on 27 Jul 2014, 04:01
Eww.  That has to be pretty awful.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Jul 2014, 05:24
Oddly, today I haven't noticed the smell. Perhaps someone has moved whatever it was!
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Post by: hedgie on 27 Jul 2014, 05:29
Oddly, today I haven't noticed the smell. Perhaps someone has moved whatever it was!
Yay!  And be glad you don't live near the ocean.  Dead whales tend to take a while to get removed.
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Post by: Aimless on 27 Jul 2014, 05:36
Yaaayyy!

Yesterday I donated just over 40 books (mostly fantasy, a lot of sci-fi, some pop-sci and one Marian Keyes :o) to the library. Then we got one of these:

(http://cdn2.jysk.com/getimage/web.large/3609953/WEB/1002/)

It's perfect! It displaced our old wooden shoerack which is a shame 'cause I love it, but needs must and so on. Anyway, it's 76cm tall and I suddenly realized it might be better in our bathroom (much-needed extra storage space), in which case it'd switch places with this:

(http://www.ikea.com/gb/en/images/products/molger-bench__0155556_PE313629_S4.JPG)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Jul 2014, 06:07
Purty! I love the basket solution to storage space - I was considering baskets for my bookcase or as craft storage, but in both cases I ended up going with a different approach. I'm still keeping baskets in mind as an option for future storage issues though; they are practical and pretty at the same time :)
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Post by: Lines on 27 Jul 2014, 06:15
Baskets are awesome. I have various square ones from Ikea floating around the house because they fit into our bookcases and also under our side tables in the living room. Looks much nicer than bags o' crap like I had in the past.

Also I have to hide a lot of my stuff in baskets or my cat chews on them. Or moves them into other rooms. Freaking sneaky cat.
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Post by: pwhodges on 28 Jul 2014, 02:53
Heads-up for any interested Aussies:  My son Nicolas will be playing Ligeti's Piano Concerto in Sydney (http://www.sydneysymphony.com/production-pages/2014/concert-season/hear-it,-feel-it.aspx) and Debussy's Études for Piano in Melbourne (http://www.melbournerecital.com.au/events/2014/nicolas-hodges/) in late August.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 28 Jul 2014, 03:11
Is he, like, a rockstar? Is that what he should be compared to?
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Post by: pwhodges on 28 Jul 2014, 03:56
Perhaps! (http://www.scotsman.com/what-s-on/music/classical-review-colin-currie-and-nicolas-hodges-glasgow-1-3211668) or perhaps not (http://bachtrack.com/review-nicolas-hodges-carnegie-hall).
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Post by: Detachable Felix on 28 Jul 2014, 04:53
I would have so checked those out if I lived in the eastern states! *sigh*
Damn it Paul, next time tell your son that Adelaide's where the classical music scene's at  :emotrex:
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Post by: Welu on 29 Jul 2014, 11:04
I got a call at my second job asking me to cover a couple days so my last shifts must have gone okay!
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Post by: Papersatan on 30 Jul 2014, 07:50
Home from a very stressful 'vacation.'  We had to go to two weddings in one week, the first in Tennessee last sunday and the second in Rochester this past Sat.  I was in the second wedding and made the cake for it.  We were a day late gettng into Rochester from Tennessee because of flight issues, so I was a bit stressed about getting the cake done in time, but I managed:

(https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-WKdZx_JeSwU/U9P9oOo_ksI/AAAAAAAAIjo/blBzkOl1eEU/w422-h562-no/IMG_20140726_151203.jpg)

The weddings themselves were both lovely.

We got bad news the day before the second wedding; Steve's grandmother died.  The service was yesterday, but we just didn't have the energy left to fly to Oklahoma and be away from home for three more days, so we didn't attend the funeral.

Also, I found out my dream job *is* recruiting other ppl for the position, which is not surprising, but makes me much less confident in my chances of actually getting it.  1-6 more weeks until I know.  :/
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Post by: tragic_pizza on 31 Jul 2014, 21:02
Holy balls, but that is a pretty cake.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 01 Aug 2014, 01:34
In your professional opinion ... are there any holy balls?

And it is a pretty cake, to be sure!
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Post by: Lines on 01 Aug 2014, 12:04
Blessed donut holes?
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Post by: Papersatan on 01 Aug 2014, 16:33
(Thanks guys)
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Post by: Kugai on 01 Aug 2014, 16:39
Looks like the type of Cake my dad would have made years ago.
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Post by: Loki on 02 Aug 2014, 16:19
Was at a crush's birthday party. It went okay, as they say.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 03 Aug 2014, 10:17
(http://www.ikea.com/gb/en/images/products/molger-bench__0155556_PE313629_S4.JPG)


So it’s like a bunk bed rack? Is that what it’s like? That’s weird.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Aug 2014, 11:04
It's... a rack with two shelves? That's pretty normal?
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 03 Aug 2014, 11:13
It's a LEGO Movie quote (ish).
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Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Aug 2014, 11:34
Aha! Now all is clear!
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Post by: jwhouk on 03 Aug 2014, 18:15
But where are the cupholders?
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Post by: Welu on 05 Aug 2014, 03:41
Talked to a lad in work because he seemed to be using the negging tactic on someone and I think I managed to get him to see he was being a bit of a jerk, even if it was unintentional. These are both coworkers with some kind of history and from the outside he just seems to be picking on her, even though I know he means well. I don't know what she thinks about it or if I should say anything to her about it. There's a line between playful teasing and outright insults and I'm not sure either of them see that line in the same place, especially when it seems to be so one-sided.
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Post by: Akima on 05 Aug 2014, 16:02
And neither teasing nor insults really have a place at work either way.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 05 Aug 2014, 18:35
You guys would hate a military environment. Verbal and physical abuse is how we communicate affection.
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Post by: Grognard on 05 Aug 2014, 20:14
I can attest to that.
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Post by: jwhouk on 05 Aug 2014, 20:19
It's how 90% of the communication is done at a juvie DT facility.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 05 Aug 2014, 21:23
I feel like that's less affectionate.
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Post by: hedgie on 05 Aug 2014, 21:39
Well, it's like the difference between S&M and a vicious beating.
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Post by: jwhouk on 05 Aug 2014, 22:00
The difference is GM and Grognard get shot at. I just get piss thrown at me.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 05 Aug 2014, 23:37
Well I was more aiming at the difference is I like and enjoy the company of my targets for verbal and physical abuse :P

A recent example between yours truly and one of my best friends. I'll leave you to figure out who's who.
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-b-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xap1/t1.0-9/10583958_10152681471655815_5155005812629083557_n.jpg)
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Post by: Welu on 06 Aug 2014, 09:56
It's not the ribbing. We regularly tell each other to fuck off and take the piss (when customers aren't around) and we know each other is just joking. It's that he clearly fancies this girl a lot and doesn't seem to know how to handle it, other than by insulting her and her boyfriend. Our work has a pretty casual environment but I'd think his behaviour would be inappropriate even outside work among friends.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 06 Aug 2014, 10:41
My summer allergies are finally wearing off. I haven't been able to sing as much as I like for three fucking months. I thought I was going to explode. Now I probably should see a vocal coach or something to get things started and hopefully get strong enough to make it through next summer without throwing my voice out again.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 06 Aug 2014, 10:42
Ah okay, misunderstood you.
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Post by: Patrick on 06 Aug 2014, 16:40
Welp. Been away a while. I've missed you all! Here's what I've been up to.

I've been babysitting my good friend's cat for the last 2 weeks or so. He broke his ankle in 3 places, as you may remember, and couldn't get upstairs to his apartment to take care of his darling little furbaby named Kitcheri. Said furbaby knocked over the bird's cage, so his parents came over and took it away and he's finding it a new home.

I've also started seeing someone. Initially we were just fuckbuddies, but out of the awesome and often hilarious pillowtalk, we got to know each other a bit more. So we started hanging out outside of sexin'. We've both done the "meet all my friends" thing, and I like her friends, and she likes mine. We do stuff together. We spend time with each other. I haven't had that in such a long time.

One of my favorite coworkers did get fired, on the downside, but he's not bummed. He already had a full time job elsewhere, and now he gets more sleep, and more free time. And I get his hours. It's actually pretty awesome for us both.

Life's fuckin awesome lately. This is my best year on record.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 06 Aug 2014, 23:59
High five and atta boy.
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Post by: Thrillho on 07 Aug 2014, 00:56
Welp. Been away a while. I've missed you all! Here's what I've been up to.

I've been babysitting my good friend's cat for the last 2 weeks or so. He broke his ankle in 3 places, as you may remember, and couldn't get upstairs to his apartment to take care of his darling little furbaby named Kitcheri. Said furbaby knocked over the bird's cage, so his parents came over and took it away and he's finding it a new home.

I've also started seeing someone. Initially we were just fuckbuddies, but out of the awesome and often hilarious pillowtalk, we got to know each other a bit more. So we started hanging out outside of sexin'. We've both done the "meet all my friends" thing, and I like her friends, and she likes mine. We do stuff together. We spend time with each other. I haven't had that in such a long time.

One of my favorite coworkers did get fired, on the downside, but he's not bummed. He already had a full time job elsewhere, and now he gets more sleep, and more free time. And I get his hours. It's actually pretty awesome for us both.

Life's fuckin awesome lately. This is my best year on record.

(http://www.onegirl.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/sobeautiful.gif)
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Post by: Grognard on 07 Aug 2014, 05:46
The difference is GM and Grognard get shot at. I just get piss thrown at me.

Negative. I don't get shot at. I have never worn the EGA.  I'm the REMF contractor that makes sure the comm networks WORK.

Just wanted to make that clear.  I'm 100% Citizen of the 1st CivDiv.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 07 Aug 2014, 08:48
So I think I want to go back to Japan. This financial cluster I'm in is just temporary, so I'm not too worried about it... even while I'm having panic attacks! I love my brain, I really do.

I'm booked solid for the next 14 months even in a perfect world because there are no summer breaks in an apprenticeship, but after that I think I'll either go in November/December time frame, or I'll get to work with my business partner to get our shop set up, and vanish for a month during cherry blossom season. Actually. Hmmm. Yeah. That'd give me a few months to TCB... oh well. The details don't matter much at this point. Time to start saving and brushing up on my Japanese.

Quote
It was us
Roaming the rainy roads, combing the gilded beaches
Waking up to a new gallery of wonders every morn
Bathing in places no-one`s seen before
Shipwrecked on some matt-painted island
Clad in nothing but the surf - beauty`s finest robe

Beyond all mortality we are, swinging in the breath of nature
In early air of the dawn of life
A sight to silence the heavens

I want to travel where life travels, following its permanent lead
Where the air tastes like snow music
Where grass smells like fresh-born Eden
I would pass no man, no stranger, no tragedy or rapture
I would bathe in a world of sensation
Love, Goodness, and Simplicity
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 07 Aug 2014, 14:32
Today I had to call two partner agencies to notify them of a client death. It was a new client and the death, so far, isn't related to the service. There was no calmly waiting for an acceptable amount of time while balancing stoicism and sympathy. Just a simple call between professionals to advise them that they won't be working with the client, they don't even get to get out of the gate. Business concluded, call terminated, get back to taking care of the matters of the living.

It isn't easy though. This is the first time I've ever been officially responsible for telling one person about the death of another. I could happily wind back the clock and never cross this bridge again.

When you work in high risk domestic abuse, you immediately take on the very real likelihood that you will have to deal with death. It doesn't come with the territory, it is the territory. But this isn't how you expect it to occur. There's no prediction that things won't end well. You can't say you tried, you did everything right, you followed procedure, you did all you could. You didn't. You didn't even start, because there wasn't even the chance. Close the file, end proceedings and leave it to the next group of professionals to do what they do.

I'll be fine about it. Take on the new experience, rationalise the events as I understand them. Questions will get asked, I'll answer them. I'll continue to see the hope in the work we can do. Afterall, there's no shortage of clients in this business. Just for now though, it's a little bit bleak.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 07 Aug 2014, 14:53
I never had to do the direct notification, but you spend enough time on a funeral detail... it wears on you.
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Post by: Patrick on 07 Aug 2014, 15:52
Shit man. I've been pallbearer more times than I care to count. I really don't want to have to deal with the Let's Talk About Death thing as part of my job, ever.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Aug 2014, 02:37
I have yet to experience either a neonatal or maternal death and I am not sure how I'd cope. I hope I would be able to rise to the occasion and keep my own emotions in check until I got home, so that I could support the family whose true grief it was, but it's one of those situations you simply can't know about. I did visit a woman who had had a very late miscarriage - I think about 37 weeks, which is incredibly rare, and that was a strange situation. Normally postnatal visits are happy occasions, where you get to cuddle the baby and congratulate the parents. The parents were still very obviously shocked, I don't think it had sunk in yet.

Death isn't easy to deal with, basically.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 08 Aug 2014, 03:32
Worth mentioning that while some public sector work is, at times, grim and distressing, it can also be tremendously rewarding.
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Post by: jwhouk on 08 Aug 2014, 08:45
And then there are the days when they throw piss on you.

(Looks at May briefly and nods - "a kid did it on Sunday. Not to me.")
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Aug 2014, 08:47
I'm a little surprised that I've made it several weeks without getting any bodily fluids on my clothes at all. I did have a baby's blood running all over my hands and down my wrists a few days ago, but I managed not to drip on anything. There are moment when I take a mental step back and realise how weird my job is...
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Post by: GarandMarine on 08 Aug 2014, 10:53
I hope you were wearing gloves and following proper bloods procedures >.>;
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 08 Aug 2014, 10:54
I'm a little surprised that I've made it several weeks without getting any bodily fluids on my clothes at all. I did have a baby's blood running all over my hands and down my wrists a few days ago, but I managed not to drip on anything. There are moment when I take a mental step back and realise how weird my job is...
I imagined this as a post by Gareth.

I'm sorry.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Aug 2014, 11:01
I was not wearing gloves, and the only procedure I followed was washing my hands afterwards. I don't have any open wounds or cuts on my hands and it's a lot harder to collect blood in a tiny vial with gloves on, so I tend not to bother. Obviously if I knew the woman had some kind of blood-borne disease, I would wear gloves but otherwise I'm quite cavalier about it.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 08 Aug 2014, 11:02
But do you know that she does not have anything bloodborne?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Aug 2014, 11:05
We test all women for various blood-related ailments at booking and again at 28 weeks of pregnancy. For a needle-stick injury I would obviously follow the procedures which can involve prophylactic treatment for an exciting array of diseases. Anyway, I was taking blood for a five-day old baby rather than an adult, so the risks are a little lower - not completely eliminated but lower.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 08 Aug 2014, 11:12
That is and is not helping my perception of midwives at all. Good that you guys do the checks but any time I see a medical professional not wearing gloves outside of holding someone's guts in at the bottom of some shitty whadi in the middle of Fuckthatistan it strikes me as sketchy for some reason.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Aug 2014, 11:29
I always wear gloves when not doing so could cause harm to the person I'm caring for - for instance, I would never, ever do a VE or catch a baby without ideally sterile and certainly some kind of gloves on. But when I'm weighing up a very small risk to myself against the inconvenience caused by a loss of dexterity and additionally the waste of resources by using disposable gloves, I tend to decide to risk it. If I knew the person was a drug user, or had a known history of serious illness, or was at a high risk of a blood-borne illness (a recent arrival from a country with very high HIV rates, for instance) then that'd affect my weighting of the risks.

Dunno. I've known for a while that I tend to not bother with using protection for things that would only harm me and are unlikely to do so. I don't wear a cycle helmet, I've not always insisted on condoms, I walk alone at night unarmed. Sometimes that's for my mere convenience, but in the case of PPE at work it's because I feel that wearing an apron, goggles and gloves (the "recommended" gear for a birth) would create a massive psychological barrier for the woman and unnecessarily medicalise the environment. Happily, it's mostly left to our own judgement.
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Post by: Thrillho on 08 Aug 2014, 11:34
Without being ridiculous, not using condoms can harm other people...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Aug 2014, 11:38
Well yes, except that I am fairly frequently tested and know I don't have anything, and am on the Pill. I know I don't pose a risk to others, and I don't have sex with people I don't trust to tell me truthfully whether they pose a risk to me. But it is unquestionably risky behaviour. As is crossing the road, eating food prepared by someone else, leaving the house...
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Post by: Papersatan on 08 Aug 2014, 12:04
I don't think gloves are generally used in medical settings for the safety of the patient, but rather to reduce the medical practices liability.

When my father was in the hospital a couple years ago with an open seeping wound, with an active infection which had gone septic and left him in a coma fighting for his life (he made it), the nurses put gloves on when they entered the room, and then took them off when they left, they never changed them in the room.  I once watched a nurse pick up a paper off the floor, pick up the dressing and check his wound, touch the monitors, take a vile of blood and then adjust his breathing tube, all without changing gloves.  I was appalled. I feel like the practice of wearing gloves for all contact made her not think twice about what she was touching in what order, because she was safe through it all, in her mind her hands were 'clean' the whole time.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Aug 2014, 12:09
That's definitely not how we practice, possibly partly because we don't have the same level of medical lawsuits as in the USA. We're told to wash our hands before and after every contact with the person we're caring for, their environment, any body fluid, any part of ourselves (like face or hair) and on entering a room. There are posters everywhere reminding us of the importance of Hand Hygiene, and gloves are single-use.
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Post by: Grognard on 08 Aug 2014, 14:12
I worked 4 years for the American Red Cross Blood Services doing blood drives.
Gloves + Gloves + More Gloves + all the time.
Load the Hemorrhoid (Blood Drive Bus) ... wear leather gloves.
work inside the Hemorrhoid = PPE gloves
do health histories = PPE, changed between donors
touch a donor in ANY way = PPE gloves
touch a donation bag = PPE gloves
processing the donation and sample tubes = head to toe PPE (face shield, apron, sleeves and gloves)
clean the Hemorrhoid = PPE gloves
unload packaged and processed donations and samples = PPE gloves
unload the Hemorrhoid = leather gloves.

on average, I used half a box of PPE gloves PER blood drive.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 08 Aug 2014, 14:51
Midwifery is a non-elective service where client disengagement can be a real issue. If not wearing gloves helps reduce barriers to engagement then they should only be used minimally. Disengagement will escalate health risks to service providers in other ways. Blood drives are soliciting donation, midwifery is treating patients in joint pairs. A very different human  interaction
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Post by: Patrick on 08 Aug 2014, 16:33
I had a doctor in Luxembourg who did the "turn your head and cough" check on me sans gloves like it wasn't a thing. Struck me as weird, but like, Luxembourg's probably the nicest place anyone can live. I didn't ask any questions.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Aug 2014, 06:39
Today I spent most of the morning fishing faeces out of the water without gloves (no point - the water just goes in over the top and then you've got a glove full of poo-filled water) and then managed to get blood splashed all up my arms when I checked the placenta (I was wearing gloves but they don't reach to my elbows!). I remembered this conversation and laughed inside.
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Post by: jwhouk on 09 Aug 2014, 12:26
Mental note to self: if ever in Britain and meeting up with May, do NOT shake her hands...

(kidding... kinda.)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Aug 2014, 12:41
Haha! Don't worry, I spent most of the afternoon scrubbing up to my elbows. As mentioned before, I wash my hands a lot.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Aug 2014, 12:41
What type of exam gloves do you wear that don't have elastic wrists? Lol
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Aug 2014, 12:51
(http://ppgmedsurg.com/products/sites/default/files/imagecache/310_for_product/productimages/select%20nitrile%20gloves_small.jpg)
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Post by: Lines on 09 Aug 2014, 13:17
And I use those exact same gloves to clean up poop, pee, blood, and vomit. Woo! (Luckily the latter two not so much.)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Aug 2014, 13:24
That's a good point actually; it's been months since I was vomited on. I'm probably about due a soaking some time in the next couple of weeks.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Aug 2014, 15:03
I looooove my job and not having kids!
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Post by: Lines on 09 Aug 2014, 15:47
Well, I love my job and do want kids, so WHATEVER!
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Post by: Patrick on 09 Aug 2014, 16:58
99% sure I have the flu

let's see, exhaustion, achey muscles, dizziness, zero stamina, can't think straight...

I'm not leaving my house even if it's on fire
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Post by: Akima on 09 Aug 2014, 17:06
And I use those exact same gloves to clean up poop, pee, blood, and vomit. Woo! (Luckily the latter two not so much.)
They're great for working on your bicycle too. Nitrile holds up well to oil and solvents.
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Post by: Lines on 09 Aug 2014, 17:16
They're awesome. They're also a good barrier against smell. Wrapping a smelly diaper up in them actually does a good job of keeping the smell contained. (A fancy garbage can helps, too, but one of the other rooms doesn't do this and my room definitely smells better.)

Patrick, I've been there, and I hope you feel better soon.
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Post by: nekowafer on 09 Aug 2014, 21:56
Many phlebotomists I've dealt with (I've had my blood taken A FUCKING LOT) either don't have a glove on one hand, or tear the glove on one finger, so they can find a vein. Especially on me, as I am difficult to get blood from, on a good day. It's a million times worse when I'm sick, scared, whiny, in pain, and dehydrated.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 10 Aug 2014, 01:31
99% sure I have the flu

let's see, exhaustion, achey muscles, dizziness, zero stamina, can't think straight...

I'm not leaving my house even if it's on fire

If I were to tell you that there are $100 bills blowing around in your garden and that you could keep all you could catch, what would you do?
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Post by: Loki on 10 Aug 2014, 01:34
Get an industrial vacuum cleaner and point it outside. Duh.
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Post by: Patrick on 10 Aug 2014, 21:48
I would shit on your chest
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Post by: Grognard on 12 Aug 2014, 21:18
borrowing from Imgur..

"How I feel applying for jobs lately..."
(http://i.imgur.com/eQd8ie6.jpg)
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Post by: Metope on 13 Aug 2014, 15:48
I'm sure some of you will remember that train wreck of a day I had in May when my school burned down and I had all of my valuables stolen afterwards. My incredible, amazing dad promised me he'd give me money to replace everything I lost. While I got my bag back with all of my sentimental, irreplaceable stuff still in it, my stupidly expensive MacBook Pro is still missing and will be forever, so I decided to wait until I got back to the states before I replaced it since macs are much cheaper here. Still expensive though! I know I'm ridiculously privileged and fortunate to have parents who are able and willing to give me this amount of money, and even though this isn't really money I've earned, dropping $2000 in one go friggin HURTS. Oh my god why is anything this expensive, what on earth aaaaaa

:psyduck:

...it'll be great having a computer again though!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 14 Aug 2014, 00:53
I'm rich!!!!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 14 Aug 2014, 00:53
... er.
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Post by: Grognard on 14 Aug 2014, 05:13
yeah. well 1st world problems and all that.

1st world shitty problems vs. 3rd world shitty problems: things still be shitty and that stinks.
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Post by: cesium133 on 14 Aug 2014, 18:06
I wasn't sure whether to put this in the Happy thread or the Panic thread, so I suppose here is a compromise.

My advisor just told me he's sending me to a conference in Brazil in the beginning of October. I've been to the city we're going to before, and I loved it there. The panic part is that my visa is expired, and the consulate recommends applying three months in advance...  :psyduck:

edit -- apparently it's changed quite a bit from the last time I was there. Now the recommendation is two weeks.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Aug 2014, 20:01
You couldn't just apply for a tourist visa at the airport?
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Post by: cesium133 on 14 Aug 2014, 20:10
You couldn't just apply for a tourist visa at the airport?
Nope. You have to either apply in person at the consulate, or through an agency. And either way, you have to give them your passport while they review your application. If you're approved, they put the visa sticker in your passport.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Aug 2014, 20:11
Glad I didn't have to go through that with Japan.
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Post by: cesium133 on 14 Aug 2014, 20:28
Funny thing is, from what I understand, the Brazilian government doesn't actually want most of those rules in place, but they keep them because the U.S. has similar rules for Brazilians to get visas to travel here. Basically, the U.S. government is composed of dicks.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Aug 2014, 20:39
This is news?
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Post by: Patrick on 14 Aug 2014, 23:24
Funny thing is, from what I understand, the Brazilian government doesn't actually want most of those rules in place, but they keep them because the U.S. has similar rules for Brazilians to get visas to travel here. Basically, the U.S. government is composed of dicks.

Gonna get all defensive here and say that the State Department is one of the few departments that (mostly) isn't. The people in charge of making the legislation though? Yeah, definitely. Buncha profit-over-progress pricks, I hate 'em all.

Tomorrow around noon, I get to wake up to my sister's old gently used iPhone 5 knocking on my door in the hands of a UPS feller. I'm pretty fuckin jazzed. I finally don't have to worry about having too many contacts in my phone (because for fuckin serious, when you network the way I do, 250 maximum just isn't enough). I can finally install a 4-track sound recorder app on a device I'll carry on my person at all times, which will help me take any idea I have at any given time and flesh it out somewhat, completely on the fly. I'll be able to make a note of anything that inspires me. I'll be able to send dick pics to minors my family coworkers girls I'm into via Snapchat.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Aug 2014, 23:31
You can play some of these rhythm games I'm getting addicted to with me!
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Post by: Akima on 15 Aug 2014, 02:32
Glad I didn't have to go through that with Japan.
Australians don't need a visa to visit Japan for up to 90 days, so I've never had to bother.

Funny thing is, from what I understand, the Brazilian government doesn't actually want most of those rules in place, but they keep them because the U.S. has similar rules for Brazilians to get visas to travel here.
This sort of tit-for-tat reciprocal arrangement is common. Australia only started to require visas for British citizens after Britain introduced visas for Australians in, I think, 1962.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Aug 2014, 03:37
I've just contacted the RSPCA about the possibility of adopting one of their cats. KITTY!
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 15 Aug 2014, 03:49
Our sensors have noted that you have posted about kittehs without corresponding pictures. Please remedy this immediately.

Also, why would you do that? What is wrong with you? Have you no shred of decency?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Aug 2014, 04:08
Kitty! (http://www.rspca.org.uk/findapet/details/-/Animal/PEGGY_/ref/BSA2030276/rehome/)
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 15 Aug 2014, 04:33
Balance has been restore. Kitteh is awesome.
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Post by: ev4n on 15 Aug 2014, 04:34
At a glance
Type: Cat
Breed: Cynic
Colour: Tortoiseshell and white
Age:   2 Years (approx)
Ref:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Aug 2014, 04:37
I am waiting for the RSPCA person to ring and arrange a home visit, and then hopefully I will officially be able to adopt her!
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Post by: ev4n on 15 Aug 2014, 04:39
Can her theme song be peggy sue?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Aug 2014, 04:44
Maybe... it sounds a bit too upbeat and fast for a cat with fewer than the normal number of legs.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 15 Aug 2014, 05:48
Somehow the absence of a leg seems to only add to an expression that politely asks ...and who tied your fucking shoelaces for you this morning.
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Aug 2014, 07:41
You can play some of these rhythm games I'm getting addicted to with me!

oh god. I think I'll have to decline. not tryna be that guy always on his smartphone playing games. if anything I'll get one of those fretboard simulators and serenade babes at work.
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Post by: cesium133 on 15 Aug 2014, 10:21
Got an email at about midnight last night from my advisor. "I forgot to include the airplane tickets in how much this is going to cost, so you'll have to apply for another thousand dollars in funding and get it by the end of the month."  :psyduck:
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Post by: GarandMarine on 15 Aug 2014, 13:00
Glad I didn't have to go through that with Japan.
Australians don't need a visa to visit Japan for up to 90 days, so I've never had to bother.


Yeah the U.S. and a few other countries have similar, awesome arrangements with Japan. So when I fly back for a month next year, no visa required! Buuuuuut when I eventually find a way to get the current master of Niten Ichi Ryu to accept me as a student I'll need to figure out what visa one applies for for long term martial arts study (student visa maybe? That'd be cool)
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Post by: hedgie on 15 Aug 2014, 13:24
Maybe... it sounds a bit too upbeat and fast for a cat with fewer than the normal number of legs.

Well, those pics have her looking pretty upbeat, and her name is certainly more perky than that of another cat I knew that had a bad encounter with a car (he was Speed-Bump, aka the bionic kitteh on account of all the metal in one of his legs).  Animals tend to adapt to such situations far better than people.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Aug 2014, 13:55
My cat Matthew was a bionic cat, we spent about £5000 equipping him with a useable back leg after he lost an argument with a car, and then he ran off. With the £5000 of leg. Ah well.
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Post by: cesium133 on 15 Aug 2014, 14:08
We had a three-legged cat for a while. He wasn't bionic, though.
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Post by: Grognard on 15 Aug 2014, 20:57
when I 'hit' the website, this is what I got...

" ANIMAL NOT FOUND:  Sorry, but it looks like we couldn't find PEGGY. "

maybe it's me... I can't ever FIND my cats when I go looking for them, either...
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Post by: hedgie on 16 Aug 2014, 02:29
Your big mistake is thinking that a cat is "yours".  Cats belong to no one except themselves.  They may tolerate us humans, but they certainly don't need us.  Although for some odd reason, even strange cats tend to come up to me and shower me with affection.  I must have been a kitteh in a past life or something.
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Post by: Lines on 16 Aug 2014, 04:59
Tortie kitty!

Also humans totally belong to cats. Them letting us pet them is a reward for feeding them on time and providing them a clean place to poop. Strangers are awarded affection to make either their owners or other cats jealous.
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Post by: hedgie on 16 Aug 2014, 05:15
s/owners/slaves/g
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Post by: jwhouk on 16 Aug 2014, 05:56
What I'm surprised about is that the local shelter didn't have the cat chipped. My kitten has a microchip in her - part of the adoption process.
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Post by: Carl-E on 16 Aug 2014, 07:22
Ok, so when I clicked on "new" I was taken to my last post in here - 20 pages ago.  It was after not getting a job. 

Guess what?  This week, I got two email rejections.  One for a job I applied for just over 4 weeks ago (WGU, I mentioned in in the University thread), the other for one I applied for about 2 months ago at the community college system over in Pittsburgh. 

It takes so long for academic hiring to go through their system - all the decisions are by committees. 

Gonna keep looking for more online adjunct work, I guess.  Or.. I dunno... wal-mart overnight restocking?  I've gotten more hours at the beer barn, but that's close to minimum

Since I last discussed my life, my brother (who has a really good job) won his state lottery, which gives him roughly $130,000 a year for life.  This is good, because he has two autistic boys, one severely so, and he'll be able to put it aside for him. 

My parents... god, my parents.  Mom offered to help support us if I go back to school and become marketable, since the whole teaching thing just ain't working out anymore.  My baby brother (42) went back recently for Control Systems, and has been offered a job by his instructor before even finishing his program! 

Now all I have to do is figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life! 

Oh, and the electric got disconnected the other day - we got it back on after 24 hours, but that's left us broke again.  Two months behind on the mortgage, too... I did a restoration job for a friend from church, the ceiling in her attic fell in, the best price quote she got from a contractor was for replacing the whole thing at $2000.  I patched it - properly - for about $350.  But I just don't want the crap of being a contractor.  I also delivered phone books a couple of weeks ago, got a few hundred for that, too.  Unemployment ran out ages ago. 

I'm thinking IT.  Something with a high demand.  I dunno, the home repair thing is kind of attractive, I love doing it, but it's too dicey, I'm slow (but I do really nice work) and I never know what to charge.  I want a real job, something reliable and steady where someone else pays for my health care! 

Sorry, this mostly goes in the complaints thread, I think. 

There's so much more I want to tell you guys, but I have a tutoring appointment soon with a really flaky student.  Maybe more later. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Aug 2014, 08:05
What I'm surprised about is that the local shelter didn't have the cat chipped. My kitten has a microchip in her - part of the adoption process.

Which local shelter? I feel like I've missed something here!
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Post by: Carl-E on 16 Aug 2014, 10:37
Your shelter must be pretty well funded, JW!  Those things aren't cheap...

Or did you pay to have it done, and it's just their policy? 

Locally, feral cats are a real nuisance, the city won't even license them, the "animal control officer" just scoops up all he can catch.  They're held at the shelter for a short time if they're in fairly good health. 


Most aren't. 
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 16 Aug 2014, 11:35
I just went and read some of my old posts on a forum I used to frequent. Good grief, was I an obnoxious jackass.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 16 Aug 2014, 13:52
Our two cats came chipped from the local independant cat shelter in Sheffield. I thought it was a pretty standard thing and the cost of the chip is covered in the cost of adopting the cats along with neutering and other necessary treatments. Happened before when we adopted from Cats Protection down in Wiltshire.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Aug 2014, 14:52
I've never heard of a reputable shelter or rescue home that allowed you to adopt a cat that hadn't been spayed/neutered, microchipped and vaccinated.
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Post by: jwhouk on 16 Aug 2014, 15:01
Your shelter must be pretty well funded, JW!  Those things aren't cheap...

Or did you pay to have it done, and it's just their policy? 

Locally, feral cats are a real nuisance, the city won't even license them, the "animal control officer" just scoops up all he can catch.  They're held at the shelter for a short time if they're in fairly good health. 


Most aren't.

It's their policy. Mostly because of the rural nature of our locale, they want animals chipped so they can be identified.
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Post by: jwhouk on 16 Aug 2014, 15:01
I've never heard of a reputable shelter or rescue home that allowed you to adopt a cat that hadn't been spayed/neutered, microchipped and vaccinated.

This. All three are required for any adoption, either at LCHS or MCHS (where we got our cat).
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Aug 2014, 15:18
I will have to pay at least £50 for my new kitty, and possibly more considering that her leg amputation probably incurred some considerable costs (on the flipside, a disabled cat might be more difficult to rehome so perhaps I won't get charged extra), to cover the cost of having all those things done. It includes six weeks' pet insurance too!
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Post by: Thrillho on 16 Aug 2014, 15:40
I just went and read some of my old posts on a forum I used to frequent. Good grief, was I an obnoxious jackass.

You think you got problems. Try reading anything posted on here by basically anyone pre-2007.
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Post by: Grognard on 16 Aug 2014, 20:55
Ok, so when I clicked on "new" I was taken to my last post in here - 20 pages ago.  It was after not getting a job. 

Guess what?  This week, I got two email rejections.  One for a job I applied for just over 4 weeks ago (WGU, I mentioned in in the University thread), the other for one I applied for about 2 months ago at the community college system over in Pittsburgh. 

It takes so long for academic hiring to go through their system - all the decisions are by committees. 

Gonna keep looking for more online adjunct work, I guess.  Or.. I dunno... wal-mart overnight restocking?  I've gotten more hours at the beer barn, but that's close to minimum

Since I last discussed my life, my brother (who has a really good job) won his state lottery, which gives him roughly $130,000 a year for life.  This is good, because he has two autistic boys, one severely so, and he'll be able to put it aside for him. 

My parents... god, my parents.  Mom offered to help support us if I go back to school and become marketable, since the whole teaching thing just ain't working out anymore.  My baby brother (42) went back recently for Control Systems, and has been offered a job by his instructor before even finishing his program! 

Now all I have to do is figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life! 

Oh, and the electric got disconnected the other day - we got it back on after 24 hours, but that's left us broke again.  Two months behind on the mortgage, too... I did a restoration job for a friend from church, the ceiling in her attic fell in, the best price quote she got from a contractor was for replacing the whole thing at $2000.  I patched it - properly - for about $350.  But I just don't want the crap of being a contractor.  I also delivered phone books a couple of weeks ago, got a few hundred for that, too.  Unemployment ran out ages ago. 

I'm thinking IT.  Something with a high demand.  I dunno, the home repair thing is kind of attractive, I love doing it, but it's too dicey, I'm slow (but I do really nice work) and I never know what to charge.  I want a real job, something reliable and steady where someone else pays for my health care! 

Sorry, this mostly goes in the complaints thread, I think. 

There's so much more I want to tell you guys, but I have a tutoring appointment soon with a really flaky student.  Maybe more later.

Keep at it, my friend.  There is honor in persistence.
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Post by: Carl-E on 17 Aug 2014, 14:13
Honor doesn't pay debts. 


Well, except debts of honor, of course.   :roll:
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Aug 2014, 14:32
No no, blood pays debts of honor.
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Post by: Loki on 17 Aug 2014, 15:00
What pays debts of blood then?
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 17 Aug 2014, 15:03
Spinach, as it happens. Never been sure why.
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Post by: Loki on 17 Aug 2014, 15:07
Spinach doesn't even contain that much iron.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 17 Aug 2014, 19:01
I just went and read some of my old posts on a forum I used to frequent. Good grief, was I an obnoxious jackass.

You think you got problems. Try reading anything posted on here by basically anyone pre-2007.

Thank god The Sandbox got nuked. I'm happy to have an artificially reduced postcount if it means the only inanity still visible from my first year here is in BAND.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Aug 2014, 21:41
Heh.

Heheheheh.

There is unintentional comedy in that last post.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 18 Aug 2014, 01:26
Hey, GM, that's not very nice! :(

Also, can you imagine the stink that would have been caused if it had happened?
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Post by: ankhtahr on 18 Aug 2014, 06:02
I can't keep up with the forums right now, as I'm at my father's place. Don't worry about me not posting until Wednesday.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 18 Aug 2014, 17:32
Hey, GM, that's not very nice! :(

Also, can you imagine the stink that would have been caused if it had happened?

Sulaco cleaning services could fix that right up.
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Post by: Papersatan on 20 Aug 2014, 08:58
Got a call from a headhunter today looking to fill a QA job in Ann Arbor.  It was my first unsolicited recruitment call, so that's something.  I'm not sure the job is a good fit, but I told him to forward my info anyways, because I am capable of doing the job, so it really depends on the team dynamics.  I'm still holding hope for my 'dream job' but it'll be at least a month before I know about that, and I need to keep myself looking until then.  I also have an interview today for a super part-time thing helping out a local business with their website and some data analysis. It pays way less than I am worth, but they seem like nice people and it would be nice to have some cash while I wait for a 'real' job.

Also, I got paid today and promptly bought $100 of books.  I sort of thought once I graduated stop doing that, but I guess it's a good sign that I haven't? Sometimes I just need a hard copy of a text to mark up.  I am, on the one hand, frustrated that my book collection is growing... I was really trying to minimize my possessions... but on the other hand pleased that I am interested enough in things related to my field that I want to study them on my own. It gives me hope that I am on a good path.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 20 Aug 2014, 10:22
I'm on my return trip now. This is the first time I actually have Internet on an ICE train.
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Post by: Loki on 20 Aug 2014, 14:29
Half past 11pm. Packing. Tomorrow I go to Amsterdam and the day after I meet Gaz and ChaoSera :3
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Post by: Welu on 20 Aug 2014, 16:10
Whoo! Take photos if you're all comfortable doing that.
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Post by: Loki on 21 Aug 2014, 00:33
We might.
I am now on my way, equipped with a freshly purchased "Turtle Recall - the Discworld companion... so far".

See ya!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 21 Aug 2014, 00:39
... turtle recall ...

Pratchett is the man.
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Post by: Aimless on 21 Aug 2014, 14:11
So my mum recently got a bit of a shock. Someone very close to her offered to let her buy his house after he's passed on. He's a good man who means very much to her, and, though he's full of life (visited today and it was incredible to see because he was quite ill last time we met and now he's literally bouncing around everywhere :)) he is so old that this offer made the likelihood of his sudden demise very real to her. Moreover, she's very worried he may have wishes for the house and for his art-collection that may be difficult for her to honour, and I believe the worries about this stem from previous painful experiences when her dad's property was portioned out between her and her siblings and promptly mismanaged against his and her wishes. As well as some sort of guilt, I guess?

I believe he strongly wishes to leave her something, in part because she's about the closest he has to an immediate family (though it may be presumptuous to say so, I believe it's accurate), and in part because he worries a great deal about her and her finances. He may also believe she'd be the one person who would respect his wishes re. the house's future and his art.

The catch is, he took out a loan on the house over a decade ago, and, from what I've gathered, the bank has said it will not let us take over that loan. Rather, they're (apparently) demanding a large lump-sum payment which will definitely require a loan from another bank (a ridiculous situation, but I guess the bank really wants the house). My mum can't get such a loan, but I and my wife definitely can. Near as we can tell (and I'll be confirming this soon), the house--even in its present state before any renovation and even considering possible overvaluation--is worth 2.5-3 times the amount that we'd need to borrow. Our debt-burden would be comparable to or lower than that of most Swedish households, and our assets and shared income considerably greater. If my mum (or my sister) chooses to live there, their monthly costs, including mortgage payments, would be lower than they are currently. "Fair" market rent for such a house is around $2k-3k per month and that alone would be enough to pay off the loan in less than 6 years. It could also be rented out to people--eg. students or a young family--at cost, if we wished to do something decent with this gift. It could be a place for my little sisters to live when they eventually move out. It could be  place for us to live when we're in sthlm.

All in all, I and my wife believe this would make sense, financially and practically, even though we don't live here in sthlm. I can think of several ways in which his art can be preserved and displayed the way it should, if that is what he wishes. My mum is very stressed out, however, because of all the confusing emotions and the worries that come with anything that have to do with money, the worries about his health, the pressures of moving, etc. Not sure how to help her out with this, but we sat down with her friend and I advised him to think carefully about exactly what it is he wants and then put that in his will together with his lawyer, and we'll talk to the banks etc when that time comes and if we're okay with it. I also advised him to put together a backup-plan in case we decide not to accept this offer.

I just hope my mum can come to terms with all this. I think perhaps the most upsetting thing is that she never expected anything from him, and constantly rebuffed his attempts to give her things, and this offer has made her feel guilty in that weird way most of us can feel bad when we're given something seemingly "in exchange" for something we did freely out of love and friendship. Sometimes it's easier to give gifts to those we love than it is to receive gifts from them.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Aug 2014, 14:15
The newest chapter in the Ridiculous Travel Adventures of Barmymoo: I went on my friend's canal boat today. I caught a train to Leicester, met them on the canal, we pootled along about fifteen miles (pretty slow progress, it was a hard canal and we were stuck behind several slower boats) and then I got off at about 6pm and walked half a mile to the nearest village to get a bus back to Leicester and the train home.

Except that the last bus left at 6.16pm and I got there at 6.20pm.

I wandered around a bit asking advice from people in the supermarket and then ended up in the pub, where numerous suggestions were made ranging from "you could get a taxi" (£20 at a conservative estimate - not worth it) to "pay me £120 and I'll drive you all the way home" (um no) and "walk to the airport and hire a helicopter" (well obviously yes but no). In the end I texted a friend and she called me while looking on her laptop to see where I could realistically get to. It is times like this when I wish I had a smartphone! The upshot was that I got a taxi for £10 to a village with a train station and then got the train home, which was a lot easier than any of the pub suggestions. Now I am exhausted because it took me 4 hours to make a 50 mile journey after spending 9 hours making a 15 mile one.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 21 Aug 2014, 14:25
It's for reasons like this I find it very hard to not take a bike on the train.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 21 Aug 2014, 18:04
My coworkers threw me a surprise baby shower today! They ended up waiting around because I had no idea & was on the phone arguing with the gas company, but once the bossman got me in the room it was really sweet.
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Post by: Redball on 22 Aug 2014, 05:07
we pootled along
What a great word!
I'd have thought it was quite old and quite British. British, but not old.
My dictionary:
pootle |ˈpuːt(ə)l|
verb [ no obj., with adverbial of direction ] Brit. informal
move or travel in a leisurely manner: they were pootling down a canal in their new boat.
ORIGIN 1970s: blend of the verbs poodle and tootle.
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Post by: pwhodges on 22 Aug 2014, 05:19
I'm very surprised that there's no citation from before 1977.  Poodle, with the same meaning, has citations from 1938, but I'm not conscious of ever having used it, whereas pootle just seems a normal word to me.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 22 Aug 2014, 12:30
I will use 'bimble' in a similar way, only when I use 'pootle',  it's usually a good thing and 'bimble' refers to the motion of (for example) those drivers who seem to think it's clever to travel at half of the speed limit for no good reason.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 22 Aug 2014, 13:54
I met people. They were nice.
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Post by: Detachable Felix on 22 Aug 2014, 14:02
Pics, Beo, or it didn't happen.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 22 Aug 2014, 15:07
Don't be silly, people are terrible.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 22 Aug 2014, 16:03
Nah, don't be terrible. People are silly!  :-D
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 22 Aug 2014, 16:18
I like that! I will try!
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Post by: Grognard on 22 Aug 2014, 19:53
so I had one of my pre surgery consults (for carpal tunnel) today.

holy FUCK.  I sat there and LET this doctor TAZE me little bit by bit.  OOOWWWW.
first it was like "oh, electric cattle fence"
then more. ow.
then more. ow. ow.
then HE turned up the juice and "YEEEE-OW"
and then AGAIN.  YEEE-OW!
tthen he xcahnged hands.
same routine, same pain.
and then...
he broke out the acupuncture like needles.
jab!  OW!
and then more electricity.. OW!
then.. it got worse.
he hooked electrodes to those needslss in my hands.

TL:DR.
I got electrocutes.
Stabbed with widckd long needles.
:(   hard to type.  hands still sore tonight. :(
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Post by: Aimless on 23 Aug 2014, 15:33
On a chilly northern night, a thousand fools gathered under a starless, moonless sky to watch an open-air performance of Richard Strauss's opera Gundam Wing Elektra, played out on a stage the size of a football-pitch covered with piles of gravel and pools of blood-coloured water gushing out of stacks of shipping containers, with 7-12 metre tall puppets hovering around suspended from cranes and covered by a large troupe of dancers wrigglers clad in skin-coloured wetsuits. I kid you not (https://www.google.com/search?q=elektra+umeå).

As the last painful, unintelligible bout of shrieking came to a triumphant end and the audience dutifully began a half-hearted round of applause, two conflicting emotions warred within my heart: rage--I cut our stay in sthlm short and paid way, way too much for this??!--and relief--at last it was over and I could go home.

To be fair, the music was good, and the visuals were... cool... and I could see some of the appeal, both of opera as well as of this particular performance... but the overall experience left me so dissatisfied that, had I not been with the woman of my dreams using her nuclear-powered hands to keep mine warm and naughty thoughts to keep me awake, I would have been absolutely fuming. As it is, I've made a solemn vow never to go to any goddamned opera ever again if I can help it. And to bury all memories of this "culture capital" year as soon as I can, because, so far, it's mostly been a buncha garbage for desperate culture-starved northerners with more money than sense.

It's possible I'm just not sophisticated enough a man :o
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Post by: Redball on 23 Aug 2014, 16:24
I haven't heard the opera, but it sounds like an over-the-top train wreck to me. I don't know your experience with the art form, but mine has been shaped by the Met Opera in HD streaming-video broadcasts into theaters, in the U.S. and elsewhere.
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Post by: Akima on 23 Aug 2014, 17:46
Sometimes the avant garde requires that you be en garde.
(http://paulusindomitus.files.wordpress.com/2011/07/michelle-yeoh-crouching-tiger-hidden-dragon-photo_l.jpg)
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Post by: Grognard on 23 Aug 2014, 20:38
?selfie?
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Post by: Akima on 24 Aug 2014, 02:14
Yeoh are kidding, right? (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1I4Moi3-g14)
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 24 Aug 2014, 03:49
That wouyd be awesome, though.
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Post by: Lines on 24 Aug 2014, 05:37
Michelle Yeoh is awesome, but unfortunately I don't know if this forum is her cup of tea. I wish it were.
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Post by: Grognard on 24 Aug 2014, 08:19
I thought it would be cool.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 24 Aug 2014, 08:52
... can we invite her?

Or any random celeb we'd like to read from?
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Post by: Loki on 24 Aug 2014, 11:46
Don't be silly, people are terrible.
*clears throat* I believe he was talking about me or Gareth.
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Post by: Patrick on 24 Aug 2014, 12:31
So if you're not technically dating, what do you call the breakup? That's how I've spent my morning.  :-\
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Post by: Loki on 24 Aug 2014, 12:32
A misery.

Sorry to hear that, bro :(
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Post by: Patrick on 24 Aug 2014, 12:34
Danke sehr. But it's not really so bad, I'm just wondering how the fuck I'm going to alleviate my boredom from here on out. She's a lot of fun.
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Post by: Welu on 24 Aug 2014, 13:48
I visited my Grandda's house for the second time since he died. The first time was helping my Mammy sort and clear stuff and the house had been empty for months at that point. It was horrible seeing it that way. I have a specific memory of one of the windows being busted because a tree branch had grown through it.

It's in the middle of Fuck Nowhere, Ireland and the house is at least 120 years old according to the available dates, but the family had owned the land and had a different house on it before then. Now my uncle has modernised the whole house, it used to have no running water and he's brought all the electrics up to date. It's amazing but you'd never know what used to be there. It was surreal and, to me, more unpleasant than remembering the house how it looked disused. I guess because it felt more like a stranger's house instead of the house my Granny and Grandda used to live in.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 24 Aug 2014, 15:49
So if you're not technically dating, what do you call the breakup? That's how I've spent my morning.  :-\

Aborting take off.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 24 Aug 2014, 18:07
Don't be silly, people are terrible.
*clears throat* I believe he was talking about me or Gareth.
:psyduck: Was weekend the Amsterdam thing?
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Post by: Loki on 25 Aug 2014, 01:59
Friday. Yes :K
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Post by: Thrillho on 25 Aug 2014, 06:12
T'was indeed, good people.
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Post by: Grognard on 25 Aug 2014, 21:21
[bitch & whine]
sooo. started out with Business Management Information Systems 340 at LU....
but then I realize...
SERIOUS papers must be written.
like: 2 pages, 800+ words, APA style.
SIX of them. peer-reviewable.
in the next 8 weeks.
fuck. me. sideways.
with a drainage cover.
++PLUS++
every week. 750 words+ for discussion boards.
I don't know if I'm up to that.
but I gotta have a 300 level information systems class.
fuck meeeeeee.
:(
[/bitch & moan & whine] :psyduck:
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Post by: Grognard on 25 Aug 2014, 21:23
I ain't done serious college work in 5 years!!!
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Post by: Papersatan on 25 Aug 2014, 21:50
I have trouble writing less than 2 pages :/ but I started in a writing intensive field.
idk what kind of writing on what topics, but by the time you stick an into and a conclusion, the rest of the words get used up fast, especially if you actually have something to say on whatever topic.

-----

It's been two weeks since the email from my dream job which said they would know in 1-2 months.  That means I am 25% of the way through waiting to find out if they will hire me.  I've been interacting with the guy on twitter and doing some readings written by and recommended by people who work there, both of which are making me start to think about what working there would be like, which just makes me more anxious about the wait.  I want this job so bad, but I don't want to let myself get comfortable with the idea of having it, because I think I will be heartbroken if it doesn't work out, and then whatever job I do end up with will be less satisfying for me.  <sigh> I did apply to 3 other things over the weekend though, two of which seemed like positions/companies that would be good for me. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Aug 2014, 08:35
I still haven't heard back about my kitty cat :( I was hoping she'd be here by this afternoon!
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Post by: pwhodges on 26 Aug 2014, 16:25
My son is playing at the Wigmore Hall next month (http://www.wigmore-hall.org.uk/whats-on/productions/nicolas-hodges-piano-35742?mini=calendar%2F2014-09).

The Debussy in that program he's playing in Melbourne today (Weds); but instead of the Beethoven he's playing there, there will be Mozart/Busoni and Harrison Birtwistle (including a world premier).

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Post by: cesium133 on 26 Aug 2014, 18:31
I wasn't sure whether to put this in the Happy thread or the Panic thread, so I suppose here is a compromise.

My advisor just told me he's sending me to a conference in Brazil in the beginning of October. I've been to the city we're going to before, and I loved it there. The panic part is that my visa is expired, and the consulate recommends applying three months in advance...  :psyduck:

edit -- apparently it's changed quite a bit from the last time I was there. Now the recommendation is two weeks.
As an update, I got my plane tickets today, and am submitting the visa paperwork tomorrow (just have to find a way to print a photo for the visa; the department office doesn't have any photo paper). The delay was because my advisor didn't realize that plane tickets to Brazil are expensive even though he's been there many times, so I had to find more funding so we could afford it.  :psyduck:

edit -- Oh, and the plane tickets are on United transferring in Chicago, because that was the cheapest option. I fully expect things to go horribly wrong.
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Post by: Grognard on 26 Aug 2014, 20:33
I have trouble writing less than 2 pages :/ but I started in a writing intensive field.
idk what kind of writing on what topics, but by the time you stick an into and a conclusion, the rest of the words get used up fast, especially if you actually have something to say on whatever topic.

damnit! :psyduck:
lost two paragraphs & a whole chain of thought.

anyway: I google fu for stupid is fine.  My ability at finding peer-reviewd research articles just STINKS.  I wasted an entire evening trying to find an article with sufficient material from which to create my paper.
I can WRITE.  blah, blah, blather on....
I can write progress reports and product recommendations with skill enough to make a Beltway Bureaucrat nerdgasm.
but I'm having a ridiculously hard time finding an article to review.

1st week: current information security trends (peer-reviewed, 5+ pages in length AND up-to-date?)
2nd week: mobile application vulnerabilities  (by the time these vulnerabilities are written in depth about ... they're out-of-date by 2 years)
3rd week: current methods that are used to successfully prevent identity theft (I could easily write a 12 page paper about this, but not with a "current" article as a point of origin)
4th: current social engineering threats (ditto as above)
5th: discuss the security risks associated with social networking sites.

I can write these papers.  I have personal knowledge and experience in dealing with ALL of these subjects!
I just cannot find a 'paper of origin' that I can 'review and reflect upon'  :psyduck:
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Post by: Papersatan on 26 Aug 2014, 23:08
Librarian

Contact one

I bet your school is paying one to help you with just such things!
(Drunk sorry if this isbweirdly written)
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Post by: Grognard on 27 Aug 2014, 03:37
LU Online
online librarian is next to useless. :(
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Aug 2014, 04:08
Check out whether any bricks-and-mortar universities near you have reciprocal reading rights for students of other establishments. My old uni did; although you couldn't borrow books unless you were a student of that university, you could get a library card that entitled you to access the library, read the books in the reading rooms, and get the assistance of the librarians.
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Post by: Papersatan on 27 Aug 2014, 09:46
I'm kind of appalled at any "institution of higher learning" which doesn't have a library/librarian.  That's a cost savings measure which robs students of real opportunities to learn and grow and screams "we care about your money not your education"  But I guess as a library school graduate I am bound to feel that way. 

You can also check out your local public library.  They don't usually have as much access to subscription journals, but the librarians still have Master's degrees in helping people find information; they might be able to help you come up with better search strategies, and point you towards any universities which will let you use their resources. 

In the meantime http://doaj.org/ might be a good resource for finding open access (read free) articles. 
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Post by: Aimless on 27 Aug 2014, 13:51
http://www.liberty.edu/index.cfm?PID=4357

Specifically, databases:

http://libguides.liberty.edu/browse.php?o=s

Or Google Scholar to find one paper that seems reasonably on-topic and use that to direct your search (eg. by looking at key references that are mentioned in the intro and discussion and by searching for articles that have been marked as reviews that cite any on-topic papers that you have found).

In many fields, reference literature will contain references to peer-reviewed work that can be used to direct your search. If you can't get hold of reference literature at a library, you can often find them in PDF form *cough*

Keep an eye out for mentions of conferences where these questions are discussed or where research has been presented. Sometimes your google-fu will return results that mention eg. some digital security-related conference, and you can then look up info on those conferences to find titles of presentations and papers or writers in the field. Their papers may in turn cite useful papers or (if you're lucky) in-depth reviews. Conferences tend to have more up-to-date research, for better or for worse.

No doubt you're already very good at using/abusing tabs in your browser. If you haven't already, get Mendeley and use both the desktop version as well as the bookmarklet. It's probably the best all-round solution I've found for managing the mass of papers and references under which you may soon be buried. Chuck any downloaded PDFs into it.



Your paper topics seem to revolve around security, and I wonder: are there any security-related blogs you enjoy reading?
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Post by: Lines on 27 Aug 2014, 14:17
If I couldn't find something on my university's database, I looked on Google Scholar. Use it. You need to be very specific of what you're looking for (Know Your Keywords, as a former professor said), but I found a lot of current articles on there in my related field.

Also I know my main branch library (dunno about the local branches so much) has excellent resources and very knowledgeable staff, so maybe asking a public library would also be a good idea. Like Kat said, these people have Masters degrees in helping people find information.
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Post by: hedgie on 27 Aug 2014, 18:56
LU Online
online librarian is next to useless. :(
Any decent library will grant access to academic databases upon enrolment.  Those are generally provided through the library without any need for anything 'cept student credentials.  Even the last place I went gave me access to both EBSCO and Lexis-Nexis, and betwixt the two, I got all of the access to said databases without any problem.
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Post by: Grognard on 27 Aug 2014, 19:14
well, I did talk to my local librarian.
FIRST online resource she mentioned was 'Google Scholar'.
I've been diddling in the internet longer than some of our forumites have been alive:
I'd never heard of Google Scholar before.
SECOND, she showed me how to properly sift thru a research portal when I'm not sleep deprived and hair-trigger frustrated.
THIRD, she gave me the access info for ZINIO, which allows me to download whole publications.
then, she patted my head and sent me forth.
***
I don't think I've had such a productive library visit in DECADES.
and
She's definitely on the Christmas card list for life.  My wife thought the head pat was cute.
sorta like a librarian's "Well, bless your heart..."
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Post by: Carl-E on 28 Aug 2014, 07:01
D'awwww...

OK, I mentioned somewhere else that I've lost some weight recently.  I think most of it's because I've been moved to evenings at the beer barn, which means I get to restock the cooler for the next day.  We only sell cases, so I'm trowing around 40 - 50 cases of beer every night.  [manly grunt]. 

I've also been hired at Macy's as a seasonal employee, dual position, receiving and merchandising.  We'll see what happens.  If you're good, they keep you on.  Not quite minimum wage, but pretty close. 

I think I've mentioned that my parents are willing to help support me (us) if I go back to school for something more marketable.  Which is stupid, I could get a teaching job if I could just move, but ... I can't really move right now.  Don't ask, I really just can't.  It's complicated and involves love and trauma.  Is IT really as hot a field as it sounds? 

Or maybe a master's in instructional tech - something I'm already pretty familiar with, could keep me in education in a role I usually filled with my colleagues anyway...

Trying to find a way to pay off the IRS now, too.   :-P
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Post by: Welu on 28 Aug 2014, 13:14
I shared this on Facebook, I'm trying to be open about mental health stuff since it's really affecting me right now, and Tumblr already, so some of you probably saw this but for those that have not seen it.

After 8ish months (plus years of personal research) of assessments with two doodlies, the conclusion is I very likely am not on the autism spectrum.

I have some social difficulties, which are usually exasperated by recurrent low mood. They recommend continuing to try to understand my mood issues and more importantly doing what I can improve it, especially by reaching out to friends, family and medical professionals.

I think having an answer, even an incomplete one, will help me go on in relevant and constructive ways.

Tonight though I’m gonna eat some ice cream and play video games.
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Post by: Carl-E on 28 Aug 2014, 14:32
Both guaranteed mood-raisers, moreso with friends. 

Wait, isn't moreso a word?  OK, OK, more  so. 
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Post by: Akima on 28 Aug 2014, 15:04
Or maybe a master's in instructional tech - something I'm already pretty familiar with, could keep me in education in a role I usually filled with my colleagues anyway...
You've mentioned in the past that they won't let a man with a PhD in mathematics and years of experience, teach maths in schools without a Dip. Ed. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diploma_of_Education) (or whatever they call it there; a teaching credential anyway). I know it is a bit like hiring an F1 driver for a driving school, but is that an option? The school system here is always hurting for maths teachers.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 30 Aug 2014, 23:17
(http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_c1f13evWDog/TIEo9S7EyvI/AAAAAAAAAQM/GFXIzknXXoc/s1600/P9030027.JPG)

We're celebrating this kid's fourth birthday today.

Wasn't he a lovely baby?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 30 Aug 2014, 23:42
He was! I bet he's a lovely toddler too.

I no longer need an alarm clock - Paige knows to the second when it's 7am and adorably woke me this morning by touching her nose against mine and chirruping. She didn't wake me up all night. She is the best roommate!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 30 Aug 2014, 23:51
(https://scontent-b-ams.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xfa1/v/t1.0-9/10174784_10203855783024637_924137111733634236_n.jpg?oh=abd82c257374fad67336fe4561192d6b&oe=5466638D)

He is! Even on this fairly crap iPad picture.

Toddler is the official term for a four year old?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 30 Aug 2014, 23:58
Dunno. To my mind, people are still at least a little bit baby until about the age of six; not all the time (I have a memorable image of a four year old I looked after sitting on a bench with her feet in brown cowboy boots hooked up in front of her, on the phone, and realising she would look just like that except bigger as a teen) but still sometimes.
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Post by: Carl-E on 31 Aug 2014, 05:12
Or maybe a master's in instructional tech - something I'm already pretty familiar with, could keep me in education in a role I usually filled with my colleagues anyway...
You've mentioned in the past that they won't let a man with a PhD in mathematics and years of experience, teach maths in schools without a Dip. Ed. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diploma_of_Education) (or whatever they call it there; a teaching credential anyway). I know it is a bit like hiring an F1 driver for a driving school, but is that an option? The school system here is always hurting for maths teachers.

I'm stuck in a stupid system in the most restrictive state in the union.  I'd rather just move, but for a short list of reasons am not able to.  Not without leaving literally everything (and everyone) behind. 

Sure,they need math teachers.  I can't even get a sub job without certification, though.  Ed degrees around here are a dime a dozen...
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Post by: Welu on 31 Aug 2014, 09:34
There was an issue in work that wasn't my fault and I asked for help but even they weren't sure what to do and advised me to leave a note for the during the week person. Argh, anxiety.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 31 Aug 2014, 17:09
How the hell did this happen?

I discovered a passion for handwriting with fountain pens.

My handwriting is extremely ugly and uneven, but I intend to work on that. Maybe do some calligraphy as well. I've now fitted my trusty Lamy Studio which I had since 7th grade with a Lamy OB nib (Oblique Bold), which fits the way I hold the pen better. I'd have preferred an Oblique Medium nib, but at least inside Germany Lamy doesn't sell Oblique nibs anymore at all, so I was lucky to have grabbed one of the two nibs the stationary had still in stock. Right now I use bottled ink made by "Graf von Faber-Castell". It's a permanent ink according to ISO 12757-2, so I'm allowed to use it in university exams as well. I'm looking into buying a Lamy Joy with a stud nib (a flat nib without the iridium ball at the tip which is used for calligraphy) right now, and am also considering buying a small bottle of Diamine's "Teal" or "Indigo" ink, or maybe the "Nebelgrau" (fog grey) by De Atramentis.

(http://halfur.de/pic/handwritten.jpg)
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Post by: Grognard on 31 Aug 2014, 18:33
I'm a techie, and I love having a fountain pen.
'course, my penmanship has always been good.

handwriting forces you to think: better. more logically. with more forethought?
it just lets my brain catch up and move faster than what I'm putting on the page.
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Post by: jwhouk on 31 Aug 2014, 19:09
That probably explains why I prefer touch-typing to writing.

EDIT: On a more serious note: has anyone else noticed that Project Wonderful appears to be down? Their ads are apparently slowing down the main website, along with a few other sites I peruse regularly.
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Post by: Carl-E on 31 Aug 2014, 20:22
My handwriting is extremely ugly and uneven

Looks good to me - plenty of character, still easily legible! 

Quote
stationary

File this under "English is weird".  Stationary = standing still, stationery = writing supplies. 

Oddly enough, they actually have the same root, that of a station; in the first case, a station (military) doesn't move; in the second, the reference is to materials sold by a stationer, a book and paper seller of fixed location, usually associated with a university. 



Thank you, mother.  Kids, this is what happens when you're raised by an English major...
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Post by: nekowafer on 31 Aug 2014, 21:17
I have super terrible handwriting. It hurts to write too :(
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 01 Sep 2014, 00:42
plenty of character

 :claireface:
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Post by: Metope on 01 Sep 2014, 01:08
My handwriting is pretty good I think, I write by hand a lot, especially in my sketchbooks. Can't use fountain pens unfortunately, I'm left handed so I just end up stabbing the paper with the tip and dragging my hand through the wet ink.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 01 Sep 2014, 01:12
Hmm. There are lefthanded nibs from Lamy. From what I read those were specially designed so that they even allow overwriting (i.e. having your hand above the text to not smear the ink so much).
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Post by: Metope on 01 Sep 2014, 01:33
They don't really work that well, I've tried them. You still have to push the pen in front of your hand as opposed to dragging it across the paper, so if you have to tilt your hand in a weird way to write it'll come out wonky. I guess it's all about practice, but I don't care about nib pens that much. I got a B in calligraphy in art school, good enough.
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Post by: Akima on 01 Sep 2014, 03:35
plenty of character
:claireface:
Speaking of characters, my calligraphy is not very good but the Four Treasures of the Study (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Four_Treasures_of_the_Study) (文房四宝) still have a certain magic.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 01 Sep 2014, 05:26
My kid is crashed out. Turns out, if you're four, a weekend with a BBQ AND a birthday is a bit much.

Who knew?
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Post by: Carl-E on 01 Sep 2014, 08:16
Most parents of four year olds. 


At least he didn't puke at either event.   Right?
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Sep 2014, 11:56
Oh god. Drinking all day at the Highland games followed by more drinking, followed by marathon breakup sex, followed by chillin til 5am with my homie... I'm god damn exhausted today.


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Post by: BeoPuppy on 01 Sep 2014, 22:30
Most parents of four year olds. 

At least he didn't puke at either event.   Right?
He did not. Large blessings, to be sure.
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Post by: nekowafer on 02 Sep 2014, 09:48
(http://img.tapatalk.com/d/14/09/03/u4yjy6u2.jpg)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 02 Sep 2014, 10:22
(http://tapatalk.imageshack.com/v2/14/09/02/95ddc4f7d801268ea4268ca76ff35bff.jpg)

Also, yay I am finally getting the hang of tapatalk!
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 02 Sep 2014, 10:37
Now with questionable smears!

(http://i.imgur.com/QxBxakm.jpg)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 02 Sep 2014, 13:17
My handwriting is so bad that people ask me if I'm in Aimless's profession.
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Post by: nekowafer on 02 Sep 2014, 13:22
Now with questionable smears!

Teeheehee
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Post by: Carl-E on 02 Sep 2014, 16:06
Interesting - variable slant! 
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Post by: Lines on 02 Sep 2014, 16:35
Certain pens make it better than others.

RSVP pens always give some of the best handwriting. I don't know if it's the weight of the pen or what, but I love them.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Sep 2014, 01:47
I got sick of my tutoring students having way better handwriting than me (apparently Korean schools teach the Latin alphabet in the most beautiful cursive script) so spent a couple of months teaching myself to write in cursive. I now get compliments on my handwriting quite frequently, weeeee :D
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 03 Sep 2014, 02:55
I could be a doctor. That bad.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 03 Sep 2014, 06:34
Linds, they absolutely do! I also really enjoy writing with the Uniball Onyx pens. They're fabulous.
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Sep 2014, 19:29
(http://tapatalk.imageshack.com/v2/14/09/03/64dd8e9246ea4d94975f9bb4e3a1ef1e.jpg)

I'm at mcdonalds don't judge me


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Post by: cesium133 on 03 Sep 2014, 20:38
I didn't realize until I read the part about McDonald's that those weren't the same smears that Pilchard photoshopped onto neko's handwriting...
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Post by: pwhodges on 04 Sep 2014, 02:53
My son Nicolas has played in the BBC Proms, Carnegie Hall, Disney Hall, Sydney Opera House, Suntory Hall, etc - but there is still a special feeling about his first solo recital in the Wigmore Hall.  I shall be there - Sunday 14 Sept.  The program includes a world premier (though that's nothing unusual for him).

Press Announcement (http://www.nickythomasmedia.com/news.php?subaction=showfull&id=1408553090&archive=)
Ultra-cheap for under-30s (http://www.wigmore-hall.org.uk/whats-on/productions/nicolas-hodges-piano-35742) (scroll to bottom)
Biography (http://www.hazardchase.co.uk/artists/nicolas-hodges/)
It will be broadcast live on the BBC (Radio 3 schedules aren't published more than a week in advance, so I can't link that yet)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 04 Sep 2014, 03:18
Ooooh I would very much like to come - London is a bit of a trek though, since I would struggle to get home again. Has he got any Midlands dates upcoming?
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Post by: cesium133 on 04 Sep 2014, 16:15
Panic/Stress/Anxiety: getting my wisdom teeth out tomorrow
Happy/Joy: Talking to one of our collaborators, it looks like I might be able to get a postdoc in their lab, we'll see, I guess.
Panic/Stress/Anxiety: If I do get the postdoc, it's in Germany.
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Post by: Grognard on 04 Sep 2014, 18:00
Happy/Joy: you get to attend Octoberfest in person ???
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Post by: cesium133 on 04 Sep 2014, 18:16
Eh, maybe. That's in Bavaria and I'd be in Baden-Wurttemburg, so I guess it's not that far.
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Post by: Grognard on 04 Sep 2014, 20:57
if I weren't anchored fore/aft with house,kids, etc...

I'd jump on a foreign contract in a hot second.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 04 Sep 2014, 22:21
Holy titty fuck shits! Did you people know Patrick Stuart played Macbeth in a modern update of the play? (comparable to the Ralph Fiennes update of Coriolanus)



Coriolanus:

One of my favorite lines in all the world:
Make you a sword of me!
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Post by: ankhtahr on 04 Sep 2014, 22:51
At least I'm not surprised. He is member of the Royal Shakespeare Company, which also resulted in the Hamlet interpretation with David Tennant as Hamlet and Patrick Stewart as Claudius.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 04 Sep 2014, 22:52
I'm not surprised either. I knew he was a Shakespearean actor first and foremost. It's just awesome.
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Post by: Loki on 05 Sep 2014, 00:06


Panic/Stress/Anxiety: If I do get the postdoc, it's in Germany.

That's an interesting prospect. Good luck!
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Post by: Patrick on 05 Sep 2014, 11:38
I don't know how I did this, but apparently conversations about Laika the space dog can get you a girl's number and a hot date


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Post by: Patrick on 05 Sep 2014, 11:38
Oh yeah, and Matt hit me in the face with a pie last night because it was his bday party.


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Post by: Detachable Felix on 05 Sep 2014, 13:35
Are we talking the stereotypical 'shaving cream pie in face' gag here? I wasn't aware people actually did that anymore :psyduck:
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Post by: Metope on 05 Sep 2014, 14:03
I ordered a pair of jeans online the other week, and they arrived yesterday. They didn't fit and I'm sending them back, but while trying them on I found two dollars and a used hair tie in the pockets... what?
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Post by: cesium133 on 05 Sep 2014, 16:43
Panic/Stress/Anxiety: getting my wisdom teeth out tomorrow
This may just be the painkillers and the sleeping all afternoon talking, but I feel great right now.
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Post by: Grognard on 05 Sep 2014, 21:12
I ordered a pair of jeans online the other week, and they arrived yesterday. They didn't fit and I'm sending them back, but while trying them on I found two dollars and a used hair tie in the pockets... what?

 :psyduck: Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants ~ For Real ???  :psyduck:
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Post by: Aimless on 10 Sep 2014, 18:49
I was having difficulties sleeping (okay I was surfing Kickstarter) when I heard what sounded like a man and a woman screaming and shouting, interspersed with the occasional thumping sound. It was 3AM on a very boring night so I went to check it out and, though it was difficult, managed to find the apartment from which it seemed to be coming. New neighbours. I rang the doorbell and suddenly it was quiet, but no-one opened either.

Now, neighbours having rows in the middle of the night isn't a new experience (although it's the first time I've heard anything in this house), but those thumping sounds and the way she was screaming were unsettling, so I called the cops who were there within 5 minutes :o they had been fighting about something, but no-one seemed to have been hurt, and they got worried when I rang the doorbell. It's a very young couple so I hope that'll be the end of it and that I haven't just ensured that they do it quietly from now on. They know who sicked the cops on 'em though so that'll be awkward I guess.

I'm glad. I've had to call the cops on crazy couples a few times, and they've always checked it out promptly. Unfortunately, they can't always do much more than to show themselves and make a general assessment, ask if anyone wants help, and then scamper off again. That's why you need nosy persistent friends and neighbours I guess. If nothing else you can always give someone who might need it a nearby place to hide out right when they need it. So... if you hear people going bump in the night, consider being a busybody
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Post by: Grognard on 10 Sep 2014, 21:36
My sentry ghost has been very active as of late.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 11 Sep 2014, 06:18
Aimless, a lot more tends to go on in the back office for this sort of thing.

For my area the following will happen. The incident report will be returned to the Central Referral Unit for assessment.

If the risk is assessed as medium or standard then there will just be a record kept on file with no further action. However, if there are any children then a the report will be forwarded on to Social Care and other intermediate support agencies who will see if there is a risk of physical or emotional harm from the children witnessing domestic violence. These reports will be considered in conjunction with other information known about the children, particularly from the educational sector. If the risk is sufficient then a worker gets allocated to engage the family etc.

If the risk is assessed as high then the case gets allocated a Domestic Violence Officer and a Independant Domestic Violence Advocate (some victims have trust issues when it comes to the police) who will attempt to engage with the victim and work on safety planning and preventative measures. If there are multiple standard/medium risk events then the overall risk may get elevated to high as a pre-emptive act against escalation that could put a victim at risk of harm.
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Post by: Aimless on 11 Sep 2014, 07:06
I'm not being critical of the police in this case, and I didn't mean to downplay what they do even though that's how it came out. I just wanted to make a case for not underestimating the value of our own involvement compared to that of the police :)

That being said, the police in Sweden has come under a lot criticism for being extremely bad as an organisation at implementing validated risk-assessment tools in a reliable and rational manner in this particular context. In recent years, Swedish social services have also come under intense criticism for similar reasons. Underfunding and understaffing are important components, but an even greater problem seems to be culture, lack of the appropriate training and the lack of a systematic approach.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 11 Sep 2014, 07:31
Oh yeah, didn't think you were being critical. Just exploiting an opportunity to flesh out a bit more about how the public sector function works. I think it's handy for people to understand how governments, public services and local authorities work in reaction to real world situations like this.
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Post by: Aimless on 11 Sep 2014, 13:39
I started making chili but got distracted. Though much is burnt, much abides, and though it is not now that yum which in old days made me go mmm, what it is, it is
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Post by: GarandMarine on 12 Sep 2014, 08:23
Off to the con and my first model painting competition. I'll keep you all advised of my impending glorious victory! Or massive, utter failure!
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Post by: cesium133 on 12 Sep 2014, 11:51
Panic/Stress/Anxiety: getting my wisdom teeth out tomorrow
Happy/Joy: Talking to one of our collaborators, it looks like I might be able to get a postdoc in their lab, we'll see, I guess.
Panic/Stress/Anxiety: If I do get the postdoc, it's in Germany.
Pessimism: Turns out the postdoc position is already filled, so I'm not going to Germany.
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Post by: Loki on 12 Sep 2014, 15:56
:(
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Post by: ankhtahr on 12 Sep 2014, 16:42
Cesium: :(

It's been my birthday for about one hour and forty minutes. Even though I spent about half an hour of that watching construction workers welding rails using thermite I already got quite a few birthday wishes at my hackerspace. People seem to care about me at least enough to remember my birthday. :)
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Post by: cesium133 on 12 Sep 2014, 16:52
It'll be all right, probably. I've emailed several other professors and hopefully they won't all ignore me. At this point, I'm hoping for the one in England.

Happy birthday, ankhtahr!
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Post by: jwhouk on 12 Sep 2014, 18:27
Happy birthday, ankhtahr!
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Sep 2014, 14:32
Started at Macy's Friday, unloaded a truck.  It went pretty well.  Trucks Wednesday and Friday this week, both 7 AM - noon.  On Wed I also tutor two students in the afternoon, and then work the beer barn 4 - 9 PM. 

I anticipate sleeping well.  Be nice if it was real money, though.  :(

It was cold enough last night to remind me that I need to bypass the leaking cast-iron coal burner in my heating system.  Soon. 

Gonna need some parts and a really big wrench...
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Post by: Loki on 13 Sep 2014, 14:35
Kugai prolly has some spares...
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Sep 2014, 15:12
Ummm... pipewrench, not lugwrench.  I got some 3 1/2" pipe fittings to disconnect and re-route...

(http://thesmartvan.com/wp-content/uploads/Smedley-Wrench-Cool-Tool-SmartVan.jpg)
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Post by: jwhouk on 13 Sep 2014, 17:01
In the meantime, space heaters?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Sep 2014, 05:06
Just had an excellent tutoring session with my South Korean 12 year old student, discussing the possibility of Scottish independence. We considered some of the things that would be affected, thought about why some people might say yes and others no (in particular we were both cynical about the UK government's concern about losing Scotland, given the quantity of oil off Scottish coastines) and compared the situation to that of South Sudan, Quebec, Hong Kong and Tibet. It's lessons like this one that make my job worthwhile! He very often doesn't seem to be particularly engaged or interested; I think we need to do more critical thinking and political discussion. He initially was enjoying learning about geography and culture of places in the UK but I think his interest has wandered. It's also really cool to see how he's growing up and becoming more mature. He messes around less now, and makes some really good points. I started teaching him when he was nine and could barely speak English, and now we're debating constitutional reform.
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Post by: Carl-E on 14 Sep 2014, 07:10
A tutor's job is to bring the student along enough so that they no longer need the tutor. 

It sounds like you've done well. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Sep 2014, 08:27
I can't take a lot of credit, he's a bright person and his English improved very fast because he lived in England for two years, but when he went back to South Korea his teachers were impressed at his grasp of grammar (apparently a lot of children who live abroad and learn English from native-speaking children come back with dreadful grammar, because English schools don't teach it and they just pick up local dialects) which is down to me as we focused a lot of grammar. Now we're learning alongside each other, I rarely know much about the lesson's topic before I start preparing it!
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Post by: Loki on 14 Sep 2014, 14:40
It is an open secret at my university that tutoring jobs are not only for providing knowledge to lower courses, but also to deepen a tutor's understanding on the topic, particularly if they want to specify in that field (eg write their thesis).
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Post by: Akima on 14 Sep 2014, 16:01
apparently a lot of children who live abroad and learn English from native-speaking children come back with dreadful grammar, because English schools don't teach it and they just pick up local dialects
Very much so. Total immersion is great, but it will not in itself deliver mastery of a language. You have to work on grammar, syntax, and yes, pronunciation too, if you aspire to be an educated user of a language. There is a general problem in Australian schools with regard to children from non-English-speaking backgrounds in this regard. The basic approach is that we will just "pick up" English. We do, but what kind of English? Fortunately, my parents did not let me get away with that...

Of course this actually applies to children of native-language backgrounds too. The fact that schools no longer make much effort to teach grammar etc. is one of many ways in which they reinforce social stratification, in a manner that is hostile to social equality (while often pretending to promote it).
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Post by: Carl-E on 14 Sep 2014, 20:09
My younger daughter, as soon as she started speaking, started correcting her older sister's grammar. 

At the ages of 18 months and 5, respectively. 

Of course, her first words were a complete sentence, and she never crawled, either - just pulled herself up one day and started running. 


She still doesn't like to do something until she can do it right...
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Post by: ankhtahr on 14 Sep 2014, 20:48
Funny. That's exactly what my mother told me about myself. I skipped crawling and babbling.

There are these regular checkups for children here, where they check how well the child is developing. My mother was a little bit scared before the one where they also test if one is able to speak (three-word sentences). I didn't really speak before that. But during the test I even used articles, which baffled her and the doctor.

I'm still a perfectionist. It can be a bit annoying.
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Post by: Loki on 15 Sep 2014, 01:17
I, uh, supposedly could read at the age of four.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 15 Sep 2014, 02:48
Same here. My sister taught me reading as soon as she got to school.  The stuff she learned in school in the morning she'd teach me in the afternoon.
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Post by: Papersatan on 15 Sep 2014, 15:51
Had a job interview today that I think went well; It was with HR, but then they asked me to stay and talk with the manager for the position. 

I also got a rejection from another job I applied to.  It seemed like a really good fit, and my professor (/guy who has me on the hook to maybe hire me) recommended I apply to it, and the rejection was actually a personal email from the department head, which is great, and not the protocol for the university, so I appreciate that.  She said she liked my application but this was a senior position and so a recent graduate was not a good fit, but that I should keep my eye out for other positions in the department in the future.  I'm a little frustrated by that because the posting said they wanted a BA plus 3 years exp, and I have an MS plus 6 months.  I thought that would be close enough for an interview at least, but alas. 

Also, it is my birthday, so I am going out for dinner and drinks and will try not to worry about this employment situation for a few days.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 15 Sep 2014, 16:11
Huh. You seem to share birthdays with another person on the forum.

Congratulations!
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Post by: Metope on 16 Sep 2014, 00:44
Gratulerer med dagen, Kat! You also share your birthday with my best friend, who is turning 26 today and I realised we've been best friends since we were 7, so we'll have our 20 year best friend anniversary next year. Pretty neat!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 17 Sep 2014, 18:20
So today I made some fine, yet slightly scary, experiences. I drove to a town about 50km away. I rented a car for that (I'm using a carsharing service, they're quite cheap, and you don't pay gas, only km and time), to be precise a BMW 1 series. Those things are pretty nice, they make you feel extremely safe. On the return trip, shortly before leaving the town I got into my first vehicle spot check. Not a problem at all, I had my license with me, the car's registration is always in the car with this carsharing service, and I didn't drink anything. Still made my heart race a little bit when I saw the police with their flashlights direct me to the side. Anyway, the officers were really nice (they inquired a little bit about the carsharing service, probably to make sure that I'm really a customer and didn't steal the car), and it didn't take me long to be on the Autobahn. I took the country road (apparently there is no exact translation of the word Landstraße) on the way to the town, so I didn't spend long on the Autobahn then. The return trip on the other hand I stayed on the Autobahn. And like I said, these cars make you feel terribly safe. Maybe a little too safe, because I went faster than I ever went before. No problem at all, I never felt out of control of the car, the road was empty except for some trucks, and I always had the left lane to avoid slower cars overtaking the trucks. Still, driving at 200km/h (about 125mph) is pretty stressful on it's own. Most of the time I was driving at about 150km/h (93mph), but there were two long straight parts which allowed me to drive that fast. I wouldn't dream of driving that fast during the day, when it isn't as easy to mind the traffic. During the day I mostly keep to the recommended 130km/h (80mph). Still, the Autobahn is pretty great as it's quite safe, and basically everybody is driving relatively carefully. But still, like it always is with the Autobahn, no matter how fast you are, there is always somebody faster. I was overtaken several times. Mostly by Mercedes sports cars. Anyway. A very interesting experience, good to know a little bit more about how it feels at such extreme velocities, and good to know that I definitely shouldn't do this during the day. Not that I would have tried that otherwise, but still.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Sep 2014, 00:18
I always thought what was more important than speed limits is control. If I know I don't have control over my car, I have to drive slower.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 18 Sep 2014, 02:11
As a side-note, the human body isn't really made to measure speed - only acceleration. So it feels comfortable at most speeds, as long as they are constant.
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Post by: Thrillho on 18 Sep 2014, 02:16
I always thought what was more important than speed limits is control. If I know I don't have control over my car, I have to drive slower.

In what way would you be lacking control if you're behind the wheel?  :psyduck:
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Post by: Loki on 18 Sep 2014, 02:22
If, for example, the car was drifting to the right or left because of technical faults, or if control was reduced due to slippery road or somesuch.

I am no driver, mind, so I have no idea whether that was what Ankh meant.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 18 Sep 2014, 02:42
I've slowed down over rough road surfaces because I felt I didn't have sufficient control of the vehicle. Same for a road that changes quickly from being a clear straight line to twisty with off camber corners.
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Post by: hedgie on 18 Sep 2014, 02:47
As a side-note, the human body isn't really made to measure speed - only acceleration. So it feels comfortable at most speeds, as long as they are constant.
We can't always feel the acceleration.  It sometimes depends on the mass of what we're on versus the rate of acceleration.  I remember the first time I took a flatmate's Jag on the motorway, I was doing 130 MPH before I looked down at the speed.  I didn't feel any of it (well, a 3 tonne car will do that, even with a V12 under the bonnet).  With a smaller car with the same power to weight ratio, I know I would have felt it, especially since I was used to driving small vehicles with a worse p/w ratio and noticing the acceleration.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 18 Sep 2014, 04:18
If, for example, the car was drifting to the right or left because of technical faults, or if control was reduced due to slippery road or somesuch.

I am no driver, mind, so I have no idea whether that was what Ankh meant.
That'd be a little extreme. When you're driving you notice how well the car follows your "commands". The sideways acceleration when you're driving a curve, how easily you can keep the lane, stuff like that. When you're in a curve and you notice that you need to actively need to watch out so you don't leave the lane (in contrast to the almost subconscious turns of the wheel one always does), or you feel like the curve is too narrow you're definitely going too fast.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Sep 2014, 05:05
Definitely what Ankh, Loki and The Seldom Killer said. If at any point during a drive I feel like I'm going to fast to still drive comfortably (be it road conditions, obstacles, tight turns, or, hey, other drivers (I'm in Turkey atm)), I have to slow down. If you feel your car isn't doing what you want it to, you HAVE to slow down.

Driving can be fun (it is for me, always) but it is a privilege and should be treated as such. If you're driving beyond your abilities you're endangering your fellow drivers and yourself.



The fastest I've ever driven was 240 km/h (approx 150 miles per hour) and it was crayzayyy, I was driving my dads' Mercedes S300 Turbodiesel 1997 and it felt like I was riding on a train. No other car I drove was ever this smooth.
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Post by: jwhouk on 18 Sep 2014, 05:32
We can't always feel the acceleration.  It sometimes depends on the mass of what we're on versus the rate of acceleration.  I remember the first time I took a flatmate's Jag on the motorway, I was doing 130 MPH before I looked down at the speed.  I didn't feel any of it (well, a 3 tonne car will do that, even with a V12 under the bonnet).  With a smaller car with the same power to weight ratio, I know I would have felt it, especially since I was used to driving small vehicles with a worse p/w ratio and noticing the acceleration.

130 MPH?
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Post by: nekowafer on 18 Sep 2014, 05:35
In what way would you be lacking control if you're behind the wheel?  :psyduck:

I often speed quite a bit. I know, it's illegal and dangerous. But it's FUN, damn it.

Anyway, the faster I go, the harder it is to make turns, avoid other cars, etc. I have a fairly new (2012) car, so going fast doesn't make much difference to the car, unless I get over 100 mph. That's when things get a little shaky and it feels like I will have a harder time doing anything but going in a straight line.

On that note, I recently got a speeding ticket for going 87 mph in a 65 mph zone. I had been going 100 mph and slowed down when I saw the cop.

Also on that note, I believe I may have borderline personality disorder, and one of the ways it is manifesting is being reckless.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 18 Sep 2014, 05:53
Not sure if recklessness is an indicator of personality disorder. I often aim to break the 50mph barrier on my bike which probably carries a higher risk of death if you were to crash than at 100mph in the protective shell of a car. Of course if I crash there's a lower risk that I'll harm someone else so I would encourage you to express your recklessness in an appropriate environment.

But back to the point, I don't think I have a personality disorder. I am a bit of an asshat though.
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Post by: nekowafer on 18 Sep 2014, 06:08
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder#Behavior

In this case, recklessness absolutely can be linked to a personality disorder. It isn't always, of course, and I am self-diagnosing so I could certainly be wrong. It's also not the only reason I think I have that particular disorder.

I don't know where I can find an appropriate environment for being reckless.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 18 Sep 2014, 06:26
In your own car? track days, simple rally courses, accessing a local skid pan if you have one. Obviously the more formal motor sports carry their own excitement. High speed descending on a road bike necessarily demands a reasonable degree of fitness so instant gratification is rarely an option. Downhill mountain biking on the otherhand offers a greater myriad of thrills and quite a few places come with chair lifts to take you from bottom to top. YMWV
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 18 Sep 2014, 07:09
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder#Behavior

In this case, recklessness absolutely can be linked to a personality disorder. It isn't always, of course, and I am self-diagnosing so I could certainly be wrong. It's also not the only reason I think I have that particular disorder.

I don't know where I can find an appropriate environment for being reckless.
Is recklessness tied to speeding for you? otherwise there's always base jumping/parachute jumping/what'sthatthingwiththejumpingofbridgeswithacordtiedtoyourankles/...stuff.../MMA.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 18 Sep 2014, 16:57
So I would really like to get into audio engineering a little. I used to be the person responsible for my schools theatre and event sound system (I was also responsible for the theatre lighting, but I'd like to focus on sound now), which sparked my interest. Currently I want to learn more about recording and mastering. On the same page I'm considering starting a podcast, but I haven't decided on a topic yet. I have a Røde M3 and a (pretty shitty and oversized) mixer (it's a Behringer one which introduces some noise, but it supplies the phantom power and contains a USB audio interface as well). I just lack material to record. I might record some guitar pieces, but there aren't many good pieces I can play, and recording training pieces doesn't seem worth the hassle.
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Post by: hedgie on 18 Sep 2014, 17:22
We can't always feel the acceleration.  It sometimes depends on the mass of what we're on versus the rate of acceleration.  I remember the first time I took a flatmate's Jag on the motorway, I was doing 130 MPH before I looked down at the speed.  I didn't feel any of it (well, a 3 tonne car will do that, even with a V12 under the bonnet).  With a smaller car with the same power to weight ratio, I know I would have felt it, especially since I was used to driving small vehicles with a worse p/w ratio and noticing the acceleration.

130 MPH?
In context, I was used to little cars where you'd have to floor the thing just to get it up to a more normal speed, so habit kicked-in when I was driving the Jag.   At that time, I had already done SF to Davis, CA in 45 minutes in a Honda, so I *was* used to speeding, but with the powerful car that wasn't mine, I tried to be careful, so the excessive speed was an accident.  'Course, some folks I have known who are used to the autobahn consider 130 MPH to be a comfortable cruising speed.
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Post by: Grognard on 18 Sep 2014, 20:50
? I've never heard of speeding described as a personality disorder ?

the fastest I've ever been was 160 MPH (257 KpH) in a NASCAR series race car.
http://www.drivepetty.com/race-tracks/charlotte-motor-speedway
Even with a highly trained driver behind the wheel, that is a bit hairy.

As a police officer, I had a transmission suffer a catastrophic failure while in pursuit: speed was about 115 MPH (185KpH)  Almost made me lose control, and a following squad car was also put out of pursuit when it caught transmission debris through the radiator.

in my POV, my fastest was 118 MPH (190 KpH) in my Dodge Intrepid ES.  I had plenty of power and acceleration left  under the pedal, I just ran out of clear straightaway.  It's one thing to risk my neck.  Totally unacceptable to endanger another driver.

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Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Sep 2014, 23:18
So I would really like to get into audio engineering a little. I used to be the person responsible for my schools theatre and event sound system (I was also responsible for the theatre lighting, but I'd like to focus on sound now), which sparked my interest. Currently I want to learn more about recording and mastering. On the same page I'm considering starting a podcast, but I haven't decided on a topic yet. I have a Røde M3 and a (pretty shitty and oversized) mixer (it's a Behringer one which introduces some noise, but it supplies the phantom power and contains a USB audio interface as well). I just lack material to record. I might record some guitar pieces, but there aren't many good pieces I can play, and recording training pieces doesn't seem worth the hassle.

It's a good place to start! Hearing those records might be what inspires you to become better at playing the guitar.

Besides, nobody expects you to record a Stairway to Heaven on your first try. In fact I'll send you the first thing I ever recorded via pm (it's too horrible to post here).
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Post by: Carl-E on 18 Sep 2014, 23:25
1974 Ford Maverick coupe - 1700 pounds, with a 302 in3 V8 under the hood - a non-standard option.  The thing was grossly overpowered. 

It was September, 1982 on a long, clear stretch of the Ohio Turnpike, and when that Corvette passed me, I took it as a challenge.  We played leapfrog, passing each other several times.  I'll never know exactly how fast I was going, the speedo only went up to 120 mph, and I sprang it when I got past that point. 

Fortunately, after leaving the vette well behind on my last pass, my exit came up.  I slowed and got int the exit lane towards the ramp, and sure enough the corvette showed up. 

Pursued by two Ohio state troopers. 


They never even gave my little Maverick a second look...


 :angel:



Fixed your tags - B
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 18 Sep 2014, 23:49
Speeding is not a personality disorder, but by speeding you are assuming an increased risk, and a doing so recklessly can be a symptom.

Today I went to a book release party which was lovely and anxiety inducing. It was the sort of event which reminded me of my weird position wrt class. There was live jazz and a lovely spread of expensive snacks: meats and cheeses mostly but not the cheap ones. There was wine and mingling professionals, and I felt a bit awkward being unemployed.

This was all the more awkward because the event was partially hosted by the company I interviewed with but am still waiting to hear about. At one point I was in a circle with the two owners of that company, who both interviewed me, and a stranger who asked me where I work, and I said " I'm unaffiliated at the moment " but felt weird about it. I recently decided that networking is just business flirting, and this was the equivalent of having had a second date with someone where you make out, and you both express interest in a third date, but then a month for by and you see each other at a friend's party and you both pretend there is nothing going on, and then someone asks "are you seeing anyone?" And it's more awkward.
At the end the one guy did a sorry we didn't get to talk, we should sometime thing, and my god it's just like sex flirting, only I'm bad at this because I'm invested and self contious and unsure of the protocols.
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Post by: Carl-E on 19 Sep 2014, 00:09
unsure of the protocols.

For someone who just dissected the situation perfectly, I think you have a firm grip on the protocols.  It really is just like flirting - the lines are drawn by the other party, and the only way to find them is to trip over them.  Advance with caution... the stakes are higher for you than for them, but you knew that, or you wouldn't be feeling unsure about it. 

I wish I could be more help, but I'm a klutz at both kinds of flirting anyway. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Sep 2014, 05:00
I had my opticians appointment, and I'm getting glasses with a prism in them to correct what seems likely to be a binocular issue, but they're sending me to the hospital for more thorough checks just in case it's something more serious. I was impressed by the branch manager, she was efficient whilst being friendly and very helpful when I had to choose frames. I've ended up with some brown squareish half frames, and some reddish full frames. I preferred the brown ones, but both the women working in the shop preferred the red, so I got both since the second pair was half price anyway and I'm good at breaking things.
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Sep 2014, 05:24
Fastest I've ever driven was 115mph and that was on I5 on my way to Coachella last year. We made it there from Livermore in less than 6 hours. We left at 10pm and never saw a single cop til we hit the Grapevine heading into Los Angeles. I'll never forget that drive.


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Post by: jwhouk on 19 Sep 2014, 07:19
With me, stability has always been the issue with my cars. I've gone over 100 mph a few times, but the speedos on most of my cars purchased over the last 25 years didn't go much higher.
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Post by: nekowafer on 19 Sep 2014, 07:25
Speeding is not a personality disorder, but by speeding you are assuming an increased risk, and a doing so recklessly can be a symptom.

Exactly. Thank you for explaining that so well.

Is recklessness tied to speeding for you? otherwise there's always base jumping/parachute jumping/what'sthatthingwiththejumpingofbridgeswithacordtiedtoyourankles/...stuff.../MMA.

It's difficult for me to identify where I'm being reckless on my own. It's mostly defined by others, and then I go, "oh yeah I guess that is pretty darn reckless." I am also terrified of all those things. I have been smoking a lot of pot, having a lot of unprotected sex, and speeding a lot. My therapist says that I am being overly reckless. I think I'm having fun, but my therapist thinks it's more than that.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 19 Sep 2014, 07:59
Probably complicated by the point that individually those things would be fun on their own. However, if they're developing into a pattern of behaviour then recklessness can become an issue. Most people will do something reckless every now and again but if you're demonstrating a developing pattern of behaviour then there's the associated risk of escalation. So yes, you're having fun, but how you derive that fun could develop into harmful behaviour. Hopefully your therapist will be able to offer some valuable direction on this.
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Post by: Welu on 19 Sep 2014, 08:21
Why did I agree to do an 8 hour floor shift at the second shop instead of my normal office work? I know why, because I think I'm useless and am terrified of disappointing people, but I was just talking last night about how I was hoping to get out of customer service if my money situation improves. I don't want to open the option of doing floor work in the other shop as well.
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Post by: Active Madness on 20 Sep 2014, 05:09
I'm going to sound like a real stick-in-the-mud, but the fastest I've ever driven is 100km/h. I'm always a fairly cautious driver and my car is reasonably old, so I always tend to stick on the speed limit or very slightly over it. That said, I'm not one of those knobsacks who'll drive slowly in the overtaking lane, that's just plain being an asshat.

Mind you, there's a guy who always seems to end up behind me driving to work who always tries to tailgate me. I'm talking he's pretty much sitting in my back seat. So, if there's nobody else on the road I'll slow right down out of sheer vindictiveness because tailgating tends to make me super anxious.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Sep 2014, 08:08
Well I am now one wisdom tooth down - the actual extraction was mildly uncomfortable (mostly because the dentist kept trapping my lip on the other side of my mouth between my jaw and the whatever-it-was thing that he was using to get the tooth out) and it's now seven hours later and I've not taken any pain killers. The anaesthetic was weird, my mouth was numb and I couldn't smile properly for the first hour or so. Now I've got a slight ache where the tooth was and might take a couple of paracetamol before I go out in two hours. It could have been far worse!
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Post by: hedgie on 20 Sep 2014, 08:17
Screw the paracetemol, if you want to destroy your liver, booze is a much better friend.
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Post by: cesium133 on 20 Sep 2014, 08:18
I can never remember which it is... is paracetamol what us Americans call Tylenol or ibuprofen? Ibuprofen is better than Tylenol for this (especially because too much Tylenol can mess up your liver...)
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 20 Sep 2014, 08:22
There must be ... fifty ways to love your liver.

(Drink lots of Jack, Mac,
Down a RobRoy Boy,
Take swills of Whiskey, Lee,
Take a break to pee.)
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Post by: hedgie on 20 Sep 2014, 08:23
Tyolnol or acietomephen.  But either way, it craps out your body.  Sadly, most opiate painkillers (like the type that are at least here done after tooth extractions) are cut with that shit…  Guess it's to punish those who might become addicts.
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Post by: cesium133 on 20 Sep 2014, 08:28
Yeah, the painkillers they gave me after my wisdom tooth extraction was cut with tylenol. I quit taking it as soon as I could and switched to ibuprofen. The downside of ibuprofen, though, is if you take it for more than a couple days it gives you an upset stomach. I'd rather have that, though, than liver damage.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Sep 2014, 08:38
I don't think taking 1g of paracetamol is going to do me too much harm, guys. I don't drink alcohol, and I probably take no more than 10g of paracetamol in a year, if that. I don't have any ibuprofen.
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Post by: hedgie on 20 Sep 2014, 08:42
Wait, you're from the UK and *don't* drink like a school of fish.  I am now officially bewildered.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Sep 2014, 09:11
I have never seen a school (or indeed a shoal) of fish drinking, so I can't tell you whether we do so similarly or not ;)

I drink very rarely, and could quite happily never drink again. In fact I might easily not do. I didn't realise British people particularly had a reputation for drinking a lot?
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Post by: LTK on 20 Sep 2014, 09:12
Screw the paracetemol, if you want to destroy your liver, booze is a much better friend.
I can never remember which it is... is paracetamol what us Americans call Tylenol or ibuprofen? Ibuprofen is better than Tylenol for this (especially because too much Tylenol can mess up your liver...)
Tylenol is the brand name for paracetamol. Ibuprofen is a stronger painkiller but as I recall it can also cause heart problems. Basically there's no painkiller that doesn't have a risk of killing you one way or another, so pick your poison.

Personally I only took ibuprofen after my jaw surgery and for everything else I stick to aspirins.
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Post by: Aimless on 20 Sep 2014, 11:55
They have different mechanisms of action and comparable efficacy for their respective indications. Paracetamol 1gx3-4 for a few days is just fine for most people whose aliases begin with "Barmy" :o
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Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Sep 2014, 12:20
I turned out not to have any paracetamol either, so it was a choice between flu medication and co-codamol. I went with the latter. It is not as strong as I had anticipated but on the plus side I did not have the horrible side effects my mum kept telling me I'd get (she's allergic, so I was cautious).
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Sep 2014, 13:47
Oh. Just for the record the fastest I've ever gone in something I've personally been in control of is just around 315 MPH.

Swing with the wing baby, swing with the wing.
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Post by: pwhodges on 20 Sep 2014, 16:44
I turned out not to have any paracetamol either, so it was a choice between flu medication and co-codamol. I went with the latter.

That is in any case paracetamol and codeine; it's also my go-to painkiller (though I rarely use a painkiller anyway).
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Post by: jwhouk on 20 Sep 2014, 18:12
Funny, I thought it was called "acetaminophen."

And I use Tramadol, thankyewverramuch. But back when I had my wisdom teeth chiseled out (yes, chiseled; those mothers were impacted in the back on the one side), the dentist gave me Brett Favre's favorite pain medication, Vicodin.

Tramadol has since climbed the ladder in the FDA's schedule of controlled medications, but I'm okay with that. It knocks out the back pain when I get a flare-up.
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Post by: cesium133 on 20 Sep 2014, 18:29
Eh, I usually end up just calling it tylenol (it's a genericized brand name like aspirin, right?)
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Post by: hedgie on 20 Sep 2014, 19:23
I have never seen a school (or indeed a shoal) of fish drinking, so I can't tell you whether we do so similarly or not ;)

I drink very rarely, and could quite happily never drink again. In fact I might easily not do. I didn't realise British people particularly had a reputation for drinking a lot?
Well, IME, most folks from the UK I know tend to put down enough to get labelled an alcoholic in the US, and most days their routine consisted of going to work, then heading to the pub until one was pissed enough to head home (and possibly have more).  Kinda like Shaun of the Dead sans zombies.
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Post by: LTK on 20 Sep 2014, 19:29
Eh, I usually end up just calling it tylenol (it's a genericized brand name like aspirin, right?)

Whether a brand name is genericized or not can always be disputed but there's already an existing nonproprietary name (paracetamol), which is as genericized as you can get as Tylenol is only a brand in the US.

Wow: Wikipedia informs me that some people were poisoned and killed with cyanide-laced Tylenol in 1982. What the hell happened then?
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Post by: cesium133 on 20 Sep 2014, 19:33
Yeah, but nobody in the U.S. calls it paracetamol.
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Post by: hedgie on 20 Sep 2014, 19:47
*cough* I generally do.
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Post by: Papersatan on 20 Sep 2014, 22:06
Even *Tylenol* calls it acetaminophen in the US.
 
(http://www.tylenol.com/sites/default/files/prod_images/Extra%20Strength%20Tylenol%20Caplets_0.jpg)

 I had never heard the term paracetamol until I encountered a conversation on the drug with non-americans.  Most people here would not know what that was if you asked for it.
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Post by: Carl-E on 20 Sep 2014, 23:27
Guys, guys - Tylenol / Acetaminophen / paracetamol is ridiculously dangerous.  The maximum recommended dosage, if surpassed even for a brief amount of time, can devastate your liver.  We're talking failure in a relatively short period of time (a couple of months). 

And what's that maximum dosage? 

1 gram, 4 times a day.  Two of those extra strength tabs pictured above.  Take a third at serious risk to your health.  The regular strength is 325 mg, so three of them is still a safe dose. 

Ibuprofin (Advil) will cause stomach upset, yes, but it takes massive amounts to do serious damage.  Same with Naproxen Sodium (Aleve).  All three (along with plain aspirin) are anti-inflammatories, which is how they reduce pain, and why they're mixed with codeine (you can get codeine mixed with any of the three, but Tylenol is most common) because codeine isn't an anti-inflammatory, it just kills pain by deadening nerves temporarily. 

I learned some of this through my wife, a PA student, and the rest from an extensive report on the radio - here's the report (http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/505/use-only-as-directed), and a transcript (http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/505/transcript).  Warning: it's an hour-long program, but the bsics are laid out early. 

No matter what you call it, be careful.  "Some is good" rarely means "more is better". 
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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Sep 2014, 23:59
I switched to naproxen sodium for my daily pain relief.
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Post by: Carl-E on 21 Sep 2014, 00:37
I use it for the collapsing discs in my back - one in the morning, an occasional one in the evening.  Ibuprofin works well for me for muscular aches and pains, and I only use Tylenol for my very rare headaches.  It seems to do best on those for me, better than aspirin.  None of them bother my stomach. 
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Post by: Aimless on 21 Sep 2014, 02:18
Saying that paracetamol is ridiculously dangerous because it will fuck you up if you take more than the maximum recommended dose every day for two months is like saying alcohol is ridiculously dangerous because it will fuck you up if you drink a bottle of wine every day for a couple of months. It's true, but, if you're overconsuming a substance for a long period of time, maybe the danger shouldn't be attributed entirely to the substance.

There are a few rare individuals that metabolize drugs differently from most other people to the point where they may be at significant risk of harm when using even normal or low doses of various drugs. Apart from these people, paracetamol is very safe for most people if you don't exceed the maximum recommended dosage of 1g x3-4/d. There is little to be gained from taking higher doses. If it works for you, but doesn't cover the whole day, you may consider slow-release formulations. If it doesn't work for you, maybe some other intervention is in order.

Every single class of painkillers is associated with a more-or-less significant risk of adverse effects. Ibuprofen, naproxen and other similar antiinflammatory drugs are generally well-tolerated by healthy youngish individuals, but we regularly get people in the ER with gastrointestinal bleeds most likely caused by these kinds of drugs. We also see the occasional hospitalisation due to interactions between these drugs and other more dangerous drugs. Tramadol is relatively safe for short periods when used appropriately (right regimen and for the right kind of pain), but we regularly get people in the ER who've had seizures from moderate-to-high doses of tramadol, and never mind the growing number of people who've become literally addicted to tramadol and can't kick it even after its efficacy has been drastically reduced. Codeine and similar drugs are extremely effective for many kinds of pain, esp. in combination with paracetamol, but lose their efficacy over time while the side-effects become increasingly prominent.

Every drug has its risks, but paracetamol is the only in the list above that is reasonably safe for almost everyone to use every single day as long as you stick to a reasonable dose, and reasonably effective for most kinds of mild-to-moderate pain, in combination with another class of drugs if necessary.

That being said, pain-treatment should be guided not only by concerns about safety but also--and primarily--by the type of pain. In many cases of acute and clearly inflammatory musculoskeletal pain, a short course of antiinflammatory drugs, ranging from ibuprofen to high-dose naproxen or the like, is the way to go. In many cases of chronic back-/neck-pain, I've had much greater success from referring patients to multimodal pain-rehabilitation, an experienced physiotherapist, a warm swimming pool or sauna, steroid-injections or nerve blocks, etc. In many of those cases, a drug directed towards a neuropathic component of the pain, can be a far more valuable supplement than any antiinflammatory or opioid drug. However, there's also a need for rescue-meds. For some people, nothing but opioid drugs seem to help, and those people end up at least having to switch drugs from time to time. And, with chronic headaches of various kinds, there's a large arsenal of more-or-less effective pharmacological and non-pharmacological treatments.

I realise I work in a country where people have greater and more affordable access to these measures, so all this is very easy for me to say. I also don't mean to offend anyone--you know your body and your pain better than I do, and you know what works for you and what doesn't. I speak only from my own experiences with patients who have been done a great disservice by the healthcare-system's sometimes irrational or uninformed approach to treating pain, and from my experience of what can be gained from taking a different approach. peace
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Post by: Akima on 21 Sep 2014, 03:19
Interesting. Doctors here frequently recommend 2x665mg three times a day for chronic pain associated with osteoarthritis, in a specific formulation available as Panadol Osteo (https://www.gsk.com.au/products_consumer-healthcare-products_product-listing.aspx?view=51). It is supposed to be a layered "slow release" medication to provide eight hours of pain relief, but I don't know anything about the pharmokinetics beyond that. It is on the Pharmaceutical Benefits Scheme, but you can buy it without a prescription as a "behind the counter" medication, which is to say that you have to buy it through a pharmacist and they will warn you that you should take no additional paracetamol-based medicines at all. An alternative is 2x500mg four times a day. Doctors seem to be much more comfortable with this regime than, for example, meloxicam (Mobic), where they fret constantly about ulcers and intestinal bleeding, sometimes prescribing pantoprazole (Somac) as a sort of prophylactic.

I don't think paracetamol/acetaminophen is ridiculously dangerous. Exceeding the recommended dose of any medication is a bad idea, and I don't think that overdosing continuously for two months really counts as a "brief amount of time". It is probably a bad idea to self-medicate continuously with any pain-killer for two months without consulting your doctor, even if you don't exceed the recommended dose on the packet. There is a reason there is usually a warning to "See your doctor if pain persists" in the small print.

Disclaimer: I work at a hospital, but in IT. I have no medical training, I just have a grandmother who suffers from fairly serious arthritis.
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Post by: LTK on 21 Sep 2014, 03:23
Even *Tylenol* calls it acetaminophen in the US.
Well of course they do, being associated with the nonproprietary name is bad for their business!
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Post by: Aimless on 21 Sep 2014, 03:46
Interesting. Doctors here frequently recommend 2x665mg three times a day for chronic pain associated with osteoarthritis, in a specific formulation available as Panadol Osteo (https://www.gsk.com.au/products_consumer-healthcare-products_product-listing.aspx?view=51). 

It's my go-to prescription for long-term use :) I don't think we have that OTC, but I haven't checked in a while.
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Post by: Loki on 21 Sep 2014, 03:55
Side note, but I am really surprised at how... flashy the package of those drugs is.

See, in Germany, most drug packages look really bland, like most in this picture:

(http://www.unterwasserfoto.at/cache/3067/AT009507.jpg.jpeg)

The preferred colors are white and blue and occasionally a pastel orange. Whether that is due to cost or for making it look more clinical, I don't know.

The Tylenol picture shown earlier, with its bright colors and the "trendy" font is literally something I would have expected from chewing gum or the like:

(http://i.ebayimg.com/t/Wrigleys-Kaugummis-Spearmint-Doublemint-Juicy-Fruit-Big-Red-8-Packungen-/00/s/MTUwMFgxNTAw/z/7mMAAOxyo4lRjO3k/$T2eC16NHJFwFFZ-+s5ryBRjO3kKq9g~~60_35.JPG)
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Post by: Aimless on 21 Sep 2014, 04:05
Only to be expected from those vain Caplets
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Post by: Carl-E on 21 Sep 2014, 05:27
Aimless, Akima, the ridiculousness I referenced isn't a matter of intentional overdosing. 

I know what I cited was really long, but as put out in that report the problem is that, as a brand, Tylenol was touted as "the safest pain reliever you could buy", and so people think a little more won't hurt!  It's so easy for someone with chronic pain to go a little further without even realizing it - taking it 5 or six times a day instead of four, taking an extra tablet or two each time "just for a little while" (and then it becomes months). 

And through the usual american litigation system, the package warnings didn't even mention liver damage until just recently, and for quite a while there was no warning label at all

While in a perfect world, no one would exceed the recommended dose, in reality there are many, many people who don't even know what the recommended dosage is - two or three at a time, whenever you feel pain, right?  "Whatever works" is the American way, after all. 

It's a genuine problem, and overdosng with other anti-inflammatories in a similar way is nowhere near as dangerous!  I'm not trying to fear-monger, just point out that it's not the same across the board.  Ignorance prompted this (especially the attitude that they "cut" codeine with this stuff - they can prescribe pure codeine, that's not the issue), and the fact that I was surprised to see 1g pills mentioned by Barmy.  I know she'd not take an extra - she was not even taking one - but that's just too easy an overdose setup, taking an extra one a couple of times a day for someone in extreme pain would really be a problem! 

OK, I just wanted to educate a little, it's a little known issue, and more of a problem here than outside the US where doctors are listened to and labels are probably read.  Happy to drop it now. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Sep 2014, 05:56
Oh not 1g pills, two 0.5g pills. The leaflet says take one or two pills every three to four hours, not exceeding more than 8 pills.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 21 Sep 2014, 07:20
Even *Tylenol* calls it acetaminophen in the US.
Well of course they do, being associated with the nonproprietary name is bad for their business!
:? Acetaminophen is the nonproprietary name here, that's what we're saying.
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Post by: jwhouk on 21 Sep 2014, 11:03
For you young'ns who weren't around in 1982: when Tylenol first came out as an alternative pain reliever to aspirin, it came in capsules. In 1982, some sicko in the greater Chicago area discovered he could inject the capsules with potassium cyanide. There were a ton of reported deaths, and Tylenol maker McNeil Laboratories had a huge PR problem with the safety of their brand.

What they did was twofold: they first put seals and tamper-resistant bands on their products; then, they changed the capsules to what they called "caplets" - the solid-bodied medications we see today.

Johnson & Johnson, who owned the Tylenol brand, went out of their way to promote the safety of the medication. That is what led (many years later) to the issues with OD'ing and liver shutdown side-effects.

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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Sep 2014, 12:35
Any medication is dangerous if taken in too large a quantity over too long a time. It's hardly the fault of the medication if people don't bother reading the leaflet that comes with it before taking any. I doubt there are many adults in the UK who don't know the correct dose for paracetamol.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 21 Sep 2014, 12:56
I plucked apples today. Due to a russian boycot apple growers can't get rid of them. Apple growers are advised to let the fruit rot on the tree. One grower decided to just open his doors for the public and let them pick at fifty cents a kilo.

I got twenty three kilo.

We were not alone, though. Couple of thousand people showed up.

It was amazing fun. Go pluck some apples!
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Post by: Masterpiece on 21 Sep 2014, 13:54
Any medication Everything is dangerous if taken in too large a quantity over too long a time.
Fixed that for you, dear.
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Post by: Active Madness on 21 Sep 2014, 14:17
I plucked apples today. Due to a russian boycot apple growers can't get rid of them. Apple growers are advised to let the fruit rot on the tree. One grower decided to just open his doors for the public and let them pick at fifty cents a kilo.

I got twenty three kilo.

We were not alone, though. Couple of thousand people showed up.

It was amazing fun. Go pluck some apples!

I believe in situations like that you should. Nay, you are honour bound to make cider!
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Post by: Grognard on 21 Sep 2014, 20:20
nearly 50 lbs. of apples?!!

I see a lot of apple cobbler in someone's future.

so send me some.  :D
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Post by: Akima on 21 Sep 2014, 21:59
Due to a russian boycot apple growers can't get rid of them.
Are the Russians boycotting apples (constipated comrades?), or the growers boycotting Russia?
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Post by: hedgie on 21 Sep 2014, 22:09
Russian food boycott was caused by Putin (or is it Puto?) retaliating for EU sanctions.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 21 Sep 2014, 23:07
Sorry that I was unclear. Yes, the russians have stopped importing foods from ... certain countries. Imagine that.

Made apple sauce. Yummie. Fresh apple sauce ...
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 22 Sep 2014, 00:24
I have recipe for a fantastic apple cake somewhere. I'll have to see if I can find it and put it up in the cooking thread.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 22 Sep 2014, 01:49
That would come in so handy ... because I have a few apples left over still.
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Post by: Thrillho on 22 Sep 2014, 06:06
Wait, you're from the UK and *don't* drink like a school of fish.  I am now officially bewildered.

Not sure how I feel about this, joke or otherwise.
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Post by: Aimless on 22 Sep 2014, 07:03
No no no make apple-butter. Flavour with cinnamon and the like and cook it until it's thick and brown and delicious.
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Post by: ev4n on 22 Sep 2014, 08:48
Yeah, the painkillers they gave me after my wisdom tooth extraction was cut with tylenol. I quit taking it as soon as I could and switched to ibuprofen. The downside of ibuprofen, though, is if you take it for more than a couple days it gives you an upset stomach. I'd rather have that, though, than liver damage.

NSAIDs go a bit further than upset stomachs....    :roll:
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Post by: ankhtahr on 22 Sep 2014, 10:52
I need to get used to the term NSAID, the German abbreviation is NSAR.
I'm not supposed to take NSAIDs anymore due to another medication I'm taking. I still don't know what other painkillers I should take, the painkillers one can get over the counter here are very limited. So far I haven't needed any, but I do have a tendency to get migraines every few months, and then I wouldn't know what to do.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 22 Sep 2014, 12:52
So apparently, despite the fact that Tylenol and Sudafed are basically the only medicines I'm allowed to take right now, if I actually read the packaging I would have realized that I can take a fuckton more of it than I thought. As in, every 4 hours, not every 12 hours. Which explains why I felt like crap for 8 hours yesterday.
:facepalm:
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Post by: Akima on 22 Sep 2014, 15:18
I do have a tendency to get migraines every few months, and then I wouldn't know what to do.
That is what doctors are for. Go and see one. Pretty please?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 Sep 2014, 15:31
My doctor gave me metamizole when I told her about my chronic headaches. That shit is something - my headache was gone pretty fast but it has so many toxicities that I only use it in worst cases (and have only used it thrice so far).

In Germany it is known as Novalgin-Tropfen. It is prescribed to almost every senior with chronic pain (a fact I learned during my Civic duty).
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Post by: ankhtahr on 22 Sep 2014, 16:08
Hoo. Novalgin is pretty strong.

Akima: I sincerely doubt they'll do anything besides giving me a prescription for painkillers. Both of my parents have those migraines, luckily I get them relatively rarely. My mother had them at least every two weeks. My father around monthly. For me it's every three months if I'm lucky. With my mother it has been reduced to the same frequency as with me, when she was given a NARI, a noradrenaline reuptake inhibitor. Sadly that was an off-label use for that medication, and since it has been found ineffective for it's original purpose the health insurance won't pay for it anymore and she can't afford to buy it herself.

For migraines I usually relied on "Aspirin Migräne", in which the acetylsalicylic acid is buffered, because it would otherwise lead to stomach aches. The normal dose (also according to the leaflet) is 1 gram. If I take that early enough I'll manage to avoid the whole migraine. If I don't take it early enough it'll just help with the pain, which will then hold on for around two or three days. But Aspirin is a NSAID, and I'm not supposed to take those now. From what I've read basically my only option now is Paracetamol, and I know that at least on my mother's side of the family allergies against it are common. I never tried Paracetamol because of that.
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Post by: hedgie on 23 Sep 2014, 02:43
Wait, you're from the UK and *don't* drink like a school of fish.  I am now officially bewildered.

Not sure how I feel about this, joke or otherwise.
Okay, I'll start off by apologising to all the UK crowd, for implying that the whole country is filled with drunkards.  I don't think that's actually the case, but I think that there is a cultural difference, that is totally *my* fault for typing what I did.  The US doesn't generally (I've actually spent time in more places out of this country than in it, and some of the places I have lived in the US are different than what's common.  I plead ignorance, your honour).  Where I live, at least right now, most people walk quickly past the bar/pub/club, and there's a frequent reaction of people passing very quickly by, if they see anyone standing outside, and that people who frequent such places are either drunks, or, in the last case, kids partying away all their parents' money.

Depending on where one lives, IME, much of Europe has a much stronger pub culture, where it's basically the place where you want to see your mates, or meet strangers, but don't have plans to go anywhere more interesting.  Much of the US is more puritanical, since we have counties that don't even really allow booze, to places where there are strict "Blue Laws" (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_laws_in_the_United_States), where people are discouraged from having any fun because of religious fundamentalism.  There is also a stereotype of pubs here being full of violent people (bikers, sailors on shore-leave, etc), and even casual drinking isn't as culturally accepted.  I've, via some osmosis, seen my fair share of the bad shite that many people think goes along with drinking culture. 

I honestly prefer the way it was when I was in the UK, and nobody would judge you for ordering a couple of pints (real pints, mind you, not those shitty American ones) with lunch.
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Post by: Aimless on 23 Sep 2014, 03:31
Akima: I sincerely doubt they'll do anything besides giving me a prescription for painkillers.

Your doctor may potentially be able to do at least two useful things for you in this situation.

1. Assess whether or not it might be okay for you to take some form of NSAID in the event of a migraine attack anyway by looking at your other meds to see why they may be inappropriate to combine with NSAIDs. If, for example, the combination may lead to a dramatic change in the concentrations of your other medicines, an NSAID may be very inappropriate. If, on the other hand, the risk consists of a marginally increased risk of getting a bleeding ulcer, one or two doses of eg. aspirin or some other NSAID may be perfectly acceptable, esp. in combination with something to protect the stomach. Your doctor may help you clear this up.

2. Assess whether or not you may be a candidate for some other form of migraine-specific emergency meds such as a triptan (many different kinds and formulations, eg. spray). If your headaches have been determined to be pure migraines (rather than some other form of headache) and your blood-pressure's okay and you don't have an extremely high dose of any meds that may theoretically interact with triptans then it may be worth asking your doctor. It's a reasonable request: you need to know what you can do in the event of a severe migraine attack.

If your migraines aren't too severe and come infrequently to boot, or if you know that they have a strong musculoskeletal component, then you could probably do without the above. I can't say any more, not least because half the drugs regularly prescribed in Germany are banned in Sweden due to our patients' weaker constitutions :x :D Novalgin being one example of many.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 23 Sep 2014, 03:59
I am pretty sure that it's a real migraine. It has the classical symptoms of a migraine. First Aura, then headache with nausea, light and sound sensitivity. My mother had it diagnosed, and I know that even my great grandmother had very strong migraine attacks. She used to lock herself into a darkened room with a bucket for vomiting.
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Post by: Aimless on 23 Sep 2014, 06:42
In that case it def. wouldn't hurt to ask your doctor about migraine-specific meds such as a triptan spray or one of those tablets that just melt in your mouth and may or may not taste horrible :o :)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Sep 2014, 07:17
Ankh, it's always sensible to see a medical professional rather than self-diagnosing, even if you're pretty sure that you're right. All of those factors are relevant information to give to the doctor, but they don't mean there isn't something else playing a part in your personal situation.
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Post by: Welu on 23 Sep 2014, 09:43
While getting an official diagnosis from the appropriate people is preferable, it's bloody hard to get one and sucks in the mean time when you're unable to do anything with your ailment because of lack of an official diagnosis and seeing the people who could help you means being on a list for at least nine fucking months.

That mini-rant isn't really constructive. I'm a bit pissed off with the local health system right now.
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Post by: Lines on 23 Sep 2014, 11:25
hedgie, that's not my experience at all. I don't know where you live, and I can't speak for the whole country, but I don't think that all places view drinking as bad. Especially not in my beer-centric city.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Sep 2014, 14:27
I agree that it sucks how long you have to wait for a diagnosis. Months-long waiting lists are completely ridiculous; I fully sympathise.

I got a new lamp! It is pretty and purple and a very simple shape but I like it. I needed a bedside light and finally got round to ordering one. By some miracle I was home when they delivered it (I've been trying to get a delivery of some business cards for the last week and they have still utterly failed to deliver it when I've been here, despite my ringing up several times and specifying "Monday afternoon" or "just leave it in the porch").

Also I applied for a couple more jobs, or rather more accurately a couple more schemes within the job of student ambassador which I already got. One is to give presentations at local schools to encourage students to apply for my course, and another is to be an ambassador for the whole university, not just my campus. That in turn can lead onto another job, which also sounded interesting. Gainful employment!
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Post by: Welu on 23 Sep 2014, 14:52
Sounds exciting, May! Hope good job things happen for you!
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Sep 2014, 13:26
I have headaches so bad that I puked. I'm not feeling very well.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 25 Sep 2014, 14:21
Been there. Sympathies. Try a long, hot shower. Preferably in the dark.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Sep 2014, 14:25
oh. Oh no. I'm getting SICK. NOOOOOOOO.

:(
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Sep 2014, 14:33
Now my head is pulsating and my feet shivering. Using voice over commands cut I can not type anymore I think I should medication
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Post by: Lines on 26 Sep 2014, 20:52
Oh noes! I hope you feel better. :c  I hope it's not a really bad flu or something.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 26 Sep 2014, 22:19
Now my head is pulsating and my feet shivering. Using voice over commands cut I can not type anymore I think I should medication
That doesn't sound good at all. Get well soon!
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Sep 2014, 07:05
Masterpeice is hardcore. 


I mean, would you be able to livepost your vomit?   :?


Hope you're feeling better soon, but some of those symptoms, if not recurring, may be from a virus and not just a migraine - you may want to see a vet doctor. 
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Post by: Masterpiece on 27 Sep 2014, 08:02
I took some painkillers and I got better. Slept through the entire night though.

Yesterdays comic helped.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Sep 2014, 13:57
Guess where I'm going tomorrow.
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Post by: Loki on 28 Sep 2014, 14:52
To Britain? To the doctor?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Sep 2014, 15:16
Well maybe I should have posted this in the Beer Thread.
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Post by: Carl-E on 28 Sep 2014, 18:58
Ahh.  Munich, then. 
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Sep 2014, 19:03
I already live in Munich, but yes.
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Post by: Akima on 28 Sep 2014, 20:08
When you eat lunch, are you munchin' in München?  :claireface:
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Sep 2014, 20:12
Akima that was horrible.



Also, yes
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 29 Sep 2014, 06:05
Are you ever lunchin' on Zwiebelkuchen in München?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 29 Sep 2014, 06:07
Akima: Master of common sense, Queen of terrible puns.
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Post by: ev4n on 29 Sep 2014, 07:29
Interesting day yesterday.  I unexpectedly may have learned a bit of 100-year old family gossip.

I posted on Facebook that it was Home Children day in Ontario, with a bit about my grandparents and great uncle.  A cousin in England ** reposted it, then my sister did.

Turns out the cousin hit up my sister yesterday to find out more.

It turns out that back before my grandfather came over as a home child, there was a split in the family due to a brother being born of mixed race.  The family kind of fractured (some cut ties with mixed race brother, some did not), and English cousin and my sister had different ideas as to what might have happened that led to 2 brothers being sent to Canada as orphan labourers.  In any case, the UK split in the family was something that I don't think any of us in Canada even knew about.  Apparently, the English family is only recently starting to reconnect, in much the same way that the Canadian family is starting to reconnect wtih England. 

E

** I've probably told the story somewhere else on here, but we've really only been reconnected to the England family for less than 20 years.
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Post by: Carl-E on 29 Sep 2014, 20:22
Are you ever lunchin' on Zwiebelkuchen in München?

Have you ever picked your feet in Poughkeepsie? 
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Post by: Welu on 30 Sep 2014, 12:29
Car broke.
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Post by: cesium133 on 30 Sep 2014, 13:00
Are you ever lunchin' on Zwiebelkuchen in München?

Have you ever picked your feet in Poughkeepsie?
Do I feel a pun formin' in Norman?
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Post by: Loki on 30 Sep 2014, 14:51
There was a pun formin' in Norman,
which came from the brain of a foreman.
Distracted, he died, not paying attention; alas, the obituary won't mention
what pun might've been formin' in Norman.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 02 Oct 2014, 03:34
I seem to have acquired an extra child for the day, so my own, the one I look after on thursday and one extra makes three. It's a zoo.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Oct 2014, 07:03
Being home sick is dangerous - I just applied for another job. It's essentially one I already do, except this time it's paid, so that would be an improvement.
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Post by: ev4n on 03 Oct 2014, 04:07
Being home sick is dangerous - I just applied for another job. It's essentially one I already do, except this time it's paid, so that would be an improvement.

dangerous?  You keep using that word.  I do not think it means what you think it means.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 03 Oct 2014, 05:04
It depends.....is it an additional job or a replacement for a current job? I could definitely see an additional one being dangerous. Taking on too much could lead to even more sick days.....
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Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Oct 2014, 06:25
Little Cheese got it. I have an odd compulsion to apply for any and all jobs I might be able to do, and to be honest often ones I wouldn't be able to do, and then I find myself far too busy.
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Post by: cesium133 on 03 Oct 2014, 07:46
I heard back from one of the professors I emailed. He wants me to go to Maryland for an interview, and it looks pretty promising.  :-D
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Post by: ankhtahr on 03 Oct 2014, 08:43
From the WCDT:
But I bought materials for pancakes today. Tomorrow is national holiday, so I can't go buy food.

yay, moronic flatmate.

He left the flour open, as well as the cabinet, and I wasn't in the kitchen for quite a while, and fucking spiders had built a nest in the flour package. The fuck.

So now I had some weird failed omelette/scrambled eggs monstrosity which contained far too much milk and thus tasted sweet, because of the sugar in the milk.

So I ate that, it tasted weird, and I'm still hungry. National holidays suck.
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Post by: nekowafer on 03 Oct 2014, 09:26
I heard back from one of the professors I emailed. He wants me to go to Maryland for an interview, and it looks pretty promising.  :-D

Ooh, whereabouts?
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Post by: ev4n on 03 Oct 2014, 10:57
I heard back from one of the professors I emailed. He wants me to go to Maryland for an interview, and it looks pretty promising.  :-D

Ooh, whereabouts?

She asked, as though Maryland was that big....

/hides    :psyduck:
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Post by: nekowafer on 03 Oct 2014, 10:58
It takes me 2.5 hours to drive to the furthest place I've ever been in Maryland. So there. :P
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Post by: cesium133 on 03 Oct 2014, 11:57
I heard back from one of the professors I emailed. He wants me to go to Maryland for an interview, and it looks pretty promising.  :-D

Ooh, whereabouts?
Gaithersburg. And Maryland is surprisingly long. It takes about 2.5 hours to go from Gaithersburg to my mom's house in Allegany County.
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Post by: nekowafer on 03 Oct 2014, 11:57
Heh. Heh. Long.
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Post by: cesium133 on 03 Oct 2014, 12:15
Yeah, look at the map. Maryland's totally got a boner for West Virginia.
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Post by: jwhouk on 03 Oct 2014, 12:19
It takes me 2.5 hours to drive to the furthest place I've ever been in Maryland. So there. :P

I drive 2 1/2 hours in any direction and I'm still nowhere near civilization.
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Post by: cesium133 on 03 Oct 2014, 12:27
It takes me 2.5 hours to drive to the furthest place I've ever been in Maryland. So there. :P

I drive 2 1/2 hours in any direction and I'm still nowhere near civilization.
I'm not entirely certain if Allegany County counts as civilization.
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Post by: Lines on 03 Oct 2014, 13:42
Yeah, look at the map. Maryland's totally got a boner for West Virginia.

Well have you seen those curves? Hoo boy.
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Post by: Akima on 03 Oct 2014, 17:50
She asked, as though Maryland was that big....
Meh... There are no large states in the USA. If you add Alaska and Texas together they are still smaller than Western Australia. By over 230,000 square kilometres. :-P
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Post by: Masterpiece on 03 Oct 2014, 18:27
Akima, you should know better. Those Yankees have no idea what a kilometer is.
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Post by: jwhouk on 03 Oct 2014, 18:37
The distance from Perth to Brisbane, though, is still pretty much close to what a trip from LA to New York is, is it not?

EDIT: In fact, it's longer to go from LA to New York, by about 130 km.
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Post by: Orkboy on 03 Oct 2014, 19:21
She asked, as though Maryland was that big....
Meh... There are no large states in the USA. If you add Alaska and Texas together they are still smaller than Western Australia. By over 230,000 square kilometres. :-P

Yeah, but Western Australia also has the population of 2 1/2 Rhode Islands.  That's a state you can almost see across if you stand on a chair.  Did the spiders eat everyone in Western Australia?   :lol:
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Post by: Masterpiece on 03 Oct 2014, 21:09
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Post by: Detachable Felix on 04 Oct 2014, 00:50
Alaska is probably the only state with a comparable size to an Aussie one, and not even one of the larger states..
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Post by: Lines on 04 Oct 2014, 08:11
Hehehe, helium.

Re: states - Our states may not be very big, but there's a lot more people and that's part of the reason there are lots of smaller states. (I personally do not want to live in a big state. Too conservative.) But, while our countries are relatively the same size, but the middle of ours is actually livable and the entire country isn't overrun by animals that want to fuck up your shit, so there. :mrgreen:
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Post by: hedgie on 04 Oct 2014, 08:17
Well, we have some pretty deadly fauna.  It just tends to be of the human variety.  I'd rather check my shoes for spiders than have the crime rate the US has.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 04 Oct 2014, 12:01
I feel like most of you are SERIOUSLY underestimating the size of Alaska.

And quit being dramatic Hedgie, crime rates in the U.S. are the lowest they've ever been in your life time... and literally everyone else on the forum for that matter.
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Post by: hedgie on 04 Oct 2014, 12:18
Been on a downward trend for 30+ years, although speculations about exactly *why* this trend started when it did, and what factors come into play is another can of worms.  I'm rather impressed that it's so steady, even through recessions and whatnot.  I am certainly *not* complaining about that.
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Post by: Lines on 04 Oct 2014, 20:46
I'd rather check my shoes for spiders than have the crime rate the US has.

Considering I'm irrationally afraid of spiders and most other creepy insects/arachnids, I'd rather NOT have to check my shoes. Also it's not just the bugs, I'm pretty sure that every single animal in Australia is there to fuck up your shit.
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Post by: Detachable Felix on 04 Oct 2014, 23:43
 
Also it's not just the bugs, I'm pretty sure that every single animal in Australia is there to fuck up your shit.

Not all of them! We have some cuddly ones, too! Pretty much all our marsupials are adorable! and our birds! :psyduck:
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 05 Oct 2014, 03:35
Also it's not just the bugs, I'm pretty sure that every single animal in Australia is there to fuck up your shit.

Not all of them! We have some cuddly ones, too! Pretty much all our marsupials are adorable! and our birds! :psyduck:
XXXX is also called the Terror Incognita. Almost all animals and plants in XXXX are dangerous; when Death requested a book about the dangerous creatures of XXXX from his library, he was subsequently hit by a large pile of books consisting of the various volumes of "Dangerous Mammals, Reptiles, Amphibians, Birds, Fish, Jellyfish, Insects, Spiders, Crustaceans, Grasses, Trees, Mosses and Lichens of Terror Incognita", the total books going up to Volume 29C Part 3, while a request for information about the harmless creatures merely produced a note saying "Some of the sheep". The land is inhospitable because the flora and fauna all hate you and there is never any rain.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 05 Oct 2014, 03:59
Also it's not just the bugs, I'm pretty sure that every single animal in Australia is there to fuck up your shit.

Not all of them! We have some cuddly ones, too! Pretty much all our marsupials are adorable! and our birds! :psyduck:

Still the country with the only poisonous mammals. Also your birds are cute when they aren't being eaten by Orb Weavers the size of delivery trucks.
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Post by: hedgie on 05 Oct 2014, 04:15
There are some other venomous mammals, but the ones I'm thinking of off the top of my head live in Cuba, Haiti, and the Dominican Republic, and not on the mainlands of the Americas.
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Post by: Detachable Felix on 05 Oct 2014, 05:51
Also it's not just the bugs, I'm pretty sure that every single animal in Australia is there to fuck up your shit.

Not all of them! We have some cuddly ones, too! Pretty much all our marsupials are adorable! and our birds! :psyduck:

Still the country with the only poisonous mammals. Also your birds are cute when they aren't being eaten by Orb Weavers the size of delivery trucks.
Our mammals have to be poisonous, how else would they fend off the bogans?
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Post by: LTK on 05 Oct 2014, 05:55
This snake would like to have a word with you.

(http://birdandmoon.com/images/toxic.jpg)
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Oct 2014, 14:30
I know some toxic people.  I'm not too worried about the animals as a result.  They're cuddly by comparison! 
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Post by: Lines on 05 Oct 2014, 16:59
Also it's not just the bugs, I'm pretty sure that every single animal in Australia is there to fuck up your shit.

Not all of them! We have some cuddly ones, too! Pretty much all our marsupials are adorable! and our birds! :psyduck:

Oh yes, your koalas are very cute. They've also got daggers for fingernails. Kangaroos are cute, too, but they can kick you apart. You can keep them!

Although I will totally trade you a possum for an opossum. Yours are much cuter.

Cute:

(http://magsx2.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/079195-bailey-golden-brushtail-possum.jpg)

Not very cute:

(http://www.welcomewildlife.com/site/content/pages/IMAGES/Mammals/Opossum%20hiss.jpg)
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Post by: ev4n on 05 Oct 2014, 17:56
If I was the type to be condescending, I'd make some snarky remark about people here thinking THEIR countries are big.  But that's just silly.

I feel like most of you are SERIOUSLY underestimating the size of Alaska.

Well, if any thing, Mercator's projection makes most people think its bigger than it is.  According to wiki, it's only marginally bigger than Quebec.  Western Australia is much bigger.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_country_subdivisions_by_area
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Post by: GarandMarine on 05 Oct 2014, 21:46
Some 200,000 (roughly) square kilometers is "marginal" to you? Alaska is Marginally bigger then the Xinjiang Uyghur Autonomous Region. It is  larger than the province of Quebec by a fair margin. Which will hopefully be cut down significantly after the rest of Canada parcels out the province to other territories and maybe a new one after the failed Quebecois Revolution. Western Australia is significantly larger.

Two thoughts from that link. Brazil must be insanely distorted on most maps, and I didn't know Greenland wasn't it's own country.

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-c-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xpa1/v/t1.0-9/10650052_10203737442529495_1055479941329331058_n.jpg?oh=cb48dde53b5049a5e0374bf988fadc4e&oe=54AE9B77&__gda__=1421750625_01b42d73d1a50279f63ab3c55d8fdcb8)

The National Museum of the Marine Corps had a new monument delivered today, girders from the towers on 9/11. Of the three hundred and forty three firefighters who died in the line of duty that day, seventeen were also Marines.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 06 Oct 2014, 00:06
Also it's not just the bugs, I'm pretty sure that every single animal in Australia is there to fuck up your shit.

Not all of them! We have some cuddly ones, too! Pretty much all our marsupials are adorable! and our birds! :psyduck:

Oh yes, your koalas are very cute. They've also got daggers for fingernails. Kangaroos are cute, too, but they can kick you apart. You can keep them!

Although I will totally trade you a possum for an opossum. Yours are much cuter.

Cute:
PIC
Not very cute:
PIC

And then there are platypuses. I don't get platypuses. I think they might be made of spare parts.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 06 Oct 2014, 00:09
I see what you did there.

At least I hope you did it on purpose.

But I assume you did.

Because I think you are that intelligent.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 06 Oct 2014, 00:16
Get in an argument with someone on Facebook "Wait. Who the fuck are you?" *defriend*
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Post by: ev4n on 06 Oct 2014, 03:13
Some 200,000 (roughly) square kilometers is "marginal" to you?

There's easily 200,000 square kilometers of sparsely inhabited land around Quebec.  Besides, I was looking more at percentages...

Two thoughts from that link. Brazil must be insanely distorted on most maps, and I didn't know Greenland wasn't it's own country.

Again, Mercator's projection.  Equatorial areas are bigger than people think they are, and polar areas are smaller.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 06 Oct 2014, 06:03
Some 200,000 (roughly) square kilometers is "marginal" to you?

There's easily 200,000 square kilometers of sparsely inhabited land around Quebec.  Besides, I was looking more at percentages...

Ah yes, but it's 200,000 square klicks more then the French Canadians have, and therein lies the victory :P
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Post by: ev4n on 06 Oct 2014, 06:19
Labrador is more than 200.000 square kilometers, and less than 30,000 people.  Geographically, it's more unto Quebec than anything else.

The notion that there are only french canadians in Quebec is a myth, albeit one they seem to embrace.  Northern Ontario is 800,000km, adjacent to Quebec, and broad stretches are more french than english.   Plus, New Brunswick is 1/3 French.  /shrug

It's all just idle talk, though.  The main point is that there are some HUGE, sparsely populated areas in this world.
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Post by: cesium133 on 06 Oct 2014, 10:09
Two thoughts from that link. Brazil must be insanely distorted on most maps, and I didn't know Greenland wasn't it's own country.
Brazil is larger than it looks like on many map projections. One interesting thing about it is that east-to-west, Brazil is about 2/3 the size of the U.S., but the whole country uses one time zone. That means that the eastern parts are about two hours behind where they should be. I've been noticing that in Recife, since it means the sun rises at 4 AM and sets at 4 PM (year round, since it's near the equator).
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Post by: Akima on 06 Oct 2014, 19:09
All of China is officially one time-zone (Beijing time, of course). This is inconvenient in the western parts of the country, so an unofficial time two hours behind is used. Yes, I think this is silly too.
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Post by: Metope on 07 Oct 2014, 04:28
Grenland is not its own country, it's ruled by Denmark, which is funny since Denmark is such a tiny country.
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Post by: Welu on 07 Oct 2014, 13:27
Even though I've felt off since last night and almost fainted three times I really want to go for a walk/jog but just standing makes me faint. I may be being contrary with myself for the sake of it.

Edit: I've just made the connection that I haven't been taking my meds since Friday night and I've felt shitty the last couple days. Hopefully when I get more tomorrow I'll feel better. Another reason I want off these things is I can't seem to remember when I'm running out even though I regularly check and added the doctor's number to my phone to make sure I don't do that.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 08 Oct 2014, 07:59
I have to film "Introduction to Computer Science" this semester and it's the first lecture.

It feels like I'm watching "baby's first program"...
(click to show/hide)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Oct 2014, 14:49
We had a lecture on using the law to assist decision-making in complex midwifery and I felt the same way; I had to refrain from correcting the lecturer several times, reminding myself that it doesn't really matter if the other students don't understand the finer details of the system of binding precedent, or why some cases have dates in square brackets and some in rounded ones. I didn't get much out of that hour, anyway...
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Post by: Redball on 08 Oct 2014, 16:26
Another reason I want off these things is I can't seem to remember when I'm running out even though I regularly check and added the doctor's number to my phone to make sure I don't do that.
I take enough meds that I've used pill organizers for years. I'm currently using two one-week organizers, each with AM and PM bins. My meds are delivered in 90-day supplies. As I fill them every two weeks, I check the pill bottles to see if I have a month or most of a month left.
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Post by: pwhodges on 08 Oct 2014, 17:00
My 12-weekly prescription is requested from the doctor's surgery automatically on schedule by the chemist/pharmacy's computer system, and when it's dispensed I get a text to my phone telling me; it is available about ten days before I would run out.  I take all my pills together once a day, so my pill container that has four pockets a day for a week actually lasts me four weeks.
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Post by: Welu on 09 Oct 2014, 05:10
I only take two prescription tablets a day and I take them before bed. One is my pill which which is ordered annually and I only have to go in and pick it up every three months when I'm out, plus the pharmacy warns me when I get my last one of the year. The other I have to reorder every few weeks and I'm bad for seeing I'm running low, thinking I should order them in the morning and then forgetting about it, even if I leave myself a note. A lot of this is caused by self-sabotaging avoidance of life though.

I'm actually supposed to go to the doctor to update him on how the meds are going but I'm sick of feeling dismissed by him so I avoid going to him.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 09 Oct 2014, 06:21
Speaking of drugs.....this week I've started every morning with a Zantac, a Xanax and a cigarette. I've ended the evenings with Ibuprofen and Valium.

Although, my job hasn't killed me yet so I guess that's a good sign.
Too busy to catch up on here but wanted to throw an update out there. Miss you all lots.  :-\
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Post by: Welu on 09 Oct 2014, 10:24
Hugs for you Little Cheese!
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Post by: nekowafer on 09 Oct 2014, 10:39
All the little cheese hugs <3
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Oct 2014, 11:42
I wish my medication could be put on repeat prescription that's delivered to the pharmacy. The anti-baby pills aren't allowed to be on repeat (every six months I am required to put in an appearance and... um, well that's it really, they don't even take my blood pressure) and the sanity pills are limited to two or three months' supply at a time because otherwise "you might fall off the radar". I find this quite patronising, to be honest.
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Post by: Welu on 09 Oct 2014, 12:06
I have added loads of information to my CV and made it look really pretty and reworded anything was underselling my abilities, so pretty much the whole thing, and it was really hard to write, "Hell yeah I'm good at doing stuff!" but I did it! I have now sent off four applications and I'm cautiously optimistic I'll get at least one interview out of them.
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Post by: Papersatan on 09 Oct 2014, 14:53
o/

I know it can be tough confidently asserting "I have skills and you wish I worked for you" and I'm glad you pushed yourself to do it.
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Post by: Aimless on 11 Oct 2014, 14:30
This past week has been an unsettling mix of wonderful and just so incredibly shitty. I've decided to spend the weekend hiding out at home. We've made some changes to the apartment, everything is kinda clean and I've surrendered to the holy triumvirate of rainymood+ludovico einaudi+soft cosy lighting. The ginger's curled up on the couch reading Codex Born and I'm slowly beginning to feel at peace again :) trevlig helg everyone
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Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Oct 2014, 16:16
Una Mattina <3
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Post by: Metope on 12 Oct 2014, 02:45
I guess I haven't talked much about my life lately, so this is what's going on right now. I'm home in Norway, applying for jobs and spending my days in my new studio at the Oslo Art Academy (I got my bursary as a result of when my school burnt down, if anyone remembers that. So I got a huge sum of money and a studio paid for by the UK government so that I can make work, and next year we'll have an exhibition to replace the Degree Show we lost). I sold four paintings to a school in Oslo where they'll be on permanent display, and my best friend bought a house and has commissioned a huge painting from me which is great since I was worried about the logistics of storing any big paintings I make from now. I'm missing my boyfriend a lot, but he'll come over to visit in February, and I am keeping myself busy, so it's fine. Knowing that I'm going to move to the states next year and marry him helps a lot too, I just need to get a job here first so I can earn enough money to support myself while job searching and getting settled there. Life is pretty good!
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Post by: LTK on 16 Oct 2014, 07:25
I just had dental surgery number two out of three, and I would like to take this opportunity to thank modern medicine for painkillers. This one already hurts more on the outside of my face but as long as I don't move too much I feel okay. The upper pain limit (what I feel when I clench my jaws hard) isn't too bad either. The surgeon said I should wait another year and a half or so before making an appointment for the final one - the one he just removed was the lower left wisdom tooth. I would have preferred him to take out the other one as well, as the previous surgeon took out the right upper and lower one in one go, and I didn't have to spend a lot of time recovering from that at all.
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Post by: Carl-E on 17 Oct 2014, 00:52
I'm working part time at the local Macy's loading dock, unloading trucks.  Mornings, once or twice a week.  It will pick up more as the holiday season winds on.  I'm still working two or three evenings a week at the beer barn, which means I get to restock the cooler during closing for the next day.  Both pay close to minimum.  Some days (usually a Wednesday) I do both, with two hours in between.  It's a 14 hour day of lifting and throwing heavy shit around.  I get tired. 

I'm still teaching math online, the pay from that is erratic.  Depends on the number of students in my classes.  Tutoring about 5 or so students on the side.  My mom's helping with some of the bills. 

Before I got the Macy's job, and my mom started helping, things got super tight.  I couldn't pay the premiums, so I got dropped by my Obamacare provider.  yes, I couldn't afford my affordable care, but I make too much for medicare. 

Ma's offered to support us if I go back to school for something I can get a decent job in.  I'm seriously thinking accounting.  None of this is new news, I think, it's just ... ongoing. 

---------------------------------------------------

Last winter, my ARCO (American Radiator Company) coal fired boiler gave up the ghost.  It's not the main furnace, but it's still tied into the system as a backup.  It's the original boiler, and gave 113 years of continuous service before cracking last winter and leaking.  I put a bucket from a humidifier with a drain hose under the leak, and we finished the winter with a leaking hot water system. 

It's a convection system, through the old boiler.  The "new" boiler (gas fired, 50 years old this year) has a pump.  Couldn't keep up with the system to save its life, so I'm disconnecting the boiler and putting in loops where it had been connected so that there's still convection to circulate the hot water.  About $150 worth of parts.  I have it halfway disassembled, but I need a bigger wrench.  Going to check the rental places tomorrow. 

OK, I know this is going to sound stupid, but I'm really going to miss the old boiler.  The big pressure and temperature gauges that told me in an instant what was up, the warmth it threw off into my workbench area, the knowledge that, even in a winter power failure I could still build a fire in it and heat the house - just the fact that it still worked, and worked well, and I just couldn't save it.  I go down, and work on taking it apart, and I weep.  Rest in peace, my friend; ARCO model 58B, No. W-2905. 

(https://farm4.staticflickr.com/3930/15367991609_bc8dd9e3d8_o.jpg)

Maybe I'm just tired.  Yeah, that's it.  I'm fucking tired.  I'm tired of being broke, I'm tired of not being able to find a real job with my Ph.D, I'm tired that I can't just move away from my problems, I'm tired, just so damn fucking tired of throwing around cases of beer and crates of holiday dresses and cookware and not being able to keep gas in my 17 year old van that's misfiring and leaking oil.  I see my old colleagues on campus when I go and tutor, and smile, and chat, and fuck it all, they have no idea. 

Thirty years ago when I was in grad school, one of the guys in our class withdrew from the program.  Didn't see him for weeks.  Then one evening, a few of us went to lunch at a local bar. 

He was waiting tables.  Including ours. 

We were polite, until later.  The people I was with were merciless about him not being able to cut it.  It always bothered me.  He disappeared, probably went home. 

My wife likes to say that I'm a good teacher, but a lousy academic.  I've been through all the major universities' local branches, and got slaughtered by politics in almost every case.  I could/should have gotten a lawyer in at least three of those cases - I'd still have a job, but I'm too much of a wuss / too nice a guy to want to work somewhere that I had to sue to keep a job.  Turns out it's not unusual in academia in this country.  So no, I'm not a good academic, I don't think I have the stomach for it.  And my research died a loooooong time ago.  I can't even work at the local community college - got bad student reviews.  I wasn't easy enough, it seems.  Not sure I want to work where the inmates run the asylum. 

The owner of the beer barn just let me know that the building they're in was just sold out from under them by the landlord.  Don't know where that's going to go, I may wind up without the one job where I like the people. 

Halloween is coming.  We usually have 400-500 kids - it's a big, spooky house on a corner.  Don't think we can afford candy this year, though. 

Sorry, just need to vent.  So much is going on, and I feel like it's completely out of my control.  I've defaulted on my student loans several times over, I'm two years behind on my taxes, I just.... god, I don't know.  I just want to bury my head and make it all go away.  I like beer, but I don't like drinking much, and it's a damn good thing or I'd be nursing a case or two every night. 

It's late, and the demon of late night's evil misery has taken over, I'm sorry.  I need to get up early for the beer store in the morning.  I've been avoiding this thread because I didn't want to spill all this.  And it's only half of what's going on.  I'm sorry.  I'm sorry for making you read this, though I doubt you have, I don't think I would.  I'm sorry, I'm failing, I'm flailing, I'm falling and I can't seem to get up.  Misery loves company, and I know I have plenty of it, but I have no one to talk to about this.  Well, there's you guys, but I don't know if you count.  Did I mention I can't afford therapy?  No insurance, don't you know.  Even if I had insurance, it was bottom-of-the-barrel, with $50 copays ($90 for a specialist) and a really high deductible.  So I still couldn't afford anything medical. 

There's so much more to tell.  So much more that I can't even begin to get out.  I have trouble even keeping track of all of it.  Freedom sounds so good.  Twice a week - Sunday in church (of a religion I don't believe) and Monday nights for a chorale rehearsal, I get to sing.  It's pretty close to my only joy, and the only social life I have.  And it's not a social life, because I don't really get a chance to talk to people.  I know it's trite, but I don't really have any friends.  I've never really been able to get close to people, even my wife and I have had problems with me being ... cold, for a better word.  I get along great with people, form "friendships" easily, but am never really able to get close to anyone.  Not even my family. 

Blah, blah, blah, me, me, me.  Well, you chose to read the blog thread. 

TL;DR - my life sucks, but it's mostly my own fault and I don't know how to fix it.  I'm not looking for help, but I probably should be. 

Thanks for listening.  Don't bother with suggestions, I'll just shoot them down.  It's part of my charm.   :-D
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Post by: Loki on 17 Oct 2014, 02:46
Carl: Hugs offered.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 17 Oct 2014, 03:58
I'm not looking for help, but I probably should be. 

Almost all the way through reading that I was thinking, Carl should look for help.

No suggestions, I just hope you can get yourself to look for the help you need. Your a great person and I suspect you would have a lot to offer if you had the right outlet for it.

Also, hugs. I know it's difficult to stop isolating yourself. It's a comfortable if damaging habit.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 17 Oct 2014, 04:27
Paypal?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Oct 2014, 07:38
Hugs and a picture of a kitten required.
Shot over.

(http://images.sodahead.com/polls/001325049/kittens-cute-adorable-29339505330_xlarge.jpeg)
(http://images.sodahead.com/slideshows/000003099/kittens-29339807888_xlarge.jpeg)

Splash over.
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Post by: Carl-E on 17 Oct 2014, 08:55
Thanks guys.  Hugs accepted, and returned.  Many times over. 

And GM, we actually have a new kitten.  The mother put it out of the litter, so my daughter - the one with the neurological issues - has bottle raised it.  It's finally weaned and plays for hours with absolutely everything, including he dogs and other cats. 

It generally attacks me when I pick it up, with its tiny kitten fangs.  I predict this will be a bad habit that lasts into adulthood...
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Post by: Patrick on 17 Oct 2014, 20:30
sup y'all
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 18 Oct 2014, 01:35
Yay, Patrick!
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Post by: Akima on 18 Oct 2014, 01:47
The dude abides!
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Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Oct 2014, 03:50
Patrick!
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Post by: jwhouk on 18 Oct 2014, 05:58
sup y'all

Sup.

You managed to touch the ground yet after Ishikawa-san's home run yet?
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Post by: Welu on 18 Oct 2014, 10:00
Hey there, Patrick.
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Post by: Carl-E on 18 Oct 2014, 11:36
Hit a little snag in my heating system repairs...

(https://farm4.staticflickr.com/3939/15380000610_955399b554_o.jpg)


Don't know my own strength...

I was using a 3 foot piece of pipe as an extension for leverage.  When the wrench snapped, I went flying across the basement, landed on the stairs.  My butt, two spots in my back, my right shoulder and left knee are all in considerable pain. 

The pipe didn't budge. 


I'm gonna need a bigger wrench.
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Post by: Grognard on 18 Oct 2014, 21:12
I'm gonna need a bigger wrench.

spoken like a true redneck.  :thumbsup:
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Post by: 94ssd on 19 Oct 2014, 12:41
So I spent entirely too much money this weekend, which was actually a wonderful four-day weekend thanks to Fall Break. I know these numbers aren't going to sound huge to you adults with your real-world jobs, but imagine them in the context of a college student with a part-time minimum-wage job.

The previous weekend I unfortunately had to contribute a good bit of my own money in order to get condoms and batteries (yes, I did get a strange look from the CVS cashier) for the wireless microphones used in our student-produced musical. It was one of my favorite shows, Urinetown. The supplies ended up being almost $200, mostly thanks to the batteries, and I can only be partially reimbursed. In fairness the costume designer spent her own money on clothes and fabric and the set designer spent his own money on paint and lumber, so it's not like I'm alone in this boat.

This weekend I decided to go to two plays (one with friends and one all by my lonesome) at two different cities, each about an hour away. Tickets for each were about $30, plus about $20 of gas for my solo trip. I ate almost my meals out. Yesterday I bought about $200 of groceries. As part of my ongoing "I was so busy the past two weeks that I had no time to do normal people things" saga I had absolutely no food in my apartment except ramen and poptarts. And as I mentioned in another thread, I was sick on Thursday and slept instead of having the 12-hour workday I planned upon, but decided not to cancel my plans and live it up as if I had that extra money anyway. So this upcoming week I plan to hopefully make up for some of it by trying to spend no money. No meals out, no tickets. I'll make my own coffee in the morning and bring my own lunch to campus. We'll see how it goes.

On a slightly related note: one of the plays I saw was called Duck Hunter Shoots Angel (yes, all my favorite plays have dumbshit titles). It was an okay production but one thing was really pissing me off the whole show: If a script has constant references to a character being from New York City and having a "Yankee accent," you could make SOME kind of attempt to mask the actor's extremely obvious southern drawl. I'm not a dialects coach and I wasn't expecting a perfect New York accent, but for fuck's sake the play is set in Alabama and that guy had the thickest accent on the stage.
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Post by: Carl-E on 19 Oct 2014, 15:54
[explain hat]

For those wondering, the point of the condoms is to cover the transmitter pack for the actor's microphone, which is usually strapped to the small of their back under their costume.  The amount of sweat worked up in a musical (heck, in almost any play) will short out the transmitter pack in pretty short order; covering it with a condom (water-tight, yet stretchy enough to fit) is actually one of the cheapest solutions. 

[/explain hat]
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: 94ssd on 19 Oct 2014, 16:12
See, I preferred when people thought it would be for all the wild sex a group of people who sacrificed an entire weekend to produce a show called Urinetown: The Musical would be guaranteed to have.
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Post by: Akima on 19 Oct 2014, 16:13
Don't know my own strength...
You. Broke. A. Stilson. :psyduck:  I showed my Dad your pic. He didn't believe it either.

My father always insists that, whenever a family member takes on a new-to-us motor vehicle, we test to make sure the jack works, the wheel-brace fits the wheel nuts (don't laugh, I've seen a brand new vehicle where it didn't), and the fastenings have not been tightened by a mad gorilla with a spider spanner (http://files2.coloribus.com/files/adsarchive/part_669/6699955/file/tyres-spider-spanner-small-93256.jpg) (I don't know what they're called in America) so that they're impossible to undo. When I was in my first year at uni, he bought a used Subaru wagon, and since he expected me to be driving it, he insisted I be able to change a wheel, so he dragged me into his testing process.

We went out into the driveway and put the wheel-brace on the first nut. I couldn't shift it, and nor could my Dad. So he got out a spider. Still no joy. Next came a ring-spanner. Nope. Thumping on the end of the spanner with a rubber mallet? Nope. Put a roughly metre-long length of scaffold-pole over the ring spanner, and pull on that as a lever? Nope. Holding onto the roof-rack, I climbed on the pole and shuffled to the end. Nope. I bounced up and down on the pole. BANG! The nut finally surrendered. My Dad thought we might have sheared off the stud, but luckily we got away with it. After that, he put releasing fluid on all the nuts and we left it overnight before trying them again. Which is what we should have done in the first place, but sometimes city folk are just as hillbilly as hillbillies.
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Oct 2014, 16:23
a mad gorilla with a spider spanner (http://files2.coloribus.com/files/adsarchive/part_669/6699955/file/tyres-spider-spanner-small-93256.jpg) (I don't know what they're called in America) so that they're impossible to undo.

Well, of course (as you tell below) the first thing is to have your own spider.  But the problem is not those, where you "only" have to be as strong as them, but the pneumatic hammer nut-tighteners that they use at the tyre-changing places.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 19 Oct 2014, 17:05
We call a spider spanner a tire iron in the U.S.

I am not surprised Carl broke his Stilson, I have seen tools of every manufacturer shatter before, especially after years of service.
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Post by: jwhouk on 19 Oct 2014, 17:35
Funny, when Kugai jokes about lug wrenches, that image is what I imagine.

I bet what happened, Akima, is that whomever sold the Subaru to your dad used a powered wrench - ala NASCAR pit crews - to tighten the lug nuts.

That is the best and fastest way of breaking the prongs off the wheel, though.
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Post by: 94ssd on 19 Oct 2014, 19:14
Not even two hours after I gave my "no spending money" pledge I got a Google calendar alert saying that my court date for my expired plate ticket is Tuesday. I at the very least have to spend the gas to get the city two hours away where I got the ticket, and though I've been told that usually if you show up with evidence that you got everything taken care of they'll throw out the fine, I'll have to be prepared to possibly pay the full amount.

Whatever entity or force is responsible for the world's fucked up sense of humor, fuck you.

Which reminds me of the very important lesson I learned when I got that ticket: don't be suspicious and you'll probably be fine. I knew my plate was expired and when an officer turned out of a driveway and started following me that night after work I decided to very obviously try to avoid him by turning down side streets.
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Post by: Carl-E on 19 Oct 2014, 20:04
I'm gonna need a bigger wrench.

spoken like a true redneck.  :thumbsup:

My daughter recommended dynamite.   :-D :roll:

I am not surprised Carl broke his Stilson, I have seen tools of every manufacturer shatter before, especially after years of service.

The thing is, it was a friend's.  So now I have to replace it.  18" pipe wrenches aren't cheap, even at Harbor Freight! 

And apparently, the next size up is a 24", which is the only way I'll get hold of the fitting to hold it steady while I attack the pipe.  Tempted to turn the pipe more directly by drilling it and using a 2 meter prybar that I have...

Which would probably shatter the pipe.  *sigh* 

Gotta get something done soon - highs in the 50's, lows in the 40's, can't afford a real plumber...
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Post by: Loki on 19 Oct 2014, 22:20


a mad gorilla with a spider spanner (http://files2.coloribus.com/files/adsarchive/part_669/6699955/file/tyres-spider-spanner-small-93256.jpg) (I don't know what they're called in America) so that they're impossible to undo.

Well, of course (as you tell below) the first thing is to have your own spider. 

That's taken care of - she is in Australia :claireface:

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Post by: GarandMarine on 20 Oct 2014, 00:06
I dunno why you'd bother to own a car down there. Just saddle up a spider.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 20 Oct 2014, 00:18
Might I suggest ...

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(Spoilered for those who like their freaks not eight-legged.)
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Post by: Detachable Felix on 20 Oct 2014, 13:07
Please, we dont ride the spiders, we have too much respect for them. We do occasionally surf platypuses and ride in the pouches of kangaroos!
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Post by: ev4n on 21 Oct 2014, 06:59
Does "occasionally" mean that kangaroo public transport is every bit the myth that Canadians living in igloos is?
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 21 Oct 2014, 07:25
/mind blown
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Post by: Akima on 21 Oct 2014, 14:25
I rarely wrestle crocodiles. I know, your faith in humanity is just withered.
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Post by: Thrillho on 21 Oct 2014, 14:28
Well it would have done except I know for a fact the crocodiles won't even dare take you on.
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Post by: Welu on 21 Oct 2014, 14:40
Akima for WWE Women's Champion, then President of the World if there's time.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 21 Oct 2014, 14:44
I rarely wrestle crocodiles. I know, your faith in humanity is just withered.
... I'm shocked and shaken to the core.
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Post by: Loki on 21 Oct 2014, 15:28
It's gonna eat you up all day.

(Ohwait, wring thread.)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 21 Oct 2014, 16:29
I'm currently shopping a title fight for women's MMA for Akima in her first American appearance vs. Rhonda "Rowdy" Rousey. She provided some great footage of her monthly croc wrestling training for me to show Dana White and the guys at UFC. So 12 days out of 365 is still "rarely" in the end.
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Post by: Lines on 21 Oct 2014, 17:55
ride in the pouches of kangaroos!

Ugh!
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Post by: Masterpiece on 22 Oct 2014, 02:41
I just said "does the thing" in a question to the professor during a lecture.

I was thinking of you, qcverse.
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Oct 2014, 07:15
So yeah, sorry I've been a hermit lately. Been trying to figure out my meatlife life, since it's a complete disaster. I haven't succeeded, but I've done some cool shit, such as brew beer and start playing with my band again for the first time in 3 months


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Post by: jwhouk on 22 Oct 2014, 07:28
So yeah, sorry I've been a hermit lately. Been trying to figure out my meatlife life, since it's a complete disaster. I haven't succeeded, but I've done some cool shit, such as brew beer and start playing with my band again for the first time in 3 months


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But dude - the Giants are back in the World Series!
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Oct 2014, 07:38
This is true. I had the radio broadcast streamed to my phone while I was at work (against the rules, but fuck the rules) and listened from start to finish. I got nervous the several times the Royals had runners in scoring position, but our boy Maddy and our defense took care of that.


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Post by: Detachable Felix on 22 Oct 2014, 13:29
I rarely wrestle crocodiles.
Liar, that's not what the Northern Territory News told me!  :emotrex:
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Post by: GarandMarine on 22 Oct 2014, 16:29
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Post by: Aimless on 23 Oct 2014, 13:56
So I've kinda managed to put my disappointment (over not getting that job this time 'round) behind me and it really feels nice, I feel less burdened and depressed than I have in a long time and once again have a spring in my step. For some reason I've been eyed and smiled at by pretty and happy strangers unusually often these past few days, and I was wondering if it was because I was looking unusually silly but have decided now that it must be because this week I look like a happy man rather than like a despondent tired unshaven hobo.

After many years of just being a lazy 'fraidycat I've finally gotten started on getting my driver's license. The missus will be my teacher at first :o to celebrate she snuck off into town while I was nursing a post-call hangover to get lots of nice things including my FAVOURITE TEA BLEND in the world! I dunno it may sound like a dumb hipstery thing, but I associate this tea with a turning point and a moment of great happiness in the middle of one of the roughest times I've ever had, and it's my own modified version so it just makes me feel extra good when I smell it and it tastes just as amazing as I remember :)

We've tried to make these past couple of weeks as nice as possible. We'd gotten into the habit of just trampling along and that's just not a nice way to live if it goes on for too long. It doesn't take much to change that feeling of sameyness, I think. The house is clean, we've made some changes to make it look nicer and be more practical, we've started cooking properly again and even eating at the dinner table on occasion, started reading interesting things and writing a little... I'm more or less on top of my paperwork for once too. I feel like there're all these huge untapped reserves of time and energy in my life that are often locked away and out of sight because I happen to be weighed down by various things that I honestly do not need to be weighed down by. I dunno. It's nice to feel this way anyway. I have one more night on call, which will be a little scary because I'll be shadowed by a new colleague who's a very skilled consultant in another speciality and with a lot of experience in neurology, and I'm a little embarrassed that I may have acquired bad habits... that'll become blatantly obvious. A little self-conscious I guess. I'll have to step up my game  :o

In super squee news my sis has apparently admitted to my mum that she has a boyfriend :o my wife and I have suspected for a long time, and the guy seems like a good person who can not only keep up with my sis intellectually as well as wrt adventure etc, and shares her passion for helping people, but also seems genuinely considerate. This is a big deal because my sis has never ever ever admitted to having a boyfriend before, for reasons about which I shan't speculate, and I think it's a good thing that she's learned that she can talk to mum about these things :) I think mum is very happy and I know she thinks he's a good guy. My mum's generally very observant, and she knew I was up to something long before I told her about the ginger, but she had no idea my sis and this guy were in a relationship until I asked her and she, in turn, asked my sis. It's cool, I think they've known each other almost as long as the ginger and I have been together. I gotta get to know this person better :o

end of update
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Post by: Papersatan on 23 Oct 2014, 23:44
I got an email today asking me to speak at a larger event in Feb.  I am friends with the woman who sent the email, but she said that after the event on Tuesday, the committee received emails from "several" people suggesting that they get me to speak at the event, and the committee knew she knew me and so had her ask me.

I said yes, obvs, and I'm not really freaking out because it is so far away.  I am flabbergasted about how my career seems to be happening backwards.  That is, I still don't have a single job offer, but people want me to speak at things, and be a part of really important conversations within the field. It makes me feel a little nervous, because the stuff I am talking about is all theoretical, but I have no practical experience to draw on. I have never actually done this job for money, and I only have a few small projects I've done any IA work on at all.  I am anxious that someone will rebut the things I have to say with the valid criticism that I don't know what I'm doing.

I didn't network as well as I could have after my talk, because I was so overwhelmed at the response, but  I did let people know I was available, and I will try to go to a few more events now that people know who I am, and talk myself up.  Hopefully, this job at the university will just hire me, and then I can worry about it in 15 months.  If things keep going this way, I might actually be able to apply for a Phd program at that point, which would be amazing.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 24 Oct 2014, 06:14
In this spoiler, a photo that made me very, very sad.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 24 Oct 2014, 06:29
I got an email today asking me to speak at a larger event in Feb.  I am friends with the woman who sent the email, but she said that after the event on Tuesday, the committee received emails from "several" people suggesting that they get me to speak at the event, and the committee knew she knew me and so had her ask me.

I said yes, obvs, and I'm not really freaking out because it is so far away.  I am flabbergasted about how my career seems to be happening backwards.  That is, I still don't have a single job offer, but people want me to speak at things, and be a part of really important conversations within the field. It makes me feel a little nervous, because the stuff I am talking about is all theoretical, but I have no practical experience to draw on. I have never actually done this job for money, and I only have a few small projects I've done any IA work on at all.  I am anxious that someone will rebut the things I have to say with the valid criticism that I don't know what I'm doing.

I didn't network as well as I could have after my talk, because I was so overwhelmed at the response, but  I did let people know I was available, and I will try to go to a few more events now that people know who I am, and talk myself up.  Hopefully, this job at the university will just hire me, and then I can worry about it in 15 months.  If things keep going this way, I might actually be able to apply for a Phd program at that point, which would be amazing.

This might be an obvious suggestion.....but do you bring business cards with you to any of the events that you attend/speak at?
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Post by: Papersatan on 24 Oct 2014, 07:05
Yep, but I didn't end up giving any to anyone (a part of my networking failure). Though, my slides did have my twitter handle on them, and my twitter profile does link to my portfolio, and I got several interactions from people. I just need to get better about how I talk about being unemployed.  Right now it makes me feel awkward and embarrassed, so I sort of gloss over it.  When people ask where I work I've said things like "oh, I'm unaffiliated at the moment."  Which does not imply that I am looking.  I need to be more assertively stating that I am looking, and asking people to keep me in mind if they hear of a thing. I did a little better this time by actually telling a few people that I am looking for work, and hopefully next time I can do better. (Though, I'd better have a job by Feb. :/ )
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 24 Oct 2014, 09:27
Ah, gotcha. The "I'm unaffiliated" thing sounds like you were looking for a professional sounding way to say that you don't have a job but it almost sounds as though you're freelancing. It definitely sounds like you know what to do and I think it's safe to say you'll do better next time but it can't hurt to always keep your cards on you- you never know who you'll run into!
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Post by: Papersatan on 26 Oct 2014, 21:27
That was sort of it.  I was trying to find a way to say it that didn't sound like "I'm doing nothing"  but I don't think it came off as "I'm looking"

There is a conference in April that I am trying to write a proposal for.  I don't think I have a great chance of getting in because this one is national, so there will be a lot more proposals, but it's worth a shot.  I won't be disappointed if I am not chosen, but I want to at least try.  Best trajectory from here: I do the local one in Feb, this nation-wide sub-field specific one in April, and then the wider-field regional one in October.  If those all go well I think I'll could have a strong application for a PhD program if that's what I want. The problem is this proposal is due in 21 hours, so I have to push myself to get it done.  The main hurdle is figuring out what I want to say in it. If I don't get it, it's not the end of the world. 
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 27 Oct 2014, 06:02
One student at my girlfriend's school regained her confidence in her math ability because I drew an image of Louis XIV on my girlfriend's arm.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Oct 2014, 02:26
Changed the colors of my work Mac to orange, BECAUSE I CAN.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Oct 2014, 07:34
(https://pbs.twimg.com/media/B1CmzypIUAAaVEg.jpg)
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Post by: Carl-E on 28 Oct 2014, 07:39
Not a Mac person.  I think I know whatthe [blob]+A means, it's like ctrl+A, selecting all. 

[blob]+Q?  Quit?  Does it exit the program?  Or shut down the machine...?
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Oct 2014, 08:42
It quits the program, and in quite a few ones, it does so without a prompt.
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Post by: Thrillho on 28 Oct 2014, 09:42
That's... Stupid.

God I hate the Mac interface.
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Post by: hedgie on 28 Oct 2014, 13:02
Windows and Linux tend to do the same thing, save with control instead of command, so it's not really Mac-specific behaviour.  Usually for me, I end up hitting ^Q instead of ^W when just trying to close a window || tab.
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Post by: Loki on 28 Oct 2014, 13:45
Mac also has the added "benefit" of having @ on the Q. So if you try to replace Alt Gr+Q by ^Q... well... you only make that mistake once.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 28 Oct 2014, 14:44
...no it doesn't. Macs have their @ sign at the "L" key.
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Post by: hedgie on 28 Oct 2014, 14:48
Probably has to do with the layout.  All of my Macs had @ on "2".
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Post by: Metope on 28 Oct 2014, 17:17
My Mac has the @ next to the Æ key. Keyboards look different in countries with different languages, who knew!
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Post by: Loki on 28 Oct 2014, 23:45
Sorry - I thought that part of the QWERTZ and QWERTY keyboard were the same!
I definitely remember making this mistake. I suppose I was using a keyboard where the @ was not labeled at all and hit something like ^Q out of habit/assumption it would work the same.
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Post by: Thrillho on 29 Oct 2014, 01:38
I'm baffled by there even being a quit without saving function.
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Post by: Loki on 29 Oct 2014, 03:15
Eh. Alt+F4 usually does the same thing - or used to, anyways.
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Post by: Thrillho on 29 Oct 2014, 03:25
You may well be right, but I don't remember alt+F4 not still prompting to save.
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Post by: Akima on 29 Oct 2014, 05:33
I'm baffled by there even being a quit without saving function.
It varies with the application. If you try to Cmd-Q out of a program edit, document, spreadsheet, GIMP image edit etc. then you get a dialogue asking if you really want to do that, and inviting you to save your work. Applications where the designers assumed your "state" was unimportant, often don't do this. You can of course remap the keyboard shortcuts to prevent that (http://www.howtogeek.com/howto/39520/how-to-change-the-cmdq-shortcut-key-in-os-x-to-stop-accidentally-closing-apps/), but unfortunately you have to do it on an app by app basis.

The guy in the page I like above whines about Google Chrome. Google used to make you hold down Cmd-Q for a few seconds to force a quit. Many Mac veterans complained, so Google took that out. People complained about that too, so Google made it an option. Click on Chrome in the top menu-bar, and select Warn Before Quitting.

Mainly I think this is a matter of familiarity. I like being able to quit an app with a quick Cmd-Q, and I get frustrated with nanny-features pestering me to confirm what I want to do.
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Post by: pwhodges on 29 Oct 2014, 06:14
But a controlled quit and a forced quit should really be separate functions.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 29 Oct 2014, 06:16
I like command + q too! I just don't like to hit it accidentally (and that happens way too often!)
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Post by: Akima on 29 Oct 2014, 14:07
Pressing Cmd-Q is a controlled quit, and forced quit is a separate function in OS/X. I only force-quit applications that have hung, and there Cmd-Opt-Esc displays a menu of apps from which to choose the one to kill (or of course you can do it through Terminal).
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Post by: Lines on 30 Oct 2014, 10:55
But a controlled quit and a forced quit should really be separate functions.

They are... With very different shortcuts.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 02 Nov 2014, 04:47
Today is apparently mind-numbing made-me-puke migraine day!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 02 Nov 2014, 05:35
It is? I wish my calander had those days all mapped out so I could plan parties, or something.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 02 Nov 2014, 18:18
The move is finished. It was one hell of a ride. My room is full of boxes (I mean literally full. I was lucky to have made enough space to sleep on the bed and close the door. Tomorrow I'll reassemble some of my shelves, so I can actually put the stuff where it's supposed to stay.

I also had a strange, somewhat nostalgic thought. This is the first time these sheets and this blanket and cushion touch again in over a year. I had brought the blanket and cushion with me, but left the bed at home. Now that I've brought my furniture here with me, and brought the stuff from my old room, those things are reunited. With that thought I'll go to bed now.
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Post by: hedgie on 02 Nov 2014, 20:51
I'm baffled by there even being a quit without saving function.
Common enough on *nix, where the OS expects the operator to know what they're doing.  If I type rm -rf / into a root console, I *expect* the bloody thing to start deleting everything without warning, since I did tell it to do it.
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Post by: Patrick on 02 Nov 2014, 22:09
I went on something of a date this afternoon with a lovely French girl who is here working as an au pair. I am optimistic, since I am even more full of questions about her than when we started. I think that's the best way to gauge whether someone is worth pursuing, although I certainly felt a good bit of chemistry too, which is anything but a bad thing. I'm going to enjoy my time with her.
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Post by: Aimless on 03 Nov 2014, 08:50
Be careful though, aupairances can deceive (can being the aupairational word)
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Post by: Lines on 04 Nov 2014, 17:12
I leave tomorrow to go to a conference for work with 3 coworkers: 1 that is a bff, 1 that is pretty fun to be around, and the one person I hate most at work. I cannot stand this woman, I think she's atrocious, and she's one of those people I continually ask myself as to why she has a job. And I have to spend 3.5 days with her, sometimes in a confined space.

I am really glad my friend is coming along. I think we'll help keep each other sane, considering she hates that woman as well.
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Post by: Patrick on 04 Nov 2014, 17:35
Rather than vote for the shitbag incumbent sole candidate for mayor, I wrote in Adolf Hitler and voted for him instead. They're both racists and xenophobes, but at least Hitler supported aerospace tech development and surface transportation infrastructure.
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Post by: Patrick on 04 Nov 2014, 17:41
And Hitler at least got a DD rather than drive drunk, which is more than I can say for that prick in city hall
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Post by: GarandMarine on 04 Nov 2014, 17:47
(https://c2.staticflickr.com/6/5475/9338666777_5bb3afd7e8.jpg)
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Post by: hedgie on 04 Nov 2014, 19:54
Rather than vote for the shitbag incumbent sole candidate for mayor, I wrote in Adolf Hitler and voted for him instead. They're both racists and xenophobes, but at least Hitler supported aerospace tech development and surface transportation infrastructure.
Ha!  That's one of the things that almost made me *not* vote today (not a shitty mayor), but the whole California "top-two" primary system.  I can't even write in a protest vote when I don't want to vote (which is nearly always) for a (R)eprobate or (D)umbass for partisan offices.  The only way to register dissatisfaction now is to stay the fuck home and be considered "apathetic".
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Post by: cesium133 on 04 Nov 2014, 20:09
Yeah, I didn't bother voting today. Oklahoma is one of those states where the result is predetermined, so why bother?

edit -- I've been watching TV, seeing constant campaign ads, and wondering why there are campaign ads after polls are closed. Then I remembered I'm watching a recording on my DVR.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 04 Nov 2014, 20:37
Rather than vote for the shitbag incumbent sole candidate for mayor, I wrote in Adolf Hitler and voted for him instead. They're both racists and xenophobes, but at least Hitler supported aerospace tech development and surface transportation infrastructure.
Ha!  That's one of the things that almost made me *not* vote today (not a shitty mayor), but the whole California "top-two" primary system.  I can't even write in a protest vote when I don't want to vote (which is nearly always) for a (R)eprobate or (D)umbass for partisan offices.  The only way to register dissatisfaction now is to stay the fuck home and be considered "apathetic".

Orrrrrrr vote for a third party and at least make your dissatisfaction with the current system heard.
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Post by: hedgie on 04 Nov 2014, 20:40
Can't any more.  Only the top-two candidates in the primary are allowed into the GE.  No third-parties, no write-ins.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 04 Nov 2014, 21:11
...what.


Well. California.
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Post by: cesium133 on 04 Nov 2014, 21:13
Can't any more.  Only the top-two candidates in the primary are allowed into the GE.  No third-parties, no write-ins.
Same here in Oklahoma. Third party candidates and write-ins aren't allowed.
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Post by: hedgie on 04 Nov 2014, 21:26
...what.


Well. California.
I think that when the percentage of the state choosing to be non-partisan or "decline to state" the major parties started pissing themselves a bit, and got the idiot voters to pass that stupid law.  Can't let us plebs have a true choice, after all, especially when the people have essentially become fed-up with them.  Honestly, I think it's high time to scrap the primary system altogether, and make the parties choose their candidates at their own expense (ought to save the taxpayer a bit of money that could be better spent elsewhere).


Same here in Oklahoma. Third party candidates and write-ins aren't allowed.
Only the candidates anointed by those already in power are permissible.
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Post by: ev4n on 05 Nov 2014, 07:03
Can't any more.  Only the top-two candidates in the primary are allowed into the GE.  No third-parties, no write-ins.
Same here in Oklahoma. Third party candidates and write-ins aren't allowed.

I already hate the US's 2 party monopoly.  This is just fuel to that fire.

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Post by: Papersatan on 05 Nov 2014, 14:25
I got hired today as a seasonal employee at Macy's. On the one hand, thank goodness. Unemployment ran out last week. It should be enough to cover rent for Dec, and maaaybe Jan, though we will have to continue charging our other expenses. On the other hand, it is literally the job I had before I came to grad school, but for slightly less money.  I keep telling myself I'm playing the long game and it will be worth it. I hope I'm right.
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Post by: Lines on 07 Nov 2014, 08:00
Keep on keeping on, Kat, and hopefully soon you'll be able to find something you want and makes you happy. That pays the big bucks. And gives you a sparkle pony. (Because why not.)



I think I found a dream job... Not that it's hiring. Or even remotely near where I live. (It's in D.C.) But it's a school attached to the Smithsonian and young children routinely visit all of the museums and I want to be a part of something like that...
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 08 Nov 2014, 15:39
I'm at the hospital with a sick baby... Not super sick, but apparently before they get their 2-month vaccines, any fever without an obvious source gets taken seriously. We're spending two nights here for observation/test cultures, hopefully going home tomorrow. It wouldn't be terrible except that, one, he has monitors on so holding and nursing him is awkward, and two, I'm sick with a sore throat and snuffles.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 08 Nov 2014, 16:39
:(
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 09 Nov 2014, 04:53
Good luck. Your own kids being sick is the worst.
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Post by: Welu on 10 Nov 2014, 16:36
Hope your both better really soon.
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Post by: Loki on 12 Nov 2014, 10:22
I am at the conference Ankh's Fachschaft is organizing.
He looks really spiffy in his "staff" shirt :3
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Post by: Patrick on 12 Nov 2014, 14:10
Strep throat, staph infection, cooped up in my bedroom, can't work (I'd freak out all the customers by wearing a protective mask to work), can't play, can't have fun, can't can't can't can't JESUS FUCK I HOPE I AM NEVER BEDRIDDEN AGAIN PLEASE JUST FUCKING SHOOT ME
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Post by: ev4n on 17 Nov 2014, 10:51
Strep is so bad.  :(
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Post by: Welu on 17 Nov 2014, 11:09
Part of my office job is sending part of the day earnings to partner branches for their cash machines and whatever doesn't get sent is the bank lodgement. Other branches can only accept 10s and 20s, no change or other notes. The other day the money added up so there was only a bank lodgement of £5(ish). It was so weirdly satisfying.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Nov 2014, 11:13
Modern American Warrior culture is no longer an institutionalized presence in our military. The SOF community and elite regular formations like the Marine Corps and the 82nd Airborne do their best to keep our culture as warriors and of honor alive, but in the face of command incompetence and mismanagement, along with a sea change towards the garrison, that culture is slowly being chipped away and covered over in favor of politically pleasing buzz words, as combat experienced officers, NCOs and joes are pushed out to make way for politically acceptable garrisson soldiers with polished boots and clean service records.

Under all the dog shit piled on American warrior culture by incompetent yes men, cowards and generals more concerned by seven figure jobs after retirement then giving their soldiers, Marines, sailors and airmen the tools and leadership they need to be victorious. It lives on, in the grunt still pulling long patrols in the desert, the NCO getting in the dirt with his men to ensure they're the best they can be, they maintenance crews pulling 18 hour days to keep birds in the air to support the men in the fight. That's what a warrior is. You can kill him, but you cannot break him, even when the forces that seek to destroy him come from within.

Men of iron and steel. America's warriors remain. I am proud to have stood next to them, laughed with them and celebrated, cries and mourned that which we have left behind... and when some of them moved on and I remained, I buried them with pride at having known them, singing their death song in my heart to any god that would listen, grateful that such men had existed, and that when the call came they answered with clear hearts.

It was us, weeping alone in dark rooms, lonely bars and at gravesides where we would not be seen, longing for the brothers and sisters that are gone from us, before looking forward and taking the weight, carrying their memories with us. As we remain it is our duty and honor to remember them, when all others forget, and to live well for them, that we might join them with our heads held high and our honor intact when we return to be amongst them once again. Until then our place is here, fighting. Twenty two casualties a day is more then enough proof that the war didn't end when our comrades came home. When we were let out into civilian life once again. We must continue to struggle and fight, even if we never raise another weapon the war for the lives of it brothers and sisters is now.

That is America's warrior culture. We who remain. Honor and our duty and loyalty to each other are what we have left... May we keep those ideals close to heart, on active service or back here in the world.

S/F
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Post by: Masterpiece on 17 Nov 2014, 21:47
My day so far:

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Post by: Patrick on 17 Nov 2014, 23:56
One of my coworkers is being super duper needy right now because her 25 year old ass got engaged to an 18 year old about a year ago and she is shocked, SHOCKED to discover that there are 18 year olds who don't know what they want.

Like, this girl is the kind of needy who shows up to our work to hang out there for my whole shift because she can't handle being alone, and has a million excuses to not find something else to do or someone else to lean her entire emotional weight on.

I'm starting to think I behave too nicely sometimes.
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Post by: Patrick on 17 Nov 2014, 23:57
I'm also pretty sure it's not the 18 year old not knowing what she wants that is the issue
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Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Nov 2014, 17:56
Update. My voice has returned. So has a mayor cough, headaches, shivers and fever-like symptoms. When I stand up, I feel nauseous.

I think I'm getting a flu. I hate this.
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Nov 2014, 20:17
It's Ebola you're gonna die
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 18 Nov 2014, 23:24
Give over lad, nobody died from a touch of the Ebola
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Post by: Loki on 19 Nov 2014, 18:07
my sleeping schedule is fubar. It's 3 am and I have to get up at 6:30 am
not really tired
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Post by: ankhtahr on 19 Nov 2014, 18:10
heh.

heheheheheh.

I wanted to get up at 9am. I slept around 6 hours until then. I decided to sleep some more. I woke up again at 3 pm. I didn't leave bed until 6 pm. I still haven't really left my room. I need to go to bed again. I'm not yet tired.
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Post by: ev4n on 20 Nov 2014, 05:01
Headache treatment of tylenol, advil, robaxacet, flonase, and heatpacks seems to be helping, but now my stomach is in rough shape.  I can't win.
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Post by: Metope on 22 Nov 2014, 03:06
The BBC made a radio doc about what's happening at my school after the fire. It's a pretty emotional piece, making me miss Glasgow and all my friends who are still there, they sound so good on the radio! Listen to it here (http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b04p87r5) if you're interested.
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Post by: Akima on 23 Nov 2014, 00:09
It's not even summer yet, but today temperatures hit 45C (113F) in Sydney.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 23 Nov 2014, 13:16
Which makes me think that at some point Sydney's closest anti-polar habitation must hit a negative equal temperature.
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Post by: jwhouk on 23 Nov 2014, 17:05
Well, Anchorage isn't doing too bad.

Buffalo, OTOH...
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Nov 2014, 17:36
I just quit Troubador. As a band we have never ever been disciplined enough to meet the standards I used to hold myself to. I used to practice hours a day. Nowadays I'm lucky if I feel like it for even 10 minutes.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 23 Nov 2014, 18:32
:( hugs.
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Post by: cesium133 on 23 Nov 2014, 19:54
As an update to the job search... I heard back from another of the places I interviewed with. They say I don't have the particular background they're looking for at the moment, but they may have another position opening up in January that I'd be "an excellent candidate" for, if I'm still looking for a position in January. And at the rate things are going, I probably will be.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 24 Nov 2014, 09:33
I've been riding my bike next to a place called "The Burger House" for the past three months and kept wondering if it was any good. Then they opened another place opposite of the mathematics faculty building and got intrigued. Turns out they are a four restaurant franchise and supposedly really good. I really wanted to try out the place but at the same time just thought "how great can a burger be?".

Oh my god that thing was so delicious, juicy, TASTY, it was the best burger I ever had. And the thing doesn't even look that good, the buns have imperfections and have that shine on them that just says "I'M FATTY", but one bite and you forget all that. Seriously. Orgasms in my mouth.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 24 Nov 2014, 09:54
If you put it like that I certainly will not go there.

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Post by: Masterpiece on 24 Nov 2014, 12:09
Honestly, I've been there two times, and everytime I took I bite I couldn't believe how delicious it was.
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Post by: Loki on 24 Nov 2014, 14:43
I think BeoPuppy meant the whole "orgasms in mouth" thing.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 24 Nov 2014, 14:53
Sh, you'll break the spell!
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Post by: Aimless on 24 Nov 2014, 16:39
I dunno Pat I'm almost inclined to congratulate you, because honestly I think your life will be better without them. Best of luck anyway
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Post by: GarandMarine on 24 Nov 2014, 17:46
I caused some serious discontent today. The head instructor is NOT pleased with me at all, but fuck him. I'm not here to make him happy and I'm paying his salary so he can get bent. I did not get what I wanted though, which was extra credit. I actually got better, I get to redo one of my major projects over this week and the next.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 24 Nov 2014, 23:54
I think BeoPuppy meant the whole "orgasms in mouth" thing.
Seems more a Gareth thing than a BeoPuppy thing, to be honest.
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Post by: Thrillho on 25 Nov 2014, 00:50
Sounds like a tasty burger *exaggerated comedy wink*
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Post by: Masterpiece on 25 Nov 2014, 01:37
Big Kahuna Burger!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 25 Nov 2014, 02:46
Sounds like a tasty burger *exaggerated comedy wink*
I'd throw in a *nudge, nudge* in too, for good measure.
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Post by: Thrillho on 25 Nov 2014, 03:58
Maybe an eyebrow wiggle?
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 25 Nov 2014, 05:23
MOst assuredly!
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 26 Nov 2014, 00:53
The Guardian did an article about the meetings that I'm an administrator for. (http://www.theguardian.com/social-care-network/2014/nov/25/day-elimination-violence-women-domestic-abuse) By necessity these meetings are mostly a closed circuit so the only people you get to talk to about them are those that are already involved and invested in them. So for that it's quite interesting to get an external perspective on them. Although I think it misses some of what it's like to attend these meetings regularly and some of the more troubling information that gets discussed, it's a pretty good article and conveys well what the process is about and some of the challenges that are faced. It's also really helpful to me to have a well written article like this that I can refer to for something that I find difficult talk about at times.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 26 Nov 2014, 06:17
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-g-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xpa1/v/t1.0-9/s720x720/10438891_606982136075118_7551854593745715150_n.jpg?oh=9c5f603602517d37bcdc7bbf5dfa2b18&oe=551C329F&__gda__=1427858041_16c08e090300baa72d608699424cb620)

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xpa1/v/t1.0-9/10449962_10154833734980371_3632662384700613124_n.jpg?oh=5c996e51a8d39994e7dacf341003bec1&oe=550F3477&__gda__=1428035681_be41e3f2e490ffac6a788c2cec0ceb80)
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Post by: osaka on 26 Nov 2014, 06:22
A dog named Ardent.
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Post by: Akima on 26 Nov 2014, 13:36
The Blog thread and the Pointless thread have merged! Was it only a matter of time?
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Post by: osaka on 26 Nov 2014, 13:39
I'm pretty sure that what happened was that GM noticed the wrong thread and when he saw DA CUTE he just thought "man forget it, I can put this as a blog thread post too" and just rolled with it.

Now my comment is indeed more suited for threads of the non-euclidean persuasion.
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Post by: cesium133 on 29 Nov 2014, 23:11
It's kind of a weird feeling when I realize that despite being nowhere near a plate boundary, I'm currently refreshing the USGS website to check what the magnitude of the earthquake that just happened was. It wasn't all that big of one, but I'm starting a betting pool with my roommates; my bet is 3.5.

edit -- 3.8. I was pretty close.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 30 Nov 2014, 07:11
I got an E-Mail from OKCupid saying that I am hot and will from now on only get hot people in my search results.

...what?
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Post by: GarandMarine on 30 Nov 2014, 08:09
Errr. What?
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Post by: Metope on 30 Nov 2014, 13:42
Ha I got that when I was on there too. Welcome to the secret hottie club.
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Post by: Welu on 01 Dec 2014, 11:12
Had a good weekend. Hung out with brothers and ate lots of food.
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Dec 2014, 15:03
Man. That Thanksgiving week was a doozy. I miss my sister now that she is back home in VA but I am sure glad that holiday is past and I can sorta return to normality.

I started a new band already. That was quicker than I expected but bassists are hard to come by, and good ones even harder. The new band involves Matt, but a new drummer. This dynamic is much more to my liking; less people who want to pick on me all the time, a more professional attitude, a drummer who isn't averse to constructive criticism, and the ability to maybe pack up our lives for a week or two and tour sometime, as opposed to Paul's 9-to-5 getting in the way of that.

I am optimistic, and if I were allowed to share the demos, I'd let them speak for themselves. All y'all really need to know is that I'm back playing in a band and I'm happy.
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Post by: Welu on 01 Dec 2014, 15:57
Last shift at the shop tonight. Feeling melancholy.
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Post by: Thrillho on 02 Dec 2014, 02:08
Man. That Thanksgiving week was a doozy. I miss my sister now that she is back home in VA but I am sure glad that holiday is past and I can sorta return to normality.

I started a new band already. That was quicker than I expected but bassists are hard to come by, and good ones even harder. The new band involves Matt, but a new drummer. This dynamic is much more to my liking; less people who want to pick on me all the time, a more professional attitude, a drummer who isn't averse to constructive criticism, and the ability to maybe pack up our lives for a week or two and tour sometime, as opposed to Paul's 9-to-5 getting in the way of that.

I am optimistic, and if I were allowed to share the demos, I'd let them speak for themselves. All y'all really need to know is that I'm back playing in a band and I'm happy.

I would stab a baby to be the bass player in your band.

Also imagine the three part harmonies.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 07 Dec 2014, 18:30
I wrote a song, and it's horrible and absolutely shitty, and it's about suicide girl (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,29624.msg1287208.html#msg1287208), which is stupider because I had promised myself that I wouldn't write songs about her anymore, yet I'm still somewhat happy as it's the first thing I wrote in a year
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Post by: GarandMarine on 08 Dec 2014, 18:59
Who's making cookies in the name of stress eating during a week which will almost certainly have major life changing consequences? This motherfucker right here.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 09 Dec 2014, 12:48
Wounds beneath your feet hurt.
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Post by: Patrick on 09 Dec 2014, 16:53
New band has practiced again. No new songs as of yet, but we've tightened up and amended faults in one of the three from before. Added a part and made the song longer, and I've added harmony vocals. Now if Matt will just sing on pitch we'll be copacetic ;)
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Post by: jwhouk on 09 Dec 2014, 18:35
Hey, singing slightly off key worked for U2.
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Post by: Thrillho on 10 Dec 2014, 04:53
Singing off key was kinda Matt's 'character' based on Troubador... it works for him!
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Post by: Patrick on 11 Dec 2014, 13:38
It makes life difficult when trying to harmonize with him
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Post by: Thrillho on 11 Dec 2014, 13:43
Well, yes. Try singing an H. Or a circular note.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 12 Dec 2014, 12:17
I guess this goes here.

So... I kinda have a verdict. VA is putting me on heavy painkillers and my doc is thinking I've been misdiagnosed. To writ I just had every lab the local clinic can do done, and I have a full body bone scan scheduled, and probably MRIs of both legs. As such, considering my health and my current academic condition, I am withdrawing from my current gunsmithing program effective Monday.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 12 Dec 2014, 12:25
Sorry to hear that, man. I hope your health improves.

Does the inclusion of "current" mean there is hope that you might be able to join another one later on?
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Post by: Patrick on 12 Dec 2014, 13:51
Matched some girl on Tinder today. She went completely psychotic on me for asking if she spoke German. Her profile said she was half, and I have a good friend who's half and speaks it... Yeah I unmatched her

Also, saw David Bazan and American Football last night at the Fillmore. David Bazan was awesome and he's genuinely one of the most personable people in show business. American Football were the polar opposite. Complete dicks and not even really on top of their game. I'll never spend money on them again as long as I live. They even straight up said they didn't want to be there.
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Post by: 94ssd on 12 Dec 2014, 18:01
My goal for this winter break is to not spend so much money. My place of employment on campus shuts down and I don't have a job at home to return to as many do. So I'm left with nothing to occupy myself, and I become very bored and do ill-advised things like eat too many meals out and take spur-of-the-moment road trips. But last break, after two plays, multiple outings with friends (with all the costs associated), and one trip to Roanoke, I ended up having to scrape together cash to buy Christmas presents.
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 14 Dec 2014, 14:54
It's a sunny day and the view from the train is scenic. I'm having to provide my own Internet access but am pretty happy.
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 14 Dec 2014, 14:54
It's a sunny day and the view from the train is scenic. I'm having to provide my own Internet access but am pretty happy.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Dec 2014, 16:03
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2873855/Gunman-takes-hostages-cafe-Sydney.html

Hope all our aussies are okay.
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Post by: jwhouk on 14 Dec 2014, 17:40
I had this thought.

If it was determined that Akima was in that coffee shop, I imagine that GM would be on the next plane to Australia.

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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Dec 2014, 18:47
I. Uh. I can't really refute that.

I wouldn't waste time with a plane though, I'd teleport using my reserves of hate and discontent for fuel.
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Post by: Akima on 14 Dec 2014, 22:10
If it was determined that Akima was in that coffee shop, I imagine that GM would be on the next plane to Australia.
Just to reassure everyone here (I don't think anyone would prefer me to be taken hostage :wink: and if they do, I am happy to disappoint them :-D), I was nowhere near Martin Place this morning, and I'm as safe as anyone is.
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Post by: hedgie on 14 Dec 2014, 22:14
If *you* were taken hostage, I'd be praying for the hostage-takers, since I don't think that you'd have to even make a fist to take them down.  I'd expect that you could shame them into complacency.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 15 Dec 2014, 00:18
I feel like the following meme summarizes Akima and I teaming up for just about anything.

(http://www.carvelho.com.br/loja/images/16764%20-%2041x29-.jpg)

Glad you're safe and sound though.
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Post by: jwhouk on 15 Dec 2014, 02:42
Glad you are okay, Akima.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 15 Dec 2014, 10:02
Blog:

I was just at the dentist because my tooth had broken and they not only had to completely hollow it out in preparation for a root canal, they also have to put a crown on it.

Expensive.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 15 Dec 2014, 10:03
Also, pain.

PAIN.
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Dec 2014, 22:37
Pwnt
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Post by: Grognard on 17 Dec 2014, 21:12
emptied every all the gas outta the mowers and stuff to put in the truck.
Hoping that 5 gallons will last me til next Monday.
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Post by: Akima on 18 Dec 2014, 00:27
Won't that be a bit smoky? Or are your mowers four-strokes?
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Post by: jwhouk on 18 Dec 2014, 06:57
That... might not be a good idea, Grog.
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Post by: hedgie on 18 Dec 2014, 14:49
Won't that be a bit smoky? Or are your mowers four-strokes?
A lot of places have banned 2-stroke motors, so that is a possibility.
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Post by: Welu on 18 Dec 2014, 15:57
Got some kind of infection. Throat was so raw yesterday I couldn't speak and my joints are killing me, especially my neck. Feels like every sinew is about to snap everybiñg is so heavy and achey.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Dec 2014, 16:00
Hot water with lemon.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 18 Dec 2014, 16:00
Also, get well soon ;)
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Post by: Welu on 18 Dec 2014, 16:04
Thanks. :)
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 19 Dec 2014, 00:47
That sounds a lot like you have a touch of the influenza.
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Post by: Loki on 19 Dec 2014, 02:58
I had a little bird
its name was Enza...
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Post by: Welu on 19 Dec 2014, 06:12
That sounds a lot like you have a touch of the influenza.

I was worried about that. I seem to be recovering pretty quickly though.
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Post by: Thrillho on 20 Dec 2014, 09:01
People in bars are annoying sometimes.

Last night we had what could have been a very depressing work Christmas night out (only six of us, neither I nor my girlfriend drinking) but was actually great (my six favourite people, both of us can have fun without getting drunk). Anyway, we moved to the second pub of the night and the ladies excused themselves for various reasons; heading to the bar or to the toilet, leaving me and my two buddies, let's call them E and R.

Suddenly unprovoked a random girl from a nearby (hugely irritating) table appears out of nowhere and the following exchange happened. This isn't quite word for word but it's close:
Girl: Don't hate me, okay?
Me: Why.
Girl: I'm going to kiss you on the cheek.
Me: No you're not.
Girl: What?
Me: No you're not. I don't hate you, but that's not happening.
Girl: A hug then?
Me: Nope.
Girl: Why?
Me: Because I have no idea who you are. I don't hate you. I'm not offended. I'm not angry. But I'm also not hugging you.
R: His girlfriend's at the bar. (note: This actually irritated be because individuals should be able to have more agency than needing a relationship as an excuse not to invade the personal space of strangers)
Girl: Oh thankyou! It's (I forget the specific phrasing but she said something about a wedding, showed us a card that was from a drinking game or something, for some reason her age came up). How old do you think I am?
R: I dunno. 34?
Girl: 34??? *sits down* I need a lot more drinks now.
R: 34? I don't know. I have no idea.
E: 19?
Girl: I can't believe you said 34!!!
*I pick up the card from the table. It says on it that you have to get someone to guess how old you are and this gets you ten points. No mention of hugs or kisses anywhere on it.
R: I don't know, and I don't care.
Girl: 34???
R: Alright, fine. 18. 18. If I say 18 will you just leave us alone?
*lanky blonde gentleman appears and all but physically removes her from the situation back to the table*

Drunk people are a lot more annoying when you're sober.
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Post by: Lines on 20 Dec 2014, 17:03
Yes, yes they are. I think it's in extremes for me. I either find it hilarious interacting with drunk people or I find it annoying as hell. And it doesn't seem to matter if they are strangers or not, because I do have some friends who can get icky when they start getting too drunk.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 22 Dec 2014, 07:51
Hey, everyone! Guess what I got yesterday!

(click to show/hide)
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Post by: Metope on 22 Dec 2014, 08:00
Me too! My sister bought me ginger, lemon and honey so I'll all set for today. Not looking forward to a 4 hour train ride tomorrow though.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 23 Dec 2014, 00:24
So I know I mentioned it elsewhere, but some fucker T-boned me as I was coming back from the wedding Sunday. My insurance company had a collective brain hiccup and left me stranded on the side of the road with no help getting a tow (despite the fact that I actually pay for an extra service specifically for tow service and road side assistance no matter what's going on). So I'm here now to talk to you a little bit about wrath.

Wrath: Effective at getting shit done since Year 0.

My insurance company manages a lot of it's accident cases and much of it's other work through a very cool online system, which includes the ability to leave the company feedback on how they're handling your specific claim, so when I got in on what was by then Monday morning, I left some blistering feedback  then during normal business hours spoke at length with a manager, I got the bungling tards who fucked up last night disciplined at least and probably canned in one case, (the guy violated all policy and procedure, likely just in the name of getting me off the phone so I wouldn't be his problem) and they're comping the long range tow from Greeley (bout an hour away) to a recommended mechanic in Lakewood where I live.

Remember kids, go for the best sin for your win, Wrath.
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Post by: osaka on 23 Dec 2014, 09:22
Oh yeah, it definitely works. It got me a 1-man high school class, a renewal on a temporary motorcycle license that I needed to move around (since I live somewhere in the middle of nowhere) and grounds to claim a grade increase on the useless shite 101 course I have to take.

Wrath works kids.
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Post by: LTK on 23 Dec 2014, 09:59
Waited at the hospital for an hour. Dental surgeon pulled my last wisdom tooth in 5 minutes. Hooray! Also, ow.
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Post by: Patrick on 25 Dec 2014, 17:20
This was the most fun Xmas my family has ever had. Everyone was in a good mood and for the first time ever I was able to get them gifts.

I got new black slacks that actually fit me (my sister knows the lanky fucker struggle) and a Sharks jersey. I gave nearly everyone a bottle of wine. I have my non-drinker stepmom some regifted cherry things someone gave me that I wasn't going to eat. I gave my park ranger stepbrother a high-zoom pair of binoculars so he can spot critters or misbehavers or what have you. It was a guess but turns out it was a good one, he was really excited about them. Success'
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Post by: jwhouk on 25 Dec 2014, 17:33
Oh, I am so sorry to hear about the Sharks jersey. Maybe you can return it and get a better team's sweater?  :claireface:
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Post by: GarandMarine on 25 Dec 2014, 20:17
I got a big pile of cool stuff... including Christmas money I used to get the rest for... and uh... I used that for all sorts of interesting stuff.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 26 Dec 2014, 08:57
We had a very nice Christmas! Nick and I hosted our very first holiday dinner at our house and it was really nice.

Christmas Eve, we went to his parents' house, had some munchies and exchanged with his family. His sister's fiance had to work but everyone else made it over (she's a nurse and probably made more on Christmas Eve than I make in a week.....I'd work too lol). They gave me a Michael's gift card and a nifty pin that was made by a local artist from their trip to Oregon. He made it out of a fork and it is insane and awesome. My brother in law and I stuck to our tradition of book exchanges- he gave me the latest Chuck Palahniuk book and I got him a Godzilla graphic novel. My parental-in-laws got me a pretty spiky bracelet, a watch, a book about beading and some cash with an adorable little note. Everyone loved their gifts from us too, so I was really happy about that. I pride myself in being a great gift-giver :-P

After that, we went to Nick's cousin's house and did our traditional pot-luck dinner and grab bag. We had a lot of fun and the food was awesome. I also tried a new recipe for sweet and sour meatballs that was divine. They were gone almost instantly and I now have a super easy dish that I plan on making ALL THE TIME.


Nick and I exchanged Christmas morning and he really out-did himself this year! We always set a limit and we both stayed within it but his gifts were so ME. He got me books by Adam Ellis and Allie Brosh (which he knew I've been wanting forever), a sugar skull calendar, 2 boxes of ribbon candy, Bio-Dome and Dude, Where's My Car on DVD, a stuffed Baymax and a 28"x36" cutting mat. I almost peed myself when I saw the mat!! I gave him the idea for one months ago and completely forgot and never imagined I'd get one that big! It's gorgeous.


After we exchanged, we cleaned up and I started up some dishes for dinner. Hosting is a lot of work!! I made a ham, a turkey breast, baked sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, pilaf, stuffing, corn, broccoli, coleslaw, cranberry sauce and biscuits. For dessert I made a pumpkin pie (from scratch with fresh pumpkin, mmmmm) and I bought some double chocolate eclairs. I definitely overcooked the ham and everyone joked that we should have made pulled pork sandwiches but it tasted delicious and wasn't dry at all! Not too shabby for my first time cooking a ham. I'm a little bummed that Christmas is over now but I'm happy that it went well and I'm excited to start a new year.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 26 Dec 2014, 09:43
I read "a book about beading" as "a book about beheading"
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Dec 2014, 12:47

Oh, I am so sorry to hear about the Sharks jersey. Maybe you can return it and get a better team's sweater?  :claireface:

I will stab you and poop in the wound

Speaking of stabbing, I also got money for a new tat. It will be either Firefly or Elliott Smith related
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Post by: Thrillho on 26 Dec 2014, 16:28
I posted this on Facebook, but I am sharing it anywhere I can.

A lot of the male members of my family died before I was born - both my grandfathers and two of my four uncles passed away before I was born or very shortly after I was born.

One of my uncles on my father's side was apparently very musically gifted and I have always been told I'd get along well with him. But of course, I never knew him. I've never had any grief, never felt like I've missed out, never felt any connection. He has always been an intangible blur in the background of my life somewhere.

On Christmas day one present I received was an envelope marked to me, and from my father. Not both my parents - just my father. This confused me, as they are... you know... a tandem.

I opened it up, and discovered a letter from my father. Basically, in 1966 my uncle was in a rock band, and they cut an EP. Only a few acetates of what they recorded were made, and my father has one of them. He's got a USB-ready record deck and he's recorded the songs from it for me.

I'm honestly overwhelmed. I've not even listened to it yet, although I am hoping it's good, but I feel an immediate affinity and connection with a man in my bloodline who I never once knew. I feel more a part of my family. And even the music geek in me is bugging out because I will have some music that maybe two dozen people on Earth will ever have heard.

I can't wait to hear it.
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Dec 2014, 09:54
If it's not too personal to ask, I'd like to hear.
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Post by: Welu on 27 Dec 2014, 10:14
Little Cheese, I got Allie Brosh's book as well!
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Post by: Thrillho on 27 Dec 2014, 13:06
If it's not too personal to ask, I'd like to hear.

Only two tracks work, the first track and a Chuck Berry cover. Trying to find out if my uncle wrote the first one so I can cover it and send it to him. They are, by the way, both bitchin' - very of their time, but great stuff.

I'll see if he minds me putting it online.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 27 Dec 2014, 20:19
Gareth, that is so awesome.  :-)

Welu, I can't wait to read it! In addition to being hilarious, her and the bloggess did wonders with helping me handle my anxiety.
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Jan 2015, 02:50
I had my first ever truly insufferable customer at this job on NYE. I ring his shit up and before I even understand what he's mad about, he starts being a dick about shit.

I haven't had someone act like such a shithead in years, so I told him in no uncertain terms that I was done dealing with him, and that if he wanted help, I would find him a manager.

Got him a manager, and the entire time, he kept talking shit about me so I could hear him. I lost my temper, turned around, and told him to "say one more god damn word about me, you prick, I dare you." He shut his stupid face up right quick.

I didn't even get so much as a talking to for it. Completely without consequence.
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Post by: cesium133 on 05 Jan 2015, 05:22
Power went out at my mom's house, so to pass the time I'm burning through my cell phone's data plan at blazing fast 2G speed.
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 05 Jan 2015, 07:50
Agreed about drunks. There was one sitting next to me at breakfast.

Minus 4 Fahrenheit here in North Dakota. The torrents of power from the locomotive are keeping it at bay unless I get thrown against a window.

The friend who will pick me up from the train station said it was weird to hear that I was leaving Chicago on the day before the day before my arrival. He said it was like getting an email from 1940.
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Post by: Thrillho on 06 Jan 2015, 16:23
I need to think of something other than 'Mentat.'
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 06 Jan 2015, 23:31
Well, you're a mentat, you CAN think. In fact it's one of the things you are really good at. So, this should be easy.

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Post by: Metope on 07 Jan 2015, 11:29
In Stockholm for work training! So far I've learned that Swedes are way worse at understanding Norwegians than Norwegians are at understanding Swedish, and there aren't a lot of traditional type restaurants here. Lots of hip food courts and ultra hip small places with deliberately mismatching interior. Stockholm is very hip. A little too hip, and I'm not even in the hip area. S'cool though.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 07 Jan 2015, 13:21
I'd fit right in, I'm so hip I can't get through doors without turning sideways. I'm so cool you can keep raw meat in me baby, yeah!
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Post by: LTK on 07 Jan 2015, 13:46
In Stockholm for work training! So far I've learned that Swedes are way worse at understanding Norwegians than Norwegians are at understanding Swedish, and there aren't a lot of traditional type restaurants here. Lots of hip food courts and ultra hip small places with deliberately mismatching interior. Stockholm is very hip. A little too hip, and I'm not even in the hip area. S'cool though.
I heard that Stockholm was hipster central, but I never got to visit. Did I hear it here? I can't remember. I did see Gothenburg though, and it wasn't all that hip, but pretty classy in places. In fact, the friend I went there with refused to eat at the restaurant that my Swedish friend had made reservations at because it looked so classy. It turned out to be kinda pretentious, the food was just okay and there were fruit flies, I swatted one and got the attention of half the restaurant, haha.
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Post by: Metope on 07 Jan 2015, 14:38
There are fruit flies everywhere! And yeah, most of the food has been... not that special. I don't understand why there can't be any restaurants where you just sit down, order, wait, eat, pay and leave, they have to invent all sorts of new ways to serve you food so that you feel stupid when you don't know how it works, or they get annoyed when you ask for things. It's kinda hipster central yeah, but then again I look like that too so I'm not gonna judge.
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Post by: Loki on 07 Jan 2015, 14:39
Time flies like an arrow
fruit flies like a banana
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Post by: Lines on 07 Jan 2015, 15:48
Have they not heard of fly traps? Because that sounds kinda gross and very annoying.
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Post by: Aimless on 08 Jan 2015, 13:19
Dear blog thread,

It's time for an update. Many nice things have happened since the last one. I got some shit done and feel lighter than a feather now that I don't have as much hanging over me.

We've finished almost all the renovation and the apartment looks incredible. Had it appraised yesterday and the lowball estimate is in line with what we've seen, while the upper limit is very difficult to estimate because it's a pretty unique apartment for this area. We're probably moving soon, which is both exciting and terrifying :o I'm going to miss this apartment very very much, but it'll be nice to move to a larger better-planned and undervalued apartment that's almost as close to work and costs less than the one we have now. No mortgage, booyah :o

The weather her has been incredibly crappy but I've finally decided to abandon my dignity and now wear much warmer hats and gloves that make me look like a Scandinavian caricature. We did have a couple of wonderful days around Christmas, though, when there was a lot of snow. At the time we were house-sitting for my in-laws and I discovered the joy of living in a cosy house, living in a quiet place and running in the snow with a crazy dog. I've spent most of my life in cities and been kinda reluctant to embrace these things but this time it felt great. I also discovered that I like cars, esp. cars that keep your butt toasty warm :o I drove a car for the first time and went in circles both clockwise and counter-clockwise without hurting anyone. The car didn't start the next day but it turned out to be due to the cold.

Both the wife and I got a little sick of our silliness and decided to get more organised and active. It's gone fairly well so far. I'm almost on top of my paperwork and I've discovered the perfect digital to-do-list for me (Any.do, which we both now use). The list was incredibly long at first and refused to shrink but it's slowly been tamed over the past couple of weeks and now it seems manageable. It's also become a habit, which is nice because I've never been good at maintaining that sort of habit before :) all sorts of annoying but kinda important things that I'd been putting off have been cleared away. In addition to this increased productivity we've also become more active and pro-active, which is very pleasant. I have an almost limitless capacity for bumming around at home before the computer but the missus does not and she was not happy about our combined lack of drive.

I've had a great deal of time off these past couple of weeks, far more than I thought I would. I worked Christmas eve (during the day) and that was great. Discovered that I really do love working the day and also discovered that it's very nice to be able to determine the menu and eat everything with the Ginger, on the couch, while watching '80s/'90s action movies. I don't know if I'll ever want to do Christmas with either of our families again :o

After Christmas I had a week off and it felt like a MONTH, in the best possible way. Went to sthlm for the first time in AGES and it was incredible hanging out with my family. My sisters are SO BIG! I get shocked every single time. One of them is applying for some sort of artsy track in highschool and I think that it may actually be a good idea for her. I got along better with my dad than ever before. My mum went a little crazy with the whole packing thing but it worked out all right and she and my sis made it to my stupid home country safe and sound. They'll be attending a ridiculously large wedding that I'm honestly a little happy I'm missing.

In addition to this we hung out with some of my closest friends and, for the first time in years, I began to feel like I might want to move back to sthlm. I hope this desire dies soon :o

I'll be in charge of the ward for a couple of weeks in spring and that's kinda like (O.O) but I'll have a lot of support and it's a sign of confidence so that's kinda nice. Have some ideas for the clinical education of our students as well as for the education of our new colleagues and I hope they work out.

These past few weeks have been pretty good tech-wise as well. Switching to Lollipop cost me a ton of open tabs and other goodies, but it's a great OS. I've upgraded my old Touchpad and it's still frickin' fantastic, best purchase I ever made. I've figured out a good setup for the NAS. I've upgraded my mum's computer, replaced her gigantic CRT-TV with a flatscreen (and sprained my by back-muscles in the process of getting that hulk out of the apartment), gotten some stuff for the ginger, found a portable battery charger (that's when you know you have an addiction I guess :() and finally ordered a Google Cardboard kit. I'm just ridiculously excited about the last one, it's basically my favourite kind of invention and the possiblities are endless :D ordered a couple of ViewBoxes from kickstarter too.

I've just now stuffed myself with membrillo, cheese and crackers and been notified that a present is on the way:

(http://priisma.se/images/Atmosphere%20Wood%20100%20IMG_3731wdcirkelbright_big.jpg)

And another:

(http://mikeshouts.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Anova-Precision-Cooker-image-3.jpg)

Very happy. That'll do for now :)
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Post by: Patrick on 09 Jan 2015, 06:21

I'm so cool you can keep raw meat in me baby, yeah!

Challenge accepted, bae.

Dear blag thared,

The holidays are over and I'm back to being bored as fuck all the time, but at least now I know I can regularly entertain myself with Netflix while saving money on not smoking or drinking at the bar.

I've got an appointment on Monday to get myself a new tattoo. It's gonna be of Serenity from Firefly, she's gonna be on my right boob. I'm really really excited about it, but just a bit bummed I can't show my family. They disapprove of tattoos. Y'all shoulda heard the earful my mom gave me about my Albanian eagle a couple years back, haha.
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Post by: Welu on 09 Jan 2015, 07:00
I just realised I don't think I've had a standard week, which is meant to be only two days, at my new job since I left the other place a few weeks ago. I'm actually working from tomorrow and every day to next Sunday. Need the money though so it's cool.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 09 Jan 2015, 12:40
I made a facebook page for my kid's toy sheep. What would one put on such a page?

It's a fan of the Rams and the Packers, of course ...
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Jan 2015, 15:46
I've got an appointment on Monday to get myself a new tattoo. It's gonna be of Serenity from Firefly, she's gonna be on my right boob. I'm really really excited about it, but just a bit bummed I can't show my family. They disapprove of tattoos. Y'all shoulda heard the earful my mom gave me about my Albanian eagle a couple years back, haha.

It took my mom a couple years, but she's really come around on my ink. She's even getting a tattoo with my kid sister and another mom/daughter they've been really close with since el kid was little. My grandparents do not approve at all.
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Post by: Akima on 09 Jan 2015, 18:06
I made a facebook page for my kid's toy sheep. What would one put on such a page?
(http://www.chinesenewyearin.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/sheep2015-300x212.jpg)
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Post by: GarandMarine on 09 Jan 2015, 18:57
I just reviewed footage of the SWAT dynamic entrance/hostage rescue at the supermarket in France. I really, really hope that was GIGN, because the initial entry was fucking embarrassing on an international scale.

Protip: If your point man makes entry you FOLLOW HIM THROUGH THE FUCKING DOOR. CQB is all about dynamic, high speed violence, the hostages do not have the time for you to peek around the door and pussy foot about, you need to be through the entry, clear of the vortex of fire and engaging targets as quickly as humanly possible, because the faster you are the better chance everyone who isn't a bad guy has of living.

I hope the French officer who made entry and got left with his ass in the wind is handing out some serious lumps to the rest of his stack in the squad bay tonight.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 10 Jan 2015, 05:22
I made a facebook page for my kid's toy sheep. What would one put on such a page?
(http://www.chinesenewyearin.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/sheep2015-300x212.jpg)
Awesome, will steal.
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Post by: Akima on 11 Jan 2015, 06:34
You can find many images, including some of higher quality, if you google Year of the Sheep 2015.
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Post by: Carl-E on 11 Jan 2015, 18:11
I just reviewed footage of the SWAT dynamic entrance/hostage rescue at the supermarket in France. I really, really hope that was GIGN, because the initial entry was fucking embarrassing on an international scale.

Protip: If your point man makes entry you FOLLOW HIM THROUGH THE FUCKING DOOR. CQB is all about dynamic, high speed violence, the hostages do not have the time for you to peek around the door and pussy foot about, you need to be through the entry, clear of the vortex of fire and engaging targets as quickly as humanly possible, because the faster you are the better chance everyone who isn't a bad guy has of living.

I hope the French officer who made entry and got left with his ass in the wind is handing out some serious lumps to the rest of his stack in the squad bay tonight.

Seems the woman hostage that was killed - a mother of three and a barrister by profession - was hit by police bullets that ricocheted.  When I first heard this, I thought it was a shame, but in such a situation.... now, after reading the above, I wonder just how badly the police fucked up, and who's going to pay the price. 



OK, blog time.  So I got a job at Macy's for the holidays, and have been asked to stay on.  It's part time.  I've also been hired by the church as sexton (which means cleaning and maintenance), also part time. 

With the Beer Barn and teaching online, that's four part time jobs.  Ends still aren't meeting, but the gap is a little smaller, my mom's still helping.  I sleep when I can, and am only on here now because things are a bit slower after the holidays (although it's inventory time at macy's, I have an overnight shift Monday 7 PM - 4 AM). 

At Macy's I started on the dock unloading trucks, and moved on into "fulfillment", which means filling, packing and shipping online orders.  I actually enjoy it - it's a challenge, computer heavy and I don't have to deal with customers.  Hell, most days I'm all by my lonesome in the shipping room. 

The church is... a challenge.  It's huge, and I keep finding things that need serious repair, or haven't been cleaned in years.  But I love the place, the architecture, the people - it's a privilege.  It's also $12 an hour, where Macy's is $7.75, and the Beer Barn's $8.75. 

The Beer Barn, you may recall, lost its lease.  We found a place nearby, which is good because all our clientele is local.  It's actually a much better location.  And to top it off, the owner has told me that after the move, she's going to make me manager (rather than her nephew, who never filled out the state liquor control board's paperwork to be manager).  We'll see how it shakes out, but that would mean a raise (almost double the money) and a minimum of 30 hours a week (mandated by the state LCB).  If that happens, I'll be dropping Macy's like a hot potato, but keeping the sexton job and the online teaching.  I'm... hopeful, but not hanging everything on it.  The place has issues.  I can probably fix several of them, but it's a weird business that can be upended anytime by the state legislature changing the archaic liquor laws.  Or by a well-heeled competitor moving into the region, which may be happening.  We'll see.  It may be a case of being given the wheel of a sinking ship...

And my mother has been bugging me to go back to school for something useful.  I start classes at the online school where I teach in February.  Decided on accounting, just an associates, so I can take care of the beer barn's books - the old man (the owner's brother in law) who does them has been slipping a bit, he's missed a few local filings, and at one point inventory was off by over 60 cases (it was an invoice error).  February's also when the beer barn moves, if all goes according to plan and the LCB moves at a decent pace.  It is a state agency, though...   :-P :roll:

So the upshot is, you probably won't see me much around here for a while. 

Again. 

I miss you guys.  It's nice to be able to just show up once in a while and say hi! 
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Post by: Akima on 11 Jan 2015, 20:19
I miss you guys.  It's nice to be able to just show up once in a while and say hi!
I miss you, I suspect we all miss you, and I'm sure we're all glad there are some positive moves in your life.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 11 Jan 2015, 20:25
I just reviewed footage of the SWAT dynamic entrance/hostage rescue at the supermarket in France. I really, really hope that was GIGN, because the initial entry was fucking embarrassing on an international scale.

Protip: If your point man makes entry you FOLLOW HIM THROUGH THE FUCKING DOOR. CQB is all about dynamic, high speed violence, the hostages do not have the time for you to peek around the door and pussy foot about, you need to be through the entry, clear of the vortex of fire and engaging targets as quickly as humanly possible, because the faster you are the better chance everyone who isn't a bad guy has of living.

I hope the French officer who made entry and got left with his ass in the wind is handing out some serious lumps to the rest of his stack in the squad bay tonight.

Seems the woman hostage that was killed - a mother of three and a barrister by profession - was hit by police bullets that ricocheted.  When I first heard this, I thought it was a shame, but in such a situation.... now, after reading the above, I wonder just how badly the police fucked up, and who's going to pay the price. 

Well, that's less incompetence and more physics than anything else... or, shit now that I'm thinking about it, if they hadn't been trading pot shots from the door... maybe... hmmm. I didn't hear about that, so I didn't think about that. Still no matter what, a shame.

Glad things are a bit better for you Carl.
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Post by: Welu on 12 Jan 2015, 05:30
Hi, Carl. It's nice to hear from you, especially about things improving.
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Post by: pwhodges on 12 Jan 2015, 06:01
Once there were shelves on the wall behind my desk; they held computers, monitors, desktop scanners and various oddments...

(https://cassland.org/images/shelves1.jpg)
(https://cassland.org/images/shelves2.jpg)

I was standing on the library stool just visible under the rubble in the middle of the second photo; I am miraculously unhurt.
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Post by: ankhtahr on 12 Jan 2015, 06:12
whew. Glad you're okay!
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Post by: pwhodges on 12 Jan 2015, 06:33
Two iMacs with smashed screens, though; and half a dozen smashed Canon desktop scanners as well as a fax machine.  All the Dell computers and monitors seem untouched (though I have yet to turn them on), but several HP monitors have damaged screens.

I shall be visiting the WEEE waste collection point with a load of stuff later this afternoon, I think.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 12 Jan 2015, 07:41
Bugger.
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Post by: Thrillho on 12 Jan 2015, 09:15
Hodgy, someone might buy the smashed computers to strip for parts.
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Post by: Metope on 12 Jan 2015, 09:29
Damn. Glad you got away from it unhurt though! Everything else is replaceable, although expensive.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 12 Jan 2015, 10:02
Wow. That really sucks.
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Post by: Aimless on 12 Jan 2015, 10:43
Glad you're all right Hodgy and sucks about all the broken stuff :( I've seen this happen so many times that I've developed a strong aversion to such arrangements of shelves and stuff.
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Post by: pwhodges on 12 Jan 2015, 11:59
In the past year I've had to squeeze in the contents of not one but two store rooms that management wanted to use for other purposes (as in knock down and rebuild).  But when I pointed this out, my boss just smiled sweetly (having checked I was unhurt) and said that perhaps it was a good time to reassess what we needed to keep.  I told her we'd already had to do that twice in the past year, and this was the stuff I use week by week...

I've had similar stuff on those shelves for seven years - I guess they could have gone at any time!
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Post by: Akima on 12 Jan 2015, 13:30
Mmm... I've had issues in the past with managements that don't understand that a lot of computer equipment is heavy and that shelves to store it need to be sturdy. Quite a few shelving systems are badly designed IMHO too. That style of shelving that relies on a slotted steel rail screwed back to the wall, for example, is only as strong as the wall fixings, and if the wall is plasterboard (drywall) that is pretty feeble, even if the installers bother to fasten into the studs behind. A pet dislike of mine are systems that might be sturdy enough in the shelves and uprights themselves, but rely on stupid little metal pins to link them together, which serve to act as stress-raisers (yes, I am an engineer's daughter, why do you ask?).

I am very glad to hear that you are unhurt.
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 12 Jan 2015, 13:41
Scary. Any lessons I should take away from whatever the failure mode was?
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 12 Jan 2015, 13:54
Don't stand under falling things?
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 12 Jan 2015, 14:47
Never shower?
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Post by: pwhodges on 12 Jan 2015, 15:31
(yes, I am an engineer's daughter, why do you ask?)

And I am an engineer by training.  But sometimes you just delegate, and when there is a whole building full of shelves holding large amounts of equipment and paper (paper's heavy, too, you know!), and when your shelves put up by the same people have had your equipment on them for seven years, well, you get a little bit blasé I guess.

The fixings were into the plasterboard (decent heavy-grade stuff), not the studs, and used those fat coarse screws that the fitting screws go into in turn, rather than positive toggle bolts or similar.  I was not impressed, really.

I've demanded floor-standing Dexion shelving as a replacement.

Scary. Any lessons I should take away from whatever the failure mode was?

Never stop questioning. 

Failure modes you're familiar with at home can happen just as easily at work, even though it can be someone else's fault!

Management is about what you can get away with...  (OK, I'm feeling cynical, can you tell?)
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Post by: Akima on 13 Jan 2015, 03:48
The fixings were into the plasterboard (decent heavy-grade stuff), not the studs, and used those fat coarse screws that the fitting screws go into in turn, rather than positive toggle bolts or similar.
That is what they looked like to me, and I would not be impressed by such fixings either.
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Jan 2015, 10:00
Makes the old cinderblock-and 2x10's we "scavenged" from a construction site in college seem well designed by comparison! 

Certainly a good bit sturdier...
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Post by: Patrick on 14 Jan 2015, 02:36
Sometimes people take my uncanny resemblance to Varg Vikernes a lot too far and they actually accuse me of being a neo-Nazi. I don't take kindly to it. A former member of these forums did so today, and now I don't talk to him. And if I ever meet him face to face, he'd best hope I forget what he looks like, or at least get himself a mouth guard.
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Post by: Akima on 14 Jan 2015, 03:53
You, Patrick? A neo-Nazi? There must be an outbreak of the stupid-virus going round.
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Post by: hedgie on 14 Jan 2015, 04:22
He's as much of a Nazi as Laibach are.  In that it's not at all…  Then again, one of the hottest women I've ever seen was wearing an SS uniform for a DI6 show.
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Post by: Patrick on 14 Jan 2015, 04:42

You, Patrick? A neo-Nazi? There must be an outbreak of the stupid-virus going round.

Seriously. I only hate people on merit. And for all my playing up of my misanthropy, it really is hard to earn it. We disagreed on a topic relating to a current event and he felt like comparing my (admittedly liberal) ideal of free speech applying to even the shittiest of people, to tacit compliance with Nazi ideals. Jesus. And he kept pressing once I became offended, then back pedaled by saying "Well I never actually said..." No, fucker, you said more than enough.
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Post by: Metope on 14 Jan 2015, 08:03
He did say "not for their views, but for their freedom of expression" though. Of course he knows you're not a neo nazi, and you gotta admit your initial reply to his post was a little assuming and one sided? Nobody ever said, or even implied that what happened was deserved.

I don't think violence is the solution anyway, but I'm glad you live on different continents for his sake. If you haven't blocked him there's a new reply btw, not from him.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Jan 2015, 12:35
Nazis weren't exactly big into freedom of expression...
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Post by: Metope on 14 Jan 2015, 13:19
No, but the neo nazis do have freedom of expression themselves now, that's what he was referring to. He knows nobody in their right mind (including Patrick) supports their views. I guess you need the whole post and string of comments for context, but I'll leave it up to Pat to share if he wants to, it's not my place since he's the one who brought it up and I'm not really involved.
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Post by: GarandMarine on 14 Jan 2015, 19:55
I'm quite lost, but I don't really care either.
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Post by: Papersatan on 14 Jan 2015, 22:41
So things have been a mix of great and terrible, and seems to be my new normal.

I still don't have a real job, and my temp job ends on Sat, I had to hire a lawyer to fight that unemployment fraud thing, and my Perkins loans are overdue enough that they have started collections calls.

But, I'm giving a talk next month at a local professional event, next month and have submitted a proposal to a national 3 day conference.  I thought I'd not gotten into the national one, but I ran into a professor, who it turns out was one of the peer reviewers for it, and he said he loved it, and is pushing for them to accept it, which made me double check, and the decisions are not made until next week, so there is hope yet! A friend and I are also working on a poster submission for the same conference, which I am excited about because it means researching in a different direction.  My talk in Oct, the one next month and the proposed one for this conference are all very theoretical and on the same topic, just a bit deeper exploration each time, and tailored for the theme.  Working on this poster session will be a good break from that because it's more example based history.

If the talk and or poster are accepted, I'll have to figure out funding though.  Since I have graduated, I can't get funding through the university, though my co-poster-maker can, so if that's in we can share a car and room at least, but conference admission (which is not waived for accepted posters) is $470.  I *think* there's a reduced fee if the talk is accepted? but if the poster is not, my friend will not be going, which means I would need to cover the hotel and car myself.  I think I might try to crowdfund this, which I feel weird about, but I think is probably my best bet.  Going to this conference is pretty important for my career, even if I don't get anything accepted, and I think between my friends, family, and classmates, I know enough people who understand that, care about my success, and have a few dollars to spare, that I can get this funded. 

Also, I am starting to realize that a lot of my lack of career success is because of my confidence issues, and I'm thinking about seeing someone for help with that.  I have charisma and confidence and extroverted social skills out the ass, unless it is something related to my intellect or academic ability, and then I just shut down... But that's a long self-reflection for another thread.
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Post by: Welu on 15 Jan 2015, 00:39
I hope things keep improving quickly for you because you deserve them to do so. :)
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Jan 2015, 23:01

I don't think violence is the solution anyway, but I'm glad you live on different continents for his sake. If you haven't blocked him there's a new reply btw, not from him.

I don't genuinely believe violence is the answer either. I just hate when people bring up Nazis and then act like it was innocent. In my experience, nobody innocently brings Nazis into a discussion, it is always with the intent to color the rhetoric unfavorably for the other participant. I refuse to be part of it, and yes, I did block him. And the other fellow too.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 15 Jan 2015, 23:06
As for sharing, I've blocked him so I don't have access to the thread anymore. Feel free if you want, or not, I really don't care. Godwinning a thread is always done with a purpose, and it's a hot button issue for me because I have dear friends with stories of living through genocide by the skin of their teeth. I appreciate a good Auschwitz joke like any other asshole, but unless you have a very good reason to bring up Nazis and how they relate to me, you don't fucking do it.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 16 Jan 2015, 23:13
Vigilantism at it's finest. My roommate and I stopped to help out at a hit and run tonight. The guy was disabled in the middle of an intersection and the cops weren't there yet. We made sure the guy was okay, and that the cops were on their way. While we were chatting waiting for the cops to show up, the guy mentioned it was a red jeep and it went in the direction of our place, well we're heading home after the cops arrive and lo and behold, a fucked up red jeep missing a tail light in an apartment complex near our place. So we ran back to the accident scene and lead the cops straight to the guy after I snapped a pic of the plate and the damage.

When we got back to the Jeep, we noticed the guy had come out and flipped the Jeep around in the space. Not moved it around into another space, but just turned around in the same space. Which, I mean... come on... at least MOVE the vehicle if you see people checking out the damage, try and not be too stupid. Three LEOs including a K9 officer on site when we left.

 Fun fact: In Colorado a Hit and Run is a felony offense with an automatic two year suspension of your license, jackass is probably looking at jail time, especially if they were drunk/high, which is another felony.

Good deed for the night accomplished. If you're a hit and run driver, I can literally think of very few criminals /lower/ as a human being for you outside of rapists, pedos and actual murderers.

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 16 Jan 2015, 23:54
That's not vigilantism, that's being good citizens and reporting evidence to the cops. You didn't do anything daft like trying to arrest Jeep-man yourselves, much less string him up from the nearest tree.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aimless on 17 Jan 2015, 02:56
I'd totally watch a show on that theme if you got Steven Seagal to sign up for it :o

Nazi Patrick would just be too fucking surreal though, what the hell was that person smoking
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 17 Jan 2015, 05:30
That's not vigilantism, that's being good citizens and reporting evidence to the cops. You didn't do anything daft like trying to arrest Jeep-man yourselves, much less string him up from the nearest tree.

Well. We kinda did go out looking for this vehicle after we left the scene of the accident.


In other GM blog news big trouble in big China right now. Chinese video gaming is a bit of a joke in a lot of the communities I'm in due to every game and it's cousin having Chinese clones. Well in the case of my latest minor obsession Kantai Collection, there's a couple big clones, but they all (mostly) have their own GUI, and art, even if it's all obviously based on KanColle. PirateColle (as it's referred to on forums) the worst of these, isn't a clone, it's a direct lift of KanColle, a lot of the voice acting is still in Japanese, the art's the same. It's pretty bad. This is where the fun starts. With the help of Baidau (The Chinese google) who's services were secured with a 700,000 yuan (110,000 USD approximately) pay off, PirateColle (who bills themselves as the original developer of their theft) took over every KanColle related forum and image board (Tiebas) and used them to advertise their game, apparently they also had Baidau take action against the other clone games. So obviously the Chinese community wasn't exactly happy about that. Their counter offensive started with a bunch of X rated material being posted on their old Tiebas (a smut torpedo if you will) to try and force Baidau to close their old forums down permanently. More enterprising individuals have moved on to attacking the game's website and servers directly. PirateColle moved to a server in the United States (still under Baidau control, interesting where people have stuff in the global economy no?) and tried to proceed with their continued launches and normal activities.

(http://puu.sh/eD7sl/f77b5850ae.png)

This was the opening salvo of the renewed attacks as captured via ipviking.

Due to the culture of piracy being somewhat the norm, most Chinese KanColle players (and players of the KanColle clones) would have happily left the private server alone, but the straight-up act of shilling, along with shameless display of wealth ("I can buy power over all of you for a measly 700k") is what drove this over the edge. This is coming right after the Chinese gaming community's last major clusterfuck quite literally a few weeks ago, when the Chinese, official, launch of Guild Wars 2 was revealed to be Guild Wars 2... hyper monetized with all challenge and leveling replaced with a window to fill in your credit card information, after the company that bought the licensing swore up and down while in developing and localization they wouldn't do that.

As this continues to escalate (and it is escalating, quite a lot) it's leaving my happy little distraction of cute girls wearing chunks of battleship behind, this is a matter pertaining to gaming and ACG culture as a whole in one of the fastest growing consumers of gaming-related products in the world. Of course racism is also involved because the Pirates immediately started blaming the Japanese (which is rich considering they stole their game whole cloth from a Japanese company) for their server issues, which has gotten them a certain amount of cachet and popularity with, and I mean this is the least kind way possible, racist shitheads.

Now back to something less serious.

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: ankhtahr on 17 Jan 2015, 15:23
I decided to try myself at 3D CAD again. Cleaned up my desk for that. Now it really looks like a workdesk. I like it. It's been a while since I felt this productive at a desk.

(http://i.imgur.com/o93dKHT.jpg)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: GarandMarine on 18 Jan 2015, 00:26
[img]http://i.imgur.com/0PH5K03.png[img]

The Chinese Admirals got the new IP, Baidau apparently has U.S. servers, and PirateColle was traced back to there, caught these two salvos right after I logged in. Couple have been so big the software, and my monitor, couldn't keep up.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 18 Jan 2015, 13:30
Last night at the bar I met these two really nice people who were eavesdropping on the same ridiculous conversation as me, and when we realized we were laughing for the same reasons, we all high fived.

This has been Alcohol Adventures with Pat
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 18 Jan 2015, 19:08
Between last night's chili, stir fry for lunch  and this evening's barbecue, something's reacting... 

I just cut one, and it was so damn noxious that one of the dogs, on its bed across the room, lifted it's head and then decided to get up and sniff out the source.   :-P


Oh, wait - where's the TMI thread? 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Patrick on 19 Jan 2015, 00:42
I just helped an old Afghan man reconnect with his former boss who he lost touch with over the years. Said boss lives in Australia and has a restaurant with a Yelp page, which I discovered by searching for it there on my phone. Fuckin spacephones man, what can't they do?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 19 Jan 2015, 14:34
Every time I reset or clear my internet history/cookies I forget how tiny the text on this forum actually is by default and for a second thing I need new glasses before I remember to zoom in.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 20 Jan 2015, 03:35
Tiny?  It's bigger than the other forum I mainly visit, and bigger than the text under the icons on my desktop.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 20 Jan 2015, 05:06
Maybe it's because I've read it zoomed in to 110% for so long but I find it really uncomfortable to read at default.

I find desktop icon text grand but then I'm not reading paragraphs at that size regularly.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aimless on 20 Jan 2015, 09:25
My feelings are the same re. tiny forum text :o
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 20 Jan 2015, 10:18
I got it at a 110% as well. In fact, the majority of websites I visit regularly are zoomed in. 1920*1080 on a monitor of moderate size makes most text just a bit too small for comfort. Also true for images, Wondermark is even at 150%.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 22 Jan 2015, 22:46
A positive update on my situation:
My talk was accepted into that national conference, which is amazing! It also waives my registration fee, which will cut my attendance cost in half.
I have an interview next week for a temp job that would be a lot of fun for me, even though its not really related to my career goals. I think I have a pretty good shot at getting it too, so fingers crossed on that.
I'm actually crazy busy for the first time since school ended, between the two talks, the poster session, a non-profit website project Ive been wrangled into doing and some other small things.  None of it is making me any money, but it feels good to be busy again.
The only problem is its making it hard to find the time to look for actual work.  I need to build some time into my week to make sure I'm doing that.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: lepetitfromage on 23 Jan 2015, 06:18
That's awesome, Kat!! Congrats on the talk, that is HUGE. Fingers crossed for you on the interview as well.  :-)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 27 Jan 2015, 08:16
So after 4 inches of powder, it was snowing again last night.  Went to pick up my daughter from work at midnight, no problems.  Headed out to Wal-Mart, she needed some stuff and her and my schedule don't allow for much daytime shopping. 

On the main boulevard heading out, I hit a slick spot as I came behind a stopped car for a red light. 

Antilock brakes only work if they detect a difference between the way the wheels are responding.  The slick area was big enough that all 4 wheels locked, and I was headed at a weird angle right for the car.  I hit the gas, and diverted us into the mall entrance instead. 

Where we slid, sideways, against the curbing of one of the curved dividers that direct traffic in and out. 


Something in the suspension broke.  The wheels don't steer together.  I limped home, only because it was snowy enough that it was more like skiing than driving anyway.  I'm going out soon to assess the damage and see if I'll be able to fix it. 

It's our only vehicle, and public transport around here sucks.  I'm hoping I just busted a sway bar link or something.  At least that will be cheap.  Even if I have to lie in snow to fix it. 



The part I didn't tell my wife; I was really tired, and didn't notice the stopped car ahead until later than I should have.  My daughter noticed it first and screamed.  I probably would have rear ended the guy full tilt if it weren't for her.  I may have been on the verge of passing out. 

Fuck, man.  I didn't need this. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 27 Jan 2015, 14:53
I worked with someone whose film has an Oscar nomination. (http://fermanaghherald.com/2015/01/brian-is-going-to-the-oscars/)

The photo in that article is actually from the film I worked on. I feel so cool about my film work tonight.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Jan 2015, 17:58
Nothing's broken, but the wheel's cockeyed as hell.  Took it to a nearby alignment shop - the steering knuckle, strut and possibly the control arm are all bent out of shape. 

Most of you probably have an idea what a strut is, it's like a long shock absorber.  Replaceable.  The other stuff?  Well, the steering knuckle is what holds the wheel and brake assembly onto the car.  It's what you're looking at when you change the tire.  The control arm is the part that hold the knuckle to the car.  So basically, I have to replace almost everything in this picture except the brakes and the tie rod; 

(http://s3.amazonaws.com/2cp-images/question_images/3862/large.gif)


 :cry:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 27 Jan 2015, 23:45
At least you are safe. (I know this may look like a small consolation right now...)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 28 Jan 2015, 00:01
Yes, it could have been much worse. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: lepetitfromage on 28 Jan 2015, 06:01
:-( Lots of hugs for you, Carl.
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Post by: Aimless on 28 Jan 2015, 08:52
Crap... did they give you a quote? :/
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 28 Jan 2015, 13:44
Carl chews iron filings and spits out the parts he needs!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 28 Jan 2015, 20:35
Crap... did they give you a quote? :/

Nope.  They couldn't do that kind of work.  He referred me to a body shop, but ... well, I can't afford body shop prices. 

There's a junkyard nearby with a mechanic's garage on premises.  They quoted me $150 for the parts (off another vehicle, of course).  All I have to do is limp it out there to get an estimate on the labor costs. 

Did I mention we're overdrawn, and i had no classes start this month (so no pay from the teaching job)?  No hours at Macy's, either - end of the month and all. 

Yeah, bleak weather. 

Carl chews iron filings and spits out the parts he needs!

P-toooee!  (we definitely need a spitting smiley...)

(http://www.hazelnet.org/icon/emote/spit.gif)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 29 Jan 2015, 15:22
(It just doesn't feel right to put this in the pointless thread...)

How bad can a pile-up get?

https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=779173205471593&set=vb.156612431061010&type=2&theater (https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=779173205471593&set=vb.156612431061010&type=2&theater)

Carl, I guess that gives some perspective for your kerb-bump...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: cesium133 on 29 Jan 2015, 15:29
Video's not working for me, so I guess I don't know how bad it can get.

There was a 100-car pileup near my hometown when I was a senior in high school. It was Memorial Day weekend, lots of people were returning to DC from Deep Creek Lake, and the mountain was foggy...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 29 Jan 2015, 16:11
That was strangely cheering to watch. 

I'm such a bad person...
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Post by: Metope on 29 Jan 2015, 16:30
I thought it was horrifying! Anyone knows if everyone were okay there? Hard to tell how fast they were going and how hard the different impacts were, but I hope so.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: hedgie on 29 Jan 2015, 18:02
That was strangely cheering to watch. 

I'm such a bad person...
Schadenfreude is the best kind of Freude.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Grognard on 29 Jan 2015, 21:11
the video you posted was from the 193 vehicle pileup on I-94, near Battle Creek, Michigan.

A Canadian truck driver was the only fatality.

I've seen the videos, and they are TERRIFYING.

http://www.weather.com/news/news/interstate-94-michigan-pileup 
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Post by: Masterpiece on 29 Jan 2015, 23:33
Since the blog thread is overflowing, can I make a new blog thread?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 30 Jan 2015, 00:24
Hard to tell how fast they were going

Much too fast. It really was terrifying to see the vehicles zooming out of the low visibility with no chance to stop at all.
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Post by: jwhouk on 30 Jan 2015, 04:56
There have been worse, and both have been on I-43 in Wisconsin (which runs along the shore of Lake Michigan).

A fog-bank descended from the lake, causing a 10-fatality, 39-injuries and 50-vehicle wreck. (http://www.sheboyganpress.com/article/20121007/SHE0101/310070221/Tragedy-43-Ten-years-later)

In March 1990, the Tower Drive Bridge that crosses over the mouth of Green Bay at the Fox River, had a similar fog bank issue. 52 vehicles, but only three deaths and 30 injuries, resulted from the incident.
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Post by: cesium133 on 30 Jan 2015, 05:48
This (http://www.cnn.com/2003/US/South/05/23/maryland.accidents/index.html?iref=newssearch) is the one I had mentioned in my earlier post. I had remembered the number of cars being around 100, but according to this article it was 85.

edit -- Since this is the blog thread... nothing's official yet, but it looks like I may be moving to Wisconsin in the spring.
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Post by: jwhouk on 30 Jan 2015, 07:47


edit -- Since this is the blog thread... nothing's official yet, but it looks like I may be moving to Wisconsin in the spring.

My condolences.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 30 Jan 2015, 11:47
So I feel like since I had a kid, all I talk about is my kid, but jesus, this kid runs my life. He's sick right now, but he didn't have a fever so they gave him shots yesterday anyway, so last like three days have involved a lot of screaming and some puking, and some of each was from my husband. And he managed to leave some laundry in the washer too long and it went sour, but we don't have any vinegar so we can't rewash it, so the washing machine is out of commission and we can't wash the puke-covered pajamas/sheets/changing pad cover/blankets/burp cloths. I was just starting to think of Zach as an actual tiny human, but I was wrong, he's a snot machine that makes noises that hurt my soul.
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Post by: hedgie on 30 Jan 2015, 14:29


edit -- Since this is the blog thread... nothing's official yet, but it looks like I may be moving to Wisconsin in the spring.

My condolences.
I dunno, Madison seemed decent enough when I was there, even though it was winter.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: cesium133 on 30 Jan 2015, 16:29
Well, I'd be in Madison, and it seemed decent (though very cold compared to where I am now).
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Post by: Carl-E on 30 Jan 2015, 20:56
So I feel like since I had a kid, all I talk about is my kid, but jesus, this kid runs my life. He's sick right now, but he didn't have a fever so they gave him shots yesterday anyway, so last like three days have involved a lot of screaming and some puking, and some of each was from my husband. And he managed to leave some laundry in the washer too long and it went sour, but we don't have any vinegar so we can't rewash it, so the washing machine is out of commission and we can't wash the puke-covered pajamas/sheets/changing pad cover/blankets/burp cloths. I was just starting to think of Zach as an actual tiny human, but I was wrong, he's a snot machine that makes noises that hurt my soul.

I remember those times.  It gets better, for a while. 


Then they hit puberty. 
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Post by: Grognard on 30 Jan 2015, 21:42
it all gets better when you get snotty hugs with grubby hands and a "I wuv you!" from a toddler.

It gets better, it gets awesome...

and then ...

teenager.  YIKES.
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Post by: explicit on 30 Jan 2015, 22:32
Well, I'd be in Madison, and it seemed decent (though very cold compared to where I am now).

I have a good friend who went to college and lives near Madison. Apparently, it's still Wisconsin, but at least there are more bars.
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Post by: cesium133 on 31 Jan 2015, 07:34
Yes, I did notice there were a lot of bars. The hotel I stayed at when I came into town for the interview was a block from State Street, where practically every building is a bar.
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Post by: hedgie on 31 Jan 2015, 15:30
Well, it *is* a university town.
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Post by: jwhouk on 31 Jan 2015, 18:38
A university that's going to be getting a lot less support from the state in the next biennium.

Sorry, I am not a fan of my home state at the moment, due to an academic dropout from Marquette University.
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Post by: cesium133 on 31 Jan 2015, 18:40
Yeah, I recall seeing a newspaper article while I was there noting that that particular dropout responded to complaints about his cutbacks by saying "it should motivate the faculty to work harder."  :psyduck:
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Post by: jwhouk on 01 Feb 2015, 05:35
You're not part of any sort of union, are you? Because if that's the case, I'd suggest you turn around and go back to wherever you came from.

Just in case you don't believe me... (http://www.wausaudailyherald.com/story/news/investigations/2015/02/01/workers-punished-curbing-non-union-elevator-shop/22583311/)
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Post by: cesium133 on 01 Feb 2015, 06:41
Scientific research... union? Yeah, right, like that'd ever happen.

(Okay, some universities do have unionized research staff, but the vast majority don't.)
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Post by: 94ssd on 03 Feb 2015, 06:27
This past weekend I delved into the world of playwrighting as a participant in my school's first annual 24-hour play festival. I also was a sound "consultant" (not really a designer because of how minimal the requirements were) for the festival. From 3-10 PM on Saturday, 20 of us sat in a room and wrote. The only requirements were that the play could not be longer than 10 minutes, and the following line had to be inserted:

"Then, next thing you know, we're common law married in the midwest, on a farm, and my pies are winning at the state fair."

I ended up writing two plays (some only wrote one, some wrote three or four). One was a farcical melodrama about  a Soviet spy who falls in love with an American woman. The other was a drama about two coal miners. One falls in love with the other and dreams of running away with him, but is rejected, and then dies in an explosion. The other one gets progressively more ill with black lung throughout the play. I was the only one who submitted a play that wasn't a comedy.

The directors arrived at 10, and until midnight deliberated which plays to do. Seven were chosen. Then at midnight actors arrived, the shows were cast, and the rehearsal process began. At 4:30 AM when my alarm went off, I had received a snapchat from a friend of mine (who I later discovered was the assistant director) saying that she was "trying to to do justice" to my play. But I couldn't read what was on the script she was holding, so I just automatically assumed my stupid farce was picked and she was saying that jokingly.

But when I arrived at 5 to begin working on the sound design, I was shocked to discover that it was the coal mining play that was being performed. And the director was adding interpretive movement to it. It was performed with the other plays at 3 PM on Sunday to a surprisingly full house. And it ended up being pretty great, but it was a lot of story to fit into a 12-minute (which is what it ended up being with the choreography added) piece. The playwrighting professor, who I greatly admire, saw it and wants to help me work on making it a full-length play to submit to a regional festival. Definitely didn't think playwrighting would ever be something I'd actually want to do, but I'm willing to give a try.
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Post by: Thrillho on 03 Feb 2015, 06:55
That's one of the most inspiring things I've ever read, and I wish I could've seen your play. Sounds like you try to challenge your writing (or end up in situations in which it's challenged) in a similar way to how I do.
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Post by: Carl-E on 03 Feb 2015, 09:12
Wow.  That's fantastic! 

--------------------------

Got the estimate on the van.  Several hundred dollars.  It's going to be a week or so, until we can get some money together, although a forum member made an offer of help I actually accepted. 

We're ride sharing with a friend who drives a Nissan Juke that smells like cats. 

The course I was going to start this month got delayed by another month because of a paperwork screwup.  I want to get going on this!  (an associates in accounting, so I can do some bookkeeping locally).  Frustration abounds.   :x
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Post by: Welu on 03 Feb 2015, 09:50
That's brilliant, 94!
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 03 Feb 2015, 12:25
Wow! Congrats on the play! That's great :-)


Saturday was my last day working at ShopRite. It was bittersweet...It really was a great place to work and I'm going to miss my coworkers SO much but I'm excited about the opportunities to come. I'm also proud that I managed to pay off 2 big bills, which allowed me to consider resigning in the first place. It'll be a lot easier to make it on one job now that I'm down $300 in expenses each month. Of course, the majority of my student loans are also being deferred at the moment so when those come back into effect it'll be pretty tough to manage. But I'm confident that I can make it work. Right now, I'm most excited about the fact that I have 16 more hours in my week to myself! I've got plans for a ton of projects- home improvement, art, organization, working out, socializing, you name it...

I've already tackled 2 projects that were hanging over my head and made some serious progress with both. I finished 7 of the 10 window films that I wanted to put on our front windows (in this pattern (http://www.target.com/p/etched-lace-window-film/-/A-10589292#prodSlot=medium_1_3&term=window+film))and I tackled the bathroom closet as well. It was a HUGE mess and now it's only a tiny mess haha. I'll hopefully be finishing that up tonight. Who knows? Maybe I'll have some pictures for the organization thread later if I manage to wrap it up tonight!
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Feb 2015, 04:29
Someone is using my name and address fraudulently right now.  In the past few days I have received: (1) a refusal of a bank loan which I didn't apply for, (2) a request to visit a bank branch to verify my identity in relation to a credit card application I did not make, (3) an actual credit card which I didn't apply for (from the same bank as the earlier refusal).

The presumption, after talking to the banks concerned, is that the perpetrator is hoping to intercept my mail - possibly from my external mailbox - however, they've not done well with that, particularly as the credit card sat in that mailbox for three days while I was away this weekend.

I'm getting a credit report to see if any other applications have been made that I need to forestall.
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Post by: Masterpiece on 09 Feb 2015, 05:08
Shit! Hope everything goes well with that!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 10 Feb 2015, 11:52
I didn't get that job I interviewed for, as they decided they wanted the position to be more of a "body in a chair" thing and I oversold my skills.  They are talking to me about another position though which I  have mixed feelings about. It is only part-time which is good and bad.  It means I would have time to keep doing my research, but it will barely cover the bills.  The actual work is interesting to me, but it is for our Entrepreneurship Program, which I have been critical of in the past, and I worry that taking this job will make me a part of an effort I don't support, and make it so I can't publicly criticise it.   I raised these concerns, and the woman I talked to addressed them well.  The team is two people right now, and the one I talked to has views much closer to mine, and says they see the same problems I do.  In that regard it could be an opportunity to steer the program in a better direction.

I've decided I want the position, but it has been a difficult choice.  Now, they will have to run it through HR and we'll see if all my deliberating even matters.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 10 Feb 2015, 18:42
Best of luck with that.  Let's hope the part time position becomes, with your influences on improving the program, full time. 


Yeah, I know.  But it could happen! 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Feb 2015, 04:06
New computer has arrived. If I never make it to these fora then I am an idiot and could not figure internet out and stuff.

Wish me luck.

... well, that worked. Now, to learn what the hell windows 8 is.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Feb 2015, 05:55
Cue all the"Win8 is atrocious" posts

This message is coming from Tapatalk inside my phone!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 11 Feb 2015, 06:24
For most people, it is!
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Feb 2015, 06:47
It's ... certainly different. Quirky.
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Post by: Carl-E on 11 Feb 2015, 06:48
I love that the plans are to skip 9 and go right to 10, probably denoted as Windows X...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 11 Feb 2015, 06:50
If you were to sit at my Windows 8.1 computers, you'd be hard pushed to tell that they are not running Windows 7.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: cesium133 on 11 Feb 2015, 06:53
I love that the plans are to skip 9 and go right to 10, probably denoted as Windows X...
From what I've read, it seems the reason they skipped 9 is that poorly-written software tended to confuse it for Windows 95/98.

'kay, apparently I was told wrong. I ain't no professional software developer.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Feb 2015, 06:53
I just ... fail to see the logic in this thing. I also sometimes fail to see the actual clickable things to end a program.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Feb 2015, 06:55
I love that the plans are to skip 9 and go right to 10, probably denoted as Windows X...
From what I've read, it seems the reason they skipped 9 is that poorly-written software tended to confuse it for Windows 95/98.
Untrue, but whatever.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Feb 2015, 06:56
I just ... fail to see the logic in this thing. I also sometimes fail to see the actual clickable things to end a program.

It's designed for touch screens.  If you want "normal" usage, Start8 (http://www.stardock.com/products/start8/) is your friend (there are free alternatives, but hey, for $5 you get the original and supported version).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Feb 2015, 07:03
Ah, that's it, no touchy-feely monitor on the desktop.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 11 Feb 2015, 07:12
I love that the plans are to skip 9 and go right to 10, probably denoted as Windows X...
From what I've read, it seems the reason they skipped 9 is that poorly-written software tended to confuse it for Windows 95/98.
Untrue, but whatever.

You could just correct him :P
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Feb 2015, 07:12
I love that the plans are to skip 9 and go right to 10, probably denoted as Windows X...
From what I've read, it seems the reason they skipped 9 is that poorly-written software tended to confuse it for Windows 95/98.
Untrue, but whatever.
Let me elaborate. If a "poorly written software" asks for the Windows OS version, it will probably use the oldest still supported API call that exists for that task, namely GetVersion (https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/windows/desktop/ms724439(v=vs.85).aspx).
Thing is, that API call is depreciated and not supposed to be used. But idiots persist and so GetVersion is still supported, it just works differently than expected. Instead of returning the OS you're working on, it will check the Application manifest for supported OS versions and returns the value it finds there. If no application manifest exists, it will return Windows XP. The operating system lies to the application, if necessary, just so the application doesn't do anything stupid (like deciding it can't run because the OS version is too high), because most apps written for lower OS versions work fine for higher OS versions (and if they don't, there's still compatibility modes).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Feb 2015, 07:13
I love that the plans are to skip 9 and go right to 10, probably denoted as Windows X...
From what I've read, it seems the reason they skipped 9 is that poorly-written software tended to confuse it for Windows 95/98.
Untrue, but whatever.

You could just correct him :P
I was gonna, you just ninja'd me.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 11 Feb 2015, 10:08
Did you defend Vista when it was out, Masterpiece?  :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 11 Feb 2015, 10:10
I hated Vista with a burning passion. That was the time of my Apple fanboyism.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 11 Feb 2015, 10:29
Further to my identity theft, I received a letter from yet another bank granting "my" £9000 loan today.  But when I called them, they told me there was already a fraud investigation flag set on the account.  Also, my pension advisor has been told today by one of my pension companies that they need some additional identification from me.  These seem to indicate that the database I was put on a couple of days ago is actually having an effect.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 11 Feb 2015, 11:47
Best of luck with that.  Let's hope the part time position becomes, with your influences on improving the program, full time. 


Yeah, I know.  But it could happen!

I wouldn't actually want this particular job if it were full-time or long term. I think it would be draining, and steer me towards a career I wouldn't be as happy in.  That's a tough thing to say when I am unemployed, but I think I have a lot of potential to find a great job in the next few months (giving talks at two major events!), and I wouldn't want to be locked into this position.  I'm actually anxious about taking it even part-time, because I worry that I will knock myself out of the running for relevant jobs that want to fill a position in the next few months by being off the market.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 11 Feb 2015, 17:04
Ooooh.  Yeah.  Definitely a deal killer.  Unless you can just drop it with no remorse...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 12 Feb 2015, 03:36
That really is a horrible call to make, isn't it? I am largely stuck in a job with little progression opportunities, playing the waiting game but rather underpaid for what I do - I can easily get paid more elsewhere, but that would just take me out of my career route entirely and with the number of legislative changes in education every year, if you're out of the game for even a year your knowledge stops being relevant.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Grognard on 12 Feb 2015, 19:25
I just had to laugh down an IT Specialist position in downtown DC for a USGov contract.
now, I knew I was dealing with a staffing company.
but when the recruiter offered me $14/hour, I couldn't help it.
I laughed loudly in their ear.
then I asked for double their offer.
yes, really.
$24-$29/hour is mid market salary for someone with half my experience and certs.

I don't mean to be a whiner, but it was either Laugh or be insulted.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 12 Feb 2015, 19:33
$14 an hour? At the current rate of exchange, that is barely above minimum wage for a full-time worker in Australia. The recruiter must be an idiot.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: hedgie on 12 Feb 2015, 19:35
Can't blame you there.  I have the opposite problem.  I have the skills, but they're advertising entry level IT positions that require 5 years of experience.  WTF about entry-level do you people not understand?!.  If you don't mind moving to California (and I can't blame you if you do), the UC system pays pretty well, even though it would take six months for you to hear from them even if you got the job.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 12 Feb 2015, 19:38
(though it is nearly double the min wage in the US)

I'm trying to figure out how to ask for more money at this potential job.  It is listed at $15, but they are flexible.  I am bad at asking for money, but I know I am worth more than $15. I'm aiming at $20, though one peer told me I should ask for $25. <sigh> the worst.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Grognard on 12 Feb 2015, 19:55
I'm (loosely/roughly/in the ballpark) a professional peer.
And I'm also on the East Coast.

your're worth $30/hour +++

$15/hour is chump change.

ENTRY level in Richmond, VA for NON-Gov't positions is $15/hour.


Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: hedgie on 12 Feb 2015, 19:58
Again, if you can tolerate CA, you could probably make a killing, especially if you're fluent in various forms of *nix, and get a healthy pension plan to go along with the pay.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 12 Feb 2015, 20:13
This position is not a UX job, or even in IT really, and it is an intern position that is being modified for me as a "let's solve everyone's problems, you need money and we need someone to do a thing."

I would not accept an offer of $15 an hour from a full-time job in my field.  Nothing I've applied to full-time has been hourly actually, but most work out to about 30/hr.


Update:
I just sent the email expressing my interest and I asked for "closer to $24" I'm anxious that I over shot, but since I was unsure about the job anyways, if I'm out of their budget, I guess that's ok. I am doomed to always feel that I am overshooting since I am used to making way less money.  I have to remind myself that I have a specialized set of skills and I acquired a boat load of debt to get them. Self-promotion is definitely my skill most in need of improvement.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 13 Feb 2015, 08:40
$14 an hour? At the current rate of exchange, that is barely above minimum wage for a full-time worker in Australia. The recruiter must be an idiot.

Hah. I make $14 and change and have been doing the work of an HR director, recruiter, records manager and a little bit of receptionist sprinkled on top for good measure. Not to mention, I've been with my current employer for 7 years. Sadly, I have 60K in student loans to deal with and can't afford to be picky. Also, not having a car in this area is a really easy way to limit your career options. (As is having a degree in Art Education.....that was my first mistake.)


It's sad when being unemployed would be considered a luxury....  :-\

Ah, crap. Wrong thread...I should wander back into Pessimism & Depression where I belong.  :-P
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Thrillho on 13 Feb 2015, 14:46
This position is not a UX job, or even in IT really, and it is an intern position that is being modified for me as a "let's solve everyone's problems, you need money and we need someone to do a thing."

I would not accept an offer of $15 an hour from a full-time job in my field.  Nothing I've applied to full-time has been hourly actually, but most work out to about 30/hr.


Update:
I just sent the email expressing my interest and I asked for "closer to $24" I'm anxious that I over shot, but since I was unsure about the job anyways, if I'm out of their budget, I guess that's ok. I am doomed to always feel that I am overshooting since I am used to making way less money.  I have to remind myself that I have a specialized set of skills and I acquired a boat load of debt to get them. Self-promotion is definitely my skill most in need of improvement.

If they really want to hire you, the worst they can do is say 'well, honestly, we can only really afford x'.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 13 Feb 2015, 15:12
I'm worried that they will look at my asking and go "hmm, never mind, we'll just get an intern"  which is why I was convincing myself to behave like a rational gametheory scenario participant, and recognize that my value for this job is way above $15, and so if they are set on that, then it was not something I wanted anyways.  Also, because I am over-anxious about these things I am worried the individual people (whom I will interact with in the future regardless of if I get this position) will find my desired rate laughable.  This is not likely, but it's the sort of think I'm prone to be anxious about.


Completely unrelated, there has been a helicopter circling my house for a while now, or maybe a series of them flying over? I can't tell.  But I don't live in an area where this is common, though there is an airport reasonably close.  I can't think what they would be doing though.  This is at least the 5th 6th fly over? The cats are not a fan of the noise. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Loki on 13 Feb 2015, 15:20
Have you kidnapped anybody lately?
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Post by: Papersatan on 13 Feb 2015, 15:21
*I* haven't though I guess I can't speak for the rest of the people in my neighborhood.  :/
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Post by: Grognard on 13 Feb 2015, 18:01
no worries.

unless it's black.

and men are perched on the skids.

you don't know me.

I wasn't there.

I saw nothing.
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Post by: hedgie on 13 Feb 2015, 18:16
#`%${%&`+'${`%&NO CARRIER
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 15 Feb 2015, 10:13
My kitchen is lit by twelve 50W low-voltage halogen lamps.  Well, it was; today I replaced them with twelve 6W mains-voltage LED lamps (removing the transformers took most of the time).  I now have the same or slightly higher light levels, and more uniform, because some of the halogens had lost brightness with age and not all had the same beam width.  I calculate that the saving in electricity consumption will be about £1 a day - for a capital outlay of under £120 (bulbs and GU10 tails for the fittings). 

I have another room with similar lights and usage which I will make the same change to soon, and a third that is little used so can be left till last.

Eighteen months ago I put into a new extension what at that time were the first LED lights I'd seen whose quality was satisfactory for domestic living.  The new bulbs each cost one fifth as much money - that's how fast things have changed.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 15 Feb 2015, 12:41
That needs to be cross posted in "Stewards of the Earth"
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Post by: Akima on 15 Feb 2015, 17:28
My kitchen is lit by twelve 50W low-voltage halogen lamps.  Well, it was; today I replaced them with twelve 6W mains-voltage LED lamps (removing the transformers took most of the time).
I must look at this again. Last time I looked at replacing the 12v track-mounted halogen spot-lights in my kitchen, the LED replacements weren't up to the job, but as you point out, things are changing rapidly.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 16 Feb 2015, 01:25
I was at an expo about five years ago looking at some stuff a Chinese company was promoting as cutting edge and whilst the concepts and designs were good, they were a little cagey about the actual quality of the stuff being produced for market. Taking a look a some hardware store stuff recently it seems to be markedly improved.

Sheffield has started rolling out installation of LED street lighting and some of the streets around where I live have been covered early in the schedule of works. Genuinely, I'm quite impressed with the output and colour temperature. I't a marked improvement on sodium vapour. I'm yet to see any failures either.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 19 Feb 2015, 15:12
That job has gotten back to me and is offering me $20/hr.  I'm taking it. It will be enough to get us by, give me time to be pickier about a fulltime job, and give me some good experience.  They want a  6 month commitment which I can do.

This has been a busy week for me.  I am talking at an event on Sat, and one of the other speakers is the author of a new O'reilly book which I am halfway through and I love.  I also have interacted with him on twitter some, and he has been in town all week, so I crashed a class he was guest lecturing in, and went to a book talk he gave, and I'm so pleased that I did.  He seems like a genuinely great person with a similar background/way of thinking.  When talking about his journey to writing this book, he said that he used to give a lot o 45 min talks about "this stuff" based on what he sort of felt was right.  That he had ideas about things, and would share them, but then when someone told him he should write a book, and he decided to do it, he realized he had to get some hard research done, and so he spent 3 years writing the book.  What's great about this is I am at the "gives talks about what I feel is right based on an assortment of shallow research" stage of my career, and it's been making me really anxious: for this event on Sat, and the national one in April I am talking about some theoretical shit, but I know I am much, much, less well read than I should be, and I have been in knots about how I can be given this opportunity when I'm basically just spewing my thoughts like I would for some friends.  Now I am looking at it like: you're just him 8 years ago. and I can handle that.  I'd love to be the him of the future in 10 years. I need to remind myself that this has been my field of study for literally a year. No one expects me to have all the answers.
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Feb 2015, 16:05
A step in the right direction!  Make the most of it, and I hope you can benefit from using it as a stepping stone.
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Post by: celticgeek on 19 Feb 2015, 16:14
Yes, keep on going, Papersatan!
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Post by: Lines on 19 Feb 2015, 19:15
Hooray, Kat!!!
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Post by: Welu on 20 Feb 2015, 13:02
YAY!
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Post by: Akima on 20 Feb 2015, 13:23
Good news!
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 20 Feb 2015, 15:35
Woooohoo! Go Kat! That's awesome  :-D
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 20 Feb 2015, 20:27
Yay!
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Post by: Loki on 21 Feb 2015, 11:30
So I was sitting at a rather lonely bus stop a few minutes ago, browsing my phone. Two guys sat down next to me, and the one closer to me chatted me up, and the following exchange happened:

Guy1: Hey, what kind of phone is this?
Loki: Uh. Dunno *puts phone away in case they are going to yank it from me or something*
G1: It is a Samsung?
L: Yeah.
G1: What kind?
L: Dunno.
G1: Is it an iPhone 6?
L: No?
G1: Do you want an iPhone 6?
L: *shakes head* Nope, sorry. Don't want one.
G2: We can also get you two or three.
G1: Yeah, want two or three of them?
L: *amused at this point* Dude, I don't want even one. What am I gonna do with three of them?
G1: Huh. So, do you smoke weed?
L: *shakes head, seeing where this is going*
G1: Got any friends who smoke?
L: ...yeah.
G1: I am asking because I have got weed.
L: Thought so.
G1: You looking to buy?
L: Nope. (I explain at length why not.)
G2: Coke?
G1: Coke maybe?
L: Nuh.
G1: *some slang I don't understand*
L: Huh?
G1: *confused for a moment* Extasy.
L: No. Look, dude, you are wasting your time.
G2: Women maybe?
G1: Yeah, I can get you some women.
L: *intrigued* How'd that work?
G1: You pick one, then, uh *gets slightly uncomfortable* you fuck them and I get 100 bucks from you. *goes on to explain the women are beautiful etc*
L: How do I pick them? Pictures or what?
G2: We can do pictures, we can do in person.
L: Heh. Nope, sorry.
G1 has to take a phone call or something, the bus I am waiting for conveniently arrives at this moment, I say my farewell and get on the bus.

I am still really confused by this encounter.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: cesium133 on 21 Feb 2015, 11:33
Sounds like a cop who is really bad at his job.
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Post by: Loki on 21 Feb 2015, 11:37
Tbh, to me it looked like guy 2 was showing guy 1 the ropes.
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Post by: Aziraphale on 21 Feb 2015, 13:16
Sounds like undercover cops. Especially when they act like that. I scared the living shit out of somebody one night who tried -- repeatedly -- to sell me drugs. At a bus stop. Would. Not. Take. No. For. An. Answer.

Finally I'd had enough. There were about a dozen people around. I'm usually very quiet. Wasn't this time. "LISTEN. For the LAST fucking time. I do not USE drugs, I will not BUY drugs, and if I was going to buy them, I would not buy them from a fucking cop.

I don't know if he was a cop or not, but he literally ran away. I saw him a couple times after that and he kept his distance (once or twice I saw him cross the street if he saw me coming), which was fine by me since about all I ask from most people is that they just leave me in peace.
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Post by: Welu on 21 Feb 2015, 13:30
My brother told me about one time in a nightclub, a guy came up to him and asked he wanted "stuff" and my brother reacted the exact same I would: With utter naive bewilderment. Eventually the guy realised my brother had genuinely no idea what was going on and went, "You know, coke, you want some cocaine?" and my brother's response, "OOOOOHH.... No, thank you."
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Post by: Lines on 21 Feb 2015, 13:33
Do drug dealers actually do that? Is that why cops imitate that? Because that seems really stupid.
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Post by: cesium133 on 21 Feb 2015, 13:40
My brother told me about one time in a nightclub, a guy came up to him and asked he wanted "stuff" and my brother reacted the exact same I would: With utter naive bewilderment. Eventually the guy realised my brother had genuinely no idea what was going on and went, "You know, coke, you want some cocaine?" and my brother's response, "OOOOOHH.... No, thank you."
That reminds me of a phone call I got one night...

Me (just woken up by my phone at 2 AM): Hello?
Caller: This is Irish. I have the stuff.
Me: Who?
Caller: Irish.
Me (still mostly asleep): Who?
Caller: Irish.
Me: I think you have the wrong number.
*click*
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Post by: explicit on 21 Feb 2015, 17:08
So I figured I'd go for a unplanned workout yesterday just because. So I'm thinking, "great, I did something healthy, I don't have to worry about my health much for a little while". I then immediately followed that up by downing a 750 of 90 proof whiskey. Mistakes were made.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Masterpiece on 21 Feb 2015, 17:34
When I was in London East-End with my cousin there was this one guy everyone knew standing at a street crossing, saying "Charlie cocaine" to everyone.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 22 Feb 2015, 00:51
Do drug dealers actually do that? Is that why cops imitate that? Because that seems really stupid.
Oh, god, yes, I have had days just walking in Amsterdam, broad daylight, that I have had to swat the bastards away.

Not literally, obviously, that might end up as a bad idea, but still ...
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 22 Feb 2015, 11:16
Rozzers don't usually try to hook end users these days. It's not really much use in quotas which are usually more focussed around crime reduction than arrest figures.

Last time someone tried this with me it was someone who owed a dealer trying to keep their line of "credit" open.
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Post by: Aziraphale on 22 Feb 2015, 12:56
Rozzers don't usually try to hook end users these days. It's not really much use in quotas which are usually more focussed around crime reduction than arrest figures.

Last time someone tried this with me it was someone who owed a dealer trying to keep their line of "credit" open.

Where are you from? 'Cause here in the States, it's pretty much the direct opposite of that; it's all about arresting end-users and small-time dealers to keep arrest numbers up. The same philosophy applies to "broken windows policing" and "quality of life offenses". It's theater, meant to show that the police are doing their jobs by going after small fish so they don't have to go after the larger (and, one would assume, better-armed, better-financed) ones.
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Post by: Papersatan on 22 Feb 2015, 21:25
Also, arguably because many governments in the US have actual prisoner quotas... Privatized prisons are only profitable when they are full, and so many prison/state contracts have guaranteed prison population rates... and if that's not the most fucked up thing you've heard all day...
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Post by: explicit on 22 Feb 2015, 21:46
Well, I can attest to the opposite (and I know, anecdotal evidence I"M JUST SAYIN'). They didn't prosecute the people who broke into my house and beat me over the head with a gun, because they were trying to get the upper guy in whatever type of shitty gang they were in. Actually, maybe that's proving one of your points seeing as they were going after the drug guy who sent them and not the violent perps... I dunno which is worse really.

Huh, apparently instead of italics I tried to make those words an image. That's kinda dumb.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 23 Feb 2015, 06:42
Ah, but remember, you're a member of a minority group, which brings a whole different set of policing issues with it...
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aziraphale on 23 Feb 2015, 08:39
Reminds me of the time I got mugged. I never saw who it was (I was knocked unconscious briefly). I went to fill out a police report, and they brought out a binder full of mugshots. The cop who was showing me the photos kept trying to steer me toward a couple of particular people (who, needless to say, were black and Latino -- not that there weren't white people in that binder, but they weren't the ones he kept saying "You sure it wasn't this guy?" about), and was getting really agitated when I wouldn't pick a few of them out because -- as I kept trying to explain -- I hadn't seen who'd done it.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: explicit on 23 Feb 2015, 13:46
Those are usually people they already have in the system. I do know in my case they only showed me black and Puerto Rican men, but then again that pretty much fits the description of who broke into my house. They also put a lot of people they knew weren't guilty just to make sure I could remember correctly.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aziraphale on 23 Feb 2015, 14:01
I don't know. It just seemed a bit off somehow that there were a couple of people they were really insistent on, like they were looking for an excuse to bring somebody in and my say-so would do as good as anybody else's. Just got a really odd vibe from the whole thing.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: explicit on 23 Feb 2015, 14:07
It's possible, I mean, I do only have this one experience and I hope I never have to have another one. It's the reason I wear hats now.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Welu on 23 Feb 2015, 14:55
Still bummed that filming got cancelled but it kinda got made up for by someone reaching out to me for help on their film. Helps remind me that I've made films before and they've turned out well enough that people recognise it, even if I'm in a slump right now.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 23 Feb 2015, 18:27
Those of you who follow me elsewhere know that I had a long and stressful day today. I put a pan of oil on the stove to heat up, forgot about it and went to the grocery store.  Stephen was home, thankfully, and managed to put the fire out, but there is a bit of damage. 

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The whole kitchen ceiling is also black from the smoke, and there is smoke damage in the hallway and the living room too.  We took the cats to the vet to have them checked, and the vet wanted to watch one of them overnight, so we left them both.  Stephen went to the ER as well, because he was working in the smoke for a while.  He is fine, but was there for almost 6 hours. 

We can stay here tonight, because the bedroom is ok.  Our landlords are an older couple and one of them was in surgery at the time, so the other one is coming tomorrow with a contractor to look at the damage, and well find out what the next steps are.  One small worry is we are not supposed to have a roomate, though I don't know if they would actually care.  She is out of town, but it's pretty obvious that there is a bed taking up what used to be my office.

Stephen and I got a pizza for dinner, and after we are going to try to start some clean up. 

I leave stuff on the stove pretty often, but I rarely leave the house, just forget until it's smoking.  Just last week, I overheated some oil until It was billowing smoke and I had to hold the pan out the window to keep the smoke from setting off the detectors.  It's an ADHD thing for me that, I start to cook, then wander away, and I don't remember until I remember I am hungry again.  I think this has motivated me to actually go see someone about it.  We all make mistakes, but I have come perilously close to making this one more times than I can count, and it's really hitting me how close I came to actually burning the house down, and injuring Stephen or the cats.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aziraphale on 23 Feb 2015, 19:12
Thankfully everyone's okay, though I'm sure it gave you one hell of a scare.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Grognard on 23 Feb 2015, 19:29
I suggest using a kitchen timer.

either set the microwave timer for 3-4 minutes or get one of these...

(http://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0278/3465/files/Full-WhiteKitchenTimer_large.jpg?1556)

the DING-DING alarm and the ticking are audible reminders: might help.

* I am glad everyone, sans kitchen, is AOK.  Accidents happen.  which is why there is renter's/homeowners' insurance
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 23 Feb 2015, 20:37
Glad everyone's (going to be) OK. 

You can always explain the bed in the office with, "Stephen's a snorer, and sometimes I just need some rest..."

 :-D

The timer's a good idea, too.  When it goes off, you'll ask yourself, "What the heck was that for... OH!" 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 23 Feb 2015, 21:39
I used to have a rule that I couldn't leave the kitchen when I was cooking, unless I got Steve to come stand guard.  I should probably re-institute it. A timer isn't a bad idea, but it would need to stay in the kitchen, and be loud enough for me to hear in the living room.  Still won't help if I actually leave the house :s

We don't actually have renter's insurance, because we are idiots, so while the appliances and walls and what not will get fixed, we are going to have clean or replace all our stuff ourselves. I started sorting and cleaning some stuff in the kitchen and have realized what a pain this is going to be. I am supposed to get a tooth pulled tomorrow, but I'm going to have to move that appt I think.  I can't imagine dealing with this while high/in pain.

PS Gonna need some new cookbooks :(  :

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Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 23 Feb 2015, 22:33
Scorched covers, but the pages seem intact - still useable, and quite the conversation pieces! 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: explicit on 23 Feb 2015, 22:35
I agree, they look mostly okay, and this way you can now say silly jokes like, "and this is why we follow the recipes".
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aziraphale on 23 Feb 2015, 22:37
Is the one on the left the Phaidon cookbook with the spoon on the cover?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Akima on 23 Feb 2015, 22:42
I used to have a rule that I couldn't leave the kitchen when I was cooking, unless I got Steve to come stand guard.
I'm so sorry this happened, but I'm glad you, Steve and the cats are all unhurt. I don't generally leave the kitchen while cooking, except perhaps if I have a casserole in the oven.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: pwhodges on 24 Feb 2015, 00:17
Sorry for all your damage, but glad no one's hurt.  I just hope it doesn't prove as expensive as you might at first fear.

I've left things on the stove, and (in the past) wrecked pans that way; but I've never cooked with more than a tablespoon of oil, usually much less, though even that can generate much smoke and a few flames.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: hedgie on 24 Feb 2015, 00:31
Glad to know that you are okay, and maybe if Grognard's suggestion of a kitchen timer doesn't work, use an alarm/timer on your phone in the future.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 24 Feb 2015, 06:07
Scorched covers, but the pages seem intact - still useable, and quite the conversation pieces!

The one on the right had melted shut ( the pages had plastic tabs) and the one on the left had several, for lack of a better word, furrows of ash into the pages. The one on the left was "The Joy of Cooking"
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 24 Feb 2015, 06:21
Where's the fire alarm sited in your house?

Please tell me you have a fire alarm.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 24 Feb 2015, 06:31
Three of them, one in each bedroom and one in the hall (between the kitchen and the rest of the apt). Steve noticed the fire when they started going off.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: lepetitfromage on 24 Feb 2015, 06:43
Oof. I'm so sorry, Kat. I'm glad you're all ok, though!

I used to have a rule that I couldn't leave the kitchen when I was cooking, unless I got Steve to come stand guard.

I think this is definitely a good thing to bring back. The phone timer is a good idea too. I have one on my phone called "wonder timer" and it's great! There are pre-set timers that run from 2 minutes to an hour and thirty minutes and it's incredibly quick and easy to use. You can set a custom titled one as well but the pre-set ones have always been good enough so I've never felt the need for it.

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 24 Feb 2015, 06:44
I'm just a bit surprised that the damage escalated that quickly. Still, that is one of the things about oil, it can get pretty volatile before it ignites. Definitely support using a timer. Even if you do leave the house, at least Stephen gets a bit of warning. Perhaps also bring something into the kitchen that is going to prove an appropriate distraction while you're waiting.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Tomethius on 24 Feb 2015, 06:49
At least you know how to cook. At my college, morons seem to always light things on fire. Every weekend. By the way, just started doing this a couple days ago. Hi
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: explicit on 24 Feb 2015, 13:52
Speaking of being a moron in college, I burned microwavable mac and cheese and the fire department came.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: cesium133 on 24 Feb 2015, 13:55
My freshman class in college set the fire alarm off by burning popcorn in the microwave so many times that the college instituted mandatory "how to use a microwave" classes. At our graduation, George W. Bush made fun of us for that in his commencement speech.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: explicit on 24 Feb 2015, 14:10
Which is strange, because I feel like if any politician needed that class it'd be him.

Kind of like Biden needs to take that, "what is considered inappropriate touching" class.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 24 Feb 2015, 14:13
So in the light of a new day, things are worse than we hoped.

A reconstruction contractor came by with the landlord, and we will need us and all our stuff out of the house for at least a month.  This poses something of a challenge without renter's insurance to cover us.  We are looking at subletting somewhere, which would be more convenient if our landlord will let us out of this lease.  I feel weird asking her to do that though, since we are the ones that caused the damage. This lease goes til Aug, so there is a bit of overlap and we cant really afford to pay rent in two places.  Also, everything we own is smoke damaged. <sigh> such a mess.

Go right now and buy renter's insurance if you don't have it.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aziraphale on 24 Feb 2015, 14:57
My freshman class in college set the fire alarm off by burning popcorn in the microwave so many times that the college instituted mandatory "how to use a microwave" classes. At our graduation, George W. Bush made fun of us for that in his commencement speech.

The worst thing that ever set off the fire alarm in our building

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I can laugh about it now, but the stench was unbelievable, and the hallway passing by the room that had the microwave (which was the only way out of that wing, unless you left out a ground-floor window) was also covered in vomit because of the smell.
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Post by: Akima on 25 Feb 2015, 01:45
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I can think of no sane reason to do that. Popcorn? Sure, it's a food-like substance. But... poop?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: explicit on 25 Feb 2015, 01:48
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I can think of no sane reason to do that. Popcorn? Sure, it's a food-like substance. But... poop?

College things. Had someone intentionally flood the bathrooms when I lived in the dorms. Clogged all the drains, turned on all the sinks and showers and overflowed the toilets (somehow) figuring out to keep them flushing all night. It was a Saturday so it must have started around 2-3am and everyone was too drunk and passed out to do anything about it.

Sometimes people are just stupid and/or dicks.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 25 Feb 2015, 02:23
Usually either sociopathy or, and the more likely IMO, a cry for attention.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 25 Feb 2015, 07:33
That.....really sounds insane. I want to know why that idea even occurred to them and when it did, how did they think about it and go "Yeah, that sounds like something that needs to be done"?  :?
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 25 Feb 2015, 08:38
Some people think pranks are something you need to do in college. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aziraphale on 25 Feb 2015, 09:52
Some people think pranks are something you need to do in college.

There's nothing wrong with a harmless prank. But short-sheeting someone's bed is a long way from setting the fire alarm off every night for three months straight (the dorm I lived in my Freshman year was notorious for that), or microwaving a bag of poop 'til it bursts into flames.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: explicit on 25 Feb 2015, 10:37
Yeah we just... filled one of my roommate's rooms with balloons (I mean I didn't, because it made me sad for the planet,but that's besides the point).
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aziraphale on 25 Feb 2015, 10:46
My first roommate used to prank me once in a while. Typical stuff. Short-sheeting the bed, hiding stuff, jumping out from behind things to try to scare me. I'm not usually one to initiate stuff like that, but I'm downright diabolical when I return the "favor". Needless to say, he didn't stick with it for long.  :evil:
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: explicit on 25 Feb 2015, 10:52
I was never a prank kind of guy, but we did once set up one of my roommates with a Christian Mingle account (I should mention that I do not like this roommate, I don't know why he lived with us and I beat him up once). Anyway, we'd rag on him because he was that stereotypical "nice guy" who viewed women more as objects and was subsequently a virgin. So he got pretty concerned when Christian Mingle started e-mailing him things, "do they somehow know I'm a virgin? What the Fuck?".

*I understand Christian relationships aren't just for people who want to wait till marriage for sex, this is just what we did, I never said it made sense.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 25 Feb 2015, 15:42
Some people think pranks are something you need to do in college.

There's nothing wrong with a harmless prank. But short-sheeting someone's bed is a long way from setting the fire alarm off every night for three months straight (the dorm I lived in my Freshman year was notorious for that), or microwaving a bag of poop 'til it bursts into flames.

You'll notice the word "harmless" was missing from my post.  Not all pranks are.  Many (even the allegedly harmless ones) are downright mean, and most do some level of damage, even if it's "only" psychological. 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: cesium133 on 25 Feb 2015, 15:59
One guy I know from college once bought a small Christmas tree, built a raft, and floated it on the lake as a prank... He may have had a bit too much time on his hands.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: explicit on 25 Feb 2015, 16:02
I don't really see Cesium's example as a prank, that's just kinda neat (unless the tree was fitted with a dildo or something). He does seem like a bored person though.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aziraphale on 25 Feb 2015, 16:59
One school -- I think it was MIT -- used to have some really good ones, like the time they assembled a VW Beetle on the dome of one of their buildings.
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Post by: jwhouk on 25 Feb 2015, 17:01
MIT used to be really good about hacking the scoreboard of the Rose Bowl.
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Post by: Grognard on 25 Feb 2015, 19:02
In college, we had the roommate that everyone hated.  He had been reassigned from at least 3 other dorm rooms.
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remember 'ice bucket challenge'?
that, combined with the victim being in the shower and totally unsuspecting.
followed by a bucket of flour when they came screaming out of the shower.
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+ water balloons from the 6th floor.
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+ red dye in his laundry
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+ condom balloons, filled with liquid hand soap
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+ let the air out of all four of his tires.
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+ the final act to get rid of him was to De-Gauss his beloved computer.  while it was running.

we hated that guy.  he was just an overall shitty person.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aziraphale on 25 Feb 2015, 19:39
In college, we had the roommate that everyone hated.  He had been reassigned from at least 3 other dorm rooms.
-------------------------------------------------
remember 'ice bucket challenge'?
that, combined with the victim being in the shower and totally unsuspecting.
followed by a bucket of flour when they came screaming out of the shower.
-------------------------
+ water balloons from the 6th floor.
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+ red dye in his laundry
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+ condom balloons, filled with liquid hand soap
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+ let the air out of all four of his tires.
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+ the final act to get rid of him was to De-Gauss his beloved computer.  while it was running.

we hated that guy.  he was just an overall shitty person.

Just to clarify, was he shitty before all that stuff or after? 'Cause I'm a nice guy, but I'd be a raging motherfucker if you did all that to me.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 26 Feb 2015, 00:38
I have to agree here. If he'd been reassigned from one dorm he'd probably not been in the best mindset, after three I suspect he may have developed a few issues. Alas I can't promise I wouldn't have done similar when I was young but I certainly wouldn't be proud about it now.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: explicit on 26 Feb 2015, 00:50
I'm not a prank kinda person, much more a of a beat motherfucker up kind of person. Maybe I'm just not creative.

MORE: In other new, despite my recent job offer (which certainly made me happy today) in about 10 hours I'm going to court. As some people here may know, my older brother died about a year ago. He was killed in a drunk driving accident and in 10 hours the person responsible is being sentenced. I am not particularly mad at this person, as I truly believe in forgiveness and his intent was not malicious (though I do think the law should permit me to hit him once), but I am still very confused as to how to feel with everything that's happened, especially regarding this good news I've received earlier. I guess I can only know once I get there. I don't think I'll be that emotional, but then again, I didn't think that when I first went to my brother's completed gravestone 6 months after his death.

I have already planned on getting really hammered tomorrow night, so maybe that answers how I feel.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 26 Feb 2015, 05:09
Condolences, explicit.  I missed the earlier post you mention. 


Careful with the getting hammered part, OK? 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Grognard on 26 Feb 2015, 17:20
Just to clarify, was he shitty before all that stuff or after? 'Cause I'm a nice guy, but I'd be a raging motherfucker if you did all that to me.

IIRC,  he was a junior, and had been charged with simple assault at least once.  his idea of a 'joke' was to put his semen in our Senior's shampoo, urinate in our beds while we were gone, he took a shit in our coffee maker, and to top off things, he managed to "accidentally" grope the Senior's fiance'.

To this day, I don't know what his problem was; don't really care.  Guy was an asshole, really, really deserved to get the shit stomped out of him.
But he was related to the Dean of Students, and our dorm was named in honor of his family.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aziraphale on 26 Feb 2015, 17:29
Just to clarify, was he shitty before all that stuff or after? 'Cause I'm a nice guy, but I'd be a raging motherfucker if you did all that to me.

IIRC,  he was a junior, and had been charged with simple assault at least once.  his idea of a 'joke' was to put his semen in our Senior's shampoo, urinate in our beds while we were gone, he took a shit in our coffee maker, and to top off things, he managed to "accidentally" grope the Senior's fiance'.

To this day, I don't know what his problem was; don't really care.  Guy was an asshole, really, really deserved to get the shit stomped out of him.
But he was related to the Dean of Students, and our dorm was named in honor of his family.

Oh. That's different. Guy sounds like a real prizewinner.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Grognard on 26 Feb 2015, 17:35
you'll find one in almost every college campus.  unfortunately.

But the ice in the shower trick is fairly funny when used on anyone.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: hedgie on 26 Feb 2015, 17:39
Just to clarify, was he shitty before all that stuff or after? 'Cause I'm a nice guy, but I'd be a raging motherfucker if you did all that to me.

IIRC,  he was a junior, and had been charged with simple assault at least once.  his idea of a 'joke' was to put his semen in our Senior's shampoo, urinate in our beds while we were gone, he took a shit in our coffee maker, and to top off things, he managed to "accidentally" grope the Senior's fiance'.

To this day, I don't know what his problem was; don't really care.  Guy was an asshole, really, really deserved to get the shit stomped out of him.
But he was related to the Dean of Students, and our dorm was named in honor of his family.

Dear gods, what an $explicitive.  And that groping deseerved a sexual assault charge.  And if anyone pissed in my bed, it had better be the disgruntled cat belonging to an SO.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Grognard on 26 Feb 2015, 17:46
however, I do not recommend the water balloon from 60'+ height.  From there, it has the impact of a brick.
Will dent cars and crack windshields.

deflating tires can be fun as well: it just needs perfect timing.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: hedgie on 26 Feb 2015, 17:57
At least it's nicer than slashing them.  Since the statute of limitations has expired, I can confess to fucking with an urban assult vehicle who threatened to ram me for a parking space.  I didn't fuck with the tyres, but I did take my keys and spread them between my fingers Wolverine-style along one side.  On the way back to my car, his was still there, so my then-gf did the same to the other side, and we used pepper spray on the door handles and tossed coffee loaded with cream and honey onto the cloth seats through an open window.  People should learn not to threaten someone over a parking spot.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Lines on 26 Feb 2015, 18:12
And especially not leaving their windows open after doing so.

Grog: I was about to say those were some awful pranks, but now I'm thinking he deserved all of those. He sounds like a disgusting example of a human being.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Papersatan on 26 Feb 2015, 18:26
Not gonna lie, I don't understand any of these practices.  I don't get pranks. I know there are people who enjoy the friendly back and forth of pranking with someone they know, but I don't. 

I also think that revenge "pranks" are gross, even when the person 'deserves' it.  The few times I've done something out of spite or revenge, I've been deeply ashamed, even years later.

In blog news, my roommate is renting an apartment next week and we will move there for the month we need to be out of here, and then she will stay there when we move back here. It's good we found somewhere, but thing fire thing is still turning out to be hella expensive.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: jwhouk on 26 Feb 2015, 20:36
At least it's nicer than slashing them.  Since the statute of limitations has expired, I can confess to fucking with an urban assult vehicle who threatened to ram me for a parking space.  I didn't fuck with the tyres, but I did take my keys and spread them between my fingers Wolverine-style along one side.  On the way back to my car, his was still there, so my then-gf did the same to the other side, and we used pepper spray on the door handles and tossed coffee loaded with cream and honey onto the cloth seats through an open window.  People should learn not to threaten someone over a parking spot.

Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: LTK on 28 Feb 2015, 11:12
Today I went to the IJhallen flea market to get a new bag since my current one has a shoulder sling that came loose which I've fastened back into place twice already, but it just keeps unravelling and I'm worried that if I keep using it eventually it will break and most likely smash into the ground and break my laptop. So I picked up a rather nice, sturdy-looking Björn Borg shoulder bag there for €4, with enough compartments for a laptop plus accessories, which is astonishingly cheap, but then I compare it to the bag I have and I see the new one has no side compartments, less adjustable sling range, less cushioning, no handle to lift it by, and - okay these are incredibly minor - no reflectors and no hip band.

Really, the only thing that's ever bothered me about the bag I have is that it's front-heavy and won't stand upright on its own, everything else about it is great. And to be fair, the bag I just got is great as well, would probably go for €30 or so from the store, it's just not as good. So I realise that I should just drop it off at a tailor who can do a better job of fixing it up than my own half-assed attempts with a needle and thread, so they can make it good to use for a few years more. Kind of feel like an idiot for not thinking of that sooner, but I guess you don't realise how good the thing you have is until you look for something else.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Carl-E on 28 Feb 2015, 11:35
My first course in the accounting program starts Monday, as does a Calc 2 course I'll be teaching. 

You probably won't see me much from here on out. 



Again. 


It's been fun! 
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Lines on 28 Feb 2015, 17:42
My first course in the accounting program starts Monday, as does a Calc 2 course I'll be teaching. 

You probably won't see me much from here on out. 



Again. 


It's been fun! 

Best of luck in both! We'll be happy to see you when you're able to make it back. :)

Edit: Inserted quote because of pagebreak.
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: jwhouk on 28 Feb 2015, 19:40
(Insert "Hope you derive a lot out of the course" joke here.)
Title: Re: Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
Post by: Aimless on 01 Mar 2015, 15:40
Dear blog thread,

we've been really stressed out lately due to having sold our apartment and not having bought a new one. It's hit the ginger esp hard. So we decided to forget about all that stuff this weekend. Relaxed all day yesterday and I made the best elk bourguignon ever for dinner. Today we cashed in a gift certificate and spent the whole day at a spa. I have discovered this past year that I really like getting massages even from professionals and that it's not at all embarrassing and doesn't necessarily have to tickle. I was thoroughly scrubbed down with something amazing and then got a full body massage. I decided to keep my shorts on this time but think it's better with them off :o the ginger was covered in mud and wrapped in clingfilm, I had no idea they did stuff like that :o anyway it was amazing getting to escape this extremely dreary day and the biting cold. Luxurious as the treatment was, the best parts were the light-/sun-room and the sauna and the hot water pools. The worst part was leaving the place only to discover I'd left my wallet in the robe but it was easy to recover thank glod.

From the spa we went to the nicest hotel in town and had dinner at the hotel's restaurant, which is supposed to be the nicest restaurant in town. Dinner was not the meal I'd been looking forward to (seafood inspired by Portuguese cuisine instead of grilled and braised meat dishes inspired by Korean cuisine) but overall it was very good and now we're about to sleep in this wonderful bed that makes our current bed feel like a pile of driftwood and rocks. I got a slightly dirty look when we checked in, maybe because my wife wears her wedding ring on her ring finger while I wear mine on a chain, but this uber-discounted Sunday luxury deal was totally worth it :)
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Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 01 Mar 2015, 15:58
Hey, as long as your ring doesn't show the Dark Speech on its surface after it's been in a fire, you're good.
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Post by: Aimless on 01 Mar 2015, 16:02
It says "pacta sunt servanda" which is not far removed from the evil language of Mordor :o
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Post by: Loki on 01 Mar 2015, 16:18
*brandishes his Lesser Latinum*

"Contracts are to be kept."
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Post by: Masterpiece on 01 Mar 2015, 16:18
Latin read out loud sounds alarmingly like Simlish to me.
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Post by: Aimless on 01 Mar 2015, 16:24
*brandishes his Lesser Latinum*

"Contracts are to be kept."

Not bad! :)

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pacta_sunt_servanda
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 01 Mar 2015, 23:19
On the inside of my wedding ring it says "Tungsten". I've not found a translation yet.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 02 Mar 2015, 03:30
I have much faster intertubes! And for cheaper than they were before!
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Post by: SubaruStephen on 02 Mar 2015, 04:54
I have much faster intertubes! And for cheaper than they were before!

:clairedoge:
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 02 Mar 2015, 06:14
I have to try that.
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Post by: cesium133 on 03 Mar 2015, 15:57
One month until my thesis defense. Should have scheduled it to be sooner...
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Post by: osaka on 03 Mar 2015, 16:45
(http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/thesis_defense.png)

Remember: The best Thesis Defense is a good Thesis Offense.
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Post by: Lines on 04 Mar 2015, 19:16
I really don't know where to put this, so I'm putting it here.

People confide in me with the strangest things. Like, not strange in the sense that it's weird or unconventional, more like...unasked for and kind of inappropriate? My boss told me something about one of my coworkers while I was trying to get some paperwork done and I was just so confused why she would tell me this thing when the person she was talking about specifically told my boss that they didn't want anyone to know. And this is not the first person who has done this in my life let alone workplace. People just tell me things. And I have no idea why. No. Idea.

TL;DR: I wish people would just stop telling me weird shit I'm not supposed to know, because frankly, I probably didn't want or need to know anyways.
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Post by: Loki on 05 Mar 2015, 02:43
Have you tried telling them as much?
I have had to make a habit to stop people and ask them "are you sure you have this person's consent to tell me this, or if not, is the problem important enough for you to override the lack of consent?". Because people also tell me stuff. Oh the stuff I could tell...
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Post by: Masterpiece on 05 Mar 2015, 03:07
I'm having toxic hangover fart syndrome again and I feel disgusted of myself.
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Post by: Lines on 05 Mar 2015, 03:45
Loki, if it's someone I'm really comfortable around, I ask them why they're telling me this and that I really don't want them to. But when it's someone, say, like a boss, I really don't know what to say because I'm too flabbergasted.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 05 Mar 2015, 04:46
That isn't work stuff though so they aren't the boss in that situation. I've had that in the past and had to tell a boss that I don't want to hear private information. It may make things a bit awkward so you may have to do a bit of tea duty to re-establish a good relationship. However don't let that power dynamic affect your principles outside of it's remit.
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Post by: Welu on 05 Mar 2015, 07:41
Not quite the same but I remember a coworker bitching about another one to me and even when I specifically said, "I don't want to hear you bad-mouthing any one." They continued on any way. :( That was someone on my level and it was still so hard to say that. It can be even harder to point out to a higher up that you think they're doing or saying something inappropriate for work.
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Post by: explicit on 05 Mar 2015, 08:53
According to my doctor I put on 12 pounds this year and that that's not good.
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Post by: jwhouk on 05 Mar 2015, 12:38

According to my doctor I put on 12 pounds this year and that that's not good.

Gotta stop mowing down on the cheese sandwiches.
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Post by: Lines on 05 Mar 2015, 17:15
That isn't work stuff though so they aren't the boss in that situation.

It was work related, so yes she is. But it was still none of my business. If this person had told me themselves what was going on, that's fine, but they preferred it to be kept confidential and my boss didn't keep it that way. That's why I thought it was inappropriate. I would clarify what I mean, but I feel like I'm breaking the person's trust by spreading information I shouldn't have in the first place. (It's nothing major, but still. I like this person and respect them and I would have respected their wishes.)
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Post by: Aimless on 06 Mar 2015, 13:21
So it looks like we've bought an apartment: http://bostad.skandiamaklarna.se/till-salu/CMBoLgh/4CIQP9QRA8C6D8QL

This whole business has been a significant departure from our original plans in many ways, thanks to our lack of experience and due to our broker whose reputation I will dedicate much of my energy towards undermining over the next decade.

Instead of making a profit of at least $12K we're now looking at a mortgage of ca $35K. Instead of paying $400/mo we'll be paying $700/mo plus interest (which we admittedly should be able to negotiate down to ca 1.7-1.8%). Compared to our second best option, there are some small disadvantages: Instead of having just over 10 mins' easy walk to work, I'm looking at just over 15 trickier mins (minor difference, but it adds up and also has some practical consequences). No grocery-store within comfortable walking distance. Better-designed apartment, but smaller balcony and less nice bathroom. Instead of having an excellent sports' center 1 min away, we have á meh one 20 mins away.

However, the TCO is likely to be lower than it would have been for our second-best option, it's a slightly better location for my wife, we'll have an extra room that we don't "need" but that I think we'll be able to put to good use, and, honestly, I really like the apartment.

We got it for just over the asking price, which was also what we believed it to be worth today "objectively" (and significantly lower than what we'd have been ready to pay for it). I raised by a tiny amount and fortune favoured us for once because the other prospective buyers couldn't get back to them in time. However, I was given a valuable lesson in what it can mean to have a broker who's looking out for you as a seller. Instead of getting to move in on April 20th, which is the date they used to get us to the negotiating table, we'll be moving in near the end of May/beginning of June even though we have to move out of our current apartment by the 30th of this month. We'll get a place to stay until June, but even that works out to their advantage, because it's their place and they get to save quite a bit of money by not having to pay for it during our stay. This is a lot better than what our situation was upon selling our apartment the broker did a very good job of protecting her client's interests.

I may sound a bitter (and I am, about some things), but I'm very happy with the apartment, all things considered :) We're v. excited and we already have wonderful plans :o

We hope we won't need to hire a broker again for the next decade or so, but, if/when that time comes, we'll try to do better. Get a much better idea of who they are and what their agencies are like. Let them compete against each other and also use them to get a better idea of what I can/should expect. Remember my rights and my advantages. Not let myself get lured into a difficult and unfavorable position. Stick with a plan if it's good. And be ready and willing walk away from any "deal" that sucks.

Anyway, it's been an exciting end to a very nice albeit stressful workweek. I can't believe we're moving soon eep :o
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Post by: Aziraphale on 06 Mar 2015, 13:58
Are those photos of the unit you just bought? It looks nice.

Any grounds to file a complaint against the broker's licensing board, trade association, or whomever they're accountable to in your neck of the woods?
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Post by: Metope on 06 Mar 2015, 14:09
Three bedrooms? Wonderful plans??


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Post by: Welu on 12 Mar 2015, 12:51
New blog thread here. (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30553.0.html)